2006 Winter
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2006 Winter
PARENT TO PARENT A publication of the London Down Syndrome Association, serving Elgin, Huron, Middlesex, Oxford and Perth Counties. Winter, 2006 LDSA Website Address: www.ldsa.ca Guest Speaker At our annual silent auction, dinner and dance, we were honoured to have as our guest speaker, Russell Hubbard. During his speech, a pin could have been heard dropping on the floor. As sent to me in an email letter from Bev Bialik, this pretty much sums it up, in regards to Russell’s speech and the silence while presenting: “He wasn't expected to speak about anything in particular, just let us know about his life and in Russell's case he chose to talk about all of the important people that have supported him. Personally, I thought he did a fantastic job, delivering his speech with confidence and skill. Russell is a very wellspoken young man, and had the crowd in the palm of his hand”. Needless to say, a standing ovation was given to Russell after his speech was over. The meaning of self advocate is best described by Ed Hager, and Russell is certainly a self advocate. A self advocate is one who stands up for themselves, fights for their own rights, addresses discrimination that they see, and speaks their mind on their own behalf. One of the best gifts we as parents and grandparents can give is to foster the courage in our children to be a self advocate. A copy of his speech can be found on page twenty-two. Contacts & Representatives, 2006-2007 President Vice-President Paul Van Eyk Randy Bilton Secretary Bev Bialik ldsapresident@yahoo.ca vpldsa@yahoo.ca ldsasecretary@yahoo.ca Treasurer Sandy Bogart Peer Representative Heather Verdun Newsletter Editor Bernie Douglas sandyldsa@yahoo.com detectiveheather@yahoo.ca ldsaeditor@rogers.com Thames Valley District School Board London District Catholic School Board S.E.A.C. – Public System S.E.A.C. – Separate System Andy Loebus Steve Nadeau aloebus@yahoo.com snadeau@rogers.com Ed Hager Lucille Panziera Advisor to the President Rose Price Past President Ed Hager pricehome@sympatico.ca ehager@sympatico.ca Teen Coordinator Jane Riviere London Health Sciences Centre Susan Blass blass.family@sympatico.ca Sibling Representative Tiah Eccles tiah_137@hotmail.com rriviere@sympatico.ca Scrapbook Facilitator Diane Vieira diane.vieira@sympatico.ca LDSA Address: 1129 Gladstone Drive RR#2, Belmont, Ontario, N0L 1B0 Tel.; (519) 644-1867 E-mail Randy: ldsapresident@yahoo.ca Tots Coordinator Sarah Small ldsatotcoordinator@hotmail.com Non-profit Charitable Organization BN: 86694 2493 RR 001 —————————————————————————————————————————— Disclaimer This newsletter reports items of interest relating to Down syndrome and will provide a forum to others. We do not espouse any particular political or religious view. ”Parent To Parent” does not recommend any treatment or therapy. Individuals or organizations referred to do not necessarily endorse this publication or the editors. We wish to bring together those interested in Down syndrome and attempt to create an optimistic attitude and outlook. The editor reserves the right to make corrections as required. Material in this newsletter cannot be reproduced without permission. London Down Syndrome Assn. Winter 2006 2 From The Desk of Our President Well, where do I start ! This has been a very busy fall. We had so much stuff going on that I was glad to be laid off most of the time. I do not know how Ed or Rose ever did this working at their busy full time jobs. My schedule in the new year calls for less work and more of me serving you ! Camp Talk About IT D.S.A.O. Conference As of deadline time, the speech camp is doing great and firing on all cylinders. Liz and her gang have done a great job with nothing but positive comments coming my way from parents. It will be my hope that if this program does continue in the new year, we will keep the same children, if mom and dad wish, and bring in a new class next fall. On the second last weekend of October, five members of the LDSA attended this conference in Peterborough. We all took in sessions presented by professionals from all over Eastern Ontario. Because all five of us are on the fund raising committee, Saturday night ended up being a long fund raising meeting. The topic was “Backup Plans” and two out of the three plans we developed actually came into play during the Silent Auction, Dinner and Dance. Earlier that night I went to the DSAO board meeting and to dinner with the gang. Everyone is this group has a slightly different angle and if you ever get a chance to listen to Dr Ashley Malloy, Order of Ontario, and President of the Down Syndrome Association of Toronto, keep your ears open because he may be the smartest man in our area, who is dedicated to the cause of Down syndrome. Ashley is now on the World Down Syndrome Counsel as the Canadian Rep. I do realize that however great our camp is, this format can not work for all children in our membership. With this in mind I will ask the LDSA Board to consider reinstating the Speech Bursary Program in our May budget. We are not at the stage where we could possibly help every child but we are close. Just a reminder, Your $10 membership is due January 1st, 2007. This is important because in the future, we may only be able to provide such programs to registered active members. It has come up in my fundraising canvassing that the more active members we have, the more donations we will get. The more donations we get the more money we have for speech ! John Labatt Centre Our watch is on for more upcoming events for us to take advantage of. Ours teens had their night and our friends of the association enjoyed Elton John. I personally had a lot of fun seeing the Wiggles. Disney On Ice is coming in the new year so please contact me if you are interested in group sales tickets. Down Syndrome Association of Ontario In September, I attended my first D.S.A.O. meeting in Oshawa. I quickly discovered that this is a forum that could teach us a lot about everything we need to know about running a Down syndrome support group. The current board is a warm supportive group that is more than willing to help us out. This is my