February - Congregation Temple Israel
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February - Congregation Temple Israel
February 2013 Shevat / Adar 5773 Volume XXXII / Number 5 www.ti-stl.org 126th Annual Meeting of Congregation Temple Israel Sunday, February 10, 2013 10:00 a.m. Isserman Auditorium of Temple Israel A complimentary breakfast will be served. JOIN US IN HONORING Carol Cohen and Marcie Kalina Recipients of the President’s Award for Continuing Excellence (PACE) Michele Steinberg, Nancy Wilkerson-Kreinberg and Donna Wilkerson-Light Recipients of the Pillar of the Temple Award (See page 6 for Board Nominees and Honorees) Congregation Temple Israel is a caring, inclusive community committed to living Reform Judaism and participating in the sacred destiny of the Jewish people and Israel through education, worship, and repair of the world. FEBRUARY WORSHIP SCHEDULE Friday, February 1, 2013 6:00 p.m. Tot Shabbat 7:30 p.m. Classical-Style Shabbat Worship Saturday, February 2, 2013 9:45 a.m. Bible Study 11:00 a.m. Shabbat Worship Bar Mitzvah of Benjamin Kats son of Yuriy and Irina Kats Torah Portion: Exodus 18:13-23 Haftarah: Isaiah 6:1-5 A SHABBAT OF ROMANCE Are you looking for love or wanting to find that perfect match for a friend or adult child? Join us for a Shabbat experience filled with prayer, song, romance, and fun. Dr. Leah Hakimian, a professional matchmaker, will speak on “How to Marry (or Marry Off) Your Best Friend” at our 6:30 p.m. Shabbat service on Friday, February 15. The evening will begin with a wine and cheese pre-oneg at 6:00 p.m. Friday, February 8, 2013 6:00 p.m. Pre-Oneg 6:30 p.m. Shabbat B’Shir Saturday, February 9, 2013 9:45 a.m. Bible Study 11:00 a.m. Shabbat Worship Bat Mitzvah of Leah Snidman daughter of Robert and Elizabeth Snidman Torah Portion: Exodus 23:1-9 Haftarah: Jeremiah 34:8-11 Friday, February 15, 2013 6:00 p.m. Pre-Oneg 6:30 p.m. Learners’ Shabbat Guest Speaker: Dr. Leah Hakimian Saturday, February 16, 2013 9:45 a.m. Bible Study 11:00 a.m. Shabbat Worship Bat Mitzvah of Riley Deutsch daughter of Jonathan and Jennifer Deutsch Torah Portion: Exodus 25:1-9 Haftarah: I Kings 5:26-31 Dr. Hakimian will be available for complimentary individual consultations following the service. TI TO HOST SHABBAT ST. LOUIS Be sure to mark your calendar now and plan to join us on Saturday, March 30, at 10:00 a.m. when Temple Israel will host the 5th annual Shabbat St. Louis community worship service during Passover. The theme of this year’s service is “Joining Hands as a Community.” This participatory, lay-led service will feature music by HaShemesh. Come early for Rabbi-led Torah study from 9:00-9:45 a.m. A Passover Kiddush will follow the Friday, February 22, 2013 6:00 p.m. Pre-Oneg 6:30 p.m. Shabbat Worship with HaShemesh Saturday, February 23, 2013 9:45 a.m. Bible Study 11:00 a.m. Shabbat Worship Bat Mitzvah of Hannah Tolin daughter of Josh Tolin and step-daughter of Kim Tolin Torah Portion: Exodus 27:20-21, 28:1-5 Haftarah: Ezekiel 43:10-12 service. All generations are welcome and encouraged to attend. Volunteers are needed to serve as ushers and greeters and to bake Kosher for Passover sweets for the Kiddush. To volunteer, contact Carol Wolf Solomon at the Temple, 314-432-8050 or csolomon@ti-stl.org. 2 page / February 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE at a glance FOOTNOTE AND SCHWARTZ DYNASTY TO HEADLINE ISRAELI FILM FESTIVAL The films Footnote and Schwartz Dynasty will headline Uriel is thrilled to see his father’s achievements finally Temple Israel’s Sixth Annual Israeli Film Festival on recognized, but in a dark twist, must choose between Sunday, March 10, in the May Chapel. Admission is free, the advancement of his own career and his father’s. however seating is limited so reservations are required. Will he sabotage his father’s glory? Both of these highly acclaimed films are primarily in Hebrew with English subtitles, and are suitable for Schwartz Dynasty is a bittersweet mature teens and adults. The Israeli Film Festival comedy featuring two women who is co-sponsored by the Temple’s Israel Engagement join forces in a struggle against Committee and by Israeli House. cemetery politics. Miriam is a formidable grandmother who is Footnote will open the festival at heartbroken because she cannot bury 4:00 p.m. Schwartz Dynasty will be her husband in the cemetery of the shown at 6:30 p.m. Festival goers can moshav that her family founded because he committed choose to attend one or both films. suicide. Nor will she be allowed to be buried beside him Complimentary Israeli refreshments when she dies. Meanwhile, Ana has come from Russia will be served between the two to bury her father’s ashes in the same cemetery, but screenings. also runs into roadblocks. Despite a number of ingenious attempts, the efforts of the two women are thwarted at Footnote is the tale of a great rivalry between a father every turn. The story leaves a warm, haunting feeling and his son. Both men are eccentric professors who that continues after the film is over. have dedicated their lives to their work in Talmudic studies. The father, Eliezer, is a stubborn purist who To make a reservation to attend one or both films, fears the establishment and has never been fully contact Janet Dillon at the Temple, 314-432-8050 or recognized for his work. His son, Uriel, is an up-and- jdillon@ti-stl.org. For additional information about the coming star in the field, who feeds on accolades and films, call Linda Koenig at 636-394-6027. recognition. One day the tables turn. When the father learns that he is to be awarded the Israel Prize, the highest honor for scholarship in the country, his desperate need for validation is exposed. www.ti-stl.org / February 2013 / 3 page IF NOT NOW, WHEN? Rabbi Amy Feder In the Washington Post, a recent article appeared titled And for the vast majority of us, myself included, rabbis “Why All