Winter - Legacy
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Winter - Legacy
Torch winter 2012 Caring for families of Deceased and Incapacitated Veterans 1923 - 2012 Inside this issue... 3Anzac—Its Meaning And Its Lesson 4Remembering Our Aboriginal And Torres Strait Islander Veterans 4What Can We Do For You? 6Florance Foundation Visit To Canberra 2012 7 Council Taxis 8The Ghan Anzac Tribute – 2012 9‘Star’ Presentations At Caloundra Laurel Club 9 Scam Letter Alert! 10Have You Heard About Twitter? 10 To Make You Laugh 12 Urinary Tract Infections in the Elderly 12 100th Birthday Celebrated. 14 Coping With Sudden Death 16 Torch Giveaway! President’s Report On the cover... Wall of Remembrance at the Australian War Memorial in Canberra T his I ssue 2 President’s Report 3Anzac—Its Meaning And Its Lesson 4Remembering Our Aboriginal And Torres Strait Islander Veterans 4What Can We Do For You? 6Florance Foundation Visit To Canberra 2012 7 Council Taxis 8The Ghan Anzac Tribute – 2012 9‘Star’ Presentations At Caloundra Laurel Club 9 Scam Letter Alert! 10Have You Heard About Twitter? 10To Make You Laugh 11 Recipe: Fruit Salad Tart 12 Urinary Tract Infections in the Elderly 12 100th Birthday Celebrated. 13 Your Torch 14 Coping With Sudden Death 16Word Finder No.3 16Torch Giveaway! 17 Crossword Puzzle No.3 17 Holiday Units 18 Care Groups 19 Change Of Address? 2 Torch What a winter blast we have just experienced! A little rain and some cold winds was just enough to remind me that winter is well on the way. Anzac Day is a special time for the Legacy family. It was commemorated by many of our widows and children at various marches and services throughout South East Queensland. In the city our focus was once again on the children. We had approximately 50 widows and children march under the Legacy Banner. Many of our staff assisted with the organisation and the march. The march is highly significant as the widows and children are marching because their husbands and fathers can not and I think the generous reception we received on the march is because the public recognise this. After the march, lunch was generously provided the Fox Hotel adjacent to Legacy House. This year we did not get the publicity we managed to generate last year but our little group was extremely well received. As you know, the AFL commemorates Anzac Day through a series of Anzac Week games. Many will have seen the annual Anzac Day match between Collingwood and Essendon which has become a fixture on the Melbourne calendar. In Brisbane, the tradition is not quite as entrenched but nonetheless the AFL continues to support the concept of an Anzac Week game. This year it was held on Saturday 28 April at the Gabba for a Lions’ home game against Geelong. I have mentioned to many of you that following a change made at the last National Conference, we are now providing care to the families, particularly the children, of veterans who are suffering some form of incapacity. This is not to assume that we provide care to the families of all incapacitated veterans, rather to the small number where the veteran’s incapacity is impacting adversely on his family. In other words, there is a real need for support to be provided to the family. Other organisations such as DVA, the RSL, etc, are responsible to provide support to the veteran. This is a new and challenging field for Legacy but one which is in keeping with our spirit and ethos. I have been fortunate to attend several Care Group functions recently. These are always good fun and I appreciate meeting so many of you. I am still concerned that attendances continue to fall. However, I want you all to know that I regard our Care Groups and Laurel Clubs as critical to Brisbane Legacy. I know I have asked before but please discuss with your Legatee how you believe Legacy can continue to support you in the years ahead. Take Care In keeping with the Anzac spirit of the week, I was asked to toss the coin prior to the match. This was a great thrill but in the process I got drenched. Winter 2012 ANZAC—Its Meaning and Its Lesson “Let us try to follow the example of courage, endurance, loyalty and comradeship set by those who, in two great wars, fell with their faces to the foe.” Have you ever paused in your race against time, in your vain striving to further your ambitions and meaningless desires in this cold, hard world of mechanism, paused for just one moment to look back through time to that day, now so many years ago, when gallant youth sacrificed itself that an ungrateful world might continue its everyday life in peace and freedom? And, looking back, have you tried to fathom the meaning and lesion this brave attack should convey to us, who live in a different age, an age of more worldly aims, of death and destruction more terrible than they ever dreamed of? Anzac is a word which burns deep into the mind of anyone who believes in peace and prosperity with government in the interests of the people, and reviles tyrannical rule and with it the crazy genius which works only towards world domination, entirely disregarding the sufferings or fate of any lesser creature—or race—which stands in its path to power; for this is what those immortal heroes gave themselves to defend—not only that scrub bound coast, but what it symbolised—the rights of man. path to the future, to be trod by countless free nations. There was no thought of surrender in those young men. Before they even reached the beaches they were stormed at by shot and shell. They leaped from the barges to the deadly mined sands and charged towards the Turks on the hills. There was no turning back—none thought of it! Death lay behind them; Death lay before them. They were cut off, isolated, lost in unfamiliar scrub, involved in sudden point-blank duels. They fought and died nobly, these children from the dominions, fought and died to defend their beloved motherland and the freedom of all men everywhere. “They were the flower of this world’s manhood and died as they had lived, owning no master on this earth.” They fell, believing that from their death would rise a wiser world dwelling in peace. But such was not to be, and since then has been fought another, far more dreadful, world war. Let us join with those whose homes have suffered