The Comrade`s wife, Changing lives!
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The Comrade`s wife, Changing lives!
SUNDAY, August 14, 2016 ...NOT IN THISDAY STYLE? THEN YOU’RE NOT IN STYLE TR UT H & RE A SO N ! s e v i l g n i g n a h C , e f i w s ’ e d a r m o C e h T e l o h m o i h s O a r Ia photograph: REZE BONNA Content Iara Oshiomhole was born in Capé Verdé, West Africa but at the age of three, her family moved to the Netherlands where they reside till date. After meeting her husband, Governor Adams Oshiomhole of Edo State, she moved to Nigeria. As First Lady, she currently runs We Care Trust Foundation, a non-profit organization, which was established to support the orphanages, girl-child education, youth skill acquisition and women empowerment in Edo State. This cause portrays Iara’s beauty not just on the outside, but also within. Recently she had a chat with Konye Chelsea Nwabogor, and she talks about her role as the First Lady and also her plans for the people of Edo state. Society Uyi Giwa-Osagie at 50 Pg 4 & 5 Fashion The ZEBRA In You TREND TO TRY: CHELSEA BOOTS Pg 8 & 9 THE MOASHY COMPANY AFRICAN FOOTBALLERS and THEIR Other HALVES… MOET INTERNATIONAL DAY Pg 10 & 11 FUND-RAISING FOR HEART OF GOLD CHILDREN’S HOSPICE Pg 18 Pg 6 & 7 One Piece, Four Ways Your Personal Wealth Pg 20 How to find your sense of style Pg 21 Thisday Style Fashion Director/Executive Editor Ruth Osime 08111847085 Editor Print: Olufunke Babs-Kufeji 08111847086 Editor Digital: Nkonye Nwabogor 08111847087 Style CORRESPONDENT MOJIsola ALLEN 08116759745 Style CORRESPONDENT Ayodeji Rotinwa 08116706878 Style CORRESPONDENT Safina Mohammed 08052552552 Graphics/Prod. Alexander Oviazee 08111813064 Graphics/Prod. Adegboye Oluwaseyi Contributors edirin Okumagba RUKY SALAKO YEMISI DADA SERIKI Juliet Alu Photographers TY Bello Reze Bonna Yetunde Ayeni-Babaeko DIRECTOR, PRINT PRODuction CHUKS ONWUDINJO The other day a friend of mine asked me to cover an event for another friend of ours’ son. Some exhibition or the other. When I returned from my trip, I saw the planned pages and realized what the event was about. It was an event organized to raise funds for underprivileged children in a hospice. The pictures of those children broke my heart. It really hit home, yet again, about how lucky we are to live the lives we live. Not only have these children been dealt a tough blow because of their birth defects, they have been given a double dose of bad luck to be born under the worst circumstances. Some left in dustbins or just simply dumped somewhere by mothers who have no provision for their welfare. But thankfully, hospices such as these have been created to make their difficult life more bearable for the time they have on earth. And here we are, complaining about weight, moaning about money, griping about kids, health, life in general! There is always one thing or the other to moan about especially during these very trying times. But looking at those children was a real wake-up call! Yes we all know of the existence of such havens. We all know their stories. We all know that what they need is love and care. Putting a little smile on their faces is like lighting a thousand watts. And if a young man like my friend’s son can go the extra mile to raise funds to make these children’s transition on earth better, imagine what we, as adults can do. We also know it does not take much to impact on these little angels, so I will please like to use this opportunity to ask everyone to show some love in whichever way they can to those who need our love. Nothing is too small. I intend to practice what I preach and do the exact same thing I’m asking you to do. Some of you already participate in such endearing ventures but for those of you who don’t, like Diana Ross said ‘Reach out and touch somebody’s hand. Make this world a better place, if you can.’ Fashion Director/Executive Editor DDB SA 44827/E A l l t h e tast e w it h l e s s s u g ar why add more? Success isn’t just about knowing what goes in, but also what doesn’t have to. That’s why, when we make Amstel Malta, we use less sugar while keeping all of its full, premium flavour. WHYADDMORE.COM #WHYADDMORE Deola Kamson & Folake Oshinlowo Osayaba Giwa-Osagie Greg Okomah & Fola Omolayole Toyin Pinheiro Tunde Odulaja Atiku Abubarkar & Ibikunle Amosun, Governor of OGUN STATE Adenike & Tunde Laoye Tunde & Kareemat Gbajumo Ronke Shokefun Kareema De-Laurent Mariam Giwa Osagie Olasupo & Gbemi Shasore Uyi Giwa-Osagie Bimbo Ashiru Gbemi Giwa-Osagie Osaro Giwa-Osagie Labisi, Toyin & Bolaji Ogundairo Olaitan Ajayi, YInka Fowora & Bunmi Ashebu Doris Akerele Bunmi Ali Biola Akinola Uyi Giwa-Osagie at 50 By Funke Babs-Kufeji Lawyer and businessman Uyi Giwa-Osagie recently threw it down in grand style to celebrate his 50th Birthday. In typical Uyi fashion, he went above and beyond for the party renting the entire Lekki Coliseum to cater to his invited guests. Dinner was served at 7pm, guests were treated to a three-course meal and served the finest wines and champagne while birthday speeches and well wishes were made. When dinner was over, the guests moved up to the dance floor where they danced and grooved to the sounds of the 90’s till date. Jazzman Olofin also made a cameo appearance thrilling guests with his hit song “Shake Something”. Guests danced, mingled and had a good time while finger foods; drinks and more were served throughout the