A MIXER OR A MIKVEH?
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A MIXER OR A MIKVEH?
1 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~January 30 2009 Newspaper Community כאן צוה ה’ את הברכה January 30, 2009 | Shevat 5, 5769 תשס”ט | בס”ד, פרשת נא | ה' שבט weekly vOL. Ii | NO 14 YUD SHEVAT THE BEGINNING OF THE REBBE'S NESIUS PAGE 10 WHAT IS A REBBE? PAGE 11 YUD SHEVAT CUSTOMS PAGE 11 RABBI YOSEF YITZCHOK SHNEERSON PAGE 12 GOAL OF MIVTZOIM PAGE 12 A MIXER OR A MIKVEH? Page 6 BORUCH...MATIR ASURIM Hagaon Hachossid Horav Chaim Meir Bukiet OUR DAVENING HAS BORNE FRUIT! SHOLOM RUBASHKIN WAS RELEASED ON BAIL. Beis Din of Crown Heights 390A Kingston Avenue, Brooklyn, NY Tel- 718~604~8000 Fax: 718~771~6000 Rabbi A. Osdoba: ❖ Monday to Thursday 10:30AM - 11:30AM at 390A Kingston Ave. ☎Tel. 718-604-8000 ext.37 or 718-604-0770 Sunday-Thursday 9:30 PM-11:00PM ~Friday 2:30PM-4:30 PM ☎Tel. (718) - 771-8737 Rabbi Y. Heller is available daily 10:30 to 11:30am ~ 2:00pm to 3:00pm at 788 Eastern Parkway # 210 718~604~8827 ❖ & after 8:00pm 718~756~4632 Rabbi Y. 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Chirik: ☎ 718~604~8000 ext 38 ❖ Sun~Thu: 5:00pm to 9:00pm 2 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~January 30 2009 The Vaad Hakohol REBBE'S STORY Enhancing Achievement Reprinted from the book To Know and To Care - Volume 1 Published and copyright © by Sichos in English “W hen one tells a story about his Rebbe he connects to the deeds of the Rebbe” (Sichos 1941 pg. 68) “I consider it my pleasure and duty to help others benefit from an association with the Rebbe, just as I have benefited in both my business and “For the past twenty-odd years, since I had first met the Rebbe, my life can be described as a pocket full of miracles,” says Mr. David Chase, one of America’s foremost businessmen. “And I don’t mean only in my business endeavors. To the contrary, the greatest miracle of them may have been my ability to appreciate the message that the Rebbe conveys. My relationship with the Rebbe has given me and many others a sensitivity to matters which are beyond ordinary mortal understanding. For this reason, over the years, I have committed myself to advancing the Rebbe’s work in many areas and to different people. “The Rebbe’s directives are so far-reaching and never ending. The Rebbe himself once described his ‘insatiable appetite’ for ongoing Jewish activity. Perhaps it is the Rebbe’s total lack of self-concern and constant devotion to the welfare of others that has motivated me to regard my Lubavitch activity as a cherished labor of love. “As a Holocaust survivor myself, I insisted that his statement be forthright, without minimizing the issue or covering it up with bland diplomatic wording. “Mr. Walesa surprised the Israeli government with his non-evasive statement of regret on behalf of the Polish people. Subsequently, former Prime Minister Shamir was very demanding in several points, including a change in the pro-Arab approach that had been advocated by Poland’s previous Communist leaders and a cessation of arms sales private life. My activities bring me in contact with many public figures around the world, and I do not hesitate to share my experiences with the Rebbe and with his directives with Jews and non-Jews. “I often visit my native land, Poland, where I have business interests. Prior to one trip to Poland, I visited “Once, at the annual meeting of the New York and asked for the Rebbe’s Machne Israel Development Fund, I blessing. The Rebbe handed me told the Rebbe how pleased I was to an additional dollar, saying: “Give be one of the soldiers in his army. this to a person in Poland who will benefit the Jewish people.” “You are not merely a soldier,” the Rebbe replied. “You are my “Due to my business endeavors, I general.” have various contacts in the Polish government, and I contemplated “Some time later, when I came to who would be the proper recipient of receive a dollar on Sunday, I received the Rebbe’s dollar. One day I found a promotion; the Rebbe told me, “I myself aboard a domestic flight regard you as a five-star general.” with the newly elected President Lech Walesa. I had several contacts with Mr. Walesa in the past, and it occurred to me that I would not CommunityNewspaper be able to find a better person to whom to give the Rebbe’s dollar. I 392 Kingston Avenue approached him, handed him the Brooklyn, NY 11225 dollar, and conveyed the Rebbe’s chp5768@gmail.com message. Published & edited weekly by the Vaad Hakohol of Crown Heights. Moshe Rubashkin, Rosh Hakohol Dr. Tzvi (Harvey) Lang, Chairman Rabbi Plotkin, Secretary Layout: SimplyUnique (basmelech@gmail.com) All material in this paper has been copyrighted. It is the exclusive property of this newspaper, unless otherwise attributed., and cannot be reproduced without the consent of the publisher. Composition responsibility: This newspaper will not be liable for errors appearing in advertising, beyond the cost of the space occupied by the error. Advertiser assumes responsibility for errors in telephone orders. All advertisement designed and prepared by the CH Community Newspaper are the property of the newspaper and cannot be reproduced without the consent of the publisher “Though I was not inclined to accept the invitation, I saw this as a further step in enhancing the impact of the Rebbe’s influence on ‘a person who will benefit the Jewish people,’ and I agreed. Mr. Walesa told me he wanted to express the regret of the Polish people for their inexcusable behavior towards the Jews during World War II. “Mr. Walesa looked at me thoughtfully. “I sincerely hope I will be able to live up to your Rebbe’s expectation.” “After this encounter, my acquaintance with Mr. Walesa grew and we became quite friendly. Some time later, Mr. Walesa personally invited me to accompany him on his upcoming visit to Israel. This trip was a major breakthrough in relations between the two countries, and he felt that my inclusion in his delegation would be helpful. to countries hostile to Israel. Despite Poland’s heavy financial loss, one could almost see the Rebbe’s directive at work as Mr. Walesa agreed to one concession after another. “Later, I accompanied him on a visit to the Diaspora Museum, where I pointed out the picture of the Rebbe which is displayed there. “Is this my Rebbe?” Mr. Walesa asked bowing his head in reverence. Mr. Walesa’s response was striking. He was clearly impressed and moved by the Rebbe’s intense gaze. He actually lowered his head as if acknowledging his leadership. “In many other instances, I have been privileged to bring the Rebbe’s message to people who might otherwise not have been exposed to them. The best way we can reciprocate for the good which the Rebbe showers upon us is to express his teachings, ideals, and principles in our daily lives.” January 30, 2009 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 3 The Rebbe's Sicha Parshas Bo A thought for the Week Reprinted from A thought For the how one acts is all that matters. Week Torah declares that the ideal is unity. By Rabbi YM Kagan Man must strive for the perfection that can be achieved only when head, TEFFILLIN: and hand function together in I N S T R U M E N T F O R heart harmony, in accordance with the UNITY Al-mighty’s wishes. The Sedra closes with: “And it shall This critically important inner be as a sign upon your hand and as harmony is expressed in the Mitzva Tefillin between your eyes, for with of Tefillin. Tefillin on the arm near a strong hand G-d brought us out of the heart, with Tefillin on the head, Egypt.”( 1) together fulfill the precept. Ideas, A cardinal concept of Judaism is emotions and actions are to be unity; first of course is Hashem harmonious, the heart’s feelings and Echod — one G-d, and one Torah. the mind’s understanding and the Then there is the ideal of an inner actions of the hand consonant with unity and harmony within every each other. What is more, the very person. There is an outlook that act of putting on Tefillin itself gives encourages indulging the body an infusion of spiritual strength to freely, completely ignoring the soul. the wearer, enabling him to live a Another view is that the body should Torah-life with harmony of head, be mortified to benefit the soul. Juda- hand and heart. ism teaches that the purpose of the TEFILLIN — IN THOSE soul is to guide the healthy body in DAYS accordance with Torah; there must It was at a time that wearing Tefilbe a unity of body and soul. lin was punishable by death by Narrowing the focus down to the the foreign rulers of Israel. The “life of the soul” in particular, again Talmud complains that the level of we find different opinions concernself-sacrifice for the Mitzva was not ing the dominant principle of man’s high enough — as demonstrated by life and moral decisions: Some say “Elisha of the Wings” who earned that man should be guided by the his nickname as follows: He was dictates of his intelligence, rational once walking in the street wearing and objective logic. Others feel he Tefillin, when an officer spotted him should be guided by his heart and and chased him. Elisha took off his emotions. Another group is impahead-Tefillin and held them in his tient with ideas and feelings, insisthand. When the officer overtook ing that the crucial factor is action; Adapted from Shmais.com Engagements him he asked “what is in your hand?” Elisha replied “wings of a dove.” Elisha than opened his hand, and the Tefillin had miraculously been changed to doves’ wings! Because he did not have the moral strength to say that they were Tefillin (though this would have meant certain death) it is apparent to the sages of the Talmud that the feelings of the Tzvi Yehuda Balbin (Melbourne, AU) Weddings to Leah Moss (Sydney, Australia) Shmuly Goldberg (CH) to Dina Shlomo Frosberg (Lomita, CA) to Bryski (North Hollywood, CA) Devorah Leah Hauck (L A, CA) Shmuly Kirsh (Crown Heights) to Eli Goldstein (CH/Dnepr, Ukraine) Chanie Minsky (Crown Heights) to Lea Tonkonog (Ukraine) Sholom Schochet (Toronto, Ont.) Yehoshua Zelig Rivkin (Carmiel, to Goldie Engel (Denver, CO) Israel) to Muki Simpson (CH) Births – Boys Yechiel Yosef Schanowitz (Chicago, Yisroel & Sara Bernath IL) to Sheina Schildkraut (S. 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Thank you Mazal Tov! wood, CA) people towards Tefillin were not as warm as the Mitzva deserved!(2) Moshe Menachem & Shulamis Levinson – Crown Heights Shloimeh & Rivki Nathanson - Melbourne, Australia Shmuel & Chanie Pevzner - Crown Heights Gedalya & Bassie Shemtov - Crown Heights - Asuncion, Paraguay Dovid Chaim & Racheli Gurovich - Crown Heights Yosef & Raizel Schapiro - Crown Heights Bar Mitzvah Dovi Herman - Valley Village, CA Menachem Mendel Liberow - Manchester, UK Yossi & Sara Touger - Monsey, NY Saadia & Devora Yanni - Crown Heights Births – Girls Eli & Nechama Backman – College Park, MD Levi & Miri Feigelstock READ THE CROWN HEIGHTS COMMUNITY NEWSPAPER @ CROWNHEIGHTS.INFO 4 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~January 30 2009 Our Heroes Hagaon Hachossid Horav Chaim Meir Bukiet 1919-27th of Teves 1998 Part I By Rabbi Michoel Seligson Special thank s to R eb Dovid Zaklikowski Hagaon Hachossid Horav Chaim Meir Bukiet was born on the 24th of Menachem Av 1919 in Wislica, Poland, the only child of Horav Hachossid Reb Avrohom Shmuel and Mrs. Rochel Bukiet. The Previous Rebbe established many small chadorim across the Poland, including one in Chmielnik, the town where Chaim Meir was raised. One morning while passing the cheder Chaim Meir’s mother heard the Kol Torah and thought it would be a proper place for her son to learn. The young Chaim Meir learned there for a few years until his father sent him to Tomchei Tmimim in Warsaw, having first inquired about the yeshiva. Chaim Meir grew to be a brilliant and successful student. Concern for His Parents know what was happening at the borders [of Poland and Russia] he While in yeshiva Reb Chaim Meir would not tell the students to flee toward the borders. My mother asked me to stay. I did not want to leave my parents a lone a nd not knowing if the letter was accurate, I stayed. After a while I received a telegram that they were waiting for me in the yeshiva, to leave for Vilna according to the Rebbe’s instr uctions. I decided to go and packed a few small things. My father and I left, headed towards Russia. My ailing mother was unable to join us. Chaim Meir was a diligent student as well. Once asked what his hobbies were as a young child he answered, “I liked to learn what I understood.” suffered from very bad headaches for a number of weeks. He visited the Chaim Meir continued to learn in doctor in his town and was advised the Lubavitch Yeshiva as he became to get more sleep at night. He never older and as the yeshiva moved from told his parents, knowing that this Warsaw to Otwock, Poland, where would cause them concern and he he was among the elite students. At didn’t want to worry them. the age of seventeen he wrote a Torah discussion printed in Hatomim, a Living in Poland was not necessarily magazine published under the direc- comfortable for Jews. Reb Chaim torship of the Previous Rebbe. Meir responded to the question of whether he experienced antiIn later years, one of his grandsons Semitism in Poland, with a personal asked Reb Chaim Meir about the experience. “I will share something Torah article written at such a young that happened to me when I was a age. Reb Chaim Meir recalled. “I bochur in yeshiva. I was once standwrote an essay on the Rambam and ing in the courtyard of the yeshiva someone passed it around the study next to a tree, davening with deep hall. It reached the hands of the concentration. Out of the blue a rock Rosh Yeshiva, the Gaon and Chossid landed on my head. I turned around Rabbi Yehuda Eber, who was also and there was a Polish boy standing one of the editors of Hatomim. He there. I remember how they once asked me if he could publish it and surrounded the yeshiva and tried I agreed.” to break in. There were many other The Rosh Yeshiva Reb Yehuda Eber such occurrences.” would deliver a deep and analytical Previous Rebbe’s Instruction to shiur and immediately after the Leave Poland conclusion of the shiur Reb Chaim Meir would review the shiur for the As WWII approached, Reb Chaim Meir returned home in order that other students. his parents not worry about him. He The students who were together received a letter from a dear friend of with him in the famous Lubavitch his, Reb Menachem Zev Greenglas, Yeshiva in Otwock, Poland attested stating that the Previous Rebbe had to how he would stay up throughout instructed all the students to leave the night learning with his study Poland and head for Vilna, then partners. Rabbi Moshe Baitch, who under Latvian control. was a student in the yeshiva, once related that he remembered how Reb Chaim Meir spoke about those Reb Chaim Meir and Reb Shmuel days. “When I got the letter I showed Dovid Raichik used to learn together it to my mother. She went to a Rabbi with great enthusiasm late into the in the neighboring community. The Rabbi said that if the Rebbe would night. manner in which you act now?!” We left immediately thereafter. A few weeks later my father saw an ad for another gathering in a different location. After his previous experience he didn’t know if he should go. We finally decided to go and this time the meeting was composed of observant Jews. We sat down and they asked my father’s name, and he responded ‘Chaim Meir Bukiet’. Hearing the name, one particular individual related the following. ‘I was with your parents as we entered the train to the concentration camp. I remember I helped your father onto the train, as he was an older man. As I was helping him, he said ‘A dank G-t az Chaim Meir iz nisht do’, ‘Thank G-d that Chaim Meir is not here.’ I remember seeing my father’s face shine as he heard those words, and a big weight [of sorrow] was lifted from his shoulders.” In an interview with the Kfar Chabad weekly, Reb Chaim Meir described his ordeal during WWII. In general, the torture and humiliation that the Leaving his Warsaw Jews endured during the first Family days of the war was horrifying. “It was snowing Searching for the Prev ious strongly that night. By the time we Rebbe left the town my father realized that he couldn’t make it and told me that I “The Germans would persecute should go on by myself. It was Purim families. For example, they would Katan and on the way we met a few kidnap the husbands and send them people. Together we experienced away to work in factories for the great miracles as we passed by the German war effort. One night they German soldiers. I arrived in Warsaw arrested any Jewish woman that on Friday and stayed with a relative they found on the Warsaw streets. who was a great scholar. His whole There were many acts of brutality family was there and there was no against the Jews, collectively and place for me to put down my head individually. and sleep. After Shabbos I left his The Previous Rebbe was then in house and began wandering.” Warsaw. When he heard that the Reb Zalman Bukiet, the Rebbe’s Germans were searching for him, shliach in Boca Raton, Florida he hid in the home of Reb Hirshel recalled. “My father’s mother was Gurary. not comfortable separating from A messenger came with the news her only child and she did not take that they were looking for the Rebbe. it well that he left. So great was her The message was relayed to the pain that she wrote a letter to the Rebbe, including the information Rebbe after my father left Chmielnik that contacts had been established stating, ‘Why did you take away my with people in the United States to only son?’ When my father came to rescue the Rebbe. The Rebbe advised New York, someone told him about that if a messenger came they should the letter and he took it to heart. He allow him into the Rebbe’s room. It always felt bad that he had left his was Shabbos, a knock on the door parents never to see them again. was heard, and Reb Hirshel Gurary In 1986 my father saw an ad publiciz- got up to open the door. Representaing a gathering of the members of tives of the U.S. were at the door. the Chmielnik Jewish community. Right then German agents came to My father decided to go hoping to the house as well. When they saw meet anyone who had information the American representatives the about his parents. He asked me to Germans left. accompany him. We went and to When I came to Warsaw the Previmy father’s astonishment, they were ous Rebbe was still there. In order eating non-kosher food. We sat down to pass from Warsaw into Russia, and my father was asked to speak. one needed to cross the Buk River He noted how they all had the merit to the side under Russian control. to be saved from the war and added Rumor had it that the Russians were in astonishment, “And this is the arresting all Polish citizens who January 30, 2009 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 5 crossed into Russia and were sending them to Siberia. We continued on our way having been directed by the Previous Rebbe. We reached the boundary between the German occupied territory in Poland and Russia, around midnight. The river which was entirely frozen was the only way across. Suddenly we heard screaming and we became very fearful. We also could not locate the guide who was supposed to lead us across the border. Finally, a group of people, all equally lost in the night, gathered and decided to continue together without the guide. We crossed the border and eventually came to Brisk where a Jewish woman, hearing that I was a student of Tomchei Tmimim, immediately invited me to her home. The family Gelstein was a prosperous one that owned a shoe and galoshes factory which they later sold for a good price. We went through a cemetery into a small village, having no idea where we were. We knocked on the door of a non-Jew, who came out to us but did not allow us in. He informed us that we were already in Russian territory and we calmed down. He gave us directions and warned us not to be caught by the police. Upon reaching the city of Ishishuk we eventually found the house of the Rav, also the town’s shochet, and he gave us directions. We smuggled Reb Avraham Shmuel Bukiet ourselves into the train station, were able to purchase food and drink on W hen I entered their home, to the journey, and arrived in the city my surprise I found Horav Arye of Slonim. Leib Kramer and Horav Shloma It was night and all the streets were Hochler, two of my friends from dark. After some searching we were Warsaw who were also en-route successful in finding a shul, where to to Vilna. The Gelstein’s hachnosas our joy we found chassidim sitting orchim remains in my memory until and Farbrenging in honor of Purim this very day. The hosting of three students was a great risk but they Koton. What a delight. did not take that into consideration At that Farbrengen, someone recalled and sacrificed themselves to host us. the Rebbe RaShaB’s Purim FarbrenI recall how Mrs. Gelstein told us, gen in 1917. When the communists ‘Children, feel at home’. took over Russia there were people who said that it wouldn’t last long. After a short stay, we decided to The Rebbe RaShaB then said, ‘When move although we did not know they persecute a Jewish body [the where to go. Our host supplied us Jewish nation], Hashem does not with food for the trip, as well as have patience and does not remain some money to give to individuals silent, but when they begin with him in Vilna, which we sewed into our [Hashem alone], he is patient.’ garments. Visit from a Russian General dur- We came to an agreement with ing the Seder smugglers who took people across the border from Russia to Latvia. From Slonim we walked along They wanted me to shave my beard the Russian border to Vilna. Prior in order not to raise the suspicions to my escape from Poland, I had of the border guards. I objected and corresponded with a student in eventually they agreed that I didn’t Gluboka. When I reached his village have to. We designated a late hour I thought to myself, a Lubavitch shul of the night for the escape. is not worse than anywhere else, and decided to sleep there. A Russian At night we entered the forest and general lived in the building that met the smuggler. He led us to the housed the shul but we had nowhere middle of the forest where he handed else to go. We remained in the village us over to a non-Jewish woman who for Pesach and held the sedorim in was to guide us the rest of the way. As the house of a chossid. The Russian soon as she saw us, she told us ‘You general heard the sounds of the should pray that we are successful seder, entered the house and began because it is a dangerous risk.’ crying. It turned out that he was a It was Pesach Sheni when we came Jew. Indeed, when a person needs to out of the forest and already dayfulfill a mission, Hashem sends him light. We saw people walking in the to the right place. distance. Fearing that they might Arriving in Brisk & Unexpected shoot at us, we went back into the Friends forest and remained there until the following evening. That evening there was a full moon. Until now we had been walking in a desolate and abandoned area. We approached a village and the guide warned us to keep quiet lest we awaken the dogs and alert the border guards. That is how we entered the central street in the village. Suddenly it began raining and the guide pulled out a towel and a stick and smoothed out the footsteps that we had left in the dirt. After this risky but successful ordeal, the guide thanked Hashem because our safe passage, according to all logic, should not have succeeded. Boruch Ber Lebowitz. During WWII students from many different backgrounds, such as the grandchildren of Horav Boruch Kamenitz and of the Chofetz Chaim, studied in Tomchei Tmimim. Hachossid Horav Reb Mordechai Bryski remembered Reb Chaim Meir in Vilna. “The studies in the yeshiva in Vilna continued in the Chabad Uptuv Shul which had a kitchen on the lower floor. The dormitory was in the women’s section. The dormitory made life easier, especially for the Tmimim who became ill. A number of diseases were circulating in Vilna and many Tmimim were bed-ridden. Reb Chaim Meir, who was always engrossed in his studies, stood out as an exceptionally generous person Visas were obtained in and devoted himself to each of the a remarkable way from students who needed assistance.” the Japanese consul in Japan Russia, the illustrious and righteous Mr. Chiune Hachossid Horav Reb Mordechai Sugihara Bryski recalled. Vilna Reb Cham Meir continued. “We finally reached Vilna and felt comfortable enough to breathe freely. We knew that prior to WWII there was a Lubavitch yeshiva in Vilna, founded by Hachossid Horav Yitzchok Duber Ushpal, later to become a Rosh Yeshiva in the Lubavitch Yeshiva in Brooklyn. This encouraged many students to cross the border into Vilna. In total, there were thirty-nine students who managed to get through to Vilna.” Horav Hachossid Reb Gershon Chanowitz, one of the students in Vilna, recalled the yeshiva in Vilna. “The Previous Rebbe sent the chossid Horav Yehoshua Eizik Baruch to be a mashpia in the yeshiva. When he came to Vilna he told us that he felt obligated to constantly repeat the message of the Previous Rebbe to chassidim in Poland. ‘I am not leaving. It is not an ocean that divides but [rather one that] connects. Emuna and hiskashrus are as they were, and Hashem should help that we should meet at the arrival of Moshiach.’ The mashpia Horav Baruch had such a genuine belief in the Previous Rebbe’s words, that two days before Rosh Hashana he blessed us that we should be with the Rebbe on Rosh Hashana. When we asked him how that was possible he responded, ‘How a telegraph and telephone works you do understand?!’ The Gaon Horav Chaim Ozer, the Rav of Vilna, who was also in charge of the Vaad Hayeshivos, organized places to house the students who came to Vilna. “Many Tmimim went from Vilna to Japan. There was an American consulate in Russia but not in Vilna. Obtaining an affidavit for entry into the United States was very difficult. The students would request a visa for a ten-day stay in Japan in order to receive an affidavit, and when the visas came they would apply to extend their stay.” Horav Chanowitz recalled. “The students came in groups to Japan. A lthough the community was Ashkenazic, the American Joint Distribution Committee worked there and we knew that without their assistance we would not be able to remain. The community of about thirty families supported and sustained the thousands of refugees. Most of the refugees were yeshiva students primarily from chassidic families, who stood out with the Ahavas Yisroel that they displayed to all. Lubavitch chassidim had a separate building which also contained the yeshiva. The Amshinover Rebbe lived on the top floor. The Previous Rebbe had already instructed Lubavitch chassidim in Vilna to turn to the Amshinover Rebbe when they had questions or needed guidance and to follow his advice. W hen war between the United States and Japan broke out in 1941, the Japanese moved the Jewish refugees to Shanghai. Among the refugees who came to Shanghai was Reb Chaim Meir who continued his tradition of physically helping people, as well as sitting and learning with great diligence and davening with avoda, according to the tradition of Chabad chassidim to meditate and concentrate on every detail of the tefila.” One of the maggidei shiurim in the yeshiva was Horav Zalman, a nephew of the famous Gaon Horav To be continued 6 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~January 30 2009 A Rabbi’s Northern Adventure From the Heights of Alaska to the Golan Heights Reprinted with special permission talking about was the mikvah which by the author and Merkos L'Inyonei I had requested! Chinuch “I need a mikvah, not a mixer,” I By Rabbi Yisrael Haber said. The mountain tops were frosted with snow, and in many places the snow extended far under the peaks. As we came closer to our destination, we wondered if Anchorage could be covered with snow in the beginning of September. Neither of us had taken our winter jackets on the plane. Our worries subsided when we circled over the Gulf of Alaska’s Cook Inlet as the pilot prepared to land. Down below was a snow-free, normal, honest-to-goodness city. There were tall buildings, highways, automobiles, ships in the harbor—and not one igloo in sight! For people like myself who had a lot of wild notions about Alaska, the pilot informed us that there was no longer a single igloo in all of the State of Alaska. This was it. We had made it. We were here. Alaska here we come. We fastened our seat belts for landing, swooped low over the water and touched-down smoothly on the airstrip that jutted out into the inlet leading to the terminal of the Anchorage International Airport. A crowd of people were waiting to greet us at the modern terminal building. The welcomers included the Mayor of Anchorage; the Attorney General; my new boss, Chaplain Colonel Luther Gabrielsen and his wife, Dee; several other Protestant chaplains and their wives; military officials from Elmendorf Air Force Base; and Jewish community leaders from Anchorage. They had all come out to meet Alaska’s one-and-only rabbi. One woman who greeted us on behalf of the Jewish personnel stationed at Elmendorf and the nearby Army base, Fort Richardson, briefed us by saying, “There are Jews here who don’t observe the laws of Judaism, and they want to make certain that no one else does either. However, my family and I are very happy that you have both arrived and we hope to learn many things from you.” It was during the proceedings that a military quartermaster came up to me to ask if I wanted a Westinghouse or General Electric mixer. As I mentioned, an order had been sent from the Pentagon to provide Chaplain Yisrael Haber with a mixer upon his arrival in Anchorage. It was only when I looked at the official requisition form that he showed me did I realize that the “mixer” he was a holy awe, I carefully dressed into my blue slacks, blue shirt, blue jacket, blue tie, and blue hat. In my new Air Force uniform, I felt more like a New York City policeman than a rabbi. But no, this wasn’t New York; this was Alaska, and I was an officer in the Air Force. I had requested such an arrangement, and I was happy to see that my request had been fulfilled. The house was also directly across the street from the building where my “What’s a mikvah?” he asked. office was located. That was also a good deal, I