November 2013 GW Voice
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November 2013 GW Voice
Vol. 17 17,, No. 11 – November 2013 P.O. Box 397, Cranbury, N.J. 08512 PRSRT STD ECRWSS U.S. Postage PAID EDDM Retail Monroe Twp., NJ 08831 A Monthly Periodical Serving Greenbriar at Whittingham PRESENTED BY THE RESIDENTS CIVIC CLUB OF GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM Meet and Greet... An Informative Feat By Ruth Banks Greenbriar at Whittingham Snow Bulletin 2013-2014 This snow bulletin is a guide for residents to follow and does not address all of the contractual concerns outlined in the snow-clearing contract with our vendor. SNOW GUIDELINES 1. If a snowfall is two inches (2”) or less, NO snow clearing will be initiated by the Association, but rather it will be a resident responsibility. 2. If a snowfall is more than two inches (2”), roads, parking areas, driveways and walks will be cleared. 3. If weather forecasts indicate a snowfall greater than four inches (4”), plows will begin clearing roads as soon as sufficient snow has fallen. Plowing will then continue until the snowfall ceases. 4. The clearing of driveways and parking areas and the shoveling of walkways will start AFTER THE SNOWFALL HAS STOPPED AND ROADWAYS ARE CLEARED. 5. Sequence of Clearing Events: Roadways, driveways, walkways and sidewalks will be cleared after snow has stopped. IF ICING OCCURS, IT WILL BE EACH HOMEOWNER’S RESPONSIBILITY TO APPLY ICE MELT TO HIS/HER OWN DRIVEWAY & WALKWAY. (Continued on page 25) Monroe Cares Thanksgiving By Ben Baum In the October GW VOICE I reported about the innovative plan at the Senior Center for Thanksgiving Day. This festive meal, which will be served between 12 pm and 2 pm on November 28, was created for those seniors who are alone and/ or who have no family in the immediate vicinity. I informed you that our goal is keep the cost at $10.00 per participant. This is going to be possible because of the generous donations made by several businesses and health providers (rehab center, assisted living facility, therapy center); and now, in addition to the donors I listed previously, I am proud to share with you that GW Connections is donating $500 to this activity. This $500 is in addition to the (Continued on page 25) “Some Day…” by Irwin Montlack, Oil entry in Monroe Township Cultural Arts Commission Juried Art Show on display at the Monroe Township Library (see story page 4.) Although 14 people originally filed for one of the three seats open on the Monroe Twp. Board of Education, only six candidates accepted the invitation from the Residents Civic Club to appear at the October 9 monthly meeting of the Civic Club in a Meet and Greet the Candidates forum co -sponsored by the League of Women Voters of Monroe Twp. Chairperson of the event was League member and GW Civic Club Board member Juliet Klein. The six candidates were incumbents Lewis Kaufman, Louis Masters and Ira Tessler. The challengers were Michelle Arminio, Thomas Nothstein and Steven Riback. One candidate, Deborah Schneider, had a prior commitment and could not attend. The forum was moderated by League member Linda L. Mather, IAF, Certified Professional Facilitator/Assessor with Beacon Consulting Associates. In preparation for the event, the LWV MT prepared an information packet that contained a brief bio of each of the six candidates, as well as their responses to three questions posed to them by the League. (1) How does the school budget affect the quality of education in M.T.? (2) What is the importance of technology on the future of education in M.T.? (3) Considering all the challenges facing our school district, which do you think is the most important facing the Board? In response to the budget Moderator Linda L. Mather, IAF, Certified Facilitator/ Assessor. question, Kaufman, Masters and Tessler stressed the need to balance the totality of the needs, which included more than just curriculum but also included maintenance, transportation, renovations, and so (Continued on page 26) News from the WHOA Board By Bert Herling Safety While Walking When walking in our roadways, PLEASE walk against oncoming traffic (facing the oncoming cars). This has been proven to be the safest way to walk. Keep yourself safe by observing this way to walk or stroll on the road. WHOA Election Results On Wednesday, September 18, our community voted for members to serve on all three Boards: WHOA, Greenbriar and Golf. The results were as follows for the WHOA Board: WHOA had three vacancies which were filled by the following winning candidates: Miriam Cohen, re-elected; Rod Kober, re-elected; and Les Linet, elected. The Board was reorganized as follows: President – Bobbi Braverman, Vice President – Bert Herling, Secretary – Paul Klarman, Treasurer – Gloria Girard, Trustees – Miriam Cohen, Rod Kober, Les Linet. Generator Vote Coming Once again, we ask that you DO NOT DISCARD the mailing you will be receiving regarding the generator for the Towne Centre. Since this purchase is considered an improvement to common property, what we need to approve this expenditure under our governing documents is: 1. A quorum (which is 536 residents) obtained by “ballots in person, proxies or absentee ballots, then once a quorum is obtained; 2. A majority of those pre- sent in person or by proxy or absentee ballot to be in favor (“yes” votes). This procedure has been specified by our outside attorney, Bruce Freeman, Esq. Cleaning Service for Towne Centre In the Board’s continuing effort to maintain and also to improve the overall condition of our Towne Centre, an outside, professional cleaning service has been retained. The additional benefit is that this will also avoid hiring additional employees to perform the needed services and also frees up our own current employees to perform other necessary tasks. The cleaning service is contracted to serve our Towne Centre three nights per week – Monday, Wednesday and Fri- day after 11 p.m., when the building is officially closed. In addition to overall vacuuming, sweeping and dusting, wet mopping floors is included using a disinfectant cleaner. All lavatories will be disinfected, deodorized with floors being wet mopped. All areas of the Towne Centre are included: lobby, stairs, lavatories, library, fitness center, locker rooms with saunas included, card rooms, ballroom, arts & crafts, and billiards. Our Ponds & Mother Nature We are cognizant of the condition of all our ponds, and are in continuing contact with the experts at Princeton Hydro, the recognized authority in this field, as well as other experts in this field. They have indicated that a major part of (Continued on page 2) NEW RESIDENTS ARE WELCOMED BY THE RESIDENTS CIVIC CLUB to our meeting on WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 13 at 7:30 P.M. in the Ballroom ALL RESIDENTS are invited to meet their new neighbors and to have an orientation on the organization of our community and Monroe Township. New residents will receive a valuable packet of materials prepared by Mayor Pucci’s office. The following people will be present: - Monroe Twp Council President - Jerry Tamburro - WHOA President – Bobbi Braverman - GWCA President – Marcia Forrest - General Manager - Bill Hinkle - Recreation & Facilities Manager – Monica Caterson - Director of Senior Services – Bonnie Leibowitz REFRESHMENTS WILL BE SERVED NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 2 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE WHOA (Continued from page 1) our problem in these areas is due to natural causes (Mother Nature) such as water level fluctuation and algae growth. They have reported that several of our ponds “appear to be dominated by poor soils with the majority of areas having exposed subsoil and (a) few areas having a very heavy clay soil.” Our consulting experts are in the process of designing a solution to our problem areas, where possible. They will make recommendations which will address the “look” of the ponds as well as their actual storm water management function. As we progress, we will report to the community the steps being taken to improve their condition. Railings Repainted & Repaired We hope you have noticed that our white railings around Towne Centre have been repaired, where necessary, and repainted. They are fresh, clean and fully functional. These railings are essential, especially during inclement weather. Towne Centre – Fixing Up All the holes left from the removal of thermostats and other items previously attached to the walls in various rooms in Towne Centre are being plastered and will receive repainting, either in full or partial (the latter only if we have the original paint so that it matches the existing paint). Otherwise, a new full repainting will take place. The ladies’ bathroom outside the Ballroom is the first project to be undertaken by the newly formed Decorating Group. They will review the situation and present their suggestions and samples, if required, to the Board for review and final selection. This is a priority project and will be completed in short order. Gloria Girard, WHOA’s Treasurer, is the head of this group. Non-Residents and Tap Room REMINDER: Non-residents can gain admission to our community in order to eat in our Tap Room, provided: (1) the nonresident makes a reservation with the Tap Room giving their name and phone number, and (2) the Tap Room advises Security as to the name, phone number, and time of reservation. Unless this procedure is followed, there will be no admittance at the gate. This requirement is now part of our ongoing security measure to assure our continued privacy and safety. Resale Market Healthy at GW Although there are ten adult communities in Monroe Township, including ours, we have had 91 closings between January 1 and September 27. Greenbriar had 51 and Whittingham had 32. Since each buyer came here and viewed us onsite and also paid the $1000 capital contribution fee at closing, it is apparent that our community is desirable. We are still considered by many to be an attractive, clean and wellmaintained suburban community. We also have lots of amenities and activities to choose from, overall a wonderful place to call home. WHOA’s Board of Trustees, Management and general staff extend a warm welcome to our new residents! Are Assessments Avoided By Magic? It has come to the Board’s at- Thank You Notes Wow! Thank you for making me feel so important when I needed your support the most. Dolores Schmidt *** Our wish to express my sincere thanks and appreciation W HITTINGHAM VOICE THE G REENBRIAR at Staff Members S. Alexander Banks, Editor-in-Chief Amy P. Appleman Ruth Banks Ben Baum Annette Cavaliere Ellen Chmiel Joan Freeman Eileen Giacalone Art Gordon Don Greenfield Dick Herlands Dawn Horowitz Freddy Howard Arlene Lazar Harvey Lazar Gloria Montlack Olga Naccarella Dianne Pinkowitz Martin Rich Larry Sheppard Elaine Wintjen Editorial Board S. Alexander Banks, Editor-in-Chief Helen Oxenberg, Village I Burton Farber, Village II tention that the residents of our neighboring communities of Encore and Clearbrook have been assessed $400 and $300 respectively due to the Storm, Sandy. Our community has not required an assessment because of our storm water management system and committee, and proper financial planning by our Budget & Finance Committee. Each committee is operated by our residents who give of their time and expertise to make this possible. Additionally, there has been no assessment for the refurbishing of the Towne Centre that has already taken place; namely, the new lobby tile, new carpeting, lobby table and floral arrangement. This should also be recognized by the community as a result of proper financial planning by the Board as well as proper reserve studies and funds set aside by our professional empl o y e es , n a m el y P eg g y Swanger, Controller, and Libbie Armstrong, Bookkeeper. Obviously, magic is not a substitute for expertise and responsible planning, which is the real reason for avoidance. Fines for Violations All fines for violations under our governing documents are payable to WHOA whether the violation was in Greenbriar or Whittingham. Arnold Riback, Representing Vill. II WHOA Representative Saul Brodman, Business Manager Advertising Office Princeton Editorial Services P.O. Box 397 Cranbury, NJ 08512 (732) 761-8534 e-mail: pescmd@aol.com Editorial Office Greenbriar Whittingham VOICE 100 Whittingham Drive Monroe Twp., NJ 08831 (609) 655-4791 e-mail: gwvoice@comcast.net Publisher Princeton Editorial Services P.O. Box 397, Cranbury, NJ 08512 · (732) 761-8534 or 8535 pescmd@aol.com The Greenbriar at Whittingham VOICE is a monthly periodical presented by the residents of Greenbriar at Whittingham, Monroe Township, New Jersey. All editorial material for publication should be submitted on or before the 3rd of the month prior to publication month to the Editorial Office. Greenbriar at Whittingham residents may deliver material to The GW VOICE mail box located at the Concierge Desk in the Towne Centre. The Greenbriar at Whittingham VOICE is not liable for any typographical or printing errors that may appear, including in its display or classified advertising, over the cost of the space of the advertisement. Note: The advertisements in The Greenbriar at Whittingham VOICE are, to the best of The VOICE’s and Princeton Editorial’s knowledge, accurate representations of the products and services offered. However, no endorsement by The VOICE or any other party is intended or implied. Acceptance of all materials is at the discretion of the publisher. WE RESERVE THE RIGHT TO EDIT ALL MATERIALS © 2013, PRINCETON EDITORIAL SERVICES to my friends who called and sent cards of condolence on the passing of my brother. Thank you very much. Ed Goldman *** All my friends and neighbors, thank you so much for your generosity and support during my recent illness. The outpouring of concern meant so much to me. I feel truly blessed to live in a community where we are all there for each other in time of need. Carole Levey *** I fully agree with the WHOA board’s decision to increase security in and around our beautiful clubhouse. However, the use of FOBS solely for the purpose of entering the fitness center and locker rooms makes little sense to me. In a WHOA meeting a few months ago I suggested that would make more sense to use FOBS to secure the outside of our club house as was done years ago, since we do not live in a "gated" community and anyone can walk into our clubhouse at any time. At the time I made this suggestion, the response from the board was that they agreed 100% and I am hopeful that this proposal will soon be implemented. Larry Krakower *** On August 28, we had our annual Greenbriar at Whittingham Prostate Cancer Research Day. A check for $58,000 was sent to the National Prostate Cancer Foundation. Over the past 12 years, we had given the Foundation $475,000. We want to thank the participants, the donors and the residents for all their efforts. Together, we have succeeded in an amazing achievement. Saul Brodman Message from The Manager’s Office B y William H. Hinkle, General Manager On Tuesday, November 5, 2013, the Towne Centre Ballroom will not be available for card playing or other activities as the General Elections will utilize that space. Please make alternate arrangements for card playing that day. The polls will be open from 6 a.m. to 8 p.m. The WHOA Board elections were held on September 18. I would like to congratulate the encumbants, Miriam Cohen and Rod Kober, and welcome Les Linet to the WHOA Board. Their term will be through September 2015. I would also like to thank former Trustee Linda Norden, for her contributions to the WHOA Board. I would also like to congratulate Irwin Kaplan and John Cassiliano for their reelection to the GWCA Board, whose terms will also be through September 2015. During their respective November open meetings, the WHOA and GWCA Boards will present their 2014 budgets. Residents are encouraged to attend these meetings so that you may become informed of any proposed increases and justification for changes to the budget. GWCA will meet on Monday, November 18 at 7:30 p.m., and WHOA will meet on Wednesday, November 20; both Boards will host their meetings in the Towne Centre Ballroom. There is an opportunity for questions and answers. The Boards, budget committees, and staff expend a considerable amount of time annually in discussing and preparing the budget to keep costs at a minimum. Additionally, at the November 20, 2013 WHOA meeting, the first portion will be a Special Meeting wherein residents will have their final opportunity to vote on whether or not a generator should be installed in the Towne Centre. Watch your mail for a voting package. To meet the requirements of “Special Meetings” as outlined in WHOA’s Bylaws; the mailing has a very short turn-around time: it cannot be mailed less than five (5) days nor more than ten (10) days in advance of the meeting date. A postcard has been sent to each homeowner encouraging them to watch for the voting package which should arrive sometime around November 12th and is returnable by mail, in person, or by fax (609395-1122) prior to the meeting on November 20th. Additionally, as stated above, residents will also be able to vote in person at the beginning of the meeting on Wednesday, November 20. After the votes are cast, the Special Meeting will be temporarily adjourned so that the votes can be counted; during this time, the WHOA Board will open its regular Open Meeting wherein regular business, including the presentation of the 2014 budget, and then close that meeting and reconvene the Special Meeting to announce the results of the generator vote. We encourage ALL residents to participate in this important decision. It is always a pleasure hosting our annual committee appreciation breakfast in October, saluting the dedicated service of our residents. Committee applications for both WHOA and GWCA were mailed out in October and required an October 31, 2013 return date. Please be sure to submit your application in a timely manner as the Boards will be making their selection for 2014 committee service. If you are a member of a 2013 committee, you must still submit an application to be considered for 2014 committee service. Applications may be mailed in or dropped off at the Concierge desk. As October comes to a close we may be fortunate in avoiding a third Hurricane or Tropical Storm. It is unfortunate that the events of last October still haunt many New Jersey residents, battling with insurance issues and FEMA claims, realizing full recovery may never come to fruition. Fortunately our community was back to full service within ten to twelve days, with little noticeable remaining damage. With a break in the weather it is a good time to review all emergency preparedness procedures should we encounter a rough winter. Snow bulletins are available in the Towne Centre; I would like to remind residents to pick up a supply of calcium chloride to apply to their own driveways and walkways if inclement weather should occur. In the event that a storm is predicted, you may wish to consider applying some of this product prior to the storm as a proactive measure in reducing build-up. If someone in your household fits one of the appropriate categories, complete a Preferential Snow Clearing form available from Management to apply to have your name placed on emergency clearing list. Date and time of scheduled appointments is imperative, in order that we can move quickly and accurately through our requests. As Greenbriar residents arrange for their irrigation systems to be winterized, please remember to encourage your vendor to core heads for spring start-up to ensure proper operation and minimize damage. Irrigation systems should remain winterized through March of each year. The Village I irrigation system will be winterized as well during November. Additionally, the four aerators at our entrances will be removed during the month of November where they will be serviced and stored until the spring. Landscape Maintenance Service will conduct its leaf clean up into November, as needed. Weather permitting, this process may continue into December. During the past month, you may have noticed a couple of changes around the Towne Centre: first, the Annex Lot was milled and repaved giving a fresh look to the area and addressing some of the paving safety issues. In the rear, the fence was removed behind the Ballroom and replaced with a new fence; this area is where trash and recycling is temporarily stored before it is moved to the dumpsters near the Storage Building. We have looked to move this site away from the building, but with limited space and for the daily required trash removal, this staging area is needed. The tennis court wind screens have been removed for the season, though nets will remain in play. The annual fall cutting of the front ponds is scheduled for mid to late November. All growth will be reduced to 8” during this cutting with the exception of trees, which are identified prior to any (Continued on page 3) GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Meet the Stars our emails/flyers/channel 3 and monroenjonline (website.) Come to our shows —- you may be the next one to Meet the Stars! Res. Civic Club President’s Message By Gene Gursky By Gail and Myron Alpern Backstage, at the September WHOA Show in MTHS, Joan and Bill Weiss and Joan and Nick Verzolini went backstage to meet Norm Crosby who is a legend in the world of comedy. Norm Crosby is remembered by all as the sidekick to Jerry Lewis in the Muscular Dystrophy Telethons and was seen on television for years on the Dean Martin Show. His stories and jokes were geared toward the experiences of those in the adult community and he resonated with the crowd. Our 2013 season is drawing to a close and when you read this we will have produced our October 12 – Phantom Ladies and readying our November 16 — Bronx Wanderers. Don’t miss out on our season finales. It is interesting to note that Joan and Bill are longtime residents of GW while Joan and Nick are brand new to our community. It is a good place to meet and greet and catch up with everyone at our sellout crowds. Stay informed through The Residents Civic