18 Yet in My Flesh 38 Stewardship of Technology
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18 Yet in My Flesh 38 Stewardship of Technology
June 2015 | www.thebanner.org Yet in My Flesh 38 Stewardship of Technology 18 22 Gender Justice and Reconciliation What’s a Pastor to Do? 32 A Bible for Those Who Can’t Read The Solar Talking Bible Easy to use Powerful speaker Solar powered Alone and abandoned, Sangam’s faith helps her persevere. When she would not turn from worshipping Jesus, Sangam was beaten and threatened by her husband and his family. Sixteen days after giving birth to her second child, her husband left her and put the children in an orphanage so they would not become Christians. Sangam was devastated. Ostracized by her community, she struggled for years. Being unable to read, her only comfort was what she learned in church on Sundays. God answered Sangam’s prayer when she was given a Talking Bible. Having access to God’s Word has removed the desperation and loneliness she once experienced— and has given her promise for the future. She hopes to one day be reunited with her children and introduce them to Jesus Christ through her Talking Bible. “Being able to listen to God’s Word has changed everything,” she said. Will you help us place more Talking Bibles with those struggling with persecution and in despair? Enhancing Trust Please give online at www.talkingbibles.org. www.TalkingBibles.ORG “Accredited for special offerings” Talking Bibles International • 419 East Grand Avenue, Escondido, CA 92025 Telephone: 855-55-BIBLE (855-552-4253) or 760-745-8105 Synod 2015 of the Christian Reformed Church will take place June 12-18 on the campus of Dordt College in Sioux Center, Iowa. Synod is an annual gathering of ministers and elders from every classis (region) of the Christian Reformed Church. The tasks of synod include responsibility for creeds, the Church Order, liturgical forms, hymnals, principles of worship, and moral/ethical positions. It also provides general oversight for ministries that are undertaken jointly by CRC churches. Synod 2015 will address topics ranging from church structure and the roles of elders and deacons to how the church responds to issues such as same-sex marriage, new ways of doing missions, the role of The Banner, and ways to help congregations engage in life-long discipleship. You can find the Agenda for Synod and other related documents online at crcna.org/synod. Printed copies of the agenda have been sent to each church. For News Before and during synod, subscribe to Synod News and the CRC News weekly email (crcna.org/newsand-views/crcnews). Or follow the CRCNA on Facebook or on Twitter (#crcsynod). Want to discuss the matters coming before Synod 2015? Join the conversation in the Synod section of The Network (network.crcna.org/ synod). If you have questions, please email us at synod@crcna.org or call us at 877-279-9994. crcna.org/synod crcna.org/synod COURAGE to think deeply to act justly to live fully “ I’m a strong believer that the food we eat affects our health. “[My Calvin education] has allowed me to realize that I can’t change everything. But I can make a small difference… and do little things to make things a little bit better— if not great. –Briella Cumings ’15, public health major You want to change the world. And you will. At Calvin, you’ll learn to work collaboratively with students and professors toward small, meaningful changes that impact big issues. Improve water filtration techniques for water in Kenya. Develop cancer therapy drugs that make treatment easier for patients. Learn to make lifestyle choices that demonstrate one of your highest callings—to love your neighbor as yourself, here and around the world. Explore what it means to think deeply, act justly and live fully at www.calvin.edu/go/courage. www.calvin.edu Calvin College admits students of any race, color and national or ethnic origin. Volume 150 | Number 06 | 2015 F e at u r e s 18 Yet in My Flesh The familiar solo got him thinking about time—God’s time—and eternity. by James Calvin Schaap 32 Unequally Yoked: What’s a Pastor to Do? S T U DY Q U E S T I O N S O N L I N E Should Christian pastors solemnize marriages of couples who are “unequally yoked”? by Henry Numan Departments Editorial: Wish You Were Here by Bob De Moor 6 I wish you could peek over my shoulder and see those who carry out our denominational work. Catch Your Breath: Psalms in the Night by Didy Prinzen 7 During long and sleepless nights, I rediscovered a treasure. July-August issue Synod 2015 Synod 2015 will be held on June 12-18 at Dordt College in Sioux Center, Iowa. Look for updated articles at thebanner. org, Facebook (TheBanner magazine) and Twitter (@crc banner) throughout synod. You can also follow synod via webcast and synod news office press releases, all of which can be accessed via the Synod 2015 website (crcna.org/synod). The July/August print issue will arrive in your mailbox a little later than usual so we can cover synod right up to the closing doxology. Our website will have fresh content posted throughout the summer. IMHO: ‘He’s Right Here’ by Monica Kronemeyer deRegt 8 What would happen if we included our children in the entire worship service instead of sending them out for Sunday school? Letters to the Editor 8 News: World Renew-U.S. Gets New Director 10 Frequently Asked Questions 21 Does climate change have anything to do with the church? Just for Kids: Summer Beach Fun by Christin Baker 30 Let’s go to the beach! Tuned In: Epic Summer Reads 34 Whether you are traveling far or staying close to home, these books will take you on a journey. Discipleship: Jump In by Linda Lugtigheid 37 God invites us to be part of his kingdom community. Reformed Matters: Stewardship of Technology by Kory Plockmeyer 38 Technology is a gift to be used in the service of God’s kingdom. S T U DY Q U E S T I O N S O N L I N E Punch Lines 47 Together doing moRe Gender Justice and Reconciliation by Adele Konyndyk 22 Cultural traditions associated with gender play a large role in the decisions parents make about their children. The View from Here: Do You Read the YALT Blog? by Steven Timmermans 26 www.thebanner.org | June 2015 | THE BANNER 5 Editorial The Magazine of the Christian Reformed Church M Wish You Were Here www.thebanner.org My work with The Banner is drawing to a close at the end of August. I hope to reserve my last editorial (July/August issue) for what may “pop” at Synod 2015. So let me take this opportunity to celebrate and thank from the bottom of my heart my colleagues, with whom I have had the privilege of working on the magazine, and, before that, for eight years with Faith Alive Christian Resources. I include the many, many dedicated folks from all the denominational agencies, ministries, boards, and committees with whom I have visioned, prayed, contemplated, planned, collaborated, negotiated, commiserated, and, yes, sometimes vituperated. I thank God for all of them. They have taught me so much and enriched and broadened my life’s journey in so many meaningful ways. It has been a real joy working with them in denominational ministry. I wish you were “here,” interacting physically or virtually, on a daily basis, with the staff and volunteers who lead and carry out our denominational work. Had you been able these years to peek over my shoulder, you would be amazed at the high level of dedication, giftedness, and servanthood shown by these folks. Their kindness. Their genuine desire to work together. Their enthusiasm. Their professionalism. And, most of all, their love for Jesus. I owe you, faithful CRC member, my thanks as well. Not only for your encouragement, advice, admonition, ideas, and article contributions, but also for your faithful financial giving that allows all these good folks to contribute so much to God’s mission in this world. We’re a tiny denomination, but God’s Spirit has blessed us with a very big heart and a significant reach that embraces our planet. I also wish you were “here” to see the way our denominational folks work together so well not in spite of, but because of, their diversity. No doubt we have a ways to go to be as inclusive as God wants us to be. Nevertheless, on a regular basis I have enjoyed the privilege of rubbing shoulders with African Americans and Dutch immigrants, Republicans and Democrats, “progressives” and “conservatives,” “Yanks” and “Canucks,” old earth and young earth creationists, the wealthy and the poor, the healthy and the hurting. God’s Spirit has endowed them all with sincerity, maturity, respect, and love. If we will follow their example, our congregations will be far better places. So to my colleagues here at The Banner, past and present, and the many with whom we collaborate, thanks so very, very much for your dedicated service. You rock! And to all with whom I’ve crossed paths at the denom level, bless you for your work. It’s stellar. And to you, dear reader, I extend my heartfelt thanks. You have made me more confident than ever that by “speaking the truth in love, we [will indeed] grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and knit together by every ligament with which it is equipped, as each part is working properly, promotes the body’s growth Bob De Moor is editor in building itself up in love” (Eph. 4:15-16, NRSV). of The Banner and pastor God bless you all. n of preaching and We’re a tiny denomination, but God’s Spirit has blessed us with a very big heart and a significant reach that embraces our planet. administration for West End CRC, Edmonton, Alberta. 6 THE BANNER | June 2015 | www.thebanner.org Bob De Moor Editor Judith Claire Hardy Associate Editor Gayla R. Postma News Editor Henry Hess Editor, Together Doing More Kristy Quist Tuned In Editor Dean R. 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Catch your breath Psalms in the Night A s I write this it is winter. The trees stand empty and quiet; they render no more rustling leaves or song of birds. Gone are their spring buds, their summer bloom, and their autumn glow. Dismantled, they stretch their naked arms to heaven. Beneath, in the frozen earth, lie their roots, asleep. I can identify with those trees. I have lived through my spring, summer, and fall. And like the trees, I live in winter now. A few years ago I began to lie awake at night because of extreme discomfort and a restless spirit. Hour after hour would pass without sleep. But during those dark nights I rediscovered a treasure. Decades after being buried deep in my consciousness, the psalms that I memorized for school on Monday mornings in Holland came to the surface again. I remembered every one of them, almost to the word. This was not of my own doing—no doubt it was the work of the Holy Spirit. In those long and sleepless nights when I could no longer find words to pray, I sang my prayers to God through the words of the psalms. What comfort they offered! I let them voice my laments, my grief, my petitions. And in those psalms I found solace, forgiveness, and assurance of eternal life. What I also found, and what challenged me, was the psalmists’ unchanging theme of praising God. In my house I have a drawer that holds a few Bibles and some small books of psalms in the Dutch language that I inherited from my parents. The odd time at night when I get stuck in a psalm, I rise and take my Dad’s little book of psalms out of that drawer and look up the forgotten line. Sometimes I read all the verses, even the ones that I didn’t learn. What richness they contain! Those psalms planted the first seeds of faith in my heart. And, wonder of wonders, even after I emigrated to Canada and sang for some 60 years beautiful hymns in the English language, God preserved in my mind these precious psalms. He knew there would come a time when I needed them. It is a miracle in my eyes. Winter is here. The trees are dormant. I too have arrived in winter. However, here is where the likeness ends. For I am still able to serve, worship, and praise my Maker. I praise him for guiding me safely through the seasons of my life. Deep below in the earth lie the trees’ roots. They will bring new life in the spring. The psalms in my heart are preparing me for a new life too—and an eternal spring! Until then I will continue to sing those precious psalms in the night. n Didy Prinzen lives with her husband in Durham Christian Homes in Whitby, Ontario. She is a member of Hebron CRC. Life is this simple: we are living in a world that is absolutely transparent and the divine is shining through it all the time. — t h omas m e rto n www.thebanner.org | June 2015 | THE BANNER 7 In My Humble Opinion ‘He’s Right Here’ IMHO What would it look like if we embraced kids’ presence and allowed their childlike faith to influence us? We were just getting to the part of the story where Jesus’ parents find him in the temple, when 4-year-old Chloe tapped me on the arm. I paused to let her speak, prepared for a possible story about her dog or the scrape on her knee—normal fare for 4-year-olds. Instead she leaned forward and whispered, “I know where Jesus is right now!” With knowing eyes, she tapped her finger over her heart. “He’s right here,” she said with utmost confidence. Teaching church school has opened my eyes and my heart to what Jesus meant when he said, “The kingdom of God belongs to such as these.” His Spirit is alive in these little beings who so readily accept him and who sing and dance his praises without inhibition. No wonder he didn’t want his disciples to send them away! Their joy is infectious, like laughter. Who hasn’t, at some point, clapped their otherwise still hands or raised otherwise lowered arms in response to a child’s worshipful actions? A little child shall lead them. . . . I have been asked if I miss being “in church” because of my involvement in children’s ministry. People are often surprised when I reply, “But I am in church!” 8 THE BANNER | June 2015 | www.thebanner.org I am not missing out. I am in the heart of God’s kingdom. Jesus is right here! Jesus made it abundantly clear how important children are in his kingdom; in fact, the Bible is full of stories of how children were instrumental in carrying out God’s plan on earth. So how can congregations do more to embrace these little kingdom-bearers the way Jesus modeled for us? What if we included children in the entire worship service instead of sending them to Sunday school while we praise and learn without them? Yes, it would require significant changes in how we do things. Picture an extended family gathering for dinner around one table—a little chaos, perhaps some tension, definitely messy, but with an overarching sense of unity. This is what I believe church and worship should look like as we feast together on the Bread of Life. Would Jesus want our covenant children to participate as we remember together what he did for us? I think he would. By including them, we would show them that they are a vital part of the family of God. And maybe we could even learn something from our children—important things like joy, expressiveness, simplicity, and candor. What would it look like if we embraced kids’ presence and allowed their childlike faith to influence us? I believe it would look like the kingdom of heaven. n Monica (Kronemeyer) deRegt is a freelance writer and the features editor for Christian Courier. She lives in Abbotsford, British Columbia, with her husband and three children. Always Reforming In response to the article “Always Reforming” (March 2015), I agree that we must be careful with the interpretation of God’s special revelation in Scripture and his general revelation in nature. However, I disagree that theologians have “a more perfect revelation of Scripture” than scientists do of nature. Scripture itself is God’s special revelation, but its interpretations can be in error. Since the fall, both scientists and theologians can be wrong with their interpretations. We agree that God’s holy Word is timeless in its authority and that God’s universe is absolutely consistent with it. The problem is that all of us humans cannot interpret these revelations without error. Our world needs more Christian young people in science, technology, engineering, mathematics, and medicine. —Jake Buurma San Jose, Calif. The great Reformational principle is “Scripture alone” (“Always Reforming”). Believers receive and interpret general revelation in the light of Scripture. In comparison with creation, “God makes himself known to us more clearly by his holy and divine Word” (Belgic Confession, Art. 2). We believe this written Word because “men moved by the Holy Spirit spoke from God” (Belgic, Art. 3). If the historicity of the Genesis account is denied, the divinity of Scripture—its “God-breathedness,” as 2 Timothy 3:16 puts it—is denied. Thus is lost Scripture’s authority, reliability, clarity, sufficiency, and unity. —Carmen Reitsma New Sharon, Iowa Miracles Thank you to Susan LaClear for her article “Miracles: God’s Not Supposed to Do Stuff Like That” (March 2015). I appreciated her humility as she shared how the church was surprised and encouraged by God’s healing intervention and grace. As a prayer leader in a local church, I also have watched as God has blessed us with miracles of healing. It reminds me of Psalm 115:3: “Our God is in heaven; he does whatever he pleases.” —John Parsons Winnipeg, Manitoba Trouble with Outrage Rebecca Warren hit the nail right on the head when she asks, “When did we become so mean?” (“The Trouble with Outrage,” March 2015). I realize that I am one of the guilty ones, and I am thankful that God is a forgiving, life-changing God. We have been members of the CRC for some 70 years. Our church folded when we had just 25 white-haired members left. We ended up joining the Nazarene Church. After attending this church for the past 12 years we feel so blessed that God has led us to this church. They are sinners like us but their love is genuine. Just to encourage you. Keep it up! —John Antonides Pentiction, British Columbia Beggar to Brother “From Beggar to Brother” (March 2015) reminded me of my careless attitude toward the poor and hurting. By your example I too will reach out to the empty cups that need filling with the love of Christ. Thank you, Lindsay. You filled my cup. —Don Van Vuren Orland Park, Ill. Under New Leadership In the News article “Under New Leadership: Christian Higher Education in the CRC” (March 2015), the declining loyalty to Christian higher education is lamented. One does not need to look too far to see why. A brief survey of the financial aid portions of the schools’ websites gives tuition and fees for the 2014 school year: Calvin, $39,120; Dordt, $35,055; Trinity, $36,055. It seems obvious that while we are trying to convince students to invest in God’s calling for their life by pursuing higher education, we also ask that they make financial commitments that most young adults cannot and should not be making. —Brian Vander Woude Lynden, Wash. Suitable for Framing I am going to keep page 38 of the March issue (“And God Said Softly, ‘Music’,” March 2015). I love David Schelhaas’s poem. It is fun and truthy. Your staff put it against an aqua and white birch background, with birds. Suitable for framing—and I will! —Dot Besteman Spring Lake, Mich. poEM And God Said Softly, “Music” It must have been early in the morning of the fourth day that God in the pre-dawn, deep-blue-blackness whispered to himself, “Music,” though it wasn’t the English word, music, English not yet existing, nor for that matter any other earth language. God said “Music” softly in God language, as he imagined all those birds at dawn— though why it had to be birds that sang and not, say, rodents or cats or large non-human mammals—I don’t know. (Blue whales, of course, sing and have actually made a best-selling album, still it’s birds that are the earth’s primary singers—they do it for a living, so to speak.) But he must have heard in his mind’s ear all those birds waking up, breaking the silence with their first hesitant chirps and cheeps, trills and gurgles, then gradually gaining confidence and soaring into songs of dawn. What a good idea, music, maybe his best creation though it’s hard to pick one best thing, humans being a pretty good idea, in spite of the fall, and marriage and sex, and all the tasty foods, and language, all languages, but especially English—and here I know my bias is showing— English being my native language and the only one I speak. But back to music. I suspect it was birds who planted in humans the notion that they could sing, and then pretty soon Jubal was tinkering with strings and whistles and not long after that in God time, I stood in the Chorus of The Siouxland Oratorio singing with others the great choruses of Handel’s Messiah. He knew what he was doing—I mean God, not Handel—though Handel certainly did all right and so did the Chorus and Orchestra— but we’re all just birds, really, all of us warbling as best we can in praise of the Creator, who back in the darkness of pre-creation thought how nice it would be to hear his creation sing. And perhaps he also thought then how much his creatures might be comforted by the songs they sang to him. I’ll bet he did. n Reprinted from Illuminated Manuscript (2012) with permission of Dordt College Press. David Schelhaas is a retired Dordt College English professor and a member of Covenant CRC, Sioux Center, Iowa. This poem is from his collection of poems titled Illuminated Manuscript, available from Dordt College Press. 