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He bends down to pull on some levers and tighten lines before stepping onto the tugboat that floats alongside. He doesn’t say much, but he gives the air of a man who knows 4 ROCKY HILL LIFE | September 2015 what he’s doing. As master captain of the Rocky Hill–Glastonbury Ferry since 1992, Stokes understands the equipment he’s been charged with running better than anyone. The ferry, which crosses the Connecticut River between Rocky Hill and Glastonbury, is the oldest continuously running ferry service in the country, having made its first crossing 360 years ago in 1655. At the time, it was a small raft poled across the river by Joseph Smith, the first ferryman. “There was a necessity of use in the area,” Ferry Mate Connor Spencer said. “Glastonbury was a big farming community, so it was really necessary.” The ferry has seen numerous iterations in the time since it con- sisted of a few boards of wood strung together. By 1846, the rafts were powered by a horse on a treadmill, and within 30 years after that they switched to steam-powered ferries. Around 1922, the steam ferries were discontinued in favor of what is still utilized today, a small barge pulled by a tugboat. “It’s a self-contained barge and all the work is done by this tugboat,” Senior First Mate Sal Spatola said. “It really wasn’t built for cars originally. It was built for horses and buggies.” Since that time, the tugboat and barge model has stayed, and according to members of the crew, many visitors have no desire for the system to change to a more modernized method. “I’d say 98 percent of the people who use it would kill you,” Spatola said with a laugh. “The tugboat’s part of the attraction.” Since its days as a necessity for getting across the river, the ferry has also become a destination for tourists and locals alike who are looking to spend some time on the river. “People come and want to take pictures of the tugboat,” Spatola said. “It’s only a four-to-five minute crossing, but it’s four to five minutes of a time gone by. You’re stepping back in time when you step on here.” “The scenery is nice, too,” Spencer added. “We get eagles flying around here and we get to hear great stories from people.” Spencer, who is one of the two summer helpers who work the ferry in addition to the five full-time employees, said it has always been an important part of his life. When he was in kindergarten, he recalled creating a project all about the ferry, and now he has returned as a recent high school graduate. “I’m going into maritime engineering, so this provides an opportunity where I can explore the different areas of engineering,” he said. For Spatola, a former police officer, getting to hear those types of stories of how the ferry has affected people’s lives is a big perk of the job. It operates on a seasonal basis under the auspices of the state Department of Transportation. “People will come and tell you, ‘my parents took me here 60 years ago, then I took my kids and now my grandkids,’” he said. “A lot of people bring their families here.” Although the ferry provides a 5 Riding the ferry between Rocky Hill and Glastonbury allows visitors and commuters the opportunity to step away from the hustle and bustle of their day and enjoy the tranquility of the Connecticut River. One of our many “Rehab Star Graduates” We Serve and Welcome The Entire Community Served over 2,000 individuals from our surrounding communities Short Term Rehab ~ Respite Care Long Term Care ~ Memory Care Skilled Nursing Care ~ Outpatient Rehab Pilgrim Manor Health & Rehab leisurely escape for many riders, its efficiency is also beneficial to commuters. “It cuts miles off the commute each way,” Spatola said. “We run nonstop from when we open to when we close.” Depending on the day, the crew can transport as many as 150 cars per day. “In an hour we could easily do five rounds trips. That’s 15 to 22 cars,” Spatola said. “Even when the bridge was closed, we were taking four cars at a time, just back and forth, back and forth.” “It’s much better than just sitting in traffic,” Spencer added. The ferry runs from April 1 through Nov. 30 but may close due to flooding or other weather conditions. “A lot of times we’re closed in April because of flooding from snow melting,” Spatola said. “A lot of people don’t realize it’s a two-and-a-half foot tidal difference here.” Whenever possible, the crew does its best to keep the service running. “If we’re closed, it’s not because we want to, but because we have to,” Spencer said. The ferry continues its run as the longest-running ferry in the nation due to the support of local residents. In 2011, after a suggestion was made to close the ferry for budgetary reasons, a successful “Save Our Ferry” campaign helped to keep it going, for which the crew is grateful. “It’s just a great way to get away and enjoy yourself,” Spencer said. RHL A Covenant Retirement Community 5 Star Medicare Rating 52 Missionnary Rd. • Cromwell 860-559-5408 covenantvillageofcromwell.org “If I had it to do over again… The Rocky Hill–Glastonbury Ferry runs Monday through Friday from 7 a.m. to 6:45 p.m. and Saturdays and Sundays from 10:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. The ferry is $5 per car on weekdays and $6 per car on weekends. Pedestrians and bicyclists can ride it for $2 per person. The service is a source of pride for Rocky Hill as the oldest continuously running ferry in the nation. In 2011, when there was debate about whether to discontinue the service for budgetary reasons, residents rallied for a successful “Save Our Ferry” campaign. … I’d spend more time with my family.” When people reflect on their lives, they very seldom say, “If only I’d spent more time at my job.” But they often say, “If only I had enjoyed my family more.” Labor Day may seem like a less important day than other holidays, yet it is the one day we are encouraged to put our work aside to relax and enjoy our family. We trust that you will have a special holiday and it will enable you to take more time to enjoy life. 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Individual results vary. Other restrictions may apply. LangdonCenter.com LangdonCenter.com Guilford Guilford model Model Unretouched ExpresS-Lift patient photos team and girls soccer team served as “buddies” to the participants on a weekly basis for the six weeks that the program met. The Metropolitan District Commission was the official sponsor of Summer Knights. It was designed to complete a planned year-round, four-season cycle of activities for these children following the success of Sidekicks Soccer in the fall, Sea Cubs swimming over the winter and Challenger baseball in the spring. “We completed our series” a pleased Lisa Zerio said as she watched the children cavort in the community center gymnasium. Zerio is the director of parks and recreation. She and her staff work closely with a cadre of parent volunteers to make each of these programs happen and she is thrilled with their individual and collective success. They wanted to limit the number of children per group to make sure that each one received plenty of individual attention. Registration was expanded to two sessions to allow approximately 20 children to participate in Summer Knights. Photo by Annie Cerpa 7 The Summer Knights group enjoyed one last day of sports and pizza on Aug. 5. “We kept it flexible,” Zerio said. “Each week was something different. We had a pretty good turnout this week.” The final week featured scooter hockey, a game in which the youngsters sat on flat seats with four wheels and scooted around the floor, whacking balls with soft paddles and banging the floor for extra emphasis. Children ranged in age from elementary school to high school students. They represent various special needs and formed friendships; many were already friends from the three other programs, but there were new participants as well. Jennifer Reilly sat on the bleachers, reading a book and occasionally taking photos of her two children as they played scooter hockey. She is pleased with all of these special needs programs and likes the way Summer Knights was designed. “It’s nice to have something that’s different every week, that’s inside and out of the heat,” she said. “It’s a lot of fun for everyone.” Reilly also praised the sense of community these programs have created between the participating children and their parents. Sidekicks Soccer begins a second season Sept. 12 and continuing through Oct. 31. Annmarie Catania, coach of the Rocky Hill High School girls soccer team, returns as the instructor. Players from both the boys and girls soccer teams at RHHS will serve as buddies to the participants, who must be of school age. Structured play will take place each Saturday at 9 a.m. on McVicar Field at the high school. Registration is already under way and the fee is $30 per child. Sign up at rhparkrec.org or visit the parks and recreation office at town hall. RHL GET BACK IN THE GAME. UConn Health’s orthopaedic specialists work together to provide you with the most current treatments to help you regain mobility. From diagnosis to management to critical care, our doctors provide services for a broad range of orthopaedic problems, helping you to get back to doing what you love. To learn more, visit uchc.edu. 800.535.6232 uchc.edu September 2015 | ROCKY HILL LIFE 7 8 Carol Simpson, Resident Seabury has collaborated with a top architectural firm on major development plans, including 65 new independent living residences as well as a salon, bistro, day spa and other luxury amenities. If you’d like to learn more, information sessions are held at Seabury every 1st Thursday at 1:30 p.m. and every 3rd Wednesday at 10:30 a.m. Call (860) 243-6081 or (860) 243-4033 for reservations or e-mail info@seaburylife.org Seabury An ACTIVE LIFE Community 200 SEABURY DRIVE | BLOOMFIELD, CT 06002-2650 (860) 286-0243 | (800) 340- 4709 WWW.SEABURYLIFE.ORG | INFO@SEABURYLIFE.ORG LIFE Quotes “Every truth passes through three stages before it is recognized. In the first, it is ridiculed. In the second, it is opposed. In the third, it is regarded as self evident.” – Arthur Schopenhauer 8 ROCKY HILL LIFE | September 2015 Photos by Mark Jahne “ People told us we were too young to move here, but we absolutely love it.” The staff at Mitchell’s Family Restaurant is a close-knit group that has been together for many years. They are, back from left, Roy Merluzzo, Joe Maietta, Brandon Friss and Kwame Asare; front from left, Tina Valadez, Jeanette Barnes and Holly Hartley. Half a century Mitchell’s Family Restaurant celebrates a milestone by Mark Jahne Editor F or 50 years, Mitchell’s Family Restaurant has been serving eggs, pancakes, sandwiches, salads, soups and more to diners from Rocky Hill and surrounding towns. It’s a history that makes owner Roy Merluzzo proud, though he doesn’t have long to reflect. He’s too busy buying food and supplies, running the business and making sure that everyone who walks in the door of the Silas Deane Highway restaurant has a positive culinary experience. Ray Mitchell opened the restaurant in 1965 a mile or so down the street where Mariella Creations now stands. It’s original name was Spud Nuts. When he moved it to its current location he changed the name to Mitchell’s. The restaurant was purchased by David Osborne from 1980 to 1995. “That’s when I bought it,” Merluzzo said. “When I bought the restaurant, it was in the same building [as now], but a different part. I love the location. It’s a central location in a busy area. This corridor has seen a lot of growth over the past 10 years.” He moved it to its current location 12 years ago after renovating the space. That allowed 9 since,” Harry added. Merluzzo also sees the children and grandchildren of older customers come through the door. In addition to the food, he attributes that to the quality and longevity of his staff. “I have a lot of employees who have stayed with me since I bought the restaurant,” he said. “Our restaurant is a sustenance business. We deal with people for growth. He’s also pleased that, even when the rest of the neighborhood goes dark, his power always seems to stay on. “We expanded our menu and expanded our hours to include dinners Monday through Friday,” Merluzzo said. One of the secrets of Mitchell’s success is a large percentage of repeat customers. “We know a lot of customer names, a lot of customers’ orders, we know a lot of families,” he said. “We get a lot of repeat customers on a daily basis.” One such pair of frequent diners is Harry and Diane Hazel. On this day he was enjoying a meal of sausage and spuds while she was lunching on poached Oscar (eggs topped with asparagus and hollandaise sauce). “Good food, good people,” Harry said about why he keeps coming back. The couple used to own a store in town. “It was a customer who told us about Mitchell’s,” Diane said. “We’ve been coming here ever They are made on location, not out of a can. Everything is fresh and there are multiple choices every day. On Fridays they alternate between clam chowder and corn chowder. Certain dinner options have become staples on given nights. Diners can expect to find baked chicken on Wednesday and pot roast on Thursday, for example. A new feature that Merluzzo “We know a lot of customer names, a lot of customer orders, we know a lot of families.” –Roy Merluzzo on a routine.” Merluzzo was asked to list the most popular items but, after giving it some thought, he replied that they run all over the menu. Daily lunch and dinner specials are popular and the blueberry pancakes have long been a favorite. “The soups are very popular,” he said. said is proving popular is a fourcourse price fixed meal on the last Friday of each month. The cost is $24. Most items on the menu are priced between $5 and $18. Mitchell’s offers a wide variety of egg, waffle, pancake and other breakfast dishes. Lunch and dinner options include numerous types of meat entrees, a wide selec- tion of sandwiches, salads and burgers, plus friend chicken and seafood choices. There’s also a menu just for children. “We serve breakfast all day long,” he added. “Our philosophy is we want you to get whatever you want without locking you into a lot of food for a lot of price.” The catering side of the business is growing nicely as well, he said. Merluzzo said many people call his restaurant “Breakfast City” and he’s fine with that. The Tolland resident owned four restaurants at one point, including Mitchell’s. “In 2001, I bought a restaurant in Vernon that was for sale,” he said. That is now owned by his brother. He also owned Mitchell’s on Main in Cromwell, which he sold to his partner, and for seven years operated Mitchell’s on the River at Ferry Park. RHL Mitchell’s Family Restaurant is located at 2010 Silas Deane Highway at the intersection of Parsonage Street. Call 860-563-4700 or visit mitchellscoffeehouse.net. NATIONAL ASSISTED LIVING WEEK TALKS Reknown Speakers to Give Free Talks at Atria Senior Living Sandwiched Between Mom and Dad? 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Photo by Mark Jahne Carolyn Phillips stands alongside a plaque honoring her commitment to the Chrysalis Center in Hartford. hen the topic of conversation is the Chrysalis Center in Hartford, Carolyn Phillips has no trouble finding motivation. The private, non-profit social service and housing organization is near and dear to the Rocky Hill resident’s heart. Chrysalis describes itself as a socially innovative multi-service organization that helps people living in poverty, military veterans, women and children, young adults and individuals who are struggling with mental health, addiction, HIV/ AIDS, or who are returning to the community from incarceration and homelessness. It helps them transform their lives through job training, employment services, housing and other community health care services. Those services include supportive housing, recovery, employment and more. “I found out about Chrysalis from a client of mine,” Phillips, a personal trainer, said. “At the time I knew absolutely nothing about Chrysalis. I thought it would be nice to get involved.” She saw it as a way of giving back by helping others. Phillips has New neighborhood, same tried-and-true lending solutions. Hoffman SummerWood Community is CT’s premier senior living rental community offering fine kosher dining and a wealth of other amenities including memberships to the Mandell JCC, the University of Hartford’s President’s College, and the West Hartford Senior Center. 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The pantry serves the Upper Albany and Asylum Hill neighborhoods of Hartford. “Freshplace, in particular, has meaning to me,” she said. Clients can come to Freshplace to pick up fruits and vegetables of their choice. Those food items also come with a dose of education to help them understand what they are eating and why. Phillips conducts a food drive to benefit Chrysalis every holiday season. The center – located on Homestead Avenue in Hartford – also features raised-bed gardens, an art gallery, culinary school, recreation center and technical training programs. An emphasis is always placed on outcomes because the whole idea behind Chrysalis is not just to help people, but to help them gain self-sufficiency. Phillips owns and operates Fit Behavior. She ran it as a gym for 18 years but gave that up and now focuses on a personal business training out of her home. Her professional focus is on weight loss and lifestyle. She also does live events, lunch and learn programs, and teaches classes at the Rocky Hill Congregational Church. She is proud that other social service agencies across the country are taking notice and starting to follow the Chrysalis model. That model always includes goal setting and case management. The nonprofit is celebrating its 40th anniversary this year and part of the festivities are 40 different pop-up events. Sharon Castelli is the chief executive officer. She praised Phillips for her longtime commitment and service. The two women have known each other for 11 years. “Carolyn was on our board for nine years,” she said. “She’s certainly at a governance leadership level of the organization. She never misses a meeting.” The only reason Phillips stepped down from the board of directors was because of mandated term limits. She took a year off, as required, and rejoined the board this past November. She serves on numerous committees including real estate and strategic planning. Castelli spoke about Freshplace, calling it a state-of-the-art food pantry. Patrons choose foods to meet the health and cultural needs of their families. They also learn how to prepare the fresh vegetables they select. Freshplace is a collaborative project among Chrysalis Center, the Junior League of Hartford and Foodshare. “We’re trying to give people a hand up, not a hand out,” Castelli said. All Chrysalis Center services come with a case management component. Those who utilize Freshplace are offered cooking classes, nutrition classes and budget management training. Castelli said Phillips collects food, does fitness fundraisers, participates in client involvement, food education, treatment and wellness programs, among others. “She’s gone above and beyond what an average board member does,” she said. “She’s a natural leader, an incredibly smart lady.” She added that Phillips has held chair and vice chair positions within the organization. She currently heads the governance committee. 