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July
2010
MOM vs. DAD
DISCIPLINE
WHO RULES?
FAMILY
FUN
DOWN
THE
SHORE
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Table of
Contents
pg. 20
Family
Fun
Down
the
Shore
mom 2 mom
8 Five Life Lessons Learned In the
Baby Pool
10 Mom vs. Dad Discipline: Who Rules?
11 Entering Pet-Hood: How to Select
the Right Pet for Your Family
12 Your Quick and Easy Family
Reunion Planning Guide
moms R women 2
13 Managing Your Mother-In-Law
14 Maternity Guide
know 2 grow
24 Plan a Fun Play Date
25 Is My Child’s Speech Developing
Normally?
27 13 Reasons to Smile if You Have
a Tween
features
28 Eat Local
29 Summer Sun Smarts
publisher’s note
July 2010
Dear Readers,
Fw: Check Your Facts
Before You Spread
Rumors
recently got an
email from a friend
that I know and
trust (and still do). The
email topic hit close to
home, as it had to do with religion and
politics and the American Family. I try not
to forward emails to people because I
know how much I hate for my inbox to get
bogged down, but if the email is really
funny, or has something to do with my
values or beliefs, I will share it with people whom I think share the same interests.
After forwarding this emotionally
charged email, I got a message back from
another friend whom I know and trust,
and she said:
“Hey: I’ve seen this email before and
thankfully it is FALSE. Usually when I
get emails from people claiming
certain things, I’ve learned to go to
www.snopes.com to verify its validity
before I send it out to people. It’s a really
great site that has saved me many times
from spreading untruths and it tells you
which stories are true, false or mixed. I
think you’ll like it if you’ve never used it
before. Here is the link that speaks on the
email you sent below. Feel free to share it
with the people you just sent your email to
- perhaps they will all use it in the future
as well.”
Oh man, I felt like a HUGE jerk.
After I read this, I sat here thinking,
should I email ALL those people I just forwarded this email to and tell them I was
wrong? I would look like such a fool.
I
But I had to. I felt like I was a
terrible person for misleading
them into believing something
untrue. So often, I forward these
emails without thinking about the
consequences it could have on
society. I mean, of course I only
forwarded this email to a handful
of people, but they obviously passed it on,
and on, and on...because an hour after I
sent out my apology for misleading my
friends who know and trust me, I got this
email from a woman in Lima, Peru:
“We don’t know each other, but both of us
ended up receiving this email. I just wanted to say that I appreciate you using a fact
checker and also writing all the recipients
back with the truth. So many rumors go
around that so many believe as truth without actually finding out if it is the truth.
Thank you for seeking truth.”
WOW! That little email I sent to 16
friends and family ended up in the inbox
of someone more than 4,000 miles away!
It’s not only amazing, it’s scary. I use the
Internet every single day of my life, but I
never witnessed how powerful it really
could be. This really made me more aware
of how careful I should be before blasting
out info to people as if it’s fact. We spend
so much time on the Internet, and we are
always trying to learn how to keep our
children safe on the Internet...but we
really should be just as concerned with
ourselves.
Your Friend and Fellow MOM,
also in this issue
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publisher’s note
nana’s 2 sense
life sentences
business spotlight
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nana’s 2 sense
South Jersey
It’s Official, I’m Old
I
n case I wasn’t sure, my 4-year-old
grandson recently confirmed it for me.
We were dining at a Friendly’s, as we
often do Sundays after church. We were
talking about birthdays.
“Mommy and me have the same
birthday. Not daddy, not Camille, not
Nana, just me and mommy.”
“That’s right, Kayden. That makes
you and mommy special,” I say.
“Yep, I’m special and mommy’s
special...and you’re old!”; a mouthful, all
with a proud smile on his little face. We all
burst out laughing, of course.
This, after yesterday’s compliments
from coworkers that my new haircut
makes me look ten years younger. And
advice from the lady in the salon I asked
to wax just about my whole face. “Stop
looking so close in the magnifying
mirror.”
Now I know this “little man” is really
smart but I am also pretty sure Kayden
does not know how to say things, deliberately, to hurt people’s feelings; but it did
kind of hit me.
I have to admit, I have been fighting
the inevitable all along the way. It’s easy
to see the face age, but I think I first
noticed that my body was aging more than
ten years ago. I looked down and thought
I saw wrinkles in my panty hose…those
wrinkles weren’t in my panty hose, they
were on my knees. I started running. It did
not help. Loose skin is loose skin.
Through the years, I have changed
my hairstyle and hair color several times,
just to realize that I kind of like the natural salt and pepper gray every time it
grows back. I had my teeth straightened
and whitened. I even had the eyelid lift. I
still run and exercise and eat healthy, most
of the time.
I take much
better care of
myself than
I did when I
was younger.
Don’t get
me wrong, I
do like the
woman I am today, inside. But, I can no
longer be proud of the fact that I don’t
need any “medicinal” health assistance (I
hate swallowing pills); I take blood pressure medicine. I have a touch of arthritis
in my hands which, short of pain meds, I
can’t do much about. My eyes have
regressed from single vision glasses, to bifocal, to tri-focal. AND, I’m not sure if I
can still stand on my head. (My girls used
to brag about the fact that their mom could
do cartwheels and stand on her head.)
Maybe I’ll try it tomorrow just to check. It
might just encourage some fresh blood
flow and wake up some sleeping brain
cells. OR I could pass out and hope someone comes by (because I would only
attempt this when no one is around) to call
9-1-1.
Well, I don’t have to deliberate about
that two piece bathing suit anymore. Just
because something fits, doesn’t mean you
should wear it. It’s time to accept the
inevitable and grow old gracefully.
—I-am-truly-Nana-now,
Jean
Nana Jean is a South Jersey grandmother with
two daughters and six grandchildren. Enjoy her
stories about her 38+ years as a mom and 19 years
as a grandmother as she shares her experiences
and lessons learned with lots of laughs and tears
along the way.
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life sentences
Natural Beauty Shines with the
Right Cosmetics
he intricacies of makeup
have long been a mystery to
me. With my light skin and
fair hair, too much color can be a garish
mistake.
I have gone for makeovers periodically at department stores where the ladies
applied foundation with a trowel and
sketched in my brows with charcoal briquettes, smoothing on goop to “even out
my skin tones.” That’s Lancôme-speak for
cover my freckles. Mostly, I came out
looking like Joel Gray in Cabaret.
It was not until recently that my
friend, Miok, a Korean lady, finally gave
me the keys to cosmetic competence. She
is an artist, and knew exactly what tones
would pink me up. For my makeover, she
put together a kit containing just the right
colors for everyday and “dramatic” and
she applied them sensibly so I could do it
again, when she was not around. At my
high school reunion, the photographer
came up to me and said, “You are the most
attractive woman in this room.”
I told myself she was talking about
my inner beauty, but really, it was my
Christian Dior.
Recently, my young daughter was in
her elementary school play, Aladdin Jr. At
age 11, she is a lover of fashion, an
unstoppable shopper. And, she is fairskinned. The night before the play, she
approached me charmingly, knowing my
rule: no makeup until you are 16.
“Mom, Lauren’s mom is going to
T
come in early to help us do our hair and
makeup. Do you have some we could
practice with?”
To be honest, my age limit on makeup is to protect my daughter; first, because
she has extremely sensitive skin, and second, I cannot forget my early experiments
with avocado eyelids, pearlized white lipstick that erased my lips, and thick black
mascara. Picture me working as a waitress
in the church basement, where 200 Bingo
addicts chain-smoked while I walked the
aisles serving greasy burgers and fries.
My eyes streamed with tears in the blue
nicotine haze that hung over the tables,
and my mascara ran down like Alice
Cooper’s nightmare. Oh, yes. My mother
found out.
I always thought I would be a mom
who would introduce my daughter to a
qualified cosmetician who would teach
her the difference between glamour and
ghastly, when she reached the appropriate
age. But this was a special occasion. She
was in the ensemble cast of an Arabian
tale, and a little exotica was called for.
I hauled myself off of the couch and
together we made up her sweet young
face: tinted moisturizer, two coats of mascara, layered color for her eyes, and bright
red lipstick. Okay, so the lips were an
intemperate choice. She removed the
candy-apple red and opted for a light
berry gloss.
I sat mesmerized during the play,
watching my girl and her friends dance,
sing, and enjoy the drama of the Arabian
By Fran LoBiondo
princess and the humble street urchin who
fell in love.
It was a tour de force, a highlight of
her grade school days. Next year, she will
enter Middle School, where I hope there
will be zero tolerance for shiny harem outfits and sparkly Vegas excess. A mother
can only take so much.
Fran LoBiondo of Vineland has children in grade
school, high school and college. A Purdue University
graduate with a degree in Journalism, she has
written about parenting, food and fun for 25 yrs.
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5 Life Lessons
or many of us, summertime means
trips to the local pool. On the surface, these excursions may just seem
like a way to get our children out for some
exercise, or an opportunity to catch up on
some much needed adult conversation. But
the time spent at the pool, specifically the
baby pool, is so much more! Lessons that
will last a lifetime are etched into those
impressionable, young minds.