38 THE BANNER | March 2015 | www.thebanner.org Relationships In the FAQ (“Relationships,” Feb. 2015), Judy Cook responds to a reader who asks what she can do about her husband who yells and throws things. She is spot on by affirming that every person has a right to a home that is safe and secure. However, I believe she has not addressed the wife’s specific question “What can I do about my husband?” Ms. Cook gives little effort to addressing how she can help him get help. Her husband says he does not know what comes over him. That is the first and most important step to change. Too often men do not understand their anger, nor do they know that there is help to deal with it in a healthier manner. Perhaps this can be explored in a future article. —Jon Masselink Guelph, Ontario Comfort Reading the Word and in solitude welcoming the Word to dwell inside me becomes “my comfort,” peace . . . each time I do (“My Only Comfort—Really?” Feb. 2015). —Conrad Douma Dallas, Ore. Compliments and Thanks This morning I looked at The Banner sitting open as I was going to read something else, but I saw the article to which it was open was by Rev. Victor Ko, and I knew I should read it. I was uplifted and encouraged by “Making Disciples” (Jan. 2015), as I have been by his work in the past. Please thank him for me. I will miss having Rev. Bob at the helm, too. My warmest thanks to him for his work. —Kathryn Waldyke Makanda, Ill. I am legally blind and have 30 percent of my vision left. I live alone and The Banner [on tape] is a welcome guest. Thank you. —A. Brouwer Grand Rapids, Mich. MORE ONL INE www.thebanner.org | June 2015 | THE BANNER 9 news Gayla R. 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Christian School, where she has worked since 1993 and has been superintendent since 2010. She said her leadership style is based on the servant leadership of Jesus. “Sometimes you have to just dig in and do the work, like washing the disciples’ feet. Other times you have to go up on the mountain and speak. Other times you’re walking alongside people and being very relational,” she said. “And sometimes people fall asleep on the job. You ask them to stay awake and do something, and they haven’t done it. You have to deal with that in the quiet places and help them grow.” Bremer-Bennett told the trustees that her life has included many adoptions, starting from when she was adopted at 3 months of age by Paul and Jackie Bremer through Bethany Christian Services. She spent most of her childhood in West Michigan because her father worked at Reformed Bible College (now Kuyper College). She said that when she was a young child, her mother explained to her that she was in a forever family, likening it to being adopted into God’s family. “That’s when I accepted Jesus,” she said. 10 THE BANNER | June 2015 | www.thebanner.org Gayla R. Postma News Correspondents For correspondents’ email addresses, see www.thebanner.org. Carol Bremer-Bennett After graduating from Calvin College, she headed to New Mexico to explore her Navajo heritage. “I was running away from God,” she said, “but it turned out I was running straight into his arms. I felt like this was a blessing, but after three weeks, I felt I didn’t fit. I could play Dutch bingo but didn’t know Navajo. Through some wonderful Christians, a Navajo leader adopted me in a ceremony as his sister. I’m a beloved child of God. That’s my true identity.” Adoptions have also played a large role in her family. Five of her six children are adopted. She and husband Theo BremerBennett have three children of Navajo descent and three of Ethiopian descent. They range in age from 7 to 28. Bremer-Bennett said that her Western education shapes how she thinks, but she feels like a Navajo in her heart. “I’ve learned to listen and pull out the wisdom of the quietest person in the room,” she said. Bremer-Bennett is an educator by training, with an M.A. in educational leadership from Western New Mexico University in Gallup. She has served on the Calvin College Board of Trustees and served as a deacon. She and her family are members of Bethany CRC in Gallup, N.M. She admitted to the trustees that she is a little scared. “Do I have the ability to do this? At one level, I think I do,” she said. “But I think what’s more important is availability. It is not about my abilities but my availability to serve God.” Her appointment will now go to Synod 2015 for ratification. —Gayla R. Postma The Banner Garners 17 Press Awards The Banner was honored by both the Evangelical Press Association (EPA) and the Associated Church Press (ACP) for work published in 2014. Awards from the ACP included the following: Award of Excellence Coverage of Synod 2014, Gayla R. Postma, editor Award winning Banner cover and some of the awards Awards from the EPA included the following Awards of Merit “Leaving Home: Jesus’ Exile Experience” by Mariano Avila The Annual Report, Henry Hess, editor; Dean Heetderks, design Award of Merit The Banner for overall denominational magazine Honorable Mentions “We Need Not Fear the Dinosaur” by Jake Buurma “It’s All About the Call” by Gayla R. Postma “Tuned In,” Kristy Quist, editor “The Scandal of the Old Testament God” by Amanda Benckhuysen Magazine cover: “We Need Not Fear the Dinosaur,” Frank Gutbrod, designer Publication Website: thebanner.org, Dean Heetderks, art director Third Place “Bowing but Not Scraping” by Leonard Vander Zee “Winter Grace” by Joyce Kane “Leaving Home: Jesus’ Exile Experience” by Mariano Avila “An Advent Prayer” by John Terpstra “Should Christians Carry” for art by Frank Gutbrod, and fifth place for typography “Tuned In,” Kristy Quist, editor Bosma Charity Gets Official Status Nearly two years after the disappearance and murder of Tim Bosma, the charity his wife set up to honor him announced it has obtained official charitable status in Hamilton, Ont. Sharlene Bosma set up Tim’s Tribute to help other families of homicide victims, especially those who may not have an existing community of support. When Tim died, Sharlene received much support from Ancaster (Ont.) Christian Reformed Church, where they were members. “When something happens, the people in the church just step up,” said Tim’s sister, Michelle DenBak. “But not everyone has that [support], so this provides an opportunity for those people.” DenBak, a member of Covenant CRC in nearby St. Catharines, serves as treasurer on the volunteer leadership team of Tim’s Tribute. Sharlene is the charity’s chair, and Tim’s friend Brad Bootsma is secretary. Bootsma and Tim’s parents also attend Ancaster CRC. Tim’s Tribute helps families in financial need, receiving applications through its website and through referrals from Hamilton Police Victim Services. But it has expanded its original goal to also help survivors cope with the anxiety, depression, and other mental health difficulties following a trauma. Sharlene and other family members benefited from that kind of mental health support. The program, called The Healing Tree, is a 12-week group program where survivors can share their stories and work through their grief and anger with the facilitation of a psychologist. DenBak said the connection made with other families walking through the same kinds of experiences also helps participants know what to expect when their loved one’s case goes to trial. Tim’s Tribute leadership team: (Front row, l-r) Rosy Evered, Sharlene Bosma, Brad Bootsma; (back row, l-r) Michelle DenBak, Julie Cowell, Donna Dixon, Robyn Stahls. In May 2013, Tim Bosma left with two men to test drive the truck he was trying to sell. He never returned. A week later, police found his body. The two men have been charged with firstdegree murder and are scheduled to be tried in January 2016. Tim’s Tribute has raised about $65,000 from individual donors and several charitable events, including an annual golf tournament. —Alissa Vernon www.thebanner.org | June 2015 | THE BANNER 11 news Denomination and Congregations Challenged to Build Stronger Support for Youth Ministry T he Christian Reformed Church’s fledgling Faith Formation M inistries (FFM) convened a two-day consultation in April in Chicago with 25 key youth ministry leaders from around the denomination that resulted in all participants signing what they are calling the “Chicago Covenant.” The youth ministry leaders are committed to helping the denomination cultivate a shared vocabulary and theology for youth ministry and to continue working on a denominational youth strategy. The covenant also calls on denominational leaders and congregations to develop support structures that will help both paid and volunteer youth ministry leaders flourish. It calls on leaders at both local and classical levels to promote stronger youth ministry within the context of intergenerational faith formation. Syd Hielema is the team leader of FFM. He said the ideas in the Chicago Covenant are not new. “What is new is a vocabulary and theology of discipleship and youth ministry that is moving from the fringe to the mainstream.” Hielema said what is also new is the corporate character of the effort to build better support structures for youth ministry. “During the past generation the denomination has become more and more congregationalist. As part of this trajectory, every congregation has been developing its own ways of doing youth ministry,” he said. As a result, there is a tremendous variety of job titles among people in youth ministry, and many youth Twenty-five youth ministry leaders gathered in Chicago for two days in April. ministry leaders are functioning as “lone rangers.” H ielema said that those involved in youth ministry have largely operated on the margins, outside of church structures. The Chicago group articulated some of the dilemmas facing the denomination with respect to youth ministry even as churches struggle to hang on to their youth and young adults. An Appendix to the covenant notes that “youth ministry matters are easily shut out of significant decision-making processes at the congregational, classical, and synodical levels.” It noted that too many volunteer youth leaders are stretched thin, and paid youth leaders have sometimes experienced employment abuses. Paid youth workers struggle to find their place and position within a church order that 12 THE BANNER | June 2015 | www.thebanner.org assumes that churches are led by ordained clergy. Additionally, youth ministry in the CRC has historically been seconded to Dynamic Youth Ministries (Cadets, GEMS, and Youth Unlimited), even though that organization is not accountable under the umbrella of the Christian Reformed Church. Hielema noted that for the first time in the history of the CRC, there are denominational staff dedicated to supporting youth ministry at the congregational level. He also noted that while the churches are looking for leadership for youth ministry, “the church’s systems and defaults want to keep this kind of leadership safely parked at the margins.” The event in Chicago was organized by staff from FFM and Jeff Kruithof, director of Youth Unlimited. Hielema said that the meeting came at a kairos moment in the life of the CRC: a time when FFM is being launched, Canadian CRCs have launched a youth ministry pilot project, and Youth Unlimited is seeking greater collaborations. Hielema said the challenge to denominational leaders and churches contained in the covenant is not a power grab. “It’s a way of saying, ‘We’re all in this together.’ [The Chicago consultation] is a first attempt to make this shift into more of a coherent movement with a vocabulary, a theology, and a support community, and a commitment to work toward infrastructures for longterm sustainability.” —Gayla R. Postma Spiderman buys a “Story of Jesus Christ” comic from Jeremy Williamson, who is dressed as the apostle Paul. Witnessing at Comic-Con Only at a Comic-Con festival are you likely to find Superman hanging out with the apostle Paul. The apostle, aka Jeremy Williamson, a member of Medicine Hat (Alta.) Christian Reformed Church, returned from the recent four-day Calgary Comic & Entertainment Expo exhausted but exhilarated. Comic-Con, as the Expo is also called, features the best and latest in science fiction, video games, comic books, fantasy, animation, and more. It’s the second-largest convention of its kind in Canada and the fourth-largest in North America. Among the 102,000 who attended this year were numerous celebrities and costumed fans seeking autographs and photographs. In the midst of such a crowd, Williamson and other volunteers from Christian Reformed churches in southern Alberta aspired to be witnesses for Christ. Williamson, who started developing video games in high school, is well connected online and familiar with what he admits is a subculture. He believes that what most In Memoriam individuals are looking for in television shows, comic books, and the like, is a hero. “They see a hero in Superman. I want them to know Jesus is the true Superhero and true Savior. Our aim is to share the gospel while relating it to something many of them enjoy—comics.” Williamson and the other volunteers engaged “geeks” in conversation and sold Action Bibles and Action New Testaments. They also handed out “The Story of Jesus Christ” tracts from The Action Bible. Action Bibles look like comics and are illustrated by renowned comic book artist Sergio Cariello. The Comic-Con outreach is a partnership between Medicine Hat CRC and Calgary’s Maranatha CRC, with support from the local Home Missions committee and private donors. Other churches provided volunteers and prayer support. “It was a marvelous success,” Williamson said. “On Thursday, a man came up to the table and said, ‘This is great. This is really important. A lot of people are praying for you.’ He then left. I didn’t even have a chance to find out who he was.” “We interacted with thousands of people,” Williamson continued. “Our table was in the actors’ hall and people were funneled by us the whole weekend. You could describe it as a river of people.” A bonus for Williamson was having his photograph taken with Harold Perrineau, the actor who played Dawson in the television series Lost. “Lots of actors charge for photos and some don’t do photos at all, but Perrineau was willing.” After the photo, Perrineau joked that he’d never had his photo taken with the apostle Paul. Williamson is already making plans to go back to the next Comic-Con Expo. —Janet A. Greidanus Jerry An Appointed Chinese Ministry Leader for Back to God Ministries International Jerry An was recently appointed Chinese Ministry Team Leader for Back to God Ministries International, the media ministry arm of the Christian Reformed Church. An will succeed Rev. Jimmy Lin, who filled the role for nearly 25 years. An was appointed Chinese ministry program director in 2013. In his new role, he will oversee the Chinese ministry staff, supervising the production of mobile apps and social media platforms connected to the Chinese ministry. In a press release, An noted the many challenges facing the team in spreadJerry An ing the gospel in China. Originally from Hebei, China, An moved to the United States in 1998. He subsequently earned his MBA from Azusa Pacific University in Southern California and is working toward his M.Div. from Calvin Theological Seminary in Grand Rapids, Mich. He was recently called by Orland Park Christian Reformed Church as a commissioned pastor. —Gayla R. Postma Rev. Sung Yong Jin 1967 -2015 Rev. Sung Yong Jin, 48, was a loving pastor and a faithful friend to many church members and people in the community. Born into a Christian family, he followed his parents’ devotion to Christ despite the influences of Shamanism in his extended family. Jin graduated from Chong Shin Seminary in Korea and studied at Dallas Baptist University. He earned a D.Min. in 2008 from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. Jin arrived in the United States in 1994 with big dreams, working nights while serving as a pastor and studying during the day. In 2002 he planted Sam Il Korean Church, now called Dallas Woori Reformed Church, where he served until his death. A younger colleague from his neighborhood said that Rev. Jin was deeply devoted to the Lord, his family, and friends. He passed away on April 12 after a year of illness. Jin is survived by his wife, Choon Sook, and their son, Michael (Won). —Jonathan Kim Further information on recently deceased ministers is available each year in the front pages of the Christian Reformed Church’s annual Yearbook and on The Banner’s website. www.thebanner.org | June 2015 | THE BANNER 13 news What to Watch for at Synod 2015 Delegates to Synod 2015 (the annual leadership meeting of the Christian Reformed Church) will have plenty to deliberate on for a week in June: from church structure to homosexuality and from representation of deacons to the underrepresentation of women at synod. For a second year, synod will also consider items related to The Banner. The 2015 Agenda for Synod is available online; print copies were sent to each church. Two Task Force Reports The reports and recommendations of two task forces will be the headliners. Reports from the Task Force Reviewing Structure and Culture and the Task Force to Study the Offices of Elder and Deacon have appeared on synod agendas for the past several years, but this year both task forces are to make their final report. Talk of church structure may be sleep-inducing for many delegates, and it isn’t a topic that tends to stir the hearts of many people in the pew. But the Task Force Reviewing Structure and Culture, appointed by Synod 2011, is making sweeping recommendations that, if adopted, would change how the denominational agencies will be governed, as well as recommendations that could lead to changes in how classes and synod itself oper- ate. The task force is recommending changing the current 30-member Board of Trustees, which acts on behalf of synod, to a 60-member Council of Delegates. The boards of Back to God Ministries International, Christian Reformed Home Missions, and Christian Reformed World Missions would become subcommittees of a global missions committee that reports to the Council. The report from the Task Force to Study the Offices of Elders and Deacons will probably resonate more with delegates, if for no other reason than that half of them are elders, and many have also served as deacons. If the recommendations of this task force are accepted, deacons will be delegates to classis (regional groups of churches) and to synod, starting next year. However, there are several overtures (requests) and communications about this report, some urging synod to adopt it, others requesting revisions or delays, and one asking that the recommendations be rejected. Issues Related to Homosexuality Homosexuality and how the CRC deals with it will be part of several discussions. The Committee to Provide Pastoral Guidance re Same-Sex Marriage, appointed in 14 THE BANNER | June 2015 | www.thebanner.org 2013, will present its interim report. It is not expected to make recommendations until 2016, but Classis Hamilton is raising concerns about the membership of that committee. Classis Minnkota wants Synod 2015 to instruct the consistories of two churches in Grand Rapids, Mich., to exercise church discipline with respect to those in their congregations who are “publicly advocating homosexual practice” through their membership in All One Body, a group that promotes full participation in the church of all Christians, including those who are in monogamous, committed same-sex relationships. Minnkota also wants the consistories of those churches admonished for hosting meetings of the group (The Banner, Nov. 2014, p. 14). In addition, homosexuality will be the subtext in any discussion about the CRC’s relationship with the Protestant Church in the Netherlands (PCN). That relationship has been strained for many years, in no small part