Muslim Women`s Rights in the Global Village: Challenges and
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Muslim Women`s Rights in the Global Village: Challenges and
Muslim Women's Rights in the Global Village: Challenges and Opportunities Author(s): Azizah Yahia al-Hibri Source: Journal of Law and Religion, Vol. 15, No. 1/2 (2000 - 2001), pp. 37-66 Published by: Journal of Law and Religion, Inc. Stable URL: http://www.jstor.org/stable/1051514 . Accessed: 02/05/2011 18:51 Your use of the JSTOR archive indicates your acceptance of JSTOR's Terms and Conditions of Use, available at . http://www.jstor.org/page/info/about/policies/terms.jsp. JSTOR's Terms and Conditions of Use provides, in part, that unless you have obtained prior permission, you may not download an entire issue of a journal or multiple copies of articles, and you may use content in the JSTOR archive only for your personal, non-commercial use. Please contact the publisher regarding any further use of this work. Publisher contact information may be obtained at . http://www.jstor.org/action/showPublisher?publisherCode=lawreligion. . 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Havingjust traveledthrough nine Muslim countries,ranging from Pakistanand Bangladeshto the Gulf States, Egypt, Syria, and Lebanon, I would answer that it is leading,slowly but surely,to reassessmentandchange.' Attempts to acceleratethe pace of this change,however,without full understanding of its complex topology, and the deep-rootedcommitmentby most Muslimwomen to spiritualand culturalauthenticity,could halt or even reverse this process at great cost to women particularlyand Muslim societies as a whole. Hencethe challengesandopportunities. Pious Muslim women are generallybewilderedby the laws and judicial systems of their societies,which are supposedto be Islamic. It is well understoodthat the hallmarkof Islam is justice.2 Yet Muslim societies have been dispensing injustices to women in the name of Islam. Some women seeking divorce in Islamic courts have been trappedwithin the system for years.3 On the other hand, divorce and t Fellow, National HumanitiesCenter (2000-01). Professor of Law, University of Richmond.Presentedfor the HannibalClubEvent,September28, 1999. 1. The trip was arrangedand funded in part by the United States InformationService (USIA) andfundedin partby the Universityof Richmond.The authorthanksher studentresearch assistants,Ms. Colleen Gillis andMs. GhadaQaisi, for blue-bookingthis articleunderimmense time pressures.The authoralso thanksMs. LindaWoolridgeforproofreadingit. 2. [Editor'sNote: Translationof all Qur'aniccites hereinwere providedby the authorwho reliedheavilyon TheMeaningsTheHoly Qur'an('AbdullahYusef 'Ali trans.,Brentwood1992).] See Qur'an16:90,49:9; Muhammad'Amara,Al-Islamwa Huquqal-Insan55-68 (Beirut:Dar alShuruq1939) (arguingthatjustice leads all othervalues in Islam);al-Mawsu'aal-Fiqhiyyavol. 30, 5-14 (Kuwait:That al-Salasil,Ministryof Awqaf & Islamic Affairs 1983) (describingthe differenttypesof justice requiredin IslamandthatJusticeis one of God's names). 3. Accordingto one woman,her divorce actionhad been pendingin the courts for seven years. It had not reachedits conclusionwhen we met. She was concernedaboutthe loss of her reproductiveyears before the finalizationof her divorce, thus dimming her chances for a remarriageandchildren. 37 38 JOURNALOF LAW& RELIGION [Vol. XV remarriagehave been renderedmuch easier for men.4 Also, various Shari'ah (Islamic law) protectionsfor women in case of an unhappy marriage,divorce, or custodyhave been ignored even by the women's own families.5 While Westernfeminists have been focusing on such issues as the veil and the perceivedgenderdiscriminationin the laws of inheritance,Muslim women I spoke to did not regardthese issues as important.They were moreinterestedin re-examiningfamily law andin the proper application of all Islamic laws, including the laws of inheritanceas they stand. In short, Muslim women want a more just understandingof and adherenceto Islamic principles. They appearto believe that existing laws and practicesare not conducive to a happy home life or a just society. Surprisingly,Muslim women have the supportof manyMuslimmalejuristswho sharetheirconcerns.6 Several factors have forced Muslims to reassess the status quo. The colonization experience, wars, Western education and Western modes of communicationhave been primary among these factors.7 Colonizationexposed the soft underbellyof the indigenoussystems of governance,while at the same time challengingand marginalizingthe Muslim individual's religious beliefs and cultural values.8 Wars dislodged establishedsocial structures,especially those relatingto the 4. Womenin manycountriescomplainedaboutthe ease with which a husbandis allowedto divorce his wife. This trendcontravenesa substantialbody of traditionalIslamicjurisprudence thatoffers importantprotectionsto thewife. 5. Some of these protectionsincludethe rightof the woman not to be marriedwithouther consent, her right to a reasonablesadaq (financialor other gift given by the husbandupon marriage),as well as her right to educationand work. Other neglected protectionsinclude protectionagainstabuse(even verbalabuse)andagainstinterferenceby the husbandin the wife's financialaffairs. 6. Amongrecentjuristswho were vocal in theirsupportof women's rightsgenerally,or in certainarenas,is the late Abdul Halim Abu Shuqqah,who wrote Tahriral-Mar'ahfi 'AsralRisalah, 5 vols. (Kuwait:Dar al-Qalam1990). Earlierthis century,MuhammadRashidRidha which was more equitabletowardswomen. See e.g. also presenteda Qur'anicinterpretation MuhammadRashidRidha,Huquqal-Nisa' fi al-Islam (Beirut:al-Maktabal-Islamirepr. 1975) [hereinafterRidhaHuquq]MuhammadRashidRidha,Tafsiral-Qur'anal-Hakim(Beirut:Dar alMa'rifah 1947). See also a work by SheikhMahdi Shams al-Din, a contemporary jurist who arguedfor the woman'srightto assumepoliticalpowerentitledAhliyyatal-Mar'ahli TawallialSultah(Beirut:al-Mu'assasahal-Duwaliyyahli al-Dirasatwa al-Nashr1995). 7. Some of these matterswere discussedin Azizah Y. al-Hibri,IslamicLaw and Muslim Womenin America,in One Nation UnderGod 128-142 (Routledge1999) [hereinafteral-Hibri, IslamicLaw];AzizahY. al-Hibri,LegalReform:RevivingHumanRightsin the MuslimWorld,20 Harv. Intl. Rev. 50 (1998) [hereinafteral-Hibri,Legal Reform];Azizah Y. al-Hibri,Islamicand AmericanConstitutionalLaw: BorrowingPossibilitiesor A History of Borrowing?1 U. Pa. J. Const.L., 492-527(1999) [hereinafter al-Hibri,Constitutional Law]. 8. For more on this, see my discussionin Azizah Y. al-Hibri,Islamic Law and Muslim Womenin America,in One Nation UnderGod 128, 134-135 (M. Garber& R. Walkowitzeds., Routledge1999). MUSLIMWOMEN'SRIGHTS 37] 39 family.9 Finally, through the twin lenses of Western education and modes of communicationsuch as satellite television and the Internet, Muslim men and women are experiencing instantaneously,though vicariously,the post-colonialWesternworldview and Westernways of life. Generally, they like a good part of what they see, such as democraticgovernance,freedom of speech, independentwomen, and comfortabletechnologicallyadvancedsocieties. Thereare otherthings, however,they decidedlydo not like, such as sexual permissiveness,the acceleratingdivorcerate,growingviolence in society, especially among the youth,andthe treatmentof the elderly. Consequently,many Muslims, male and female, are struggling todaywith the following questions:How do they introduceprogressinto their societies, while at the same time protecting their deep-seated spiritualbeliefs and culturalidentities, two valuable foundationsthat colonialismtriedunsuccessfullyto destroy? How can they benefit from the Westernexperience,includingits recognitionof the legitimaterights of women, withoutinadvertentlydestroyingtheir highly valued familial ties? In this context, the experienceof those North AmericanMuslims who have successfully integrated their religious beliefs and ethnic heritage with the Americanand Canadianways of life becomes very valuable. It is a living proof of the fact that Islam is not a mere "Oriental"religion,but a worldreligionwhich is capableof meeting the needs of Muslimsin all historicalerasandall geographicallocations. THE ROLEOFNORTHAMERICANMUSLIMS For this reason, beginning a discussion about Muslim women's rights in the Global Village by offering a North American Muslim perspective is neither irrelevant nor insignificant. In fact, my audiences in the various Muslim countries were very interested in my perspective. Once they recognized my serious spiritual commitment and jurisprudentialknowledge of the topic, they wanted further information about women's rights in Islam.10 There is, however, one drawback when a North American Muslim speaks. While non-American Muslim women and men may like my jurisprudential views on women's rights and welcome them, some may view them as exclusively suitable to the circumstances of North American Muslim women. On the other hand, 9. Id. 10. Manyquestionswere asked(politely)to test my knowledgeof Islamand Arabic,as well as to uncovermy intentions. Once this test was passed,communicationchannelsbecame wide open. 40 JOURNALOF LAW& RELIGION [Vol. XV othersmay be encouragedby them,perhapsas usheringin a new way of organizingtheirsociety whichmay conflictwith some outmodedaspects of their culturebut not with their religious beliefs. Such views would offer a fulcrumfor changein the Muslimworld. Forthe sake of this secondgroup,andfor the sake of Americanand Canadian Muslims who have asked me repeatedly about Muslim women's rights,I shall focus in this articleon those women's issues that are most important for the Muslim community. In drawing my conclusions,I shall rely mainlyon basic and traditionalIslamic sources to show that problematicjurisprudencewas often the result of a or misapplicationof the Qur'anictext resultingfrom misunderstanding culturaldistortionsor patriarchal bias. In preparationfor this discussion, we need first to lay the foundation for understanding Islamic jurisprudenceandits relationto culture. THE RELATION OF RELIGIONTO CULTURE The distinctionbetween(andrelationshipof) cultureand religionis criticalfor understandingIslamicjurisprudence.Most importantly,the Qur'an is the revealed Word of God, whereas culture is human fabrication." So, while a Muslim is bound by every letter, word and phrasein the Qur'an,she is not boundsimilarlyby her culturalvalues. For example,a Muslimmay rejecta particularculturalcustom or value, yet remainpartof thatculture. She cannot,however,rejecteven a single word in the Qur'anand continuecalling herself a Muslim.12 It is that simple and clear for Muslims. Consequently,culturalassumptionsand values that masqueradeas religious ones are insidious insofar as they mislead Muslims into believing that they have divine origins, thus denyingMuslimsthe rightto assess themcritically,or even rejectthem. Some of the majormisleadingculturalassumptionsrelate to issues of democracyand women's rights.'3 The two issues incidentallyare not 11. Muslimsbelieve that the Qur'anis the Wordof God revealed to the illiterateProphet Muhammadthroughthe ArchangelGabriel. For moreon this and a quick descriptionof Islamic law, see Azizah Y. al-Hibri, Islamic Constitutionalism and the Concept of Democracy, 24 Case W. Res. J. Intl.L. 1, 3-10 (1992) [hereinafter al-Hibri,IslamicConstitutionalism]. 