course of the night. It was a party that will not be forgotten in a very long time to come. Kehinde,Olaolu Mudasiru & Taiwo Mayoku Bisola Giwa-Osagie Yetunde & Kemi Pinheiro PAT FANIRAN Chiedu Ebie Bunmi & Timi Akinwumi Nnoge MeGgisson Charles APRUKA Chris Ubosi ADETOKE OLUWO ELMA GODWIN BRIENE ZILGMANS AKIN FAMINU OZEE & OCEE MBADIWE DJ LAMBO SEAL KAMSON MOET INTERNATIONAL DAY B y GABRIEL AFOLAYAN DENOLA GREY MUNACHI ABII A l l e n It was a memorable day as the city of Lagos played its part in celebrating the luxury Champagne brand, Moet & Chandon who played host to celebrate the International Moet Day. The day kicked off with an All-White Brunch party at Hard Rock Café, Landmark Village, Victoria Island and ended with a Nectar Night at Escape Night Club, Victoria Island, Lagos. Spotted at the event include highly esteemed guests, socialites, celebrities, fashion influencers, and champagne lovers, who were treated to various ranges of the champagne of victory. KAREN YOUNG Becca beckins M o j i s o l a SEYI ALLEN Dokun mofin EKU EDEWOR YVONNE EKWERE Anita rajis TOYIN KAZEEM, MORAYO ALABI & DUPE KAZEEM Ezinne Chinkata Cynthia onoriode Didi EBUN ADENIYI Efe WEMIMO AKIN-OLAWUMI ESOHE OSEBOR BEN IKEAKHE GRACE OLOWOFOYEWU MR & MRS. OLISA ONUGBOLU JOSEPHINE NDUBUISI-KANU EMEM EKARIKA OBOSA AKPATA THE MOASHY COMPANY FUND-RAISING FOR HEART OF GOLD CHILDREN’S HOSPICE By Juliet Alu B y K o n y e C h e l s e a N wab o g o r If you’ve ever lusted after any celebrity on the red carpet who was styled by Moashy, then you’re in luck! The stylist behind the brand, Moses Ebite recently launched a studio to enable more clients walk in and get a bit of the Moashy Styling experience. The studio, which is located at Victoria Ariobeke Street, Lekki Phase 1 stocks some of the best fashion pieces from not only Nigerian brands but also the International ones. Moses Ebite needs little introduction as the heart and soul of the Nigerian fashion styling world. NDIDI ANYAEHIE moses ebite Glory onuoha EGO BOYO & UDO ONWGBO UTO IHEUKWUMERE OSARIEME EZEKIEL YVONNE EZEKIEL 6 HENRIETTA OTOABASI-AKPAN KAMAL & ESOHE KADIRI Kamal Kadiri recently held a photo exhibition to raise funds for a cause close to his heart. He chose to take pictures of his mother’s friends because of the profound positive influence she has on his life. He visited the homes of all her friends to get their shots after which, he made them in canvas and all the women bought their own pictures. These proceeds were then transferred to the Heart of Gold Children’s Hospice. The hospice opened in 2003 in response to a steadily increasing number of abandoned, orphaned and sick children suffering from a vast range of congenital abnormalities. The hospice offers comfortable, caring and loving environment. Visitors will find it to be a home away from home atmosphere with these special children who allow us into their lives, often for all too short a time. The hospice offers quality services 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year. It is a place where every precious moment counts. 7 STYLE & DESIGN THISDAY Style Vol. 21, No. 7781 Sunday, August 14, 2016 ZEBRA THISDAY Style Vol. 21, No. 7781 Sunday, August 14, 2016 STYLE THE Make a statement in this hot trend and invest in something striped. This season, it’s time to embrace stripes. Forget about your classic pallettes and do something bold! Say hello to multicolour, multidirection, stripe-on-stripe action. & DESIGN TREND TO TRY: CHELSEA BOOTS IN YOU BY Ayodeji Rotinwa The Chelsea boot is an extremely versatile silhouette that works just as well with jeans as it does with a suit. They are guaranteed to slot seamlessly into your existing wardrobe and will bring a new dimension to any of your current go-to ensembles. If you’re a fan of something dark and edgy, try pairing your boots with the rock star’s go-to uniform: black slim/skinny jeans, a plain tee/knit/shirt and classic leather biker. It’s an outfit that can be thrown on with minimal fuss and oozes effortless cool. If something a bit more clean or sophisticated is more your speed, a crisp button down white shirt, a pair of jeans, ripped or plain, with the boots will be right up your alley. In between both looks, you can throw a blazer in there, and denim or tailored pants and still get an ultra-look fit. BY Ruky Salako valentino brandnew studded leather wristlet black & white stripes Prada SAINT LAURENT TOD’S There really is something to suit everyone, too; you may want to keep it subtle and opt for a fine pinstripe blazer or blouse, which is perfect for work. Or you may want to go all out with a bold wideleg trouser or maxi dress, which will really draw attention to your weekend look. Want to wear your stripes at night? Then it’s all about sheer stripes. We’re looking to the likes of Stella McCartney and Chloe for catwalk inspiration as they both totally nailed the look, making those linear lines feel fresh and playful for the new season. MAISON MARGIELA The key is to keep prints the same and opt for complimenting colours wherever possible. Of course the most obvious is black and white but you can push the enelope and experiment with other colour stripes. They will be just as striking. SANTONI TAJE PREST COMMON PROJECTS Sound good so far? Get busy and look for anything, including ccessories that will make this bold statement for you! Prada TOM FORD DENOLA GREY Purchasing Guidelines Here are a few