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June 2009
M eet the
M er r ill
Family
Fun in the Sun
Destination: Dinner
Arigato Japanese Steakhouse
Family Night Out
Family Focus
by Dr. James Dobson
A Father’s Legacy
Cover photo by Loving Legacy Photography
Congratulations to the Class of 2009
Danielle Abbadusky
Lauren Adams
Samuel Alldredge
Jonathan Allee
Jared Allen
Willie Alston
Laura Banks
Karyn Baughan
Thomas Baughan
Jessica Bell
Matthew Bell
Michael Bender
Alissa Birchard
Christian Bittner
Gracelyn Blakemore
Alisha Boley
Katie Bournival
Sara Brod
Susan Brooks
Matthew Brown
Robert Brown
Stephen Brown
Daniel Bueller
Wilfredo Burgos
Joshua Carter
Ginette Cerrud
Leigh Chamberlain
Kyle Clevenger
Samantha Colantoni
Robert Copenhaver
Kimberly Crompton
John Cruice
Timothy Davis
Kathryn DeCosta
Tiffanny Deose
Stephen DeWalt
Brandon Downey
Kristen Downward
Heather Doychak
Jennifer Duncan
David Eddy
Allison Entwistle
Rachel Farrell
Brittany Ferguson
Alison Foskey
Audrey Frost
Lynne Fukutani
George Gillespie
Melissa Gollahon
Daniel Gore
Samuel Greeley
Jeremiah Ham
Aaron Hanbury
Abigail Hancock
Keoni Haole
Jonathan Harris
Philip Helms
Gwen Hull
Naomi Ingram
James Inman
Eugene Jalbert
Andrew Jaspers
Summer Jelsma
Jessica Johnston
Benjamin Kaim
Bethany Kaplan
Amanda Karschner
Julianne Kennedy
Melinda Kennedy
Amy Kiskaddon
Rebecca Kock
Laura Koelle
Brittany Lane
Terrah Leech
James Leenman
Brooke Littlefield
Jacqueline Luddeke
Stephen Mader
Justin Mayer
Ryan Mayer
Evan McCabe
Kendall McGuire
Caleb Mello
Rebekah Mitchell
Stephanie Mitchell
Kyle Morrison
Jorge Natal
David Owens
Stephen Parrish
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June 2009
Legacy
A Father’s
Page 14
“Any man can be a
father, but it takes
a special person
to be a daddy”
— Anonymous
4 Parent to Parent
5 June Fun Facts
6 Family Focus
8 Kids in the Kitchen
10 Destination: Dinner
12 Family of the Month
13 Family Night
14 A Father’s Legacy
16 Fun in the Sun
18 Adoption Option
19 Teacher of the Month
21 Q&A with Dr. Jay
22 So You Think You’re Smart?
23 Species Spotlight
24The Young and the Young at
Heart
25GCF Bulletin Board
26Building Blocks for the Family
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Parent
It seemed like the logical thing to do at the time.
Our oldest son, David, was born the day after
Christmas a little over twelve years ago. We spent
two days in the hospital, and when we came home,
my mom was there to help us for a few weeks,
along with my youngest sister. They were staying
in the baby’s room, since David was sleeping in a
bassinette in our bedroom. But the changing table
was still in the nursery. Since he didn’t want to dis-
turb my mom and sister at night, my husband came
up with the brilliant plan of moving the changing
table into our bedroom. But the bedroom wasn’t
very large, and it already had the bassinette and a
rocking chair added to it; so rather than take up a
lot more space in the room, he pushed our clothes
off to the sides and put the changing table right in
the middle of the closet.
Like I said, it really did seem like a logical idea at
the time.
had he taken
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diaper off, when
– you guessed it –
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Fast forward to the next time my husband changed
David’s diaper. I had experience changing a baby
boy’s diaper since my brothers are almost eleven
years younger than me. So I knew that you have
to be prepared for the potential shower. But my
husband was only four when his youngest sibling
was born, and the nurses had taken care of most of
the diaper changes in the hospital. So he had never
had the experience. No sooner had he taken the
old diaper off, when – you guessed it –®David sent
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father means being prepared for anything!
During May, we celebrated Mother’s Day, and now
in June, we look forward Father’s Day as a chance
to honor all of the great fathers in our lives. Dads
end up as the brunt of a lot of jokes because of incidents similar the one I just shared. But we really
do appreciate everything that they do. So be sure
to let your own dad and your children’s dad know
how much you appreciate them this Father’s Day.
Until next time,
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So in addition to the sleepless nights that come with
caring for a newborn, he also had the unforgettable
experience of having very little to wear and washing several extra loads of laundry over the next few
days!
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he was in the closet, he sprayed all over every piece
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21 billion gallons An estimated 66.3 million
of milk is produced annually by dairy farms here in the
U.S. June is National Dairy Month, a 30-day reminder to
make sure you’re eating and drinking the dairy products
you need. It is recommended that
children ages 9-18 get 3 servings
of dairy products daily. So listen
to your mother, drink you milk,
and remember “milk does the
body good!”
2,640,285
boys and girls participated in little
league last year according to Little
League International. In recognition
of Little League’s encouragement of
young people, Congress has set aside the
second week in June as National Little
League Baseball Week. So this June, grab
your glove, take in a game and lend your
support to our local young players.
fathers live in the U.S. according to the
Census Bureau, and most of them will
receive a necktie from their children
this coming Father’s Day. The idea of
Father’s Day was conceived exactly a
century ago, by Mrs. Sonora Dodd
while she listened to a sermon.