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Making new friends can be a bit nerve
wracking, but sometimes making the
first effort pays off. For many kids, the
baby pool is their first interaction with
other children of similar age and they are
not quite sure what to do. One summer, I
watched my son eye a little boy and his toy
shark for ten minutes. I kept saying to him,
“Go over, say hi and ask him if he wants to
play with you.” But he needed to do it in
his own time. Eventually, a few days later,
he did go over to that little boy and they
became pool buddies for the rest of the
summer. When my son is in high school
and hesitant to stick his neck out, I’m
going to pull out that example to illustrate
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Learned in the
Baby Pool By Kate Hogan
what good can result if you are willing to
make the first move.
Sharing is not always easy, but it’s a
good thing! So what I did not mention in
Lesson #1 was that the little boy with the
toy shark did not want to share at first. But
when my son pulled the dump truck from
behind his back, he gladly handed the
shark over. Okay, so maybe sharing is easier when you know you are going to get
something in return. But as you get older
and you can see that you just created happiness for another person, sharing becomes
easier and you do not need any kind of
material possession in return. As an adult,
that kind of joy is something I strive for
everyday.
You know how the saying goes – “We
don’t swim in your toilet, so please don’t
pee in our pool.” Or “Even if you are not
going to get caught, you still have to follow the rules.” Contrary to what many
people think, rules are NOT meant to be
broken, especially when you are two.
Teaching children rules and boundaries is
vital to their future success in school, work
and life in general. And you know what
they say: you can’t teach an old dog new
tricks.
When pretzels fall into the water, they
get soggy. Translation: Hold onto the
things that are dear. There are few things
more sacred to a toddler than a snack. So
when something bad happens to their treat,
say if it falls into the pool, they will
remember and NOT let it happen again.
Hopefully, with a lot of good parenting and
a little bit of luck, pretzels will be the only
thing our children get soggy.
When all else fails, crying to your mom
makes you feel better! Inevitably, your
child is going to get their feelings hurt, be
it at the baby pool or somewhere else. As
mothers, one of the best things we can do
for our children is to create a haven where
they can share their burdens and feel safe
and secure. Sometimes, a hug and a kiss
from someone who loves you unconditionally is all you need to make everything all
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MOM vs. DAD Discipline
Who Rules?
By Sandra Gordon
isagree with your spouse when the
kids will not behave? Four couples
with clashing styles learn to work
together and get better results.
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Shaney and Louis Goldenberg with
Zachary, 3
“She believes in time-outs. I don’t.”
Discipline Dilemma: Shaney gives Zachary time-outs when he misbehaves. “But he
just does the same thing 10 minutes later,”
Louis says. Then again, Louis’s tactic of
ignoring Zachary while he acts out has not
reduced the outbursts either.
Misbehavior Makeover: Punishing bad
behavior does not teach children the proper
way to act, says Jane Nelsen, Ed.D. author
of Positive Discipline. In fact, it usually
backfires, making a child feel rebellious or
inadequate. Instead of giving time-outs or
withholding attention, the Goldenbergs
should try a hug. “A hug doesn’t reward
misbehavior,” says Nelsen. “It helps a child
reach a better state of mind. Then, you can
help him figure out a better solution.”
Three Weeks Later: Zachary threw a fit
when his dad wanted to stop for bagels on
their way to a bowling alley. Louis was so
annoyed he drove straight home instead.
When Shaney heard what happened, she
spoke gently with Zachary about the incident. “Once he settled down, we discussed
what he could do differently the next time,”
she says. Louis was impressed with how
Zachary responded to Shaney and decided
to try the settle-down-first-then-talk-it-out
approach too. It worked. A week later, when
Louis took Zachary to a batting cage and it
was closed, Zachary easily agreed to go
home. “It’s amazing what a difference it
makes to speak calmly to a child when he’s
upset,” Louis says.
Margarida and Daniel Wainraich with
Danielle, 6, and Hope, 4
“I like to coddle. He likes to threaten.”
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Discipline Dilemma: Danielle and Hope
never put their toys away. Consequently, the
Wainraichs’ house is messy. “I’m lenient,”
says Margarida, who often picks up after
them. Daniel is less forgiving. If the girls
ignore his request to clean up, he threatens
to throw their toys away. “They’re old
enough to understand consequences,” he
says.
Misbehavior Makeover: The girls should
learn to pick up after themselves, says
Susan Isaacs Kohl, preschool director. To
encourage the process, the Wainraichs
should offer an incentive to clean up, such
as telling Danielle and Hope they can play
outside once they are finished. “That’s not
bribing,” Kohl says. Rather, it makes them
understand that completing chores makes
other fun activities possible. If the girls do
not help out, Margarida and Daniel should
calmly explain that they will not be able to
play with those toys for the rest of the day.
Three Weeks Later: “The first time I told
Danielle she had to clean up, she thought I
was joking,” Margarida says. “But I kept
calmly saying, ‘We’re all doing this together.’ Eventually, she helped, and Hope did
too.” Daniel tried the same tactic. “I kept it
positive by focusing on how clean the playroom would look when we were done,” he
says. “It worked.” One day, when Danielle
and Hope wouldn’t cooperate, they did not
get to go to the park. But that only happened
once. “Now they put their things away without us having to tell them,” Margarida says,
proudly.
Janine and Michael Sillat, with Ethan, 2,
and Emma, 2 months
“We don’t agree on spanking.”
Discipline Dilemma: Ethan has meltdowns whenever his sippy cup isn’t filled or
he does not want to get dressed. “Maybe
spanking will help Ethan listen,” Michael
says. Janine is opposed to the idea, but she
has not been able to derail Ethan’s tantrums
using a softer approach.
Misbehavior Makeover: First, the Sillats
should understand that Ethan’s behavior is
normal for his age, says Carleton Kendrick,
family therapist. Ethan’s defiance stems
from his growing awareness of the power he
wields by saying “No!” Moreover, baby
Emma’s arrival means he’s no longer the
center of attention—a big blow for a child
this age.
Next, “they must accept that spanking
merely teaches a child that grown-ups can
hurt him,” Kendrick says. Instead, Janine
and Michael should give Ethan extra attention and emphasize the big-boy things he
can do—run and eat by himself—that
Emma can’t. When they sense he’s
approaching a meltdown, the Sillats should
distract him—for example, challenging him
to see how fast he can get dressed.
Three Weeks Later: Giving Ethan extra
affection has had a positive impact. “Before
I leave for work, Ethan always has me give
everyone, including him, a big hug and then
a little hug,” Michael says. “He gets such a
big kick out of it.” Diversionary tactics have
also reduced Ethan’s tantrums. “And even
when Ethan does act out, knowing his
behavior will ease up as he matures makes
it easier to deal with,” Janine says.
Jennifer and Chris McKinley, with Brenna,
2, and Ian and Patrick, 7 months
“He’s the good guy. I’m stuck being the
enforcer.”
Discipline Dilemma: Chris travels during
the week, which leaves Jennifer, a stay-athome mom, in charge of discipline. “And
when Chris is home, I’m judgmental. For
example, he might try to make Brenna
laugh if she’s whining,” says Jennifer. “That
doesn’t teach her anything.”
Misbehavior Makeover: “The McKinleys
should follow this simple guideline:
Whoever speaks first, rules,” says Karen
Deerwester, early-childhood specialist. That
is, if Chris disciplines Brenna, he calls the
shots for that occasion. If Jennifer disagrees
with his method, she should talk about it
with him after Brenna is asleep. “It’s important to realize there’s not one right way to
handle a situation,” Deerwester says.
Three Weeks Later: The “who speaks first
rule” paid off. “I let Chris handle more situations with Brenna,” Jennifer says. And
Chris was happy to take control more often.
“I’m dealing with behavioral issues because
Jennifer allows me to,” he says. Their new
approach has made a world of difference.
“Brenna listens to me more because I’m less
stressed,” Jennifer says.
inding an irresistible pet and creating a cute-cuddly name that
matches is the least of your worries and woes when considering what pet is most suitable for your family. There are as
many obligations and scenarios to consider as there are selections of
pet breeds and species.
The Internet, library, television and veterinarian’s office are
flooded with information about entering “pet-hood.” Most
resources recommend basing your decision on four factors: your
family’s needs, lifestyle, time and cost.
Knowing your family’s needs is crucial. The best way to get
every family member’s opinion is to have a meeting. Make it possible to discuss potential fears, concerns, medical issues and preferences. Age is a large factor in this matter. Lindsay Davis, CVT and
office manager at East Oak Veterinarian Hospital in Vineland recommends animal size and characteristics be considered. For example, “with toddlers, consider a sturdy puppy, [as] opposed to a fragile bunny.”
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Entering Pet-hood:
How to Select the RIGHT PET
for Your Family By Makema Douglas
How much time does your family have in their schedule for a
pet? Think ahead and plan for pet care when you are away. What is
the pet’s life expectancy? Some pets can live as long as thirty years.
In most cases, training is involved. Jersey mom Bridgett
MacMillan, a volunteer who fosters animals through PAWS
(Philadelphia Animal Welfare Society) says, “The most common
reason [people] give up their pets is because of improper training. If
an animal is trained properly, [it] can be a wonderful addition to the
family.”
The amount of time required for regular interaction with a pet
varies. Lindsay Stone, local mother of three small children and
owner of two large dogs, admits, “I didn’t notice it before, but after
the kids, it was harder to stay on top of cleaning [up] after the dogs.”