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Photos by Allie Rivera Carnival and cook-off Atria Greenridge Place hosts event for intergenerational fun by Allie Rivera Staff Writer T he temperatures were climbing, but the heat didn’t quell the fits of laughter and jumps of joy at Atria Greenridge Place as it hosted children from KinderCare in Glastonbury for a carnival and cook-off. “We have a relationship with KinderCare,” Kathy Hallett, life guidance director in the memory care unit, said. “We do book buddies and arts and crafts and our seniors love it. They really love having that time with them.” The morning’s festivities July 31 began with a carnival – which Atria Greenridge Place has never hosted before – that included games such as throwing a ball to knock over cans, tossing a Frisbee through a Hula Hoop and running a water bucket relay for the nearly 50 children in attendance. “We just did the ring toss, but the best part was the water station,” Ava Mieczkowski, 7, said. Each of the carnival stations was run by a volunteer, some of whom were pre-teen or teenage children of Atria Greenridge Place employees. “We want to help cultivate the importance of volunteering in their community,” Hallett said. As the children ran around, many senior residents began to gather under the shade of a tree to watch the festivities. “I love to see the kids and see what they’re doing,” resident Helen Trefry said with a smile. “Everyone is so happy and they look like they’re fulfilled.” “This is a wonderful event for YOUR ROAD TO A BETTER HOME www.homedesigndistrict.com 12 ROCKY HILL LIFE | September 2015 the children and everybody seems to be enjoying themselves,” resident Bob Muello added. The main event of the day came after the running, jumping and throwing. As a culmination of National Culinary Month, Atria Greenridge Place hosted a burger cook-off between the facility’s chefs and members of the local fire, emergency medical services and police departments, with the children serving as judges. “We thought we’d make it a community affair because we’re all LIFE Quotes “Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.” – Carl Bard 13 about supporting the community,” Hallett said. “These guys are out there every day helping people, so it was great for them to take a few minutes to come help us here,” Director of Culinary Janet McClendon said. When the members of emergency services arrived with their fire truck Lt. Rob Catania said he and other members of the Rocky Hill Police Department are happy for any opportunity where they can be out in the community. With him are, from left, 6-year-olds Dimitriy M., Andrew Hsu, Ola Ahaie and Haylee Murphy. and police cars, the children had the chance to explore the vehicles and meet the first responders. “When we can be part of the community, we’re happy to do it,” Lt. Rob Catania said. “We think it’s important to let children get familiar with the police and know who we are.” Though the day consisted of three parts – a carnival, a cook-off and tours of emergency vehicles – the reasoning behind it all was to build a greater sense of community, helping both children and senior citizens alike. “Intergenerational programming is very big for us,” Engage Life Director Jeremy Hall said. “It’s great for the kids and it’s great for the residents, too.” For the senior residents at Atria Greenridge Place, the opportunity to engage with children can be both a simple bit of fun and a health benefit. Numerous studies, including one from the Healthy Aging Partnership, show that intergenerational activities can reduce depression in older adults and contribute to overall health. Chefs at Atria Greenridge Place came together with members of the emergency medical services, police and fire departments for a burger cook-off, judged by children from KinderCare in Glastonbury. Similar studies have shown that the benefits for children can be just as great and those at Atria Greenridge Place hope to make an impact on the lives of the youngsters who visit the facility. “We believe it’s important for children to be comfortable around their elders,” Hallett said. “We see this really as a wonderful intergenerational opportunity.” Though Hall and the rest of the team at Atria Greenridge Place knew of the social and health benefits for participants of all ages, the day ran as simply one of fun and friendly competition, with the facility’s chefs winning the kids’ vote in the cook-off. “It was a perfect ending to an eventful Culinary Appreciation Month,” Hall said. “I could not have asked for a better outcome and outpouring of support from the community.” RHL Atria Greenridge Place is located at 1 Elizabeth Court. It can be reached at 860-288-5729 or atriaseniorliving.com. You expect security and value from us. WOW? 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Or visit www.stfranciscare.com/rehabilitation 14 ROCKY HILL LIFE | September 2015 15 The best location German manufacturer selects Rocky Hill for its U.S. operations HQ by Mark Jahne Editor W Photos by Mark Jahne ARBURG President and CEO Friedrich Kanz stands alongside one of his company’s Allrounder machines. The company specializes in high-end injection molding equipment sold to a wide variety of industries and recently moved its U.S. headquarters into a new facility on West Street. hen the German manufacturer ARBURG was looking for a new primary location for its American subsidiary, it had certain requirements that needed to be met. Rocky Hill had them all and now the company resides in a newly constructed facility on a hillside overlooking West Street. ARBURG provides high-end injection molding machinery designed to provide for greater product efficiency. It covers every aspect of the process, from product design to production planning. 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It boasts an extensive network incorporating the parent factory, subsidiaries and international trading partners. Comprehensive pre-sale and after-sale service extends beyond the machine itself. It includes applications technology consulting, product and mold design, as well as the planning, design and commissioning of the injection molding machines or complete production cells. Among its other services are comprehensive support in process integration and control, production planning and full customer service, including specific training offerings. ARBURG’s primary product is its series of Allrounder machines that combine speed and energy efficiency with precision machining and low noise emissions. There are said Friedrich Kanz, president and CEO at the Rocky Hill headquarters. “We have 22 subsidiaries around the globe.” Those locations include Mexico, Brazil, Asia and Europe. In addition to the local operation the company has two technology centers in Elgin, Ill., and Irvine, Calif., to better ser- “We have strong competition from Europe, from Japan. We have a very good product, technically top end.” —Friedrich Kanz and operate it in conjunction with an Allrounder to form a complete production unit operated via a central machine control system named Selogica. A host computer system is configured to grow with the customer. It is designed to provide optimized machine capacity utilization with higher production quality. “ARBURG USA is the largest export organization of ARBURG,” vice its customers in the Midwest and on the West Coast. He said the company has been selling injection molding machines since the 1960s and originally used a distributorship in Berlin, Conn., to enter the American market. In 1990, top officials at world headquarters in Lossburg, Germany, determined that in order to provide the highest level of customer service, the company needed its own American presence. They liked the people who worked for the distributor so ARBURG quickly selected central Connecticut as its base of U.S. operations. Kanz said these people have a high level of expertise and many were hired by the company to work at its prior location off the Berlin Turnpike in Newington. The company spent 25 years at that location but he said it was no longer state of the art, nor did it have the infrastructure to fit ARBURG’s growth and changing needs. So the new facility in Rocky Hill was built and opened in June of this year. “It had to be close to the old facility because we didn’t want to lose good employees,” Kanz said. The company liked the parcel of land on West Street and town officials were welcoming and helpful with the process, he added. The property encompasses four acres and the building is 27,000 square feet. “They were interested to have us,” he said. “We are happy that we are here. The heart of the building is the showroom.” KK Wethersfield 31st Annual C rnfest 2015 Saturday, September 19th Broad Street Green, Old Wethersfield 10 am to 6pm • Rain or Shine ~ Best Apple Pie Contest ~ Submit your pie for a chance to win. Entry forms available online at: www.wethersfieldchamber.com Presented by For more details visit: www.wethersfieldchamber.com For public safety: No pets, bicycles or skateboards allowed on festival grounds. 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He added that the company does good business in the United States and its sales projections are positive. “The American market looks strong again after a few weak years in 2008 and 2009,” he said. “It’s going well and looking good. Business, in general, is good in the United States.” Kanz said the company rebounded nicely over the past few years. He gave much of the credit for that to the recovery of the U.S. automotive industry. ARBURG employs 45 people in Rocky Hill and 75 overall in its This view from the second floor reveals the large and brightly lit showroom where various ARBURG Allrounder machines are on display. They are fully hooked up to allow for demonstration runs to provide prospective customers with an example of their high-tech capabilities. American facilities. Some of them are German citizens who come to work here for a specified period of time, usually three years, before returning home; some like it so much that they extend their stay. Phyllis M. DiCara Rachel D. 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Carpentino said he and other town officials talked several times with ARBURG officials over a twoyear period to help convince the company to come to town. “We gave them a tax abatement, which helped a little bit,” he said. “We’re happy to have them and hope they stay for a very long time.” The building is near I-91 and can easily be seen by traffic on West Street and that was the intent. “They wanted a higher profile,” Carpentino said. RHL Thomas Dolan, DDS, MAGD welcomes his son Brendan Dolan, DMD into his general and cosmetic dental practice Graduate, UConn School of Dental Medicine 2014 Advanced General Dentistry Residency, VA Hospital, Long Beach, CA 2015 Dr. Dolan has advanced training in dental implants and the latest in restorative dentistry. 750 Old Main Street • Suite 305 • Rocky Hill • 860-563-3325 www.dicaralaw.com Read LIFE online at www.TurleyCT.com NOW ACCEPTING NEW PATIENTS Dr. Dolan is also fluent in Spanish and Portuguese. Dolan Dental 860.529.2000 www.dolandental.com 1160 Silas Deane Hwy. #305, Wethersfield September 2015 | ROCKY HILL LIFE 17 18 Linda Mathis, a board member with ITNCentralCT, is a frequent rider. She is pictured speaking at a June celebration of ITNCentralCT’s 10,000-ride milestone. Due to a visual impairment, Mathis is not able to drive herself at most times of day and relies on ITN for transportation. Courtesy photo Much more than door to door ITNCentralCT celebrates 10,000-ride milestone by Abigail Albair Executive Editor L inda Mathis may not have met her future spouse had it not been for the Independent Transportation Network. Emily Leonard would not be completing her second master’s degree. ITNCentralCT celebrated its 10,000-ride milestone in June while its parent company, ITNAmerica, marks its 20th anniversary this year. ITNAmerica was the first national non-profit transportation network for seniors, although those who utilize the service locally will tell you it is much more than just a transport service. ITNCentralCT has been providing affordable rides at any time for any reason to seniors and adults with visual impairment since 2006. Currently headquartered in West Hartford, the organization serves Greater Hartford. Leonard, a resident of The McAuley at The Mercy Community in West Hartford, credits ITN with helping her get to and from the Trinity College campus during the last three years while she worked toward a master’s in American studies. “The Trinity campus is wild. You’ve got culs-de-sac everywhere. If I’d had to use taxis, they never would have found me on the campus,” Leonard said. “The grad classes are all at night and don’t get out until 9 p.m. and I could count on the ITN guys to be right outside my classroom when I came out.” “And the price was right,” she added, noting that the cost of taxis would have made going back to school cost prohibitive. “They are a safe and reliable source of transportation.” Beyond offering rides to and from campus, Leonard found the drivers to be her fan section, of sorts, as she found a new passion in school. “I had pretty much the same three drivers and, after three years, they were my cheering squad,” she said. “They were really interested in what it’s like to go back to school when you’re in your 80s with all these 20 year olds. They were just so encouraging and supportive and interested. I’ve made life-long friends out of this experience.” Leonard began work toward her degree in the summer of 2012 and just recently handed in her thesis. Although that work is complete, she will continue to audit classes in coming semesters. She places a premium on being in the company of younger generations, and appreciates the opportunity to do so through school. “I want to keep this up to be at least once a week with young people, and I find a school setting is a very good way to do it. It’s more natural. 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She added of her ITN drivers, “They really made it possible. I could not have gone back to school without them. I think the world of them.” While she appreciated the moral support of her ITN drivers, something she said was “just marvelous,” she also believes they saw a benefit in spending time with her on their rides. “They’re almost young enough to be my kids, but they’re all retired so their 80s aren’t that far ahead of them that they can’t project, so their interest in my success at school is great for me and for them,” she said. “It’s like a flag of hope. You don’t have to end your life when you’re 60 or 70.” She believes just the act of volunteering for ITN is one that gives people a purpose – be it in retirement or otherwise – and one that makes an important contribution. She hopes others will consider offering their time to the organization. Don Jensen agrees with the sentiment that volunteering with ITN is a fulfilling experience. The Wethersfield resident is a driver and board member who has was taking a blind lady and her dog to the grocery store,” he recalled. The store was not one with which he was familiar. The dog was rambunctious and the woman’s list was all in braille. With the help of an assistant manager, they finally got their bearings to navigate the store. He’s taken her grocery shopping many times since and they now “We’re not just door to door or curb to curb. We’ll do whatever we need to do to help the individual out.” –Don Jensen been with the nonprofit for about six years. “It gets me out of the house. It gets me giving back,” he said. “We make friends with our riders. We get to know them and they get to know us.” He has had tough experiences over the years, but those are some of his fondest memories. “My most challenging experience have a system at a familiar store. In another encounter with a rider, Jensen took a woman with a degenerative muscle disease from her home in the south of the ITN area to an exercise class in Middletown. “I took her once or twice and I told her we might give her a driver living in her area and she said, ‘Please don’t. Please don’t change,’” he said. “I was surprised how quickly she adapted to me and me to her. That, to me, is what really makes it rewarding.” Jensen has taken people to all kinds of places, be it shopping, to medical appointments, for social gatherings or just to visit a friend. For his rider with the muscle condition, he knows how to make her most comfortable for the drive. For those who are visually impaired, he’ll help them into their house and help put away their groceries after a shopping trip. “We’re not just door to door or curb to curb,” he said. “We’ll do whatever we need to do to help the individual out.” During June’s celebration of the 10,000th ride, ITNAmerica founder and President Katherine Freund joined the CentralCT group at the Pond House Café in Elizabeth Park to share stories from riders and drivers before embarking on a national Storybook Tour that ended Aug. 14. 