thought, anticipating With so many important people the heavy winds and snowstorms “Is it Purim today?” Miriam joked, around, I didn’t have time to explain. gazing at me from the doorway. which would come. After the welcoming ceremony, As evening began set- “Very funny,” I said. tling over America’s “You look great.” l a r ge s t s t a t e , w e shlepped our perish- “You really think so? It isn’t too able food to the cha- tight?” pel freezer for storage “Mottel the tailor couldn’t have fit until our furniture and you better.” household appliances arrived by moving Satisfied that I passed the test, I van. rolled up my sleeve to put on tefillin. That morning’s prayer came The temperature was deep from the heart, and I took the in the mid-fifties as occasion to ask that G-d help me Miriam and I walked succeed in this strange and foreign along the base, enjoylocation. i n g e a c h o t h e r ’s company. Miriam stood at attention and saluted as I walked out the door We had done it. We on my way to my first day of work. had arrived. “Good luck,” she said. “And rememSmiles graced our ber, I’m proud of you.” faces. What a wonderChaplain Clay Kennedy, a Baptist She must have read my mind, because ful wife I had for following me to chaplain, and his wife, Monica, walking to the chaplain’s office I had this faraway corner. What a patient, drove us through Anchorage to some second doubts. loving woman, I thought. What a Elmendorf Air Force Base which was helper and friend. Who else would “Hey Yisrael, do you realize that you located three miles from the center have taken off with me on such a are the only kippah wearing Jew in of the city. Anchorage, home of half preposterous adventure? And what a distance of two-thousand miles?” the state’s population and scenically a crazy husband I have, she must I thought. The reflection caused me set between the Cook Inlet and the have been thinking. But I could see a shudder of loneliness. Chugach Mountain Range, boasted in her eyes that she was happy. She On the base of thirty-five thousand two universities, luxury hotels, a new was proud of me and proud of herself. museum, and several large shopping servicemen, there were nine ProtAfter all, she was the wife of Alaska’s malls—in other words, we hadn’t left estant chaplains, three Catholic Chief Rabbi! civilization. chaplains, and myself. Out of that But much more than that, we were group, I figured I might be able to “You look surprised,” the Baptist together, and that made this strange, work up a bridge game, but I might chaplain said. beautiful new place feel like home. not be seeing a minyan for an awful “I had no idea the city would be so Even if our dream house was on an long time. But if my wife was proud modern,” I answered. “I figured we’d Air Force base. Even if our furniture of me, that was a sign that what I was be met at the airport by a dog team was still on the way. Even if we were doing was right. further away from our families than and sled.” I straightened my gait as I headed for we had ever been in our lives. After “In some places in Alaska, that may the chapel a short walk away. Pracour long journey, we were closer happen, but Anchorage is a modern ticing the military greeting which I together, united in life, helping one city just like any other. We even learned in my course, I walked into another along the wonderful and have two daily newspapers, three the building, determined to be not mysterious pathways of the Master television channels, and ten radio only a rabbi, but a first-class officer as of Heaven and Earth. stations.” well. Walking as erect and militaryChapter 10 like as I could, I strode confidently I asked him where the famous through the office as if I had been ROSH HASHANAH Anchorage mountains were. there a dozen times before. “When the clouds lift and the sun Istayed awake most of my first I knocked on the door of Colonel comes out, I’ll take you on a tour night in Alaska thinking about my Gabrielsen’s office, about to meet outside the base, and you’ll see them new position and all of the things the head chaplain on the base. in all of their glory.” I wanted to accomplish. Whatever services and innovations I could “Come in,” a voice said. He drove us to the quarters which provide to the Jews of Alaska, it Opening the door, I stood at attenwould be our home for the next three would all have to be my doing, from tion and saluted. years. We were thrilled to discover the idea stage to the execution of the a two story house with three bedproject. I was no longer an assistant “Chaplain Haber is reporting for rooms and a very large basement. principal with a well-oiled Jewish duty, sir.” The house was a short, five-minute framework around me; up here in There, I had said it. The immortal walk from the chapel where Jewish the woods I was the whole team— words were out. services were held. That would center, quarterback, running back, History had been made. facilitate getting to shul on Shabbat tackle and split end. when traveling is forbidden. When morning arrived, with almost January 30, 2009 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 7 Parshas Hashavua Vedibarta Bam ~ BO By Rabbi Moshe Bogomilky "ויפן ויצא מעם "פרעה “And he turned his back and left Pharaoh.” (10:6) QUESTION: Why concerning locusts, the eighth plague, does the Torah tell us that Moshe left immediately after giving the warning? otah — this request for the children to participate — atem mevakshim passed since you left Egypt. I know — is something which you want, and the people better than you do. I do which Hashem never asked for.” not doubt your sincerity in wanting to take them to serve Hashem, but When Pharaoh saw that regardless I urge you stop your campaign of his consent to send the males he because, mi vami haholchim — was plagued with locusts, he realwhich ones are going?! None of these ized that Hashem was not satisfied, people are interested in leaving because He wanted the children’s Egypt to go seek a new way of life.” participation. Therefore, he quickly called Moshe and Aharon and told Moshe smiled and replied, “You them, “Now I have not only sinned are greatly mistaken. Just open the against G d, but also against you, doors and give them freedom, and I because I accused you falsely.” assure you that young and old, men )(שו"ת תירוש ויצהר סי' קי"ט and women will eagerly run to serve Hashem.” "ויהי חשך אפלה בכל ארץ מצרים ANSWER: Moshe always came to Pharaoh as Hashem’s messenger to inform him of the coming plague. Moshe thought that Pharaoh was "ויעל הארבה על כל ארץ מצרים וינח an extremely stubborn man and, "בכל גבול מצרים therefore, he always pleaded with “The locusts went up over the entire him to relent and listen to Hashem land of Egypt and rested in all the about letting the people go. borders of Egypt.” (10:14) Before the plague of locusts, Hashem QUESTION: Why does the Torah said to Moshe, “Go to Pharaoh and repeat, “all the borders of Egypt” warn him, for I have hardened his after it already says that the locusts heart” (10:1). Moshe now realized “went up over the entire land of that it was not Pharaoh’s stubbornEgypt”? ness, but Hashem causing him not to listen. Thus, there was no purpose in ANSWER: The Jews of Egypt lived his pleading with Pharaoh to let the in the city of Goshen and were not people go. Therefore, after delivering affected by any of the plagues. The the message of the coming plague of locusts were meant to destroy all veglocusts, he immediately turned his etation not previously destroyed by ()שער בת רבים back and left. the hail. Knowing that very shortly the Jewish people would be leaving "ויאמר אליהם לכו עבדו את ה' אלקיכם Egypt, Hashem sent the locusts. ויאמר משה בנערינו:מי ומי ההלכים They covered Egypt from border to "ובזקנינו נלך border — including Goshen — in “And he said to them, ‘Go and serve order to ensure that the Egyptians G d your G d; Which ones are going?’ would have no benefit from the proMoshe said, ‘With our young and .duce of the Jewish fields in Goshen with our old shall we go.’ ” (10:8-9) )(שער בת רבים QUESTION: Moshe’s request to "וימהר פרעה לקרא למשה ולאהרן Pharaoh was very explicit: “Let my "ויאמר חטאתי לה' אלקיכם ולכם people go!” Why now, after having “And Pharaoh called for Moshe and endured seven plagues, did Pharaoh Aharon in haste and said, ‘I have ask, “Which ones are going?” sinned against G d and against you.’ ANSWER: The words, “mi vami ” (10:16) haholchim” ( )מי ומי ההלכיםhave the QUESTION: Why did Pharaoh then numerical value of 216, the same confess that he also sinned against as “Kaleiv uBin Nun” ()כלב ובן נון. Moshe and Aharon, in contrast to Pharaoh was telling Moshe, “I know his confession after the plague of your ultimate plan is to bring the hail, “I have sinned this time; G d is Jews to Eretz Yisrael, but you should righteous” (9:27)? know that you are wasting your time, because they will all die in the ANSWER: Moshe told Pharaoh wilderness and only Kalev and Bin to release the Jews in order for Nun (Yehoshua) will live to reach them to worship Hashem. Pharaoh Eretz Yisrael.” inquired, “Which ones are going?” Moshe responded, “We will go with Moshe replied, “Binareinu uvizkeiour young and with our old, with neinu neileich” — “Do not worry, all our sons and with our daughters.” those who are now under 20 or over Pharaoh became enraged and chased 60 will also survive the wilderness them out, saying, “Not so, let the men and come to Eretz Yisrael.” go now, ki otah atem mevakshim — )(בעל הטורים for this you are seeking.” One may question, why was it necessary for Alternatively, Pharaoh, slowly but Pharaoh to add the words, “ki otah surely, began to realize that fighting atem mevakshim” — “for this you Moshe was a lost cause. Instead of are seeking”? being stubborn and refusing to let Pharaoh accused Moshe and Ahathe Jewish people go, he decided to ron of unjustly seeking to take the use reverse psychology. Pharaoh said children on a pilgrimage to serve to Moshe, “I am your friend who Hashem: “Undoubt¬edly, your G would not want to see you as an d only wants the adults. However, outcast or a failure. Many years have does not know you.” Disappointed and hurt, he told the doorman to tell his master, “I advise him to make a will immediately, because he does not have much time left to live.” Petrified, the brother rushed to the door and asked in alarm, “How can you make such a statement? My doctor proclaimed me in excellent health!” The immigrant brother looked his brother in the eyes and said, “The city in which we grew up as brothers was very small and poor. The townspeople were unable to afford a full-time physician. I studied first-aid and administered their medical needs. From my experience "שלשת ימים I learned that when a patient can no “And there was a thick darkness in all longer ‘recognize’ his own brother, of Egypt for three days.” (10:22) his situation is extremely serious and he has little time left to live.” QUESTION: Rashi explains that during the first three days of dark- Some aspects of the plague of darkness, no one was able to see anyone ness are unfortunately prevalent in else. During the succeeding days, contemporary times. Sadly, there the darkness was so thick that if an may be Jews enveloped in darkness Egyptian was sitting, he was unable who do not recognize fellow Jews to stand up, and if he was standing, as their brothers and deserve to be helped materially and spiritually. he was unable to sit down. Such conduct endangers the contiEvery plague lasted seven days nuity of the Jewish community. (except the plague of the firstborn). Why did the plague of darkness last Hopefully, like the Jews of Egypt we, only six days? too, will merit, “For all the Children of Israel, there was light in their ANSWER: W hen the Jews left dwellings.” Everyone will see the Egypt and traveled in the desert, true light and do the utmost for his clouds of glory accompanied them. brother — his fellow Jew. During the day the clouds would ) פרדס יוסף- (מיוסד על אשכול ענבים clear a path in the desert, and at night a pillar of fire lit up the camp. ""כשלחו כלה גרש יגרש אתכם מזה When the Egyptians pursued the “When he lets you go, he will drive you Jews, the Torah says, “There was a out from here altogether.” (11:1) cloud of darkness [for the Egyptians] and the night was illuminated [for QUESTION: Why did Hashem tell the Jews through a pillar of fire]” Moshe that Pharaoh would drive the (14:20). Thus, Hashem reserved the Jews out? remaining seventh day of darkness ANSWER: Hashem told Avraham, to punish the Egyptians when they “Your children will be enslaved in chased after the Jewish people. a strange land for 400 years and )' ג,(מדרש רבה שמות י"ד afterwards leave with great wealth” ( "ויהי חשך אפלה בכל ארץ מצריםBereishit 15:13-14). The Jewish " שלשת ימים לא ראו איש את אחיוpeople slaved for many years under Pharaoh without any compensa¬tion. “There was a thick darkness in all the land of Egypt As the time for their departure was for three days. One did not see his arriving, Hashem instructed Moshe own brother.” (10:22-23) to tell the Jewish people to borrow QUESTION: Since they were unable gold and silver from the Egyptians. to see anything; why is there an Eventually, they would keep this as emphasis on not seeing one’s own payment for 400 years of work and brother? as a fulfillment of the promise of great wealth. ANSWER: Many years ago a man emigrated from a small town in Rus- Moshe hesitated since it resembled sia to the United States. His business trickery. “After all,” he argued, “they enterprises were blessed with success did not complete their servitude, and he became very wealthy. A few and thus, are not entitled to such years later, his brother arrived, found wealth.” his way to the successful brother’s Hashem ex plained to Moshe, house, and presented himself to “According to halachah, when one the doorman as the brother of his hires a worker and fires him in the master. The doorman directed him middle of the day, he is obligated to to the waiting area and afterwards pay him for the full time. Similarly, came back with a message that his Pharaoh will drive out the Jewish master had no brother. He sent back people in the middle of their period a number of signs hoping that his of service. Therefore, they are rightbrother would recognize him. Again fully entitled to be paid for 400 years the doorman came back: “Sorry, my of serving Egypt.” ()חנוכת התורה master says he has no brother and 8 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~January 30 2009 Shevat Yahrzeiten This week we continue with the Yahrzeiten of people who lived in our in Mlava, Poland and was nifter in shechuna. We are also including the Yahrzeiten of Shluchim. In mention- 1998. ing them we come to “v’Hachai yiten el Libo”. We learn from their lives, 9th of Shvat lessons that we can incorporate into our own. This column includes the Horav Hachossid Yahrzeiten from the 6th through 11th of Shvat. The respective resting places of the individuals noted in this column are near the holy Ohel, Reb A haron unless otherwise specified. Hakohen Klein Men 6th of Shvat Horav Hachossid Hatom i m R eb Moshe Zev Yaroslavsky for approximately eighty years and many great chassidim benefitted from his advice. His home was open to all and he excelled in acts of generosity and kindness, sacrificed himself for the Jews in Russia, and in an unusual manner supported the students of Tomchei Tmimim contributing money to enable them to leave Russia. He was also a primary activist in the shechuna and participated in a shiur until his last day, especially the shiur on the chassidic discourses of Torah Ohr and Likutei Torah. He merited seeing children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren serving as the Rebbe’s Shluchim worldwide. He was born on the 17th of Sivan 1906 in Beshenkowitz and was nifter in 2004. The son of Horav Hachossid Reb Aharon,hefounded the Tishrei Eshel in Crown Heights, hosting and feeding thousands of guests who visited the Rebbe during the month of Tishrei. He maintained it for 23 years and merited many kiruvim from the Rebbe. Reb Moshe also conducted the network of the Talmud Toras Chadrei Torah Ohr in Israel for 30 years. He was born in 1915 in Barditchov and was nifter in 1994. His resting place is on Har 8th of Shvat Hazeisim. Horav Hachossid Hatom i m R eb Chaikel Chanin The son of Horav Hachossid Reb Schneur Zalman Yitzchok, he was a descendent of chassidim of the city Beshenkowitz. He studied in Yeshiva Tomchei Tmimim in Lubavitch, and worked with selfless devotion for the benefit of the yeshiva in Samarkand, Poking, Brunoy, Kfar Chabad and Brooklyn. He was a unique communal activist Tiferes Bochurim in Morristown New Jersey for more than twenty years, successfully raised many students and was beloved by all. He was born on the 6th of Elul 1950 and was nifter in the midst of his life in 1995. The son of Horav Reb Yitzchok Hakohen, he implemented the purchase and the broadening of the 770 Shul, as well as establishing a mitzva mobile in 1963 in which he would put on Tefillin with people. He was born on the 19th of Sivan 1916 in Vienna and was nifter in 1998. Women 6th of Shvat Mrs. Brocho Nemes The daughter of Horav Hachossid Reb Nochum Meir, she sacrificed herself for the fulfillment of mitzvos and was nifter in 1987. R eb Chaim Halev i Kanner The son of Reb Yitzchok Halevi, he was mekushar to the Rebbe and was a talented person who was nifter in the midst of his life in 2000. 