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Newsletter of Mount Olivet Home, Mount Olivet Careview Home, and Mount Olivet Day Services Offering a continuum of high-quality care for seniors and children in an intergenerational setting FALL 2014 www.mtolivethomes.org Christmas Giving for Resident Enhancements A primary focus of the Christmas appeal will be a new call light system that will enable staff to more effectively answer residents’ needs for assistance. The new system will provide voice-tovoice access from resident to staff. 2014 Christmas Appeal Needs New call light system $60,000 Programmable scenes $30,000 Lund Chapel needs $10,000 Two waterfall sculptures $5,000 Adult Day Services scholarships Any amount sue Inside This Is PAGE 2 From the Administrator Welcome to Our New Board President Greeting from Board President John Hogenson PAGE 3 Celebrating Centenarian Tillie Schoffman PAGES 4-5 A Glimpse into the Lives of Our Centenarians PAGE 6 Memorials & Gifts: 3rd Quarter 2014 Grace Hospice, continued PAGE 7 Faces and Places at Mount Olivet Home, Mount Olivet Careview Home & Mount Olivet Day Services PAGE 8 From the Director of Development Any Direction You Give Helps To enhance common areas, viewing screens with programmable scenes for large-screen TVs would be wonderful to have on each floor. for a later activity for residents and as a keepsake for relatives. The Lund Chapel needs a retractable screen for projecting the words of hymns so residents do not have to use the hymnal. A recording apparatus is also needed to record both special performances and services both To enhance the two memory care units, a w a t e r f a l l sculpture like the one in the Careview lobby would be very calming. Scholarships for our Mount Olivet Day Services adult participants with limited resources could make the difference for people hoping to live independently. Watch your mail for your giving envelope. Thanks in advance for your support! Pictured: (r) Nurse manager Lucky Nwachukwu and (l) resident Arnie Skaar Unique Partnership Creates Hospice G race Hospice, a new Medicare-certified non-profit representing a partnership between Mount Olivet Careview Home and Augustana Care Corporation, is now serving people in their final stages of life. To accomplish the goals of this unique program, Grace Hospice provides services in the patient’s home or care setting. Services are open to anyone in the community. Hospice offers physical, emotional, and spiritual care for people dealing with life-limiting illnesses while providing support for those who love them. It focuses on providing compassionate comfort care, and is offered to those facing the advanced stages of diseases such as cancer, Alzheimer’s, and other illnesses. According to Sarah Van Winkle, administrator of hospice and palliative care services, Grace Hospice will bring hospice back to its roots, with strong spiritual and emotional care that is rich in volunteers. The staff will go where the patient lives—either their home or care facility—to care for and be with them during Sarah Van Winkle their final days. Continued on page 6 From theator Welcome to Our New Board President str AdminiTIM M HOKANSON Dear Family and Friends, It is exciting for us to welcome Pastor John Hogenson as our new board president. He gained experience in our industry when he served as a chaplain at Martin Luther Manor many years ago. I know he will help guide our future with passion and integrity for our residents. Both Pastor Hogenson and I are excited about Grace Hospice and hope you will spread the word about this new service for people in the final stages of their lives. The program needs volunteers so I hope you will contact the administrator, Sarah Van Winkle, at 612.238.5284 to become a part of this important ministry. Our Transitional Care Unit remains very busy. It is a great place for people to rehab after surgery. Please spread the word about this service, too. Calls in advance of need help our staff serve you better. Give a call at 612.827.5677. I hope you will join us by supporting our Christmas appeal that will enhance residents’ lives in many meaningful ways. Give Mari Carlson, our director of development, a call at 612.821.3150. Your gift will make a difference! Thanks for your partnership! Caring FALL 2014 BOARD PRESIDENT Pastor John Hogenson ADMINISTRATOR Tim Hokanson DIRECTOR OF DEVELOPMENT & EDITOR Mari Carlson WRITERS & COPY EDITORS Stephanie Pedersen, Erin VanBurkleo, Lynn von Hassel & Karen Walhof Caring is published three times a year for family, friends and supporters of Mount Olivet Home, Mount Olivet Careview Home and Mount Olivet Day Services, organizations dedicated to providing loving care for children and seniors. Address changes, comments, and questions are welcome. Call 612.821.3151 or email mcarlson@mtolivethomes.org. Copyright © 2014 by Mount Olivet Careview Home. All rights reserved. Manufactured in the U.S.A. 2 | Caring, Fall 2014 ount Olivet Home, Mount Olivet Careview Home, and Mount Olivet Day Services welcome