Men talk about sex From the K-pop factory Travelling with a partner
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Men talk about sex From the K-pop factory Travelling with a partner
CHANGING ASIA POPASIA Men talk about sex From the K-pop factory TRAVEL BITES Travelling with a partner APRI L 8-21, 2011 Emerging Getaways US$3 / Bt100 ISSN 19052650 9 771905 265009 10111 10111 At work I don’t have a choice of where I sit But with Star Alliance Upgrade Awards Across 20 of our member airlines worldwide Now I do. I’ve earned it. Tak u m a Sato I n ternat ional raci ng d ri ver and Star A l l ian ce Gol d Statu s staral l ian ce.com PHOTO COURTE SY O F TOURIS M AUTHO RIT Y O F THA ILAND No Longer The Backwater W ith rising incomes and burgeoning middle class, Asia is no longer a cheap destination. The phenomenon of Asians travelling in their own backyard is fuelled by the proliferation of low-cost carriers in the region and lower costs, which translate to more luxe dollars for travellers. The hospitality sector in the region has tremendously upgraded services and resorts catering to high-end travellers have sprung up. Luxury shopping is no longer the monopoly of the West as major cities like Singapore, Bangkok, Hong Kong and Kuala Lumpur offer just the same with more flair. We offer a glimpse of Asia as a new luxe playground—with The Princely India Tour, an eight-day tour from Mumbai to Delhi, which starts from US$7,160 a person— among other luxurious trips. But given these changes in the travel landscape, there are still hidden gems in Asia. There are many emerging Asian getaways like Phu Quoc Island in Viet Nam or Surakarta in Indonesia. We also have a feature on community-based tourism where you don’t only appreciate nature at its finest but also help local communities while vacationing. Whether you travel in style or in simplicity, Asia is always the destination of choice. Asia News Network asianewsnet@gmail.com PH OTO BY JEREMY VI LLASI S/CONTRI BU TOR APRIL 8-21, 2011 • Vol 6 No 7 COVER STORY Rising Asian Getaways P8 Destinations in Asia have evolved from backpackers’ haven to luxury playgrounds. But fresh destinations abound, making the region a distinct travel hotspot TRAVEL BITES P18 CHANGING ASIA P22 ENTERTAINMENT P42 Coupling Travelling with a partner isn’t always easy Let’s Talk About Sex Should men care about reproductive health? Tired Of Being Macho Male bonding and friendship is not making a comeback in Bollywood THE VIEW P7 ENVIRONMENT P24 Affecting Nuke Power Worldwide The Fukushima nuclear crisis is not Japan’s problem alone The Disappearing Tuna The relentless hunt for the tasty fish POLITICS P20 LIFESTYLE P32 Escape From North Korea The international community has to stand up to the reclusive state Thinking Out Of The Coffee Cafés need to stand out in a crowded market F E AT U R E S LIFE P36 POPASIA P44 Straight From The K-pop Factory K-pop songs all sound the same, and K-pop groups all look the same PEOPLE P47 Freida’s Coming Of Age Will Miral Give Freida Pinto a strong foothold in Hollywood? No Money, No Honey Why some Singaporean singles can’t be hitched COVE R photo | courtesy of j eremy villasis/contributor Copyright © 2006 of Asia News Network. All rights reserved. AsiaNews (ISSN 1905-2650) is a weekly magazine. Printed by WPS (Thailand) Co, Ltd Subsidiary of Nation Multimedia Group Plc. WRITE, FAX, EMAIL Please include sender’s name and address to: anneditor@nationgroup.com | Asia News Network Nation Multimedia Group Plc 1854 Bangna-Trad Road (Km 4.5), Bangna, Bangkok 10260 Thailand.Tel: (662)338 3333 Fax: (662)338 3964 Subscription inquries: Nation Multimedia Group Plc 1854 Bangna-Trad Road (Km 4.5), Bangna, Bangkok 10260 Thailand.Tel: (662)338 3333 Call Center: (662)338 3000 press 1 Fax: (662)338 3964 The View By The Nation (Thailand) Without The Dalai Lama The spiritual leader’s decision to retire from political life sets the stage for a new leadership to fight for Tibet’s independence v Bangkok March 8-21, 2011 tion to establish rapport and mutual trust with the Chinese leaders. Judging from Beijing’s past handling of the Tibetan issue, some harsh words can be expected to test the new Tibetan leadership. For decades, debate has raged within Tibetan communities about whether they should fight for their independence via armed resistance or continue to pursue peaceful means. The former approach, advocated by the Dalai Lama, has not yet produced any positive result. As China’s economic and political clout grows, many countries that host Tibetans in exile have given in to persistent Chinese demands. In Nepal, the Tibetan communities have been harassed, and election of Tibetan leaders has not been carried out due to strong Chinese pressure. It is interesting to note that there are some among the Tibetan people, both inside and outside Tibet itself, who want to go underground and take up arms to fight against China. They have yet to succeed in making the idea widely accepted. In the long run the Dalai Lama’s departure from the political scene will not affect overseas Tibetans or their government-in-exile. In fact, it will further rejuvenate the exiled communities. The Dalai Lama will continue as the spiritual head of Tibetan Buddhism and will always remain as the symbolic figurehead of the struggle for independence. Despite his advanced age, he will continue to travel the world, doing what he has always done best - preaching, calling for world peace and publicising the Tibetan cause. For decades he has been not only a Tibetan but an international icon, attracting worldwide attention and admiration, much to the chagrin of the Chinese mandarins. It is hard to predict the future of Tibet. The best way out, of course, would be for China and Tibet to reach a negotiated settlement. A fully autonomous Tibet would be ideal. Allowing Tibetans to practice their language and culture unhindered will not put the tiniest dent in the dominant Han culture. China is no longer a poor country. No longer does it feel vulnerable against the West. It now has enormous power in the international arena. A modern China that can coexist peacefully with Tibet would boost its reputation and its overseas image. •5 PHOTO by ATTILA KIS BE NE D E K/AFP F or over five decades, the Dalai Lama has been a divine figure head in the lives and culture of Tibetans in exile in Dharamsala, India and the rest of the world. Now that the spiritual leader has declared his firm intent to step down as the head of the Tibetan government-in-exile, Tibetans will have the opportunity to democratically elect their next generation of political leaders to continue the fight against Chinese domination. Although the new leader will not be known for some time, it is clear that whoever wins the premiership contest will usher in a new democratic era for the 6 million Tibetans. Like it or not, China will have to negotiate with the newly elected Tibetan leader, and that person will be well educated and articulate. Tibet under its new leadership will be different from the Dalai Lama’s time. One important element in this era of change is that the younger generation of Tibetan leaders—brought up abroad, educated and mobile—will greatly affect future negotiations with China. For one thing, they will be more assertive in pushing for a more autonomous Tibet. At this juncture the Chinese communist leaders still have a very hardline attitude toward Tibet. This is in part because of their attitude toward the Dalai Lama himself, who has been perceived by them as a menace since he fled Tibet in 1959 after the Chinese invasion and colonisation. It will take some time for the new Tibetan leader and his administra- The View By Philippine Daily Inquirer China’s Message China has allowed a public spectacle on its execution of three Filipino drug mules because it is not afraid to flex its muscles v Manila P HOTO BY JAY D IRE CTO/AF P PH OTO T he Filipino public’s consum- considered a dangerous menace in vulnerable to economic pressure, ing interest in the execu- China and the target of relentless from becoming witting or unwitting tion of Sally Ordinario- crackdowns. And executions in Chi- drug mules. Victimisation may come V i l l a n u e v a , R a m o n na, by far the world’s biggest execu- directly through monetary induceCredo and Elizabeth tioner according to Amnesty Interna- ments, or through the back door of Batain was both melodramatic and tional, are often unannounced. ignorance. We can all help in the inevitable. The three drug mules were That China allowed such a public work of prevention, by spreading the the first Filipinos to be executed by spectacle to happen must mean it is word about the sometimes fatal conChina, and their personal narratives deadly serious about the drug prob- sequences of drug smuggling, by formirrored the stories and the self- lem attacking its cash-rich, transi- warding any information we may image of millions of Filipinos, as tional society—and is not afraid to have about drug trafficking operahardy but unfortunate creations to the authorities, by tures of circumstance. Little supporting much stricter prewonder, then, that the news departure security checks to from China proved riveting, flush out contraband drugs. and the response of many Breaking the chain also Filipinos so personal. means identifying those imThe punishment imposed migration, customs or airport was also as final as it could officials who enabled drug get. The death penalty does syndicates large and small to not only assume that the victimise travelling workers. convicted are incapable of Does it seem likely that many being rehabilitated; it brooks pieces of luggage containing no appeal. This irrevocable illegal drugs continue to pass nature of a state-sponsored through Philippine internaexecution helps explain the tional airports without the event’s grip on the public EXECUTED: A friend holds a photo of Ramon Credo, one of the connivance of certain offithree Filipinos executed in China for drug trafficking. Credo, 42, imagination. cials? The authorities must Sally Villanueva, 32, and Elizabeth Batain, 38 were arrested But something else about separately in China in 2008 for smuggling heroin and sentenced conduct this investigation exthe executions strikes us. The to death. peditiously and thoroughly, three Filipinos were caught and then either remove erring in different cities and on separate use its geopolitical influence and re- officials or file the appropriate chargdays three years ago, and convicted gional ambitions to flex its muscles. A es against them. on drug trafficking charges separate- total of 224 Filipinos remain in ChiNot least, breaking the chain of vicly the following year. They were all nese jails, on various charges involv- timisation means running after the executed, however, on the same day. ing illegal drugs. We can only expect syndicates themselves. For instance, Villanueva, 32, and Credo, 42, died the muscle-flexing to continue. Villanueva named the person who alby lethal injection in Xiamen; Batain, The same-day execution of Sally legedly recruited her to travel to Chi38, was executed in Shenzhen. O r d i n a r i o - V i l l a n u e v a , R a m o n na with what turned out to be a bag This does not seem to be a quirk of Credo and Elizabeth Batain ought with illegal drugs hidden in it. Crejudicial schedule, but a deliberate de- to serve as a wake-up call for both do’s alleged recruiter has also been cision. Deliberate not only in the Filipinos travelling overseas and the identified. It does not seem likely that sense of China’s rather ruthless bu- Philippine government. The most these victimisers were one-time drug reaucratic efficiency but also in the important task, to use presidential traffickers; it is more likely that they sense of the Chinese government’s spokesperson Edwin Lacierda’s form part of an international network policy intentions. Beijing wanted to precise phrasing, is to break the of drug traffickers. Aided by leads send a message. “chain of victimisation”. and tip-offs from vigilant citizens, the The Philippines has been identified This means, concretely, preventing government can crack down hard on as a key source of the illegal drug traf- more Filipino workers who are travel- these syndicates. That would be the fic into China. Drug use has long been ling overseas, especially those highly best way to break the chain. 6• March 8-21, 2011 By The Yomiuri Shimbun Affecting Nuke Power Worldwide The Fukushima nuclear crisis is not Japan’s problem alone; it has now become more imperative to ensure nuclear safety v Tokyo T he crisis at the Fukushima No. 1 nuclear power plant is, of course, not just a problem for Japan alone. The future of the peaceful use of nuclear energy around the world rests with how effectively Japan can cope with the situation. Because of a nearly unimaginable natural disaster—a devastating earthquake and ensuing colossal tsunami—the Fukushima plant’s reactors, which were credited as among the world’s best in terms of safety, are now in a wretched condition. oriented party, made major headway against a backdrop of a surge in antinuclear public opinion. At the time of the 1979 Three Mile Island nuclear crisis and also after the 1986 Chernobyl disaster, misgivings about the safety of nuclear power plants became widespread in the United States and European countries, forcing them to put construction plans for new nuclear power ∫∫ Bright image tarnished March 8-21, 2011 ∫∫ Nuke power still necessary NO TO NUKES: A member of a civic group holds a placard in Tokyo denouncing the use of nuclear power during a rally in front of the headquarters of Tokyo Electric Power Co, the operator of the crisis-hit nuclear power plant in Fukushima prefecture. plants on hold. From the standpoint of protecting energy security and fighting global warming, however, nuclear power plants, as long as they are managed safely, are certain to remain an important source of electric power. About 30 countries now have nuclear power plants in operation, and about a dozen more have them under construction or on the drawing board. Many countries, including such emerging economies as China and India, would find it extremely difficult to meet fast-growing demand for energy without making use of nuclear power plants. Under the circumstances, it is imperative for the international community to firmly ensure the safety of nuclear power generation. Should the release of radioactive material from the Fukushima No. 1 nuclear power plant continue, the problem could develop into a profoundly grave international issue. Japan must bring the nuclear crisis under control as quickly as possible by sharing relevant information with other members of the international community and asking for cooperation from nuclear experts from around the world. Making utmost efforts in this regard is the sole way for Japan to maintain international confidence in the viability of nuclear power. •7 PHOTO by Toru YAM ANAK A /AF P Up until the current crisis, nuclear power was undergoing a positive reevaluation globally as a clean energy source emitting no greenhouse gases, and construction work on new nuclear plants was under way in many parts of the world. The trouble at the Fukushima nuclear power plant has thrown cold water on what was being called a “nuclear energy renaissance”. In the aftermath of the disaster, the European Union decided to put all nuclear plants within its jurisdiction under review to check their earthquake resistance and other safety arrangements. In Germany, where 17 nuclear plants are in operation, seven that were built in 1980 or earlier have suspended operations for three months. German Chancellor Angela Merkel’s government previously had decided to extend the lifetime of the existing nuclear reactors, in a reversal of the previous administration’s policy. But now the possibility has arisen that Germany may once again reverse its nuclear energy policy. In a regional election in the western German state of Saarland last month, the Greens, an ecologically In the United States, which has more nuclear power plants than any other nation, some members of parliament have called for a freeze on the construction of new nuclear power plants. US President Barack Obama, however, has remained committed to his policy of encouraging nuclear power generation, saying Washington needs to “take lessons learned from what’s happening in Japan”. France, which has the second largest number of nuclear power facilities, has vowed to go ahead with its construction plans for new facilities. Its sale of reactors to other countries also is continuing as scheduled. South Korea also has kept its posture of encouraging nuclear power generation unchanged. COVER STORY DESTINATION ASIA By The Star AFP PH OTO Travellers’ Top Picks Phu Quoc Island Destinations in Asia have evolved from backpackers’ haven to luxury playground. Travellers HAVE LONG BEEN ENTICED to this diverse region where old civilisation and modernity blend. AND THERE ARE STILL EMERGING TRAVEL HOTSPOTS THAT PROVIDE FRESH PERSPECTIVES B ❖ Kuala Lumpur ased on real customer feedback and travel trends, the Fresh Destinations list by hotel booking site Agoda.com names Asia’s emerging travel hotspots. These places aren’t yet mainstays but provide a fresh perspective on some of Asia’s most travelled regions. Agoda.com president Robert Rosenstein commented: “Agoda has been making online hotel reservations in Asia for many years, and many of our customers are classic trailblazers. We watch where they are going to get ideas for fresh destinations, and this year’s list shows that you don’t have to sacrifice style or services when trailblazing.” 