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www.OKCPetsMagazine.com / Online Directory / Community Pet Calendar / Local Pet Photos from the publisher (405) 397-4310 / (918) 346-6044 Fax www.okcpetsmagazine.com Howdy, OKC Pet Lovers, and Happy (almost) Holidays! Meet (the gorgeous) Gibbs, our holiday cover star! We truly loved every photo we received for our holiday cover contest, and we so appreciate everyone sending in photos. However, our hearts especially melted when we saw Gibbs. (Who doesn’t love a Golden?) We’re thrilled to showcase this beautiful canine, and we hope you love him as much as we do! Gibbs belongs to Richard and Shari Cathcart of Edmond. He’s 2 and a half years old. The Cathcarts say their lives have not been the same since he joined the family. Whenever they arrive home from work, Gibbs likes to climb up on his favorite chair and greet them with one of his toys, or a shoe if it’s handier. (Since he was a puppy, Gibbs has always enjoyed climbing over things.) At Christmastime, they say Gibbs takes great joy in unwrapping and methodically tearing into his gifts. Tearing paper is one of his favorite things. Most of all, though, Gibbs loves meeting people and going on walks. Gibbs is active in the Central Oklahoma Golden Retriever Club where he works on “teaching his owners a thing or two about obedience training.” Soon, Gibbs hopes to participate in his first obedience trial, and he has already received his Canine Good Citizen’s Certificate. This past year, Gibbs gained a little brother named Tucker who is a 1-year-old Miniature Schnauzer. Gibbs now has a constant companion who “keeps him in and out of trouble.” Thank you to Richard and Shari for sharing Gibbs with us. We received so many wonderful pictures, and you can view them all at www.okcpetsmagazine.com/holiday-pics-2015/. From canines to equine, I am especially excited to include the story on Big Paul. My love for horses stems from my childhood, when all of us kids had a horse. There was Shorty, Peanuts, and a few others over the years, but mine was Tag (that’s us pictured above). We boarded them at a stable and most times I sobbed all the way home because I couldn’t understand why my dad wouldn’t let me stay and spend the night in the stall with Tag. Also in this issue, we bring you an update on the Pet Food Pantry and all of the new activities and programs in which they’re involved. It will surely put you in the giving spirit! Last but not least, don’t miss the Q&A with OKC Animal Welfare Superintendent Julie Bank, plus a whole lot more. So dig in and enjoy this issue. We wish you a most happy holiday season, and we’re ecstatic to begin year number THREE in 2016! Marilyn (& Tag) 4 OKC Pets November/December 2015 PUBLISHER Marilyn King (405) 397-4310 mking@okcpetsmagazine.com CREATIVE DIRECTOR Debra Fite WEB MANAGER Steve Kirkpatrick (405) 397-2740 steve@okcpetsmagazine.com EDITOR Anna Holton-Dean (830) 837-1662 anna.holton@gmail.com ADVERTISING SALES Marilyn King (405) 397-4310 mking@okcpetsmagazine.com Steve Kirkpatrick (405) 397-2740 steve@okcpetsmagazine.com Nancy Harrison (405) 826-6888 baliharr49@gmail.com Cheryl Steckler (405) 922-6542 csteckler1@cox.net Nicole Castillo (405) 361-9762 nicole.okcpetsmag@gmail.com Christopher Martin (405) 996-6674 Chris_martin88@hotmail.com CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Julie Bank Pat Becker Nicole Castillo Lauren Cavagnolo Kaycee Chance Blaize Dicus Nancy Gallimore Sheri Goodall Marilyn King Emily Perry P.O. Box 14128 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159 -1128 ©2015 All rights reserved. Volume 2, Number 6 No part of this publication may be reproduced without the express consent of the publisher. — On The Cover: Gibbs Photo by Richard Cathcart OKC Pets November/December 2015 5 novemberdecember 2015 PUBLISHER’S LETTER pg 4 PET FOOd PanTRy a SECOnd CHanCE PET Law Q&a VCa anIMaL HOSPITaLS REFLECTIOn POInTE GaRdEnS Time to “paws” for those in need PETS ABOUT TOWN pg 8 The rescue of Big Paul pg 10 Julie Bank answers readers’ questions pg 13 Their unique Oklahoma operation pg 14 Pet-friendly cremation and memorial services pg 18 wELLnESS COLUMn Ditch the rawhides! PG 20 Vienna pg 23 yOU BETTER waTCH OUT, yOU BETTER nOT BITE... a dOG’S THanKS wHaT wE wOULdn’T dO FOR OUR PETS Christmas shopping for Fido and Fluffy in the OKC Metro pg 28 For a lifetime of love and companionship pg 31 Going above and beyond pg 34 dIRECTORy Local products, services and friends of pets pg 36 PaT BECKER The mystery of a dog’s past Julie Bank Pat Becker Nicole Castillo pg 38 Lauren Cavagnolo Kaycee Chance contributing writers Blaize Dicus 6 OKC Pets November/December 2015 Nancy Gallimore Sherri Goodall Marilyn King Emily Perry Time To “Paws” For Those In Need By Nicole Castillo the holidays draw near, hearts turn toward the less fortunate. Charities and food banks fill with food, volunteers and monetary donations. Oklahoma City Metro residents, who do not have enough to eat, can benefit from these organizations. But if these people are not able to feed themselves, what happens to their pets? How will they be able to fill the tummies of furry family members? In June 2010, Kim Pempin realized many pet owners were sharing their meager meals with their dogs and cats. The realization pulled at her heartstrings, and Kim set into action. Knowing there were other organizations that aided animals in need, she researched and reached out to a pet pantry in Seattle, Wash. The Washingtonians were more than happy to offer advice and told her what bags to purchase, what ties to use, and how to mix the food and bag it. The Pet Food Pantry of Oklahoma began in Kim’s garage and provided a handful of seniors with food for their companions. Soon, the garage was full, so Kim and her husband Mike stored the bags in their cars. The vehicles were quickly filled to capacity, and they relocated to a small storefront location. Before long, when they couldn’t fit one more can of cat food on the crowded shelves, they had to look—once again—for a new place. Now, five years later, the Pet Food Pantry resides in a warehouse in north Oklahoma City. “We started with 25 seniors. We now serve approximately 120 seniors and veterans, plus over 100 homeless. That’s approximately 650 pets each month,” Kim says. “We currently provide food to senior citizens, veterans and those who find themselves homeless. If we provide pet food as 8 OKC Pets November/December 2015 to these pet parents, then they can keep their own food. Rescues and shelters benefit because people don’t have to surrender their pets due to financial hardships.” I arrived at the warehouse on a crisp October morning. The rolling doors were open, and I heard energetic chatter skipping Truckload! (Photo courtesy of Pet Food Pantry of Oklahoma) Pet Food Pantry of Oklahoma warehouse, 1000 NW 82nd, OKC (Photo courtesy of Carlos Castillo) out into the air. Inside, there was a hubbub of activity. Volunteers trickled in with cheerful hellos and good mornings before setting to work. The Pet Pantry organizes and bags a whopping six pallets of food on the second Saturday of each month. This is done by mixing all the different types of food together to make distribution easier and fair. Volunteers gathered around huge totes of cat or dog kibble to fill and weigh the bags, while others kept the totes full by pouring in more. The comradery was infectious. The vibrant group of people labored like clockwork, and soon mounds of bagged pet food were packed into large boxes to be disbursed the following Saturday. “Years ago, I asked one of our volunteers why she wanted to be a part of the Pantry,” Kim said. “She told me she used to deliver for Meals on Wheels. She watched the people she delivered to open the food that was meant for them and give to their pet. She knew at that point that what we were doing made a difference. These people will put their pets first—sometimes going without food or medication. Many of them don’t have family or family they are not close to. I’ve personally watched these people with their pets – they are their family.” Like Meals on Wheels for pets, on distribution day, volunteers are given routes, and the pet food is delivered to the doors of the elderly around the Metro. These route drivers get to know the people they deliver to and keep an eye on them as well. In some cases, the Pantry volunteers are the only individuals these seniors and veterans see in a week. On the first Tuesday of each month, the Pet Pantry visits the Homeless Alliance with Dr. Baez of Midtown Vets. Dr. Baez gives vaccinations and general medical