Club of Greenbriar at Whittingham Is Conducting Its Annual Holiday Fund Drive We wish to thank our excellent, hard-working loyal staff. We appreciate the efforts of our nurses, security, maintenance, office, and management employees who keep this a beautiful community. We suggest a minimum donation of $15.00 for a couple and $7.50 for a single, but any amount will be appreciated. Please note: WHOA & GWCA are not sponsors of the Holiday Fund. Please make your check payable to “Residents Civic Club.” Mark “Holiday Fund” in the memo section and deposit into Lock Box #4 near the Concierge desk in the clubhouse. Checks can also be mailed to: Residents Civic Club Box 4, 100 Whittingham Dr., Monroe Twp., NJ 08831 Manager (Continued from page 2) cutting. This is in connection with our storm water management plan and recommended by our contractor, Princeton Hydro. Enviroscapes, Inc. will be conducting the work. As we move into the 2014 season, we will continue our contract for Seasonal Pond Maintenance, along with the employing border collies to chase the geese in a non-violent manner. Unfortunately geese control is not scientific in its approach, but a continued pattern of harassment. We will be receiving our Annual Water Quality Report from Princeton Hydro, which for the most part has always been favorable. For those who will be leaving for their winter retreats, please remember to (1) leave your telephone active as it will disable your alarm system’s ability to communicate with the central station (mandatory for all Village I/ Whittingham residents); (b) complete a vacation form (available from the www.gwmonroe.com website, Concierge, or Security Gate House) and drop it off at the Towne Centre or with Security; ensure your emergency contact information listed with Security is up-to-date; remove any and all planters from your driveway or walk/stoop and storm them so they are not damaged during any snow clearing operation; and remember to winterize your home (MTMUA forms available through our Concierge). Even for those who are not wintering away, it is very important to drain and blow out your outdoor spigots to ensure that there is no potential for a line break. And, all residents should remove outdoor planters from driveways and walkways in preparation for possible winter clearing events. Note that the Towne Centre is now observing “winter hours” on weekends wherein the Towne Centre is open from 8 a.m. to 4 p.m. on Saturdays and Sundays. Anyone using the pool or exercise areas should plan ahead and vacate those areas not later than 3:45 p.m. to ensure that you are ready to leave the building by 4 p.m. Beginning with the first scheduled pick up after November 1, 2013, residents in Village I/ Whittingham will now be able to place out their paper recycling in the issued blue, rectangular recycling container with the snap-on lid after 8:30 p.m. the night before. On a 90-day trial basis, beginning November 1st, Greenbriar will also be able to do the same thing. Please note that this change does not affect the co-mingle recycling. In observance of Thanksgiving, the Towne Centre will be closed on Thursday, November 28, 2013. Towne Centre will host regular hours the day before as well as the day and weekend after. The staff and I wish each of you a happy and enjoyable Thanksgiving. November 5 is Election Day. Don’t forget to vote! On October ninth we were privileged to have Candidates Night for six candidates from the Monroe Township community running for election to our Board of Education. There was a lively discussion and you will read more about it elsewhere in this issue of the GWVOICE. Be sure that you are registered to vote and go out and vote on Election Day for the candidates of your choice. The most important thing is to vote. This month we are having one of the largest New Residents Meetings that we have ever had. Since our last New Residents Meeting we have had over one hundred new people move into the GW community. In addition to our usual administrators and community presidents we will be honored with the presence of the administrator of our Senior Center of Monroe Township Bonnie Lebowitz. Please save the date, November 13 at 7:30 pm in the Ballroom. Also many club representatives will be there to make their presentations before and after the meeting. So come on down. MANAGEMENT BUSINESS HOURS As of November 15, 2013, the Management Offices (on the second floor of the Towne Centre) will be available weekdays only during the hours of 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. During lunch, the office will be closed from 12:30 p.m. to 1 p.m. At all other times, please see the Concierge. We thank you in advance for your cooperation. WHOA Board of Trustees NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 3 NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 4 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE A Winner! By Gloria Montlack He entered the Middlesex County Senior Citizens Art Show, and won first prize for professional oils! His winning art, Boy at the Window, went on to the New Jersey State Senior Citizens Art Show and won honorable mention! He entered a contest to design the official poster for the Trenton Half Marathon and won the cash prize and publication of his design! Yes, Irwin Montlack has been a very busy boy lately. Besides his passion for bowling three days a week, he has been working at his true forté … art. After finishing The Boy at the Window, he found the challenge for the Trenton Half Marathon and submitted his design just under the wire. No sooner had he finished that, he went on to paint the adorable ballerina, which is now hanging on the walls of the Monroe Township Library as part of the Monroe Township Cultural Arts Commission Annual Juried Art Show. (This one is not a contest, but an exhibition of accepted works of art.) So, as Irwin collects his medals and awards, the question becomes... What will he think of next? Go Irwin! Boy at the Window Official Poster selected for the Trenton Half Marathon. Letters to the Editor Got the Word? We want all Greenbriar/ Whittingham residents to know about a great opportunity. We are a group of Scrabble lovers who gather on Friday afternoons at 12:30pm at the Towne Centre to play the game. We are not an official club. There are no dues. The rules for play are very generous. We are looking for more people to join us, the more, the merrier. You can come every Friday, or only whenever you wish. There are no structured tabulations of winners. We play for the fun and challenge of each game. For more information, please contact Martha Dillman at 4091538.Martha Dillman A Slow Process We write in response to the letter written by Nancy James in the October issue of the GW VOICE concerning the Trent Road pond. Many intelligent questions were raised but due to the fact that the cut-off date for response was only twentyfour hours after receipt of the publication we will only be able to respond to some of the general questions at this time. There is a process that will be followed once we receive the “Letter of Intent” and survey from the County which we expect will include boundary definitions, property restrictions and legal requirements necessary to conclude the transfer. Once these documents are reviewed by the Board, our attorney and any required engineering, environmental, and hydrology experts, the next step will be the presentation of all of these findings to the residents at an open meeting. Before this open meeting, we will respond point by point to the questions you raised in the letter. A letter will be sent to all residents announcing the date of the meeting. This meeting(s) should take place in the early spring when our “Snowbirds” have returned. At this meeting the attorney and experts will be present to answer all questions from the residents. One question that you did submit and that we can respond to now is that we have been notified by the Department of Environmental Protection that improvements must be made in accordance with the NJ Dam Safety Standards in accordance with (N.J.A.C. 7:20) for either the repair or removal of the structure. These improvements could be a considerable expense to the community. It should be noted that the actions by the County have postponed the necessity of us taking further action at this time. We want to thank you for your community interest and the submission of your letter to the GW VOICE. Greenbriar Board of Directors EMAIL BULLETIN DELIVERY SOME OF THE EMERGENCY AND OTHER EMAIL BULLETINS FROM MANAGEMENT SENT TO RESIDENTS ARE BEING RETURNED AS UNDELIVERABLE. TO FACILITATE DELIVERY, PLEASE ADD THE EMAIL ADDRESS whoaopsmgr@hotmail.com TO YOUR CONTACT LIST. GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE GW Elections: Behind the Scenes By Ben Baum If you were a non-participant in the GW Elections in September, then you were one of the people who reinforced the old adage that “every vote counts.” One candidate lost by only 10 votes! The WHOA, Greenbriar and Golf Association elections began about two weeks before September 18, the final day of voting, when the voting machine was utilized. The majority of voters voted by absentee ballot, with a small minority exercising their right to a proxy and fewer than 300 using the voting machine on September 18. I would like to thank the residents who worked at the polls on September 18. A special thank you to the following residents who served as election judges working diligently processing the absentee and proxy ballots for two full days : Rose Corso and James Ungerleider (representing Whittingham) and myself and Justin Leibowitz (representing Greenbriar) and Golf Course Administrator Matt Heon. April Schauer, Operations Manager, and Bruce Feldman, CPA, coordinated the entire effort. The golf amendment, requiring that all new residents pay $1000, was defeated. The vote was 647 yes and 96 no. Several residents appeared to be puzzled about why it didn’t pass with the lopsided number of yes votes. I’m afraid those participants weren’t paying attention on July 17 when our community voted down our ability to make changes with less than a two-thirds majority. In order to pass the golf amendment we would have needed 1072 yes votes. Rather a challenge when only 743 households voted for or against the amendment. Several residents asked me why there were numbers on our ballots. They assumed they were there to identify them, thus negating the secret ballot. The only reason the numbers are on the ballots is to provide a watermark so the ballot cannot be copied and permit someone to vote multiple times. Having served as a judge several times, I can assure you that your absentee ballot is a secret ballot. Congratulations to Bobby Braverman who was reelected as WHOA President and to Marcia Forrest who was elected as Greenbriar President. And thank you to the candidates who ran for election but lost their bids; their interest in our community is appreciated. The most effective way to be sure our governing bodies are meeting our needs is to attend the morning monthly workshop and /or open public evening meetings. If you have a concern or problem, instead of just grumbling about it, show up at a meeting and voice your concern MCAC Presents the Official Blues Brothers Review On Sunday, November 24 at 5 pm, the Monroe Township Cultural Arts Commission will present The Official Blues Brothers Review. The performance will be held at the Richard P. Marasco Theatre for the Performing Arts, 1629 Perrineville Road, Monroe, NJ 08831. This live concert show combines the comedy and hits from the original movie and pays homage to Chicago’s rich history of blues, gospel and soul music. The band hits the right balance of humor, music and mayhem. It will be a marvelous, fun-filled performance of laughs and music. The performance has been endorsed by Dan Ackroyd and the wife of John Belushi. The music was directed by Paul Shaffer. For the convenience of concertgoers, this performance will begin at 5 pm. General admission $25, Patrons $22. Students: FREE For more information go to: www.MonroeTownshipCultural Arts.com For tickets call: 1-87777CLICK from 9 am-10 pm EST or (732) 521-4400. Tickets will also be available for purchase at the box office two hours before the performance NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 5 NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 6 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE THE COMMUNITY AROUND US Civic Affairs Odds and Ends and Congratulations By Jerry Tamburro Monroe Township Council President Every year there are various programs for sports and skills for seniors offered by the Township and other organizations. Senior Olympics, league competition, and most notably the Mayor’s Cup are some of the programs. This year the Greenbriar at Whittingham Senior bowling league team won the Mayor’s cup and kudos to captains Nancy Greenley and Hong Wu. Since the awards, each year, are presented at the regular Council meeting in October I have to sit passively by while other communities receive a trophy for bocce. That changed dramatically this year when the “bad news bears” from Greenbriar at Whittingham won the coveted trophy. The team was captained by Carole Tamburro. They only lost one game. So this year, I sat proudly at the Council meeting as Carole and each of us on the bocce team were presented the Mayor’s Cup Trophy by Mayor Pucci. Double kudos! In other business, there will be intersection improvements in the next several months throughout the Township. Land acquisition for right of ways is usually the most time consuming issue for the installation of traffic lights. The intersection of Union Valley Road and Perrineville Road turn lane property has been settled so we will go out to bid in 60 days and that dangerous intersection will have a traffic light. The intersection of 522 and Spotswood/ Englishtown Road was most compelling for land acquisition. There were 13 different property owners and the problems were many. One property was owned by a company in bankruptcy and other owners who were looking for lottery numbers for small strips of land. That has all been resolved and that also will go out to bid soon. Finally, the Applegarth Road and Forsgate Drive intersection will have a dedicated left turn lane and a left turn light. November 5 is Election Day. Don’t forget to vote! Election Results To Be Main Course at LWV Luncheon By Ruth Banks “Holiday Happening,” the League of Women Voters annual winter social event, will take place on Monday, November 11, at the Forsgate Country Club. “What Happened? What Changed?” will be the focus of the guest speaker, Ingrid Reed, wellknown policy analyst and former director of the NJ Project at Rutgers’ Eagleton Institute of Politics. As in past meetings following an election, Ms. Reed will put into perspective the results of the general election, and with her extensive knowledge of the state, will share her insights into its politics. The luncheon will start at 12 noon and reservations must be made with Doris Altman at 4 John Adams Ct., M.T., 609655-5932. The cost is $36. Ms. Reed has a wide audience among League members and the general public owing to her many op-ed columns in area newspapers. While at Eagleton, she was actively involved in issues of voter participation in elections and government. A founding member of NJ Future, now is on the board of NJ Spotlight.com, a civic journalism website designed to provide news coverage about critical issues shaping the state and its communities. Before joining Eagleton in 1996, she was vice-president for public affairs and corporate secretary of the Rockefeller University in New York City, and served as Assistant Dean of Princeton University’s Woodrow Wilson School of Public and International Affairs, where she also directed the Rockefeller Public Service Awards Program. The League of Women Voters is a nonpartisan political organization with state and national affiliations. Now entering the 94th year since being born, the League continues to engage its members in public policy issues on the local, state and national levels. The Natural Resources Committee follows the issues of climate change, especially as it affects the access to water for agriculture and personal use. The Education Committee has been tracking the many education reforms being implemented in NJ, and a Social Policy com- mittee has begun to study the issue of Human Trafficking, especially as it relates to NJ. The League meets monthly on the fourth Monday of the month at 1 pm, with exceptions for holidays, at the Municipal Building. For more information and specific details of planned programs, please contact Judy Perkus, 609-395-1552, Ruth Banks, 609-655-4791. Jewish Federation Greenbriar Chapter By Eddie Thompson Shalom Haverem (greetings friends), There are many dates to mark on your calendars: Sunday, November 24, 2013 from 8:30 am-5 pm is Jewish Federation’s Super Sunday Holiday Boutique at Douglass College Center. We will conduct a Phonathon from 8:30 am-1 pm to solicit pledges for donations for 2014. We will have a special Holiday Boutique on that day from 12-5 pm with games for young people, and vendors for the adults. It should be a fun day and we hope everyone will come and join in the festivities, and in the morning when you receive a solicitation call please give generously so that we may continue to fund all of our many programs for sen- iors, adults, children and all of those in need of our services in Middlesex County, Israel, and other countries where Jews need our help. On Sunday, January 12, 2014, we will have our All Day Super Sunday where we will finalize our solicitation calls for our 2014 fund drive. Sunday, March 30, 2014 in the afternoon, we will have a community-wide Mitzvah day. Details for this event will be announced in the near future. Our Annual Communitywide Yom Hashoah Commemoration will be on Sunday, April 27, 2014. May 4, 2014—the annual Rutgers Hillel Walk & Run. The Jewish Federation will be involved with this event and there will be an additional pro(Continued on page 7) This year’s GW Federation honoree for service to the community, Richard Diamond, responds to the his wife’s characterization that "he is kind and generous; a person who wants to help anyone who needs it" and does...as a participant in many Jewish and general community endeavors. NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 7 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Federation (Continued from page 6) gram to complement the day. Israel Mission to Israel: this will be a Mega Mission and will involve Middlesex, Ocean, Monmouth, and Mercer Jewish Federations. The dates are October 26—November 3, 2014. The costs are expected to be between $1700-$2300 depending on which part of the program the participants will choose. These costs do not include airfare. Further details will be forthcoming. The Jewish Federation supports a special program that many people are probably not aware of—not the program, but the problem as well. There is an organization called The NJ Coalition Against Human Trafficking and they are partnering with S.O.A.P. (Save Our Adoles- cents from Prostitution.) They help provide support to victims of human trafficking, and there may be a serious problem in New Jersey during the upcoming Super Bowl 2014. Volunteers are needed (200-400 volunteers). There will be two training sessions in New Jersey: Saturday, January 25, 2014 from 9-2, and Sunday, January 26, 2014 from 10-3. For additional information and to vol- unteer, go online to SOAPNJ.EVENTBRITE.COM or WWW.NJHUMANTRAFFICKING.ORG. If you have questions about Jewish Federation, please call co-presidents, Dorothy Thompson (860-2664) or Judy Brodman (395-8171), or you may call the Jewish Federation of Greater Middlesex County office at 732-5881800. If you wish to become active with Jewish Federation, we encourage you to contact either our presidents or the Federation office directly, and we will be happy to welcome you as an active volunteer. Special announcement: Remember that the 1st Chanukah candle lighting is Wednesday night, November 27, and the 1st day of Chanukah is Thursday, November 28, which is also Thanksgiving Day. We wish everyone a Happy Chanukah and a wonderful Thanksgiving. NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 8 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE From Our Mayor B y Richard Pucci, Twp. of Monroe Open Space and Farmland Preservation Calling for Minyan Volunteers The Minyan Group of Greenbriar at Whittingham has serviced our community for over 20 years and now we need your help in order to continue this most important function. To cover the broad spectrum of observance among residents, we need to ensure the presence of 10 men at all Shiva minyans. You do not have to be fluent in Hebrew to be part of our group but we need your presence. However, if you are fluent in Hebrew, we could also ask if you wish to be a minyan leader as well. For more information and to volunteer, please call: Eddie Thompson-860-2664/Aaron Nitkin-395-7598/Jim Penzias-860-8344. Each year, we get closer to our goal of keeping 50 percent of Monroe Township undeveloped by purchasing open space that is used for farmland, parks, woodland and walking trails. To purchase land for preservation, the Township utilizes its Open Space Trust Fund, which was authorized by the voters and established through a 2.5-cent (per $100 of assessed valuation) Open Space Tax. Using the Trust Fund, the Township has been able to preserve more than 4,000 acres of open space including green undeveloped woodlands and our highly utilized parks. Monroe regularly works with Middlesex County and the State of New Jersey on open space purchases, sharing the costs and work that go into the preservation process. The Township places priority on the preservation of lands that are next to other preserved lands as a means to create green belts throughout the Township to ensure there are large portions of Monroe that will remain green forever. The Township has just purchased three properties, totaling 80 acres east of Spotswood-Englishtown Road at North State Home Road. With the land already preserved by the Township these parcels will