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Bridal - KeysNews.com
BRIDAL FLORIDA KEYS 2016 Look! new SEE INSIDE The DestinationWedding Magazine FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 1 2 FLORIDA KEYS BR I D A L • 2016 397303 BT BLUR THE LINE BETWEEN FUN AND FAIRYTALE At Islamorada Resort Company, we believe weddings should be fun. But they should also be wrapped in a fairytale Florida Keys setting that delights you, your family and friends. From sun-kissed beaches and turquoise blue waters to fishing charters and barefoot dinners on the beach, our stylish oceanfront Islamorada resorts are breathtaking backdrops for your special day. PLAN A DREAM BEACH WEDDING AND ENJOY THE EXCLUSIVE PERKS OF OUR “ISLAND I DO” PACKAGE, INCLUDING: A toast to the happy couple Our package includes a complimentary Champagne toast for the bride, groom and guests. Wake up in paradise Your first night as husband and wife is on us! Enjoy a complimentary wedding night stay in a suite. 25% OFF Save without sacrificing When you book your wedding with us, we’ll take 25% off the price of your ceremony venue fee. Thanks to our partners We’re delighted to treat wedding vendors who recommend IRC to a complimentary night’s stay. To begin planning your dream wedding day at one of our beautiful beach resorts, contact our destination wedding specialists at (305) 433-9936 or thaecker@holidayisle.com. islamoradaresortcompany.com 412535 BT FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 3 BRIDAL FLORIDA KEYS 2016 DID YOU MISS OUT ON THIS EDITION ? 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A P P LY I N G F O R A MARRIAGE LICENSE 12 T W E LV E U N I Q U E G I F T TRENDS FOR YOUR GROOM 16 20 25 28 T E C H S AV Y W E D D I N G S D R O N E S : TA K E Y O U R WEDDING TO NEW HEIGHTS WEDDINGS REPLACE COMMITMENT CEREMONIES IN THE FLORIDA KEYS WEDDING CAKE TRENDS 32 34 & RING BEARER TIPS TOP WEDDING DRESS TRENDS FOR 2016 40 P R E T T Y PA P E R 44 M U S I C : W E D D I N G D AY DOWNLOADS 46 W I T H T H I S R I N G 48 2 0 1 6 W E D D I N G F L O W E R T R E N D S 52 I S L A N D I N S P I R AT I O N S : WEDDING TRENDS OF THE KEYS 58 www.keysnews.com FLOWER GIRL BRIDAL WORKSHEETS FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 5 P R E PA R I N G F O R T H E B I G D AY FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL 2016 who needs a WEDDING PLANNER? by Noelle Itrato With any given wedding comes hundreds of decisions to be made by the bride and groom. At times, the task of planning your perfect wedding can be overwhelming. Some couples opt to attend to all the planning themselves while other couples are frazzled just thinking about the first steps. Wedding planners, consultants and coordinators can make a world of difference for certain couples. Remember, the engagement and planning should be fun and enjoyable, not a nail biting experience. Here are several questions to ask yourself and your fiancé when determining if some wedding assistance is needed. How big is the wedding? If the wedding is smaller in size, there will be less to manage 6 FLORIDA KEYS BR I D A L • 2016 and choreograph. When the guest list climbs into triple digits, there will be more logistics involved. A wedding planner can help with this and easily offer options and ideas to accommodate a larger crowd. It’s not a planner’s first wedding and he or she knows the complications that arise with a big guest list. Is it a destination wedding? If the plan is to be married in another country, state, or city, a professional wedding planner will prove to be invaluable. Arranging a ceremony in a location other than where you live, leaves so many unknown variables to chance. Brides may find themselves worried if that florist they selected is dependable. A wedding planner has established connections FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 7 P R E PA R I N G F O R T H E B I G D AY c o n t i n u e d throughout the wedding community. He or she will know which florist is reliable and delivers the goods. Knowing that a planner is using reputable service providers puts the bride’s mind at ease and helps her to focus on what is really important on her wedding day. Christy Transier Photography © What is your budget? Full service wedding planners will encompass all of your wedding preparations, including orchestrating the actual wedding day. This service doesn’t come without a hefty price tag. The luxury of having a designated person organizing the details of your event will cost about 10-20% of your total wedding cost. The national average for the cost of a full service wedding planner is about $3200. Ouch. Brides must weigh if this price tag is worth it. How involved do you want to be? One of the benefits of hiring a wedding planner is that he or she can make your special day much easier for you. Planners do the footwork for you, including consulting with vendors, making executive decisions without your consent and taking care of any problems that may arise. Some brides may not be comfortable with this level of oversight. If you are known to be a bit ‘controlling’, a planner may not be for you. A better option maybe a day-of coordinator. These planners makes sure everything runs like clock work on the day of your wedding, leaving all the preparation and planning to you. These planners typically ask a flat fee between $500-$2000 for the help on your wedding day. 8 FLORIDA KEYS BR I D A L • 2016 ph y© sie r Ph ot og ra Ch ris ty Tr an Do your have helping hands? The attitude of the people around you while planning will directly affect the smoothness of your event. If you have twelve very close bridesmaids bursting at the seams to help you with your wedding errands, a wedding planner may not be needed. If your friends and family are spread out over the country and unavailable to help with the details, an extra set of hands might be helpful to accomplish all that needs to be done to get you to the alter. P R E PA R I N G F O R T H E B I G D AY Christy Transier Photography© Do you have the time? When planning a wedding, time is a factor. Phone calls, visiting venues, comparing prices, checking availability or references all take time. If your schedule is full with a demanding job, you may opt for getting some help. A wedding planner can take these duties off your plate and leave you to savor your engagement. Are you unorganized? Some brides are filled with creative ideas and know just what they want but lack organization and follow-through. Another option for brides is a wedding consultant. Consultants won’t be as handson as a full service wedding planner but will be there to keep the bride on track with timelines, budgets, advice and schedules. Wedding consultants will still leave you with your fair share of footwork but will help to keep the creative bride on track. A bride and groom can expect to pay between 5%-15% of their wedding budget for a consultant to get them organized to the alter. Most wedding planners, coordinators and consultants will require a contract before their work begins. It is important to meet with your prospective planner and discuss what services are and are not included in the agreement. Be sure you feel comfortable with the coordinator you select. If you have any reservations about their personality, their contract, or work ethic, meet with another potential planner. Your wedding day is about you and your loved one. A good wedding planner will make sure the big day accurately reflects your personalities and your story. FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 9 BEFORE THE WEDDING e s n e c i L e g a i r ar M YING APPLR A FO E LAIR BY CHURD A marriage license is required in order for your marriage to be legally recognized. In Monroe County, the Clerk of Circuit Court is the issuing agent of marriage licenses for the State of Florida. You can register for a marriage license during regular business hours at the courthouse in Key West, Marathon or in Plantation Key. Regulations vary from state-tostate. In Florida, applicants must be eighteen (18) years old to obtain a marriage license. Younger applicants require parental consent, and in certain instances, the consent of a County Judge. No matter what your age, both applicants must appear in person at the time of applying for a marriage license. A picturetype ID, including date of birth, is required. If either party has been previously married, the exact date of the last death, divorce or annulment must be provided. Bring a copy of your divorce decree with you at the time of application. The State of Florida began to recognize samesex marriages early last year, and in June 2015, the U.S. Supreme Court assured Federal recognition of same sex marriage throughout the country. The process of completing marriage license paperwork takes about 10 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 15 minutes. There is no waiting period for out-of-state residents, or for Florida residents who provide proof of completing an approved premarital class. A marriage license costs $93.50 – and there is a discount for Florida residents, who provide proof of completing a premarital class ($61.00). A marriage license must be used within 60 days. Authorized staff in the Clerk’s office are happy to solemnize your marriage (perform a brief wedding ceremony) on the spot – for an additional $30.00. There is a small ‘counseling room’ in Key West, where marriages can be performed if the celebrants prefer privacy to the hustle and bustle of the Clerk’s front counter. There is often a surge in marriage license applications during festival weeks in the Florida Keys. You may encounter and bride and groom in biker leather in the