Dodd wanted a special day to honor
her father, a widowed Civil War
veteran who was left to raise his six
children. Father’s Day was made a
national holiday in 1972 and it gives
us a perfect opportunity to show and
express our love to our dads.
Early dawn. Late sunset. Long day. Short night.
For us in the Northern Hemisphere, the summer
solstice officially begins at 1:45 a.m. EDT on the
21st of June. Not only is it the longest day of
the year but it’s also our signal to celebrate the
first day of summer.
June 21, 2009
65 years ago
on the 6th of June, the fate of the world
changed when over 160,000 Allied Forces
stormed the beaches of Normandy. This
month, take the
opportunity to
remember and
honor those men
and women who
sacrificed so much
for our freedom.
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by Dr. James Dobson
Dr. James Dobson is founder and president of Focus on the Family, a nonprofit organization that
produces his nationally syndicated radio programs. He was for 14 years an Associate Clinical Professor
of Pediatrics at the University of Southern California School of Medicine, and served for 17 years on
the Attending Staff of Children’s Hospital of Los Angeles in the Division of Child Development and
Medical Genetics. He has an earned Ph.D. from the University of Southern California in the field of
child development. His first book for parents and teachers, Dare To Discipline, has now sold over two
million copies. His subsequent eleven books for the family are also best sellers. Dr. Dobson is married
and the father of two grown children.
QUESTION: You have told us what
kinds of homes produce children with the
greatest intellectual potential. Are there
other studies that would tell us how to
raise kids with the healthiest attitudes
toward themselves and others?
manhood. After identifying those boys
having the highest self-esteem, he compared
their homes and childhood influences with
those having a lower sense of self-worth. He
found three important characteristics which
distinguished them:
DR. DOBSON: A study designed to answer
that precise question was conducted some
years ago by Dr. Stanley Coopersmith,
associate professor of psychology at the
University of California, Davis. He evaluated
1,738 normal middle-class boys and their
families, beginning in the preadolescent
period and following them through to young
1. The high-esteem children were clearly
more loved and appreciated at home than
were the low-esteem boys.
2. The high-esteem group came from homes
where parents had been significantly more
strict in their approach to discipline. By
contrast, the parents of the low-esteem group
had created insecurity and dependence by
their permissiveness. Their children were
more likely to feel that the rules were not
enforced because no one cared enough to get
involved. Furthermore, the most successful
and independent young men during the
latter period of the study were found to
“
family ties remained
the strongest not in
the wishy-washy homes
but in the homes where
discipline and self-control
had been a way of life
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have come from homes that demanded the
strictest accountability and responsibility.
And as could have been predicted, the
family ties remained the strongest not in the
wishy-washy homes but in the homes where
discipline and self-control had been a way
of life.
3. The homes of the high-esteem group
were also characterized by democracy and
openness. Once the boundaries for behavior
were established, there was freedom for
individual personalities to grow and develop.
The boys could express themselves without
fear of ridicule, and the overall atmosphere
was marked by acceptance and emotional
safety.
QUESTION: You obviously have a great
empathy for kids who are in the juniorhigh years -- especially those who are
rejected and ridiculed by their peers.
Have you always felt that way about that
age group?
DR. DOBSON: My concern for early
adolescents dates back to the years I spent
teaching in junior high school. I was only
25 years old at the time and I fell in love
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“
Taking a moment to listen,
to care, and to direct such
a youngster may be the best
investment of a lifetime.
”
with 250 science and math students. The
day I left to accept other responsibilities
I fought back the tears. Some of the kids
were hurting badly, and I developed a keen
sensitivity to their plight. Let me illustrate
how I saw them.
Years later, I was sitting in my car at a
fast-food restaurant eating a hamburger
and French fries. I happened to look in the
rearview mirror. There I saw the most pitiful,
scrawny, dirty little kitten on a ledge behind
my car. I was so touched by how hungry
she looked that I got out, tore off a piece
of my hamburger, and tossed it to her. But
before this kitten could reach it, a huge gray
tomcat sprang out of the bushes, grabbed the
morsel, and gobbled it down. I felt sorry for
the kitten, who turned and ran back into the
shadows, still hungry and frightened.
I was immediately reminded of those kids I
used to teach. They were just as needy, just
as deprived, just as lost as that little kitten.
It wasn’t food that they required; it was love
and attention and respect that they needed,
and they were desperate for it. And just
when they opened up and revealed the pain
inside, one of the more popular kids would
abuse and ridicule them, sending them
scurrying back into the shadows, frightened
and alone.
feelings. One of these mothers expressed
her frustration this way:
We, as adults, must never forget the pain
of trying to grow up and of the competitive
world in which many adolescents live today.
Taking a moment to listen, to care, and to
direct such a youngster may be the best
investment of a lifetime.
“I stand in the terminal and I watch the kids’
airplane disappear into the clouds. I feel
an incredible sense of loss. The loneliness
immediately starts to set in. I worry
constantly about their safety, but I resist the
urge to call every hour to see how they’re
doing. And when they do call me to tell me
how much fun they’re having, I grieve over
the fact that they’re living a life completely
separate from my own. My only consolation
is knowing that they’re returning soon. But
I’m haunted by the fear that they won’t want
to come home with me.”