help create a green belt connecting Monroe with Old Bridge, abutting land preserved by Middlesex County in our neighboring town. This year’s targeted acquisitions for Township preservation will include approximately 75 acres next to James Monroe Park on Dey Grove Road and 14 acres near the Matchaponix Road extension. Furthermore, two years ago, the Township purchased the development rights to the 14acre Balz Farm, which is adjacent to Jamesburg Park. Monroe is in the final stages of purchasing the development rights to two other farms total- ing nearly 55 acres, which would bring the Monroe Township’s register of preserved farmland to more than 1,300 acres. Currently the NJ Turnpike Authority is working on its 400acre wetland mitigation site on Perrineville Road from the Millstone River to Longstreet Road. Through wetlands mitigation, the Turnpike will create and maintain wetlands on the parcel to compensate for wetlands that will be lost during the Turnpike widening project. The Monroe Township Council, the Township Open Space and Farmland Preservation Commission and Environmental Manager John Riggs should be commended for their hard work in keeping the Township green. Around Town and Beyond By Ben Baum Library Board of Trustees Meeting-September 16- The fall issue of the New Jersey Library Association Magazine featured our Studio M, 3D Printer. The Library Foundation is sponsoring a Jewelry Show on November 3 and conversion of 8mm./16mm. films as well as slides to DVD’s on November 9. The New Jersey Library Trustees Association Annual Meeting was held at our Library on Saturday, September 21. Studio M, as well as our drive-up window, were features of interest to the 60 statewide library board trustees who attended. Editor’s Note: Ben Baum was elected as Treasurer of the NJLTA at the Annual Meeting. Zoning Board Meeting September 26- (As reported by Joe Gurney) Final approval was given to the Verde Group for the complex at the corner of Applegarth, Bentley Road and Route #33. The complex will include 153 three-bedroom townhouses, a day care center, bank, retail offices, a fast food operation with 24 seats, a convenience store and a bus stop. Freeholder’s Board Meeting-August 15- (via Freeholders website) The Department of Housing has received grants in the amount of $2.8 million for the construction of low income housing for seniors, disabled residents and impoverished citizens. Freeholders’ Board Meeting- September 26-(via Freeholders’ website) Two ordinances were passed approving $10,578,145 in bonds for equipment and vehicles through the Middlesex County Improvement Authority. The Health Department is projecting a more severe influenza outbreak this year; if you haven’t done so already, get a flu shot. All fire personnel in the County will be trained in how to deal with fires that occur in a roof that has solar panels on it (the main reason the huge warehouse in North Bergen was completely lost). A power point presentation was made explaining the business portal that is being developed to provide future world- wide businesses with data to assist with their decisions to move to Middlesex County. The Middlesex County Academy for Mathematics, Science and Engineering Technologies in Edison has been named a US Blue Ribbon School. This is the second year in a row that a Middlesex County Vocational School has been so honored. American Jewish Experience Lecture Series The American Jewish Experience Lecture Series, presented by the Jewish Historical Society of Central Jersey, concludes its 16th consecutive year with a talk by Jason Gosnell entitled “The Merging Synagogue Phenomenon.” The lecture will be held on Monday, November 11 at 10 am at Jewish Family and Vocational Services, 52 Concordia Shopping Center, Monroe Township. Gosnell, a graduate of Rutgers School of Law, has worked as a transactional associate in law firms in both Israel and the United States. He recently completed his thesis in the Masters Degree program in Jewish Studies at the Rutgers Graduate School of Arts and Sciences. The lecture will be repeated at the Highland Park Conservative Temple, 201 South 3rd Avenue, Highland Park , on Wednesday, November 20, at 10:30 am Both lectures are open to the public; a donation of $2 is collected at the door. For more information call the JHSCJ office at 732-249-4894. The Jewish Historical Society of Central Jersey promotes and preserves all facets of the American Jewish experience, with emphasis on the Jewish community of central New Jersey. The Society’s extensive archival holdings are available to researchers. The collections include documents from religious, social, educational, and community organizations, as well as individual family records. Jewish Family and Vocational Services invites attendees to join in a glatt kosher lunch immediately following the Highland Park lecture. Reservations can be made in advance by calling the JFVS Intake Desk directly at 732-777-1940. Suggested donation for the meal is $3.50. Visit the JHSCJ Website at www.JewishGen.org/jhscj “Like” us on Facebook! GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE · People with certain medical Nurse’s Notes conditions, such as diabetes · People who are in recovery Alcohol Use Stephanie FitzsimmonsSexton, RN APN There is a lot written about drug changes as we age but are you aware that alcohol may act differently in older people than in younger people? Some older people can feel “high” without increasing the amount of alcohol they drink. This “high” can make them more likely to have accidents, including falls and fractures and car crashes. Drinking Too Much Can · Lead to some kinds of cancer, liver damage, immune system disorders, and brain damage. · Worsen some health conditions like osteoporosis, diabetes, high blood pressure, and ulcers. · Make some medical problems hard for doctors to find and treat – for example, alcohol causes changes in the heart and blood vessels. These changes can dull pain that might be a warning sign of a heart attack. · Cause some older people to be forgetful and confused – these symptoms could be mistaken for signs of Alzheimer’s disease. Drinking Limits Safe drinking limits are hard to set because the same amount of alcohol can affect different people differently. For example, alcohol affects men and women differently. Safe drinking limits follow: · For men, moderate drinking means no more than two alcoholic drinks a day. · For women, moderate drinking means no more than one alcoholic drink a day. · For men over 65 years of age, moderate drinking means no more than one alcoholic drink a day. Older women should drink somewhat less than this level. The Standard Drink One alcoholic drink means · 12 ounces of beer OR · 5 ounces of wine OR · 1½ ounces of distilled spirits These drinking guidelines are not intended for people who plan to drive or perform activities requiring attention · People taking prescription medicines or over-the-counter drugs from alcohol problems Recommended safe drinking limits do not take into account body weight, patterns of drinking, or spacing of drinks. This is particularly important for older adults (especially older women), in whom the toxic effects of alcohol are increased. Never Drink Alcohol · If you are taking prescription pain medicine, sleeping pills, or over-the-counter drugs for sleep problems · If you are taking prescription medicine to treat anxiety or depression · If you have memory problems · If you have a history of falls or unsteady walking So many of you work hard at staying healthy and living active lives that I wanted to make you aware of the impact alcohol has on the aging body. Let’s all live as if we won the lottery for lifebe well. (Adapted from: National Institute of Health) GW Lecture: November 4, 1pm “Dizziness: Causes and Care” Dr. Dixit, Neurologist. Please register with the Concierge. Reflections By Ben Baum I wonder if the fact that the young people in our society are always hooked up technologically results in the brain being in a constant state of stimulation. I read that there are physical limitations to the ability to multitask; therefore I ponder whether individuals can realistically be on their smart phone, watch TV and be doing their homework simultaneously. Yet I see our grandchildren’s generation doing this constantly. Well, if these behaviors don’t stress the brain, they certainly do result in decreased person-to-person communication. Noticed a new LED light bulb in the hardware store. It stated that the projected life of this bulb will be 22.8 years. Found it ironic that the bulb may likely outlast me. Regularly interacting with my 97-year old mother, I have become more sensitive to the fragility of life. I frequently think about the phrase “You don’t know what you got ‘til it’s gone” from the song It Takes Paradise to Put Up a Parking Lot. This certainly applies to the physical conveniences we have become accustomed to as illustrated by the basic necessities that we lost during Hurricane Sandy. And while we rationalize that so and so is older or has been terminally ill we are never really prepared for that person to be “gone” from this realm. As I write this we are mired in the current national dilemma, namely shutdown and/ or possible financial default. While we as a nation are fixated on these possibilities the country and the world have lost sight of a far greater problem. Will our planet, with its burgeoning population, be able to sustain itself? We do not pay enough attention to the starving millions at home and abroad. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out that we are headed down a path that will result in a time (Continued on page 11) Demonstrations November 1 - 15 NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 9 NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 10 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE The Cinema By Larry Sheppard THE FAMILY is advertised as a black comedy. To put it mildly, this is a monumental understatement, especially the black part. Mobster Giovanni (ROBERT DE NIRO), his wife Maggie (MICHELLE PFIEFFER), 17-year-old daughter Belle (DIANNA AGRON) and 14 year old son Warren ( JOHN D’LEO) have moved to a small village in France as part of the witness protection program. He had testified against his fellow Mafioso and his family is in hiding as the mob plans to kill them all. FBI agent TOMMY LEE JONES is in charge of their safety and is hard put to keep them out of trouble as they react negatively to their foreign surroundings. Maggie burns down the local grocery when the owner makes a snide remark about her preference for olive oil over butter. Giovanni beats a plumber senseless for not only being late for his appointment but dares to attempt a shakedown for doing his job. Belle uses a tennis racket to demolish a smitten youth for making a pass at her. Warren shows his lineage by organizing several shady deals in school aided by fellow students only too willing to join his gang. All of the violence is delivered with gusto as past murders are recalled, new grisly ones are imagined and a final shootout replete with piled up bodies is displayed with appropriate amounts of blood and gore. Obviously, this film is meant to be a spoof about the Mafioso but this reviewer cannot laugh when innocent bystanders are mowed down with the use of knives, guns, baseball bats and other lethal weapons. While De NIRO and PFEIFFER display their acting skills to perfection, the plot is ridiculous, the violence too graphic and the ultimate result not funny. RATING…C-. RUSH is about the world of Formula One racing cars directed by RON HOWARD and proves to be both entertaining and educational. Based on the rivalry of real life drivers James Hunt (CHRIS HEMSWORTH) and Niki Lauda (DANIEL BRUHL), the film vividly shows what it takes to prepare for the race, the mental state of the drivers and finally, a very graphic portrayal of being behind the wheel doing over 140 mph as they fight for the lead. Hunt is the brash Englishman who loves the spotlight, the adoring women and the action. Lauda is the precise Austrian who is all business with only the race on his mind as he orders his crew around relentlessly without regard for personal feelings. The aim of the drivers is to accumulate points as they race at various tracks all over the world and is depicted with all the color and excitement of these events. There is the personal story of their domestic relationships with their wives but this takes second place to the screaming engines, the hair pin turns and the inevitable crashes. HOWARD does a remarkable job of putting all the pieces together with a realistic view of what it takes to win in the professional racing world. RATING…B+ ENOUGH SAID is another gem from director and writer NICOLE HOLOFCENER. Eva (JULIA LOUIS-DREYFUS) and Albert (JAMES GANDOLFINI) are both divorced and both have daughters going off to college. Eva uses her sense of humor to be liked but is beginning to tire of her sin- gle life and her career as a masseuse. Albert is also funny in a sloppy gentle way and they both hit it off after a brief introduction. After they become intimate, she realizes that this may lead to a more permanent relationship and it is time to get serious. Complications ensue when one of her friendlier clients Marianne (CATHERINE KEENER), also divorced, drops hints about her exhusband’s shortcomings. Suddenly, Eva realizes that Albert’s ex-wife is this same Marianne and she is dumbfounded about what to do. Without giving away the plot, the director’s ability to entertain and involve the audience in the various relationships between ex-mates, adolescents, lovers and marrieds is truly engaging. JAMES GANDOLFINI in his almost final role adds another facet to this film with his ability to be gruff, kind, warm and real. His talent will be missed. If you liked ENOUGH SAID, I heartily recommend HOLOFCENER’S previous films, WALKING AND TALKING (1996), LOVELY AND AMAZING (2002), FRIENDS WITH MONEY (2006) and PLEASE GIVE (2011). You will not be disappointed. RATING...A. Finance and Investing By Irwin Kaplan A Fact Is a Fact An anecdote about Abraham Lincoln has the sixteenth President talking to a group of farmers and wanted to make a point. He asked one of them,” How many legs does a bull have?” The farmer replied, "Four”. Lincoln said “Well if you called his tail a leg, how many legs would he then have?” “Five,” said the farmer. Lincoln said. “I don’t think so.” His point was that a fact or the truth is always the same, no matter what words you use to disguise it. The U.S. has been in a depression for nearly five years. Saying that unemployment is less than it was last month still means over 20 million Americans are unem- ployed. It is also true the US debt is at an historic high at almost 17 trillion dollars - I can’t imagine how much that is. That’s why when I hear or read about “a slow recovery”, I can’t rationalize anything good for the economy or Americans. The assumption is made about the future outcome of the economy based on meager economic information. Slow recovery means to me it could take 5 to 10 years from now, or longer, until the US debt recedes to something we can pay and unemployment is reduced substantially. And, that’s just two elements that fuel the US depression we are currently wading through. Propagating the idea of “slow recovery” doesn’t make the depression go away or get Americans jobs, or reduce our Federal debt. Keep in mind “slow” is a word with a lot of different meanings and interpretations. I believe we are in uncharted economic waters now and Congress and the President’s team have not reacted to reality fast enough. When you can’t change economic conditions, I guess you start renaming what is happening. “Slow recovery” is positive when you hear it or read it in print. But, and it is a big but… this economy the US is struggling through in 2013 is unique and can go on and on, or even longer. At present, there is very little factual information to predict the exact timing of when the U.S. will declare publically that the US economy is prosperous, unemployment is at an acceptable small percentage of the population, our Federal debt has been reduced to pre2008 levels, taxes have been made fairer, housing starts are (Continued on page 11) GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Senior Solutions By Helen Oxenberg, MSW, ACSW (Helen Oxenberg’s column, Senior Solutions, is syndicated and appears in several states) Dear Solutions: My daughter -in-law just came back from a trip to Europe and brought me a necklace and earrings that are just not my style. I know it’s not that cheap but I take pride in how I dress and what kind of jewelry I wear and I would never consider this if it weren’t that she bought it. I know I could just wear it when she’s around but now we have a big family affair to go to and she knows the gown I’m going to wear and keeps saying “Oh I’m so glad I got you that. I had that gown in mind and think it’ll really look great with that”. It’s really kind of gaudy and flashy and I always wear quiet jewelry. Should I wear it? -NormaDear Norma: Yes. This time you be a gaudy and flashy mother-in-law by pointing it out to people and boasting how your daughter-in-law took the time and effort to shop and bring this for you all the way from Europe. People at the affair may not love the jewelry but they will appreciate and maybe even envy the good relationship you manage to maintain with your daughter-in-law. Dear Solutions: Every time one of my kids or close relatives has a problem and tells me about it I start worrying and can’t stop. I console them the best I can and then when I don’t hear from them for a Reflections (Continued from page 9) when water and food will become more valuable resources than oil. Mankind has certainly developed a plethora of activities and devices to avoid dealing with the cold realities that require solutions. It’s easier to watch your favorite sport team than to become involved as a citizen. Likewise it’s easier to play cards and or mah-jongg than be bothered by the current challenges in GW. On the other hand we all have to have some leisure time to recharge. It doesn’t take much to be more popular than the U.S. Congress, their popularity rating stands at 10%! November is the month that permits us to be thankful for what we have. Take time on Thanksgiving to be truly thankful. The gemstones for November are either the topaz or the citrine; the flower is the chrysanthemum. Mark your calendar for the following days: Election Day -5, U.S. Marine Corps Day-10, Veterans’ Day-11, World Peace Day-17, and Thanksgiving Day28. Help a friend or relative move in the right direction by introducing them to the Great American Smoke Out on 21; perhaps they can give up this life threatening habit. Since I take the observance of these designated days seriously, I expect to have several visits from the security department to interrupt my observance of Chemistry Week on November 1-7 (Investigation of bizarre odors emanating from my garage) and my observance of Drum Month (complaints from my neighbors for the perpetual noise). while I just keep worrying over and over about what will happen. The same thing happens when it’s my own problem. How do I stop being a worrier? HildaDear Hilda: Okay so you’re a worrier. First, stop worrying about it. It keeps you from moving on so accept that about yourself and then focus on what you can do about it. After you’ve consoled your kids and then don’t hear from them I’ll bet they’ve solved their problem and have moved on while you leave yourself stuck in the same place. So, until you hear from them again assume they’ve solved their problem. When you’re stuck worrying about a problem of your own try removing yourself. Step back and visualize a friend asking your advice about that problem. What would you tell her/him? Also when you’re feeling very nervous, try square breathing. Take a deep breath, hold it for a count of 4, release it slowly through your mouth and repeat. And, each time the worrying starts and you haven’t found a solution take a time out. Actually say the words out loud – “time out” and watch a Finance (Continued from page 10) up several years in a row, and public and private pension promises can be kept. These are just a few things that have to happen before we have “true” recovery. It will happen, we just don’t know when, now. The political squabbling doesn’t help bring US government, states, and municipals any closer to fiscal recovery and rebalancing their budgets to workable levels. Our congress and Government has to face reality and make judgments and laws that produce positive financial results. It is easy to say this, but not easy to accomplish. So….I guess in the meantime I have to say that the economy is proceeding toward a slow recovery (?) Good luck everyone, we sure are going to need it. movie read a book, anything that will engage your mind, After you’ve done all this please tell me how it has worked. If I don’t hear from you I’ll worry. Dear Solutions: I am in charge of Thanksgiving every year and I always have the whole family here. My two daughters have always gotten along. My older daughter has remarried this past year and unfortunately my two sons-inlaw who were in competing businesses are in what I would call a feud about something that happened. When they’re together they argue constantly over everything even the football teams they support. (and it seems there’s always a football game to watch during the holiday). My daughters stay out of the arguing because they really love each other and love to get together. What can I do about these guys so they won’t spoil the day? -UpsetDear Upset: Uh oh, here comes Thanksgiving and here, in your case, comes the three Fs – food, football and feud. Hopefully your daughters, since they get along, will have some influence on their husbands. To refrain from spoiling the day for everyone. I would (Continued on page 12) NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 11 NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 12 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE The Green Thumb By Laura Resnick REMEMBER OUR MEN AND WOMEN IN THE SERVICE THANKSGIVING TABLE: Make a floral pumpkin