due to the fact that some PCN churches ordain practicing homosexuals. Last year, Synod 2014 voted to return to full ecclesiastical fellowship—the closest form of ecumenical relationships—with the PCN (The Banner, July 2014, p. 45). Two overtures are protesting that change. The executive director’s office, which is in charge of preparing the Agenda, took the unusual step of including a note in the Agenda informing readers that the overtures appear to present no new and sufficient reasons to reopen the issue as required by Church Order Article 31, and that Synod 2015 will first have to decide whether reconsideration of the issue is warranted. One of the overtures does note that when the issue came before Synod 2014, it was after the printed Agenda had been published, so churches did not have sufficient time to study or respond to the recommendation that came from the denomination’s Ecumenical and Interfaith Relations Committee. Female Delegates Since 2008, the first year women were allowed to be delegates to synod, the percentage of female delegates has not risen above 10 percent. Last year’s contingent was the lowest yet at 13 women, or 7 percent. One classis is asking synod to appoint female advisors to synod, patterned after the practice of appointing ethnic advisors. When the number of delegates of ethnic minorities does not reach 25 (based on a three-year average), ethnic advisors are appointed to Toolbox Ministry Funds Mechanical Work Locally and Globally The Litner family understands that missionaries require tools to dig wells, renovate schools, fix vehicles, and more. So Eric and Marli and daughter Malori, members of Christ Community (Christian Reformed) Church of Tualatin, Ore., founded The Toolbox Fund. The fund financially supports and encourages leaders who are training people in mechanical skills. “We concentrate on construction, carpentry, and mechanical projects and needs,” explained Marli. Part of the work is gathering a knowledgeable group of mechanics to help. The Litners began The Toolbox Fund Eric, Marli, and daughter Malori Litner founded by fundraising and partnering with other The Toolbox Fund. churches, supporting local and global outreach projects. Locally, one of the projects is building a small building on the church grounds to provide space where volunteers can distribute surplus from the community garden and do lawn mower tune-ups. “These are all ways to grow a relationship with the surrounding community,” Eric said. The Litners were inspired to create The Toolbox Fund through their friendship with Charles Wirrell, a missionary who unexpectedly passed away during routine surgery in May 2014. Charles and his wife, Petra, served in both Guatemala and Sierra Leone. They were supported by Christ Community Church and other Christian Reformed churches. Much of Wirrell’s work on the mission field was maintenance and construction. “Charles just seemed to know how to triage things and figure out what to do, and in what order, without much effort,” said Eric. The Litners see their ministry as a way to continue Charles’s work. “[Charles and Petra] taught values along with basic skills,” Marli said. “Their goal was not to create dependence on missionary aid but to instill hope and the self-worth of knowing God’s love in personal and meaningful ways.” —Amy Toornstra synod. Classis Alberta South/Saskatchewan would like female advisors to be appointed whenever there are fewer than 25 women delegated to synod. Religious Persecution, The Banner, and More The Committee to Study Religious Persecution and Liberty, appointed in 2013, will give Synod 2015 an update of its work. Its report in the Synod 2015 Agenda gives a preview of what will come before Synod 2016 when it presents its final report and recommendations. The Banner will get its share of attention from Synod 2015. After last year’s apology to synod from editor Rev. Bob De Moor and consternation expressed by some delegates about Banner content, De Moor will again be at the podium, this time to be recognized for his significant contributions to the life of the denomination. He will retire from The Banner in August 2015. Delegates will also consider revisions to The Banner’s mandate and decide on the process for the search for a new editor. The proposed unification of Home Missions and World Missions is not part of the official Agenda, but if the boards of those two mission agencies decide at their spring meetings to move forward with the process, Synod 2015 will no doubt be asked for its blessing to pursue that direction. (See “Directors Explain Agency Unification Proposal,” The Banner, April 2015, p. 12.) A close reading of the Agenda shows that there are reports from two new ministries this year. Worship Ministries and Faith Formation Ministries are both making their synod debut. Both carry on part of the work that was previously done through Faith Alive Christian Resources, the publications ministry of the Christian Reformed Church. Delegates will convene for Synod 2015 at Dordt College in Sioux Center, Iowa, from June 12-18. The Banner will post articles on its website throughout the week and keep readers updated via Twitter and Facebook. There will also be a live webcast and press releases from CRC Communications. The July/August 2015 issue of The Banner will contain a roundup of news from Synod 2015. —Gayla R. Postma In Memoriam Rev. Jin Phil (James) Huh 1959 – 2015 Rev. Jin Phil (James) Huh, 56, devoted his life to missions, service, church planting, and teaching around the world. Huh spent 11 years in missions in the Philippines, where he started a seminary and planted a church. He served as a campus pastor in Davao City on the island of Mindanao. He was known there as a good teacher and passionate preacher. Illness caused him to return to the United States in 2001. He served as general secretary for the Institute for Asian Mission and taught at Bethesda University and Chongshin University in southern California. In 2008, he planted All Nations Christian Reformed Church in Bakersfield, Calif. In 2011, he finished his Ph.D. at Fuller Theological Seminary in Pasadena. Huh will be remembered most for his Christ-like demeanor and as a devoted mission pioneer. At his last Thanksgiving Day family gathering, he confessed that “even [though] I feel limited I again feel God’s grace is big. I realize my limitations more and I trust [that] God [is] closer.” He is survived by his wife, Youngsoon, and three children. —Jonathan Kim www.thebanner.org | June 2015 | THE BANNER 15 news Iowa Church Helps Inmates Send Their Love to Family and Friends Prison inmates can communicate their love and concern from prison to their families and friends, thanks to a greeting card ministry by New Life Prison Community Church in Newton, Iowa, dedicated to the men who are incarcerated in the Newton Correctional Facility. New Life, which already holds Bible studies and prayer groups with Newton inmates, took seriously a suggestion from the prison chaplain to expand their ministry. Upwards of 200 inmates show up once a month in the prison chapel to select up to four greeting cards, which they can then send out to their families and friends. Pastor Rick Admiraal purchases Dayspring cards for all occasions from American Rehabilitation Ministries at minimal cost. He distributes them with help from the prison chaplain’s assistant and a few select inmates. The cards are available to inmates who are not in solitary confinement and who have money in their accounts to pay for postage. One prisoner recently selected three Mother’s Day cards—for his wife, his sister, and his daughter. He explained that this is a beautiful ministry because “by sending a card, you let people know that you’re in here thinking about them. It shows that you really do love them.” Admiraal says the prison officials are quite supportive of the card ministry and recently approached him to expand it to the minimum security prison as well. New Life is an emerging congregation that meets in the prison. It is supported by various churches, individuals, and Classis Central Plains (the regional group of churches). Admiraal is called to the ministry by Calvary Christian Reformed Church in Pella, Iowa. —Anita Ensing Beem 16 THE BANNER | June 2015 | www.thebanner.org Wisconsin Church Digs Deep for Clean Water People are familiar with the idea of raising funds for clean water, but what about a well drilling machine? It may seem unusual, but this God-sized challenge to raise $75,000 for a well-digger was embraced by the members of Brookfield (Wis.) Christian Reformed Church. It started as part of a Generous Church effort and grew because of the congregation’s ambition and relationships with strategic partners. After learning about the lack of clean water in Mozambique and the cost to drill wells, Brookfield CRC set their sights on raising enough money for a small drill, similar to one used by many nonprofits throughout Africa. But they had just three months to collect the $75,000 needed. “People rallied,” said Rev. Peter Verhulst. “Children set up lemonade stands and collected aluminum cans. Small groups held garage sales. Individuals donated their tips and lunch per diems for three months. Yard signs were created and displayed throughout Noteworthy Kurt Dykstra Sylvia Daining the area. The church also held a ‘water-walk’ after church one Sunday.” At the end of the three months, the church had raised about $100,000. And while God had indeed blessed their efforts, there were unforeseen challenges ahead. First, soil tests revealed that the drill they had been looking to purchase would be inadequate. An answer to prayer came, however, when Sam’s Well Drilling, owned by the Vander Galien family, agreed to donate the difference in cost for the larger drill and provide the extra parts needed to keep the drill going. The team encountered a second challenge when they learned that left-hand drive vehicles are no longer allowed in Mozambique. This time an answer to prayer came through church member Dan Jongetjes and his family’s company, Johns Disposal. Their plan to unbolt the drill from the existing truck and put it onto a right-side truck was a success. Geneva Campus Ministry at the University of Iowa appointed Thomas Wolthuis as chaplain. He succeeds Edward Laarman. Trinity Christian College in Palos Heights, Ill., has appointed Kurt D. Dykstra as president. Dykstra is currently the mayor of Holland, Mich. A song composed by Dordt College professor Benjamin Kornelis was selected as a winner by the Iowa Composers Forum/Iowa Choral Directors Association. Christian Schools International appointed Joel Westa as its new CEO. He succeeds Dave Koetje, who is retiring. The American Red Cross, West Michigan Region, named Sylvia Daining as the recipient of the Dr. Charles Drew Health Advocate Award, recognizing her as “an individual who has dedicated their life to a cause that directly impacts the health and wellbeing of others.” Daining attends Madison Square Church in Grand Rapids, Mich. The Disability Concerns ministry of the Christian Reformed Church won several awards for its publications at the Associated Church Press convention. Anthony Langeland, 18, won the Skills U.S.A. Gold Medal in Diesel Technology for the state of Michigan. Langeland is a member of Lamont (Mich.) Christian Reformed Church. —Banner correspondents munity after a local newspaper column featured their story, but it is not yet enough for the well-digger to ship. “We are confident that God will provide another answer as he has all along the way,” Verhulst said. “Presently we are looking into the option of shipping to another port.” “It’s been an incredible experience to feel the unity of the body of Christ throughout this endeavor,” Verhulst said. “Our fellow believers in Mozambique, the VanderGaliens, the Jongetjeses, the congregation here, all striving for the same goal of touching the community around Nampula with the love of Christ!” —Melissa Holtrop The well-digger destined for Mozambique. Watch for the Summer Issue of The Banner “I told my dad, the current owner of Johns, that this was an awesome opportunity for our family company to put our faith in action,” Jongetjes said. “We’re really familiar with right-side trucks. Each year we swap a few garbage truck packers from truck to truck, so we thought, if we can swap a garbage truck packer, why not a well drill? We did this to help further God’s kingdom here on earth. It’s our prayer that our efforts with the rig will help make lives better over in Mozambique.” There are still challenges ahead, including shipping the well-digger. Original estimates put shipping costs around $18,000 but this has been bumped to $36,000. Additional donations came in from the com- The next issue of The Banner will arrive a few days late so we can bring you all the news of the Christian Reformed Church’s annual synod being held in June. This year it will be a combined July/August issue. Our website (www.thebanner.org) will have fresh content posted throughout the summer. You can also find more content on our Facebook page (facebook.com/crcbanner). Visit soon and visit often! Just Older Youth: EnJOYing Service and Fellowship Packing food boxes, housekeeping at a local pregnancy center, baking cookies, and getting together for fellowship. It might sound like your typical youth group. The folks in this group consider themselves Just Older Youth (JOY) at Peace Christian Reformed Church in Cedar Rapids, Iowa. The ministry started about five years ago for adults who were available during the day. JOY is not limited to retirees but is for anyone who wants to come out to daytime events, said Marsha Veldhuizen, one of the ministry coordinators. Veldhuizen said, “We alternate [between] a service project and a fun outing.” Each event draws from 12 to 18 participants. Just like a youth group, this group has been busy packing boxes of food for Hawkeye Area Community Action Program, housekeeping for His Hands Free Medical Clinic and Bridgehaven Pregnancy Support Center, and helping at Habitat for Humanity Restore thrift store. They also help prepare cookies and goodies for the Angel Tree Christmas Party. Outings have included museums and special exhibits, trips to apple orchards and Amish country, Mississippi riverboat rides, wind turbine tours, and Cedar Rapids Kernels’ baseball games. And just like a regular youth group, events always include food, said Veldhuizen. The group has discovered many unique local eating establishments, including a restaurant in an old barn, a local culinary school, and restaurants where all food is locally sourced. “JOY group events are a time when we can have fun in fellowship. We encourage one another and enjoy serving our greater community,” said Veldhuizen. —Heidi Wicker The Just Older Youth (JOY) group enjoys food, service projects, and outings. www.thebanner.org | June 2015 | THE BANNER 17 by James Calvin Schaap Yet in My Flesh ST oogle “grandma,” Pastor Ray thought, and you’ll find a dozen women in rimless glasses beneath hair like spun silver, not one of them capable of sin. But it was Grandma who told him that when bad things happen, they come in threes—first this, then that, then something else. Sure as anything. “That’s paganism,” he’d told her years ago. “Well, you’re the preacher,” she’d said, “but don’t say I didn’t warn you.” The Bible she kept on the kitchen table was so beat up it looked as if she’d kicked it around the yard. She was as pious as Samuel’s mom, forever serious about faith but committed to folklore. Those words came back to him all day yesterday, because first there was Carol, his wife of 40 years, his darling; and now her sister, Mindy. Two dark nights already registered—two down, one to go. He was becoming a pagan. He’d been heading downstairs toward the church office, but when he got to the council room he sat down because a blank computer screen would remind him too much of his own empty soul. Upstairs he could hear Maribeth, the janitor, her footsteps behind a dust mop over the ancient wood floor. A funeral tomorrow, and he had to preach. Not just because he was the pastor—a retired fill-in, half-pastor—but also because Mindy was family, his sister-in-law. 18 THE BANNER | June 2015 | www.thebanner.org Church snapshots and bulletin covers lay neatly beneath the glass, a table-top museum of ex-pastors and anniversary programs. It wasn’t as if this room hadn’t suffered tragedies before. Put ’em in a line, he thought, and darkness would stretch from here to Chicago, same as any church. Maybe a million attempts at consolation too, some thoughtful, some not: “Jesus wanted another lamb for his flock,” “She’s another jewel for his crown.” This time it was Mindy, his own Carol’s little sister. No one could have seen this coming. No one. They were twenty years separate, Carol and Mindy. Grandma had Mindy when she was close to 50, at a time in his Carol’s life when her mother, with child, was embarrassing. “When you’re 17, you know your parents sleep together . . . well, you know. But it’s something you’d rather not think about,” she’d once told him. “I was furious.” The two of them had not grown up in the same family or the same house, Carol long gone when her baby sister took her first steps. His wife had been a teacher—and a mom—when Mindy trotted to kindergarten half a continent away. But they’d become as close as sisters could be, some mysterious internal chemistry making them far more than friends. And now Mindy was gone too, just two years and a couple months after her big sister. “Bad things come in threes,” Grandma had told her son-in-law, the preacher. “You watch.” He looked up at the photo of a horse barn. Stockbridge was ancient. He remembered touring European cathedrals and thinking they’d make better museums than houses of worship because really, who’d want to sit in that kind of cold space, week in, week out, flying buttresses or not? Who’d want to preach there? Churches old as Stockbridge felt like submarines without periscopes, places where the pious still believed horrors come in threes. Maybe that’s the text for the funeral sermon, he told himself—“Bad things come in threes,” Book of Grandma, chapter 4, verse whatever. No one really knew how much he missed Carol. Sometimes he told himself he was finished crying, but he never was. He didn’t have it in him to say what he knew had to be said, just as surely as the floors had to be swept. He just couldn’t face that empty screen. In his last charge, he’d mentored a rookie who’d told him over coffee that he’d never, ever done a funeral. “And it scares me,” the young preacher had told him. “This congregation doesn’t have many old people, so the death’ll be something really awful, you know?” “They’re all bad,” Ray’d said reassuringly. “Sure,” the kid told him, “but some more than others, right?” What was so damnable was that her dying could be explained. Some bit of placenta, just a tiny bit, stayed behind like an IED. Kerry Swanson, a doctor, was on the consistory. He sat right there in the consistory room and explained it as if the death of a mom was plain cause-and-effect. “DIC,” he called it, “a rare physical event.” She bled to death because her blood was actually too busy clotting. There are times a pastor can’t help hating science. Mindy’s death was no “rare physical event.” In the twinkling of an eye, Drew became a single dad—three kids, one a newborn—and bereft of wife. DIC. It wasn’t DIC. Death was the enemy. Explaining made it feel as if something could be understood and thereby dismissed. There was no way to explain the death of two women closer to him than life itself. No way. He needed to get up off this chair. Something had to be written. Someone else was upstairs now. An extra pair of footsteps slipped over the floor amid the harmony of conversation. It had taken a year for him to settle up with Carol after brain cancer took her. There was no music without her. For too many colorless weeks, he was angry she’d left. Anger is a sin. He understood that, but he was powerless to stanch it, so he tried “Yet in my flesh,” some part of him repeated, “shall I see God.” Time and eternity. Eternity in time. Some more than others. Tomorrow he’d be in the pulpit for Mindy, who, like her mother, got pregnant when she was too old.