QUESTION: I am a single mom who is
struggling to survive. Of all the things
that frustrate me, I am bothered most
by having to send my kids to visit their
dad for three weeks in the summer. That
will happen next month and I’m already
uptight about putting them on the plane.
Can you help me accept what I’m about
to go through?
If the anxieties of that mother represent your
own feelings, let me offer some suggestions
for how you might make the most of your
days alone. Instead of seeing the next three
weeks as a period of isolation, view them
as an opportunity to recharge your batteries
and reinvigorate the spirit. Single parenting
is an exhausting responsibility that can cause
burnout if it knows no relief.
DR. DOBSON: Maybe it will help to know
that many other single parents have similar
Take this time to enjoy some relaxed
evenings with your friends. Read an
inspirational book, or return to a hobby that
you’ve set aside. Fill your day with things
that are impossible amidst the pressures of
childcare, recognizing that your children
will benefit from your rehabilitation. They’ll
return to a re-energized parent, instead of
one coming off three weeks of depression.
QUESTION: What would you and your
wife do if the resources permitted her
to stay at home after the kids were in
school?
DR. DOBSON: I don’t have to speculate
about the answer to that question. Shirley
and I did have that option (although we
sold and “ate” a Volkswagen initially to
make it possible), and she stayed at home
as a full-time mom. Neither she nor I have
ever regretted that decision. Now that our
kids are grown, we would not trade the
time we invested in them for anything on
earth. Looking back today, we feel it was
especially important for Shirley to be at
home during our kids’ teen years.
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•12 slices of Italian bread (1/2 inch thick)
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A young boy had just received his
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his father if they could discuss his
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said he’d make a deal with his son. “You bring your
grades up from a C to a B average, study your Bible a
little, get your hair cut and we’ll talk about the car.”
The boy thought about that for a moment, decided
he’d settle for the offer and they agreed on it. After
about six weeks his father said, ‘Son, I’ve been really
proud. You brought your grades up and I’ve observed that you have been studying your Bible, but
I’m really disappointed you didn’t get your hair cut.’
The young man paused a moment then said, ‘You
know, Dad, I’ve been thinking about that, and I’ve
noticed in my studies of the Bible that Samson
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To this his father replied, ‘Did you also notice that
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[Five minutes later]
“Da-ad...”
“What?”
“I’m thirsty. Can you bring me a drink of
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“No. You had your chance. Lights out.”
[Five minutes later]
“Da-aaaad...”
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“I told you NO! If you ask again
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“Daaaa-aaaAAAAD...”
“WHAT??!!”
“When you come in to
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Spread the diaper in the position of the
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June 2009 • 9
Destination:
Dinner
with the
Hungry Family
Hello, there, families and friends!
It’s the Hungry Family again, and
we’ve been off on another local
adventure with our Destination:
Dinner… this time traveling
“locally” to the far regions of Japan
for a fun and fabulous dinner at
Arigato Japanese Steakhouse in
Countryside!
once!), and we
were ready for
our appetizer
course. The
tempura plate
was light and
crispy, although
the Hungry
Dad didn’t get
much of the
shrimp; the
bigger Hungry
boys gobbled
it up right along with the sliced
zucchini tempura! We also
ordered spring rolls, and then
our fabulous entrees including
various combinations of shrimp,
steak, chicken, and scallops, of
course accompanied by Arigatos’
unbeatable “goody-goody,” and
“yummy-yummy,” sauces. With
names like “Shogun” and “Sumo,”
you get an idea that your meal isn’t
going to leave you wanting. And
who won’t like a meal that’s been
sliced and diced, tossed and even
lit aflame right at your table! (Our
Hungry Second-born hoped to see
an onion volcano, and he was not
disappointed.)
the Hungry Kids didn’t remember
Did you know “Arigato” means eating in this style; but happily,
“thank you?” So from the time you they will have fond memories of
enter Arigato, you’re being thanked this night, and we hope to return
for joining the staff for your meal. soon!
And it’s easy to believe they mean
it; we were spoiled rotten by our We started our meal with a yummy
clear soup with mushrooms and
server and our chef!
scallions (included with our meal),
The Hungry Mama remembers and then a crisp iceberg salad with an
eating at a Japanese steakhouse Oriental dressing. Even the Hungry
on prom night, and it’s been a Baby loved the soup (we’re going to
while since we’ve had this dining have to get out those Japanese soup Kids not big veggie eaters?
experience. Sadly, we realized bowls and spoons – he didn’t dribble Chances are they’ll be tempted once
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Dining out is an experience most of us have incorporated into our lives on a regular basis and
here in Pinellas county we are blessed to have some of the finest family restaurants around.
Each month the “Hungry Family” will be loading up and traveling throughout Pinellas on
their Destination Dinner Road Trip to search out and find the best family restaurants on
the peninsula. So if you have a restaurant you would like us to visit, simply email us your
recommendation to hungryfamily@gulfcoastfamily.org and we will see if we can add your
restaurant as a future destination.
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June 2009 • 11
Family of the Month
June
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Meet the Merrill Family
This month we have the honor of spotlighting
a very special family that is making a difference
in our community – Mark and Susan Merrill and
their children Megan, Hannah, Emily, Mark Jr.,
and Grant. Not only do the Merrills exemplify
qualities of commitment, affection, acceptance
and togetherness, which help make up a strong
family, but they also have a deep passion for
helping others.