centerpiece. Cut off the top of the pumpkin, clean out the inside and rinse the shell with a weak bleach solution. Start with floral foam (Oasis), which you first soak in water for 3 minutes. Place the foam inside the pumpkin, and insert the flower stems into the foam. Include some leafy stalks from your outside shrubs and add water. To preserve the arrangement apply just a pinch of floral preservative. (The standard envelope of Floralife is good for five water changes.) If you prefer to use a plastic pumpkin, start with the foam and proceed as above. HOUSEPLANTS SLOW DOWN in winter, with the shorter days and weaker sunlight. Keep your plants in the brightest place available, but for a north window or a hallway choose plants that will tolerate low light. You can liven up a dark corner with a Kentia Palm or a Chinese Evergreen. Many foliage plants such as snake plant, rubber plant and peace lily, actually prefer medium or low light. In fact, the leaves of the Maranta (Prayer Plant) have a lively geometric pattern in brown and bright green, which will fade if kept in full sun. ARE YOU GUILTY? Do you tend to forget to water your plants when they need it? If yes, please hearken to this TRUE STORY: In a scientific experiment, various plant species were allowed to dry out completely. While many died, quite a few simply wilted, lost some leaves, and recovered quickly when watered normally. Among the survivors were the Swedish ivy, sanseveria (snake plant), golden pothos, peperomia, philodendron and piggyback plant. Re- member that when you go shopping for new houseplants. FLOWER POWER: French neurologist Guillaume Duchenne (1806-75) is renowned for his work in the field of muscular diseases. When he mapped the facial muscles in 1862 he noted that when a person smiles with genuine delight it raises the corners of the mouth, bringing a warm glow to the face and crinkles to the eyes. In 2006 a research team at Rutgers University recorded the facial expressions of 150 women as they received either flowers or an alternate gift. 100% of those receiving flowers had what psychologists have dubbed the “Duchenne Smile”—-not your graduation or passport grin. A similar study of men found that the flower effect was true for them as well. Cut flowers are often more appreciated than houseplants, which need care and may not flourish. Fresh flowers give immediate pleasure. Later on they can be discarded, leaving pleasant memories and no regrets. A thought to ponder: How many “Duchenne Smiles” will you generate during this holiday season? REMINDER: The Green Thumbs will meet at the Monroe Twp. Senior Center at 11am on Tuesday, Nov.12. Join us, to share and exchange cuttings and plants, plus new information. Memories Growing Up In New Jersey: School Days By Len Greenberg Many of the fondest memories of my formative years took place at Hillside Avenue School. The school was what they call today a K-8 and what they called back then a grammar school. Growing up in a small community, albeit a stone’s throw from New York and a short walk from Newark, everyone in my grade knew each other. A number of us went from kindergarten through high school together. There were only 100 in my eighth grade graduating class and only 250 in my high school graduating class. Like most children around the country, back to school, right after Labor Day, was particularly exciting. I remember that all the desks would be sanded and shellacked, like new, and floors would be painted with a fresh coat of institutional gray. We lived just a short suburban block from the school and walking to school was a way of life. We had no school buses and some children walked quite a distance. Before my parents bought the house a block from school, my older brother and I and several friends walked many blocks through a neighborhood of candy stores, barber shops, grocery stores and residences. I can remember just about every teacher I had in just about every grade Senior Solutions (Continued from page 11) also suggest that you call each son-in-law separately and without taking sides in their argument, tell them you are counting on them as you are on everyone who is invited to help make the day a success. Then put a big sign on your outside door which they will see as they enter. It should say – “Food, Friends, Football welcome inside: Feuds must be left on the doorstep and may, if necessary be picked up on the way out. No exceptions!! Problems? Become part of the Solution. Write to Helen Oxenberg, Senior Solutions, P.O. Box 346, Jamesburg, NJ 08831 or email:helox72@comcast.net from kindergarten through eighth grade. My retired teacher friends tell me that is because we probably had exceptional teachers. This is probably true. The teachers of the day were notoriously poorly paid. However they wanted to be teachers. As poorly as they were paid, the metropolitan area offered a better situation for teachers. I remember teachers who came from Kansas and West Virginia teaching in our schools. Of course, we never let them forget they were “hillbillies” compared to us sophisticated New Jersey 12 and 13 year olds. Recently, some of us went back to Hillside Avenue School for a wonderfully reminiscent tour. The current principal was thrilled that a group who graduated back in the early fifties still cared enough to want to see the old place. He asked us to come on a day when there were teachers workshops scheduled. None of us had been back since probably high school and yet when we were ushered in, the place looked like it had not changed. We all had the same feeling of excitement like the opening days of school so many years before. A particular experience of this day was very telling of the times we are going through. One woman noted, with some chagrin, that Barack Obama’s portrait hung on the wall where George Washington’s portrait always hung. She could not understand this. “After all,” she said, “Washington was the father our country.” I wasn’t amazed at the change as much as her complaint. I thought that a portrait of a current President would be more appropriate of the time. At the end of the tour, we were introduced to a group of teachers who were present for workshops. They looked at us with amazement. We were all old enough to be the parents of most of them and certainly old enough to be the grandparents of the children they were teaching. We all agreed it was a wonderful day. Many of my friends who (Continued on page 13) GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Computer Tips and Tricks By Herman Strauss Get Free Stuff The best things in life are free! That’s a fact. Love, friendship, joy and peace don’t cost a thing. Unfortunately, some really good things, like vacations, technology and food, can get expensive. The good news is that you can get a lot of them without paying. And I’m not talking about theft! You can find free vacations, goods, services, discounts and giveaways on the Internet. Here are five websites you should visit to find free stuff: Free-Attractions [http:// www.free-attractions.com] America is chock full of amazing parks, museums and events. You could spend a fortune trying to see them all! 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You’ll need to sign up using an email address to use this site. Free Sample Monkey [http://freesamplemonkey.com] For even more free samples, try talking to the Free Sample Monkey! This website searches the Internet for free samples and collects them in one place. You can search for samples or browse by the latest offers. Memories (Continued from page 12) grew up in the boroughs of New York City just don’t understand my fixation with school memories and reunions and all this reminiscing. When I announce I am off to another reunion (at least one a year,) I am asked: “why bother? You haven’t been friends all these years and that’s not going to change.” That’s true; however, why do we look at old Ed Sullivan shows on PBS, or run to Doo Wop shows? It really is the same thing. We are trying to go back to a happy and simpler time. The truth is I don’t run to Doo Wop shows because the groups typically are not the same people. 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Keep information and phone numbers (doctors, family, friends, hospital, list of medicines, pet shelters, insurance, vital records) conveniently located in a fire-proof, water-proof box. Put in easily accessible place. Remember to update your kit and check on its location often. 3. Buy battery operated radio, cell phone chargers for car, flashlights, extra batteries. 4. Have cash on hand (at least $100.) 5. Clothing for family members. 6. Extra set of car and house keys. 7. Whistle 8. Buy a GPS for your car Also, remember to complete these emergency tasks! 1. Keep car with at least 1/2 tank of gas filled (If notice of a storm, full.) 2. For heat, boil pots of water, on stove. DO NOT just turn stove on. NEVER leave unattended. Avoid using candles, but if you must, NEVER leave unattended. 3. Make contact with your neighbors, family. 4. Stock-up on water (1 gal/person/day), nonperishable foods, mechanical can opener, up to date meds, AND don’t forget for your pets, too. 5. Fill tub with water for sanitary reasons. 6. People with special needs, register with the Township. From the EEI committee Gloria Girard, Irwin Kaplan, Miriam Cohen, Linda Norden NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 13 NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 14 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Ladies League Golf News News from the Golf Course Board The Golf Course remained in exceptional condition throughout the season. The fairways were like a rich green carpet. The Greens were as smooth as velvet and ran true. Visitors that came to see the course were consistently impressed with the beauty and playability of the course. This was very important in our attempt to attract new golfers to our course. Congratulations to John Cipriano and his staff for such a remarkable job. It was especially remarkable after such difficult weather during the summer and operating with a trimmed down budget. As we have stated previously, our community has lost golf members over the past few years due to its aging population. In order to make up for the loss the Golf Course actively began to seek non-resident players from various adult communities in our area. The Membership Committee visited these communities along with our Head Professional, Kevin Darlington. We also placed advertisements in their community newspapers. The non-residents who have joined the Golf Course as players have been a welcome addition. They have become well integrated into the golf community and many have joined our Leagues. The Golf Course ran a sale for first time golfers in order to bring in more members. Nonresidents could join the 2014 season for $900, and would be allowed to play during the remainder of the 2013 season. If they brought in a friend, they could both play for the reduced fee of $800. A similar offer was made to residents. Their offer was a one-time deal at $600 and $500 with a friend. Golf Outings were advertised in various publications such as US 1, and The Clipper, in order to generate more income. The Membership Committee contacted many groups to advertise the fact that we were running Charity Golf Outings. We contacted all the Parent Teacher Organizations in Monroe Township. We called the High School to see if organizations like the Band or various teams were interested in organizing outings. We contacted the Girl Scouts, Boy Scouts, and several recreation centers. We created a new website that everyone should visit at Greenbriargc.com. While only some of the things we tried have yielded results we hope that others will come through in the following year. It takes time for some of these procedures to come to fruition. We have trimmed our budget and increased our income. At the same time we also ran into unexpected costs such as $13,000 to remove trees that were damaged by Hurricane Sandy. We had proposed a Capital Contribution Amendment. This amendment would have charged buyers $1,000 when they purchased a home. The seller would not pay anything. During this past year 93 homes were sold. At $1,000 per house, this would have brought $ 93,000 to the Golf Course. In future years there may not be as many homes sold. However, even if there were 25 homes sold, the income would help balance the budget. In our current situation we may have to increase the monthly maintenance fee paid to the Golf Course. The Golf Course will propose the Capital Contribution Amendment again around May 2014. If the amendment is accepted the Golf Course can lower the maintenance fee again. Greenbriar at Whittingham Bocce Club By Olga Naccarella On September 26, at Thompson Park, our bocce team successfully captured the coveted 2013 Mayor’s Cup with a score of Greenbriar 11, Encore 8. After having won the play-offs, the players who participated in the final game were Ted Naccarella, Nancy Romano, Carmine Scavone, and Jerry Tamburro. The other team members who contributed to this success were Tom Garuccio, Amelia Killough, Marge Morgan, Rosemarie Muir, Olga Naccarella, Dolores Portee, Loretta Serpe, Ralph Serpe and our captain, Carole Tamburro who deserves kudos for her expert management. Congratulations, team! By Carol Cooper and Ruth Reich All bags are packed and ready to go whether by plane, car or auto train as many of our residents are off to their winter retreat. It has been an incredible fall with San Diego-like weather. Our golf course is picture perfect with the leaves turning into golden hues. How happy we feel traveling down the fairways with golfing friends. As a reminder, put away the orange and yellow balls or carry a rake to locate the lost balls under the leaves. The month of October brought the end of our League Tournaments. Last year the ladies answered a survey, and the results determined that there would be a Closing Breakfast in conjunction with the Awards presentation. We celebrated the 18 Hole Club Champion, Pat Mizerek , Ann Hughes as 9 hole Flight A, Ruth Sachs 9 hole Flight B, and Bunny Applebaum Flight II. The Closing Breakfast was held at the Americana Diner on October 11. We had a varied selection of pancakes, cinnamon French toast, scrambles eggs with bacon and Lyonnaise potatoes, currant bread and fresh fruit with coffee. The women shared golf stories, relived their good as well as disappointing shots and discussed their plans for the winter. It was a bitter sweet time. Two rules of play: During a tournament you may not ask for advice from anyone but your partner, and if a player hits the wrong ball, both infractions are a 2 stroke penalty. Chip-Ins: Marcia Pudaluv, Ruth Sachs, Rhoda Juskow, Ruth Reich, Harriet Weitzner, RosaLee Hodes, and Myrna Reiter. Our one and only Birdie for the month of September goes to Elaine Singer. A healthy, happy time for all our members wherever you go. A Letter to the Editor from Len Greenberg Pro Pro It’s usually about this time every year, when the golf course budgets are being reviewed, that we hear from non golfers and golfers who do not belong to our club about how we can cut expenses. Often we hear “get rid of the pro”. This usually comes from someone who doesn’t play golf. There are a few golfers who do not play on our course, however who also voice that opinion. I’ve played golf here for 15 years and have seen pros come and go. Our present pro, Kevin Darlington, is by far one of the most professional people I have seen anywhere on or off a golf course. He treats the course as if it is his own business. He truly is the backbone of our club. I would challenge anyone who thinks in terms of getting rid of our pro with one question. Who would run the course? Any manager you would hire would have to be paid. The course cannot administer itself. Who would repair our clubs? Who would (Continued on page 15) GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE After Hours Club By Harlan Tuckman Well, it isn’t exactly Welcome Back Cotter but “welcome back Harlan” will have to suffice. Nice to be returning to my loyal readers. Hope I was missed (but I daresay, no one probably noticed.) Now to the good news! The After Hours Club has returned to GW with a vengeance and the food, never better! Each new show is just that, NEW! New members, returning old members, the list goes on. And it’s thanks to you: members who have been promoting the club, new homeowners who have tried the club and returnees who have looked forward to coming back. The latest shows have been hits. Then, on November 23, it’s Letter (Continued from page 14) observe our play and offer suggestions for improving or give lessons at below market rates? Who would be there in case of emergencies (we are a senior course)? I’ve seen Kevin settle disputes diplomatically and run out to any crisis taking place. If your opinion is different than mine, I would ask you to ask the membership what they think of Kevin. He is the first person new members talk to when they visit, and handles himself as a complete gentleman at all times. While I am at it I should mention our Course Superintendent John Cipriano who labors with a small staff every day to keep our course in tip top shape. Golfers who have played other courses in the area are amazed at the great condition our course has been in throughout the season. The Greenbriar Golf Course has been in better shape than most others through record rainfalls and some of the worst heat in years. Congratulations to John and his crew. Tennis Club By Claire Finestein Our meeting was called to order on September 21 and the minutes were read by the newly elected Claire Finestein as corresponding secretary. We had a great turnout—where else can you get free bagels, coffee, tea and juice. All this for only $10 pp per year for belonging to the Tennis club. I don’t want to forget all the tournaments we have for fun. Diane Altman read the treasurers report. Richie Diamond with the cooperation of Diane & Marty did an outstanding audit of the books. He made many suggestions in order to tighten internal control. Our thanks to him for all the time and work he put into it. The Norm Finestein tournament had to be called off due to time and participation. This year’s trophy will be awarded to the individual who put a lot of time and unselfishness into the tennis club. The trophy was given out at the Tennis dinner dance on October 19. our annual Holiday Party. This year, we will be featuring the Dale Stover Quartet. Once again, fresh entertainment for the GW crowd. Don’t miss out on our best event of the year as we say goodbye to the season and say so long to all our snowbirds. A short hiatus in December, and then, 2014 here we come, getting better and better as our membership numbers continue to grow and our shows continue to enhance your GW After Hours Club. Alisa Hadassah By Rhoda Juskow What a great afternoon! Lunch at the Lemon Restaurant with cooking instructions, great food and lots of fun. October 14 was the annual Book & Author combined with Member Appreciation. It was Marty thanked all those who participated in the following—Diane Altman, captain of the senior women’s Mayor’s and olympic tournaments, Don Sachs-senior men’s Olympics and inter-condo tournaments, Faith Sachs for all the beautiful notes she wrote to the ill or otherwise, Richie Diamond for all his hard work in fighting prostate cancer with tournaments and luncheons, Frank Cipolla, Sandy Korn, Carolyn Marks, Linda Shiff all their hard work setting up the bagels and all the trimmings, Arlene Lazar and if I left anyone out, I do apologize. At long last courts 4 and 5 have finally been repaired and can now be used. This year’s annual dinner dance was catered by the Tap Room. They served a full course sit down dinner, with one hour of cocktails, four entrees, many door prizes, BYOB. The cost was $35pp for tennis members, $40pp for guests. A wonderful event enjoyed by all attendees. Our thanks to Ed Goldman for his hard work in getting a new amendment to our constitution. Marty discussed many more things — he would like more volunteers to become involved in our future events. He also suggested we get a defibrillator for the tennis courts and perhaps WHOA should pay for it. This is for the good of the community. When we get it, Tim Sutton volunteered to see who will be able to instruct us on how to use it. God forbid someone falls ill on the tennis court—every second and minute counts because by the time the nurse could come, it may be too late. Suggestions were made for next season on places where we might go. Many suggested day trips, Herb Levin suggested Rhode Island - the Tennis Hall of Fame. For our snowbirds Dick Brief volunteered to look for a get together for those who go to Florida. The plans‘will be announced at a later date this winter. For the snowbirds and those who choose to stay at GW this winter, I wish a very healthy and happy winter season. See you all next spring. our pleasure to honor four women who have given many years of their time and effort in support of Hadassah: Edith Becker, Brenda Charney, Marge Joseph and Florence Weiss. Each honoree was (Continued on page 16) NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 15 NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 16 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Alisa Hadassah (Continued from page 15) given a certificate and a pin. The author, Maggie Anton, spoke about her latest book, Rav Hista’s Daughter and discussed the research that goes into a historical novel. On October 21, our monthly meeting was all about Hadassah. We nominated our slate of officers for 2014. Then the women broke into various groups to discuss plans for future education sessions, programs, advertising and the bulletin, and fundraising. Installation of officers will take place at our November meeting on Monday, November 18, at 7:15 p.m. at Congregation Beit Shalom. Following installation, Senator Linda Greenstein will speak about issues concerning our state. On Sunday, October 27, we honored our two bulletin editors, Joanne Ferstan and Sheila Farber as part of the Southern New Jersey Region Myrtle Wreath program at Forsgate Country Club. Wednesday, November 