10th of Shvat Reb Yisroel Yitzchok Greenstein Horav Hachossid Hatom i m R eb The son of Reb Menachem, he was Shmuel Dov id among the steady members of the Halevi Raichik Maple Street Shul and was nifter in 2007. The son of Horav Hachossid Shimon 11th of Shvat Halevi, he was a Horav Hachossid shliach of the PreHatom i m R eb vious Rebbe and the Rebbe for Yosef Yitzchok more than fifty years in California Lipsker where he planted Chabad. He was appointed by the Rebbe as a member The son of Horav of the universal Agudas Chassidei Hachossid Reb Chabad and Machne Israel. He Yaakov, he was a was born on the 2nd of Iyar 1918 mashpia and educator in Yeshiva 8th of Shvat Mrs. Plotkin Doba The daughter of Horav Avrohom Yisroel, she was nifter in 1998. 11th of Shvat Mrs. Vita Pinson, She was the wife of Horav Hachossid Reb Yechezkel from Kfar Chabad and was nifter in 2008. *Dear Readers: Anyone who would like to have their relatives mentioned in the yahrzeit column should email the name, father’s name, date of the ptira and some details to chp5768@gmail.com. A picture may be included. בס”ד You are invited to Participate in a Workshop on Life/Career Visions, led by Career Counselor (25 years experience) on Sunday, February 8, 2009 from 1-3PM Walk away with a Posterboard and a clearer life vision! Where: Crown Heights Center 305 Kingston Ave. between Eastern Parkway and Union Street Brooklyn, NY When: Sunday, February 8, 2009 from 1-3 PM Cost: $36.00 Interested? 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January 30, 2009 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 9 Tznius: "America Is Nisht Andersh” All the News that’s Fit for Lubavitch Cyberspace By Mrs. M. Resnick merit is that it had the fortune to Lubavitch has always been a pioneer have the word Chabad or Lubavitch of dissemination. The Rebbe was the remotely connected to it. first to use the airwaves as a medium “Hamodia” has a permanent Mashfor his Farbrengens even while he giach on premises; the “N’Shei strongly opposed us watching or Newsletter” has a guiding Rabbinical bringing in any Goyishe programboard, as did the “Yiddishe Heim”. ming into our homes. Should our news sites, from which In the 1960’s the Rebbe contributed we obtain all our vital information, thousands of dollars towards keep- be any different? ing the Satmar periodical, “Der Yid” Reporting the news does not give afloat so as to maintain a kosher one license to publicize any and means of transmitting news and every story. Even the First amendinformation to the Jewish public and ment which guarantees freedom of prevent good Frume Yidden from speech and of the press in America resorting to Goyishe newspapers. has certain restrictions. For example, So the dissemination of information one may not cry ‘fire’ in a crowded can be perfectly Kosher. theatre, nor can one publicize the However, “can be Kosher” doesn’t departure of ships during time of mean “always Kosher.” war. community leaders this task? Why must all of Lubavitch be aware and For those of us who use the Internet, involved? and that probably means everyone who is reading this article (since the Yidden have always had to answer Crown Heights Community News- to the world. The phrase “Dah Mah letter currently does not appear in Lehoshiv…” - Know what to reply…, hard-copy format), I present the fol- has been part of our PR Lexicon lowing question: What is the “news from the time of the Mishna. that’s fit to print” on our Lubavitch Both Mrs. Sara Esther Crispe, editor news sites: Shmais, COL and Crown of the Womens’ page on chabad.org Heights.info and Shturem? and Mrs. Baila Olidort of Lubavitch. I raise this question in the wake of com have offered and found ways to a story that has been making a lot have the wrong addressed. of waves on some of the above sites But it would seem to me that the best about the uncomplimentary manner manner of tackling such a situation is in which Lubavitch women were to have our supporters and admirers described on a prominent secular go out for redress and restitution. media outlet. (I must complement Their independent positions provide those same Lubavitch sites for doing our cause with a far better view and their utmost to cover the un-Tznius A Rov, and Shliach in California told presentation. attire of those portrayed in the me that the Rebbe always required picture). that material first be checked by a I ask: W hat merit was there in Rov or a Mashpia before going to bringing this story to our people? print. Why do we have to know that it I would like to recommend that our happened altogether? Why do our Lubavitch news sites voluntarily people have to be introduced to the undertake the responsibility of going name of a program they are better under the aegis of some regulatory off remaining ignorant of? What do rabbinic or mashpiadike board, so we gain by knowing that there is a that in the future they are not lulled story about a Lubavitch woman who into covering a story whose sole is set to enter a (nonexistent) levirate marriage? What is the use of having our youth exposed to derogatory For example, when Chabad of East remarks that a secular outlet made Hampton (the renowned summer Shidduchim about the way our women look? playground of the American rich and What was the purpose of publicizing famous), was encountering zoning Profile or Resume? the entire episode? Tzores because of Shabbos services from irate brotherly neighbors, it By Sarah Junik When I raised this issue with a was the support of the non-Jewish renowned Mechanech, he asked me, Martha Stewart that tipped the Shidduchim are such a maze that we “Since when do we care what Goyscales in our favor. will grasp any idea that might make ishe outlets think of us? Would we the process easier. also bring up questions of ‘Emunah’ Journalist Jonathan Marks, a great or the lack thereof that are raised friend of Lubavitch just came out in Our lives are so busy B"H, between in their programs and then answer defense of our honor, on our current bringing up our kids, working, them in public, in full view of our subject, in a very eloquent way in mivtzoim, learning, chessed etc that Kohol and youth?” “The Jewish Week”: even if we did not reach the dreaded senior moment stage, we cannot It seems to me that unless there is “I remember the photo of Rivka keep everything in mind. a positive, redeeming value to the Holtzberg, the Chabad woman who information non-Jewish outlets was murdered in Mumbai. She wore The shidduhim solution to this is the disseminate we have no reason to a wig, like the ones mocked (on the "profile". What is a profile? share it with our holy audience. program).” She was attractive….all A profile is a short description of our the more attractive for the dignity Some people may argue that we young man or woman, that describes she exuded precisely because of her need to defend out honor and can the essentials without giving a name. wig and modest style of dress.” only do so if we know that we were The profile lets people know the insulted in the first place; that these So why allow this subject into our age, the height, family background ‘popular’ outlets need to hear our homes when our friends and admir- i.e. FFB, BT, etc. the level one is at, people express their dissatisfaction ers are so capable of responding for Chassidish, relaxed, modern and a with such an unfair portrayal. us? description of the characteristic of the young man or woman such as And yet, I find this answer far short During the recent war in Gaza kind and giving, very involved in .... of convincing. and the murders in Mumbai, all of quiet and eidel, ambitious, go getter our Lubavitch news sites served as First, as one Crown Heights Rov etc. Last but not least a description of wonderful sieves, bringing us many pointed out to me, Lubavitch’s miswhat one is looking for such as only anecdotes of the emergence of the sion is generally Torah, Mitzvos and shlichus, yiras shamayim, tznius, Pintale Yid and Kiddush Hashem Chinuch, not protests. outgoing, organized etc. stories. In a sense they served as Second, in those cases where protest ‘airwaves- sterilizers’ and brought in At the end write in a contact name is called for – the same Mechanech only Kosher material which, together and phone number and or email pointed out that in some cases a with our youth, we could watch and address. tarnished image of Lubavitch might kvell over with tears and pride. What you have accomplished with a prevent us from bringing people It should therefore be clear that I am profile is to describe your child and closer to Yiddishkeit – could we not not attacking our media as a medium. what you are looking for on paper assign a community leader or several The New York Times has as its motto “All the News that’s Fit to Print” emblazoned on its masthead. L’havdil, could we not ask our news sites to start consulting Rabbonim and Mashpiim so that they can proudly emblazon above their own virtual mastheads, “All the News that’s Fit for Lubavitch Cyberspace”? Comments & Questions:Tznius1@ verizon.net for easy reference of your friends and contacts. They in turn can send on or show your profile to others with possible matches without compromising your privacy as you did not disclose your name and address. If a promising match is found then you can send a full resume which would have the family data such as how many siblings, the schools and camps attended and/or shlichus, references etc. If you attend a shidduch group meeting or if you want someone to present your child to such a group a profile is indispensable. Send one to all your relatives so they are reminded that you are looking for your son or daughter and what exactly you are looking for. A profile is perfect for these days where we do not want the names of our children to float around as a conversation piece until we get them married on the other hand we do want people to remember that we have a wonderful son or daughter just brimming with qualities and waiting to get married to that right one. So c'mon everyone, take paper and pen or laptop and desktop and let us see those profiles! (And yes that means you too mother or boys!!!) Basmelech@gmail.com Shidduchim101.blogspot.com 10 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~January 30 2009 YUD SHVAT The story of the Beginning of the Rebbe’s Nesius (5711-1951) Reprinted from the book “a day to chassidim and would accept the prior to the Farbrengen: The disrecall a day to remember” mantel of the nesius upon himself. tinguished Rabbi, Rabbi Ephraim Yolles was in the Rebbe’s room. By Rabbi Sholom Ber Avtzon with- The next day the Rebbe called him When Rabbi Yolles saw the crowd more additions into his room and told him that he assembled, he asked the Rebbe must put in, in the very next publicaAfter the histalkus, chassidim turned how he will manage to get in to the tion, a notice of retraction. to the Rebbe, beseeching him to Farbrengen. The Rebbe answered: accept upon himself the nesius Rabbi Kazarnovsky asked the Rebbe “You will hold unto my gartel”! (mantle of leadership). Although the if he might say something, to which At 8:45, the Rebbe came to 770, Rebbe initially declined (until the the Rebbe said yes. which was packed with chassidim, following Yud Shevat), some changes Rabbi Kazarnovsky then said: “Last and at 9:45 he came out to farbreng. were immediately noticeable. Not night I had a dream in which the The Rebbe began by saying two only did he continue to farbreng Previous Rebbe came to me and said: sichos. In the first sicha, the Rebbe every Shabbos Mevorchim as he ‘Tell my son-in-law, [mentioning expressed the need of strengthening had started doing in 5702 (1942) the Rebbe by name] the following our bond to the Previous Rebbe. on the instruction of the Previous [explanation]. It says in the possuk, Then in the second sicha the Rebbe Rebbe, he also began to farbreng on “And Hashem spoke to Moshe [the said, “Following the American Yomim Tovim and other major days leader of the Jewish nation], ‘Why custom of beginning a new era with in the calendar. In addition, he began are you crying out to Me; speak to a statement of intent, my statement answering many people’s personal the Jewish nation and they shall is “The love of Hashem, the love of questions that until then had been travel onward.’” Tell my son-in-law: His Torah and the love of every Jew answered by the Previous Rebbe. “Why are you telling everyone that is one thing and inseparable. If a Jew During that year, many interesting I [the Rebbe Rayatz] am the Rebbe? is lacking in one of these loves, it episodes took place relating to the You should speak to the Jewish should be strengthened, and through Rebbe’s acceptance of the nesius, a nation and they will travel and be this love for every Jew, we will go out few of which we will mention here. elevated with you until the coming of this bitter golus. of Moshiach Tzidkeinu.”’” Reb Avrohom Sender Nemtzov, an Rabbi Eliyahu Simpson, who was the mazkir (secretary) in charge of The Rebbe then said, “Thank you elder chassid, then stood up and yechidus with the Previous Rebbe for the good tidings, and since you