the Kvetching About Female Rabbis?” The during that time were men. Thus, having a male rabbi is article, in short, described the experience of many Jews, what feels “right.” even those who are believers of gender equality, who have a difficult time connecting with female rabbis. Yet I fear that nostalgia is an empty, unproductive and They give a number of reasons, but it in the end, most even dangerous way to think about religion. While we said that it comes down to the idea that it just doesn’t should respect our past, no religion, no people can move feel “right.” into the future if they are only focused on what was, and not on what can and should be. Our Reform movement I am proud to say that there have been very few and even our own congregation, Temple Israel, is occasions in my years at Temple Israel when I have currently in the process of determining what our future encountered people who seemed discomfited by the fact holds. And while we may, at times, be tempted to think that I am a woman. Sally Priesand, the first documented nostalgically of how things have been for generations female rabbi, retired the year I was ordained, so my class past, we need to have the courage and clarity of vision was really the beginning of the second generation of to see that the road ahead may be brighter, more female rabbis. The many women who came before me exciting, and far different than we ever could have shattered the glass ceiling of the Reform rabbinate, and imagined. my road has been made monumentally easier because of their sacrifices. In the few decades that women have been able to become rabbis, I’d like to believe that the Jewish What really affected me about the article was not so world has become better, stronger, and a little more much the issue of gender, but the author’s hypothesis whole for having allowed a new kind of leader into our as to why the discomfort with female rabbis was still communities. May we have the wisdom and foresight to an issue, even with more than a generation of women move beyond nostalgia and open ourselves to whatever rabbis in the field. The author suggests that the real comes next in the future of our congregation and our issue at hand is not gender, but nostalgia. We liberal movement. I, for one, am tremendously excited to see Jews primarily follow our faith not because we believe what comes next and to share the journey with you. God commands it, but because it has emotional, historical, and sentimental meaning. We are here for the afeder@ti-stl.org sense of tradition and connection to our past, because the music and words remind us of our youth, of the safety and uncomplicated world of childhood. 4 page / February 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE worth noting CHUTZPAH Rabbi Michael Alper Several weeks ago, I was exiting highway 170 a few blocks away from home. At the edge of the off ramp I saw a man standing with a sign. He was begging. It was not the first time I had seen this man. From time to time, I have been able to give him some money when I pass by, though more often than not, I drive by. Sometimes I’m in a rush and I can’t stop. Sometimes it feels unsafe or uncomfortable. I was equipped with this bag of items thanks to the caring and ingenuity of one of our Temple Israel youth, Matthew Bloom. This amazing 12-year-old delivered a sermon at our Shabbat service during Chanukah, where he discussed his design concept to repair the world. Matthew, who will become a Bar Mitzvah this June, came up with the idea of putting together an “emergency bag/car mitzvah kit” to give to people in need. In St. Louis, most of us travel within a protective space, as cars are the most common method of transportation here. While this is, for most of us, a blessing, there is something lost in our gaining privacy. When I was in my 20s, I lived in New York City. Urban life reminds one that human suffering is much more prevalent an issue than we could ever imagine. When there is no space between you and the disenfranchised, it becomes increasingly difficult to look away. While encounters with and opportunities to fix a clearly broken world present themselves daily, we often pass them by because we have no simple solution. At our Chanukah dinner following the service, congregants gathered to assemble the bags. Each person took home one of the emergency car mitzvah kits. During that evening and the following Sunday in Religious School, TI students and families made more than 120 bags to keep in their cars to give to someone in need. This day when I met the man in need by the side of the road something was different. This time I was able to reach over beneath the passenger seat of my car, where I had a large canvas bag waiting for him. “Here you go, sir,” I said. Inside the bag were some warm gloves, socks, a winter hat, granola bars and toiletries. There was also a list of local shelters and a few other odds and ends. Opening the bag, the man looked startled at first, and then he smiled. “God bless you,” he said. The light turned green. Tears ran down my face. I rolled the window up and drove away. www.ti-stl.org / February 2013 / 5 page Many of us wondered if we would have the chance to use our kits. All three bags my family made were given away within a week. Soon the telephone lines lit up. “We need more bags!” Had it not been for Matthew, I would never have had the opportunity to perform this truly meaningful act. Rarely do we see so simple and elegant a solution to such a complex problem. The Talmudic sage Ben Azzi said that any person who causes another person to do a mitzvah, it is as if he himself did the mitzvah. Thanks to Matthew, we both had the opportunity to make the world a little bit better. We rarely know how our mitzvot impact or influence a sequence of events, perhaps changing all of humanity. May we find the courage, the wisdom, and the opportunity to lead each other to fulfill these