December 2014 GW Voice
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December 2014 GW Voice
Vol. 18 18,, No. 12 – December 2014 P.O. Box 70 70,, Millstone Millstone,, N.J. 0851 085100 PRSRT STD ECRWSS U.S. Postage PAID EDDM Retail Monroe Twp., NJ 08831 A Monthly Periodical Serving Greenbriar at Whittingham PRESENTED BY THE RESIDENTS CIVIC CLUB OF GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM Welcome New Residents!!! By Ruth and Alex Banks LET IT SNOW...BUT NOT TOO MUCH! Winter’s first snowfall at GW was a surprise, very little deposited, but a heads up of what to expect later in the winter? SNOW EMERGENCY BULLETIN WINTER 2014/2015 Please do NOT call Towne Centre or Security to request changes to the snow clearing plan. This plan is based on fairness (rotation of starting areas) and special circumstances (substantial drifting, emergencies, or other unforeseen events). At no time should residents directly interfere or interact with workers’ schedule and performance. Management maintains only one special needs list for which you need preclearance to qualify. Special needs are limited to: · Chemotherapy; · Dialysis; · Hospice Care; · Radiation Treatment; and · Scheduled Surgery The nurse has NO authority to place you on the special needs list. You MUST APPLY TO THE MANAGEMENT OFFICE. Your application will require disclosure of your treatment, the schedule, and place of treatment as well as provider’s name and telephone number. In addition, you will be required to provide a letter of authorization to your provider permitting them to verify all of this information and provide the Management Office with a copy. The following are not a basis for preferential snow clearance: · Family commitments; · Scheduled appointments with doctors, dentists, physical therapy, etc.; · Work. Your cooperation is appreciated. Sincerely, WHOA Board of Trustees The Residents Civic Club held its yearly welcome meeting on November 12 with a program of speakers and afforded the newer people an opportunity to meet and talk with members of several clubs and organizations as well as socialize with GW residents who have lived here for many years. The varied aspects of how things function and are organized and managed were explained by Bill Hinkle, General Manager; Monica Caterson, Resident Services; Paul Klarman, President, Whittingham Homeowners Association; Howard Abrams, GW Community Association; Allan Cooper, President, GW Golf Association; Paul Bresalier, Civic Club membership chairman; Jerry Cohen, Civic Club program chairman; Adrian Mittler, Holiday Fund chairman; Rita Pearlman, Whittingham Assoc.; and Jerry Tamburro, Township Council president. Phyllis Krasnow organized the event by contacting new resi- Seymour Cogan and Hy Tannen, principals in the Woodworking Club sought new members for their shop crew to augment its cadre of talented artisans. Samples of their work are shown here: toys, card holders, and other aids in every-day living. They have also been known to do repair work for small furniture items. They meet regularly on Mondays at 1 pm in the shop on the lower level of the Towne Centre main building. Work time can also be arranged on other days. dents and arranging for clubs and management to be represented. Council President Tamburro informed the newcomers that Monroe Twp. Is the largest town in Middlesex County and at 43 square miles one of the largest in the state. He urged them to avail themselves of the excellent library, talked (Continued on page 10) On Site Dining – Part of the GW Mystique Classified as a valuable asset to the GW community by both its residents and local real estate agents, our Tap Room has been morphed over the years from the original quaint décor of an English Pub with cozy bar and woodburning fireplace serving elegant libations and hearty fare envisioned by some, to its current more modest and tasteful décor sans fireplace but enhanced nevertheless by flow- ers on every table and a varied menu with daily specials served promptly with a pleasant smile. Libations never became part of the expressed ambience. Its varied menu caters to the diversity of the resident population and guests at its location (Continued on page 22) GW Chorus To Perform on Dec. 10 By Janet Blau The GW Chorus will perform a Holiday Concert on Wednesday evening, December 10, at 7:30 pm in the Towne Centre ballroom. The program is sponsored by the Residents Civic Club at its regular monthly meeting. Residents and guests will be treated to a “dreamy” evening of song, including many holiday songs, in our traditional sing-along format. This is a great program for the enjoy- ment of all. Residents Civic Club will provide refreshments at the end of the show. The GW Chorus is comprised of a dedicated group of men and women who love to sing. We meet every Thursday morning at 10 am in the ballroom. There are no auditions. Everyone who enjoys singing is welcome to be part of our group. If you are interested in joining our chorus, just come to one of our Thursday morning rehearsals. THE GW CHORUS PRESENTS A DREAMY EVENING OF SONG FOLLOWED BY A HOLIDAY MUSIC SING ALONG. Brought to you by the A proclamation declaring January 11, 2015 as Human Trafficking Awareness Day was presented to the Monroe Twp. League of Women Voters by Council President Jerry Tamburro at the Council's meeting Nov. 5. Present to accept the proclamation which was signed by Mayor Pucci were Andrea Pellezzi, Marcia Kastan, Ellen Norman, Adrienne Fein, Roz Brodsky, Mary Ann Colgan and Evelyn Kruger . RESIDENTS CIVIC CLUB Wednesday, December 10 7:30 PM IN THE BALLROOM ALL RESIDENTS ARE WELCOME REFRESHMENTS WILL BE SERVED DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 2 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE WHOA this Month By Paul Klarman, WHOA President I would like to welcome our new Trustees to the WHOA Board, Sandra Cohen and Anita Schrank. They both come with great enthusiasm to help the community and I am sure their contributions will be many. On behalf of the WHOA Board, I would also like to thank our outgoing Trustees, Bobbi Braverman and Bert Herling for their several years’ service to the community: Bobbi as President and Bert as Vice President. Through their efforts leading the way, Greenbriar at Whittingham continues to be a premiere community that has attracted several hundred new residents during the past few years. At this time, our new Board has completed work on the 2015 budget for both the WHOA common areas and for Village I. With sharply rising costs, our goal was to minimize expenses while keeping up the physical appearance of the community and the clubhouse. Our most ambitious endeavor for this coming year will be to give the ballroom a facelift. The ballroom was renovated approximately 14 years ago and is showing its age. We intend to retain an interior designer for this purpose and we will conduct a search that will include interviews with those who have completed some of the more impressive clubhouses in the area. Best of all is that we have accumulated sufficient reserve funds to complete this project without the need for an assessment. We will also look to put a fresh coat of paint on other areas of the building and to improve the housekeeping. As usual, we will put great effort into updating and refreshing the landscaping in the community. We will continue to use our landscape advisory committee for this purpose. Hopefully, some of you master gardeners in the community will have volunteered to join us in this endeavor. Speaking of volunteering for committees, we have received resident requests for committee membership and we are attempting to place as many of you as possible on the committees. We continually look to take advantage of the knowledge and experience that so many of you offer. We thank those of you who forwarded suggestions for the use of the clubhouse during a blackout. We are studying how we can improve the duration of occupancy of the Greenbriar this Month By Arnold Riback, GWCA President November was a busy month for your Greenbriar Board. We met with several paving contractors, narrowed them down to three, and selected one as our contractor to start a first-time street repaving program for the Greenbriar Community. The actual paving will take place in May 2015. The approaching winter and shut down of regional asphalt G REENBRIAR at W HITTINGHAM VOICE Staff Members S. Alexander Banks, Editor-in-Chief Amy P. Appleman Ruth Banks Ben Baum Ellen Chmiel Joan Freeman Eileen Giacalone Art Gordon Dick Herlands Dawn Horowitz Freddy Howard Dorothy Kartzman Arlene Lazar Harvey Lazar Gloria Montlack Olga Naccarella Dianne Pinkowitz Martin Rich Larry Sheppard Editorial Board Alex Banks Ruth Banks Helen Oxenberg clubhouse for each resident and improving conditions in the clubhouse. Also, a priority is maintaining good communications with residents during an emergency. By the time you read this article the generator installation and the testing of the unit will have been completed and the clubhouse will be ready for occupancy during a blackout. Once again, we are into the end of the year holiday season. We hope everyone likes our seasonal decorations. We know that everyone who attends our annual New Year’s party will have a great time. At only $80 per person, it is a real bargain since we use profits from entertainment and trips during the year to subsidize some of the cost. On behalf of the WHOA Board of Trustees, I would like to extend our holiday greetings to all of our residents, our employees and their families and wish each and every one a happy and healthy New Year. WHOA Rep. Bert Herling GWCA Rep. Arnold Riback Ben Baum Arthur Gordon Advertising Office Princeton Editorial Services P.O. Box 397 Cranbury, NJ 08512 (732) 761-8534 e-mail: pescmd@aol.com Editorial Office Greenbriar Whittingham VOICE 100 Whittingham Drive Monroe Twp., NJ 08831 (609) 655-4791 e-mail: gwvoice@comcast.net Publisher Princeton Editorial Services P.O. Box 397, Cranbury, NJ 08512 · (732) 761-8534 or 8535 pescmd@aol.com Greenbriar at Whittingham VOICE is a monthly periodical presented by the residents of Greenbriar at Whittingham, Monroe Township, New Jersey. 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We have conducted four driveway tests with multiple products. The overall testing program is not yet completed, so we cannot at this time make a decision as to which product to use. We want to see the effect of winter on the driveways tested and the effect the products have on our lawns. The products have been declared environmentally safe and not destructive, but we want to make sure they do not destroy any lawns. In addition, we want to conduct a few more tests using a power water sprayer along with the products to see if we can achieve more effective results. Our target date is June 2015 to begin the program of trying to improve 100 driveways with prior rust stains. Remember, this winter we are using snow removal equipment with poly blade liners and hope to eliminate/ minimize any additional rust staining. We have reviewed and approved a property posting contract in November to post against intrusion and hunting into and on our wetlands/ woodlands common property surrounding the Trent Road Dam. The surveying for sign location posting and the actual posting will begin the week before Thanksgiving, weather permitting. Lastly, we have completed our 2015 budget and through renewed contract negotiation and expense analysis have been able to keep the Greenbriar portion of your maintenance payment at the same level as 2014. We have zero increase for Greenbriar maintenance in 2015. We wish a good trip and healthy winter to all our snowbirds who have left or will leave. For those who remain in Greenbriar in the winter, we wish a winter of little or no snow, but also one of health and good holiday cheer! Message from The Manager’s Office B y William H. Hinkle, General Manager During the November GWCA and WHOA Open Meetings, the 2015 budgets were presented. For residents still paying their monthly maintenance by check, the 2015 coupon books should arrive mid-December. If you do not receive the 2015 maintenance book by the third week or so, please contact the Accounting Office at Extension 222. Snow bulletins are available in the Towne Centre. We encourage you to stop by and pick one up. A letter was previously sent to each home advising you of the snow clearing procedures and the WHOA Board’s policy on ‘special clearing’. If you fit into one of the scenarios, forms are available from the Concierge or the Nurse to apply to Management, as many of you have already done for the upcoming winter season. Furthermore, Management and Resident Services encourage you to purchase calcium chloride for use at your personal residences. In many instances, a coating of the calcium chloride on your driveway and/or walkway prior to or at the beginning of a storm can assist in the clearing process. Manor Home units in Village I/ Whittingham will have buckets with calcium chloride placed near the top of the courtyard stairs as well as at the base for resident use. Snow is a major operational job for Management and our contracted vendor. We do as much as we can as fast as we can, but do ask that all residents are patient as we work within a scheduled operational plan. We do conduct pre and after action briefings, looking to continually improve on each event. Our contracted vendor has a reasonable time frame in which to complete the contracted services. Our front two ponds have received their annual cutting, where all growth is cut down to eight inches, leaving designated/marked trees and plantings in place. Throughout the late fall and possibly into the early winter (weather permitting), we will be bringing in a dredging unit under the direction of Princeton Hydro to clean the ponds of sediment that has accumulated while keeping the water flowing. As we near the end of the year, no flooding has occurred, good water quality has been maintained and our Storm Water Management System has functioned as it should. For 2015 we have continued with the services of Border Collies in our efforts to control and limit geese gatherings. Management and Resident Services encourage each and every resident to turn off their outside hose bib(s), drain and leave valves partially open. In many cases hose bib valve shutoffs are not located in standard locations and if you need help with this, please contact Resident Services for additional information. Please remember to complete a vacation form if you will be going away for any length of time (recommended for more than 3 days). Forms are available on our website (www.gwmonroe.com), from the Concierge, or at the Security Gate House. Along with your vacation form please have current emergency contact information available, which can be of a great assistance to Management in protecting your property. Resident phone books have been delivered and are available for pick up from the Concierge. If you are away and at your winter home, you will be able to pick up and sign for your book upon your return. There is a limit of one phone book per household. Letters announcing Committee Appointments will be sent out in December to those selected for service in 2015. The Boards and Management thank each person who submitted an application for their willingness to volunteer. As a reminder, the Board has increased the fines for violation of the Handicap Parking rules from $25 to $100. Please refer to Operating Procedure No. 27 located in your black loose-leaf binder entitled “Greenbriar at Whittingham Community Rules & Regulations” for the full text of the existing penalties and rules. Our community offers a “master key” program, which has served Management and our Security Department in many instances, protecting life and property. If your home’s locks are keyed to match Security’s master key, Security would be able to grant access to your home if a Monroe Township authority (police, first aid, or fire) needed access due to either a 9-1-1 call or alarm signal rather than entering forcibly. Note that Security cannot and will not accept personal house keys. By participating in the master key program, this may also assist you should you ever accidently lock yourself out of your home. Whittingham residents who have not changed their locks are currently a part of the program. To participate, contact Alen Locksmith at 609-4487616. Unsure if you are on the master key? Give Security a call and they will stop by at a mutually acceptable time to check and see. The cost for rekeying the locks is a resident responsibility. In observance of Christmas, the Towne Centre will close at 1 pm on Wednesday, December 24 and remain closed on Thursday, December 25. This practice will continue the following week for New Year’s wherein the Towne Centre will close at 1 pm on Wednesday, December 31 and remain closed on Thursday, January 1. Towne Centre will host regular hours the days before and day after. The staff and I wish each and every one a happy and healthy holiday season and I personally would like to thank all Staff Members for their dedication and commitment in maintaining the standards and quality of life that we expect here at Greenbriar at Whittingham! GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE IMPORTANT TO ALL RESIDENTS This is a list of all the Rules & Regulations and Resolutions which were either revised and amended, or instituted for the first time in 2013 or 2014, and should be placed in your Rules & Regulations binder behind the “Resolutions” tab in the appropriate section. They are color coded as follows: YELLOW paper - applies to all homeowners; rules applying to common property, streets, etc. GREEN paper – applies to residents who reside in Greenbriar TAN paper – applies to residents in Village I/Whittingham YELLOW Paper WHOA Resolution 2013-004 Issuance and Use of Swimming Pool Passes