said, “The sichos are very good but from hwwa,-aww, 1940-1950 (since told me good tidings, I shall give you chassidim want to hear a maamar.” the Previous Rebbe came to Amer- good tidings.” Silence reigned as everyone stood with baited breath. The Rebbe’s ica), had a dream. The Rebbe then showed Rabbi expression became very serious and In his dream, the Previous Rebbe Kazarnovsky a telegram which after a few moments began saying appea red to h i m a nd asked, he had just received from Rabbi his first maamar, which was based “Why are the spirits of chassidim Herzog, the Chief Ashkenazic Rabbi on and explained in great detail the depressed?” in Eretz Yisroel, congratulating and ideas contained in the first chapter of blessing the Rebbe on becoming the Rabbi Simpson answered, “Because Basi LeGani, the last maamar given seventh Rebbe of Lubavitch. we have no one to go to!” out by the Previous Rebbe. On Wednesday, Yud Shevat 5711 The Previous Rebbe replied, “Isn’t In the middle of the maamar, the (1951), the Rebbe went to the tzion my son-in-law [mentioning the Rebbe stopped and said, “We will of the Previous Rebbe and read Rebbe by name] with you?” now pause and say l’chaim.” Reb many letters of request, that the Nemtzov stood up in great happiness Rabbi Simpson said, “But he refuses Rebbe pray on their behalf. The and exclaimed to all, “Let us say to accept the nesius upon himself.” last one to be read was the michtav the blessing of Shehechiyanu that hahiskashrus, the letter signifying To this the Previous Rebbe replied, we have a Rebbe.” He then led the the total bonding of a chassid to “He [the Rebbe] was already comassembled in saying this blessing the Rebbe, which was signed by manded to do so.” using Hashem’s name. thousands of chassidim throughout At the first opportune moment, the entire world. The letter declared The Rebbe then instructed that the Rabbi Simpson told this dream to that they are accepting the Rebbe niggun Beinoni be sung, followed the Rebbe, who said, “I have not as their Rebbe and committing by the Rebbe Rashab’s niggun received such an instruction...” themselves to energetically fulfill known as the Niggun Rostov. After all his directives. When the Rebbe continuing the maamar, the Rebbe Immediately, Rabbi Simpson and began reading this letter, he broke instructed that a niggun of the other elder chassidim went to the out in deep sobs. Rebbe Maharash be sung, followed tzion (gravesite) of the Previous by three niggunim of the Rebbe the Rebbe and read a pidyon nefesh, When he returned from the Ohel, Tzemach Tzedek. requesting that the instruction everyone davened Mincha, and then come. they ate something. After Maariv it The Rebbe then concluded the maawas officially announced that the mar and tearfully related how the Indeed, from then on, the Rebbe Rebbe was going to farbreng at 8:00 love of the Rebbeim for their fellow never said that he did not receive in the shul upstairs. At the time, the Jew was unlimited. The Alter Rebbe, such an instruction. “downstairs” where the big shul is for example, on Yom Kippur left the Rabbi Shmuel Dovid Raichik, of located, was a big yard. shul and chopped wood in order to California, would tell the following prepare warm food for a women in This was no surprise, as the Rebbe need. He then mentioned an incident story every Sukkos: farbrenged throughout the year of extreme ahavas Yisroel of every Rabbi Aharon Kazarnovsky was one on all special occasions, and it was one of the Rebbeim. of the three chassidim who placed publicized in the newspapers that a notice (on the 26th of Teves) in he would be doing so. He explained that, as this was the last some of the most prominent Yiddish maamar the Previous Rebbe gave us, The suspense was whether or not the newspapers, announcing that on undoubtedly there was guidance in Rebbe would accept the nesius. Yud Shevat, 5711 (1951), the Rebbe it to help us during these last days would accede to the request of the An interesting anecdote took place of golus. The Rebbe further explained: The Previous Rebbe’s maamar says that because Moshe Rabbeinu was the seventh generation from Avrohom Avinu, he was able to bring down and reveal Hashem’s glory in this world. So, continued the Rebbe, it is our obligation and merit to bring the ultimate revelation of G‑dliness into the world, since we are the seventh generation from the Alter Rebbe, who began the dissemination of Chassidus in order to bring Moshiach. When the Rebbe finished saying the maamar, Reb Nemtzov stood up one last time, and blessed the Rebbe. The Rebbe replied: “Now please listen. The Rebbeim always demanded from their chassidim that they should work on their own and not rely on the Rebbe to accomplish everything for them. “Therefore, now that I accept to help you in every way possible, don’t become complacent in your duties and obligations. You must fulfill the mission that my holy father-in-law, the Rebbe, gave you.” Thus began the tradition of explaining and expounding one chapter of Basi LeGani a year on Yud Shevat. It continued for the next twenty years until Yud Shevat 5730 (1970), when the Rebbe said a maamar on chapter twenty, the last chapter of the hemshech of Basi LeGani. The following year, 5731 (1971), the Rebbe started the cycle anew, explaining a chapter a year, beginning with Chapter One. After the Farbrengen, Reb Yudel Chitrik obm approached and told the Rebbe told him that the Maamor was very positively accepted and Chassidim are very pleased. The Rebbe said to Rabbi Chitrik: “Give me a Brocha”. Rabbi Chitrik said: To give a Brocha, we need mashke. The Rebbe ordered to bring mashke and when Reb Yudel said lchaim, he continued: “Everything that all the Rebbe’im intended and worked to accomplish in all the generations, should be fulfilled through the Rebbe, The Rebbe answered: Omen. Lang leben zolt ir (you should have a long life). By now, we have witnessed the fulfillment of the Rebbe’s Brocha. Rabbi Chitrik lived up till 106! January 30, 2009 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 11 What is a Rebbe The Head Reprinted from Chabad.Org Editor’s note: The following is a free translation of a letter written by the Rebbe several months after the passing of his father-in-law and predecessor, Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak Schneersohn of Lubavitch. The letter was printed as an introduction to a booklet of maamarim (discourses of Chassidic teaching) by Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak, and is dated “Tammuz 3, 5710.”1 Many seek and propose to explain the qualities and greatness of Chabad Rebbes in general, and, in particular, the Rebbe of our generation, my father-in-law, hareini kaparat mishkavo,2 in various areas: as a man of self-sacrifice, Torah genius, lofty character, prophetic ability, There are several types of nesi’im: miracle-worker, etc., etc. those who supply their constituents with “internalized” nurture,4 and These qualities are further magnified those whose nurture is of a more when viewed in the light of Chassidic “encompassing” nature.5 This is teaching, which explains what is true further divisible into the particulars self-sacrifice, true Torah genius, and of whether they impart the teaching so on. of the “revealed” part of Torah, its And yet, none of this addresses the mystical secrets, or both; whether primary quality of the Rebbe--a they offer guidance in the service quality which is not only primary in of G-d and the ways of Chassidism; essence, but which is most important whether they draw down material to us, his chassidim and followers, provision; and so on. namely: the fact that he is a nassi, There are also nesi’im who are chanand particularly a Chabad nassi. nels in several of these areas, or even A nassi, broadly defined, is a “head in all of them. of the multitudes of Israel.”3 He Such was the nature of the leadership is their “head” and “mind,” their of the nesi’im of Chabad, from the source of life and vitality. Through Alter Rebbe6 to, and including, their attachment to him, they are my father-in-law, who embraced bound and united with their source all these categories and areas: they on high. Yud Shvat Customs four hours. If possible, the candle should be of beeswax.[673] Directives and customs advised by the Rebbe regarding the Yahrzeit: Five candles[674] should burn during the prayer services. Adapted from Sefer Haminhagim (Published by Sichos In English) After each prayer service (and in the morning, [this means] after the readBy the grace of G-d ing of Tehillim), the sheliach tzibbur Rosh Chodesh Shvat, 5711 should study (or at least conclude674 the study of) ch. 24 of Mishnayos Brooklyn, N.Y. Keilim and ch. 7 of Mishnayos To Anash, to the students of Tom- Mikvaos. He should then recite the chei Temimim, and to those who mishnah beginning “Rabbi Chananhave a bond or a relationship with yah ben Akashya...,” followed silently my revered father-in-law the saintly by a few lines of Tanya,[675] and Rebbe, of blessed memory: Kaddish deRabbanan. G-d bless you all. Greeting and blessings: In reply to the many questions that have been asked about a detailed schedule for the Tenth of Shvat, the yahrzeit of my revered father-in-law, the Rebbe, I would hereby suggest the following: On the Shabbos before the yahrzeit [each chassid] should attempt to be called for an aliyah to the Torah. After Maariv, part of the maamar (Basi L eGa n i) that was released for the day of the dem ise shou ld be recited from memory. If there is no one to do this from memory, it should be studied from the text. This should also be done after Shacharis, and the maamar should be concluded after Minchah. If there are not enough aliyos the Torah should be read [a number of times] in different rooms. However, no additions[672] should be made to the number of aliyos [at each Before Shacharis, a chapter of Tanya reading]. should be studied. This should also The congregation should see to it be done after Minchah. that the Maftir should be the most In the morning, before prayer, respected congregant, as determined charity should be given to those by the majority; alternatively, the institutions that are related to our choice should be determined by Nasi, my revered father-in-law, of lot. sainted memory. Donations should The congregation should choose be made on behalf of oneself and someone to lead the prayers on the on behalf of each member of one’s day of the yahrzeit. It is proper to family. The same should be done divide [the honor, choosing] one per- before Minchah. son to lead Maariv, a second to lead After Shacharis and the recitation Shacharis, and a third - Minchah. In of the maamar, each individual this way a greater number of Anash should read a pidyon nefesh. (It goes will have the privilege. without saying that a gartl is worn A [yahrzeit] candle should be lit that during the reading.) Those who had will burn throughout the twenty- the privilege of entering [the saintly nurtured their chassidim in both the “internal” and the “encompassing” qualities of their souls; in Torah, divine service and good deeds; in spirit and in body. Thus, their bond with those connected with them was in all 613 limbs and organs of their souls and bodies. Each and every one of us must know-that is, dwell upon and implant the awareness in his or her mind--that the Rebbe is our nassi and head: that he is the source and channel for all our material and spiritual needs, and that it is through our bond with him (and he has already instructed us in his letters how and by what means this is achieved) that we are bound and united with our source, and the source of our source, up to our ultimate source on high. Rebbe’s study] for yechidus, or at least of seeing his face, should - while reading the pidyon nefesh - picture themselves as standing before him. The pidyon nefesh should then be placed between the pages of a maamar or kuntreis, etc., of his teachings, and sent, if possible on the same day, to be read at his graveside. for the young people who are not yet observant - in order to explain to them the warm love that the saintly Rebbe constantly had for them. It should be explained to these people what he expected of them; they should be told of the hope and the trust that he placed in them - that they would ultimately fulfill their task of strengthening the observance In the course of the day one should of Judaism and disseminating the study chapters of Mishnayos that study of Torah with all the energy, begin with the letters of his name. warmth and vitality that characterIn the course of the day one should ize youth. participate in a farbrengen. If prevailing conditions allow, all In the course of the above should of course be conthe day one should tinued during the days following set aside a time the yahrzeit, and particularly on the during which to following Shabbos. tell one’s family May G-d hasten the coming of our about the saintly Redeemer, and then “those who Rebbe, and about repose in the dust will awaken and the spiritual tasks sing joyful praises.” And our Nasi at which he toiled among them will give us wondrous throughout all the tidings, and lead us along the path days of his life. that leads up to the House of G-d. In the course of [Signed: Rebbe’s name] the day, people (to whom t h is (a) Miscellaneous: task is appropri“I once heard from my revered ate) should visit father-in-law, the Rebbe, that before synagogues and visiting a resting place or ohel [i.e., houses of study in their cities and the structure built over or around the cite a statement or an adage drawn grave of a tzaddik] it is customary not from the teachings of the saintly to eat, but one drinks something.” Rebbe. They should explain how he loved every Jew. [Furthermore,] they It is the custom of the Rebbe Shlita should make known and explain the to make an appeal for Keren Torah practice that he instituted of reciting (“the Torah Fund”) at the farbrengen Tehillim every day, studying the of Yud Shvat. daily portion of Chumash with the (b) Yud Shvat 5711: commentary of Rashi, and, where appropriate, studying the Tanya On the tenth of Shvat, 5711 (1951), as he divided it into daily readings in a favorable and auspicious hour, throughout the year. If possible this the Rebbe Shlita undertook the should all be done in the course of leadership [of the Chabad-Lubavitch chassidic movement]. a farbrengen. In the course of the day, people (who are fit for the task) should visit centers of observant youth - and, in a neighborly spirit, should make every endeavor to also visit centers On this day, [the first anniversary of the passing of his revered father-inlaw, the Rebbe Rayatz,] the Rebbe Shlita publicly delivered the first maamar, Basi LeGani. 