true feelings. I’m not just saying this because we will be starting a newsletter exchange and they are reading this ! They can show us ways to cut costs, write proposals and lobby more effectively. The next meeting is early in the new year and I will be asking one other LDSA board member to come along to catch anything that may fly over my head. London Down Syndrome Assn. Volunteers I am very proud of the volunteers that we have, but we are burning them out. We are looking for more volunteers for various events and programs. In the future some programs that we may offer just might have a volunteer requirement attached to them. Can you help them as they help us run various programs? Winter 2006 3 From the Desk of Our President…..cont’d Julie’s Journey Fundraising Report Shortly after our fundraiser, we were contacted by an organizer of another auction for a worthy cause. Evan is a four year old boy with Down syndrome, who is in the middle of treatment for leukemia. There was a gentleman at our event who is special to someone in our group. He lives with his mom and dad near Julie and Evan and they reported back about the success of our event and the Julie’s Journey organizer called for help. For Julie, I built the evening program since building ours was so fresh in my head. We also shared information about both events and we learned from each other. On Friday November 24th, my wife, Dianne and I attended this great event in Burlington, a silent auction that I could sit back and enjoy; that has not happened in a few years. We sat with Allen and his mom and dad and a group from Hamilton. We ended coming home with a handmade Teddy for our daughter and an appreciation of how lucky we are that our girl’s only issue has been low blood sugar. Wow ! What a night. This year’s Silent Auction, Dinner and Dance was our most successful event to date. Rose, Sandy, Bev, Carol, Lesley, Kym, Deanna, Ed, Steve, Paul and a whole lot more people really came through. The one thing that really showed this year was all the hard planning. Thanks goes to Natalie for letting us take over her basement. The sponsors really stepped up this year. Please consider them first when you make a purchasing decision. We could not get many more into that hall and we have some tough decisions on next year. As of right now the Silent Auction will be held next year on October 27th. We had some people come out this year to our event just because they did not want to go to a Halloween party, so next year we may advertise us as the alternative to such events. The fundraising committee will meet regularly and keep you updated. Festival of Fashion The Daughters of Penelope will hold their 17th annual fashion show at the Hellenic Community Centre on Southdale Rd, in London, on Sunday April 15th at 3:30pm. Bingo The LDSA has been invited by the Donnybrook Branch of The Royal Canadian Legion, Dorchester, Ontario to volunteer at one of their bingo’s in the new year. We then would receive a portion of the proceeds. As of right now, I am suggesting that the Moms’ Scrapbooking Program send in their moms and this is how we can fund that group for the next year. If we do well, we may be asked back and I will ask people who receive other programs to take part. This year we, The LDSA, will be the beneficiary of this event. We will have two of our members well dressed in front of the crowd and if you ask Sandy, Bev, Ed, Steve or myself, we will tell you that they serve a great meal as we attended this year’s function. We will also get a chance to have a display table, so again SEND US PICTURES (with permission to use)! The fundraising committee has lots of other great ideas on the go and we will keep you updated. We would like to add members to our fund group, so if you are interested please let me know. We will be selling tickets as soon as we get them, and I hope to see you there. London Down Syndrome Assn. Winter 2006 4 Down Syndrome Awareness Week Declaration and Stroll From the Desk of Our Treasurer The big news for this newsletter edition is the success of our Silent Auction, Dinner & Dance. There were 238 people at the event, which is an increase of 60% in attendance. It was a totally amazing night. I loved to see all of our members up dancing and especially enjoyed watching the breakdancing teens. The net profit of the fundraiser was approximately $16,400.00. I want to say a big “thank-you” to all the members of the fundraising committee and all the volunteers that made that night such a great success and a wonderful memory. On Saturday, November 4th, a small but fun loving group of our members got together at the Covent Garden Market in London. The Town Crier announced Down Syndrome Awareness Week and we were off around the block! This was one of three events that day. The other two were speech camp in the morning and Teen's Night that afternoon. Everyone can not make them all. Thanks to those who came and next year we will defiantly do this bigger! As we now have approximately $17,838 in the bank, the budget needs to be determined for the upcoming year. This is where you, the members, should become involved. As members of this association, the Board of Directors, require your input as to what services you would like us to provide for your child. Please feel free to contact me via email at sandyldsa@yahoo.com or by phone at (519)268-1666 to express your ideas. Thanks also goes out to the manager of the market who allowed us to move the event closer to the building and farther away from the road for safety sake. There is a photo of the event on page 16. In connection with voicing your opinion on how the LDSA spends their money, members should be advised that only PAID UP members are entitled to vote at any general meeting. Our membership list has over 160 families on it, yet only about 20 families are members in good standing. Of course, we welcome any and all opinions, but only those members in good standing will have a vote. The membership fee is $10 per year and is due January 1st of each year. If you are unsure if you have paid your dues, please contact me. If all members were to pay the nominal $10 per year dues, then our association would have extra money to put into