simple sacred acts. malper@ti-stl.org 2013 BOARD OF TRUSTEES NOMINEES OFFICERS JoAnne Levy, President Dee Mogerman, Vice President David Chassin, Vice President Carol Cohen, Vice President Harvey Harris, Vice President Michael Weiss, Vice President Neil Marglous, Secretary Pamela Dern, Assistant Secretary Cathy Goldsticker, Treasurer Diana Rothbarth, Assistant Treasurer BOARD TRUSTEES Nominees for a first, three-year term Nominee for a first, one-year term David Aronson Amy Fenster Brown Marni Deutsch Carla Feuer Jayme Fingerman David Geddes Sally King Greg Levine David Rosenberg Adam Wallis Jeffrey Stern Nominees for a second, three-year term Ron Chatmon Dorette Goldberg RECOGNIZING OUR OUTGOING OFFICER AND TRUSTEES Dr. Jerry Levy Dr. Eric Mann Tami Martens Jan Offenbach Nykin David Victor Jonathan Bloom, Vice President Amy Cohen Jennifer Deutsch Ted Greenberg Bryson Hartranft Temple Israel Annual Meeting: I/We join the Temple in honoring our award recipients and incoming/outgoing Board members with the enclosed donation. (Please list names below.) In honor of:_______________________________________________________________________ This gift is from: __________________________________________________________________ $_________ Donation Amount. ___ Check enclosed payable to Temple Israel. Please charge my: ___ MasterCard ___ VISA ___ Discover Acct. # __ __ __ ___ / __ __ __ __ / __ __ __ __ / __ __ __ __ Exp. Date ___ ___ / ____ Name on credit card acct: __________________________________________________ Billing Address (if different from home address) ________________________________________ 6 page / February 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE temple News CREATING CRAFTS TO ENRICH OUR COMMUNITY Our Crafting for Community group, led by Jody Chassin, creates handmade items to donate to charitable causes. From knitting baby items, to creating scarves from upcycled t-shirts, to making papercut Chanukah cards, there are projects suited for all interests and talents. Whether you’re an experienced crafter or a beginner eager to learn, this group is for you! Join Jody and friends at 9:30 a.m. two Sunday mornings per month in The Gathering Place at the Temple. For information, contact Jody at 314-566-1274 or jkc.creations@gmail.com. CHANUKAH CARDS FOR OUR TROOPS Our Crafting for Community group created beautiful papercut Chanukah cards that were sent to Jewish troops. The following note from one of the receipients, a Lieutenant Commander in the United States Navy, was received via our Temple website: “I just wanted to send my thanks for thinking about deployed troops like me during Chanukah. Your card certainly brought a smile to my face and enhanced the celebration we had here in Kabul.” www.ti-stl.org / February 2013 / 7 page DEUTSCH EARLY CHILDHOOD CENTER OF TEMPLE ISRAEL Leslie Wolf, Director Once again, we are in the middle of winter and all I can Our DECC teachers strive to increase the amount of think about is how cold it is outside. I do not like the physical activity that kids are involved in every day. winter and I am perpetually cold. However, I make it They take their classes outside, unless it is below a goal to remain active, even though I might feel like freezing. We have incredible playgrounds tailored for planting myself on the couch and watching television. older and younger students. DECC is also very fortunate The activity actually warms me up as I dream of the to have a large indoor motor area downstairs for all beach in Hawaii! children, and an area on the main floor for our younger students. The same is true for our students at DECC. They need to remain active during the long cold winter. For children, How can parents help? Get your kids moving! physical activity and movement enhance fitness. As Go outside with them and run around, play a game of teachers of young children, the staff at DECC are aware soccer or kickball, go to the park with friends. Take that most children are innately physically active. We your kids ice skating. Have a dance party with your kids all see them running, jumping, throwing, and climbing by putting on some of your favorite CDs and just have in an unstructured environment. This is what kids do fun moving! Not only will your children have a blast, naturally; they enjoy active play! So why should we you will also benefit from the activity. all be concerned about our children’s physical activity level? DECC integrates physical activity throughout our curriculum. It is through movement that children Children today are in a more sedentary environment. develop social, emotional, and cognitive skills. It is They travel to and from school by car; they watch more a critical means of communication, expression, and TV; they play more computer games, and they do not learning. DECC strives to educate the whole child and have as much freedom to play outside on their own. physical activity is great to keep our bodies and minds in There is evidence that even our very young children are shape. becoming less physically active and more overweight. Overweight kids usually grow up to be overweight adults REMINDER! Enrollment for Camp and Preschool for the who encounter many health issues. 2013-2014 school year is right around the corner. For more information about camp or school, please contact Physical activity helps children build and maintain healthy bones and muscles, and it reduces fat. Physical me at 314-432-8076 or lwolf@ti-stl.org. lwolf@ti-stl.org activity can prevent high blood pressure, reduce anxiety in kids, and increase a student’s learning capacity. 