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For more information please call 860-666-0600 or visit www.duska.net September 2015 | ROCKY HILL LIFE 19 Courtesy photo 20 Don Jensen, a driver and board member with ITNCentralCT, is pictured above at the June celebration. Jensen was the driver for 2,000 of the 10,000 rides given by the organization. strengthen the senior mobility movement for the 71 million Americans who will be 65 or older by 2030. The celebration also shed light on a personal milestone for Jensen: of the 10,000 ITNCentralCT rides given, he was the driver for 2,000 of them. “I was shocked,” he said. “But I am retired and so that makes me much more available to do this.” For his part, the appreciation of his riders is all the thanks he needs for his volunteer work. “You take people and they say, SALON ‘Thank you,’ and I say to them, ‘The thanks that you express, that’s my pay,’” he said. Linda Mathis, a Rocky Hill resident, is also a board member with ITNCentralCT, and is a frequent rider. “ITN has opened up so many doors for me,” she said. Due to a visual impairment, Mathis is not able to drive herself at most times of day. While she takes a bus to work, the bus schedule near her home is limited, making transportation to medical appointments and social gatherings very difficult. “I’m going to be taking French lessons in the fall and I wouldn’t be able to do that without ITN,” she said. Currently, Mathis walks to the bus daily and, when she works half days as she did much of last winter, buses do not run at the times she needs to get home. “When you drive, it’s not a big deal, but if you don’t drive it’s a big deal and it can impede your life,” she said. “I would come home after work Friday and not leave my house until Monday morning. … Everything I have to do I have to schedule. How am I going to get there? How will I get home?” Mathis does not want to be a burden to her family or friends for regular rides, which is why she said ITN has been so helpful. “For times when I want to go somewhere special, I just call ITN,” she said. “If I want to go out to dinner, I want to have that independence. I want to be able to get there Paris Beautiful Hair • Personal Care Top Dollar For Top Talent – Come join our team! 939 Silas Deane Hwy., Wethersfield, 06109 • 860-529-8540 20 ROCKY HILL LIFE | September 2015 on my own.” For a few blind dates, Mathis had ITN drive her and even worked out a system so the driver could help her make a quick getaway if the date didn’t work out. Lucky for her, one date was successful and she is now engaged to the person ITN took her to meet. “They opened up life so much,” she said. “They gave me the freedom to be a normal person.” She has had most of the ITN drivers, she said, and has gotten to know at least a bit about all of them. “You don’t feel like you’re riding with a stranger,” she said. Mathis, who started utilizing ITN at age 45, called the organization to get to the hospital when her grandson was born. She usedit to visit her mother in a convalescent home. “These are wonderful people who do this because they want to help people,” she said. One thing the drivers and riders agree upon is that ITNCentralCT is always in need of more volunteer drivers to help keep it a success. In 2013, the West Hartford Town Council approved a resolution expending $25,000 to provide a grant to the nonprofit to partially fund an executive director position to manage the growing demand for rides, seek additional volunteers and improve its finances. Kevin Farmer was hired to the position. At the time of the 10,000 ride celebration, he expressed an appreciation for current volunteers and stressed an ongoing need for new ones. The organization serves 15 member towns: Avon, Cromwell, Durham, East Haddam, East Hampton, Farmington, Haddam, Hartford, Middlefield, Middletown, Newington, Portland, Rocky Hill, West Hartford and Wethersfield. Volunteers drive their own cars, offering services 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year. Mary Silverberg, representing ITN, spoke to the council at the time. She offered details of the program, noting that it is of particular importance for older adults who put themselves or others at risk of injury if they drive when they no longer should. She shared a personal story, noting that she has been visually impaired whole life, therefore she has never been able to drive. “In the last few months of my husband’s life when he knew he had to hang up the keys … my husband said, ‘How are you going to get where you need to go?’” she explained. “Sometimes people hang on to driving a lot longer than they should. … Knowing that you’ve got another really good viable option to help you get the transportation you need, there is a piece of mind with that.” RHL The ITN office is located in room 216 in the West Hartford Town Hall. 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Members of the Church of St. Andrew the Apostle on Orchard Street were on hand flipping burgers, grilling hot dogs and selling snacks. 6. The Brown family, including parents Ginny and Scott and boys Hunter, 1, and Jacob, 3, spread out a blanket and had a picnic. 7. The eve24 ROCKY HILL LIFE | September 2015 25 5 6 7 8 9 10 ning was a family affair for the Mattus family: Jill, Greg and Juliet, 3. 8. Members of the Rocky Hill Volunteer Fire Department, from left, Jim Lamarre, Joe Sereby and Luke DiMaria, spent the evening listening to music and providing information to the crowd. 9. The concert provided a fun evening out for people and pups alike, including Matt Bortolan, 17, Summer Vinci, 17, Caitlyn Lajoie, 19, and dog Paris. 10. Friends and family came together to enjoy the evening including, from left, Terry Morris, 5, Emily Morris, 8 and Emelia Pacheco, 7. September 2015 | ROCKY HILL LIFE 25 26 Wethersfield Monument Company The Rocky Hill/Wethersfield Elks hosted a celebration in their Cromwell Avenue hall this past year in honor of 50 years of existence. The social club and charitable organization has been at its current location for 15 years and has seen a recent upswing in membership. Special Designs for Personalized Memorials Courtesy photos serving Greater Hartford since 1986 • Monuments • Cemetery Lettering • Markers 860.372.4020 www.wethersfieldmonument.com 526B Silas Deane Hwy • Wethersfield YOU SET THE DATE WE SET THE DIAMONDS Fifty years of Elks Rocky Hill/Wethersfield club continues tradition of charitable giving by Allie Rivera Staff Writer 1841 Berlin Turnpike, Wethersfield turgeonjewelers.com | 860.436.6400 M arrie g n i t et Let us know! d ? G Tues, Wed & Fri: 10am - 6pm, Thurs: 10am - 7pm, Sat 10am - 4pm LIFE is interested in publishing engagement and wedding announcements. Send them to LIFE Editor at 540 Hopmeadow Street, Simsbury, CT 06070 or e-mail aalbair@turleyct.com. There is no charge. 26 ROCKY HILL LIFE | September 2015 F or Jamie Parr, exalted ruler of the Rocky Hill/ Wethersfield lodge of the Elks, being a club member is in her blood. “I grew up here,” she said. “My grandfather was one, my father was one, my mother is one, my brother. This whole place is my family.” That familial feeling permeates the atmosphere in the Cromwell Avenue lodge that boasts 502 members. The Benevolent and Protective Order of Elks of the United States of America is a national organization with nearly one million members from more than 2,000 lodges around the country. The Elks Club was founded in New York City in 1868 by a group of 15 theater professionals looking for a bond of fraternity and to promote and practice their four cardinal virtues: charity, justice, brotherly love and fidelity. Elks is both a social club and a charitable organization, but its membership is not open to the public. “It is a private club. You have to know somebody to sponsor you to join,” said Rick Martyn, trustee chairman and a past exalted ruler. “What you end up with is a lot of nice people who are very charitable.” Originally a male-only club, it began allowing women to join in 1966. Local members said that was a long-overdue decision. “It was a great thing,” House Committee Chairman Frank Mangene said. “They do a lot and are always willing to donate their time.” The Rocky Hill/ Wethersfield Elks celebrated their 50th anniversary in 2014 and their 15th year in their current location. Although the social aspect is a prominent part of the organization, members say it is the charitable activities that make the Elks Club great. “For us, the biggest thing is giving back to the community,” Mangene said. As a national organization, the Elks primarily focus on youth and veterans’ organizations and have given millions of dollars in donations and scholarships. “Scholarships from the Elks nationally, for a long time, was only beat by the government in terms of scholarship giving,” Martyn said. “Recently, the Bill Gates Foundation beat that, but we’re still third in the country for giving.” The Rocky Hill/ Wethersfield lodge provides three annual scholarships as part of the nearly $20,000 it donates each year, which also benefits local youth sports organizations and the Connecticut State Veterans 27 Home, among others. The lodge also gives to the Connecticut State Elks Club’s major project. Lodges throughout the state work to raise money for the Safe Kids Connecticut program, based out of the Injury Prevention Center at Connecticut Children’s Medical Center in Hartford. The Connecticut State Elks aims to donate $100,000 to this project every year, and according to Martyn, the state organization has provided nearly $4 million to CCMC over the years. Another recent charitable project that the local lodge completed was for the veteran’s home. According to Parr, the club reached out to the home to see how it could help and learned that the facility was in need of a new grill. The Elks were able to donate nearly $2,000 worth of equipment. “About 13 or 14 of us went to that,” Parr said. “We cooked hot dogs and hamburgers and met with people.” Along with monetary donations, the Elks also donate whatever resources they can, most often their begun to earn the Elks Club more word-of-mouth attention, resulting in steadily growing numbers. Nationally, the Connecticut Elks rank second in the country for membership growth. “We’re starting to get a lot of younger members because people are seeing what we do here,” Parr said. “I think there’s an image out there that we’re a good old boys’ club, and that’s not true. We do a lot of charitable work here and we’re like a family.” Members are gearing up for two of their largest fund-raising events. The club will host a public golf tournament Sept. 11 with funds going toward its scholarship program, and on Sept. 20 it will host a bike run to benefit Connecticut disabled veterans. “It’s great to be a part of something that really gives back,” Mangene said. RHL The Rocky Hill/Wethersfield Elks Club hosted a paint night to raise funds for the Connecticut Children’s Medical Center. The Connecticut State Elks donate $100,000 to CCMC each year. hall, which they also rent out to the public. “A couple of years back we donated the hall, believe it or not, for a dog who needed surgery,” Mangene said with a small laugh. Through that event, the club was able to help raise funds for a service dog that desperately needed a hip replacement. For Parr and the others at the lodge, members’ donation of their time is one of the key aspects that makes them proud of their club. “Last year there was about 25,000 hours that we gave back,” Martyn said. Members volunteer in organizations throughout Rocky Hill and the surrounding towns and many also look to give back to the others in the club when needed. “We always help our own members,” Martyn said. “If any of them need assistance or need help if they fall on hard times, many members will go mow their lawn or bring them food. 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After a number of setbacks, the store opened on Cromwell Avenue a few weeks ago, several months later than originally planned. “We have unfortunately had holdups,” said Daniel DiFiore, vice president, including equipment arriving in damaged condition. “We’ve been saying [we’re opening in] two weeks for two months.” The DiFiore name is known in the area from its Franklin Avenue location in the South End of Hartford. While the new shop will feature many familiar favorites, it won’t be a carbon copy of the city store. “We’re an Italian specialty food store. We specialize in making our own pasta, sauces, ravioli. We want to become a bit of a one-stop shop for basic Italian stuff, for high-end cheeses, for prepared foods. Convenience is a big thing with us,” he said. “The big thing we’re really pushing here is prepared food. We’ll be doing hot foods to go. We’re going to be doing sandwiches. It’s 28 ROCKY HILL LIFE | September 2015 such a convenient location.’ He added that they’re hoping to get both lunchtime business and people stopping in on their way home from work. Meals will include traditional Italian favorites, such as chicken piccata and chicken Marsala. “We have a huge variety of on-demand pasta dishes and combinations, individual and family size to bring home … we have 20-something kinds of ravioli, another dozen shapes of fresh pasta, 15 different sauces, salads and antipasto,” said Don DiFiore, president. They’ll also be making cookies with a new cookie-cutting machine. “We want to be more one-stop shop friendly, with everything from salad to appetizers to dessert,” Daniel said. They’ll also have a retail section, selling dried pasta, pasta making supplies and exotic cooking oils. Gelato, made in the Hartford location, will also be for sale in Rocky Hill. Fresh mozzarella will be made on site. “The feel we’re going for is kind of like old school, not overly modern or trendy, classic,” Daniel said. “We like it when our customers say we do it like their grandmothers do it.” Don added that none of their products have preservatives. “Most of our ravioli product goes straight from production into the freezer,” he said. “We stick to our roots.” The company is definitely a family business. “My mom and dad started it in 1982 when they were just about retirement age; they were both 62 years old. My dad decided to get out of the corporate world. He was always a foodie his whole life. He envisioned [owning a] restaurant, but the opportunity came along for pasta, and we were big into making pasta at home, and of course his mom was, too,” Don said. “They bought the equipment from a failing pasta business in Boston and opened in Hartford in 1982. Dad’s gone almost four years. My mom’s 94, and still going strong,” he added. “My sister Andrea has been in the business since the beginning. Daniel and I just got involved full time about four years ago when my parents got elderly and the business was failing and worn out. They were at the point of calling it quits. “I was in a good position to jump in and do something with it and it’s done well, [although] not necessarily money wise. We have a lot of pride in what we do. I know the whole family loves seeing this business still alive.” Don has been in the restaurant business for 25 years, including renting space from his father. “I got out of the restaurant business 10 years ago and got into contracting,” he said. The Rocky Hill location became available shortly after he and Daniel got involved with the business, although it took a couple of years before it worked out financially to make a commitment for the space. “It had been vacant for a while. We were able to secure this place almost turnkey. [There’s] a fully equipped kitchen. It was almost a no brainer. We had to do it,” Don said. It’s not just individuals who like the products. Restaurants including Carbone’s Ristorante in Hartford and Carbone’s Kitchen in Bloomfield are their customers as well. 29 Daniel DiFiore shows off his pasta-making skills. “[They use] fresh, great ingredients. [It’s] convenient, plus Don and Dan are great guys,” said Vinnie Carbone, who uses DiFiore’s cheese ravioli in both locations. Now that the second location is finally open, the men have an eye on what’s next. “It’s a good stepping stone for a third location,” Daniel said. “We’re planning to open a larger store in West Hartford. We’d like to secure something in the next year,” Don said. “Realistically, I think at the point of if we get a bigger store in West Hartford, we would probably be done with the Hartford area.” He doesn’t rule out a fourth shop east of the river. Once they feel more settled with their new location, they may also sell some of the specialties they’re making in town at their Hartford location. “We are looking forward to sticking to who we are as a pasta business. We are looking forward to a large menu of prepared pasta dishes made to order. There’s not much time off the machine into the pot, out the door,” Don said. That includes the many kinds of ravioli, including combinations such as spinach and artichoke, walnut and gorgonzola, chicken and smoked mozzarella, and sausage, peppers Photos by Mara Dresner DiFiore Ravioli Shop features a variety of specialty cooking oils. and onions. “The focus stays on ravioli. It’s who we are, it’s where our roots are,” Don said. “Ravioli is the heart of this business.” RHL DiFiore Ravioli Shop is located at 397 Cromwell Ave. Call 860-25PASTA or visit difioreraviolishop.com. 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She later learned that if it the tumor was left untreated much longer she could have lost her eyesight. Once the problem was properly identified doctors quickly found a tumor that was the size of a baseball. They were able to completely remove it and she undergoes annual MRIs just to make sure it doesn’t start to grow back. So far, so good. “It took about a year and a half to really feel well,” McGuire said. “I’m here, I’m healthy. I’m excited to be back. I’ve got an exciting product line.” McGuire, who lives in Wethersfield, is a licensed aesthetician who works under the business name of JEM Aesthetics. She offers her services at Cutter’s Edge, 2162 Silas Deane Highway in Rocky Hill. “People trust her and she’s good at what she does.” —Rosetta Fraleigh Always Something New & Tasty... STEVE’S PLACE Since 1969 G R I N D E R S • P A S TA • S A L A D • G R I L L E FULL BREAKFAST • DAILY LUNCH SPECIALS NEW “SAUTE” MENU $11.95 (Newington Location Only) featuring ... 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She uses all-natural products. Fraleigh was afraid that her friend would not survive her brain tumor and is grateful that this fear proved unfounded. McGuire only works two or three days a week but that suits both women just fine. “Wendy brings something completely different,” Fraleigh said. “The staff has welcomed her with open arms.” She expects McGuire will attract a diverse clientele of all ages. Cutter’s Edge employs eight stylists and two aestheticians. RHL To make an appointment with Wendy McGuire call 860-992-6178. 