13, from 11:30 am – 4 pm. is the Hadassah Card Party and Luncheon held in the Greenbriar ballroom. Contact Marilyn Gerstein and put your checks, made out to Hadassah, in Lock Box 19 to reserve your table. Don’t forget to purchase your every-occasion greeting cards from Hadassah. They are sold at every meeting. Also, purchase certificates and Tree Certificates, which can be calligraphed by Dorothy Brotman. Greenbriar Bridge Club By Arthur Van Blerkom It is now November and the Greenbriar Duplicate Bridge Club is still going strong. Starting Monday, November 4 the Monday game switches to Encore. Greenbriar residents do not pay at the games played at Encore. The Monday Game at 1 pm is a non-sanctioned game. The Thursday Game which is held year round at Greenbriar at 7pm is also nonsanctioned. All Greenbriar residents are welcome to come. There is no daily cost for the Monday game. Starting in October on Thursday nights game there is no game fee and annual dues are suspended until April 1, 2014. Anyone who wants to play on Thursday night should email me that fact by 6 pm Wednesday to be guaranteed a spot. On September 22 the bridge club had its annual breakfast followed by a duplicate game. The game had 11 full tables! Nat Fein roasted yours truly. Even though everything Nat said about me was outlandish it was all true. Below is a pic- ture of Nat Fein, President Richard Assenzio and Director Arthur Van Blerkom at the breakfast. As far as the game was concerned N/S was won by Nat Fein and Carol Levy, Richard Assenzio and Pauline Cohen second and Anthony and Inge Dippolito tied for third with Frank and Marilyn Askin. E/W was won by Elaine Egers and Lila Pollinger, second was Eve Buzin and Phil Zwalsky and third was Doris Frisch and Al Rose. Fourth place was won by Mort and Marsha Schwartz. All the players played well and we hope to repeat this affair next September. The bridge club is trying to develop a bridge class. The original classes will try to bring the rubber bridge players into the 21st century as a lot has changed over the past 50 years. Hopefully there will only be a minimal charge to cover material costs. Future GWVOICE articles will bring additional information. If interested please contact me at 860-6346 so we can get an idea of the response to this class. If any player, a Bridge Club member or not, has any bridge questions, please contact the writer of this letter at cpaavb @aol.com or 609-860-6346. Questions will be answered as soon as possible. This month I will discuss the bid Pass in the bridge category. In the hand that follows East doubles and then South then redoubles. The double by East is bad. Why? Not because South redoubles but because East’s double tells South about the bad trump distribution and tells South the only way he can make the hand Dealer South, Vulnerable None, Opening Lead KH NORTH ♠KJ ♥9654 ♦A73 ♣AJ32 WEST EAST ♠ NONE ♠T87642 ♥QT8 ♥ AKJ32 ♦62 ♦ JT94 ♣T6 ♣ Q987 SOUTH ♠AQ953 ♥7 ♦KQ85 ♣Q K 5 4 The normal bidding has gone: EAST SOUTH WEST NORTH PASS 1S 2H 3C PASS 3D PASS 3S PASS 4S PASS PASS DBL REDBL ALL PASS Try this hand out and see why I say that the only reason the hand is made is because of the dbl. As I said before in this article, dbl can be a nasty and a bad bid. Use it with caution. Social players who try duplicate often fail to understand that their score on each hand matters only in relation to what other pairs do on the same deal. At rubber bridge, party bridge or IMPS, the goal is to make the contract. At matchpoint duplicate, making the contract is not the goal (as strange as that may sound). South wants a higher score than the other Souths. The problem is when different levels of players are playing the game. Sometimes the less experienced player will get a better score on one particular hand that is not played properly. But over 100 hands, the person who does follow the proper bidding procedures will have a better overall score. The above points have been repeated from previous Voice Bridge articles on purpose. Duplicate players must automatically understand the different principles relating to duplicate bridge from other types of bridge games. Below is a summary of the September 2013 games. They are split between the non sanctioned games on Monday and the non sanctioned games on Thursday The first number is for number of first places, the second number is for number of second places and the third number is for number of third places Monday non sanctioned game. Four games, on September 9, 16, 23, 30. No game September 2. Marilyn Askin 010, Richard Assenzio 210, Saul Blum 111, Claire Brinn 010, Natalie Cancel 010, Cheryl Davis 001, Anthony Dippolito 011, Inge Dippolito 011, Elaine Egers 100, Daniel Engel 001, Sondra Engel 001, Nat Fein 300, Ken Friedman 111, Eileen Giacalone 010, Roseanne Goodstein 011, Ronnie Greenhouse 010, John Ievers 001, Manny Jarvis 110, Seymour Orchowitz 300, Lila Pollinger 101, Chuck Redburn 010 Barrry Salka 010, Eileen Salka 010 , Elaine Singer 012, Myron Stein 001 Elaine Stein 001, Joseph Tauber 101, Kurt Weiss 101, Phil Zwalsky 100 Thursday Non-Sanctioned games. Three games, on September 12,19,26. No game September 5. Frank Askin 010, Marilyn Askin010, Richard Assenzio 100, Eve Buzin 001, Paulyn Cohen, 110, Elaine Egers, Doris Frisch 100, Eileen Gialacone 001, Roseanne Goodstein 001, Warren Greenberg 200, Marlene Greenberg 200, Ronnie Greenhouse 020, Manny Jarvis 010, Stanley Kaplan 002, Doris Kohlberg 010, Dorothy Kreitzberg 100 Richard Lazar 002, Carol Levey 010, George Moehringer 100, Elihu Nemiroff 100, Gene Ross 001, , Elaine Singer 001, Joseoh Tauber 011, Beverly Weiss 011, Kurt Weiss 010, Phil Zwalsky 001 if any bridge player wants additional information concerning time of games or what is required to play on either Monday or Thursday, please contact Arthur at 609/860-6346 or email at cpaavb@aol.com. Computer Club By Fran Solomon Nat Fein, Arthur Van Blerkom (center) and President Richard Assenzio On August 24, Arthur Segal from Rossmoor gave us a very interesting talk about Digital Photography and how to use software to enhance photos. On September 28, Joe Morris spoke about his favorite inter- NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 17 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Computer Club (Continued from page 16) net sites - Weatherspark.com, Newsola.com and Crosstrain.com. At the meeting on Saturday, October 26 at 10 am John LeMasney from the Ewing Computer Center spoke about “How Seniors can use Technology in a Sensible Way.” All meetings are held in the GW Ballroom. We have refreshments starting at 9:30 am and the meeting starts promptly at 10 am. We usually start our meeting with a DVD of jokes. Our computer experts are here to answer any and all of your computer questions. You can bring your questions with you for answers. There is always something interesting to learn about how we communicate with computers, phones and tablets. The computer club communicates with its members through the GW VOICE, meetings, email, flyers in the rounder and Channel 3. If you change your email address or want to be added to our mailing list be sure to notify Mary at marylaresch@comcast.net. Computer Tip: The Smartphones are really popular. If you want a basic phone - not a smart phone - there are still some around. Here are just three - Samsung Array, Verizon Samsung Gusto and Jitterbug Plus. GW Connections By Dorothy Thompson Some of our members are planning to leave Greenbriar/ Whittingham for the winter months. We wish everyone a very safe trip to wherever they might be traveling and a safe return home. News flash! Two thumbs up for “Connections”. We have donated $500 dollars to the “Monroe Community Cares Thanksgiving Fund” to enable seniors in our Monroe community the opportunity to enjoy a Thanksgiving dinner at the Monroe Twp. Senior Center on Thanksgiving Day. If it were not for the Senior Center having this dinner, some seniors would be spending Thanksgiving Day alone. It is our pleasure to help the less fortunate at this endeavor of our township. You should have received the latest copy of our bulletin, ”The Link”. Many thanks to Elaine Wintjen and her committee for this wonderful bulletin. Our next General Meeting will be on Monday, November 4 at 7 pm in our Ballroom. Dr. Robert Butts, a popular lecturer for the New Jersey Council for the Humanities, is presenting a terrific program entitled From Shakespeare to Sunset Boulevard - The Story of the Broadway Musical”. Dr. Butts is professor of music at Montclair State University and the Baroque Orchestra of New Jersey and Opera of Florham Park. As the 21st century begins, the Broadway musical remains one of the world’s most popular musical formats, reflecting the styles, trends, and personalities of all who enter its exciting world. The New Jersey Council for the Humanities offers speakers from politics and religion to race, education and health care. Humanities Connections brings together some of New Jersey’s most fascinating scholars, authors, filmmakers and educators in conversation about critical topics facing our state, nation and world. Invite your friends to attend this informative program. Any questions - call May Herlands at 409-3828. On November 19 we will be going to the Michener Art Museum and have a docent led tour of Grace Kelly - From Philadelphia to Monaco beyond the Icon. Showing will be over 100 objects including 40 designer dresses and the famous “Kelly” handbag. The exhibit presents the woman behind the celebrity and traces her extraordinary life’s journey. This exhibit is the first and only one in the USA. The cost is $65 with the bus leaving at 9:45 am. We will have lunch at Cock ‘n Bull Restaurant in Peddlers Village with discount coupons for the shops in the Village. If you have not made your reservation for this fantastic trip call Selma Herzog 395-4031 or Juliet Klein 4091959 at once. If the trip is sold out, we always have a wait list because we often receive cancellations, even at the last minute. Looking ahead to 2014 - On June 11, 2014 we will go to Two Rivers Theatre in Red Bank to see a delightful play by Wendy Wasserstein entitled “Third”. The cost is $54 which includes the bus. You can enjoy an early lunch on your own at nearby restaurants as the matinee is 1 pm. Checks are accepted now and we urge you to place your check in Box#5 ASAP. Any questions - call Enid Kadish 409-4457 or Juliet Klein 4091959. On Wednesday, October 8, 2014, we will go to The Pennsbury Manor in Morrisville, Pa. The trip features a docent-led tour of the charming Pennsbury Manor, situated along the Delaware River. It is the reconstructed 17th century home of William Penn, founder and first governor of Pennsylvania. He also greatly influenced the founding fathers and the development of American democracy. A delicious lunch will be served at the historic King George II Inn, known to be the oldest continuously-operated inn in America - circa 1681. The cost for this day is $59, which includes bus, tour, and early lunch. Plan now and your check will be accepted as of June 9, 2014. Mark your calendars. DUES UPDATE - Effective immediately, the new date for annual dues payment will be from June 1 through May 31. Consequently, all members are currently paid through May 31, 2014. We will send everyone a reminder in May, 2014 for the next dues payment. Always remember that we continually donate clothing to the Women Aware Shelter and Home Front. Marilyn Steiner, 10 Umberland Place or Doris Becker, 12 Severn Way will accept clothing for men, women and children. Please place items in bags and just drop the bags at their homes. We also accept toiletry samples from hotels, cosmetic samples, etc. Our Study Groups continue to have some openings. Please Call Barbara Fineman, 395-8038 or Annette Roth, 655-9088 to learn more. The Study Groups are: Book Study - Barbara Fineman; The Classics - Jean Melden; It’s Debatable - Enid Kadish; Movie Group - Lynn Padwee; Play Reading - Marcia Lambek and Jean Melden; Poetry - Arlene Lazar; Provocative Thinking Rita Modell; Short Stories Juliet Klein. Remember - you can always send a lovely greeting through “Connections”. Just call Dorothy Thompson 860-2664 and for only $2.50 a card will be sent. GW Friends By Len Greenberg As I am writing this on October 1, we have arrived at another crisis in Washington, D.C. The government has shut down and lots of services are set aside. Many government workers have been furloughed. Now I do not want to get political because I don’t want to upset people who think differently than I do, and heaven knows there are plenty of those. Imagine if the high paid ex- ecutives of the company you worked for decided they no longer liked the rules and instead of working to change them stayed home. The companies would stop making widgets, sales would halt and everyone from the assembly line workers to the clerks in order-entry to the sales force would be without incomes. In addition the people who need the widgets would be without a ready supply. If you worked for the government imagine what would happen when the boss in the corner office decided that he/ she would do nothing for a week. These Congressmen and women get paid very well and haven’t accomplished much lately by most reports. What right do they have to do less and get paid for it? I just don’t get it, however my job is to lighten the mood and tell you all about the fun events we are planning at GW Friends. Right now our membership is the highest it’s ever been. This is due to the excellent speakers programs, fun breakfasts, wonderful study groups run by a dedicated group of people, and even our one day outings and tours. Some of us just went to the Roebling Museum in Roebling, N.J. You don’t know where Roebling, N.J. is? Just about a forty minute ride down route 130 south of Bordentown. It is the company town founded by the Roebling company creators of steel cable. Two words BROOKLYN BRIDGE. On November 6, we are planning another outing to the Lakehurst Navel Historical Museum. One word HINDENBURG. In early January and early March we will be running South Florida reunion breakfasts as we did in February of last year. More information regarding the breakfasts in Florida will be coming at a later date. On February 3, we are planning a South Florida golf outing which as of this writing is almost sold out. Call Jerry Roth if you are interested. 655-9088 Listed below are interesting and fun events planned for November: Monday November 4: Monthly breakfast in the Tap Room. Just $7 gets you the choice of the Tap Room’s breakfast menu. We start at 9 a.m. Call Howie Katz to reserve your spot. 409-8606 Monday, November 4 Movie Group meets in the Towne Centre at 4 p.m. Discussions and reviews of current movie releases. Call Bob Modell to reserve a seat at the table. 409-8575 (Continued on page 18) NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 18 GW Friends (Continued from page 17) Tuesday, November 12 Finance & Investing Group. Irwin Kaplan leads the discussion of timely investment opportunities. The group meets at 7:30 p.m. in the Towne Centre library. Call Irwin and let him know you are coming. 860-9582 Monday, November 1 MedSci Group. Meets in the Towne Centre library for fascinating presentations about medicine, science and technology. Attendees prepare and present subjects which interest them. The group meets at 4 p.m. November’s presentation will be “The 3D Printer” presented by Norm Porter. Call Al Brackup and tell him you are interested. 409-7677 Monday, November 18 Music Group. Fun and fascinating presentations by members of the group on all genres of music. From Benny Goodman to Brahms and Bo Diddley. Jazz to Arias. The group meets at 7:30 p.m. in the Towne Centre library. Call Dave Lasser for more informa- GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE tion call 409-7667 Tuesday, November 19 Current Issues Group. Meets every month to discuss events of global, national and local importance. The group meets 7:30 p.m. in the Towne Centre. Call Gene Ross for information. 395-9311 Monday, November 25 Book Group. Meets in the Towne Centre library at 4 p.m. to discuss new releases and old favorites. If books are your thing, call Marv Bachman and tell him you’re interested. 4095464 or 409-6762 Monday November 25. Membership meeting and Speakers Program. Business meeting starts at 7 p.m. and the Speakers Program starts at 7;30 p.m. This month’s speaker will be Fred Heyman. Fred will discuss “Germany 1932-1945.” All you history buffs be there for a fascinating presentation. The speakers program is free to members and spouses/significant others. We ask a nominal $2 for non-members which is applicable to your first year’s membership of just $10. Our monthly meeting takes place in the ballroom of the Towne Centre. Hope to see you at a GW Friends event. GW History Club By Sanford Werfel The History Club meeting on October 14 took a step back in time. The evening began when the club members and guests were informed that there were two special guests who were eyewitnesses to a naval battle in Charleston Harbor in South Carolina in November 15 and 16, 1863. Our eyewitnesses were portrayed by naval historians Bruce Tucker and the other was yours truly. Mr. Tucker portrayed Commander Andrew Bryson, USN, who was the captain of the USS Lehigh. I portrayed Lieutenant Moreau Forrest, USN, who was the First Lieutenant (Executive Officer) on the USS Lehigh. The timepieces were set and we returned to the fall of1863. The South had already reached its high mark during the summer. The focus of our meeting was about “A Ship of Heroes” where five USS Lehigh crew members received the Congressional Medal of Honor for their courageous action under severe enemy fire. The USS Lehigh was a Passaic class, ironclad monitor. It was stuck on a sand bar close to enemy guns. The Lehigh was equipped with the thickest armor and the best guns of any vessel afloat. The press and the public thought the monitors to be impregnable. But as Lt. Forrest said, Impregnable monitors’ were only ‘Impregnable’ in the newspapers, Harper’s Weekly, and in Washington. During the night the rebels commenced a heavy bombardment of Union positions on Morris Island. Admiral Dahlgren ordered his monitors to move themselves to block rebel boats from attacking our troops. Bryson moved the Lehigh off of Morris Island’s Cummings Point. Because of the darkness, having no navigation guides, responding to very heavy enemy fire, the Lehigh accidentally moved out of the ship’s channel and went aground. The big rebel bombardment did not precede an attack on Morris Island. There were no boats. There was no attack. There was no point on the water in Charleston Harbor that could not be hit by rebel guns. Now as the sun came up the USS Lehigh was between the rebel Fort Moultrie, nine rebel batteries and the rebel occupied Fort Sumter. If the Lehigh was not stuck aground and if it was moving, it would be difficult to imagine a worse situation. The Lehigh was surrounded by heavy rebel guns. Nine rebel batteries switched their target from Morris Island to the now non-moving, exposed and stuck monitor. It was too ripe a target to be ignored. Two shots hit the pilot house which had 8” of armor. The armor deflected the shot and dented the house to a depth of two inches. It was as though one had put one’s head in a bell. The pilot Jim Branch kept covering his ears by cupping his hands over them. He told me it did not solve the problem. He had a continuous ringing. It was very unpleasant in the pilot house, but at least no one suffered any bleeding wound. Commander Bryson then said, “The miracle was in the turret with the guns. We had two gun crews of ten each. One shot hit the roof. I think this was a mortar round. It had to be a mortar. It came down vertically. It broke one of the plates. It cut a piece of the composition ring, and it bent two of the “t-bars.” This hit had to be from a large caliber mortar, a significant piece of artillery.” The real target was the gun turret; it was struck sixteen times. Seven of the sixteen were very hard, very solid hits. None of the turret hits penetrated the 11” thick armor. There were significant dents. But the real problem was not the dents, nor the ringing in the ears. The interior of the turret was 19’-2” in diameter. The turret had two guns, two gun port covers, a ladder to pilot house, and two shot racks filled with ball and shells. The turret also had two gun crews of ten men each. If one crew member would turn quickly it was near impossible not to bump into a mate. So when the rebs commenced firing at the turret the problem was the direct solid hits. These hits dented the turret exterior 18” above the deck to 46.’’ The turret hits sent 22 bolts flying inside the turret filled with twenty sailors with no room to duck. A hit by any one of those bolts would have been lethal. So the miracle of the turret was that no one was killed or wounded by the flying bolts. A layer of canvass was hung around the inside to absorb the impact of the bolts or metal splinters. It was not the hits on the pilot house or on the turret that was the problem. We suffered 11 shots on the deck. The deck armor plates were only one-inch thick. Five of the deck hits stuck on the deck’s beams. Six of the hits broke through the armor to the wood plank deck below. As each wave went above the 18inch freeboard (freeboard is the height of the deck above the waterline). We took on water. If this were not enough, we have taken fourteen hits on the skirt’s armor. One hit on the port bow was very bad. We were seriously injured. The bow hits had loosened all of the bow fastenings and opened the bow plating four inches. The water was rapidly coming in. Somehow, even with the large skirt overhang, we had one hole into the hull below the waterline. On an impregnable monitor, to get a hole in the hull was supposed to be impossible. The hull shot was twelve inches from the overhang. It bent the plating in. It opened the seams, and it made a considerable leak. We were now taking on water at the rate of nine inches an hour. “ Captain Bryson continued relating the morning events, “This was our situation. Our 8” Parrot rifle when it fires sends off 166 pounds. Our 15” Dahlgren sends off 387 pounds with each round fired. Our best time on one occasion was 5 minutes to fire both guns. If one allowed that we could fire seven rounds from each gun in an hour, that would mean we would shed 3871 pounds, a lot of weight. (One notes that does not include the coal going up in smoke.) Maybe that with high tide will get us out of the grip of the sand bar. I ordered Mr. Forrest to commence a rapid fire at the Sullivan Island batteries. Captain Bryson continued: “We were solidly in the sand and mud. I commanded ‘Reverse engine!’ This shoal sand bar had taken a firm hold on our hull and it had no plans of letting go. The engine reversed. We felt her try to go back. Nothing! Again! Nothing!” I then ordered: “All ahead full! And then a moment later, “Reverse engine!” Same result. We were still suck on the sand bar solidly.” With all of the artillery striking us and the water coming in at nine inches per hour, I had to consider ordering ‘Abandon ship!’ Just then the monitor Nahant came up to us I asked for volunteers to get a 13 inch diameter hawser tow rope to her. It was near certain death to go out into that barrage. I could order no one to go out there. Our surgeon Dr. William Longshaw volunteered. Gunner’s Mate George Leland and Coxswain Thomas Irving volunteered to go along with him. Lt Forrest spoke to me privately after they volunteered. He was concerned about allowing Longshaw to go into that heavy fire. “He is our only doctor.” (Continued on page 19) NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 19 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE GW History Club (Continued from page 18) Forrest said. “But he has volunteered.” I answered, “Would you do it?” Forrest said, “Sorry Captain, I only look foolish.” Dr. Longshaw, sailors Leland, and Irving took a small boat, with a tow rope twice. Twice the gunfire cut the rope. Three other sailors, Frank Gile, William Williams, and Horatio Young volunteered to make another attempt. This time the connection was made. With the rapid firing of our guns, the high tide, and the Nahant pulling, we got off the bar. In that action of securing the tow hawsers and getting off the bar we had suffered seven casualties. Every man who went on deck to get those ropes was wounded. The five enlisted Lehigh sailors each received the Congressional Medal of Honor for their bravery and courage under gunfire on the morning of 16 November 1863 Join us for our next inquiry on Monday evening, November 11 at 7:30 pm. If you have any questions or would like additional information, please contact me at sanfordwerfel@gmail.com or by phone 619-3229. Italian American Sr. Cultural Club By Rose Corso It’s the fall, or is it? Nevertheless, the Italian American Sr. Cultural Club started the month with a super celebration in recognition of Cristoforo Columbo. The combination of singer Billy Lawrence and D.J. Angelo Ucello, was magnificent. Not only was there entertainment and plentiful food but also a warm, friendly, cordial, welcome. How can one not be a participant. Point of interest: Inquirers of Italian American Heritage. 1) Leonardo da Vinci is credited with an invention that enabled vessels to get from one level of water to another simplifying the dangerous job of lowering and lifting of boats. 2) What is the Italian word, now part of the English language that means a public declaration of intentions, motives or views? 3) The inventions of crystalline glass is attributed to a master glass maker named Beroverio, who perfected the very transparent glass in 1463. 4) What accomplished pianist always wanted you to meet his brother, George, on his popular television shows of the 1950’s and 60’s? 5) Agnes Ion Robertson was the first Italian-American woman to be chosen All American in this sport? 6) At sixteen, she became the youngest Wimbledon semifinalist since 1887. 7) This former Oakland Raider All Pro linebacker was selected to seven Pro Bowls and played in three Super Bowls during his career. Who is he? 8) Who asked the musical question, Who’s Sorry Now? 9) Who is the first female vocalist ever to achieve four top hit songs from a single album? 10) What is the most important ingredient of Venetian cooking? Answers: (1) The canal lock. (2) Manifesto. (3) Venetian glass. (4) Liberace (5) Basketball. (6) Gabriela Sabatini. (7) Ted Hendricks. (8) Connie Francis. (9) Cyndi Lauper. (10) Fish. Dates to remember: Nov. 1, Music Night - Dec. 6, No General Mtg.- Dec. 12 is the Christmas Event at the Country Club (not to be missed.) Ciao a Tutti! New Kids on the Block By Fran Solomon New Kids on the Block is a group of single homeowners in GW who are interested in taking trips, learning something new and meeting other singles. All ages are welcome. Instead of our meeting on September 18, 19 of us went to the Little Szechwan in West Windsor for dinner. We had a really wonderful meal. On September 25, Larry Krakower led a group of 15 on a docent tour of Drumthwacket, the Governor’s Mansion. On Saturday, October 5, Diane Altman organized an exciting event - dinner at Antonio’s followed by a Ghost Walk in Princeton. On Sunday, October 13, we went to the Sculpture Garden with Docent Marcia Pudalov. Our next meeting will be on Wednesday, November 6 at 7:30 pm in the ballroom. Dr. Ed Feldman will speak about “How to Lose Weight and Keep it Off.” On Wednesday, December 4 at 7:30 pm, we we’ll have a Holiday Party in the Ballroom. Mike Malone, a caller from Music N’Motion, will lead us in line dancing. Pizza is also offered. This is open to all Line Dancers and Singles in the community. If you are interested in knowing about an event we advertise on Channel 3, put flyers in the rounder, have an article in the GWVOICE each month and send out emails. In order to attend an event (except line dancing) you must be a dues-paying member. Any single homeowner can join this group; the dues are only $10 per year. Put your check made out to “New Kids on the Block” into Box #26. For more information about New Kids on the Block call Maddi Litoff 609-395-4071 or email her at di137@yahoo.com. mad- ORT America By Nancy Feuerstein A fundamental value of ORT is based on the highest level of charity identified by philosopher Moses Maimonides. If you give a man a fish you feed him for a day, but if you teach him how to fish, then you have given him food for life and the ability to live independently. This principle of teaching individuals to live independently has guided ORT since its inception in 1880. No organization does it better. ORT works. Our support here in G/W is vital in continuing this work. On September 17 a group of us enjoyed lunch together in a Polish restaurant. Muriel Hertan spoke to us about life in Poland today and our second speaker was Marvin Fidler, Barbara Fidler’s husband. Marvin spent his childhood and youth in Poland and was trained for his future career at an ORT school after World War II. This is a perfect example of ORT’s importance, as described in the first para- graph of this article. Thank you to Ann Gold , Muriel Hertan and Barbara Fidler for planning this interesting and delicious Polish experience. Join us Sunday, November 10 at the Forsgate Country Club, 10:30 a.m. when the North Jersey Region of ORT is hosting a wonderful buffet breakfast. The cost is $36 per person. Our special guest speaker will be Larry Strickler who will discuss “Sex, Gangsters and the Film Censorship Code”. Provocative films in the 30’s led to this censorship code that lasted three decades. Larry is a well known movie historian, college lecturer and performer. Contact Roz Scheidt, 409-9097. Our annual holiday party will take place on December 11, 6:30 p.m. at the Monroe Township Library with our everpopular special and exciting auction. Please bring a wrapped new or un-used item, valued at $5 or more, with a poem describing it. Refreshments will be served and everyone is welcome. Many exciting events are planned for 2014, so watch for (Continued on page 20) NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 20 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE The latest in our ORT chapter’s ethnic watch series focused on Poland. GW residents Marvin Fiddler explained, and answered interesting questions about his childhood in Poland, his surviving world war two in the forest for two years, his Post-War ORT job training and emmigration to America. Marvin was introduced lovingly by his wife and series chair, Barbara to his left. Other cochairs are Muriel Hertan, (l) and Ann Gold (r). ORT America (Continued from page 19) further details. Save March 26, 2014 for a card party and June 2, 2014 for a performance of the Mercer County Symphonic Band. Our on-going activities are as follows: Movie discussion group: meets on the fourth Monday of each month, members only at 1 p.m., Towne Centre. Lunch on your own at 11:30 a.m. in the Tap Room. RSVP to Betty 409-1168 or Nancy 860-6633. Watch Channel 3 for details about films to be discussed. Ongoing: Bowling: Beverly 409-7993, Tribute cards: Rita 395-8993, Unwanted cell phones: Kay 409-0955, Gift cards for Stop & Shop and Shoprite: Miriam 409-9160. We hope to see you soon in the coming months. Martin Salmanowitz Senior Social Club By Paul Bresalier BUS PICK-UP SCHEDULE VILLAGES WILL ALTERNATE EACH MONTH GREENBRIAR: JUNE AUGUST OCTOBER DECEMBER FEBRUARY APRIL WHITTINGHAM: JULY SEPTEMBER NOVEMBER JANUARY MARCH MAY BUS PICK UP TIMES 1 VILLAGE – 9:00 AM TO 9:20 AM 2ND VILLAGE – 9:20 AM TO 9:40 AM ST BUS LEAVES GREENBRIAR @ WHITTINGHAM PARKING LOT @ 8:55 AM PROMPTLY! Our Advertising Sponsors Support GW VOICE. Please Support Them. Tell Them you saw their message in GW VOICE! In our article in last month’s issue of the GWVOICE we paid tribute to two honored members of our board who passed away. A donation of $200 has been made in memory of Henry Perotti to the National Pancreatic Cancer Foundation. An additional donation of $200 has been made to the Breast Cancer Research Foundation in memory of Jim Kelly, a charity he felt passionately about. On November 11 we will commemorate Veterans Day and remember the contributions and sacrifices made by so many. At Greenbriar at Whittingham we have many veterans of World War II and the Korean War. Some of the younger residents may be veterans of the Vietnam conflict. One of our distinguished residents and World War II veteran, Ray Feld, unfortunately passed away on September 29. Ray piloted a P-51 in the Pacific and flew combat missions over Japan. Ray and his wonderful wife, Ethel, attended many of the clubs’ events and went on our trips. Ray will be missed by all. We offer Ethel our sincere condolences. This month we will celebrate Hanukkah and Thanksgiving. We would like to wish everyone a happy holiday and hope that we can continue to celebrate many happy occasions together. Bingo Our club sponsors and conducts an evening of Bingo on the 2nd Friday of each month with doors opening at 7 p.m. The next Bingo is scheduled for November 8. Save These Dates The show we presented on September 19, the New York Vagabonds, was met with great enthusiasm by the audience and was considered by many to be among the top shows the club has ever offered. In response to audience demand, we will try to bring the Vagabonds back in the near future. November 14 – Thursday, 1 p.m. - “All American Variety Show” with Joey Arminio and the Family. This luncheon show is a tribute to our servicemen, commemorating Veterans Day. Deli platters will be catered by the Tap Room. $17 pp members, $19 pp guests. Waiting list. December 7 – Saturday – Holiday dinner show. “Legendary Singers of the 50’s and 60’s” presented by Ace in the Hole Productions. 6:30 p.m. Ballroom. Dancing. Dinner catered by Jacques includes salad, beef Bourguignon, chicken breast Florentine, ravioli, rice and broccoli au gratin, cake, coffee, soda. $28 pp members, $31 pp guests. January 9 – Thursday – The New Year’s Brunch featuring comedian Jack Fontana. 1 pm, Ballroom. Brunch will be catered by the Bagel Bazaar and features pancakes, French toast, scrambled eggs, home fries, bacon, sausages, bagels, rolls, muffins, assorted salads, coffee, and a lot more. $15 pp members, $17 pp guests. Yiddish Club By Donna Steif On Sunday, October 6, Aryeh Green, Director of Media Central, a Jerusalembased project of Honest Reporting which provides support and services for Foreign Journalists in Israel, spoke in a most articulate and explicit manner. Aryeh shared with us the fact that so much information about Israel is not reported factually, either by untruths or by intended omissions. Interestingly, he used as an example the front cover of a prominent U.S. magazine which had listed many terrorist organizations throughout the world EXCLUDING those known as anti-Israel. The question and answer period that followed demonstrated how much the audience appreciated Aryeh’s presentation. We just want to remind you that you need not worry about having to speak or understand Yiddish to attend our monthly meetings. Most of our members DO NOT and yet they look forward to the first Sunday of very month where they can learn and be entertained by our invited guests who have much to share with us. The themes are varied and the speakers interesting – but don’t forget, we ARE the Yiddish Club which means our subjects are of Jewish content. NOTE: Unless specified, our programs take place the first Sunday of every month at 10:15 a.m. Bagels, cream cheese and coffee are served. Tables are set up for 10 and 12. Charge is $6 per person unless otherwise indicated. Membership dues of $5 per person must be PAID UP for 2013 to attend programs and trips! Place your check and seating arrangement form taken from the rounder in the Towne Centre into lockbox #6 with name and date of event written on the outside of the envelope. NO ADMISSION AT THE DOOR…RESERVATIONS A MUST! Sunday, November 3, the “Bumper “T” Caring Clowns, represented by Dr. Huggabubbe (aka Aviva Gorstein) and Dr. Curlybubbe (aka Ester Gushner) will be here to talk about “The Healing Power of Humor…Jest for the Health of It”. These amazing ladies will share their profound experience visiting seriously ill patients, distracting them for a moment from their treatment, fears and anxieties. That moment of levity or solace can last long after the clowns leave the room. Join us for an entertaining, inspiring and refreshingly different aspect of health care! ANNUAL GALA CHANUKAH PARTY will be held on Sunday, December 1 at 10:15 am. Steve and Ro, our entertainment for this morning, have appeared in various venues and have always been well-received. We are certain you will enjoy having them with us. Platters of lox, spreads and bagels will be served. Cost per person is $18.00. Flyers will be available at the November 3rd breakfast. NO RESERVATIONS will be accepted before that date. Sunday, January 5, 2014 we are delighted to have as our guest, Gloria Goldreich, author of best selling “Leah's Journey.” Sunday, February 2, 2014 Paula Jaffee of AIPAC will discuss the state of current American-Israeli relationships. HOLD THIS DATE: A SPECIAL EVENT will be held in our ballroom on Monday, May 12, 2014 at 7 p.m. June Gable, as famed actress Molly Picon, will be accompanied by pianist, Elliot Finkel. Details to follow! TRIPS: Thursday, November 14 the Yiddish Club Council consisting of the Yiddish Clubs of Clearbrook, Concordia, Encore, Ponds, Greenbriar@Whittingham and Regency will be seeing the musical version of the film, “Lies My Father Told Me”. Cost per person is $54, which includes transportation and your orchestra seat. Lunch is $15 ON YOUR OWN at the Yiddish Club’s favorite, Ben’s Deli. SOLD OUT! We do have a wait list – call Charlotte at 4097969. On Tuesday, December 3, our trip will be to the Center for Jewish History on 16th Street in New York City. Docent led tour. Cost of $49, includes admission and box lunch. 2014 Tuesday, January 14, 2014, we will be bused to Franklin Institute which includes admission to Planetarium, Pompeii Exhibit and IMAX. (Continued on page 21) GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Nature’s Palette By Juliet P. Klein It was the rustling tree leaves that made me look up. Autumn in the air. No I wasn’t walking along a country lane. On a sidewalk it was, in my very own gated community. I had walked this route for many years. Its alone I like to walk, no conversations to distract me for if I’m not deep in thought, I’m always amazed at the sights nature has to offer in our well landscaped grounds. What I saw that day amazed and confounded me. How could I have walked this way for all those years and never once noticed the intricacies of the rows and rows of sycamore trees that line both sides of the main roadway. The sycamores were shedding their bark in chunks and pieces. I was compelled to stop to look closer. I gently touched a loosened piece. The piece gave way under my touch. It was light. Its texture was rough. It just peeled away and floated to the ground. The pieces of the bark that had peeled away now had left a random pattern of smooth pale yellow, white or greenish surface, leaving the appearance, in my mind, of designs of abstract art. The shading of the smooth bark intrigued me and then one day I looked carefully near the base of the trees where the bark was still much intact. Now my imagination really took hold. The unaltered bark of a sycamore tree has a pattern….tiny dot clusters of varying shades of brown, deep green and iridescent blue. For days I puzzled over what those tiny dots reminded me of and finally it came to me. The dots reminded me of pointillism. The painting technique devised by the famous French Post-Impressionist painter, George Pierre Seurat…. (famous for his painting, Sunday In The Park) the basic tenets of which are that colors have optical effects on perception. And although I could see no patterns, still the overlap- ping colors affected my perception. How curious that these tiny dot clusters would bind together to girdle the tree trunks to the point where they can’t breathe because “unlike other trees which have to yield to a growing trunk by stretching, splitting, or infilling, the sycamore shows the process more openly. The explanation is found in the rigid texture of the bark tissue which lacks the elasticity of the bark of some other trees, so it is incapable of stretching to accommodate the growth of the wood underneath so the bark sloughs it off.’’ The sycamore is not alone with this distinction some others are Kawsa Dogwood, Lacebark Elm and Chinese Quince. (Source Wikipedia) And so not only does the sycamore, in my mind, put on a bit of a show but so too the colors of the leaves of the many varieties of deciduous and evergreen trees from shades of deep dark green to almost feathery light. One day within my line of sight I counted ten shades…but that I’m sure is minuscule. And was it a coincidence that I received recently in snail mail a few calendars with photos of birds, of fishes, of flowers and of animals. I marvel at the photographers who have the infinite patience to capture nature’s bounty. It seems to me that only viewing and studying these photographs can we really see the intricate details of nature’s beauty. The perfection of color combinations and softest shadings with varying patterns and just the right touch of a highlight color on some birds and fishes … awesome. Should you come upon a photo of a Queen Angelfish or of a hummingbird or a warbler bird give it more than a glance…marvel at its perfection. So, dear reader, the moral of my story…some things in life are free….but we must make an effort to grasp them. Less Talk, More Action By Elaine Wintjen Put 12 women around a dining room table, pitch a newsworthy topic and you will soon have an animated conversation. The problem is when you have 12 women talking, it doesn’t take long before we’re well off-topic. Nevertheless, I am part of this congenial and convivial discussion group which meets once a month. Each member takes a turn hosting the meeting and while it doesn’t actually start until 10:30 am, we convene at 10 am. There is important business to which we must attend; we have to eat! One simply can’t think and solve the problems of the world on an empty stomach, and so our hostess offers a bountiful display of bagels, cream cheese, cake, and fruit and of course, the ubiquitous coffee maker. Our hostess has also prepared a list of topics for discussion. They can be a local, national or international event and, yes, we even dabble in politics. On the assumption we have read at least one newspaper, it is expected we will have an opinion on most subjects. And if we do get into some sort of political debate, it’s a rational one. We are aware we have members on “both sides of the aisle”, but should we get out-of-hand, the hostess will simply introduce another topic. Not every member is all that talkative; some just listen in rapt attention to what the rest of us are spewing out. Some members occasionally ask a question which has nothing to do with the topic then under discussion, but being polite and responsive members, we quickly change gears and offer our thoughts. Time passes quickly and at noon, it’s time to leave. We thank our hostess and establish where our next meeting will take place. The timing is just right because, quite frankly, I am exhausted. Eating, thinking and talking can be very tiring and because we did not solve any of the problems we discussed, I am a bit depressed. My Prozac just doesn’t seem to be working. (Continued on page 22) Yiddish Club (Continued from page 20) Our Annual Trip to the New Jersey Performing Arts Center will take place on March 21, 2014 and includes rehearsal and lunch. Details to follow. LET’S SPEAK YIDDISH for those who like the sound of Yiddish whether you can speak well, not so well, or only a little bit, come join this group of women and men who enjoy being with each other to converse in Yiddish on the third Wednesday of each month from 10 a.m. and 11:30 a.m. Chairperson, Harriet Weitzner extends an invitation to you to join her and the group. Only Yiddish Club members are welcome. MULTI-MEDIA CENTER: Books, DVDs and Video cassettes may be borrowed on the first Sunday of the month, before or after the Yiddish Club