care, while Mike Pempin hands out food. The Pantry also collaborates with police officers who work with the homeless. This came about from officers noticing hungry animals and contacting the Pantry for food. Now Kim makes sure the officers have food with them to hand out to those in need. I met Pet Food Pantry board members Mindy Duke and Devon Sisson. Devon comes from St. Luke’s Pet Ministry. What is the Pet Ministry, you may ask? She explained: “We Pet Pantry Board Members (left to right) Devon Sisson, Kim Pempin, and Mindy Duke (Photo courtesy of Carlos Castillo) meet bi-monthly with special guest speakers, volunteer with the Pet Food Pantry of OKC, Inc., provide donations to animal nonprofit organizations, and host an annual Pet Blessing. We also have a PAWS Prayer Team, made mostly of children, who pray for animals in need, as well as a note-writing team who send notes in the mail to those who have experienced a celebration (like a new pet) or a loss.” You can check out the Pet Ministry webpage at www.stlukesokc.org/ index.php/details/pet_ministry or find them on Facebook. Devon also explained how the ministry joined the Pantry. “Mindy Duke has an incredibly loving heart for both people and animals, and she approached me about the St. Luke’s Pet Ministry possibly collaborating to help the Pet Food Pantry of OKC, Inc. She arranged for Kim Pempin and Marsha Davis to come speak to the St. Luke’s Pet Ministry at one of our meetings. After learning about their organization, we decided as a ministry to start volunteering with them. As such, our ministry volunteers with them once a month to help bag pet food, and we also help at outreach events.” The Pantry also works with the Regional Food Bank of Oklahoma. Pet food is collected there as well, and Kim gets a call once or twice a week to pick up donations. Surprisingly, Kim does all this with just one parttime employee; the rest is all by volunteers. “We have amazing volunteers!” she said. “It’s a chain reaction. We have volunteers who spend their time at events informing the public of what we do, bin managers who pick up donations from our drop-off locations, those who come to the warehouse each month to help prepare the food, route drivers who deliver food each month to the seniors and veterans, and those who are involved in helping the homeless by providing pet food to local homeless camps. We also have a group who meets twice a month to hand out food to the homeless close to downtown.” Kim cherishes her flock of helpers. “We would not be where we are today, helping so many people with their pets, if we did not have the most amazing volunteers and donors. They are what keep the doors open and the pet food going out.” So what does the Pantry need? “Like most nonprofits, the greatest need is money,” Kim said. “Because we can purchase food at a discount, our donor’s dollars go much further than what they could purchase food for. While we are extremely blessed to receive collars, leashes, beds, carriers, flea/tick meds, treats, cat litter, etc., at the end of the day we are about keeping hungry tummies full. That is our first and foremost reason we exist.” A 20-pound bag of dog food costs about $20; so for $100, you can purchase five bags of dog food. That same $100, through the Pantry, can buy a pallet of dog food. You can find a Pet Pantry booth at almost every animal event in the Oklahoma City area. You can also find them on Facebook, or visit their website at www.petfoodpantryokc.org. Both pages provide information on volunteering, donating money, and food drop-off locations. From what I encountered at the warehouse, the Pet Food Pantry of Oklahoma does much more than feed animals. Aiding those in need adds meaning and purpose to the monotony of everyday life. Every volunteer I saw had a smile and twinkle in his or her eyes. Yes, they could have slept in on that beautiful Saturday morning, or started the endless list of errands we all accumulate over the workweek, but the effort they gave for those two hours will enrich the rest of the weekend. Knowing that each bag of food will be put to good use is all the reward they need. I have always believed that animal people are the best type of people, and seeing the Pantry folks in action was proof. ■ OKC Pets November/December 2015 9 10 OKC Pets November/December 2015 By Nancy Gallimore, CPDT-KA Can you love a horse you’ve never actually met? The answer is yes. A loud, resounding yes. The photo of the big Belgian draft horse that popped up on my computer screen stopped me cold. He was standing in a dusty, barren feedlot near Stillwater, Okla. He held his neck low, his head extended forward, his eyes staring blankly ahead. The strawberry blond of his coat was dull and dirty in the sunshine but had the promise of a glossy sheen with just a little care. His long legs appeared to be straight and strong, his back wide and sturdy. He did not seem to notice the person taking his photo, as he stood alone in his own corner of the busy feedlot. His eyes were shut, perhaps to retreat into his own little world, far removed from the stress and confusion. Why this one horse grabbed my attention so firmly, I have yet to comprehend. I’ll understand better when I finally meet him, when I finally have the chance to run my hands along his massive neck. His image called to me for a reason—I’m sure of that. I look at hundreds of horses every week. They are the feedlot horses featured on Facebook pages administrated by people working around the clock to find buyers who will give homes to the horses purchased at auction by killer buyers. The feedlot owners will set a price and give people a limited window of opportunity to purchase horses and move them off the lot. Many horses are saved through the efforts of the people pouring information into these posts. But if the trucks roll in to load up, good horses are quickly, forever lost. Many people are not familiar with the term “killer buyer.” For most, it is an ugly little secret. But for people who love horses and work to protect them, it is a stark and disturbing truth affecting approximately 150,000 to 200,000 horses every year. continued on page 22 OKC Pets November/December 2015 11 12 OKC Pets November/December 2015 OKC Animal Ordinances BY JULIE BANK OKC Animal Welfare My neighbor’s dog barks all night and keeps us up. Who can we call? Oklahoma City Animal Welfare is the agency to which you should report nuisance-barking dogs in OKC. You can file a complaint at the city’s Action Center at www.okc.gov or on the City of OKC app on any smart phone. A barking dog problem can reduce the quality of neighborhoods and is considered a disturbance of the peace. It is a violation of Oklahoma City ordinance 8-47.3 for a dog owner to allow his or her dog to bark and become a nuisance to a neighbor. It is not a violation for a dog to bark; it’s only a violation if the barking is excessive. When determining if barking is in violation of the law, an animal control officer will consider the following: how often the dog barks and for how long, how loud the dog is barking, what time of day the dog barks, and if there is some other disturbance that is causing the dog to bark. The most effective way to solve a barking dog problem is to try and work with the dog owner. Consider talking to your neighbor to give him or her the opportunity to resolve the situation since often the owner is unaware that barking is occurring or that excessive barking is a violation of the law. You can provide them with “How to Stop a Dog from Barking” literature pulled from the Internet or a business card of a local trainer. Be polite, cooperative, and helpful, and your communication can have great positive results. Through the OKC Action Center, OKC Animal Welfare can help by mailing a courtesy notice letting your neighbor know that a complaint was made, giving him or her time to work to rectify the problem through bringing the animal inside, training, and other humane aversives. If a dog owner refuses to take reasonable efforts to control a dog’s barking, or if after a reasonable amount of time the problem has not been resolved, you as a complainant can then pursue criminal prosecution of the dog owner. Like any criminal offense, you must be able to prove in court that a crime has been committed by the accused. The person who witnessed and is bothered by the barking dog must sign a formal citation. You can sign a citation by visiting the shelter at 2811 SE 29th Street, seven days a week, between 9 a.m. and 5:45 p.m., or by filing a notice through the City Action Center at www.okc.gov, and an officer