Clerk’s office during Poker Run. During Fantasy Fest, costumed weddings become more common. In Florida, regularly ordained clergy, judges, the Clerk, and Deputy Clerks of the Circuit Court, and State of Florida notaries may perform marriages. The person who performs a marriage ceremony must complete and return the marriage license to the Clerk of Court within ten days, where it will be recorded in the Official Records. A certified copy is returned to the newlyweds by mail, and the original license is maintained in the Office of Vital Statistics in Jacksonville, FL. The process usually takes around three weeks. Your wedding may be a gala event, or a small gathering of friends – but the memories (and the tax benefits) of legally committing to your true love in the Florida Keys will last a lifetime. FOR MORE INFORMATION: Website: www.clerk-of-the-court.com MARRIAGE LICENSES MAY BE OBTAINED AT: Key West Courthouse (Annex) 500 Whitehead Street, (305) 292-3458 Marathon Branch Courthouse 3117 Overseas Hwy, (305) 289-6027 Upper Keys Govt Ctr 88820 Overseas Hwy Plantation Key, (305) 852-7145 The Studio Weddings Key West Exceptional UPDOS Stylish BLOWOUTS • AIRBRUSH MAKEUP • COMPLETE Bridal Hair & Makeup • • We are located in the center of Key West. As the largest hair and makeup facility in the Florida Keys, we offer in salon artistry or we can pamper your bridal party on location. The Studio Weddings 412550 BT 1106 Key Plaza, Key West, FL 33040 305.292.6080 • WeddingsKW.com 397805 BT 407207 FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 11 WEDDING GIFTS twelve groom UNIQUE GIFT TRENDS FOR YOUR Contrary to popular belief (and the majority of bridal magazines) a lot of guys get into wedding stuff. On a day focused primarily on the bride, it’s important to make your groom feel equally as special. After all, it’s his big day too! So how do you celebrate your man and thank him for getting into this whole wedding thing. There is an endless number of possibilities when it comes to wedding day gifts for your groom. Whatever you choose should be a personal and thoughtful present, no matter how expensive or extravagant it is. He’ll love your thoughtfulness and the excitement of receiving a present on this special day. Remember that it’s not a requirement to give a wedding day present to your partner, but it’s a nice touch and sweet reminder of why it is he loves you so much in the first place. 12 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 WEDDING GIFTS 1. A "Proper" Shave Treat him to a little grooming. if he's never had a warm lather, straight razor, real barbershop shave experience, this is a great time to introduce him to the idea of pampering 3 2. "His Day" On Your Honeymoon Surprise him with a special event while on your honeymoon that he's super into; a special snorkeling trip, tickets to a game, or the best BBQ place in Southeast Asia. Celebrate him with his very own day right after the wedding. 2 3. First Edition Is he an avid reader? Memorializing his favorite book be finding a real deal first edition would mean a lot. Even better if you can get the author signature! 6 4. Man Appliances While surprising you with a vacuum or dishwasher doesn't cut it for any bride post-"Leave it to Beaver" era, getting him an awesome powertool or ridiculous kitchen appliance, like a meat smoker, might be perfect. 5. Plant A Tree For the eco-logically minded, the symbol of a tree, a new growth, a new beginning could be the right gift your home together. Help him sharpen his pruning skills and give him something that'll last for decades to come. 6. His Favorite Liquor, All Year Long Did your guy get super excited that he'd finally get to splurge on Armagnac? Did he get a special bottle to celebrate with his groomsmen? Make a monthly gift of the good stuff for your first year, and celebrate your Monthiversarys all year long. → 5 4 1 FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 13 WEDDING GIFTS continued 7. The Unexpected Guest This is a tricky one to get right, but if he has a friend who wasn't going to be able to attend, see if you can sneak him in. Pay for a buddy's plane ticket or get his old college roommate in for the wedding. Remember, make sure he'll be 100% glad to see him, but not so glad he'll be more excited about that than getting married. style that you feel confident that he’ll like. Or, double check the return and exchange policy just in case so that he can choose one of his own liking. 11. Hip Flask One of the most popular wedding day gifts for grooms is a hip flask. You can have these engraved with special messages, dates or his initials so that it becomes truly his. There are a lot of different kinds of flasks, from metal to leather-bound. Choose a color and style that suits him. Bonus points if you fill it with his favorite liquor before you give it to him! 8. Cufflinks Cufflinks are to a groom’s wedding day attire as the shoes are to the bridal gown; they may not be seen by many, but they’re an important part of the overall outfit. Give the gift of a special pair of cufflinks that he can wear either on the big day or to formal events afterwards. You can have them monogrammed with his initials, or find a pair that showcase his personality or hobbies. 12. Personalized Engraving On His Wedding Band It can be a verse, your wedding dates or something that is sure to make him laugh. 9. Boudoir Album Many brides are starting to love the idea of a bridal boudoir photo shoot. These sensual and exciting images are taken by a professional photographer, and then combined in a beautiful album to create a seductive and exclusive wedding day gift. If you’re comfortable with the idea of a boudoir shoot, then a boudoir album is the perfect present for your groom-to-be. 10. Watch Every man needs a nice watch, and what better occasion than your wedding day to unwrap a beautiful watch from your bride-to-be? Watches can range greatly in terms of price, so you’ll have a lot of options depending on how extravagant you’d like your gift to be. Because you’ll be surprising him with an important accessory that he’ll most likely wear every day, make sure that you choose a 11 9 14 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 Imagine Your Wedding Here... Declare your love in a romantic seaside garden with stunning ocean views. The lush gardens at the historic West Martello Tower are the perfect setting for your Key West wedding. Key West Garden Club At the West Martello Tower on Higgs Beach where White Street meets the Atlantic Ocean 397710 BT KeyWestGardenClub.com Call 294-3210 for a Private Tour 397804 BT Every Bride Deserves a Great Smile! “I want to look my best on my wedding day and in my wedding photos. 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Dr. Kendall Jones A different kind of dentist 1460 Kennedy Dr. at Flagler Ave. 305.293.9876 www.ParadiseDentalCare.com 397807 BT FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 15 MODERN TOUCHES Tech Savy WEDDINGS 16 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 MODERN TOUCHES FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL As we increasingly turn to mobile technology for news, weather and informationgathering, the wedding industry has also jumped on board A simple search of the Google Play or Apple App Store reveals hundreds of mobile applications on the market designed to help you plan and execute the wedding of your dreams. Need a way to collect all of your wedding photos from Instagram? Create a custom wedding hashtag. Want to keep guests' phones juiced up so they're taking photos and video all night long? Transform one of your cocktail hour tables into a cute cellphone charging station. The Internet makes it easy to research gowns, vendors and wedding locations, and smartphones make it that much easier. Technology tools such as spreadsheets and finance trackers also help you control your budget and stay focused on the various tasks at 2016 hand. These digital gems are free in many cases, giving you a costeffective way of organizing and maintaining important information. Using some of the most popular trends in technology is just plain practical. Here's how. organizational purposes SPREADSHEETS, are one of the best uses of technology to help organize your wedding. Fully customizable and editable as you go along, spreadsheets help you input and update information related to budgets, vendor quotes, invitation lists and much more. Consider building one master spreadsheet with multiple smaller files for optimal organization. If you are sharing planning responsibilities with a wedding planner or family member, consider using a cloudbased spreadsheet that allows all involved parties to upload, edit and and analyze information. FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 17 MODERN TOUCHES continued in-wedding technology WEARABLES that track your every move. What if you could look back on your wedding day and actually be able to see your exact heart rate at the moment you walked down the aisle? You can. Think about it -- from the pricey $17,000, 18-karat gold Apple Watch to a simple $150 FitBit bracelet, it's just a matter of which color to choose. Wear them the entire day and you can see the exact moment that it clicked for you -- you're getting married! -- or see your stats later and say, "That spike there was our first-look pictures -- you were so 18 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 beautiful!" And even though this isn't a thing quite yet, imagine taking your ups and downs to an artist who could create a complete heartbeat timeline of your day, via your fitness tracker, in a signature painting that could live above your couch in your new