December 2012 - The South Roanoke Circle
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December 2012 - The South Roanoke Circle
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Lillian King Meidlinger editor, right brain lillian@southroanokecircle.com 761.0728 Lisa Boschen Bowers advertising executive, left brain lisa@southroanokecircle.com 353.2380 Mary Anne Marx photographer, creative consultant maryanne@southroanokecircle.com 345.6279 Amy Takacs, Creative Outlet graphic designer amy@creative-outlet.com Johnny Meidlinger internet kung fu Jill Hufnagel & Brent Stevens founders, creative consultants The South Roanoke Circle 2517 S. Jefferson Street Roanoke VA 24014 540.353.2380 southroanokecircle.com Our intent is to provide a neighborhood publication that celebrates community and fosters connection among neighbors. In so doing, we seek to strengthen the neighborhood bond, to encourage our children to share their voices, and to nurture a future of collective growth. Finally, we wish to share in the discovery of the people and places that make this neighborhood thrive. Unless you live under a rock, you know that The Hobbit comes out this month. I know, my kids know, even our dog Dixie knows . . . but she’s offended by the wargs. I’m excited about the film and a little worried. First and foremost, it’s the first of three films. Peter Jackson needed three films for The Lord of the Rings. Carrying it around will make any bookworm buff; it weighs in at over a thousand pages. And it’s not just the length. The layers of mythology and backstory permeate every page. It’s denser than a Marie Callender coconut cream pie — sorry, I’m writing this just before Thanksgiving. The Hobbit, in comparison, is rather light. It is straightforward and accessible, a gateway drug for Tolkien’s harder stuff. Three films screams epic, and I fear that Jackson and company will muddle up the book’s lively tone. The Lord of the Rings has a rich atmosphere, but it’s oppressive and ponderous — sturm and drang. I get a sunny feeling when I’m reading The Hobbit, even when the material takes a scary or sad turn. I’m worried that Jackson will inject too much seriousness into the film. There’s also the matter of the thirteen dwarves. Jackson says that the dwarves were part of why he was reluctant to take on The Hobbit. What I’m about to say may offend some of you Tolkien fanatics out there, but here it goes: Tolkien is not great at crafting well-rounded characters. Gollum is a notable exception. But many of the denizens of Middle Earth can be boiled down to a few traits. Give me, for example, more than three adjectives to describe Aragorn, Gimli, or Legolas. Jackson’s right. The dwarves in The Hobbit are a problem. To begin with, there are thirteen of them. The number is not the curse, however. Tolkien spends very little effort distinguishing them from each other. Even their names run together: Fili, Kili, Oin, Gloin… Sir Ian McKellen makes the point that film demands that characters be developed. He says, “If we see them, we want to know who they are.” I imagine, then, that Jackson will expend a lot of cinematic energy to flesh out these dwarves. Visually, he’s already succeeded. The look of the dwarves runs the gamut from bombardier hats to elaborate beards. The dialogue, however, is another matter. One thing is for sure: The Hobbit will be a much looser translation to the screen. I’m fine with that as long as it’s not hokey, but Tolkien fanatics are largely a devout lot who require strict adherence to the text. All of these nitpicky details aside, the real joy of The Hobbit is sharing it with my children. Both Henry and Cole are reading it avidly and the Lego catalog has become crinkled and dog-eared in the section with The Hobbit sets. They have questions ranging from how Sauron can live as an eyeball to which sword is better: Glamdring or Sting? Their enthusiasm gives me something I didn’t have as an only child: a community of geekdom. As I watch them turning The Hobbit’s pages, I think of myself as a child. I’m back in my grandmother’s basement. There’s a Duraflame on the hearth. It’s a crisp winter day. The sky is a stark white. There’s a good chance of snow, and I’ve got a Coke in the little bottle and a bowl of ravioli. I’m on the ratty old couch that reeks equally of smoke and dust. But I’m not really there. I’m in Middle earth. And life is good. — BS A Winter’s Trail ~ We reserve the right to refuse publication of any material we deem unsuitable for this venue and/or our readership. copyright 2012 The South Roanoke Circle, LLC all rights reserved. Greg and Heather Harkey take a Sunday stroll with their Miniature Dachshund, Ginger, on the Chestnut Ridge Trail in South Roanoke. Photo by Mary Anne Marx 2 It’s Always Sunny on Lockridge by Katie McKernan In Which Eastern Healing Meets Western Medicine And Everyone Is Better We’ve suspected (read: known) for quite some time that our son, Eion, was either ADD or ADHD. The signs were all there and had been for a long while. That being said, I was vehemently and, surprising no one, vocally opposed to medication. He would outgrow it, I was quite sure. And even if he didn’t, why on earth would we drug a poor, defenseless child simply to make our lives easier? Yes, I knew, drugs were for the