WHOA Resolution 2013-005 Issuance of Barcodes WHOA Resolution 2013-006 Issuance and Use of Fobs WHOA Resolution 2013-008 Resales – Transfer of Ownership WHOA Resolution 2013-011 Community Election Campaigning Policies WHOA Resolution 2013-009 Shopping Bus Rules WHOA Resolution 2013-013 Community Signs WHOA Resolution 2013-014 WHOA Resolution 2013-015 Non-Resident Admission to Community for Activity Participation on Common Property WHOA Resolution 2013-015 WHOA Resolution 2014-003 Resales – Transfer of Ownership WHOA Resolution 2014-004 Handicap Parking Fines WHOA Resolution 2014-006 Committee Appointments WHOA Resolution 2014-007 Resales – Transfer of Ownership GREEN Paper GWCA Resolution 2013-001 Generators GWCA Resolution 2014-001 WHOA Resolution 2013-002 Early Placement of Trash & Recycling for Collection Generators TAN Paper WHOA Resolution 2013-016 Lightning Protection System WHOA Resolution 2013-018 Placement of Trash & Recycling for Collection for Village I/Whittingham Village I-Whittingham BBQs WHOA Resolution 2014-002 WHOA Resolution 2014-005 Placement of Trash & Recycling for Collection for Village I/Whittingham All of these Resolutions were mailed to you during the course of 2013 or 2014. Please check your Rules & Regulations binders to ensure you have added each to your binder. If, for some reason, you do NOT have copies of particular ones, stop by the Concierge Desk to obtain copies. Thank You Notes To all my friends at GW, I am blessed to live here and to be a part of this thoughtful and caring community. Thank you for all the cards, phone calls, gifts and meals after my recent knee surgery. I can’t thank you enough. Sincerely, Rosine Morgante *** I want to thank all of my friends in GW and other communities from the bottom of my heart for your love, thoughtfulness and concerns during my three hospital stays and five months in rehab during the past year. It is impossible to thank each and every one of you individually. With all my love, Joel Levy Civic Club Dues Are Due Is your Civic Club membership up for renewal? By renewing, you help support our community at large and help us to improve life here. Each membership is important and counts. Your support helps us move forward. Our annual dues remain at $16 per couple, $8 for a single, to encourage maximum participation from our community. We hope with your renewal, you may be able to help with an additional gift of $2 or $4, or more to provide much needed funding for Civic Club programs. No, it’s not a lot, but every little bit helps and is important. You could add more and it will be appreciated. Fill out the coupon below, attach your check payable to “GW CIVIC CLUB” and deposit in lockbox 4 in the Towne Centre lobby. Name __________________________________________ $_____________________ Address ________________________________________ Telephone number ________________________________ Email address____________________________________ Committee interest ________________________________ Thank you for your continued support and generosity. For more information, contact Sandy Werfel, Membership Chairperson, The GW Residents’ Civic Club, at 619-3229. Memories The GW VOICE welcomes new residents Susan and Irwin Dunsky to our midst and Irwin to our staff of authors as well. It is interesting to note that they moved into the house where our friend and staff writer Elaine Wintjen resided. We wish the Dunskys much happiness as they begin a new adventure in life here at GW. Having just moved to GW Irwin penned the following poem that captures the essence of the dilemma of moving from a favorite home full of wonderful memories into smaller quarters in a new community, a situation that confronted many of us before we recognized the magic of GW with its friendly and caring neighbors. Thirty-three Years In Six Hours Out Irwin Dunsky To make our home our own We were constantly on the hunt To fill it with things that made Our house wonderful to wake up in Vintage art adorned every wall Oak furniture displayed Susan’s finds Collections took on lives of their own Antique stores became regular haunts Whenever we traveled we also antiqued Our house filled as our collections grew Turn of the century oak, mahogany, and walnut furniture Onyx, coriander, and brass table or pole lamps Canister sets, old coffee grinders, endless ceramics Vintage Maxfield Parrish and Atkinson Fox prints Fifty-two prints hung in the master bedroom (Continued on page 5) DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 3 DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 4 THE RESIDENTS CIVIC CLUB Of Greenbriar at Whittingham IS CONDUCTING ITS ANNUAL HOLIDAY FUND DRIVE We wish to thank our excellent, hard-working and loyal staff. We appreciate the efforts of our nurses, security, maintenance, office and management employees who keep this a beautiful community. We suggest a minimum donation of $15 for a couple, $7.50 for a single, but any amount will be appreciated. Please note: WHOA AND GWCA are not sponsors of the Holiday Fund. Make check payable to: “Residents Civic Club” Mark “Holiday Fund” in memo section and deposit into Lock Box #4 or mail to: Residents Civic Club, 100 Whittingham Drive, Monroe Township, NJ 08831 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE A Reminder of Those Who Served A collage of GW veterans who served in the Armed Forces has been on view in the Towne Centre lobby during November. It helps us remember and thank them for their service. THE COMMUNITY AROUND US Civic Affairs By Jerry Tamburro Monroe Township Council President Recognizing Good Citizens Throughout the year we like to recognize residents and groups who contribute to making Monroe the wonderful town that it is. This month we had several worthy recipients that contributed to many worthy and worthwhile causes. The League of Women Voters acts as a watchdog not only for elections but for issues which are dangerous and harmful to innocent citizens of our country: The Mayor issued a proclamation recognizing the League’s and the Township’s opposition to human trafficking. Human trafficking is the fastest growing criminal enterprise in the world today and is tied with arms smuggling as the second largest international criminal industry, falling only behind illicit drug trade. Approximately 80% of the victims are women and girls and 50% are younger than 18. Thanks go to the League for pursuing action to help curtail this horrible criminal activity. The same night, the ADA Committee recognized Jack McNaboe for his work in spearheading construction to make Mikey Nichols home handicap accessible. Mikey is the young man who suffered a severe spinal injury while playing hockey on the high school team. McNaboe, who works with wounded warriors, also spearheaded the renovation for the young Marine, Colin Pascik, who lost both his legs while in Afghanistan. Without hesitation Jack accepted the challenge in both cases and made a serious situation comforting not only for both young men but also for their families. Jack had many partners from all the construction trades who volunteered their time, materials and expertise to make these projects affordable to the young men and their families. Finally, we also recognized the Monroe Cal Ripken 10 years old and under baseball team. The boys played 62 games to achieve the Mid-Atlantic Cal Ripken Championship. When these boys are in high school they will know how to win and bring success to the high school team. This youth sports program, like the Mayor’s Cup competition, is part of the many Township recreation activities. We are proud of the many people who come together to make Monroe the best empty-nester community, as cited by NJ Monthly Magazine, but also as the best town for all our residents. GW Voice Snowbird Mailing PLEASE PRINT CLEARLY Name ___________________________________________ Winter Mailing Address: _______________________________ Street ___________________________________________ City______________________ State _____ Zip _________ Monthly issues of the GW VOICE will be mailed to the above address. $2.00 per month covers postage and handling. NOTE: GW VOICE may be viewed free on the community website: gwmonroe.com Please circle months requested. Jan Feb March April May Make checks payable to: “GW VOICE” Amount Paid: $2.00 x number of months = $____________ Date Paid_____________ Check Number_____________ Leave this request form with your check in the GW Voice Mailbox in the Annex. GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE From Our Mayor B y Richard Pucci, Twp. of Monroe Community Gardens The Township is planning to have a community garden near the Millstone River on Applegarth Road. The Monroe Township Community Garden and Park will be a new venture for the Township that will give residents with green thumbs, without much property, a place to grow their favorite vegetables. The new 12-acre park is unique because the land was donated to the town as a result of negotiations with a developer. The Verde Group is donating the parcel along the Millstone River for the Community Garden and Park to the Township and will develop the parcel at the intersection of Route 33 and Applegarth Road. The Community Garden, which makes up five acres of the park, will feature 100 tenfoot by ten-foot plots where residents can create his or her own garden. Each renter will be responsible for maintaining, watering and feeding the plants on his or her own plot. The plots will be available next year for all Monroe Township residents on a first-come, first-served basis for a $30 annual rental fee. The management and de- sign of the garden is being done with the help of the Land Conservancy of New Jersey, an accredited, member supported, non-profit land trust that has been preserving open space land and protecting water resources since 1981. The Township has been working with a group of citizens interested in the Community Garden who will help organize and manage the program. The farm is planned to also feature a butterfly garden lining the banks of the Millstone River to help bolster the pollinating insect population, which will help with vegetable production. In addition, a portion of the park will feature a vegetable garden, which will be used to grow food for the Monroe Township Food Pantry, a rain garden and a walking trail along the Millstone River. Application forms will be available in early 2015 on the Monroe Township website, www.monreotwp.com. We are excited to get started on this innovative project that helps to maintain Monroe as a green, clean community. Jewish Federation By Eddie Thompson Shalom Havarem (greetings friends) Happy Chanukah to all! Chanukah is a celebration of Thirty-three Years (Continued from page 3) One hundred seventy hung throughout the house Waking up or coming home was always spectacular Art deco furniture, twentieth century parlor sets Three hundred and thirty coffee mugs and steins Chotskies and more chotskies only in never out This week our lifetime of collecting came to an end We downsized to a smaller house Many difficult decisions were made Through ads, estate tag sales and just giving away Our collections dwindled to fit our new digs The moving men came and everything we owned Ended up in two heartless trucks Thirty- Three years in six hours out A new chapter in our lives has begun Three thousand square feet to 1875 One hundred thirty six boxes to open Gated community clubhouse new adventure After my first night in the new house I sat back among the boxes and smiled Grateful that I made it to this point My knees were more grateful for the lack of stairs life, freedom, endurance and resilience of the Jewish people. Remember to light the first Chanukah candle on December 16. We must be thankful that in spite of rampant worldwide anti-Semitism, we and Israel have endured and will continue to do so. Am Yisrael Chai!!! On Monday, October 20, The Friends of the IDF presented a program at the home of Eddie and Dorothy Thompson and four IDF soldiers, two men and two women, gave a talk about their experiences in the IDF. One of the female soldiers, 21 years old, recently emigrated to Israel from Perth, Australia on her own and one of the male soldiers came from Beverly Hills, California on his own when he was 21 and he is now 25. These two soldiers are considered “Lone Soldiers” as they came to Israel without family. There were close to 40 people in attendance at this program and we were privileged to gain considerable insight into the lives of these young soldiers and the current situation in Israel. For more information about the Friends of the IDF, you may go online to their website. We hope that everyone took advantage of attending the Rutgers Jewish Film Festival that began the end of October and into the first half of November. There were many wonderful interesting, entertaining, and informative films presented. We learned about the beginning of the Israeli Air Force; the difficulties that many women have in obtaining a Get — a religiously sanctioned Jewish divorce; the story of Sophie Tucker; a de(Continued on page 7) DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 5 DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 6 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE LWV - From Voter Registration to Human Trafficking By Ruth Banks Happy Holidays!!! The League of Women Voters of Monroe Twp. focused much of its voter registration efforts in October by making applications to vote by mail available to people who might have difficulty in getting to the polls. According to Voter Service Director Joan Zucker, supplies of vote-by-mail applications were placed in the nurse’s office in various senior communities, in the Jewish Family Service office for delivery with Meals-on-Wheels, and with other groups which serve senior groups. Articles reminding residents of the upcoming election, the necessity of voting and a source for obtaining forms were placed in various senior community newsletters. The registration campaign actually began in August, with League members holding registration days at Rossmoor. Lorraine Sarhage organized it with assistance from Gasphine Lewis, Gloria Huber, Celeste Jacobs, Bobbie Harris and Judy Perkus. In September, League members Florence Levine and Syd Seiden visited Waterside Villas, a rental community with many new residents. Also in September, Judy Perkus, Mary Ann Colgan and Marsha Rosenbaum registered new residents at Monroe Village. The Senior Center was also a registration site with Leaguers Francine Glass, Jane Jennings, Mary Ann Colgan and Lillian Cooper assist- ing people with the forms. And also in September, we were back at our usual spot in the Post Office staffed by Joan Leon, Roz Levine and Marcia Kastan. As always, the Post Office staff was helpful. October presented us with the opportunity to participate in both the Green Fair, at the Oak Tree School, and the Octoberfest at the Community Center. In both locations League distributed disaster awareness and readiness material and of course voter information. Staffing the two sites were, the Fair, Ellen Norman, Mary Ann Colgan, Marsha Rosenbaum, Myrna Zach, Lillian Cooper, Syd Seiden, Norman Perkus, Sherry Freedman, Judy Barbour, Muriel Hertan and Marcia Kastan. Working at the Octoberfest were Lee Hyman, Andrea Pellezzi, Marcia Kastan and Lorraine Sarhage. Ms. Zucker noted that, as in the past, there were many people who refused to register to vote, giving no rational reason. However, most people were grateful for the opportunity to have a voice in determining their future. In addition to the voter registration efforts, League embarked on a new issue: Human Trafficking. On October 27 the Assistant Prosecutor for Middlesex County Prosecutor’s Office, Christine d’Elia, spoke at the League’s meeting in the Municipal Building. Ms. d”Elia’s presentation graphically discussed the complex nature of human trafficking, clarifying who was at risk, what the term human trafficking actually meant, and how widespread the network was. In fact, she emphasized, that it was now considered the second most widespread criminal activity in the world. The League’s committee is composed of members from Hadassah, O.R.T., the NJ Coalition Against Human Trafficking, and the Township Library. Library Director Irene Goldberg is working directly with the committee to plan a special film/discussion program on January 20, which has been designated by the state as Human Trafficking Awareness Month. In addition, a proclamation designating January 11 as Human Trafficking Awareness Day has been drawn up by Mayor Pucci and was made public on November 5 prior to the Township Council meeting. The League is a non-profit nonpartisan political organization. It neither supports nor opposes candidates for elective office. It encourages its members to participate in the political party of their choice and it is open to men and women 18 years of age or older. The League meets on the fourth Monday of the month at the Township’s Municipal Building. For more information on the League and its programs, please call Ruth Banks, 609-655-4791; Judy Perkus, 609-395-1552; Francine Glass, 609-860-7890. GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE The Cinema By Larry Sheppard GONE GIRL is a thriller narrated by its two main characters, a disillusioned wife (ROSAMUND PIKE) and her less than dynamic husband (BEN AFFLECK). Unemployed and unable to maintain their living standards in the big city, the excuse of his mother dying in Missouri prompts a move to her small town. Initially, his voiceover relates their meeting, their sharp intellects, and now their failing marriage. BEN and his twin sister own a dreary bar where she works while he dawdles away his time doing nothing. Suddenly, upon returning home from his usual bar stop, he finds his wife gone and presumably missing. The investigation by the police begins to focus on him