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Mark and Susan are both native Floridians and
both have lived in the Pinellas County / Tampa
Bay area for over twenty-four years. The two
met while attending the University of Florida
and they hit it off right from the start. Mark and
Susan have been married for over 20 years now
and they have been blessed with five wonderful kids, two of whom were adopted from an
orphanage in Russia. (You can read about the
Merrill’s incredible adoption story on our website, at www.gulfcoastfamily.org).
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As a young accomplished lawyer, Mark had his
sights set on a lasting career in the law profession. However, after an inspiring broadcast on
the Focus on the Family radio show, that all
changed, and the Merrills were challenged to
start up a program to help families here in our
community. In 1991 Mark and Susan founded
Family First, a non-profit organization dedicated to establishing the family as a top priority in
people’s lives.
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As Family First began to grow, so did Mark and
Susan’s desire to help other families outside our
immediate area. In 1997, with the help of Coach
Tony Dungy, Family First launched All Pro Dad,
an innovative program designed to equip men
with the moral and educational tools necessary
to make them better fathers and role models
and to build character in their children and
communities.
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In 2007 Mark and Susan also developed and
began the iMOM program designed to help
mothers of all ages and backgrounds who seek
to build lasting and meaningful relationships
with their children. Today, the programs and
services of Family First provide assistance and
encouragement to millions of families around
our country and throughout the globe. “We
have been absolutely amazed and humbled by
the impact Family First is now having in the lives
of so many families,” the Merrills shared with us.
“However there is so much more that we still
can and need to do to help our families!”
As a friend of the family told us, “Even though
Mark and Susan stay very
busy with their work responsibilities, they truly
do put ‘family first’ in their
lives.” And this is why the
Merrills were chosen as our
June “Family of the Month.”
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Megan is the oldest and just finished her freshman year at UF,
Hannah just graduated from home school, Emily is currently a
junior at Plant High School, Marky is graduating from St. Mary’s,
and Grant is in 5th grade at Tampa Charter School.
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• Our favorite foods are Red Velvet cake, dad’s spaghetti, and
anything Kim Bailey makes.
• Our favorite activities include spending time together as a
family – even if it is just eating a meal together, participating
in any and all types of sporting activities, playing and
listening to music, and spending time with others.
• Our favorite sports teams are the Florida Gators and the Plant
Panthers.
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If you would like to recommend a family to be featured as the family of the month, send a photo and a description
of what makes your family unique to articles@gulfcoastfamily.org.
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June 2009 • 13
L egacy
A Father’s
by Family First
Dads, have you thought about your
legacy lately? In case you haven’t,
let’s start with the basics: Webster’s
Dictionary says a legacy is “something
handed down from one who has gone
before.” Fathers, we will eventually be
that “one who has gone before” – the
leaver of the legacy. How we live will
influence our children and descendents
for generations. Let me share two
stories with you that demonstrate the
powerful legacy (both good and bad)
that fathers create.
Jonathan Edwards was born in 1703 in
East Windsor, Connecticut. He attended
Yale University at age 13 and later went
on to serve as president of the college
of New Jersey (now Princeton). When
he was just 20 years old he wrote a list
of personal resolutions. Among them
was “ask myself, at the end of every
day… wherein I could possibly, in any
respect, have done better.”
In no area was Edwards’ resolve
stronger than in his role as a father.
Edwards and his wife Sarah had
eleven children. Despite a rigorous
work schedule that included rising as
early as 4:30 a.m. to read and write
in his library, extensive travels, and
endless administrative meetings, he
always made time for his children.
“You know you’ve done some successful fathering
when you no longer feel the urge to lead your children
but feel comfortable walking by their sides.”
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Indeed, he committed to spending at
least one hour a day with them. And
what if he missed a day because he
was traveling? He diligently made up
the hour when he returned.
Numerous books have been written
about Edwards’ life, his work, and
influence on American history and his
powerful professional legacy. But the
legacy that Edwards would probably
be most proud of is his legacy as a
father.
The scholar Benjamin B. Warfield
of Princeton has charted the 1,394
known descendents of Edwards. What
he found was an incredible testament
to Jonathan Edwards. Of his known
descendents there were 13 college
presidents, 65 college professors, 30
judges, 100 lawyers, 60 physicians, 75
army and navy officers, 100 pastors,
60 authors of prominence, 3 United
States senators, 80 public servants in
other capacities including governors
and ministers to foreign countries,
and one vice-president of the United
States.
The story of Jonathan Edwards is an
example of what some sociologists
call the “five-generation rule.” How
a parent raises their child – the love
they give, the values they teach, the
emotional environment they offer, the
education they provide – influences
not only their child but the four
generations to follow. What fathers
do, in other words, will reach through
the next five generations. The example
of Jonathan Edwards shows just how
rich that legacy can be.
But the five-generation rule works
both ways. If we fail to work at being
good fathers, our neglect can plague
generations. Consider the case of Max
Jukes, a contemporary of Edwards.
As an adult, Jukes had a drinking
problem that kept him from holding
a steady job. It also kept him from
showing much concern for his wife
and children. He would disappear
sometimes for days and return drunk.
He made little time for loving and
instructing his children.
Benjamin Warfield has also charted
Jukes’ descendents. What he found
further supports the five-generation
rule. Warfield was able to trace 540 of
Jukes’ ancestors. They offer a stunning
contrast to the Edwards’ legacy. Of
Jukes’ known descendents, 310 died
as paupers, at least 150 were criminals
(including 7 murderers), more than 100
were drunkards and half of his female
descendents ended up as prostitutes.