Pets also require a financial commitment. Stone shared her stories
about the critical surgical procedures necessary for saving her dogs’
lives and the unexpected medical costs. She says, “If you are
ready…you are going to be able to make life better for them.”
Owning a pet comes with a price. All pets have specific care
and dietary needs. Regular veterinarian visits are to be expected.
Several online sources suggest that owners maintain an “emergency
fund.”
Search for a pet that fits in with your lifestyle. Determine if
your family spends more time indoors or outdoors and is active or
more relaxed. Choose a pet that will enjoy your family’s activities.
Although the jump into pet-hood may be complicated, Davis says,
“There are many rewards to choosing the best pet. Look at your life
style and do the research. Most people are looking for companionship and unconditional love and they can most certainly give you
that.”
In your quest to find the pet with the most compatible characteristics, training needs, personality and sociability for your family,
take a close look so your pet will have what Davis refers to as a
home “fur-ever.”
TOP 10 DOG BREEDS FOR KIDS
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Your Quick
and Easy
FAMILY
REUNION
Planning Guide
By Gwen Recinto
o matter how large or small your family is, getting together for a reunion is a great way to catch up and create
memories. Whether you are in charge of planning or looking to start a new tradition, check out the helpful hints below.
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Create a guest list that includes family members, spouses,
partners and children. Be sure to collect phone numbers, email
and mailing addresses. You may want to bring and distribute
copies of your list at the reunion so everyone has it.
Pick a date, time and place. Consider a time when most people
will be off from work or school — for example, a national holiday
like Labor Day. Also, pick a location that is convenient for most
family members.
Determine a budget and decide how much each family will
need to contribute. If your event will be at a public park, figure
out what each family should bring — for
example, an appetizer or dessert. Be sure to
have a back-up plan in case it rains. If the
reunion will be at a hotel or hall, be sure to
make reservations early.
Plan reunion activities for all ages. For example, you may want
to include icebreakers, games and contests. You can even ask
people to bring old photos and plan a family craft project. Plan to
give away prizes for games and special awards such as “oldest
family member.”
Send a “Save the Date” email or flier to spread the word
about the family reunion. Use this as an opportunity to ask for
help and give information about the cost for each family. Follow
up with invitations and directions.
If worse comes to worst, just go with it. Everything will work out
fine...and if it does not, you will be better prepared for next year!
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Plan ahead for outdoor events. There are
many reasons to rent a tent, but the main ones
would be to stay dry from rain and stay cool
from the sun. Rental City, located on Landis
Avenue in Vineland recommends selecting a
rental company that is fully insured. “This
means they have liability and worker’s compensation insurance. This is very important,
because you as the home owner will know the
rental company is responsible,” says Lisa
VanMeter. Pick someone with a good reputation. “There is more to putting up a tent then
you may think. Pick a company that can help
you from the tent to the spoon you put on the
table,” says VanMeter.
Plan the menu. Consider special family
recipes and dishes that celebrate your
heritage. If you need a caterer, be sure to add
this cost to your budget.
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Mother-in-law
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arrying the man of your dreams is exciting. Reciting the vows “for better or for worse”
should come with a caveat to include dealing with his mother. Here are five tips to help
build a better relationship with your MIL.
By Renee Taylor Negin
Be understanding. Your husband might be the love of your
life now, but he has been the apple of her eye since the day
he was born. Give your MIL a chance to get to know
you, to see that you have his best interests at heart. Do
your best to start off on the right foot from the first time
you meet her—do not wear your weekend club clothes
to her house for dinner—and praise her for the wonderful job she has done raising such a caring, kind
individual.
Make the effort. Get to
know your MIL. Learn
about her as a person—
about her childhood, her family
life, your son’s childhood, etc.
She is a valuable resource for
family history. Learning about
her relationship with her husband
might prove useful in understanding how your husband
sees his role in your own marriage. Remember that once
you are married, your MIL is
part of your family. Treat her
as kindly as you would your
own mother. Remember her
birthday. Keep her up to date on
information regarding your kids.
Send her photos. Find a common interest and use that to build a friendship with
your MIL.
Do not compete. Do not get into a battle of who
loves him more. There is room in his heart to receive
love from both of you, and for him to love his mother’s meatloaf and your broiled salmon. The same goes
for gift-giving. If your MIL gives him a watch at
Christmas, do not one-up her with a fancier version for
his birthday.
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to your MIL when you and your husband are having problems. Do
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or his lack of table manners. Your MIL will see these as insults to
her parenting or an attack on her child, which will raise her hackles and put a wall between you.
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before bedtime will not hurt your children, and they will not come
home expecting the same from you. Likewise, rather than grit
your teeth when she starts to offer advice, smile and graciously listen. Hearing what she has to say does not mean you have to follow her advice, but for the sake of the relationship, listening to
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Following these tips might not bridge the gap between you and
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maternity guide
False Alarms
By Hema AdunuthulaJonnalagadda, M.D.
Am I Really in Labor and When Should I Call the Doctor?
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considered labor unless they dilate the
cervix. So, time them from the beginning
of one contraction to the beginning of the
next. Contractions are those where your
whole belly tightens up followed by a
feeling of relaxation. If they are every
3-5 minutes, increasing in intensity
and pain, taking your breath away,
and last for at least 1-2 hours, call
your OB. Constant abdominal
or low back pain is usually not considered labor-related
pain. If it lasts even
after simple measures like resting,
moist heating pads,
or Tylenol, call your
OB.
very pregnant woman goes
through the quandary of how
to recognize true labor. Even
though I am an obstetrician and
explain the symptoms of true labor
to patients every day, experiencing it myself changed my perception of labor. Now, I am very
much in tune with the predicament of a pregnant woman when
they ask questions about signs of
labor.
HERE ARE THE MOST
COMMON FALSE ALARMS:
Infrequent, irregular
contractions:
It takes regular (every 3-5 minutes, lasting 30-60 seconds)
contractions to dilate the
cervix. Those annoying contractions you may have are not
Spotting or passing mucus plug:
Scanty vaginal ble-
eding associated with a few contractions
after intercourse or after a long day of
activity is not unusual. It’s not necessarily
a sign of labor. Wait. If it gets worse like a
period bleeding, call your OB. Passing
your mucus plug can happen a few days to
weeks prior to your actual labor. Again,
wait and watch for regular contractions.
Leaking of fluid or increased
vaginal discharge:
It’s fairly common to lose bladder control
with the baby’s head pressing on it. If you
feel a gush, change your pad and see
if you stay dry. Call your OB if you are
constantly wet.
Hema Adunuthula-Jonnalagadda, M.D., is a board
certified OB/GYN who completed her residency at
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Philadelphia. She practiced at Pennsylvania
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Manage “to do” time for more “you” time.
Juggling the daily needs of the entire family doesn’t
leave much room for “you” time. Fortunately, there’s
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Pregnancy and
Preeclampsia
M
ost women look forward to pregnancy as an exciting time of
change. Few anticipate complications.
According to research, the most common serious medical
complication for pregnant women is preeclampsia, occurring in
about 10 percent of all first-time pregnancies.
Preeclampsia can endanger the lives of both mother and baby.
The disease remains elusive—its exact cause is unknown, and there
is no single method of diagnosis.
What is preeclampsia?
Preeclampsia, also called toxemia or pregnancy-induced hypertension (PIH), is a serious medical condition affecting all organs of the
body. When a woman develops high blood pressure (above 140/90)
in the last half of her pregnancy, and protein is detected in the urine,
preeclampsia is suspect. Follow-up blood work, urine analysis and
blood pressure can confirm the diagnosis.
What are signs of preeclampsia?
Although some do not experience any signs, women should alert
their caregiver if they experience:
• strong headaches
• vision problems
• nausea/vomiting
• decrease in urination
• sudden weight gain
• stomach pain, often on the right side under the ribs
• swelling, while common during healthy pregnancies, may
accompany preeclampsia
Five Tips for
Healthy Blood
Pressure By Anna Centuolo
watermelon are also recommended. Cook with fresh garlic and
parsley. Enjoy a sweet, crispy snack by shredding raw beets with
apples.
Fresh dandelion leaves (a crop local to South Jersey) are
extremely beneficial—simply add to salads. Avoid stimulants
like spicy foods, pepper and caffeine.
3. Prenatal vitamins: Taking multivitamins prior to and during
pregnancy can reduce the risk of preeclampsia as much as 71
percent.
4. Herbal supplements: Nettle, dandelion and raspberry leaf tea
nourish and enrich the blood. Skullcap, also available as tea, is
a remedy for elevated blood pressure. Taking passionflower
daily, in pill or tincture form, can lower blood pressure too.
5. Exercise: If blood pressure is normal to moderately elevated,
exercise is advantageous. During exercise, circulation increases.
Blood vessels dilate and stretch, reducing pressure.
Anna Centuolo, mother of three, is a childbirth educator, doula, and member of the
Association of Labor Assistants and Childbirth Educators. She runs South Jersey’s
chapter of BirthNetwork National, a local organization holding free childbirth
preparation classes for expecting parents. For more information, or to locate
mother-friendly caregivers or other birth-related services, visit www.SouthJerseyBirth
Network.com or email Anna at sjbirthnetwork@hotmail.com.