8• This year’s list covers a range of landscapes, moods and cultures. Some destinations are bustling cities, while others are remote islands, but all have distinct personalities and unique cultural offerings. The destinations and properties below stood out for the praise they received from Agoda.com customers. ◆ Phu Quoc Island, Viet Nam Phu Quoc is on the Gulf of Thailand, off the south coast of Cambodia, west of Viet Nam. It is Viet Nam’s largest island with mountainous terrain covered in thick tropical jungle. In July 2010, Phu Quoc National Park became a part of the Unesco World Biosphere Reserve for its plant spe- cies and marine ecosystems. Phu Quoc has been likened to Phuket, pre-development. It offers idyllic tropical beaches with solid tourist infrastructure, while maintaining a rough, edge. The main town of Duong Dong has a sleepy fishing village ambience. Seafood is a highlight of Phu Quoc, and the island is renowned for its fish sauce made from anchovies. Agoda.com saw an increase in travellers to Phu Quoc of nearly 97 per cent from 2009 to 2010, and with plans for an international airport underway, Phu Quoc won’t be much of a secret for much longer. Phu Quoc was popular with northern Europeans, North Americans and Australians. Domestic tourism, while less March 8-21, 2011 Takayama prolific, is growing. The best time to visit is between December and May, the dry season, with April and May being the hottest months (up to 35 °C). The easiest way to get there is to fly from Ho Chi Minh City to Phu Quoc Airport, a journey that takes one hour and costs around US$60 on Vietnam Airlines. Demand for rooms in Phu Quoc outweighs supply during the high season, so book early. One reviewer remarked on the “commando mosquitoes” and another recommended visiting during the hot months. A UK traveller remarked: “Touring the island gave us a great thrill and sense of adventure. Some roads do not yet have tarmac and really give a sense of how life used to be, both simple and fulfilling. You must visit this gem before commercialism takes over.” ◆ Takayama, Japan Takayama is west of Tokyo, in the mountains of Gifu prefecture. Commonly referred to as Hida-Takayama, this is a historic, high-altitude city with crisp mountain air and bright, clear days. Hida-Takayama hosts a quaint, meticulously preserved Japanese township—Hida Folk Village. Loved March 8-21, 2011 Surakarta by nostalgic tourists, its narrow medieval streets, old-fashioned stores, sake houses and high-quality ramen are drawing an ever-increasing number of travellers, particularly from Australia. Castle ruins, ancient houses and temples pepper the city, while hot spring (onsen) villages and ski resorts beckon a short train trip away. Aside from Asian tourists, Australians, Spanish, Swedish, Italian and French travellers are discovering Takayama. The best times to visit are during the spring festival (Sanno Festival, April 14-15) and the autumn festival (Hachiman Festival, October 9-10). Cherry blossom trees (sakura) bloom during the second half of April. Temperatures range from -5°C in winter to 30°C in the summer (August). To get there from Tokyo, you can take a bullet train to Nagoya, then catch the special Wide View Express train to Hida-Takayama. The trip takes four to five hours and the Wide View trains offer panoramic views. One traveller noted, “It’s important to spend time walking around the small streets, exploring the restaurants and bars that cater for the locals. There are plenty of small izakaya (Japanese pubs) to be found, which is the place to go to get away from the crowds and to experience the real Takayama.” ◆ Surakarta (Solo), Indonesia Surakarta is located in central Java, 60km from Yogyakarta. More commonly known as Solo, this metropolis is home to 800,000 people. Solo is culturally rich, with myriad opportunities for visitors to delve into Javanese history and tradition. Batik is so entrenched in Solo culture that it has its own event (Solo Batik Carnival), while just outside the city, the Unesco-listed Hindu site Prambanan allows tourists to explore 9th-century temple ruins. This protected archaeological park also sets the scene for cultural performances and Hindu ceremonies. Solo is by far most popular with savvy domestic travellers but is also perfect for international tourists looking for an authentic Indonesian experience. April to October is the driest time of year in Indonesia, with December to March being the wettest. Temperatures range from 25°C to 33°C, and days are typically hot and sunny. Even during monsoon season, there are long stretches of sunshine. One of the cheapest ways to get there is to fly •9 COVER STORY DESTINATION ASIA Baguio Nuwara Eliya Jeju Island to Solo airport on Air Asia, which operates out of Kuala Lumpur. Many traveller tips on Agoda.com for Solo are to do with shopping: “Make sure you bargain well for your goods bought in local markets” and “Visiting Kampoeng Batik Laweyan is a must when you visit this city” are just two pieces of travel advice. ◆ Baguio, Philippines Baguio is 730km north of Manila. It’s a cool mountain city of pine forests, universities, mines and winding roads. Baguio offers escape from the heat and humidity of the lowlands. The city hosts historic landmarks, stately colonial architecture and great shopping with malls and markets offering locally made handicrafts. The surrounding pine forests offer quaint tourist villages, plus the opportunity to trek, bike and camp. Domestic travellers are the most familiar with Baguio, but US and Canadian tourists are also coming in droves. The best time to visit is between November and April, which marks the dry season. Visitors should avoid going during Holy Week (the week preceding Easter Sunday), when the city’s population swells with domestic travellers and hotel rates rise. 10 • The most popular way to travel is by bus. It’s a six-hour journey. A UK traveller noted: “SM Mall is a good-sized mall with plenty to do there, like shopping or eating out. It has all the well-known takeaway places and a wide variety of stalls.” from Colombo, with the best seat being in the observation carriage (seats should be booked in advance). Tea factory tours in Nuwara Eliya are a must, while a solo traveller from the Netherlands suggested, “Go for a hike up the hills!” ◆ Nuwara Eliya, Sri Lanka ◆ Jeju, South Korea Nuwara Eliya is in central Sri Lanka, at an altitude of around 1,900m. It’s a former colonial hill town in the middle of Sri Lanka’s tea country, 40km from Kandy and 180km by road from the capital, Colombo. The cool highland climate is the Nuwara Eliya’s chief attraction. The town retains its colonial charm and offers tours of tea plantations, plus hiking around Pidurutalagala, Sri Lanka’s highest peak. Travellers wanting serenity, breathtaking scenery and wildlife snapshots can take an eco-trek through Horton Plains National Park or experience the dizzying altitude of World’s End. People who visit are mostly British, Sri Lankan and Indian tourists, with Australian and US travellers increasing in numbers. April offers the most events, ranging from sports carnivals to summer fairs, to go-kart races. The best way to get there is by train Jeju island is in the Korea Strait, south of Korea and west of Japan. Jeju is a volcanic island with a subtropical climate, evergreen forests, lava tubes, waterfalls, the country’s only crater lake and Korea’s highest peak, Halla Mountain. Its unique geography and warm weather make it an appealing spot for travellers seeking a getaway with the option of cultural exploration and adventure. Aside from its sandy beaches, Jeju hosts a variety of festivals, museums and the Unesco-listed lava tubes and limestone caves that are a fascinating diversion. South Koreans love Jeju, but the biggest jump in international tourists last year came from mainland China. Americans, Japanese and Singaporeans are also frequent visitors. Jeju has mild weather and is suitable for travel year-round. Spring marks the high season and is also when the cherry trees blossom (February). Autumn, around September, March 8-21, 2011 Photo by A F P photo by The Nation(Thailand ) Chanthaburi Zhuhai is also a temperate time. The best way to get there is to fly to Jeju International Airport or catch an overnight ferry from mainland Korea. Flights from Narita and Fukuoka in Japan are also frequent. An American couple said, “If you’re on a trip as a couple, a visit to Love Land is definitely unmissable”, while one UK couple pointed out that “Waterfalls, the beach and several other attractions are all within walking distance.” ◆ Chanthaburi, Thailand Chanthaburi is on the Gulf Of Thailand, bordering Cambodia and wedged between Rayong and Trat provinces, 650km south of Bangkok. It is a topographically diverse and mineral-rich province with fruit orchards, waterfalls, limestone hills and caves, dense rainforest and long stretches of beach. Complementing its natural attractions are gem markets and dealers, temples, chedi and many other places of historical and religious interest. Chanthaburi’s primary attraction are its beaches. Chao Lao Beach is the province’s most popular. There are also eco-trails through the rainforest, glass-bottom boat cruises to coral reefs, plus colonial relics left over from the French occupation in March 8-21, 2011 the 19th century, including the country’s largest and oldest gothic cathedral. Thai travellers dominate the tourist market, with a small but growing number of German, Swedish, Australian and Americans also discovering its charms. When is the best time to go? For beaches, it’s best to visit Chanthaburi during the cooler dry season (November to January), but for waterfalls, the wet season is best (May to October). February to April is the hottest time of year. Chanthaburi is easily accessed by road. From Bangkok, it’s a four-hour drive on the highway. Travellers complimented Chanthaburi on being a great place for family travel due to its affordability and quiet beaches. As one Thai reviewer noted, “The location is great for travellers to use as a base for hopping to other areas in eastern Thailand, e.g. Trad, Koh Chang and Koh Kud.” ◆ Zhuhai, China Zhuhai is in the Pearl River Delta, on Macau’s southern border. It’s a clean and picturesque coastal town with an attractive waterfront promenade, beaches, islands and an exciting after-hours scene. Zhuhai is a modern city with a laid-back, beach-side feel and balmy subtropical temperatures. Attractions include golf, hot springs, temples, shopping and beach activities, while the surrounding islands provide excellent diving opportunities. Zhuhai is regarded by the Chinese as a romantic destination and boasts a great evening ambience with night markets, food stalls and scenic coastal views. Seafood here is fresh and abundant. Apart from domestic tourists, Zhuhai also attracts visitors from Hong Kong, Singapore, Malaysia and Japan. It’s also becoming popular with people from the United States, UK, Canada and Australia. January and February are the coolest months (around 20°C), while May to October bring the likelihood of typhoons. Zhuhai is easily accessible. Enter via ferry from Macau or Hong Kong, or fly via its domestic airport. Haggling at the markets is a must. A Malaysian traveller advised, “Great bargains galore—learn the art of negotiation,” while another traveller cautions, “For electronics and watches, bargain to less than half, or you will regret it!” • 11 COVER STORY DESTINATION ASIA By Huang Huifen The Straits Times photo by AFP TRAIN LUXURY: An Indian train assistant arranges a table setting in the restaurant of the Maharajas’ Express, the first pan-India super luxury train. The New Luxe Playground A ❖ Singapore sia, with its booming economy and burgeoning middle class, has become a new luxury travel destination. The phenomenon of Asians travelling in their own backyard is fuelled by the proliferation of low-cost carriers in the region and lower costs, which translate to more luxe dollars for travellers. James McBride, president of YTL Hotels, the hospitality arm of Malaysian conglomerate YTL Corporation, says: “There is a huge demand from Asians, particularly Chinese and Indians, to explore the region. Hence, more luxurious properties have sprung up in Asia.” The number of Singapore travellers who visited YTL resorts in the region, which include beach resorts Tanjong Jara Resort and Pangkor Laut Resort, the historic The Majestic Malacca, tranquil Cameron Highlands Resort and Japan’s new scenic ski resort The Green Leaf Niseko Village, has doubled, from 12 • 2009 to last year. YTL declines to give figures. As a testament to the local demand, YTL opened a travel centre last November in Wisma Atria to service the local market. About 70 per cent of the clientele are locals, the rest being expatriates residing in Singapore. Another luxury hotel brand, the Small Luxury Hotels of the World, made up of more than 520 hotels in more than 70 countries, is also seeing a growing appetite for luxury travel among Singaporeans. Last year, it saw a 44 per cent increase in revenue from bookings made through its channels compared to 2009 for its properties worldwide from the Singapore market. Places such as Hong Kong, Thailand, Taiwan and India were among the top destinations. A survey conducted last year by luxury travel exhibition organiser International Luxury Travel Market Asia and regional trade publication TTG Asia showed that 60 per cent of the 382 luxury travel operators March 8-21, 2011 PHOTO COURTE SY O F TOURIS M AUTHO RIT Y O F THA ILA ND SHOPPING IN STYLE: Tourists shop in upmarket Gaysorn Mall in Bangkok. and suppliers polled experienced an increase in luxury bookings in the first quarter last year compared to the same period in 2009. About 88 per cent expected the Asia Pacific luxury travel market to have a 5 to 20 per cent growth within the next 12 months. Last June, Brian Yim, a magazine editor, and his wife went on a six-day wellness programme at The Banjaran Hotsprings Retreat in Ipoh, a onehour-plus flight away from Singapore. The retreat opened last year. During the trip, he recharged in the hot springs, detoxed at the thermal steam cave and enjoyed healthy meals prepared with ingredients from local organic markets and from the retreat’s own vegetable and fruit garden. He paid about US$3,145 a person, excluding airfare. Yim is no stranger to luxury travel. Last December, his family of four went on a personalised vacation in Finland, where they learnt cooking in a forest and rode on sleighs pulled by huskies and reindeer. March 8-21, 2011 But nothing beats the convenience of having luxury at his doorstep. “Instead of travelling so far to Europe, it is good to have luxury choices of the same quality nearby. But just don’t ask for snow,” says Yim. ◆ TRAVEL/CRUISE What: Maharajas’ Express Highlights: Travel India on Ma- harajas’ Express, a 23-coach train which has a capacity of 84 guests. True to its name, which means great king in Sanskrit, the interior of the train is decked out in royal fashion—expect elegant tapestry, plush bedding and cushions and stately wooden interiors. Besides visits to the iconic Taj Mahal, guests will also dine at Laxmi Vilas Palace, the residence of the Royal Family, as well as watch an elephant polo match. Price: The Princely India Tour, an eight-day tour from Mumbai to Delhi, starts from US$7,160 a person, and includes accommodation, meals and tours. Check in at The Taj Mahal Palace & Tower before departure. What: Orion II expedition cruises Highlights: The Orion II, the second ship in the Orion fleet, will be sailing to Asian destinations in June. The first Orion ship conducts expeditions to Antarctica and the Oceania region. Orion II will be making three stops this year in Singapore for its expedition to Thailand, Borneo and Bali. Unlike the mass-market cruises, the Orion II can accommodate only 100 guests in 50 ocean-view suites measuring 215 to 285 sq ft each. The ship is furnished with rich fabrics, polish brass, rare antiquities and fine art. New expeditions include destinations such as the Russian Far East, a remote region of volcanoes and abandoned Cold War military bases guided by geologists and volcanologists, and inland sea of Japan. Price: From A$8,150 (US$8,462) a person for a 10-night Russian Far East expedition, or 10-night Borneo voyage from Singapore. Includes accommodation, meals, lectures, shore excursions, port charges and gratui• 13 COVER STORY DESTINATION ASIA ties. Visit www.orionexpeditions. com for more information. ◆ BESPOKE EXPERIENCE What: Urbane Nomads Great Wall Of China dive, part of an 11-day tour Highlights: For the diving enthusiast. The Panjiakou section of the Great Wall was submerged when the government flooded and dammed the area to provide a reservoir of drinking water for the nearby cities of Tianjin and Tangshan. Now, visitors can dive 35m down the greenish water to view the section of the wall built during the Ming dynasty (1368-1644) to see treasures such as Ming-era stone carvings and a guard tower. On land, they will visit Chonghua Gong, a palace in the Forbidden City usually closed to the public. Guided by conservationists, they will find out how Emperor Qianlong, fourth ruler of the Qing dynasty (1644-1912), used the palace to entertain friends and ministers over poems and tea banquets. Price: US$2,500 a person, includes accommodation, selected meals, dives and tours. Requires a minimum of eight to travel. To book: Call Urbane Nomads on 6728-8614 ◆ WELLNESS RETREATS What: Two-day Wellness Prog ramme