breakfast. Whatever you choose must be returned the following month. Librarian Natasha Rosenbaum will be happy to assist you. If you would like an annotated bibliography, e-mail her at softefive@aol.com. For those who haven’t been to a Yiddish Club breakfast, how about trying it? It would be our pleasure to greet you! NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 21 NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 22 Less Talk (Continued from page 21) We head for home and the next activity of the day...lunch! If dining at home, alone, lunch for me is a simple sandwich and some soothing silence. If meeting a friend and dining out, lunch is a simple salad and nonstop conversation. One of my friends is as much a political animal as I am and we spend our entire time together castigating our current Congress and any other politician currently making some noise. For someone who does not consider herself all that verbose, I think I have now become a regular chatty Cathy. Perhaps that could explain my frequent bouts of laryngitis. GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Good Night and Good Luck!” By Arnold Bornstein The Periodic Philosopher has returned, not only to the GWVOICE, but also from a recent visit to Atlantic City which has once again made me examine the meaning of the word LUCK. I would think that just about all of us have thought about it as we go through the ups and downs of life. In my case, after moving to GW and its convenient location to and from Atlantic City, my wife and I have made brief getaway trips there for enjoyment and not necessarily for the casinos. We enjoy the strolls on the boardwalk, the restaurants and stores, the shows, the ho- tel amenities, and just getting away. Eventually, my habit of playing 25-cent slot machines with the biggest jackpots, and maximum bets, led to occasional one-dollar slots. However, I always set a relatively small amount as the limit of my gambling. In any event, all this led to my developing a slogan: “I’ve got a feeling I’m gonna hit the big one!” My immediate family is quite familiar with the slogan and occasionally and rightfully tease me about it. Ironically, about four years ago my wife, on a quarter slot machine, did hit a big one, $2,500, and we ended up buying a large televi- sion set. On the recent visit, I played a $1 slot machine, with maximum bets, but for a very short time, and the jackpot was several hundred-thousand dollars. No, I did not hit the big one! And driving home, I finally decided to forget about my slogan, once and for all. That isn’t to say that I don’t believe in good luck or bad luck. I am sure that all of you have experienced it in one way or another, be it playing cards or mahjongg, health, the stock market, betting on sports, landing or not getting that job, accidents, friends, family relations, finding or losing something — and the list goes on with nearly any activity done by humans. In my case, it includes being “cured” of prostate cancer, not getting a reporting job at The New York Times because the city editor misplaced my submissions file and the opening went to somebody else, narrowly missing a potentially fatal collision between two Navy ships at sea, having a loving family, in a split-second avoiding a left turn in which a highspeeding car would have slammed into my driver’s side. And flunking out of NYU because of a lack of motivation, but a few years later coming back to NYU and graduating, with the GI Bill paying for it, and while working at a newspaper in New Haven, CT, and eventually meeting by chance the woman I love, with (Continued on page 23) NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 23 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Own a Computer? From Herman Strauss Actual dialogue of a former WordPerfect Customer Support employee. (Now I know why they record these conversations!): Operator: ‘Ridge Hall, computer assistance; may I help you?’ Caller: ‘Yes, well, I’m having trouble with WordPerfect.’ Operator: ‘What sort of trouble?’ (Continued on page 24) WordPerfect, or did you get out?’ Caller: ‘How do I tell?’ Operator: ‘Can you see the ‘C: prompt’ on the screen?’ Caller: ‘What’s a seaprompt?’ Operator: ‘Never mind, can you move your cursor around the screen?’ Caller: ‘There isn’t any cursor; I told you, it won’t accept anything I type..’ Operator: ‘Does your monitor have a power indicator?’ Caller: ‘What’s a monitor?’ Operator: ‘It’s the thing with the screen on it that looks like a TV. Does it have a little light that tells you when it’s on?’ Caller: ‘I don’t know.’ Operator: ‘Well, then look on the back of the monitor and find where the power cord goes into it. Can you see that??’ Caller: ‘Yes, I think so.’ Operator: ‘Great. Follow the cord to the plug, and tell me if it’s plugged into the wall.. Caller: ‘Yes, it is.’ Operator: ‘When you were behind the monitor, did you notice that there were two cables plugged into the back of it, not just one? ‘ Caller: ‘No.’ Operator: ‘Well, there are. I need you to look back there again and find the other cable.’ Caller: ‘Okay, here it is.’ Operator: ‘Follow it for me, and tell me if it’s plugged securely into the back of your computer..’ Caller: ‘I can’t reach.’ Operator: ‘OK. Well, can you see if it is?’ Caller: ‘No...’ Operator: ‘Even if you maybe put your knee on something and lean way over?’ Caller: ‘Well, it’s not because I don’t have the right angle — it’s because it’s dark.’ Operator: ‘Dark?’ Caller: ‘Yes - the office light is off, and the only light I have is coming in from the window.’ Operator: ‘Well, turn on the office light then.’ Caller: ‘I can’t..’ Operator: ‘No? Why not?’ Caller: ‘Because there’s a power failure.’ Operator: ‘A power.... A power failure? Aha. Okay, we’ve got it licked now. Do you still have the boxes and manuals and packing stuff that your computer came in?’ Caller: ‘Well, yes, I keep It is necessary to register for all featured activities. Individuals, 55 years and older, who reside in Monroe Township and are registered members of the Office, are eligible to attend Center programs and activities in our new home on the corner of Halsey Reed and Applegarth Road. For more information, please call: 609448-7140. Pickle Ball Clinic On Monday, November 4, at 10 a.m., Norman Olinsky, Recreation Advisory Board, will address the policies and procedures of outdoor Pickle Ball and how to ensure a safe environment for all parties. Please register in advance. Drop-In Bridge and Duplicate Bridge On Mondays and Tuesdays, from 9:30 am to noon, enjoy drop-in bridge. No registration required. On Tuesdays, from 1 to 4 p.m., play sanctioned, duplicate bridge games. Preregistration is required per game date. A $5 p.p. admission fee is due on each Duplicate Bridge game day. AARP Drivers’ Safety Program Two different classes are available this month: Monday, November 4, and November 18, both at 8:45 a.m. For space availability and prices, please call Rosanna at the Center. Silverscreen Nostalgia On Monday, November 4, at 1:30 p.m., join Bill Levy as he looks at the greatest singing duos of Hollywood: Nelson & MacDonald, Rooney & Garland, and more! Center Chorus On Tuesdays, at 10 a.m., sing your way to a good time and health with Sheila Werfel, Artistic Director. New members must pay $5 annual dues upon registering in-person. Skinny Bracelet Demo & Do On Wednesday, November 6, at 1:30 p.m., join Fran for a fun, one-day craft where you will create your own bracelet! Students must have sewing know-how and nimble fingers. Course Fee: $12 p.p. (includes all supplies and instruction.) Space limited. Pre-registration is required, in-person. Friends Honor Veterans On Friday, November 8, at 1:30 p.m., join the Friends of the Senior Center as they honor veterans. For more information, please consult November’s Friendly Tidbits, or call: 609-448-7598. Art of the Masters: Berthe Morisot On Friday, November 8, at 2 p.m., join Christina as she provides a brief lecture about the life and works of Berthe Morisot. Then, 16 participants (with a project coupon) will create an individual masterpiece in oil pastels. To participate in the project, you must OBTAIN a project coupon (available upon request) while supplies last. Watercolor Studio On Tuesdays, November 12, 19, and December 17, from 1 to 3 p.m., enjoy this three-session class with Clare Godleski. Students engage in a variety of techniques and learn about color theory as they create their own masterpieces. No Experience Necessary! Course Fee: $35, due upon registering in person. Supply list available. The U.S. and China in Cyberspace: Competition and Cooperation? On Tuesday, November 12, at 1 p.m., Dr. Adam Segal, Council on Foreign Relations, discusses how cyber attacks impact not only governments but also private citizens. He will address U.S. and China’s competing strategies in cyberspace and the possibilities of establishing guidelines for international standards and priorities. This program is offered in conjunction with the Monroe Township Library and its Sixth Annual Susi Silber Lecture program. Free tickets are available (limit two per person) at the Library’s Welcome Desk as well as the Senior Center. Beginners Folk Dancing On Wednesday, November 13, at 9:30 a.m., join Fran as she teaches Folk Dancing newbies the right moves. This class will meet again in December. If there is interest, Beginners Folk Dancing will become a regularly scheduled activity. Introduction to Floral Design On Thursday, November 14, at 10:30 a.m., learn how to design and create a Thanksgiving-themed wreath and centerpiece during this fun demonstration with our new artist friend, Andrea Casey. Please register in advance. Michael & Ted Present: Betty Grable On Thursday, November 14, at 2 p.m., join our friends, from WWFM’s The Classical Network, as they explore the life and career of Betty Grable— who is more than a pin-up and who first appeared in Cole Porter’s “Du Barry Was a Lady”. Working Artist Demo On Friday, November 15, at 10:30 a.m., meet Jeremy Taylor, Watercolorist, as she explores the world of watercolor while creating a piece of art. Living with Rheumatoid Arthritis On Friday, November 15, at 1:30 p.m., Dr. Aly Cohen, in conjunction with Abbvie sponsorship, will discuss the difference between rheumatoid arthritis and osteoarthritis as well as the signs and symptoms, and treatment options. Lite refreshments will be offered. Register in advance. Leger: Modern Art & the Metropolis On Monday, November 18, at 1:30 p.m., join Nancy Hovnanian, Guide from the Philadelphia Museum of Art, as she features the important works of French painter Fernand Léger Caller: ‘Well, I was just typing along, and all of a sudden the words went away.’ Operator: ‘Went away?’ Caller: ‘They disappeared’ Operator: ‘Hmm. So what does your screen look like now?’ Caller: ‘Nothing.’ Operator: ‘Nothing??’ Caller: ‘It’s blank; it won’t accept anything when I type.’ Operator: ‘Are you still in Alexa’s Dream By Dawn Horowitz For many believers in Judaism, the greatest honor a person can achieve is to emigrate to Israel, also known as making aliyah to Israel. “Aliyah” is commonly translated as “rising up” to live in Israel to achieve a higher spiritual style of life. When my son Aaron called and told me my granddaughter Alexa, age 19, was bypassing college in the United States and “making aliyah,” I was shocked. And I was further astounded when he explained that during the next two years she was planning to join the Israeli Defense Forces, “to do her service.” Alexa said that since she planned to live permanently in Israel, she believes that to feel a true participant in Israeli society and culture, she could only have a successful future career if she completed some military duty to the country as required of all its citizens. Therefore, she arranged to begin her life in Israel by enlisting for the required two years. Before she was accepted into the program, Alexa successfully completed emotional and psychological tests as well as passing all the physical challenges thrown at her. She was very excited and enthusiastic about her forthcoming experience and eagerly explained to me that she had dreamed of living in Israel for years. In support of Alexa’s choices, husband Paul and I joined our son Aaron and his wife Donna last month as they accompanied their daughter to John F. Kennedy Airport on the first leg of her journey to Israel. Of course, she had tons of luggage. However, her flight was arranged by El Al as an “aliyah travel package” so she was allowed three large pieces of luggage, each weighing 50 pounds. We kept rearranging the contents until we finally met the weight requirements. Aaron told Alexa he would bring all the equipment we could not stuff into the bags at this time when he visited her in December. We arrived at the airport early and got on line. Alexa kept greeting friends as they arrived. She socialized and mingled and had a wonderful time sharing experiences with her fellow immigrants. People making aliyah came from many states in the U.S., Canada and various countries of the Western Hemisphere. There were 358 per- sons listed as passengers on the El Al flight specially arranged for the new immigrants traveling to Israel. The age of the travelers ranged from two months to 74 years and included families, couples and single young adults. While we were standing in line, a couple of Israeli immigration officials approached and asked Alexa if she was happy to be making aliyah. She replied, “yes.” Then, they hit some keys on their them in the closet..’ Operator: ‘Good. Go get them, and unplug your system and pack it up just like it was when you got it. Then take it back to the store you bought it from.’ Caller: ‘Really? Is it that bad?’ Operator: ‘Yes, I’m afraid it is.’ Caller: ‘Well, all right then, I suppose. What do I tell them?’ Operator: ‘Tell them you’re too fehrblondjet (lost, technology challenged?) to own a computer. Good Night (Continued from page 22) 51 years of marriage. There were more ups and downs of course, and if you think about it and reflect on it, I am sure you will have countless memories, as well. My bottom line is I have no real definition of luck. Does it exist? Is it really something else? Do we sometimes make it? At any rate, as Edward R. Murrow used to say in closing his newscast: “Good night and good luck!” during this PowerPoint presentation of the museum’s new exhibit. Please register in advance. Laughs on Us Series On select days this month, enjoy some laughs with the following DVD presentations: On Wednesday, November 20, at 1:30 p.m., enjoy “World Of Comedy” that features a 90minute collection of Bob Hope’s funniest moments on TV. On Thursday, November 21, at 1:30 p.m., have fun with The Best of Sid Caesar. Enjoy classic sketches from Your Show of Shows and Caesar’s Hour. Then, on Tuesday, November 26, at 1:30 p.m., it’s The Tonight Show: 5.21.92 Episode This episode has Johnny’s last two guests, Robin Williams and Bette Midler, with farewell performances that “bring down the house”. Please register for each program date in advance. From Dusk to Dreams On Monday, November 25, at 1 p.m., enjoy this DVD presentation with Michael Ferreira, which features the spectacular opening night concert with Jennifer Hudson, Willie Nelson, Martina McBride, John Fogerty, and Carole King at The Smith Center for the Performing Arts. Membership Has Its Privileges Please note that to register for programs, you must be a member of the Office of Senior Services. Interested individuals need to fill out an application, available at the front desk; and, new members can stop by the Senior Center to obtain their key tag after processing. All members have the opportunity to participate in daily activities and trips. However, registering in advance for programs and calling in for day trips is a must. For Senior Center activities, members can call up to 48 hours in advance, 9 and 11:30 a.m. the morning of a program to see if space is available at that time to register. Call 609-448-7140. NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 24 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Alexa’s Dream (Continued from page 23) All offers cannot be combined. Must present before work done. Expires 11-30-13 iPad, primarily for identification purposes, and Alexa’s picture and information came up. They asked questions about the information and when she answered correctly and signed the page, they said, “Mazel Tov, you are now an Israeli.” Her Israeli passport and identification papers were promised to be mailed to her in a few weeks. Thus, she will have dual citizenship, retaining her Ameri- can identity and gaining an Israeli one as well. Alexa attended the elementary Hebrew day school in Northbrook, Illinois and studied Hebrew there. She’s not fluent yet but its more than passable for the present. I think she understands more than she thinks she does. I noted that Alexa was happy to converse in Hebrew with many of the parents and students while waiting for the approaching GW RECYCLING SCHEDULE MANAGEMENT BUSINESS HOURS As of November 15, 2013, the Management Offices (on the second floor of the Towne Centre) will be available weekdays only during the hours of 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. During lunch, the office will be closed from 12:30 p.m. to 1 p.m. At all other times, please see the Concierge. We thank you in advance for your cooperation. WHOA Board of Trustees formal welcoming ceremony for these newest Israeli citizens. According to the program mailed to the family describing the scheduled activities at the airport, the list of speechmakers was lengthy. Fortunately, only short speeches by the myriad of dignitaries congratulating the Alyah group began as soon as all those making aliyah were processed. The tributes were “short” to enable the flight to depart on time. The final goodbyes were not as difficult as expected since Aaron and Donna plan to attend Alexa’s induction ceremony into the army in December. Once Alexa reached Israel, a plan was set up for her to be adopted by a host family in a kibbutz (collective community) near the Sea of Galilee. This follows the standard custom for army personnel whose immediate family does not live in Israel to become a member of a family somewhere in the country. Thus, Alexa will have a “home” to go to when she has free time during a weekend or during a holiday. I found this entire alyah experience fascinating and moving: well organized and a very emotional moment for every participant. Even though I never anticipated that one of my grandchildren would decide to permanently live in Israel, and knew the difficulties for a person who lives miles away from other family members, I still believe that it is wonderful for Alexa to follow her dream. TOWNE CENTRE NEWS By Monica Caterson, Clubhouse / Recreation Manager WHOA Entertainment The Bronx Wanderers Saturday, November 16, 2013 8:00PM ~ $25.00 @ The Monroe Township High School Watch for our future shows! WHOA Movies In The Ballroom @ 1:00PM Sunday, November 10, 2013 “The Guilt Trip” Sunday, November 24, 2013 “42” WHOA Trips Mount Airy/Sands Casino November 10-11, 2013 Celebrity Cruise from Ft. Lauderdale January 20-31, 2014 Royal Caribbean Cruise from Bayonne, NJ January 21-31, 2014 Ask about the 2015 Cruise! *Flyers in Towne Centre* WHOA Atlantic City Wednesday, November 6, 2013 Bus Leaves Community @ 9:30AM “Caesars” Wednesday, December 4, 2013 Bus Leaves Community @ 9:30AM “Taj Mahal” Wednesday, December 25, 2013 Bus Leaves Community @ 9:30AM “Showboat” WHOA Duffy Square Duffy Square will resume: May 21, 2014 June 18, 2014 July 16, 2014 August 20, 2014 September 17, 2014 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Snow Bulletin 2013-2014 (Continued from page 1) NOTE: Although the term “salting” is used, salt should not be used on any concrete (driveways, walkways, etc.) since the salt will kill grass and damage concrete. CALCIUM CHLORIDE OR ANOTHER TYPE OF ICE MELT PRODUCT SHOULD BE USED. STAFFING AND EQUIPMENT We have contracted to provide for the clearing of roads and parking areas in an expeditious manner and for manpower to do the required shoveling. Curb and street markers are placed in judicious locations, as a guide for the plows, similar to county and municipal roads throughout the area. Efficient operations require a plan that dictates starting at some point and ending at another. It follows, therefore, that some homes will be cleared first. Manor Home residents have no access to their garage; therefore, they will be shoveled first; all others next. Our personnel and contractors must be able to get here in order to work. Be assured, however, that at all times during any storm conditions, we will have equipment and personnel on site to react to any medical or similar emergency. Police, fire and first aid services will be able to get from the front entrance of the community to your home. IMPORTANT: IN THE EVENT OF AN “EMERGENCY” DURING THE SNOW CLEARING PROGRAM, PLEASE CALL 9-1-1. 1.Any medical treatment necessitating clearing must be preapproved through the Management Office. 2.The operation of “loaders” which clear the parking areas and driveways have been directed to place snow in specific locations. The layout and design of our community requires snow to be placed on lawn areas. Normally, lawns are NOT damaged by snow. (Any damage that might occur will be repaired in the spring.) The snow is placed in locations most efficient to the operation of the loader and cannot be “spread around evenly.” 3.Medical experts tell us that shoveling snow is one of the most physically exerting activities, and we strongly recommend that, unless you are in the best physical condition, DO NOT SHOVEL SNOW. GENERAL REMINDERS 1. Weather forecasting is not a science when dealing with a snowfall if the forecast is for more than an hour in the future. Your help is required for us to “do the job.” We suggest that you consider the following recommendations: 2. Stock one or two days of food supplies and medications at home for those times that we do experience a severe storm. 3. Have snow tires on your car. (The law requires snow tires if you travel on certain highways.) 