as her possible murderer and his actions help their suspicions grow. The discovery that he has a girlfriend doesn’t help and gradually a TV frenzy ensues ending with him being officially charged with murder. He also begins to believe that his wife has formulated her disappearance in order to exact revenge on his actions. Abruptly, his missing wife begins her narration of the events leading to her disappearance. It becomes obvious that this was not just a missing person case but something more substantial and intriguing. Directed with skill by PETER FINCHER, there are twists and turns galore backed up with a musical score that helps make the actions even more a portent of doom. Yes, there are holes in the plot and perhaps 2 hours and 40 minutes is a little too long but all in all, it is nice to be entertained by a who-done-it with lots of surprises. RATING…B-. MY OLD LADY features MAGGIE SMITH, KEVIN KLINE and KRISTEN SCOTT THOMAS. So what can go bad? Not much but somehow, the movie didn’t quite work too Federation (Continued from page 5) scription of the famous Russ & Daughters in Manhattan; a girl who was brought up as a white Ashkenazi Jew and discovered that her biological father was an African-American; the desecration of Jewish tombstones in Poland; and many more worthwhile films. If you missed attending the Film Festival, plan to attend next year and we guarantee that you will not be disappointed. Some events of interest that will be taking place in Middlesex County: Dec. 13— Chanukah Laser Light Show at 6 pm at Temple Emanu-El in Edison/ Dec. 14—Hands on Chanukah, 2pm-4 pm (with Jewish Outreach Institute) at the Menlo Park Mall/ Chanukah Menorah Lighting, 7 pm 8:30 pm at the Jewish Community Center in Edison/Dec. 22-Menorah Lighting and Carnival, 5:30 pm -9 pm at the East Brunswick Civic Center. If you wish to become an active participant and volunteer in Jewish Federation, please contact Dorothy & Eddie Thompson at 860-2664 or Judy Brodman at 395-8171 or you may call the Jewish Federation of Greater Middlesex County directly at 732-5881800. well for me. KEVIN, depressed and broke after 3 marriages, arrives in Paris to inherit an apartment left to him by his departed father. He plans to sell the place for lots of Euros but unfortunately, a tenant, 92 year old MAGGIE, is living there. She sold the apartment to his father 40 years ago and French law states she can stay there for as long as she lives. MAGGIE’S daughter, KRISTEN, and KEVIN clash over the ongoing situation but eventually realize that they are attracted to one another. Little by little, it becomes evident that KEVIN’S dad and MAGGIE were more than landlord and tenant which leads to questions concerning some sexual indiscretions in the past complicating the possible romance between the couple. The plot becomes heavy with family memories, guilt trips and recriminations ad infinitum which I found somewhat repetitive. On the other hand, the actors are excellent, Paris is beautiful and as they say in France, C’EST LA VIE! RATING…B-. THE JUDGE is a perfect example of a familiar tale heightened significantly by outstanding performances by two excellent actors. Hot shot Chicago attorney Hank Palmer (ROBERT DOWNEY JR.) returns to his home town upon the sudden death of his mother. He and his father, Judge Joseph Palmer (ROBERT DUVALL,) have been estranged and their meeting is awkward and painful. Obviously, Hank has been absent a long time and his father resents his lack of concern about his family and his attitude about the law. The judge is a stickler concerning legal procedure and considers Hank’s methods shady and unprincipled. Suddenly, the Judge is accused of deliberately running over and killing a recently released local hoodlum whom he had sentenced to prison for 20 years. He pleads that he has no recollection of the incident and the trial becomes the crux of the plot. A local defense lawyer proves inadequate and Hank becomes involved although the Judge accepts him reluctantly. The son must overcome the father’s basic pride and selfesteem even as he realizes that the Judge will not bow to win- Calling for Minyan Volunteers The Minyan Group of Greenbriar at Whittingham has serviced our community for over 20 years and now we need your help in order to continue this most important service for our residents. We are seeking both male and female volunteers, but of course those who, because of their particular religious preference, wish only men at their minyan can make that request. You do not have to be fluent in Hebrew to be part of our group, but we need your presence in order to ensure at least 10 people at all Shiva minyans. If you are fluent in Hebrew we might ask that you would also consider being a minyan leader as well. For information and to volunteer, call: Eddie Thompson860-2664/ Aaron Nitkin-3957598/ Jim Penzias-860-8344. ning without telling the truth. While the film seemed somewhat overlong, small parts by VERA FARMIGA, VINCENT D’ONOFRIO and BILLY BOB THORNTON round out this strong cast; but the load is definitely carried by DOWNEY and DUVALL. RATING…B+. DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 7 DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 8 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Nurse’s Notes Stephanie Fitzsimmons Sexton, RN, APN EMAIL BULLETIN DELIVERY SOME OF THE EMERGENCY AND OTHER EMAIL BULLETINS FROM MANAGEMENT SENT TO RESIDENTS ARE BEING RETURNED AS UNDELIVERABLE. TO FACILITATE DELIVERY, PLEASE ADD THE EMAIL ADDRESS whoaopsmgr@hotmail.com TO YOUR CONTACT LIST. Exercise in the New Year! It may only be December, but it is a great time to start thinking about New Year’s resolutions. How about committing to a regular exercise routine? As you grow older, an active lifestyle is more important than ever. Regular exercise can help boost energy, maintain your independence, and manage symptoms of illness or pain. Exercise is good for your body; it’s also good for your mind, mood, and memory. Whether you are generally healthy or are managing an illness, there are plenty of ways to get more active, improve confidence, and boost your fitness. Exercise is the key to healthy aging but it is a struggle to stay committed. Starting or maintaining a regular exercise routine can be a challenge. You may feel discouraged by illness, ongoing health problems, or concerns about injuries or falls. If you have never exercised before, you may not know where to begin. Maybe you think that exercise is simply not for you. Exercise can energize your mood, relieve stress, help you manage symptoms of illness and pain, and improve your overall sense of wellbeing. In fact, exercise is the key to staying strong, energetic, and healthy as you get older. No matter your age or your current physical condition, you can benefit from exercise. Reaping the rewards of exercise doesn’t require strenuous workouts or trips to the gym. It’s about adding more movement and activity to your life, even in small INVEST in the Best for Less… GUARANTEED! 2014 FOR HIGH EFFICIENCY AIR CONDITIONING & HEATING stancoclimate.com ways. Whether you are generally healthy or are managing an illness—even if you’re housebound—there are many easy ways to get your body moving and improve your health. Myth 1: Exercise increases the risk of falling down. Fact: Regular exercise, by building strength and stamina, prevents loss of bone mass and improves balance, actually reducing your risk of falling. Myth 2: It’s too late. I’m already too old to start exercising. Fact: You’re never too old to exercise! If you’ve never exercised before, or it’s been a while, start with light walking and other gentle activities. Research shows that a sedentary lifestyle is unhealthy for adults over 50. Myth 3: I’m disabled. I can’t exercise sitting down. Fact: Chair-bound people face special challenges but can lift light weights, stretch, and do chair aerobics to increase range of motion, improve muscle tone, and promote cardiovascular health. Exercise helps adults maintain or lose weight. As metabolism naturally slows with age, maintaining a healthy weight is a challenge. Exercise helps increase metabolism and builds muscle mass, helping to burn more calories. When your body reaches a healthy weight, your overall wellness will improve. Exercise reduces the impact of illness and chronic disease. Among the many benefits of exercise for adults over 50 include better heart health and blood pressure, better bone density, and better digestive functioning. Exercise enhances mobility, flexibility, and balance in older adults. Exercise improves your strength, flexibility and posture, which in turn will help with balance, coordination, and reducing the risk of falls. Strength training also helps alleviate the symptoms of chronic conditions such as arthritis. Exercise improves your sleep. Exercise often improves sleep, helping you fall asleep more quickly and sleep more deeply. Exercise boosts mood and self-confidence. Endorphins produced by exercise can actually help you feel better and reduce feelings of sadness or depression. Being active and feeling strong naturally helps you feel more self-confident and sure of yourself. Committing to a routine of physical activity is one of the healthiest decisions you can make. Before you get moving, though, consider how best to be safe. Get medical clearance from your doctor before starting an exercise program, especially if you have a preexisting condition. Ask if there are any activities you should avoid. Start slowly. If you haven’t been active in a while, it can be harmful to go “all out.” Instead, build up your exercise program little by little. Try spacing workouts in tenminute increments twice a day.. Warm up, cool down, and keep water handy. An exercise class might be a good start, you are committed and someone will safely teach you how to use weights. Commit to an exercise schedule for at least 3 or 4 weeks so that it becomes habit, and maybe get an exercise buddy who will help you with your commitment. Walking is a perfect way to start exercising. It requires no special equipment, aside from a pair of comfortable walking shoes, and can be done anywhere. Water aerobics and water sports are wonderful for seniors because water reduces stress and strain on the body’s joints. Yoga combines a series of poses with breathing. Moving through the poses, works on strength, flexibility and balance. Yoga can be adapted to any level. Tai Chi and Qi Gong are martial arts-inspired systems of movement that increase balance and strength. Classes for seniors are often available at your local YMCA or community center. You are very fortunate to live in a community where you have the clubhouse and the Monroe Township Senior Center. Reach out and find out what exercise classes are available to you! Lecture: December 1, 1 pm, “Healthy Snacking in a Nutshell” Teresa Grass, RD (Registered Dietitian.) Please register with the Concierge. BUS PICK-UP SCHEDULE VILLAGES WILL ALTERNATE EACH MONTH 2014 Fall Special Fall Special GREENBRIAR: JUNE AUGUST OCTOBER DECEMBER FEBRUARY APRIL WHITTINGHAM: JULY SEPTEMBER NOVEMBER JANUARY MARCH MAY BUS PICK UP TIMES 1 VILLAGE – 9:00 AM TO 9:20 AM 2ND VILLAGE – 9:20 AM TO 9:40 AM ST BUS LEAVES GREENBRIAR @ WHITTINGHAM PARKING LOT @ 8:55 AM PROMPTLY! GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Senior Solutions By Helen Oxenberg, MSW, ACSW, (Helen Oxenberg’s column, Senior Solutions is syndicated and appears in several states) Dear Solutions: What do you do with a wife who seems to enjoy picking fights all the time over unimportant things – mostly when I’m trying to fall asleep. -EdDear Ed: The first thing you do is recognize that they’re important things because they’re making you pay attention to her! WAKE UP ED. SHE’S TRYING TO GET YOUR ATTENTION. Stop dreaming that she enjoys picking fights and try to find out what’s really bothering her in this marriage. After you find out and you discuss it with her and you try to change what’s wrong - THEN you can go back to sleep. Dear Solutions: I’ve been going out with someone for a long time and he wants to marry me. I like him a lot, I don’t think I love him but he’s very wealthy and it’s tempting. A month ago a friend of mine introduced me to a man who he thought would be a good match for me. I really enjoy being with this person because he makes me laugh all the time and I love to laugh. He, a senior now, was not a very ambitious man though and he just has a modest income. I don’t know whether to give up the other boyfriend. My sister says I should stick with him because I’ll always have a full belly. I’m afraid to give him up and yet I’m torn. -Joan Dear Joan: Depends on whether you want a belly laugh or a belly full. Laughter is a great glue that helps to keep people attached. You have to decide whether you want to stick with that good trait (assuming other traits are good also) or take your chances. Money can be lost – how would you feel about being with the other boyfriend if he lost his money? Could you laugh that off? Bottom line – if you really cared enough about the money man you wouldn’t be asking the question. Dear Solutions: My beautiful, smart, well-educated granddaughter went to study a very foreign language in a very foreign country. While there she “fell in love” with one of the native men and married him there so he could have his family attend. Now they’re going to come and visit me so she can introduce him to me. I’m very upset. He’s not only a different race, a different religion, a different culture but he’s not even as educated as she is or as accomplished or anything else. I’m embarrassed by the whole thing and I don’t know how to act with them or what to tell people. -MollyDear Molly: There are three important words here. The first is “act”. So – act like the loving grandmother you say you are which means accept and respect your granddaughter’s choice and hope that you will find it in your heart to welcome the stranger. The next word is “as”. “He’s not even “as” educated,” etc., as she is so what to tell people. I guess it would be easier for you to tell people if there were at least the word “more” involved as in – he’s “more” educated (a doctor at least), “more” talented (a celebrity at least), “more” prosperous (a millionaire maybe?). In your mind the “more” would make him equal even if you look at his race, ethnicity, culture or nationality as inferior to yours. So what to tell people? Tell them you’re thrilled that your granddaughter married someone she really loves who really loves her. The reality is that although people may be curious they don’t really care. Since you really care about your granddaughter’s happiness, accept this as a done deal and sincerely give them your blessing. Dear Solutions: I was beginning to get very irritated by my boyfriend and I’m lashing out at him. I don’t know if I love him anymore. Someone told me to act especially loving and the feeling would come back. Do you think that’s true? -GloriaDear Gloria: Good prescription. Can’t hurt. Might help. No guarantees. Worth a try. Let me know. Problems? Become part of the Solution. Write to Helen Oxenberg, Senior Solutions, P.O. Box 346, Jamesburg, NJ08831 or email: Helox72@comcast.net DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 9 DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 10 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Several long-term residents of GW helped new resident Irwin Dunsky (far right) understand how the community operates. Welcome New Residents!!! (Continued from page 1) about the newly redone Community Center which has programs for adults as well as youth, and praised the new Senior Services Center. Bill Hinkle as General Manager urged the residents to drive safely, follow traffic safety rules when walking as well as driving. Monica Caterson informed the group about the “Mr. Fix-it” services available to residents. Paul Bresalier urged the new residents to join the Civic Club that sponsors the GWVOICE, the community’s independent publication, and contributes to a number of community services such as the First Aid Squad, the Library, the Food Bank, the Senior Center, and scholarships to two deserving Mon- roe High School seniors. Adrian Mittler asked those present to consider donating to the Holiday Fund which is distributed to our employees as holiday gifts in recognition of their service and dedication to the needs of residents. Allan Cooper explained the new programs the Golf Club has initiated to attract new members, especially those who have never taken up golf. Jerry Cohen reminded all that the GW Chorus will be presenting a holiday program on December 12, and also announced that the January program will feature a specialist in cervical chiropractic. Rita Pearlman explained how Whittingham is organized, urged Whittingham residents to contact her and plan to attend meeting and coffees de- signed to orient new residents. Paul Klarman discussed the structure and functions of WHOA (Whittingham Homeowners Association,) and Howard Abrams did the same for the Greenbriar at Whittingham Community Association, delineating the different functions and responsibilities. New residents will need time and due diligence before they can master the structure and extent of the lay governing bodies. The Residents Civic Club meets on the second Wednesday of each month at 7:30 pm. Gene Gursky is president and Ben Baum is vice-president. All residents are welcome to attend meetings. They are urged to join the Club and participate in its many activities. The Green Thumb By Laura Resnick What Color Is Your Thumb? Actually, it doesn’t matter what color your thumb is when it comes to “water gardening.” There’s little more involved than filling a small container with water and sticking the cut end of a stem in it. For such a simple procedure the results can be outstanding. Roots soon appear along the submerged