8 page / February 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE PJ GOES TO SCHOOL AT DECC school NEWS Our Deutsch Early Childhood Center has been selected PJ Goes to School is designed to enrich and extend to participate in a special initiative called “PJ Goes to the early childhood curriculum, strengthen bonds School.” This program is dedicated to enhancing the between home and school, and spark meaningful Jewish Jewish content in the classroom through the use of conversations in class, on the playground, and at home. Jewish children’s books. It is an offshoot of PJ Library®, a Jewish family engagement program that mails free, DECC will receive special books every month, along high-quality Jewish literature to families raising Jewish with professional resources to aid teachers in weaving children. the Jewish values of these books into all aspects of the curriculum. OUR RELIGIOUS SCHOOL STUDENTS AT WORK A NEW TAKE ON MIDRASH We are so proud of the amazing learning that our “Once there was a ram. He ate students do each week in Religious School. Sometimes, a chicken that could fly. they produce stories, questions and ideas that are just That gave him the ability to too good not to be shared with the whole congregation! fly. Then he heard about a ram disco party! It was in a cave In December, Debbie Schultz taught her third grade class a lesson about midrash. Midrashim are stories that under a bush on a mountain Ben Hartmann explain and fill in the gaps of biblical stories that seem peak. The ram was going outside of the disco party so he to have something missing. Some midrashim become as could rest in the bush. Then Abraham found him and famous as the stories in the Torah themselves. The story killed him.” of Abraham smashing the idols and baby Moses putting a burning coal in his mouth are two well-known examples. Thank you, Ben, for sharing your story with us! The rabbis and your teacher loved it. We look forward to Ms Schultz’s class wrote their own midrashim in the sharing more of our students’ work with you in the style of the ancient rabbis as they wrestled with the months to come. challenging story of Abraham and the near sacrifice of Isaac that we read each Yom Kippur. One of her students, Ben Hartmann, offered to share his midrash with you. He chose to answer the question: Why was the ram in the bush? www.ti-stl.org / February 2013 / 9 page RELIGIOUS SCHOOL HAPPENINGS Marisa Reby, Director In Religious School, we recently held a New Year Tu B’Shevat occurred on January 26. We conducted celebration – the “New Year for Trees,” that is, the Tu B’Shevat seders at Religious School on Sunday, holiday of Tu B’Shevat. This holiday, literally the 15th January 27. Some of the highlights of a Tu B’Shevat day of the Hebrew month of Shevat, celebrates the seder include drinking four cups of grape juice, starting earliest bloom of the fruit trees in Israel. with white and gradually darkening to pink, light red, and dark red to represent the changing seasons of the year. So why do we need to celebrate such a holiday in St. Fruits and nuts mentioned in the Bible are sampled, Louis, particularly when it falls during the snowy days making a tasty and colorful array, ranging from those of winter, a time of year clearly not conducive for trees with inedible coverings on the outside, like oranges; to bear fruit? We join our fellow Jews throughout the those with pits, like peaches and olives; and those that world in celebrating Tu B’Shevat because it reminds us are entirely edible, like figs and raisins. of a very important Jewish value, Bal Tashchit, caring for the environment. Tu B’Shevat, began as a minor holiday in Judaism, but has since grown into the modern Jewish Earth Day, One of the best ways to make the holiday feel as real as an occasion that links a traditional celebration of a possible, since we are not in Israel to enjoy the beginning festive meal with our growing sense of environmental of the growing season, is to hold a Tu B’Shevat seder, responsibility. This holiday reminds us of our personal a ceremony celebrating the fruits of Israel. While the responsibility to make the world a better place and that concept of a Tu B’Shevat seder is adapted from and it is indeed a mitzvah to reduce, reuse, and recycle. modeled after the traditional Passover seder, there are mreby@ti-stl.org differences. While the preparations for the Passover seder are a joyous but albeit arduous process, the Tu B’Shevat seder is prepared for with relative ease and is often an engaging and fun event for students. 10 page / February 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE february SUN MON TUES WED Calendar THU FRI SAT 1 2 6 pm Tot Shabbat 9:45 am Bible Study 7:30 pm Shabbat Worship 11 am Shabbat Worship Bar Mitzvah of Benjamin Kats 5 pm TIFTY Movie Night 3 4 5 9:30 am Religious School 10:30 am Intro to Hebrew 9:30 am Crafting for Community 6 7 8 9 10:30 Advanced Hebrew 12 pm Lunch and Learn 4:30 pm Hebrew Lab 12:00 pm Lunch and Learn 6 pm Pre-Oneg 9:45 am Bible Study 6 pm Club 56 12:30 pm Rabbis’ Roundtable 6:30 pm Boy Scout Shabbat B’Shir 11 am Shabbat Worship Bat Mitzvah of Leah Snidman 16 Lounge Night 6:30 pm Lilith Readers 6:30 pm Life in Transition 7 pm Intro to Judaism 7:30 pm Boy Scouts 9:45 am Yoga with Lisi 9:45 am Adult Education Series 12 pm TIFTY Board Meeting 3:30 pm Yoga with Lisi 10 11 12 13 14 15 9:30 am Religious School 9:30 am Crafting for Community 9:45 am Yoga with Lisi 10 am Annual Meeting 6:30 pm Cotillion 9 am Symphony Lecture 10:30 Advanced Hebrew 9:30 am Study Group 12:00 pm Lunch and Learn 6 pm Pre-Oneg 17 No Religious School 24 10:30 am Intro to Hebrew 7:30 pm Boy Scout Committee 18 Presidents’ Day Building Closed 25 9:30 am Religious School 10:30 am Intro to Hebrew 11:30 Purim Carnival 9:45 am Yoga with Lisi 12 pm Lunch and Learn 4:30 pm Hebrew Lab 3:30 pm 7 pm Intro to Judaism Yoga with Lisi 7:30 pm Boy Scouts 19 20 10:30 Advanced Hebrew 12 pm Lunch and Learn 4:30 pm Hebrew Lab 6:30 pm Exploring Life’s Journey 7 pm Intro to Judaism 7 pm Ess and Fress Cooking 7:30 pm Boy Scouts 26 10:30 Advanced Hebrew 12 pm Lunch and Learn 4:30 pm Hebrew Lab 7 pm Intro to Judaism 7:30 pm Boy Scouts For the most up-to-date news on TI programs and events, subscribe to our weekly e-newsletter, connecTIons. E-mail mkrinsky@ti-stl.org or visit www.ti-stl.org. www.ti-stl.org / February 2013 / 11 page 9:45 am Bible Study 11 am Shabbat Worship Bat Mitzvah of Riley Deutsch 21 22 23 12:00 pm Lunch and Learn 6 pm Pre-Oneg 9:45 am Bible Study 3:30 pm Yoga with Lisi 27 6:30 pm Shabbat Worship Guest Speaker: Leah Hakimian 28 12:00 pm Lunch and Learn 3:30 pm Yoga with Lisi 6:30 pm Shabbat Worship with HaShemesh 11 am Shabbat Worship Bat Mitzvah of Hannah Tolin ENGAGING OUR YOUTH Stephanie Rhea, Youth Groups Advisor A delegation of TIFTY members Sunday, February 24: Temple Israel Purim Carnival. attended the regional youth group Come to the Purim shpiel at 11:00 a.m. Stay for Winter Chavurah in Denver, CO over the carnival from 11:30 a.m.