home. WEDDING DRONES for impossibly cool photos and video. Some photographers and videographers are using drone technology to capture never-before-possible shots. Whether you're getting married at your alma mater, a destination in the tropics, an estate in the mountains or in your hometown, that location means a lot to you, if for no other reason than you were married there! MODERN TOUCHES A GO-PRO BRIDAL BOUQUET to capture hidden moments the walk down the aisle is one of the more special and memorable moments of the wedding day. Capture it all on camera from your vantage point by asking your florist to save a spot in your bridal bouquet for a small camera. Any mini camera similar to a GoPro will work to record your entrance. This way you'll get to see everything, from the look on your guests' faces to the parental handoff (if that's what you're doing) and your vows in an up-close and personal way. must-have if you're expecting lots of hashtagging at your wedding. It's super-easy to pull off too: Just gather a bunch of different types of cords (for iPhones and Androids) in a cutesy way and prop them up on a cocktail table at your reception. SELFIE STICKS AND CHARGING STATIONS to keep the party going. Cellphone charging stations are a LIVESTREAMING THE WEDDING Designate a guest to live-stream the entire wedding straight from INTERACTIVE RECEPTION. You could wait until after the wedding to see all the cool photos and funny Instagrams from the day. Or, you could have them projected live over your dance floor! A lot of lighting and production companies are now offering the service, and it makes for a fun activity too. their phone or tablet. That way, friends and followers who couldn't make it to the wedding can see everything from their own devices. To make it super-easy for friends to tune in, have your designated guest divide the streams: one stream for the ceremony, another for the toasts and cake cutting, and another for the first dance. Ikea recently revealed an entirely virtual wedding program. It allows guests to log on and watch their friend or family member get married from their own laptop at home. You can set your background image to a ceremony setting for guests to watch, or to your reception on the beach for guests to tune in and toast to the special couple from anywhere in the world. FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 19 PHOTOGRAPHY take your wedding TO NEW HEIGHTS by Noelle Itrato 20 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 PHOTOGRAPHY FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL 2016 Drones. Sounds like something from a covert spy operation. But these high-tech flying objects are making more and more appearances on the wedding scene. These devices are taking photography and videography to new heights and are quickly becoming a new item on the wedding ceremony and reception wish-list. Across the country, photographers are finding drones very helpful in wedding videography and are quickly being added to a photographer’s arsenal of tools. Imagine the beautiful sights and surroundings of your destination wedding being captured with aerial perspectives. TheKnot.com listed drone wedding photos and GoPro videos as one of the top 10 hottest wedding trends for 2015. It’s your big day. Capture it all. FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 21 So, what exactly is a drone? A drone is a small motorized machine which can hover, fly and move through the air while being controlled remotely by a person on the ground. Since the device is controlled remotely, this video source is able to reach heights and perspectives photographers haven’t been able to reach in the past. This means videos and pictures can give brides and grooms a shot of the wedding from above, coasting the landscape around the wedding site and a bird’s eye view of any wedding venue. Many video drones are able to travel two to three miles out from the remote photographer. The videos can be edited afterward and added to video taken on the ground to give a beautiful keepsake montage of a wedding. The perspectives offered by drones are dramatic and even more so when set to music. They allow video and pictures to be taken from a great distance away while flying up close to the bride and groom. Filming with a drone definitely gives wedding videos a more encompassing sense of where and what the event looked and felt like. These devices are perfect to capture the sights and landscape of destination weddings. With drone videography and photography, there are two options: hire a professional or do-it yourself. Photographers that offer drone filming will have the 22 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 experience and the training involved to control a drone fluidly to give a couple a professional result. Some photographers add drones to their wedding package for an additional $200. Some photographers will charge hourly and the cost can be as high as $1000 an hour for flying time. When selecting a photographer, be sure your photographer is drone-qualified and trained. Always view samples of their work to see if that is the style and feel you are looking for when deciding on a photographer. Doing it yourself is quite a project but can be done. A drone can be purchased for around $1500. Most drones come equipped with a built in camera and will provide instructions on how to get the best video from your drone. You’ll want to practice prior to the big day to get the movements and usage down pat before the wedding. There are various online courses that are available and will give you the knowledge and confidence you need to undertake this task. There are a few downsides to keep in mind when using drones. These devices are noisy. Scenery shots can be filmed any time during the day other than during the actual wedding ceremony it self. You may not want a noisy drone hovering by your heads when you say those PHOTOGRAPHY Deb Sheilds P hy © The internet is filled with breathtaking wedding videos filmed by drones. Take the time to research the style and perspective these devices can add to your wedding video. Discuss with your partner the look and shots you agree on. Then make the decision to hire a professional or do-it-yourself. Either way, your wedding photography will really take off once you you’ve made the decision to utilize a drone. ap Before moving forward on adding drone photography to your wedding ‘must have’ list, be sure to check with your venue to get permission and clearance to use the technology. There are still some gray areas in using drones. Because they are flying objects, they are subject to certain FAA regulation. Some areas have restricted flight zones so it’s better to ask before busting out the new drone. hoto gr two very important little words. These devices can also be distracting. A bride and groom may be slightly upstaged by the cool hovering aircraft at the wedding so it is important to select the right time and places for the drone to be in flight. Letting guest know what the object is may help put them at ease when they do see it flying around the event. Another considerations is drones can have accidents. When in the hands of a professional, the chances are very slim. However, if it’s a amateur friend or family member making his or her’s maiden drone flight, an accident could be a possibility. Keep in mind, human error can be a factor. wedding drone PHOTOGRAPH IDEAS 1. Coast the drone over the crystal blue waters and shoreline to zoom right up to your beach wedding alter in the Keys 2. Get high and bring home an overhead image of the venue to give an encompassing sense of place and surroundings of the wedding 3. Don’t forget to get overhead shots of the bridal party and guests 4. Try a 360 degree view of the couple in a beautiful scenic shot with no equipment or people in the way 5. If the wedding is in a high vaulted cathedral or church, take advantage of that space to get a bird’s eye view of the ceremony 6. Don’t forget to get an elevated view of guests dancing it up at the reception FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 23 24 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 412458 BT weddings REPLACE COMMITMENT CEREMONIES IN THE FLORIDA KEYS by gena parsons FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 25 SAME SEX WEDDINGS For decades, Key West had been the place for gay couples to come for commitment ceremonies. With same-sex marriage now legal, those rituals take on a more profound meaning. Although there is no official tracking, Equality Florida estimated that 1,400 same-sex couples got married in the two days after the January 2015 rulingthat found unconstitutional the state’s ban on gay unions. The LGBT sector is beginning to influence the wider wedding industry. Couples of all genders forego set-instone rituals when they marry in the islands. There may be a Best Girl and a Man of Honor with both male and female attendants on each side. Couples may walk themselves down the aisle or ask a non-parent family member or a friend to escort them. Florida Keys wedding planners and officiants are booked well into 2017 and even 2018. Yet, the expected wedding boom with the law change did not materialize in Key West. The Key West Business Guild expects continuous growth in LGBT weddings, but notes that the novelty of same-sex marriage had diminished by the time Florida began allowing it. “I tell people ‘This is your day, not your parents’ or your grandparents’ day. It isn’t as complicated as it appears to be if you just plan and do what you think you want to have done,’” Torrence advised. Simply You specializes in destination weddings and reports a steady increase in same-sex couples hiring the upscale company. SIMPLY YOU WEDDINGS OWNER, JULIE SHRECK. In 2015, Simply You arranged a three-day Rev. Steve Torrence of gay wedding event that Metropolitan Community included exclusive use of Little Palm Island, one of the Church conducted commitment ceremonies country’s top luxury resorts. for 30 years and found he need only tweak the pronouncement to acknowledge the legality of “We’ve started changing the way we do things like the proceedings. simple, small changes on our website. You go in to inquire and you can choose bride-bride, groom-groom “I tend to say, unless they have a real preference, ‘I or bride-groom because we want the people inquiring hereby proclaim that you are legally married…’ and, about our services to know that it is something that if it’s a religious ceremony, ‘in the name of almighty we support and it is something that we offer,” Shreck God. You may now seal your covenant with a kiss.’ Or explained. something like that,” he shared. “It still has the same elements. They want to have a meaningful ceremony,” “We find that their ceremonies are extremely serious and extremely emotional. It seems like the same-sex weddings that we’ve done have been very meaningful, very deep,” observed Ray Jensen, owner of Weddings To Go Key West. 26 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 In the 2015 LGBT weddings study conducted by The Knot, a multi-platform wedding source, 96 percent of couples referred to the occasion as a wedding rather than a same-sex wedding. Men were nearly three times more likely to walk down the aisle together, while women preferred a friend or family member to escort SAME SEX WEDDINGS FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL 2016 them. Same-sex weddings tend to be small, intimate affairs with men spending an average of $15,992 on their weddings, compared with $13,055 for women and the majority paid for the wedding themselves, according to the survey. Local wedding planners agree that women tend to be more frugal and conservative while more men expect extravagance. Also, the longer a couple has been together, the more intimate the ceremony. Regardless of budget, couples seek nuptials as unique as they are. The newness of same-sex marriage comes with a word of caution from Rev. Torrence. He urges couples to comprehend the legal agreement. While an understandably emotional time, they must recognize the effect of marriage on their taxes, pensions, insurance and debts. What was his and his or hers and hers, becomes theirs together the minute the ink is dry. “People don’t understand what the ramifications of getting married are. This follows you forever,” Torrence advised. “Gays and lesbians haven’t had that knowledge or that upbringing or understanding. I want them to know that they’re not committing to a simple situation. You’re entering into a contract with the government. It hasn’t been the mindset, but, of course, they’re learning quickly.” FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 27 2016 C A K E T R E N D S W edding cake trends A sumptuous cake is the focal point of any wedding banquet. In recent years, some couples have decided to downsize from towering white-iced cakes, to creative designs that offer a variety of appealing flavors and textures for guests. Professional bakeries throughout the Florida Keys can create the wedding cake of your dreams. BY CLAIRE HURD CLASSIC CAKE WITH BROOCH 28 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 2016 C A K E T R E N D S FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL 2016 For 2016, metallic accents are a trend anticipated on wedding planning sites, such as theknot.com and weddingwire. com. Shimmering effects can be achieved with edible glittery frosting, which is subtle, and catches the light in the ballroom at an evening soiree. Placement of an elegant (non-edible!) brooch at the center of one tier draws the eye, or a light sprinkling of gold flakes can provide luxe contrast on a smooth and classic cake. Naked cakes have been trending for a few years, and are expected to remain popular for couples who aspire to rustic elegance. At an historic venue, such as the West Martello/Key West Garden Club, a naked cake would echo the breathtaking ruins within the fort. Absent an outside layer of frosting, the tiers and fillings inside the cake are on full display. The flavor of a gourmet cake really shines when the creation is not encased in sweet fondant. Adorned with a few locally-grown orchids, a naked cake adds an artisanal presence to the banquet, and inspires guests to anticipate their favorite flavor, long before the cake is cut. GLITTER FROSTING CAKE Another popular trend is to forego a traditional cake entirely, and opt for individual sweets, such as cupcakes or creampuffs. Lori Schubert of ‘Cupcake Sushi’ says that when a couple hosts a Key West destination wedding, “they want something different.” When planning their event, including dessert, they want to provide a one-of-a-kind experience for guests who have never visited the island before. In the age of social media, brides too, are looking to create a photogenic, blog-worthy event. KEY WEST'S CUPCAKE SUSHI Schubert operates a popular bakery which provides hand-rolled cake treats, served with chopsticks. Bite-sized morsels of “cupcake sushi” can be stacked in traditional tiers, or displayed on a bamboo boat or palm tree. At larger events, artisans can create custom cupcake sushi servings on-demand, akin to a carving station or FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 29 2016 C A K E T R E N D S c o n t i n u e d CARROT MINI CAKE CREAMPUFFS L AV E N D E R F L AV O R E D C A K E an omelet bar. On the beach at Cheeca Lodge in Islamorada, or on a boat such as the USCGC Ingham in Key West, cupcake sushi would accentuate the seaside atmosphere of an event. Flavor combinations are limited only by the imagination, and the non-traditional presentation lends an exotic, island style to any event. Foodie flavors are also a trend that will carry through 2016. Key-lime flavored cakes will always hold appeal in the Florida Keys – but local bakeries offer plenty of other unique flavors, such as lavender, apple or carrot cake with 30 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 buttercream frosting. At an elegant venue, such as the Audubon House or Hawk’s Cay, a dramatic display of multiple smaller wedding cakes, encompassing the tropical palette of your event will delight guests. The tradition of a white wedding cake (along with the white wedding gown, to represent purity) is attributed to Queen Victoria, back in 1840. Times marches on, and 2016 just happens to be a perfect year for brides and grooms to begin their own traditions – by choosing the wedding cake (or cupcake!) of their own sweet dreams. 2016 C A K E T R E N D S NAKED CAKE ADORNED WITH FLOWERS FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 31 B R I D A L PA RT Y tips FLOWER GIRL & RING BEARER Your wedding day will be all about the big venue, big crowd and big kiss. Don’t forget about the littlest wedding guests along the way. When it comes to sharing the wedding day spotlight, there are few people a bride might welcome. Unless, of course, they’re part of her party and spreading cuteness all around. The flower girl and ring bearer draw as much attention as the bride. Is there anything cuter than a little lady and lad all dressed up and tossing flowers down the aisle? FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL 2016 HOW TO CHOOSE If your family is full of young nieces, nephews or cousins, choosing the perfect fit for your wedding can be a difficult task. You don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings by choosing only one, but you probably don’t need more than one. Your choice may come down to age. Choosing too young, say 2 or 3 years old, may not work well for your wedding. Younger children are more likely to be scared by larger crowds compared to those who are a bit more mature. flower girl THE PERFECT DRESS Make sure your flower girl is ready to steal the show with the perfect dress. Consider the designer, color and obviously the price if you’re the one footing the bill for the flower girl gown. Many times the flower girl dress will mimic the bride’s ensemble. If you have trouble finding one to match what you’ll be wearing, try finding a colored dress that matches the overall theme of your wedding. The key is to make sure 32 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 your flower girl is comfortable wearing her dress and can walk in her matching shoes. PREPARING YOUR FLOWER GIRL If your flower girl is nervous about the big day, reassure her that her feelings are normal. You can take away some of these nerves by working with her well in advance of the wedding. Practice walking in a straight line with her while you’re playing outside at the park or even shopping for new clothes. There are plenty of books about being a flower girl. Purchase one and gift it to her in a way that makes her feel special about her new role. By the time your wedding day rolls around, she’ll be ready to shine in her oncein-a-lifetime opportunity. ring bearer So you’ve enlisted a little lad to tromp toward the altar as your ring bearer -- now what? Dress him up, of course. Whether you go the tiny tux route or the path less traveled, scan these snazzy tips for the little dude’s duds. CUSTOMARY COSTUMES Opinions on ring bearers’ attire vary. There’s the “Please, no mini-tuxes,” school, but others find little boys in grown-up formalwear endearing. More traditional choices are satin and velvet suits, often in dark colors like navy or hunter green. You can also consider