12. It may be arguedthatexceptionsarisein situationswherejurists interpreta verse of the Qur'anas havingbeen supercededby a laterverse (or hadith,accordingto some). The general rule, however,remains. In one famousincident,the SudaneseMahmoudTahawas executedfor arguingthat a substantialpartof the Qur'anshouldbe abrogatedbecause it had become, in his view, obsolete. While the decisionto executewas a politicalone made by formerPresidentalNumeiri,it was disguisedas a religiousone. Thejustificationused reflects the universalview held by Muslims,namelythatrejectinganypartof the Qur'anis tantamountto rejectingIslam. 13. Al-Hibri, Islamic Constitutionalism, supra n. 11; Azizah Y. al-Hibri, Islam, Law and Custom: Redefining Muslim Women's Rights, 12 Am. J. Intl. L. & Policy (1997) [hereinafter al- 37] MUSLIMWOMEN'SRIGHTS 41 unrelated. Cultural assumptionsand customs have often been introduced legitimatelyinto the Islamiclegal system. The Qur'ancelebratesethnic, racialand otherformsof diversity;andthe hadith(reportedwords of the Prophet)emphasizesthe equalityof all humanbeings.'4 Forthis reason, jurists have encouragedvariousculturesto retaintheir culturalidentity by includingtheircustomsin their legal systems.15The only condition for such inclusionwas that these customs be consistentwith the basic tenets of Islam itself.16 In case of inconsistency,the culturalcustoms must be rejected.17 This approach permitted a variety of Islamic civilizations to blossom, each with its own cultural heritage but all sharing the same basic religious law. Unfortunately,however, some customsthatconflictedwith Islamictenets increasinglyfoundtheirway into the laws of variousMuslimcountries.18Even today,manycountries that claim to be following Islamic law often use religion to justify repugnant laws that are really based on custom.19 Because such Hibri,Islam]. 14. See Qur'an4:1, 6:98, 7:189;Khutbatal-Wadaa'bythe Prophet,in whichhe stated: O People,all believersaresiblings. YourGod is one andyour fatheris one. You are all from AdamandAdamis fromdust. The most favoredamongstyou in the sight of God is the one who is mostpious;no Arabis favoredover a non-Arabexcepton the basis of piety. Hassan IbrahimHassan, Tarikhal-Islam vol. 1, 186 (7h ed., Cairo: Maktabatal-Nahda alMisriyyah1964) (also recountingthatsome Muslimsobjectedto the fact thatthe Prophetgave his permissionfor a freewomanto marrya slave, andthatthe Qur'anicverse 49:13 was revealedon this occasion). Fora translationof the full text of verse49:13;see infran. 94. 15. See MohammadHashimKamali,Principles of Islamic Jurisprudence283-296 (1991); Subhi Mahmassani,Al-Awda'at-Tashri'iyyah fi al-Duwal al-'Arabiyyah438-442, 479, 481 (3d ed., Beirut:Dar al-'Ilmli al-Malayin1965) [hereinafterMahmassani,Al-Awda'];al-Hibri,Islam, supra n. 13, at 6-7; Ali Haidar,Durral-HukkamfiSharhMajallatal-Ahkamvol. 1, 40-46 (Beirut: Dar al-Kutubal-'Ilmiyyahn.d.) (explainingthe importanceof acknowledgingand defining the role of custom in Ottomanlaw, and quotingthe hadiththat what Muslims deem to be good, is good in the sight of God); SubhiMahmassani,Muqaddimah fi 'Ihya' 'Ulumal-Shari'ah59-93 (Beirut:Dar al-'Ilmli al-Malayin1962) [hereinafterMahmassani,Muqaddimah](noting,among otherthings,thatthepermissionto changea law as a resultof changein time or place relatesonly to mattersof mu'amalat,thatis, dealingsamongpeople, anddoes not applyto Qur'anictext or to 'ibadat,thatis, mattersof worship). 16. See Haidar,supra n. 15, at vol. 1, 40; Kamali,supra n. 15, at 284; Mahmassani,alAwda',supran. 15, at 438-439;al-Hibri,Islam,supran. 13, at 61. 17. See Haidar,supra n. 15, at vol. 1, 40; Kamali,supra n. 15, at 284; Mahmassani,alAwda', supra n. 15, at 438-440 (butnotingthatsome Muslimcountrieshave given preferencein theirmodemlaws to customovershari'ah);al-Hibri,Islam,supran. 13, at 6. 18. For an excellentdiscussionof this point,see Mahmassani,al-Awda',supran. 15, at 433475. 19. A good exampleof this is Pakistan'szina (adultery)laws. For an excellentdiscussionof these laws which are claimedto be based on Islam,see Asifa Quraishi,Her Honor:An Islamic Critiqueof the RapeLaws of Pakistanfrom a Woman-Sensitive Perspective,18 Mich. J. Intl. L. 287 (1997). 42 JOURNALOF LAW& RELIGION [Vol. XV justificationsare offered in Muslim societies whose religious education has most likely sufferedin the last century,Muslimsare often unableto discernthe culturalroots of objectionablelaws and their conflict with Islam.20As a result,devoutMuslimshesitateto criticizeany partof the law. In other words, confusion as to the religious characterof some laws has effectively resultedin silencing importantcritical voices and keeping society bound by repugnantcustoms mistaken for religious injunctions. It is furthermoreimportantto understandthat Islamiclaws as they relate to mu'amalat (dealings among people) often reflect differences of jurisprudentialopinion among major Muslim scholars.21 These differenceshave manyroots.22Allowing custominto the legal system is only one of them.23Anotherroot derives from the right to freedomof conscience,which is guaranteedin the Qur'anitself.24Forthis reason,it is establishedin traditionalIslamicjurisprudencethat scholarshave the right to engage in their own ijtihad (jurisprudentialinterpretation)to develop laws that are best suited to theirjurisdictionand era.25 That ijtihad is then reflected in the legal system of the country.26 Unfortunately,however, several factors have combined throughout historyto narrowthe scope of ijtihadandlimit freedomof thought.27As a result,manyschools of thoughtdisappearedandno new ones replaced 20. I came face to face with this problemwhile on a USIA tour. In a closed meeting with some leading Muslimwomen, it became clear that severalof them were chafing undercertain patriarchallaws in theircountrybut were unwillingto contestthem becausethey thoughtthese laws werebasedon the Qur'an. 21. Themostobviousinstanceof this fact is reflectedin the Muslimfamilylaw of the various countries.Fora detaileddiscussion,see al-Hibri,Islam,supran. 13, at 10-14;AzizahY. al-Hibri, Marriage Laws in Muslim Countries, 4 Intl. Rev. Comp. Pub. Policies 227, 229-241 passim (1992). 22. See Mahmassani, Muqaddimah, supra n. 15, at 35-55; al-Hibri, Constitutional Law, supra n. 7, at 506, 509. 23. For a discussionof the variousconsiderationsthat could lead to differencesof opinion andthus differentformulationsof the law, see Kamali,supran. 15, at 197-228,245-309 passim; Mahmassani, al-Awda', supra n. 15, at 478-482; al-Hibri, Constitutional Law, supra n. 7, at 505- 511. 24. Qur'an2:256. 25. See Mahmassani,Muqaddimah, supran. 15, at 67. The most salientexampleof this fact is thatof Imamal-Shafi'i,who changedaspectsof his jurisprudenceafterhe moved from Iraqto Egypt. See id. at 40; TahaJabiral-'Alwani,Usul al-Fiqhal-Islami(The Foundationsof Islamic 33-36 (Intl. Inst. of IslamicThought1990); MuhammadAbu Zahrah,Al-Shafi'i Jurisprudence) 145-146(n.p.:Daral-Fikral-'Arabi1948);'Ala' Al-Deenal-Samarqandi, Tariqatal-Khilafbayn al-Aslaf (The Methodof DisagreementAmong the Predecessors)13 (Beirut:Dar al-Kutubal'Ilmiyyah,11thCent.repr.1992). 26. See supra n. 19. 27. Mahmassani al-Awda', supra n. 15, at 477-478; al-Hibri, Islam, supra n. 13, at 7; alHibri, Legal Reform, supra n. 7, at 50-53. 37] MUSLIMWOMEN'SRIGHTS 43 them.28 Furthermore,scholars continued to adhere to established schools of thoughteven when these were no longer best suited to their societies.29Only recently,for example,did Moroccorevise its personal statuscode to eliminatea provisionallowing the fatherto force his bikr (virgin)daughterinto marriage.30The provisionderivedfromthe Maliki tradition and representedan obsolete cultural interpretationof the parentalrelationship,yet it remainedas part of the law for a very long time.31 A closer look at the Maliki interpretationwould have revealed its inconsistency with the hadith that requires the consent (or permission) of a bikr for the validity of her marriage.32 Such inconsistencieswere often overlookedby earlierjuristswho were caught up in their own culturalperspectives. As these perspectivesbecome outmoded,it becomesimportantto expose andeliminatethem. It is not possible, however,to criticallyassess Islamiclaw without a properIslamic education. Politics, unfortunately,has played a major role in denyingthe averageMuslim a good religious education.33This denial, in parta colonialistlegacy, helped political regimes confuse the masses aboutwhat is in the Qur'anor what the Qur'anactually says.34 Such confusion did criticaldamagein areas of Islamic law relatingto issues of governanceand democracy. Recognizingtheir responsibility towards God and Muslims, jurists made repeated attemptsto clarify Islamic law on these matters,35as they struggled to keep political 28. Mahmassani, Muqaddimah, supra n. 15, at 20-22, 39; Al-Hibri, Constitutional Law, supran. 7, at 522-523. 29. MuhammadAbu Zahrah,Al-Ahwalal-Shakhsiyyah9 (n.p.: Dar al-Fikral-'Arabi 1997) (arguingthatHanafilaw is no longersuitablein some respectsfor modem times). Only recently did Moroccoabandonthe Maliki rule that a fathermay force his virgin daughterinto marriage againsther will. See al-Hibri,Islam, supra n. 13, at 11, 15 (stating that other Muslimjurists disagreedwith Malikon this matter). Also, some countriescontinueto have in effect laws based on a jurisprudencethatassumesthatwomencan be easily sweptby emotionsandhence need the protectionof men. See id. at 15. 30. MoroccanCode, infra n. 83, Royal Decree No. 193347, bk. 1, tit. 3, ch. 12 (1993) (deletingold bk. 1, tit. 3, ch. 12(4) & revisingold bk. 1, tit. 3, ch. 12(1)-12(3)). 