weak, the lazy, and the unfortunate children of bad parents. The inability to focus that came with ADD plagued Eion in school last year. Round about mid-October, it became clear that he was struggling. He couldn’t read. He spent his recess walking laps because he misbehaved or was guilty of some other transgression. He described himself as stupid and a troublemaker. My baby was falling through the cracks. But being the resourceful (stubborn) mom I am, that WAS NOT going to happen. So, in a move that baffled all who knew me, we pulled him out of public school and became homeschoolers. While he still had the attention span of a gnat, I was able to control his environment and the pace and flow of learning. We made progress. And I patted myself on the back for resisting the urge to simply turn to medication, the “easy way out”. After a successful year of homeschool, we contemplated the future. We were able to keep him current with his contemporaries academically, but being isolated was making the social issues even more pronounced. He needed socialization. So it was back to public school, repeating first grade, with the idea that the academics would be easy this time around, leaving him free to use his energy for everything else. Only it didn’t work out quite like that, and his inability to finish work in a timely manner persisted. There was one difference in my approach this time: I was open to drugs. At some point during The Great Homeschool Experiment, I ran into a friend at the gym and regaled her with tales of the morning’s frustrations and how I finally decided Eion was DONE for the day. She told me a story about her son and it changed our lives. Her son was ADD too. He was older and they had not tried the medications available until he was in high school. She told me how happy he was and how he said it was easier to learn, to concentrate. How his life was better. It was then that it dawned on me. I had always looked at ADD medications as something for my, for the adults’, benefit. I had never even once considered that they might make the child’s life easier. So when things were derailing this fall, we said yes to drugs. I still felt like a traitor as I dissolved that first dose in a glass, my heart leaping out of my chest thinking about the possible side effects. Would it work? Would he be the small percentage that went the opposite direction and became more hyper? Or worst of all, would he be that infinitesimal percentage that could suffer a fatal cardiac response to the medication? And if it went wrong, could I ever forgive myself? Not to ruin the dramatic tension, but Eion lived. And thrived. The medication takes away all the hyper, allows him to focus in on things but does not, as I feared, leave him a drooling zombie, devoid of personality. His teachers say he is like a different child. (I assume in a good way.) But what I trusted the most was his response. He told me that the world was “less noisy” and that it was easier to make sentences. At which point I had to take a deep breath, look in the mirror and say I was wrong. My sweet little boy had been battling demons, had carried this extra burden, because I had been too proud to try medicine. I had judged all those parents and I was wrong. Score one for Western medicine. During the year of homeschooling, I hurt my back. The funny thing was, it was not a dramatic incident or anything. It just started to hurt and never got better. So I rested and gave up tennis, running, and weight lifting. Rest didn’t work. So I went to see my doctor, who referred me to physical therapy. PT was a godsend and restored me to mobility, and some occasional tennis. Over the summer, I continued all the exercises with unparalled commitment–I was the world’s model physical therapy patient. But still, the pain persisted. There were days when even getting out of bed brought me to tears and everything I wanted to do was out of reach. I went back to the doctor and had x-rays, a MRI, and several more appointments. In mid-September, I was offered the choice of spinal steroid injections. Being a complete sissy when it comes to needles, I hedged. I called my primary care physician to see what she thought. Between when I called her and when we spoke, I decided to go to a yoga class. It was core strengthening, much like PT, so what could it hurt? The class was both humbling and exhilarating. Had you asked me a year prior, I would have told you there was no way in hell that I could become less flexible. Yet there I was, gingerly moving between poses, sometimes only moving an inch or two into a forward fold. But, a gigantic but, I walked out of that class feeling better that I had, literally, in months. That day, for the first time in forever, I was pain free. The next day, still on a yoga high, I knew I could not wait until the next Sunday’s class. So I went to Uttara, a yoga studio about which friends had raved but I had never visited. And I kept going back, as often as I could. I felt great, both physically and mentally. (You may not know this, but I am a wee bit high strung.) Those precious minutes of shavasana left me clear headed and at peace. Not long after my yoga epiphany, the reports of meningitis from tainted steroid injections came out. All I could think was, I was one appointment away from (possibly) being infected myself. That could have been me. As I told the studio’s owner all this after a class that left me feeling particularly zen, she hugged me and said, “You came to the right place.” Score one for Eastern healing. I guess Eion and I are still a little broken. He needs his meds and I need my yoga classes. Without our crutches, we both revert back to less pleasant states. But we’re healing, be it on an Eastern or a Western path. Namaste. Stop by Tinnell’s and ask about our rapidly growing Wine of the Month Club! For that matter ask your neighbor - they are probably already a member! 