a t T he Ban ja r a n Ho t14 • beachfront sanctuary will also include a four-hour Bing Lang Gu Cultural Tour where guests will meet the indigenous Li and Miao minority groups. Guests will travel in a private limousine. P rice : F r o m 1 2 , 9 0 0 y u a n (US$1,965) a person, includes accommodation, spa treatments, meals, yoga and taiji sessions, tour and TCM consultation. Excludes 15 per cent taxes. ◆ SAFARI What: Three-night stay at Orange County Luxury Resorts, Kabini, India Highlights: The resort, on the PH OTO COU RTESY OF TOU RI SM AU TH ORI T Y OF TH AI LAND What: YTL seven-night package at the private estates of Pangkor Laut Resort, Malaysia Highlights: Nestled in a secluded cove on the 121ha Pangkor Laut island, the eight private estates are the most luxurious accommodation in the five-star Pangkor Laut Resort, which also has 142 villas. The private estates come with an infinity-edge pool, pavilions and personal butler. Besides full-day spa treatments, guests can also spend a day out at sea fishing or go on a private yacht cruise at no extra cost. Nature-lovers can venture into the two-million-year-old rainforest on the island with a resident naturalist. Price: US$35,000 an estate for up to six guests. Includes food and beverage, private bar and use of all facilities at the resort springs Retreat, Ipoh Highlights: Soak in hot springs and meditate in a natural limestone cave in Ipoh in west Malaysia. The new five-star Banjaran retreat located in a 6.7ha valley in Tambun has, among other things, geothermal hot spring dipping pools, a thermal steam cave, a crystal cave and Garra Rufa fish pool for feet rejuvenation therapy. The 25 villas are furnished with feather-topped mattresses and cotton linens, and fitted with a private outdoor rain shower and jacuzzis pumped with geothermal spring water. Price: From US$385 a person, includes accommodation, breakfast, ON THE LAP OF LUXURY: Most resorts in Asia offer full-day spa treatments amidst serene and luxurious environment. massage and admission into the Lost World of Tambun theme park. What: Three-night Retreat For The Senses programme at Banyan Tree Sanya on Hainan Island Highlights: Recharge in Hainan Island, dubbed Asia’s Hawaii for its year-long tropical weather. Guests will get a consultation with a Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) master, do yoga and tai-chi sessions, enjoy spa treatments and eat healthy meals such as barley risotto with grilled seabass fillet. A three-night stay in the 30ha fringe of Karnataka’s Nagarhole and Bandipur National Parks, has 37 tribal-inspired cottages. The jacuzzi huts have private outdoor jacuzzis. The pool huts have a shared plunge pool overlooking River Kabini. Visitors can go on a safari to Nagarhole National Park to spot elephants or book a boat safari tour to see marsh crocodiles. Price: 14,933 rupees (US$330) a night. Includes accommodation, meals, nature activities with a choice of vehicle or boat safari, one spa session and elephant ride. Offer valid till March 31 next year. Visit www.slh. com for more information. March 8-21, 2011 “A new regional model of climate-compatible architecture.” Ashok B. Lall, Architect, Professor at the GGSIU in New Dehli and Head of the Holcim Awards jury 2008 for Asia Pacific, on the prize-winning Energy-efficient office complex, Hyderabad, India. Develop new perspectives for our future: 3 rd International Holcim Awards competition for projects in sustainable construction. Prize money totals USD 2 million. www.holcimawards.org In partnership with the Swiss Federal Institute of Technology (ETH Zurich), Switzerland; the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, Cambridge, USA; Universidad Iberoamericana, Mexico City; and the Ecole Supérieure d’Architecture de Casablanca, Morocco; Indian Institute of Technology, Mumbai, India. The universities lead the independent juries in five regions of the world. The Holcim Awards competition is an initiative of the Holcim Foundation for Sustainable Construction. Based in Switzerland, the foundation is supported by Holcim Ltd and its Group companies and affiliates in more than 70 countries. Holcim is one of the world’s leading suppliers of cement and aggregates as well as further activities such as ready-mix concrete and asphalt including services. COVER STORY DESTINATION ASIA By Phoowadon Duangmee The Nation (Thailand) Snuggling Up To Mother Nature NATURE’S BEST: A couple takes a romantic cruise along the Salak Khok in Trat province. C PH OTO S BY TH E NATIO N (TH AI LAND ) ❖ Bangkok ities are drowning, islands are vanishing, wildlife is disappearing. The culprit, the experts tell us, is global warming but you don’t have to be a tree hugger to realise that travellers are part of the problem too. Phatharaporn Aphichit, a smalltime blogger and big-time traveller, recently released the Green Guidebook: Green Life, Green Communities, which points the way to eco-conscious destinations. From a small Muslim fishing village on the Andaman Sea to an organic farm in Thailand’s north, here are the some of the greenest places to lay your head. ◆ Tacomepai Organic Farm Pai, Mae Hong Son As crowds of tourists persist in turning Pai into the Ubud of Thailand’s north, this once peaceful valley is now packed with chic and stylish resorts selling pricey drinks. Sitting quietly amid the rapid change is San16 • dot Sukkaew, a Pai native, who is trying to turn the clock back. He quit his engineering job and has adopted the Permaculture approach to agriculture on his organic farm. Bamboo cottages, mud houses, a kitchen garden and rice paddies are part of this farmhouse. Here, you’ll live without large supermarkets, as at Tacomepai they grow everything they eat, and eat everything they grow. A few things are off-grid: the chemical dishwasher is replaced by ashes and the eating utensils are made from bamboo. You’ll learn how to weave basketry as well as to make a thatched house from bamboo. To thank the fertile earth, the farm often celebrates the rice harvesting with tribal and folk music. Tacomepai Organic Farm has become known among young and environmentally conscious Western backpackers. With basic bed and mosquito net, hot shower and restroom, a bamboo cottage goes for 100 baht (US$3) per night. Info: +6686 112 3504, www.Tacomepai. com. ◆ Kiriwong Valley Nakhon Si Thammarat The folks in Kiriwong love Mother Earth, and she loves them back. Tucked away in a remote Nakhon Si Thammarat valley, people here live at the mercy of nature rather than being slaves to modern life. Durian, mangosteen and rambutan trees blend in with the surrounding evergreen forest. Much of the food here is homegrown, and half the electricity is generated from the community’s own hydro-electric power plant. The valley runs community-based tourism, with small eco-lodges for hikers exploring the lush peak of Khaoluang Mountain. You can also stroll around the villages, or learn to make naturally dyed textile. Kiriwong is good to visit in any season though fruit lovers are advised to travel there in July and August, when March 8-21, 2011 VILLAGE CRAFT: Locally produced crafts are displayed in Baan Wang Nammok. durian, mangosteen and other tropical fruits are abundant. A small eco-lodge costs around 100 baht ($3) per night. Info: +6675 533 113, +6686 788 8718, +6689 589 6998, www.kiriwonggroup.com. ◆ Koh Por Lanta, Krabi Koh Por, a small island off the Krabi coastline, may only be five minutes by boat from Koh Lanta Yai, but the two islands are an ocean apart. While Koh Lanta Yai is busy and vibrant with heaps of young backpackers, reggae pubs and world-famous DJs, Koh Por retains its low-profile with fishermen and small Muslim communities. Billed as ‘The Last Pearl of Andaman Sea’, the communities ban bikini-clad culture from the island. There is no pub, no restaurant and not a single stylish guesthouse—but the villagers still welcome the visitors with open arms. You can stay at a villager’s house, eat their food and ride in a fisherman’s boat for your catch of March 8-21, 2011 the day, as Koh Por runs its own community-based programme. Info: Call Pracheep Mudnui at +6687 126 0082. ◆ Baan Wang Nammok Sri Chiang Mai, Nong Khai The United Nations declared 2011 as the International Year of the Forest to promote a greater sense of community forest and sustainable living. Here, at Baan Wang Nammok in Nong Khai’s Sri Chiang Mai district, the villagers can tell you how. The pioneering community-based Walking Mount of Demon Forest is organised by local people. Trips are only for small numbers of visitors who hike through 1,400 acres of community forest. On the nature trail, the local guides will teach you how the forest becomes a “supermarket”, as different kinds of plants contribute food, medicine and other essentials to sustainable living. At the end of the day, the visitor can sample forest produce, for exam- ple, wild mushroom soup, bamboo shoot curry, and wash it down with fruit wine. The rainy season (May to August) is the best time to visit Baan Wang Nammok, when the forest bear much of its fruit. Info: +6642 423 783, +6686 232 5300. ◆ Salak Khok Koh Chang, Trat The simplest way to escape the tourist trail and share the rustic life of a fisherman on Koh Chang, Trat province, is to opt for a homestay on the island’s eastern side. Salak Khok community runs one of the country’s best-organised programmes, placing visitors in homes on a rotational basis to spread the benefits around the villages in the small bay. Activities include mangrove and firefly tours, snorkelling and romantic cruising on ‘Reu Mard’, a restored sampan, along the canal before returning to the host family in the evening for freshly caught seafood and home-cooked curries. Info: +6687 748 9497. • 17 TRAVEL BITES PH OTO BY JOFELLE P. TESORI /ASI A NEWS NET WO R K By Jofelle P. Tesorio Asia News Network COUPLING Travelling with a partner isn’t always easy but it can test how strong your relationship is. some tips for couples travelling especially to Asia Y ❖ Bangkok ou have decided that it is time to go on travelling with a partner after years of backpacking solo. And you don’t mind being with someone this time because travelling as a couple could be double the fun. However, if you decide to travel with another person, whether with a friend or a partner, expect that it’s not going to be as smooth as you think. Many seasoned travellers say if you want to know 18 • your partner more, you have to leave your comfort zone and travel as a couple. Travelling can change people. They shed off their skin and show their colours. It’s the ultimate test if your relationship is made of rock. I’ve heard a lot of stories of couples breaking up or friendships getting awry after their travel because they found out they can’t even agree on simple things. Travelling has made them realised that they cannot be together, at least on an island. It’s always been a hard decision for couple to travel together especially when one or both are used to a solo flight. It is even harder when one or both of the couple have not travelled outside their home. I’ve heard of horror stories about honeymooners instantly wanting to get a divorce because their ‘coupling’ (couple travelling) didn’t go as planned. They realised getting married was a mistake because they had so much differences—from food choices to idea of fun—and thought they should have taken the honMarch 8-21, 2011 eymoon first before the marriage to get to know each other better. Seriously, this is not fun. Take the story of a young American couple who went to the lovely islands of Thailand for their honeymoon. The woman was a control freak and the man wanted an easy-going island life. At the end, the man decided to stay behind for an extended holiday in Koh Pangan (for the monthly full moon party) while the wife went back to the US by herself. But there are also good stories coming out from ‘coupling’. Many couples have attested that their relationship became stronger because of the unusual bond they had while travelling. They discovered new things about each other and complimented each other’s shortcomings. A British couple who were too bored in their London flat decided to go to Bali, Indonesia to recharge and get a much needed vacation. Together they discovered they both enjoyed biking around the winding roads of Ubud and amidst rice paddies. They enrolled together in meditation classes and found renewed love in Bali. A successful ‘coupling’ depends on the couple. But these tips could sweeten the deal: Whether going solo or as a couple, planning is crucial. You need to agree on a destination that appeals to both. Thailand and Indonesia appeal to couples because of diverse interests these destinations offer. Your budget should also be taken into consideration. When you’re married, it’s March 8-21, 2011 Compromise In any relationship, compromise is the best solution to any problem. You have to remember that it isn’t solo travelling anymore. While you really want to ride the back of an elephant in Thailand while your partner has a fear of the mammal, you just have to compromise. You could agree to let the other ride the elephant while you stay behind your hotel enjoying yo ur s e l f i n t h e pool. But the best way to avoid fighting is to plan the things you both want to do and the places you want to visit. Who’s in charge Always remember that it’s ‘coupling’. While one is a natural leader who takes all the d e c i s i o n s wh a t kind transportation to use, where to go and where to sleep, the other should not just blindly follow. If only one makes the decision, the other partner gets annoyed and feels underappreciated. As a rule of thumb, men are generally better in reading maps so better leave this task to the man. But you can take turns in deciding what to do next and allow the partner to choose. One good tip I got from a couple is dividing the tasks and focus on them. For this American couple, communicating, finding ATM machines and doing most of the driving are left with the husband while keeping track of the itinerary (hotel information, places to see, restaurants) and navigation are the wife’s responsibilities. Luggage issues Don’t fret over small stuff. An argument over who gets more luggage space is one of these. Better have separate luggages which contain only the most essential. The key is always pack light so you have more space for souvenirs. If you are going to Southeast Asia during the dry months and summer, you practically don’t need much. Clothes are also cheap to buy so it’s better to get some of the clothes you need in your destination. Patience T h e r e a r e a n n o y i ng things that your partner will do during the trip that you don’t see back home. You have to exert extra patience in dealing with one’s quirkiness unless you want to end up fighting. Relaxed mind, positive attitude There will be unexpected events that will happen during your travel such as flight cancellations due to volcanic eruption or flooding in your paradise island. Havi n g a p o s i t iv e attitude coupled with a sense of humour will make things bearable for both of you. If one of you gets impatient for waiting hours at the airport, one should remain calm. If you can make fun out of the dire situation, t h e b e t t e r. I t means you can weather all storms in your relationship. Travelling should be a wonderful and enriching experience. travelbites.asia@gmail.com • 19 PH OTO BY J E R EM Y V IL LAS IS/contributor Planning probably easier to discuss the budget but for dating couples, it can pose a problem. Both should agree on money allocation on how you are going to split costs. Going to Asia might be more economical than, say, Latin America. It pays to have a good research about your destination, the weather and places to see. It’s also worthwhile to check out language barriers. Language is not much of a problem in most of Asia. Even if English is not widely spoken in many countries, it is easy to find someone who speaks the language. POLITICS By Bruce Gale The Straits Times Escape From North Korea North Korean defectors will continue to face problems as long as the international community refuses to stand up to the reclusive state W ❖ Seoul Photo by A F P hile the world focused on the horror of the earthquake in Japan and the developing civil war in Libya earlier this month, another chapter in a decades-long human calamity began to unfold along the border between North and South Korea. And while not on quite the same scale as the devastation in Japan or the afflictions facing Libyans, recent developments have underlined a darker point about the tragedy the international community would rather forget. “Father, I miss you. Please come back now!” wails a teenage girl in a video posted on the North’s official website earlier this month. According to the website, the girl is the daughter of Hong Yong Hak, a 44-year-old man who is among the four fishermen who chose to stay in 20 • DEAR LEADER: This undated picture released by North Korea’s official Korean Central News Agency (KCNA) on January 7, 2010, shows North Korean leader Kim Jong-Il (C) visiting the construction sites of Ryesonggang Youth Power Station No. 2 in North Hwanghae province. Hwanghae province, located on the North-South border area, is experiencing severe food shortage. South Korea after their fishing boat reportedly drifted across the border in thick fog on February 5. But while Pyongyang had feigned concern about the fate of the fishermen, accusing Seoul of detaining the four against their will, it had initially refused to take back 27 others who had crossed the border in the