and those who remember only too well the war and all its terrors, in remembering those brave men who fought and died for us in defence of freedom. Let us learn, from their undying example, to follow in the footsteps of these brave men of Anzac, the men of the Kokoda Trail, of Syria, Crete and Egypt; and let us try to follow the example of courage, endurance, loyalty and comradeship set by those who, in two great wars, “fell with their faces to the foe.” “They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old, Age shall not weary them nor the years condemn, At the going down of the sun and in the morning, We will remember them.” —Binyon. Patricia Haggard. This poem was given to us by Doreen Woolard of Indooroopilly. Doreen has kept this and two other poems also written by a talented young writer by the name of Patricia Haggard for almost forty years. The writer entered the poems in a newspaper competition and on each occasion won. Doreen wonders if anyone knows Patricia Haggard? If you know anything of her please drop us a line at Legacy House to let us know. Had that day never occurred, had those in charge never determined on attacking the Turkish-held peninsula that misty morning, perhaps we should never have grasped the full meaning of that love of country which makes some give themselves to pave, the new Caring for the families of our deceased and incapacitated veterans Torch 3 REMEMBERING OUR ABORIGINAL AND TORRES STRAIT ISLANDER VETERANS The Minister for Veterans’ Affairs, Warren Snowdon, encouraged Australians to recognise the contribution Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander men and women have made in serving the country, during National Reconciliation Week, 27 May – 3 June 2012. Mr Snowdon said Aboriginal and Torres Straight Islander sailors, soldiers, airmen and women have been part of Australia’s wartime history dating back to the Boer War. “Reconciliation Week is an opportunity to reflect on the important contribution Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander men and women have made in all wars, conflicts and peacekeeping operations including current operations in Afghanistan,” he said. “Unfortunately though, there is no official record of how many Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples have served for Australia, as identifying ethnicity has never been a requirement for enlistment, by all estimates it has been many thousands. “Captain Reg Saunders is perhaps one of the most well known Aboriginal servicemen. He was the first Aboriginal military officer in the Australian Defence Force, serving in Libya, Greece and Crete in the Second World War and later in the Korean War. he continued to direct the fire of machine-gunners, and received a posthumous Mention in Despatches for his bravery. “These two men are among many shining examples of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander men and women in our armed forces. Today approximately 800 current serving men and women identify as Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander.” Memorial Ceremonies will be held around the country during Reconciliation Week. “Corporal Norman Womal served with 5 Battalion, Royal Australian Regiment during the Vietnam War. Even after being wounded What can We do for you? We hope that everyone enjoys receiving their Torch magazine every quarter. We would also like to remind you that we are here to help in ways that you may not realise, or might have forgotten about. For example- each area (even the regional areas!) has its own group of Legatees, those wonderful people dedicating their time in service to you our legacy Ladies, should you need their help. They can help you find information about local supports and services you may need, point you in the right direction for advice on a whole range of things from home help to legal matters. They are also happy 4 Torch to pop around for a cup of tea and a chat if you need someone to talk to. All you need to do is ask! If you’re not sure who your Legatee is, please call Legacy House and our lovely receptionist Karen will provide you with the name and contact details for your Legatee. Legacy also has professional Community services Officers, women who provide home visits to those ladies who require a higher level of support and may not have families available to help. They are there if you need a lady to talk with about a personal or health matter and they have great knowledge of all the information, services and benefits that are available for you in your unique situation. If you would like to talk to a Community Services Officer, or would like to request a home visit, please call Legacy House and ask to speak to the Duty CSO. The telephone number at Legacy House is 3846 4299 Winter 2012 ’s ily EE m Fa e s F r u r am E d Yo N av gr EN Personalised diamond Bracelet Gleaming 24-carat Gold Accents Hand-Set With 10 Genuine Diamonds Each member of the family... as precious as a diamond! Arrives in a custom case with gift box and Certificate of Authenticity Shown with four names engraved Celebrate the Gift of Family with Sparkling Ribbons of Love A Remarkable Value ... Available for a Limited Time The brilliance of genuine diamonds radiates in a beautiful presentation of the love you cherish most. 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To explain the importance of this trip let me take you back to one of the highlights of my husband’s Army career. In 1993 Captain Michael Wiltshire had the honour of being Guard Commander for the Return of the Unknown Soldier. A trip he always talked about with great pride & emotion. While touring France & Belgium Michael visited his Great Uncles war grave, battlefields & participated in many ceremonies. Finally, on 11 November 1993 – the 75th anniversary of the Armistice which ended the fighting on the Western Front - Michael marched in a WW1 uniform to the final resting place of the Unknown Soldier at the Australian War Memorial. proportions. The stories Karin & Carlie our guides shared, brought the displays to life as did walking in the trenches in the discovery zone. James particularly enjoyed the flight & sound show amongst all the different aircraft & Emily enjoyed the atmosphere walking around the pool of