Can preeclampsia be prevented or treated?
Once a woman has full-blown preeclampsia, the only remedy is
birth. Thus, prevention is critical.
The following techniques can minimize the risk of developing
preeclampsia: (Always talk to your doctor
before changing your diet, starting exercise
or taking herbs.)
1. Proper nutrition: There is substantial
evidence linking preeclampsia to poor
nutrition. Pregnant women need 2,400
calories per day minimum. Consuming at
least 80g of protein daily is said to be vital
in preventing preeclampsia. Eat a balance of
quality carbohydrates, fresh fruits and vegetables and high-fiber foods. Do not eliminate salt, as this can lend to preeclampsia; instead, salt foods to taste. Drink
plenty of fluids.
2. Foods that lower blood pressure: It may be possible to halt or
delay the potential onset of
preeclampsia at the first sign of elevated blood pressure. Eating one
cucumber a day reduces blood pressure. Bananas, potato skins and
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Dental Problems During
Pregnancy
M
ost people don’t think
about dental health
during pregnancy. Although you have a lot to think
about during this time, oral
health is important and should
not be neglected.
• Problem 1—Hormonal
changes can make your gums
sore, swollen and bleeding.
This can be prevented by
brushing and flossing your
teeth daily. If you did not have
your teeth cleaned before you
found out you were pregnant,
having your teeth cleaned
by a dental hygienist or dentist
early in your pregnancy may
help prevent
problems.
most
gum
• Problem 2—Some women
develop a “pregnancy tumor”
on their gums. This is a painless bump on your gums that
can be pink, red or purple. It
will usually not cause any
problems, but care should be
taken to keep the area around
the tumor clean. See your dentist if you think you may be
having this problem.
• Problem 3—If you need to
have emergency dental care
during your pregnancy, you
may need to have some X-rays
taken of your teeth. Always be
sure to remind your dental care
professional of your pregnancy. Care should be taken to
limit or avoid nitrous
oxide, some prescribed
antibiotics and some pain
medications.
It’s important to see
your dentist and dental
hygienist during your pregnancy to prevent dental problems. Be sure to make a dental
appointment before your baby
is born. After birth, it may be
several months before you will
be able to find the time for an
appointment.
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he benefits of breastfeeding are
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and more. But once a woman is committed to the decision to breast feed her
baby, she is often uncertain about where
to turn for supplies and support.
Michelle Tucker, owner of Away Baby
Essentials, recognizes the need for both.
An RN with a background in research,
and a mom of a 5-year-old and a baby on
the way, Tucker sells breast pumps, as
well as support and guidance to her customers.
In 2005, Tucker started her
Deptford-based business, which was
then called Away Baby Rentals. She
rented baby equipment—high chairs,
strollers, cribs, car seats and more—
for those passing through South
Jersey on their way to the
shore. She sold breastfeeding supplies as well. As
her business grew, she
realized breastfeeding
needed to be her main
focus. She changed
the name of her business to Away Baby
Essentials, stopped
renting
equipment
and dedicated herself
to assisting other moms
on their journey.
Tucker enjoyed breastfeeding her baby and
wants other moms to be able to do the
same. She heard others speak of the
need for affordable breastfeeding essentials. She wanted to help make things
easier for them by providing those
essentials at an affordable price. She
points
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breastfeeding,
even with the supplies, is cheaper than
formula.
Along with supplies, Away Baby
Essentials offers support to nursing
moms. Tucker says, “Breastfeeding
equipment is medical equipment,” and
she knows nursing moms sometimes
have issues and questions. Her parenting
experience and nursing background
allow her to offer caring and knowledgeable support to her customers.
“Sometimes you need a nurse, sometimes you need a mom, and sometimes
you need someone not related to
you,” to help you work things
out, she says.
In addition to pumps, Away Baby Essentials
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When she’s working, he often joins
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fun for him and makes sure he
knows he is a priority in her life. The
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every night. Tucker reminds her son
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him how important he is,” she says,
because she makes sure he knows it
directly from her. Tucker admits being a
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day with her son. She is due this month
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while scampering around the office or
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t’s Summer and all parents are looking for something fun to do with the family.
While getting away from it all and going out of town is always exciting, a day trip or
weekend in South Jersey can be just as fun! This area is filled with great times.
The Wildwoods are a perfect
destination for a family vacation.
With loads of FREE things to do,
beautiful, award-winning beaches
and a boardwalk, the Wildwoods
offer an unmatched family vacation
destination.
The Wildwoods Beaches are
FREE of charge and feature swimming, surfing, fishing, boating,
jet-skiing, sailing and kayaking.
With three spectacular amusement
piers boasting more rides and attractions than Disneyland, three interactive water parks, carnival-style midway games, arcades and a myriad of
shops and eateries there is something
for every age.
More than 180 FREE festivals
and events are scheduled in the
Wildwoods annually, from FREE
Friday night fireworks in the summer and classic car shows, to dance
competitions and the largest kite festival in North America. Learn more
at www.wildwoodsnj.com
Known as “The Strangest Place
in Atlantic City” is Ripley's Believe
it or Not! This amazing museum is
sure to thrill the entire family.
Experience their unique and unbelievable treasures and amazing artifacts 365 days of the year.
This year Ripley’s is opening
“The Vault-Laser Maze Challenge.”
This web of lasers challenges players
to go over and under as quickly as
possible to reach the end of the
maze.
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Ripley’s annual Face Off contest is on Wednesday, August
18th. Perhaps the quirkiest contest in Atlantic City, the annual Face
Off contest is a competition to find the person with the funniest
facial expression. Contestants compete for prizes and the chance to
have their “funny face” immortalized on Ripley’s “Face Off Wall of
Fame.” Located at New York Ave and the Boardwalk, Atlantic
City. Learn more at www.ripleysatlanticcity.com.
While you’re in Atlantic City, don’t forget to visit Steel Pier.
Steel Pier added three new additional rides for the 2010 season,
including the first “Spinning Drop Tower” of its kind in the
USA. They also have free live shows daily with fun for all ages.
For show schedules and other info visit www.steelpier.com.
Ocean City bills itself as America’s Greatest Family
Resort. Just about everything in town is geared toward
giving you and your family the best vacation experience possible. Ocean City offers eight miles of beautiful beaches, complete
with lifeguards on duty for your safety, but the beaches do
require a beach badge.
The summer calendar is full of fun events like freckle
contests, a hermit crab beauty pageant and more. Don’t miss the
Discovery Seashell Museum on Asbury Avenue. You’ll see
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When visiting Ocean City, Pirate Voyages is a “Must Do.”
Climb aboard the 2008 USCG custom made Pirate Ship known as
the “Sea Dragon.” Pirates of all ages enjoy an hour of old-fashioned
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swashbuckling fun with face painting, sea
chanteys, storytelling and fun, all while
decoding a secret map to find the Hidden
Underwater Treasure. For schedule and
info visit www.piratevoyages.com.
There is so much to do and see in
Cape May that even on a rainy day, you
won’t be bored. Cape May is the perfect
vacation choice for families with children,
because they have family-friendly beaches
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zoo, open year-round.
Biking in Cape May is a favorite past
time. Rent a really cool bicycle rig called a
surrey, complete with fringe on top for $10
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and dolphin watching boat in South Jersey.
Touting the largest, fastest, cleanest and
most stable boat around, they guarantee a
dolphin or whale sighting or you get a free
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Last but certainly not least, don’t miss
the Historic Cold Spring Village, located
on Route 9, three miles north of Cape May.
This Early American open-air living
history museum brings to life the
day-to-day activities of villagers living in
South Jersey during the “age of homespun” (1790-1840). Visitors can make a
personal connection between the past and
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enjoy playing at the activity area where
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know 2 grow
plan a
FUN
play date
P
lay dates can be so much fun! There is nothing better
than being with friends, no matter how old you are.
Playing, laughing, sharing or just being next to each
other is what life is all about. And, with some careful planning,
you and your child can arrange a fun play date! Below are
thirteen tips to keep everyone happy!
THE PLAN:
1. Unless the parents are going to stay, do not invite too many
children to your play date. You want it to be manageable and fun.
2. If you are going to serve a snack or meal, remember to ask if the
child has any food allergies. If he or she has more than one, ask
mom to e-mail you a list of foods that are off limits before the play
date.
3. If your child is 3 or older, ask if there are any special toys he or
she does not want his friends to touch and put them away. Broken
toys and meltdowns are not fun.
4. Plan to keep the play date short and sweet. One to two hours
should be perfect.
5. Do not plan a play date when you know your child will be hungry or tired.
6. Put out a small number of carefully selected toys. Too many toys
and games can create total chaos.
THE DATE:
7. If your child is a young baby and having a guest, spread out a
blanket, lay the babies next to each other and watch what happens.
You will hear lots of cooing and see lots of touching. You can also
lay them both in front of the mirror.
8. Until toddlers are about 3 ½ years old, there is parallel play.
While it sometimes looks like they are not playing together, they are
having fun. Do not try to force organized play, as parallel play is
perfect for this age of development.
9. Sharing is not always easy for little ones. A small kitchen timer
is a must. Let each child set the timer for five minutes to play with
that popular toy. When the bell rings, it’s time to take turns.
10. Homemade play-dough, jumbo crayons and paper are fun while
working on small motor skills.