“I’ll be mom to the baby,” Mindy had told him, “but strangers’ll swear I’m her grandma.” “There are no strangers in Stockbridge,” he’d told her. “Just sayin’,” Mindy said. “I haven’t cried as much since Carol’s funeral, Ray. Seriously—I bawled like a baby when the doctor told me. Drew didn’t know what to do with me.” “It’ll keep us young,” Drew said. “That’s what I tell her.” “He’s dead wrong, Ray,” Mindy insisted. “A baby will age us like nothing else,” she said as she dished up baked chicken in a sweet French sauce. He’d been having supper with them for most of the first month he’d been in Stockbridge. “And women come up to me—my friends. ‘I’m so jealous,’ they say. And I tell myself they’re lying through their teeth—“ “They’re dreaming, is all,” Drew said. “Just dreaming,” she said, “but I got morning sickness that won’t quit.” Outside of her husband’s presence, Mindy had told him she was scared. With her other kids she’d always counted fingers and toes right away, and everyone said, even her doctor, there was more likelihood of something going haywire. Down here in the office, he was more pastor than brother-in-law. Mindy was 45 when she had a brand new little daughter. Three days later, without warning, she was gone. That was the story. to shift it to her, his wife. He was a pastor, after all, and he couldn’t be angry at God. It passed when he’d stood there at her gravestone and told her that the six months they’d had together from the time her cancer was diagnosed until she breathed her last—that six months was a blessing. He’d witnessed cancer deaths that hung on for years, drenched in horrors no human being should ever go through. Carol’s six months allowed them to say what needed to be said, and when the end came, it was finally something of relief, if any death can be. This one was so very different. “Surprise” was obscene understatement. Death amid new life, a darling baby girl, the house strung with pink streamers. Upstairs in the sanctuary, someone was at the piano. Some vagrant melody floated down into the basement, one note after another. He and Carol had had six months to talk it through, and her death still just about killed him. But this one—this one he charged up to an irresponsible God who left some bit of tissue behind, a microscopic murder. Really? Why? He looked at his watch. Nothing was getting done. He jammed his handkerchief in the back pocket of his jeans and pushed himself away from the table because he’d lollygagged too long. www.thebanner.org | June 2015 | THE BANNER 19 The notes plinked on the piano grew more distinguishable. Wouldn’t hurt to look, he thought. He’d come to Stockbridge because people knew him; Carol had grown up in this church. He hadn’t filled a pulpit since her death, but Drew and Mindy and a stiff old letter from the council, something written in ancient language—that and Carol, from the grave, got him going. It was all of that and a deep sense of should—doing an interim stint at Stockbridge CRC was something he should do. He hadn’t anticipated funerals. The woman at the piano was young, her hair pulled back in a ponytail behind a fluorescent pink band, as if she’d just come from the gym. Young as their daughter. A gray T-shirt. She looked up at the music in front of her, sang quietly with the line she tapped out on the piano, then stopped and looked around because she’d somehow felt him behind her. “Oh, I’m so sorry,” she said, all the way across the sanctuary. “Am I disturbing you?” He walked down the center aisle, hands in his pockets. “No, no, no. Just wanted to see who was up here.” When he got to the communion table, he stopped. “Place is so old I figured there were ghosts.” “I sort of like it,” she told him from the bench. “And you are?” “Megan—Megan Brethhower.” Rolled her eyes. “Married a guy from this church,” she said. “Got dragged in?” he said. “No, no, no,” she told him. “We could have gone anywhere. Lots of churches around.” “No kidding,” he said, pointing at the music. “You do this often?” Big smile. “Yeah, but that’s not the whole thing.” Took a deep breath.“I’m a nurse.” “Oh, no, you were. . . . ” “No—but yeah, sort of, too.” She smiled.“Plus we’re in Drew and Mindy’s small group.” Behind him, Maribeth was grabbing last week’s leftover bulletins from the racks. “You’re OK with this?” he asked her. “No,” she said, looking down at the keys. And just like that her voice broke. “But it’s what Drew wants.” Shrugged shoulders. “We were buds, you know—me and Mindy. Sometimes ran together. She was like my mom.” Shook her head, giggled a little.“She’d hate me for saying that, but she was.” He nodded to tell her all of that added up, then he waved his pointer at the music. “From the Messiah,” she told him. “You know it. It’s what Drew wants.” What this young woman didn’t know was that Carol used to sing it in community choirs, had sung it maybe a half-dozen times after practicing forever in their home. She may have even sung it here. But this child here didn’t need to know. “You mind if I listen in?” he said. “I’d love to hear you.” “I’m just tapping it out. I got to practice sometime, but I just had to sort of feel it here, you know, in this church, in this space, in this old building. I had to try to feel what it’s going 20 THE BANNER | June 2015 | www.thebanner.org to be like.” She turned back to the music. “I don’t know if I can do it,” she told him. “Pastor Ray, I want to do it, you know, for Drew—and for Mindy. It’s so beautiful, and I’ve done it before, but I don’t know if I can.” “Well that makes two of us,” he told her.“I don’t know if I can do it either.” “Seriously?” He pointed once again at the music.“Go on,” he said. “I’ll be the audience.” Of course he knew it, knew it all. “I know that my Redeemer liveth” begins with nothing more than a declarative sentence, and then builds into this marvelous baroque testimony. Yes, he knew the music. With just one finger, she walked with him through every line, her voice much lower than Carol’s and couched in a reserve less purposely muted than simply made personal for him, as if she were taking his hand the way he knew it needed to be held. “I know that my Redeemer liveth, and that he shall stand upon the earth.” He knew every inch of that solo, had heard it from Carol a dozen times; but this nurse brought it home with a glow somehow warmer than he’d ever felt, ever heard. “And though worms destroy this body,” she sang, eyes closed as if facing an audience she wanted somehow not to see, “yet in my flesh shall I see God.” He was alone. It was just the preacher and the janitor and the organist here, but this old piece and her warm voice was an offering, a gift. “Yet in my flesh shall I see God.” The line echoed through the emptiness of his soul. “Yet in my flesh,” some part of him repeated, “shall I see God.” Time and eternity. Eternity in time. He reached for his back pocket but didn’t pull the hanky. That great solo had always been a performance, a transcendent testimony before millions of those who knew it too, knew every last syllable. But this time, in the dim light of the old Stockbridge church, what he heard from this young woman was somehow new, something he’d never heard before. Yet in my flesh. Yet in my flesh. Will I see God. And Carol. And Mindy. When she tapped out those last voiceless phrases, she looked up at him like a child. “Thank you,” he told her.“Thank you ever so much.” He pulled out that handkerchief once again, but held it under his arm. “Tomorrow we can cheer each other on, then,” she told him. “You bet we will,” he told her. “We certainly will.” He turned back to the pews, walked up the aisle to the back of the church, and went down the stairs to the study. n James Calvin Schaap is a writer who lives in Alton, Iowa. His latest book is Up the Hill, available as an e-book. FAQs Church Q What do issues like climate change or recycling have to do with the church? The church’s task is to proclaim God’s Word, administer the sacraments, exercise pastoral care, and engage in mission work. Yet many churches are getting into these other issues big-time. A You seem to be an advocate of “sphere sovereignty,” believing that organizations like church, state, family, and school should have definite boundaries. But there’s also “sphere universality”: a sense in which how people govern, how people behave toward their parents and children, and how people teach and learn must in part be addressed in the church’s message. There is an ethical dimension to climate change and recycling that society needs to glean from the church’s preaching, teaching, and evangelizing. We must hold before people the importance of being good stewards of God’s creation for the sake of future generations. I’m thrilled that more and more “creation care” issues are finding their way into our churches’ reflection and action. A current synodical report states that “deacons shall lead the members in ways that inspire faithful stewardship of their time, talents, and resources and so give life in this world the shape of God’s kingdom.” Perhaps, by the time you read this, Synod 2015 will have agreed. Even so, your point has validity. We must pursue these things in interaction with our politicians. And when we do so we must highlight the ethical dimension and not presume that we know exactly what kind of policies our government should adopt. Similarly, the classroom might be a better way for young people to learn about carbon emissions than hearing sermons about fracking and the ozone layer. —Henry De Moor is professor of church polity emeritus, Calvin Theological Seminary, Grand Rapids, Mich. He’s the author of Christian Reformed Church Order Commentary (Faith Alive, 2011). We must not presume that we know exactly what kind of policies our government should adopt. Ethics Relationships A fellow student in my I experienced a sexual Q university class admits Q encounter when I was to cheating regularly. Am I almost 10 by a boy I thought obliged to let the prof know? of as my friend, even though he was A Allow me to first raise some questions. Is that student a friend who will listen to your advice or counsel? Was the admission of guilt made to you in private, or was it a public brag? Was injustice caused to fellow students—that is, did others’ grade suffer due to that student’s inflated grade? Does the student recognize that resorting to cheating is shortchanging her own personal development and growth? Why did the student resort to cheating? Is she remorseful or unrepentant about cheating? What would be the consequences if the student confesses to the prof? Will she amend and refrain from further cheating? What are your own motivations for revealing this to the prof: to help or harm the student? I almost dare not ask the next question: Is that student also a fellow Christian? If so, then can she see repentance and restitution, if necessary, as faithful responses to following Jesus in this instance? In addition to these questions, you must also weigh the following biblical themes. The Old Testament consistently condemned those who used dishonesty to cheat the poor, the widows, and the orphans (Amos 8:4-10; Lev. 6:1-7; Prov. 11:1; Jer. 5:26-28). Yet God not only forgave but also transformed Jacob, who deceived his brother Esau, his father Isaac, and his father-in-law Laban (Gen. 27, 30, 31). There might be room for grace, second chances, and transformation. Jesus also counseled, “In everything do to others as you would have them do to you; for this is the law and the prophets.” (Matt. 7:12, NRSV) —Shiao Chong is a chaplain at York University in Toronto, Ontario. four years older than me. For a long time I felt guilty. I am now 17 and have broken up with my boyfriend because I found myself repulsed by his desire for physical closeness. Does this mean I am gay? A No. If you were gay, you would be feeling same-sex attractions rather than no desire or revulsion at the thought of closeness. What you are experiencing is a normal reaction to a sexual abuse encounter. You knew what was happening was not right, but you were too young to understand the implications of the experience. And because of your young age, you took on the guilt that should have been felt by the boy who abused you. At 17, a developmental stage where teens learn about independence and identity, both the sexual betrayal and your resultant feelings of guilt predispose you to mistrusting your own sexual feelings. It is easier to suppress those feelings and replace them with feelings of repulsion toward physical attraction than it is to manage the confusion of your childhood experience. Counseling is recommended, as it would help you sort out the sexual confusion you are left with. You would learn that the abuse was not your fault, that you have a right to be angry about it, but also about the importance of forgiving the person who harmed you. Counseling, time, and maturity have a way of healing many psychological wounds. As your self-identity develops, bad experiences of the past do resolve themselves, creating room for new positive experiences of both friendship and possible romance. —Judy Cook is a family therapist and a member of Meadowlands Fellowship CRC in Ancaster, Ontario. n www.thebanner.org | June 2015 | THE BANNER 21 togetherdoingmore Gender Justice Gender Justice and Reconciliation by Adele Konyndyk A World Renew adolescent health community event in Senegal. A s the illiterate daughter of an impover ished w idow in Senegal, West Africa, young Fama Fané was almost left behind. In Fama’s community, poverty and cultural traditions associated with gender play a large role in the decisions that parents make about the education and marriage of their children. So when Fama’s father passed away, her mother pulled Fama out of school because she could no longer afford to send her. Instead, like many young girls in Senegal, Fama stayed at home to help with 22 THE BANNER | June 2015 | www.thebanner.org household chores and to prepare food to sell at the market. Without an education, it was likely that Fama would have very limited opportunities and would be left behind as others in her community pursued jobs and further learning. Fama’s story is not uncommon in West Africa. Young people from poor families are immediately at a disadvantage when it comes to opportunities for education and vocation. For girls, the situation is even more challenging. It is common for girls never to be sent to school at all. If they do go to school, they are often pulled out early when a family member gets sick, passes away, or loses a job, since the education of boys is considered a priority. The literacy rates in Senegal indicate that 61.3 percent of adult women are illiterate, compared with 38.2 percent of adult men. Once a girl is pulled out of school, she is less likely to know her rights, more likely to marry early, more likely to live in poverty, and more likely to suffer the health consequences of early pregnancies. Her children are also more likely to be uneducated. In communities like Fama’s, World Renew is working through local church World Renew is working through local church partners to equip men and women to use their Godgiven gifts and fully enjoy their human rights. group discussed was their dreams for the future. Although she had no money or opportunity for training, Fama wanted to be a seamstress. Fama also took advantage of the training the adolescent health program offers in areas such as healthy family and peer relationships, good hygiene, reproductive health, and avoiding risky behaviors and sexually transmitted infections. She joined a youth action group where she developed leadership and debating partners to equip men and women to use their God-given gifts and fully enjoy their human rights. “Since God created both male and female in his image, each gender has inherent equal value, even though their biological roles are different,” said Ida Kaastra-Mutoigo, World Renew-Canada’s director. “World Renew is committed to work for gender equality and equity in all aspects of its programs, policies, and organizational culture,” Kaastra-Mutoigo added. “In our work with thousands of communities around the world, we have seen that the work of community transformation is unachievable when one Please pray . . . Above: Fama and her mother. Young adults take part in anti-discrimination training in Senegal as part of World Renew’s adolescent health programs. gender is left behind, ignored, or discriminated against.” Educating women is a priority in World Renew’s gender justice programs. In Senegal, World Renew’s adolescent health program has helped a generation of girls to make their voices heard about the issues that affect them, including marriage, children, and health. It also helps parents and other community members—including men and boys—to organize to support them. Fama’s future opened up when a peer educator—a program leader who is slightly older than the students and who is trained to teach health and justice issues—invited her to join this World Renew program. One of the first topics that she and other teens in her neighborhood youth • Give thanks to God for reconciled relationships and better communication between men and women involved in these World Renew programs. • Give thanks to God for evidence of improved health for mothers, babies, and families as a result of cooperation between men and women. • Ask God to continue to awaken more young men and women to the issues of gender equality so that they can know their rights, make good choices, and help pave the way for future generations. • Ask God to comfort those who have experienced the pain of gender discrimination and connect them with people who can help them recognize their true value and potential. • Ask God to equip his children around the world to treat each other with love and respect, so that there is “no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other. If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it” (1 Cor. 12:25-26). www.thebanner.org | June 2015 | THE BANNER 23 togetherdoingmore Gender Justice skills by organizing community activities about local social problems and issues. These activities include celebration events where youth share their learnings from the program on a larger scale. At each event, participants perform a skit on topics such as incest, domestic violence, early pregnancy, and forced marriage. “Parents are often afraid to talk with their children about issues like adolescent health and how to take care of their body,” explained World Renew program consultant Esther Kuhn. “There is a big cultural taboo on these topics.” Kuhn says the adolescent health program community events have opened doors of communication between parents and children. They also have helped to empower girls and boys to stand up for justice in their families and neighborhoods. Fama’s participation in community events strengthened her good reputation and won the respect of other young people in her neighborhood. Last year, Fama was one of 19 young women selected to participate in a new Community members learn practices that help to improve child and maternal health, such as the benefits of exclusive breastfeeding and the importance of maintaining a nutritious diet. Men and women in Kenya are learning how they can work together to improve household nutrition. vocational education program. She is learning the skills of the sewing trade— cutting, stitching, and pattern-making— as well as taking general classes such as French and physical education. “When I complete vocational school, I will receive a diploma,” she says. “Then I hope to open my own sewing shop so I can take care of myself and support my mother. “World Renew’s adolescent health and rights program is helping me realize my dream. I will try my hardest not only to succeed, but to make sure that other girls can also benefit.” Working the Fields Together Although gender equality can be misunderstood as trying to advance women at the expense of men, World Renew’s gender justice ministry emphasizes the importance of recognizing that “all are one in 24 THE BANNER | June 2015 | www.thebanner.org Christ, whether male or female” (Gal. 3:28), and, as children of God, they are all valuable. This involves working to restore relationships in families and communities. It might also involve advocating for a change in cultural or legal traditions that make it difficult for men and women to be equally involved in making decisions that affect both genders. A community farmers group in Guatemala’s Polochic Valley is one example of men and women working together to create a society where everyone can contribute and everyone benefits. Julia, one of the farming group’s leaders, described it this way: “We were taught that men and women had different roles in society that couldn’t and shouldn’t be mixed. Men were the ones who had control in all the situations and women just had to obey. “If there was opportunity to study and work, men were the ones to take it and women were to care for the house and the children. In the same way, men couldn’t work with women in the fields.” Community members were exposed to a