-1:00 p.m. There will be the Martin Luther King Jr. weekend. games, prizes, great food, and more. Many volunteer Our Temple Israel youth joined 200 opportunities are available for adults and students in 7th fellow high school-age Reform Jewish grade or older. Admission is free. Game tickets are 25 teens for a weekend of social justice and socializing. cents each. Many great activities are coming up for youth in grades Friday, March 1: PURIMPALOOZA! This Purim 5-12. Some include opportunities for teens to volunteer celebration for the entire congregation will begin at and receive community service credit. For details on 5:00 p.m. with dinner, games, and fun surprises. A any of the following activities, contact Youth Groups special Purim Shabbat service and megillah reading will Advisor Stephanie Rhea, srhea@ti-stl.org or 314-432- start at 6:30 p.m. Volunteer opportunities are available 8050. for adults and children 5th grade or older. Saturday, February 2: Family Movie Night to benefit Saturday, March 2: TIFTY Tastes St. Louis. The TIFTY Camp Rainbow, 5:00 p.m. TIFTY is showing Board is busy putting together a mystery bus tour of St. Madagascar 3 and will operate a concession stand Louis that will include some of the best places to dine offering dinner and snack items. The evening will include and have fun. The journey begins at 6:00 p.m. Watch for face painting and circus-themed games and activities. details. Admission is free. Volunteer opportunities are available for adults and students in 7th grade or older. March 8-10: All 7th and 8th graders are invited to attend the JYG Chavurah that will be hosted by United Tuesday, February 5: Club 56 lounge night in the youth Hebrew’s junior youth group. This will be a weekend of lounge from 6:00-8:00 p.m. All 5th and 6th graders are fun and learning with youth from all over our region, welcome! You do not have to be enrolled in religious which stretches from Colorado to Kentucky. Host school. The cost is $8, which includes dinner. families will be needed to house attendees from out of town. Saturday, February 9: J8M, the community-wide group for 8th graders, is having its final event of the year, snow tubing at Hidden Valley Ski Resort. This event is open to 8th - 12th graders. Scan our QR code to visit TIFTY on Facebook. February 15-19: NFTY National Convention in Los Angeles. 12 page / February 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE club TALK CELEBRATE PURIM AT TEMPLE ISRAEL PURIM SHPIEL AND CARNIVAL SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 24 11:00 A.M. SHPIEL 11:30-1:00 P.M. CARNIVAL Games, prizes, costumes, food concessions, and fun for all ages. FREE ADMISSION Game tickets are 25 cents each. Sponsored by TIFTY, Temple Israel’s high school youth group. PURIMPALOOZA FRIDAY, MARCH 1 5:00 P.M. LIGHT DINNER AND FUN ACTIVITIES 6:30 P.M. PURIM SHABBAT SERVICE AND MEGILLAH READING Join us for a light dinner, sweets, and drinks. Enjoy the carnival atmosphere with a bounce house and tons of fun. Be sure to stay for the family service and Megillah reading with Rabbis Feder and Alper. (Purimpalooza will take the place of Tot Shabbat for the month of March.) Both events are open to the community. www.ti-stl.org / February 2013 / 13 page FEBRUARY ADULT LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES Sunday Series: The Jewish Response to Evil – Lunch and Learn: Torah Study – Tuesdays, Sundays, Feb. 3 and 10, 9:45-11:15 a.m. Drop the kids noon-1:15 p.m. Bring your lunch and join Rabbi Alper in off at Religious School and join Rabbi Alper in exploring exploring the week’s Torah portion. No Hebrew skills Jewish responses to evil in the world. All adults are necessary. Come every week or whenever you can. welcome! Lunch and Learn: Judaism and Jesus, Interfaith The Lilith Readers Book Club – Tuesday, February 5, Texts and Topics – Thursdays, noon-1:00 p.m. Bring 6:30-8:00 p.m. Bring your dinner and enjoy a ladies’ your lunch and study a variety of interfaith texts and night out, interesting books and great discussion. For topics with Rabbi Alper. details, see page 18 or visit www.ti-stl.org. Shabbat Morning Bible Study – Saturday mornings, Crafting for Community – Sundays, February 3 and 10, 9:45-10:45 a.m. This year’s class is focusing on the at 9:30 a.m. in The Gathering Place at the Temple. Join women of the Hebrew Bible. Jody Chassin in learning fun and easy crafts to make and donate to organizations that serve people in need. Yoga Plus with Lisi –Sundays at 9:45 a.m. (when religious school is in session) and Thursdays at Rabbi’s Roundtable – Thursday, February 7, at 12:30 3:30 p.m. in the Kriegshaber Foyer at the Temple. p.m. Join one of our rabbis for lunch and a lively Wear comfortable clothes, bring a yoga mat if you have discussion of current events or any topic of interest to one, and join Lisi Weinstein for yoga, pilates and a dose participants. The cost for lunch is $10. RSVP to of spiritual wellness. Cost: $10 per session. Evie Bernstein, 314-434-3937. For more information on any or all of these adult Ess and Fress: Jewish Holiday Cooking – Tuesday, education programs, contact Rabbi Alper, February 19, 7:00 p.m. Join Diane Packman in the malper@ti-stl.org or 314-432-8050. Temple Israel kitchen for a special Purim edition of her popular Jewish Holiday Cooking class. RSVP to Diane, 314-469-6335 or love2mom2460@yahoo.com. Introduction to Hebrew – Mondays, 10:30-11:30 a.m. Learn the basics with Rabbi Alper. 