John Hogenson as board president, a role he assumes as the new senior pastor of Mount Olivet Lutheran Church. On Sunday, September 21, Pastor Hogenson was installed as Mount Olivet’s 8th senior pastor. He comes to us from Saint Andrew’s Lutheran Church in Mahtomedi, Minnesota, where he was the lead pastor. “I am excited to be part of the team, and look forward to working with board members, staff, families, donors, and volunteers to ensure that our residents and In his 25 years of ministry, Pastor Hoadult and child participants genson has served in five congregations, live life to the fullest.” among them three of the ten largest in Pastor Hogenson Pastor Hogenson was born in Owatonna, Minnesota. He graduated from Gustavus Adolphus College and holds a Master of Divinity from Luther Seminary in St. Paul. the ELCA. He is a current member of the board of trustees of Gustavus Adolphus College and a member of the advisory board of Augsburg College Christensen Center for Vocation. Pastor Hogenson is a national presenter on church leadership and healthy ministry, and a contributing author to books about servant ministry and preaching. Pastor Hogenson and his wife Ruth have been married for 31 years. He grew up in St. Paul and has one brother. He has finished eight marathons, two triathlons, and is currently reading the Bible cover to cover for the fourth consecutive year. (Standing l-r): Pastor John Hogenson, his wife Ruth, son-in-law Brian & daughter Jana. (Seated l-r): Daughter Kelly (Brian) & grandson Connor, daughter Kate. Honor Your Father and Mother S cripture tells us to “Honor your father and mother so that it may be well with you and you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.” Respecting, honoring, and caring for our elders are central to living a life of faith. For a community to be “Well” we need to care for our elders. As your new board president, I am proud to be part of a community of faith that cares for our seniors so well, especially through the ministry that comprises the services for seniors and children on Lyndale. I have known for years that Mount Olivet Home, Mount Olivet Careview Home, and Mount Olivet Day Services are highly respected throughout our community and the long-term care industry. You have my assurance that we will continue the tradition of providing high-quality care for our seniors and children. I thank you for your support and your part in the ministry that we share. Blessings to you, Pastor John Hogenson n a i r a n e t n e C a Celebrating TILLIE SCHOFFMAN W “ e didn’t have much money, but we were always loved.” That’s the memory that keeps coming back to Tillie Schoffman when she remembers her childhood and youth. Tillie celebrates her 103rd birthday this year! She remained “very independent” in her house in Edina until she moved into Mount Olivet Home this past April. Tillie grew up on her parents’ farm near Bowbells, North Dakota, with 10 brothers and sisters. Ernest and Tilda Elfstrum, her parents, homesteaded a farm where they raised crops and cattle. She remembers feeding and herding cattle, harnessing horses, pitching bundles, preserving vegetables from the family garden, and taking lunches out to the threshers in the field. Her father had built a little house on the farm where they lived. He came from Sweden, as did her mother’s parents. Tillie remembers how devoted her father was to this land. “He loved this country,” she says. “At parades he would say, ‘Hats off. The flag is passing by!’” Tillie moved to Kenmare, North Dakota, where she attended high school and worked in several little shops. “We were poor but happy,” Tillie insists. After high school she moved to Minneapolis with her sister Grace. They sold cards door-to-door to support themselves. Later Tillie worked in a photo shop and at the Minneapolis Credit Exchange. “I was glad I had learned Tillie near the time the alphabet, because I did a lot of filing of her marriage there,” Tillie laughs. She married John Marion Schoffman in 1934. John served in the Army between the world wars, and they lived in several locations during that time, including Fort Sill, Oklahoma. After his Army service, they settled in Minneapolis where John worked for the Ford Motor Company and later the U.S. Postal Service. John and Tillie frequented garage and John and Tillie teaching archery estate sales, and also enjoyed repairing items for resale at flea markets. “We loved to do things together,” Tillie remembers. They also taught archery as a team. Tillie kept busy with her family; they had two sons, John Ernest (“Jack”) and Joseph Thomas, who were very involved in sports at Edina High School. In addition, she braided rugs, crocheted bedspreads, canned food from her garden, and taught Bible school at Edina Morningside Congregational Church. Her family remembers her Swedish meatballs as a special treat. John died in 1990. “She took care of her husband, who had suffered with Jack, John, Tillie, and Joseph asthma,” her daughterin-law Cathy Schoffman says. “She had to buy medicine