12 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~January 30 2009 Yud Shevat : A Day of Two Rebbes The 10th day of the Jewish month of Shevat (“Yud Shevat” in Hebrew) is a most significant date on the Chassidic calendar. Yitzchok Schneerson who passed away in 1950, on Shabbat morning, Shevat 10, in his apartment on the 2nd floor. Exactly one year later, Rabbi Menachem Mendel SchneerIt is the yahrtzeit of the sixth son held the historic farbrengen in Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Yosef the first floor synagogue, at which he formally accepted the leadership of Chabad. with a historic maamar (discourse). See the story of the beginning of the Rebbe’s Nesius (5711/1951) Rabbi Yosef Yitzchok Schneerson (1880-1950) 6th Rebbe of Chabad-Lubavitch ried Nechamah Dina, daughter of Rabbi Abraham Schneersohn and A Brief Overview granddaughter of the Tzemach Reprinted from Chabad.org Tzedek, the third Chabad rebbe. During the week’s celebrations that Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak Schneerfollowed the wedding ceremony, son, the sixth Rebbe of ChabadRabbi Sholom Dovber announced Lubavitch, was one of the most remarkable Jewish personalities of the twentieth century. In his seventy years, he encountered every conceiv able cha llenge to Jewish life: the persecutions and pogroms of Czarist Russia, Communism’s war on Judaism, and melting-pot America’s apathy and scorn toward the Torah and its precepts. The Rebbe was unique in that he not only experienced these chapters in Jewish history -- as did many of his generation -- but that, as a leader of his people, he actually faced them down, often single-handedly, the founding of Tomchei Tmimim, and prevailed. the Lubavitch yeshivah, and the Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak was the only following year appointed his son son of Rabbi Sholom DovBer, the to be its executive director. It was fifth Rebbe of Chabad, whose devo- there, in the hamlet of Lubavitch in tion to the child’s education is pre-soviet White Russia, that Rabbi lovingly chronicled in Rabbi Yosef Yosef Yitzchok trained the army Yitzchak’s voluminous writings.1 of the faithful torchbearers who, While still in his teens, the young under the impossible conditions of Yosef Yitzchak he served as the the decades to come, would literally right hand of his father. As the per- give their lives to keep the flame of sonal secretary of the Rebbe, Yosef Jewish life ablaze throughout the Yitzchak’s responsibilities included Soviet Union. administrating the many civic and Upon his father’s passing in 1920 communal activities in which the Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak assumed the Rebbe was involved. The young leadership of Russian Jewry just as Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak, in full-length Communism’s all-out war on Jewchassidic garb, was a familiar figure ish life was moving into high gear. in the receiving rooms of the governHis fight to preserve Judaism was ment officials, ministers, and nobles characterized by his all-consuming of Moscow and Petersburg. In 5655 mesirat nefesh - an unequivocally (1895) the young rabbi participated selfless devotion to the physical in the great conference of religious and spiritual needs of a fellow Jew and lay leaders in Kovno, and again and unshakable faith in what he in the following year in Vilna. At stood for. He dispatched teachers times soft-spoken and with words and rabbis to the farthest reaches coming from the heart, at times of the Soviet Empire, establishing audacious and threatening, but a vast underground network of always fearless and determined, he schools, mikvaos, and lifelines of demanded the repeal of anti-Jewish material and spiritual support. decrees, the stopping of pogroms and Stalin’s henchmen did everything the cessation of the government’s in their power to stop him. In 1927 program of forced “enlightenment” he was arrested, beaten, sentenced of traditional Jewish life. to death and exiled; but he stood his On Elul 13, 5657 (1897), at the age ground, and by force of international of seventeen, Yosef Yitzchak mar- pressure he was finally allowed to leave the country. But in leaving the boundaries of the Soviet Union he left his emissaries and their infrastructure of Jewish life behind; these continued to function and thrive, preserving and even spreading the teachings of Torah and chassidism to this very day. When the all-powerful communist regime began to crumble in the closing years of the ‘80s, Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak’s network of children’s schools, outreach centers, and supply lines of kosher food and religious services simply moved out of cellars and attics into emptied Communist Party buildings. Upon arriving in New York after his rescue from Nazi-occupied Warsaw in 1940, Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak took on a no less formidable challenge: the frigid spiritual atmosphere of the western world. There was no telling Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak that his was a losing battle; from his wheelchair, he rallied the Jewish young of America under the cry that “America is no different,” that also in this bastion of materialism the timeless truths of Torah can take root and flourish. He established yeshivas and day schools, a publishing house for Jewish books, a social service organization and community support networks throughout the country. By the time of his passing in 1950 he had laid the foundation for the global renaissance of Torahtrue and chassidic-flavored Jewish life, heralded by his son-in-law and successor, Rabbi Menachem M. Schneerson. G o a l of M i v z t oi m : U lt i m a t e redemption By Rabbi Michoel Seligson therefore, gave to the Jews two Mitzvos. The same is true for all the In one of the Farbrengens on Shabexiles. The mizvos are the vessels for bos Parshas Bo 19771, the Rebbe the Geula. spoke an unusually emotional Sicha in which he gave an insight into the The Rebbe continues: When a fire is ultimate goal of the Mivtzoim. The burning a person will escape from Rebbe was explaining a Rashi on the the blaze and grab anything that he Parsha2. Rashi explains why Hashem can to save from the fire. He might instructed the Jews to fulfill two not grab the clothing he needs, he mitzvos prior to leaving Mitzrayim will grab a tie and put it on in order (Egypt). Rashi quotes Reb Masya to save it from the fire. Ben Charosh. Prior to redeeming Why is this so? Because when a the Jews from Egypt, Hashem saw person finds himself in an emerthat they were bare of Mitzvos, gency moment, he does not make and were not ready to leave Egypt. any calculations or think logically. Hashem therefore gave them the He grabs a tie and puts it on even Mitzvos of bris mila (circumcision) though he dosen’t even have a shirt and Pesach. on. When a fire is burning, G-d The Rebbe asks the question, Why forbid, there is no time and patience must Rashi cite who was the one that for Cheshbonos (calculations). Once said this comment? What would be he has this one garment on him, this lacking if Rashi would only mention will eventually guide him to don all the above mentioned thought and his garments. omit the source of the comment. The same is with Mivtzoim. We meet The Rebbe explains that when a Jew a person on a train or bus, although asks a question about the unusually we know that in a short time the long Golus, Rashi teaches a child person will be getting off, don’t leave the answer. The answer for that is him bare of Mitzvos, the garments relayed to us by the sage Reb Masya of the soul. “Throw something on the son of Charosh. Who was Reb him” a “tie” or any other garment. Masya Ben Charosh? Reb Masya Grab the occasion and talk with him Ben Charosh lived in the Golus of about a specific Mitzva! Eventually, Rome, a time of great oppression. this one Mitzva will bring another His students approached and asked Mitzva. And this will prepare Klal him, “It is already stated in the Yisroel for the Geula. Talmud that all deadlines for the We should all merit, that the Rebbe Golus are over ! So why are we still should lead us, very speedily, to in such a bitter Golus ?!” our holy land “together with the Reb Masya Ben Charosh responded Mivtzoim and Neshek in our hands” to his students, “Look at the first Bkorov Mamash. exile, Mitzrayim. The deadline for redemption had arrived but they were bare of Mitzvos. Hashem 1 2 Sicha of Shabbos Bo 5737 Shmos 12, 6 January 30, 2009 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 13 Shaalos Utshuvos in Modern Times Who made up the way we sing the Torah? By Baruch S. Davidson Question: much of the insight provided by the tunes affects aspects of our souls that are beyond our understanding and Is it important that the Torah be conscious perception.7 Nonetheread in the traditional melody? Who less, some of the implications of made up these melodies anyway? the specific tunes on some verses Response: are elucidated in the Kabbalah and Chassidic teachings. The actual Torah scroll contains only letters. The printed editions, known So the next time you're in the synaas Chumashim, commonly contain gogue, tune in to the chords that not only the vowel markings, but have influenced the soul of our also cantillation marks. Each mark nation ever since we were married signifies a different melodic phrase to the Torah at Sinai.8 with which to chant a word or group Yours truly, of words. In Hebrew, these marks are called ta'amim—from the word Rabbi Baruch S. Davidson ta'am, meaning taste—or in Yiddish, FOOTNOTES the trop. 1. Some accredit these as well to Mosaic The trop is an integral part of reading times. Others attribute the symbols to the the Torah and has historical, mystiMen of the Great Assembly (2nd Temple cal, as well as practical relevance. History: The use of the cantillation marks in current use dates to at least the 9th10th century CE. This was the era of the Masoretes, meticulous scribes in Tiberias, Jerusalem and Babylon who worked to establish a precise common text, vowelization and cantillation for the Tanakh.1 The tradition of the ta'amim by which the Torah is to be sung, however, is as old as the Torah itself. It was taught to Moses together with the vowels, as it is integral to the correct understanding of the Torah.2 3 It is only that the system of notation may have been developed later (and this is also debated). Nonetheless, at one point in history, some of the details of the ta'mim were forgotten by much of the Jewish community, and Ezra the Scribe reintroduced them4. Function: In addition to the pronunciation and emphasis guidance that the ta'amim provide, which affects the meaning and tense of the word, the ta'amim also provides information on the syntactical structure of the text. In addition, it often provides commentary and insight to the text itself, by musically highlighting noteworthy ideas. Some of these insights have been elucidated throughout the generations. Nehemiah 8:8, where we read how the Torah was read and taught before the Jewish people, concludes, "…and they explained the reading to them." The Talmud5 comments that this expression refers to the additional understanding which the ta'amim provide. Some point out that the Hebrew word used for these melodies, ta'amim, means "taste" or "sense,"6 indicating that the ta'amim bring out the flavor of the passage. The implication is that reading words without correct inflection and melody is like eating a tasteless meal. The Chassidic masters write that Era). 2. See Pardes, Gate 28 (Moses Cordevero, 16th century Kabbalist). Some historians opine that the ta'mim were introduced by King Solomon (based on Talmud Eruvin 21b) or Ezra, but this is not so according to the Zohar. 3. For this reason, the Talmud (Nedarim 37b) quotes one opinion that the ta'amim have the Halachic status of Mosaic Law. (The issue at hand there is whether the rules of payment for the teaching of the ta'amim would fall under the same category as the teaching of the actual Torah or not.) 4. Ritva to Yoma 52a, and others. 5. Nedarim ibid. and elsewhere. 6. See Likutei Torah, Shir Hashirim 1:3. 7. Igros Kodesh, vol. 4, pp. 386-387. 8. The ta'amim for the reading of the prophets (such as when reading the Haphtarah), as well as the trop used for the High Holiday readings, differ from the ta'amim used for the standard Torah reading, though they follow the same principles and use the same marks. This is to the exception of Job, Psalms, and Proverbs which have a set of notes, symbols, and patterns of their own. You will also find wide variations in the melodies and modalities from one community to the next, as these were adapted to the local musical modes. Thus an Iraqi Torah reading will sound quite different than a Polish reading, although both adhere to the same principles and follow a the same set of ta'amim. Husband Won't Stick To A Budget Dear Rachel, I am very newly married and now that we are sharing a bank account, I see for the first time that my husband is really spending more money than he should be. He freelances so his income is certainly not consistent, but he buys things as if he has endless resources. I always thought he could afford his more lavish lifestyle but now I see that his credit card debt is mounting and I am worried that it could get out of control. He spends a lot of money on me which I neither want nor need but he always says From Chabad.org he buys me things because he loves me and wants to make me happy. It is not that I don't like nice things, but with today's economic situation I just don't think it is practical to spend like this. He tells me I worry too much, yet I feel he is not being responsible. Any advice? making meals and trying new foods. This can be something both fun and financially wise. You will end up spending more time together (as it will include preparation and cleanup time as well as the time spent eating) and it will be both healthier and less expensive. Concerned Newlywed If you take a good look at the extravagances in your lives and where the money is being spent, there are often much less expensive alternatives. Instead of taking a week-long vacation go away for day trips. Instead of hotels, look into swapping homes or staying in places with kitchenettes so you can bring food along and even do some cooking. Dear Concerned Newlywed, It sounds like there are a few different dynamics going on here. Leaving aside the current financial situation for a moment, it appears that for whatever reason he feels that spending money, both on himself and on you, is something he should be doing. Perhaps he is concerned that if he doesn't keep a certain standard that you will be angry or upset. Maybe he sees that his friends are always buying things for their wives and he either doesn't want you to be jealous or he is trying to keep up with them. Or perhaps this is simply the lifestyle that he enjoys. But if so, it doesn't sound like he can afford it! Often people buy things to make themselves feel better. Shopping can give someone a feeling of control, of newness in their lives, of being able to create the kind of image that they want to have. If his shopping is related to insecurities, the best thing you can do is to try to reassure him and make him feel secure, so that he will not resort to shopping as an outlet. Try to be conscious of how you talk about material things. Sometimes we are not even aware of what we mention. Perhaps you talk about how beautiful a particular huge home is or what you would do for a certain pair of earrings or outfit. Often we make these comments with no real intention of ever having such things, but more as passing comments. But if your husband hears you talk about things he can't afford, he could be feeling pressured that he is not providing for you in the way that you would like. If his money spending is not really unhealthy