14 page / February 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE temple NEWS LIFE IN TRANSITION; EXPLORING LIFE’S JOURNEY Life in Transition and Exploring Life’s Journey will begin Exploring Life’s Journey begins Tuesday, February 19, a new season in February. These groups are led by Jan and will meet the third Tuesday of each month from Nykin, M.Ed., LCSW, a psychotherapist in private practice 6:30-8:00 p.m. This group is for those interested in who also has para-rabbinic certification. exploring life lessons and purposes, spirituality, Jewish meditation and other related topics. Life in Transition meets the first Tuesday of each month, from 6:30-8:00 p.m., starting February 5. This group Participation is free and open to the community. is for individuals coping with a recent loss, whether No RSVP is necessary. through death, divorce, unemployment, retirement or any other life circumstance. JEWISH AND MUSLIM DAY OF SERVICE INAUGURATION INVOCATION Temple Israel was a supporting organization for this year’s Jewish and Muslim Day of Service on December 25. A number of our congregants were among the 600 volunteers from Jewish, Muslim, and other faith communities who participated in the second annual event. Volunteers attended a welcome breakfast at the Jewish Community Center Staenberg Arts and Education complex, and then fanned out to 21 community service sites in the region. Virtually every site had Jewish and Muslim volunteers working side-by-side. The event was co-sponsored by the Jewish Community Relations Council and the Islamic Foundation of Greater St. Louis. www.ti-stl.org / February 2013 / 15 page Our own Rabbi Amy Feder delivered the invocation at the inauguration of Missouri Governor Jay Nixon in Jefferson City on January 14. You can view the video at www.mo.gov/inauguration. We gratefully acknowledge these tributes received as of January 16. DEUTSCH EARLY CHILDHOOD CENTER FUND In memory of Harold Fudemberg Dorette and Ed Boldberg Ivy and Michael Klein Carol Margolis In memory of Lillian Goodman Ivy and Michael Klein In memory of Myra Grossman Susan K. and Paul Goldberg Ivy and Michael Klein Susan and Art Stiefel In honor of John and Annette Fudemberg’s 40th Anniversary and New Home Karla and Steve Rosenblum In honor of Ellen and Jack Deutsch Angela and J. J. Flotken In honor of Robert Greenberg’s 80th birthday Linda and Ivan Blumoff FRIEDA & LESTER HANDELMAN EARLY CHILDHOOD ART FUND In memory of Selma Wax Frieda Handelman In honor of a Happy Chanukah Frieda Handelman In honor of Bob Bernstein’s special birthday Natalie and Neil Handelman In memory of Marvin Davidson Marcee and Merle Silverstein In memory of Susan Irgang Marilyn Berger Rubin JoAnn Stephan In honor of Bob Greenberg’s special birthday Ann and Marty Epstein In honor of the special birthdays of Arthur and Adele Litz Rob Litz In honor of the marriage of Mr. and Mrs. Laurence Schiffer Evelyn and Louis Cohen In honor of Temple Israel Hana Tepper Taylor LIVNOT FUND In honor of Jerry Levy The Levy-Thomeczek Family LYNNE & ARNIE COLE URJ CAMP SCHOLARSHIP FUND In honor of the Lynne & Arnie Cole URJ Camp Scholarship Fund Lynne Cole MILLARD S. COHEN CARING COMMUNITY FUND In memory of Millard Cohen Myra Cohen NATHAN KAHN - ERNESTINE KAHN CHARLES KAHN FOUNDATION In honor of Lylas and Ron Chatmon GERALDINE & GIDEON SCHILLER CONFIRMATION WASHINGTON SEMINAR FUND RABBIS’ DISCRETIONARY FUND In memory of Gideon Schiller In memory of Lois DeWoskin Diana and Michael Iskiwitch Thelma Davidson Wade DeWoskin HARRY STEINER FAMILY FUND YAHRZEIT FUND In memory of Henrietta Steiner In memory of Samuel Bender Carolyn Foster TEMPLE ISRAEL ENDOWMENT FUND In honor of the special birthday of Bob Greenberg Sandra Greenberg In honor of the special birthday of Jan Greenberg Sandra Greenberg TEMPLE ISRAEL GENERAL FUND In memory of Sandy Breadman Mary Beth and Allen Soffer In memory of Harold Fudemberg The Bridge Group Marjorie Ross Martin Ruth and Harvey Bender In memory of Barry Garden Anita Garden In memory of Elmer and Selma Gidlow Audrey Friedman In memory of Florence Gertrude Gold Jane and Alvin Gold In memory of Ruth Schermer Goldstein Esther and Ted Berger In memory of Wilma J. “Billie” Goldstein Roz Kessler 16 page / February 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE february TRIBUTES In memory of Ida-Mae Herzmark Ralph A. Herzmark In memory of Jan Holtzman Martin Holtzman In memory of Maxine Jane Jacks Sidney Jacks In memory of Betty Jacobson Joan and Howard Wittner In memory of Frederick Weiss Terry Weiss In memory of Selma Weissman Weiss Sanford Weissman In memory of Neil Alan Werner Joy and Al Melman In memory of Celia Widman Marilyn and Sam Fox In memory of Petr Kholodner Raisa and Igor Belotserkovsky In memory of Lydia Kolodny Carol Winston In memory of Sophie Harris Lending Joy Lending In memory of Dorothy Liermark Sanford Weissman In memory of Perry L. Mehlman Betsy Mehlman In memory of Harold Motchan Craig Schultz In memory of Norman Nachman Les Nackman In memory of Boris Oris Maya Samoylovich In memory of Bart Phillips Shirley Phillips In memory of Bess Rainey Jeanne Ferman In memory of Max Reichenberg Margot Richards In memory of Lee C. Richards Jane and Mark Tucker In memory of Dorothy Schuman Sanford Weissman In memory of Tillie Seigal Ina Padratzik In memory of Frank Siegel Joan and Howard Wittner In memory of Ruth I. Serkes Silverstein Terry Weiss In memory of Helen Thaller Adrienne and Mickey Rosen www.ti-stl.org / February 2013 / 17 page BIMAH FOOD BASKETS January 19: In honor of grandson Alex Kemppainen’s Bar Mitzvah With love from John Kemppainen, Sr. January 