11. Do not forget about music; freeze dance and musical chairs are
the best!
12. It’s nice to break up the play date with a snack-time and also
helps children settle down for a few minutes. Choose a healthy
snack. Fruit or vegetable slices served with a yogurt dip are great
choices.
13. When the play date is coming to an end, set the timer and ask
the children to clean up before the bell rings.
The most important thing to keep in mind when planning a play
date: “nothing is perfect.” Do not stress and do not over plan.
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By Blythe Lipman
Sometimes, the best-laid plans can change in the blink of an eye.
You do not have to provide entertainment every second. Play dates
are about fun, no matter what activities are available. Just enjoy
watching your child nurture friendships that can last a lifetime.
Blythe Lipman is the president of Baby Instructions. She is passionate about
babies, toddlers and their parents. After working in the field for over 25 years, she
wrote her second award-winning book, MORE…HELP! MY BABY CAME
WITHOUT INSTRUCTIONS available at www.babyinstructions.com. You can
hear Blythe’s weekly radio show on Mondays, 11am EST @ www.toginet.com.
PLAY-DOUGH RECIPE
Ingredients:
• 1 cup flour
• ½ cup salt
• 2 teaspoons cream of
tartar
• 2 Tablespoons oil
•
•
•
1 cup warm water
Several drops food
coloring
Several drops of
essential oil—orange
or lavender smell great!
(if desired)
Directions:
Stir first 5 ingredients in a pot over low heat until
combined.Remove dough from heat and add a few
drops of food coloring until desired color is achieved.
And add essential oil if desired. Knead dough until
smooth. Allow to cool and place in an airtight container.
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Is My Child’s Speech
Progressing Normally?
By Sharon K. Pearl, M.A.C.C.C.-S.L.P.
ow do you know when to be concerned about your child’s speech or
language development? Keep these
general guidelines in mind.
Babies from about 6 to 9 months coo
and babble and, by about 10 months, speak
“gibberish” or their own “foreign language.” They enjoy making a lot of different speech sounds and communicating
with you by using their sounds and by
looking at you and laughing with you.
Twelve to 18-month-old babies start
saying their first words and following
directions, such as, “Give me the cup.”
Vocabulary increases rapidly so that, by
24 months, babies say about 50 words.
Twenty-four-month-old babies follow
simple directions like, “Put down the cup
and bring me your shoes.”
An explosion of language development takes place between 2 and 3 years.
Sentences of three or four words are used
and your child follows directions, such as,
“Put it under your bed.” Or “Put the ball on
top of the table.”
Four-year-old children speak in sentences of at least four words and their
grammar is correct for the most part.
Everyone is expected to understand a
4-year-old’s speech, even if the child does
not say all of the sounds correctly.
If you are concerned about your
child’s speech or language development,
here are some signs to watch for:
H
Infants:
• Does not respond to sound and does not
engage in “baby talk.”
• Cannot stick out tongue or tip of the
tongue appears split.
12 to 24 months:
• Is not pointing to desired objects and
isn’t waving “bye bye.”
• At 18 months, is communicating mostly
by gestures, rather than spoken words,
and has trouble imitating sounds.
Older than 24 months:
• Is difficult to understand.
• Two-year-olds are understood about half
the time
• Three-year-olds are understood about
three quarters of the time.
• Four-year-olds are understood almost
all of the time by adults outside of the
family.
tal lines. If you or your child’s pediatrician
suspect your child is experiencing a
problem, an early evaluation by a Speech –
Language Pathologist (SLP) is essential.
When speech and language or developmental delays are present, early treatment
can provide the help the child needs. Once
you have a better understanding of your
child’s needs, you can learn ways to
encourage speech development in your
child.
There are many reasons children show
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ment. Sometimes hearing is impaired.
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ask the aDDvisor
Ask the
ADDvisor
By Linda Karanzalis, M.S.
Learning Specialist/
ADD Coach
Summertime is Prime Time to Jumpstart Your Child’s Social Skills!
hink back to when you were a kid and how you
couldn’t wait until school was out, and how you
looked forward to all the fun things you were going
to do. Summertime is a fun time for most children, but for those
who struggle with social skills it can be a stressful time.
School days and academics are replaced with new experiences
and environments, which naturally bring social skills to the forefront this time of year. What exactly are social skills and how does
one acquire them?
Simply put, social skills are a set of unwritten rules we are
expected to follow and abide by. It’s automatically assumed that
everyone knows these skills, although no one directly teaches
them. The majority of children learn by observation, role-modeling, trial and error.
However, for those with ADD or learning disabilities there are
roadblocks to learning these essential skills. Your child may have
trouble with making and keeping friends, interrupting others, talking too loud or invading others’ personal space. The consequences
for lacking social skills can be harsh; these children often become
easy targets for bullies and experience rejection and isolation.
So, what’s the good news? It may be a challenge but, with
practice and patience, your child can learn social skills.
Summertime is prime to work on these, as you have a classroom
complete with a learning lab right at your fingertips. There will be
many opportunities to prepare your child for specific activities and
events.
Check out the list below to guide you in teaching your child
the basics. The key is to introduce the following skills and practice
them in various role-playing scenarios. Once your child practices
these skills, he or she will become better able to navigate the social
scene. Of course, it will take time and effort from both of you.
Remember the words of Thomas Edison: “Genius is 1 percent
inspiration and 99 percent perspiration.”
T
Basic Social Skills
1. Listening skills (eye contact, nodding head, asking questions)
2. Voice – tone and volume
3. Personal Space
4. Body Talk (reading facial expressions and body language)
5. Starting Conversations
6. Staying on the Topic – talking about only one thing at a time and
responding to others without changing the subject
7. Stopping and thinking before talking or blurting things out
(visualizing a stop sign helps)
Linda Karanzalis, M.S., founder and owner of ADDvantages Learning Center in
Cherry Hill is the coordinator of CHADD of South Jersey, a non-profit organization
serving children and adults with attention deficit disorder. Listen to her “Ask the
ADDvisor‚” radio show on 92.1 FM. For more info contact Linda Karanzalis at
(856) 482-0756 or at www.addvantageslearningcenter.com.
Watching your child grow is an amazing process. However, some children are
challenged by injuries, illnesses or birth defects. SJH Kids RehabCare helps
families in our region by treating and managing pediatric disorders like
brachial plexus injuries, cerebral palsy, autism, speech/swallowing disorders
and developmental delays.
Our team of experts provides a variety of therapies including occupational,
physical and speech therapy services. For more information call 856-507-8585.
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13
to SMILE if
You Have a
Tween
By Angela De Groot
Y
ou survived the terrible twos, endured
the emotional threes, and navigated
potty training, play dates and birthday
parties. Now you find yourself confronted
with an eye rolling, shoulder shrugging, 10
going on 18-year-old. Welcome to the club –
you have a tween!
Tweens are children aged 9 to 12 in the
no man’s land between not quite a small
child and not a teenager. Ease their struggle
to find their feet in the teeter-totter world
of hormones, fickle friends and emotional
turmoil by keeping your smile handy. Here
are thirteen reasons to smile because you
have a tween:
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2
3
4
Tweens are funny. One minute
serious and mature, the next, bounding around the backyard chasing
squirrels with the dog. Seemingly
too old for hugs, yet still trying to
squeeze their five feet and 90
pounds onto the recliner with you.
Trips to the movies are less
painful. You are no longer handcuffed to G-rated movies but can
now choose a movie you actually
want to see. The mid-movie dash to
the restroom is a thing of the past.
Mother’s helpers and babysitters.
Twelve-year-olds may supplement
their pocket money by supervising
other children and need less supervision themselves, allowing you to
run errands or treat yourself to a
pedicure.
Not-so-picky eaters. Tweens are
more adventurous in their meal
choices. You can move away from
5
6
7
8
9
chicken nuggets and hot dogs and
start cooking one meal for the
whole family. Tweens are more
body conscious, so their choices
lean towards healthier food.
Sense of humor. Their slapstick
and knock-knock humor has
switched to higher brow irony, puns
and sarcasm. Of course, you can
still count on potty humor to bring
out the belly laughs you know and
love.
Developing sense of style. Tweens
discover the joys of grooming and
the wide range of products available
to create “the look.” When you run
low on makeup or hair gel, you can
raid your tween’s supply.
Better gifts. You will always cherish the kid-made treasures your preschooler proudly presented to you;
however, birthday and holiday gifts
become more thoughtful and useful
as your children grow older and
develop a better understanding of
your likes and needs.
Conversation. Tweens have a
better comprehension of the implications of current news events and
an increased awareness of the world
around them. This makes for intelligent and stimulating dinner conversations that knocks the socks off
those chats you had when they were
younger.
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you adore. Sometimes all it takes is
a smile from you to release the
cheerful tween hiding inside.
The transformation. Watch in
amazement as your tween comes
into their own, cultivating opinions,
sense of style and individuality. It is
gratifying to witness the values and
morals that you instilled in them
come to the fore.
Sanity check. Smiling reduces
stress and diffuses tension, giving
you both the opportunity for a
change in perspective and the ability to recapture your enthusiasm.
Help around the house. Tweens
can be a tremendous help around
the house. By vacuuming, doing
light cleaning, folding laundry and
walking the dog, they can contribute in a meaningful way.