for him and sometimes went without things for the family.” Tillie smiles, remembering her life and her family, “We knew hard times and good times.” Her sons have both died, and now she looks forward to seeing Cathy, her five grandchildren, and twelve great-grandchildren. She has enjoyed her time at Mount Olivet Home. “I caught a fish this summer” on one of the outings. “And I don’t take one bit of medicine,” Tillie insists. “In fact, I feel like running,” she says as she sprints across the room, showing her agility. Tillie is content in her 103rd year, and her good humor is intact. “There isn’t one person that I don’t love. I love everybody!” she says. Tillie Schoffman (c) celebrates her 103rd birthday with family & friends. Caring, Fall 2014 | 3 O f o s e iv L e h t o t in A G limpse Milan Johnson What is the biggest change you have seen in your lifetime? “I couldn’t even think of them all! When I was 1910 – Invention young, you of the radio had to make your own radio, and had a 200-foot antenna in the yard. Now you have everything right there in your hand.” How did you get to live to be 100? “Three things: Taking it easy, not worrying too much, and being patient.” Josie Landberg What is the biggest change you have seen in your lifetime? “We’ll all just have to change with the times.” How did you get to live to be 100? “I guess I got up early and stayed with it.” Dorothy Korshus What is the biggest change you have seen in your lifetime? “I just don’t think 1912 – Sinking about all the of the Titanic changes!” How did you get to live to be 100? “I didn’t try to do it, it just happened.” Frances McAlpin What is the biggest change you have seen in your lifetime? “The invention of the electric carpet sweeper.” How did you get to live to be 100? “A manhatten every night before dinner, coffee 1901 – Vacuum and the cleaner invented newspaper in the morning, eating three meals a day, and sleeping late.” 4 | Caring, Fall 2014 Mimi Blila What is the biggest change you have seen in your lifetime? The greatest invention during her lifetime was the automobile, says Mimi’s family. Mimi loved her freedom, independence, and the opportunities that driving gave her. She had great 1911 – First auto curiosity and electric engine was interested in everything: religion, travel, politics, music, art, theater, to name a few. At the age of 80, she and her cousin put together a 700-page family history. How did you get to live to be 100? Mimi’s family thinks she achieved centenarian status by keeping her mind active by learning new things every day and staying involved with her family and her many friends. Thora Fletcher What is the biggest change you have seen in your lifetime? “Technology and communication have changed a lot, and are changing very rapidly now.” 1981 – IBM How did you get to introduces its live to be 100? first personal “My life has been computer pretty placid, and I have been surrounded by very good people. I joke that I’m just hanging in there until the Vikings win the Superbowl!” Gladyce Budd What is the biggest change you have seen in your lifetime? “No one thing stands out. It all changed, such as computers, phones, transportation and in the medical field with people living much longer.” How did you get to live to be 100? Because I worked hard and I am a Norwegian. I was a nurse so I know how to take care of myself. I also 1895 – Invention owned and managed a gift shop of the x-ray called Pretty Package until I was 89 years old and sold the store. My nieces and nephews that visit and keep me up on things and feeling young. Our Centenarians Ione Boline What is the biggest change you have seen in your lifetime? Ione’s family says that the biggest change was living 1913 – Henry alone after her Ford develops husband died, the modern and having to take over all of the assembly line responsibilities for the house, bills, and everything. She did not learn to drive before then. How did you get to live to be 100? Ione has always adapted to change, and has a very strong faith in God. These things, in addition to thinking positive, always staying active, especially in church, maintaining a sense of humor, and being thankful for everything have helped her live past 100. Margaret Biebighauser What is the biggest change you have seen in your lifetime? Margaret’s daughter Bev Sander said her mother dealt with many illnesses during her life 1928 – Discovery including havof penicillin ing a bowel obstruction that ruptured. Bev knew that Margaret was grateful for all the medical advances including well-trained doctors and antibiotics that saved her life. How do you think you got to be 100? Margaret was an avid reader, walker, and cook that all combined to help her reach centenarian status. Edith Harrer What is the biggest change in your lifetime? “Times have changed. Girls used to be dressed as girls and boys as boys. The way we think has maybe changed too. What used to be a disgrace is acceptable now. They are good changes. You can have an open mind and think the way you want.” How do you think you got to be 100? “I have no idea.