remembrance and seeing all the poppies on the walls of the Roll of Honour. We were treated by the sounds of the lone piper at the closing ceremony. (The Bugle plays on alternate days). This was the beginning of an amazing week of discovery & understanding. Anzac Day began with a chilling 2°c at the Dawn Service. We shouldn’t complain. Ninety-seven years ago the Anzac’s were expected to jump into the water & climb a cliff face while being fired upon. The candles flickered, the bugle played & we huddled together. It supposedly reached a sunny 13°c for the later service but I think the wind chill factor kicked in. As we took our seats in the VIP area Tony Abbott was invited over to meet the Legacy group (the PM was overseas). Then the parade proceeded. Bands played, medals glistened, the young & old marched by. Old men in jeeps, the riderless horse, our National Capital had it all. We listened, reflected & laid wreaths. Just as I was thinking this is the best Anzac Service I’ve ever been to, we looked to the skies to be dazzled by three Hornets thundering by. Yes, it was clearly the best. The day didn’t end there. Off to the Parliament House for a private tour. The thought & attention to detail was amazing. From the marble entrance you are led into the Great Hall with beautiful timbers & a tapestry, twenty metres wide by nine metres high. Upstairs stunning art work & portraits of past prime ministers line the walls. Floor to ceiling glass panels allow opportunities to see manicured gardens with a splash of autumn colour. On the lawn roof is the 81 metre stainless steel flagpole flying the Australian flag the size of a double decker bus. Even if you’re not interested in politics you have to admit it’s impressive. Now many years on at that very Memorial, James & Emily’s trip begins with a private ceremony along with six other junior legatees (from various states). James laid a wreath for the Unknown Soldier. There are over six million tiles on the mosaic covered walls. Fifteen stain glass windows & a decorative dome giving the hall its grand 6 Torch Winter 2012 Kokoda Kokoda My privilege of spending a few days with the program was over. I was farewelled by Pat (Graham’s lovely wife) who generously gave up her time to be my private tour guide/chauffeur. I left the children in safe hands knowing they still had lots to see. To be honest, I’m not sure I could have kept the pace. the scene tour of the Federal Police including patting the attack dog (for those who were brave enough), a peek at the weapons & a drive in the armoured assault vehicle (Bearcat) through the streets of Canberra- that turned some heads! Finally, a tour of the Prime Ministers private jet. Here is just a taste of what else the junior legatees experienced; staying at the Australian Institute of Sport, they toured the facilities & tried out some equipment. They ate buffet style meals with the athletes, except of course when they had a very special afternoon tea at the Turkish Embassy & dinner at the Country Club. Visited; the National Capital Exhibition, Telstra Tower, Questacon, CSIRO Discovery, Memorials & Legacy Park. Somehow they squeezed in shopping, a bike ride around the lake & bowling – Emily triumphed (Go Girl!) But wait there’s more – only for extreme VIP’s- a behind We now have a deeper knowledge of our National Capital & military history with a new appreciation & greater respect for those who have served our country & continue to protect us. Memories to treasure forever made special by the people we met along the way. A special thank you to Graham, Pat, Canberra Legacy & staff at the Australian War Memorial for sharing your passion & enthusiasm. It will be even more difficult to hold back that tear next time I see a parade or hear the bugle play. We will remember them! Kerrie Wiltshire Council Taxis Council cabs provide low cost transport options in the Brisbane City Council area You can regain your independence by using a council cab. You don’t have to rely on family and friends to get to your local shopping centre if you are: • Over 60 • Mobility impaired • A pension Concession card holder A council cab will take you to your local shopping centre for a fare that is cheaper than the usual taxi fare. There are set days for each area, so check when you book which day is best for you. If you need wheelchair access, please mention at time of booking so they can plan ahead. Council cabs operate either weekly or twice weekly depending on the area. All you have to do is book ahead by calling 3403 2227 Caring for the families of our deceased and incapacitated veterans A Tribute in Verse The CD, ‘Kokoda – A Tribute in Verse’, is a newly released compilation of verse centred around the iconic Kokoda Trail, narrated and produced by Legatee Chad Sherrin. The landing of Japanese forces on New Guinea’s north shore in July 1942 represented a direct threat to Australia; the capture of Port Moresby would provide stepping stone to conquest of the Australian mainland. The diggers of Maroubra Force fought a dogged battle along the Kokoda Trail, against formidable odds and in the most atrocious of conditions, to ensure this would not happen. The poetry featured in the tribute, much of it written by the Diggers themselves, provides a poignant glimpse into the soldiers’ war, their courage, their thoughts, their feelings and emotions as they fought that desperate battle to save our country. Each poem is accompanied by a narrative setting the verse within the context of the fighting on the Kokoda Trail. This special tribute is dedicated to those men who fought and died on the Kokoda Trail in those dark days of 1942. 