programs that the members want. January 13, Line dancing, Hamilton Road Seniors Centre (Teen/Young Adult outing) January 22, LDSA Board Meeting (General business) February, Disney on Ice (Dates not available at deadline) February 16, Cooking class, Loblaws Superstore South (Teen/Young Adult Outing) March 5, LDSA Board meeting (Budget) March 21, United Nations World Down Syndrome Day and DSRI Fundraiser May 7, LDSA General Meeting July 14, LDSA Annual Summer Picnic at Springbank Park I know I harp on this subject with every newsletter, but I cannot stress enough that the LDSA needs more volunteers. As this association grows we need more people to be involved in the running of various programs. We cannot even consider the idea of increasing our existing programs if we do not have the volunteers and committed people to run them. Remember, this association is run solely by volunteers. So, if you are interested in volunteering in any way, please contact me. In closing, I wish you and your family a happy holiday season and a great new year. I hope that everyone has a safe and happy holiday season. Randy Bilton President Sandy Bogart Treasurer London Down Syndrome Assn. Winter 2006 5 Financial Statement 4th Annual Silent Auction, Dinner and Dance SALES 2005 2006 Ticket Sales (2005=149 and 2006 = 264) 1,800.00 5,280.00 Bar Sales 1,294.00 0.00 Auction Sales 7,302.00 12,026.00 Mystery Gift 540.00 545.00 50/50 Tickets 470.00 310.00 Yellow Brick Road Sales 0.00 1,000.00 Bracelet Sales 0.00 111.00 Calendar Sales 0.00 140.00 Balloon Pop Sales 0.00 500.00 T- Shirt Sales 0.00 191.00 60.00 20.00 Cash Donations 0.00 3,110.00 TOTAL SALES 11,466.00 23,233.00 195.12 2,659.07 Elton John Tickets 0.00 2,159.50 Calendar Costs 0.00 84.00 T- Shirt Costs 0.00 100.70 Membership Renewal EXPENSES Meal Liquor License 75.00 0.00 Bar (See "details") 804.99 0.00 General & Supplies 81.18 368.99 100.00 658.67 0.00 249.98 50.00 0.00 225.00 397.50 Decorations Cutlery Rental Bartender DJ (450-225 reimburse DSRI) Gas 55.00 0.00 0.00 153.68 Candle Holders, Mirrors 36.35 0.00 Glasses 48.58 0.00 TOTAL EXPENSES $ 1,671.22 6,832.09 NET PROFIT $ 9,894.78 $16,400.91 Materials for Signs Actual attendance for 2006 was 238 people. London Down Syndrome Assn. Winter 2006 6 Framed Certificates Were Presented In Recognition Of Their Leadership As Past Presidents and Their Dedication To The London Down Syndrome Association, Its Members and Their Families. October 28th, 2006 For those of you who were unable to attend our annual Silent Auction, Dinner and Dance, a certificate of recognition for past services was handed out to Ken Sumnall and Kevin Henderson. Also, honourary mention was given to Rose Price (our current advisor to the president) and Andy Loebus (our Thames Valley District School Board S.E.A.C.—Public System representative) for being the co-founders of our annual Silent Auction, Dinner and Dance. Ken Sumnall (left) is being presented with a framed certificate of recognition at our annual Silent Auction, Dinner and Dance. The presenter is our current president, Randy Bilton. Ken was president of the "Parent-to-Parent for Down Syndrome” support group from 1985 to 1990 and attended with his wife Joan the first public meeting that was held at the former Scatcherd Children’s Centre on Sarnia Road in September 1983. Parent-to-Parent for Down Syndrome was founded in January 1983 by a group of five mothers who were involved in gross motor sessions with their infant children with Down syndrome. They all felt a real need to get together and share there needs and emotions. Meetings were held at the homes of these mothers. Two of these mothers, Brenda Atchison and Lorraine Hewett, became the driving force behind the creation of Parent-toParent and were the groups first Coordinators or Co-Presidents. A radio interview followed by a newspaper article in the London Free Press documented parents concerns about the lack of support and information available in the hospital at the time of birth and that building on the collective experience of parents, they could act as a resource group to local hospitals and offer support to new parents. With those two objectives in mind Brenda and Lorraine set out to organize the group. Of course in the background were there spouses Al and Jim. Some other early members were Linda & David Vince, Helen & John Olthoff, Myrna & Jim Fisk, Cathy & Dwayne Hubbard, Marie & Randy Hatherall and Deidre & Grant Monteith. Kevin Henderson (right) accepts his framed certificate of recognition from Randy. Kevin was our president for a two year term from December, 1999 to December, 2001. Kevin also created the Bylaws and Constitution, our website and acquired the charity status. In March, 2000 under Kevin’s leadership, the “Parent to Parent for Down Syndrome” name was changed to "London Down Syndrome Association". London Down Syndrome Assn. Winter 2006 7 Thank You To Our Donors LDSA acknowledges the generosity of all its donors, including those individuals, businesses, corporations, and employee groups, which offer support for the work we do. Your gift to LDSA will make a huge difference in the life of someone with Down syndrome. It is through the community-minded generosity of people like you that we can continue to serve those living with Down syndrome. We thank you! 3M Canada A & A E-Z Brush & Oiler A & M Garden Centre Ltd. A&P Adkins Financial Services Inc. Ahepa Family Charity Appliance Canada Athletic Club Battlefield Equipment Rentals Beauty Total Belmont Foodland Bialik Family Bilton Family Black Creek Pioneer Village - Toronto BOB FM Body Essence Tanning Brad Troop BrassCraft (Masco Canada) Buckland Customs Brokers Ltd. BX 93 Cabral Family Canada Post Canadian Geographic Enterprises Canadian National Exhibition Canadian Tire Candace Loosley Carolyn Rintoul Carpet Place Flooring Centres CAW Local 1520 Hall Centennial Hall Charm Diamond Centre Checker Limo Cindy Dearmo Cindy Taylor Co Operators Insurance Collins Formal Wear Core Industries Cousins Family Coyle & Greer Awards Canada Ltd. Crabby Joes Crozier Family Curiosities Gift Shoppe Dale Downie Pontiac Buick Deb Henshaw London Down Syndrome Assn. Winter 2006 Delaware Speedway Delta Faucet (Masco