but more impractical in today's market, then think about ways you can help your overall spending lessen. Look at the things you do in your relationship and where the money is spent. One big money pit often is eating out. Going to a nice restaurant can be romantic, a little get away, relaxing…yet it can also be quite expensive. If you see that he spends a lot of money taking you to dinner, try to create another experience that is just as enjoyable and less expensive. Surprise him and cook a nice dinner for the two of you or make a picnic. Pack him great lunches (and for yourself as well) when you go out for the day so that you don't stop to pick up food. You can suggest taking turns You say you are recently married. More important than anything else, remind your husband both directly and indirectly that you didn't marry him for his money, and you do not love him for the things he buys you. While he may know this intellectually, emotionally he might feel that he has a standard he needs or wants to keep. He wants to take care of you and make you feel secure and maybe he feels that by providing for you materially he is accomplishing this. Remind him that what you need is for him to be healthy and happy, not for him to buy things for you. If over time you see that there is no way for the two of you together to bring your (or his) spending under control, you may want to consider seeking the advice of a financial planner or even a therapist. Spending can unfortunately become an addiction, in which case professional help is needed to curb it. There is a beautiful tradition that under the chupah, under the marriage canopy, that a man empties his pockets and a woman removes all her jewelry. The reason for this tradition is to show that the bride is not marrying this man for his material wealth, for anything that he has in his pockets. She is marrying him for who he is on the inside. And likewise, he is not marrying her for her jewels or her riches or anything external. He is marrying her for who she is, not what she wears. So make sure that this is a message that stays in your marriage and becomes your foundation. May you be blessed in your marriage and lives to have an abundance of wealth, in the spiritual, emotional and material sense, and may you always know how to use it wisely! Rachel 14 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~January 30 2009 Notes Perseverance By Lieba Rudolph The question I ask myself is, “if Moshiach were to come right now, would I be happy with what I was doing?” What I’m doing, of course, is as much subjective as objective. For example, if Moshiach were to come and find me shopping in Filene’s Basement, I could justify being there by saying that a Jewish woman always needs to dress appropriately, and besides, they’re going out of business so everything’s on sale. Or would I be faced with the fact that I had gone AWOL because I don’t need anything at Filene’s? I think my birthday hachlata should be no more recreational shopping. This could be harder than previous birthday hachlatas. One year I took on to always wear a seat belt, another year I decided to give daily tzedaka. How can it be that not doing something can be harder than doing something? I guess that’s like trying to say to the alcoholic that it’s not that hard not to drink —just don’t drink! I’m not seriously addicted to shopping by any stretch of the imagination, but it’s a habit whose time has passed. And I’m another year older, which is a wonderful thing. As I am quick to tell people who a s k how I ’m doing, middle age is not as bad as I thought it would be. Maybe it’s because some of the things I’ve been trying to absorb all these years have actually sunk in. Or maybe it’s because I have seen too many friends leave this world before they even got to dream about middle age. The later pages of the book of life turn quicker, and I’ve always kept a running commentary of what I thought people would say about me if mine were to close. a way of keeping me on my toes. What I know at this point in my life is that I definitely wouldn’t care for it, if people said that I was a great dresser, or how good I looked for my age. shown. Th a t b e i n g the case, this year I’ll try to spend less time in front of the mirror. Would I care if people said they loved my challah or my cholent? Only because it would mean that they were guests in my house and the food reflected t he w a r mt h they were So although I’m not planning to spend more time in the kitchen, I hope I don’t spend less time in the kitchen, since food is such an expression of love. But what I would It’s a bit morbid, I know, but it has really want is for people to say that Jewish History Personality One time on a business expedition Shalom found himself in a very Nistalek: Jerusalem, Eretz Yisrael, dangerous situation, and vowed 10th of Shvat 1777 that if God saved him, he would Rabbi Shalom Sharaby was born move to the Holy Land. Indeed, in the city of Sharab, where his superior intellectual gifts were evident at an early age. Unfortunately, the premature death of his father prevented him from remaining in Talmud-Torah, as the young orphan was now the sole support of his family. Shalom became a traveling merchant and sold his wares from door to door. This left him with only his evenings free to pursue his one true love: the study of Torah. He would often remain in the study hall till the wee hours of the morning before going home to catch a few hours of sleep. God came to his aid, and he left his But Shalom’s thirst for Torah friends and family and embarked knowledge was insatiable. Despite on the long journey through the his achievements, he still felt as if Middle East. On his way he stayed something were missing. It was in India, Baghdad and Damascus. then that he discovered the esoteric There he left a strong impression on realm of Torah - the Kabbalah and the Rabbis. its mysteries - as developed by the sages of Yemen. Enthusiastically he Shalom’s joy knew no bounds when plunged into the study of the higher he finally arrived at the Yeshiva of the worlds and the Torah’s secrets, and Kaabbalists “Beit El” in Jerusalem, distinguished himself in this realm headed by the famous Kabbalist as well. But the young Rabbi Shalom Rabbi Gedalia Chiyun. His soul insisted on working for a living, and longed to join the other students of continued to peddle his notions as the inner aspects of Torah, but he had no wish to reveal his already before. Lucky us. We have the Rebbe’s guidance that actually keeps our life purpose on track, so that every day we are blessed to be alive can actually accomplish something real and eternal. The Rebbe teaches us that the best way to matter to others is to think about others, to view them with loving eyes and do for them with a generous heart. To see that we really are all one…wait, I think I want to add having more ahavas yisroel as a birthday hachlata. This may be harder to measure, but it is all that matters in the end. And the Rebbe has assured us all that the end will soon change, that the unpleasant options of either old age or the obituary page will be gone with the coming of Moshiach. In the meantime, I’ll stay on my toes, not so I will matter to people just in case I leave before he comes, but also so I know that I am doing everything I can to make sure he comes now! hovered over the study hall. The Kabbalist Rabbi Shalom Sharabi - The Rashash Born: Shar’ab, Yemen, 1720 they’d miss me, that I mattered to them—isn’t that what everyone wants? Apparently not, judging from the way so many people in the world live their lives. extensive knowledge. Instead, he presented himself as a simple Jew and found employment as the shamash (sexton) of the study hall. It was a wonderful opportunity to learn without being observed. As a regular presence in the Talmud-Torah, no one paid any attention to Shalom, who kept his eyes and ears open to every word. Thus he gradually increased his knowledge until he far surpassed everyone else. But his greatness remained a secret known only to him. One day Shalom came upon Rabbi Gedalia weeping over an open volume, begging and imploring God to illuminate his mind. It was impossible to ignore such a pitiful sight. Later that night, when the study hall was empty, Shalom wrote the answer on a small piece of paper and left it between the pages of Rabbi Gedalia’s book. The next morning the study hall was in an uproar. The problem that had appeared so difficult and complex had been solved in a clear and logical manner. Everyone was curious where the wonderful explanation had come from, but it remained a great mystery. The strange phenomenon repeated itself several times. Whenever a difficult question was raised in the evening, its answer was found in Rabbi Gedalia’s book the next morning. A thorough investigation was conducted, but the head of One day a question came up in the the Yeshivah could not determine Yeshivah that no one could answer. where the answers were coming For days the Kabbalists consulted from. their heavy tomes, but could not The riddle was solved in a totally come up with a satisfactory explanaunexpected manner, when Rabbi tion. Rabbi Gedalia became almost Gedalia’s young daughter Chana obsessed with the problem, and was happened to mention that she had very perturbed by his inability to noticed the Yemenite shamash solve it. flipping through the pages of one R’ Shalom had been listening to their of her father’s books. In fact, she deliberations and knew the answer. had noticed him doing so on several But not wishing to reveal himself, occasions. The next time an unrehe remained silent. As the days solved question was raised in the progressed, it was as if a dark cloud study hall the Rabbi made believe he Continued on page 15 January 30, 2009 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 15 Shleimus Haaretz An Analysis of the Camp David Peace Process Adapted from Sichos by the Rebbe published by:Sichos In English Publisher’s Foreword The body of the Jewish people — an indivisible and sanctified unity — has suffered a grievous blow: one limb has cut off another. Every responsible remaining limb is now left to do its lonely grief work, to ponder the pent-up currents of mutual intolerance that ultimately erupted with the tragic assassination of Prime Minister Yitzchak Rabin. an Israeli commission of inquiry was instituted to investigate the killings in the Lebanese refuge camps, the Rebbe pointed out that since its sole purpose was to determine Jewish guilt in the matter, instead of determining who were the perpetrators and who issued the orders, this was a travesty of justice. The following synopses of some of the Rebbe’s addresses on the above subjects were published at their respective times by the undersigned publisher, who trusts that they have done justice to their author. We have chosen to reprint them now, because at a time when some individuals on all sides are being distracted by mutual and collective accusations that are unprofitable, unloving and unjust, the voice of the Torah perspective should be clearly heard. At the same time, while lamenting and deploring this divisive and unsanctified deed, no thinking man will want to lose sight of the basic issue that underlies the current ideological contest: whether or not territory should be surrendered in exchange for promises of peace. For at the present critical moment in its history, the Land of Sichos in English Israel — an indivisible and sanctified unity — is tottering under a series of An Analysis of the Camp David Peace grievous blows, and vital limbs are Process being irreversibly cut off. Since the Six Day War in 1967, the In literally hundreds of public addresses Rebbe has unceasingly reiterated his delivered since the Six Day War in opposition to surrendering any of the 1967, the Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi liberated territories. Most recently, Menachem M. Schneerson, explained the Rebbe has time and again warned why none of the liberated territories of the grave danger the Camp David of the Land of Israel should be sur- accords pose to the security of Eretz rendered. Time and again he warned of Yisroel. the grave danger that the Camp David This publication is a synopsis of the accords pose to its security. With the Rebbe’s many public addresses on beginning of Operation Peace for the the subject, translated and adapted Galilee in 1982, the Rebbe called for by Rabbi Yosef Loebenstein. While it the campaign to be carried through to is but a synopsis, every effort has been its logical conclusion — the complete made to give as accurate a representaelimination of the terrorist threat to tion of the Rebbe’s views as possible. Jewish lives. And soon after, when The Rashash Continued from page 14 was going home for the evening but hid in a closet. Indeed, to his utter shock, he observed the shamash consulting the holy tomes and secreting a piece of paper between the pages of his prayer book. The next morning the head of the Yeshivah insisted on seating Rabbi Shalom Sharaby at his right hand side, and revealed to all the great mystery. In fact, he later appointed him his heir and successor, despite his young age of only 27. Chana the daughter of Rabbi Gedalia Chayun became his wife. Rabbi Shalom Sharabi ‘s greatness was thus revealed to everyone in Jerusalem, and many stories are told about his wisdom. For 30 years he served as head of the Beit El Yeshivah, until passing away. During these 30 years he also succeeded in protecting the Jews of Yerushalayim from their Moslem neighbors. and Reb Gershon of Kitov (brotherin-law of the Baal Shem Tov). The Chido (Rabbi Chaim Yosef David Azulai) describes The Rashash as a holy man who knew all the books of kabbalah he was studying, orally, and was using all the kavanot written by the Ari. In his study of Kabbalah, the Rashash would only study the Zohar, the writings of the Ari and his student Rabbi Chaim Vital. He would not study books written by other students of the Ari or any other early or late kabbalists. Rabbi Shalom Sharaby wrote a siddur called Siddur HaRashash, a kabbalistic prayer book based mainly on the teachings of the Ari HaKadosh. The introduction to his siddur is called Rechovot HaNahar. This prayer book is still used today by kabbalists for prayer. 