30% of the proceeds of sale of the CD are donated to Legacy. $15.00 (includes postage & handling) Torch 7 THE GHAN ANZAC TRIBUTE – 2012 For ANZAC day 2012, my husband Legatee Garth Bowes and I decided we would travel on the Ghan from Darwin to Adelaide on the special Ghan ANZAC Tribute journey. We joined our friends Legatee Peter Cameron from South East Group, Brisbane Legacy and his wife Margaret for the trip. Both Garth and Peter served in the RAAF for over 20 years and served together in Vietnam and at the Embassy of Australia in Washington DC, USA. We boarded the Ghan in Darwin and travelled to Adelaide River where buses were waiting to transport passengers to the Adelaide River War Cemetery where victims of the Japanese raids on Darwin are buried. This beautifully kept cemetery was a hive of activity when we arrived as rehearsals for ANZAC day were in full swing. After that it was back on the train for the trip to Katherine where the train stopped for 24 hours. Entertainment after dinner that night was provided by the local indigenous community and by John Schumann, well known singer and songwriter, from the group Redgum. Unfortunately the weather was not being kind by threatening to rain. It was up early next morning to attend the Dawn Service at Katherine. The President of the Katherine RSL Sub Branch, Mark Hagger, invited Garth and Peter to lay the wreath on behalf of the Vietnam Veterans, which of course they were honoured to do. There was an excellent turn out for the service as it was quite cool and still threatening to rain. Everyone was invited to the Katherine Club for breakfast and credit must go to the workers who cooked and served the food so quickly and efficiently to so many people who packed the club. By the time that was over, it was time to return to the Memorial Park for the march and morning service. The march commenced as a trio of RAAF jets screamed overhead in salute. A large number of marchers were in attendance both from the Katherine 8 Torch community and from the Ghan visitors as well as a large contingent from the RAAF Base Tindal. Following the service it was back on the buses to return to the train for lunch. Following lunch we were taken to the Katherine Gorge or Nitmiluk as it is known locally. A peaceful boat trip down the first gorge was highlighted by an informative and amusing commentary as well as the sighting of a couple of freshwater crocodiles trying to hide along the edge of the water. Upon return to land, once again John Schumann was waiting to entertain everyone in this beautiful ancient setting. By the time we returned to the train after as very busy ANZAC day, everyone was glad to reach their beds as the train headed towards Alice Springs. We woke to a beautiful sunrise over a lush green outback after the wet season and reached Alice Springs where visitors were able to take a variety of activities. Unfortunately the train was only there for just over 3 hours so it was a bit rushed. Alice Springs had had its coldest morning for the year, 5 degrees with a sneaky wind. Too soon we were on our way south again towards Port Augusta which we reached next morning. There we were taken on the Pichi Richi steam railway to Quorn. This old steam train was a commemorative World War 2 troop train although I am sure the restored carriages were far more comfortable than when the troops travelled in them. This was quite an experience taking us back to our young days, the smell of the coal and soot in the eyes. We travelled by bus back to Port Augusta and it was on to Adelaide and the end of our journey. The staff of the Ghan were wonderful to us all, always willing to help, friendly and full of fun and nothing was too much trouble for them. The food on the train was of excellent quality and we always seemed to be eating. A lot of the travellers on this trip were either veterans, retired service personnel or families of veterans who had an interest in commemorating ANZAC day in a slightly different way than they would normally do so. There were also many back packers and other travellers on the train making their way from Darwin to Adelaide who were able to join in the extra activities included in this extended trip. It is hoped that Great Southern Rail will once again stage this special trip for ANZAC day 2013 and I would recommend it to anyone who enjoys train travel and wishes to remember this special day in a special way. Great Southern Rail may be accessed on the internet www.greatsouthernrail.com.au or by phone on 132147 for any further information. Legatee Helen Bowes Vice Chair – Sunshine Coast Legacy Group 5th May 2012 Winter 2012 ‘STAR’ PRESENTATIONS AT CALOUNDRA LAUREL CLUB Legatee Jim Meakins reports: “The President of the Caloundra Laurel Club, Margaret Fraser, made two presentations at the monthly meeting held at the Caloundra RSL Sub-Branch rooms on Monday the 2nd of March.” Firstly, Margaret presented 94-year old Legacy Widow Gracie Boyd with a photograph of Gracie cutting a special celebration cake for Club Members aged ninety and over. This pleasant task was followed by another - presentation of a hamper to Lal Kennedy in appreciation of her seventeen years service as the Treasurer of the Club. Lal has handed over the responsibility for financial management to Kathleen Millard. Margaret (left) and Gracie Boyd Following the meeting twenty nine of the ladies, accompanied by Legatees Billy Bunter and Jim Meakins, boarded a bus for a trip to the Caboolture Sports Club where a superb lunch was had before returning to the Caloundra RSL at 2:30 p.m.” Smiles all around - Lal Kennedy and Margaret Scam letter alert! A couple of Legacy ladies have received a letter in the mail recently, addressed directly to them and advising of funds left behind by a deceased persona allegedly related to them. The author of the letter purports to be a Barrister from Europe and is attempting to extract personal details so that “the money is to be shared equally between us”. The author is attempting to entice the addressee into an illegal arrangement. The letter begins “Firstly I must solicit your confidence in this transaction, this is by virtue of its nature as being utterly confidential and top secret”. It goes on to say that “I am asking Caring for the families of our deceased and incapacitated veterans for your consent to present you to the Bank as next of Kin/beneficiary of my late client’s fund since you have the same last name, so that the funds can be paid into your account”. If you come across a letter like this please pay no heed and destroy it immediately. Torch 9 Have you heard about Twitter? I recently joined Twitter! It’s just like an on-line conversation with friends and/ or people from all over the world. It’s a great tool for short, sharp conversations and sharing links to blogs (on-line diaries), websites and video content and so many