26: In honor of Charlie Smoller’s Bar Mitzvah From Charlie Smoller SHIRLEY POST BIMAH FLOWERS February 9: In honor of Leah Snidman’s Bat Mitzvah sponsored with love, Robert, Elizabeth and Hannah Snidman ONEG SPONSORS January 4: In honor of Jonathan Greenberg’s Bar Mitzvah With love from Patti and Bob Gold January 18: In honor of Alex Kemppainen’s Bar Mitzvah With love from his great-grandparents, Henrietta and Mark Fish January 25: In honor of Charlie Smoller’s Bar Mitzvah With love from his aunts and uncles, Gary and Susan Hollenberg, Kathy Hollenberg and Aaron and Kelly Smoller February 8: In honor of Leah Snidman becoming a Bat Mitzvah With love from Liz and Robert Snidman IN OUR TEMPLE FAMILY Mazal Tov to Lauren Marglous, daughter of Shelley Marglous and the late Steven Marglous on her engagement to H. Peter Steffen. WELCOME TO OUR NEWEST TI MEMBERS Andrew & MaryAnne Sabin Yael NEW CHAVURAH ADVERTISER OF THE MONTH New to St. Louis? Empty Nesters? Looking to share holiday celebrations? Join our newest Chavurah! If you are looking to meet others like you to celebrate holidays, attend services, and more, come and join us! JERRY’S AUTO BODY 7923 ST. CHARLES ROCK ROAD 314-428-3833 AND 3213 WOODSON ROAD 314-423-5111 Please contact Joyce Henley at Thanks to our generous advertisers, the Dateline joycehenley@charter.net for more information is produced at no cost to Temple Israel. Please patronize our advertisers and tell them that you A Chavurah is a group of like-minded people or friends saw their company’s ad in the Dateline. When you who join together for positive, meaningful social, patronize these businesses, it demonstrates that religious, or cultural activities. advertising in our newsletter is a good investment that produces a favorable return. THE LILITH READERS If you are interested in advertising your company or placing a personal greeting in the Dateline, contact Carol Wolf Solomon at 314-432-8050 or at All women are invited to join us for any or all sessions of our Lilith Readers Book Club. Bring your own dinner and enjoy a ladies’ night out from 6:30 to 8:00 p.m. February 5 Seven Blessings by Ruchama King March 5 Unorthodox by Deborah Feldman April 2 The Midwife by Roberta Rich csolomon@ti-stl.org. TEMPLE ISRAEL IS ONLINE Like us on Facebook @ templeisraelstlouis Visit us @ www.ti-stl.org 18 page / February 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE temple NEWS YOUR CONTINUING SYNAGOGUE SUPPORT TI WISH LIST Each of us connects with our Temple Israel community All Temple members were recently sent a 2013 Continuing Synagogue Support statement. If you have not received yours, please contact JoAnn Stephan in the Temple office, 314-432-8050 or jstephan@ti-stl.org. in different ways. We may be passionate about worship, learning, youth, social justice, or simply celebrating holidays and life cycle events together. Likewise, when making charitable giving decisions, we sometimes prefer to target specific needs. In each issue of the Dateline, we highlight a variety of needs at Temple Israel where Please remember that the deadline for either remitting your generosity can make an immediate impact. your 2013 Continuing Synagogue Support payment in full or setting up a payment schedule is Feb. 15. We offer convenient quarterly or monthly automatic credit card or ACH withdrawals. Simply complete and $200 A chaperone for a youth group event $300 Kol Nidre cellist $1,000 Temple gifts to B’nai Mitzvah students for one year $600 Underwrites one of our monthly Tot Shabbat programs $500 Provides a Confirmation year scholarship for one student $720 Underwrites one year of after-hours emergency phone service for our rabbis return the payment plan form found on the back of the statement you received or contact JoAnn Stephan. If you have already paid your 2013 Continuing Synagogue Support or sent in your payment plan, thank you so much! To fulfill a wish list item, mail a check (payable to Temple Israel) to: Temple Israel Wish List, P.O. Box 790379, St. Louis, MO 63179, or donate online by credit card at www.ti-stl.org/wishlist. Please specify the item you are funding. Contributions will be recognized in future issues of the Dateline, so please let us know if you prefer to donate anonymously. For more information, contact Carol Wolf Solomon, Director of Development and Communications, csolomon@ti-stl.org or 314-432-8050. www.ti-stl.org / February 2013 / 19 page CONDOLENCES We extend our deepest sympathy to the families of Arthur Ellis Ansehl Harold C. Fudemberg Myra L. Grossman Paula Kipnis Dorothy Schoenfeld WHAT’S NEW AT NEW MT. SINAI? New Mt. Sinai Cemetery will offer a complimentary tour of the cemetery for members of Temple Israel and other owner congregations later this year. The exact date has not yet been set, but the tour will occur on a Sunday afternoon in the late spring or early summer. Round-trip bus transportation from Temple Israel will be provided. The tour will last about 90 minutes. You are welcome to bring your spouse or a friend with you, but the tour will be limited to around 35 people. WALL OF HONOR A new Wall of Honor Memorial has been established for Harold Fudemberg by the Fudemberg Family Henrietta Steiner by the Steiner Family Watch for more details in next month’s Dateline. If you would like to reserve a place on the tour now, call the cemetery office, 314-353-2540. Dan Brodsky Executive Director WINE TASTING POSTPONED LISTEN TO SERVICES LIVE! Our Temple Israel wine tasting event, initially planned Live audio broadcasts of all Shabbat and holiday worship for April 28, has been postponed and will be rescheduled services at Temple Israel make our worship accessible to for this fall. Watch for a new date to be announced those who are ill or homebound and to family members and soon. friends who are unable to attend a Bar or Bat Mitzvah. To listen by phone, dial 1-800-846-4808 and enter account code 8053. To listen online, visit www.ti-stl.org and click on the “Listen to Worship Services Live” link. We are grateful to the generous donors to our Broadcast Fund who make this broadcast possible. 