will be sent to your home. Once signed, OKC Animal Welfare will serve the citation and issue a court date for the person to appear in court to explain or defend the allegation in front of a judge. You, as the person who wants the barking to stop, will have to appear in court and justify the citation. What is the limit on the number of animals I can legally have at my home, which is in the OKC city limits? In OKC, you are legally allowed to own four dogs and four cats. This does not include puppies or kittens under the age of 6 months. To house more than eight animals, you must apply for a kennel permit and be zoned appropriately for a business and/or kennel. When it comes to livestock, you must be in an area zoned for livestock or domestic fowl. On parcels between one and five acres in size, raising, feeding, maintaining and breeding of not more than one of the following (excluding un-weaned offspring less than 6 months of age) shall be permitted per each one half acre: (1) one horse, donkey or mule; (2) One cow, bull, heifer or steer; (3) two goats, sheep or similar animal. You are required to confine your livestock to your property. You must provide food, water, shelter and medical care. You must have the appropriate permits to keep any wild or exotic animals, and local zoning and care rules will apply. Regardless if you have one animal or eight, it’s important to be a responsible pet owner. According to OKC ordinance, you must provide appropriate food, water, shelter, and medical care at all times. All domestic animals over the age of 4 months must have a current rabies vaccination, and the rabies tag must be affixed to the animal’s neck at all times. You cannot allow your dogs to run loose as they must always be confined to a leash on your property unless at an approved off-leash dog park. Although there are no confinement laws for cats, it is recommended to keep them indoors for their safety and to appease your neighbors. Spaying or neutering your pet will not only keep your pet safe and healthy, it will help you control the amount of animals in your home, cutting down on any chance of a citation for being in violation of the city codes. OKC Animal Welfare offers any resident of OKC a free spay or neuter surgery for his or her pet to assist in being responsible. OKC Animal Welfare responds to complaints made by citizens and investigates all legitimate complaints as they arise. To request an officer to investigate a violation of city code, call (405) 297-3100. ■ OKC Pets November/December 2015 13 When clients bring their family pets to a VCA clinic, they aren’t just gaining the knowledge and experience of the attending veterinarian, but of a network of 3,300 veterinarians and 400 board-certified specialists across the nation, making it a unique experience for both the animal and the doctor. VCA Animal Hospitals was founded in 1986 and opened its first location with the purchase of one animal hospital in West Los Angeles in 1987. Since that time, it has expanded to more than 600 animal hospitals in 42 states, seven of which are in Oklahoma. VCA first arrived in Oklahoma in 2004 with its acquisition of hospitals from National Petcare Center, according to Elliot Fields, regional operations director for VCA. “At VCA, your pet’s health is our top priority, and excellent service is our goal. I truly believe we embody that every day regarding our clients and our patients,” Fields said. “We try to make sure that every client that walks through that door gets the best medical care available.” And it is not just the animals that are lavished with attention. Fields says VCA’s veterinarians make it a point to not only take care of the animals but their owners as well. “Usually going to a veterinary practice, sometimes you are going for wellness or Oklahoma VCA Animal Hospital Locations and Hours VCA Animal Hospitals Serving Oklahoma’s Pets Dr. Tracei Holder, medical director of VCA Kickingbird, Edmond vaccines, but in a lot of cases you are coming in because the animal is sick,” Fields said. “Your pet is more than your pet; it is almost your child, your baby, and that makes it a very stressful day just by itself.” All of the Oklahoma VCA locations offer primary, preventative and advanced care, boarding, grooming and pet counseling. And while each facility operates under the VCA standard of care, they each offer something a little bit different. Dr. Tracei Holder, medical director for VCA Kickingbird in Edmond, has worked at three VCA hospitals, two of those in Oklahoma. “The interesting thing about VCA for me as VCA Kickingbird Animal Hospital 421 N. Bryant Ave., Edmond, OK 73034 (405) 348-7387 Monday-Friday, 7 a.m. - 9 p.m. Saturday, 8 a.m. - 5 p.m. Sunday, 12 - 5 p.m. 14 OKC Pets November/December 2015 a practitioner is that there is an underlying consistency, but they are not all the same. The three practices I have been at have been three very different types of practices,” Holder said. “But [VCA does] have certain expectations of care and really try to follow the American Animal Hospital Association standards of care... You can expect a certain level of care even though each practice is unique.” Something specific to the Tulsa-area hospitals are the weekly doctors’ rounds held at VCA Woodland Central every Wednesday, which is one of the things Holder says she misses most from her time in Tulsa. “It’s a very tight network that they have in that group. We are here alone in Oklahoma City as a VCA hospital, so I do miss that aspect of it,” she said. Dr. Pat Grogan, medical director of VCA Woodland East, has been participating in the weekly meetings for most of his career. “From a medical standpoint, we have been doing that for over 30 years,” Grogan said. “And VCA has tried to replicate what we do here in some of their other cities, and they have yet to pull it off.” Grogan said between 10 and 12 veterinarians meet each week to discuss some of their most difficult or unusual cases as well as share things they have learned at continuing education meetings. “It’s so helpful because there are some cases that are just pretty rare, that you would hardly ever see in your career,” Grogan said. “But when you get 10 or 12 people together, the chances of you actually getting exposed to some of those cases is even greater. VCA Veterinary Medical Center 3129 S. Winston Ave., Tulsa, OK 74135 (918) 743-6644 Monday-Friday, 7 a.m. - 6 p.m. Saturday, 8 a.m. - 5 p.m. VCA Woodland Central Animal Hospital 4720 E. 51st St., Tulsa, OK 74135 (918) 496-2111 Monday-Friday, 7 a.m. - 9 p.m. Saturday, 7 a.m. - 7 p.m. Sunday, 9 a.m. - 7 p.m. With Quality Care “And then, each of us has our blinders. There are things that somebody will challenge each other, ‘That’s an old treatment. You need to try this newer treatment.’ It’s so enriching, our community of veterinarians meeting together.” Dr. Kathryn Henshaw, medical director of VCA Woodland Central, says that sometimes live cases are brought into the weekly meeting. “So instead of just talking about them and showing blood results and X-rays to each other, we actually bring the animal and say, ‘OK, this is what I am seeing. What do you guys think?’” Henshaw said. “And it is so much fun to be able to do that.” Beyond the learning aspect of the meetings, coming together weekly strengthens the rapport between the doctors. “If I have something I need to refer to the other doctors, I know how they think, and I know they will be in good hands,” Henshaw said. Affordable Care Henshaw says one of the things she appreciates about VCA is that it is constantly By Lauren Cavagnolo trying to offer new options as far as affordability. “We know that within our area, I’m not going to be the cheapest clinic you can come to, but I am able to provide a lot more services and a lot more staff to help support our services,” Henshaw said. “But I need to still make sure that we are reasonable for our area in that the clients have a lot of different options.” One of VCA’s newest options is the Care Club Wellness Plan. For a set monthly fee, pet owners receive five pet exams, all vaccines and lab testing. Optional add-ons include spay/neuter packages for younger animals or dental cleanings and X-rays for older animals. Plans and prices vary by clinic. Contact your closest VCA clinic for more details. For the clients who use all of the services included in purchasing the plan, it amounts to a discount off of the normal fees. And because it is paid for monthly, the Care Club plan helps owners budget for the pets’ health care expenses. “It makes it easier to provide Dr. Kathryn Henshaw, medical director