1. The Halacha has exacted a terrible toll. The Jewish people have had to mourn for their finest sons lost in battle over the past years. How much longer must we live in constant fear of war, unceasingly vigilant of our very lives? All Jews desperately yearn for peace, for a time when guns will not be necessary for our very survival. The Camp David accords, which so many Jews hoped would bring the peace so long awaited, are in reality the exact opposite. They constitute a grave danger to the security of Eretz Yisroel, and on the grounds of pikuach nefesh Halachah forbids the surrender of any And so, when several years ago the territory necessary for security. prospect of peace suddenly seemed a little less impossible, Jews world-wide When it is a city close to the border, began to hope and pray — maybe we then, even if they want to come only would finally be able to live in peace. for the purpose of [taking] straw The visit of President Sadat of Egypt to and stubble, we desecrate the ShabJerusalem opened up new, undreamed bos because of them; for [if we do of, vistas. Were the Arabs really ready not prevent their coming] they may to abandon their unceasing hostility conquer the city, and from there the and recognize our title to our land? [rest of the] land will be easy for them to conquer. Shulchan Aruch, Orach Thus was born the Camp David peace Chaim 329:6 process. The three major characters: An American President who needed The whole earth belongs to the Holy peace and stability in the Middle One, Blessed be He; He created it and East region, a Jewish Prime Minister gave it to whom He pleased. Of His who desperately wanted peace for his own will He gave it to them, and of His people and country, and an Egyptian own will He took if from them and gave President who wanted...what? Genuine it to us. Rashi, Bereishis 1:1 peace? Or a political means of obtain“Rabbi Yitzchak said: The Torah ing that which he could not win in [whose main object is to teach com- battle? It doesn’t really matter, thought mandments] should have commenced Jews. Peace is peace; and any peace is from the verse (Shmos 12:2) ‘This better than no peace. month shall be unto you the first of But is it? The very word, peace, triggers the months,’ which is the first comdeep emotions; and of all peoples, mandment given to Israel. Why then Jews, who have suffered so long and so does it commence with [the account much, yearn most for it. But because of] Bereishis? Because [of the concept we long for it so desperately, we can expressed in the text] ‘He declared to easily be blinded to reality. To put His people the power of His works it bluntly, the Camp David accords [i.e. He gave an account of the work do not spell peace, not even a small of Creation] in order to give them the step towards it. This agreement is an heritage of the nations.’ For should unmitigated disaster for Eretz Yisroel, the nations of the world say to Israel, and has placed over three million Jews ‘You are robbers, because you took by in greater jeopardy than before. force the lands of the seven nations [of Canaan,]’ Israel will reply to them ‘The Such a statement is not made lightly. whole earth belongs to the Holy One, But this is a matter which concerns Blessed be He; He created it and gave the security of millions of Jews, and it to whom He pleased. Of His own we cannot afford to close our eyes will He gave it to them, and of His own and hope for the best. The Camp will He took it from them and gave it David accords and their results must be examined closely, logically, and to us’” (Rashi, Bereishis 1:1). unclouded by emotion. Above all, we For more than thirty years now Eretz must see what Halachah, Jewish law, Yisroel has been in the hands of its has to say. Jews govern their lives by the rightful owners, the Jewish people. Torah, and first and foremost we must And even while exiled from our land look to the Torah for direction. we retained our ownership, an eternal heritage from the eternal G‑d to His Before analyzing the Camp David eternal people. No power on earth accords, let us first see exactly what could change that. are its terms. Eretz Yisroel will surrender the majority of the Sinai (in The Arab people have, in recent years, three phases, the first two already been at war with the Jewish people, completed). This encompasses a) the seeking to wrest possession of the land land, b) the oilfields, c) the advanced air from us. They accuse us of robbery, fields, d) evacuation of all Jewish settle of taking the land by force from the ments. In addition, the ‘Palestinians’ ‘Palestinians.’ The text quoted above will be given some form of autonomy. is peculiarly apt for our times, is it not? In return, Egypt extends recognition For we are not robbers. The land has to the Jews of Eretz Yisroel and signs a always been Eretz Yisroel. Palestine is a peace treaty, officially ending the state foreign name, imposed upon it by othof war which has existed over the past ers. To us it has always been the Holy years. This, briefly, constitutes the main Land, given by G‑d to His people. point of the Camp David accords. We Can There be Peace? proceed now to the analysis. The Rashash was buried at Har HaZeitim (Mount Olives). He made a promise before his death that Some of Reb Shalom’s main students whoever will visit his gravesite and were The Chido, Reb Yom-Tov will pray with a pure heart, his prayer But while we may be determined to (To be continued) Elgazy, Reb Chaim De La Roza will not go unanswered. keep that which is ours, constant war 16 CROWN HEIGHTS Newspaper ~January 30 2009 Financial Interest Teach Kids the Value of Money From Kiplinger.com chases are still beyond the child's comprehension. Here's how to encourage financial responsibility and what you can Giving an allowance probably doesn't expect of your children. make sense at this age because children's concept of time isn't developed A family money-management plan enough to grasp the idea of receiving with any hope of success will have a regular income. Besides, you know to include the kids -- which is easier what they'd spend it on. said than done. You can teach your 4-year-old to close the front door, but Nevertheless, there are a few specific you can't expect him to understand money-related exercises that can that you don't want to pay for air- benefit a preschooler. As your child conditioning the whole neighbor- learns to count, you can demonstrate hood. A teenager, on the other hand, the relationship between pennies should understand that and more. and nickels, then dimes and quarters. Also, children like to play store Lessons in financial responsibility with play money. It's a good way for must take into account a child's age them to learn the role of money. and level of maturity, but there are general guidelines you can follow. Situations that don't seem to be connected with money at all may • Teach K ids the Value of Money Here's how to encourage financial responsibility and what you can expect of your children. • Allowance: When and How Much? Start at an appropriate age so kids can start learning how to handle money. • Using Money to Reward or Punish Cash as an incentive should only be used in small amounts in select circumstances. • Way s to Give Money to be the most important influences. If Children preschoolers are encouraged to share Custodial accounts and trusts things, to take care of their toys and are ways to transfer cash to your pick up after themselves, their sense kids. of responsibility will be reflected Your attitude toward money -- the in the attitudes they develop about way you handle it and discuss it money. Psychologists generally -- makes an impression on your chil- agree that a person's attitude toward dren just as surely as your attitude money is really an extension of attitudes toward other things. toward other personal matters. If you speak longingly of the neighbor's new car or television set, if you spend impulsively, if you often quarrel about money with your spouse, the children will notice. Your behavior reveals the place money has in your life. It's unrealistic to expect your children to develop an attitude toward money that's more mature than your own. So what can you do to encourage financial responsibility in children of various ages, and how much can you expect of a child? W hat preschoolers can learn about money Three- and 4-year-olds aren't too young to start learning about money. At least they can be shown that money is something you exchange for something else. You might want to give your child a few coins to spend on a piece of penny candy or fruit at the store. This will demonstrate the use of money, even though the relative merits of different pur- Thus, if children feel secure at home and are given freedom to explore their environment within reasonable limits, then they are off on the right foot where money is concerned, too. Good money habits for kids Allowance. Most kids are ready for a regular allowance when they start school. A weekly schedule is probably best. The amount depends on what you expect the child to buy. If he or she has to pay for lunch and bus fare, then the allowance must be bigger than if you paid those expenses yourself. Either way, kids need free money, to spend or save as they see fit. Handing out exact change for lunch doesn't teach children much if they merely convey the money from your hands to the hands of a cafeteria cashier. Deciding what to do with an extra dollar each week is a more valuable experience than just carting lunch money to school. total family income or the size of the mortgage, but they should know With a little extra money at their what pressures are on the budget. disposal, kids in the elementary grades become serious shoppers. A few cautions about including kids Help them learn to compare quality in family financial affairs: First, don't and prices of similar items. Allow expect them to shoulder the weight them to make small choices on their of a financial crisis. Second, don't own, such as gifts for friends or toys make them feel guilty about costing for themselves. As they mature, give you money. If financial setbacks them more say in buying clothes for make cutting some expenditures school and play, pointing out why necessary, deciding where to trim one purchase may be a better buy the family budget can be an educathan another because of quality, tional exercise. appropriateness or price. This will Saving. equip them for making intelligent choices. Children also should learn to save money on their own -- starting in Allowing kids to do their own shopelementary school. The simplest way ping means you have to expect some is for you to open savings accounts mistakes -- a cheap toy that breaks in their names. For an account in the first day, or too much candy, the name of a very young child, you or clothes that don't fit. Let your can make deposits and withdrawals child make mistakes like that. Then on the child's behalf. Children who do your best have reached the age of "competence" to ma ke it -- a subjective standard that depends a le a r n i n g on state law -- can open and manage experience, their own accounts. not si mply an occasion Some banks charge stiff service fees to say, "I told for small accounts but may make an exception for minors' accounts. you so." If not, the service fees can be high Family enough not only to wipe out the financial interest earned each month but discussions. also to eat into the principal. That's Includa valuable lesson to learn, but not ing older one that most young children are elementaryready for. school kids in a few family The Young Americans Bank offers financial discussions is a good way savings accounts, checking accounts, to demonstrate the kinds of choices even credit cards and loans, to adults face. For example, the cost of customers under age 21. Parents a family vacation depends largely on of children younger than 18 must where you go. Would the kids rather become joint owners of the accounts. spend one week at the beach or two For your child to withdraw money weeks in the mountains? Teenagers from the account, both of you have should participate regularly in fam- to agree to it, or you can sign a ily financial discussions. They still release allowing your child to make needn't know every detail, such as withdrawals on his or her own. January 30, 2009 ~ crOWN heights Newspaper 17 To the Point of Self Sacrifice” Told by the Lubavitcher Rebbe personally responsible for many of Courtesy of MeaningfulLife.com the devastating pogroms which were “arranged” for the Jews of Russia in Reprinted from Chabad.org those years. It was during Rabbi Yosef YitzLiving in Petersburg was an elderly chok’s younger years, when the scholar, a former teacher and mentor Czarist regime still ruled the Russian Empire. A new decree against the Jewish community was in the works, aimed at forcing changes in the structure of the rabbinate and Jewish education. Rabbi Sholom DovBer (the fifth Lubavitcher Rebbe) dispatched his son, Rabbi Yosef Yitzchok, to the Russian capital of Petersburg to prevent the decree from being enacted. When Rabbi Yosef Yitzchok asked how long he was to stay in Petersburg, his father replied, “to the point of self-sacrifice.” Upon his arrival in Petersburg, Rabbi Yosef Yitzchok learned that the decree had already reached the desk of Stalin, the interior minister of Russia and arguably the most powerful man in the Russian Empire. The ruling Czar’s intelligence (or lack thereof) made him a virtual rubber stamp for whichever minister the prevailing political climate favored; at the that particular time, His Highness was led by the nose by Interior Minister Stalin, a heartless tyrant and rabid Anti-Semite who was of the Interior Minister. Rabbi Yosef Yitzchok succeeded in befriending this man, who was greatly impressed by the scope and depth of the young chossid’s knowledge. For many an evening the two would sit and talk in the old man’s study. “To speak with him would be useless. The man has a cruel and malicious heart, and I have already severed all contact with this vile creature many years ago. But there is one thing I can do for you. Because of my status as Stalin’s mentor, I have been granted a permanent entry pass into the offices of the interior ministry. I need not explain to you the consequences, for both of us, if you are found out. But I have come to respect you and what you stand for, and I have decided to help you.” When Rabbi Yosef Y it z c hok pre sented the pass at the interior ministry, the guard on duty was stupefied: few were the cabinet-level ministers granted such a privilege, and here stands a young chassid, complete with beard, sidelocks, chassidic garb and Yiddish accent, at a time when to even reside in Petersburg was forbidden to Jews. But the pass was in order, so he waved him through. for directions could only stare at the strange apparition confidently striding the corridors of the interior ministry. Soon he located the minister’s office at the far end of a commanding hallway on the fourth floor of the building. As Rabbi Yosef Yitzchok walked toward the office, the door opened and Stalin himself walked out and closed the door behind him. The Rebbe’s son and the interior minister passed within a few feet of each other. Rabbi Yosef Yitzchok made straight for the office, opened the door, and walked in. After a quick search, Rabbi Yosef Yitzchok located the documents pertaining to the decree in Stalin’s desk. On the desk sat two ink stamps, bearing the words ‘APPROVED’ or ‘REJECTED’ above the minister’s signature and seal. Quickly, Rabbi Yosef Yitzchok stamped the proposed decree ‘REJECTED’ and inserted the papers into a pile of vetoed documents which sat in a tray on the desk. He then left the room, closed the door behind him, and walked out of the building. One day, Rabbi Yosef Yitzchok told his new friend the purpose of his stay Rabbi Yosef Yitzchok entered the in Petersburg and pleaded with him building and proceeded to look for to assist him in reaching the Interior Stalin’s office. Those whom he asked Minister. The old scholar replied: Swimming is great low impact exercise! Come to the Rec-Center! January 2009SUNDAY EVERYONE MUST HAVE A BATHING CAP TO ENTER THE POOL! 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