Canada) Dillon Consulting Doctus of London Dollarama – Wellington Road Domino Pizza Donna Wood Dorchester Farm & Pet Supplies Dr. Doan Dr. Clive Friedman Dr. Manfred Friedman East Park East Side Mario's Electro Graphix Printing Esthetics Salon Fadi's Beauty Shop Falconwood Farms Fanshawe Pioneer Village Flagswipe Paintball Fleetway Bowling Centre Forest of Flowers Framing & Art Fresher's Sports Car Friend of Bobby Orr Global Spectrum Entertainment Grand Theatre Hack Family Harmony Grand Buffet Heeman Greenhouses Henderson Gallery Hera’s Beauty Heritage Country Gardens Holdaway Family Home Styles/Z Group Hooks Restaurant Hubbard Family Hully Gully IBM Canada ICI Paints Jazzercise Kathleen Price Keiper Ltd. Kelly Armstrong (Author) Ken Lusk 8 Kenworth Trucks Laura Durston Lavender Home Décor LDSA Executive Committee Leon's Furniture LGL Automotive Loblaws Wonderland Market Lois Bogart London Chiropractic Health Centre London Custom Concrete London Free Press London Honda London Speech & Language Centre Loving Country Creations M.P. Window & Door Store Marineland Marjorie Edigar Mark's Work Wearhouse Marlene Henshaw Marshall’s Pasta Mill Mary Eccles Maton Family McLean-Taylor Construction Medieval Times – Toronto Memories on Main Street Methadone Associates Michelle Hartle Mr. & Mrs. Rintoul Mustang Drinkware Inc. National Ballet of Canada New Orleans Pizza Nimbus Water Depot Nunes Family Ontario Place - Toronto Ontario Science Centre - Toronto Orchestra London Oxford Learning Centre Performance Unlimited Phil Robb Precision Health Care Presstran Industries Price Family Queen’s Inn at Stratford Ralph Bos Meats Ltd - Strathroy Rehab Place Romick Family Rosemary Hill Royal Dalton - White Oaks Mall Keiper Ltd. Kelly Armstrong (Author) Ken LuskSandra Dallaire Scholar's Choice Toy Store Scrapbook Studio Scrappin’ Great Deals – Kilworth Sean Horrell, Photographer Sharpe Family Sherri Stevens, Stampin’ Up Sladek Family Smitty’s Restaurants Spikes Springbank Garden Centers Stan Tracey Station Park All Suite Hotel Sterling Trucks Stratford Festival of Canada T D Bank The Glass Cutter The London Hunt Golf & Country Club The Reader’s Digest Association of Canada Tim Echart Timbers Chop House Tony Roma’s Trojan Technologies TSC Stores UPS Van Eyk Family Van Horik’s Greenhouses Ltd. Vision Hair Studio Walmart Wayne Gretzky’s Restaurant -Toronto Western Meats & Deli We would like to express our appreciation to the following volunteers! Jessica Dearmo Micheal Dearmo Elana Delaney Jonathon Durston Sharon Durston Kimberly Durston London Down Syndrome Assn. Jordon Eccles Tiah Eccles Nick Findlay Denis Sevaris Malan Sevaris Fundraising Committee Members 9 Tips from life – Bricks and Bouquets Ed Hager 2006-11-26 I was approached the other day from one of our LDSA members, thanking me for being so candid about being a parent with a child with Down syndrome. Accomplishments are awesome, but so too be the hard knocks, embarrassments and situations of real life that come along. I believe we need to share, openly, our bricks and bouquets. Bouquets -- to Glencoe District High School, Mrs. Sharon White, and the Senior DC program. When presented with the concept to create a Halloween costume, Mrs. White stated, YES, and the result was the Student of the Week award for one of our teens. Together, Mrs. White and Art gathered the materials, sewed up a shark outfit, added the eyes and blood. Alas, the “Shark Attack” was born. (see picture). This could turn into a rental fundraiser! Bouquets -- to the teacher and educational assistant who requested a meeting with the parents of one of our teens. This year, for the first time females were in an all male class. The boys had to learn new social skills. One day, one of the boys grabs the derriere of one of the females in the class. Three things could have happened. The young lady could have smiled and accepted the invitation by the young man. Or, the young lady could have turned around and slugged the young man. Or, the young lady could have told her parents, who could have called the police and charged the young man with assault! The best thing happened. The school called the parents first, and together they worked out the discipline for the inappropriate conduct. Then, future education for both boys and girls, and immediate social skill support for all involved. Bricks -- to the executives of Ontario Special Olympics who decreed that volunteer coaches are not to be on the playing field during provincial play down competitions. So only, able bodied, high functioning developmental delayed athletes need apply. The rest of us, the majority, who exude the Special Olympic oath, can watch on the side lines. Athletes requiring the necessary supports, should have a right to compete too! Bouquets -- to the school team who read the report from this year’s DSRI summer school. In particular the integrated daily speech therapy provision and the concept of continuous expressive language implementation! This particular student required daily practice to maintain conversational speech. So the school provided the student with a walkietalkie, and required the student to report regularly, back to his teacher, his whereabouts and situation. Bouquets – to the educational assistant who noted that one of the real challenges of our children with Down syndrome was during transitions that required immediate and distinctive action and reaction; the school fire drill! The answer was to assign our student to the main school door to be held open. Along with that task, add the before mentioned walkietalkie, and you have an empowered teenager, participating at a high level and making an impact to his/her fellow classmates! Accomplishments are truly awesome. Guess whose son was “Student of the Week”? Here are the proud father’s own words: “Ahh! Time to brag”. London Down Syndrome Assn. Winter 2006 10 From The Desk of Your Newsletter Editor: Well! here it is December, already. Christmas is just around the corner and so is a brand new year. It is hard to believe that it has been a year since I was nominated and elected as your newsletter editor. My first newsletter, Spring, 2006, was very challenging for me as I never tackled anything like this