Of course this doesn’t mean that
people are simply a product of
their parenting and that who they
are is determined entirely by their
ancestry. There have been many who
descended from men like Jukes and
overcame great obstacles to succeed.
Others have come from loving homes
like Edwards’ only to descend into a
troubled adulthood. But these are the
exceptions, not the rule.
The stories of Jonathan Edwards and
Max Jukes offer powerful lessons about
the legacy we will leave as fathers. Five
generations from now, it is likely that
our professional accomplishments will
be forgotten. In fact, our descendents
may know little about us or our lives.
But the way we parent today will
directly affect not only our children,
but also our grandchildren, our greatgrandchildren and the generations that
follow.
Dads, we will leave a legacy. What
will yours be?
Listen to Dr. James Dobson and Focus on
the Family Weekday Mornings at 7 a.m. on
WTBN AM 570 & 910
Family First, an independent, non-profit research and communications organization.
All Pro Dad is Family First’s innovative program helping men to become better fathers.
All Pro Dad has 54 NFL spokesmen, multiple events with NFL teams, 1,000 All Pro
Dad’s Day chapters, and Play of the Day daily emails that reach 40,000 fathers each
day.
In addition to All Pro Dad, Family First offers iMom for mothers in every stage of
parenting as well as the Family Minute, which provides encouragement for all families.
For more on Family First and all its programs, visit www.FamilyFirst.net.
www.gulfcoastfamily.org
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June 2009 • 15
While it can be hard at times to
entertain children during the summer
months, here in Pinellas we are blessed
to have some of the best natural
attractions in the state. So, whether
you like to bike, skate, fish, golf, or just
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Spend your money on family and fun rather than at the gas pump. Take
advantage of the close proximity of some of these nearby attractions. Whether
it is a day trip to Tampa or a fun packed day right here on the Peninsula, the
following attractions and parks provide plenty to do for the entire family.
Tampa Bay Area:
Lowry Park Zoo . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . www.lowryparkzoo.com
The Florida Aquarium . . . . . . . . . . . . www.flaquarium.org
Busch Gardens Tampa Bay . . . . . . . . . www.buschgardens.com
Adventure Island Water Park . . . . . . . . www.adventureisland.com
St. Petersburg / Clearwater:
Preparing children ages 21/2
through 15 for a lifetime of
success in the community
Great Explorations Museum . . . . . . . . www.greatex.org
The Pier . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . www.stpete-pier.com
Parks and Recreation:
Blossom Montessori School for the Deaf
14088 Icot Boulevard, Clearwater, FL 33760
Voice/TTY (727) 539-7879
Fax (727) 539-7627
www.blossomschool.org
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Fort De Soto Park . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 727-582-2267
Walsingham Park . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 727-549-6142
Lake Seminole Park . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 727-549-6156
For information on all of Pinellas County’s parks visit
www.pinellascounty.org/park.
Say you saw it in the Gulf Coast Family Newspaper
www.gulfcoastfamily.org
For the family that loves the
outdoors, Pinellas County offers an
abundant selection of campgrounds
that highlight Florida’s amazing
beauty. Whether you sleep under
the stars surrounded by moss-laden
oaks or camp near the shoreline,
taking the family camping in
Pinellas is a sure way to make
lasting memories. Take time to relax
and enjoy the friendly sunrises, the
beautiful trails, and a traditional
campfire. To find out more about
family camping in Pinellas visit
www.floridacamping.com.
Whether you like to bike, skate,
run or walk, Pinellas County has
some of the best recreation-only
paths you will find anywhere
in America. These recreational
trails not only get you away from
the traffic dangers, but they also
allow you the opportunity to enjoy
Central Florida’s great scenery
and weather. The Pinellas Trail
and Ft. De Soto Park are just a
couple of the amazing biking
trails we have. For more visit
www.pinellascountry.org/park.
Bordered by the Gulf of Mexico to
the west and by Tampa Bay to the
east, Pinellas County has some of
the most beautiful beaches in the
world. With our endless miles of
fine, glorious, white sand beaches,
and pristine blue water you will
thoroughly enjoy relaxing on the
beach while your children play in
the sand and jump in the waves.
For avid swimmers, Pinellas
County also offers some of the best
snorkeling locations the Gulf Coast
has to offer.
For families here in Pinellas
County our potential for sea
adventure is limitless. Families
can find boat tours for deep sea
fishing, dining, dolphin spotting,
deep sea diving, parasailing, bird
watching, and even playing pirate.
Our area has a well-established
network of professional charter
operations and for sport fishing
there are plenty of options for you
to take the little ones out for a
chance to catch the “big ones.”
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June 2009 • 17
Do you have room in your heart
and home for a waiting child?
Tavyla
Age: 11
Favorite animal: Dolphins, because “they’re cute and they
jump over the water.”
Dream job: To be a gymnastics
teacher
Favorite color: Purple
A few things she loves to do:
An energetic young lady, Tavyla
loves climbing tress, riding
bikes and spending the day
at Adventure Island. During
quieter moments, you might find her watching cartoons,
playing on the computer or playing with Bratz dolls.