interesting people have twitter accounts. I suddenly felt I was missing something! Now I have 37 “followers” and I follow 81 “tweeters”, who fall into a few broad categories: News; Australian politics; Climate Change; and some well-known Australian/ American/English identities. Twitter restricts your tweets (comments) to 140 characters— Which ends up being a surprising amount of text. With 140 characters your tweets can make sense and be very witty too. Tweets have become so much more than text. You can add links to other sites of interest as well. It’s easy to sign-up. Go to twitter. com, click sign-up and follow the prompts. During the sign-up process you will be asked to follow suggested tweeters (up to five) at each step (but you can adjust who you follow later). I found this a bit annoying and didn’t realise I could skip this. On the other hand when the process finished I was already receiving tweets! This article was written by Annie Humphries from Brisbane Seniors on-line. BSOL exists to help seniors in Brisbane deal with ever-changing technology, and get enjoyment from using their digital equipment. They publish an on-line newsletter called The Digital Senior which contains articles and tips for seniors using the internet. Their website is www.bsol.asn.au. Mashable.com has put together a Twitter Guide which covers all things twitter such as how to “retweet”, what “hashtag”s are for, favourites, lists, and much much more. It’s a gateway to another world. To make you laugh An atheist was walking through the woods… ‘What majestic trees! What powerful rivers! What beautiful animals!’ He said to himself. As he was walking alongside the river, he heard a rustling in the bushes behind him. He turned to look. He saw a 7-foot grizzly bear charge towards him. He ran as fast as he could up the path. He looked over his shoulder and saw that the bear was closing in on him. He looked over his shoulder again and the bear was even closer. He tripped and fell on the ground. 10 Torch He rolled over to pick himself up but saw that the bear was right on top of him, reaching for him with his left paw and raising his right paw to strike him... At that instant the Atheist cried out, ‘Oh my God!’ The atheist looked directly into the light, ‘It would be hypocritical of me to suddenly ask you to treat me as a Christian now, but perhaps you could make the BEAR a Christian’? Time stopped. The bear froze. The forest was silent. ‘Very well,’ said the voice. As a bright light shone upon the man, a voice came out of the sky. ‘You deny my existence for all these years, teach others I don’t exist and even credit creation to cosmic accident.’ ‘Do you expect me to help you out of this predicament? Am I to count you as a believer? The light went out. The sounds of the forest resumed. And the bear dropped his right paw, brought both paws together, bowed his head and spoke: ‘For what I am about to receive, may the Lord make us truly thankful, Amen.’ Winter 2012 Why suffer in pain when you don’t need to? Call now! Ph: 5564 9009 Achieve optimal physical health and wellness with our professional team of physiotherapists. Exercise safely and have fun in our onsite hydrotherapy pool (34°C). Designed with full disabled access – rails and hoist. Aquatic physiotherapy is fun! Individual programs or group classes available. Other classes available: “On your feet get up and go” – light gym conditioning for strength and balance “My Breathing Class” – respiratory rehab with onsite oxygen National provider for “Actively Ageing Courses”. Get your FREE report today! focus on physio 194 Ashmore Rd, Benowa Queensland 4217 Telephone 07 5564 9009 Facsimile 075564 9008 www.focusonphysio.com.au Caring for the families of our deceased and incapacitated veterans Fruit Salad Tart A recipe from Thelma Hughes Put into a saucepan: 1 cup of sugar 1 cup of water 1-2 mashed bananas Bring to the boil then thicken with: 1 tablespoon of custard powder and 1 tablespoon of cornflour and mix in juice from 1 lemon and 1 orange and pulp of 2 passionfruit. Pour into a baked pie shell. Cool and top with fresh whipped cream. Torch 11 Urinary Tract Infections in the Elderly Urinary tract infections (UTI) aren't just a nuisance – they can cause serious health problems. A urinary tract infection happens when bacteria in the bladder or kidney multiplies in the urine. Left untreated, a urinary tract infection can become something more serious than merely a set of uncomfortable symptoms. UTIs can lead to acute or chronic kidney infections, which could permanently damage the kidneys and even lead to kidney failure. Elders Are More Likely to Get UTIs Elderly people are more vulnerable to UTIs for many reasons, not the least of which is their overall susceptibility to all infections due to the suppressed immune system that comes with age and certain age-related conditions According to the National Institutes of Health (NIH). Symptoms of UTIs The typical signs and symptoms of a UTI include: • Urine that appears cloudy • Bloody urine • Strong or foul-smelling urine odour • Frequent or urgent need to urinate • Pain or burning with urination • Pressure in the lower pelvis • Low-grade fever • Night sweats, shaking, or chills Elderly people with serious urinary tract infection don't exhibit the hallmark sign of fever because their immune system is unable to mount a response to infection due to the effects of aging. In fact, elders often don't exhibit any of the common symptoms – or don't express them to their caregivers. UTIs in the elderly are often mistaken as the early stages of dementia or Alzheimer's, according to NIH, because symptoms include: • Confusion, or delirium-like state • Agitation • Hallucinations • Other behavioural changes • Poor motor skills or dizziness • Falling Sometimes, these are the only symptoms of a UTI that show up in the elderly—no pain, no fever, no other typical symptoms of a UTI. How to Reduce Risk of UTIs People with incontinence are more at risk for UTIs because of the close contact that adult briefs have with their skin, which can reintroduce bacteria into the bladder. Some recommendations to help reduce this risk include the following: • Change the briefs frequently • Encourage front-to-back cleansing • Keep the genital area clean • Set reminders/timers for those who are memory-impaired to try to use the bathroom instead of the adult brief Other ways to reduce the chance of UTIs: • Drink plenty of fluids (2 to 4 quarts each day). • Drink cranberry juice or use cranberry tablets, but NOT if your elder has personal or family history of kidney stones. • Avoid caffeine and alcohol, because these irritate the bladder. • Do not douches or use other feminine hygiene products. • Always wipe from front to back (for women). • Wear cotton-cloth underwear, and change them least once a day If you think you might have a urinary tract infection, see your doctor right away. This article was taken from the aging care website http://www.agingcare.com/Articles/Elderly-urinary-tract-infections-146026.htm 100th Birthday celebrated. Edna Spence, of Ashgrove celebrated her 100th Birthday on 25th February. She had a lovely party surrounded by friends and family! 