CREATING A VISION FOR NINE-YEAR-OLD ISIAH
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CREATING A VISION FOR NINE-YEAR-OLD ISIAH
VOLUME 1 – 2015 REACH A Newsletter for Friends of Oak Hill Response Empower Awareness Connect Help CREATING A VISION FOR NINE-YEAR-OLD ISIAH I “ came to Oak Hill with a misperception: I thought all the kids in the school would also be blind, wheelchair bound, and non-verbal, like my son, Isiah,” explains Karen Parzych. “I was afraid he would not learn to walk or talk in that environment. But when we got to the school, I realized there were all types of children with varying levels of needs and disabilities: some physical or developmental and others emotional or behavioral.” “The teachers and students immediately made us feel at home,” Karen added. “One child, Brian, took Isiah under his wing and showed him around, then invited him to create artwork and shared lunch. I could not get Isiah to leave! We enrolled the next day. This opened the door for us.” Empower “Today Isiah has about 50 words in his vocabulary. And now it includes the word HAPPY!” “Because we are with him all day long, our counselors recognize when he is ready to communicate,” Mallory noted. (Continued on page 2) Camp Hemlocks to Reopen this Summer! Going Chrome? March 27, 2015 A Special Event for Autism Awareness! April 27, 2015 Coming Attractions Isiah’s emotional behavior and social skills have improved at Oak Hill’s new, on-campus school, which focuses on children with emotional and behavioral challenges. The school offers trauma-informed programming with on-site teams, which include behavioral clinicians, special ed teachers and instructional specialists. “As a team, we can better understand what Isiah is capable of, and we hold him to that, then we push him to achieve,” said one of Isiah’s teachers, Mallory Isbell. “He also sees the same people day to day. This creates a safe zone.” Mobile Tools and Assistive Technology. May 22, 2015 Isiah loves the other children, they look out for him and show him kindness and respect. Isiah’s Story (Continued from cover) “Our students don’t have to wait for a scheduled appointment for counseling. We are all available, on their time clock, to address their specific needs.” The school’s culture fosters an environment of kindness and respect. “Isiah loves the other children — they look out for him, which makes him feel safe,” his mom added. “He is longer isolated. He used to scream, bite, cry and throw tantrums before he went to school. Now he shows a willingness to get ready. Their behavioral program has helped him listen and follow directions; he is more patient and polite. And he is less afraid to try new things.” The creative instruction at the school includes technology, programming with the DEEP, shop, cooking and landscaping. “He enjoys that, because he loves nature and helping me cook,” explained Karen. Isiah likes hands-on activities.” President’s Message Communication! Communication! Communication! The staff at Oak Hill hear these words from me often. Whether they’re designing a new program, trying to solve a problem or identifying ways to improve the quality of life for those we serve, my mantra is simple: communication is key. As I have shared in previous messages to you, my vision for Oak Hill includes meeting the needs of our participants and communicating the need for our services to both the community and public policy makers. They both go hand in hand, as we are helping our participants advocate for themselves to achieve their full potential, engage in their community, and in building meaningful relationships; and, advocating for our mission that Oak Hill sets the standard, partnering with people with disabilities, to provide services and solutions promoting independence, education, health, and dignity. Again, communication is key. I recently gave testimony at the Appropriations Hearing on the DDS budget and spoke to the fact that the people we serve matter and that funding for human services needs to be restored. Every legislator I talked with was impressed that Oak Hill was there in force. I was proud to be a part of this group. As donors, parents, family members and friends of Oak Hill I would like to challenge each of you to communicate. Take a moment today to write or call your legislator and Governor Malloy. The message is simple... people matter. The more people that share this message, the more impact we will have on policy and funding being changed. Thank you for helping to make a