new way of thinking when World Renew’s local partner, the Association of Integral Development, started to offer training in gender attitudes and intro- ers were not—even though they were in the same environment,” said Omanyo. “The key is whether or not cooperation happens at the household level.” In some of the households involved in the nutrition project, for example, family members resisted taking on new projects such as kitchen gardens. Alfunse and his wife are an example of two family mem- care of our baby after delivery. This is education I had not received anywhere else.” When Omanyo spoke with other men involved in the project, many of them said that the project had brought them closer to their wives. “We are now learning from our wives. We do not care what other men say about us—all we know is that we are now living a better life than before,” said one man. bers who learned how to work together on a household level in a new way. “The minute my wife came home with chickens from World Renew and wire mesh for making a poultry house, I was challenged. I had no choice but to help her,” Alfunse said. “Since there was no one to build the chicken house, I did it.” Alfunse’s wife gained confidence based on her new knowledge and began to use that confidence to share her knowledge with her husband. “I realized that she was determined to make sure that we have vegetables to eat because she created a vegetable garden out of an old sisal sack,” Alfunse explained. “Now we eat fresh vegetables from our own garden. “She also told me how to take care of her when she is pregnant and how to take “I now help my wife collect water using my bicycle. It is a long distance, and for many years my wife has collected the water and come home tired. Now we are a happy family.” This community’s story shows that gender equality requires the willing participation of both men and women. “Pray with us as we work with these communities,” said Omanyo. “We feel the Lord guiding us in the work.” n Community members attend a health training session in Kenya. duced the option of farming groups that included both men and women. In addition to restoring relationships at the community level, World Renew’s gender justice work also involves righting relationships at home—between parents and children, siblings, and couples. In one community in Kenya where World Renew is working to improve maternal and child health, for example, couples are learning to collaborate and communicate in new ways as they undertake project activities together. Ten months into this project, which focuses on improving household nutrition through kitchen gardens and small animal raising, World Renew team leader Davis Omanyo noticed a startling difference in progress from household to household. “We realized that some households were beginning to produce enough nutritious food to feed their families, but oth- Adele Konyndyk Gallogly is a staff writer with World Renew. She lives in Hamilton, Ontario. www.thebanner.org | June 2015 | THE BANNER 25 togetherdoingmore The View from Here Do You Read the YALT Blog? Y ALT stands for the Young Adult Leadership Taskforce of the Christian Reformed Church. Young adults offer all of us fresh insights and challenging perspectives by means of this blog. Two blog posts (yalt.crcna.org) that caught my eye earlier this year were written by Gwen Vogelzang and Marcus Roskamp. Both focused on no longer being members of the CRC. In her blog, Gwen explains why she left the CRC. What struck me was her desire to “be surrounded by people who haven’t always known Jesus and who could offer different perspectives on God and grace and what it means to them.” In his blog, Marcus Roskamp asks the question, Should you be loyal to the denomination you grew up in? “I am now an RCA pastor,” he writes, “and my siblings no longer attend CRC churches. My siblings and I are all active and involved with our various churches, but none of us remain in the CRC.” I’m grateful for the honesty of Gwen and Marcus, and I believe we can learn at least two things from them. First, it often seems that membership in a congregation is selected because of some sort of “fit” with the culture of the church. What do I mean by that? Ronald Keener, the editor of Church Executive, defines a church’s culture as “this is how we do things here.” Having recently moved to Grand Rapids, my family and I needed to find a new church home. As we visited various churches, we were processing our fit, seeking to evaluate how things were done there. Like Gwen, we were searching for authentic community. Notice that, when focusing on a culture, the emphasis doesn’t seem to be on how hip or traditional the music is, how dynamic the preaching, or how spontaneous or liturgical the worship. Although these things count, they probably don’t count as much as the heated debates in which we engage would suggest they do. The key, I suspect, is authenticity. Like Gwen, we were searching for authentic community. 26 THE BANNER | June 2015 | www.thebanner.org Second, both authors are addressing the dimension of denomination, while also addressing church membership. I think it’s helpful to remember that the former relates more to identity and ideals and the latter to community and practice. In contrast to past generations, for many young people today the choice of a church home is more about the congregation and much less about denominational affiliation. There’s something refreshing about that, especially for those of us who have tended to base our choices more on denominational identity than on the health of a congregation. But Marcus offers us encouragement when he says that Reformed theology gives him “some grounding and a place to refer back to as I read Scripture and work through issues in the church.” After reflecting on these blog posts, I end up with two thoughts. First, in seeking a local congregation, look for fit, but don’t ignore the theological foundations. While the statement of beliefs posted on a congregation’s web page is helpful, a connection to a denomination provides a mooring that is deep and broad and is based upon the Spirit having guided generations of faithful brothers and sisters. Although a denomination can at times be as messy and contentious as some extended families, it also keeps us biblically anchored and helps us to faithfully sort through the new challenges facing each new generation. Second, while I believe it’s possible to find both authentic community and Reformed grounding (our 1,000-plus congregations provide many splendid examples of this), a person’s Reformed identity need not be lost just because she or he no longer claims CRC membership. Our spiritual journeys are intricately tied both to a local congregation and to a Christian identity that transcends local ties. Rather than challenging this new generation of adults to simply remain in the CRC, I suggest we challenge the generation I and many of you represent to continually improve as a family of churches that are authentic worshiping communities rooted deeply in our Reformed confessional identity. And may all glory be given to God the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. n Dr. Steven Timmermans is the executive director of the Christian Reformed Church in North America. Out and About Finding the Faithful in Australia I n an effort to strengthen the dwindling Christian faith in Australia, Rev. Julio Marcelo Ferreira Dos Santos works in partnership with Back to God Ministries’ Portuguese outreach to broadcast the Cada Dia radio program. For 12 years he has been working to find creative ways to share the gospel. Dos Santos laments the movement away from the Christian faith in his country. Though statistics reveal a bleak outlook, he is encouraged by the many testimonies he receives from listeners. One wrote, “When the Cada Dia program starts, it seems that God enters my house and fills me with peace.” Through hospital visits, telephone calls to Portuguese-speaking people in the area, and direct advertising on Facebook, the pastor seeks to introduce his radio ministry. He is encouraged to learn that many have already heard about the program. n —by Kristen Fergus Van Stee, Back to God Ministries International Rev. Dos Santos partners with BTGMI from his Western Australia radio studio. Church Renewal through the Ridder Initiative T he Ridder Initiative is a 30-month church renewal commitment for Christian Reformed Church and Reformed Church in America pastors and church leaders to engage in personal faith renewal. It is funded in part by Christian Reformed Home Missions. A team of five to seven leaders from a congregation grow in leadership styles, engage in reflection, and create authentic communication. The group is assigned homework and meets together monthly to share lessons. The goal is to equip leaders to become more missional within their communities, but that process needs to start with personal transformation. Pastor Ray Vanderkooij of Bethel CRC in Acton, Ontario, experienced personal conviction from his Ridder experience. “God showed me that if I am going to be meaningfully connecting with people who are marginalized, I needed to step into meaningfully ministering to the seniors in my ministry,” he said. A group involved in the Ridder Initiative. Vanderkooij has since begun visiting seniors on a regular basis, opening the way for sincere conversations. Willemina Zwart, pastor at Good News CRC in London, Ontario, and her team are nearing the end of their 30-month journey. “I have much more accountability and consistency in my spiritual disciplines,” she said. As part of the process, coupled with the power of the Holy Spirit, Bethel CRC is seeking to fight youth homelessness in its neighborhood. “It is a devastating issue and one that has really captured our hearts,” Vanderkooij said. Another influential partnership that has indirectly been affected by Ridder is the collective kitchen that has blossomed within Good News CRC. Once a month, eight members from the community prepare food in bulk and take home 25 single-serving meals. n —by Rachel Gabrielse, Christian Reformed Home Missions www.thebanner.org | June 2015 | THE BANNER 27 togetherdoingmore Out and About Calvin Alumnus Writes Book about His Coaching Career A s a high school math teacher for more than five decades, Calvin College alumnus Dick Katte was all about numbers. But on the court, as a basketball coach for 48 years, numbers weren’t his game. So he finds it surprising that his win total—876—made him the winningest coach in Colorado high school basketball history. “It’s amazing that it happened,” said Katte, who was on the sidelines of the Denver Christian High School basketball court from 1964 to 2012. “I never had a goal to reach a certain number; I just wanted to go to work and help young people every day.” Those who know Katte, though, are grateful that the legendary coach has shared some of his expertise in his recently published book, Over Time: Coach Katte on Basketball and Life. The book is a compilation of biographical information on Katte, from his upbringing in Sheboygan, Wisc., to his battles with a brain aneurysm and cancer. It includes basketball strategies, his philosophy of coaching, his memories of individual games and championship seasons, and how to raise up young people of character. “Writing the book was a good process for me,” said Katte. “Most of it was pretty easy to recall. And though I didn’t always see why something happened at the time, I always had something good to take away from the experience.” Such was the case in Katte’s second run at a state championship in 1972. (He won his first in 1970.) In the championship game, Denver Christian was up by double digits in the fourth quarter. “I told [my team] to slow it down, pull Eaton out of their zone and make them guard us,” he wrote. “Well, we never could get going again, and we lost by a point. . . . After over 40 years, some still carry that disappointment with them, and I feel bad that Calvin Seminary Uses Electronic Monitors to Show Prayer Concerns L ast December, Calvin Seminary dean of students Jeff Sajdak got an idea: to use the electronic monitors stationed in the seminary for prayer messaging as a way for students, professors, and staff to be more mindful of prayer. Very quickly a plan emerged. A fiveday prayer template was designed, each beginning with “Praying today for . . .” and reflecting a rotation of five themes: • • • • • the world peace and justice missions the church the seminary The templates are identical in color and design so viewers immediately recognize each prayer screen focusing on the day’s suggestions for petition and are reminded to pray continually. Sajdak’s office took responsibility for identifying one to three particular needs 28 THE BANNER | June 2015 | www.thebanner.org One of the prayer monitors at Calvin Seminary. for each day’s theme, which they forward to Daryl Boersema in IT. As editor for the monitor messaging that is shown every day, Sajdak uploads the week of prayer screens for daily inclusion in the rotation. Start and end times are automated, so the process is simple. The rotation can also be disrupted for any immediate need of a crisis nature that may come up in the seminary community. n —by Jinny De Jong, Calvin Seminary we didn’t win it. It’s one of the lessons from life: about how you deal with adversity.” Indeed, Katte himself benefited from this lesson when a brain aneurysm nearly took his life in 1984, and nine years later, when he battled cancer. “My setbacks helped me become a better coach because it humbled me,” he wrote. “I realized I wasn’t in control, and that’s the hardest thing to learn—especially for coaches. . . . Adversities are given for a purpose. How you use them is up to you.” Following those trials, Katte would go on to win three more state championships, including one in his final season. For Katte, one of the biggest lessons in the book, and a message he discloses frequently, is “bloom where you are planted.” “What that always meant to me was that I didn’t have to change schools or ‘move up’ the coaching ladder to receive fulfillment as a coach. Each person must have a mission and vision to become the person God gifted him to be.” n —by Lynn Rosendale, Calvin College Longer versions of these and other stories are online at thebanner.org/ together. Mikhail outside of the library where he serves. Back on the Streets M ikhail had lived on the streets of St. Petersburg, Russia, for 10 years. When a pair of strangers found him at a train station, they thought he was an old man. He had a long, dirty beard, and they could smell the alcohol on him. “Do you want to change your life?” they asked. “God has a new life ready for you, if you are ready to trust in Jesus.” The Holy Spirit drew Mikhail to this message, so he followed them. After that day, Mikhail lived for a year in a house for recovering addicts. He began attending church and devoted his life to serving Christ. Still, it was hard for Mikhail to see his place in God’s kingdom. Much of that changed when Mikhail met Gary and Galya Timmerman, who serve with CRWM in Russia. Gary Timmerman and Mikhail first met at a discipleship school, but their relationship grew from there. “Mentoring Mikhail gives us a unique experience in discipling,” said Timmerman. “I’ve really enjoyed seeing him grow in his faith and in his gifts.” Over the past several years, CRWM has been taking steps to hand over its Christian media library to local leadership. Now Mikhail plays a part in that transition. Every Wednesday, Mikhail goes to the large church library and helps visitors find books or devotions that will help them in their spiritual journey. But that’s not all he does there. “I don’t want a brilliant testimony like Mikhail’s to sit behind closed doors all the time,” said Gary Timmerman. “Sometimes I go there also, and while I tend the library inside, Mikhail goes on the main street, sharing his testimony and passing out flyers for the library.” n —by Brian Clark, Christian Reformed World Missions www.thebanner.org | June 2015 | THE BANNER 29 just for kids Think about your favorite summertime activities. Hanging out at the park with friends? Camping? Visiting an amusement park? Fishing? All of these activities are fun. But for lots of kids, going to the beach is right up there on top of the list. ch? What Is a laBndeala ong the edge h of A beach is a stretc lakes. such as oceans or er at w of of bodies is made up of Usually the land les, and shells. sand, rocks, pebb any different There are also m North Some beaches in kinds of beaches. en op ected to the wide America are conn lantic and Pacific waters of the At her beaches oceans, while ot er from the contain fresh wat shores e beaches on the Great Lakes. Som have n n and Lake Huro of Lake M ichiga nes. du sand called sand huge mounds of are t bu allenge to climb, They may be a ch of nd ki e dow n! What lo ts of fu n to sl id to se clo If you don’t live beach is near you? to y ne to enjoy a jour the beach, read on ! om ur own living ro the beach from yo at amazing animals th The beach is full of ’s er at w and beneath the n live on the shore ea oc g t these interestin surface. Check ou eatures! and freshwater cr Blue Crabs These cool ocean critters have a hard outside shell called an exoskeleton. Even though they are mostly brown and gray, blue crabs have blue tints on their claws. The tips of female blue crabs are also a bright reddish-orange color. Blue crabs eat plants and small animals like mussels, snails, fish, and smaller crabs. Did you know? Some blue crabs lay around two million eggs in two weeks! 