same vessel, maintaining that all 31 must be returned together. However, it softened its stance on March 15 and agreed on the partial return of its citizens. The remaining 27 were finally repatriated to North Korea on March 27. Arguments in South Korea against sending back defectors have always hinged on the fact that they would face harsh treatment on their return. In February 2008, when 22 North Koreans sailed across the Northern Limit Line, the de facto maritime border in the Yellow Sea, the South Korean March 8-21, 2011 military reacted by sending them back. Some reports said that several were subsequently executed by the North Koreans. Now that South Korea has shown that it will give North Koreans, who travel across to the South, a choice to stay or return, the humanitarian situation could become much worse as large numbers of malnourished North Koreans attempt to make their escape by sea. Hwanghae province, located on the border area from which the fishermen came, is experiencing severe food shortage. The province suffered from a serious typhoon last year, and much of the surviving rice crop has reportedly been confiscated by the military. The North Korean authorities can be expected to do everything they can to stop these defections. And those March 8-21, 2011 who do make it across the border may find that they are not very welcome. Many South Koreans believe that the authorities should not have given any of the fishermen the choice to stay in the first place. “They said they arrived by mistake,” says Kim Sang Hun, who runs the North Korea Human Rights Database Centre. “Now they’ve eaten good food and seen the sights.” Many South Koreans complain that the government policy of giving priority to North Korean defectors when applying for permanent rental apartments places poor and underprivileged South Koreans at a disadvantage. Each North Korean defector household also receives a housing subsidy of 13 million won (US$11,560) after undergoing three months of mandatory resettlement training. According to South Korea’s uni- fication ministry, which handles inter-Korean affairs, only about 20,000 North Korean defectors have arrived in South Korea since the end of the 1950-53 Korean War. Unable to cross the heavily fortified land border in the south, most slip across Pyongyang’s northern frontier instead. An estimated 300,000 North Koreans now live in China, almost all of them without legal status. Some subsequently enter South Korea via Mongolia, Viet Nam and Thailand. Many thousands, most of them women, took this route during the famine of the 1990s, only to find that China regarded them as illegal economic migrants. Human rights groups say that forced marriage, threats of deportation and a life without access to basic services have become the norm for most female defectors and their children. One solution to the problem would be to follow the precedent set in the 1970s, when Indo-Chinese refugees were initially met with hostility after they attempted to reach other Southeast Asian nations. The situation was resolved when the United States, Australia, Canada and France agreed to allow the refugees to resettle in their countries. Sadly, South Korea, the US and other major players are reluctant to antagonise North Korea by coming to such an arrangement, particularly when relations remain tense. A North Korean submarine allegedly torpedoed a South Korean corvette in March last year. And in November, North Korean artillery shelled Yeonpyeong Island, the first artillery strike on South Korean soil since the 1953 ceasefire. China is also concerned about the potentially destabilising impact any move to provide assistance to North Korean defectors would have on its unpredictable ally. The wailing, it seems, is set to go on for a long time yet. • 21 CHANGING ASIA By Rupak D. Sharma Asia News Network Let’s Talk About Sex Should men care about reproductive health? F v Bangkok ew days ago, I received a rather unusual invitation. It was for an event on men and their reproductive and sexual health. “Indeed, mention reproductive and sexual health and it is the women who usually come to mind, because many health programmes and advocacy campaigns are often focused on them,” read the invitation. “But what about men?” It was a valid question as men play an equally important role in sexual behaviour and have great impact on women’s reproductive health. Yet in many countries in Asia, where most of the societies are dominated by males, men seem to take many things for granted just because of their gender. On top of that, discussions on sex are usually a hush-hush 22 • thing, which they consider should not be talked about openly. “But we say ‘let’s talk about sex’,” says Dr Anna Klinken Whelan, International Planned Parenthood Federation (IPPF) regional director for the East and Southeast Asia and Oceania. “This is the only way we can save men and women from risks of sexually transmitted infections and other diseases.” But the issue is not only about protecting people from STDs. It is also about providing basic information to people to clear up confusions in society. “For instance, many people are not aware of simple scientific fact like who is responsible for generating a male or a female fetus,” says Kiran Bhatia, regional adviser for United Nations Population Fund. “That’s why women, who are not able to bear sons, face so much of discrimination, abuse, violence and shame, even though they have nothing to do with it.” Bhatia says she has also come across many men in many Asian countries who have no idea on simple reproductive health processes like how babies are born and why do women die of bleeding. And there are also men who are not aware that one and half inches of penis is enough to have satisfactory sex, adds Dr Whelan. This is because the social norms prevalent in our society do not provide access to these basic scientific information, says Bhatia. To clear up these confusions and generate awareness about men’s sexual and reproductive health, IPPF recently worked with government agencies in China, Thailand March 8-21, 2011 photo by Warisara Wuthikul/The Nation (Thailand) DO THEY CARE? Men these days are better informed and breaking controversial social norms. and Vanuatu. In China, IPPF worked in partnership with China Family Planning Association, where male taxi drivers were roped in to conduct projects aimed at improving their sexual and reproductive health awareness. In Thailand, IPPF supported Planned Parenthood Association of Thailand to educate Burmese migrants and ethnic groups of the northern Thai province of Chiang Mai on reproductive health and sexuality. And in Vanuatu, the Vanuatu Family Health Association was approached to make reproductive health services and education accessible to out-of-school boys and men living in Port Villa and Luganville. When the projects were first introduced in many countries, most of the men kept quiet without engaging in discussion or laughed March 8-21, 2011 when topics on sex and sexuality were discussed, field reports say. This was because of shyness. But gradually they opened up and started taking the discussions and lectures seriously. Sutthida Malikaew, a freelance journalist who observed Burmese migrants living in Thailand’s northern Chiang Mai province, says the attitudes of some men changed after taking part in the project. “For instance, after attending the classes they knew why women refuse to have sex during the time when they have periods,” she says. “After understanding the problem, they also started showing interest in helping women when they had menstruation cycles.” In other words, the classes not only educated them about sexual and reproductive health but made them better human beings, husbands and fathers. This is a very long process and should not be limited to some projects in certain communities, says Bhatia. “On a broader sense we are talking about enabling men and women to reflect on the way in which they think and behave that may be detrimental to their own health and those of their families and communities. We are talking about creating space for men, women, boys and girls where they can reflect on their lives and raise questions they can’t ask, and understand the negative effects of some of their behaviour and practices,” she adds. In other words, it’s about reaching out and breaking the controversial social norms that are preventing us to create a better world. • 23 ENVIRONMENT By A’an Suryana The Jakarta Post The Disappearing Tuna People’s insatiable appetite for tuna has triggered a relentless hunt for the tasty fish, which is now threatening its very existence. This plundering of the ocean’s riches is also threatening the sustainability of its biodiversity, as modern fishing methods endanger species such as turtles and other marine biota O Photo by G IF F J O HN SO N/AF P PHOTO ❖ Bitung, North Sulawesi ur love affair with tuna started aeons of years ago. The Greeks salted and pickled it. The Romans succumbed to the flavour of the Mediterranean bluefin tuna, turning it into a staple food. Thousands of years later, tuna is still as popular as ever. It has become part of many people’s diet, across the world. Even Americans have added it to their lunch box, while the Japanese have developed countless sophisticated ways of enjoying tuna. The rare hon maguro or bluefin tuna is one of Japan’s most coveted delicacies, with a Pacific bluefin fetching as much as US$100,000 per fish. In Indonesia, tuna, especially the yellowfin or bigeye tuna, is often served in Padang restaurants across the country. Some say tuna is popular because it is easier to eat and less 24 • smelly than other fish. “I like tuna because it has a thick texture and not many bones,” said Budi Yanthi, a woman in her 30s. Rizki Amaliah (Kiki), a professional in the oil and gas industry, said tuna was easier on the nose. “Tuna meat does not smell putrid,” she said. Yanthi and Kiki are just two of many millions of Indonesians who enjoy eating tuna on a regular basis. So far, they have been able to eat tuna to their heart’s content, as the oceans’ stocks have kept replenishing. Waters in the eastern part of Indonesia remain rich in yellowfin, skipjack and bigeye tuna. But if the country doesn’t tackle over-fishing seriously, these species may suffer the same fate as the bluefin tuna, which has now joined the growing list of endangered species. Over-fishing has been a growing issue of concern for stakeholders in the tuna industry and of course, conservationists. The high demand for tuna, especially from Japan, has drawn fishing fleets from across the globe to waters rich in tuna, including the Gulf of Tomini, Sulawesi and the Maluku seas. According to a senior official at the maritime affairs and fisheries ministry, the Arafura Sea has become a hotspot for fishing fleets from China, Taiwan and Hong Kong. Fishermen from the Philippines prefer to hunt tuna in Sulawesi, Maluku, Halmahera, and the northern part of Papuan seas. “They have modern fleets. We often fail to catch them as our fleets are aging,” said Johnny Banjarnahor, the head of the ministry’s eastern Indonesia fishing monitoring fleet based in Bitung. The fleet has only 10 boats and ships, too small a number to cover the vast expanses of eastern Indonesian waters. A significant number of local March 8-21, 2011 fleets also contributes to over-fishing, therefore the government should also be held responsible for failing to regulate the number of local ships or boats operating in the country’s waters. Local and central authorities are responsible for granting fishing licenses. The central government issues permits for ships with a fishing capacity of 30 gross tons, while the local government looks after licensing for ships that capture below 30 gross tons. “The problem has emerged because local governments don’t limit the number of licenses they issue, on the grounds that issuing permits helps fatten local government coffers,” said Purwito Martosubroto, chairman of Indonesia’s tuna commission. The body has been tasked with helping the government draft better policies to protect tuna in the country’s waters. Tuna catch figures have stalled in recent years, according to data reMarch 8-21, 2011 corded in Bitung seaport. Between 2007 and 2010, the amount of fish caught and traded through Bitung seaport, mostly tuna, was as follows: 135,272 tons in 2007; 142,377 tons in 2008; 145,053 tons in 2009 and 146,940 tons in 2010. Some blame these stagnating numbers on over-fishing. This is not an isolated case either. In Cilacap, central Java, the amount of fish caught has been decreasing since 2008. While fishermen there were able to catch 5,600 tons in 2008 and 3,900 tons of fish in 2009, the figure dropped to 2,700 tons in 2010. Local fishermen confirmed that catching tuna was getting harder nowadays. In the 1980s, local fishermen in Bitung could catch yellowfin tuna 3km away from the coast, but now they have to sail as far as 64km off Bitung coast to catch the fish. “We can’t compete with foreign vessels and their modern equipment so we have to find tuna in high seas,” said Bitung fisherman, Buang Jusuf Tamara, who has been catching tuna for 20 years. Maritime affairs and fisheries ministry data showed that the country had apprehended 186 foreign vessels for fishing illegally in Indonesia in 2008, compared to 184 the previous year. The failure to manage overfishing has not only taken its toll on local tuna catch, but has also damaged biodiversity in the country’s eastern waters. Indonesia’s eastern waters are part of the renowned Coral Triangle region. The Coral Triangle—a geographical term referring to a triangular area in the tropical marine waters of Indonesia, Malaysia, Papua New Guinea, Philippines, Solomon Islands and Timor Leste—contains at least 500 species of reef-building corals in each eco-region. It covers an area of 5.4 million sq km of ocean across six countries. More than 3,000 species of fish live in the Coral Triangle, including the largest fish — the whale shark, and the coelacanth. It also provides habitat to six out of the world’s seven marine turtle species. The Coral Triangle comprises the highest coral diversity in the world: 76 per cent (605) of the world’s coral species (798). Trawling, a method of fishing that involves pulling a f ishing net through the water behind one or more boats, threatens the region’s rich biodiversity. Bottom trawling, which involves dragging huge, heavy nets along the sea floor, crushes nearly everything caught in the process. Trawling is unselective and indiscriminate, catching tons of unwanted fish and other sea creatures, also called bycatch. Global environmental group WWF estimates that at least 40 per cent, or 38 million tons, of annual global marine catch is bycatch. To help address over-fishing problems stemming from this relentless hunt for tuna, the Indonesian government needs to improve its fishing monitoring activities. “The government has to improve its method of collecting fishing data. The government now has a logbook in which all fishermen have to declare the volume of their catch, so that based on the data in the logbook, the government can draft the right policy to control its tuna population. But the implementation has been far from perfect,” said Purwito. In order to avoid paying tax, many fishermen under report the amount of fish caught, which means fish catch data isn’t reliable. “The government needs to work out solution to tackle this problem,” said Purwito. The other issue the government needs to address is the growing number of foreign vessels fishing illegally in Indonesian waters. “The government needs to upgrade our fleets so we can chase and arrest foreign vessels fishing illegally (in our waters),” said Banjarnahor. • 25 AD V E R T O R IAL AD V E R T O R IAL HEALTH By Ika Krismantari The Jakarta Post From Teens To Vegan Indonesia expects more teens to aspire for a more healthy lifestyle in the future U ❖ Jakarta PH OTO S BY TH E NATIO N (T HA ILA ND) ncle Ronald McDonald and Colonel Sanders will soon be bidding farewell to a growing number of young customers who are increasingly shunning meat and chicken, opting for grain- and beanbased food instead. Society’s growing awareness of what constitutes a healthy lifestyle is making more people selective about the kind of food they put on their plate. Th e ve ge t a r i a n co m m u n i ty, which seeks healthy food alternatives to meat, includes a small 30 • fraction of the younger generation. These youngsters chose not to eat meat and chicken, which goes against the mainstream for people in their age bracket. Some even refuse to consume milk- and egg-based foods like Shanti Paramita, 16. Believing that eggs and milks are also a part of the animal, Shanti chose to become vegan four years ago. “Consuming those (eggs) means we have to kill animals as well,” said the eleventh grader. But what exactly makes these youngsters opt for such extreme diets? The Jakarta Post surveyed March 8-21, 2011 a number of teen vegetarians, who mostly cited religious principles, which forbid them from eating animal-based foods since they were born, as the reason for not eating meat. Sixteen-year-old vegetarian Billy Oktananda, who was born Buddhist, says his parents had a strong influence on his diet. “I was a vegetarian since I was in my mother’s womb. That triggered something inside me, which made me not want to eat meat,” said the first son in the family. Shanti also became a vegetarian for the same reasons as Billy. But as she was growing up, she also realised there were many benefits to being vegetarian. “I