… The only thing is I try to live right. Eat right. Not take too many chances. But life still hasn’t been boring. Well, I also never think about being ill. If you feel sick, try to put it out of your mind. The way you think has a lot to do with it.” Helen Scharlemann What is the biggest change you have seen in your lifetime? “The graveyards for all the servicemen, how the names have changed. This is especially close to my heart because all three of my brothers served in the war. They 1914 – Start of WWI all came Panama Canal opens back, but First U.S. income tax my heart goes out to all of those who did not make it back, as well as to their families.” How did you get to live to be 100? “Well, I don’t know. You get up in the morning and you just get working.” Bernice Spande What is the biggest change you have seen in your lifetime? Her son Bruce said he thought his mother would say the invention of the automobile and the telephone changed people lives the most in the last century. How did you get to live to be 100? He added that his mother stayed young by working at the motel she and her husband owned 1919 – Blender until she was no longer able to do & toaster are that. And, she did crossword puzzles invented every day and lots of handiwork like crocheting and knitting to keep her mind and body strong. Tillie Schoffman What is the biggest change in your lifetime? “When I moved to Mt. Olivet I was scared, but I soon discovered it was very nice. I love it and think I’m better not going back home. It’s changed for the best. People have been nice to me. Sometimes when they aren’t very nice, I think maybe they have had it tough. I love everyone.” How do you think you got to be 100? “Because I love God and I love people. Today I was upset. And then, I saw a light in my window, and I thought that the light was from God. I’m happy now. I’m not mad at anyone.” Caring, Fall 2014 | 5 s t f i G d n a s l a i r o Mem JULY 1 THROUGH SEPTEMBER 30, 2014 Mount Olivet Home IN MEMORY OF: JAMES BLOOMSTROM Karen & Ted Olson PAUL GROVEN Family & Friends R. Mark & Nancy Aulizia Sue Cordahl Charles & Carolyn Engeldinger Lynne Groven Evelyn & Lyle Odland Joseph Renneke Susan Sullivan Linda Zoukis LILLIAN JORGENSON Family & Frineds Elaine & Michael Dahl Donna & George Godfrey Janice Godfrey Margaret Mattson Patrick & Susan Moore Keith & Elsie Olsen Daniel & Janet Quamme Kimberly & Jay Ruthenbeck Jan Utech Mount Olivet Careview Home IN MEMORY OF: CATHERINE DOSTAL Janet Nelson CLAYTON & JOAN MOLINE Jan Svejda & Jill Svejda MERIDA LUNDSTROM Family & Friends Deborah Bernard Kristina & Adam Cooper Jim Pentico & Marie Friederickson Joan & Andy, and Kyle Hallock Mark & Patricia Heimkes Peter & Kathleen Kirkegaard Juliana & Gale Kottke Patricia & David Preves Barbara & Charles Swanson Nancy & John Weix Staff Subway Party Chris & Jim Duchow Gretchen & Dan Farwell Connie & Bob Hartshorn CLARA PETERSON Family & Friends John & Louise Anderson Addell Dahlen Laverne & Don Dillon EUGENE PIERSON Clara Pierson GRANT: Greater Twin Cities United Way MATCHING GIFT: Thrivent Financial for Lutherans Foundation THRIVENT CHOICE: David Bundy Anna Nekola Mount Olivet Day Services IN MEMORY OF: HAROLD BAICHTAL Julie & Kurt Peters GIFTS IN KIND: Pam & Ronald Sailer Michael Dahnert YourCause Paying Agent for Corporate Giving Program John & Jan Stockbridge HELEN TOWER Pat Devaney GIFTS: Michael Dahnert YourCause Paying Agent for Corporate Giving Program Harriet & George Capetz Joyce Brekke Marit Larson Jan Norbeck Judith & Peter Obermeyer GIFTS: Bruce & Jean Grussing Richard & Anne Hahn Margaret Hall Scott Berry & Kate Johnson Andrea & Bill Johnstone John & Christiane Keaveny James & Susan Kosmoski Sally & Richard Leider Martin Schulke & St. John Dale & Janice Mulfinger Philip & Mary Newhall Darin Opperman David & Joan Sheppard Pat Walsh THRIVENT CHOICE: GRACE CARLSON Family & Friends ABC Consulting James Carlson Damon & Rebecca Farber Dennis Feit Elizabeth Paulsen We apologize if your name was omitted or misspelled. Call Erin at 612.821.3151 for corrections. Grace Hospice, continued from page 1 Sarah says, “Patients are able to be where they want to be— comfortable, able to say those things they want to say to their families, living their final days with respect and dignity, free from pain, in an environment that promotes quality of life.” She has assembled a staff of hospice workers, including a hospice director, medical director, social worker, chaplain, volunteer coordinator, and nurses who have this as their focus. A nurse is always on call, 24/7. What makes Grace Hospice unique? It offers specialized care for each patient. “We develop a personal care plan with patients and their families including options for staffing, and other therapies,” explains Sarah. “While patients maintain their primary care givers, hospice adds services to make the end of life comfortable and peaceful.” Sarah adds, “People want a say in how their care is delivered, and Grace Hospice works with them so they can control decisions.” Grace Hospice team also strives for consistency. “A consistent team that does not have turnover,” Sarah notes, “is important for patients and families.” And yet each patient’s care plan is ever evolving. Every 14 days, the entire hospice team meets to talk about patient goals, which may change as health conditions change. Spiritual care for Grace Hospice includes a chaplain and volunteers who understand the patient’s faith background. 