31-town pride TOWN Pride Pictured are scenes from last year’s event. Fall Fest brings town together by Allie Rivera Staff Writer O ctober is a time for fall foliage and pumpkin pie, but in Rocky Hill it is also a reason to celebrate. The town’s annual Fall Fest, which began eight years ago, is an opportunity for members of the community to come together every autumn. “It’s a great community event that brings everybody together,” Recreation Supervisor Chris Rusack said. “The nicest thing is it’s for all ages across the board. Anybody and everybody is welcome.” Fall Fest offers residents and visitors food and local business vendors, amusement rides, live music, a children’s costume contest, hay rides, arts and crafts, face painting and a concluding fireworks display. “At that time of year, with the cold air and foliage, the fireworks are just beautiful,” Rusack said. Hosted at the Veterans Memorial Amphitheater in Elm Ridge Park, Fall Fest is a free event sponsored by the town, which typically draws between 3,000 and 5,000 people. Rusack says that parking is free at the park as well as at the high school where a shuttle will bring people to the event. Prior to Fall Fest, Rocky Hill hosted an annual event called Party in the Park every June with increasing popularity. With the completion of the amphitheater and a desire to try something new, the Parks and Recreation department decided to move the event to October and Fall Fest was born. “It’s a very community-oriented event,” Rusack said. “It really brings everybody in town together.” The 2015 Fall Fest is scheduled for October 17 from 3:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m., with a rain date on October 18. For more information, visit www.rhparkrec.org. RHL September 2015 | ROCKY HILL LIFE 31 32town pride Bragging rights Photo courtesy of the Rocky Hill Historical Society TOWN Pride Rocky Hill has many historical points of pride by Mark Jahne Editor O ne of the key pieces of Rocky Hill’s past, as noted today on the town’s official seal, was the continental ship Minerva. The brigantine belonged to Capt. William Griswold of Wethersfield and was harbored along the Connecticut River in Rocky Hill. It was pressed into military service during the Revolutionary War as part of the Connecticut Navy, armed for battle and placed under the command of Capt. Giles Hall with the assigned task of patrolling and protecting the state’s shoreline from the English. The Minerva was commissioned Aug. 3, 1775, and later ordered to intercept two English vessels in the Gulf of St. Lawrence in Canada that were bringing supplies to the enemy. The sailors were reportedly stunned that they were being sent so far from home and mutinied. The ship later sailed into Long Island Sound in search of a reported enemy vessel. It returned to town after only four months of service and a mere seven days at sea and was decommissioned and returned to its owner. The Minerva is but one part of a tradition of shipbuilding in town, according to Joseph Kochanek, vice president of the Rocky Hill Historical Society. The wide and winding portion of the river near modern-day Ferry Park was an ideal site for this kind of industry. It also provided a convenient harbor. Kochanek said at one time that area was home to several nautical-related businesses including a sail maker, rope maker, tavern and even a brothel. “Ferry Park is a prime gathering place, especially in the summer,” said Jeff Gubala, who handles the society’s newsletter. That helps maintain this community’s long identity as a river town. So does the Rocky Hill-Glastonbury Ferry, the oldest continuously running ferry in the nation. It operates on a seasonal basis. Some sources of pride are not readily visible unless one knows where to look. One such place in Rocky Hill is the Old Center Cemetery between Main Street and Dividend Road, a silent repository of local history. The cemetery was established by Benjamin and Mary Deming, who lived across the street. Their unnamed daughter was the first person buried there and they wanted to be able to see her resting place from their home. “We’ve got people there from the French and Indian War, Revolutionary War, Civil War,” said John Serra, treasurer of the historical society. Dr. Aaron Hosford lies there; he was the first medical practitioner in town. Another grave belongs to the Rev. Calvin Chapin, one of the first four ministers to serve Rocky Hill Congregational church. Chapin was a fifer in the Revolutionary War at the age of 12. He served the church for 54 32 ROCKY HILL LIFE | September 2015 Center Cemetery is full of people who helped create the Rocky Hill that exists today. Many of the tombstones are so old that the weather has nearly obliterated their inscriptions. A wide variety of boats and barges have served as the Rocky Hill-Glastonbury Ferry. This side-wheeler called the Nayaug dates from the early 1900s. years and also started one of the first libraries in town in the general area of the ferry landing. Attention has been paid in recent years to the grave of Capt. Jarvis Blinn, who fought for the North in the Civil War and was killed in the war’s bloodiest battle at Antietam. He is reported to have exclaimed “I am a dead man!” before collapsing shortly after being shot through the heart. Capt. William Griswold of the Minerva is buried here as well. Look elsewhere and one will find the grave of Cora J. Belden, after whom the public library is named. Susan Webber is perhaps the most famous person whose remains rest in Old Center 33-town pride TOWN Pride Cemetery. She was one of the few passengers who survived the sinking of the Titanic and reportedly used a pocket knife her brother had given her to cut free a tangled lifeboat. Dividend Park also provides bragging rights for local residents. Kochanek called it an industrial powerhouse in days long past and noted that some of the surrounding streets suggest this legacy with names The like Sawmill Road. official A history written by town seal June Cooke indicates that bears the image of the part of the land that is now Minerva. There industrial was protected and is debate over set aside as open space after the accuracy of this seal among history buffs a referendum in 2004. because the ship was a brig Two years later it was listed on the State and brigs did not have as many masts as the Register of Historic Places and designated an archaeovessel portrayed here. logical preserve to be called Dividend Brook Industrial Did you know one in three working families in our region struggle to make ends meet every day? Archaeological District. It is located in the southern part of town adjacent to the Cromwell town line. Dividend Brook flows through the property and features two natural waterfalls. That brook helped develop this land as the town’s first industrial park and it flourished until the early 20th century, at which point all industry there ceased. Rocky Hill was part of Wethersfield in colonial days. The Rev. Gershom Bulkeley, minister at the First Congregational Church in Wethersfield, received permission from that town to build a gristmill in the Dividend area. He did so in 1667. The town also granted him permission to flood as much of the town land as he needed in order to produce sufficient water power to operate his mill. This created what is today known as Upper Dividend Pond. In 1758, his descendants added a ship’s bakery to the facility to produce hard bread and biscuits for vessels sailing to the West Indies and other foreign ports. The gristmill remained in the family for five generations, a total of 150 years. Other developments over the years included saw mills, fulling mills and additional gristmills. 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They can be found at the chamber office, 1046 Main St., and Karma’s Closet, 3153 Berlin Turnpike. For more information contact the chamber at 860-666-2089. This commemorative medallion was designed in 2014 to note the first farm preservation in Rocky Hill. Local government purchased the rights to 44.27 acres of the Hayes Farm property that will now remain as active farmland. Medallions are available at the Rocky Hill Historical Society; call 860-563-6704. What should I do if my child’s tooth is knocked out? Dental emergencies can happen at any time. You and your children risk knocking out teeth, or injuring your mouth while playing, exercising, and participating in other seemingly harmless activities, especially during the summer months. If your child’s tooth is knocked out or “avulsed,” it will have the best chance of surviving the trauma if you see your dentist within one hour of any emergency—so call immediately for an appointment. Handle the tooth by the crown (the top), not by the root (the pointed part on the bottom); touching the root could damage cells that are necessary to reattach the tooth to the bone. Gently rinse the tooth in water to remove dirt, but do not scrub it. Place the clean tooth in your child’s mouth between the cheek and gum to keep it moist. It is important not to let the tooth dry out, so if your child can’t keep it in his or her mouth, wrap it in a clean cloth or gauze and immerse it in milk or the child’s own saliva until you get to your dentist’s office. Your dentist will also want to evaluate for trauma to any other dental tissues. If your child has a baby tooth knocked out, the tooth should not be replanted. However, your child should visit the dentist immediately to ensure no broken pieces of the tooth remain. 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These boys are playing scooter hockey as part of the Summer Knights program. Civic pride and claims to fame T he major sources of pride in Rocky Hill have already been highlighted, but they do not rest alone among reasons people are proud to call this town home. The volunteer fire department has a long record of dedicated service. Dinosaur State Park and the Connecticut State Veterans Home are located within town borders. Its parks and recreation department attracts people of all ages to a wide variety of programs and recent years have seen it team up with parents to establish four different sports-related programs for children with special needs. In 2003, Rocky Hill was voted the number one sports town in Connecticut by Sports Illustrated magazine for demonstrating high-quality involvement in all aspects of local sports. Rocky Hill has a number of civic and cultural organizations that over the years have helped to define the town. They include, but are not limited to: Friends of the Cora J. Belden Library, Rocky Hill Lions Club, Rotary Club of Wethersfield-Rocky Hill, Rocky Hill Community Television, Rocky Hill Historical Society, Stepney Seniors, Wethersfield-Rocky Hill Professional Nurses Association, UNICO National and more. RHL MVP (MOST VALUABLE PET) SALE Sale Prices Valid August 20 - September 23, 2015. 15% off SCORE BIG ON ALL PURINA PRO PLAN DOG & CAT FOOD, TREATS & LITTER! WITH CARD 2 WEEKS ONLY! AUGUST 27TH TO SEPTEMBER 9TH 13 2/$ TIDY CATS SCOOP CAT LITTER WITH CARD YOU SAVE $6.96 ON 2 20-Lb. Jug, Assorted Varieties 2 WEEKS ONLY! SEPTEMBER 10TH TO SEPTEMBER 23RD MVP - SPROUT TAKES IT IN FOR A TOUCHD OWN! 1098 $ MILK-BONE LARGE DOG BISCUITS WITH CARD YOU SAVE $5.00 14-Lb. Box CONNECTICUT STORES ARE FAMILY OWNED AND OPERATED. BRISTOL GROTON MANCHESTER WEST HARTFORD WETHERSFIELD WETHERSFIELD 1168 Farmington Ave. 646 D. Longhill Road 283 W. 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T u r l e y C T. c o m SCHOOL September 2015 September 2015 | ROCKY HILL LIFE 37 38-bts Back to School Learning in a high-tech world Changes in the classroom and beyond By Alicia B. Smith, Ted Glanzer and Lynn Woike LIFE staff T here is no arguing that technology has changed education, from slate boards all those years ago to the hand-held devices that are prevalent today. School districts throughout the area are taking advantage of the available technological platforms to help prepare students for Come to one of the best universities in New England CENTRAL CONNECTICUT STATE UNIVERSITY S t ar t w it h a drea m. Fi ni sh w i t h a f u t u re! www.ccsu.edu Selected as a “Highest Return on Investment College” by Affordable Colleges Online Over 100 excellent academic programs Exciting Division I athletics At CCSU, student success comes first. We will challenge you AND help you to achieve your goals. www.ccsu.edu/facebook 38 ROCKY HILL LIFE | September 2015 39-bts Back to School 21st century learning. These types of technologies have advantages and disadvantages. When used appropriately and judiciously, however, they can expand learning in many different ways. Area experts offer their thoughts on these technological breakthroughs and how they relate to users in and out of the classroom, as well as how to strike a balance between overuse and not supplanting other important types of learning. One thing at a time The Internet makes it easy to research and gather data for assignments. In a matter of seconds, students have access to the information they seek, but that information comes with distractions, from pop-up ads to email, Facebook to Words With Friends, and Twitter to text messages. In middle and high school settings, there are often restrictions on what students can access – both when using school devices as well as personal phones, tablets and laptops. “Internet technology is highly addictive. … Almost everyone who uses it loses track of time and space. Easily 90 percent of people disassociate when they’re on the computer,” said Dr. David Greenfield, assistant clinical professor of psychology at the University of Connecticut School of Medicine and founder of The Center for Internet and Technology Addiction. The percentage of non-academic work done on digital devices combined with downtime is much greater than the amount of academic work done, while the distractibility they offer is “unprecedented,” he said. “People are highly susceptible to distraction from anything with a screen, particularly if that screen has Internet access.” If the Internet is blocked, as it is in many high schools, distractions will be fewer. In college, however, students do all their note taking, research and writing on laptops and tablets. In these cases, as well as at home, he suggests disabling anything other than word processing to avoid distractions. “I don’t think there should be a smartphone allowed in any classroom in the United States,” he said, adding that science backs him up on that. Greenfield advocates requiring students to put their smartphones in a locked cubby outside the classroom before entering. “If every classroom did that, you’d see a skyrocketing of academic performance,” he said. Even if it’s in a student’s pocket and they are not looking at it, a cell phone will vibrate to signal an incoming message, pulling their attention away from the task at hand. Although computers are touted as tools to enhance education, Greenfield, who has been studying Internet addiction for 20 years, said, “I don’t think kids have gotten any smarter. There is no such thing as multitasking. There’s no such thing as parallel processing; it’s serial.” While those age 25 and younger, who he calls the Digital Generation, claim to be able to do four things at once, when tested, their degree of comprehension is lower when they’ve been multitasking. Monitoring texts, watching television and listening to music makes doing homework take longer, he said. Outside of school, a structured setting for doing schoolwork is helpful to limit distractions, Stephanie Bologa said, executive director of Huntington Learning Center of Simsbury. The center promotes a “good homework setup,” such as the kitchen table or a desk, where parents are able to supervise their children and have the ability to see they are not being distracted. “When it is homework time, that’s what your focus need to be on,” she said. Parents need to take an active role in establishing homework time as the time to do homework and not the time to be distracted. 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We need to help them deal with work in that context. They need to be multilingual.” Social media is not good or bad, Duran said. “It just is.” When used correctly, it can be a valuable teaching tool, said John “Jay” Salerno, director of educational technology for Newington Public Schools. For that reason, those sites are not blocked. Their use, however, is monitored, he said. The district aims to “instill digital citizenship and responsible use of technology” with its students. Glastonbury psychologist Dr. Kristine A. Schlichting tells parents to monitor their child’s technology use and help work through any distractions. “Children have less developed executive functioning skills than adults and it is especially hard for them not to taken into the ‘rabbit hole’ of the Internet.” Facebook or Twitter, it typically ends up taking more time, Bologa said. It’s too easy to get distracted texting and checking social media sites, said University of Hartford human communications professor Robert Duran, speaking from his own experience. “Texting is a problem,” he said, citing a study that showed students who received a high volume of text messages during a one-hour lecture scored an entire grade lower on an objective test covering the material presented than students who received no texts during the class. “Students can’t text and process information; they just don’t,” he said. “It takes them longer to do anything. It’s not the same quality because they’re multitasking.” As the parent of a 15-year-old, he said when his son is doing his homework, he is not allowed to have his phone. Duran also noted that reading and writing are linear, but the increase in technology has changed the way people manage information. “We go from left to right, top to bottom, starting with a general statement and moving to more specific [details]. However, in a visual world, where these kids are growing up, they’re given a mosaic of images Those looking for help blocking out distractions will find apps such as WriteRoom that limits the screen to only writing, and Anti-Social and Firefox’s LeechBlock that block such sites as Facebook and YouTube along with any others the user specifies. Classroom use While limiting access to personal devices can benefit students’ attention spans and focus, the reality is that they will be using technology as soon as they get to school. Dr. Alan Bookman, Glastonbury Public Schools superintendent, joked that the increase in use of technology in schools has revolutionized education much the same way chalk did decades ago. The goal is to develop students who can work and function in the 21st century, which means having access to the materials and knowledge of their use. “We talk about preparing students for life and their careers. Technology is an important part of that,” Bookman said. “In education, there is so much technology can do.” His district opted to introduce students to iPads. The district went on to purchase the devices for every ninth and 10th grader. Next year, every student at the high school will have one, and West Hill each student will be assigned an iPad they will keep throughout their high school years. This fall, the iPads will be given to seventh graders based on the encouragement of teachers. “We also came to grips with them, as each year we would purchase fewer and fewer textbooks,” Bookman said, adding that increasingly more textbooks are becoming available online. Teacher training was also part of the initiative, and many are now developing their own ibooks for their students and creating presentations those students can watch on their iPads at home. While students in middle school and high school are learning how to use this type of technology, Bookman said kindergarteners are coming to school already knowing how to use these devices. “We will provide some training because there is different programs we want them to use, [but] the very basics almost all of the students have. I don’t know if I could have said that a few years ago,” he said. In Rocky Hill, the board of education opted to purchase Chromebooks for seventh- and eighth-grade students, which will be introduced to them in the fall, as WE MAKE BACK-TO-SCHOOL SHOPPING EASY! FAMILY DENTAL DR. RAYMOND LAWRENCE, DMD AND ASSOCIATES SCHEDULE YOUR BACK-TO-SCHOOL CLEANING NOW!! 