stems, followed shortly by new leaves at the top. The after-care is almost as simple as the initial step. For best results, change the water every week to keep it sweet and fresh. Add a few drops of liquid plant food after each change. If the roots get too dense, cut them back from time to time: this will stimulate new healthy growth. The following species will perform well without soil: Dracaena (corn plant) offers a variety of leaf sizes and shapes. Take 12- to 15-inch cuttings with leafy heads. You can trim the plant to keep the vining growth compact, or let it spread. Coleus, so easy to root, contributes brightly colored foliage to your collection. Swedish Ivy and English Ivy each add a distinctive hearty vine to the mix. Chinese Evergreen features large variegated leaves held on firm upright stems. Since it will thrive in dim light, you can use it to liven up an otherwise dreary corner. Sweet Potatoes are the most responsive of all plants to water culture. Their lush vining growth literally cascades from the tuber that’s half submerged in water. With very little care, you’ll have a specimen plant in just a few weeks. Experiment, and see what interesting containers you have on hand to enhance your water gardens, such as wine goblets, cruets, pitchers, mugs and the like. Holiday Gift Plants will stay attractive long after the holiday season is over, especially under the right conditions. All require bright light – preferably sunlight – during the day, and cool temperature (about 65 F.) at night, and all need watering before the soil is dry to the touch. Azalea flowers will wilt and die prematurely if the soil becomes too dry. Christmas Pepper, with its colorful fruits, should be treated as an annual – throw it away when it becomes unattractive. You can dry the peppers and use them as seasoning, but watch out – they’re hot! Water the Cyclamen around the edges of the pot, because water in the crown may cause rot. If leaves or flowers turn yellow, it could be from the soil dry- ing out, too high night temperature (above 70 F.) or not enough light. Poinsettias do best with at least four hours of direct sunlight in a draft-free location. Cut back plants in late spring after flowering, and repot in fresh soil. They may survive for many years as foliage plants, all green. Your poinsettia will flower only if you give it alternating light and 14 hours of darkness for six weeks. Do this in September and October for bloom in December. The Inevitable Winter On December 21 the sun will cross over the imaginary line of the equator and moves back into the northern hemisphere. This, the winter solstice, is the darkest and longest night of the coldest season. But here’s the good news: This is the very moment when light gains against the darkness, bringing the promise of spring’s awakening, and summer’s fruitfulness. Happy Holidays to all! Reminder: the Green Thumbs will meet at 11am on Tuesday, December 9, at the Monroe Twp. Senior Center. GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Finance and Investing By Irwin Kaplan A Personal Policy for Investing Being a successful investor is not only having Mr. Market striving to reach new highs that helps too - but, you also need the discipline to follow the rules YOU set for YOUR portfolio, and the individual investments you select. Why? Well, most of us have no control over what happens in the world, or to predict the stock market, or when interest rates will move up or down, the cost of living, the U.S. or world economies. That’s a fact, accept it. Obviously, there are many choices and opinions about the best way to invest for a long and worry-free retirement. History has shown that the trait most common for investment success is discipline. History has also shown that discipline trumps intuition and forecasting the future. The unexpected and unknown is always with us. Disciplined investors abide by investment rules that protect them and guide them through the ups and downs of the stock market. The ups and downs always offer opportunities. And, those ups and News from the Golf Board Changes to the Golf Course operations are planned for the 2015 Season: Time will be available for non-league golfers to play on Tuesday mornings. For many years Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday mornings were set aside for the Men’s and Women’s Golf Leagues. However, as the total number of League Players has diminished, the Golf Board has decided to have both groups play on Wednesday and Thursday to make more open time on the Golf Course. The Men’s 9 hole and 18 hole Leagues will play on Wednesday, while all the Women’s Leagues will play on Thursday. In our continuing effort to bring in new golfers, the course will host a Member Invitational Outing during the 2015 season. Members can invite a nonmember friend to try out the Golf Course: the member is expected to pay the cart fee. Refreshments will be served. The purpose of this event is to expose residents and nonresidents to experience the Golf Course. Non-members have no easy way of getting to experience playing on our Course. Whenever people play our course they are very impressed and describe it as a hidden jewel. This outing will bring the course to more people’s attention. We are, after all, trying to increase the number of members playing at Greenbriar. We are making some changes to the Course itself. We are enlarging the size of the greens. This is a relatively simple procedure that doesn’t incur extra costs. When the greens are mowed an extra three to five feet will be cut down to the level of the green. This addition will include the entire perimeter of the Green. The cutting will be done in several stages so as not to distress the grass. Following that, a new fringe area will be cut, which is taller than grass on the green but lower than on the fairway or rough that surrounds the green. The larger greens will make it somewhat easier to land on the greens. On the other hand during tournaments the flag stick can be moved to more challenging locations if so desired. Some of the tee boxes will be changed for the 2015 season. On the fourth hole the area between the men’s white tee and blue tee will be filled in. This will create one large tee box. The white and blue tee markers can be moved accordingly. By increasing the tee box area the grass in any given spot will have a chance to regenerate. This makes things more enjoyable for the (Continued on page 12) Tennis Club By Claire Finestein On October 18 the club had its end-of-season runoff. There was a great turnout of 48 people. Everything was done to perfection due to the help of Linda Shiff, Diane Altman, Dolores Schmidt and Arlene Lazar. The food was catered by the bagel bazaar with delivery and distribution assured by our own Herb Levin and Al Schmidt. All who attended enjoyed themselves. Once again Dick Brief is planning a Florida reunion in January. Anyone interested should contact Dick; he did a great job last year and we can expect a similar performance this year. The tennis club wishes everyone a happy and healthy New Year. downs can stir up costly emotions. Fear, greed, and opinions may lead investors in the wrong direction: to untimely buys, sells, and holds. Investors must constantly fight the wave of news reporting. Wise investors separate reporting from rationalization. To fortify your investments against dangers, devise and set established rules for portfolio success. Here are some investment criteria topics you have to understand, and devise rules to use for efficient investing: The economy: Where are we now and what are future expectations - short term and long term. Consider THUD economic conditions and outlook. (THUD - taxes, housing starts, unemployment, deficits.) Industry and Stock selection rules: What industries have a “bright’ future with forecasted increased revenues? What stocks to buy in those industries? When- to-buy rules: How to calculate the buy-in price. The price ranges and earnings expectations. When to sell - to take profits or stop losses. Portfolio rules that are manageable by YOU. A periodic review of portfolio sectors. Read and be informed about the markets and individual stocks. This is the short list. There are many stories “around” about investing in different stages of the stock markets’ march to higher averages. There is no shortage of opinion to this very complex subject. That’s another reason to have investment rules. Picking stocks in which to invest for your retirement portfolio is not easy. Those who have to deal with the results of your choices are YOU and YOURS. If you can’t cope with the work involved yourself, get professional help you can work with. And, STICK TO THE RULES. Remember the word discipline. History tells us it pays off. DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 11 DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 12 Golf Board (Continued from page 11) players and better for the condition of the tee. The area in front of the white tee box will be built up so that a new red tee area will be created for the women golfers. This means that some of the women who have trouble walking will not have to walk across the fairway to tee off. The program to improve the sand traps will continue. A few traps are refurbished each year with money coming from our reserve fund. GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Ladies Golf By Carol Cooper and Ruth Reich Sadly, our league is over for this season. The trees have dropped their leaves and we no longer have to remember to sign up for “the next weeks league play.” With the exception of a few days the weather remained beautiful and the leagues were able to play until the end of the season. Next year the 2015 leagues will be consolidated to Thursdays, allowing open time on Tuesdays. We are happy to share the wonderful news that Anne Hughes and Myrna Reiter played in the Special Olympics. The event was held at the Mountain View golf course. They won the Gold Medal for the NJ State competition. They played alternate strokes with the golfers who are enrolled in the Golf Special Olympics team. They are called Unified Partners. Congratulations are due Anne and Myrna. We welcome our new VP Nancy Hynes and our new Secretary Jean Russo. We know they will serve us well. Please note the following schedule for 2015. April 16, First day of play May 15, Opening breakfast June 4, Fun day July 30, Club championship Aug. 6, Club championship Aug. 20, Member / member Oct. 9, Closing and Awards luncheon Oct. 15, Last Day of play For the first time our VP Nancy is planning an overnight to Renault Winery in Egg Harbor on Sept. 28 and 29. More information to follow. The board voted to raise the dues to $55. The dues includes the opening breakfast and all the prize money. We wish all our members whether home or away a healthy, happy winter. We look forward to seeing all in the spring. Alisa Hadassah By Rhoda Juskow Congratulations to our Myrtle Wreath Honorees - Hazel Cunninghis and Claire Lazar. Alisa Chapter had the opportunity to honor these women who have done so much for us; Hazel by being a most wonderful Treasurer for at least 5 or 6 years, and Claire who continually works on so many events, region raffles, and is a leader and hands-on person all of the time. Member Appreciation was a delightful evening at which time we voted on our new slate of officers for 2015, honored some of our very special members - Dorothy Brotman, Judy Gerstein and Merna Levinthal, and had the pleasure of listening to Steve Zeitlin, renowned folklorist. Thank you, as always, to Caroline Marks for setting up our desserts so beautifully. The Lunch Bunch group just keeps growing as about 20 Hadassah members have their monthly get together and as usual, all had a good time. Save the Date Tuesday, December 2 - 1:30 pm - Rabbi Melinda Panken of Temple Shaari Emeth will speak about Biomedical Ethics and end-of-life decisions. Contact Ella Goldstein - 235-9616 to reserve your place. Monday, December 15 7:15 pm - Our last monthly meeting for the year will feature Muriel Hertan, an NGO (non-government organization) representative to the United Nations. She will be speaking about the current and growing anti-Semitism in Europe. Wednesday, December 17 1 pm - The Lunch Bunch will be celebrating Chanukah with a party at Lox, Stock & Deli. If you would like to participate in a grab-bag, please bring a $10 gift. Contact Phyllis Soffer at 609-409-3379 or Marilyn Taffet at 609-860-8406 to RSVP. Tuesday, January 27, 2015 - 1:30 pm - A movie (to be announced) will be shown at the home of Joanne Ferstan. Tuesday, February 3, 2015 We will celebrate Tu B’shvat with a Seder to be conducted by Sheila Farber. Further details will be provided at a later date. Tuesday, March 3, 2015 at 2 pm - Rabbi Wisnia of Temple Beth Chaim of West Windsor will present a Purim program at the home of Ella Goldstein. To register, call 609-235 -9616 or email ellangoldstein@gmail.com. Donations to Hadassah would be appreciated at all programs where there is no charge. If you are a Hadassah member and are interested in helping to plan programs and events, call Bunny Bloom at 409-4498. We look forward to new ideas and suggestions to keep our meetings interesting and informative. Greenbriar Bridge Club By Arthur Van Blerkom It is now December 2014 and the GW Duplicate Bridge Club is in winter mode with the Monday game located at Encore; there is no daily cost. The regular Thursday night game has been suspended for the winter. By the way in the September and October Voice bridge articles written by me I reviewed the intermediate bridge lessons given at GW on how to play bridge in the 21st Century. It is not the only correct variation but it is a good beginning and later you and your partner can make adjustments. The ACBL UNIT 140 (of which GW is a member) Newsletter called the Declarer publishes a column called the Novice Corner is written by Arnie Cohen who moved into GW at the end of October. In the fall 2014 issue the article’s subject is Preemption. I talked to Arnie and told him I was going to reproduce it in the GWVOICE with recognition of authorship and publication to both him and Unit 140. This is one of the best articles (reproduced below) on Preemptive Bidding I have seen and I suggest you review it carefully. If interested, you can get a copy of a current or past issue of the DECLARER from the Web through New Jersey Bridge Unit 140; the next edition of the Declarer will continue the topic of Preemptive Bidding. Novice Corner By Arnie Kohn Preemption Preemptive bidding is one of the most valuable tools available. A preemptive bid is made on a long mono-suited hand with a minimum of defensive values. One should base the bid on the number of tricks available in the hand and the vulnerability of the two sides. The bid has nothing to do with points, but solely on trick expectancy. One can expect to be doubled, so the resulting score must be less than the (Continued on page 13) DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 13 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Novice Corner (Continued from page 12) score the opponents would obtain by bidding and making a game. For example you are dealt S AKQxxxx H xx D xx C xx and the opponents are vulnerable and your side in not vulnerable, your correct call is Four Spades. The opponents Game Contract is worth 600 + Points and your seven sure tricks will hold your losses to 500 points. Should the vulnerability be equal your call is Three Spades. The loss you would incur will be less than the opponents would score for making a game. Should the vulnerability be unfavorable, I recommend not bidding. Please forget any rules, such as "a seven card suit and less than ten points" as a guideline. I do not recommend preempting with an Ace or King outside your suit. If you have that outside card, for now you can probably open one of your suit. The next article will discuss other types of preempts. (From the fall issue of Declarer, New Jersey Bridge Unit 140.) By the way, if you would like to play a little duplicate bridge and learn more about the subject, the Monday game is usually best for less experienced players. The less experienced players would be competing against players of a similar level of expertise. Assistance is available for the asking. If any player, a Bridge Club member or not, who has any bridge questions please contact the writer of this letter at cpaavb@aol.com or 609-8606346. Below is a review of the October Monday and Thursday bridge games combined. Scoring will not appear again until the spring since there are no regular duplicate bridge games at GW until then. Monday and Thursday Games on October 6, 9, 13, 20, 27. Marilyn Askin 101 Natalie Cancel 001 Cheryl Davis 010 Anthony Dippolito 001 Inge Dippolito 001 Elaine Egers 300 Daniel Engel 111 Renata Gervis 011 Doris Frisch 101 Roseanne Goodstein 001 Ronnie Greenhouse 211 Selma Herzog 100 John Ievers 010 Manny Jarvis 101 Ed Kantner 111 Dorothy Kreitaberg 101 Richard Lazar 110 Robert Leavitt 001 Ruth Marcus 100 Lila Pollinger 211 Barry Salka 011 Eileen Salka 011 Elaine Singer 010 Myron Stein 010 Joe Tauber 011 Kurt Weiss 010. GW “Connections” By Dorothy Thompson We hope everyone had a wonderfully filling Thanksgiving. At GW we have much to be thankful for. With our many organizations, there is something for each of us to be active in. Some of the charities that we are involved in are the Women Aware Shelter, HomeFront and the Monroe Twp. Food Pantry. We assisted at the Senior Center the day before Thanksgiving helping them set up for the following day’s turkey dinner.. The Senior Center had Thanksgiving again this year for those seniors who would have been celebrating alone. We donated $100 to this worthy cause. Our “Connections” ladies have been very busy planning for 2015. Take out your 2015 calendar, I know you probably received a few in the mail by now, and