pointers to keep in mind when looking to buy a pair: Lande Agusto christian louboutin so-kate striped snakeskin print stiletto pumps Ann Ogunsulire Yolande Okereke Jeffrey Campbell Black & White Stripe Darling Pump • Chelsea boots traditionally feature either a rounded or pointed shape. The size of your feet will determine which ones you should gravitate towards. If • Look at the elastic fastening – the you have larger feet go for something rounded, whilst those with smaller feet quality of this will dictate the life of the can often get away with a pointed style. boot. On cheaper versions this is often what deteriorates first. • Opt for something with a thinner, leather sole. Everything about this boot • One design trend within Chelsea boots this season is the colour pop is streamlined and tapered, so avoid elasticated panel. These styles offer anything that is bulky or jars with this a contemporary twist and can help ethos. mark your pair out from the crowd. • Black is a classic choice and works • Try on different heights, colours and perfectly with jeans. Coloured suede, designs in order to find the one that like brown, navy or grey, looks better suits your look best. with chinos. STYLE THISDAY Style Vol. 21, No. 7781 Sunday, August 14, 2016 & DESIGN THISDAY Style Vol. 21, No. 7781 Sunday, August 14, 2016 STYLE AFRICAN FOOTBALLERS and THEIR Other HALVES… & DESIGN BY Ayodeji Rotinwa Football may be called ‘the beautiful game’ but we daresay it is not on the players on the pitch that make it so. The women and the partners behind the players play a perhaps uncelebrated, unseen part in making our favourite footballers shine, the strength behind their tackles, the drive to take on opponents, and the inspiration behind the well placed kicks that make us scream, “GOAL!” These women popularly referred to as WAGs (Wives and Girlfriends) of football stars are stars in their own right, some entrepreneurs, philanthropists, beauty queens, some with the digital media savvy that keeps us entertained round the clock. There are a many fair few of them but this is the collection of the hottest, most stylish, most beautiful WAGs… ADAEZE YOBO (married to JOSEPH YOBO) This is the most camera-ready, picture-perfect, adorable footballing / celebrity couple, since… well, since ever! Commanding most of the mega star wattage is former Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria and our Instagram favourite, Adaeze Yobo. We especially care for her fashion choices, fit lifestyle and modelesque gait. Else you were told, you could never guess she’s had kids. Hers in a fun style that’s big on quirk and adventure and you can tell from how she rocks her clothes and her ever-ready smile, she’s just here to have fun. GEORGETTE ETO’O (married to Samuel Eto’o) Undoubtedly Georgette is a patient woman. She had to wait 10 years in her relationship with Africa’s most decorated and richest football player before he slipped a ring on it. It perhaps was well worth the wait some would say as the ring was a diamond stunner that cost £500,000. Ring or not, the couple has been going strong all these years with Georgette firmly by her husband’s side. AMARACHI NWANKWO (married to KANU NWANKWO) She was the baby-faced bride who had everyone holding their breath when they saw her walk down the aisle with love of her life, Kanu Nwankwo. A decade and some years later, the couple is still going on strong, and Amarachi, then 18 years old has grown to become oe stunning woman! She used to be much more private but has taken to given us some glimpses into her family life, rocking braids Beyonce would be proud of and matching prints with her daughter. PROMISE ENYEAMA (married to VINCENT ENYEAMA) Though we knew much of her husband and his match-winning, goal-stopping antics, we didn’t know who was probably behind it all. Now we know. Promise Enyeamah. She is a quiet, probably shy woman who stuns by just being. One look at her and we too were in love! OLGA DIYACHENKO (MIKEL OBI’s girlfriend) NKECHI OKOCHA (married to Jay Jay Okocha) She is the daughter of a Russian billionaire and the girlfriend of Nigeria’s preeminent midfielder, John Mikel Obi. The Nigerian footballer is yet to put a ring on it but the couple have twin daughters together although there are rumours they secretly got engaged but no talk of a walk down an aisle yet! The European Business school-trained stunner runs a fashion and apparel company in the United Kingdom. She is the hotter half of a onetime footballing / celebrity and now power, society couple. Nkechi Okocha has proven she is more than a pretty face, hanging on her husband’s arm but is also involved in his companies and business endeavours. The couple that makes money together stays together? Away from business, hers is a striking look that demands attention when she walks into the room, easy for her to do since she towers over everybody else… MENAYE DONKOR (married to Sulley Muntari) CHIUGO OGUH (married to JOHN OGUH) DIAKITE LALLA (married to Didier Drogba) Hailing from Mali, she is the ultra-private, wife of globally renown Ivorien soccer super star, Didier Drogba. She is also the niece of former Malian President Amadou Toumani Toure. She is hardly ever seen publicly and when she is, she is usually at an event with her husband. She did make English newspaper headlines a few months ago when she reportedly got into an altercation with a cleaner whom she felt