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Brown said they looked at ease of use and cost, too. “The Chromebooks were a natural fit because we are already using laptops in our district. It will be a smooth and easy transition,” she said. Brown said the district is a Google district, and the use of Gmail and Google Drive, as well as Google Classroom, has been well established. Seventh and eighth graders will each have their own device they can take to and from school and will use them for classroom assignments and research. The devices have been instrumental in getting feedback from teachers more quickly as well, since instructors can remotely access a student’s work and offer suggestions. While it seems that technology is overtaking the lives of students both in and out of the classroom, the reality is that the use of these types of devices are as a tool in the classroom and they in no way replace teacher instruction. “Technology is a supplement to good teaching. It was never meant to supplant it,” Nancy DePalma, assistant superintendent for curriculum in West Hartford Public Schools, said. “The relationship that develops between a teacher and student is the most important.” Online courses, too Online courses have been offered at Tunxis Community College since 1999, when the Farmington-based school started a massive renovation and construction project, according to Michael Rooke, the school’s dean of academic affairs. The lack of classroom space meant teaching courses in cyberspace. The school currently offers more than 70 courses either purely online or via a hybrid of both classroom and online, he said, estimating that 20 percent of the student body takes at least one online course. Tunxis offers the most online courses out of the 12 community colleges in the state, with classes ranging from accounting to criminal justice to art appreciation and finance. Students from as far away as Arizona and California take online courses at Tunxis, Rooke said, though the community college aims to serve the 10 to 15 surrounding towns. Most students who take online courses out of state are those who started their studies at Tunxis and moved away but still want to complete their degrees, according to Rooke. Faculty members are trained through the Connecticut Distance Leaning Consortium on how to teach materials online, he said. Instructors are taught how to build a community In middle and high school settings, there are often restrictions on what students can access – both when using school devices as well as personal phones, tablets and laptops. and encourage participation that fellow students can read and collaborate on in real time. “It’s definitely not a correspondence course,” Rooke said. 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Homework can teach valuable lessons that go beyond the math problem or history lesson, she explained. “No matter how simple or complex the problem, we need to encourage children to explore and figure out problems on their own. I think too often when parents see their child struggle through a difficult problem, they want to help them too quickly. However, we become better at things when we struggle and have to work through the situation.” When a child is faced with a difficult problem, parents can explore possible solutions with their child and encourage them to ask questions. She advises that parents remember the proverb, “If at first you don’t succeed, try, try, try again,” an important message that will help children develop the skills to not give up t’s never too early for a child to establish good study skills. “As soon as children start to get homework assignments, they should begin to establish some basic study skills. 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It’s my job to encourage them to keep going, try another approach or look at the problem in a new way,” McWilliams said. “One way parents can help their children develop perseverance is by encouraging them to keep going when their work gets more difficult and show them that working hard and not giving up is a satisfying feeling.” She believes that a quiet setting is best for homework and encourages school-age children to do homework in a completely quiet area, free of distractions from TV or music. If a child is not paying full attention to their assignment and it’s taking longer than it should, they are likely not in the best setting for homework. “Although music with words tends to make it more difficult for kids to focus, instrumental music can be a good alternative to sitting in a completely quiet room. In my own classroom, I have noticed that my students produce more writing when I play instrumental music than when the room is totally quiet.” It’s all about providing the environment where students can best concentrate. “When studying, they should have their total focus,” said Nidhi Bajpai, owner of Kumon Math and Reading Center in West Hartford. “It definitely makes a difference.” The optimum noise level for peak focus is different for every student, and those who don’t know what works best for them should try a variety of environments. For some students, working in total silence, such as in a library, allows the greatest amount of concentration. However, in that situation, the “COOL” FUN AT VMSR! Registration is Now Open for our FALL PROGRAMS Learn to Skate Lessons and Hockey Programs for Children & Adults Rink Side Pro Shop Pre-Season sale! Up to 35% off on selected in stock Figure/Hockey Skates and Equipment Aug. 10 thru Sept. 14 WIN FREE SKATING! 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Bajpai suggests families designate a studying location that will allow a distraction-free working environment. “At my center, I have noticed that the students coming from families that are very supportive of their studies and get a calm place to sit where they aren’t distracted by television or people interrupting them … definitely do much better than those students who may be bothered while trying to study,” she said. Parents should be aware of how their children prefer to learn. “Some students are auditory learners, some are visual [and] others are more tactile,” said Darlene Brown, assistant superintendent of schools in Rocky Hill. She encourages students to adopt the style that works best for them. Some may benefit from learning collaboratively with their peers. Others may find podcasts or video chatting beneficial. Children who learn in a tactile manner will benefit from the act of writing things down. “They really need to touch what they’re doing in order to learn,” Brown said. 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There’s a different time for social media. Students absolutely individual,” Brown said. She said parents know their children best and should encourage them to adopt a style that best fits their way of doing things, even if that means studying on a bed or comfortable chair. Not everyone agrees. “It is very, very important [to] establish a good homework setup, and that means they need to have a desk or they need to be doing home- should not do their homework on their bed. That is not a place to study.” Setting goals Promoting student independence is one of the goals of the Wethersfield Public Schools, and that incorporates the style in which children study. “One of the things we’re working on is having students [collaborate] with their teachers, setting individu- al goals,” said Sally Dastoli, director of curriculum and instruction. “Students are able to reflect upon their own learning, set their own goals, monitor their own learning.” One size does not fit all, and she said educators need to figure out which study style works best for each student. Many students use their cell phones in the evening to collaborate on homework, utilizing such features as FaceTime and Corley VORTEX GUITAR STUDIO LLC putting great guitar players on the planet! Wethersfield Rocky Hill Glastonbury 860-563-3744 vortexguitarstudio.com 44 ROCKY HILL LIFE | September 2015 LIFE Quotes “Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson 45bts Back to School Google Documents. No matter how one studies, students still must find the time. One challenge, as Superintendent of Schools Michael Emmett sees it, is that children today are busy. “Everybody’s involved in every type of extracurricular activity,” he said. While carving out time to do homework is a good idea, parents might want to give their kids some time to unwind after school. “When they get home from school, give them a half-hour to an hour break, to decompress and get a snack, to just relax and then do homework,” said Michelina Kinell, center director of the Sylvan Learning Center of West Hartford, which also has a satellite location in Rocky Hill. “Other families have extracurricular activities. What if they have karate on Tuesdays and Thursdays? Then they have to manage their time a little differently.” Setting up the expectation as to when the child will study is important so that both children and parents are in agreement, especially for working parents. “They need to say to the child, ‘When you come home from school and get off of the bus, this is what the expectation is.’ It can be different for different children,” Bologa said. “Some children need to exercise; some are good about getting right home and sitting and doing their homework for hour or two. This depends on the age of the child. The child and parent need to set their “Some children need to exercise; some are good about getting right home and sitting and doing their homework for hour or two. This depends on the age of the child. The child and parent need to set their expectations and their goals.” –Stephanie Bologna expectations and their goals.” For example, that might be to get as much done as possible before mom or dad gets home. “If the afternoon is full of sports and other commitments, whether music lessons or dance lessons, that’s good for the child to know in advance so they can set their goals as well. Parents should lay out a calendar [or a] schedule that the child has access to seeing so there are no surprises,” Bologa said. Kinell agrees that organization and time management are key, and said students should find the tools that work best for them, whether that’s a paper planner or by using a phone or other technology. “A lot of schools are [using] digital formats to actually hand in their homework. It’s helped a lot of students who tend to lose pieces of paper, which is nice. You don’t have to think about it; there’s no in-between,” she said. Parents should be open to allowing their child to learn from many people, such as a study partner. It’s back to school time! “Parents are sometimes not the best person to motivate them to do the homework,” Brown said. Some children may need frequent breaks while they’re doing their homework to maximize their learning, for example. “Knowing your learning style is critical to developing good study habits,” said Wendy Crouse, chief academic officer for the Newington Public Schools. Even a small study tool, such as flash cards, will appeal to some students and not to others, she said. “This is a very personal and individual thing. You have to let the child lead. They know what’s best for them. Everybody has a different learning style,” Crouse added. However a child prefers to study, make sure there’s a system for tracking assignments, both at school and at home, which includes knowing where homework will be when the student gets to school and when it needs to be turned in. “When they receive papers or completed work from the classroom and the teacher sends them home, the student needs to be aware of where they are. Likewise for homework, it has to have a dedicated space,” Kinell said. She said it’s important for students to set both short- and long-term goals. Short-term goals might include completing homework in a timely manner and writing down each day’s assignments. “Long-term goals are where you see the effects of the study skills. You see a change in your grades. You feel on top of your assignments. You have a good grasp of what’s going in your classes so you don’t feel overwhelmed,” Kinell said. “When you talk about study skills, it’s really important for students to develop a ‘yes I can’ mindset, for them to become independent in keeping track of assignments, organizing their time wisely, taking effective notes and studying for exams.” RHL Kumon Math and Reading Center is located at 1020 Boulevard, West Hartford. They can be reached at 860967-6482 or kumon.com/westhartford. Sylvan Learning Center is located at 2533 Albany Ave., West Hartford, 860231-2429, and 2189 Silas Deane Highway, Rocky Hill, 860-620-1590. Learn more at sylvanlearning.com. Huntington Learning Center of Simsbury is located at 530 Bushy Hill Road, Simsbury Commons. Call 860651-7376 or visit simsbury.huntingtonhelps.com for more information. 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Dr. Muhammad Munawar, who specializes in child and adolescent psychiatry, said depending on the grade a child is entering, they could be transitioning to a new school, which means a change in the building, commute and bus route. In her work at the elementary school level, Cohen said that the most common form of anxiety she sees is separation anxiety at the start of the school year. “Really in the beginning of the school year, it’s our kindergartners and first graders who display the most anxiety, especially if they’re starting kindergarten and have never been to any kind of school before,” Cohen said. “That’s always harder for those kids.” To best cope with separation anxiety, Cohen saif that the parents’ role is incredibly important, as many young children don’t necessarily have the ability to verbally communicate their anxiety. “At that age they don’t really know how to verbalize their feelings, and sometimes they don’t even know they’re anxious. It will manifest itself in physical ways like a stomachache,” Cohen said. “All they know is ‘I’ve got a stomachache.’ They don’t know that the reason they have a stomachache is because they’re feeling anxious or worried.” Anxiety can present itself in a “very simplistic fashion,” Munawar said, with a child feeling anxious, stressed and scared. They may even refuse to go to school. “As time goes by into the academic year, it’s very common to see a presentation in the form of multiple types of somatic symptoms,” he said, including headache, abdominal discomfort, stress-related habits and exhaustion. A buildup of stress and anxiety can cause a child to become overwhelmed with emotion, something that especially happens in the morning when they are getting ready for school. “They’re so overwhelmed and stressed out by the day that they could get panicked,” Munawar said. “The most common [reactions] I have found are a refusal to get into the school bus and having a complete meltdown on the side of the road. … If they do go to school, they’re [dealing with] a high amount of stress.” According to Cohen, parents should think about preparing their child in the weeks leading up to the start of school, especially if they are already seeing signs A World of Learning & Adventure 2175 Berlin Turnpike, Newington & this ad n i g n i Br es ! 