of VCA Woodland Central, Tulsa VCA Woodland East Animal Hospital 9509 E. 61st St., Tulsa, OK 74133 (918) 252-3595 Monday-Friday, 7 a.m. - 7 p.m. Saturday, 8 a.m. - 3 p.m. VCA Woodland South Animal Hospital 9340 S. Memorial Drive, Tulsa, OK 74133 (918) 524-5000 Monday-Friday, 7 a.m. - 7 p.m. Saturday, 8 a.m. - 5 p.m. Sunday, 12 p.m. - 5 p.m. Dr. Pat Grogan, medical director of VCA Woodland East, Tulsa the care they want without having to pay a chunk each time they come to the office,” Holder said. Holder says the Care Club plan has allowed her to spot problems before they become emergent and more costly. “I’ve had times where we have found a tumor in a lung that we didn’t know was there,” she said. “Sometimes there are things you find that may lead to other diagnostics, but we are catching them early before they lead to other problems. “When we are looking for things, we find a lot of things. I think that is a big difference; we look a lot more than we used to for problems,” Holder said. Though Care Club is not pet insurance, it does pair well with Trupanion pet insurance, available through a separate company. “VCA is ideally wanting clients to consider the Care Club and then consider Trupanion for insurance,” Grogan said. “Then together, you’ve got an affordable package to cover most of your pets’ needs.” Grogan said that some pet owners might mistakenly worry that because VCA is a corporation their clinics may exhibit some of the negative connotations that go along with that, but it just isn’t true. “What they are going to find when they go in our hospitals is it’s populated by doctors and people who work here who love animals more than anything else,” Grogan said. “The only way they are going to know it is corporate is because of the signage, but you are not going to get that corporate feel. We are local... all of our hospitals existed prior to VCA.” ■ VCA Woodland Broken Arrow Animal Hospital 2106 W. Detroit, Broken Arrow, OK 74012 (918) 258-5579 Monday-Friday, 7 a.m. - 6 p.m. Saturday, 8 a.m. - 1 p.m. VCA Owasso Animal Medical Center 8811 N. Owasso Expressway, Owasso, OK 74055 (918) 272-5986 Monday-Friday, 7 a.m. - 6 p.m. Saturday, 8 a.m. - 5 p.m. OKC Pets November/December 2015 15 16 OKC Pets November/December 2015 Keeping Best Friends Together Forever Walking across the lawn at Reflection Pointe Gardens is a calming, comforting and enjoyable experience. The grass is lush and green, the gardens are overflowing with beautiful, lively flowers, and the calming sound of a gorgeous waterfall adds to the overall sense of peace. Although Reflection Pointe Gardens could easily pass as a park or a public garden, it is actually a place where families can lay their loved ones to rest. “Reflection Pointe Gardens has a number of options for families who choose cremation,” Owner Brad Whinery explains. Unlike any other cemetery in the country, Reflection Pointe Gardens offers various options to stay together as a family while remaining environmentally friendly. Reflection Pointe even offers services to furry family members. The first of its kind in Oklahoma, the garden’s “Forever Friends” section is a special place where pets’ remains can be buried separately or interred with their owners’. “We recognize that cats and dogs are much more than just pets; they are members of our families,” Whinery explains. Reflection Pointe Gardens offers pet lovers a place of comfort, a place where they can celebrate their pets’ lives and mourn them like they would any other member of the family. A nice range of land with lush grass, beautiful flowers and several smile-evoking statues, the section was clearly designed by the Whinery family with animal lovers in mind. The Forever Friends section is reserved exclusively for pets, and all remains must be cremated. Owners must purchase a plot with their animals, which most owners do regardless, so they can all stay together. Reflection Pointe Gardens offers true peace of mind for pet lovers instead of wondering what happens to their pets’ remains after they pass away. In addition, the gardens offer a place of comfort and 18 OKC Pets November/December 2015 beauty for mourning; pet owners can visit and remember their pets in a happy, beautiful environment. Reflection Pointe also recognizes service animals of all kinds. As long as the owners have purchased interment rights, mation. A few years ago, when they began to realize how large the need was, they decided to sell their funeral home properties to focus on the creation of Reflection Pointe Gardens. A dream long in the making for Brad and Glenda, Reflection Pointe Gardens offers free interment rights for verifiable service dogs, as well as any animals that have served their country, state, county or city. This unique facility offers a variety of options for pet lovers to honor the memories of their pets with the care, love, and dignity they deserve. “Pets are so much more than just pets; they are family members,” Whinery explains. And at Reflection Pointe Gardens, they are treated as such. Whinery and his wife Glenda began their business, Affordable Cremation Service, in 1999, 10 years after they purchased their first funeral home from Whinery’s parents. During this time, they discovered the increasing need for more personal, meaningful services in burial and cre- Reflection Pointe Gardens encompasses feelings of hope, peace and comfort. “Visitors won’t be able to tell Reflection Pointe Gardens is a burial setting,” Whinery explains. “It looks and feels like a park, celebrating life as it should be.” Walking across the lawn at Reflection Pointe Gardens, one can clearly see the Whinery family has accomplished its dream of creating a natural, positive environment to serve as a burial site. The green grass is lush and expansive, and trees, which block out the busy world and create calmness, surround the property. The park is about an acre and a half, and every square foot of the garden is coordinated with a GPS point. In total, there are about 58,000 locations. Each By Kaycee Chance Photos by Linda Earley square foot can contain up to four individuals’ ashes, so families can remain together. Reflection Pointe also includes a meadow in which loved ones may scatter ashes near a small, trickling stream, and an ossuary, which contains a sealed vault large enough to store the ashes of many. One of the more traditional centerpieces of the garden is the large slate stone waterfall that contains 300 places in which ashes may be placed. On these niches, the names of the deceased will be displayed. smartphone app or its website to know the exact location of their loved ones using precise GPS coordinates. While choosing not to use grave markers is certainly a unique concept, it allows Reflection Pointe Gardens to maintain its park-like atmosphere and functions to give family members a natural, peaceful environment in which to celebrate the lives of their loved ones. “The goal is to look like a park; people shouldn’t drive by and think we are a cemetery,” Whinery says. In place of monu- Perhaps one of the most unique features at Reflection Pointe Gardens is that there are no grave markers on the property other than at the waterfall; instead, they use a unique GPS system that allows family members to know the exact location of their loved ones without using monuments. Visitors can use Reflection Pointe Garden’s ments across the park, family members have the capability to create an online profile containing pictures, videos, stories and memories visitors can view on their smartphones or computers when they visit the property. However, it can be conveniently viewed from home. Visitors are able to share a memory or a note on the website. The websites create the option for people to be remembered with much more detail and complexity, instead of simply a name and a date on a headstone. Family members can share the life of the deceased and celebrate it in a positive way, while also making the site accessible to others to view as well. The GPS system Reflection Pointe Gardens uses is part of their Virtual Cemetery feature. Instead of simply locating the burial site or visiting the website created by the family, anyone can virtually visit the gardens at any time. This unique benefit is possible because the gardens were filmed from every angle in 360 degrees. And although the filming is currently not real-time like Whinery would prefer, he believes that will happen soon enough in the future. The filming captures all the beauty of the gardens on a beautiful, sunny day and makes that beauty accessible to family members or friends from