was ripping her off, charging £430 for her services. Multimillionaire wife or not, Mama Diakite don’t play with her money! She is not your average footballer’s wife. The Canadian-born, once-upon-a-time model and beauty pageant winner is a businesswoman, entrepreneur and philanthropist who Soon after the pageant run, established the Menaye Charity Foundation and has overseen providing free, quality education to under privileged children in rural areas. She has also helped provide medical care for over 600 orphans infected with HIV or AIDS. She runs a property development company in Ghana. She is the newly-wed heartthrob of Nigerian defender, John Ogu and latest entrant into the WAGs community. Trained in Psychology, at the University of Alberta, Canada, she recently announced with her husband that they are pregnant. Hers will go down in history of WAGs as one of the more dramatic proposals as her footballer husband proposed to her post match in front of a packed stadium. *cue single tear* STEPHANIE KALU UCHE (married to KALU UCHE) A former Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria (Universe) the beauty queen has certainly come a long way. Having struggled with hormone changes, weight and cystic acne during her pregnancy, she recently launched a wellness brand called Stephanie Nicholas Wellness to help women who were in her shoes to overcome the body-altering journey of nine months. In pictures, she certainly seems to be the yin to her husband’s yang as they always match perfectly. THISDAY Style Vol. 21, No. 7774 Sunday, August 7, 2016 THISDAY Style Vol. 21, No. 7774 Sunday, August 7, 2016 COVER THISDAY Style Vol. 21, No. 7781 Sunday, August 14, 2016 THISDAY Style Vol. 21, No. 7781 Sunday, August 14, 2016 COVER E L O H M O I H OS IARA Iara Oshiomhole was born in Capé Verdé, West Africa but at the age of three, her family moved to the Netherlands where they reside till date. She studied Law at Rotterdam University and work briefly as a paralegal but her desire to travel the world and experience diverse cultures, led her to join Emirates Airline as an airhostess. But after meeting her husband, Governor Adams Oshiomhole of Edo State, she moved to Nigeria. As First Lady, she currently runs We Care Trust Foundation, a non-profit organization, which was established to support the orphanages, girl-child education, youth skill acquisition and women empowerment in Edo State. The goal is to positively change lives of the under-privileged for the better and encourage people to inculcate the noble practice of charity and selflessness. This cause portrays Iara’s beauty not just on the outside, but also within. Recently she had a chat with Konye Chelsea Nwabogor, and she talks about her role as the First Lady and also her plans for the people of Edo state. Photograph by Reze Bonna What are some of the projects your NGO has taken on? We have done quite a lot of projects through We Care Trust Foundation. The Inaugural project which is called Project Focus empowered 36 young individuals selected from the 18 local government areas within Edo State in different skill acquisition programs including; Events Planning & Decoration, Fish Farming and Cake Baking. The Project Focus IDP skill acquisition training was for 160 persons and was tailored towards the following areas of interest; Fish Farming & Vegetable Cultivation; Food Production & Packaging (Dry Non-Perishable Food); Creative Arts & Tailoring and ICT Basic Computer Training. We also have The Benin City clean market initiative & award, which is a project in conjunction with the market women leaders aimed at ensuring markets are kept clean and to encourage environmental responsibility and awareness. Lastly, I have set up a Taskforce on Orphanages and Special duties with intervention groups on Health, Education & Social Work, Maintenance, Documentation and Legal matters to give assistance to the orphanages, ensuring orphanage homes in Edo State are well managed and the children in care are treated with the dignity they deserve. 14 How have these ventures impacted on the citizens of Edo state? The 36 students that we trained in farming have gotten fishponds at the back of their homes, while others have set up businesses amongst themselves. Some are also working in established organizations like Amena Academy in Benin City - and of course we cannot forget the children in the orphanages, we are doing everything possible to give these children a better standard of living. Currently, we have started the renovation of the toilets in the orphanages and we have ordered complete bunk beds (with mattresses) for all the orphanages. Also, we are making sure that all the orphanages have sitting desks and a little library. Furthermore, we are actively working on a health care policy for the orphanages to ensure adequate healthcare. We also have the IDP’s. The children, youth and women in the camp have been trained in Project Focus IDP programs and are now training others in the camp, so when they choose to return back to their various states and communities, they can go back empowered and full of confidence knowing that they have a skill, that no one can ever take away from them. What emotional moments spring to mind during the course of your ventures so far? Yes, when I’m at the IDP camp and orphanages, you can’t help but be humbled and emotional seeing children living a life well below standard but are still