don’t fall sick easily. I am comfortable with my weight too,” says the 50-kilogram girl who measures more than 1.60 metres. Billy also says he rarely suffers from any serious diseases. “Meat is the source of many diseases, so when you don’t eat it, you just don’t get sick that easily,” he said. Health experts have found a number of other benefits from not eating meat. Vegan expert Susianto for instance, believes plant-based diets can increase children’s immunity and also make them smarter. Susianto, Shanti’s father, cited his daughter as a proof supporting his claims. At the age of 16, Shanti has an IQ of 131, way above the average teenager. B i l ly h a s a n I Q o f 1 2 5, which is deemed one of the March 8-21, 2011 highest in his class. Given these all benef its, Susianto, also the chief operation officer of Indonesia’s Vegetarian Society (IVS), believes more and more young people will become vegetarians, starting a new trend in Indonesia. According to data from IVS, the number of young vegetarians in the country has grown significantly over the past few years. It is believed there are more than 600 vegetarian teenagers across the country nowadays, which may not seem like much, but it is still 10 times more than 10 years ago. The existence of vegetarian restaurants in malls and other popular spots has also contributed to this new trend. Twenty-year-old Jeremia John said his decision to become a vegetarian had a lot to do with passing a veggie restaurant every day on his way to school. “I discovered this vegetarian restaurant near my high school. The food is delicious and inexpensive. That’s when I started becoming vegetarian,” said the young man, now a third-year student at a private university in Jakarta. Nutritionist Saptawati Bardosono also predicts there will be more vegetarian teens in the near future, as people increasingly aspire to lead a healthy lifestyle. Some parents, however, are concerned with this trend, as they fear their children will not eat enough nutritious food when they turn vegetarian. Young teenage boys need a daily calorie intake between 1,600 and 2,400, and young girls between 1,600 and 2,000. Responding to this, Saptawati said parents needn’t worry so much, as their children could easily get this calorie intake from non-meat foods. “Parents can also add vitamins and supplements to their teenagers vegetarian diets,” she said. Saptawati also advises parents to ensure their vegetarian teenagers still get the necessary vitamins to ensure a healthy growth, while not eating meat. Supporting Saptawati’s remarks, Susianto alluded to a 2003 report from the American Dietetic Association, which highlights that a well planned vegetarian and vegan diet can be adopted by people from all age brackets, including pregnant women, breastfeeding mothers, children and teenagers. “It has been proven that vegetarian diets can make your children healthier and smarter,” he added. And not just that, says 41-year old mother Susi Herman. “Your children tend to have purer heart, that’s what teachers say about my (vegetarian) children. They don’t get angry easily and tend to be more sensitive,” said the mother of Billy and 12-year old Yolanda Oktavalery. • 31 LIFESTYLE SOUTH KOREA By Kim Ji-hyun The Korea Herald Thinking Out Of The Coffee From book cafÉs to costume or beauty ones, COFFEE SHOPS need to stand out in A crowded market 32 • I ❖ Seoul t takes more than just money and a good place on the map to make money out of a café considering the number of coffee shops everywhere. For this reason, café owners in South Korea are thinking out of the box to attract more customes. “You need to cultivate an area of unique expertise and target a strong niche,” advises Kim Tae-jung in his guidebook for café start-ups. Kim, who heads an academy for training potential café owners, emphasises that without a meticulous plan, it would be quite easy to strike out. When competition was less fierce, a shop on a busy intersection and maybe a good, strong cappuccino could have been the ingredients for a lucrative café business. These days, it is impossible even to count how many cafés are in the country, especially in Seoul, where cafés and coffee shops dot every street. Foreign brands like Starbucks and The Coffee Bean and Tea Leaf are dominant, but local brand cafés have also hit the scene, making it increasingly difficult to break into the market. Caffe Bene is one popular homegrown brand, along with Hollys Cof- fee, both of which have been energetically expanding their territory. The evident saturation has prompted newer entrepreneurs to wrack their brains for new ideas. “It’s gotten to a point where good food and drinks aren’t enough to bring in the crowds,” says Choi Hwa-nee, owner of a coffee shop in Bundang who is considering giving her store a facelift. “All around me, there are cafés focused on some sort of specialty, and I feel like I am falling behind.” Latest cafés have unheard of features; one café is dedicated to offering studying space to salaried workers, while another allows only English to be spoken. Others lure the health-conscious consumer to ditch the lattes for some comforting traditional tea promising to be cleaner on the palate. Another one of the new rages are socalled “kid cafés” where moms can come to chat with friends while their children are safely playing in a nearby area. On the weekends, whole families come to relax with their kids. “Families really like this place because it’s a chance for them to relax and let their kids loose in a safe place,” says Yoo Jaeseung, a spokesman for Little Orchard, a popular kid’s café in Seocho-dong. March 8-21, 2011 By Park Min-young The Korea Herald The sales on the weekends rise about 20 per cent from sales during the week, he adds. The do-it-yourself craze has also evidently hit the café scene, as there are now those where customers can walk in to create his or her own cake. At Dan Hana, at about 18,000 won (US$16), customers can create unique cakes of their own. “Business is not yet as fast as we hoped, but I think making cakes is not an idea that will grow old, because there is always demand for celebrations and cakes,” says Lee Mi-jin, manager of the Konkuk University branch of Dan Hana. There are even beauty cafés, where customers can do their hair while being served food and beverages. Others promise customers a good time with their pets, which are rarely allowed indoors. But as Kim and other experts note, truly good niches are those that do not go out of vogue. Book-reading cafés and costume-wearing cafés were hugely popular a couple of years ago but they started to decline. Cafés for board games also were “in” circa 2005, but many have died out. “It’s important to think about the type of customers you target and try to create a café that can really interact with them to survive for the long term,” advises Kim. March 8-21, 2011 A Crocus With Your Cappuccino ❖ Seoul I nstead of the expected scent of coffee and waff les, the fresh fragrances of spring f lowers greet visitors at the door of Blute, a f lower café in Hannam-dong, central Seoul. On a Saturday afternoon, surrounded by bundles of flowers and plants, a barista made hot Americanos while a nearby florist skillfully created hand-tied bouquets. In case you are still wondering, a ‘flower café’ is a combination of a flower shop and a café. A couple got up from their table and went to the cashier where the man bought a small bouquet of flowers. His girlfriend was busy snapping pictures of the café with her cell phone. “This is my first time here, and I found new interest in flowers. You know how hard it is to find a place in the city where I can be surrounded by nature. I am happy to have found such a great place where I can enjoy both coffee and flowers,” the girl in her 20s says. Cafés, which are in fierce competition in the overcrowded café market, have been coming up with new themes such as ‘book café’ or ‘pet café’ to attract customers. Flower cafés are just one of the latest trends. Many flower cafés have sprung up during the past few years in popular café streets such as those in Myeong-dong and Hannam-dong in central Seoul, and Sinsa-dong in southern Seoul. Such cafés are also a breakthrough for small flower shops which are having a hard time with fewer people buying flowers. Flower cafés also offer beverages and various desserts just like any other café. Some run florist classes, hold small exhibitions and rent out their premises for parties as well. “Desserts and flowers are both handicrafts which do not last a long time and are difficult to sell. They cannot be mass produced and are usually custom-ordered. Having them together in one shop could bring a synergy effect in the long term,” says Gang Min-ju, co-CEO of TORCH, a flower café located in Itaewon-dong, central Seoul. Gang, who is dessert specialist, opened the cafe with her sister, a florist, last year. They grew up in the US where they were used to seeing cakes decorated with flowers, says Gang. “About 30 per cent of our customers visit the café just to pick up some flowers. But most of the visitors know how to make the best use out of our café—they come here for both flowers and cookies, or cakes, which make great gifts together,” she says. Mixing two different kinds of shops could be a shortcut to success but also a risky choice without proper preparation, warned Song Jin-hwa, florist and owner of Blute. “It would be better to focus on one thing than to manage a flower café in an awkward manner. It is not as easy as it seems you are going to need a bigger space, because regular flower shops are not large enough to accommodate many tables and all the supply you need to open a regular café,” says Song. “Although flowers are our main theme, we still work hard to make our food and beverages tasty. Some underestimate the importance of taste because they focus too much on flowers, but there are so many themed cafés nowadays that you could immediately fall behind if you neglect even the slightest detail. Opening a flower café requires both the effort of opening a caféand a flower shop.” • 33 LIFE By Wang Yan China Daily China’s School-drifters EXAM BLUES: A graduate from Minzu University of China prepares for the national post-graduate examination in a crammed rented apartment in this file photo taken in April 2010. months later. “The 2,400-yuan ($360) a month salary was high among my classmates, but the job was too tiring. I had only one day off every week and the working hours were too irregular,” he said. “Entering society made me feel hollow.” Not ready to take a job for now— he has some savings and has borrowed some money from friends— Ye and two other school-drifters decided to try their luck in this year’s post-graduate exam. Ye’s goal is Jinan University in Guangzhou, where he failed to get in last year. “I want to be a teacher in the future, so I have to pursue higher degrees.” Hu said most of the school-drift- Chinese college graduates are setting up camps near campuses G Photo by Y i Yafei for C hina Daily ❖ Beijing et a college degree and you’ll go far? Ye Dong made it to a 10-sq-m room, at 60 yuan (US$9) a month, next door to his old college in Shaoguan, China’s southern Guangdong province. Now 23, Ye earned his diploma in June 2010. But he has barely left the campus. He still eats in the canteens and studies in the classrooms. Living close is convenient and familiar, he said. Around almost every college and university in China are cheap apartments and bungalows for rent, where lots of graduates like Ye live, according to Hu Jiewang, a sociology professor at Jiaying University in Guangdong province. They live and look like enrolled students, but they aren’t. Hu published his first research paper on these graduates in 2003, naming them “school-drifters”. It became a popular search keyword and triggered wide media coverage and further academic research. 34 • “The number is increasing over the years,” Hu said. “A simple reason is that each year the number of graduates rises, while the employment rate remains basically the same. A large portion of the unemployed become COLLEGE DRIFTER: This file photo taken in 2010 school-drifters. Some previ- shows Jiao Wenjun, a college graduate from Shanxi in China. He has rented a room outside ously employed also come province Tsinghua University in Beijing. back after a short, unsatisfying, work experience.” In 2005, researcher Shi Xu of Nan- ers aim to enter grad school. Some jing University of Aeronautics and hope to find a better job; some want Astronautics said in a published pa- to stay in big cities; and some are per that the number of school-drifters simply fearful of the intensely comin China had reached 100,000. Hu petitive job market. Living on school resources, Hu said, “It’s hard to calculate an accurate total”, but he thinks the current said, “is a way of cutting living costs. But they do have some renumber has far exceeded that. source conflict with currently ◆ A hollow feelinG enrolled students.” Ye sees himself as a school-driftUniversities are enrolling more er. He said the real world is different and more students, resulting in from his ideal. crowded campuses, full libraries and He landed a job as a production self-study classrooms, and dining assistant in a local jewelry company halls as jammed as farmers markets. in March last year but quit two School-drifters add to that pressure. March 8-21, 2011 Hu also said, from his student management experience, that it’s hard to trace school-drifters on campus. Universities are managed by departments, and it’s unclear which departments should be responsible. “The fact is the schools now are pretty much neglecting this group,” he said. Why don’t drifters return home? “From ancient times the Chinese have had the notion that ‘going out’ and ‘going to colleges’ were good. Anybody coming back home without achievements is a loser,” Hu said. “High expectation from parents could be a burden on students, and could prevent them from returning home after graduation. Many would not tell parents their real situation.” In Ye’s case, his mother died in 2009 and his father is essentially estranged. His married sisters occasionally support him, but they want him to get a job. “They thought a bachelor’s degree should be enough to get a decent job,” Ye said. school—for further education, for better opportunities, or for the comfort— increased. Add that to layoffs by state-owned companies and the usual flood of migrant workers, the number of school-drifters reached a new peak. A state policy issued in March 2002 said unemployed graduates could keep their hukou (household registration) in the schools for two more years. And many did, choosing to drift. lieved to lead to higher pay. ◆ A different drift Ji Xiang, 27, drifted from one school to another for five years before achieving his goal of entering grad school. He started drifting in 2004, just one year after being admitted to a local university in his hometown of Dong-ying, Shandong province. “I quit because the university and the major (engineering) were not good.” Ji then headed to Shandong Uni◆ Unrealistic? versity in Jinan and took English. In Hu listed score-oriented education late 2005, he drifted up to Peking as one cause of school-drifting. “It University to learn more about inis not doing well in connecting with ternational politics. the real world. Moreover, career Like many other school-drifters, education is not yet treated with Ji settled in the cheapest place he high importance. Many just think could find, a 190-yuan-a-month it’s not a big deal compared to aca- ($29) bungalow near the campus. For living expenses, he depended on tuition refunds from the school he had left, plus part-time work as tutor. Free classes, though, were not easy to get, for the curriculum schedules are not open to the public. ◆ Fewer job options Ji started by wandering Based on Hu’s research, the classroom building, school-drifters appeared sitting in every class he as early as the 1980s. The caught up with and noting state still allocated jobs for the dates and places. college graduates then, but “It was a busy and rich it wasn’t enforceable: The time. I listened to everygraduate or the employer OLD NEIGHBOURHOOD: This file photo shows students buying thing and almost became could decide not to sign food outside Tsinghua University’s western gate in Beijing. an expert in the field,” Ji the contract. If that hapsaid, showing a smile with pened, most of the unemsatisfaction. But he also ployed graduates returned to their demic education.” realised that knowledge doesn’t imStudents, however, should also take mediately bring butter and bread. colleges and waited for the next round of allocation. But there weren’t some responsibility, Hu said. He said many of his ideal employMany hope their first jobs will ers wouldn’t even look at his resume. many who did this, and they stayed bring everything, and some unrealison campus for just a few days. He then decided to get into grad An upsurge occurred in 1997, tically compare themselves with their school—but the country sets a bachwhen the country launched the re- peers. Once unsatisfied, they look for elor’s degree as a prerequisite for form of state-owned enterprises. ways out, and pursuing further stud- postgraduate exams. By the end of Those enterprises had been the first ies becomes a popular option. 