6 | Caring, Fall 2014 “That’s a natural for us as part of a faith-based, mission-driven organization,” Sarah says. “We provide support for family members and their journeys as well,” she adds. “People who work in hospice have a deeper relationship with patients and their families.” Besides spiritual care, Sarah says, “Our affiliation with Mount Olivet and Augustana Care helps us find excellent volunteers who are providTo learn more about Grace ed with in-depth Hospice or about being a training. We have hospice volunteer, contact a strong volunteer program that Sarah at 612.238.5284, adds to the care 612.238.0034, or email of the patient.” sfvanwin@augustanacare.org. Volunteers may include bedside companions, pet therapists, legacists, and eleventh-hour volunteers who sit with dying patients who do not have family close by. Sarah has over 25 years of experience as a registered nurse in public health and community-based programs, with extensive experience in hospice/palliative care. When she talks about the importance of caring for patients at the end of their lives, her commitment to that service shines in her eyes and sounds in her voice: “I believe end of life is such a sacred time, and to be part of it is a gift.” s e c a l P d n a Faces AT MOUNT OLIVET HOME, MOUNT OLIVET CAREVIEW HOME, & MOUNT OLIVET DAY SERVICES Resident Donna Parnow was all smiles as Brigetta Swanson Becklund, volunteer, made sure Donna saw the sights at the State Fair. Resident Edith Harrer met a tiny piglet at the State Fair. To thank the staff for their fine care of their mother, the family of Merida Lundstrom provided and served a delicious Subway lunch, complete with African rice from Midtown Market. (l-r): Daughters Connie Hartshorn & Chris Duchow, sons-in-law Bob Hartshorn & Jim Duchow served staff member Oretha Moulton. The All Family Picnic was a huge success, with family and friends enjoying a barbecue supper. Char Meyers (c) with sons and daughters-in-law (l-r) Jim & Sandy Meyers, Rick & Janice Meyers. The annual Fall Roundup brought many new and returning volunteers. (l-r): Muriel Johnson, Helen Duncan & Jean Wallner. Mount Olivet Lutheran Church’s new senior pastor John Hogenson greeted retired pastor Carl Nelson at a special meet and greet time for Mount Olivet Home and Mount Olivet Careview Home residents. Adult participant Roger and child participant Soren play ball in the large muscle room. Adult participant Molly (c) plays with (l-r) Colin & Sophia in the muscle room. Caring, Fall 2014 | 7 Mount Olivet Home Mount Olivet Careview Home Mount Olivet Day Services Non-Profit Org. U.S. Postage PAID Permit No. 3617 Twin Cities, MN 5517 Lyndale Avenue South Minneapolis, MN 55419-1719 RETURN SERVICE REQUESTED ent m p o l e v e D f o r cto MARI CARLSON From the Dire Dear Friend, As another year comes to a close, it is a good time to review your estate planning documents. Have there been any life changes necessitating updating your will or trust? Are beneficiary designations correct on your retirement plans, bank accounts, insurance policies, and other accounts? It is a great feeling to begin a new year with this done. When you meet with your estate planning attorney, I hope you might consider making a bequest or other kind of legacy gift for Mount Olivet Home, Mount Olivet Careview Home, or Mount Olivet Day Services. Leaving a legacy for organizations that are important to you is a wonderful way to give back and sets an example for family members and friends. I assure you your future gift will make a difference. It is exciting to share our plans for enhancing the lives of our residents in 2015. The needs are listed on the cover, and I think you will find them compelling. I hope when your invitation to give comes that you will be able to help. There are many ways to give. Just check out the sign post to the right. The Mount Olivet development staff is ready to assist you in any way. Give me a call (612.821.3150). I would be delighted to hear from you. I extend my heartfelt thanks to you for your gifts of time, talent, and treasure. You make a difference beyond measure. Any Direction You Give Helps Our Residents, Participants & Children Year-end Appeal Matching Gifts Payroll Pledges Thrivent Choic e Gifts In-kind Amazon Smil e Give to the M ax Day On-line Gifts Warmest regards, Mari Carlson, Director of Development Mount Olivet Lutheran Church & Affiliated Organizations 612.821.3150 | mcarlson@mtolivethomes.org For information on these special ways to give, please contact Erin VanBurkleo at 612.821.3151 or evanburkleo@mtolivethomes.org.