before. After many hours of adding, deleting and moving things around, I was ready for publication. It doesn’t matter how many times you proofread your work before you send it to the printer, as soon as you pick up a finished product, bam! all the errors just seem to pop right out at you. I must admit that this job does get easier with every newsletter that I do, and hopefully the errors that you notice become less and less. Now comes the real fun part, the stuffing, sealing, stamping and addressing of the envelopes. I would have preferred self-sealing envelopes but the cost of them is just out of this world. Thank God for a little damp sponge; it sure saves a lot of licking and an awful taste in your mouth. I must say that our Canada Post did something right when they came out with the self-adhesive stamp. Now that it is time for my fourth newsletter, I have this part of the work down pat. My two older grandchildren, Trenton and Tara, ages seven and five respectively, come over and we all have assigned jobs. In no time, we have the 160 plus newsletters ready for mailing. I usually do not insert an article in the newsletter other than the deadline date for the next newsletter, but I had this one little article that had to go in and no room to squeeze it in. I had to insert another page and after putting in the article, I had this big empty space left over, so needless to say, this article was written and added. We are always looking for stories or articles pertaining to Down syndrome, especially stories from you, the parents, about your child. Also, pictures are always needed. I know that my three year old granddaughter, Trinity, who has Down syndrome, just loves looking at pictures, so I try to include as many as I can into the newsletter. So, please; if you have anything, send them to me. My email address is ldsaeditor@rogers.com Any article or photo has to be submitted with permission to publish. Wouldn’t you rather read an article about a child or look at some pictures, instead of reading an article from me; the choice is yours. At this time, I would like to wish everyone a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Oh. I almost forgot. The deadline for the Spring, 2007 newsletter is set at March 16th, 2007. Bernie Douglas ————————————————————————————————————————————————-- Hi everyone: Its time again to put our special somebodies in our memory books again.... I have the following dates booked for South Loblaws, Wonderland at Southdale…. January 19th, February 9th, March 9th, and April 13th…. The times are from 6pm until 10pm. Hope to see you there. Diane Vieira London Down Syndrome Assn. Winter 2006 11 Halloween has come and gone. London Down Syndrome Assn. Winter 2006 12 Boy! did we have fun. London Down Syndrome Assn. Winter 2006 13 The Wiggles Come to Town Submitted by Randy Bilton On November 1st, a group of LDSA members took in the Australian Children's group, The Wiggles. If you thought that these kids might have been worn out from Halloween, you were wrong. Our LDSA kids never stopped dancing. We were not hard to miss in our new LDSA T-Shirts. ——–—————————————————————————— Sir Elton John Comes to Town Submitted by Bev Bialik On the evening of November 6th, fourteen people, all family and friends of the LDSA, were excited to be in attendance at Elton John’s first London concert, at the John Labatt Centre. We were fortunate to be seated in the City of London’s Community Box to which the LDSA won access, through a draw at City Hall. The concert tickets were distributed at our Silent Auction Dinner and Dance fundraiser on October 28th. What a thrill it was to hear Elton sing live, all of the songs that so many of us grew up with! There was a lot of singing, and yes, some dancing in the crowd! It was a night we won’t soon forget! London Down Syndrome Assn. Winter 2006 14 TEEN TALK WOW, what a busy fall we’ve had! In September we played mini-golf at East Park and some of the braver members in the group went rockclimbing. October found us at Michael’s Arts & Crafts where we made ghoulish candy pots. Then November found us at the JLC for a Knight’s game, in a box no less; what a cool way to watch the action. Everyone had a blast; there were munchies galore and the Knights were kind enough to pull off a win, just for us of course! Then the icing on the cake; when it came time to settle up the tab for the evening, Ed and I were informed that an anonymous donor had taken care of the food & drink portion of the bill. The individual had seen our group arrive for the game and told the staff that we were not to leave without him settling up for us. Even though we would have loved to thank the individual personally he wished to remain anonymous. Who says angels don’t exist? I just wanted to share this lovely story with everyone. Jane Riviere rriviere@sympatico.ca Upcoming events: January 13th February 16th London Down Syndrome Assn. Line dancing, Hamilton Road Seniors Centre Cooking class, Loblaws Superstore South Winter 2006 15 Did you know? • Frequently used, but incorrect, past terminology for the condition was Down’s Syndrome. Correct, and current practice, is to use the term Down syndrome. In 1866, Dr. J. L. Down identified a group of common characteristics in a number of his patients. The condition is named for this physician, who first described it. • When making reference to children who have Down syndrome, if you are careful to say “the child with Down syndrome” rather than “the Down syndrome child” or “a Down’s child” or “he is Down’s”, parents know that you see the child first, not the disability. Of course, this applies to adults as well. • When making inquires of, or speaking about a person with Down syndrome in their presence, it is only polite to speak directly to the individual, not to the family members, caregivers, or friends that are around them. It is demeaning to a person to have questions asked of other people when the question or comment is specifically related to oneself. If you do not understand what someone with Down syndrome has just said to you, tell him or her so, and ask them to please repeat what they said, just as you would with anyone else. • It is accurate to say that individuals were