30 THE BANNER | June 2015 | www.thebanner.org Beach in a Bottle If you live too far away to visit a bea ch, bring the beach to you! Try making this coo l beach in a bottle. Here’s what you’ll need: • • • • • Clean plastic bottle or glass jar with lid Sand (use gravel if you don’t have sand) Sea shells or pebbles Veggie oil or baby oil Water • Blue food coloring •Funnel Here’s what to do: Use the fun nel to pou r sand into the bottle or jar. Add pebbles, shells, beads, or any other cool beach treasures you have. In a separate container mix the water, baby oil, and food coloring. Then use the funnel to carefully pour the solution into your bottle. Make sure your bottle top or jar lid is sealed tightly. You can also ask an adult to help you secure the lid by sea ling it with plumber’s tape or hot glue from a hot glue gun. Illustration by Scott Holladay Summer Beach Fun Seagulls Fun Fishy Beach S nack Make your ow seen seagulls. If you’ve been to the beach, you’ve lake shores. ter They live near ocean and freshwa people. If of id afra These sassy sea birds are not y might the ch, bea you’re having a picnic on the gulls Sea d! foo r swoop down to try to steal you they e aus bec s” have been called “garbage bird ps scra ch dwi san eat just about anything. Besides , sels mus id, squ , fish from your picnic, seagulls eat ! diet e som is t Tha . shellfish, bugs, and earthworms n edible beach! Here’s what you’ll n eed: • Whole graham crackers • ¼ cup finely cr ushed graham cr ackers (or vanilla wafers) • White frosting • Blue food colo ring • Goldfish cracke rs or gummy fish Did you know? Here’s what to do ocean. They Seagulls can drink salt water from the ove the extra have glands near their eyes that rem water. salt so that they can safely drink the : Stir the blue food coloring into the white frosting. Use a plastic knife to spread the blue frosting on a gr ah am cr ac ke r (t hi s w ill be yo ur “w at er ”) . Sprinkle crushed graham crackers onto a portion of the graham crac ker to create “san d.” Add goldfish to the “water .” Then enjoy your beach snack! Walleye The walleye is a freshwater fish that makes its home in deep rivers and lakes across North America. Walleye are shimmery gold and olive color with a white belly. These freshwater fish can grow to be 30 to 35 inches long (1 m) and weigh around 10 to 20 pounds (4-9 kg). Walleye usually eat small fish and bugs and search for their food at night. For people who enjoy fishing, walleye are fun to catch—and good to eat. Jellyfish Did you know? A female walleye can lay more than 100,000 eggs! Jellyfish are very intere sting creatures that live in the ocean. They have mushroom-like bodies with long wigg ly arms called tentacles. They squirt water from their bodies to push themselves for ward. Their tentacles are used to sting the ir food. Watch out: sometimes jellyfish sting people too! Jellyfish eat fish, shrimp, crabs, and tiny plants. Jellyfis h come in a range of different color s: pink, yellow, blue, and even purple. tles Green Sea Touceran creatures. They are les are n e world and ca Green sea turt hell turtles in th -s e rd th r ha t fo es n rg ow the la ). Kn ounds (317 kg p 0 in e 70 liv er s ov le h rt weig , these tu r of their skin 35 greenish colo swim around d eans an can oc g al in ic ov op m a tr , as warm ’s as fast at th — h) kp 6 (5 in the miles per hour s move quickly re tu ea cr e es reen car! Though th owly on land. G e much more sl ov ndy m sa ey m th , ar er wat gs on w eg 0 0 -2 0 0 1 y all sea se a tu rt le s la turtles eat sm a se y ab b ny ti beaches. The sh. abs and jellyfi cr e lik s al anim ? Did you knows can hold their breath for hours le rt tu a ed animals, Green se are cold-blood ey th e nc Si . er cold water. under wat reath longer in b r ei th ld ho they can Did you know? Ma ny jel lyf ish ha ve bio lum ine sce nt organs, which mean so me parts of their bodies glow in the dark! Christin Baker is a full-time stay-at-home mom. She is a member of Resurrection Fellowship Church in Grand Rapids, Mich. www.thebanner.org | June 2015 | THE BANNER 31 by Henry Numan What’s a Pastor to Do? ome time ago a young couple—both from Christian homes—asked me to perform their wedding ceremony. I invited them to come to my office to discuss their request. During our conversation, they made it very clear that they wanted their wedding to be totally “neutral.” If I were to officiate at their wedding, they said, I could say anything—but not use the word “Christ.” They were adamant about that fact. Their reason was simple: one of these young people was a Christian but the other had become a non-Christian. The discussion was intense, and there was no conclusion other than for me to say that I could not function simply as a justice of the peace because as a pastor I 32 THE BANNER | June 2015 | www.thebanner.org am dedicated to the Christian faith and its claim on all of life. Needless to say, the couple—and their parents—were upset with me. But I concluded that I had no choice. Was I wrong in my judgment? Could I possibly have left the door open for some kind of follow-up? Scripture has always held Christians to a high standard about life issues, and it will continue to do so. But are there instances where major concerns have perhaps changed in terms of their application to the “here and now”? Issues differ in terms of priority and significance, and we often end up agreeing to disagree in such cases. Are views on marriage one such area? Just how do we as Christians respond when a couple wishes to get married but are very clear about their individual value systems: one being a Christian and the other having a different faith or claiming no faith at all? They love each other, of course, but differ clearly in what they believe and share in their relationship. Should you expect your pastor to perform a ceremony for a couple who are “unequally yoked” and who have compromised their life values in order to be together? It is a question of “to do or not to do”—and these circumstances become occasions for a judgment call by the pastor who is asked to perform the wedding celebration. Marriage in Scripture In his lengthy discourse on marriage, 1 Corinthians 7, the apostle Paul expresses his own opinions, for example in verses 6 (“I say this as a concession, not as a command”); 12 (“If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her”); and 40 (“In my judgment, she is happier if she stays as she is”). He mixes his opinions with the basic instruction that marriage is a holy or sanctifying relationship that must reflect the union of Christ and his followers, the Body— even if one partner happens to believe something other than the Christian faith. In Ephesians 5:31-32, quoting from Genesis 2:24, Paul makes clear that the two becoming one flesh should be a powerful symbol of this union of Christ and his Church. Do such passages leave any room for a pastor to “negotiate” a wedding for a couple when they are of conflicting faiths? bling blocks in their marriage. This is especially true in the case of couples with different faiths or no faith at all. I always instruct them to read a form for Christian marriage in order to remind them that their marriage goes way beyond the wedding ceremony and all the excitement of the happy day. We talk about how our belonging to Christ gives concrete shape and positive expression to each other’s life “until death do us part.” That conversation always includes open-ended questions, including the following: What do you find attractive about him/her? What do you mean when you say you love him/her, and at what cost? How can you possibly say you’ll stay together for the rest of your lives in light of so many obstacles and uncertainties? You will have disagreements and disap- The “rubbing off” of the Christian partner’s faith to the non-Christian one must be the noble aim of a marriage between a couple that is unequally yoked. Based on such biblical teachings, I have made the decision to proceed when, for example, the couple represents two differing faiths but are willing to agree to my open presentation concerning the way of Christ. Admittedly, these situations involve a calculation of risk that could end up with non-commitment. But often the results are a growing toward and into the Christian faith as well as a happy marriage bond. As an intermediary for Christ and his cause, in such judgment calls I have witnessed the grace of our Lord became something lively and concrete, demonstrated in a healthy family life and commitment to the church. One senses potential in such cases. What’s a Pastor to Do? So what does a pastor do in each and every individual situation? In making any plans for a wedding ceremony I have always insisted on a time of up-front preparation to make sure the couple is fully aware of potential pitfalls and stum- pointments: how will you work such things out positively and proactively, not reactively, thereby making healthy choices together along the way? And—so important—you may claim that one of you is “a believer” (perhaps Christian), the other not at all religious. But do you realize that everyone believes in something, regardless of what that belief is? How can these different beliefs work in your marriage? And finally: What direction-setting will you make if you are blessed with children? The decision to proceed with a marriage ceremony is not a simple line to be drawn, not a matter of black and white or right and wrong. Pastors must be abundantly clear of their own stance with respect to upholding Christian marriage and careful to avoid appearing to yield that stance in any particular situation. However, as Paul makes the case to the Corinthian church, the “rubbing off” of the Christian partner’s faith to the non-Christian one must be the noble aim of a marriage between a couple that is unequally yoked—and such positive outcomes do happen. The grace of Christ often happily transfers from one partner to the other by means of love and tenderness, leading to a common Christlike faith commitment. The pastor’s job is to clearly inform the couple of why the Christian foundation for marriage is not just an afterthought but the very foundation of and for their future. This understanding will lead them to an honest choice: instead of a “no trespassing” sign that prevents entry, the “gate” of grace is open to them. Would I be willing to officiate at a wedding for a couple who express two different faiths? It all depends on their response to my explanation. If the couple then agrees to a genuine Christian ceremony I would proceed—but with the full intent and their permission to follow up with them after the wedding has taken place. I have experienced many good results in which the couple has become involved fully with a commitment to Christ and so to one another. But sometimes that doesn’t happen. Recently one such couple was referred to me by people who knew I was a Christian pastor. Would I perform their ceremony, already planned to take place in a beautiful location? I responded with a conversation in which I discussed the foundations of Christian marriage and outlined what I would ask of them, that is, a Christian commitment to each other for life. I hoped that this would become an occasion for witnessing for Christ and sharing the Good News. The couple listened closely to my explanation. But some weeks later, they cancelled the arrangement since their families were not comfortable with my basic Christian stance. In this case, I needed to fully accept and respect their decision, even though I would very much have preferred a different ending. Tough decisions? Yes. Are there easy, glib, quick answers? Never! Times have changed, but not the claim of Christ to be the center of all of our lives. n S T U DY Q U E S T I O N S O N L I N E Henry Numan is a retired pastor living in Vancouver, British Columbia. www.thebanner.org | June 2015 | THE BANNER 33 Tuned IN Epic Summer Reads Orhan’s Inheritance by Aline Ohanesian reviewed by Kristy Quist The Jaguar’s Children by John Vaillant reviewed by Sonya VanderVeen Feddema Young friends Héctor and César flee dire circumstances in Mexico by being smuggled into the U.S. by “coyotes”—human traffickers. Abandoned in the desert, they descend into a hell of thirst, hunger, fear, brutality, and spiritual confusion. Trying to retain his sanity, Hector tells stories to an unknown contact on his friend’s phone— stories about his Zapotec grandparents, about Cesar’s moral conflict with a Mexican agricultural company, and about himself, including his thoughts on gods, the Roman Catholic Church, and Jesus. The novel, which includes profanity and vulgarity, reveals the horrors of human trafficking and the power of story to inspire courage in humanity’s darkest hour. (Knopf Canada) The Hardest Peace: Expecting Grace in the Midst of Life’s Hard by Kara Tippetts reviewed by Kristy Quist Kara Tippetts spent the last few years fighting cancer as it showed up in ever more frightening places. In her book she witnesses openly and honestly to what God did in her life before and after her diagnosis. Tippetts expresses her sadness that the end will come, her joy in the moments she has with her husband and young children, and her faith in the grace of Christ that will carry her and her family in the coming days. Especially poignant as she passed away in March, Tippetts’s story is heartbreaking, beautiful, and full of hope. (David C. Cook) 34 THE BANNER | June 2015 | www.thebanner.org On the death of his grandfather, Kemal, in 1990, Orhan inherits the family business in Turkey. But the family home is bequeathed to an unknown woman named Seda who lives in the United States. Orhan sets out to find out who this woman is and why his grandfather has given her this gift. Weaving together the Turks’ horrific treatment of Armenians at the end of the Ottoman Empire and the history of Orhan’s family, Ohanesian builds an unflinching novel that is both heartbreaking and riveting. (Algonquin) Ordinary: Sustainable Faith in a Radical, Restless World by Michael S. Horton reviewed by Robert N. Hosack In a culture constantly looking for what’s new, radical, epic, innovative, emergent, and revolutionary, Michael S. Horton returns his readers to the ordinary means of grace. “No one wants to be ordinary,” contends Horton. Yet the radical mentality that dominates contemporary evangelicalism causes everyday Christians to become anxious about their spiritual lives. Ordinary counters with a sustainable discipleship for a long obedience in the same direction. (Zondervan) No Parking at the End Times by Bryan Bliss reviewed by Adele Gallogly Since 16-year-old Abigail’s family sold everything and moved across the country in anticipation of the end times, t h e y a re ef fe c t ive ly homeless. Abigail is torn between relying on the judgment of her parents—who still trust the preacher whose prophecies came to nothing—or following her twin brother’s call to strike out on their own. As Bliss explores the tenuous ties of family loyalty and the hard work of staying hopeful, he gives Abigail an authentically restless voice filled with questions as well as expressions of love for her family. This excellent novel will be a worthwhile and poignant read for young adults, parents, and anyone who gives guidance to youth. Ages 13 and up. (HarperCollins) Father Brother Keeper by Nathan Poole reviewed by Adele Gallogly Nathan Poole’s collection of symbol-rich, superbly crafted short stories is set in the harsh landscape of the southern U.S. His characters suffer, and their personal hardships—sickness, suicide, dementia, violence, poverty—affect their family relationships. Like the mounds, fields, and tributaries that surround them, they have mysterious inner lives that other people do not necessarily see or understand. The tranquil intensity of these stories deserves to be savored on a peaceful stretch of grass or to be read aloud to listeners who long to be swept up by an evocatively poetic work. (Sarabande) Black Dove, White Raven by Elizabeth Wein reviewed by Francene Lewis Teo and Emilia’s lives are forever changed the day Teo’s mother is killed while flying her stunt plane. Their mothers were best friends, and Emilia’s mother follows through on their dream to take the children to Ethiopia where they—one African American and one Italian American—could grow up without fear or harm because of the color of their skin. But Ethiopia is not the haven they originally envisioned. Evils from the past and the present arise to threaten their lives. Author Wein once again uses the framework of flying to explore unexpected corners of history and the human spirit. Ages 12 and up. (Disney-Hyperion) Atlas Girl: Finding Home in the Last Place I Thought to Look by Emily T. Wierenga reviewed by Sonya VanderVeen Feddema The Joy of Missing Out: Finding Balance in a Wired World by Christina Crook reviewed by Jenny deGroot “Beware the barrenness of a busy life.” Author Christina Crook reaches back 2 , 0 0 0 ye a r s to q u o t e Socrates in the introduction to a book that speaks into a twenty-first-century reality. A journalist with three young children and an often-traveling husband, Crook decides to go offline for a month. She invites the reader to consider the effects of living a “wired” life, the challenge of setting personal, family, and work boundaries, and the rewards of living into alternative choices. In her late teens, Wierenga wanted to leave her family behind, unaware of how much they loved her and how much she really needed them. With vulnerability and a keen eye for detail, she relates her childhood battle with anorexia and its recurrence in her adult life. As she traveled the world, married, nursed her ailing mother, and had two children, Wierenga learned that “no matter how many flights I take, no matter how many countries I visit, if God’s will and heart are not my ultimate destination then I am to be more pitied than anyone.” (Baker) Rutabaga the Adventure Chef: Book 1 by Eric Colossal reviewed by Francene Lewis Bored with regular ingredients, Rutabaga decides to become an adventure chef. From a dragon’s egg to mushrooms plucked from a legendary sword, Rutabaga wants to cook exciting new dishes. The bold lines of the comic illustrations and the enjoyable story engage the reader in the ongoing quest for adventure and cooking. Follow Rutabaga, his trusty cooking pot, and his portable kitchen as he searches for the next great unexpected dish. Ages 8-12. (Amulet) M ore R eviews online www.thebanner.org | June 2015 | THE BANNER 35 Tuned IN Fierce Convictions by Karen Swallow Prior reviewed by Adele Gallogly Hannah More was an accomplished author and philanthropist best known for opposing the slave trade and promoting education for women in 18th-century British society. Fierce Convictions is a crisply written, rigorously researched biography that charts More’s “extraordinary life” through the events, works, and relationships that established her legacy. This is no glossy, idealized portrait; Prior embraces the complexities of More’s personality. This book will likely reinvigorate readers in their own faith-led journeys by showing that our “facts and our wishes can produce great stories when serving things much grander than ourselves. And that the stories we tell ourselves and others matter.” (Thomas Nelson) Monty’s Magnificent Mane by Gemma O’Neill reviewed by Sonya VanderVeen Feddema Monty loves to hear the meerkats praise his gloriously beautiful mane, so he allows them to play in it. But he gets irritated when they tug on it and tickle him. When he angrily shakes them off, he falls and damages his mane. Now Monty is really angry, and his vanity leads to danger for the meerkats. Unselfishly, Monty intervenes to save his friends. O’Neill’s vibrant illustrations enhance her humorous tale in this picture book with the serious yet subtle message that the love of friends trumps vanity. Ages 3 and up. (Candlewick) Finding Me by Kathryn Cushman reviewed by Kristy Quist In successful Christian writer Cushman’s latest novel, Kelli is grieving the recent death of her father and stepmother when she discovers that her life has been shrouded in lies. She embarks on a journey from her unraveling life in California to small-town Shoal Creek, Tenn., to discover her true history and find out who she really is. Fans of inspirational fiction will find this page-turner moving and satisfying as Kelli learns more about her place in the world and in God’s love. (Bethany) At the Water’s Edge Tell by Sara Gruen reviewed by Jim VanderVeen Feddema Romahn From the author of Water for Elephants comes this elegant tale of American debutante Maddie and her wealthy, ne’er-dowell new husband on a trip to Scotland during the last weeks of World War II to try to film the Loch Ness Monster. Maddie is a spoiled rich kid who has never worked or even made her bed or cooked a meal. The initial, somewhat critical portrayal slowly evolves into heartfelt sympathy for Maddie. Gruen is a wonderful storyteller whose writing keeps the reader pursuing the next surprising turn of events. (Spiegel & Grau) 36 THE BANNER | June 2015 | www.thebanner.org by Frances Itani reviewed by Sonya A young soldier named Kenan returns home from World War I. His wife, Tress, agonizes about his refusal to talk about the war. As they drift apart, Kenan is befriended by Am, Tress’s uncle. Am is also one of the “walking wounded,” as is his wife, Maggie, though their sorrows are of a different nature. When the mysterious Lukas comes to town and starts a choral society, Maggie joins. She sets in motion a series of events that changes all their lives. Itani’s thoughtful novel reveals the power and freedom of truth-telling in the context of a loving community and the corrosive nature of secrets that wear down the human spirit. (HarperCollins) My Battle Against Hitler by Dietrich Von Hildebrand reviewed by Jim Romahn Dietrich Von Hildebrand was an outspoken critic of National Socialists long before Hitler and his henchmen seized control of Germany. A Catholic philosopher, he skewered the fundamental principles underlying both National Socialism and Bolshevism, clearly articulating how they are at odds with Christianity. Much of what he wrote before and during the war is informative in today’s circumstances of an aggressive Russian nationalism and radical zealots in places like Iraq, Syria, and Nigeria. In particular, his perspective on the Roman Catholic Church and Christianity is a welcome call to sound thinking and gracious living. (Image) Discipleship Jump In or years I sat blithely on the banks of the river of God’s kingdom. I attended church. I tried to live a good life. I did a daily devotional and popped the odd prayer to heaven as needed. Things were comfortable there on the fringes. It never even occurred to me that God might want to use somebody like me in his almighty purposes. Years later, as a missionary encouraging small churches in rural Bolivia, I suspect that the kind of misunderstanding I had of true kingdom life is one of the main maladies that cripples the church. Instead of jumping into the river of abundant life in Christ, many of us choose to sit comfortably on the banks. God calls us to be part of the kingdom community; we are “a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession” (1 Pet. 2:9). Christians are all part of a body, says the apostle Paul, each with our own unique form and function. And just like the human body, if even a small part is sick or doesn’t function properly, the whole body is affected (1 Cor. 12:26). We are saved, reconciled, loved, and adopted as God’s children. Flowing from God’s grace comes our responsibility to worship and serve God with all our heart. So why is it so hard for us to take the plunge into fullness of life with