2007, he completed the task by takStatistics from the ministry of ed- ing higher-level exams for the selfchoice of many career-starters, but they were hiring fewer graduates. ucation show that the number of ap- taught. And after a failed attempt in Plus, the doorsills of foreign compa- plications for the postgraduate 2008, he finally became a grad stunies were still too high for new exam in 2011 reached 1.5 million, a 7 dent at China University of Petrolegraduates, and private Chinese per cent annual increase. um in Beijing in September 2009, Competition is fierce, though; only majoring in international politics. companies were still of low status. As a result, many graduates felt about one in three will make the cut. “In most cases, you’ve got to have lost, and the number who stayed in A higher degree is commonly be- a degree to fit into society.” March 8-21, 2011 • 35 LIFE By Yen Feng The Straits Times No Money, No Honey Some singles in Singapore actually do not mind getting hitched. The only hitch? They cannot find a mate I P hoto by AF P ❖ Singapore f not for his meagre salary, Ko Guan Chui is convinced he would have married by now. Two years ago, the 37-yearold Singaporean warehouse assistant was set up on a blind date with a woman from China, but she ceased all contact after learning he earned only S$1,200 (US$945) a month. Recently, he went on a date with a Malaysian woman arranged by his parents at McDonald’s. “The same thing happened,” he said. “After she heard what my job was, she stopped talking. She was more interested in her fish burger than in me.” The number of singles in Singapore has been on the rise for more than three decades and it has become common to defer marriage into the late 20s or even 30s. But bachelors like Ko—lowincome, lowly educated and pushing 40—actually do not mind getting hitched. The only hitch? They cannot find a mate. Since the issue of educated men marrying down, rather than their educational equals, was first discussed openly in 1983 by then prime minister Lee Kuan Yew, the situation has changed. About two-thirds of graduate men now marry graduate women, compared with 37 per cent in 1983. But women continue to have little desire to marry down. Many echo what Helen Chiang, 33, a sales ex36 • ecutive and diploma-holder who is single, said: “If I make more money, then why marry? I want to marry someone to take care of me, not the other way around.” While the latest census found that the proportion of single men grew across all sectors of society, the rise was more pronounced for those aged 35 to 44 and who did not go to university. Last year, singlehood was most prevalent among men with below secondary school qualifications. In the 40 to 44 age group, 24.1 per cent of these men were single, compared with 12.9 per cent who had degrees. For men aged 35 to 39, the rise in the proportion of singles was sharper among the non-tertiary-educated, compared with those with diplomas or college degrees. In this age group, among the men with only secondary school education, the proportion of singles rose nearly eight percentage points last year, from 18.3 per cent to 26.1 per cent, over a 10-year period. The proportion of university graduates who were single grew o n ly 3. 5 p e rce n ta ge p o i n t s i n comparison. In other words, the less-educated male is finding it tough to attract a partner. It is a phenomenon that will continue, said demographers, pointing to problems ahead concerning single, elderly males without family support and care. Yet, little is known of this group in the national dialogue of getting Singaporeans to mate and make babies. In interviews with 25 men who fall into this category, almost all said it is their financial situation that makes them not a prime asset to the Singapore woman. The 25 are aged 35 to 44 and work in mostly unskilled jobs, driving trucks, packing boxes or checking supplies at warehouses and factories. Many do not take home more than S$2,000 (US$1,585) a month. A chunk of their salary goes to supporting their elderly parents, with whom they live. Their courting arena is limited to KTV lounges, hawker centres, foodcourts and fast-food restaurants, where affordability trumps atmosphere. Or the Internet—though this medium tends to attract undesirable candidates, said the men. A few have turned out to be adulterous housewives, or even ‘lady boys’. “No, it is not difficult to find a girlfriend,” said Lim Xi Yang, 40, a technician. “Not if you have cash.” March 8-21, 2011 LOOKING FOR LOVE: This photograph shows a student chatting with a girl he met at a local bookstore, after learning tips on how to approach and date women in Singapore. His last relationship was when he was in his early 20s. The Institute of Technical Education graduate earns about S$1,300 (US$1,030) a month. “If you don’t have money, how to be a good husband, a good father? “There is a lot of pressure on men to pay the bills.” Local women scorn them, they said, because most are in betterpaying jobs than they are. “They want LV, they want Gucci, they can buy (these brands) themselves. They don’t need us,” said Paul Wong, 37, a cook. Others have turned to foreign women, who they believe have more modest needs, but the prospect of securing their residency here can be daunting. Latest official figures released last year showed that eight out of 10 marriages in 2009 between a citizen and a foreigner involved a local man. In all, about 7,000 Singaporeans married foreign brides, most of whom are Asians. Matchmaking agencies have March 8-21, 2011 sprung up to help local men source for brides in places such as China and Viet Nam. A successful match can cost as much as S$10,000 (US$7,925). But that is only the start. Members of parliament said they usually encounter a handful of men in each weekly meet-the-people session who say they need help extending their brides’ stay here. “Occasionally, I will have a case of the man exhausting his life savings on a marriage that unfortunately fails,” said Grace Fu of Jurong GRC, adding though that this has happened in some local marriages too. The fear of having what little savings they have depleted by opportunistic wives makes Anthony Toh, 42, wary of the dating game. The customer service operator described the strategy employed by some foreign women here as “seduce and slaughter”. “Even if you have not much money, they still want you to pay for everything,” he said. Steven Low, 37, who is unem- ployed, had this advice for bachelors: “Overseas girls have fewer expectations. But if you meet the girl at a disco, better run.” His girlfriend from China, whom he met at a pub, dumped him after he lost his job in 2007. They had been dating for seven years. For Dr Tan Ern Ser, the issue is about sustainability. “While romance is not about dollars and cents, most people do need to consider the costs of settling down, setting up home and bringing up children before they take the plunge,” said the assistant professor of sociology at the National University of Singapore. Ta n a n d M P s s u g g e s t e d changing social attitudes to h e l p m e n a n d wo m e n e s c a p e the lonely hearts club. “Persuade women to lower their expectations, and encourage men to upgrade themselves,” said Tan. “There are some who would argue that love conquers all, including stigma and poverty.” Chan Soo Sen, MP for Joo Chiat, agreed. “I don’t believe that it all comes down to your paper qualifications—there is also yuan fen or fate,” he said. “If both sides are prepared to give and take, there will be opportunities. Men, you have to be confident to overcome your personal issues.” The men may be more likely to take relationship advice from Tan Kiat Keang, 36, who has been dating someone in Malaysia for two years. Last year, the construction site manager bought a small house in Johor Baru for his girlfriend. He stays with her on weekends; she visits Singapore during the week on her days off. “Find a house you can afford. If Singapore is too expensive, find (it) somewhere else. Women want to know you can give them a stable home,” he said. What about marriage and kids? “Maybe someday, who knows,” said Tan. “For now, if it’s just companionship, I don’t mind it too.” • 37 LIFE By Theresa Tan The Straits Times Bride & Gloom A new study, believed to be the first of its kind, has highlighted the multiple stresses foreign women married to low-income Singaporean men face M PH OTO I LLUSTRATIO N: D E SM O ND W E E / THE STRAITS TI ME S ❖ Singapore ay, 26, a salesgirl from China, thought she had found a cosy partner for life while holidaying in Singapore, but matrimony in Singapore turned out to be anything but blissful. Her 47-year-old Singaporean husband— old enough to be her father—unleashes vulgarities and rains punches on her when he is in a foul mood, according to a disturbing newly released study, believed to be the first of its kind here. May (not her real name) had accepted his marriage proposal, hoping he would treat her well, even though she hardly knew him. He turned out to be a gambler who peddles illegal VCDs for a living. But May fears that if she leaves him, she will never see their fouryear-old son again. Her husband could cancel her long-term visit pass and she would be sent home to China, without her son. So she tolerates the abuse for her son’s sake. She is one of a growing number of foreign brides marrying low-income Singaporean men, often with heartbreaking consequences. Her plight is highlighted in the new study by Beyond Social Services, which found that these foreign brides are often poor, isolated from the rest of the community and live in fear of being deported back home and separated from their children, should their husbands decide to cancel their long-term visit passes. What aggravates their situation is that these brides cannot work to support their families, when their 38 • husbands are unable to, unless they can find a boss willing to apply for a work permit for them. According to the National Population Secretariat, in 2009, of all marriages involving at least one Singapore citizen, 41 per cent involved a foreigner, up from 31 per cent in 1999. Of these marriages that year, 78 per cent—about 6,900—were between local grooms and foreign brides, most of whom were Asian. The men marrying foreign women also tend to be older. In 2008, the proportion of local men aged 40 and above who wed foreign women was 35 per cent, almost double the 18 per cent in 1998, the National Population Secretariat has reported. Observers say one reason could be the mushrooming of commercial matchmaking agencies promoting Vietnamese and Chinese brides, which started organising whirlwind matchmaking tours to Viet Nam around 2000. Another is that the price of procuring a foreign bride has fallen sharply in recent years, making it a more affordable option for more men in Singapore. Mark Lin, 49, the boss of Singapore Viet Nam Brides Matchmaker, has matched at least 200 Vietnamese women with local husbands here since he set up shop in 2002. He used to charge a S$16,000 (US$12,680) fee, which included a six-day tour to Viet Nam to find a bride, but has since slashed his fee by half to S$8,000 (US$6,340). The reason: He started flying Vietnamese women to his office in Singapore to make it easier for the men to pick a wife. Price-cutting and competition are intense, he says. Besides the more than 10 agencies offering matchmaking services with Vietnamese brides, he says an untold number of Vietnamese women have jumped into the fray, arranging such unions from their homes. ◆ Uncertain status The Immigration and Checkpoints Authority (ICA) told The Straits Times that marriage to a Singaporean does not automatically qualify a foreigner for longterm stay, permanent residence or citizenship. An ICA spokesman said: “Among other things, the ability of the sponsor to support his or her foreign spouse financially, whether the marriage is legally in order and good conduct records of both applicant and sponsor are important considerations.” In the past five years, 14 per cent of such applications by foreign spouses were rejected, deputy prime minister Wong Kan Seng revealed in parliament last year. But the government has quietly put some safety measures in place. With the growing number of local people marrying foreigners, in 2007, the ministry of community development, youth and sports (MCYS) started printing brochures listing agencies these brides can turn to for help, in four languages—English, Chinese, Bahasa Indonesia and Vietnamese. Last year, the MCYS also roped in three agencies to run marriage preparation courses for couples where one half is a foreigner. ◆ Cut off and afraid This could prevent future heartache for foreign brides like Jane, a heartbreaking case recorded by Beyond Social Services. The 29-year-old from the Indonesian island of Batam met her first Singaporean husband—14 years her senior—through a matchmaker. He turned out to be an alcoholic and drug addict who could not hold March 8-21, 2011 UNCERTAIN FUTURE: Foreign brides on long-term visit passes in Singapore live in fear of being deported home any time and separated from their children if their abusive husbands apply to cancel their passes. down a job. When he was jailed for five years for drug use, she divorced him, taking their two children with her. She then stayed with friends, as her husband had sold their flat when he could not keep up with payments. Jane is on a long-term visit pass, which means she can neither work nor rent a flat from the stateowned Housing Board (HDB) at highly subsidised rates on her own. She married another Singaporean, hoping he would provide for her, but he too was jailed for 14 years for drug-related offences, but not before fathering another child with her. The frequent moves to find shelter affected her three children’s education as she could not always send them to school. They also lacked proper meals. Down and out, she succumbed to drugs to relieve her stress and was caught by the police. She is now awaiting sentencing and worries what will happen to her children if she is sent to jail. According to the study, children add another layer of stress and complexity to these cases of marital misery. Many foreign brides live in dread of being deported, and separated from their children, in the event that their husbands cancel their long-term visit passes. Some also worry incessantly about what would happen to them and their children if their husbands die, or get jailed and no one sponsors their stay in Singapore. It does not help that many of March 8-21, 2011 these women feel all alone in Singapore—socially and culturally. ◆ New social underbelly? Other social service agencies interviewed also report a growing number of foreign brides asking for financial aid and legal assistance after being abused or abandoned by their husbands. Last year, 32 foreign wives called women’s advocacy group, Association of Women for Action and Research (Aware), for help, more than treble the number—10—who did so in 2009. The Archdiocesan Commission for the Pastoral Care of Migrants and Itinerant People (ACMI), a Catholic group that assists distressed foreigners, saw 11 new cases of foreign brides approaching them for help in the first two months of this year alone. It saw 20 such cases last year and 37 in 2009. Social workers say many of these problems start because of the short— and in some cases, non-existent— period the couples dated before they wed. And the mismatch in expectations—the husbands usually want obedient, submissive wives, while foreign women expect good providers—often lead to disastrous endings. Many of the men who seek foreign brides are blue-collar workers in their 40s and 50s, with little earning power. Many of their wives, who married for a meal ticket out of poverty, realise too late that they have ended up with deadbeat husbands who are struggling just to feed themselves, much less their families. But increasingly, those helping foreign brides here are appalled by the callous way some Singaporeans treat their foreign wives. ACMI’s chairman, Mark Goh, 44, says many husbands exploit the fact that the brides are all alone here and totally dependent on them. These men take their wives as “maidscum-sex partners-cum-caregivers for their elderly parents”, ACMI’s Elizabeth Tan, 58, notes. Some foreign women also arrive here to immediate disillusionment and humiliation. Upon arrival, they find their ‘husbands’ are already married to another woman, says Madam Fatimah Eunos, senior social worker at Young Women Muslim Association, who has come across some brides in this situation. Above it all, the collateral damage caused to the children born in these rocky marriages is of the utmost concern to those helping distressed foreign wives here. What can be done to ease some of the suffering of these women and their children? In its study, Beyond suggests that the government provide foreign wives with children with some much-needed assurance that they can remain in Singapore to care for their children, even if their husbands cancel their long-term visit passes. Aware, which is preparing a report on the plight of foreign brides, also has a host of ideas to help these women. They include strictly regulating matchmaking agencies and making it mandatory for Singaporeans marrying foreigners to attend premarital counselling with their prospective spouses. But for starters, Goh suggests that the government set up an interagency taskforce to look into the problems foreign brides face. He said: “Foreign wives are a group left out in the cold now.” And if nothing gets done, he and others fear their children will form the new underbelly of society here. • 39 Arts By Nasa Maria Entaban The Star In Pursuit Of Perfection The movie ‘Black Swan’ isn’t just an inspiration for young and talented gymnasts and