31. Al-Hibri, Islam, supra n. 13, at 14-15. 32. See Abu al-Hussein Bin Muslim, Sahih Muslim bi Sharh al-Nawawi vol. 9, 202-205 (9t Cent., repr., n.p.: Dar Ihya' at-Turathal-'Arabin.d.) [hereinafterSahih Muslim] (quoting the Prophetas sayingthata virginmaynotbecomemarriedwithoutherpermission). 33. See al-Hibri,IslamicLaw,supran. 7, at 129;al-Hibri,ConstitutionalLaw, supra n. 7, at 522-523. See also Abu Hamidal-Ghazali,Ihya' 'Ulumal-Din 33-34 (Matba'atMustafaal-Babi al-Halabi1939);'Abd al-RahmanIbnKhaldoun,al-Muqqadimah 209 (14th Cent.,repr.,KitabalQalam 1978); Ibrahim al-Wazir, 'Ala Masharifal-Qarn al-Khamis 'Ashar al-Hijri 42 (Beirut: Dar al-Shuruq 1989); Hassan al-Zein, al-Islam wa al-Fikr al-Mu'asser 45-46 (Dar al-Fikr al-Hadith 1997). Cf al-Ghazali,supra,at vol. 2, 337-351 (providinginstanceswherepeoplewho spoke out to the rulerdirectlywerenot punished). 34. See al-Hibri, Islamic Law, supra n. 7, at 134-135. 35. Most significantamongthe recentattemptsare the works of Abd al-Razzaqal-Sanhuri, 44 JOURNALOF LAW& RELIGION [Vol. XV influence out of the mosque.36 But authoritarianrulers quashedthese efforts and punishedthose leaders who stood in their way.37 Islamic history is litteredwith storiesof the tortureor jailing of varioushighly distinguishedjuristswhose crimewas thatof refusingto echo the views of the politicalrulerand shroudthem with religious legitimacy.38This state of affairscontinuesuntilthis day, a fact which does not bode well for freedomof thoughtor belief in these countries. How can Muslim women begin discussing their rights when Muslim men and women cannoteven speakfreely? BASIC INTRODUCTIONTO ISLAM To understandIslamiclaw, one must startwith the basic principles of Islam. The primarysource of all Islamic law is the Qur'an. It is supplementedby the hadith. Otherimportantsourcesare those of ijma' (consensus)and ijtihadwhich is based on rules of logic as well as on religioustext.39It is importantto note thatIslamhas no clergy, nor does it have an ecclesiastic structure.40Each individualhas direct access to the Qur'anandhadithand is in principleentitledto engage in ijtihad,so long as she has the requisiteknowledge.41Thus not only countriesbut choices. also individualsareentitledto theirownjurisprudential This fundamentalright of Muslims to freedom of jurisprudential choice and to unmediatedaccess to the Qur'anand hadith, combined with Islam'srespectfor local custommakesit clearthatNorthAmerican Muslims are not boundby the culturalpreferencesof Muslims in other choices. We live in and are partof countriesnorby theirjurisprudential North Americanculturesthat also celebratediversity. We are free to retainfromour ethnicheritagethese elementsthat continueto be viable and useful in our new society. But we are fully boundby our religious (Cairo:al-Hay'aal-Masriyyahal-'Ammahli al-Kitab1989) Fiqh al-KhilafahWa Tatawwuruha (arguesthatthe Islamicsystemof governmentis quitesimilarto the systemof governmentin the UnitedStates). See Tawfical-Shawi,Fiqhal-Shurah(Daral-Wafa'1992). 36. Today, Muslim governmentsoften appointthe GrandMufti (highest rankingIslamic authorityin the state),as well as imamsof mosques. Some governmentseven limit or specify the topicsimamsmayaddresson Fridays,whenMuslimscongregateto pray. 37. The most famousexampleis thatof the greatjuristImamMalikwho was torturedby the rulerfor refusingto misleadMuslimsaboutthe fact that coercedconsent was not bindingupon them. See a referenceto this incidentandothersin al-Wazir,supran. 30, at 42. Anotherexample is discussedin al-Hibri,Constitutional Law,supran. 7, at 520-522 (recountingthe storyof Yazid, one of the Khalifahswho attemptedto gainlegitimacyby the use of force). 38. See supra n. 33. 39. For a comprehensive studyof this topicsee Kamali,supran. 15. 40. See al-Hibri, Constitutional Law, supra, n. 11, at 507-511; al-Hibri, supra, n. 9, at 24-25. Forthis reason,a Mufti,grandor otherwise,maynot bindothersby his opinion(fatwa). 41. See supra n. 40. 37] MUSLIMWOMEN'SRIGHTS 45 beliefs. We cannotbe selective amongthem. We are entitled,however, to interpretDivine Will in ways that are best suited for our own jurisdictionand era. Of course, such interpretationsdo not apply to the thawabitof Islam, i.e. to mattersthat are fixed, clear, and fundamental, such as the unicityof God. The fact that our governmentsespouse democraticprinciplesand do not stifle our freedom of expression facilitates our efforts. North AmericanMuslims are free to engage vigorously in the time-honored tradition of ijtihad in order to authentically define their own jurisprudence.Unliketheirbrothersand sistersabroad,they do not have to be concernedabouteitherpoliticalcensorshipor retribution. In the matterof Muslim women's rights,North AmericanMuslim women are not boundby the patriarchalassumptionsof other cultures. These assumptionshave been rejectedfor the most partin our societies. We are only boundby the Qur'an,as illuminatedby reliablehadithand what it says aboutwomen and theirrights. Furthermore, in discovering what the Qur'ansays we are not bound by the patriarchalaspects of interpretationsoffered by earlier jurists. These aspects reveal themselves as patriarchalwhen the jurist incorporatesinto his logic patriarchalassumptionsnot presentin the Qur'anicverse itself, such as the assumptionthatwomen are emotionalandirrational.42 In the United States and Canada,many of our Muslimwomen are capableprofessionalswhose mere existence presentsa counterexample to these patriarchalassumptions. Many Muslim women in other countries have made similar gains, but are being hindered in their progressby patriarchalforces in the name of Islam.43 They are also being hinderedfrom rebuttingpatriarchalclaims by an authoritarian structureof governance. For example,every Afghaniman andwoman I spoketo duringmy travelsis fully awarethatgettingan educationis the duty of each Muslim male and female. Yet, the Talibanforces have managed to impose a minimalist interpretationand a patriarchal educationalpolicy throughsheerforce. Because of the various obstacles facing Muslim women abroad, tend to be quitesupportiveof the seriouseffortsby NorthAmerican they Muslimwomen to rid Islamic law of patriarchalculturalinfluences. In the rest of this article, I shall present my views on Islamic law as it relatesto variousissues of importanceto women. These views are all 42. See supra n. 29. 43. The most salient example is the situation in Afghanistan. In the name of Islam, professionalMuslimwomen have been preventedfrom workingoutside their homes, and their daughtershavebeendeniedan educationas good as theirs,a verypainfulsituationto the mothers. JOURNALOF LAW& RELIGION 46 [Vol. XV based on the Qur'anitself; they also rely in part on the hadith and on traditionaljuristicsources. THE QUR'ANIC VIEW OF WOMEN Basic Equality As an American Muslim woman unburdened by patriarchal assumptions,I have a distinctadvantageover earlierinterpreterswhen I study the Qur'an:I can read it with fresh, liberatedeyes. Reading the Qur'an,I discoverthatit has only one creationstory. The Qur'anstates repeatedly,for emphasis,thatboththe male andthe female were created from the same nafs.44 Consequently, there is no human hierarchy, and the two genderssharea single origin. In the Qur'an,the fall of Adam is not blamedon Eve.45Rather,bothwere temptedby Satanand sinnedin the pursuit of power and eternal life.46 Furthermore,God forgave humanityafter the fall. There is no continuingburdenof the original sin.47 Men and women are responsibletowards God for their own mortalchoices. They are bothjudgedby the same standards;they also have the same rights, duties, and obligations in matters of ibadat (worship).48There are some differencesbetween them in the realm of mu'amalat (dealings), which regulates civil matters.49 These will be addressedlater. In short, a Muslim woman is as complete a spiritual being as the male. She is as entitledas he is to read and interpretthe Qur'anandto live a full pious life. Legal andFinancialRights In the realm of mu 'amalat, the Muslim woman is an independent legal entity, not lost throughmarriage. A Muslim woman retains her 44. See Qur'an4:1, 6:98, 7:189. 45. See Qur'an7: 20-22 (statingthatSatansucceededin temptingbothAdamandEve to taste the fruitof the treeof eternityandpower),20:120-121(statingthatSatantemptedAdam, so both AdamandEve ate the fruitof the tree). 46. See supra n. 45. 47. See Qur'an20:122. 48. See Zaidan 'Abd al-Baqi, Al-Mar'ah Bayn al-Din wa al-Mujtama' 194-199 (Cairo: n.p. 1977); Ridha, Huquq, supra n. 6, at 5-37; 'Abd al-Karim Zaidan, Al-Mufassalfi Ahkam al-Mar'ah wa al-Bayt al-Muslimvol. 4, 173-186, especially 184 (Beirut: Mu'assasat al-Risalah 1994) (arguingthat the rule in Islam is the equalityof the two genders but listing and explaining exceptionsin the areaof mu'amalat,i.e., dealings). 49. See 'Abd al-Baqi,supra n. 48, at 196-199;Ridha,Huquq,supra n. 6, at 20-22; Zaidan, supran. 48, at vol. 4, 184-186. 37] MUSLIMWOMEN'SRIGHTS 47 own name after marriage.50 She also retains her financial independence.5"She can own propertyin her own right whethershe is marriedor single, and no one, not even her husband,may access her fundsor properties,or demandany form of financialsupportfrom her.52 Any money or propertyof her own thatthe wife gives herhusband,even if she is richer than he, is regardedas a loan unless she expressly specifies otherwise.53Islamic law, however, differentiatesbetween the financialrightsandobligationsof the two genders. The male, while also financially independenthas additionalfinancial responsibilities. He must support the women in his family regardless of their financial condition,unlessthereis a financiallyable male relativewho is closer to them.54 For example, a father is responsible for the support of his daughter, regardless of her age, but if the woman marries, that responsibility is transferredto her husband.55 The logic of these differencesin obligationsmay lie in the fact that the Qur'anis simply providing women with added security in a difficult patriarchalworld. Put into today's legal language,the Qur'anengages in affirmativeaction with respectto women. Rightto Sadaq The Qur'an also gives the woman additional opportunitiesto accumulatewealth. For example, upon marriageshe has the right to 50. This practiceremainscommonis SaudiArabiaand some Gulf countries,but has become less commonis otherMuslimcountriesthataresubjectto Westerninfluences. 