Keep yourself young and
resilient. Spending time with enthusiastic and impulsive tweens rejuvenates your outlook on life. Connect
with your tween, share confidences
and discover activities you enjoy
together. Forge a relationship that
will weather whatever the teenage
and adult years might throw your
way.
So give your tween a smile, chances are
they will smile right back.
Living with an alien. Beneath the
blossoming body, eye-rolling and
attitude, lurks the little guy or girl
July 2010 | 27
Eat Local
By Debbie Zimmerman
hhhh, the joys of summer. The beach. The sun.
Children playing in the yard. And, yes, the Jersey
tomato! There is nothing better than a fresh,
straight from your garden, still warm from the sun,
Jersey tomato. Technically a fruit, but considered a
vegetable by many, the tomato is one of many foods
that is best bought locally.
Why eat locally grown food? Because it tastes
great! Fresh, seasonal food from your garden or local
farmers market tastes much fresher and more vibrant
than food that was picked last week, sprayed with
preservatives, factory wrapped in plastic and flown in
from across the country. Locally grown fruits and vegetables are usually sold within 24 hours of being
picked. When consumed at their very ripeness, they
have nutrients, texture and flavor beyond compare.
Purchasing locally grown produce not only makes
sense nutritionally, but supports the local farmers and
economy.
Why go elsewhere when we have the best tomatoes in the United States right here in our own backyard?
A
Debbie Zimmerman is a Certified Health Coach and founder of
Turning Leaf Nutrition and Wellness, LLC. She leads community
and corporate workshops on nutrition and healthy eating and also
offers supportive counseling to individuals to inspire them to
achieve optimum wellness. For more info, visit www.turningleafwellness.com and for more easy, fresh recipes visit www.whatscookingwithdebbie.blogspot.com.
Jersey Tomato Salad Italiano
(Yield: 4 servings)
Ingredients:
2 large ripe beefsteak or other slicing tomatoes
1/4 cup olive oil
Red wine vinegar to taste
1/4 cup chopped fresh basil
3 cloves garlic, finely chopped
2 tablespoons finely chopped fresh Italian parsley
1 medium-sized red onion, finely chopped
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
2 teaspoons dried oregano
Preparing:
Cut the tomatoes into chunks and place in a salad
bowl. Tear basil into pieces with your hands instead
of using a knife. This releases the natural oils of
the herb and increases flavor. Add the remaining
ingredients and toss well. Toss again right before
serving.
28 | July 2010
Summer Sun Smarts
E
veryone loves the look of their skin
after a summer of sunbathing, but
the harmful effects of sun exposure
outweigh the glamorous look. Understanding these effects will better prepare
you to be safe and still look great this
summer.
Did you know tan skin is your body’s
desperate attempt to protect itself from the
sun’s harmful rays? The sun’s rays consist
of UVA (the aging rays) and UVB (the
burning rays). Tanning beds are mostly
exposure to UVA rays, which causes a
breakdown of your skin’s collagen.
Too much exposure to the sun’s rays
or tanning beds can lead to premature
aging, including wrinkles and hyper pigmentation. Every year, over one million
Americans are diagnosed with skin cancer.
Ninety percent of skin cancers can be
traced back to UV exposure. Using sun-
By Dr. Danielle Brenza
screen 15-30 minutes before exposure is a
practical approach to keeping your skin
healthy.
The importance of sun protection isn’t
solely for adults. We must be sure to shield
our children’s delicate skin from the sun’s
rays. Many items used for shade are made
from thin materials that allow UVA and
UVB rays to pass through. Parents should
be aware of how to best protect themselves
as well as their little ones.
Sun Protection Tips:
• Seek the shade, especially between
10 AM and 4 PM
• Avoid sun tanning and UV tanning
booths.
• Use a broad-spectrum (UVA and UVB
protection) sunscreen with a SPF 15
or higher every day, year-round. Use a
higher SPF on nose, ears and lips.
Apply 1 ounce (2 tablespoons) of
sunscreen to your entire body 30
minutes before going outside. Reapply
every two hours.
• Cover up with tightly woven clothing, a
broad-brimmed hat and UV-blocking
sunglasses.
• Examine your skin head-to-toe every
month.
• See your physician every year for a
professional skin exam.
I recommend airbrush tanning if you must
be tan. The system offered at Ageless Skin
and Laser Center in Sewell is safe, organic
and mimics a tan without any damage.
For more information on how to protect your skin
and how to keep it looking youthful, contact Dr.
Danielle Brenza at Ageless Skin and Laser Center.
Located at 11 Parke Place Blvd, Ste A, Sewell. (856)
218-4848 or www.agelessskinandlasercenter.com.
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July 2010 | 29
Four Moms Create a Triathlon
Craze for a Good Cause
C
olleen Fossett, Lydia DelRosso,
Maureen Brigham and Michelle
Powell all share a common
interest—competing in triathlons. In
pursuit of their health and fitness goals,
this group of moms wanted to help
others find their inner athlete, so
they formed a women’s triathlon club in
Mullica Hill called No Nuts. Just Guts.
The Mullica Hill Women’s
Triathlon Club (MHWTC), a USA
Triathlon sanctioned, non-profit organization, has more than 90 mem30 | July 2010
bers. Many of the women who joined
the club (ranging in age from 18 to
63) are brand new to triathlons. Group
training sessions, nutrition seminars
and sports clinics are among the events
MHWTC has organized to help club
members with their training and
to encourage them to be the best they
can be.
In addition, MHWTC is giving
back to their community by raising
money for local charities. This year, all
funds will be donated to a foundation
committed to providing outreach, education and support to families with children affected by the challenges of living with Autism Spectrum Disorders.
Many of the MHWTC members will
participate in the Philadelphia SheROX
Triathlon on August 1st in Philadelphia.
Visit www.mullicahilltriclub.com to
learn more.
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MILITARY
FAMILIES!
Gradient Financial Group,
the country’s leading
financial services firm, has
put together the national
program, Gradient Gives
Back! This summer,
Gradient will award a local
military family with six
months of mortgage payments, financial assistance,
debt reduction, retirement
planning, tax filing, career
counseling and career
placement. For more information about the program,
or to apply, visit www.
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beach
BEAUTY
By Sheila Taney, RN, MSN
he heart of the summer is here and now is the time
we want to look our best from head to toe. Many
commercial beauty products are harmful for our skin and
the environment. Homemade beauty products are cheap, easy to
make and good for you and the environment. Here are some tips
to feel good inside and out, naturally.
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Drink at least eight glasses of water a day and even more
if you will be outside or exercising.
De-puff eyes by putting a wet tea bag in the refrigerator
for ten minutes and then placing under eye area.
Make a homemade body scrub out of sea salt or turbino
sugar and some olive oil.
Purify your face by making an avocado or honey mask.
Chlorine and ocean water can dry out the hair, so
moisturize your hair with olive oil.
File your nails and paint with a natural nail polish or
leave bare.
Eat lots of local, in-season fruits and vegetables.
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Refresh your feet by soaking in Epsom salt, water and
essential oil.
Eat food high in Vitamin E, which helps skin to maintain
a healthy glow.
Eat carrots to give you a sunny glow.
Recipes can be found on natural beauty websites or in books.
Involve your children by letting them pretend they are scientists
by mixing the ingredients. Teach them what you are doing and
that you are protecting your skin and the earth at the same time.
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just born
Looking for the latest gadgets, toys, books or family
related products? Look no further! Each month, we highlight
the latest and greatest just for you. Take a look at these “just
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Eti-Kits: Napkin Clips
Growing up we were always told to place a napkin on our laps, the only problem is little ones tend to move a lot, which means by the time something
spills those napkins are gone. This is where Napkin Clips come in. Perfect for
diners of all ages who want to keep their clothes clean while dining at the
table or on the go. 6 clips for $8, www.eti-kits.com
Babysols Stroller Umbrella
The first stroller parasol/umbrella that safely and easily attaches to all
strollers, joggers and other gear to provide shade and UV protection.
They are versatile enough to attach to any baby chair or device where sun
protection is needed. Can conveniently be stored when not in use.
$9.99 plus shipping, www.babysols.com
St. Eve Kids Beach Wrap
Whether she’s heading to the beach or a bubble bath, this towel wrap is the
perfect accessory for any little gal’s wardrobe. St. Eve Kids produces an
adorable line of children’s sleepwear, loungewear, accessories and more.
$18 and up, www.sears.com
Little Giraffe Baby Accessories
Spoil your little ones with these incredibly soft, chenille products. The mission
is to provide consumers with the most luxurious, exclusive, and hassle-free
children’s apparel and accessories on the market. Everything is machine
washable. Prices vary, www.littlegiraffe.com
OnTray
Effortlessly attaches to the shopping carts handlebar allowing your child to
easily feed themselves while your hands are free to shop! Compact design
makes storage easy to keep in your purse, diapers bag, etc. Handy for many
applications such as snacks, activity storage and a coupon container.