start marking down some important dates. December 9, we will go to Atlantic City to the Trop for a show, money to get you started, and dinner at Carmine’s. The cost is $59 and you can call Carol Essner at 655-0304 to see if there is still room. When trips fill up, we always receive a cancellation close to the date of the trip. On May 4, 2015, we will have our installation followed by a musical treat, “The Watering Can Band”. Our own Eddie Thompson is part of this musical group which sings songs from the 40’s to 60’s. This evening will be held at 7 pm in our Ballroom. On May 13, we will be going to Staten Island to visit the New York Chinese Scholar’s Gardens, located in the Snug Harbor Cultural Center and then go to the Alice Austen House. Alice Austen, a 19th century photographer was ahead of her time. Lunch will be at the Da Noi Restaurant, an Italian restaurant listed in Zagat. This trip is limited to 49 people. Checks will be accepted April 15 and the cost is $49 for this wonderful day. On June 18, we will go to Knob Hill for our Book and Author Luncheon. The book is entitled Henna House by Nomi Eve. In this book the author paints a picture of Yemenite Jewry during the 20th century. Evocative and enthralling...a tale and traits of a young woman...her family, her community and the rituals (henna) that bind them. She also wrote The Family Orchard, a Book of the Month Club selection which was nominated for a National Jewish Book Award. Seating will be limited and we urge you to place your check for $42 after May 7. On July 16, we will go to the Seeing Eye Institute in Morristown and we will learn the history of guide dog training and have an opportunity to meet a guide dog trainer and someone who has been paired with a dog. We will then have a repeat visit to the Cozy Cupboard Tea Room, a venue we visited last year. Checks for $62 will be accepted after June 4. Check the rounders in the back hall opposite the pool for flyers and additional information about “Connections”. Our Study Groups continue to have some openings, please call Barbara Fineman at 395-8038 or Annette Roth at 655-9088. The groups are as follows: Book Study - Barbara Fineman, The Classics Phyllis Daybock, It’s Debatable - Harriet Bachman, Movie Group - Arlene Lazar, Play Reading - Marcia Lambek, Provocative Thinking - Rita Modell, Short Stories - Juliet Klein. Do you have another idea for a group? Please call Barbara or Annette. Don’t forget that we accept in-season clothing. Call Marilyn Steiner - 860-6494 - at 10 Umberland Place or Doris Becker - 395-8018 - at 12 Severn Way. Please call them to let them know you are dropping off bags of clothing. We also accept cosmetic samples and the samples you receive at hotels and on a cruise. We can send a greeting card through “Connections” for $2.50. Just call Dorothy Thompson - 869-2664 and she can send a card for you. Now, how easy is that. $1 of every card sent goes directly into our Charitable Giving Fund. GW Friends By Len Greenberg December is normally a busy month with important holidays and people leaving for vacations and winter getaways. If the Ebola police haven’t gotten you perhaps you’d like to get out to one of our interesting group meetings. There will not be a general membership meeting in December because of the closeness of Christmas. We would like to extend to all our members a happy holiday season and a safe and healthy New Year. Please check out our event schedule for the month of December. I would like to add that we are looking for some of our new members to become active in our quickly growing organization. If you have any organizational background or have fresh ideas we would like to hear from you. Just contact one of our officers listed below: President: Bob Blum 4096705, Vice President: Bob Berkowitz 395-7043, Treasurer; Marv Bachman 4095464, Secretary: Gene Ross 395- 9311, Corresponding Secretary: 409-1663. Events Schedule: Monday, December 1: Mem(Continued on page 14) Wishing all my friends at Greenbriar-Whittingham a Happy and Healthy Holiday Season! DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 14 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE GW Friends (Continued from page 13) bership Breakfast. We gather in the Tap Room at 9 am for a friendly breakfast. For just $8 p.p. you can choose from the Tap Room’s breakfast menu and have a chance to make new friends. We have a lot of fun. Call Howie Katz for a reservation. 409-8606. Monday, December 1: Movie Group. Once a month, Bob Modell leads this popular group in a discussion of the latest movies. They get together at 4 pm in the Towne Centre. Call Bob and let him know you are coming. 3958575 Wednesday, December 3: Pool & Billiards Club. If you love the game or have always wanted to learn call Norm Goodman and let him know you want to participate. We get together for Pizza and at 2 pm for pool or billiards, always a welcoming group. Norm can be reached at 395-8998 Tuesday, December 9: Finance and Investing Group. Our resident financial guru, Irwin Kaplan leads the discussion on new ideas in the field of finance. There is always some new ideas. The group meets at 7:30 pm in the Towne Centre. Do your own homework and make up your own mind. Call Irwin and let him know you are coming. 860 -9582 Monday, December 15: Music Group. Dave Lasser heads up this group of music lovers. They meet at 7:30 pm in the Towne Centre for a new presentation each month. At each meeting a member of the group gives a presentation of his choice. Anything from Bach to Boogey and the Beatles is welcome. This month we will hear from Norm Katz who will present Sir James Galway, worldrenowned flutist. Call Dave and let him know you are coming. 409-7667 Tuesday, December 16: Lunch with Friends. We meet, in the Tap Room, for a casual lunch at 1 pm. Gregg has worked up a special menu for us. For just $10 you can choose from an assortment of sandwiches and salads. Seating is limited, so call Howie Katz at 409-8606 and let him know you are coming. Monday, December 22: Book Group. Normally meets every fourth Monday at 4 pm, in the Towne Centre. If you love to discuss books, new and old, this group is for you. Call Marv Bachman and see how you can get involved. Membership Meeting and Speakers Program: Due to the proximity of Christmas to our usual fourth Monday meeting night, there will be no membership meeting this month. Attention all Snow Birds! Keep your eyes and ears open for upcoming South Florida events sponsored by your GW Friends. Italian American Sr. Cultural Club By Rose Corso It’s December 2014 and the Italian American Sr. Cultural Club celebrated as it usually does, a night full of joyful music and excellent food to welcome the approach of a New Year. Point of Interest: Don Aida Brunacci, canon of the Cathedral of San Rufino in Assisi, Italy passed away in February 2014. Don Aida assisted in the rescue of more than 200 Jewish refugees during WWII. With the help of other clerics, he arranged the printing of false documents for the Jews, allowing them to obtain official stamps to aid in their escape. Don Aida put his life on the line when he lodged Jewish families in his own residence. On May 15, 1944, the Nazis arrested and transported him to a concentration camp, but never discovered the family in hiding. The Allies freed Don Aida and other prisoners on June 4 when they entered Rome. In March 2004, St. Bonaventure honored Don Aida with its first National Gaudete Medal during a special program at the Holocaust Memorial Museum in Washington, D.C. The State of Israel awarded Don Aida the Medal of the Righteous Gentile for his efforts. Currently on display at The Regina A. Quick Center for the Arts is an exhibition of Don Aida’s story, Memoria: Assisi and the Jews, 1943 1944. (Information for the article thanks to Bert Herling.) Dates to remember: NO MEETING in December - remember December 11, the Christmas Gala. (Don’t forget this one!) Ciao a tutti. ORT America By Nancy Feuerstein ORT America is doing more than simply speaking to our supporters; we are listening and sharing. How are we doing this? ORT is on Facebook. For several years we have been sharing all of our biggest stories from around the globe, including pictures from our chapters, testimonials from students and illustrated news items. ORT is on Flickr. Our Flickr page has an in-depth view of ORT’s work at home and abroad. ORT is on Youtube where you can listen to students give their first-hand testimony about the differences that an ORT education can make, or hear from teachers working in ORT schools. We support ORT’s important work here at GW by participating in the many entertaining and informative events. On Tuesday, October 7 we spent a very memorable afternoon at the East Brunswick Chateau for a special Region Event. After a delicious luncheon, we learned about the “Monuments Men” from Harry Ettlinger, one of the few remaining survivors of this historic group. Harry’s platoon went into Germany to rescue artistic masterpieces stolen by the Nazis and returned them to their rightful owners. We thank Roz Scheidt for planning this informative and enjoyable event. On October 15, a group of us shared an Ethnic Luncheon at a Greek restaurant in Highland Park where we learned about the history of the Jews in Greece from our own Muriel Hertan. We were “taken on a tour” of Greek historical sites by a very knowledgeable travel agent. The meal was delicious and we thank Muriel, Barbara Fidler and Ann Gold for arranging this Greek experience. Our ever-popular card party took place in the ballroom on October 22, catered by Lox, Stock & Deli. We enjoyed games of canasta, mahjongg and pan with our friends. As always, we thank Muriel Ziegelheim and Janice Demby for their hard work in making our card parties so successful. Many of us gathered at the Senior Center on Wednesday, October 29 for a very informative and interesting meeting. Elaine Jacoby, Rutgers professor, attorney and lecturer at the Evergreen Forum spoke to us about women in politics. She related the past history of women who entered this field, the problems women face in running for office and the women serving today or campaigning. Thank you to Alyce Goldberg and Lynda Radowitz for inviting Ms. Jacoby as our guest speaker. On December 17 everyone is invited to join us for our annual holiday party at 7 pm at the Senior Center. We always enjoy participating in the auction, so please bring a wrapped gift of a minimum value of $5, with a little poem or clue about the item. There will be an installation of our new officers for 2015 and refreshments will be served. If you need a ride, call Ann Gold at 409-0668 as car pools are available. We have many exciting events planned for the coming year, so save these dates and watch for further details. March 25 – Card Party April 13 – Book and Author Luncheon at Battleground Country Club. The author, Boris Fishman will tell us about his book, “A Replacement Life”, which was published by Harper Collins in June, 2014. His novel is a “Barnes & Noble Discover Great New Writers” pick. It is a “provocative, soul(Continued on page 15) GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE ORT America (Continued from page 14) ful and sometimes hilarious story of a failed journalist asked to do the unthinkable: forge Holocaust restitution claims for old Russian Jews in Brooklyn.” It received RAVE reviews! The cost will be $48 and everyone is welcome. Contact Roz at 409-9097 or Alyce at 409-9545. May 13 – Media, Pa. – “Hello, Dolly” June 1 – Mercer Symphonic Band Aug. 12 – Game Day On-going: Bowling – Beverly 409-7993; Tribute Cards – Rita 395-8993; Unwanted cell phones – Kay 409-0955; Gift cards for Shoprite and Stop & Shop – Miriam 409-9160. All our best wishes for a peaceful and joyful holiday season! The Martin Salmanowitz Senior Social Club By Paul Bresalier We hope that everyone had a happy Thanksgiving and that you were able to spend it with your family and friends. This month marks the arrival of Hanukkah, Christmas, and New Year’s Eve. Happy Holidays to all. Our show on October 16 featured an encore performance by the great singer, Darren Williams. Darren’s new show “Broadway Blockbusters” was a big hit. Once again we had a sold out event and all 265 people went home happy. We thank our loyal members for their continued support. Bingo Our club sponsors and conducts an evening of Bingo on the second Friday of each month with doors opening at 7 pm. The next Bingo is scheduled for December 12. Events Calendar December 6 – Saturday – Annual Holiday Dinner and Show featuring Doug Ferony and his six-member band. The band will play for dancing prior to the show, which is called “America’s Greatest Songs”. 6:30 pm. Ballroom. Family style dinner catered by Jacques includes salad, short ribs of beef, chicken marsala, baked ziti, vegetables, cake, coffee, and soda. $28 pp members, $31 pp non-resident guests. 2015 January 8 – Thursday – New Year’s Brunch featuring comedian Stewie Stone. 1 pm. Ballroom. Brunch will be catered by the Bagel Bazaar and features pancakes, French toast, scrambled eggs, home fries, bacon, sausages, bagels, rolls, muffins, assorted salads, coffee, and a lot more. $17 pp members, $19 pp guests. February 19 – Thursday – Luncheon show, “From Puccini to Broadway” featuring soprano Michele Sexton. 12:30 pm. Ballroom. Lunch catered by the Tap Room Café includes salad, tilapia, meatballs, ziti, mixed vegetables, cake, coffee, soda. $17 pp members, $19 pp non-resident guests. Speakers Program - Programs start at 2:30 pm. All members are invited. December 11 – John Frank, Princeton Healthcare System, will speak about Balance. December 18 – Margaret Andreko, AARP, will speak on Driving Wellness and Safe Driving Yiddish Club By Donna Steif Our guest on Sunday, November 2 was Rabbi Sally Priesand, the first woman in the United States to be ordained a rabbi. She faced many challenges on her way to acceptance as she struggled to carve a place for herself - and for all women. Her early dream of becoming a congregational rabbi was fulfilled in 1972 when she was ordained by the Reform movement, the first woman rabbi in America. This fulfilled Preisand’s mandate of religious egalitarianism and her goal of inclusiveness. Her thoughtful presentation was a wonderful learning experience for all in attendance. Renewal of membership: dues of $10 per person must be paid by the January break- fast. Place your check in Lockbox #6 in a separate envelope marked “DUES”. Please note that unless otherwise specified, programs take place the first Sunday of every month at 10:15 a.m. Bagels, cream cheese and coffee are served. For those who prefer, tea is also available. Charge is $6 per person unless otherwise indicated. Future Programs: Our Annual Chanukah Party will be held on Sunday, December 7. Nova, whitefish, tuna and egg salads with a variety of cream cheeses and bagels will be served. There will be desserts as well as traditional round jelly donuts (sufganiyot) popular in Israel during Chanukah. Shlomo Haviv will provide music and song in his own exciting fashion. Cost is $20 per person. 2015 Programs: On January 4, 2015, the Yiddish Club presents Martin Schneit, noted lecturer, New York tour guide and historian. His subject will be “A Virtual Tour of Jewish Harlem.” Did (Continued on page 16) DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 15 DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 16 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Yiddish Club (Continued from page 15) MANAGEMENT BUSINESS HOURS The Management Offices (on the second floor of the Towne Centre) are available weekdays only during the hours of 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. During lunch, the office will be closed from 12:30 p.m. to 1 p.m. At all other times, please see the Concierge. We thank you in advance for your cooperation. WHOA Board of Trustees you know that at one time Harlem was the third largest Jewish settlement in the world? Discover the celebrities who resided there. Plan to attend. February and March breakfasts will be devoted to authors and their books. February 1, THE WORD MAVENS, Joyce Eisenberg and Ellen Scolnic, co-authors of Dictionary of Jewish Words, a user-friendly guide of more than 1,200 Hebrew, Yiddish and English words which are part of our conversation sometimes unbeknownst to us, will provide a fun-filled morning! March 1, we welcome acclaimed author Gloria Goldreich whom we have hosted several times. The Yiddish Club is proud to announce that her newest book, The Bridal Chair, a story of Marc Chagall’s daughter, is making its debut at our breakfast where it will be available for purchase and booksigning. As always, we look forward to Ms. Goldreich’s enlightening discussion. Special Event LIFE IN THE FOREIGN SERVICE: On Wednesday, February 4, from 10 - 11:30 am, Sheila Kurtzer will talk about her life and experiences in Egypt as the wife of Ambassador Daniel Kurtzer. This program will take place in the back multi-purpose room and is limited to 50 people. Reservations a must! Call Zeena Kelberg at 409-0472. No charge! Only Yiddish Club members may attend! 