dark blue jackets, white shorts, and blue or white knee socks, or for summer, a seersucker or linen suit - you could even put the tiny guy in a sailor suit. Whatever you choose, make sure the boys are comfortable, while still remaining faithful to the overall tone of your wedding. Christy Transier Photography© B R I D A L PA RT Y Also, encourage ring bearers to try out their clothes before the wedding so they won’t pull at the neck or the crotch in an unseemly way on the big day. DUTIES The ring bearer, traditionally a small boy aged four to eight, walks down the aisle just before the flower girl (if there is one), carrying a pillow with two rings tied to it. Since it’s not the greatest idea to entrust gold rings to a rambunctious 6-yearold, the rings are usually fakes. Are you the trusting sort? Well, if you trust the little tyke with your jewelry, at least have someone hand him the pillow replete with real rings just before he begins trekking down the aisle. If he gets hold of them too far in advance, it’s more likely he’ll lose them. Whatever you choose to have the ring bearer carry, be sure he’s told about his duties ahead of time. It’s probably best to include him in the rehearsal dinner, so the full implications of his duties (walking down an aisle all by himself with a hundred people watching) don’t come as a big shock. FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 33 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL 2016 wedding dress THE TOP Most wedding styles do not change all that drastically from season to season, however there still are noteworthy trends, details and fun updates to peek at and get a jump on, especially if you're in the midst of planning your own big day. Every bride-tobe needs to know about these breathtaking styles! 34 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 TRENDS FROM 2016 BRIDAL FASHION WEEK Christy Transier Photography© FA S H I O N T R E N D S FA S H I O N T R E N D S A Basic Bateau Neckline A dress doesn't need lots of embellishments to truly stand out when a classic style can complement the bride in the best way possible. The "Dipped" V Neckline Not as innocent as a sweetheart neckline but not as sexy as a plunging one, the subtle deep-V that adds just the right touch of drama. Blush-Colored Dresses A barely there pop of color is perfect for your spring nuptials. Shades of pink and rose were seen all over the runways. T O P W E D D I N G D R E S S T R E N D S O F 2 0 1 6 C O U RT E S Y O F T H E K N O T. C O M FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 35 FA S H I O N T R E N D S c o n t i n u e d Cropped Tops A combination of casual and chic, there's something uniquely elegant about a bride showing off just a sliver of skin on her wedding day. Feather Finishes Whether they were big, black and dramatic, or soft, fluttery and delicate, the feather details at Bridal Fashion Week were stunning. We also loved the ostrich feather skirts, and the cascading bodice. Floral Prints While florals for spring may not be groundbreaking, floral-print wedding dresses are very fashion forward. Whether done as intricate embroidery, or painted onto fabric, bridal blooms are definitely trending. T O P W E D D I N G D R E S S T R E N D S O F 2 0 1 6 C O U RT E S Y O F T H E K N O T. C O M 36 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 FA S H I O N T R E N D S Layers of Lace Because one type of lace is never enough, this spring, designers layered Chantilly lace on top of embroidered tulle and Swiss dot lace for mindblowing texture and detail. Stone Washed Shades Victorian Touches Subtle tones of taupe, nude and silver were scattered among the spring runways. A sweetheart, tulle ball gown with a nude underlay for a warm effect, while a strapless gown with cool tones of silver that gave the gown an almostbluish glow were among some of this years collections. Whether it was the high necklines, flare sleeves, pearl-stranded sleeves or silk ball gowns, it was pretty clear that designers were drawing inspiration from old-world opulence. T O P W E D D I N G D R E S S T R E N D S O F 2 0 1 6 C O U RT E S Y O F T H E K N O T. C O M FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 37 38 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 407840 BT 397508 BT 397790BT THE PERFECT SETTING FOR YOUR KEY WEST WEDDING… Key West’s Oldest House Garden offers a magical place for your memorable event, whether it is a grand, lavish affair or an intimate ceremony. This secluded paradise is ideal for weddings, vow renewals and commitment ceremonies. Our lush green lawn and overhanging tropical foliage make a perfect backdrop – charming for events ranging from an elegant Old South garden party to an island luau. We are located in the heart of Old Town on Duval Street. For rates, reservations and more information please call 305-294-9501 or visit www.oldislandweddings.com 322 Duval Street 407841 BT FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 39 S TAT I O N E RY The Florida Keys hold the same allure for weddings as they do for tourists. With warm weather year-round, the wedding business never takes a break. And that tropical feel is apparent in wedding stationery from save-the-date cards to thank you notes. Wedding stationery: Courtesy Stacey Ambrosio, Simply You Weddings 40 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 S TAT I O N E RY "Save the dates are great to let people know to put it on their calendar and start saving money so they can come to Key West,” said Julie Shreck, owner of Simply You, a full-service wedding planner. “Since we’re such a destination area, a lot of our clients do save-the-date announcements - a lot of postcardtype save the dates, message in the bottle save the dates, anything to set the tone for what you’re about to experience,” Invites by Danette owner and designer Danette Baso Silvers said. As with most wedding elements, brides and grooms turn to the Internet for stationery ideas with Pinterest becoming the biggest driver of creativity. paper PRETTY S I M P L E A N D R E A S O NA B L E O R E L A B O R AT E A N D P R I C EY by Gena Parsons “It’s opened people’s minds to the variety of stationery they can have. So I get all kinds of crazy requests. I just got a request for an invitation in a treasure chest,” Baso Silvers said. Illustrating the island theme, an invitation may come in a glass bottle wrapped in raffia. Place cards at the rehearsal dinner might be propped up with seashells. And tiny tequila bottles with name tags could be guest gifts. “If they’re looking for something that’s going to illustrate a vintage garden wedding with a tropical feel, you’re going to go one way versus somebody who has a beautiful ballroom with gorgeous centerpieces,” Shreck added. “People have definitely gotten far more savvy. They want to stand out from the other events that they’ve been to. It’s one of those things where we’re always striving for something new and different.” Save-the-date notices can be mailed as early as a year in advance to allow guests to make cost-efficient travel arrangements. Invitations typically go out three months ahead of time with an RSVP deadline of two months prior to the wedding day. FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 41 S TAT I O N E RY c o n t i n u e d WEDDING PLACE CARD DA KEYS AL BRI2D 016 FLORI Calligraphy tops invitation trends along with other free-flowing fonts that mimic handwritten notes, although traditional fonts are often mixed in for readability. Thermographic raised print, gold foil and letter press remain common. Engraving, the most expensive option, requires thicker paper. Paper texture is a consideration. Baso Silvers sees simple card stock along with watercolor invitations on canvas and more organic stationery using thin slivers of wood. A personal stationer can provide clients with examples to see and feel. “People are taking more pride in the personal invitation,” Baso Silvers added. “I like to tell them to send me an example of the things they like and I can go from there to personalize it for them.” W E D D I N G E S C O RT WEDDIN 42 Stationery goes well beyond invitations and thank you notes. There are wedding day programs along with escort cards, place cards and menus for the rehearsal and reception dinners. Some couples give arriving guests welcome bags at their hotels that include wedding weekend itineraries, customized maps, and water bottles and cookies with personalized labels keeping with the desired theme. In addition to printed materials, Simply You also creates wedding websites to assist communications with guests. “It allows us to go ahead and plug in accommodations and travel information, wedding itinerary information. It allows them to go back into that and use it as a tool and a resource,” said Shreck. With varying budgets come different demands for customization. A save-the-date notice may be as simple as a refrigerator magnet sent through the mail, or as elaborate as a message in a bottle delivered to their door. Invitations vary from the traditional two-envelope card with RSVP return to a wine bottle with custom label and engraved name tags. 