Encourages your child’s independence. Dishwasher safe. Available in various
colors. $7, Ontray2go.com
Padalily
Every mom can relate to the arm pain of carrying a baby carrier. Now, a solution. This is a cushion that Velcro’s around the infant car seat handle making
it easier for moms (and dads) to carry in the bend of their arms. Plus, it’s
super stylish with an array of styles, patterns and colors. $26, Padalily.com
Carhartt for Women
The Carhartt women’s line of clothing and accessories is designed expressly
to fit a woman’s shape. Princess seaming, vibrant color options, no-gap
waistbands and longer length shirts are among the many features that set
our women’s clothing apart from the rest. From outerwear to the latest
summer styles, they have what you need. Prices vary, www.carhartt.com
Elemental Herb’s All Natural Zinc Sunscreen
Your kids can enjoy spending the summer playing in the sun, without getting
painful sunburns or absorbing chemical-laden sunscreens through their skin.
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Company Kids Swimwear
Before sending the little ones off to camp or to the beach, make sure they
have essentials that are both fashionable and functional. These high quality,
durable line of beachwear, many of them with built-in UV protection are a
perfect addition to summer. Prices vary, www.companykids.com
Backyard Sports: Sandlot Sluggers
Batter up! Based on one of the best selling kids’ sports videogame series, this
game allows players to join their favorite neighborhood friends and play ball
in fun and exciting arcade style sports action. With all-new features, updated
graphics, enhanced gameplay, and extensive options, this game will keep
players enthusiastically entertained. It features 5 new mini games that
provide exciting competition away from the traditional baseball gameplay.
For Wii, Xbox360 and Nintendo DS. $29.99, Available where video
games are sold.
Paradox
By Brian Fountain
y daughter, who is six, recently lost her third baby tooth.
Each time she places the tooth ceremoniously beneath
her pillow. You see, Molly believes in something millions of other children believe in. I know what you are thinking:
cold, hard cash! Yes, that too. But mostly, like all other innocent
kids, she believes in magic.
“When the Tooth Fairy takes your tooth from underneath your
pillow, she turns it into money,” she says, while holding a crisp
new dollar bill, proudly displaying the gap in her smile.
Jack, however, has a different idea…
“She puts the teeth in a bag and sells them.” Now THAT’S a
listing I would like to see on eBay.
Before me were two valid opinions, well thought out and presented. How DOES the Tooth Fairy do it? I was compelled to dig
deeper. There are somewhere in the neighborhood of 30 million
children in the United States in the age bracket for losing baby
teeth. That amounts to hundreds of millions of midnight switcharoos annually, a Herculean task for a single fairy. As the kids seem
well-informed in these matters, I press for more information.
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onto wardrobe. Assuming this is a one-fairy operation, does it
make sense to wear something form fitting for quick movement?
Or is a looser, more comfortable approach in order? Kids?
“She wears a pink tutu with ribbons in her hair,” Molly states
confidently. “But when it’s cold, she wears gloves.”
“And boots,” adds Jack.
I was starting to get an idea of what my children envisioned,
but still remained puzzled as to the logistics involved, even if
Rudolph himself were lending a hoof. How does she get to all the
houses?
“She has a cape like Superman and flies down the chimney,”
Jack says as he “flies off” to the next room.
“She has wings,” Molly corrects sternly. “They’re on her back
and she uses pixie… I mean, she uses magic powder to get in the
house.” Again, she steers just clear of Tink and her pals.
Lastly, I ask the kids what the Tooth Fairy looks like. After
telling me she is “really tall and short,” Jack closes his eyes and
drifts off to sleep. Molly smiles and says, “She looks just like
Mommy.”
As I tuck my kids into their beds I smile, content with the
answers I received. The next time Molly loses a tooth, I know she
will be dreaming of Lori, my beautiful wife and aspiring Tooth
Fairy, who’d better have a buck in her hand!
I have always considered myself a relatively hard-working
man but considering her workload, I would not trade places with
the Tooth Fairy for anything. Besides, I would look ridiculous in
a pink tutu.
Brian Fountain lives in Winslow Township with his wife and their three young
children. He is an Atlantic City restaurant manager and writes about the joys
and struggles of raising a family from a father’s perspective.
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learning 2 learn
Memory,
The Cornerstone to Learning
emory improvement is
learning starts with identifying and
one of the most imporremembering figures or pictures, then
tant skills one can learn
symbols as letters and numbers and then
to help overcome learning
words. When working on memodifficulties. Children
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der, start with
with attention deficit
cannot remember
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show them, then
problems or reading
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take them away
will certainly appear
after three seconds.
comprehension
as if they are not payCan your child
difficulties ”
ing attention or compreremember them? Prehending what they read.
sent three more pictures
The good news is that
again, for three seconds.
memory is one of the easiest skills to
Now show them in reverse. Can
train (and learn). Taking just fifteen minthey remember dog, cat, and fish in order
utes daily, at home or in school, to practice
and then in reverse? The more they practhe techniques can make a big difference in
tice, the better the skills will develop. Once
developing the memory skills necessary
figures are mastered, progress to numbers
for learning and retaining information.
and then single sight words they can easily
The most current scientific research
read using the same approach. These are
related to the brain and learning indicates
critical readiness skills for arithmetic, sight
that specific factors in the learning experivocabulary for reading and spelling and
ence significantly impact a child’s ability
reading comprehension, as well as retento remember information.
tion of subject content. Make homemade
The first and most significant factor is
materials with your child’s assistance to
emotional environment. The emotional
enhance the value of the activity.
atmosphere of the classroom (and the
Give them a few words to picture.
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ence. Feelings of fear, stress or embarrassthem to repeat the words back to you. This
ment impact a child’s ability to learn and
is a great activity for the whole family on
remember information.
long road trips, especially for children who
Children need to feel relaxed, motitend to get car sick
vated and enthusiastic about learning in a
and can’t occupy
safe, creative atmosphere that is developthemselves with rementally appropriate. In school, this enviading, coloring or
ronment must be fostered by the teacher’s
games.
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mercial board and
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the student’s ability to relate learning to the
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more areas of the
What can you do to help your child’s
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memory? Developmentally, a child’s
the learning pro-
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By Mary Pat
areas where inCorrero, Ed.M.
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be stored for
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Eating nutritious brain foods and
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For more information about how to enhance your
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book review
Tale Spin Stories
Read-to-Me Book Reviews
By Kathryn Ross, a.k.a. “Miss Kathy”
love old things! I collect old
things – antiques, vintage, retro,
old. Something about the history
of an object and the past time that it
has lived and functioned in is beyond
fascinating to me. I suppose that is
why history has always been a great
love of mine – even from childhood.
I remember how I loved getting
my hands on National Geographic
Magazines and finding articles about
ancient civilizations dug up by archeologists. Playing history was also a
favorite thing to do. This involved historic costumes and acting
out great historical events. Funny how what I enjoyed as playtime
in my childhood is what I largely do for a living as an adult.
Events in our childhood go a long way to forming our character in
adulthood.
This concept is the foundation for the “Childhood of Famous
Americans” series, in publication for over 70 years and currently
available in Aladdin Paperbacks through Simon & Schuster
Publishers. Here we meet the most notable individuals of
American history in their formative years. Each chapter-book,
geared to readers aged 8 through 12, is written using what facts are known of the person
and time, yet fictionalized with details and
conversations that make the subject flesh and
bone to the reader. Meeting them in their
world as children we see what made them the
adults they became.
As the 4th of July is upon us, I review
my edition of Betsy Ross: Designer of Our
Flag, in the series. I enjoy meeting her as a
youth, when she learned the seamstress skills
that would earn her a permanent place in
American history as the woman who stitched
the first flag of the United States at the outset
of the Revolutionary War. I love the part
about the five-pointed star – a little origami
trick she learned as a child and demonstrated
to General George Washington, in an attempt
to talk him out of the original six-pointed star
he had requested. Washington thought the six
pointed version would be easier to cut, until
Betsy showed him otherwise and gave her
opinion about other aspects in the design of
the flag – all this, as a young widow, working
undercover of British occupation. The book
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THEME: Stars & Stripes Forever!
BOOK: Betsy Ross: Designer of Our Flag
AUTHOR: Ann Weil ILLUSTRATOR: Al Forentino
EAN: 9780020421207
details the many aspects of her youth that formed her character
into the brave and revolutionary woman she became – a history
making woman.
Follow-up Activity: Grab some paper and scissors and follow the
directions in the story to make your own five-pointed stars and
create a Colonial paper flag just like Betsy. This book is a great
start to collecting the complete set of biographical novels for more
American history adventures following the character formation of
John Adams, Daniel Boone, Clara Barton, Lou Gehrig, Rosa
Parks, and many, many more! Check out Amazon online or your
nearest bookstore for a full selection!
Kathryn Ross is a professional storyteller celebrating the love of learning and
literacy with children of all ages. She hosts Tale Spin Stories every Tuesday for
preschoolers at the Cumberland Mall in Vineland. To learn more about Miss Kathy
programs from Pageant Wagon Productions, visit www.pwpstorytellers.com.
Celebrating 15
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ATLANTIC COUNTY
Atlantic City Food & Wine Festival
July 29 to August 1
This will be the premier event of
Atlantic City’s summer season with
four days of events, tastings and
celebrity appearances. Featuring
world-renowned chefs and great
wine. Held at all four Harrah's Atlantic
City properties, Harrah's Resort,
Caesars, Showboat & Bally's.
www.atlanticcitynj.com/food
andwine.aspx, (609) 441-5786
July Jubilee
July 1 at 11 a.m.