full of smiles and joy. This almost brings tears to my eyes and until this day, I still get rather emotional just talking about it. What do you enjoy most about the environs of Edo state? You know, the people of Edo State are the warmest people you will ever meet. They made my job easy, I’m happy, to be in Edo state. Have you been able to form some close friendships, aside from your husband, which have helped you with your transition into the role of First Lady? Yes, indeed I have. There is no way that you can live in Edo State and not become friends with anyone. The people here are so warm and friendly. My husband’s family has been extremely good to me. They have become my family and friends. Also, the wives of other governors have been wonderful to me and I cherish their support. What challenges if any, did you initially encounter and how were you able to overcome them? The fact is that I have not been in Nigeria long enough to encounter all the challenges which the country has but I’m very blessed to have the Edo State women to enlighten, explain and tell me anything that I need to know. They have been so supportive. Having a politically inclined husband can be trying sometimes with late night meetings and early morning events. It’s not easy to find time to spend together but we do try to spend some “us-time” at the weekend. All the same, he is hard working. I admire and applaud his selflessness. Are there times you have had to put your foot down to get the chance to spend some special moments with your husband alone outside work? Having a politically inclined husband can be trying sometimes with late night meetings and early morning events. It’s not easy to find time to spend together but we do try to spend some “us-time” at the weekend. All the same, he is hard working. I admire and applaud his selflessness. How do you, as a couple, like to spend quality time when you have it? We like spending time outside in the garden, enjoying nature and having a nice meal. 15 COVER THISDAY Style Vol. 21, No. 7781 Sunday, August 14, 2016 The Governor is popular for his stern stand on his beliefs and for a long time, was the voice of the people before getting into politics. But seeing you in person is a reflection of the soft side he rarely shows in public. What are some of the things your husband does that makes you happy you chose to spend the rest of your life with him? I do understand that for most people it’s difficult to believe that my husband doesn’t bring political issues home but he is a loving husband and father and fun to be around. Since you got married, how have you adjusted to living in Nigeria and what are the traits you find most appealing about her people? I love that no matter what the circumstances in people’s life they are always thankful, I have learned a lot from this gesture. It’s a good blessing that God has given to the people of Nigeria. How often do you get to see your family and what do you miss most about Cape Verde? Most of my family actually lives in the Netherlands, which is only six hours from Nigeria, and I see them as often as I can. Cape Verde is where I’m originally from but I go there once every year. I miss my family in Cape Verde very much and I always can’t wait to see them again after every visit. What are the things you used to enjoy doing before you became First Lady that you cannot do today? People that know me are aware that I still do everything that I did before, from doing my own grocery at the market to changing the light bulbs in the house, nothing has really changed. I still read books at the weekends and enjoy my days as before. So, have you developed a strong relationship with any of the other First Ladies? Oh, they are lovely women. Yes! Actually I’m not going to call names but they have all being wonderful. We have meetings. We also have a group chat where we chat on daily basis. That’s interesting. Do you all meet at a particular time every year, and how often? Yes, we do have meetings three times a year. We are now trying to have that more often. We come together to our compare the programs and to see where we can help each other. We look at what works for one state, so we can duplicate for the next state. Has your style evolved with your new role or it has stayed the same? The Nigerian women are very stylish. Every event I attend, I often find myself starring at the beautifully dressed women. Unfortunately I’m not very stylish and prefer comfortable, feminine and colourful clothing. But I do have a love for skin care and healthy living. These are my favorite when it comes to lifestyle. Who played the most pivotal role in your life whilst growing up and why? My father did. He is a very strict but fair person. He is loving, caring and funny. As a child, I used to follow him everywhere including the hardware stores. That’s why I’m quite handy with tools and creative. By the end of your tenure as First Lady, what will you most like to be remembered by? I would like to be remembered as a kind-hearted person that wanted the best for everyone around her. If you had to give a piece of advice the next person coming after you into this office, what will it be? Don’t fear the things you don’t know - embrace it, because the people of Edo state are always there with a helping hand. 16 Don’t fear the things you don’t know embrace it, because the people of Edo state are always there with a helping hand. THISDAY