51. See Ridha,Huquq,supran. 6, at 19-20;Zaidan,supran. 48, at vol. 4, 291-297, & at vol. 7, 334-343 (concludingthatwhile the Muslimwomanis free to spendher moneyas she wishes, it would be desirablefor her to seek her husband'spermissionbeforeshe gives away her money in orderto preservegood relationswith him). 52. Seesupran. 51. 53. See Mahmassani,Muqaddimhah,supra n. 15, at 496-497 (stating that a husbandis obliged to supporthis rich wife, but thatshe may not be forced to spend any of her money on him); al-Jaziri,Kitabal-Fiqh 'ala al-Mathahibal-Arba'a vol. 4, 563, 582, 584 (Beirut:Dar Ihya' al-Turathal-'Arabi1969) (statinginteralia thatif a husbandis unableto maintainhis wife, any amountsshe spendsfrom her own money for her maintenance(nafaqah)becomes a debt of the husband,even if she is wealthy);Zaidan,supran. 48, at vol. 4, 290-291, 297. Additionally,once the husbandgives his wife hernafaqah(maintenancepayments)for food or clothing,for example, she is free to spendthe moneyas she likes andnot necessarilyon food or clothing,so long as she does not harmor weakenherhealthor detractfromher appropriate dress,see Zaidan,supran. 48, at vol. 7, 214-215. 54. See Abu Zahrah,supra n. 29, at 415-416 (explainingthe rules for determiningwhich male is requiredto providemaintenanceto a woman);al-Jaziri,supra n. 53, at vol. 4, 553, 581 and n. 1 (statingthatwhen the husbandis unableto supporthis wife, the duty falls upon certain othermales in her andhis family,in accordancewith a specifiedorder). 55. See Abu Zahrah,supra n. 29, at 246 (stating that the well-to-do fatherof a married woman,who is not receivingmaintenancefromher spouse,may be obligatedto maintainher, but the expensebecomesa debtof thehusband);Zaidan,supran. 48, at vol. 4, 151. 48 JOURNALOF LAW& RELIGION [Vol. XV expect a gift from her husbandwhich could range from teachingher a few verses fromthe Qur'an(if she does not know them already)to a few silver coins to an immense fortune,dependingon the parties' mutual agreement.56This is referredto as the sadaq or mahr of the woman, sometimeserroneouslydescribedas "brideprice."57The sadaq signifies the willingnessof the man to undertakethe responsibilitiesof marriage. The womanhas the optionof askingfor the full amountof the sadaq (or designatedproperty)in advance,or of deferringpartof it to become due at a specifiedlatertime, or upon such event as deathor divorce.58In the case of death,sadaq becomes a senior debt of the deceased husband's estateto be satisfiedaheadof all otherdebts.59Therefore,the sadaq is at times morevaluablethanthe wife's inheritancefrom her husbandwhen the estateis overburdened by debt. In the case of divorce, the sadaq offers the woman a clearly defined propertyor amount of money she could rely upon after the divorce, without need for furthernegotiations. Whereas some rich womentendto settle for a symbolicsadaq, manywomen view it as their securitynet in case of death or divorce. Some women may prefer to take the full amountof the sadaq at the outset. In that event, these women are free to invest the amountof the sadaq in any venturethey choose. They may starta businesswith it or even give it to charity. The husbandmay not touchit or any profitresultingfromit.60 Of course,patriarchalrealityin Muslimcountriesis quite different fromthe Islamicone. Today,many fathersnegotiatethe amountor type of sadaq on behalf of their daughters. In some cultures,it is a sign of prestige for the family to settle for a symbolic sadaq regardlessof the financialinterestof the daughter. In these cases, many fathersdo not adequatelyprotecttheirdaughters'interests.61In othercultureswhere a substantialsadaq may be at stake,the fathermay appropriatethe sadaq fromhis daughterto cover weddingexpenses(which are customarilyhis responsibility). If he does not, the husbandmay "borrow"it from the wife aftermarriage. More commonly,some culturespressurethe wife 56. AbuZahrah,supran. 29, at 175;al-Jaziri,supran. 53, at vol. 4, 96-107;Mahmassani,alAwda',supran. 15, at 467, 494; Zaidan,supran. 48, at vol. 7, 69. 57. See Keith Hodkinson, Muslim Family Law: A Source Book 132 (London: Croom Helm 1984);Mahmassani,al-Awda',supran. 15, at 467-468. 58. See AbuZahrah,supran. 29, at 174;al-Jaziri,supran. 53, at vol. 4, 153-156. 59. See AbuZahrah,supran. 29, at 174;Zaidan,supran. 48, at vol. 7, 90. 60. See Ridha,Huquq,supra n. 6, at 19-20; Mahmassani,al-Awda',supra n. 15, at 476; Zaidan,supran. 48, at vol. 4, 291-297. 61. Manymarriagecontractstendto waive financialandotherprotectionsof the wife. These contractsareusuallynegotiatedby thewife's fatheror otherclose malerelative. 37] MUSLIMWOMEN'SRIGHTS 49 to "waive"the deferredpartof hersadaq altogetheras a gestureof good will towardsthe husband.62In all these cultures,the woman has become highly vulnerablefinanciallyand has lost a good measure of her Godgiven independence. Rightto Work There are other ways, however, in which the Muslim woman can accumulatewealth. For example,she can work. The Qur'anstates that men andwomen have a rightto theirearnings.63Khadijah,the firstwife of the Prophet,was a businesswomanand continuesto serve to this day as a lofty ideal for Muslim women.64Again, until recentlypatriarchal laws prohibitedwomen from enteringthe work field underthe guise of protectingwomen's moralityor because of women's perceivedphysical limitations.65New economic realities have set in, however, and now many personal status codes in Muslim countries no longer prohibit women fromworking. Rightto Inheritance Another source of wealth availableto the Muslim woman is her inheritance. Islam guaranteesfor the woman a share in her relatives' inheritancespecified on the basis of her degree of kinship to the deceased.66The false view in the West is that Islam gives a female a sharein the inheritanceequal to half that given to a male. The Qur'an does specify thata sister inheritshalf of the amounther brotherinherits, but also specifies thatotherfemalesof differentdegrees of kinshipmay inheritmorethanothermales.67 Nevertheless,given the Qur'anicspecification,it appearsthat the male sibling inheritsdoublethe amountinheritedby his sister,but there is one importantdifference between her inheritanceand his. The 62. I heardaboutthese scenariosduringmy varioustripsto Muslimcountries. The women who mentionedthemhadbeen divorcedandleft penniless. 63. See Qur'an4:32. 64. Ibn Hisham,Al-Sirah al-Nabawiyyah(The Biographyof the Prophet)v. 1, 187-188 (Beirut:Al-Maktabahal-'Ilmiyyahn.d.); Hassan,supra n. 14, at 76; AkramDia' al-'Umari,AlSirahal-NabawiyyahAl-Sahihah(The AuthenticBiographyof the Prophet)112-114(al-Madinah, SaudiArabia:Maktabatal-'Ulumwa al-Hikam1994). 65. See al-Hibri, Islamic Constitutionalism supra n. 11, at 12. For a detailed discussion of the rightof Muslimwomen to work,see FaridaBennani,Taqsimal-'AmalBayn al-Zawjainfi Daw' al-Qanun al-Maghribi wa al-Fiqh al-Islami 77-78, 155-169 (Marrakesh L. Sch. 1993). 66. See Muhammad Abu Zahrah, Ahkam al-Tarikat wa al-Mawarith 100-150 (Dar al-Fikr al- 'Arabi1963);Ridha,Huquq,supran. 6, at 20-21;Zaidan,supran. 48, at vol. 11, 261-311. 67. See Qur'an4:11. JOURNALOF LAW& RELIGION 50 [Vol. XV amountinheritedby the sister is a net amount added to her wealth.68 The amountinheritedby the brotheris a gross amount from which he will have to deduct the expenses of supportingthe various women, elderlymen and childrenin his family, one of whom may be the sister herself.69As mentionedearlier,even if the sister is wealthy, she is not requiredto supportherself. Herclosest male relativehas thatobligation, which she may waive only if she so chooses. Consequently,the net increasein the wealthof the brotheris often less thanthatof his sister. These facts illustratewhat Muslim scholarshave known all along, namely,thatinheritancelaws in Islamare quite complicatedand cannot be reducedto a single slogan. Patriarchy,however, has simplifiedthe inheritancepicturedrastically. Many Muslim women receive no share of theirinheritanceat all. Some are forcedby theirown familiesto turn their inheritanceover to theirbrothers. Worse yet, many brotherstake the inheritanceand disappearfromthe lives of their sisterswho have no closer male relative obligatedto supportthem or capable of doing so. Historically,Muslimcourtsprosecutedsuch behaviorand compelledthe brotherto supportthe sister. Today,many injusticesgo unnoticed,and the balance of rights and obligationsin the Muslim family has been severelyupset. THE QUR'ANICVIEWOFGENDERRELATIONSHIPS Basic Principles The Qur'anstates clearly and repeatedlythat humanbeings were it statesthat God created all createdfromthe same nafs.70 Furthermore, for us humans from our own nafs mates with whom we could find Elsewhere,the Qur'andescribesthe maritalrelationshipas tranquility.71 one characterizedby tranquility,mercy, and affection.72 In fact, the husbandand wife are each other's"garments,"that is they protecteach other's privacy and cover each other's shortcomings.73This view has importantconsequencesin variousareas of genderrelationswhich will be brieflyaddressedbelow. 68. This is a consequenceof the rules of maintenancementionedearlier. Womenhave no duty to maintainthemselvesor others,while relatedmales are obligatedto supportthem. See supran. 53 & accompanyingtext. 69. Id. 70. See Qur'an4:1, 6:98, 7:189 71. See Qur'an7:189,30:21. 72. See Qur'an30:21. 73. See Qur'an2:187. 