A fun filled week of contests
leading up to July 4th complete with
taffy sculpting, treasure hunts and
more. Music Pier, Moorlyn Terrace
& Boardwalk. (609) 525-9300
Furry Friends Flea Market
July 11 from 8 a.m. to 12 p.m.
Proceeds will benefit the Humane
Society of Ocean City. Held
outdoors at the Humane Society,
1 Shelter Rd, Ocean City. Parking
space size flea market spaces,
$15 each space. No electric or
tables provided. Food available
for purchase. (609) 398-8037,
www.hsocnj.org
BURLINGTON COUNTY
Time for Twos and Threes
July 2 at 10:30 a.m.
Join Miss Mary for stories and a
simple craft. This program is for
2-3 year-olds and their caregivers.
Evesham Library, Meeting Room,
984 Tuckerton Road, Marlton.
Registration required. (856) 983-1444
or bcls.lib.nj.us
Princess Party
July 7 at 2:00 p.m.
Become a princess for a day!
Dress up & visit the library for fun
princess activities & refreshments!
Open to children ages 4 & up. Limit is
20. Registration required. Pemberton
Library, 16 Broadway, Browns Mills.
(609) 893-8262 or bcls.lib.nj.us
Back to School Skill
Building Classes
July 13 at 9:30 a.m. and 11 a.m.
Get help for your child in developing
the fine motor skills that will be
needed for school. Writing, cutting,
coloring, utensil grasp, coordination
and peer interaction will be
addressed. 5 week class. 4 – 5 years
9:30 – 10:30 a.m. & 6 – 7 years 11 a.m.
– 12 p.m. Mary’s Place Pediatric
Rehab, 9004-F Lincoln Drive West,
Marlton. (856) 988-1160 or
www.marysplacerehab.com
CAMDEN COUNTY
Youth Animal Shelter
Volunteer Program
July, times vary
This program allows kids and teens
11 to 17 to safely interact with the
animals at the shelter under the
supervision of a mentor. Besides
playing with the animals, the
volunteers have the opportunity to
participate in fundraising, pass out
treats, fill up water bowls, help with
cleaning, and have a great opportunity to learn new things. 125 County
House Rd, Blackwood. (856) 401-1300
or youthvolunteers@ccasnj.org
Independence Day Concert
& Fireworks
July 4 from 5 p.m. to 11 p.m.
Presented by 102.9 WMGK. Visit
Cooper River Park to see one of the
hottest free concerts this
summer featuring Paul Rodgers.
Make sure you stick around for the
phenomenal firework display
presented by Pennsauken Township.
N. Park Dr. & McClellan Blvd,
Pennsauken. (856) 216-2170
CAPE MAY COUNTY
Writers Rock Club at Library
July 11 from 6 to 7 p.m.
A club for aspiring writers 8 to 12. If
you enjoy writing and want to learn
more about it, this is the club for you.
Children will share their writing and
participate in fun activities to inspire
creativity. Please bring a short story
to share with the group. The library is
located at 30 Mechanic Street, Cape
May Court House. Registration is
requested. Lenora Boninfante (609)
463-6354 or www.cmclibrary.org
Cape May County 4-H Fair
and Chicken BBQ
July 15 – 17 from 5 to 8 p.m.
An annual event and family
tradition in Cape May County for over
60 years. The celebration includes
amusement rides, live entertainment,
4-H project displays; small animal,
horse and livestock shows and
exhibits; games, vendors, delicious
food, and the famous nightly chicken
BBQ. Free parking and shuttle service
from noon to 9 pm each day. Free general admission. 355 Court House/So
Dennis Road Cape May Court House
(across from the back exit of Zoo)
(609) 465-5115, ext. 605
CUMBERLAND COUNTY
Cumberland County Fair
July 5-10
A week of fun-filled family events
including demolition derby, horse
drawn hay rides, tractor pull competition, fun rides, pie eating contest, live
entertainment, food and much more!
www.cumberlandcofair.com for
schedule and times.
Summer Fest & Chili Cook Off
July 1 from 11 a.m. to 6 p.m.
There’ll be shopping, kayak and
canoe rentals, and plenty of kids’
activities. But the main attraction is
the South Jersey Regional
International Chili Cook-Off. With big
money and admission to the World
Chili Cook-Off on the line, the
competition is heated. Festival-goers
may buy a tasting kit, which usually
runs about $5, to sample the chili
before casting a vote in the
prestigious “People’s Choice”
category. (800) 887-4957
An Inspirational Celebration
of America
July 4 at 10:30 a.m.
This celebration of America's
Christian Heritage features Faith,
Fellowship and Family Fun. Special
performances by The Calvary Chapel
Theatrical Choir and Drama on the
Vine Players is followed by family fun
with moon bounces, dunk tank, face
painting, food & more! Small fee for
food & activities. Service and events
held at Canlan Ice & Sports Arena,
2111 Industrial Way, Vineland. (856)
696-9409 or www.ccvineland.org
Cohanzick Zoo Summer Camp
July, various times
The Cohanzick Zoo is holding its
Annual Zoo Camp during the month
of July. Campers will receive a complimentary t-shirt and enjoy five days
full of zoo adventure, which includes
games, crafts, snack and of course
animals. Space is limited. 45 Mayor
things 2 do
July Calendar
Atkins Dr, Bridgeton. (856)
453-1658 or www.cityofbridgeton.com
GLOUCESTER COUNTY
Summer Concert
July 11 at 7 p.m.
A tribute to Billy Joel by Robert Eric.
Atkinson Memorial Park, Delsea
Dr. and Bethel Mill Rd, Hurffville.
Call for rain-out information (856)
589-0047 after 4 p.m.
Powerful You! Women’s Network
presents Sharon Roth-Lichtenfeld
teaching Power Up The Positive
July 8 from 7 to 9:30 p.m.
Learn the 7 levels of energy, how it
affects your life and how to shift from
negative to positive. Open to women
interested in networking & connecting
w/ other women on a business
level. Adelphia’s, 1750 Clements
Bridge Rd, Deptford. (609) 560-8370
or shaun6@comcast.net;
www.powerfulyou.com
Wizard of Oz
July 14 at 7:30 p.m. and July 15 and
16th at 10:30 a.m.
Follow the yellow brick road to an
enchanting performance presented
by Mainstage Center for the Arts.
Dennis Flyer Theater, Lincoln Hall,
Camden County College, 200 College
Dr, Blackwood. $10 for evening
performance, $8 for morning
performance. (856) 227-3091 or
www.mainstage.org
SALEM COUNTY
Coffee with CASA
July 29 from 8 a.m. to 10 a.m.
CASA is looking for volunteers to
advocate for abused and neglected
children in South Jersey. Come to our
event for free coffee and information.
Beans Coffee Shop, 9 N. Main St,
Woodstown. (856) 459-0061
Mosaic Picture Frames for Kids
July 15 from 1 p.m. to 3 p.m.
Make a mosaic picture frame.
For kids 8 years old and up. Two
session class. Registration required.
Glass Delights, 8 Isaacs Dr, Pennsville.
(856) 935-5267
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KIDSTUFF consignment shop specializes in superior
pre-owned clothes for kids. Vast selection of high quality
& designer brands, all in excellent condition at fraction of
original cost. Recycle your child’s “still like-new” clothing
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Have your next party at Carvel! (856) 478-4599
ABRAKADOODLE Arty Parties!
Kids LOVE art, celebrate their CREATIVITY! Abrakadoodle has dozens
of IMAGINATIVE arty themes. Each child’s artwork is FRAMED - the
BEST PARTY GIFT ever! Hosted at your location, we provide all
Crayola® supplies and materials. Visit www.abrakadoodle.com/nj01
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CAN’T GET THE TOYS, LAUNDRY AND OTHER KID STUFF
UNDER CONTROL?
If you’re feeling overwhelmed by all the “stuff” consuming your
house, let BB’s Clutter Solutions reduce your stress, create order and
help you find a place for everything...for good. Contact Barbara
Berman at (856) 912-0077 or www.bb-clutter-solutions.com and
get your house back today!
PEDIATRIC OCCUPATIONAL THERAPY
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At JUST FOR LITTLE PEOPLE (and others, too!) we specialize in
new baby gifts both hand-painted or embroidered. Beautifully
wrapped and available for pick-up at our new Gibbsboro location,
or we can ship it for you. Call (856) 627-8901 or check out
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WHO WILL TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN?
Appointing Guardians for your minor children is one of the most
important aspects of Estate Planning. Complimentary initial consultation. Mention this ad and receive 15% discount for July. Contact James
F Fahy, Esq., LLC to learn more. Call (856) 287-3107 or email
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NEED HELP GUIDING YOUR CHILD’S DEVELOPMENTAL JOURNEY?
At The Schlinic, happy childhoods are our specialty. Kids come for
awesome motor equipment, fun sensory experiences and developmental play. Parents come for answers, professionals who listen,
assessments and research-supported intervention. Learn more at
www.schlinic.com or call Dr. Jodi at (856) 692-9292
HEALTH & WELLNESS
ARE YOU READY TO TURN OVER A NEW LEAF?
Want to improve your eating habits, increase your energy and
understand your food cravings? Turning Leaf Nutrition and Wellness
will develop a personalized program that will radically improve your
health and happiness. One conversation can change your life.
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