Style Vol. 21, No. 7781 Sunday, August 14, 2016 S T Y L E & d es i g n One Piece Four Ways... BY Ruky Salako This Diane Von Furstenberg pleat skirt is our piece of the week. As simple as it looks, an additional item can either dress it up or make it casual. The Creative Chic The Power Chic She is the executive, always ready for that important deal breaking meeting. She cannot be caught off guard. Pays attention to details. Goes expensive with her outfits. The power chic can go to a meeting first in the morning, lunch with the girls in the afternoon and also do a movie with same outfit. She is just always alert. This look works well for the stylishly chic, she is in a fashion world of her own, not following the trends, yet manages to stay trendy, and even set a trend. Roksanda Ilincic Fendi Proenza Schouler Vionnet Cartier Guiseppe Zanotti Diane von Furstenberg £290 Dolce & Gabbana Diane von Furstenberg £290 Balmain The Casual chic The Fashion Chic Trendy, up to the minute chic, she stays fashionable, invogue, and confident, ready to try on anything new. Lanvin Dolce&Gabbana The Row Chloe She is out and about, nothing serious. You can rock this look to the movies, lunch with the girls, game date etc, but a No-No for dinners, official meetings, first dates and all the serious redcarpet-ish outings. Alexander McQueen Fisayo Longe Bottega Veneta Alice+Olivia Jimmy Choo Diane von Furstenberg £290 Diane von Furstenberg £290 Gucci Whichever click you belong, always make a conscious effort to look good. Ecobank ATMs Just in case With more ATMs closer to you… it’s time to move on up with Ecobank. Check out your nearest Ecobank ATM today. Call 0700 500 0000, email engcontactcentre@ecobank.com or visit ecobank.com Whenever, wherever banking ecobank.com Your Personal Wealth LifeSTYLE Watcher Dear of with Ononuju Irukwu TONYE COLE Times… What gift is in you? S eated on the podium, in a hall filled with young undergraduates, was one woman in the midst of three men I knew. She, an unknown face to me, was about to make a lasting impression on my entire being. The highly respected academic, the very successful IT Entreprenuer and well sought after Banker each made their deep and insightful comments to the undergrads but her life story held the crowd breathless. A woman who at 40, that age defining moment for so many, didn’t know what to make of her life nor what her purpose on earth was, looked at the last N1,000 she owned and wondered what she was going to do. Her career as a secretary had left her dissatisfied and feeling less than she was and the prospects of a better life had long ago dissipated. She was lost in a world so many of us are all too familiar with. What was it about her life that turned things around so dramatically that within the span of 7 years she had transited from one who was so lost to a confident leader executive? She fell back on the one thing she loved to do, something she had a natural affinity towards, swallowed her pride and began to cook. The N1,000 was less than $10 and all it could make was a few helpings of Moi-Moi (beans pudding) but in this she was determined to become the best. Every man when created, has been equipped to excel in the world by a unique gift placed in them by The Almighty. That gift is fashioned and shaped by the circumstances surrounding the individual and honed by the choices made along the way. When understood, it forms the crucible upon which a life’s purpose is built and gives meaning to the daily existence we live and this was exactly what occurred in that ladies life. The humble beans meal took her to the White House where she became the first person ever to serve Moi-Moi there. She has met UN Secretary General Ban Ki Moon and addressed world leaders from the platform of the Clinton Global Initiative. Her $6 investment morphed into an catering enterprise worth more than $150,000 in annual sales and as the good book says “seest thou a man diligent in his business? He shall stand before kings; he shall not stand before mean (obscure) men.” Check yourself, are you standing before kings? May the Lord help us see the gifts in us today. “I I am Woman! f you educate a woman, you educate a family, if you educate a girl, you educate the future.” Queen Rania of Jordan Twenty one years after the famous Beijing declaration, what significant changes have occurred for women globally? The Beijing Platform for Action offers important focus in rallying people around gender equality and women’s empowerment. Let me share some statistics on the advancement of women: • Women now make up to 50% of the total workforce world wide. • Women make up 1/3 of the world entrepreneurs totaling about 150million worldwide. • In the United States alone, there are over 9.1million businesses owned by women. • Following the 2008 financial crash 2/3rd of households surveyed showed women were now the breadwinners or major contributors to households. • Female participation in parliaments around the world have almost doubled from 11.3% in 1995 to 22% in 2015. • This is even more significant when we recognize that there are now 10 women Heads of State and 14 Heads of Government and three Women Chairman of Nigeria’s top banks. • In Africa, Rwanda has the highest number of women parliamentarians worldwide as women there have won 63.8 per cent of seats in the lower house. • There are over 2000 women only /women focused financial institutions