37] MUSLIMWOMEN'SRIGHTS 51 Nevertheless, it is often argued that the superiorityof men over women was assertedin the Qur'anitself.74 The main verse used in this argumentis the one which refers to men as "qawwamun"over women. The word "qawwamun"is a complicatedold word, rich with meanings. One translationof the meaning of this verse states: "Men are the protectorsand maintainersof women, because God has given the one more (strength)thanthe other,andbecausethey supportthem fromtheir means."75 in the Qur'anicverse was translatedabove The term"qawwamun" as "protectors and maintainers," but traditional patriarchal interpreters (and the average Muslim man) understoodthe word "qawwamun"to refer to the superiorityof men over women (mostly by virtue of their physical strength, as suggested by the above translation). Ancient Arabic dictionaries, however, include among the meanings of those of guidingandadvising.76These meaningsaremore "qawwamun" consistentwith the generalQur'anicview of genderrelationsthan the ones preferredby malejurists. Properlytranslated,the verse recognizes a male's qiwamahover a woman only if he (1) is supportingher financially, and (2) has been favoredby God in certainaspectsover her thatare relevant(at thattime) to the woman's concerns about which he is providing advice and guidance.77 (An example of the aspects referred to in the second requirementwould be businessacumen,in a situationwhere the woman is not herself at thattime a knowledgeablebusinesswoman, or physical strength, where that particularwoman needs at that time physical assistance.) Otherwise,the male cannotasserthis qiwamah,whetherit is advisory or not. Yet, that one verse has become the hallmarkof patriarchalbias, since it has been interpretedto mean that all men are superiorto all women at all times. As some scholarsexplained,men are always in a more favorableposition vis-a-vis women because of their by restrictingthe womanto the home, physical strength.78Furthermore will insured that women almost society always need to be supportedand advised by some male. This point of view has encouragedoppressive 74. Theauthorhas replacedthe Arabicword"Allah"in the translationwhich follows with its Englishmeaning,namely,God. Thiswas done to emphasisthe fact that'Allah"is the same God as thatof ChristianityandJudaism. 75. Ali, supran. 2, v. 4:34. 76. See my discussionof this pointin Islam,Lawand Custom,12 AmericanU. J. of Intl Law & Policy 1, 28 (1997). 77. A detaileddiscussionof this verse, includingthe conditionaland temporal(zarfiyyah) aspectsimplicitin it, appearsin al-Hibri,Islam,supran. 13, at 25-34. 78. Id. at 28-30. JOURNALOF LAW& RELIGION 52 [Vol. XV malesto move away fromthe Islamicideal of maritalrelationships. Housework Because of the Qur'anic view of marital relationships,scholars viewed the marriagecontractas a contractfor companionshipand not as a service contract.79As a result, they stated that the woman is not requiredto clean, cook or serve in her house.80If she does these things, then she is viewed as a volunteer.81Otherwise,the husbandis obligated to bringherpreparedfood andtakecareof the house.82 Despite these facts, in many Islamic culturestoday the home is viewed as the wife's realm,and she is viewed as responsiblefor taking care of it and for raising the children. In fact, the Moroccanpersonal statuscode states explicitly that one of the wife's duties is the duty to "supervise"the household and manage it.83 In many families, this means that the wife is requiredby law to do the houseworksince she cannot afford house-help. This is contrary to the juristic views mentionedabove. Motherhood The Qur'anviews pregnancyas an arduousexperience.84Perhaps partiallyfor this reason, Muslimjurists do not obligate the mother to nurse her baby, except as a last resort.85Childrenare raised by both parentswho consult each other on importantmatters.86This fact is of course not surprisingin light of the Qur'anic view of ideal marital when the Prophetwas askedby a Muslim as to relations. Furthermore, whom should the latter honor most, the Prophet answered: "Your 79. See Abu Zahrah,supran. 29, at 166 (statingthatwhile somejuristsdisagreed,the major juristsAbuHanifah,Malikandal-Shafi'ihaveall statedthatthe marriagecontractwas for marital companionshipand not for servicebenefits);Bennani,supra n. 65, at 143-144 (mentioningthis view as one of threedifferingpositionsamongjurists). 80. See supra n. 79. 81. See Bennani,supran. 65, at 143-144;Zaidan,supran. 48, at vol. 7, 302. 82. Seesupran. 81. 83. MoroccanCode, Royal Decree No. 343.57.1 (1957), as amendedby Royal Decree No. MoroccanCode]. 347.93.1bk. 1, tit. 6, ch. 36(4) (1993) [hereinafter 84. Qur'an46:15. 85. Zaidan,supran. 48, at vol. 9, 475-480 (statingthatHanafi's,Shafi'is andHanbalis,with minorqualifications,do not requirethe motherto nursethe child. Malikisdo, unless the wife is froman upperclass!). 86. Qur'an2:233 (parentsconsult aboutweaningtheir child); Abu Shuqqah,supra n. 6, at vol. 5, 104-109(providingexamplesin supportof the thesis thatspousesconsulteach otherin the Muslimfamily). 37] MUSLIM WOMEN'S RIGHTS 53 mother."87 The questioner then asked: "Whom should I honor most next?" The Prophet repeated the same answer. Three times did the Prophet repeat "You mother," and only on the fourth time did he say "Your father."88 He also stated that paradise is under the feet of mothers.89 Despite this surprisingly modernistic view of maternal obligations, in today's Muslim societies Muslim women are obligated by social pressure if not by law to nurse their children and be the primary caretakers. Not only is this obligation contrary to tradition, but it also often affects the human development of mothers, especially with respect to education and career. Yet many men continue to emphasize the fact that mother's milk has special health benefits and that her care in the early years is crucial to the child's emotional well being. Assuming that the thesis is correct, it is not clear that either the nurse or the caregiver has to be the mother. A wet nurse would impart similar benefits. Wet nurses are readily available in many countries, but are rarely used these days because of social pressures. Yet, the Prophet himself was nursed by a wet nurse.90 Furthermore, well-to-do families of Makkah had a tradition of sending their children to live for several years in the desert in order to teach them better Arabic and expose them to cleaner air.91 As a child, the Prophet himself was sent away from the city of Makkah into the desert to live with his wet nurse.92 He never criticized that practice. Actually, he had warm memories of the woman who raised him.93 These facts open the door to many scenarios of child rearing that can accommodate the special needs of both the mother and the child without unduly burdening either. 87. Abu AbdullahI. al-Bukhari,Sahih al-Bukharibi Hashiat al-Sindi vol. 4, 47 (9h Cent. repr.,Beirut:Dar al-Ma'rifahn.d.) [hereinafterSahihal-Bukhari];SahihMuslim,supra n. 32, at vol. 16, 102. 88. See supran. 87. 89. Ibn Majah, Sunan Ibn Majah vol. 2, 930 (9th Cent. repr., Beirut: Dar al-KutubalIbnMajah];Abu 'Abdal-Rahmanal-Nasa'i,Sunanal-Nasa'i bi Sharh 'Ilmiyyahn.d.) [hereinafter al-Suyuti Wa Hashiat al-Imamal-Sindi vol. 6, 11 (Beirut: Dar al-Kutub al-'Ilmiyyah n.d.) [hereinafterSunanal-Nasa'i]. 90. Ibn Hisham,supra n. 64, at 160-176(statingalso that the Prophetoften mentionedthis fact as partof his identity);Al-'Umari,supran. 64, at 102-103. 91. IbnHisham,supran. 64, at 162-163,n. 9. 92. See supra n. 90. The Prophetwas returnedto his motherwhen he was aboutfive years old. Al-'Umari,supra n. 64, at 105 (notingalso thatreportsvariedas to the prophet'sage upon his return,rangingbetweenfourandsix); Hassan,supran. 14, at 75. 93. See supra n. 90. Islamrecognizeschildrenwho nursefrom the same wet nurseas "milk siblings." This recognitionresultsin duties and obligations. For example, milk siblings must inquireaftereachother,andmay not marryeachother. The Prophetinquiredafterhis wet nurse. IbnHisham,supran. 64, at vol. 1, 161,n. 6 (also listingthe namesof the Prophet'smilk siblings). 54 JOURNALOF LAW& RELIGION [Vol. XV Clearlythen the problemin Muslim societies is not Islam but the existing cultures. Many of these cultures continue to subscribe to jahiliyyah (pre-Islamic)values prohibitedby Islam. The continued adherenceto culturalvalues rejectedby the Qur'anis best exemplified in the areaof ethnicandracialdifferencesas these relateto marriage. MarriageandEthnicDifferences Not only does the Qur'anteach that all humanswere createdfrom the same nafs, but it also teaches that human ethnic and racial differenceswere purposelycreatedby God so that we would (have an impetusto) get to know each other(enjoy each other'scompany).94The Qur'anadds, however,thatthe closest to God in God's sight are those who are most pious.95 In other words, diversity is a divine blessing, which we shouldcelebrateratherthanfear or loathe. Furthermore, God judges us solely in termsof ourpiety, not the color of our skin. Still some schools of thoughtcontinueto requirethata prospective husbandbe of the same ethnic backgroundand social status as the prospectivewife, that his profession, financial status, and lineage be suitableto hersor else the fathermay preventor void the marriage.96 The Structureof the Family Some personal status codes in Muslim countries designate the husbandas the head of the household,requirethe wife to obey him, or both.97It used to be in Egyptthatif the wife left her maritalhome, the police could returnher to "the house of obedience"by order of the 94. Qur'an49:13. Thetranslationof the full textof this verse is as follows: O people,we have createdyou from a single (pair)of male and female, and made you into nationsandtribes,so thatyou may know each other(not thatyou may despise each other). Verily, the most honoredof you in the sight of God is the one who is the most pious amongyou. Godhas full knowledgeandis well-acquainted(withall things). 95. Id. 96. Fora discussionof this point,see al-Hibri,MarriageLaws in MuslimCountries,supran. 21, at 231-232; al-Jaziri,supra n. 53, at vol. 4, 54-60; al-Hibri,Islam,supra n. 13, at 16, n. 74 (recountingthe story of SheikhYusuf Ali, a distinguishedEgyptianjournalistof poor origins, whose marriageearlierthis centuryto Safiyyaal-Sadat,an aristocraticwoman,was annulledfor lack of eligibility). 97. MoroccanCode bk. 1, tit. 6, ch. 36, art. 36 (requiringobedience);Tunisian Code, PersonalStatusCode Decree bk. 1, art. 6 (Aug. 13, 1956 as amend. 1993) bk. 1, old art. 23 (repealed1993) [hereinafterTunisianCode] (statingthatthe husbandis the head of the family); AlgerianCode, FamilyLaw No. 84-11 (1984) bk. 1, tit. 1, ch. 4, art. 39 [hereinafterAlgerian Code] (requiringobedienceandstatingthatthe husbandis the headof the family). See also infra n. 99. Fora discussionof theconceptta 'ah(obedience),see al-Hibri,Islam,supran. 