12 Torch Winter 2012 Your Torch Torch is for you – the Legacy ladies in all shapes and sizes, ages and types, wherever you live, wherever you’ve been and wherever you’re going! That said- we’d love to make it even more about you, so if you have an idea, a thought, a story or photo- even a poem or a joke, please let us know and we’ll certainly consider it for the next issue. Please contact Community Services Manager Christina Davidson at Legacy House or email cdavidson@legacybrisbane.org.au Veterans’ Exercise H&F Rehabilitation offer fun, safe, effective exercise programs for free to all Gold & White DVA card holders and war widows. Programs are designed and supervised by a qualified Exercise Physiologist to help improve: • mobility • general wellbeing • fitness The program is 100% FREE for gold & white card holders and war widows until your set goals have been achieved. Legacy ladies who do not have a gold card are welcome to join our seniors’ group exercise programs, which cost $10 per class with rebates available through most private health funds. All programs are designed specifically to suit your personal and physical needs, with one on one and group classes available. Hydrotherapy classes now available as well. A D904 referral from your doctor is required prior to commencement of the program. Locations: • • • Browns Plains Springwood Indooroopilly Contact Rebecca Ph: 0437 542 095 Email: rebecca.hfrehab@gmail.com Caring for the families of our deceased and incapacitated veterans Torch 13 Coping with Sudden Death When death is expected there is time to prepare… and to adapt to the coming loss and let it sink in. Sudden death can be very different. Whether accidental, traumatic, violent, associated with a disaster or disease or some other event… it is a world-changing, highly emotional and distressful time for those left behind. There is immediate and overwhelming grief: Often sudden death results in intense feelings such as being overwhelmed — unable to cope, confused, agitated, despairing, helpless and being out of control. You can be left with a real sense of disbelief as you think this can’t be real, it can’t be happening to me and my family. No opportunity for goodbyes: With no time to prepare for loss and say good-bye, words are left unsaid, important things are not done and business is unfinished — regrets can be intense and longlasting. No one can answer “Why?”: Maybe these questions keep recurring. Why me? Why did God let this happen? Why our family? What did I do to deserve this? Who is to blame for this? You search for answers but there don’t seem to be any. Nothing makes sense right now. And then there are the immediate decisions: You can’t think straight and there is the funeral to organise… arrangements to make, so many decisions, people to contact, no idea where to start! There may also be police reports, a Coroner’s investigation, lawyers, insurance companies, media reports and other parties involved … all this added intrusion to deal with. Don’t try to do it all by yourself: Usually your friends and relatives don’t know what to do or how to talk to you about the situation. Maybe you can tell them what you would like them to do. Give them a task, they’ll feel useful knowing they are doing something worthwhile for you. You may have to show them that you are okay talking about what’s happened and that you want them to speak openly to you. Allow yourself to grieve… It’s alright to cry and let people know that it’s hard losing someone special so unexpectedly. Try not to bottle up your feelings. Now’s the time to tell a close friend that you’re struggling… really struggling! If you are feeling really overwhelmed, unable to act or do what needs to be done… talk to your doctor, community health service, or a registered psychologist or counsellor. Visit: www.allaboutgrief.com © Doris Zagdanski, 2012. All rights reserved. This Fact Sheet is written and produced by Doris Zagdanski. Doris is the author of seven titles on the subject of grief, all available for purchase at: www.allaboutgrief.com Your world changes: Perhaps you feel less safe, insecure, emotionally and personally abandoned, angry, immobile in the face of what has happened and what is to come. You might fear about the future and worry if you have the personal strength and ability to cope with this. 14 Torch Winter 2012 ISLAND NORFOLK NORFOLK ISLAND Gaythorne Legacy Care Group 6-13 October 2012 Join this special group departure to beautiful Norfolk Island. Escorted by Peter Thatcher you’ll enjoy all the best that Norfolk has to offer on this exclusive departure. Legacy Gaythorne p Care Grou ights 8 Days/7 N from $2225* ex Brisbane Twin Share 70 plement $2 Single Sup Inclusions: Return economy airfare from Brisbane to Norfolk Island Prepaid airport taxes and levies 7 nights South Pacific Resort Hotel with Cooked Breakfast Daily Dinner nightly including Island Fish Fry / Progressive Dinner and Fletcher’s Fate Mystery Dinner 2 Lunches including lunch at the Norfolk Island RSL Club Half Day Orientation Tour Convict Settlement Tour Mutiny on the Bounty Show Greenfingers Tour Pitcairn Settlers Village + Much Much More p Shot a n S ARY ITINER rfolk o te rrive N hers Fa Day 1 A ur/ Fletc o T y a alf D ral and gricultu Dinner Day 2 H A I N ! y e how Da gressiv Fish Day 3 S ral Show/Pro Island u lt nt Tour/ e Horticu m le tt e onvict S ty Show nt./ Day 4 C y on the Boun estaura tin Local R h Fry/Mu c n u ma/L Cyclora Village t Day 5 rs le unch a tt Se t Trail/L rant is rt Pitcairn A our OR Restau 4W D T ner at Local Day 6 ner in /D L RS well Din re a F r/ Norfolk u gers To reenfin Day 7 G alia to Austr Return 8 y a D $250 Per Person deposit required to secure tour. Terms and Conditions Apply. Prices based on Twin Share. .4/99 Racecourse Rd Ascot. ABN 7212253376 Lic 3198772 Caring for the families of our deceased and incapacitated veterans Torch 15 = Legacy “Torch” Word finder No.2 "I hate housework. You make the beds, you do the dishes and six months later you have to start all over again " - Joan Rivers. 