bringing savings and loan services closer to rural communities. • In Nigeria, NNEW( NECA’s Network of Entrepreneurial Women) launched the first women focused microfinance bank in 2015. • Maternal deaths have reduced by almost 50% since 1990. There is still a long way to go. While I am not a feminist, I strongly believe in the empowerment of women through education and financial inclusion. Financial literacy and independence opens new doors and opportunities to women and broadens the ability to make informed decisions. There are new opportunities to reconnect, regenerate commitment, charge up political will and mobilize the public. Everyone has a role to play—for our common good. The evidence is increasingly in that empowering women empowers humanity. Economies grow faster, for example, and families are healthier and better-educated. In a recent Shriver Report, it is estimated that Women make up to 50% of the global workforce and are either the breadwinner in their families or contribute significantly to household expenses. Yet women, though better qualified and more experienced, still earn less than their male colleagues and remain modest in their ability to negotiate a fair remuneration for themselves. Furthermore, EFInA in its 2014 financial inclusion survey showed that even though the number of financially excluded persons in Nigeria decreased to 36.9m, of this number, 57.9% or 21m are women. In other words, there are more women than men with no access to a bank account or financial service in any form. So is there really cause to celebrate women? Is there a strong case for gender equality? Should starting a business, the right to receive an education or health not be available for every human being be they male or female? Why should I be disadvantaged because I am a woman? If I am good at a job or interview, should I not be given the job? Should competence and merit not count a whole lot more than my gender? In the area of economic or financial independence, women sadly are still a long way from home. Statistics show that women need more access to be financially literate, to improve their knowledge of financial terms and events and also gain access to much needed capital for their businesses. The IFC on its gender website states that by “working to eliminate gender barriers in the private sector, IFC enables companies and economies to improve their performance. When men and women alike are allowed to pursue employment, entrepreneurship, and leadership, societies can realize their growth potential “. “Collectively, women represent an underemployed resource that can increase companies’ profitability and contribute significantly to shared prosperity. However, women have less access to equal employment opportunities and capital to grow their businesses, experience high levels of sexual violence, are often barred from owning or inheriting land or other property, and have less income to invest for the future.” Beyond the Beijing declaration and all other such charters, we must recognize the importance of financial inclusion for women, economic empowerment including financial literacy, education, access to quality healthcare, housing and voting rights. Our future really does depend on having educated girls who become strong women. More importantly, I believe women now need to strengthen their knowledge base and begin to take action. With all the worldwide awareness and support for women, we have to seize the opportunities that are available and build on them from there. We can no more sit and wait to be handed a plate of freedom. “The fastest way to change society is to mobilize the women of the world.” - Charles Malik, Lebanese Foreign Minister and President of the UN General Assembly 1958” Have a great week everyone. Ononuju Irukwu is the Managing Director, Chapel Hill Denham Management Limited, a leading Investment Management Company in Lagos, Nigeria. She is also the Chief promoter of the Women’s Investment Fund, an investment vehicle for Women initiated by Chapel Hill Denham Management Limited. She has over two decades of experience in Personal Banking and Wealth Management and is passionate about increasing financial literacy levels for women and youths. She can be reached via email ononujui@yahoo.com and twitter @ononujui THISDAY Style S TVol.Y20,LNo. E 7355 & Sunday, d es g2015 n Junei14, THISDAY Style Vol. 21, No. 7781 Sunday, August 14, 2016 How to find your sense of style BY JULIET ALU Understand your body Knowledge is power. So the first thing you need to understand is what kind of body you have and what works for you. If you have a good understanding of your body shape and your strengths and weaknesses, you can buy the right clothes to either accentuate or camouflage them. Style is personal. There is no herd to follow. There are no rules. There are no seasons. Your wardrobe should contain only amazing choices. It is much easier to be inspired when you see five remarkable pieces than when you see 25 pieces and 20 of those are unremarkable. Pick key items and get rid of the rest, even if it is the must-have item of the season, or you spent a month’s salary on it, or you wore it everyday of your teenage years and can’t bear to part with it, if it doesn’t look good on you now, it shouldn’t be there. Start by throwing out anything you no longer wear or that doesn’t look good on you anymore. Be ruthless. Its easier said than done, so