13, at 18-21. MUSLIMWOMEN'SRIGHTS 37] 55 court.98While the forcedreturnto the house is now gone, the conceptof obedience remainsthe centerpieceof the code.99 For example, if the wife "disobeys,"she may be denied maintenance.100That is a serious matterfor financiallyvulnerableindividuals. Conclusion In short,patriarchalbias inheritedby Muslims from their cultures survivedthe clear injunctionsof the Qur'anto the contrary.It prevented interpretersfrom seeing the simple truthsof the Qur'anand seriously delayed the adventof the ideal Muslim family and society. Of course, these biases do not surpriseour Creator. The Qur'anin fact takes into account the depth of the entrenchmentof certain culturalbeliefs and customsby adoptinga philosophyof gradualismwith respect to social change. Therefore,to understandthe Qur'an properly, we need to understandits underlyingphilosophyof gradualchange. THE QUR'ANICPHILOSOPHY OF CHANGE Basic Rationale The Qur'anicphilosophyof gradualismis predicatedupon the fact that fundamentalchangesin humanconsciousnessdo not usually occur overnight.101Instead,they requirea periodof individualor even social 98. For a discussion of the concept of bayt al-ta'ah (house of obedience) and its legal operation,see AshrafMustafaKamal,Qawaninal-Ahwalal-Shakhsiyyahpassim, especially 148 et seq. (Cairo:Naqabatal-Muhamin1990); Mu'awwabAbdul Nawwab,Al-Wasit 175 et seq. (Cairo:'Alamal-Kitab1982). 99. For the existenceof the conceptof ta 'ah in the personalstatuscodes of variousMuslim countriessee, e.g. AlgerianCode,bk 1, tit. 1, ch. 4, art.39; EgyptianCode,Act No. 25 (1920) (in respectof Maintenanceand Some Questionsof PersonalStatus)& Act No. 25 (1929) (regarding certainPersonalStatus Provisions)as both are amendedby Act No. 100 (1985) [collectively, hereinafterEgyptianCode], Law No. 25, ch. 2, art. 11 RepeatedTwice (1929) (amend. 1985); JordanianCode, PersonalStatusCode, ProvisionalL. No. 61, ch. 7, art. 39 (1976) [hereinafter JordanianCode];KuwaitiCode,pt. 1, bk. 1, tit. 5, ch. 3, arts.84-91 (1984) [hereinafterKuwaiti Code]; MoroccanCode, bk. 1, tit. 6, ch. 36, art. 2 (1993); SyrianCode, Decree No. 59 (1953) (regardingPersonalStatus Law) amendedby L. No. 34, bk. 1, tit. 4, ch. 3, art. 75 (1975) [hereinafterSyrianCode],by implicationandgenerallyas a resultof the doctrineof incorporation. The TunisianCode bk. 1, art. 6 no longer requiresobedience by the wife. Some of these simplybecausethe Codesmakeuse of the provisionsonly partiallyaddressthe ta 'ahrequirement doctrineof incorporationwhich allows the law to fall back on the officially chosen school of jurisprudencefor guidancein instanceswherethe law is silent. 100. Supran. 99, EgyptianCode L. No. 25 ch. 1 art. 1 (1929) (amend. 1985) (the wife loses her rightto maintenanceif she refusesto have conjugalrelationswith her husbandor leaves her homewithoutherhusband'spermission(unlessshe has a legitimatereasonfor leaving)). 101. For a discussion of the Qur'anic philosophy of gradualism,see al-Hibri, Islamic 56 JOURNALOF LAW& RELIGION [Vol.XV gestation. Forthis reason,the Qur'anuses a gradualapproachto change entrenched customs, beliefs, and practices, except in fundamental such as the belief in the unicity of God and the prophethood matters,102 of Muhammad(SAW). Obviously, absent these fundamentalbeliefs, the Qur'anicmessagewouldnot carryits properdivineweight. The Qur'an flatly prohibits behavior which conflicts with fundamentalmoral principles. For example, it prohibitsmurder,and more specifically, female infanticide.103The gradualistphilosophy of changewas appliedto lesser thoughquite importantmatters. The best known example relates to the prohibitionagainst drinkingwine in a it was imposed in stages.105A society which was used to drinking;104 less-knownexamplecomes fromthe areaof constitutionallaw. The Qur'an specified in a few verses only the fundamental constitutionalcharacteristicsof an Islamicstate, such as bay'ah (voting) and shurah (deliberation).106It left it up to the Islamic societies themselvesto flesh out this basic constitutionalstructurein accordance with their varying levels of social consciousness and political and constitutionalmaturity. The disparateresults are evident across the Muslimworld. But the Qur'andid not recognizeonly societal variationsin levels of consciousness and development, it also recognized individual differences. For this reason,its philosophyof gradualchange appliedto individualsas well. This is most evidentin the areaof ethics. The Qur'an describes various actions and words as "good" and This approachrecognizesthat not all humansare othersas "better."107 the same or behavior. For example,in the area of understanding capable of criminallaw, some Muslimsmay insist on the rule of "an eye for an eye" in determiningthe punishmentof a criminal. The Qur'an does indeed introducethis standardof justice.108 But, it continues to say repeatedly,that it is betterto forgive, and asks: How could we mortals Constitutionalism, supra n. 11, at 9-10. See also, Abd al-HamidMutawalli,Al-Islam 71-72 (Alexandria:Mansha'atal-Ma'arifn.d.). 102. See supran. 101. 103. Qur'an5:32 (statingthatif a personkills anotherunjustifiably,then it is as if thatperson murderedall of humanity);6:151, 17:33 ("Anddo not take life, which God has made sacred, exceptby way of justice and law.");17:31("Donot kill yourchildrenfor fearof poverty.");81:8 ("Godwill askparentsin the afterlife:'for whatsin was the femaleinfantburiedalive?"'). 104. Qur'an2:219, 4:43, 5:90. See short discussionin al-Hibri,Islamic Constitutionalism, supran. 11, at 10. 105. See supran. 104. 106. Qur'an48:18, 48:10, 60:12 (commentingon bay'as). Qur'an3:159, 42:38 (commenting on shurah). (Formoreon this, see articlereferredto in footnote94.) 107. Qur'an7:145, 39:18, 39:55,46:16. 108. Qur'an5:45. 37] MUSLIMWOMEN'SRIGHTS 57 expect forgivenessin the afterlife,when we are so unforgivingin this life?109 In other words, one could insist on one's right to punish a perpetratorof a crime,but it is betterto transcendthis mode of thinking, if one can, and forgive. Clearlythen, thereare variouslevels of being a good Muslim; some of which are better than others. The better ones tend to requirehigherconsciousness,deepermoral insights,and greater toleranceof humanfrailty. In addressing the patriarchaloppression of women and other groups,the Qur'anutilizes the gradualistapproachto changein both the societalandindividualarenas. Addressingthe Oppressionof Women The Qur'anandthe Prophetrepeatedlymentionslaves and women, exhortingMuslimsto treatthem well.110In his last speech,KhutbatalWadaa',the Prophethimself analogizedthe statusof women to that of powerless slaves, beseechingthe male audienceto treatthem kindly.11 Unfortunately,given theirpatriarchalblinders,many Muslimsperceived such prescriptive statements as sanctioning the underlying social conditions themselves. This fallacious reasoning was uncritically 109. Qur'an2:178, 4:149, 7:199, 24:22, 42:40. For a discussionof Islamiccriminallaw and the concept of forgiveness,see Azizah Y. al-Hibri, The Muslim Perspectiveon the ClergyPenitentPrivilege,29 Loy. L.A. L. Rev. 1723-1732,especially 1728-1729(1996) [hereinafteralHibri,MuslimPerspective]. 110. See e.g. Qur'an49:13, 24:33, 8:70. See also IbnMajah,supra n. 89, at vol. 2, 1216-1217 (quotingthe Prophetas saying that slaves are "yourbrothersunderyour control, feed them of what you eat, dress them of what you wear, and do not charge them with tasks beyond their capabilities.If you do, thenhelp them.").See infran. 111 for hadithsrelatingto women. 111. Sahih al-Bukhari,supra n. 87, at vol. 3, 262 (quotingthe Prophetas admonishinghis male audience:"Letnot one of you whip his wife like a slave, then have sexual intercoursewith her at the end of the day.");Ibn Hisham,supra n. 64, at vol. 4, 604 (quotingthe Prophet,in his Khutbatal-Wadaa'as sayingto men:"Be good to women;for they arepowerlesscaptives(awan) in yourhouseholds. You took themin God's trust,andlegitimatedyoursexualrelationswith the Word of God, so come to your senses people, and hear my words ...," also providingthe meaningfor the word "'awan");Abu Ja'faral-Tabari,Jami' al-Bayanfi Tafsiral-Qur'an vol. 4, 212 (9th Cent. repr., Beirut: Dar al-Ma'rifah1978) [hereinafteral-Tabari,Jami' al-Bayan] (quotingthe samepassagequotedby IbnHisham). This passagecomes fromKhutbatal-Wadaa', and was also mentionedin Abu Ja'faral-Tabari,Tarikhal-Tabari vol. 2, 206 (9h Cent. repr., Beirut:Dar al-Kutubal-'Ilmiyyah1988) [hereinafteral-Tabari,Tarikhal-Tabari]. See supra n. 110, regardinga hadithon slaves; & infra n. 112, for anotherhadithon slaves. The Prophet recognizedthatthe statusof womenwas often no betterthanthatof slaves, a fact which reflected his deep concernfor women. Manyauthorshave pairedthe two categoriesin theirwritings. See e.g. 'Ala' al-Dinal-Kasani,KitabBada'i' al' Sana'i' fi Tartibal-Shara'i' vol. 2, 334 (12 Cent. repr.,Beirut:Dar al-Kutubal-'Ilmiyyah1986) [hereinafteral-Kasani](statingthat a husbandis entitledto punishhis wife as he does his slave). See also al-Hafizibn Kathir,Al-Bidayahwa alNihayahvol. 5, 148, 170, 202 (Maktabatal-Ma'arif,2d printingof a 14thCent.repr.,Beirut:1977) [hereinafteribn Kathir,Al-Bidayahwa al-Nihayah]. 58 JOURNALOF LAW& RELIGION [Vol. XV validated by existing social prejudices and resulted in centuries of and oppression. More importantly,it misunderstood misinterpretation and thus misconstruedthe basic Qur'anicphilosophyof gradualismby perpetratingthe status quo instead of trying to raise consciousness. So, it took over a thousandyears in some Muslim societies to prohibit slavery. We should not wait anotherthousandyears to recognize the rightsof women in Islam. It is importantto note, however,thatwhile some Muslim societies and individualsmisunderstoodthe full force of the Qur'anicmessage, otherswith a higherlevel of consciousnessdid not. For example,while in the past some Muslims kept slaves arguing that slavery must be acceptablesince it was referredto in the Qur'an,othersunderstoodthe ideal of Islamand freedtheirslaves to gain favorin God's eyes.12 It is also for this reason that while some Muslims continue to engage in polygamy,many pious male scholarshave refusedto marrymore than one woman for fear of violating God's express Qur'anicwarning that polygamousmen will be guiltyof injustice.113 Having raised the issue of polygamy, I must now addressit, and discuss the Qur'anicverse referringto it. It is a question of major concernfor many Muslimwomen, even in NorthAmerica. I shall then turnto anotherissue of concernto our community;namely that of wife abuse. PolygamyandIts CulturalEntrenchment The Qur'anwas revealed to a culture steeped in polygamy. In Jahiliyyah,men marriedmorethana hundredwomen at a time.114It was therefore unrealistic, given human nature, to prohibit polygamous behaviorabruptly. The Islamic approachto this situationas in other matterswas to limit the practiceseverely,designateavenues for ending of the ideal state of affairsthat it, andprovidea prescription/description excludesthe practice. 112. Fora discussionof the Qur'anicview of slavery,see Hassan,supran. 