16 Torch Torch Giveaway! Who doesn’t love relaxing in style at a Gold Class movie?! We have two tickets to an Event cinema Gold Class movie to give away to the first person who calls our receptionist Karen on 3846 4299 before 18th June. Winter 2012 Crossword Puzzle No.3 (solution over page) Puzzle No.3 1 3 8 9 10 12 14 15 17 20 24 25 26 27 ACROSS Spiritual part of human (4) Treat as a celebrity (7) Professional advice (7) NZ native pine tree (5) Danish monetary unit (6) Silver (Heraldry) (6) Well-groomed (5) Give up, concede (5) Clamp teeth together (6) Ancient Greek prophetesses (6) Beyond, an extremist (5) Bright clear blue (7) Funeral vehicles for coffins. (7) Cowshed (4) DOWN 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 14 17 13 15 18 19 20 16 21 22 23 24 25 26 The butt of a rifle (5) The same, unvarying (7) Fluff (4) Boorish Aussie male (5) Accustom to something unpleasant (5) 6 Be (5) 5 7 11 12 13 14 16 Small shrill flute (4) Prepare to vomit (5) Bottomless chasm (5) Incline one’s head (3) The Sun (myth) (3) Being loyal (7) 27 17 18 19 21 22 23 Compress to break (5) Over and above (5) Grossly stupid (5) A blissful scene (4) Soft-rubbed leather (5) Avails oneself of (4) ©Allgurn Compilers®2012 Holiday Units Brisbane Legacy Holiday Units are available at Cotton Tree, Maroochydore (Sunshine Coast), at a charge of $100 per person, per week. Widows with school age children have first preference, followed by Queensland country widows, Brisbane metropolitan widows then interstate widows. to six months in advance, except that widows with school age children have until mid September to book for the Christmas holiday period. Relatives and friends are welcome to accompany you on your holiday. For further information contact Karen at Legacy House on 3846 4299. Reservations can normally be made up Caring for the families of our deceased and incapacitated veterans Torch 17 BRISBANE LEGACY Care Groups Aveo Albany Creek Care Group Aveo Albany Creek Retirement Village Yellow Dining Room 61 Explorer Drive ALBANY CREEK 1st Friday of the month 2pm Fran McNamara 3264 8131 Joan Stirling 3264 4575 Joy Dunn 3325 2351 Aveo Durack Care Group Aveo Durack Retirement Village Recreation Hall 356 Blunder Road DURACK 1st Wednesday of the month 10am Mona Clarke 3278 8772 Gwen Smart 3879 8575 Beaudesert Care Group Beaudesert RSL 23-25 William Street BEAUDESERT 4th Wednesday of the month 10.30am Daphne Telfer 5541 1941 Beenleigh Laurel Club Beenleigh RSL 13 Bardyn Halliday Drive MT WARREN PARK 3rd Monday on the month 9.30am Judy Willis 3805 5359 Bill Winter 3803 5654 Bribie Island Care Group Bribie Island RSL & Citizens Memorial Club Inc Toorbul Street BONGAREE 4th Tuesday of the month 9.30am Bill Ramsay 3408 3206 Adele Carr 3408 2713 Brisbane Laurel Club Legacy House 41 Merivale Street SOUTH BRISBANE Monday to Friday 8am to 4.30pm Jean Hine 3396 2404 Brisbane Legacy 3846 4299 Caboolture Care Group Caboolture & District Services Memorial Club Inc Cnr Beerburrum Road & Hasking Street CABOOLTURE Last Friday of the month 11.30am Pam & Glenn Willmann5433 0396 Caboolture Laurel Club Memorial Bowls Club War Veterans Home King Street CABOOLTURE 3rd Wednesday of the month (excluding December and January) 9.30am Pam & Glenn Willmann 5433 0396 Caloundra Laurel Club Caloundra RSL West Terrace CALOUNDRA 1st Monday of the month 9.30am for 10 am Margaret Fraser 5476 7015 Bill Bunter 5492 7676 Felicity Wilton 5441 3748 18 Torch These Groups, which are now established in many Brisbane suburbs and beyond, have as their aim, the bringing together of Legacy widows in an atmosphere of friendship and caring. Membership of these Groups is open to all Legacy Widows. The principal activity of the Care Groups is a monthly luncheon. These, with a few exceptions, are held at various RSL Clubs. Many of the Care Groups offer bus trips. If you wish to know more please phone the Contact Person listed below for the particular Group; alternatively call Jackie at Legacy House on 3846 4299. Cazna Gardens Care Group Cazna Gardens RSL Home Under Nursing Home 465 Hellawell Road SUNNYBANK HILLS 1st Monday of the month 1.30pm Christina Davidson (Legacy House) 3846 4299 Chinchilla Laurel Club Hoy Group RSL Memorial Hall 61 Heeney Street CHINCHILLA 1st Tuesday of the month 9.30am RSL Auxilliary 4662 7196 Coolum Care Group Coolum Bowls Club 2nd Tuesday of the month 11.30am Renalda Gorrie 5448 1424 Ian Wright 5446 4031 Felicity Wilton 5441 3748 Cooroy/Pomona Care Group Cooroy RSL Maple Street COOROY 4th Monday of the month 10.30am Julie Brock 5472 0845 Terry Rogers 5449 9341 Coorparoo Care Group Coorparoo RSL 45 Holdsworth St COORPAROO Last Friday of the month 10.30am Peter Cameron 3349 3502 Gaythorne Care Group Gaythorne RSL 534 Samford Road MITCHELTON Last Friday of the month 11am Peter Thatcher 3356 4250 Geebung Care Group Geebung RSL Newman Road GEEBUNG 2nd Friday of the month 11am Denise Fridolf 3865 8006 Joyce Bannister 3266 3763 Glasshouse Country Laurel Club Glasshouse Bowls Club Coonowrin St GLASSHOUSE MTNS 4th Tuesday of the month 10.30am Mary Southern 5439 0009 Jim Meakins 5494 0472 Felicity Wilton 5441 3748 Gympie Laurel Club RSL Orchid Room (unless outing organised) Mary Street GYMPIE 3rd Monday of the month (Except December & January 10.00am for morning tea 10.30am for meeting Colleen Woodbury 5482 3518 Holland Park/Mt Gravatt Care Group Holland Park RSL 58 Arnold Sreet HOLLAND PARK 3rd Thursday of the month 10.30am Beryl Floyd 3349 0203 Marj Nichol 3349 8047 Inverpine Care Group Inverpine RSL Home 54 Ogg