ballet dancers in Malaysia. It is their way of life L photos by The Star ❖ Kuala Lumpur izzy Ramayah stands with her heels together and toes pointing outward in the most basic of ballet positions, as we converse casually in the hall of her dance studio. This is not a natural standing position for most people, but for Lizzy it is a pose she has ingrained into her graceful bearing since she was very young. Lizzy had her first ballet lesson when she was 3. She is 20 now, has completed a diploma in dance, and still dances every day while teaching part time. For years, she has worked at perfecting her technique, so much so that it has become a part of who she is. “Dance is in everything I do. Even when ballerinas are just walking around casually, they look like they’re dancing,” says Lizzy, from Malaysia’s Selangor. “It becomes a part of us.” Many young people take up a performing art at some point in their lives, but few actually pursue the 40 • endeavour well into their teenage years and adulthood. Those who do lead a structured life of schedules, routines and rules, many of which they set themselves. Perfection is the end goal. However, the journey is not for everyone. People who have never taken up a discipline like music or dance may not fully understand the lifestyle these young people lead, having only a glimpse into their “world” through television and movies. Anyone who has seen Black Swan, in which Natalie Portman plays a ballerina who strives for perfection at the expense of her sanity, may wonder if this actually happens to young people in real life. In Perfect Body, a movie about an Olympic gymnast, the protagonist develops an eating disorder, succumbing to the pressures of attaining the perfect physique. Dancers who have watched Portman’s potrayal of a ballerina can relate to her challenges to a certain extent, but emphasise that striking a balance is important. Emma Shu-Ern Tan has been doing rythmic gymnastics since she was seven. “The pressure can get to be too much, you have to know when to take a step back,” shared Lizzy. “At the same time, you can’t stop learning or practising, it is a constant challenge to improve yourself but also not lose yourself in the art.” At Aurora Dance School in Subang Jaya, Selangor, where Lizzy is studying to get her teaching certificate, she does stretches in one studio while children as young as five dance on their toes to piano music in the next studio. “These days, you can start lessons as young as two years of age,” comments Lizzy as we watch the little ones in their tutus and leotards. This was the case for 14-year-old Jeremie Wen-Jian Gan, who started ballet pretty much as soon as he could walk, encouraged by his mother who runs Serena Ballet School in Klang, Selangor. “I was two-and-a-half years old when I started. My life was all about ballet as my mother taught classes, so I came along and took it up,” said Jeremie, whose nine-year-old brother also does ballet. March 8-21, 2011 When he jumps and splits, he is as graceful as his female counterparts, and just as hardworking. Sometimes, he practises for two to three hours a day. Being a male ballet dancer, he gets a lot of questions from his peers, but he says he has gotten used to it over the years. “Ballet is my life, and even though it can be stressful, I don’t ever want to stop,” said Jeremie. Years of repeating the same moves, making dance techniques a part of their daily movements, and having a fixed routine to stick to also make Sue-Ann Lim Boon Yen says she feels like she becomes a different person when she dances, but she doesn’t lose herself. right, but also taking on a role and telling a story. “Ballet is a very disciplined form of art. If you stop even for a few weeks, it will take months to regain your flexibility and agility,” said Sue-Ann. “You need control, patience, discipline and structure.” Twelve-year-old Emma Shu-Ern Tan spends three hours every Saturday and Sunday at rhymic gymnastics training, and goes for fitness training for two hours on Tuesdays and Thursdays. She has been a gymnast since she was seven, and has recently started Ballet is Jeremie Wen-Jian Gan’s passion and he hopes to travel the world as a dancer when he finishes school. for disciplined teens. competing in “I know if I have to inter-school finish my homework, I tournaments. have to finish my home“I enjoy it very work,” says Jeremie’s much. I wanted to ballet classmate, Tan Jade do gymnastics Xi, 17. “Pushing myself to because I watched excel in dance from a competitions on young age has taught me TV and wanted to to push myself in school learn how to do all and exams as well.” the moves and Nineteen-year-old become really Sue-Ann Lim Boon Yen flexible,” said says that she feels like she Emma, who also becomes a different person goes for swimming when she dances, but that classes and piano Lizzy Ramayah has been a ballerina she doesn’t lose herself. lessons. since she was three “If anything, I think Pianist and cellist years old and still ballet has made me more Jasmine Phang Li practises every day expressive, and definitely Shun is currently to perfect her art. more disciplined,” says the pursuing a diploma pharmacology student, in piano perforwho has been learning ballet since mance while attending school and she was seven years old. studying for the SPM examination. Sue-Ann loved Black Swan, saying it She attends music classes inspired her; and gave a deeper several times a week at Internameaning to ballet, which to her is tional Music House Academy in more than just getting the technique Kuching, Sarawak, where she March 8-21, 2011 scores top grades and is a regular fixture at concerts and events. Although taking up music was initially her parents’ idea, Jasmine has developed a strong passion for the art. “My parents suggested that I either take up music or go for tuition classes to occupy my free time. So, I chose music and I am glad I made the right choice,” said Jasmine, who has been playing the piano since she was nine. She practises her piano and cello for at least an hour a day, and up to three hours when exams draw near. “I will never stop playing the piano because of my love and passion for music.” Apart from having to perfect their technique, dancers also adhere to a strict lifestyle to keep their figures lean. Having lived her teenage years and early 20s as a competitive gymnast, Sarina makes sure that the girls who go into the field know what they are getting into. “These are sacrifices they have to make, things you have to forgo to be the best in gymnastics, and they know that. Only very few girls are passionate enough about being a gymnast and can deal with the pressure and sacrifices they have to make,” she said. Being light on your feet in ballet is a must, and Lizzy says she doesn’t eat anything after 8pm. “I’m hungry all the time, so I snack a lot throughout the day on muesli bars, and I’m consistent with my meal times,” says Lizzy, who also goes to the gym regularly. She stresses, however, that she doesn’t know of any extreme dieting cases among her friends in Malaysia, unlike the ones she encountered in Australia during ballet camps while she was pursuing her diploma. “The dancers there are under immense pressure, and many were bulimic and anorexic because they were obsessed with being thin and light,” Lizzy noted. “There isn’t much of that here though, ballet isn’t a huge thing in Malaysia, not yet.” • 41 ENTERTAINMENT INDIA By Arpa Ghosh The Statesman Tired Of Being Macho Akshay Kumar Male bonding and friendship is not yet making a comeback in Bollywood movie plots I ❖ Mumbai ndian action star Sanjay Dutt’s good-humoured drawl caught my attention on FM. In an inter view, Dutt was saying, yes, Dutt’s bond with actor Arshad Warshi was pretty awesome, something that none of his screen characters had ever shared with another man. Dutt’s comment reminded me that male friendship— such a strong and popular theme in literature and film—has perhaps had its day. The feel-good factor of two muscular, able-bodied men clasped in a bond of brotherhood, commitment and trust, inseparable in good times and bad, celebrating life and ready to die for each other, and renewing viewers’ confidence in humanity, was an affirmative screen experience in the ‘70s and early ‘80s. Strangely, the superstar with the longest career, Amitabh Bachchan, built his career on movies about male 42 • bonding. Frankly, where would Amitabh be without Pran (Zanjeer) Rajesh Khanna (Anand, Namak Haram), Dhramendra (the inimitable Sholay and the also ran Ram Balram), Shashi Kapoor (Do Aur Do Paanch) and Amjad Khan (Yarana)? Here, Bachchan’s co-stars Vinod Khanna, Shashi Kapoor, Randhir Kapoor and Rishi Kapoor were his brothers. But even then, audiences will concede, the interaction between screen characters spoke of comradeship rather than kinship. Bachchan’s looks and personality facilitated the repetition of the theme of male bonding in film after film. The swarthy, rugged six-footer with the exciting baritone was a delicious audio-visual foil for the fair-skinned, aristocratic (in mainstream cinema, aristocracy is all about fair-skin), softspoken, cultured demeanour of Rajesh Khanna and the Kapoors (Rishi, Shashi and Randhir). In Zanjeer, Amitabh is a police officer who is befriended by a Pathan March 8-21, 2011 MALE FRIENDSHIP: In the movie ‘Dostana’, the friendship between John Abraham (left) and Abishek Bachchan (right) was threatened when they fell in love with the same woman. adventurer inhabiting the twilight zone of law and lawlessness. In Anand, he is the stiff-martinet doctor moved by the joie de vivre of dying cancer patient Rajesh Khanna. In Namak Haram he is a rich man’s spoilt son indulged by his bosom pal who ultimately dies for his whim. In Sholay, Ram Balram and Do Aur Do Paanch, Amitabh and friends are smalltime criminals replete with warm humanity inhabiting the fringe of civil life. This holds good for Qurbani also. In Dostana, Yarana and Bemisal, on the other hand, the friends are educated professionals whose careers clash with friendship for a while, but in the long run friendship wins. Notably, the women in these movies are on the fringe of the bustle zone. Their function, leaving aside the pomp and glamour that has always been the mainstay of feminine screen presence, is that of caregiver and comforter. The “real work” is a man’s work, whether it belongs to the grey zone of crime or the sombre province of professional jealousy or rapport: entrepreneur versus union leader (Namak Haram), lawyer versus police inspector (Dostana), or doctor versus patient (Anand). Women inhabit the periphery of such worlds, as secretary to boss, nurse to doctor, and muse to knight in shining armour. In the ‘80s, women were never in the middle of action, given their delicate constitutions (toned bodies were not an option) and the stereotyped ideal of Indian womanhood as mother, sister, daughter, wife and sweetheart. If anything, March 8-21, 2011 MEN’S WORLD: Does male bonding have a place in macho Bollywood? they prepare themselves for familiar roles ahead, taking time off to dance round trees and romance the hero in his free time, generally cooling their heels till the action culminates in death or reunion. The Hindi movie of late ‘70s to ‘80s specialised in wholesome family entertainment with dollops of violence. The tickets were low-priced and unemployment rampant (a fact that had metropolitan youth queue for tickets and watch the films many times). Community life was bound by the unities of time, place and action as global citizenship was not yet a reality. And television was monochrome in its technology and appeal. The 35mm screen had a mesmeric appeal impossible to resist. The late ‘70s and early ‘80s were the time when women were portrayed as passive, sensuous and weak, in need of male protection a n d g u a rd i a n s h ip . T h e wo m a n evoked love but not comradeship that could only be sought in another member of the same sex. Contemporary gay studies have queered the pitch by inserting the question of sexual love between Socrates and his disciples, Shakespeare and his fair friend, and even Sherlock Holmes and his poker-faced friend Watson! From what we hear, Jay-Veeru (Sholay) is a composite gay icon of certain gay groups, and Akshay Kumar and Saif Ali received congratulatory messages from gay clubs after their perfectly innocuous portrayal of good friends in Main Khiladi Tu Anari. This is a comparatively new development. The firm belief of the cusp movies was platonic, that is, what a man could share with another in the way of macho companionship, male jocularity and antifeminist criticism, he could never share with a woman. A number of recent slapstick comedies have endorsed the theme of male friendship in which erring males are out for each other, make love by proxy and draw veils over others’ peccadilloes, examples being the Golmaal series and No Entry, among a rash of sex-coms. Male friendship in these movies is a far cry from the lofty ideals of the seventies-eighties cusp. It is in line with the new F-word—a threat to be combated by stout feminine intelligence and resourcefulness. Gone is the idealism and self-sacrificing large-heartedness associated with male friendship. What has emerged in recent times is a farcical ganging up of weak-kneed pleasure-loving males for the purpose of indulgences related to sex and good life. The combined battle against evil and healthy companionship has given way to an acquisitive, egotistic give and take. Male friendship in recent movies is an evil entente to be feared rather than cherished. Does this bode well for the woman? Surprisingly, yes. The millennium heroine is a force to reckon with in these insipid comedies. The woman is a queen-bee with power, beauty, status and influence and has to be humoured by her drone-like male partner. We have indeed come a long way since the Bachchan starrers. But then, times have changed too. • 43 By Yasminka Lee Asia News Network 2AM After School 4Minute Straight E From The K-pop Factory ❖ Bangkok To the unINITIATED ear and eyes, K-pop songs all sound the same, and K-pop groups all look the same 44 • veryone’s into Korean pop, except me it seems. Last month, I got a crash course on K-pop at a Korean Wave concert with practically almost all the big names accounted for: CNBlue, Girls’ Generation, Wonder Girls, FT Island, 2PM, 2AM, Beast, Miss A, Son Dambi, After School, SG Wannabe, Brown Eyed Girls, Secret, Sistar, 4Minute, MBLAQ , Norazo and TVXQ (Yunho and Changmin). Of course, to a non-K-pop fan like me, these names didn’t mean anything but to the teenagers who flocked to the Rajamangla stadium in Bangkok, they were everything. Many of them even paid 6,000 baht (US$198) just to see their favourite stars up close. And only for an average of three numbers each group. The seated and standing zones that were closest to the stage were filled with teens waving either light sticks or pictures of their pop idols. I tried to identify them but failed miserably, and the only time I empathised was when they started the show with an introduction of the dramas that Korean TV network MBC—one of the sponsors—has produced. All right, I may not be hopeless when it comes to Korean pop culture after all. I know some of the drama stars, but the thing is, none of them were there that night except for that dude who played a support role in the recent modern royal love story drama My Princess. And even then, I don’t know his name and wasn’t sure if he was from 2AM or 2PM (a check showed he’s from B2ST). And that’s one beef I have with all these K-pop groups. What exactly is the difference between 2AM and 2PM, aside from 12 hours in between them? And why make spelling their names that March 8-21, 2011 Girls’ Generation complicated when you can just say BEAST (for B2ST) and TO ANYONE (for 2NE1). Don’t even get me started on why TVXQ is sometimes known as DBSK, not that it matters when the group has already disbanded and all that’s left in the original group are Yunho and Changmin (so perhaps they can consider a name change too?). The show started with B2ST and I would have been proud to tell my immediate teenage neighbours—who at that time were screaming their heads off—I know one of them because he appeared in this drama, if only they didn’t look all the same to my untrained eyes. I was trying to spot the guy all through the group’s three numbers but it was an epic fail. Thank goodness there was a short video introduction before each segment, perhaps for non-fans like me though it wasn’t really necessary since I must have been the only clueless soul in the gigantic stadium that night. But even with the introduction, I still had to tap my pink sisters, I mean, the teens seated next to me in their pink dresses with the Lady Gaga-inspired headbands, to ask who was performing onstage. “SISTAAH!” one screamed at my ear. “WHO? TIARA?” I thought I was smart to remember a Korean group named “Tiara” (of course it’s Kara, the only no-show in the line-up that night). She shook her head and wrote on March 8-21, 2011 MBLAQ my iPad, as if not trusting I would be able to spell the name correctly. She was right, I would have spelled it “Sister”. I found out they were fans of Girls’ Generation so they wore pink. Earlier, I was puzzled how come SNSD was not among the names being mentioned onstage that night and I was to learn later that Girls’ Generation also go by SNSD. Sigh, I never thought K-pop was this complicated. Meantime, the teens standing behind me were all screaming and waving their light sticks in the air as another group came onstage: MBLAQ. It stands for Music Boys Live in Absolute Quality (OK, I don’t know which is more funny, this or Japanese pop’s SMAP, which stands for Sports Music Assemble People, but that’s for another column). The fans sang along to the English words in the chorus, shouting “Oh yeah!!!” and “Come back!!!” while I was thinking, oh no, please don’t. When CNBlue came onstage, I paid more attention because many of my friends are fans of this group. And I discovered to my pleasant surprise—and relief—that this was not going to be another song-anddance number straight from the factory. CNBlue is actually a band and they brought the audience up on their feet with their rousing numbers I wouldn’t have minded if they performed till the end. But of course they didn’t and I watched with increasingly glazed eyes as another generic girl group with the unimaginative name of Secret came onstage. By the time 2AM and 2PM performed, I was seriously lost. Thanks to Nichkhun though, not exactly totally lost. At least I could differentiate which was 2AM and 2PM. I was getting bored I started asking the people around me if they understood what they were singing. They shook their heads but still sang anyway. At least they were having fun while all I could think of was to run as a plethora of pop stars came onstage one after another, as if on a factory assembly line. The music started to sound monotonous to my K-pop uninitiated ear and a migraine was coming. Not only that, an eye strain too, trying to spot the difference between all these groups. I had hopes that things would improve at the show’s second half when After School came out performing with drums. But as soon as they ditched the drums, I could no longer tell the difference among them. Girls’ Generation, Wonder Girls, Brown Eyed Girls—they’re all like Barbie dolls in a generic mold. I couldn’t even wait for “old school” K-pop—TVXQ—and made a beeline for the factory’s showroom exit. asianpopdom@gmail.com • 45 PEOPLE By Boon Chan The Straits Times Photo by KI M JAE-H WAN/AFP Won Bin with 10-year-old co-star Kim Sae Ron arrives at the Busan film festival last year. Uncle Won Bin The Korean idol plays guardian to a little girl in recent movie E ❖ Singapore ven heart-throbs have to turn into uncles someday. For Korean actor Won Bin, that day has probably arrived sooner than expected. In his latest film, the 33-year-old actor-model plays a highly skilled ex-special ops agent who is out to save a little girl, who is his only friend, from organ traffickers. The Man From Nowhere has a more endearing if much less cool Korean title: Ahjussi (Uncle). For that is what the little girl Soon Mee calls her older friend. Won Bin admits via an e-mail interview: “When she called me ‘Uncle’ for the first time, it was a bit awkward, but I soon got used to it. I am old enough to be called an uncle now.” The poignant relationship between his character Cha Tae Sik and Soon Mee, played by 10-year-old Kim Sae Ron, attracted him to the film. He also liked that Tae Sik is a 46 • character with a traumatic past, “who isolated himself from the world because of that trauma”. But as this was his first action movie, he was not cavalier about his preparatory work for the physically demanding sequences. In the movie, he showed off a well-toned body. Seven months before shooting commenced, he started physical training, which included picking up “Southeast Asian martial arts”. He says of the adrenaline-pumping scenes: “I like moving about and sweating. I felt like I was playing a game doing the action scenes. I hadn’t done this sort of action movie before, so it was tough for me physically. It also felt like I was learning something new.” He points out that the movie with a vengeance theme did not portray action for its own sake. He says: “Tae Sik is a man of very few words and I thought that he could also use his body to speak his mind. And I wanted the action to seem more than action and rather be heard as his words.” The thoughtful actor’s breakthrough role was a rich and spoilt young man in the hit weepie TV series Autumn In My Heart (2000). Subsequently, instead of coasting along on idol dramas, he often defied expectations with his choice of roles. He went gritty for the war film Taegukgi (2004) and in B o n g Jo o n Ho’s crime drama Mother (2009), he played the role of the mentally unstable son. For his turn in the violent actionthriller The Man From Nowhere, Won Bin was named best actor at the 2010 Korea Film Awards. While it certainly seems like he has a plan when it comes to picking roles, he says his choices were “never on purpose”. Upon reflection, he says his roles are similar in one respect: “The roles I’ve played till now have been humane. They have always had an affinity with other people.” Asked if being good-looking makes it harder for him to be taken seriously as an actor, he responds: “I used to think that way. While I did want to seek a new image and make a change, I chose to do it when I felt confident enough that I could perform the role successfully. I probably would not have been able to perform this role way back then.” He is now confident enough in his craft to be a traditional matinee idol leading man. “I would like to take on a role in a romantic movie, but I haven’t found anything yet. I’m actually not the aggressive type. I’m rather the type that does his best at what he’s been given.” March 8-21, 2011 By The Daily Star Freida’s Hollywood Break Will ‘Miral’ Give Freida Pinto a strong foothold in Hollywood? Freida Pinto in ‘Miral’ March 8-21, 2011 W ❖ Dhaka ith her riveting performance in her new film Miral getting good reviews, Freida Pinto’s Hollywood career may get a push. In the film, Freida plays an orphaned Palestinian teacher growing up in a war-torn Jerusalem camp. The movie, which some Jewish groups claim is “anti-Israel”, is being distributed by Weinstein Brothers. The advertisement for the film boldly declares: “The movie they tried to stop is coming to New York. The protestors did not want the film to have a premiere at the United Nations last week.” “I saw the film as a cry for peace,” Freida said at the Toronto International Film Festival last September. “It will have a special appeal to the younger generation. Peace is the way, Gandhi said, and Rula Jabreal (who looked into her own life for writing the novel) reiterates that idea.” The film is a French, Italian and Israeli production. Miral, which Freida signed soon after Slumdog Millionaire opened, was directed by Julian Schnabel (Oscar nominated for The Diving Bell and the Butterfly) based on Jebreal’s semi-autobiographical novel about the lives of three generations of women in Jerusalem. The film, shown at festivals in Venice, London and Toronto, has done small business in Europe and is not expected, despite the controversy, to be a big success in America. It is, h oweve r, raising Frei- da’s profile. This is her third film after the smash-hit Slumdog Millionaire (earning US$360 million worldwide) and You Will Meet a Tall Dark Stranger. Julian Schnabel told Variety: “If (Israel and Palestine) don’t solve this problem, Israel won’t exist anymore, and I don’t want that to happen. The people who scream the loudest are not necessarily the sanest.” Freida has said that she did not look at it as a political film. For her, it was a story of survival and keeping one’s dignity intact under the most depressing, humiliating and violent circumstances. “Both Schnabel and writer Rula unanimously decided that I should do the film,” Freida said. Rula guided her to know Palestinian families and arranged for her to spend a couple of days with a family. Having the writer on the sets and at locations, Freida said, spurred her determination to give her best to the film. “I felt I had to do justice to this amazing woman,” she said. She told British newspaper The Independent that she knew of the Palestine-Israeli conflict from the newspapers but visiting the occupied areas gave her rare insights. “One of my friends is a lawyer and she knew a lot about the conflict, so I took note of what she said, but until you go there, nobody understands the human side,” Freida said. “That’s when I decided I’m going to leave the politics of this alone and am going to work on the human story.” She has said that even though Slumdog’s gritty scenes had prepared her for a tough new film, she still found the scenes of interrogation of Arab suspects by the Israeli military unnerving. She asked Jabreal if the script reflected the reality and if the beatings were really horrendous. She remembered the novelist saying it happened “but a lot worse.” • 47 PEOPLE By Zhang Haizhou and Zhang Chunyan China Daily Hitting The Right Note Chinese violinist Analiza Ching’s distinctive style turns heads V Photo by C hina Daily ❖ London irtuoso violinist Analiza Ching makes heads turn when she walks into the room. Not only is her music captivating, she also looks vivacious and dresses fashi o n a b l y. T h e y o u n g Chinese musician is redefining the way the violin is played and giving it a more contemporary feel. Ten years ago when Ching first went to London to study music, she was an ordinary teenager who wanted to make a mark in the world of music. She joined the Royal Academy of Music (RAM), but found the road was not smooth. She was alone in an alien city, with no friends or family members, and very little money. To m a k e m a t t e r s worse, her language proficiency was just the bare minimum. “I could only speak words like ‘hi’ and ‘how are you’. Coming to the UK was certainly a big adventure,” Ching says. B ut d r ive n by t h e d e s i re to make a mark on the music scene, C h i n g re f u s e d to give u p and continued her quest. Apart from practicing music for eight hours daily, Ching supplemented her meager earnings through performances in shows and by giving private tuition to children 48 • in her neighbourhood. That hard work seems to have paid off. Ten years later, Ching has given several solo performances. Sitting in the China Tang restau- rant in the Dorchester, one of London’s best-known hotels, Ching says she plans to launch her first music album, “The Shadow of Love”, later this year. “Shadow lends a bit of mystery, while love is what everybody wants and needs,” she says in clear British accent about the album, sipping a cup of jasmine tea. On her left forearm, she wears a red beaded bracelet, a symbol of luck in Chinese culture. Ching says that she co-composed all the 13 tunes on the album. “The music is rich and comes with a lot of passion. It is not just beautiful and relaxing music, but very beautiful, exciting and relaxing classical music,” she says. Ching has performed twice for the royal family. Her royal connection began after she performed a classical recital for Prince Edward and other royal family members in 2007 at Windsor Castle. It was a crowning moment for her when she was introduced to Prince Andrew. “He shook hands with me, thanked me for my performance, and enquired about my life at RA M , a n d sa i d h e h ad never heard any violinist who could play as fast as me,” Ching says. She has also played on several important events like the recent concert to commemorate the 50th anniversary of the Beatles at the Royal Albert Hall, the mecca for musicians. On that occasion, she played the legendary Liverpool band’s classic tune “Yesterday”, in her own distinctive style, along with the Royal Philharmonic Orchestra. Ching also performed at the opening ceremony of London Fashion Week 2011 in February. British magazines and publications consider her “one of the most outstanding new musical personalities seen for a long time”, while the audiences who have seen her play called her an “emerging talent” and “dramatic violinist”. “Music was always in my blood,” she says. March 8-21, 2011 By Hwang Jurie The Korea Herald Park Is Back After controversy forced him out of boy group 2PM, Park Jae-beom is back with a new album M ❖ Seoul any reasons have been suggested as to why he bolted from 2PM in his heyday, including “bad online publicity” and a “private blunder”. Now the K-pop singer and b-boy, Park Jae-beom, has finally spoken up. In an exclusive interview with The Korea Herald, he said his abrupt departure was not caused by one reason alone. “There is more to it than the story people know,” he said during his shoot for the upcoming music video “Abandoned” at a studio in Gyeonggi province. The former 2PM leader, 23, left Korea in September 2009 after bolting the group amid a quarrel that erupted over his criticism of Korea, which he posted on his personal MySpace account four years prior to their debut. Six months after the scandal hit in March 2010, Park Jin-young, CEO of JYP Entertainment to which Jaebeom belonged recalled that he could not keep Jae-beom from bolting from the boy band due to his determination to take responsibility for his behaviour. Park Jin-young later made a folMarch 8-21, 2011 low-up announcement, stating that the agency had terminated its exclusive contract with Jay, as Jae-beom is also called, due to a “personal wrongdoing”, sealing his departure from the agency. Since then, he has been busy with his new album and movie releases. “I didn’t really run away... There was a lot of different ways I could have handled the situation but that’s just how I handled it. Maybe I was wrong, and maybe I wasn’t. I don’t really regret it,” Park said. “I just said a lot of stupid things when I was younger. And, no, I don’t think they were too harsh. Everything happens for a reason, people make mistakes, and I made a mistake. It just depends on how you learn from it. If you can grow from it and become a better person; at the end of the day it’s all good. When I look back at myself, I was just negative, ignorant and immature back then.” Park has left an official apology message on his Daum online fan community website to 2PM and his former agency, JYP, saying he was sorry for causing trouble for 2PM and that it was regrettable that he disappointed his management. After Park’s apology, the influen- tial Korean Federation of Pop Culture and Art Industry issued a statement, allowing the singer to appear on Korean music shows. Up until now, under SidusHQ Entertainment, Park was unable to promote his album on Korean TV music shows due to an apparent ban imposed against him. The 19 months soon after the scandal found Park doing fan meetings in Thailand, Malaysia, Singapore, Philippines and Indonesia. He also worked at a tire shop in Seattle for four months for about US$10 an hour. “I just didn’t want to live off my parents’ money. I just chilled with my friends and was busy with b-boy battles and things like that. Lately, I have been working on my new album, and was also busy shooting the movie, Hype Nation. I’ve participated in b-boy competitions as a member of a b-boy crew called Art of Movement (AOM),” he said. He’s currently working on his album—which will have a lot of hiphop and R&B—slated for release this month. “As for my future goal, I don’t really set goals. I’m just trying to do this for my fans and do what I want to do.” • 49 DATEBOOK JAPAN Hana Matsuri T H A I L AND Songkran Festival The biggest festival of the kingdom will leave you wet as Thais celebrate the Buddhist New Year with buckets of water to splash on everyone. Thais roam the streets with containers of water or water guns. Since this is in the middle of the summer months, they also put cooling powder on every passerby. You have to arm yourself with a water gun or a bucket of water to get even. Traditionally, Songkran is a time to pay respects to the elders, visit temples and families. When: April 13-15 Where: Throughout Thailand GOA SI N GAPORE Procession of All Saints Film Fest For Kids The procession starts out at the Church of St. Andrew in Old Goa, India. Thirty-one life-sized statues are borne on the shoulders of local devotees and taken in a solemn procession around the whole village. A family party atmosphre takes over in the evening as the main road comes to life with stalls selling sweets, snacks and toys. Young film buffs will have something to look forward to when the inaugural Singapore International Children’s Film Festival rolls around. The event is curated specifically for children and will showcase a total of more than 55 kid-friendly short films. Organised by media company Paperbear Productions, it will categorise all of the films into one of five programmes according to recommended age groups. For children who wish to showcase their own creativity, the festival is holding a film-making competition for five- to 16-yearolds. Budding film-makers stand to win pocket video cameras. When: April 11 Where: Old Goa Info: www.Goa-tourism.com H ONG KO NG Entertainment Expo 2011 Featuring key events highlighting Hong Kong’s world of film, TV, digital entertainment and music, attracting leading players in Asia’s entertainment industry, this annual expo provides a platform for screenings, recognition of industry excellence as 50 • Temples throughout Japan are packed during Hana Matsuri as people gather to celebrate the birth of Buddha. Small halls covered with flowers are built inside the temples and locals pour sweet tea on the head of Buddha statue inside. When: April 8 Where: Throughout Japan Each work must not be longer than 30 minutes. The event will also have workshops on scriptwriting and acting. When: May 15 to 22 Where: The Arts House Info: www.bigeyesbigminds.com, hoots@bigeyesbigminds.com Tickets: US$9 (each film); US$15 to $35 (workshops) well as concluding business deals. 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