14, at vol. 1, 186192 (explains that the Qur'anrecognizedslavery only as a transitionalcondition and that it providedvariousmethodsfor its elimination;recountshadiththat all believers,whetherfree or enslaved,are siblings,andno Arabis betterthana non-Arabexcept to the extentof the former's piety). A variantof this hadithis mentionedin al-Tabari'saccountof Khutbatal-Wadaa'(The farewellspeechof the Prophet);TarikhAl-Tabari,supran. 111, at vol. 2, 206. See also Qur'an 49:13. Despitethis Qur'anicposition,slaverywas not abolishedfromall Muslimcountriesuntil earlierthis century,andonly afterthe international communitydenouncedthepractice. 113. Qur'an4:129. 114. See Sa'id al-Afaghani,Al-Islamwa al-Mar'ah21-29 (Damascus:TarrakiPress 1945);alHibri,IslamicHistory,in WomenandIslam209 (London:PergamonPress 1982). 37] MUSLIMWOMEN'SRIGHTS 59 The Qur'anicstatementon polygamy is more complex than some scholarsare willing to admit. For example,the permissionto marryup to four wives is premisedupon the possibility that orphanwomen may be oppressed.11The significanceof this conditionhas been overlooked by many scholars. Yet, it clearly links the permissionto marrymore than one woman to a specific situationand an obsolete practicewhich were both in existenceat the time of the Prophet. The Qur'anstatesthat if men fearedbeing unjusttowardsorphans,then these men may marry up to four wives so long as they treatthem equitablyand fairly.16 Yet the Qur'an states in the same chapter that it is not possible to be equitableand fair in these situations.117Although it is not possible to understandthis verse about polygamy in all its complexity without understandingfully the social practice it was revealed to avoid, one thing is neverthelessclear: the Qur'anexpressly states that polygamy results in injustice.18 Consequently,it is not an optimal way of arrangingmaritalrelations. For this reason,some pious men abandoned polygamy in the hope of reachinga higher state of maritaland human relations,namely the one describedin the Qur'an.119Othersopted for the minimal standard,despite its questionableapplicationto contexts broaderthanthose referredto in the revelation. Violence AgainstWomenandIts CulturalEntrenchment Anotherexampleof Qur'anicgradualismappearsin the verse most often quotedto justify violence againstwomen. It states that: "[a]s to those women on whose part you fear disloyalty and ill conduct, admonishthem (first), (next) refuse to sharetheir beds, (and last) beat them (lightly)."'20So, Let us examine this verse next, as well as the circumstancesof its revelation. The Jahiliyyah society was a rough desert society, plagued by tribalwars.'12 ManyJahiliyyahmen beat theirwives. They carriedthis practiceinto Islam and were so violent that the women complainedto the Prophet (SAW) about the situation.122Acting on his own, the 115. Qur'an4:3 (emphasisadded). 116. Id. 117. Qur'an4:129. 118. Id. 119. I personallyknow many sheikhs,some of whom are now deceased,who preferredto be monogamousratherthanrunthe riskof beingunjust. 120. Qur'an4:34. 121. Hassan,supran. 14, at vol. 1, 4-8, 52-61. 122. Nasr al-Din al-Baydawi,Tafsiral-Baydawi111 (19th Cent. repr.,n.p. Dar al-Fikr1982) (recountingthe story of a woman who came to the Prophetto complain about her abusive 60 JOURNALOF LAW& RELIGION [Vol. XV Prophet(SAW) prohibitedthe practiceby allowing the wife the rightto Thatvery evening, the men complainedloudly.124 qisas (retribution).123 came to the They Prophetandrevisitedthe issue, arguingthathis ruling allowedtheirwives to gainthe upperhand.'25 At that point, the Prophetsought and received a revelationwhich reflectedthe Qur'anicphilosophyof gradualism.The verse appearedto contradictthe Prophet.The Prophethimself statedwhen he receivedthe revelationthat "Muhammadwanted,but God did not want (to ordera flat ban on "hitting"one's wife)."126As we shall see later,however,the revelationsimply changedthe approachprescribedby the Prophetfor eradicatingwife abuse. It did not authorize wife abuse. It only introduceda transitorystage for change, while preservingthe Qur'anic view of idealmaritalrelations. rule in Islam, that"versesin the It is a well-knownjurisprudential each the other,"i.e., Qur'anexplain Qur'anis an integralwhole andthus and of the full proper meaning any verse cannot be understoodin isolation from otherverses in the rest of the Qur'an.127Relying on this fundamentaljurisprudential principleand the principlewhich assertsthe internal consistencyof the Qur'an, I now turn to a popular thorough verse in the Qur'anthatEarlyMuslimwomen at times insertedin their marriagecontracts.128The verse enjoins spouses to "live together in kindnessor leave each othercharitably."(Qur'an2:231) Based on this and otherverses in the Qur'an,Muslimjurists assertedthe principleof prohibition of harm among spouses (la dharar wala dhirar).'29 This principle still underliesmany provisionsin the modem personalstatus codes in Muslim countries.13 Additionally,a Muslim woman has the rightto takeherhusbandto courtor divorcehim for abusingher.131 husband). 123. Id. Formoreon the conceptof qisas, see al-Hibri,MuslimPerspective,supra n. 109, at 1727-1730. 124. Al-Tabari,Jami' al-Bayan,supran. 111, at vol. 5, 37; Ibn Majah,supran. 89, at vol. 1, 637. 125. Abu Dawudal-Sajistanial-Azdi,SunanAbi Dawud vol. 2, 252 (9thCent. repr.,Beirut: Daral-Jil 1988);IbnMajah,supran. 89, at vol. 1, 637. 126. Id. 127. Manna'al-Qattan,Mabahithfi 'Ulumal-Qur'an83-84 (Cairo:MaktabatWihbah1981); Badral-Din al-Zarkashi, Al-Burhanfi'Ulumal-Qur'anvol. 1, 35-50 (15thCent.repr.,Beirut:Dar al-Jil 1988). 128. Al-Tabari,supran. 111, at vol. 4, 215. 129. Zaidan,supran. 48, at vol. 7, 234-235. 130. See al-Hibri,Islam,supran. 13, at 13 (especiallyfootnotes58, 59 & relatedtext). 131. Id. See also Hassan Hassan Mansour,Al-Muhitfi Sharh Masa'il al-Ahwal alli al-Tiba'ahwa al-Nashrwa alShakhsiyyah213, 214 (Alexandria:al-Mu'assasahal-Wataniyyah Tawzi' 1998), Ahmad Ghandour,Al-Ahwal al-Shakhsijyahfi al-Tashri' al Islami at 234 (Kuwait: Jami'atal-KuwaitPress1972). 37] MUSLIMWOMEN'SRIGHTS 61 The Prophethimself denouncedrepeatedlyspousal abuse. On one occasion,he asked"Howcan one of you hit his wife like an animal,then he may embraceher?"132On another,he asked: "How can one of you whip his wife like a slave, and he is likely to sleep with her at the end of the day?"133 The Prophet(SAW) also echoed various Qur'anicdescriptionsof ideal maritalrelations,he told the men: "Thebest among you, are those who are best towardstheir wives."134He added, "and I am the best among you in that respect."135This statementis significantgiven the emphasisMuslimsplace on emulatingthe Prophet. He was gentle and kind to his wives and never raisedhis handagainstany of them.136He cut meat, took care of children, and sewed his shoes.137 Yet many Muslim men today forget these importantProphetic statements and examples, and limit their emulationof the Prophetto the style of his dressor his groominghabits. How do we reconcile all these facts, Qur'anicand prophetic,with the single Qur'anicverse that permits husbandsto "hit"their wives? How do we reconcilethe verse with the Prophet'scontinuedinsistence that husbands abstain from beating their wives? We do that by developing our insights further to gain a deeper understandingof Qur'anicmeaning. This is not a quickprocess. In this case, I shall take a few stepsalongthis roadto illustratemy point. THE PHILOSOPHYOF GRADUALISM AND VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN This is how the philosophyof gradualismwas used in the context of wife abuse. First, the Qur'an imposed on the husband various limitationsbefore he was permittedto resort to "hitting." He was requiredfirst to communicatewith his wife. The man must advise his wife aboutwhat he thinks she did wrong. This step gives the wife the chanceto respondand explain. If the misunderstanding is not resolved by communication,and the husband remains angry, he can separate himselfphysicallyfromhis wife for a while. 132. Sahihal-Bukhari,supran. 87, v. 4 at 57. 133. IbnMajah,supran. 89, at vol. 1, 638. 134. Ahmad Fa'ez, Dustur al-Usrafi Thilal al-Qur'an 161 (Beirut: Mu'assasatal-Risalah 1982)[hereinafter Fa'ez];IbnMajah,supran. 89, at vol. 1, 637. 135. See supran. 134. 136. IbnMajah,supran. 89, at vol. 1, 637. 137. Al-Ghazali,supra n. 33, at vol. 2, 354. See also Abu al-Hassanal-Nadawi,Al-SirahalNabawiyyah370 (Jeddah:Daral-Shuruq1977). 62 JOURNALOF LAW& RELIGION [Vol. XV Manyjuristsviewed these stepsas directedagainstthe wife, firstto "admonish"her, then to makeher "sufferfrom sexual abandonment."138 Clearly,they missed the fundamentalpoint. These prescribedstages are steps in anger managementfor an aggressive patriarchalmale who is likely to use force as a firstresort. Second, the Qur'an totally excludes righteous women from the scope of "hitting."'39It limits the possibility of "hitting"one's wife to extremecases in which nushuzis fearedby the husband.140 Accordingto majorjurists,nushuzis a wordthatin the contextof the verse appearsto refer to disloyalty towards the husband, dislike, disobedience, or discord.141This is a questionableinterpretation,because the Prophet himself appearsto have interpretedthe word "nushuz"differentlyin his Khutbatal-Wadaa'. Accordingto variousreports,the Prophetstatedin that address, "You [men] have rights against women, and they have rightsagainstyou. It is your rightthat they do not bring someone you dislike into your bed, or that they commit clear adultery (fahishah mubayyinah).If they do, then God has permittedyou to desertthem in bed, and [then] hit them lightly. If they stop, you are obliged to maintain them."142Unfortunately,some jurists have interpretedthe word fahishah mubayyanahbroadly to include disobeying one's husbandin less significantmatters.143 Others,however,have maintained thatit is simply adultery.'44We now turnto discuss this matterfurther, 138. Muhammadal-Dusuqi,Al-Usrahfi al-Tashri' al-Islami 164 (Doha: Dar al-Thaqafah 1995);AbuZahrah,al-Ahwal,supran. 29, at 163;Zaidan,supran. 48, at vol. 7, 313-314. 139. Qur'an4:34. 140. Id. 141. See e.g. Fa'ez, supra n. 134, at 157; al-Tabari,Jami' al-Bayan,supra n. 111, at 40. See also infran. 142. 142. Ibn Kathir,Al-Bidayahwa al-Nihayah,supra n. 111, at vol. 5, 148; al-Tabari,TarikhalTabari,supra n. 111, at vol. 2, 206. Otherreports,even by al-Tabariand Ibn Kathirthemselves to the conceptof nushuz,as presentedby the Prophetin his last addthe elementof "disobedience" address. See supra n. 111. See also Abu Zakaryyahal-Nawawi,Rawdatal-Talibinvol. 