Why people love her: Her smile and her sweet giggle, her
good manners and dedication to helping those around her and
the way she accepts new friends with warmth are a few of the
reasons Tavyla tugs at our heart strings
Photo by: James Houck
Marshall
Age: 11
Favorite food: Pizza
Favorite subject: Math
Favorite thing to do: Play
outside and ride a bike
What would make him smile:
If his forever family had a dog
Favorite singer: Jimmy Buffett
Favorite movie: Jurassic Park III
What is forever family should know: That he’s going to be the best
kid in the world
He’s described as: Cute and funny
Favorite game: Football
He describes his perfect day as: Saturday
For more information about the Heart Gallery visit
www.heartgallerykids.org or call (866) 233-0790.
18 • June 2009
Say you saw it in the Gulf Coast Family Newspaper
www.gulfcoastfamily.org
Where teaching truth
and loving students
come together
Gulf Coast Family’s
Teacher of the Month
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Betty Lin
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Congratulations to Mrs. Betty Lou Romaine,
our June Teacher of the Month. Mrs.
Romaine has taught Physical Education
and Health classes at Pinellas Preparatory
Academy since its inception and she is one
of the most jovial teachers you will ever
meet. Not only has Mrs. Romaine had a
great impact over the years on the lives of
her students but she also single handedly
coordinated the creation and development of
all of the PPA competitive athletic teams.
“Mrs. Romaine is a huge asset to our school,”
Principal Curtis Fuller told us. “Her energy
and optimism help to brighten the hallways every day. Not only has she
developed, promoted, and grown the sports program at our school while
still maintaining all of her normal responsibilities, but she also is the morale
builder of our school, always encouraging staff and providing help.”
Here is what just a few of her students, their parents, and her colleagues
had to say about their favorite coach and PE teacher:
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“I really appreciate Mrs. Romaine’s sense of humor. She is so fun to work
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Call 727-393-9100
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“Mrs. Romaine is a huge asset at PPA. She’s usually singing and always
has a smile on her face. The best thing about Mrs. Romaine is her positive
attitude! She sees the best in every child and truly enjoys them.” – Karen
Jenkins
“Mrs. Romaine is the yellow brick road to the wonderful wizard of sports!”
- Jason Beath
“Mrs. Romaine is always singing a song the first thing every morning.
You end up humming that song all day long! She so deserves Teacher of
the Month.” – Pam Biagini
To recommend a teacher to be featured as
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articles@gulfcoastfamily.org.
10101 54th Avenue N. , St. Petersburg
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June 2009 • 19
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Come experience Skycrest Christian School for yourself.
“A Twenty-First Century School”
To schedule a personal tour, call 727-797-1186.
Serving K4 – Grade 8
129 N Belcher Road • Clearwater, FL 33765
727-797-1186 • www.skycrestchristianschool.org
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“Whatever you do, work at it with your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men”
Colossians 3:23
20 • June 2009
Say you saw it in the Gulf Coast Family Newspaper
www.gulfcoastfamily.org
Q&A with
Dr. Jay
Question: With the start of
summer coming and knowing that
our kids will be swimming a lot,
how can we avoid swimmer’s ear?
Dr. Jay: Swimmer’s ear is a infection
of the skin of the ear canal. This
primarily happens because bacteria
and sometimes fungi attack the moist
and damp ear canal. I suggest a 1:1
mixture of alcohol and vinegar. This
solution is a rinse that you will squirt
in the ear canal. The alcohol helps
evaporate the water and the vinegar
helps kill any bacteria or fungi. This
is a preventive, not a treatment for
swimmer’s ear. If this solution hurts
your child’s ear, call your pediatrician’s
office for an appointment. If it is a
swimmer’s ear infection, your child
will need prescription drops.
Question: When can I take my
baby to the beach or pool and put
sunscreen on him?
Dr. Jay: Most
sunscreens that
are designed for babies will not
recommend them until 6 months of
age. Don’t forget to reapply often and
keep them hydrated. No matter how
dark your baby is, all babies can get
sunburned because their skin is so
soft and sensitive. Even if it’s overcast
and cloudy, please apply and reapply
because you can still get a sunburn.
Question: If I need to switch
formula because of frequent spit
ups, how do I know which one to
pick?
Dr. Jay: From last month’s question,
we discussed all the things you can do
before switching formula. If all those
recommendations are not working,
www.gulfcoastfamily.org
then consider switching formula. If
your child is on normal formula, this
is cow’s milk based. You can consider
changing from a ready to go form
versus a concentrate form or a powder
form. There are some babies that
improve with just changing the form
of formula. If this does not work, there
are many choices out there and it can
be overwhelming. I usually advise
if there is no family history of milk
allergies to try a cow’s milk formula
but with a lower amount of lactose or
even lactose-free. With this choice, you
are changing the carbohydrate of the
milk but keeping the protein the same.
If this does not work, the next step is
possibly choosing a soy formula. With
this choice you are changing from a
cow’s milk to a vegetable based milk
which mainly is changing the type of
protein you are giving. By this time,
if your baby is still miserable from
spitting up so much or losing weight,
I will advise to make a visit with the
gastroenterologist to help us out.
They may advise to choose partially
hydrolyzed formulas or they may
need to perform tests on the baby.
Please keep your pediatrician notified
and involved so they can help you
with these difficult decisions.
Northside Christian School
Today…
… your child decided
he wanted to be a
scientist
… your child
spoke boldly
about God
… your child will
develop lasting
friendships
… your child
will feel safe
… your child
can speak up and
feel confident
… your child
begins building
their legacy
Call today for a campus tour
Today, will you
make the decision
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child’s future?