him? Too often we are shackled by feelings of inadequacy, the chains of comparison, or just plain apathy. But when we come to God, recognizing our weaknesses and fears and bringing our offering of a willing spirit, the Lord delights to equip us and use us for his glory. One congregation I worked with in Bolivia identified an urgent need to visit families who were facing difficulties or God beckons us to pass through the rapids, the still waters, and the deep pools together. who had stopped attending the church. We got a group together and made a plan to visit some of these families two by two. The following week we met with the group again, expecting to hear excuse after excuse as to why no visits had been made. But like the seventy-two returning to Jesus, this small group came back joyful and encouraged. They had been warmly received in each home, and some of those they visited had returned to church the very next Sunday. God took me to South America to shake me out of my apathy. On a shortterm mission trip God spoke to me about the needs of his world and showed me that he has a purpose for each one of his children—including me. The river has taken me away from my home and family, and at times I have had to swim hard to keep my head above water. But God has turned my fears, weaknesses, and inadequacy into peace and abounding joy. Swimming with God has brought me the fullness of life God promises to all his followers: the privilege of sharing in the work of building God’s kingdom here on earth. God’s call on our lives is not to sit on the banks dabbling our toes in the river, but to jump right in. He beckons us to pass through the rapids, the still waters, and the deep pools together. As we let go and immerse ourselves fully in God’s kingdom, we fulfil our part—together with the body of Christ worldwide—in accomplishing his purposes here on earth. n Linda Lugtigheid has been a missionary in Bolivia for 12 years. She is currently on sabbatical in Canada, where she attends Blenheim (Ontario) Christian Reformed Church. www.thebanner.org | June 2015 | THE BANNER 37 Re f o r me d M a t t e r s Stewardship of Technology O Our Reformed understanding of stewardship begins with the notion that everything we have—time, talent, or treasure —is a gift from God’s hands. And we, in gratitude for these good gifts, seek to use them effectively and efficiently in service of the kingdom of God. While we may acknowledge technology as one of the gifts God has given us for our work in the world, we do not always consider what it means to develop an attitude of stewardship in our use of these gifts. When we do, we tend only to think in terms of the limits we place on our use of technology—for example, the number of hours we should spend using television. Yet just as we would not subject our stewardship of time, talent, or treasure to such a truncated understanding, neither should we do so to our use of technology. A Reformed understanding of the stewardship of technology begins from the same foundation as our broader view of stewardship—technology is a God-given gift mediated through the good gift of human culture and innovation. Stewardly use of these gifts does indeed recognize the effects of sin on our use of technology and the need for limits—the corruption of sin opposed to the kingdom of God cuts through every aspect of creation, including technology. As such, a healthy view 38 THE BANNER | June 2015 | www.thebanner.org of technology will adopt neither wholesale acceptance nor outright rejection. A positive vision of stewardship ought to celebrate the ways that technology can be used in the service of God’s kingdom—in our individual, congregational, and communal lives. Social media and the ubiquity of cell phones have dramatically changed the landscape of how we communicate with one another, and our churches are wise to adapt to this. Youth leaders can communicate effortlessly and instantaneously with large groups of students and parents. Our use of natural resources can be dramatically reduced by the simple act of digitizing the endless paper trail of council minutes and agendas. Not only do I now carry a Bible with me everywhere in app form, but I can also check my schedule in a moment, decreasing the likelihood that the suggestion “Let’s find a time to grab coffee” becomes only a half-hearted attempt at maintaining a relationship. We do not have to look far to find ways that God can call us to use technology in service of the kingdom. Of course, our use of technology must be done with discernment. After a period of selfevaluation, I determined that my own use of Facebook was not aiding my discipleship journey. In fact, it was forming and shaping me as a whole in ways that run counter to my Perhaps we should challenge our deacons to encourage us to be good stewards not only of our time, talents, and treasure, but of our technology as well. identity as a child of God—and so I deleted my account. This is not, however, a decision that everyone needs to or even should make. Like the way that we use our time, our money, and our abilities, our use of technology should be subject to God-given wisdom. We are right to ask tough questions about the values of the companies from whom we purchase our technology and to prayerfully consider how our use of technology points us and others toward or away from God. The contemporary testimony Our World Belongs to God has this to say about our stewardship of technology: “Grateful for advances in science and technology, we participate in their development, fostering care for creation and respect for the gift of life” (par. 50). These guiding principles form the backbone of a stewardship of technology. So perhaps we should challenge our deacons to encourage us to be good stewards not only of our time, talents, and treasure, but of our technology as well. n S T U DY Q U E S T I O N S O N L I N E Kory Plockmeyer is the pastor of Covenant CRC in Sioux Center, Iowa. ADS Denominational and Classical Meetings of Classis CALL TO SYNOD 2015 The council of First CRC, Sioux Center, Iowa, calls all delegates to Synod 2015, elected by their respective classes, to meet in the B. J. Haan Auditorium on the campus of Dordt College, Sioux Center, Iowa, on Friday, June 12, at 8:30 a.m. All area CRC members are invited to join the delegates in worship at the synodical Service of Prayer and Praise on Sunday afternoon, June 14, 2015, at 4:00 p.m. at First CRC, 321 Second Street SE, Sioux Center, Iowa. Rev. Mark Verbruggen will deliver the message. All CRC churches across the continent are requested to remember the deliberations of synod in their intercessory prayers on Sunday, June 7, and on Sunday, June 14. Council of First CRC, Sioux Center, Iowa Deadlines: July/August issue is 6/18/15; Sept. issue is 8/10/15. Details online. Prices: Most ads are $0.33US per character (min. 150 characters including punctuation and spaces). A discounted rate of $0.26US per character applies to Anniversaries, Birthdays, Obituaries, Denominational and Classical Announce ments, and Congregational Announcements. Photos are $22US extra. To Advertise: Place your classified ad online at www.thebanner.org/classifieds or email it to classifieds@thebanner.org or fax it to 616-224-0834. Questions? Call 616-224-0725. Available for Call Church’s 90th Anniversary Rev. Edward Rockett Following the closure of Fresh Word Ministries, the council of Bethel CRC, Lansing, IL would like to acknowledge the faithful work of Rev. Rockett. He is now available for call & we heartily commend him to the churches. Rev. Rockett can be contacted at 773-953-5839 or erockett25@yahoo.com GRACE CRC, KALAMAZOO, MICHIGAN plans to celebrate 90 years of God’s faithfulness on Saturday, August 1, 2015. All friends and past members are invited to attend a Pig Roast. For reservations, location, and time, call Kim Westrate, 269-388-3584, e-mail Dwestrate@aol. com, or call the church office, 269-345-2864. Rev Jack VanderVeer has faithfully completed his term call (Jun ’11 - May ’15) as River Park Church’s Associate Pastor while we waited for God to provide our next Senior Pastor. River Park Church is thankful for Jack’s leadership and pastoral care and warmly recommends him. Our congregation prays for God’s blessings on Jack’s journey ahead. He has completed his MA in Counseling Psychology and has demonstrated effectiveness as a pastor in the community beyond church walls. Jack can be reached at pjackv@gmail.com or 403-803-0329 Congregational Retirement Pastor Robert Pohler Fruitport Christian Reformed Church announces the retirement of Pastor Robert Pohler and is searching for a new pastor for our 100 member church. We are located near the shoreline in Western Michigan. Interested candidates are asked to contact our Search Committee at crcfruitport@aol.com. Church’s 100th Anniversary 100th Anniversary Neerlandia Alberta CRC plans to celebrate 100 years of God’s Faithfulness on August 1&2, 2015. Visit www. neerlandiacrc.org or phone 780-674-4232 for information and dinner tickets. Everyone welcome. OR TO APPLY. Church’s 50th Anniversary Northern Heights CRC Kalamazoo, MI is celebrating 50 years of God’s faithfulness. All former Pastors, members and friends are invited to a cake and ice cream social on Friday, July 24 at 7:00 pm. We are seeking an experienced individual to serve as the DIRECTOR OF NURSING (DON) at our brand new skilled nursing facility (SNF). PLEASE CONTACT US AT JOBS@MEADOWBROOKVILLAGE.ORG OR AT (760) 746-2500 FOR MORE INFORMATION Kentville CRC 1955-2015. On June 26, CRC of Kentville, Nova Scotia will celebrate 60 years of God’ s faithfulness and care. The congregation will celebrate this special event with joy and thankfulness and a potluck supper.on Friday June 26, 2015. We invite friends, former pastors and members to join us in giving thanks and praise. For more information you may contact the church at 1-902-678-6293 or by email kentvillecrc@ns.sympatico.ca or you visit our web site; www. kentvillechristianreformedchurch.org JOB OPPORTUNITY OUR COMPANY Meadowbrook Village Christian Retirement Community of Escondido, CA opened in 2009 as an independent and assisted living facility. Our mission is to honor God by serving others with love & compassion. Church’s 60th Anniversary Applicants must be licensed (or become licensed) in California as a Registered Nurse (RN) and have DON experience in a SNF. Candidates should be service-oriented, organized and attentive to details, familiar with Medicare requirements, proactive in addressing possible areas of concern, and experienced in hiring, training, and managing staff. Find out more about our company at www.meadowbrookvillage.org www.thebanner.org | June 2015 | THE BANNER 39 Announcements Vacationing in the Eastern U. P.? Join us for worship (10 AM) at New Hope CRC of Kincheloe. We are 20 miles south of Sault Ste Marie and 35 miles north of Mackinac Bridge - just off I-75/Kinross exit. More info: newhopekincheloe.org Birthdays 100th Birthday Sadie (Eisma) De Vries will reach her 100th birthday on June 20, 2015. Please send cards to Hillcrest Healthcare Center, 2121 Avenue L, Hawarden, Iowa 51023. Her grateful son, Curt, gives thanks to God for her alert mind and a life of faith and service. Great is His Faithfulness! Agnes Stroo Vandermolen wife of the late Jack Stroo and Herman “Dan” Vandermolen will celebrate her 100th birthday D. V. with an open house June 20 from 2 - 4 p.m. at the Lake City Chr Ref Church. Formerly of Jenison, she now resides with her daughter Elaine at 5711 Falmouth Rd. McBain, MI 49657 She has been a life-long blessing to her blended family: Suzanne (George) Towers, Maxine (Harvey) Brink, Elaine (Robert) Clark, Cathleen (Leo) VanArragon, James (Dorothy) Stroo, Mary (Jim) VanderKam, Lois (John) Lukaart, and Marie (Paul) Jacobs. She has been blessed with 26 Grandchildren, 55 greatgrandchildren, and 5 great-great grandchildren. We thank God for her life of service and her Christian witness to her family. Margaret (Brunsting) Blankespoor celebrated her 100th birthday with friends and family on May 10, 2015. God has blessed her with 4 children, 13 grandchildren, 29 great grandchildren, and Church Position Announcements Pastor Hope CRC is looking for a Pastor to lead our congregation in Stony Plain, AB. We are looking for someone who is an effective preacher and a dynamic leader. For more information and a church profile, please contact Esther Duplisea at hopecrc.clerk@platinum. ca or 780-892-2149. Pastor: 2nd CRC of Fremont, MI is in need of a Pastor to share the good news of Jesus Christ to our congregation and community. For more information and our church profile, please contact Jason DeKuiper at jdekuiper@comcast.net. SENIOR paSTOR Faith Christian Reformed Church in Sioux Center, Iowa is looking for a Senior Pastor. We are searching for a candidate who is gifted in preaching, can provide motivation for outreach/ discipleship, is an effective leader, and is compassionate, caring and sensitive to the needs of our congregation. For information and/or a church profile contact Search Committee Chairman, Lyle Gritters, at Lyle@dordt.edu. Full Time Pastor Third CRC of Zeeland, MI is seeking a full time pastor to keep us rooted in truth and growing in our community. For more information contact Steve Langeland at Steve. Langeland@ gmail.com. Pastor The CRC of Collingwood ON is seeking a pastor who desires to lead a small, dedicated congregation. We seek a spiritual leader who is gifted in preaching, meeting the pastoral needs of our congregation and mentoring us to reach out with love to the community around us. For more information, contact Jeff Beck at jandcbeck@hotmail.com Pastor/Candidate Bethel CRC in Saskatoon Sk is offering a one year renewable term for the pastor position. If you are interested in this opportunity please contact Anthony @ 306 221 1598 or nienhuis@sasktel.net Music Director Edmonton, Maranatha CRC-10 hour position to lead and organize music ministry. Details at 780-479-5824, averboon@telusplanet.net Youth Director Western Springs Christian Reformed Church, located in the western suburbs of Chicago, seeks a highly qualified individual to lead the youth ministry of the church. The ideal candidate for this half-time position will be able to lead the junior high and senior high youth programs of the church through organizing regular meetings, planning special events, coordinating youth involvement in worship, and participating in youth education. A bachelor’s degree from an accredited college is required. In addition, candidates should have prior experience working with youth. Salary for the position is commensurate with experience and qualifications. We invite qualified candidates to send us a cover letter and resume by email to office@ crcws.org. Projected start date of July 1, 2015. Additional information about the church can be found at www.crcws.org. PASTOR Faith Community Fellowship CRC in Mount Vernon, WA is seeking a pastor who would be dedicated to the preaching of the 40 THE BANNER | June 2015 | www.thebanner.org Word and to providing pastoral care to our congregation. For more information as well as our church profile, please contact Chris Ledeboer at cledeboer@hotmail.com. Senior Pastor Bethel CRC, Churchill MT is a rural church located in the Gallatin Valley just outside of Bozeman, a fast growing university town. Bethel’s mission statement is “Planted to Grow and Sow”. As believers, God has planted us here to grow spiritually into Him by the hearing of His word and to sow that same Gospel message into our families and neighbors of the greater Gallatin Valley and beyond. Is this where you should be planted? If interested, contact Ron Hoekema at rb_hoekema@yahoo.com Worship Coordinator Westwood CRC (Kalamazoo, MI) is seeking a half time Worship Coordinator to help plan and lead both traditional and contemporary worship. Applicants must have worship leading experience with the ability to sing, play the piano, and develop musicians/vocalists. Some music training and sound/projection proficiency is desirable. Contact Randy De Jong at ranjodejong@att.net. worship director WA State Mill Creek Community Church is currently accepting applications for a Worship Director as well as a Children’s Ministry Leader. For Info. please email Rene’ at millcreekchurch@comcast.net 425-745-2094 Pastor Position at Calvin CRC in Le Mars, IA. We are located in the ice cream capital of the world in Northwest Iowa. Our congregation is seeking a leader who cultivates a personal, daily relationship with God, is gifted in preaching, has a passion for reaching the community by inspiring both young and old through Jesus’ example to integrate their faith in their daily lives, and does this by the power of the Holy Spirit. Our church profile is available at crcna.org. For further information contact search committee chairperson Tom Bjorge at tlbjorge@yahoo.com. Ministries Pastor Forestview Community Church is seeking an individual who will join our church as Ministries Pastor. Our desire is that all members of our church will be equipped and empowered to live out their fullest potential in Christ. This new position is being created to help us achieve that vision. Working alongside our Teaching Pastor and Office Administrator, the Ministries Pastor will oversee and support the organizational ministry structures; develop and implement new programs; ensure all ministries are adequately staffed and cultivate servant leadership among the members. To learn more about us please visit www.forestviewcommunitychurch. ca. Please send credentials or request more information by email to: Jessica Romaniuk jessr@cncwoodcraft.com Full time, Director of Youth MINISTRIES WoodyNook CRC, a multi-generational large church located outside Lacombe in Central Alberta, is seeking someone passionate for working with youth and intergenerational ministries. A degree in youth ministry is preferable. For the job description and full church profile please visit the website www.wncrc.ca/serving. If this position interests, you please send your resume to ericjondoef@yahoo.com 1 great great grandchild as well as several siblings. She resides at 725 Baldwin, Apt. 256, Jenison, MI 49428. 95th Birthday Dena Kooy (Withage) of 301 Homestead Blvd. #322, Lynden, WA 98264 plans to celebrate her 95th birthday on June 12 with her husband John and children Wayne, Beatrice and Brenda, Greg, Garth and Ted along with 12 grandchildren and 15 great grandchildren. Thank God for longevity. Jerry Jonker, of Holland MI, will celebrate his 95th birthday on June 13 with a family dinner. We thank Dad for his wonderful Christian example and thank God for His goodness and faithfulness throughout the years. Richard D. Sytsma turns 95 on June 20. His birthday also marks 74 years since he married Dorothy Baar, who died October 31, 2014. His children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren thank God for his faithfulness. Happy birthday, Dad and Grandpa! 90th Birthday Stuart D. Eppinga Sr. 2111 Raybrook Ave. SE #4004 Grand Rapids, MI. 49546 on June 17, 2015. Celebrating with him will be his wife of 68 years Helene (Batts); his children: Stu and Vicky, infant son William in Heaven, Bill and Arlene, Marla and Scott Huizing; 9 grandchildren and 11 great grandchildren. Psalm 104:33 James Jager of Grandville, MI, will be 90 years old on June 23, 2015. His birthday will be celebrated with an Open House on Saturday, June 20, 2015, 2 to 4pm, at the Sunset Manor, Town Square Room, 725 Baldwin St., Jenison, MI. Cards may be sent to him at Sunset Manor, 725 Baldwin St, B22, Jenison, MI 49428 Annetta DeBoe Prins Thanks be to God! On June 5 Annetta will celebrate her 90th birthday. Her children invite you to join us for a party from 2 to 4pm, Saturday, June 6th, at Breton Terrace, 2500 Breton Woods SE, Grand Rapids. Rev. Kenneth Slager of Grand Rapids, Michigan, will be 90 years old on June 11, 2015. His wife, Alice, seven children, nineteen grandchildren, and eleven great-grandchildren give thanks for his life and faith. Cards may be sent to 2111 Raybrook SE, #1006, Grand Rapids, MI 49546. “What does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” Kathryn “Kay” (Vander LAAN) TALSMA of Grand Rapids MI (formerly of Wyckoff NJ, Bloomington MN, and Ponte Vedra Beach FL) will be 90 years old on July 14! Friends may send greetings to 2105 Raybrook SE, #3056, Grand Rapids MI 49546. “Van het concert des levens krijgt niemand een program.” RALPH VISSER of Lynden, Washington, turned 90 on April 19. Celebrating the day with an open house at his home, he is thankful for the many family and friends who came. Married to Cora for 67 years, he has 4 children, 9 grandchildren, and 19 greatgrands. As a retired dairyman, he still volunteers, giving of himself as needed. His example of servanthood, love for the Lord inspires us all. “Thy Word is a lamp unto my feet, a light unto my path.” Shirley (Sittema) Zylstra plans to celebrate 90 years of life on June 18. Her family praises and thanks God for her faith, generosity, and Christian example. We love you Mom. Happy Birthday! with 9 grandchildren and 3 great-grandchildren, are grateful for God’s faithfulness in their lives. Anniversaries 70th Anniversary Sjaardema Don & Ruth will celebrate 70 years of marriage on June 28. They will take a cruise with their family as thy thank God for good health and many blessings, including 3 children, 10 grandchildren, and 15 greats. 