5, 177 (13thCent.repr.,Beirut:Dar al-Kutubal-'Ilmiyyah1992) [hereinafteral-Nawawi](arguingthat nushuz includes leaving the marital home without permission (but not for verbal abuse), abstainingfromsexualenjoyment,refusalto cohabit). 143. See e.g. Ibn Kathir,Al-Bidayahwa al-Nihayah,supra n. 111, at vol. 5, 202-203; alTabari,Jami' al-Bayan,supra n. 111, v. 4 at 212. These variationsare the resultof independent reportingof the addressby variousparties. The Qur'andoes requirethe husbandto stop "hitting the wife whenshe obeys,"but herobedienceis not directedto the husbandper se. Rather,it is a responseto his admonishment(wa'th) that she shun adulterousbehavior,a majorsin in Islam. Qur'an4:34. 144. See e.g. Ibn Manthur,Lisan al-'Arabvol. 10, 192 (2d printingof a 13th Cent. repr., Beirut: Dar Ihya' al-Turath al-'Arabi 1992) (quoting Ibn al-Athir as defining fahishah mubayyinah,occurringin the Prophet'slast address,as adultery;also statingthatothersdefine it as extremesin and as leaving the maritalhome withoutpermission);MuhammadMurtadhaalZabidi,Tajal-'Arusvol. 4, 331 (18thCent.repr.,Beirut:ManshuratDar Maktabatal-Hayatn.d.) 37] MUSLIMWOMEN'S RIGHTS 63 before answeringthe last questionin this discussion, namely "what is hitting?" Manyjuristsliving in patriarchalculturesbroadenedthe definition offahishah mubayyanahsignificantly.145By broadeningthis definition, they broadenedthe scope of instancesin which the husbandmay resort to "hitting." This is againstthe letter and spirit of the Qur'anwhich states that husbandsshould live with their wives in kindness or leave them charitably.'46Nevertheless,even if we were to accept the broader definitionoffahishah mubayyinah,the man still cannot"hit"his wife as a first resort;on this fact majorscholarsagree.147He is requiredto take If all these steps fail, then several steps before resortingto "hitting."148 the husbandmay fall backon his originalapproachof "hitting"his wife. The Qur'anicConceptof"hitting." But what does "hitting"mean in this case? Many scholars have pondered over the Qur'anicpermission to "hit" one's wife, and its attendantcircumstances.Giventheirdeep belief in Islamicjustice, they realized that they must look deeper into the Qur'an for a better understandingof this verse. So, they have interpretedthis passage, as they should, in light of the basic principlesgoverningmaritalrelations as articulatedby the Qur'anand the Prophet.149 This approachforced them to modify their common understandingof the act of marital "hitting." As a result, these jurists issued a series of limitations redefiningthe act of "hitting"itself.150For example, the man may not (quotingal-Jawhariand Ibn al-Athiras definingfahishah mubayyinahas adultery. Also stating that others defined it as extremesin, and that al-Shafi'i defined it as verbal abuse towardsthe wife's in-laws). 145. See supran. 141. 146. Qur'an2:229. 147. See e.g. al-Kasani,supran. 111, at 334 (the conjunction"and"in the revelationrequiresa sequenceof actions:firstadmonishingthe wife, thendesertingher bed, and finally"hitting"her); Wihbah al-Zuhayli, Al-Fiqh al-Islami wa Adillatuh vol. 9, 6855-6857 (Damascus: Dar al-Fikr 1997) [hereinafteral-Zuhayli].CfJal-Nawawi,supran. 128, at 177 (quotingal-Hinatiwho argues thatthe sequentialinterpretation is only one of threepossibleones). 148. The majorityof scholarstake the sequentialapproach. Accordingto them, the husband must first admonish,thendeserthis wife's bed, and finallyresortto hitting,althoughsome argue thatit is betternot to reachthe thirdstage at all. See text accompanyingsupra n. 138 aboutthe sequentialapproach.Al-Zuhayli,supran. 147, at vol. 9, 6857 arguesthatit is betterto threaten withoutactually"hitting."He baseshis view on the factthatthe Prophetneverhit a woman. 149. Majoramongthese is the Qur'anicverse which ordershusbandsto live with theirwives in kindness,or leave themcharitably.Qur'an2:229. Formore,see suprann. 66-68 & relatedtext. Forhadith,see also suprann. 121, 122, 133 & relatedtext. 150. Amongtheseis the sequentialinterpretation of the Qur'anicverse4:34. See supran. 147. Otherlimitationsare mentionedin al-Tabari,Jami' al-Bayan,supra n. I11, at vol. 5, 43-45 (the man may not hit the womanin the face, or hit hardor leave an (harmful)effect (dharbghayr 64 JOURNALOF LAW& RELIGION [Vol. XV hit his wife on the face.'51Furthermore, any "hitting"which is injurious or leaves a mark on the woman's body is actionable as a criminal if the husbandreachesthatunfortunatestage of offense.152Furthermore, wife he hit the only with somethingas gentle as a miswak "hitting," may (a soft small fibroustwig used as a toothbrushin the ArabPeninsula).'53 Finally,given the Qur'anicideal of maritalrelations,scholarsconcluded that a woman abusedphysically or verballyis entitledto divorce from her husband.154They lowered the bar significantlyon what counts as abuse. This position was developed in ancient Arabia, over fourteen hundredyearsago when the world viewed beatingone's wife as a right. Today, we can transcendthe earlier stages of human interactionand insist on the achievable Islamic maritalideal of tranquility,affection, andmercy. The Storyof Job An importantQur'anicprecedenton the issue of domesticviolence is foundin the storyof Job.'55When Job was being tested,his wife lost As a result,he took an oath to strikeher as her faithandblasphemed.156 was thus created: a Prophet should not A dilemma punishment.157 and in violent such unworthybehavior. In addition,a Prophet engage may not violate his oath. The divine solution to this dilemma is mubrahwala mu'ath.thir);al-Nawawi,supra n. 142, at vol. 5, 676-677 (Hittingmay not cause harmor be heavy,cannotbe on the face or othervulnerableareas. If it causesharm,the womanis entitledto damages.);al-Zuhayli,supra n. 147, v. 9 at 6856-6857 (citing medievaljurists as requiringthat the "hitting"does not cause fear in the wife, is not directedagainst the face or abdomen,andotherplacesthatcouldresultin seriousharm). 151. See supran. 150. 152. Abu al-BarakatAhmadal-Dardir,al-Sharhal-Saghirvol. 2, 512 (18thCent.repr.,Dar alMa'aref1972)(notingthatthe hittingmay not affectthe wife's bones or flesh. The husbandmay not resortto hittinghis wife if he knows that it would be useless. If the husbandhits his wife despitethis knowledge,she is entitledto divorceandretribution).See also al-Nawawi,supra n. 142, at vol. 5, 676-677 (hittingmay not cause harmor be heavy, cannotbe on the face or other vulnerableareas. If it causesharm,the womanis entitledto damages);al-Zuhaili,supran. 147, v. 4 at 6856-6857 (notingthat the Hanafiand Shafi'i schools of thoughtwould find the husband liableif he harmedhis wife. Hanbaliswouldnot.) 153. Al-Tabari,Jami' al-Bayan,supran. 111, at vol. 4, 44; Al-Nawawi,supran. 142, at vol. 5, 676-677 (hittingmay not cause harmor be heavy, cannotbe on the face or other vulnerable areas. If it causesharm,the womanis entitledto damages);al-Zuhayli,supran. 147, v. 4 at 6856. 154. Thisview has been adoptedby some personalstatuscodes such as JordanianCode ch. 12 art. 132,supran. 89; KuwaitiCodept. 1, bk. 1, tit. 3, ch. 1, art. 126,supran. 89. 155. Qur'an38:44. I would like to thankSana' Afandi,director,Karamah:Muslim Women Lawyersfor HumanRights,for pointingout the significanceof this story in understandingthe Qur'anicverse4:34. I also thankmy spouseAhmadal-Haidarfor sheddingvaluablelight on the significanceof the graduatedapproachin the sameverse. 156. Id. 157. Id. 37] MUSLIMWOMEN'SRIGHTS 65 expressedin a Qur'anicverse. It instructsthe Prophetto satisfy his oath to discipline his wife by "striking"her with a handful of grass (or basil).'58 The intent of this instructionwas to satisfy the promise without harming the wife. In this way, Prophet Job resolved his dilemma. The Qur'anicresolutionof Job's dilemmaoffers Muslim men a way to vent their frustrationswhich is consistent with all of the Qur'anicverses as well as the Prophetictradition. To summarize,the Qur'anicapproachto the problemof wife abuse is two-pronged: first, it provides a harmonious view of marital relationshipsbased on tranquility,affectionand mercy. These relations are in turnbased on a view of humanitythatis characterizedby mutual respect,equalityand dignity. Second,it develops a graduatedapproach to the problemof wife abuse,which is aimedat cabinningthe aggressive instinctsof the patriarchalmale, and re-channelinghis anger into more productive,or less destructive,outlets. In doing so, the Qur'an takes into account the very nature of human beings and the need for "a gestationperiod"for them to achievea higherstage of developmentand communication. It is worth noting at this point that some jurists have already concluded in light of the totality of the Qur'anicrevelation,that it is better for a man not to reach the last stage of "hitting"at all.'59 If conflict persists,anotherQur'anicverse prescribesmediation.160If that also fails, then the partiesshouldleave each other"charitably." CONCLUSION In the United States and Canada,there is a sincere attempt to overcome many deeply rooted prejudices and harmful behavioral patterns,includingwife abusewhich has been criminalized. American and CanadianMuslimswho are partof these societies have a historical opportunityto live up to the highest standardsof Islam, to be the best Muslims they can be. Given our level of social consciousness and development,we have no excuse to continueabidingby standardsmore suitableto those of Jahiliyyahor otherhighly patriarchalcultures. That 158. The word "dighth"in Qur'anicverse 38:44 means a handfulof grass or even basil. See Ibn'Abdin,Raddal-Muhtarvol. 5, 659 (19thCent.,repr.,Beirut:Dar al-Kutubal-'Ilmiyyah1994) (explainingthe meaningof "dighth"as a handfulof basil, also noting that others stated that it meant"ahandfulof grassor thinbranches").Cf. Ibn 'Abdinarguesthatthe use of basil by Jobis a special case, reflectingGod's mercy, and cannotbe generalizedto other women. Yet major medievalscholarsappearto implicitlydisagree. They limitedthe husbandto the use of a miswak or whatis similarto it 159. See n. 148. 160. Qur'an4:35. 66 JOURNALOF LAW& RELIGION time is gone hopefully forever. Furthermore, we have a duty towards the rest of the Muslim ummah (community) to lead by example. If we do that successfully, other Muslims in other countries, male and female, may be moved by our insights into a faster "gestation period" to reach the Qur'anic ideal of marital relations.