727-541-7593 ext. 251
Northside Christian School
7777 62nd Ave. N. • St. Petersburg
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June 2009 • 21
So You Think You’re Smart?
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How many quadrilateral shapes (shapes with
four sides) are in this mind-boggling puzzle?
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Now that you have received your diploma and your cap and
gown is slowly making it’s way to the back of your closet, here
is a short list of questions we have gathered to stimulate your
brain and test your intelligence. Good luck!
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The Olympic flag bears five rings as
The figure below represents a ring (the
shown below. How many ways are
center is empty). Using only three straight
there of arranging the five rings?
cuts, what is the greatest
number of pieces you
can make? You are not
allowed to rearrange the
pieces between cuts.
Three discs of colored light (red, green,
In the grid of letters below you
blue) are projected onto a screen. Which
will find the name SARAH written
color would you expect to see where the discs completely only once. It may be
merge in the center?
horizontal, vertical or even diagonal but
the word will not be bent. Also, there is
a similarly spelled but totally unrelated
word that you need to find in the grid
below. Can you find them?
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Red
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When you are finished, you
can check your answers on page
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predator-like features such as: a strong, heavy jaw; fur in-between their
toes to muffle walking sounds;
tiny, sharp tongue points to help
tear meat; well developed sense
of smell and hearing; and vision
that is well adapted for night. It is
estimated that only 80-100 Florida
panthers remain in the wild.
“Calusa”, also known as “Lucy,”
who resides at Tampa’s Lowry
Park Zoo, was rescued in the Big
Cypress National Preserve in the
summer of 2007 by the Florida
Fish and Wildlife Conservation
Commission where she was
found abandoned by her mother
and suffering from a large head
laceration. After extensive care
and rehabilitation, Lucy is an
educational ambassador for her endangered species in the Lykes
Florida Wildlife Center at the Zoo.
Komodo Dragon
Known as the largest living species
of lizard in the world, the Komodo
dragon is a fierce predator native
to a few small Indonesian islands
including Komodo, Rintja and
western Flores. They have a long
neck, scaly skin and heavy muscular
tails. While most lizards eat both
plants and meat, the Komodo dragon
has a distinct taste for meat and can
subdue prey several times its size.
After ambushing its prey, venom
from glands in the lizard’s mouth
weaken the animal until death.
Maximus is a male Komodo dragon
found in the Asian Gardens exhibit
area of Tampa’s Lowry Park Zoo. He is extremely smart and recognizes
the sound of a whistle as direction to go into his night house at the end of
the day. Komodo dragons face a high risk of extinction in the wild; the
Zoo’s Komodos are members of the AZA species survival program.
To advertise, call 727-612-0783
June 2009 • 23
by Joy and Jerry Lancaster
Most parents and grandparents want to leave
a legacy to their children and grandchildren.
As Father’s Day nears, and as I look back at
my own childhood, I know that I was left a
wonderful legacy by both my father and my
grandfather. My grandfather, “Granddaddy,”
as he was called by our family, was one of
the last “circuit riding preachers” in the state
of Alabama. He had a circuit of 7 churches,
so every seventh Sunday, the he would come
to each little town. I remember attending
services in some of these tiny churches as
a child and listening to him preach. I also
remember the trips down the path to the
outhouse – not such a pleasant experience!
Granddaddy had ten children, so I had LOTS
of cousins – over 40, I am sure – yet he
made each and every one of us feel special
whenever we were with him. The legacy he
left to his family was that he was a man of
My own father was also a preacher. During
the early years of my life he was a traveling
evangelist. As a child, I can remember how
my mom made Daddy’s “homecomings” a
special event. We were always dressed in
our best clothes, and a feast was waiting
for dinner that night as we welcomed him
home. We five children would all sit on the
couch with our eyes closed as we waited to
see if he “brought us something.” It could
be as simple as little soaps from the hotel,
or snacks from the plane, but it was always
SOMETHING, and we thought it was
GREAT! As I entered my early teens, my
dad would take me on “dates” to very nice
restaurants, and before I ever dated a guy,
my dad showed me how special I was, and
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For several years my dad was a local pastor,
and then for twenty years, he lovingly
cared for my mother as she suffered from
Parkinson’s disease and rheumatoid arthritis.
All of her doctors at one time or another
commented to my dad about the wonderful
care he was giving her, and how her days
were greatly blessed because of this. More
than any gifts we received or words that my
dad said to me, his ACTIONS of truly living
out his marriage vows—“in sickness and in
health”—have been the greatest legacy that
he left to me as his daughter, and to all who
knew and loved him.
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Sight Reading
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For more information or to make an
appointment to begin your lessons:
Nina Sharon Goins
1749 Lakeview Rd.
Clearwater FL 33756-3659
Phone: 727-441-9548
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Living Will Seminars
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For a FREE Seminar call (727)
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John Levique Pirate Days
Fun for Everyone June 12th, 13th, and 14th
MADEIRA BEACH/TREASURE ISLAND, FL — The Eighth Annual
John Levique Pirate Days will celebrate the discovery of John’s Pass and
prepare its residents for hurricane season June 12th, 13th, and 14th. The
city of Madeira Beach will host a variety of events such as a Pirate’s Ball,
Pirate Sea Battle, street parade, treasure hunt, adults and children’s costume
contests, and more. Admission to the event is free.