difference in the lives of those that we serve. Best regards, Barry M. Simon, MA, MPA Cross programming at Oak Hill allows the class to travel weekly to their new Sports & Fitness Center, Chapter 126. Coaches work on building the strength in Isiah’s non-dominant hand. This helps him grasp his gait trainer more securely, which he now uses 3 to 4 times a day at school… that’s up from zero times a day! Isiah used to hit his teachers when he wanted attention. Now he uses technology to communicate his needs. His Quick Talker device enables him to press buttons to ask for a drink or let them know if his body hurts. “Communication is a two-way street now, which takes the guessing out of his situation,” explains Mallory. Isiah’s improvements with his words and sign language skills have helped minimize his frustration and build confidence. “This makes me feel encouraged. I have less stress and fewer problems at home, which is a big relief, because I have my own disability to manage,” explained Karen. “I have hope and I can see a future for Isiah. He can do anything with this level of encouragement and support. That’s all he needs now that he has learned to accept help. My only regret is that I wish I had found Oak Hill a long time ago.” VOLUME 1 – 2015 THANK YOU We would like to thank the following companies for their contribution of $2,500 or more in support of Oak Hill’s programs and services: Major Corporate Partners Advanced Wheels of Technology Apex Technology Group, Inc. Avon Auto Wholesalers, Inc. B.T. Lindsay & Co., Inc. Bank of America, U.S.Trust ConnectiCare, Inc. Hancock’s Pharmacy & Surgical, Inc. Monaco Ford Wentworth, DeAngelis & Kaufman Willis of CT, LLC EASTER SEALS CAMP HEMLOCKS, AN OAK HILL CENTER,TO REOPEN IN JUNE! When Oak Hill acquired Easter Seals of Coastal Fairfield County last year, it came with an added bonus — the organization’s unique Camp Hemlocks. Camp Hemlocks is located on 160 acres in Hebron, CT. It provides educational and residential summer camping. The facility is approximately 50,000 square feet with large meeting rooms, dining room capacity for 150, overnight accommodations for 100, an open-air pavilion and three lodges. There is also a 22-acre lake on the property, which is used for boating and fishing, and a fully handicap-accessible 60’x40’ indoor pool. The facility features barrier free design, an environment that allows people with disabilities complete access and optimal independence. The camp offers maximum participation for CT’s youth, adults, veterans and seniors with physical or developmental disabilities along with their families, friends and caregivers. Community programming and meeting spaces will be offered to the community-at-large and civic groups. Oak Hill is grateful to Governor Malloy and the Connecticut Bond Commission for allocating one million dollars towards the purchase and renovation of Camp Hemlocks to help make this vital program a reality. Oak Hill’s plans are underway to renovate the camp and restore programming with the goal to reopen in June of 2015. Response Early programming considerations include: summer camp, programs for veterans and seniors, adaptive sports and potential partnerships with organizations like Special Olympics. If you would like to contribute to provide camperships or support to the overall camp program, please contact Ruth Hayes, Chief Development and Communications Officer at 860.769.3834 or email ruth.hayes@OakHillCT.org. Corporate Partners AT&T Bartlett Brainard Eacott Inc. CompuMail Corporation of CT, Inc. Connecticut Business Systems Connecticut Home Interiors Connecticut Natural Gas Connecticut Pharmacy Eddie’s Bradley Auto Body and Sales, Inc. Fusion Cable Systems Gaffney, Bennett and Associates R. A. Georgetti & Co. The Hanover Insurance Group May, Bonee & Walsh Inc. Medline Industries, Inc. New Britain Medical Supplies, LLC Patterson Maintenance Services, Inc. Reid & Riege, PC Webster Capital Finance Grants Awarded to Oak Hill Thank you to the following foundations for their support: The Beatrice Fox Auerbach Fund Barnes Group Foundation Harry F. and Carol H. Barnes Family Foundation Mabel P. Brady Trust The Eugene and Margaret Blackford Memorial Fund Harold and Rebecca H. Gross Foundation Help for the Blind of Eastern Connecticut The Main Street Community Foundation The William and Alice Mortensen Foundation People’s United Community Foundation Sky Bight Foundation, Inc. Thomaston Savings Bank Foundation Walmart Foundation VOLUME 1 – 2015 Connect THE IMPACT