2015 Trips Note: Only Yiddish Club members may join our trips. Wait list only: Our Annual NJPAC trip will take place on Friday, February 27. A light breakfast will be served followed by a dress rehearsal of the NJ Symphony Orchestra which will include pieces by Mozart and Mendelssohn. Afterwards, lunch will be at Tony Da Caneca’s Restaurant, always delicious and enjoyable. Bus departs at 7:30 am from GW Parking lot. Place flyer from the rounder and check for $70 per person in an envelope marked NJSO and deposit into Lockbox #6. Wait list only: On Tuesday, March 31, the Super Gala Kick -Off of the Centennial Year of the Folksbiene National Yiddish Theatre will be held in Carnegie Hall. The program starring Itzhak Perlman in the Fiddller’s House and Klezmer musicians from around the Globe will begin at 7:30 pm. Tickets are $80 per person including door-to-door bus service. Departure is at 4:30 pm from GW Parking Lot. Plan a late lunch at home and bring a snack. On Tuesday, April 21, there will be a trip to Philadelphia to visit the Archaeology and Anthropology Museum as well as a guided tour of the Israeli Artifacts Gallery all on the extensive grounds of the University of Pennsylvania. Afterwards there will be time to further explore the area. Cost is $35 per person. Lunch is on your own at the Museum Cafe. Call Zeena at 409-0472 with any questions Multi-Media Center: The first Sunday of every month the Multi-Media Center is open before 10:15 am to allow Yiddish Club members ONLY to browse through the selection of books, DVD’s and Video Cassettes. Anything borrowed must be returned by the following meeting. For an annotated bibliography, e-mail Librarian Natasha Rosenbaum at softefive@aol.com. Yiddish Vinkle: Join the women and men at the Yiddish Vinkle the third Wednesday of every month from 10 am to 11:30 am in the Clubhouse. Even if you know or understand only a little Yiddish, you will be warmly welcomed. Try it, you might like it! Remember, you MUST be a member of the Yiddish Club. SOMETHING NEW AND EXCITING! There is serious thought being given to forming a Club choir. If you are interested in singing with others who feel as you do, please contact Eddie Thompson at 860-2664. Talented Harriet Bachman has graciously offered to be the piano accompanist. Please join us at our monthly Sunday breakfasts as well as our interesting trips - it would be our pleasure to greet you! Words, Images, Numbers – Truth or Consequences By Ruth Banks with Alex Banks Invited to speak at GW by three of the community’s active groups: Hadassah, the Yiddish Club and the GW Chapter of the Jewish Federation of Middlesex County, Aryeh Green, director of MediaCentral, pointed out that “it was fitting that he speak on this particular day, the 76th anniversary of Kristallnacht, a turning point in RAISING AWARENESS OF MEDIA the world’s acceptance of BIAS...Coming directly from his flight the Nazi ideology.” “The from Israel, Aryeh Green, Director of world,” he elaborated, “did MediaCentral, takes a few minutes to not recognize nor respond catch his breath before addressing a to their rather nonchalant gathering at GW of members from acceptance of a hateful the Yiddish Club, GW chapter of the ideology applied not just to Jewish Federation of Middlesex Jews but to all who were County, and Hadassah, as well as not Nazis.” He compared it other interested residents. to the current issue of ISIS and how quickly it was terms that convey a comable to expand while most of pletely different public image. the world looked on nonchaHe was critical of images, lantly at the growing radicalism words and numbers which of this Islamic movement. don’t reveal the true complexMediaCentral is a non-profit ity and meaning of an event. independent media liaison or“Without context, the news is ganization which provides serincomplete.” Helping journalvices and social interaction to ists to use more accurate lanthe more than 450 foreign corguage in describing events respondents registered with enables them to give more the Israel Government Press complete information on hosOffice. In an effort to help protilities and leads to a greater fessional journalists report understanding by the public. news accurately and in conNewspaper/media reporting text, the MediaCentral staff which uses objective terminoltakes journalists on tours to ogy in context impacts readers the places making news, promore positively. vides them with professional During the Q & A portion, and accurate sources, proffers one question referred to the the legal, historical and relibias still displayed by certain gious complexities of situamedia, and what could the ortions that may involve not just dinary citizen do about it. Mr. the current conflicts but also Green’s response was that the political, economic and ecopublic needs to react to the logical issues such as water. inaccurate terminology. Letters No government is perfect to the newspaper or TV media and MediaCentral wants to be to the effect that accuracy in sure that reporting of opinion reporting is important would is accurate and in context. “I help. He used the recent imhave observed,” Mr. Green age of the car attack in the noted, “an incredible hostility Jerusalem train station to illusto Israel and Jews around the trate the point. In the afterworld which permeates society math, the headline in various at all levels.” This bias extends newspapers was that a Palesto the media coverage of tinian was killed by the police. events in Israel, which is why True. But what about the IsMediaCentral was organized. raelis who were killed? The “The media affects the public image implies that we should discourse – church leaders, be sympathetic to the Palestinstudents, academics, policy ian driver; should we disregard makers, are all affected by the the civilian who died? Another distortion of truth, by the use image he brought up was of a of images, words and numbers woman in Gaza looking at a that often ignore context and pile of rubble which was present inaccurate and often claimed to be her home. What simplistic views of complex the caption did not say was events.” that the building housed a He emphasized the role of Hamas command post and terminology in shaping the tunnel. The viewer of course public discourse. For example, sympathizes with the disa news report may label sometraught woman, the corollary one an “agitator,” which conbeing antipathy towards Israel. veys a particular meaning, The rise in strength of radiwhile in fact the person could (Continued on page 17) be an “advocate or activist,” GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 17 Your Mental Time Machine By Arnold Bornstein You don’t need a science fiction time machine to convey you to your past. Your memory will do it, of course. However, conveying yourself to your future would require more than daydreaming. So let’s stay with the past, for the time being. My machine goes way back to Geisinger Hospital, just outside a small, former coalmining town in Pennsylvania called Shamokin. Obviously, I have no memory of being born there, but shortly after moving to GW, our best friend’s son became a critical care doctor at that hospital. Is that ironic? We still live here, as do our best friends, whose son, the doctor, still lives on Long Island in New York. And now that Thanksgiving has come and gone, a substantial percentage of our residents, also known as snowbirds, have flown to Florida — although I know a few of them took a slow drive down. Ed, our son’s father-in-law, and his wife also live in our community — and they are snowbirds. Ed, who was a chemist and was involved with pharmacies, told me his body can no longer take the winters up here. His feelings apparently are shared by many. They prefer Florida’s weather to the cold and snow and ice. I certainly understand that, but would add that snowfalls are truly beautiful. We also enjoy living near our son and daughter and grandchildren all year-round. Finances can also be a factor in determining whether you can maintain two homes. In my case, however, I would have preferred San Diego in California, where the weather generally stays the same all year-round — neither too hot nor too cold. I once received an offer to work at the newspaper, then called The San Diego Evening Tribune, but it involved the night shift, and right or wrong, I decided not to take it. Staying in New Jersey during the winter, my wife and I always seem to plan certain projects, but somehow we don’t get to all of them. While many think it’s terrible when it snows, we still enjoy looking out the window at nature’s beauty. Our community gets cleared out very fast, so there is no shoveling involved — nor do we have to be concerned about lawn-mowing during the spring, summer and fall. Our homeowner associations handle all that. We like the four seasons, including the transition from Words, Images (Continued from page 16) cal Islam throughout the Arab world, the intensity of hate fomented by ISIS and Hamas, pose a threat to Western civilization. He opined that the real problem is that the Western world apparently does not recognize the full severity of this threat: “ISIS is Hamas,” he declared. “We must recognize also that there are some moderates. History records that people will rise up and resist tyranny, and we need to be willing and available to support that uprising when it occurs.” renewal in the spring, to being outdoors in the summer, to the beauty of autumn, to winter and the holidays, and back to renewal in the spring. As a young boy, when it snowed, I remember my mother, as well as my older sister and her husband — when I lived with them — used to bundle me up in a snowsuit, a pull-down hat and gloves. And they would put galoshes on me. When was the last time you heard that word — galoshes — for boots? My winters as a boy in Shamokin and in New York bring back many memories. In fact, the weather and the four seasons often seems intertwined with memories of your life. In our living room, I have a framed photo of me when I was about five years old, sitting in a chair on a porch, with my father standing behind me, in what seems to be the summer. I’m wearing shorts and he is wearing a short-sleeve shirt. I also have a picture of him as a young man, holding up a woman’s shoe, at the shoe store he owned in that coal-mining town called Shamokin. A few years after the porch photo, my father developed Lou Gehrig’s disease. My two considerably older brothers, who used to work in the shoe store part-time, sold the store and we all moved to New York to be close to my mother’s family — except for my sister and brother-in-law, who stayed in Shamokin, where he owned a business. My father’s illness became very severe, and his vocal cords also were paralyzed. We couldn’t communicate verbally, but I remember when walking home from elementary school in the spring, I would hug him when he was sitting on the porch. As he grew worse, with extreme suffering, my family decided to have me live with my sister and brother-in-law in Shamokin. He died when I was 10 years old. At the time, I didn’t fully comprehend the funeral and the burial, but growing up I always remembered how much he loved me and how he constantly told my family to take care of me. My oldest brother, George, took over the job of raising me — except when he served in the Army during World War II. And after the war, he picked up where he left off He instilled in me values and goals that are still with me. I would think that nearly all of us have experienced the agony of premature deaths in the family, among loved ones, and friends. In the Navy during the Korean War, I experienced an incident in which I thought I had 30 seconds to live. I survived, and that incident coupled with my brother George’s guidance has helped me to always try to live fully and to count my blessings. In high school, I developed acne and a shy personality. With a nearby friend, we used to walk to high school, even in the snow, rather than take the school bus, where I felt out of place. I eventually matured, and it was followed by marriage, children, grandchildren, a good career, and retirement — which gave us the gift of time, to do things which we previously may have overlooked. Regardless of the seasons or the weather, take good care and enjoy your gift of time! Have I Told You Lately? By Juliet P. Klein The lovely invitation came the old fashioned way…by postal mail…from a devoted widower. A request to join a celebration of the life of his dearly loved wife by breaking bread and by sharing good memories. This was to be my first experience attending such an event and I really wasn’t sure what to expect. Many who attended, knowing each other, chatted each other up before the ceremony began. After welcoming everyone, the host asked us to share memories of the love of his life. It became apparent as one after another spoke that some knew her quite well and others not so much…but overall the memories were of how she had touched their lives in so many different ways since she was quite knowledgeable and willing to share her insights into cabbages and kings and particularly of the arts. As I listened I began to muse….how many of us through the years had expressed… perhaps by a few words to her, now and then, just how much she had enriched our lives. It seems to me it’s not something we usually give a thought to. We’re too pressed with trying to fill every moment fearing something of great impor- tance will escape us, particularly in today’s technological environment of minimum conversation. And should we dare to attempt a conversation, sadly, the ancient art of giving each other the courtesy of listening without interrupting the speaker has, alas, gone the way of the dodo bird. Now if one starts to relate an experience or idea, before the fourth word of the sentence is uttered, the ‘listener” or “listeners” override the speaker and immediately interject some bits of their own…which they obviously think are so much more important than what the speaker has to say. Thus, in the final analysis, the speaker never gets her or his thoughts fully expressed and after parting the listeners would be hard pressed to remember what the speaker wanted to say. This brings me to the following questions; just how many of us take the time to sincerely say to one another, whether relative, friend or a passing acquaintance… Great talking to you…or… Thanks for listening…or… Thanks for taking the time to share your insights…or perhaps just…I appreciate knowing you????? And what would one say in response…My pleasure to know I’ve helped…or... Happy (Continued on page 18) FOR ADVERTISING CALL: Princeton Editorial Services 732-761-8534 or 8535 pescmd@aol.com DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 18 Have I Told You Lately? (Continued from page 17) to have been able to share… probably not…I would surmise it would be just a simple... thank you. So, in closing, to you, my dear readers, some of you who I know, and who have given me the greatest joy when I encounter you and you take the time to say…in so many words.,. how much pleasure it gives you to read my pieces…let me say to one and all that I cannot thank you enough for making my life more meaningful by your thoughtfulness and from the depths of my heart, my sincerest wishes that you, too, may be blessed with knowing those around you are grateful to you for being who you are. GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE A Multicultural Wedding By Dawn Horowitz A multicultural wedding is a unique event and a welcome opportunity to learn about the traditions of another family group. Therefore, last summer my husband Paul and I were delighted to receive an invitation to the marriage of our grandnephew Jacob (Jake) to his fiancée Eleora Tai. The ceremony was planned to follow the customary Jewish religious wedding rituals with the introduction of Chinese influences as well. Jake, born in Australia, grew up in Shanghai, China and Eleora was born and schooled in Singapore. They met at college in Melbourne, Australia and announced their engagement in Syracuse, New York, home of Jake’s grandparents, Sheva and Jordy. (Sheva is Paul’s sister.) We had expected that they would wed in Singapore, home of the bride, and were very surprised when the couple announced they would be married in Syracuse because Jake’s grandparents were unable to travel to Asia. The wedding ceremony was scheduled for late afternoon in Thompson Park, Syracuse. The couple, escorted by their parents and attendants, walked down an aisle set up in a beautifully landscaped section of the park. At the start of the service, Eleora’s father told the story of his early emotional relationship with his daughter as a typical Chinese fairy tale. He described her childhood years, her capabilities and their close family attachment. He said he was very proud of his daughter and her academic achievement in becoming a physician plus a caring adult. It was a pleasure to see the same expressions of love on the parents as they watched their children wed. Three steps up from the lower seating area was a grassy balcony where a chuppah (an open canopy) was awaiting the bridal party. Both Jake and Eleora circled each other as they entered the chuppah, a departure from the original Jewish custom of the bride circling the groom seven times. (At this point, they were changing the old rules to fit their idea of modern marriage.) Rabbi Cassi Kail chanted the required seven blessings and we all cheered as Jake broke the glass at the conclusion of the ceremony. At a table nearby a Ketuba, an illustrated marriage contract, was displayed for guests to examine. Also, in back of the guest seats, Ally Quinola cereal bars, chocolate and mango flavor, manufactured in Singapore in a factory owned by Eleora’s parents, and bottles of water were set up for visitors to nibble on during the event. At ten o’clock in the morning before the religious rites, as honored revered ancestors, Paul and I were invited to a Chinese Tea Ceremony. This activity was hosted by the bride’s grandmother. For me, it was a new experience. Fortunately, we were instructed by Anne, Jake’s mother plus our Chinese friends, about the proper behavior of elder ancestors at a Tea Ceremony. We watched as the Bride and Groom knelt on separate cushions in front of: first, Jake’s grandparents, and next his parents, Anne and Dan. Each one was served a thimble-sized cup of tea and at the same time, the parents and children exchanged wishes for all to participate in many other happy occasions together. Then it was our turn. We greeted the couple with thanks for inviting us and said we hoped to enjoy other