virtually anywhere. “Family and friends from out of town or out of state are able to ‘visit’ their loved ones from the comfort of their homes,” Whinery explains. Virtual visitors can use the GPS feature to locate their loved ones’ remains and then virtually stroll around the park and experience its peaceful environment. This feature provides a sense of comfort to family members or loved ones who live too far away to be able to visit the site. Another benefit of the Virtual Cemetery is that friends and family members who visit the park—virtually or in person—are able to view the online profile the family creates. From there, each can leave his or her personal memory, which then gets submitted to the family members. It’s a way for family members to know when someone has visited the grave and to celebrate their loved one’s life through happy memories left by family and friends from all over the world. Driving through Oklahoma City, Reflection Pointe Gardens stands out with its beautiful landscape thanks to technology and the breakthrough Virtual Cemetery, allowing the environment to maintain its park-like setting and serve mourners of family and furry friends alike. ■ OKC Pets November/December 2015 19 PETS ABOUT TOWN Have a photo of your pet that's too cute not to share? Send it to us, and we'll include him or her in our next Pets About Town. Simply send a high-res jpeg to petpics@okcpetsmagazine.com along with your pet's name. And don't forget to look for your photogenic fur baby in the next issue! Frankie Miss Daisy Arthur Pippa Jean Stewart & Sophie George & Delilah Zeke Gypsy Cimmaron 20 OKC Pets November/December 2015 Kookie & Butter Sadie Sydney Dylan Liberty Bell & Oxford Sophie Meaty Cypress Bentley MIckey Moose OKC Pets November/December 2015 21 A Second Chance continued from page 11 All across our country, horses are sold at auction. Owners who need to rehome their horses, downsize their herds, or perhaps dispose of a horse the kids no longer ride, consign them to the sale, and buyers come to bid. Some people are there to find a new working horse, a new riding horse, or perhaps to buy a horse to fulfill a child’s dream. Other buyers are there for a very different reason. They buy the horses no one else wants and sometimes even outbid prospective homes. These buyers are known as “killer buyers.” They do not discriminate; young horses, old horses, fit riding horses, injured horses, and even pregnant mares crowd into stock trailers for transfer to the feedlots where they await shipment to slaughterhouses in Canada or, as is generally the case in our area, to Mexico. Their meat is then most often shipped overseas for human consumption. It is a stressful, horrifying, drawn-out process for these animals to endure. Horses are transported under extremely cruel and inhumane conditions, many traveling thousands of miles in overcrowded carriers with little to no food, water or rest. They are often injured or even killed inside the trailers before they ever reach their final destination. This was the fate that awaited the big, stoic horse in the photograph. He may not have understood what was happening, but I believe he clearly sensed he was in danger. Horses are amazingly sensitive animals. They know the smell of stress and to fear this sudden frenzied change in their world. Horse slaughter is a grim, sad business that inspires great debate, anger and frustration in animal welfare circles, as well as in government on both state and federal levels. You only have to enter the topic in any search engine, and you’ll find entry after entry, viewpoint after viewpoint. Just looking through the photos of the horses featured day after day on the Facebook feeds has given me a quick and unsettling education. It’s one thing to know that something like this goes on, and animals that have been our trusted partners for centuries are allowed to meet such a horrific fate. But where is the crime? Is it in slaughtering horses? Is it in being the middleman whose job is to purchase the horses? Or is it rooted in the hands of the people who let their horses go to the highest bidder in the first place? For people in some other countries, horses are a commodity and a food source—even considered a delicacy. And here in the United States, where horse slaughter is currently prohibited, we have a surplus of horses that are seemingly cast aside. As wrong as that feels to me, it is reality. There are people fighting to keep slaughterhouses out of our backyard forever. Of course, this means we are, in a sense, failing the horses that are then condemned to the long, difficult trailer rides across the border. There are others fighting to ban horse slaughter, as well as the export of horses to Canada and Mexico for slaughter. Closing the borders to this practice would be a huge step 22 OKC Pets November/December 2015 in protecting animals that are as much our companion animals as the dogs sitting at our feet or the cats purring next to us on the couch. But it still would not solve the problem of the unwanted horses consigned to auction by owners who, in my opinion, want an easy out. It’s a complex and exhausting tragedy in our country. But falling for Big Paul (the aforementioned horse’s new name) has really opened my eyes even wider to the situation. While people argue back and forth about the morality of the whole issue, I’m firmly rooted in the one thing that should really matter in any discussion of the topic: the welfare of the horses. And for me, one specific gentle, handsome draft horse. In this article, I cannot begin to detail the overwhelming issue of our castaway horses and the battle over what is truly right and humane in dealing with them. It is a topic that cuts through me and one that requires continued discussion that needs to be faced head on. But right now, I just want to focus on the horse I named Big Paul. I was drawn heart and soul to this horse the very instant his photo popped up with the label “urgent,” followed by the warning that the stock carriers were pulling into the feedlot to load horses for their final journey. It was now or never for the big, blond draft horse. I made a snap decision. This horse’s photo would not bear the heartbreaking label “shipped.” Instead, I would see to it that his photo would be labeled “safe/sold.” Through the miracle of the Internet, Paypal, and my fast typing fingers in Tulsa, I was able to send funds to secure the horse’s safety and then arranged for his transfer from the Stillwater feedlot to Silvermoon TLC, a short-term boarding ranch outside of Oklahoma City. Silvermoon TLC is a common stopover for many horses rescued from “killer buyers.” Because the feedlots are often a breeding ground for illness, a 30-day quarantine period is recommended before moving the horses into new homes where they will be around other horses. Thanks to expert care by Tonni Canaday, who manages the boarding facility, a transformation took place in Big Paul. Now, in every photo I see of him, he is turned to look at the person taking the photo, his face soft, relaxed and curious. No longer is he staring blankly ahead. He is engaged, looking hopeful. His spirit is being restored just as his coat is taking on a new glow with healthy food and a good brushing. The veterinarian paid Big Paul a visit to assess his overall health and to pull a little blood for a few necessary tests. To no one’s surprise, he developed a runny nose, commonly called a shipping cold, after his time in the stressful feedlot environment. Some horses fall quite ill and develop a fever and cough; some shake it off easily. So far it appears Paul is going to fall in the latter category. He’s a strong boy. Overall, the veterinarian declared Big Paul to be sound and in good shape. She recommended treating him for intestinal worms and giving him some supplements to help strengthen his system. These are all steps the good people at Silvermoon TLC are willing to take for Big Paul’s welfare. The vet who said this is the horse she’d want to take home with her—high praise for his gentle disposition—estimated Paul’s age to be around 16 years. With proper care, he should have many good years left. Belgians have a life expectancy of about 30 years. I’m so pleased this beautiful, impressive horse, that stands more than 17 hands tall, will now have the chance to enjoy a full and happy lifespan. I’m also pleased to have 30 days to figure out what’s next for Big Paul. As I said, this may well have been the impulse buy heard ‘round the world. Those spur-of-the-moment “purchase now” clicks on Amazon.com pale in comparison to buying a 