20 page / February 2013 / Congregation Temple Israel DATELINE we REMEMBER February 3-9 Lillian Allen Ferdinand S. Bach Lucile Calisch Baer Fannie Sanders Berger Louis Berman Henry Blatt Charlotte Brandt Grace D. Brickman Samuel Bridge Geraldine Carp Jeanette Weiner Charnas Mollie Cotler Dr. Arnold Dankner Melvin Degroote Shirley Ruth Drohlich Jules Dubinsky Eva Engel Henry Epstein S. Lester Feldman Arthur A. Fishel Myron N. Fisher Sophie Littmann Freund Susan Fry Clara Fuchs Irene Gall Helen Stone Gelfand Solon Gershman Gus Gillerman Manuel Goldberg Robert Goldenhersh Virginia Lasker Goldman Lester J. Handelman Martin Handler Ella Gregor Hartmann Emil Hartmann Emma Hesse Isselbacher Leopold Isselbacher Mendel Jacobson Lillian B. Jossem Mary Jane Kirsner Hortense Goodman - Kohn Joe W. Kopman Irene Appel Lederman Herbert Marples Emil Mayer Gertrude L. Mendelson Fred Michelson Regina Michelson Janet Fuller Miller Gussie Harris Nathan February 3-9 (continued) Magnus F. Poulson Milton Rimmel Bernard Rosenblum Geraldine “Gigi” Rubenstein Barrett Scallet Bess Brand Schneider Dr. W. Louis Schuchat Alvin J. Shuchart Joseph H. Silversmith Earl Susman Ray A. Weil Alberta J. Weiss Tesse B. Werner Samuel Lesem Wisebart Nancy Kline Wolfheim Lucille Olian Yellen Names listed have been placed in Perpetual Memorial. For information as to how you may place a loved one’s name in Perpetual Memorial, please contact Sydney Masin at smasin@ti-stl.org or 314-432-8050. February 10-16 Maurice Benson Herman Bernard Blum Shirley R. Broderson Anna Lee Brown Julia Singer Bry Dr. Norman Ward Clein Moses M. Cohn Anna Davis Joseph B. Diamond Mary Fadem Efron Wallace N. Emmer Sol H. Engel Edith Kriegshaber Felsenthal Rose K. Fry Marilyn Mendelson Fudemberg Arthur Goldstein Leah S. Gross Fanny Guckenheim Sigmund Gusdorf Hans K. Hagen Simon Abeles Harris Pauline Manlin Helman Otto Hirsch Jason Kawin Adolphus Klauber Joseph Leonard Kohner Jeffrey Samuel Kopman Edith Levi Harold D. Marglous Fritz Marx David T. Portman Arthur Rosenfeld Morris Roufa Jane M. Scheff Martha Schneider Jeanet P. Schnurmacher Bertha Schoen Leon J. Schwab Sylvia Shanfeld Joseph Sharf Sarah Pattiz Smissman Carrie Vetsburg Michael Victor Ii David H. Wagner Fannie Waldman Maurice Weil February 17-23 Helen Sternberg Ackerman Sam Agatstein Elliott S. Bender Hannah Ruth Bender Irvin Bettman, Jr. Josef B. Bloch Rose Blumberg Lillian Caplin Louis Dern Norman S. Dertke Sarah Halle Edison Harry Fuchs Nathan Greenberg Annie Harris Matilda Honig Ann Katzenstein Tema Kopman Mollie Guckenheim Landauer Marvin S. Levin Marion Jacobson Lieberman Henrietta Berg Loewenstein Julius Mannheimer Ida Meyer Alice Jane Miller Louis M. Monheimer Hubert P. Moog Dora Kopman Moss Anna May L. Nussbaum Saul L. Nymark Armin Price Nathan Rosenberg Frank Ross Sidney Sacks Rachel Stix Schwab Albert M. Schwartz Sarah Levy Shanblum Joe Tabachnick Harriett Trepner Henry Wagner Paul Kalter Weil Richard M. Weiss Vera R. ‘Bobbie’ Weiss February 24-March 2 Sara Fox Ades Albert Arndt Benjamin Arnovitz Isadore Auer Morris Bass Leonard L. Bierman Norman Cecil Broddon Stuart Caplin Emanuel M. Cole Rose M. Cole Selma Dennis Mark Aaron Edison Moses J. Ehrlich Lena Frank Samuel Gartenberg Eleanor Ghertner Milton Goldman Charles Gregor Fanny Holtz Louis Honig Ida B. Horwitz Dr. Ernst Jonas www.ti-stl.org / February 2013 / 21 page Joseph Kaufman Hannah Lederer Kohn Michael Kutten Pauline Landauer Irvin S. Lang Sylvia Levin Louis Londy Edith Mannheimer Natalie Mehlman Rosa Meyer Joan Frank Plattner Sadie Seidel Rickensohl Betty Rosenberg Augusta Schoenstadt Jack M. Schultz Leon J. Schwab Dollie B. Shoenberg Flora Siegfried Richard A. Silverman Richard C. Simon Nat Singer Ruth Reichman Solomon Jerome J. Spector Nancy Steele Gunter Herbert Stern Bill Wallis Eugene S. Weil Curt E. Weiss Edith Newman Weiss Bertha Wildman Minnie Mayer Wolfheim James Henry Yalem Emil A. Ziskind GIVE-A-MEAL-A-MONTH For the month of February, the Harvey Kornblum Jewish Food Pantry is looking for these specific items in order to assist the community in need: Canned Pasta with Meat, Peanut Butter and Jelly, Macaroni and Cheese, Canned Fruit (all types), Canned Vegetables (corn, green beans, peas, carrots and mixed vegetables), Kosher Food, Shampoo, Conditioner and Toothpaste Items should be brought to our collection site by the May Chapel. For further information, please contact Louise Levine, 636-227-1259. TEMPLE ISRAEL DATELINE TEMPLE ISRAEL DATELINE February 2013 #1 Rabbi Alvan D. Rubin Drive Creve Coeur, MO 63141-7670 Shevat / Adar 5773 Volume XXXII / Number 5 www.ti-stl.org STAFF Amy Feder, Rabbi Michael Alper, Rabbi Mark L. Shook, Rabbi Emeritus Eli K. Montague, F.T.A., Executive Director Leslie Wolf, Director, Deutsch Early Childhood Center Marisa Reby, Religious School Director Carol Wolf Solomon, Director of Development and Communications Amanda Radman, Membership and Development Coordinator OFFICERS JoAnne Levy, President Jonathan Bloom, Vice President, Membership David Chassin, Vice President, Facilities Pamela Dern, Vice President, Social Action Harvey Harris, Vice President, Community Outreach Michael Weiss, Vice President, Strategic Planning Carol Cohen, Secretary Dee Mogerman, Assistant Secretary Cathy Goldsticker, Treasurer Diana Rothbarth, Assistant Treasurer CELEBRATE PURIM AT TEMPLE ISRAEL SEE PAGE 13 OFFICE HOURS Monday - Tuesday, 9:00 a.m. – 8:00 p.m. Wednesday - Thursday, 9:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Friday, 9:00 a.m. – 4:00 p.m. Phone: (314) 432-8050 Fax: (314) 432-8053 www.ti-stl.org NOTE: Temple Israel DATELINE (USPS: 128-700) is published monthly except bi-monthly June-July by Congregation Temple Israel. 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