born with Down syndrome, rather than to say that they “suffer form” or “are afflicted” with it. Down syndrome is not a fatal or painful condition. People with Down syndrome “live with”, “overcome the challenges of”, “manage” and “prevail” despite their diagnosis. • The term “Group Home” conjures a negative image. Try using residential home, or simply “home’, instead. —————————————————————————————————————————————————————- New Member The London Down Syndrome Association extends a warm welcome to the following new member: Harry & Marianne Frielink, a child with Down syndrome—Reuben—born in January, 2006 Reuben has three siblings—Isaiah (7), Peter (5), and Elissa (3) ————————————————————————————————————————— Down Syndrome Awareness Week London Down Syndrome Assn. Winter 2006 16 Promoting Workplace Safety to the Disabled Community Everyone working in Ontario has the right to a safe and healthy workplace. But, for the tens of thousands of disabled people employed or seeking employment in this province, getting the information they need to ensure their health and safety at work can be a challenge. To provide people with disabilities with vital knowledge about their rights and responsibilities in the workplace, as well as to help them recognize and avoid hazards at work, the Workplace Safety and Insurance Board (WSIB) offers a range of resources. All of these are intended to produce safer, better-informed and more knowledgeable disabled workers (whether seeking employment or currently working) who have the confidence and knowledge they need to work safely. Information Centre (Toronto) This Centre, located on the ground floor of our office at 200 Front St. W. in Toronto, provides information using formats, languages and technologies that meet the diverse needs of WSIB clients. Resources include: • Walk-in personalized customer service in several languages • WSIB publications in alternative formats • Special needs equipment [computer with access software (i.e. Zoomtext), CCTV(closed circuit), Pocket Talker] • Braille, large print and CD/MP3/Daisy Fact Sheets Access to the WSIB website and other health and safety sites Multilingual Hotline We respond to a wide range of calls in several languages ensuring that all clients have access to, and the ability to better understand, the workplace safety and insurance system. The TTY is also always available for our deaf or hard of hearing clients. · Tel: (416) 344-2000, or toll free: 1-800-465-5606 · TTY: 1-800-387-0050 · E-mail: translation@wsib.on.ca SafeAbility – Safe and Able to Work SafeAbility is a health and safety awareness training program for disabled people as they enter the workforce, and for employers who hire people with disabilities. It was developed jointly by the WSIB, Linkup Employment Services, and representatives from various organizations within the disabled community. · http://www.safeability.ca Website Information The WSIB’s new website, www.prevent-it.ca, is designed to help people find out why "There really are no accidents" by providing a variety of workplace health and safety information and resources in an interactive format. Visitors can put their hazard recognition skills to the test and learn about their role in building a prevention culture in their workplace. In addition, the site contains a collection of the WSIB's prevention resources and provides links to our health and safety partners. Text versions of prevent-it.ca are also available to provide people with learning or physical disabilities another format for accessing the information. This is an option for people who are not comfortable browsing websites. London Down Syndrome Assn. Winter 2006 17 Medical Tips from the Down Syndrome Clinic How does Sleep Apnea Occur? by Dr. Mary Pothos, C.H.E.O. Treatment of Ear Wax Buildup: Earwax is made by glands in the outer part of the ear canal. It is healthy to have some earwax inside the ear canal. Sometimes earwax can be a problem because too much earwax has collected in the ear canal. It may then act as an earplug, blocking sound vibrations entering the ear and causing a hearing loss. This can also be a problem because your doctor cannot see your child’s eardrum at the time of fever to see if there is an infection. It can also cause a feeling of fullness or an uncomfortable sensation for your child. There are safe ways to remove earwax if there is a constant buildup or if it is causing pain or loss of hearing. 1. Three to four drops of mineral oil in the ear canal twice a week or once a month for 3 - 5 consecutive days. Try this at bedtime and have your child let the oil sit in the eardrum for 1 – 2 minutes before moving. This is especially good for dry wax in the ear canal. The oil helps soften the earwax and get the excess wax to slowly move out of the ear. The wax will fall out or may be cleaned safely from the outer ear with a washcloth. 2. Hydrogen peroxide – a small dropper full in each ear at bedtime twice a week or once a month for 3 – 5 days. This is especially good for earwax that is soft. It helps break up the wax so that it can slowly move out of the ear canal. 3. If either of the above does not work, your doctor can help by using irrigation (ear washes), a curette (tiny spoon shaped tool) or suction. If these methods don’t work, your doctor may refer you to an ear – nose/throat (ENT) specialist for earwax removal. *Do not do the above if your child has ear tubes or a hole in the eardrum (perforations are usually due to repeated ear infections, trauma to the ear drum or previous ear tubes). During normal sleep, throat muscles relax. If or when this happens, there is too little room inside the throat, or has too much tissue pressing on the outside of the throat, the airway can become blocked. This blockage stops the movement of air and this causes the brain to send a signal for your child to wake up so they open up the airway in their throat and start breathing again. If your child has sleep apnea, this cycle may repeat many times in an hour. Generally they will not remember waking up but the many arousals will make them sleepy and tired the next day. As the airway becomes narrower, there will be snoring. When the airway is completely blocked, there