2,000-pound living, breathing animal online. It’s possible I owe my ever-patient partner Jim a few hundred more apologies for buying a giant horse without first discussing the idea with him. Following that spontaneous decision to act first and figure out the details later, an amazing thing happened. Thanks to an online campaign by my friend, best-selling author Jon Katz (www.bedlamfarm.com), Big Paul has received an amazing outpouring of compassion and concern from people all across North America. Through the kindness of friends and strangers, I have received donations to cover Paul’s short-term boarding and immediate expenses. It is a blessing to not worry about the vet bills. What profound and touching proof that our love for, and relationship with, horses remains strong. Now, looking forward, I’m determined to provide the best possible life for Big Paul, whether at our own farm with our other horses, or with help from a friend who could secure Paul sanctuary with a draft horse rescue group. I will do what is best for Big Paul. He will never have to wear a worried expression on his big, sweet face again. I still return on a regular basis to the Facebook page where I first saw Big Paul’s listing. It’s hard to look away. There are new horses listed there every single day—more horses in danger; many horses shipped to slaughter. Big Paul was just one horse saved out of the thousands at risk in Oklahoma and in states across the country. When I considered the enormity of that big picture, the story of this one horse almost seemed insignificant. Then I ran across a quote by Mother Teresa that put it all into perspective for me: “Not all of us can do great things, but we can do small things with great love.” As many people have reminded me, sometimes this is how change happens—one small act at a time. Maybe the story of each horse saved will be the start of great things. But right now, with great love, I’m going to focus on making sure this one horse, that has a new name and a new chance in life, has the words “he lived happily ever after” at the end of his story. He deserves that. Maybe his story can help us realize they all do. ■ WORDS OF WELLNESS THE RAW STORY ON RAWHIDES BY EMILY PERRY Rawhide chews and bones are very popular treats for dogs. They come in all sorts of sizes and are pretty economical to buy. Depending on the dog, a rawhide can last days or even weeks! However, rawhide is extremely dangerous—so dangerous, I am stunned it’s still on the market. In fact, the Humane Society of the United States and the ASPCA both discourage rawhide consumption and list it among the dangerous household products for pets (next to pesticides and cleaning chemicals). If you still use rawhide, read on to find out more about why you should stop and what chewing alternatives are out there. What Is Rawhide Anyway? It’s the inner layer of cow or horsehides that has been cleaned and stripped of hair. In order to remove the hair from this layer, the hide must be soaked in chemicals, primarily sodium sulfide. It’s as toxic as it sounds. It’s then washed and whitened with hydrogen peroxide, dried, and pressed into the treats you see in stores. (Sometimes they add flavorings or coatings to make them appetizing for dogs.) Other toxins, such as trace amounts of arsenic and formaldehyde, have been detected in rawhide treats as well. Rawhide is classified neither as human food nor pet food, so there are no regulations over its production. Safe Alternatives Bully Sticks (may go by other brand names) - These are dried bull pizzles. There is no choking hazard, they are digestible, and they come in all the same sizes. Antlers - These are from elk or deer. They won’t splinter or create much odor, and they have nooks and crannies that really help get your dog’s teeth clean. Yak/Himalayan chews - These are made from yak’s milk using a Nepali method. They are hard and thick, but yielding. They are all natural, so there is no concern with bacteria, choking, digestion or smell. These are one of the best chewing options available on the market today. Marrow Bones - These are the big guys—femurs or hip bones that are thick and filled with marrow. Store them in the freezer and offer one to your dog with supervision. You can purchase them at the butcher or meat counter in a grocery store. Just beware: they are messy! ■ Wags & Kisses Mia & Co. Pet Salon OKC Pets November/December 2015 23 24 OKC Pets November/December 2015 OKC Pets November/December 2015 25 26 OKC Pets November/December 2015 OKC Pets November/December 2015 27 You Better Watch Out, You Better Not Bite... Gift Ideas for Pets By Blaize Dicus CANDY CANES, ice skating, and snowmen signal the beginning of another holiday season. Christmas is fast approaching, and before long, we will all be flocking to the mall to pick up last minute gifts on Christmas Eve. Amidst the hustle and bustle, it can be easy to forget about our special furry friends. Most of the time, a scrap or two of leftover Christmas roast is all it takes to satisfy their drooling snouts. However, if you want to give them extra joy come Christmas morning, here are a few gift suggestions that rival the handiwork of Santa’s elite elf squad. One Lucky Mutt in Edmond, Okla., is a one-stop specialty shop for natural dog foods, toys, and awesome selfserve dog wash stations. The minute you step inside the store, it is apparent there is a heavy focus on quality with top-notch products; the store itself is immaculate and creates an upbeat, positive vibe. Here you can check out products by West Paw Design and the Zogoflex dog toy line (suggested by Co-owner Valerie Petty). The toys have a unique ranking system that explains whether they are better for chewing or for playing. There are multiple designs including Bumi Tug Toy, Jive Dog Ball, and the Hurley Dog Bone—all fantastic choices if your canine is especially hard on his or her toys. My own pup, Delilah, who is a PitBeagle can destroy an everyday tennis ball in about five minutes, but these toys have proven to be a 28 OKC Pets November/December 2015 formidable substitute. She especially loves the Bumi Tug Toy because it is great for tug-of-war; it can stretch up to two times its original size. It also floats on water, so it would be great for playtime at the lake, and if it gets dirty, it’s completely dishwasher safe. All of the Zogoflex toys have a great bounce to them, guaranteeing a jowl-dropping good time. Valerie also recommends the handmade all-natural dog biscuits, which can be found in the shop year-round. They are simple dog biscuits with a great flavored icing. She says they are so delectable that most dogs try to snatch them on their way out the door. She gave me a sample cookie to take home, and Delilah absolutely loved it. Stop in and grab a couple featuring fun seasonal designs, depending on the time of year! If shopping for feline family members, PurrfecTrends Cat Furniture is a must-have! Based out of Springdale, Ark., these cat towers are a giant leap above the competition. They are handmade in the U.S. out of cabinet-grade Birch hardwood, which makes them much more attractive than the typical carpet-covered towers. Offering multiple wood finishes, there is an option to match the motif of any household. They are also much wider than most brands—the bedchamber at the base of the structure is heavier, which adds stability, and each shelf is capable of supporting 25 pounds! They come in three different heights: 48, 62, and 72 inches. Each level of the tower offers a side-wall that cats love to lean against while napping. A sisal scratching pad is also embedded in each level of the towers. And the best part: the scratching pads are replaceable! After your kitties have gotten all the wear-and-tear out of the rectangular carpet pieces, simply order more online from PurrfecTrends, remove the old pad, and screw in the new one. Have no fear about their out-ofstate status; domestic shipping is free. Soon, they will offer PurrfectSteps as well, so be on the lookout for that! If you have children in your life (or remember when you were one), you know the delight a “happy meal” brings. Well, Barking Dog Bakery now offers the pet version—“doggie meals”—and it’s not your basic fast food fare; think of it as your pet’s Christmas feast and present in one. Owner Sherri Lanier says doggie meals include an all-beef hamburger, all-beef hot dog or pizza; parmesan cheese or sweet potato fries; a dog chew; a toy (what’s a happy meal without one?); and a decorated cookie. While all recipes are all natural and diabetic friendly, they also have a three-month shelf life and