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Technology provides couples the chance to select songs to suit their style. Matrimonial mainstays like Etta James’ “At Last” are joined by modern day romantic tributes such Ed Sheeran’s “Thinking Out Loud” and John Legend’s “All of Me.” “Music has become embroiled so much with the electronic options that allow people to build their own playlists. It’s a huge tool with our DJs and clients,” said Julie Shreck, owner of Simply You, a full-service wedding planner in Key West. “It’s really opened up the opportunities for people to have a far wider variety of music than ever before.” “I’ve had young couples opt for the full orchestration of “Here Comes the Bride” and I’ve had people who are more mature come in to something a tad bit more contemporary,” added Rev. Steve Torrence of the Metropolitan Community Church. “The more pronounced difference in taste is the music at the reception.” Live options range from acoustic guitar or classical violin to a tropical steel drum and bongo combo, or even a ukulele. Cocktail hour may feature the subdued stylings of a harpist while the pace picks up at the reception with a full band or a DJ. Thanks to digital technology, wedding and reception music can be as simple as popping a smart phone into a sound system. “It’s all a matter of style and affordability,” Torrence said. Online resources offer such a wide variety of music that couples find they can create a playlist to suit everyone at a reception. A little bit of Elvis and The Carpenters blended with Adele and Jay-Z. That is not to say that live musical performances have gone by the wayside. With so many talented musicians in the Florida Keys, options abound. 44 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 BY GENA PARSONS Courtesy Simply You Weddings MUSIC “The trend is that everybody is doing something that is specific to what and who they are. It’s their time,” Shreck concurred. First dance choreography, so popular in Internet videos, may feature newlyweds performing to a medley of their favorite country, rock and rap tunes, groomsmen mimicking a hip boy band or the groom and his mother cutting a rug to songs spanning the generations. “Oh yes, that happens here. And it’s really neat. I’ve seen them in the ballroom practicing and it is really, really nice. People today are trying to carve out something a bit unique for their wedding and it’s getting harder and harder to do. So people are getting more and more creative,” said Torrence. Spotify most popular wedding songs of 2015 1. All of Me, John Legend 2. Marry Me, Bruno Mars 3. Thinking Out Loud, Ed Sheeran 4. A Thousand Years, Christina Perri 5. Ho Hey, The Lumineers 6. Marry Me, Train 7. Lucky, Jason Mraz and Colbie Caillat 8. You Are The Best Thing, Ray LaMontagne 9. I’m Yours, Jason Mraz 10. Home, Edward Sharp & The Magnetic Zeros Spotify “I once had a bride change her dress just for her first dance,” SHRECK ADDED. most popular first dance songs of 2015 1. Thinking Out Loud, Ed Sheeran 2. At Last, Etta James 3. Can’t Help Falling In Love, Elvis 4. Marry Me, Train 5. Tenerife Sea, Ed Sheeran 6. You Are The Best Thing, Ray LaMontagne 7. First Day Of My Life, Bright Eyes 8. Make You Feel My Love, Adele 9. Everything, Michael Bublé 10. Lucky, Jason Mraz and Colbie Caillat FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 45 RING TRENDS with this FLORIDA KEYS RING BRIDAL 2016 by catherine bosworth Halo style engagement rings have been a consistently popular trend that will continue in 2016, according to gemologist William DePaula of DePaula’s jewelers in Tavernier. Another continuing trend is the return of yellow gold settings in place of white gold. “We’ve seen a resurgence of yellow gold in the last five years, from five percent in the past to 30 to 40 percent today.” 46 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 the halo ring, in either a white or yellow gold setting, features a center gemstone encircled by round pave, or smaller, diamonds, according to the website jewelrywise. The center stone can be round or princess cut, but a halo engagement ring can also have an oval, emerald, pear, or marquise diamond. The rings of smaller stones that encircle it can be double or triple, and may even continue around the shank of the ring, although entirely encircling the ring makes it difficult to resize. Another trend is to have the center diamond flanked by slightly smaller diamonds. And those diamonds aren’t always the traditional, transparent variety today. Diamonds in many colors, from blue to pink to green, yellow, red, purple and other colors have become very popular. Some of these colors occur naturally. The most famous diamonds in the world are colored diamonds. The Hope Diamond is blue and the Tiffany Diamond is yellow. However, gemologists have developed a way to enhance a less valuable stone through a radiation process that turns it into a colored stone. RING TRENDS A trend for 2016 for men’s wedding bands is the use of alternative metals, such as titanium and tungsten, especially for sports fishermen and others who work with their hands often. While some of these metals can’t be readily resized, they can be designed in ways that capture the unique lifestyle of the area. “We’re more creative in the Keys” DePaula says. Custom rings featuring dolphins, marlins, anchors, or ship’s wheels can be incorporated into the design of a ring. “We carry a couple of these designs, but if we don’t, we can draw it and put it on the band. Local artist Luis Reyes does custom designed rings for us.” Another popular ring design DePaula sees is the hook wedding band that looks like a hook wrapped around the finger. DePaula, who is part of a family business owned by his father, Joseph, says that choosing stones other than diamonds for a ring that is meant to be worn every day could cause some problems “Sapphires became popular when Princess Diana chose one, but soft stones other than diamonds won’t take the abuse that diamonds will. Emeralds are beautiful, too, but they can chip.” “Naturally colored stones are not vivid, and they’re hard to find” DePaula says. “The radiation process creates beautifully colored stones, and the radiation is safer than a microwave.” FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 47 FLOWERS FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL 2016 48 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 FLOWERS 2016 WEDDING Flower Trends The trend and style report, Flower Trends Forecast 2016, details emerging flower types, colors, themes and styles for events and weddings. Flower Trends Forecast 2016 provides insight into how the worlds of fashion and lifestyles, are shaping emerging flower decorating trends. PROVID ED B Y PRWEB.CO M FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 49 FLOWERS Floral designers use various types of flowers, colors of flowers, and design styles and techniques to make each wedding beautiful for each bride in a way that is unique and special to that bride. The flowers at this special occasion need to reflect her personality, her style, her aspirations and her dreams. The floral designer combines the worlds of fashion and lifestyle that reflect the style of the bride. The Flower Trends Forecast 2016 report details the emerging flower decorating themes emerging for weddings and events. Heather Bliss Photography© WHAT’S IN! 50 Lavish, gathered from the garden is in! It is sensual and tactile. It features garden flowers grouped in loose gatherings with berries and drapey foliages. Rich in textures and filled with pinks, blushes contrasted with rich plums and crimson. The Sorbet event is modern and lively. This color palette features lemon-yellow and adds to it rich blue, coral, spring green and powder blue. Sorbet is bright and sassy and uses geometric accents to contrast with peonies, dahlias, ranunculus and tulips. The Lustre look is rich in metallics. It features a rich combination of sheen and sparkle, infused with white and ivory flowers providing a stark contrast to the luxe alloys. Gold, silver, copper, platinum bronze and rose gold can be mixed to finished this trendy luxe look. Festival is born of hot, intense colors inspired by global hand-crafts. The Festival bride plans her event as an extension of her quirky and casual personality. Flower choices for Festival include bright yellow sunflowers, dark blue delphinium, orange gerbera daisies and bright red roses. Accents are hand-crafted and feature natural textural elements. FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 FLOWERS FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 51 WEDDING TRENDS OF THE KEYS With our reputation as a destination wedding spot, the Florida Keys sets wedding trends rather than follows them. However, according to wedding industry professionals, as well as local newlyweds and soon-to-weds, a few fun wedding trends have been making their way up and down the Keys. island INSPIRATIONS by sarah goodwin 52 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 e Po rt Ph er oto grap hy © Ka rr i WEDDING TRENDS OF THE KEYS less is more: In 1981, the wedding of Prince Charles of Wales to Lady Diana Spencer ushered in an age of spectacularly opulent weddings. Nowadays, such gross commercialism is out. Karen Leonard of Aaron’s Key West Weddings notes: “Smaller, more casual weddings definitely seem to be on the rise. People aren’t looking to spend to tens of thousands, especially if they’re on a second or third marriage. Plus, with people waiting until they’re older to marry, they’ve often lived together a while and have already set up their homes. They don’t need lots of gifts or an expensive honeymoon. They’re happy to come here and have a simple, stress-free wedding, surrounded by a few loved ones in a beautiful, natural setting. Big, extravagant, and expensive weddings with gala receptions have gone the way of the dodo.” outdoor weddings: Whether on the beach, on a boat, in a botanical garden, or on the grounds of a historic home or lighthouse, outdoor weddings are the way to go in the Keys, and of course, sunset is the most popular time of day for weddings. Must-haves include breeze caressing palm trees, and water lapping