OF A LIFELONG MISSION Friday, March 27, 2015 “Oak Hill helped me move in this direction. They gave me the chance to get involved at a young age. I fell in love with this place and I’ve been able to carry on this mission throughout my life.” When you answer your calling, lives change: both yours and those you help. After a few years, Oak Hill asked Ned to serve on their Advisory Board, then later to become the Board Chairman. Today his company, Wentworth, DeAngelis & Kaufman is also a major corporate partner. Ned realized that Oak Hill was not just an institution. “This is a successful place that nurtures, protects and takes care of the most vulnerable people in our society to ensure their comfort and well-being,” Ned explains. “I could see immediately that Oak Hill’s employees were saints. While (9am-3pm) GOING CHROME? Participants will explore: the Chrome Browser and Operating System, a world of extensions and apps and Chromebooks options (hardware). Place: The NEAT Center at Oak Hill they can’t take the place of parents, they care deeply. That goes across the board, from employees to executives: I cherish the innovation and change Barry Simon is bringing to Oak Hill,” Ned added. Ned Wentworth first heard about Oak Hill over 40 years ago when he learned about his high school friend’s sister, Mary, who was severely challenged “This type of creativity and secluded at and growth will help home. When Mary’s us meet the future family discovered needs of more clients,” Oak Hill, they found he explained. “That is the help she needed. Ned Wentworth, lifelong supporter one reason I became a Through their member of the Emily of Oak Hill. (Pictured with Chief Development Officer Ruth Hayes, dealings with the Wells Foster Society, at The Inspirations Gala.) organization, Ned also to plan for the future. became involved. With the instability in our economy, we don’t want our clients to become In 1974, at age 27, Ned began to volunteer. “I would go to Oak Hill on victims. When donors make provision for Oak Hill in their estate plans, it’s Wednesdays. My first assignment was a form of insurance for the next 25 a young kid named Freddie. He was to 30 years. We all have to share in a biter! Everyone was afraid of him, that responsibility.” but he loved me. It was kind of cool because we could walk anywhere on campus and people would give us all the space we needed,” Ned recently reminisced. “I counseled many young kids and discovered early on that you get more than you give here. This place just kept calling me back.” UPCOMING EVENTS Monday, April 27, 2015 (9am-3pm) EVENT FOR AUTISM AWARENESS! AUTISM, APPS, AND AT...OH MY! Learn about assistive technology tools that help support students and individuals with Autism in a variety of environments. Place: The NEAT Center at Oak Hill Friday, May 22, 2015 (9am-3pm) MOBILE TOOLS AND ASSISTIVE TECHNOLOGY DISCOVER THE POSSIBILITIES FOR INDIVIDUALS WITH DISABILITIES! Explore various assistive technology tools and mobile devices such as tablets, iPads, and Livescribe Smartpens for students and individuals entering or re-entering the workforce. Place: The NEAT Center at Oak Hill Wednesday, June 10, 2015 VISION OPEN HOUSE (10am-1pm) Learn about the latest equipment and services currently available for people who are blind or visually impaired. Place: The NEAT Center at Oak Hill “If you’re thinking about doing something good for society or for a REGISTER: neatmarketplace.org non-profit, I would urge you to call or contact Julie Hein at Barry Simon or Ruth Hayes. Ask for 860.243.2869, x 3151 or Julie.Hein@OakHillCT.org. a visit to an Oak Hill group home. I guarantee you, when you witness the care and the love and meet our clients, you will want to become a supporter,” said Ned. “I see a lot of unpaid volunteers. These are people MISSION MATCH? who write checks, people who care, and people who are trying Are you interested in becoming to make life better for others.” “I don’t know what kind of guy I really am and someday I’ll be judged on that,” Ned speculated. “But you try to do the right thing and the best you can. People can learn from Oak Hill. I’m honored to be part of this 120 year success story. It’s been a great adventure for me.” a donor, volunteer or corporate partner? Would you like to learn more about the Emily Wells Foster Society and how you can leave a legacy to Oak Hill? Please contact Ruth Hayes at 860.769.3834 or visit OakHillCT.org. 120 Holcomb Street • Hartford, CT 06112 • 860.242.2274 • info@OakHillCT.org