celebrations with them. Also we said we hoped they would produce many descendants for our family. (Eleora later said that every guest present expressed an interest in their possible future clan production contribution.) And as is customary, we placed a red envelope, specially decorated with Chinese calligraphy, and filled with small gift coins, on the tea tray as we left. Another individual departure from a conventional marriage procedure occurred during the reception when the guest tables were named for various important moments in the couples’ courtship. For example: my children were seated at a table named “Crabby Island” where their first argument took place. These stories produced much laughter and memories. I loved hearing about all their special moments. Listening to the newlyweds, I was reminded about our experiences when Paul and I were first developing our relationship. The nicest aspect of this wedding was the fact that the guests came from many countries to celebrate the joyous occasion. It was also a time for families to reunite after time spent apart. Participants came from Shanghai, Singapore, Melbourne, Buenos Aires, China as well as Ohio, Illinois, Indiana, New York, New Jersey, Maryland, California and Washington D.C. It was truly an international crowd. I found that it was fun to mix and meet different people and loved being able to share this event with so many others from far-off places. We were all thrilled to gather to honor Jake and Eleora and enjoy a wonderful weekend together. “A Year of Unknown Tomorrows” By Ben Baum The mystery of what the future holds, The surprises inherent in living, The wonderment of the unexplainable, Even the mundane can be joyous, Tomorrow is upon us. New experiences, Reveling in the old, Touching others, Trying to implement resolutions, Tomorrow is potential. What will happen during the 365 tomorrows? Will we be happy or sad? Will we be well or ill? Will we be successful or will we fail? Tomorrow is unknown. Unknown but filled with hope, A New Year that spells possibility, A New Year that provides promise, Tomorrow can be exciting, The door opens to tomorrow. BUS PICK-UP SCHEDULE VILLAGES WILL ALTERNATE EACH MONTH GREENBRIAR: JUNE AUGUST OCTOBER DECEMBER FEBRUARY APRIL WHITTINGHAM: JULY SEPTEMBER NOVEMBER JANUARY MARCH MAY BUS PICK UP TIMES 1ST VILLAGE 9:00 AM TO 9:20 AM 2ND VILLAGE 9:20 AM TO 9:40 AM BUS LEAVES GREENBRIAR @ WHITTINGHAM PARKING LOT @ 8:55 AM PROMPTLY! DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 19 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Membership Information Being a registered member of the Office/Center is free and available to Monroe Township residents, 55 years of age or older. The Senior Focus is distributed around the 15th of the previous month and at that time, members can register/ sign-up for the special monthly activities. Advance registration is recommended to ensure easy admission into a program. Registration is also available on the same day of an event from 9 to 11:30 a.m. Members are encouraged to see if there are openings for a particular activity up to two days in advance and on the program day. For members unable to attend a registered program, a cancellation phone call is appreciated. For more information, visit the Senior Center at 12 Halsey Reed Road to pick up a calendar of events or visit www.monroetwp.com, and look for the “Office of Senior Services” link under “Departments.” Get Your Game On! On select days and times, bring friends and play your game of choice on Monday and Wednesday afternoons from 1 to 4 p.m. and on Tuesday and Friday mornings from 9 to noon. Cribbage (for new and seasoned) players meet on the 2nd and 4th Wednesday. (Some days are shared with classes.) Wild Rose Performs On Tuesday, December 2, at 1:30 p.m., join the Wild Rose Band for a magical holiday show covering all the yuletide favorites. This magical and musical journey of singing and dancing fun is sponsored by The Gardens at Monroe. Light refreshments, too! Please be sure to register in advance. Mixed Watercolor Studio Starting on Thursday, December 4, at 12:30 p.m., join Jeremy Taylor, regionally known watercolorist for this 5session watercolor class that incorporates acrylics and guache. (Dec. 4, 11, 18, and Jan. 8, 15). Course fee: $50, due upon registering inperson. Space limited. Supply list available upon request. (Feel free to bring a brown bag lunch and a bottled water to class.) Strategies for Beating the Blues On Thursday, December 4, at 1:30 p.m., join Jamie Winters, LCSW, Senior Primary Therapist, Senior Link Program, for an uplifting program on recognizing the signs of depression and learning ways to cope in a healthier way. Please register in advance. Bagels Plus Holiday De-Stressing On Friday, December 5, at 10 a.m., join Sheli Monacchio, from Senior Bridge, and Linda Mundie, from The Gardens at Monroe, for bagels and a discussion on how the holidays bring challenging situations and new levels of stress. Find out how to manage your stress before it escalates. Please register in advance. Wii Play On Friday afternoons, from 1 to 4 pm, stop by the Senior Center and get your Wii game on! Our interactive video gaming system will be available for your enjoyment. Participants MUST be familiar with the Wii system. Interested? Please sign-out a Wii remote control at the front desk, on a first come, first served basis. (1 hour max. time.) The Great Cookie Swap On Tuesday, December 9, from 1 to 3 p.m., join us for a tasty and fun afternoon. B.B.Y.L and bring in your favorite batch of cookies (and its recipe!) to share. Beverages and other treats included! The Holiday Baking DVD, featuring ideas from Martha Stewart, will be viewed. Remember: your admission is a baked treat to share as well as your admission ticket. $1 preregistration fee is due upon signing up for this event before December 4th. Absolute Dance: Winter Wonderful Recital On Wednesday, December 10, at 7 p.m., enjoy the Absolute Dance Center Dancers of Monroe Township, as they kick off the holiday season and spread some holiday cheer. These talented dancers, ranging in age from 6 to 16, have been trained in ballet, jazz, and lyrical. After the show, enjoy assorted baked goodies and beverages. Please obtain a free admission ticket at the front desk before Monday, December 8…while supplies last. Holiday Survival Plan On Thursday, December 11, at 1:30 p.m., the last topic of the Healthy Heart Club series focuses on “Surviving the Holidays”. Chris Socha, RPh, MBA, from Texas Road Pharmacy, helps you set healthy goals for next year and discusses ways to make healthier choices during the holiday season. Please register in advance. Art of the Masters: Toulouse -Lautrec On Friday, December 12, at 2 p.m., Christina, from Creative Notions, discusses the career and life of Henri de Toulouse-Lautrec. After the lecture, you will put your print making skills to the test to create a personal masterpiece in the artist’s style. Lecture only? Sign up over the phone. Project? Please register in-person to get a coupon while they last. To Sleep, Perchance On Monday, December 15, at 1:30 p.m., Dr. Alexandria Reilly, from CentraState, explores the signs and symptoms of sleep disorders as well as strategies to promote improved sleep. Please register in advance. Silent Meditation On Tuesday, December 16, at 10 a.m., join Judy Kalman for a silent session of total relaxation. Space limited. HAPPY HANUKKAH! (First Night: December 16) Michael & Ted Present: Sondheim On Tuesday, December 16, at 2 p.m., Michael and Ted, our friends from WWFM’S “The Classical Network”, look at the life and career of Stephen Sondheim, best known for his work on Broadway. However, his music reached films like REDS, and the television musical, EVENING PRIMROSE. Please register in advance. Caregivers Support for Alzheimer’s On Wednesday, December 17, at 2 p.m., please note that the Caregivers Support Group for Alzheimer’s will meet on this day and not on December 24. Jewbadors’ Holiday Celebration On Thursday, December 18, at 1:30 p.m., the Jewbadors return to celebrate the Festival of Lights with a new fun-filled show featuring acting and singing. This group of 8 players will invoke the light and warmth of Hanukkah and the holiday season. Please register in advance. Pizza Plus Movie On Friday, December 19, at 12:30 p.m., enjoy a slice or two with friends (as well as a beverage and dessert) along with the featured film, “Heaven Is For Real” (starring Greg Kinnear). Tickets: $6 p.p., due upon registering in-person, in advance. Great River Cruises On Monday, December 22, and Tuesday, December 23, both at 1:30 p.m., take an armchair cruise along the rivers of Europe during this QUESTAR DVD presentation of “Burt Wolf: Travel & Traditions.” On Monday, cruise along the Rhine, the Danube and Provence. On Tuesday, catch the Eiffel tower and then travel through Belgium and the Netherlands. When registering in advance, please note each program date separately. MERRY CHRISTMAS! Office is Closed on December 25 & 26. Kids Say the Darndest Things On Tuesday, December 30, from 12:30 to 2:30 p.m., de- light in nearly two hours of amusing childhood wit and insight as we feature Art Linkletter’s beloved “Kids Say The Darndest Things”. Brown bag your lunch (we’ll have coffee and treats) as you sit back, relax and enjoy the show! Please be sure to register in advance! Guitar for Beginners Starts on Monday, January 5, 2015. Six sessions, from 10:30 to 11:30 a.m. Course Fee: $67, includes instruction book. Please Register InPerson until December 19. Holiday Food Baskets & Toy Drive The Monroe Township Office of Senior Service’s holiday endeavors are underway for our Food Pantry recipients as well as for Township families with children enrolled in the subsidized school lunch program. Food contributions and/ or monetary donations for the holiday baskets are appreciated by December 5 for Christmas. A list of food items as well as a Gift/Toy Wish List will be available at the front desk. As always, your compassion (Continued on page 20) DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 20 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE TOWNE CENTRE NEWS By Monica Caterson, Clubhouse / Recreation Manager WHOA Entertainment WHOA Trips There will be NO SHOW in December, January or February Explore Ohio! May 17-20, 2015 SAVE 2015 DATES! Amish Country July 22, 2015 Saturday, March 21, 2015 Saturday, April 18, 2015 Saturday, May 16, 2015 Saturday, June 20, 2015 Saturday, July 18, 2015 Saturday, August 15, 2015 Saturday, September 19, 2015 Saturday, October 17, 2015 Saturday, November 21, 2015 *Flyers will be in the Towne Centre* WHOA Movies In The Ballroom @ 1:00PM Sunday, December 14, 2014 Movie: “Philomena” Sunday, December 28, 2014 Movie: “Chef” *Flyers in Towne Centre* WHOA Atlantic City Wednesday, December 3, 2014 Bus Leaves Community @ 9AM *Golden Nugget” Thursday, December 25, 2014 Bus Leaves Community @ 9AM *Resorts* Wednesday, January 7, 2015 Bus Leaves Community @ 9AM *Tropicana* WHOA Duffy Square Duffy Square trips will resume in May of 2015 (Continued from page 19) and generosity in supporting these special projects are truly appreciated! Questions? Please call Bonnie Leibowitz at 609-448-7140. Thank you! Our On-Going Activities Computer Support: Select Days, by appointment. Drop-In Bridge: Mondays, from 9:30 a.m. to noon Got Game? It’s “play” time on Mon./Wed. afternoons and Tues./Fri. mornings. (Please bring in your game and your friends.) Monroe Twp. Center Chorus: Tuesdays at 10 a.m. ($5 chorus dues given to artistic director annually from new members.) Chessmates: Tuesdays at noon. SHIP/PAAD & Senior Gold assistance: By appt. Blood Pressure Screening: 2nd Tues. from 1 to 3 p.m. Green Thumbs: 2nd Tues. of every month @ 11 a.m. Cancer Support: 3rd Tues. of every month @ 1:30 p.m. Science Today: 4th Tues. of every month @ 1:30 p.m. Range of topics. Co mpu ter Cl in i c: 1 st Wednesday, from 10 a.m. to noon Healthy Bones: seasonal program for osteoporosis prevention. Art Studio: Wednesdays @ 10 a.m. Jewelry Gems: Wednesdays @ 1 p.m. (Beading; No Instruction.) Cribbage: 2nd & 4th Wednesdays, 2 to 4 p.m. For Novices & Players! Parkinson’s Support: (via JFK): 1st Wed. @ 1 p.m. Diabetes Support: (via PHCS): 3rd Wed. @ 2:30 p.m. Caregivers Support for Alzheimer’s Patients: 4th Wed. at 2 p.m. Ceramics Studio: Thursdays, 10:30 to 12:30 p.m., $5 fee due at first class each month; additional fees for bisque pieces & extra studio time. Duplicate Bridge: Thursdays, 12:30 p.m. Please register in advance; Sanctioned games, Pay $5 on day of game.) Lo-Vision Support: 3rd Thurs.@ 10:30 a.m. Folk Dancing: Thursdays at 9:30 a.m. Canasta Clique: Fridays at 10 a.m. (Players only) Harmonikids: Fridays at 10:30 a.m. Harmonica players welcome! The Busy Bees: Fridays at 1 p.m. (knitting /crocheting) BUCKLE UP FOR SAFETY DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 21 GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE Saint Peter’s To Dedicate Newly Expanded, Modernized Emergency Department Saint Peter’s University Hospital held a dedication and blessing of its newly expanded and modernized adult emergency department during ceremonies presided over by The Rev. Monsignor William Benwell, JCL, vicar general of the Diocese of Metuchen, Nov. 19, inside of the new facility at 254 Easton Ave., New Brunswick. The final phase of the project – the addition of an observation unit – will be completed in 2015. When finished, the Saint Peter’s University Hospital emergency department will have grown in size from its former 18,000 square feet to approximately 29,000 square feet. The new emergency department will be large enough to easily treat 70,000 to 75,000 patients a year. “This means that the new, larger ED will be big enough to meet the needs of the hospital – and its surrounding community – for many years to come,” said Ronald C. Rak, JD, president and CEO of Saint Peter’s Healthcare System. The nearly three-year-long project has included the construction of one of the largest pediatric emergency departments in New Jersey, special treatment bays for women’s health, acute-care and rapidtreatment patients, a redesigned entranceway for ambulances, and the use of geriatrics-friendly materials and design, as well as numerous other enhancements. Work thus far has been completed in five separate stages, including: Phase 1: Saint Peter’s built a new and expanded pediatrics emergency department as well as a new front entrance (Continued on page 22) Victorian Holiday Festival December 13 and 14 Catch the Christmas Spirit in Historic Ocean Grove at the Chamber of Commerce’s 22nd Annual Holiday House and Inn Tour on December 13 and 14. A warm welcome awaits you in the nine Victorian homes and cottages, eight inns, a senior residence, a museum and a tent, all beautifully decorated for the holidays. Your all-inclusive ticket also includes a horse and buggy ride, a guided tour of the Great Auditorium and jitney transportation around town on Sat. Free events include a vintage doll house display in the Historical Society Museum and the Ladies’ Auxiliary Christmas Boutique in the rear of Thornley Chapel on both days; a live Nativity Christmas Pageant in the Great Auditorium at 5 p.m. on Sat., Dec. 13; and a Christmas Tree Lighting at 6 p.m. with carols performed by the Great Auditorium choir in Auditorium Square Park. On Sunday the Inns continue to be open as well as the doll house exhibit. Be sure to check out the store windows all aglow for our Downtown Christmas Window Decorating. Tickets for the tour ($25 in advance, $30 at the door) can be purchased at Gingerbreads, 49 Main Ave. or at the Chamber Office, 45 Pilgrim Pathway or by mail: send a stamped, self-addressed envelope with a check to: O.G.A.C.C., P.O. Box 415, Ocean Grove, NJ 07756 and your tickets will be sent to you. For more info, visit our web site at www.oceangrovenj.com or call 732-774-1391. Folk Singer Bill Staines To Perform The Princeton Folk Music Society will present Bill Staines on December 12 at Christ Congregation Church, 50 Walnut Lane, Princeton, NJ Bill Staines is one of the most popular and durable folk singers of our time. For over 40 years he has delighted audiences across America with his talent for originality in song and music, as well as quick wit and humor. A New England native, he grew up in the Boston area and quickly gained local renown. Since that time he has gained an international reputation as a gifted songwriter and performer. Bill Staines’ music represents a slice of Americana, relating the life experiences and emotions of ordinary people who have been the foundation of workers all across the land. Bill’s timeless melodies include, but are not limited to tales of the Midwest prairie, adventurers in the Yukon, yarns of long-distance truckers, and hardships of everyday workers and laborers. Currently, Bill has recorded 26 albums and his music has received many awards. Bill’s achievements have been so widespread that one might find his music in grade school music books, church hymnals, or scouting campfire songbooks. You also might have heard him singing as a special guest on Garrison Keillor’s radio program A Prairie Home Companion on WHYY, on the HBO series Deadwood or Public Radio’s Mountain Stage. The Houston Post has written, “Bill Staines is one of our very best folk and country singer/songwriters. He is a new Englander who dreams of open plains and vast Western skies, and he writes better cowboy songs than anybody in the Southwest.” For more information on Bill Staines, visit his website at: www.accousticmusic.com/ staines/ or listen to his music on YouTube. Tickets are available at the door: $20 for adults, $15 for members, $10 for students, and $5 for children 11 and under. Doors open at 7:30 p.m. Ample free parking is available. For more information about this concert and other Folk Music Society events, please contact: 609-799-0944, or info@princetonfolk.org. Essential Emergency Information (Please cut out and save) Gather the items listed below and place them in a bag, suitcase, box, backpack or container (your kit) in the event you have to leave your home. 1. 