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Cohen also suggests reading books and doing activities that could help contribute to lower separation anxiety. One such book that she suggested is “The Kissing Hand,” by Audrey Penn, which tells the story of a mother raccoon kissing the hand of her child to ease anxieties. “There are a lot of wonderful books out there,” Cohen said. “If parents read books to their kids about it ahead of time, that can be really helpful for them. It opens that discussion up in a nonthreatening way.” Introducing educational activities at home, such as reading, can help children transition out of vacation mode and into learning mode, Munawar said. For other children, seeing where they will be spending much of their time in the fall can also ease worries. Cohen suggests bringing children to their school during the summer to see what the building looks like and even play on the playground. “For some students who are particularly more anxious than your average student, we have been able to arrange for kids to come in the school and look around during the summer,” Cohen said. At West Hill Elementary School, students have the chance to attend a meet and greet with their teachers before the school year starts to see their classroom and get to know their teachers and fellow students. Cohen suggests seeking out these types of opportunities. “When there’s something unknown, that creates anxiety for any of us,” she said. “It’s really important to take advantage of the things the schools have to offer. If your child sees that you’re involved and you want to be part of the community yourself, that makes your child want to be part of the school community as well.” Even something as simple as having a child pick out their school supplies can help, Munawar said. “If they’re actively involved in it and know why they bought it and can pick out their own favorite school bag, it will give them a sort of confidence,” he said. Parent reactions are extremely important in the first days of school when dropping children off for the first time when separation anxiety is typically at its peak. “[Parents] need to reassure their kids that school is a safe place and that they feel excited about their kids coming to school,” Cohen said. “If the parents are anxious or show their kids that they’re anxious by talking about it in an anxious way or sticking around when they drop off their kids, then that gives a message to the child that this is not a safe place. ‘Mom’s sticking around and she’s not comfortable here, so I shouldn’t feel safe.’” Cohen said that in these situations, the best thing to do is to say a quick goodbye and leave. “Make the goodbye as quick as possible. Parents think they’re helping by standing there for half an hour, but the message they’re sending is, ‘I don’t trust this place, I should stick around,’” Cohen said. “You could stay for half an hour or four hours, when you leave that child is going to cry. The best thing to do is say ‘I love you, goodbye,’ and walk away and let the school staff comfort the child.” For students of any age who are having anxieties in school greater than separation anxiety, discovering an array of tools is critical. Rick Amaral, LCSW, serves as director of the children’s clinic at InterCommunity, a community health nonprofit organization in East Hartford that provides primary care and behavioral health services to individuals and families across the state, and in his experience has seen numerous children dealing with deeper levels of anxiety. “The average onset for anxiety in this country is age 12,” Amaral said. “People think it’s in their 20s, but 12 is the median number.” In one of his roles at InterCommunity, Amaral works to help children and young people manage their anxiety, but for many the greatest difficulty comes in simply recognizing its symptoms. “We learn early on as kids how to read the sky. If we see dark clouds coming in, we know it’s going to rain in a little while,” Amaral said. “Kids need to learn how to read the same signs in their body so they can say, ‘Okay, I can feel the muscles getting tight in my neck or my breathing has changed.’” To help discover these symptoms, Amaral and the others at InterCommunity often suggest that the students they work with journal. “No two kids are the same, and there are lots of reasons why they could be anxious,” he said. “We want them to be reflective and deconstruct their day, and become more cognizant of what’s pushing their buttons and what brings relief.” To further address anxiety in students, Amaral suggests utilizing mindfulness programs that can be found online that teach healthy breathing techniques, meditation and yoga. Amaral also said that creating a reliable routine in terms of school can help to ease anxiety. Some parts of that process could involve bringing small, quiet trinkets to class, such as a squeeze ball or a rubber bracelet that can distract from their anxiety. For others, the process could involve something larger like arranging with teachers to leave class early to ease tension. Each student requires different attention, and situations like that would need to be discussed with teachers first, which Cohen agrees is a pertinent part of the process. “Communicating with your child’s teacher is extremely important,” she said. “It’s important for us to know specific things that may be affecting your child during the school year so we can best support them.” Having a plan in place if a child feels overwhelmed and anxious at school is helpful; Munawar said parents could ask the school to allow their child to go to the nurse during these times. “If the school is involved, the child can have a pass to go spend some time with [the nurse] for half an hour. It can help the child go back to class again when they’ve calmed down,” he said. “Having these kinds of abilities can help.” Another way that teachers may be able to help in these anxious situations is through a program that Amaral supports and promotes called Mental Health First Aid. “It’s similar to CPR and first aid, but for mental health,” Amaral said. The program, which originated in Australia and came to the United States roughly 10 years ago, offers training and support to educate people about dealing with mental illness and mental health crises. Amaral, who is a certified trainer in Mental Health First Aid, said that knowing about mental illness and health crises helps to normalize the stigma often associated with mental illness and prepare teachers and other adults to best help children and students. “As soon as you see children struggling and know that it’s not just a bad day, it’s good to know what to do,” Amaral said. The easiest method parents can utilize to help alleviate their child’s anxiety is to listen to their concerns and try to understand what is really troubling them about a given situation, Munawar said, which may provide insight into what the real challenge is. If the anxiety stems from a test, parents can help children practice their material, listen to their concerns and remind them how good they did last time they took a test. Every child has occasional anxious feelings, but Munawar said there is a differentiation between “normal” anxiety and anxiety that becomes problematic. “To me, it’s a very simplistic formula,” he said. “As long as the anxiety is not interfering with day-to-day functioning, that means, yes, the child is anxious and worrying. The child has their guard up but got ready and went to school. [T]he anxiety is not getting in their way. They can control it enough to do tests and quizzes.” If parents find their child’s anxiety is not alleviated by the methods previously suggested and the child continues to refuse to go to school, Munawar said a pediatrician or child psychologist should then be consulted. RHL InterCommunity is located at 111 Founders Plaza 18th Floor, East Hartford. It can be reached at 860-569-5900. For more information, visit www.intercommunityct.org. For more information on Mental Health First Aid, visit www.mentalhealthfirstaid.org. Dr. Muhammad Munawar’s practice is located at 500 Blue Hills Ave., Hartford. For more information, call 860-714-2470. September 2015 | ROCKY HILL LIFE 47 48 TOWN OF ROCKY HILL LEGAL NOTICE At a public hearing held on August 17, 2015, the Rocky Hill Town Council approved the following changes to the Rocky Hill Town Charter. Electors of Rocky Hill will have an opportunity to vote on these proposed Charter changes on Tuesday, November 3, 2015 as part of the Election Day process. 1) 2) 3) 4) 5) 6) 7) 8) 9) 10) 11) 12) 13) 14) 15) 16) 17) 18) 19) 20) 21) 22) All references to “he”, “his” or “him” will be made gender neutral. This change will apply throughout the Charter. The table of contents has been updated to reflect all changes in this final report. §201 – dates will be updated from 1991 to 2015. This change will apply throughout the Charter. §202 – “three selectmen,” will be eliminated. §203 B – replace “Board of Tax Review” with “Board of Assessment Appeals” §207 – delete “two (2) Selectman” §210 – replace “four” voting districts with “three” voting districts §402 – delete “The Council shall choose a clerk” §403 – replace “chairman pro tem” with “Deputy Mayor” §406 – replace “by publishing the notice and the proposed ordinance in full” with “by publishing the notice and a brief description of the ordinance identifying the proposed ordinance’s title, Chapter and Article to be amended and referring individuals to the Town Clerk’s Office and the Town’s website for the full ordinance” §408 – replace “$150,000” (“one hundred fifty thousand”) with “$300,000” (“three hundred thousand”) §412 A – delete “or Town Clerk” §413 replace “chairman pro tem” with “Deputy Mayor” and replace “books and papers” with “documents” §416 – replace “$50,000 (“fifty thousand”) with “$100,000” (“one hundred thousand”) and replace “$4,000” (“four thousand”) with “10,000” (“ten thousand”) §502 – add the words “The Town Manager shall serve as the Director of Public Safety unless directed otherwise by the Town Council.” §504 – delete this entire section and replace with the following language: “In the event that the Town Manager’s temporary absence prevents or limits his or her normal business engagement, the Town Manager shall designate an Acting Town Manager, subject to the right of the Town Council to override that selection by resolution appointing an Acting Town Manager of the Council’s choice, other than a Council member. In the event the Town Manager is suspended or terminated, the Council shall appoint an Acting Town Manager by resolution, other than a Council member, and a permanent Town Manager shall be appointed within 180 days of said resolution. The Acting Town Manager shall have all the powers and duties of the Town Manager.” §601 – replace this entire section with the following language: “The Town Clerk shall be appointed by the Town Manager for an indefinite term and may be removed only by the Town Manager. In addition to the powers and duties prescribed for the Town Clerks by the Connecticut General Statutes, the Town Clerk may act as the clerk of the council, keep a journal of its proceedings, which will be a public record, and perform such other duties as may be assigned by this Charter or by the Town Manager. The Town Clerk shall have such deputy clerks as the Town Manager shall determine. The Town Clerk shall receive such compensation as the Town Manager may determine. All fees collected by the Town Clerk, except those collected on behalf of the State, shall be paid into the Town Treasury.” §603 – add the words “Nothing herein shall prevent the Town of Rocky Hill pursuant to Connecticut General Statutes from joining an existing public health district or from cooperating with other towns in the formation of a new health district.” §604 – replace “Director of Public Welfare” with “Director of Human Services” and replace existing language with “There shall be a Director of Human Services, appointed by the Town Manager. The Director shall have all of the powers and duties relating to poor, infirm and dependent persons vested by law or as otherwise provided in the Connecticut General Statures and shall have such other powers as the Council may prescribe.” §605 – delete this section regarding Constables in its entirety §609 – replace “two hundred fifty thousand dollars ($250,000)” with “one million dollars ($1,000,000)” §701 – replace this section with the following language: “There shall be a Department of Finance headed by a Director of Finance. The department shall oversee all town financial operations to include; purchasing oversight, accounting, accounts payable and payroll. The Director of Finance shall be appointed and may be removed by the Town Manager, in accordance with and subject to the provisions of Chapter IX of this Charter. It shall be the duty of the Director of Finance to maintain and operate a modern municipal accounting system showing the current condition of all funds and appropriations, and to file a report with the Town Manager and Council by the third Monday of each month of the financial transactions of the pre- 48 ROCKY HILL LIFE | September 2015 ceding month which show: the amount of each appropriation; the charges against and credits year to date; and the unencumbered balance. A report should also be prepared and filed with the Town Manager and Council within ninety (90) days of the conclusion of each fiscal year covering all financial transactions. The Director of Finance prescribes the form of accounts to be kept by each department, office, board, commission and agency of the Town except the Board of Education, and the times and manner in which monies collected on the Town’s account by any such department, officer, board and commission or agency shall be paid into the Town Treasury. The Director of Finance performs such other duties as may be prescribed by the Council by ordinance or by the orders of the Town Manager consistent therewith. The Director of Finance is the Chief Financial Officer of the Town and therefore has extreme fiduciary obligation to safeguard Town assets as is a common expectation for such role. 23) §702 – replace title “Town Treasurer” with “Town Treasurer, Tax Collector, Assessor and Purchasing Agent.” Delete the words “The deputy of the Treasurer authorized to sign checks shall be appointed by the Town Manager. The Treasurer shall have such other assistants, to be appointed by him, as the Council may determine by ordinance.” Add the following language at the end of this section: “Except as otherwise provided by this Charter, the Tax Collector and the Assessor shall respectively have all the powers and duties conferred upon Tax Collectors and Assessors by the Connecticut General Statutes and other duties as may be assigned to them by the Town Manager. The Purchasing Agent shall purchase all supplies, materials and equipment required by all commissions, boards, departments and offices of the Town, except the Board of Education, with respect to the purchase of supplies and materials that are clearly education oriented, and the Library Board, with respect to the purchase of books and other materials peculiar to libraries. The Board of Education and the Library Board may avail themselves of the Purchasing Agent’s services in purchasing any commodity or service. The Purchasing Agent shall have such other duties as may be prescribed by the Town Manager.” 24) Renumber the sections in Chapter VII as follows: §703 A becomes §703 §703 B becomes §704 §703 C becomes §705 §703 D becomes §706 §704 becomes §707 §705 becomes §708 §706 becomes §709 §707 becomes §710 25) §703 A – replace “Department of Public Safety” with “Police Department” and eliminate the entire first paragraph of this section. Replace “Paragraph A. Division of Police” with the following: “There shall be a Police Department consisting of the Chief of Police, appointed by the Town Manager, and such other officers and employees of such ranks and grades as the Council may determine. The Police Department shall be responsible for the preservation of the public peace, prevention of crime, apprehension of criminals, regulation of traffic, protection of rights of persons and property, and enforcement of the Connecticut General Statutes and the ordinances of the Town, and all rules and regulations made in accordance therewith. All members of the Police Department shall have the same powers and duties with respect to the service of criminal process and enforcement of criminal laws as are vested in Police Offers by the Connecticut General Statutes. The powers and duties of the Animal Control Officer, as provided in the Connecticut General Statutes shall be vested in the Police Department in accordance with a job description. The Chief of Police shall be the chief administrative officer of the Police Department. The Chief shall assign all members of the Department to their respective posts, shifts, details and duties, be responsible for the care and custody of all property used by the department and disposal thereof, and for the efficiency, discipline and good conduct of its members and shall make rules for the operation of the department and the conduct of police work. The violation of these rules by any member of the department shall be punishable by appropriate disciplinary action, which may include loss of pay, suspension from duty and removal, provided that no member of the department shall be removed or suspended by the Chief without receiving the approval of the Town Manager. Violation of any provisions of this section shall constitute cause for dismissal or suspension.” 26) §703 B – replace “Division of Fire” with “Fire Department” and replace “Director of Public Safety” with “Town Manager.” 49 27) §703 C – replace “Division of Civil Preparedness” with “Director of Emergency Management” and replace existing language with the following: “There shall be a Director of Emergency Management, appointed by the Town Manager. The Director of Emergency Management duties shall be in accordance with the Connecticut General Statutes and the State of Connecticut’s Emergency Operations Center directives. In the event the Emergency Operations Center (EOC) becomes active, the following departments will work together under the general direction of the Director of Emergency Services: Police, Fire, Ambulance, Department of Community Development and Public Works Departments.” 28) §703 D – replace “Division of Building Inspection” with “Department of Community Development” and replace existing language with the following: “There shall be a Director of Community Development appointed by the Town Manager who shall be responsible for the following functions: Building, Code Enforcement, Engineering, Planning, Wetlands, and Zoning. The department duties shall include: preparation of plans and specifications for the construction or reconstruction of streets, sidewalks, curbs, gutters, storm sewers, drains and other structures and to oversee the construction of the same, and to perform such other duties as may be prescribed by the Town Manager. The Town Engineer shall be a State of Connecticut licensed professional Engineer.” 