To view the complete schedule of events and more details visit
www.johnspassfestivals.com. For specific questions please contact Suzanne
King at (727) 391-6025 ext. 303 or suzie@friendly-fish.com.
Vacation Bible Schools
One of the best activities you will find this summer is absolutely free
and you can find them all over the peninsula. Vacation Bible Schools
are a great way for you to
teach your children good
character traits and entertain
them at the same time.
Visit our VBS directory at
www.gulfcoastfamily.org
for VBS dates, locations,
contact information and
links to websites.
Father’s Day Weekend at the Zoo
Saturday, June 20 and Sunday, June 21 from 9:30 a.m.-5 p.m.
The Zoo is wild about dads – bring yours for free this weekend! In honor of Father’s Day, dads receive free admission on June 20 and
21 with the purchase of their son’s or daughter’s full-priced admission ticket. For dads to receive free ticket offer, the paid ticket must
be purchased on June 20 or 21 only. Offer not combinable with other discounts. Regular admission prices are: adult - $19.95, seniors
(60+) - $17.95, children ages 3-11 - $14.95, and children 2 and under are free.
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June 3 – August 21
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Includes Tae Kwon Do Classes, Swimming,
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June 2009 • 25
Wanted: Great Dads!
by Jerry Busby
I have been blessed with two wonderful
children, and year after year I get to
be the recipient of cool things as my
children shower me with hand-made
gifts on Father’s Day. On my desk here
at work are two picture frames that they
made, you know, the ones that say, “#1
Dad” or “Our Dad is the Greatest.”
The privilege of being their “# 1 Dad”
can be overwhelming. I understand that
with privilege comes responsibility. I
have a book in my library that I have
worn out over the years, The 7 Secrets
of Effective Fathers – Becoming the
father you want to be, by Ken R.
Canfield. Though the book is 17 years
old, the principles in it are timeless.
These 7 secrets are great reminders
of the responsibility that comes with
parenting.
• Commitment – Canfield says “A
father’s commitment to his children
is demonstrated by his readiness and
willingness to carry out his fathering
responsibilities.”
Jerry Busby is the Pastor of Family
Ministries at Starkey Road Baptist
Church. He and his wife, Tammy, have
two children: Justin and Katelyn.
• Knowing Your Child – Canfield
says about this secret – “An effective
father knows his children. He studies
them and their world.”
• Consistency – Do your children
know what to expect when they
interact with you? There should
be no surprises or unpredictability.
Let’s face the truth — this may be
the hardest of all.
• Protecting and Providing – Our
children not only expect us to
provide for their basic needs but
they also need us to display the
leadership that comes with the title
of being called “Dad.”
• Loving Their Mother – I do
recognize that many of you that
are reading this article are either
single parents or are in homes that
have blended families. But make no
mistake — your commitment to your
children’s mother is an essential part
of being a great Dad. It will separate
you from the normal and cause you to
be elevated in your children’s eyes.
• Active Listening – There are more
distractions today than ever before,
but we as Dads must navigate
through the distractions and allow
our children to express themselves.
It builds value in their hearts. It tells
them “my daddy really loves and
respects me.” This trait is a must!!
• Spiritual Equipping – I had the
privilege of writing the very first
“Building Blocks for the Family.”
In it I said that reading through
the Bible we understand that the
foundation of our lives should be our
faith. Passing this on to our children
is the act of spiritual equipping. Dads
when we first learned our trade, we
were in need of someone to teach us
how to do our jobs. Well this is no
different. An effective Father equips
his children in order to navigate
life’s difficult circumstances.
I hope this helps us realize that the
coolest gift we can get for Fathers Day
has already been given to us! Happy
Fathers Day!
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18 months – 3 years
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5 – 7 years
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July 2009
Cover story ▲
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Celebrate America’s freedoms with a collection of short stories about some of
America’s most beloved customs and symbols and be amazed as we compare our
rights to the rights of others around the globe.
BRAVO Center for the Performing Arts
A ministry of Oakhurst United Methodist Church
◀ Graduation! Now what?
727-528-3177 • theaterbravo@live.com • theaterbravo.org
13400 Park Blvd., Seminole • Mention this ad for a discount
“So, what are you doing after graduation?”
Whether your plans include college,
heading straight into the workforce, or
taking a year off, our July issue will have
practical tips on how to prepare yourself
for the journey.
Create a Financial Plan
for Your Loved Ones
College Planning • Retirement Planning
Investment Management
It’s your turn to talk ▶
Thomas R. Moriarty, CPA
Beginning this next month, Gulf Coast
Family is introducing a new section of our
paper, where we invite you, our readers,
to share your thoughts on a timely
subject. This month we would like for
you to share with us your favorite “family
friendly” websites and what you like best
about them. Please email all submissions
to articles@gulfcoastfamily.org.
Sherwood Financial Group
3637 4th Street N., Suite 210
St. Petersburg, FL 33704
(727) 824-8822
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We live in a busy world that often seems without hope. In order to
answer this need, we are a congregation united in a common bond,
committed to touching hearts for Christ.
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8800 Starkey Road • Seminole
(727) 397-1654
Jerry R. Lancaster, Pastor
www.SRBC.org
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July 6 – 10
9 am – noon
Bay Ridge Baptist Church back field
Skills training and games every day
Plus skits, songs and snacks
Call (727) 391-1935 or visit
bayridgebaptist.org for more information.
Registration and $20 per camper due by June 29
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Come and see
where faith and learning rock!
Preschool ( VPK)