2. Anyone on life support systems: get a back-up battery-pack. Keep information and phone numbers (doctors, family, friends, hospital, list of medicines, pet shelters, insurance, vital records) conveniently located in a fire-proof, water-proof box. Put in an easily accessible place. Remember to update your kit and check on its location often. 3. Buy a battery operated radio, cell phone chargers for car, flashlights, extra batteries. 4. Have cash on hand (at least $100). 5. Clothing for family members. 6. Extra set of car and house keys. 7. Whistle (to call for help). 8. Buy a GPS for your car Also, remember to complete these emergency tasks! 9. Keep car with at least 1/2 tank of gas filled. (If there is notice of a storm, a full tank.) 10. For heat, boil pots of water, on stove. DO NOT just turn stove on. NEVER leave unattended. 11. Avoid using candles, but if you must, NEVER leave unattended. Use flameless candles. 12. Make contact with your neighbors, family. 13. Stock-up on water (1 gal/person/day), non-perishable foods, mechanical can opener, up-to-date meds, AND don’t forget for your pets, too. 14. Fill tub with water for sanitary reasons. 15. People with special needs, register with the Township. 16. ** Keep the Towne Centre Emergency Plan for generator use in accordance with the sheet (sent in the mail) along with the bands that were issued, with this Emergency Reminder. FOR ADVERTISING CALL: Princeton Editorial Services 732-761-8534 or 8535 pescmd@aol.com DECEMBER 2014 – PAGE 22 HOME SAFETY TIPS How To Deter Home Burglary • Invest in good quality locks on doors and windows. This includes all sliding glass doors as well. Make it difficult and time consuming for a burglar to gain entry. • Whenever you go outside, lock the door and take the key with you, even if you are just stepping next door or out in the backyard. • Don’t put valuables where they can be seen from the window, especially items that can be easily carried. • Be sure your garage door can be secured. Do not leave it open when you are away; an empty garage broadcasts your absence. • When you aren’t home, use a timer set to turn interior lights on and off at varying intervals as though your home is still occupied. • Don’t keep large amounts of cash or really valuable jewelry around the house. • If a stranger comes to your door asking to use the telephone, make the call yourself. Don’t invite them in. • Don’t hide a spare key under the doormat or flowerpot. Thieves know all the good hiding places. • Invest in a good security system along with motion sensor lights installed out of reach. • Keep any tools that could be used to break into your home locked away in the garage. • Always double check that doors and windows are locked even during daylight hours. • Videotape the contents of your home. Keep the video and the list of all valuables in a safe place, such as a safe deposit box. How To Safeguard Your Home While on Vacation • Strive to make your home look as lived-in as possible while you’re away. • Don’t broadcast your plans but do let your neighbors and local law enforcement know. • Arrange to have your mail and newspapers either stopped or picked up daily. • Use automatic timers to turn on a radio and lights at different intervals to hide the fact you aren’t home. • Turn down the ringer on the telephone. An unanswered telephone is a dead give-away. • Be sure you don’t announce your absence on your answering machine message or email. • Leave your blinds as you normally would if you were home. Only close them all the way if that is what you would normally do. • Move valuables away from windows. • Be sure to close and lock the garage as well as any storage sheds, etc. • Be sure someone knows your itinerary and your estimated time of arrival and return. • If you get lost while traveling, ask directions of local law enforcement, not complete strangers. • Be sure your vehicle is in good working condition and that you have taken enough money. Do not carry large amounts of cash, use credit cards and travelers’ checks. • Arrange for a friend or relative to inspect your property periodically. • Do not leave a key in a hiding place. • Call police to tell them when you are leaving and returning; be sure to leave names and numbers of people to call in case of a problem. • Check and double-check all windows and doors on every level and garage doors before leaving. Car Safety • • • • • • • • • • • • In traffic, keep doors locked and windows up Park and lock your car and remove the keys Park in areas that are well lighted Cruise around a bit in shopping centers parking lots until you find an open parking place close to a well-lighted entrance. When you return to your car, check in and around it, and have your keys in your hand and ready to use. If you are followed by another vehicle, go to a public place or, better, police station. If near home, stop at the staffed gate house to alert security. Keep valuables in trunk or hidden in the car and do not keep valuables in the glove box BE COURTEOUS! Confrontations often occur when drivers become frustrated about how others drive. If you have car trouble: Raise the hood, use emergency flashers, tie something white around your antenna or mirror. Carry a ‘HELP’ sign and keep a can of tire inflator in trunk. Stay inside the car, lock the doors and if help is offered, ask for the police. Do not allow strangers to help you “fix that flat.” Thieves, especially near banking institutions, are known to ice pick a car’s tires, so they’ll go flat in a short distance. Remember to regularly check your car’s oil, gas, water and tires. Service your car regularly. Invest in an auto club membership, such as AAA, so you may have roadside assistance help you in any emergency, from fixing a flat to towing. GREENBRIAR AT WHITTINGHAM VOICE On Site Dining (Continued from page 1) in the Towne Centre for breakfast, lunch and/or dinner, club meetings, special occasions and through its home delivery service to meet special needs, especially over the winter months. Many residents meet there weekly for breakfast or lunch. Some clubs schedule regular breakfasts and lunch as part of their membership activities. In an effort to acquaint the residents with the folks who operate the Tap Room, GW VOICE staff member Joan Freeman conducted an informal interview with Kathy and Gregory Makras, the current managers. The interview follows. Joan: Tell us a little about yourselves and how you got into the business. Gregory: We are Kathy and Gregory Makras, a fatherdaughter team. We have been in charge for more than two years. Kathy is the manager and I am her assistant. I’ve been in the restaurant business for more than 45 years. Kathy: As a child, I watched my father work in restaurants and by the time I was Emergency (Continued from page 21) for the emergency department. Phase 2: This portion of the project was devoted to the completion of pediatric and adult “fast-track” rooms and created additional treatment beds. Phases 3, 4 and 5: Each of these stages expanded and enhanced the main ED. Key improvements were additional treatment space was added in each phase of operations and about 13 years old, I started helping out. Joan: What do you like most about your profession? K & G: We like everything. The best part of it is interacting with people. We focus on providing patrons with an enjoyable dining experience. We always feel good when our customers appreciate our service. Joan: Is there anything you don’t like? K & G: We wish we could spend more with our family on weekends and holidays. Joan: Is it difficult to find good staff to help you? K & G: Our wait staff, Kristi, Linda, Eileen and Jessica, are real pros, dedicated to serving our customers. Some residents eat at the Tap room daily, and others come less frequently to share a cup of coffee with a friend or order a complete meal, or maybe grab a quick sandwich on their way to some other activity. Our staff gets to know many of them by name and some of their family members as well. Joan: Do you change the menu from time to time? K & G: We have an inclusive menu from snacks to lunch and dinner selections, too many to list here. There is something for everyone. We also offer daily specials that are posted on the while board outside the entrance of the Tap Room. Joan: What services other than dining in the restaurant do you provide? K & G: We cater special parties in the Tap Room or in the ballroom. Residents can pick up catered food for their at-home parties. We offer themed menus for holidays. We accommodate clubs, organizations and other groups, even when they occur on weekends. We deliver meals to residents’ home during the winter months. Mondays and Wednesdays are pasta nights; Friday is seafood night. Early Bird specials are offered every day from 3 pm to 6 pm. Joan: I was very impressed by Kathy and Gregory. They are dedicated, cheerful, and friendly. They would enjoy greeting you in their special domain. The Tap Room is open from 8 am to 8 pm Monday through Friday. It is now closed on Saturdays and Sundays and will reopen in May when it welcomes diners on those days from 8 am to 3 pm. On GW show nights it is open for din- the renovations created three treatment “pods” focused on separate treatment areas: acute care; women’s health, and rapid-treat patients. The ED now holds 56 beds, the vast majority of those fourwall private rooms. A small number of others, curtained rooms, are in the fast-track area. Some of the special features and advantages of the new ED include: The entire emergency department – from equipment to flooring – is brand-new. The emergency department is “geriatrics friendly,” meaning it features softer lighting, softer colors, less noise, more comfortable mattresses, and easier to use beds, and the entire layout and design offer greater accessibility for older patients. The floor plan enhances the process of more rapid and efficient patient care. New Jersey Symphony Chamber Orchestra Presents Handel’s Messiah Music Director Jacques Lacombe and the New Jersey Symphony Chamber Orchestra present Handel’s Messiah with the Montclair State University Singers and a quartet of international vocalists December 19–21 in Princeton, Neptune and Newark. Soprano Nathalie Paulin, mezzosoprano Mireille Lebel, tenor Isaiah Bell and bass Gordon Bintner join the Orchestra for Handel’s masterwork —a Christmastime tradition in concert halls across the world. Performances take place on Friday, December 19, at 7:30 pm at the Richardson Auditorium in Princeton; Saturday, December 20, at 7:30 pm at the Michael T. Lake Performing Arts Center in Neptune; and Sunday, December 21, at 3 pm at the New Jersey Performing Arts Center (NJPAC) in Newark. “The Messiah holds a very special place in the repertoire,” Music Director Jacques Lacombe says, “and for many people on a personal level as well. I feel l grew up with this music from an early age, singing in boychoir [and seeing people of all ages and walks of life] joining in to sing it together. The message of the piece is so powerful and universal—this music can really unify people.” Lacombe is excited to bring the masterwork to Neptune, a community in which the Or- chestra annually performs school-time concerts for young people, at the Michael T. Lake Performing Arts Center: “We are proud to be a state orchestra, and we are very fortunate to perform in wonderful halls throughout New Jersey. I think reaching out to new audiences in their own communities is an important part of our mission, and I am very happy to expand our presence by performing the Messiah in Neptune in addition to two of our regular concert halls [in Princeton and Newark].” Adding to the Neptune festivities, the Orchestra is offering a pre-concert buffet dinner at the concert hall, available as an add-on purchase. Tickets Tickets for the December 19 and 21 performances in Princeton and Newark start at $25; tickets for the December 20 performance in Neptune start at $15. Tickets are available for purchase online at www.njsymphony.org or by phone at 1.800.ALLEGRO (255.3476). The Neptune buffet dinner is an additional $29.95 for adults and $14.95 for students under 18; advance reservations are required. The Program Handel’s Messiah · Friday, December 19 at 7:30 pm at Richardson Auditorium in Princeton · Saturday, December 20 at 7:30 pm at Michael T. Lake Performing Arts Center in Neptune · Friday, December 21 at 3 pm at NJPAC in Newark Jacques Lacombe, conductor Nathalie Paulin, soprano Mireille Lebel, mezzo-soprano Isaiah Bell, tenor Gordon Bintner, bass Montclair State University Singers | Heather J. Buchanan, director New Jersey Symphony Chamber Orchestra HANDEL Messiah The Orchestra invites the audience to participate in the centuries-old tradition of standing at the beginning of the Messiah’s “Hallelujah Chorus.” Full concert information is available at www. njsymphony.org/events/detail/ handels-messiah. NJSO ACCENTS Inspired by the concerts and designed to inspire audiences, NJSO Accents are pre- or post -concert events that complement the concert experience and provide audience members with more opportunities to personally connect with the music and music makers. Buffet Dinner—Sat., Dec 20 Join other audience members for a delicious buffet dinner in the lobby of the Michael T. 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Time Out New York has named the Orchestra’s acclaimed Winter Festivals “an eagerly anticipated annual event” for the innovative concert experiences that have included a realization of Scriabin’s “color organ,” collaborations with theater and dance troupes and presentations of Tan Dun concertos in which clay pots and water become solo instruments. The New York Times wrote that “It was an honor to be in the hall” for Lacombe and the NJSO’s performance of Busoni’s Piano Concerto at the 2012 Spring for Music Festival at Carnegie Hall. In July, Lacombe made his Tanglewood Music Festival debut with the Boston Symphony Orchestra; this season, he returns to the Deutsche Oper Berlin for productions of Carmen, The Damnation of Faust and Samson and Delilah; L’Opera de Monte Carlo for Shostakovich’s Lady Macbeth of Mtsensk and Vancouver Opera for Carmen. (Continued from page 22) adults and $14.95 for students under 18, and advance reservations are required. 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Mtg. 1:00 p.m. Health Lecture 4:00 p.m. Tap Dancing 4:00 p.m. GW Friends Movie Club 5:30 p.m. Weight Watchers 6:00 p.m. Water Volleyball 9:00 a.m. Sculpting & Arts/ Crafts Class 9:00 a.m. Healthy Bodies 10:00 a.m. GWCA Site Review Comm. 10:30 a.m. Line Dancing 1:00 p.m. Cards 2:00 p.m. Patio Discussion Group 4:00 p.m. Tap Dancing 7:00 p.m. Cards 7:30 p.m. Billiards 9:00 a.m. Ping Pong 9:30 a.m. Ceramics 9:30 a.m. Shuffleboard 10:00 a.m. Aerobic Fitness 10:00 a.m. Aquacise 1:00 p.m. Quilting 7:00 p.m. Resident Civic Club Board Mtg. 7:00 p.m. Yoga 7:30 p.m. New Kids On The Block 9:00 a.m. Healthy Bodies 9:30 a.m. Decoupage 10:00 a.m. Entertainment Mtg. 10:00 a.m. Chorus 12:00 p.m. Senior Social Club 1:00 p.m. Cards 1:00 p.m. Knitwits & Art/ Sewing Class 6:00 p.m. Water Volleyball 7:00 p.m. Stained Glass Group 7:30 p.m. Billiards 7:30 p.m. Line Dancing 8 9 10 11 12 9:00 a.m. Ping Pong 9:30 a.m. Ceramics 9:30 a.m. Computer Club 10:00 a.m. Aerobic Exercise 10:00 a.m. Aquacise Class 1:00 p.m. Quilting 7:00 p.m. Yoga 7:30 p.m. Residents Civic Club Open Mtg. 9:00 a.m. Healthy Bodies 9:30 a.m. Decoupage 9:30 a.m. WHOA Building & Grounds Comm. 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Mtg. 12:00 p.m. Senior Social Club 1:00 p.m. Cards 1:00 p.m. Knitwits & Art/ Sewing Class 5:00 p.m. Italian American Board Mtg. 6:00 p.m. Water Volleyball 7:00 p.m. Cards 7:00 p.m. Stained Glass Group 7:30 p.m. Billiards 7:30 p.m. Line Dancing 9:00 a.m. Ping Pong 9:00 a.m. Yoga 9:30 a.m. Painting Group 10:30 a.m. Aquacise 1:00 p.m. 3D Dimensional Art 7:00 p.m. Canasta Tournament 25 26 27 9:00 a.m. Ping Pong 9:00 a.m. Yoga 9:30 a.m. Hadassah Board Mtg. 10:00 a.m. Body Sculpting 10:00 a.m. Line Dancing 11:00 a.m. Aquacise 12:00 p.m. Men’s Fitness 1:00 p.m. Woodworking 1:00 p.m. Painting 4:00 p.m. Tap Dancing 5:30 p.m. Weight Watchers 6:00 p.m. Water Volleyball 7:30 p.m. History Club 15 9:00 a.m. Ping Pong 9:00 a.m. Yoga 9:30 a.m. WHOA Open Workshop Mtg. 10:00 a.m. Provocative Thinking 10:00 a.m. Body Sculpting 10:00 a.m. Line Dancing 11:00 a.m. Aquacise 11:00 a.m. Golf Finance Comm. 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Mtg. 10:00 a.m. The Yiddish Vinkle 10:00 a.m. Aerobic Fitness 10:00 a.m. Aquacise 1:00 p.m. Quilting 7:00 p.m. Billiards 7:00 p.m. Yoga 24 Christmas ~ Towne Centre Christmas Eve ~ Towne Closed Centre Closes at 1 p.m. 9:00 a.m. Ping Pong 9:00 a.m. Yoga 9:30 a.m. Painting Group 10:30 a.m. Aquacise 1:00 p.m. 3D Dimensional Art 29 9:00 a.m. Yoga 9:30 a.m. Yiddish Club Program Comm. 10:00 a.m. Body Sculpting 10:00 a.m. Line Dancing 11:00 a.m. Aquacise 12:00 p.m. Men’s Fitness 1:00 p.m. Woodworking 1:00 p.m. Painting 4:00 p.m. Tap Dancing 5:30 p.m. Weight Watchers 6:00 p.m. Water Volleyball 30 9:00 a.m. Sculpting & Arts/ Crafts Class 9:00 a.m. Healthy Bodies 9:30 a.m. Yiddish Club 2:00 p.m. Patio Discussion Group 4:00 p.m. Tap Dancing 7:30 p.m. Billiards Merry Christmas 31 *New Year’s Eve ~ Towne Centre Closes at 1 p.m.* 8:00 p.m. New Year’s Eve Dinner Dance 6 6:30 p.m. Senior Social Holiday Party 9:00 a.m. Ping Pong 9:00 a.m. Ping Pong 9:30 a.m. Computer Club 9:00 a.m. Yoga General Mtg. 9:30 a.m. Painting Group 10:30 a.m. Aquacise 1:00 p.m. 3D Dimensional Art 7:30 p.m. After Hours Club Kwanzaa 28 SATURDAY
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