will be pausing in breathing. If this pausing lasts greater than 10 seconds, especially if this is happening several times a night, it is significant and needs to be brought to the attention of your physician. What are the Symptoms of Obstructive Sleep Apnea? If your child has obstructive sleep apnea, their body may get less oxygen during sleep and they won’t sleep well. Common symptoms of obstructive sleep apnea are: • • • • • • • Loud snoring interrupted with pauses in breathing, followed by loud gasps Not feeling rested when they wake up in the morning Morning headaches Tiredness or sleepiness during the day Trouble concentrating Anxiety, irritability or depression A strong desire to take afternoon naps Many people who snore do not have sleep apnea, but nearly everyone who has OSA snores. How is Obstructive Sleep Apnea Diagnosed? Your health care provider may: ——————————————————————-• Obstructive Sleep Apnea: • We are currently identifying a lot of children and adolescents with Obstructive Sleep Apnea (OSA). This is a serious sleep problem and needs to be identified and addressed. Please notify your child’s physician or our clinic if you feel your child may have Obstructive Sleep Apnea so that we can organize the appropriate testing and treatment. OSA occurs in up to 50 – 60 % of individuals with Down syndrome due to the preexisting floppiness of the muscles of the back of the throat and crowding of the mouth. Being overweight can make this worse. London Down Syndrome Assn. Winter 2006 • Examine your child, especially their throat and nasal passages Order blood tests, including a check of the function of their thyroid gland Do a sleep study at a sleep disorders clinic or sleep lab. The heart rate, brain waves, chest movement and blood oxygen levels will be measured while your child sleeps The study will help determine if the movement of air slows during sleep or if the air movement stops completely during sleep. It will also show how often this happens during sleep. 18 How is Obstructive Sleep Apnea Treated? It is very important to treat OSA. Untreated sleep apnea can have very serious long-term effects on health especially if there is a pre-existing heart condition. • • The most common treatment for young children is removal of the tonsils and adenoids if they are enlarged. This often leads to temporary or permanent relief of obstructive sleep apnea. If your child’s tonsils and adenoids are not enlarged, the next most common treatment is the use of a machine that sends pressurized air into the nose and throat at night. This treatment is called Continuous Positive Airway Pressure (CPAP). ————————————————————————————————————————————————————— Ontario Disability Support Program Changes Announced On February 08, 2006 the Minister of Community and Social Services announced a number of changes to the Ontario Disability Support Program (ODSP). These changes will be phased in with items 1 and 2 below effective April 01, 2006. The remaining changes took effect on November 01, 2006. Following is a summary of those changes as they affect ODSP recipients. Finding work: 1. Improved access to a range of employment services such as job placement and job retention services to help recipients to find jobs 2. Requirements that spouses who do not have a disability and are not primary care givers look for work 3. $500.00 one time grant to help recipients cover the costs of participating in a training program, looking for work, starting or changing jobs (e.g., uniform, equipment, professional fees) 4. Up to $600.00 per child informal child care costs while recipients look for a job, participate in training, or start a new job Keeping more of what is earned: 5. 50% of all earnings are exempt from clawback 6. $100.00 per month for each adult family member who is working 7. Up to $600.00 per child (under the age of 18) per month for informal child care costs 8. Up to $300.00 per month deduction for disability work-related expenses (e.g., attendant care, specialized technology/equipment) Moving toward financial independence: 9. Ongoing drug, dental and vision care benefits to recipients leaving ODSP for employment unless coverage is available from the employer 10. One-time employment transition benefit of $500.00 to cover the costs of starting a job for recipients leaving ODSP for employment 11. Improved rapid reinstatement into the ODSP program for recipients at any time if their job does not work out Information compiled from Ministry of Community & Social Services documents. Further details available at: www.cfcs.gov.on.ca/CFCS/en/newsRoom/newsReleases/060208.htm London Down Syndrome Assn. Winter 2006 19 Department of Finance —————————————————————————————————————————————————————- News Release ——————————————————————————————————————————————–——————-Immediate release Ottawa, July 31,2006 2006-035 Minister of Finance Appoints Expert Panel to Advise on Children’s Fitness Tax Credit The Honourable Jim Flaherty, Minister of Finance, announced the appointment today of a panel of health and physicalfitness experts to advise on programs of physical activity that should qualify for the children's fitness tax credit proposed in Budget 2006. Plans to establish the panel were announced in Budget 2006. “Studies show that regular physical activity has many positive effects on children, including balanced growth and development and improved physical fitness,” said Minister Flaherty. “At the same time, the escalating costs of organized sports make it difficult for many parents to afford these activities.” The tax credit is proposed to come into force on January 1, 2007. It will apply to fees paid for an eligible program of physical activity for children under 16 years of age. “The tax credit is an important element in the Government’s ongoing investment in sport development and participation,” said the Honourable Michael Chong, Minister for Sport. “This is good news for Canadian families.” Panel members, who will receive a salary of $1, will provide advise on the working definition of an eligible program for this credit. This definition will need to take into account the many activities Canadian children pursue, while ensuring that eligible programs meaningfully