29) §704 – replace “Department of Highways and Engineering” with “Department of Public Works and replace existing language with the following: 39) 40) 41) 30) 31) 32) 33) 34) 35) 36) 37) 38) “There shall be a Director of Public Works, appointed by the Town Manager who shall be responsible for the oversight of the Highway Department, Transfer Station and Solid Waste collection and disposal. The Highway Department duties shall include: summer and winter maintenance of all public streets and ways; maintain and operate storm sewers and other drains, to construct or reconstruct streets, sidewalks, curbs, gutters, maintenance of storm sewers and drains and other structures; to care for grassed areas in streets; and to perform such other duties as may be prescribed by the Town Manager.” §705 – delete the words “The Parks Department personnel shall be assigned to the highway division during snow and ice removal.” §706 – replace “Council” in the second sentence with “Town Manager”. The sentence should read: “The Director shall receive such compensation as the Town Manager may determine.” §803 – replace “one hundred thirty-five (135) days” with “one hundred five (105) days” §809 – delete the words “but only within the last three months of the fiscal year” and replace with the following language: “but only within the last seven (7) months of the fiscal year” §816 – replace “four thousand dollars ($4,000)” with “twenty-five thousand dollars ($25,000)” §817 – replace “ten thousand dollars ($10,000)” with “seventy-five thousand dollars ($75,000)” §819 – delete “constables and” §901 – replace this entire section with the following language: “Officers and employees in the classified service of the Town, as described in Section 902 below, shall be appointed, promoted and removed solely on the basis of merit and fitness, as demonstrated by examination or other evidence of competence. The Council shall by ordinance establish and maintain a classified service system, including a grievance procedure, for all Town employees, except the following: Elective officers and persons appointed to fill vacancies in elective offices; members of boards and commissions and other officers appointed by the Council; professional employees of the Board of Education; persons employed in a professional capacity to make or conduct a temporary or special inquiry, study or investigation; persons employed for a temporary period not exceeding three (3) months; and boards and commissions appointed by the Town Manager.” §902 – replace this entire section with the following language: “The classified service shall include appointees to all positions now or hereafter created, except those noted in Section 901. It shall be the duty of the Director of Human Resources to cause to be prepared a statement of the duties and responsibilities of each position in the classified service and of the minimum qualifications for appointments to such positions. These statements shall comprise the classification plan of the Town, which shall become effective upon approval by resolution of the Council and which may be amended, upon recommendation of the Director of Human Resources, by resolution of the Council. New or additional positions in the classified service may be created and changes in the duties and responsibilities of existing positions may be made by resolution of the Council upon recommendation of the Director of Human Resources. A pay plan for all positions in the classified service shall be similarly prepared, adopted and amended. The Director of Human Resources shall also cause to have prepared a set of Personnel Rules which shall provide, among other things, for the method of holding competitive examinations, administration of 42) 43) 44) 45) the classified plan, probationary periods of employment, hours of work, vacations, sick leaves and other leaves of absence, removals, and such other rules as may be necessary to provide an adequate and systematic procedure for the handling of the personnel affairs of the Town. Such rules and any amendments thereto become effective upon being filed by the Director of Human Resources with the Town Clerk. Copies of such rules and any amendments thereto shall be distributed to all members of the classified service.” §903 – replace the entire section with the following language: “The Town Manager shall serve as the Director of Human Resources, or shall select and appoint a person with training, experience, qualifications and fitness in personnel administration. The Director of Human Resources shall be responsible to the Town Manager and shall have the authority and be required to establish and administer standards of personnel administration in conformity with recognized principles, laws and regulations of public personnel administration, and shall make recommendations to the Town Manager and Town Council.” §904 – replace this entire section with the following language: “The Town shall not, except in the case of a bona fide occupational qualification or need, refuse to hire or employ or to bar or to discharge from employment any individual or to discriminate against such individual in compensation or in terms, conditions or privileges of employment because of the individual’s race, color, religious creed, age, sex, sexual orientation, marital status, national origin, ancestry, present or past history of mental disability, mental retardation, learning disability or physical disability, including, but not limited to, blindness.” §905 – replace this entire section with the following language: “The Council may provide by ordinance a system of retirement allowance for the Town’s regular, full time, paid employees and for contributions by employees and the Town to a fund from which such allowances shall be paid. The Town may enter into contract with any company or institution authorized to do business in this State for the purpose of insuring the whole or any part of its retirement plan; elect to participate in the Connecticut Municipal Employees’ Retirement Funds; or elect any combination thereof. The Council may authorize the transfer of the management and investment of the Town’s pension funds to any fiduciary institution chartered or licensed to operate in the State of Connecticut under the provisions of the General Statutes, Revision of 1958, as amended.” §906 – replace this entire section with the following language: “All persons holding positions or offices on the effective date of this Charter, which are not abolished by the provisions of this Charter, shall retain such positions or offices pending action by the Council or the appropriate appointing authority charged by this Charter with the power of appointment and removal, and shall not be removed except as provided for in this Charter. All persons holding positions in what shall be the classified service of the Town on the effective date of this Charter shall retain such position without preliminary or working tests and shall thereafter be subject in all respects to the provisions of this Charter.” §907 – replace this entire section with the following language: “Any elected or appointed Town official, or any Town employee, who has a financial interest in any matter to be acted upon or coming before this board, commission or office, shall make full record disclosure in writing of that interest, which shall be incorporated in the minutes of the particular board, commission or office, and a full copy of such minutes shall be filed in the Office of the Town Clerk, and the Town official or employee shall be disqualified to act in any way upon such matter. Violation of this section with knowledge, express or implied, of any person or corporation participating in such matter or decision shall be an additional ground of appeal, which will nullify the action of such board, commission or office upon appeal to the appropriate court under the statutes applicable to appeals from boards, commissions or offices.” §1101 – Add the sentence “The Town Council shall cause the Charter to be reviewed at least once every fifteen (15) years.” §1103 – update all statutory references, including in this Definitions section, as recommended by the Town Attorney. Change reference from “C.G.S. Sec. 7-7” to “C.G.S. Sec. 7-6.” The entire Charter document is available at the Town Clerk’s Office, 761 Old Main Street, Rocky Hill, CT and a copy will be provided to anyone that requests one. Dated at Rocky Hill, Connecticut this 18th day of August, 2015. Stuart Topliff, Town Clerk September 2015 | ROCKY HILL LIFE 49 50 His work reflects his values John Montalbano becomes president of Middlesex County Bar Association by Mark Jahne Editor H Photos by Mark Jahne is family has lived the immigrant experience as well as the American Dream. John Montalbano tries to keep that in mind every day in his practice of law. The son and grandson of immigrants, he is a first-generation American citizen and the first person in his immediate or extended family to graduate from college. He practices law at Montalbano Law, LLC, on Main Street in Middletown. It is a general law practice that includes immigration law, representing undocumented immigrants in workers’ compensation and personal injury matters and helping people who are legally in the country on work visas with various legal issues. Montalbano lives in town with his wife Valerie and daughter Christiana, 15, a sophomore at Rocky Hill High School. 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Wethersfield 51 and she is a member of the prayer shawl ministry. He was born and raised in New York City. “My parents moved to Connecticut in 1972,” Montalbano said. He earned his B.S. degree in business administration in 1976, magna cum laude, from Boston College and a law degree from Boston College followed in 1980. “I’m the first person in my extended family to graduate from college. That’s the American Dream. The reason I became a lawyer is because of the television show ‘Perry Mason’,” he said. He clerked for state Superior Court and Appellate Court judges and has been in private practice since 1982 with various firms. He established his own practice in Downtown Middletown a year and a half ago, sharing space with the firm of Raczka & Raczka. Montalbano was recently elected president of the Middlesex County Bar Association. One of his first official duties was to attend a naturalization ceremony for new American citizens held July 1 at Middletown City Hall. A federal judge presided. There were 50 people from 24 countries there to take the oath of citizenship. That struck a chord within him. “All four of my grandparents, and my father, came to this country from Italy,” he said. They all entered legally through Ellis Island in New York. His father was just a baby when he arrived. He fought in World War II and used the benefits granted him under the G.I. Bill to attend college and become a successful businessman. His paternal grandmother sailed two weeks in steerage from Italy to the United States. She had two young children but was turned away at Ellis Island because a medical examination determined that she had pinkeye. The children were allowed to stay here with a relative and she was forced to return to Italy, once again in steerage, until she was healthy enough to try again. A grandfather who spoke no English took whatever work he could find, ending up as a laborer helping to build the New York City subway system. Montalbano spoke to the new citizens about how America is a nation governed by the rule of law “America is a melting pot. The greatness of our country is we’ve gained from every group who came here.” –John Montalbano and offered the following thoughts on the American experience: “You may have heard that America is a melting pot. What does that mean? Well, when you melt iron ore, you get pure iron. But when you add other metals, you get an alloy of iron, such as steel. “Steel does not rust like iron. Steel lasts longer than iron. Steel is stronger than iron. You are the alloy that will make America stronger. “I still remember my own grandmother studying for her naturalization test and answering the questions in her broken English. She was so proud when she passed her test and we were proud of her because it was important for her to The Webb-Deane-Stevens Museum Shop It’s Nevrelyr! Too Ea Shop for Christmas! Unique Hand Painted Ornaments - $20 “Beautifully Boxed” 221 Main Street Wethersfield 860.529.0612 Open Daily (Except Tuesdays) 10am-4pm Sundays 11am-4pm become a citizen.” Helping immigrants is important to him, especially in these times when the term “illegal alien” is thrown around so frequently in political debate. He doesn’t like that terminology. “Over the years I have represented a number of undocumented immigrants. I recently represented a man who came here from Africa and suffered an electric shock,” Montalbano said. The man experienced the shock at work. He may be undocumented, but he still had certain legal rights, including the right to worker’s compensation. “The law in America is, even if you are not a citizen, the Constitutional rights apply,” he said. Montalbano has represented people from Africa, Thailand, Laos, Russia and South Korea in various matters. He has his opinions on the immigration debate. “America was founded by people who came to this country … and we essentially displaced the Native Americans,” he said. “America is a melting pot. The greatness of our country is we’ve gained from every group who came here.” Montalbano recalled how certain ethnic groups faced discrimination when they first arrived, Italians, Germans and Irish in particular. It was common at one time to see help wanted signs in shop windows with the addendum “Irish need not apply.” He considers it hypocritical to condemn those who want to come here for the same reasons everyone else’s ancestors came here just because they don’t have the paperwork to enter legally. “It’s a terrible situation right now. The migrant workers in Florida and California do work that nobody else wants to do,” he said. “I hope we can get beyond the politics of divisiveness because building a wall between us and Mexico is not the answer.” Montalbano also talked about the treatment of U.S. citizens of Japanese ancestry in the 1940s who were forcibly removed from their homes and lost many of their possessions in the process. “When they taught us [in high school] about the internment camps in California during World War II, I was aghast,” he said. He also pointed put that citizens of foreign countries serve in the U.S. Armed Forces; one does not need to be a citizen to enlist. “We’ve known each other for many years,” fellow attorney and friend Ted Raczka said. He complimented his friend’s strong work ethic and added they have an excellent working relationship and are both members of the YMCA. Raczka is a past president of the Middlesex County Bar Association and his father opened the practice he now operates in 1941. “He always puts his clients first. That’s the kind of person I wanted to be associated with,” he said of Montalbano. “We both respect our profession.” RHL REAL. LOCAL. SAVINGS. HZZ]dlbjX]ndjXdjaYhVkZdcXVg^chjgVcXZidYVn# n n David Johnson | 860-667-0877 ' (&*7Zga^cIjgce^`Z C Zl^c\idc Saving people money on more than just car insurance.® Some discounts, coverages, payment plans and features are not available in all states or all GEICO companies. GEICO is a registered service mark of Government Employees Insurance Company, Washington, D.C. 20076; a Berkshire Hathaway Inc. subsidiary. GEICO Gecko image © 1999-2012. © 2012 GEICO. September 2015 | ROCKY HILL LIFE 51 52 calendar September SuMo Tu We Th Fr Sa 1 2345 6 7 8 9 101112 1314 15 16171819 2021 22 23242526 2728 29 30 1 3 La Leche League, 10 a.m. to noon, 23 Textbook Ave., 860-529-2307 or mgubala@sbcglobal.net Library Board of Trustees, 7 p.m., Cora J. Belden Library, 33 Church St., 860-2587623 or rockyhilllibrary.info 1 8 16 1 9 16 10 16 12 19 Knitting Group, 11 a.m., Cora J. Belden Library, 33 Church St., 860-258-7623 or rockyhilllibrary.info, also Sept. 8, 15, 22 and 29 Health & Wellness Series: Sleep, 6:30 p.m., Cora J. Belden Library, 33 Church St., 860258-7623 or rockyhilllibrary.info CT Hearing Voices Network support group, 7 p.m., Rocky Hill Congregational Church, 805-817 Old Main St., second floor classroom, 203-391-4968, also Sept. 8, 15, 22 and 29 2 Playgroup Plus, 10:15 a.m., Cora J. Belden Library, 33 Church St., 860-258-7623 or rockyhilllibrary.info, also Sept. 9, 16, 23 and 30 2 Mystery Book Club, 6:30 p.m., Cora J. Belden Library, 33 Church St., 860-258-7623 or rockyhilllibrary.info Minecraft Club, 4 p.m., for grades 3-5, Cora J. Belden Library, 33 Church St., 860-2587623 or rockyhilllibrary.info, also Sept. 22 Friends of the Library, 7 p.m., Cora J. Belden Library, 33 Church St., 860-258-7623 or rockyhilllibrary.info ESL Class, 10 a.m., Cora J. Belden Library, 33 Church St., 860-258-7623 or rockyhilllibrary.info, also Sept. 17 and 24 Alzheimer’s or Dementia Caregivers Support Group, 2 p.m., The Atrium at Rocky Hill, 1160 Elm St., 860-563-5588 or ehall@benchmarkquality.com 14 Nutmeg Nights, 6 p.m., Cora J. Belden Library, 33 Church St., 860-258-7623 or rockyhilllibrary.info Minecraft Club, 5:30 p.m., for grades 6-12, Cora J. Belden Library, 33 Church St., 860-258-7623 or rockyhilllibrary. info, also Sept. 23 and 30 Open House for Parents and Guardians, 6:30-9:30 p.m., Rocky Hill High School, 860-258-7721 Household Hazardous Waste Collection, 8 a.m. to 1 p.m., Stevens School, 322 Orchard St., 860-721-2824 20 Hoof It for Haiti 5K Race & Walk, 9:30 a.m., St. Elizabeth Seton Church, 280 Brook St., $20 in advance or $25 same-day registration, 860-5293222 or 860-231-7093 52 ROCKY HILL LIFE | September 2015 22 Teen Anime Club, 6:30 p.m., Cora J. Belden Library, 33 Church St., 860-2587623 or rockyhilllibrary.info 24 Taste of Rocky Hill, 5-8 p.m., St. James Church, 767 Elm St., 860-258-7633 or rhchamber.org 26 26 Document Shred Day, 9 a.m. to 1 p.m., Farmington Bank, 366 Cromwell Ave. Korean Cooking & Culture, 1 p.m., Cora J. Belden Library, 33 Church St., 860-2587623 or rockyhilllibrary.info 30 Parent Advisory Committee, 7 p.m., Rocky Hill High School library, 860-258-7721 Is your club, community organization, school or house of worship holding an event open to the general public? If so, please send us the details for inclusion in our calendar. Email your events to Mark Jahne at mjahne@turleyct.com or mail them to Turley CT Community Publications, 540 Hopmeadow St., Simsbury, CT 06070. 