against the shore. Decorations like conch shells, starfish, tropical flowers, tiki torches and bamboo arbors add to the Caribbean vibe. Some couples choose to have their rings carried in on half-shells. In the resorts, getting married by the sea beats getting married poolside. keep it casual: Our islands are known having a laidback dress code, and our relaxed style extends to our weddings. Richard Knowles of Florida Keys Weddings has noticed lots of barefoot brides wearing cocktail gowns, and grooms in white Tommy Bahama shirts. “Recently, we’ve seen a lot of brides and bridesmaids in plum, or carrying bouquets of plum-colored Calla lilies. Otherwise, we see colors that match our ocean, turquoise and coral.” Other wedding professionals noted lots of natural colors paired with greenery, and looks that are soft, elegant, and light. However, one bride-to-be interviewed couldn’t resist putting her bridesmaids in gold sequin dresses! tunes we love: Brides and grooms are no longer limited to the “Here Comes the Bride” or Pachelbel’s “Canon in D” for the walk FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 53 WEDDING TRENDS OF THE KEYS continued down the aisle. Non-denominational songs with meaning to the couple to be wed often replace traditional music. Ukuleles and steel drums usurp more traditional string ensembles. After the wedding, of course, it’s time to dance! “Top” Jimmy Cooper of Soundwave, notes “Many wedding parties today lose their minds when I play N'Sync's ‘Bye Bye Bye’ or Backstreet Boys’ ‘I Want It That Way.’ And yes, those Macarena and Chicken Dance requests are getting fewer and farther between, but the Cha Cha Slide and the Cupid Shuffle are alive and well!” Images on this page by Julia Timmons non-traditional vows: personal touches: The Sand Ceremony is another popular ritual in the Keys, where each partner takes turn pouring different colored sands into a clear vessel, forming a layered effect. If the couple has children, they may participate, adding to the layers of color, symbolizing the unifying of two families as one. Says Doll, “Having the wedding after sunset and using glowing LED elements helped to make the mood comfortable and way different from any wedding I have been to. Plus our 3' high lit-up DOLL marquis sign was pretty awesome! And nearly everybody dressed up, or down, in tutus and other fun stuff, to make it a truly Key West affair!” Julia Timmons of Blue Water Weddings witnesses new rituals replacing the old, stale promises to Love, Honor, and Obey. “A Lobster Release Ceremony is something very unique to the keys. The story is that lobsters mate for life. The bride throws the female and the groom throws the male lobster back into the sea as a symbol of eternal love. On a side note, the male follows the female around for life. Guests throwing beach balls at the bride and groom instead of rice have become a popular trend as well.” 54 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 More than ever, couples on the verge of lifelong commitment want to make room in their ceremonies for their own tastes, personalities, and experiences together. When local photographer Nick Doll recently married bartender Jenn Stefanacci, their wedding at the Key West Garden Club, plus an “everyone’s invited afterparty” at Bagatelle, typified the Keys’ unconventional approach to love and marriage. FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL 2016 In the midst of planning her upcoming wedding to Zia Charters owner Jeremy Hackworth, Circuit Court Case Manager Laura Richardson is choosing plenty of personal touches. “We’re having the ceremony at Saint Mary Star of the Sea and reception at Casa Marina. We're really trying hard to get as much of our silly personalities into the entire wedding. There will be tons of bright colors and glitter at the reception. Instead of typical wedding favors, we're going to donate to a number of charities that mean a lot to us, like the FKSPCA, Marc House, and Smile Train. And we're having an after party at the Porch, which is where we met!” For some couples, a big spectacle fits their personality, and in the Keys, it’s okay to go for it! Take the muchpublicized New Year’s Eve wedding of Jeff Kucin and Gary Marion, better known as the drag queen “Sushi.” They married on the stage of 801 Bourbon Bar, then Sushi climbed into a giant red high-heeled shoe suspended over the sidewalk on Duval Street to be lowered at midnight. fun favors: One recent wedding featured a bar made out of an old boat. Another ended with a smores party around a fire pit. One couple opted for a pineapple wedding cake. Whatever couples decide to do when getting married in the Keys, it’s all about fun and creating a night they and their guests will remember joyously for the rest of their lives. 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Parti Full Liquor & Food Served ’til Close KEYS HOTTEST HAPPY HOUR 2-4-1 Dances 2-4-1 Drinks ½ Price Appetizers 4-8pm • No Cover 402560 BT FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 412461 BT (305) 745-1522 (305) 745-1753 (fax) 407217 BT PO Box 212 24986 Overseas Hwy. 2016 57 BRIDAL WORKSHEETS WEDDING TIMELINE Here's what to do on the way to the alter. 8to10 first things first • Set wedding date. • Invitations should be mailed 6 weeks before the wedding. • Wedding dress should be ordered at least 6 months before wedding date. • Bridesmaids’ dresses should be ordered at least 6 months prior to wedding. • Bride’s hair should be cut and colored about 2 weeks before wedding. • Groom’s hair should be cut 2 weeks before wedding. 12+ • Pick a date! Look at your calendar with your fiancé (don’t forget to confer with parents on both sides) and set the date. Be sure to have an alternate dates in case the venue is already booked. • Start now thinking about whether you will plan a formal or informal wedding. • Creating a preliminary guest list now will really help out down the road when it’s time to create a budget. FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL 10to12 months months 58 months • 2016 • Select wedding date and time • Send out save the date cards/ emails. • Announce your engagement and have engagement photos taken. • Discuss and create a preliminary wedding budget with all involved. • Determine how expenses will be shared. • Determine your wedding theme or style. • Reserve your ceremony location. • Determine who will officiate the ceremony. • If you choose to use a professional planner you should begin interviewing now. • Reserve your reception location. • If your reception or wedding is planned for outdoors have an alternate plan in place. • Decide on your wedding colors. • Determine the size of your guest list. • Begin compiling list of names and numbers and addresses. • Send out a “Save the Date” cards or emails. • Select bridal attendants. • Ask attendants for their measurements and sizes. • Select Groomsmen. • Ask Groomsmen for their measurements and shoe size. • Plan reception. • Select a Caterer. • Select Photographer. • Select Videographer. • Select Florist. • Select Band or DJ. • Select Soloists, organists, musicians for ceremony. • Select your dress and order if necessary. • Select your headpiece and shoes. • Select petticoat and jewelry. • Select bridesmaids’ dresses and order if necessary. • Select and order invitations, matches, napkins, thank-you notes and programs. • Start planning honeymoon. • Start addressing invitations and announcements when they arrive. • Pre-address thank-you note envelopes while addressing invitations and announcements. • Prepare maps and directions to include in your invitations for ceremony and reception. • Check with the post office for the amount of postage needed to mail the invitations when all the pieces are in the envelope. • Register with Bridal registries. • Reserve the rehearsal dinner location. • Select a baker for the cake. BRIDAL WORKSHEETS 6to 4 months • Check with your local newspaper for the form and timing of your wedding announcement submission. • Reserve block accommodations for out-of-town guests. • Have mothers select their dresses. • Choose songs that you would like for the band or DJ to play at your wedding. • Keep gift checklist up to date and write thank-you notes DAILY. • Arrange accommodations for out of-town guests. • Hire limousines and/or other transportation. • Make appointments for physicals and update your immunizations shots and records. • Shop for wedding rings. • Start planning your honeymoon. • Get your passport and other important documents. • Begin shopping for your trousseau. • Begin addressing invitations and announcements (These should be sent out 4 to 6 weeks before the wedding.). • Order favors for guests. 2 • Finalize the ceremony details with the officiant. • Purchase guest book • Purchase or make place cards. • Purchase cake and knife server. • Purchase garter. • Make rehearsal and rehearsa dinner arrangements. • Plan the Bridesmaids luncheon. • Make appointments with your hairdresser and make-up artist. • Finalize your honeymoon plans. 