contribute to children’s physical fitness. The panel will be chaired by Dr. Khristinn Kellie Leitch. Dr. Leitch is Chair of Paediatric Surgery at the Children’s Hospital of Western Ontario / Schulich School of Medicine and Dentistry. The other two members are Mr. Michael Weil, President and Chief Executive Officer of YMCA Canada and Mr. David Bassett, Senior Investment Executive at Scotia McLeod and co-Chair of Sports Break, an organization that promotes a tax credit for organized youth sports. The panel will report to the Minister by October 6, 2006. Canada London Down Syndrome Assn. Winter 2006 20 London Down Syndrome Association 1129 Gladstone Drive, RR#2, Belmont, Ontario, N0L 1B0 Tel: (519)644-1867 ldsapresident@yahoo.ca Membership Application Form (Please Fill Out All Applicable Sections) First name/Organization: Last Name: Mailing Address: City: Postal/Zip Code: Residential Telephone Number: Relationship to child or organization contact name: Internet E-mail Address: Child’s name with Down syndrome London Down Syndrome Assn. Female Winter 2006 Male Birth date (MM/DD/YY) 21 The Speech of Russell Hubbard: “You must be the change you wish to be in the world.” Ladies and Gentlemen: This is a famous quote by Gandhi. I learned about Gandhi in my Grade 11 World Religion class. Right away, I knew I wanted to know more about him, so I asked for the movie “Gandhi” and a book about him for Christmas. I liked him because he never took the easy way out and he tried to make a difference in people’s lives. But I am not here to talk about Gandhi, I am going to talk about making a difference. You don’t have to be a famous person like Gandhi to make a real difference in people’s lives. There are a great number of people who have made a positive difference in my life and helped me to reach my goals. Right at home my family has supported me all the way. My younger sisters Meredith and Martha are always there for me, even if we do our share of arguing over who has to do the dishes. Meredith who is 2 years younger than me, has introduced me to lots of new music, theatre, TV shows, and movies. Martha, who is 7 years younger, likes playing basketball with me. They like to give me tips about what is “cool”, especially with regard to clothes. My mom and dad have always tried to give me as many experiences as possible and because of them I have had a chance to travel to a lot of different places and try many different ethnic foods. At home on our farm we work together, and they have taught me about tractors and other machinery, mowing grass, gardening, cooking and cleaning. My mom is the person who helped me the most to graduate from high school with an Ontario Secondary School diploma. She was there every night to help me research projects, work on homework and study for tests. My Grandma and Grandpa Chychrun live close by and I have spent a lot of time with them over the years. They have always loved and encouraged me. When I was younger they played road hockey, Tball and badminton with me for hours. They read books to me and helped me with learn my math facts. I especially loved it when Grandma made my favorite foods and Grandpa and I washed the car together. Sadly, my Grandpa died in 2000. I miss him a lot. From the beginning the Huron – Perth Catholic District School Board made sure I always got the help I needed at school. There were lots of good teachers but three special people really stand out: London Down Syndrome Assn. Mrs. Carine Morrow was my E.A. through most of elementary school. She always made the time to help all the kids in the class if they needed it and didn’t just help me. She didn’t just help with math and English either. She could be counted on for things over and above the call of duty, like organizing crafts for us to make for mother’s day, helping with our fundraisers for school trips, and helping us to learn about the important things like friendship and getting along. We are still great friends and go out for lunch sometimes. In fact, she is here tonight to support me, as always. Two E.A.s in high school, Mrs. Lori Burlingham and Mrs. Tina Vandenheuvel also went the extra mile for me, in and out of the classroom – from finding my lost gym clothes to helping me sign up for clubs. Like everyone else I had some good and not so good co-op work experiences in high school. But Ron at Sobeys and Barb at Cozyns Garden Center were especially good about making me feel part of the work team, not just someone with “special needs”. Even though they didn’t have to, they kept an eye out to make sure I was getting from school to work safely. I was lucky to have a great friend all through school. Dean Podbury and I met in kindergarten. We used to have fun playing video games and making movies of ourselves. We had some good times. Now, he is going to Fanshawe College to learn how to make video games himself. I don’t see much of Dean anymore, now that he is away at school but know he would always be there for me because that is the spirit of a friend. Kurtis VanMassenhoven was another good friend in elementary school. He would often drop by and we would hang out together doing fun stuff. Fr. Chris Bordeau was a special priest in our parish, who recognized my abilities and allowed me to be a reader at Mass. It was a great experience even though I had to practice a lot at home to make sure I got it right. The whole church community was so supportive of this and would often say what a good job I had done. I’m not sure what the future will bring. I hope to get a job in food services and maybe go to college to be a baker or chef assistant. I am thankful for all the people who have made a difference in my life and I know that to reach my dreams I will have to rely on a few more people to make that difference in my life. Maybe someday I will make a difference in someone else’s life and help them to reach their dreams. Thank you Winter 2006 22 Your Elected Representatives, 2006—2007 Standing (L to R): Steve Nadeau, Andy Loebus, Bev Bialik, Paul Van Eyk, Randy Bilton, Bernie Douglas. Seated (L to R): Sandy Bogart, Ed Hager, Rose Price. Absent from the above photo, but shown in the photo below is our peer representative, Heather Verdun.