make yourself a deal: for every 20 items you chuck, you can buy one killer piece. Keep a notebook or diary or take pictures If you felt great on any particular day wearing a certain outfit, write it down. Or even better, take a picture. I have found that taking pictures of myself is a great help in recognizing which outfits worked and looked good and which ones didn’t. Understand your personality and coloUrs Colours can also have a huge effect on your style and how you feel. Understand how certain colours make you feel. You can consider doing a colour analysis with an image consultant or you can do a style course. You can also do exercises like the style statement to understand your style personality. Keep a scrapbook or pin the styles that inspire you Whenever you see others wearing clothes you admire or like, try to get a picture and paste it in a note or scrapbook or pin it on pinterest. After a while, you will see a pattern developing of the kind of styles that you like. Take note of that and remind yourself about this style before going for the latest fashionable trend. toke makinwa Be critical of your current wardrobe Be honest. Which garments in your closet do you really like? How many of the garments have you not worn for a long time. How many were mistakes. Again, write down what didn’t work. Which clothes make you happy? Then throw away or swap any items that you know doesn’t really look good on you. They may be great pieces, but if they don’t suit you or your body type, you will not look stylish on them. Make sure that every item you buy fits you I’m sure this happened to you. You see an absolutely wonderful piece of clothing at a rock bottom price. You try it on, but it’s just a little bit too short or too tight. You buy it anyway because the piece is so lovely and it’s cheap. This is a big mistake. Any clothing that does not fit you properly will never look good on you. So please beware of sales and only buy new clothes when you really adore them and they fit you properly. folake huntoon Only follow the latest trends when they fit your style or your body type True style defies fashion trends. Although it is nice to add some trendy pieces each season, you should only go for the trends that suit you. Try to wait for that trend that suits you and then buy several pieces. Make sure your wardrobe contains all the necessary basics for your style anna ebiere If through all of the above you got a clearer sense of what you like and what suits you, you need to determine if you have the basic essentials necessary for your particular style. These basics will be different for all of you. Go through your inspiration book and determine the absolutely necessary essentials for your style. idia aisien STYLE THISDAY Style Vol. 21, No. 7781 Sunday, August 14, 2016 & DESIGN STYLE CRUSH BOLA BALOGUN BY FUNKE BABS-KUFEJI Can you belive this hot sexy mama is a mother of five? Whether Bola Balogun’s out with her Glam Brand Agency team working of a luxury project, on the red carpet or just hanging out with her family and friends, this former stylish turn PR guru just oozes style everywhere she goes. Sure you all have noticed this fashionista knows her onions; she looks classy in this red dress, which shows, off her bodacious curves. Can we give her a round of applause here? All covered up yet still alluring. Palazzo pants are a perfect for a sophisticated cover up look, if ever in doubt about how to style them, take the cue from Bola and look super sophisticated while still covered up. Didn’t we tell you this fashionista was fabulous?! Even casually dressed, she makes a statement with her looks. Here, Bola wears a long sleeved button down shirt, tucked in a denim skirt with a front slit, a Gucci saddle bag which also doubles as a shoulder bag and we know can be purchased at the Polo Avenue here in Lagos. She finishes off the look with a pair of gold cap black suede shoes. Don’t you just love how all the different contrast of colours, prints and jewel tones come perfectly together? Bola is a stunner any day of the week. Here she wears a black dress by fast rising designer Meena and for a mother of five she looks way too hot not to do a double take. Her svelte figure is to die for and is every girls envy but what we love most is the way she has jazzed this LBD up with a statement neck piece and finished of the look with matching silver tone pointy pumps. Not one to always play it safe, Bola steps up her fashion game in this ball chic outfit. I really would have loved her to go all out with the basketball wives hoop earrings but she played the look safe with a pair of studs but all the same, she carries the look effortlessly. Bang on trend, Bola wows us on the carpet in her fringed Tamara Mellon Skirt looking like a bag of money. Her top totally complements the skirt, simple enough not to take attention away from her skirt, her bag and shoes are also colour appropriate and her long curly locks gives her look the fun flirty vibe to bring the look together. Explore the world with our USD cards You in Niagara Falls, Great Wall of China, Pyramid of Giza; You in Grand Canyon, Bora Bora… Have the best summer of your life with Stanbic IBTC USD cards for seamless transactions. #BestSummerCard Stanbic IBTC Bank Moving Forward TM A member of Standard Bank Group Stanbic IBTC Bank PLC RC: 125097 “Moving Forward is a Trademark of The Standard Bank of South Africa Limited”