no preservatives. It’s a win-win. After all, Barking Dog is a bakery, and Sherri says you can’t skip out on the five pack of decorated cookies; the seasonal offerings are a perfect stocking stuffer for Fido. Check out the special event cakes too—all with sugar-free icing. Owner Virginia Kramer of Britton Feed and Seed suggests another perfect pet gift during Oklahoma winter weather— the Soggy Doggy Mat. It’s her favorite gift item of 2015, she says. The Mat will catch it all, from wet paws and leaves to mud and dirt. You’ll probably want more than one for every door of your home, she says. “We love the Soggy Doggy Mats, and we know that you will too.” If your home is already full of pet paraphernalia and tasty treats galore, grooming is a great way to tell your pets they are loved. Not only will they look fantastic, but the experience can be relaxing for them as well. Who doesn’t love a little extra pampering? The Directory in this magazine and on www.okcpetsmagazine.com lists many grooming shops, so be sure to check there first! Santa will be dropping down the chimney before we know it, so make sure your furry friends know that he is a welcome visitor. And in case he hasn’t been informed of what your pets want, check out One Lucky Mutt, Britton Feed and Seed, and Barking Dog Bakery’s offerings or schedule that grooming getaway for your four-legged best friend! ■ OKC Pets November/December 2015 29 30 OKC Pets November/December 2015 by Marilyn King A D o g ’ s T ha n k s Even though I’m gone, dear friend, I want to comfort you with my thanks for our wonderful life together. I was the luckiest dog ever, as you were the best human friend any dog could ever hope to have. I will love you always and forever, and our memories I will cherish. My soul appreciates the good care you gave me, always feeding me nourishing food, making sure my water bowl was clean and full, sitting with me when I was sick, and just hanging out by my side. You made it a point to always look out for me, and I never doubted your love. What a great life we had! And when the bad times inevitably crept into my life, we became ever closer as you tended to me day and night, making sure I got my medicine and making me as comfortable as possible. On that dark day, I knew your grief, which pained my heart, and I wept for you knowing the end’s approach was beyond our control. At the final moments you made it so much easier for me to pass on, because I could hear your voice whispering your love for me. I’m free now, dear friend, and await our glorious reunion where the sunshine makes rainbows, and there are no more tears. So please don’t cry for me. I know we canines don’t live long, and that the best we can hope for in this fleeting lifetime is caring and love. With all the love in your heart you gave me, I know there’s some left over for another lost and scared creature out there. So go now, dear friend, and find another one like me to love. Life is short! ■ OKC Pets November/December 2015 31 32 OKC Pets November/December 2015 OKC Pets November/December 2015 33 WHAT WE WOULDN’T DO FOR OUR PETS No matter the cost—from money to physical pain—our pets are worth it all. BY SHERRI GOODALL ME AND MULLIGAN On July 3, I took Mulligan, my Westie, to the vet for an immunization. Since I didn’t have her companion, Mac MULLIGAN Two, I just carried her. On the way out to my car, I realized I had parked too far from the curb and couldn’t toss Mulligan in the back seat as usual. So I stepped down, and that’s when I knew something dreadful was about to happen. My ankle twisted under me, and I began to fall. As if in slow motion, all I could think of was not crushing Mulligan. So I pushed her sideways and twisted my body in some weird Cirque du Soleil move, landing on my bad right knee with my foot twisted under me. But (this is important) I didn’t injure one hair on Mulligan’s little body. I set her down in the parking lot and rolled over. Nothing hurt at that point, and no one saw what happened. I immediately grabbed her and jumped in the car. I felt fine—no screaming pain and no huge embarrassment. I must admit, Mulligan gave me the “big stink eye” in the parking lot as if to say, “Why am I lying in the middle of the parking lot? What’s wrong with you?” I wanted to say, “Sister, it was between me and you, and I chose you!” I went about my day, took Mulligan home, ran errands, went out to dinner that night and thought all was well. The next day, LOLA July 4, my ankle was black and blue, swollen, and my knee was the size of a cantaloupe. We were supposed to go on a golfing trip that week with some friends for my birthday—trip cancelled. Saturday morning, the 4th of July, I wasn’t about to go to the emergency room, so I called my vet. After all, he had performed a repair on a torn ACL on Mulligan recently. I thought, “An X-ray machine is an X-ray machine. Why can’t my vet X-ray my knee?” My husband, on the other hand, was ready to call Laureate. “Actually, there was a time when we could do this,” my vet said. “Now we would get in big trouble.” Off to Urgent Care we went. A couple of X34 OKC Pets November/December 2015 rays and one MRI later, I found that I hadn’t torn any ligaments, just stretched them. The real damage was to my kneecap, which is already bone on bone with bone spurs. My Miracle Dr. drained my cantaloupeknee and gave me a cortisone shot. Two weeks later, I’m pretty much healed. Now, when I go to pick up Mulligan, she kinda gives me the “baby stinkeye,” like “not again!” Learn from my mistake: this is why God invented leashes! WHATEVER LOLA WANTS… My friend Sally has “the best dog she’s ever had, period.” Her name is Lola, and she’s a 52-pound, 10year-old English Bulldog, a chunky gal—close to the floor. Sally and her husband discovered Lola had “AFib” (a heart condition where the heartbeat is irregular) when she was about to have a tooth removed. When Lola was given anesthetic, she “flat-lined.” The vet immediately brought her back and told Sally that Lola could never have anesthesia again. She now requires hearts meds given twice a day. OK, no problem; either Sally or Rick goes home twice a day to give Lola her meds—her very expensive meds. Last fall, Lola was injured and tore some ligaments in her front leg. Not being able to have surgery, she just had to be wrapped to heal on her own, which she did. However, her front paw curves under, and she can only walk short distances (and certainly cannot do steps). Yes, Sally’s house has steps. Thank-fully, she isn’t in pain. Bulldogs lie around anyway, which is a good thing. So Lola isn’t deprived of activity. Now Lola must be carried on a blanket, a la Cleopatra on her throne, to do her business outside and to go upstairs to their bedroom. Lola knows the drill; she gets on her blanket, and Sally and Rick grab the corners and drag or lift her up and down the stairs. Lola sleeps in her bed on the floor next to Sally. So, Sally has her husband snoring on one side, and Lola echoing the snores on the other side. When she needs to go out (usually at 4 a.m.), she barks, and they get up and carry/drag her up and down the stairs. The AFib causes sweet Lola to pant when her heart starts racing, so Sally or Rick gets down on the floor and pets her until she calms down. Lola has also decided she does not like dog food any longer. So, Lola has sampled home cooking and carry-out: chicken, pork tenderloin, Chick-fil-A, Arby’s, ground sirloin. Now they’re trying cooked rice and green beans. It’s apparent Lola SAM will not be eating dog food again. Sally says, “I’d do it all over again; we love Lola so much.” DON’T LEAVE ME! Sam is a chocolate Labrador who belongs to our esteemed OKC Pets Publisher Marilyn King. He has a terrific case of separation anxiety. The first time she and Steve left him for a night out, the house looked as if a band of baboons had held a gymnastics meet. Furniture overturned, knick-knacks, vases, and lamps broken, couches chewed... her other dogs looked at her like “What is with this crazy dog?” Well, this “crazy” dog does not like being separated from his owners. You leave him, and he’ll tear up your house, plain and simple. Sam is a sweetheart otherwise; I’ve met him. So, since that first episode nine years ago, Marilyn and Steve have had to juggle Sam each and every day, and when they leave, even to go to dinner, they arrange for a sitter. Now Sam has the human attention he craves when his owners are gone. Some might consider this a bit ridiculous, but, on the other hand, I wouldn’t be writing this article if it weren’t for people like me and you who read this magazine