4. KEEP A BAG OF ICE MELT for your walks and/or driveways near your home. The snow melted by sun during the day will freeze at night. 5. Please move your car when requested. If it remains in our way and is plowed in, we will NOT come back and clear it. 6. DO NOT PARK YOUR CAR IN THE STREET whenever a snowfall is forecasted. This is PROHIBITED. (Use of the Towne Centre “upper” parking area is strongly recommended.) 7. Recognize that during or after a storm your normal routine may be modified. Remember that a crash program of snow clearing in our community will be of no benefit to you if you find the surrounding roadways are not passable. 8. Your written suggestions for improvement of snow clearing are welcomed. 9. PLEASE DO NOT REQUEST SPECIAL CLEARING since we will be unable to provide that service. In a snow-clearing operation, it is impossible for the men and equipment to jump around throughout the community. We must work in the predetermined order to get the snow clearing done. 10. NOTE: Our contractor has a reasonable guideline on how long a complete clearing should take, dependent upon the amount of snow. 11.Scratches, scrapes, gouges and cracks are a normal occurrence when snow is cleared by heavy equipment. 12.All other damage repair requests to Management, in writing, on the proper form (available from the Concierge) within 30 days of the snowfall. Each situation will be reviewed on an individual basis to determine if repairs are warranted. 13.With understanding and patience on your part and organization, planning and effort on our part, the disruption of your schedule and activities will be kept to a minimum. GW Voice Snowbird Mailing PLEASE PRINT CLEARLY Name ___________________________________________ Winter Mailing Address: _______________________________ Street ___________________________________________ City______________________ State _____ Zip __________ Monthly issues of the GW VOICE will be mailed to the above address. $2.00 per month covers postage and handling. Please circle months requested. Nov Dec Jan Feb March April May Make checks payable to: “GW VOICE” Amount Paid: $2.00 x number of months = $____________ Date Paid_____________ Check Number_____________ Leave this request form with your check in the GW Voice Mailbox in the Annex. Monroe Cares (Continued from page 1) $2000 that GW Connections will contribute to the local food bank during 2013. Many local Monroe Township residents have also contributed individual checks to defray the costs. It has also been announced that the Township will provide limited bus service to the Senior Center. We are asking that those capable of driving themselves, please do so. To get more information regarding the bus service, call Bonnie at the Office of Senior Services at 609-448-7140. While this activity is limited to seniors this year, the exception to that rule is if you need to bring a caregiver with you. Also, if the only way you can attend is with your child who has nowhere else to go, you will both be welcome. The fee is $10.00 for each attendee. No one will be excluded because they feel they can’t afford the fee. Contact Bonnie at 609-448-7140 or me at 609235-9440. The catered meal will consist of the usual Thanksgiving fare-turkey, stuffing, mashed potatoes, bread, a vegetable, cranberry sauce and other T h a n k sg i v i ng t r a d it i o na l dishes. In addition, beverages and desserts will also be provided (Costco has donated a $200 gift certificate.) But most of all, we are trying to provide an atmosphere of family and caring. Paying by check is the preferred method. Checks should be made payable to the Friends of the Senior Center, with Community Cares in the memo section. Checks can be mailed to the Monroe Township Office of Senior Services, Attention Bonnie, 12 Halsey Reed Road, Monroe Township, N.J. 08831. The deadline for responding is November 14, 2013. NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 25 NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 26 Meet and Greet (Continued from page 1) on, with the resources available. Challengers Arminio, Nothstein and Riback suggested that “having more money is not necessarily better (Northstein),” that “while of course budgets affect everything in a school, we need to have more bang for the buck (Riback),” and that there is “waste and misuse of funds (Arminio).” In the written responses, Kaufman compared putting together a budget “is like preparing a recipe. A poorly developed and underfunded budget is the same as replacing quality ingredients with cutrate substandard or imitation materials. You get what you pay for.” Nothstein questioned whether “spending more money on education is the panacea for an underachieving district...This is a question of whether or not money improves the education of our children. While it is safe to say that an underfunded school district might not have the tools and resources to adequately educate their students, the converse is not true.” Arminio wrote that “the use of funds is complicated and ... affects the quality of education...Giving educators the resources, programs and equipment necessary to achieve their goal of quality student instruction is essential to student performance. However, the waste and misuse of money deprives students of quality instruction.” Tessler noted that by setting up a special program for autistic children within the school, we didn’t have to pay for sending them out-of-district, which GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE would have been very costly. Several candidates alluded to the need to seek input from parents and the community. When it was determined that more classroom space would be needed at the Middle School, community input was solicited through the District Facilities Committee, which is comprised of township residents. The importance of technology touched off heated responses from all candidates, particularly when it touched on the use of iPads in the high school. While all candidates agreed on the importance of electronics and technology in the future and that students need to learn and be skilled in the use of them in a global marketplace, they didn’t all agree on specifics of when and how to incorporate them in the curriculum. Kaufman stated that all students need to be able to “learn on electronic media...It is not a question of whether or not technology is important, that debate has passed...the critical issue is how Monroe will adopt advanced learning media like eBooks, iBooks, Wikis and other modalities and break our dependency on printed and commercially published text books in the very near future.” Nothstein offered that “technology without a plan is a waste. ..Don’t be the first one to try something new ...Let other districts be the guinea pigs for new technology so we can learn from their mistakes and benefit from their successes while at the same time saving taxpayers money.” Arminio admitted she is “just learning about technology. How and when to use it is important and research and a Board of Education candidates vying for 2013 election on Tuesday, November 5 from the right, Michelle Arminio, Lewis Kaufman incumbent, Louis Masters incumbent, Thomas Nothstein, Steven Riback, and Ira Tessler, incumbent. plan to implement is needed.” She criticized the planning and purchase of iPads asserting that “we must test the program and train the trainers.” Masters pointed out that iPads actually save money, since “technology can be used to implement new programs or expand programs for less cost...thus doing more with less.” Tessler demonstrated the use of an iPad by tracking one day of his daughter’s class schedule and utilization of the instrument. “A successful student must know how to search for content on the Internet in order to research answers to questions. They must be able to create their own content and be able to collaborate with others in the workplace and in cyber space.” He also wrote that “Over the next few years the city of Los Angeles will be deploying iPads to all 640,000 students.” Riback pointed out that NJ leads the nation in tech job growth and that we “need to be on the cutting edge of technology.” Whatever program is purchased, we need a “pilot program” to determine its value and “teachers must be trained.” Challenges facing the board provoked some very interesting responses. Kaufman pinpointed growth in the community as the most serious challenge. “The township...continues to grow at a rapid rate. We enroll 200 to 300 new students every year...the Board has no control over the building of homes in the township. Other districts in NJ have been successful in imposing impact fees on builders, Monroe must use this same model, and slow growth.” Nothstein indicated that the challenge is “not lack of funding, it’s inefficient spending...While challenges include increasing the competency levels of our children and budgeting for future projected enrollment, ..I believe we can achieve the best...schools while not reaching farther into the pockets of the taxpayers. We need to do more with less...” Arminio targeted “student achievement and budgeting wisely” as the biggest challenge. “The challenge is to enhance the quality of education by reviewing educational programs for efficacy, eliminating non-performing programs and supporting academic excellence.” Masters pointed to the fact that the “funding formula is not fully funded by the state,” comply with court mandates, even as...board members are actively involved in confronting the legislature and the governor...” He urged “increased political action at the state and local level for fair funding based on district placement and specific needs, and for school board input into zoning/planning in township development.” He also suggested “efficient planning and use of budget monies and periodic reviews of practices, as well as public feed back and input into the budget process.” Tessler indicated that “maintaining quality educational programs, co-curricular activities and other services, given the constraints put on our budget by the state....In spite of the fact that the Board has ... provided for increasing student needs while...facing flat or reduced state aid, ... the District’s per -pupil costs have steadily declined. ...We must continue to seek state grants.” Riback pointed to budgeting and funding as major challenges. However, he also said that “allowing high density construction in the township is insane. He wrote that he has been very involved in “supporting bills to overturn an unfair limit on our state aid to education...” and is “involved in protesting what I call ‘uncontrolled ‘ residential growth. Both of these items are contributing to larger school costs. Audience questions targeted taxes, cost sharing with parents around certain programs, the need to continually review practices and balancing, maintaining and/or increasing the quality of education while keeping costs level. The subject of teachers’ salaries was brought up. While some candidates felt salaries were low, compared to other districts, and this was reflected in students scores, Riback commented that “you can’t judge teachers based on their salaries.” Kaufman noted that “we have a high performing school district and can get top quality teachers. We have an extensive professional development program,” and Masters indicated that ...”we have no problem retaining teachers.” In concluding the evening’s event, moderator Linda Mather reminded the audience that members of the board of education work diligently to uphold the standards and quality of the educational program, knowing that real estate values are directly impacted by the quality of a school system, and that board members receive no monetary compensation for their many hours devoted to the job. She also urged all present to vote in the General Election on Tuesday, November 5, and bring three people to vote. She reminded the audience that there are two ballot questions to be voted on. For information contact the LWV NJ at contact@lwvnj.org or call the Voteline 1-800-792-VOTE (8683) A limited number of Candidate Information Fact sheets are available from the LWVMT. Contact Ruth Banks at 609-655-4791 for details. NOVEMBER 2013 – PAGE 27 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE CLASSIFIED ADVERTISING Transportation NAT TRANSPORTATION – Monroe resident. All airports, shipyards, NYC and local. Doctor and hospital visits. (917) 657-5611. TRANSPORTATION DOCTOR – Airports, trains, piers, doctors, local service, NYC. Reliable and references. Call Lon J. (732) 423-1847. BOB’S CAR SERVICE – We go everywhere-anytime. Low rates. (609) 409-7174 or cell (646) 258-0241. MARVIN’S LIMOUSINE – Low rates. Choice of Cadillac sedan or Lexus SUV. $5 discount with this ad. Call (908) 812-6299. AAA TRANSPORTATION – Monroe area. Transportation to airports, trains, piers, doctors. Local service as well as NYC. Reliable and reasonable rates. Call Howard @ (732) 979-3085. RICK’S CAR SERVICE – Professional driver. Greenbriar resident. Reasonable. (609) 902-9979 or (609) 655-8051. TRANSPORTATION – Airports, events, doctor’s appointments and more. Call George (732) 887-5437. LEN’S HANDYMAN SERVICE, LLC – Autumn is heretime for fix-ups and repairs. Specializing in home improvements. We do it all. We paint one room or the whole house. Sheetrock and wall repair. Crown moulding. Renew or repair that bathroom or kitchen. Doors, medicine cabinets, closet doors and closet remodeling. Bath tile and grout, caulking, shelving, Pergo flooring and ceramic tile, electrical work – anything in your home. Whole house/ garage cleanouts. Monroe Township resident. All major credit cards accepted. Licensed and insured. NJ License # 13VH03701800. www.lenshandyman.com Call (732) 353-6031. WINDSOR MOVING COMPANY – Helping families pack and move for over 20 years. Fully insured. Lic. PC00512. Call (609) 448-8840. Miscellaneous/ Services LEASE A NIECE – Companion, personal shopper. Help with household activities, paperwork, shopping, appointments, local transportation. New Jersey born and bred. Tracie (732) 904-3885. A. HARRINGTON LIMOUSINE – Owners are Greenbriar Whittingham residents. Call (800) 458-5466. PC PROBLEM SOLVERS – Low priced service. Slow computer? Viruses or spyware? Pop -ups? Computer and internet set -ups. We make house calls. Call Herman (609) 409-0824. CAR SERVICE – For a comfortable ride I hope you decide to call John (609) 655-2015. Airports, doctors, shopping. COMPUTER ASSISTANCE in senior's home. Help with all aspects. Selection, set-up, and training. (609) 409-7631. FOR YOUR CONVENIENCE – Errands, doctor’s appointments, bank reconciliation, household organizing and more. Bonded, reasonable and reliable. Call Carol (609) 448-9188. COMPUTER REPAIRS - RJF Sales Company LLC (formerly Monroe Computer Service). Is your computer running slow? It may need a tune-up. Desktop and laptop repair in your home. Virus removal and protection. Monroe resident with over 20 years of computer experience. www.monroecomputer.com (732) 723-9537 or (732) 967-3400. Home Improvement & Services MIKE THE HANDYMAN – See my display ad in this edition. (732) 780-0468. EXPERT HOME REPAIRS Kitchen, bath, closet remodeling, tiling, painting. Call Bob Katz – (609) 490-9522.for details. RELIABLE HANDYMAN SERVICES – Local resident. No job too small. All labor guaranteed. Call me to discuss-no obligation. Reasonable rates. Call (609) 4097096 or (908) 385-5869. JOHN PEARL HOME IMPROVEMENT AND LANDSCAPING, LLC – General repairs, power washing, deck staining, tile, sheetrock/ masonry repairs, painting, tree removal, landscape projects and more. Licensed and insured. NJ License # 13VH06515700. Call John at (908) 208-1150. TKS HOME IMPROVEMENT – A full-service contractor and handyman services. Roofing, kitchens, baths, basements, painting, tile, hardwood and more. No job too big or too small. Lic#13VH05970500. (609) 259-2574. PROFESSIONAL PET CARE – Bonded and insured. Call (609) 860-9696. Wanted to Buy I WILL BUY your old digital or film camera. Arthur (609) 4090628. I will come to you. For Sale BETH ISRAEL MAUSOLEUM – Desirable and scarce Garden Mausoleum for two with preneed weekday opening. $11,000. Call (561) 364-5542. Help & Health Services CARING ELDER CARE – We will help you live independently; a few hours a day or a few hours a week. Experienced, reliable, affordable. Local, references. (646) 4130813.www.CaringElderCare.c om LOOKING FOR BEST CARE – Call Rose with good references. (609) 638-6774. HOME ELDERLY CARE/ SICK – Eight years of experience. Call Alice (732) 4859215. ANNA’S HOME CARE – Certified professional caregiver is looking for live-in/live-out job in Monroe Township. Experienced, references. Driver’s license. Accepts long-term care insurance. Low prices. Private care option. Call Anna at (609) 409-1600 or (732) 579 -8158. OUR CARING HOME COMPANIONS help seniors live at home. Personal care, meals, housework, transportation, up to 24 hour care. Top references and screenings, we do things your way. Affordable rates. VISITING ANGELS. (732) 656-7720. Housecleaning Services HENRYKA’S HOUSE CLEANING – Polish ladies, reliable and experienced. References available. (609) 5860806. NICE JEWISH GIRL’S HOUSE CLEANING and Health Aide Service. 20 years experience. Low rates. Insured and bonded. Call Eileen at (609) 860-9050. Monroe Township Library Events The Operas of Puccini presented by Jerry Kalstein, Boheme Opera NJ 1 p.m., Monday, November 4. Live singing, along with CD and DVD performances of the operas of Puccini with emphasis on Tosca. Additional operas including La Bohème, Madama Butterfly, and Turandot will be discussed. This program coincides with the live Metropolitan Opera broadcast at local theaters. This event is offered in collaboration with the Monroe Township Cultural Arts Commission. Free tickets are available at the Welcome Desk beginning Monday, October 21. Coupon Club 1:30 p.m., Monday, November 4. Clip coupons and swap ‘til you drop at the Library’s monthly Coupon Club. Spend time with fellow couponers trading unwanted coupons in exchange for those you need. Discuss deals, share frugal tips and shopping experiences. Bring a pair of scissors and your stash of any non-expired coupons. Program is free and registration is not required. Book Café 11 a.m., Wednesday, November 6. Join us for Book Café, a book discussion with a twist. Rather than focus on a single title participants talk about the books that they’ve read and enjoyed. Register at the Welcome Desk. Open Mic Night 6:30-8:30 p.m., Wednesday, November 6. All ages are invited to share talents in a no pressure, family-friendly environment. Program is open to musicians, poets, stand- up, and artists of all levels. Call the Library or email Tyler at trousseau@monroetwplibrary.org to reserve a time slot. Fall International Film Festival At 2 and 6:30 p.m., Thursday, November 7. The Sapphires, a 2012 Australian comedic drama based on a true story, will be screened. Tickets are $1 and available at Circulation. Digital Memories Fundraiser 12-3 p.m., Saturday, No- vember 9. Do you have VHS tapes, 8 or 16 mm movies, photos, slides, or photo albums that you would like converted to DVD? Innovative Document Imaging LLP will be on hand to help preserve your memories. Conversion will be completed in time for holiday gift-giving. For more information and pricing, visit the Library. Proceeds benefit the Monroe Township Library Foundation. Registration is not required. Muslim Journeys Film Series: Prince among Slaves 2 p.m., Wednesday, November 13. The Library is proud to present a film series featuring resources from the Bridging Cultures: Muslim Journeys bookshelf collection received through the National Endowment for the Humanities. This documentary recounts the true story of an African Muslim prince who was captured and sold into slavery in the American South. Free tickets available at the Library’s Welcome Desk beginning Tuesday, October 8. Altered Book Workshop 6 p.m., Wednesdays, November 13, 20. Book artist Kathleen Metaxas teaches a variety of techniques for creating a unique altered book. Supplies provided. Register at the Welcome Desk. Great Decisions: China in Africa 10:30 a.m., Saturday, November 16. Learn how global issues affect you! Join a friendly, town hall-style discussion group about issues affecting U.S. foreign policy. This month’s discussion will focus on China’s engagement in Africa. Does China’s growing emphasis on political ties and natural resource extraction affect U.S. relations with African nations? Register and reserve background information at the Welcome Desk. Friends Holiday Book Sale 10 a.m.-4 p.m., Saturday, November 16. Purchase gently used books at bargain prices. Proceeds benefit the Friends of the Library. IZABELA’S CLEANING SERVICE - Professional house cleaning. Quality work. References available. Reasonable. 2 bedroom/2 bath, $65 and up. Experienced. Free estimates. (609) 954-0181. Tribute Swing Dance Concert The Jewish Heritage Museum of Monmouth County, The Freehold Jewish Center, and The Jewish Federation of Monmouth County invite you to join us for a celebration of Monmouth County’s Jewish War Veterans and the 60th anniversary of the end of the Korean War at a JWV Tribute Swing Dance Concert featuring the Full Count Big Band. The concert will be held on Sunday, November 10 at 3 pm at The Freehold Jewish Center, 59 Broad Street, Freehold, NJ 07728. The price is general admission $20; veterans and guests $15.00 each. We invite all veterans, guests and lovers of swing and big band music to join us for a special afternoon of great music and memories. The af- ternoon will feature a JWV flag ceremony and recognition of veterans in attendance, followed by a concert, featuring a professional 18-piece big band with vocalist. Music and songs from the 1940s into the early 1950s will be featured, including music and songs made famous by bandleaders Benny Goodman, Harry James, and Artie Shaw. For tickets call the Museum (732-252-6990), or visit www. jhmomc.org to buy tickets online, or mail your payment to the JHMOMC. PO Box 7078, Freehold, NJ 07728. Make your check payable to JHMOMC. Please include the number of tickets ordered and your phone number on your check. Tickets will be held at The Freehold Jewish Center . 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