Road MURRUMBA DOWNS 3rd Saturday of the month 10am Eileen Shorten 3204 5913 Jo Shorrock 3846 4299 Kedron/Wavell Care Group Kedron Wavell RSL Hamilton Road CHERMSIDE Last Friday of the month 11am Marie Natt 3862 7784 Margaret Hough 3205 4021 Kilcoy Care Group Alternate venue each month 2nd Thursday of the month (February to December) 12 noon Alan Ottway 5424 7194 Lana Younger Widows Group Different venue each month Last Saturday of the month 12 noon Helen White 3351 1650 Logan Central Care Group Strikers Sports & Community Club 187 Meakin Rd Slacks Creek 1st Tuesday of the month 10am Myra Harris 3800 8441 Logan East Care Group Springwood Bowls Club 14 Pauline Avenue SPRINGWOOD 2nd Friday of the month 10am Del Parkes 3841 1092 Ed Heieck 3803 1133 Logan West Care Group Greenbank RSL Memorial Room Anzac Parade HILLCREST Last Friday of the month 10am Nancy Guinane 3803 4128 Maroochydore Laurel Club RSL House Memorial Avenue MAROOCHYDORE 4th Friday of the month 9.30am Doris Rixon 5443 5110 Irene Latty 5444 6880 Felicity Wilton 5441 3748 Winter 2012 Moorooka Care Group Moorooka Bowls Club Koala Road MOOROOKA Last Thursday of the Month 11.30 a.m. Mavis Dangerfield 3254 4887 Allan Swainson 3217 4044 Redcliffe Laurel Club RSL Club Tobruk Lounge Redcliffe Parade REDCLIFFE 1st & 3rd Tuesday of the month 10am Betty Rogers 3284 8244 Ralph Stewart 3883 3998 Morningside Care Group Colmslie RSL Wynnum Road MORNINGSIDE Last Friday of the month 10.15am Heather Crawford 3399 2559 Allan Swainson 3217 4044 Redlands Care Group Redlands RSL 8 Passage Street CLEVELAND 1st Friday of the month 10am Graham Hinson 3824 3497 Ruth Minnis 3286 5643 Mudjimba Laurel Club Mudjimba RSL Cottonwood Street MUDJIMBA 1st Tuesday of the month 9.30am Patty-Ann Smith 5443 3268 Kerry Glover 5473 9095 Jean Peterie 5446 3062 Felicity Wilton 5441 3748 Victoria Point Care Group Shark’s Sporting Club Coulburn Avenue VICTORIA POINT 4th Monday of the month (Courtesy bus available phone Redlands RSL ph. 3488 1199 before 12 noon on Friday before Monday meeting) 10.30am Ian McVie 3829 3069 Fay Cross 3207 6609 Roma Care Group Roma Club Hotel/Motel 1st Tuesday of the month 10am Janet Menz 4622 3339 Betty Bates 4622 1151 Maleny Laurel Club Maleny RSL 1 Bunya Street, Maleny Second Monday every second month 9:30am start for morning tea and meeting RSL bus trip is alternate second Monday Wendy HIll 5442 9443 Nambour Care Group Nambour RSL Matthew Street NAMBOUR 3rd Monday of the month 10am John Simson 5478 5009 Felicity Wilton 5441 3748 Noosa/Tewantin Laurel Club Tewantin/Noosa RSL & Citizens Memorial Club Memorial Avenue TEWANTIN 1st Monday of the month 10.30am Dulcie Ballard 5447 3120 Jean McKay 5449 8530 Arthur Goodall 5440 5414 Leo Brown 5447 4228 Pine Rivers Care Group Pine Rivers RSL Sub-Branch 1347 Anzac Ave KALLANGUR Last Friday of the month 11am Pat Christopher 3882 1106 Terry Taylor 3300 9137 Toowong Care Group Toowong Sizzler Restaurant Sherwood Road TOOWONG Last Thursday of the month 11am Marj Affleck 3371 7665 Esther Elkins 3870 0095 Warwick Laurel Club RSL Services and Citizens Memorial Club Corner King & Albion Streets WARWICK 4th Tuesday of the month for lunch & meeting at 1.30pm (except December) 12 noon PM tea & raffle Ev Hounslow 4661 1947 Sandgate Care Group Sandgate RSL Keogh Street SANDGATE 1st Friday of the month 12 noon Pearl Rashford 3269 3022 Ivy Bruce 3269 2358 Tony Ralph 3630 2475 Woodford Care Group Alternate venue each month 2nd Thursday of the month (February to December) 12 noon Valmay Liddle 5496 1180 Sherwood Care Group Sherwood/ Indooroopilly Services Club Corner Clewley & Browne Sts CORINDA Last Friday of the month 12 noon Edna Pardon 3379 7081 Clyde Winzar 3379 1075 Wynnum Care Group Wynnum RSL 174 Tingal Road WYNNUM 2nd Friday of the month 10am Bill Kelly 3396 1697 South West Care Group Blue Fin Fishing Club 24 Lilac Street INALA Last Friday of the month 10am Glad Rowan 3372 1054 Nancy Cadet 3372 4650 Change of address? We ask that you please remember to let Legacy know if any of your details change, for example your address, telephone number or Next of Kin. This information allows us to maintain contact with you and ensure that you receive your quarterly edition of Torch .For Brisbane and Solution to Puzzle No.3 surrounds and country S O U L L I O N I S E T N F I C N X areas please contact O P I N I O N K A U R I C F F T E R S Legacy House on 3846 K R O N E R A R G E N T R E B O 4299 and for Sunshine S M A R T Y I E L D O C S O coast, please contact C L E N C H S I B Y L S R X R U D A U Felicity Wilton on 5441 U L T R A S K Y B L U E S R S E L T D 3748. Thank you! H E A R S E S B Y R E Stanthorpe Laurel Club Stanthorpe RSL Marsh Street STANTHORPE 2nd Monday of the month 10.30am Lunch at RSL Dining Room around 12 noon Margaret Hooker 4684 1294 Olwyn Einam 4683 2305 Margaret Halford 4681 1898 Sunnybank Care Group Sunnybank Community Sports Club McCullough Street SUNNYBANK 3rd Friday of the month 10am Jo Myers 3345 6615 CONTINUING OUR LEGACY OF CARE... Please send me: Information on helping as a Legacy volunteer Enclosed is my gift of $ to the Legacy family My cheque is encloses or Name on card: Address Information on how to make a bequest to Legacy P/C: Visa Expiry Date: Amex / Telephone Please debit my credit card Mastercard Signature Please return this coupon to: BRISBANE LEGACY – LEGACY HOUSE, 41 MERIVALE STREET, SOUTH BRISBANE QLD 4101 TELEPHONE (07) 3846 4299 EMAIL: admin@legacybrisbane.org.au WEB: www.legacy.com.au Caring for the families of our deceased and incapacitated veterans THANK YOU FOR SHARING OUR LEGACY OF CARE Torch 19 Funeral Insurance or a Prepaid Funeral How Do You Choose? A prepaid funeral and funeral insurance are actually quite different products. Prepaid funerals are exactly that, you pay now at today’s price and that price remains constant until the funeral is needed regardless of inflation or price rises as the years go by. Funeral insurance, on the other hand, means the longer you live, the more you pay and if you can’t keep up with rising premiums or miss a payment your entire investment will be lost. Talk to us today about the benefits of George Hartnett’s prepaid funeral plan. Proud Member of InvoCare 1300 662 172
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