and would do anything for our pets. NO COUNTER SURFING My last story is a short one about a couple who decided they wouldn’t have children. Instead they got three Great Danes. They were building a home at the time and specifically had the kitchen counters raised to heights where the Danes couldn’t “counter surf.” Good idea! I haven’t checked, since it’s been a while, but what happens if they decide to sell the house? Only very tall people apply? ■ OKC Pets Be sure to like us on Facebook and follow us on Twitter OKC Pets November/December 2015 35 directory Directory listings are free of charge for advertisers; non-advertisers may be listed for a $40 fee. For listings, please email directory@okcpetsmagazine.com. Animal Hospitals and Veterinary Services american Chiropractic Clinic 318 West Highland Shawnee, OK 74801 www.doctorduree.com (405) 275-6363 Boarding Kennels and Daycare Facilities aristocats 930 W. Hefner Rd. Oklahoma City, OK 73144 www.aristocatshotel.com (405) 607-4422 animal Emergency & Surgical Center 931 SW 74th Oklahoma City, OK 73139 www.okcanimalemergency.com (405) 631-7828 Bark of the Town Resort & Spaw 1020 NW 67th Oklahoma City, OK 73115 www.barkofthetownokc.com (405) 842-1515 Best Friends animal Clinic 1313 N. Harrison Shawnee, OK 74801 www.bradroachdvm.com (405) 275-9355 Camp Bow wow 801 Centennial Blvd. Edmond, OK 73013 www.mycbw.com/edmond (405) 359-7297 Britton Road Veterinary Clinic 2826 W. Britton Rd. Oklahoma City, OK 73120 www.brittonroadveterinaryclinic.com (405) 751-8007 dawns Barking Lot 161 W. Waterloo Rd. Edmond, OK 73025 www.dawnsbarkinglot.com (405) 844-0079 Eye Care Clinic for animals 9225 S. I-35 Service Rd. Oklahoma City, OK 73160 www.eyecareclinicforanimals.vetsourcecms.com (405) 616-3937 Fefe’s Kennel 10901 N. Western Oklahoma City, OK 73114 www.fefeskennel.com (405) 751-3046 Great Plains Veterinary Services www.greatplainsvet.com (405) 385-1074 Guthrie Pet Hospital 123 W. Harrison Ave. Guthrie, OK 73044 www.guthriepet.net (405) 282-8796 Guthrie Pet Hospital 123 W. Harrison Ave. Guthrie, OK 73044 www.guthriepet.net (405) 282-8796 Holland’s Veterinary Referral Hospital 9421 N. Robinson Ave. Oklahoma City, OK 73144 (405) 842-2275 Midtown Vets 231 NW 10th Oklahoma City, OK 73103 www.midtownvets.com (405) 606-4477 OSU Veterinary Hospital Center for Veterinary Health Sciences Oklahoma State University Stillwater, OK 74078 www.cvhs.okstate.edu/vth (405) 744-7000 Reno animal Hospital 6400 E. Reno Ave. Midwest City, OK 73110 www.renoanimalhospital.net (405) 733-3346 Susan Streeter, PLLC 2915 NW 122nd Oklahoma City 73120 (405) 808-5800 VCa Kickingbird 421 N. Bryant Ave. Edmond, OK 73034 www.vcaanimalhospitals.com/kickingbird (405) 348-7387 36 OKC Pets November/December 2015 Midtown Vets 231 NW 10th Oklahoma City, OK 73103 www.midtownvets.com (405) 606-4477 Reno animal Hospital 6400 E. Reno Ave. Midwest City, OK 73110 www.renoanimalhospital.com (405) 733-3346 The Pawparazzi Lounge 3724 E. 2nd Edmond, OK 73034 www.pawparazzilounge.com (405) 341-0057 VCa Kickingbird 421 N. Bryant Ave. Edmond, OK 73034 www.vcaanimalhospitals.com/kickingbird (405) 348-7387 arf‘n annies 314 S.W. 89th Oklahoma City, OK 73139 (405) 634-7833 Bark of the Town Resort & Spaw 1020 NW 67th Oklahoma City, OK 73115 www.barkofthetownokc.com (405) 842-1515 Barking in Style 9431 N. May Ave. Oklahoma City, OK 73120 (405) 495-5723 Britton Road Veterinary Clinic 2826 W. Britton Rd. Oklahoma City, OK 73120 www.brittonroadveterinaryclinic.com (405) 751-8007 Camp Bow wow 801 Centennial Blvd. Edmond, OK 73013 www.mycbw.com/edmond (405) 359-7297 Copper dog Salon 7911 W. Hefner Road, Suite 5 Oklahoma City, OK 73162 www.copperdogsalon.net (405) 888-3191 dawns Barking Lot 161 W. Waterloo Rd. Edmond, OK 73025 www.dawnsbarkinglot.com (405) 844-0079 dog dynasty Salon 5026 N. May Avenue Suite E Oklahoma City, OK 73112 (405) 635-8080 doggie Styles 1261 S. Eastern Ave. Moore, OK 73160 (405) 790-0926 Fefe’s Kennel 10901 N. 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Every time you interact with your dogs, you teach them something about you, themselves, and the world around them. Your dog’s personality, his or her ability for impulse control, and social skills all will begin through your efforts. If you’re consistently raising your pet with kindness and care, you will have a great chance for living with a happy, healthy, loving companion. As a wise philosopher once said, “We are a part of all whom we have met.” That being said, let’s talk about what to expect if you didn’t raise the dog you just brought into your family. What do you know about this little guy’s past life and how he was raised? What kind of traumatic, negative experiences did he have which will influence his behavior? Most of the time there is an “X Factor” for the majority of dogs adopted from rescues and shelters. Statistically, in the U.S. 8 million dogs and cats enter shelters each year. About three-fourths of that number are dogs, half of which will die there. The lucky few will be adopted by folks like you and me. Here are a few questions to ask ourselves about why they are there: A. Did they escape their home environment, and couldn’t find their way back? B. Were they brought to the shelter by their owners, and if so, for what reason? C. Were they puppies born and not wanted? (Those owners need to have “Spay And Neuter” tattooed on each hand!) D. Were they dogs who became aggressive, and if so, why? Have you ever wished they could tell you the story of their lives? We basically know what they are subjected to when they’re picked up or owner-surrendered. They’re introduced to the local pet penal system—a very stressful situation. The routine goes like this: examination, injection, castration, incarceration. Sound like fun? Those of us who work tirelessly advocating for pet adoptions give these little critters cute, catchy names. We lie sometimes about their DNA and always try to comfort and socialize them with people and other dogs while in the shelter or rescue to help their chances for re-homing. It’s pretty amazing that some of these sweet dogs can hide their anxieties, set aside their fears, and cooperate with the folks handling them as agents of their future. These dogs who can more easily adapt are best qualified to re-enter society and find loving homes. Still, there is a mysterious similarity to the behavior of all adopted 38 OKC Pets November/December 2015 dogs. Are you aware of it? Do you see it or sense it? Let me give you a few scenarios and tell me if they sound familiar? Your new little guy is jumping around happily, then as you accidentally drop a jar lid to the floor or call out loudly to one of your kids, he flattens his ears and runs or throws himself down in a submissive position. Or he runs to hide behind something as you correct one of your other dogs. Or sadly you discover that your adoptee has never had a toy. Or you hear him moan and whine in his sleep. (Oh, yes! Research science tells us that they do dream!) I could go on and on listing the symptoms of dogs experiencing recall of some traumatic issue. Some symptoms are very subtle but distinct and discernable to those of us who have volunteered and fostered for years. A dog’s behavior flows from three main sources: desire, emotion, and knowledge. Dogs are born with open minds. As they grow, and experience life, they learn. We as caregivers need to be reminded of the responsibility that accompanies dog ownership—whether we raise them or adopt them. I have a few tips for those adopters who didn’t realize the necessity of having a plan when the new “kid” joined the family. 1. Try to communicate effectively with your new dog through gentleness of tone of voice and physical actions. 2. Allow him or her to adapt to the family routine as slowly as he or she finds necessary. 3. Give him or her a chance to build confidence with rewards, such as a small treat, for training accomplishments. 4. Give your newbie as much interactive exercise as he or she wants. I promise you there would be far fewer “returns” if adopters would consider the new family addition a “project.” Folks need to have patience and understand that these dogs need to regain the ability to trust! The other option to solving the problem of your dog’s “history mystery” is to write a fictional background about his or her life. I guarantee it will help you understand why your dog is so darn grateful to you and shows you daily! I even wrote some history mysteries about my dogs. Visit patbeckerbooks.com. You can do it too. Try it! It’s great therapy by the way! ■ Many Hugs! Pat Becker See ya on Dog Talk TV!