1 month • Have a final fitting of the wedding and bridesmaids’ dresses. • Have a formal portrait done. • Complete all physical and dental appointments. • Get blood test and marriage license. • Make transportation arrangements for the wedding day. • Purchase gifts for all of your attendants. • Purchase gift for your fiancé. • Keep careful records of the gifts you receive and write thank-you notes as you receive them. • Select responsible person to handle your guest book • Make sure that all of the men’s attire has been ordered. • Pick up wedding rings and make sure they fit. • Take care of legal affairs such as changing the names on insurance policies, bank accounts, credit cards, etc… • Reconfirm the accommodations for out-of-town guests. • Prepare wedding announcements to be sent to the newspaper. months • Finish addressing invitations. • Prepare wedding vows and speeches to be made. • Begin dance lessons or purchase dance lesson video. • Finalize all details with the caterer, photographer, florist, reception coordinator, musicians, etc… • Order the wedding cake. • Order candies for reception. • Purchase gifts for out-of-town guests to be left in hotel rooms. All images by Christy Transier Photography© FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 59 BRIDAL WORKSHEETS 2 weeks • Plan bachelor and bachelorette parties. • Have bridal consultant give you a copy of the time schedule for your wedding day. Make any adjustments or changes immediately. • Have maid or matron of honor contact attendants about final fittings for all participants. • Arrange to have wedding gifts moved to your new home. • Turn in change of address card to post office if necessary. • Finish addressing announcements to be mailed on the wedding day. • The groom should have his hair cut. • The bride should have her hair cut and colored if necessary. the caterer to put together a food basket (don’t forget some wedding cake!) and have it delivered to your getaway car 30 minutes before you leave. • Give the photographer a list of pictures you would like. • Give the videographer a list of shots you would like included in the video. • Give all musicians the lists of music for the ceremony and reception. • Plan the seating arrangements. • Continue to write Thank-you notes • Pack your suitcase for the honeymoon • Make sure you have your marriage license • Make sure that you have your wedding rings and that they fit. • Make sure that all wedding attire is picked up and it fits. • Reconfirm all honeymoon reservations. • Make sure that you have your plane tickets. 1 the day of week the wedding • Contact guests who have not responded. • Give the final count to the caterer and review the details. • Go over any final details with all wedding professionals you have hired. • Give wedding consultant favors and place cards for reception. • Give seating chart to wedding consultant. • Give seating chart and time schedule to reception manager. • Give wedding consultant envelopes for any payments/tips for vendors to be handed out on the day of the wedding. • Check with wedding consultant to make sure she will carry a “wedding day emergency kit” with her at all times. • Make sure that wedding consultant is prepared with cell phone, schedules, and important phone numbers and vendor contracts. • Have your wedding consultant tell 60 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • Give any instructions about the wedding such as what time everyone should arrive at the church for pictures, transportation plan, reception locations etc… • 2016 the day before • Don’t plan a wild late night party! • Have the bridesmaids’ luncheon if you are not having it the day of the wedding and you haven’t already had it. • The bride should have her nails done. • Have rehearsal with all participants, reviewing their duties at least twice. • Go over special seating or pew cards with ushers. • Eat Breakfast! • Have bridesmaids’ luncheon if you have not already had it. • Have wedding consultant carry fruits veggies and crackers with her at all times. • If at all possible, make sure someone else is driving you to your morning appointments. • The bride should have her hair and make up done. • Make sure that each of you has the rings. • Make sure that you have the marriage license. • Place the officiant’s fee in an envelope and give it to the best man so he may present it after the ceremony. • Relax and enjoy this magical day! BRIDAL WORKSHEETS FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL 2016 WEDDING DAY INFORMATION Ceremony site name and address: Contact name:Contact Phone: Contact email:Time facility opens: CEREMONY SCHEDULE Service Contact Person Phone Arrival Time NOTES Time NOTES Florist Decoration Consultant Gift Table Attendant Guest Book Attendant Musicians Officiant Photographer Rentals Equip & Supplies Transportation Provider Videographer Vocalist Wedding Consultant Reception site name and address: Contact name: Contact Phone: Contact email: Time facility opens: RECEPTION SCHEDULE Service Contact Person Phone Arrival Baker Bartender Caterer Florist Gift Table Attendant Guest Book Attendant Musicians Rental Equip & Supplies Transportation Provider Videographer Wedding Consultant FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 61 BRIDAL WORKSHEETS ITEMS & SERVICES Vendor Name Amount Budgeted CEREMONY Site Fee Marriage License Officiant’s Fee Ceremony Fee Soloist Aisle Runner, pew décor Other STATIONERY Invitations Reception Cards Response Cards Pew Cards Announcements Thank-You Notes Programs Postage Napkins Personal Stationery Matches Guest Book and Pen Marriage License Holder Other WEDDING ATTIRE Bridal Gown Press Package Headpiece & Veil Shoes & Accessories Alterations HAIR & MAKE-UP Gown Preservation Grooms Formalwear Formal Wear Accessories Other RINGS Engagement Ring Bride’s Ring Groom’s Ring GIFTS Bride’s Gift Groom’s Gift Bride’s Attendant Gifts Groom’s Attendant Gifts Flowergirl Gift Ringbearer gift Officiant Ceremony Site Coordinator DÉCOR & FLOWERS Ceremony Site Reception Site Bride’s Flowers Bridesmaids Bouquets Groomsmans Boutonnieres Mother’s and Grandmother’s Corsages Reception Site fee Catering Liquor/Beverages 62 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 To be Paid by Total Cost Budgeted Variance Deposit Paid Balance Due Date Due ✓ BRIDAL WORKSHEETS ITEMS & SERVICES Vendor Name Amount Budgeted To be Paid by Total Cost Budgeted Variance Deposit Paid Balance Due Date Due ✓ DÉCOR & FLOWERS Servers & Bartenders Site Equipment Rentals Wedding Cake Cake Top Cake Cutting Fee Groom’s Cake Band or DJ Other PHOTOGRAPHY Photographers Fee Engagement Photo Formal Portrait Package Album Extra Pictures Other VIDEOGRAPHY Fee Extra Copies Other ACCOMMODATIONS & TRANSPORTATION Attendants Rooms Bridal Limo Parents Limo Parking/Gas Parking Attendants Other BRIDESMAIDS’ LUNCHEON Site Fee Catering Other REHEARSAL DINNER Site Fee Catering Music Other HONEYMOON Airfare Accommodations Spending Money Passports Wardrobe Other OTHER FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 63 BRIDAL WORKSHEETS BRIDE’S GROOM’S to do checklist to do checklist ❏ Prepare personal guest list ❏ ❏ Add guests from both sets of parents ❏ Ask the father for his blessing ❏ Choose Maid of Honor ❏ Arrange meeting of parents ❏ Choose other attendants ❏ Help bride choose the date ❏ Make travel and honeymoon _____________________________________ _____________________________________ _____________________________________ _____________________________________ ❏ Shop for gown Buy the ring!! reservations ❏ Register for gifts with bride ❏ Schedule haircut 2 weeks before ❏ Plan wedding Ceremony & Reception (see other detailed list) wedding ❏ Purchase and wrap bride’s wedding gift ❏ Practice hair and make-up ❏ Purchase and wrap groomsman’s gifts ❏ Register for gifts with groom ❏ Schedule time to obtain marriage ❏ Schedule manicure, pedicure and facial/ massage license ❏ Look for place to live after the wedding ❏ Purchase groom’s ring ❏ _____________________________________ ❏ Purchase and wrap groom’s gift ❏ _____________________________________ ❏ Purchase and wrap attendant’s gifts ❏ _____________________________________ ❏ Make name and address changes ❏ _____________________________________ ❏ Hold bridal luncheon ❏ Thank everyone ❏ Relax and enjoy this magical celebration ❏ _____________________________________ ❏ _____________________________________ FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL 2016 64 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 BRIDAL WORKSHEETS MAID OF HONOR'S to do checklist ❏ Assist bride with vendor selection as needed ❏ Organize bridal shower and bachelorette party ❏ Confirm delivery date and fittings for attendant’s dresses ❏ Help address wedding invitations ❏ Help the bride into her gown at fittings and day of wedding ❏ Straighten and maintain the veil and train ❏ Hold the bride’s bouquet during the ceremony ❏ Keep the groom’s wedding band until the bride calls for it during ceremony BEST MAN’S to do checklist ❏ Organize bachelor party (not the night before the wedding) ❏ Pick up tuxedos ❏ Pay for own tuxedo ❏ Escort maid of honor during ceremony ❏ Hold wedding ring ❏ Act as official witness at marriage license signing ❏ Distribute fees to clergyman, organist after ceremony ❏ Act as master of ceremonies at the reception ❏ Join the receiving line or greet guests ❏ Organize ushers ❏ Join the receiving line or greet guests ❏ Make sure groom is on time ❏ Prepare a toast for the couple ❏ Deliver couple’s luggage to the hotel ❏ Tell parents when the couple is ready to leave the reception ❏ Help the bride change out of her gown ❏ Take care of the bridal gown and accessories once the bride has changed. Give them to the mother of the bride or deliver them to the bride’s home. and give room key to groom ❏ Prepare and offer first toast ❏ Return rented formal wear ❏ _____________________________________ ❏ _____________________________________ ❏ _____________________________________ ❏ _____________________________________ ❏ _____________________________________ ❏ _____________________________________ FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 65 Christy Transier Photography© 66 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 FLORIDA KEYS B R I DA L • 2016 67 412456 BT 68 FLORIDA KEYS BRIDAL • 2016 397731 BT