809 Spring Lakes Blvd. Bradenton, FL 34201 65th Anniversary SCHOLTEN William and Shirley (Gorzeman), of Lynden, WA. celebrated their 65th wedding anniversary April 17, 2015. We thank God for our children Joan and husband Dale Allen, and Steven (deceased). We are thankful to God for His goodness and blessings through the years. Sytsma Leonard and Hermina (Ten Harmsel) of Elmhurst, IL, celebrate 65 years of marriage on June 7. Address: Park Place Unit 4303, 1050 Euclid Ave., Elmhurst, IL 60126. Praise God from whom all blessings flow! 60th Anniversary Dekruyter Gordon and Joyce (Schuitema) 5721 Lawndale, Hudsonville, MI, 49426, will celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary on June 2, 2015. They with their children: Tim & Julie, Doug & Deb, Brad & Linda, David & Amy, 15 grandchildren and 4 great grandchildren praise God for the many years of his faithfulness and blessings. POORTINGA Richard & Tena (nee Pasma) of Ingersoll, ON hope to celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on June 30, 2015! Their daughters and their families give thanks to God for His many blessings and great faithfulness. Peters Neal and Ann (Koning) will celebrate DV 60 yrs of marriage on June 22, 2015. They with their children Ed & Susan, Tim & Sharon, Kathy & Ken Brock, Ernie & Maria, 11 grandchildren and 8 greatgrandchildren are thankful for God’s faithfulness and blessings through the years. We plan to celebrate with an open house on June 25, 6:309pm at Ridgewood CRC, 1571 Baldwin St. Jenison, MI 49428. We love you Mom and Dad. Pruim Henry and Evelyn Pruim will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary July 2, 2015. They were married July 2, 1965 at the First Christian Reformed Church in Sioux Center, Iowa by Rev. B. J. Haan. They have two children: Sharon (Pruim) Barry, Kennett Square, PA; and Henry Pruim and his wife Christie, Orlando, FL. They have two grandchildren: Kayla and Kirsten Pruim, Orlando, FL. VerHage Lloyd & Bernice of Holland, MI will celebrate 60 years of marriage on 6-17-’15. They and their 4 children and 8 grandchildren, share their joy and gratitude to God for all of his many blessings. 55th Anniversary Raterink Gary & Shirley (Sneller) of Hudsonville, MI 49426 will celebrate 50 years of marriage on June 5, 2015. Sharing their joy & gratitude to God are: Lisa(Tim) Bowman- Gabrielle, Christian, Trusten & Gracianna. Michelle (David) Brouwer- Madeline, Lily, Jorja & Liza. Scott(Jeanna) Raterink- Tyler, Caden & Will. Devries Richard and Janet (Van Ramshorst) of 46967 Elizabeth Lane, Decatur, Michigan 49045, will celebrate 55 years of marriage on June 17. Thanking the Lord with them are their children Dawn (Brian Gerrish), Jeffrey (Lora) and Michael (Jodi) and six grandchildren. Praise God for his faithfulness and abundant blessings. Obituaries 50th Anniversary Berkenpas (Groothuis) Grace Jacoba Berkenpas, age 82, of Byron Center, MI went home to be with her Lord and Savior on Tuesday, April 7, 2015. She was preceded in death by her parents, Klass and Cathrine Groothuis and infant son Charles Berkenpas. She will be lovingly remembered by her husband of 64 years, Willard J. Berkenpas; her children, Patricia (Robert) Dykhouse, Laura (Steve) Meyering, Bill (Anola) Berkenpas, and Marci (Peter, Jr.) Woodfield; her 12 grandchildren and 19 great-grandchildren with 3 on the way. Hoekstra George and Sharon (Hoving), Burr Ridge, IL, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on June 25, 2015. We praise God for the love and devotion that they have shown to each other, their family, and those they encounter every day. Much love from their son and his family, Russ and Elise Hoekstra (Kaleb, Chloe, and Natalie). de Waal Nick and Maria celebrate 60 years of marriage on June 1. Their children, grandchildren and great grandchildren thank God for His faithfulness. Nassenstein John & Judy of Highland, IN celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary together with their children Cheri (Mark) Kohut & Rick (Lisa) Nassenstein, 10 grandchildren. We thank the Lord for the many blessings and faithfulness through the years. KREYKES, Donald and Coral (Haveman) of 6434 Leisure Creek Dr SE, Caledonia, MI 49316 will celebrate 60 years of marriage on June 16, 2015. Their children, Michael and Cheryl Brandsen, Robert and Barbara De Vries, Jon and Michelle Kreykes, and Jim and Katrina Kreykes, along PLUG Leon and Rosalie(Schabacher),18231 Walter, Lansing IL 60438, will celebrate their 50th anniversary on June 5, 2015. Much love from your family: Eric and Amy Williams (Brian, Tyler, Katie); David and Diane Plug (Dylan, Drew). We rejoice in God’s faithfulness gerritsen Robert G., age 93, passed away Tuesday, April 7, 2015. Preceded in death by wife, Irene; brother and sister-in-law Harold and Jerry Gerritsen; survived by sons Robert and Barbara (Bowman) Gerritsen, Lawrence Gerritsen, and Randall Gerritsen; sisters and brotherin-law Lois and Henry Vander Meer, Marian Sytsma; brother and sisterin-law Marvin and Verna Gerritsen. Imaginative Reading for Creative Preaching with Cornelius Plantinga, Jr. & Scott Hoezee June 19–24, 2016 Snow Mountain Ranch, Colorado A preacher’s reading deepens preaching because it deepens the preacher… Calvin Theological Seminary President Emeritus Neal Plantinga’s hugely popular and successful seminar, Imaginative Reading for Creative Preaching, is being offered at Snow Mountain to provide participating pastors a deeply enriching seminar in the mornings while bringing their families along to enjoy the afternoons together. Generous financial support will be given to all pastors and their families. For more details and application information please visit http://cep.calvinseminary.edu/events/ Sponsored by the Center for Excellence in Preaching of Calvin Theological Seminary 3233 Burton Street S.E. | Grand Rapids, Michigan 49546 | 616-957-6085 | preaching@calvinseminary.edu www.thebanner.org www.thebanner.org | February | June 2015 | THE BANNER 41 Danhoff Adrianna Margaret passed away on April 18, 2015. She was preceded in death by her husband, Harold; her brother and sister-in-law, Steve and Kay Cok and her sister and brother-in-law, Marie Ellen and Bob. She is survived by her brother Calvin (Marilyn) Cok, brothers-inlaw Menno Gremmer and Kenny (Ellen); her five children, Doug (Annmarie), Rita (Joel) Becraft, Becky (Dave) Veltkamp, Harve (Sue), and Don (Sharon); 13 grandchildren and 24 great-grandchildren. De Jong Janis Dorn, age 80, of Holland, Mi passed away on April 1, 2015. She is survived by her husband of 57 years, Benjamin De Jong and her daughter Kimberly De Jong. Jan was a public relations representative for Pan American Airways in Honolulu, was a executive assistant to presidents of corporations in San Francisco and was a leader of women’s Bible studies and Christian women’s associations for many years. Jan would like to be remembered as a devoted and loving wife, a caring mother and someone who had a deep and abiding personal relationship with Jesus Christ. DE VRIES Lois (Rens), 79, of Lakewood, CA, went home to be with the Lord on Feb. 5, 2015. Survivors include her husband of almost 60 years, Virgil; a daughter, Verla (Harold) Van Foeken; two sons, David (Vali) De Vries & Brian (Leslie) De Vries; eight grandchildren, Kristen (David) McClure; Nolan Van Foeken; Shannon (Michael) Caldwell; Nicki De Vries; Natalie De Vries; Brianna De Vries; Chloe De Vries & Molly De Vries; two brothers, John (Gertrude) Rens & Gerald “Bing” (Audrey) Rens; sister, Helene Jasper; three sisters-in-law, Coba Rens; Bette (Ken) Venhuizen & Betty De Vries; many nephews & nieces. She was preceded in death by her parents, Tim J. & Elizabeth (Huisman) Rens; brother, Bill Rens; sister, Hermina & her husband Mel Borgman; two brothersin-law, Vernon Jasper & Stan De Vries. Born and raised on a farm 42 THE BANNER | June 2015 | www.thebanner.org between Orange City & Sioux Center, IA, she was the youngest of six children. Lois & Virg lived most of their married life in California. A loving wife, mother, grandma, sister, aunt, & friend, she will be missed by many. Ippel Henry Peter Ippel entered his eternal home on April 27 at the age of 95. Henry was the loving husband of the late Marian Ribbens Ippel whose love and life he shared for 68 years. He is survived by his seven children; David and Barbara Ippel, Paul and Trudi Ippel, Charles and Sheri Ippel, Beth and Randy Zylstra, Tim and Linda Ippel, Robert and Mary Ippel, and Lester Ippel. Henry received a special joy and blessing from his 26 grandchildren and 38 great grandchildren. Konynenbelt Aleida Konynenbelt (Wevers) Passed away on March 13, 2015. in Abbotsford, BC (78 yr old); Beloved wife of the late Arie R. Konynenbelt (1999) Children; Sharon; Wendy (Sam); Lesa (Ron); Joy, Ray (Denise) 13 Grandchildren; 2 great grandchildren. LANTING Jane (Kampen) 80, of Mt Vernon WA, went home to be with the Lord her Savior on April 11, 2015. Survived by her husband of 62 years, Case, children George(Marilyn), Frank(Ingrid), Andy(Marcia), Jerry(Linda), Robert(Wendi), Heidi DeJong, Karen(Warren)Timney, Susan(Ken)Root, 34 grandchildren and 44 great grandchildren. Her parents, 5 siblings and her son-in-law Frank DeJong preceded her in death. She was a living example of Proverbs 31. LUCAS Jacob died and went to be with his Lord in heaven on Monday, April 20, 2015, at the age of 91. He was preceded in death by wife, Esther H. Lucas, in 2010, after 64 years of marriage; also his brothers, Art Lucas and Harold Lucas. Jacob was a strong man of faith who was generous to all and was a dedicated daily prayer warrior for his family. He served his Lord with his time and talents with various disaster response teams, both in the U.S. and abroad. He was also influential in helping start the local chapter of Habitat for Humanity and served as past president of the Grand Rapids Home Builders Association. Jacob also served in the Naval 78th Construction Battalion from December 1942- January 1946. He will be greatly missed by his children, Steve (Patsy) Lucas, Mary Lucas, Roger (Mary) Lucas, Marlene (Scott) Lehnert, Jessica (Jonah) Cajigas; grandchildren, Lona (Adam) VanLoozenoord, Jamie Erbes, Jenny Lucas, Katy Lucas, Hope Lucas, Jake Lucas, Steven Lucas, Jeff (Mandy) Lehnert, Laura (Ryan) Wiersema, Matt (Ashley) Lehnert, Sam Lehnert, Precious Cajigas, Faith Cajigas; great grandchildren, Ava, Abigail, Anna, Natalie, Jacob, Brielle, and Alexis; brother, Bob Lucas; sisters and brother-in-law: Ada and Harley Rillema, Esther Betten, Betty DeHaan, Doris Pennell; brother -in-law, Blaine Johnson; and several nieces and nephews. He was a loving father to 25 foster children. A funeral service was held Friday, April 24, 2015 at South Grandville Christian Reformed Church, 4130 Wilson Ave. SW with Rev. Dr. Daniel Mouw officiating. Memorial contributions may be made to Grandville Friendship Homes Inc. Interment Rosedale Cemetery. VANDERVELD Peter Frank Vanderveld, age 83 went to be with our Lord on April 9th, 2015, 4985 Gulf of Mexico Dr, # 406, Longboat Key, FL, 34228. Beloved husband of Anna Jean, nee Lanenga ; son of the late John and Rose Vanderveld; loving father of Barbara (Dale) Deschamps, Paul (Susan) Vanderveld, Glenn (Karen) Vanderveld, and Patricia (Drew) Vlasak; devoted grandfather of David (Annie) Deschamps and Nicole (Rick) Brown; Elisa, Peter (Katie) Vanderveld, Jennifer (John) Arnold, and Laura Vanderveld; Lyndsey (Dan) Bolt, Katie, and Allison Vanderveld; and Mitchell, Ashley, Tyler, and the late Christina Vlasak; great-grandfather of Noah and Avery Brown, Ella and Abigail Arnold, and William Deschamps; fond brother of John Vanderveld and the late Jeanette Decker, Margaret VanderLeest, and James Vanderveld ; uncle of many nieces and nephews. VanSledright Adrian, 92 went to be with his Lord 2/18/15. Preceded by brothers Peter, Elmer, and Rich. Survived by wife Florence Mitchell, brothers Ray (Lorraine), Henry, sister Martha, sisters-in-law Ardith and Ruth VanSledright. Employment Caregivers Needed Are you interested in working for the best living assistance services company in West Michigan? Visiting Angels is looking for people who can be excellent, not average; make a connection with our clients; be perfectly dependable; practice compassion and work with integrity. Contact Heather at 616-243-7080 or heather@ vangels.com. www.vangels.com Director of Development Sunset Retirement Communities and Services is a Christian, not-for-profit organization that provides residential communities and services for seniors. We have four communities that offer a variety of care levels ranging from independent living to skilled nursing. Sunset has a tradition of excellence that began in 1973. With staff and board members dedicated to enriching senior lives, our resources are focused on innovative living and offerings. The Director of Development is responsible for the implementation of a strategic approach to fund raising that includes, major gifts, financial donations, grant solicitation/writing, and in-kind resources. The position will provide general oversight and day to day operation of fund development operations including, but not limited to, fund raising activities, promotion, special events, policies and procedures related to fund raising. Interested applicants should apply online at www. sunsetcommunities.org, please be sure to include your resume and cover letter. Any questions can be directed Melissa Ohm, Human Resource Director at mohm@sunsetmanor.org Executive Director Bethany Home is licensed as a Multi-Level Retirement Community with Independent living, Assisted living including Memory Care, Skilled Nursing, Adult Day Care and In-Home Care Services. The Executive Director has the following responsibilities: Provide leadership, guidance and development to a staff of 230 people. Manage a $12 million annual budget, meeting the goals of Bethany Home. Work with the board and staff to create, implement, monitor and adjust a strategic and tactical plan. Engage and work in collaboration with the board of directors on matters of governance, mission, vision, and strategy. Resumes and applications should be emailed to: ahutchins@bethanyripon.org or mailed to The Search Committee, Adam Hutchins, Director of Human Resources, Bethany Home Society of San Joaquin County, Inc., 930 West Main Street, Ripon, CA 95366 Candidates should provide a cover letter describing their interest in and qualifications for the position, a resume, and the names and telephone numbers of three professional references. In the cover letter, candidates should address the following questions: 1)Describe how your faith impacts your approach to the care of seniors. 2)Give an example where you have seen an organizational strategy through to a successful conclusion. 3) Describe your approach to solving conflict. References will not be contacted until candidates have been notified. For full consideration, materials should be received by July 1, 2015. For additional information about Bethany Home Society and a position profile, please visit our Web site at bethanyripon.org Real Estate: Sales and Rentals Lake front log Cottage 2 bdr, sleeps 8, 30 min N of GR. Sandy swimming, incl. boat, swim raft, kayaks. All sport lake $750/wk Call Shawn for photo’s 616-240-3915 WEEKLY RENTAL: Douglas/Saugatuck, MI: Newly built Lake Michigan family guest house, 2br, loft w/ 2.5ba - sleeps 8. Lake Mi view & private beach. Call Ken @ 630-268-1531 or email Groenjk@aol.com COTTAGE 4 RENT 4 bed, 3 bath, updated. 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Limited Seating! 44 THE BANNER | June 2015 | www.thebanner.org spectrum tours - New England Tour - September 30 - October 9, 2015 A passport or enhanced drivers license is required for this tour. Guided tours of Montreal, Shelburne Farm, Portland, Kennebunkport, Boston, Cape Cod and Nantucket Island. Visit Trapp Family Lodge, Mt. Mansfield, Portland Headlight (most photographed lighthouse in Maine), Quincy Market, Provincetown, and Norman Rockwell Museum. Stop at Niagara Falls on the way home. Motor Coach from G. R. Includes 9B, 2L, 9D, 9 nights lodging, all admissions, services of local guides, dinner cruise on Lake Champlain, boat cruise to Nantucket Island, fun and fellowship. 10 day tour is $1979.00 PP/(DO)- Single S, add $550.00. For detailed brochure or to make a reservation- call Spectrum Tours at 616-243-8381 or 888-243-8381 spectrum tours - New York City - November 12 - 17, 2015 NEW YORK! NEW YORK! 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FaithAliveResources.org/Sale HU M OR Punch Lines What has made you smile lately? Got a joke or funny incident you’d care to share with your wider church family? Please send it to The Banner at 1700 28th Street SE, Grand Rapids, MI 49508-1407; or email it to editorial@thebanner.org. Thanks! A s he was dying, a ver y wealthy man regretted all he would leave behind. After intense negotiation, God allowed him to bring one suitcase to heaven filled with whatever the man wanted. He decided to bring gold bars because these would allow him to take as much of his wealth with him as possible. Arriving at the pearly gates, he explained to St. Peter that God had allowed him to take the suitcase with him. Peter reluctantly agreed, but asked, “May I see what it is that was so precious to you that you would take it here?” The man opened the case, eagerly awaiting Peter’s reaction to his great riches. Peter peeked inside and then turned to the man, incredulous. “You brought pavement?!” —Mark Stephenson I learn a lot from my elementary age Sunday school students. One day, as an introduction to a Bible story about Elijah, I asked the class, “Is it always easy to follow God?” Grace answered confidently, “No. He’s a lot faster than we are.” —Cindy Michael M y daughter is an educat i o n a l a s s i s t a nt at a Roman Catholic high school for special needs students. One day the lesson was about Easter. She asked her student if he knew the meaning of Easter. The young man thought for a while but had no answer. To help him along, she started to sing, “Up from the grave he arose.” The boy interrupted and said, “I know, I know!” He then started to sing, “He knows when you are good or bad, so be good for goodness’ sake”! —Corrie De Wilde T he Bible story I was teaching my grade 2 Sunday school students was about Jesus healing a man with a skin disease. One of the girls interrupted and said proudly, “I know that story—the man was a leprechaun!” —Ashley Elgersma tion who had not sinned to stand up. An older man near the back stood up. The preacher asked, “Are you saying that you have never sinned?” “Oh,” said the man, “I have sinned, but I am standing up for my wife’s first husband.” —Bob VanderLaan D uring conversation at a dinner, I informed the man seated next to me that I was a preacher. He replied, “You know, we’re actually in the same trade. I am an anesthetist; my job is putting people to sleep. And you do the same thing!” —Walt DeRuiter T he other day, after one of her lessons, I was giving my 6-year-old daughter a pep talk. I told her, “I believe in you!” Her response? “But Mom, we believe in God!” —Torrey Edwards T he irony of life is that by the time you’re old enough to know your way around, you’re not going anywhere. —Sue Lauritzen M y daughter and I often have to remind my 4-yearold grandson, Daniel, that when talking in church we have to use our “inside voices.” One Sunday, when the pastor was getting particularly passionate during a part of his sermon, Daniel leaned over to me and said, “He has to learn to use his inside voice.” —Dick Vandersma T he pastor was preaching a stirring sermon on sin. He stated that all have sinned, and there is no one who has not sinned. To prove his point, he asked anyone in the congrega- “It’s O.K. by me. Ask your mom.” www.thebanner.org | June 2015 | THE BANNER 47 A Christian University in Hamilton, Ontario I know the world can be transformed. 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