53 News roundup Crackdown yields results The Rocky Hill Police Department, along with the state Department of Transportation’s Highway Safety Office, held another high-visibility distracted driving enforcement initiative from Aug. 3-16. U DRIVE, U TEXT, U PAY is intended to discourage motorists from texting, talking or otherwise distracting themselves by using a hand-held mobile phone while driving. According to surveys conducted before and after a similar statewide crackdown in April, there was an 8 percent drop in mobile phone use by drivers at observation locations throughout municipalities where police conducted enforcement. Local police said the drop in observed use is encouraging to law enforcement agencies and demonstrates the need to reinforce to motorists that mobile phone use while driving is both dangerous and illegal. The DOT announced in April that the results of recent research found an estimated 11.1 million occurrences of distracted driving happen each day throughout the state. Under Connecticut’s cell phone and texting law, violations involve fines ranging from $150 for a first offense to $300 for a second offense and $500 for each subsequent violation. RHHS bands plan bazaar The Rocky Hill High School Bands will present their annual Harvest Bazaar from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. Oct. 24 at the school. Craft vendors are being sought and tables are still available. Tables are priced at $30. For more information contact Dawn at 413-2503194 or cymbal1212@ gmail.com. The deadline to register for a table is Sept. 1. Hoof It for Haiti St. Elizabeth Seton Church, 280 Brook St., presents this seventh annual event at 9:30 a.m. Sept. 20. It features both a 5K run/walk and a 2.5K fun run/walk. A Kid’s Run for those 12 and younger steps off at 9 a.m. This event is USATF sanctioned and prizes will be awarded to the top three finishers in each category. Proceeds will be used to support a church in Saintard, Haiti, that is “twinned” with St. Elizabeth Seton. Registration is $20 in advance and $25 the day of the event. For more information call 860-529-3222 or 860-231-7093. Taste of Rocky Hill The Rocky Hill Chamber of Commerce presents an evening of taste tasting and sampling the wares of area restaurants. Business and food vendors will be on hand and opportunities remain to reserve a table in both of these categories. It all takes place from 5-8 p.m. Sept. 24 at St. James Church, 767 Elm St. Call 860-258-7633 or see rhchamber.org for additional details. CCHD recommends that all residents, especially children, wear long-sleeve shirts and pants while outdoors. Clothing should be light colored and made of tightly woven material to keep mosquitoes away from the skin. Playpens and baby carriages should be covered with protective netting and all sources of standing water that could serve as breeding areas for mosquitoes should be eliminated. For more information visit ccthd.org. Buying Antiques & Collectibles Paintings, Art Glass, Lamps, Pottery, Porcelain, Books, Sports Memorabilia, Manuscript Documents, Autographs, Photographs, Military Items, Swords and Firearms, Gold, Silver and Coins. Please call Ray or Tim (860) 436-9891 Open by chance or appointment 383 Silas Deane Hwy. Wethersfield, CT Free House Calls, Estates and Verbal Appraisals Highest Prices Paid Adult education awaits Registration is in progress to enroll in free high school completion and English as a Second Language classes at adult education in Middletown. Adult education offers free programs for Rocky Hill residents ready to earn their high school diploma. Three high school completion options are available including the GED and the National External Diploma Program, an individualized, self-paced program without classroom instruction. English classes for non- English speaking residents are available for all proficiency levels. Day and evening classes are offered in both Middletown and Rocky Hill. Call 860-3436044 for more information. West Nile warning Remembering South Catholic The Central Connecticut Health District reminds residents to be wary of West Nile Virus. This illness is transmitted by mosquito bites and, while not usually fatal, can result in long-lasting effects on the nervous systems of people who have meningitis or encephalitis. The South Catholic High School Class of 1965 will hold its 50-year reunion Oct. 24 at the Farmington Country Club. The planning committee is seeking updated contact information on all classmates. For further information email wiezalis@aol.com. RHL September 2015 | ROCKY HILL LIFE 53 54 Wethersfield LIFE Cover Valley LIFE Cover Avon/Canton Edition Jane Grove,10, shows off her new starfish friend she found at Starfish Point, Grand Cayman. Photo by Joel Grove, West Hartford Callie and her dog, Stella, enjoy a beautiful day on Moosehead Lake in Maine Photo submitted by Karen Tubin, Simsbury Farmington children walk along the Farmington River Trail: good friends and a wide open path ahead - what childhood is all about. Photo submitted by Meredith Trimble, Farmington Summer day in Old Wethersfield: cousins spending time together Photo submitted by Anne Tranberg, Wethersfield Summer Photo Contest Submissions Glastonbury LIFE Cover In the August edition of LIFE we asked for our readers to send in their summer photos. Many submitted multiple shots from their summer vacations and travels. We chose six photos to beour cover shots for this month’s edition. Thank you all for your participation. The grandchildren of Brendan and Barbara Durkin investigate sea creatures found in the sand bar at Harvey’s Beach, Old Saybrook. Photo submitted by Meghan Callaghan, Newington A.J. Bernardo cliff jumping in Glastonbury Photo submitted by Jen Sehmi, Newington Hiking in Amherst, Mass. Photo submitted by Courtney Adams, Glastonbury Valley LIFE Cover Farmington Edition Taken somewhere over western Connecticut at about 5000 feet, this is a “selfie” taken as I fly my sailplane (a glider) while circling in sun-heated rising air columns to gain altitude, like hawks and eagles do. Photo submitted by Deane Williams, Farmington 54 ROCKY HILL LIFE | September 2015 Diane Cavaliere jumps off JAWS bridge in Edgartown, Massachusette’s. In the 1975 film, the shark came out from under that exact bridge. Photo submitted by Diane Cavaliere, Wethersfield Standing in front of Buddhist temple in Bali, Indonesia Photo submitted by Leila Asal, West Hartford The view at Heubleine Tower in Simsbury Photo submitted by Indiana Pellegrino, Simsbury 55 Valley LIFE Cover Simsbury Edition Brothers Nick and Gerard Frigon enjoy a little town time in the harbor, just north of the Newport Bridge. Block Island 2015 Triathlon, Crescent Beach, Block Island Photo submitted by Jessica Frigon, West Hartford Photo submitted by Suzanne Frigon, Simsbury Mark Torres of Wethersfield plays his tuba in the Glastonbury Town Band Sunday, July 26, 2015. Rocky Hill LIFE Cover Photo submitted by Kevin Cormack, Newington Judy Bigelow enjoys picking blueberries. Photy submitted by Judy Bigelow, West Hartford Making a big splash. Photo submitted by Laura Barash, West Hartford Waikiki Beach in Hawaii. Sarah, Emily & John surf Hawaii! Photo submitted by Jamie Sacala, Simsbury Heublein Tower in Simsbury at sunset Photo submitted by Belle Magna, Canton Newington LIFE Cover The beauty of summer Due to space we are only able to publish one photograph from each submitting photographer Rainbow after a thunderstorm, West Hill Beach Club, New Hartford Photo submitted by Pam Rice Photo submitted by April Aldighi, Simsbury Skaket Beach in Cape Cod as the sun goes down Photo submitted by Savanna Kashnig, Canton West Hartford LIFE Cover Having fun at the sandbar at Pilot’s Point Beach, Westbrook Photo submitted by Susan Lemkuil, West Hartford Nolan at Mystic KOA in Stonington on their jumping pillow. PHoto submitted by Sheila Carrier, Simsbury April Lionberger, Evan Lionberger, 7, and Sierra Lionberger, 5, enjoy a camel ride at the Beardsley Zoo, Bridgeport. Photo submitted by April Lionberger, Glastonbury Daniel Raymond, 11, in Falmouth on Cape Cod. 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Joe Ercolani 860.344.1658 or 860.978.1109 Joe.Ercolani@Raveis.com Gorgeous Cont/Col with breathtaking views. Gourmet kitchen, fully fin LL w/full bath Wethersfield $229,999 HUGE reduction taken on Solid 9RM Colonial, 2 1/2 baths, HW throughout Debi Rozewski 860-922-3221 debirc21@aol.com CLEMENS & SONS 108 FOURTH STREET, MERIDEN Well maintained home, 5 bed, 2 bath, 1 car garage with over 2,300 square ft. of living space. The property is currently being used as a Parsonage Home for the Church. They are motivated sellers!! Rocky Hill $599,000 Multi-Million Dollar Producer and Quality Service Pinnacle Producer Newington $259,900 Newington $259,900 Newington $108,000 Fennwyck Estates! 55+ stand alone condo unit, 2 beds, 2 full baths, 1 car attached garage, finished lower level, on cul-de-sac! Immaculate, private, maintenance free, low fees. 3 bed, 2 full bath brick ranch with a 3 car garage on dead end street. Backs to Eddy Farm! CAir, wood floors, repl windows, open concept, large center FP, part fin LL, all season porch! Won’t last! Westchester Common ranch style condo, immaculate condition, 2 bedrooms, 1 bath, natural gas, forced hot air, central a/c, new windows & slider. Call Rob Jinks @ 860-573-1711. THE SOUSA GROUP Making Homes Happen 860.983.0457 TheSousaGroup.raveis.com 1206 Silas Deane Highway Wethersfield Every listing gets a professional stager & photographer. Erik Sousa, Broker E x p E r i E n c E • i n t E g r i t y • S E rv i c E • r E S u lt S Lina D’Angelo 860.380-7121 Sandy Whitaker 860.760-5959 Karen Woolley 860.690-0701 http://dawnsatagaj.raveis.com OLLARI FARMS OF ROCKY HILL! Beautiful home sites available! Call Dawn 860-301-5820 BRAND NEW! Construction has begun! Beautifully designed and quality craftsmanship, there is still time for you to add your personal style to this 4 bedroom home! Lot #31 at Ollari Farms, offers a walk-out basement, spacious rooms, high efficiency mechanicals and all the quality you have come to expect from Drisdelle Homes. Other lots and plans to choose from. Call Dawn 860-301-5820 Wethersfield $450,000 Lovely Historic 5BR/2BA 2356 sq ft Victorian Colonial on 1.34 acres. Hardwood throughout. Beautiful. Kathy Dell’Aquila 860.559.0825 Wethersfield $185,000 Great for entertaining! Open concept with cozy fireplace. 2-car garage. Move-in Ready. Cromwell $129,900 This 2 bedroom Condo features an outstanding finished walk-out lower level. Cristina Walsh 860.214.5964 Cromwell $209,900 Move-in-Ready! Updated kitchen/ bath, refinished hardwood floors & newer mechanicals. New Britain $79,900 Unique Historic Details. 2 ornate fireplaces, hardwood floors & high ceilings. Charming! Cyndi Rabb Newington 860.494.8985 $95,000 2 Bedoom, 1.5 Bath Condo. Hardwood floors, laundry in unit and deck. Great Location! September 2015 | ROCKY HILL LIFE 57 58 LIFE rocky hill 540 Hopmeadow Street, Simsbury, CT 06070 860-651-4700 Read our publication online at TurleyCT.com KEITH TURLEY, Publisher EDITORIAL Abigail Albair, Executive Editor aalbair@turleyct.com Mark Jahne, Editor Alison Jalbert, Assistant Editor STAFF WRITERS Alicia B. Smith, Allie Rivera, Mara Dresner, David Heuschkel, Ted Glanzer, Sloan Brewster ADVERTISING SALES Melissa Friedman, Advertising Director melissa@turleyct.com, 860-978-1345 Alana DiMarco alana@turleyct.com Editorial Let the campaign begin It’s almost Labor Day, the traditional kickoff date for political campaigns. This year features municipal elections to bodies such as the Town Council and Board of Education. Of course, presidential politics have already begun for the 2016 ballot that will select the person who replaces Barack Obama in the White House. This may draw some attention away from the local scene. That’s too bad because, as Tip O’Neill used to say, all politics are local. The people seeking elected office in this town deserve a little of our time and our attention. They have accepted the challenge to spend their time campaigning for our votes. They know that if they are victorious their prize is countless meetings and community events, long hours, no pay and little feedback, unless it’s negative. While people should be encouraged to vote each and every year, it’s curious that local elections don’t draw a higher turnout than they do. In most cases one can go from the car to the voting booth, cast a ballot, and be back in the car in less than 10 minutes. That’s not an imposition or an unrealistic commitment to ask. People who are going to be out of town on Election Day can always cast an absentee ballot. Voters show up in the greatest numbers for presidential elections. That’s commendable, but think about it. How much does one vote count in such a vast endeavor where millions of votes are cast? Even at the state legislative level, one vote only goes so far, although on occasion elections have been decided by recount because the tally was so close. The place where one vote can make the greatest difference is in a municipal election. It can literally make the difference between one candidate winning and another losing. It might even make the difference in terms of which political party gains the majority. Local elections are of crucial importance because these are the people – our neighbors – who can directly impact our daily lives by the policies they adopt, by the way the run town government and the schools. The budget they set determines how much each business, homeowner and motor vehicle owner pays in taxes. It doesn’t get any more local than that. The candidates will soon be knocking on doors, greeting people at supermarkets, sending out mailings and taking out advertisements. Take the time to read about them. Ask questions if you have the opportunity to meet them in person. Read their profiles in upcoming issues of this newspaper. Most important of all, vote. Democracy works best when everyone participates in the practice. RHL PAGE DESIGNERS Daniel Kornegay, Patricia Stenbeck, Robert Sirois GRAPHICS DEPARTMENT Barbara Ouellette, Production Manager ads@turleyct.com, 860-264-5523 Maureen LaBier, Production Assistant Corley Fleming, Cynthia Martel, Kathy Kokoszka, Mary Grimes #rockyhilllife @turleyct CIRCULATION For circulation issues, please call 860-651-4700 FOLLOW US ON published by 58 ROCKY HILL LIFE | September 2015 Snap a photo around town, share it on Instagram, and you might see it in these pages. 59 CLASSIFIEDS Avon • Canton • Farmington • Glastonbury • Newington • Rocky Hill • Simsbury • West Hartford • Wethersfield Cleaning Services Wanted POLISH-ENGLISH SPEAKING WOMAN CAN CLEAN YOUR HOUSE/OFFICE WITH CARE. Third cleaning 50% off for new clients. Satisfaction guaranteed. Insured/ bonded. Call 860-538-4885. I BUY HOUSES AS-IS. CASH. Call today 860-674-9498 or Email: john@boucherbuilding. com CT. REG. # 530518 OFFICE OR HOUSE CLEANER. If you need your office or house cleaned, feel free to give me a call. Free estimates. 860-856-1803. ADA’S HOUSE CLEANING – Quality personal service. Weekly, biweekly, or monthly. Specializing in help to clean before closing/ moving or one time cleaning. In business since 2000. Call 860521-3823 or 860-9446541. Lic & insured #1110413. GILIANE’S CLEANING SERVICES Quality service weekly, monthly. References available. Satisfaction guaranteed. Free estimates. Contact 860-218-3847 or 860-719-4474 HOUSECLEANING Do you want your house cleaned? I have good prices, good references, and free estimates! Please call Prisscila at 860680-0777. Puppies for Sale Four male Shichon Puppies For Sale (Bichon Frise & Shih Tzu designer mix). Excellent with children and adults, Hypoallergenic, 11-16 pounds when fully grown. $1300 each. Please call Maria (860) 214-8684. Careers BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOME SERVICES - NE PROPERTIES. Looking for a career change? Enjoy the flexibility and growth opportunity that Real Estate offers. For more information about commission only positions, call 860-4092270. Help Wanted PART-TIME LEGAL ASSISTANT in busy Newington office. Go to www.mawnlaw.com and click “Job Openings” to learn more. GOOD ATTITUDES REWARDED. MERRY MAIDS NOW HIRING full time or part time. Must be able to work Monday-Friday from 8am-5pm. No nights, holidays or weekends. Must have own car, driver’s license and insurance. Please call 860-563-8367 to set up an interview. STORE MANAGER Consignment Originals with 4 stores and 32 years in business is opening a location in Avon, CT. We are looking for the right person to come on board and join our management team! We are looking for career minded applicants. Must have minimum 2 years Management experience and plenty of passion. Salary negotiable depending on experience. Please send resume to: jleathe@consignit.com Help Wanted FASHION MERCHANDISER/CUSTOMER SERVICE Do you have an eye for fashion? Are you talented, energetic, and love dealing with people? Consignment Originals with 4 stores and 32 years in business is opening a location in Avon, CT. We are looking for the right people to staff our new location in Avon!. Salary negotiable depending on experience. Must have minimum 1 year Retail/Merchandising experience. Please send resume to: jleathe@ consignit.com Services BENEDICT OVERHEAD DOOR. Is your one stop for all garage door problems. CT HIC #0621772. Call 860-828-2951. Services M.G. PAINTING. Interior, Exterior. Sheetrock repair, water damaged ceilings, wallpaper, remodeling, etc. Power washing. Insured, Lic#573188. Call 860657-4623. PROFESSIONAL IN HOUSE MOVING AND HANDYMAN SERVICES. We will move furniture whereever you want it within your home as well as remove unwanted items. We also do general handyman work. Please call 860-983-6513 or 860-757-3447. CHIMNEY CHAMPS. Home of the $99 chimney sweep with full safety inspection. New construction, rebuilding, repairs, caps, chimney liners, water proofing. Call today 860-594-8607. www. chimneychamps.com BATHROOM REFINISHING. Tub and Shower Replacement -economical to custom. Do the job right - replace - don’t cover up. Toilets, sinks and vanities as well. Reasonable, licensed and insured. Charles Peterson 860839-0246. K&D PAINTING. Interior, Exterior. Power washing, water and fire damage, painting, aluminum and wood siding, carpentry work, wall paper removal. Fully insured, HIC#0674321. Senior discount, low prices. Call Kris, 860-4109989. CHS CARPENTRY. Kitchen & Bathroom full remodeling, windows, doors, decks, porches, cabinets, installation, paint, custom tile installation, drywalls, siding, rooing, floors & trim work. Fully licensed & insured. References available. Reg.#612982 Call 860-803-5535 or email chscarpentry@ live.com INDUSTRIAL PRESSURE WASHERS, LLC. I repair all major brands of Pressure/ Power Washers. I sellLANDA, MiTM and PRESSURE-PRO and will accept yours as a Trade In. I also sell chemicals/detergents, pumps/pump parts, hoses, guns, wands, undercarriage and Surface Cleaners and etc. I offer rental options of both Hot and Cold water machines. I also offer pick-up and delivery service. VISA, MC, Am EX accepted. Call or text Rick: 860-608-6153. TREE REMOVAL SPECIAL SAVE 10%. Free Estimate. Also stumps, chipping, etc. Licensed/ Insured. 860-621-0008. Services Z-THE HANDYMAN, LLC HOME IMPROVEMENT. Interior. Exterior. Painting, flooring, decks, power washing, vinyl siding, roofing, etc. Don’t pay high prices, Call 860690-2855. Ask for John. Licensed & Insured. ANDY WOTTON PLUMBING & HEATING, LLC 860-8338153. We offer honest plumbing at a reasonable price. Estimates are always given before any work is done. From snaking your main drain to water heaters and boilers, faucets and leaky pipes - WE DO IT ALL. Remember with Andy Wotton Plumbing, it’s not done until you say it is. Call today 860-833-8153. Licensed and insured P10282605 S1 0402048. PIANO TUNING AND REPAIRS by Hartt School of Music trained tuner. Piano cleaning and climate control also available. Contact Ted Williams 860-228-0309. PROTECT YOUR INTELLECTUAL PROPERTY. Patents, trademarks etc. Call Ted Paulding. No longer representing the big guys. Now helping the little guys become a big guy. 860-474-5181. PSYCHOTHERAPY. LICENSED PROFESSIONAL COUNSELOR to help individual adults with anxiety, depression, stress, trauma. 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The Autumnal Equinox occurs this year on the 23rd of this month, at 4:21 a.m., signaling the end of summer and the beginning of astronomical fall. Now the term “equinox” is Latin, referring to the days of the year when there is nearly equal day and equal night – when the Earth’s axis is not tilting in either direction toward or away from the Sun (also occurring in March with the transition from winter to spring). However, the exact timing is more of an approximate on the 23rd we will actually have 12 hours and 10 minutes of possible daylight (sunrise 6:38a, sunset 6:48p). Also, it is important to point out, with regard to sunrise/set, these times are relative to when the upper edge of the Sun crosses the horizon (not the center). 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