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COMMUNITY DOCUMENT SHRED DAY January 19th 10am – 1pm 2118 Rosalind Ave. SW, Roanoke, VA 24014 rXXXDPMFDQBTDPN $PMPOJBM"WFOVF3PBOPLF7"twww.northcross.org 5 Jocks on Your Block: North Cross School’s Winning Field Hockey Team by Katherine Kelly The field hockey team at North Cross School is back on top after Raiders defeated the Carlisle Chiefs to claim the title of Blue Ridge becoming the Blue Ridge Conference Champions this fall. Conference Champions! The last year the North Cross School field hockey team won a North Cross advanced into the Virginia Independent Schools Athletic conference championship was 1997. One member of that team Association (VISAA) state tournament quarterfinals as a result of the was Katherine Kelly, who is lucky enough to enjoy another title fantastic season. Junior Kirby Evett was asked about her experience fifteen years later as North Cross’ field hockey coach. Kelly grew up this year. She said, “This season was such a breath of fresh air. on Stanley Avenue and graduated from North Cross in 1998. She We really bonded as a team off the field and it showed through our returned to the school this year as an associate in the admission office performance in our games. We have become so close as friends and as the varsity field hockey coach. “I moved back to Roanoke and a team!” in 2011, but being at NCS has Field Hockey parent and truly felt like coming home,” she South Roanoke resident David says. Lake stated the following after Winning only one game in a tough overtime loss in the the previous season, the team quarterfinals against Hampton started this year with high Roads Academy. “There I was, hopes after working hard in looking at the team huddled the off season. Building on that, together, comforting each the team was fortunate to have other after their emotional triple former Division I Field Hockey overtime loss in the quarterfinals. All-American from Colgate Parents, watching them, were University and NCS parent drained by the game, and Brenda Wilson and Sarah overcome with emotions, joining Boxley Parrott Beck (Somerset the tears being shed by their Street native and NCS class of daughters, friends, and fans. ’98) as assistant coaches. What struck me is how far they The first few games of The North Cross Raiders take a time out to pose for a team photo. came, starting by volunteering Photo courtesy of Katherine Kelly 2012 were hard fought but to come to practice together ended in losses. As the season with parents last summer and progressed and the girls came ending with the confirmation together on and off the field, it soon became apparent that they were that they were truly a team. As a parent, as a fan, and as a part of on their way to the first winning season in years. The culmination of the community, I smiled through my tears. Like them, I won’t forget their efforts came on Saturday, October 26, when the North Cross what this felt like!” 6 What’s cooking in your kitchen this holiday season? Channeling your inner Martha Stewart, you have prepared an elegant feast and decorated the table in anticipation of friends and family. Hopefully, you will not have any uninvited guests. No, I am not talking about your boisterous ex-brother-in-law from Salem or your eccentric Aunt Sally from Greensboro. Of course, with love in our hearts, we will welcome all of our relatives and neighbors. To be clear, the uninvited guests are named: Salmonella, Escherichia coli, Campylobacter, Norwalk virus, Clostridium, Staphylococcus, and all their nasty cohorts. Please do not lose your appetite! There are ways to prevent these foodborne pathogens from invading your home. Proper food preparation, storage, and cooking methods can help alleviate a bad case of belly ache or something even worse. According to the Centers for Disease Control, approximately 48 million Americans are infected with a foodborne illness each year. Of those, 128,000 require hospitalization and 3,000 die due to complications. Research also suggests that serious diseases such as reactive arthritis, cancer, Guillain-Barre syndrome, and juvenile-onset diabetes may result from the immune response to such illnesses. The consequences of these conditions can be far-reaching, but an ounce of prevention may be worth a pound of cure. Let’s start with clean hands and food safety. Alcohol hand sanitizers are good for when you are on the run but they are no substitute for soap and water, especially before eating or preparing food. Be certain to scrub well with soapy suds for at least 20 seconds, carefully washing between the fingers and covering both surfaces of your hands and wrists. A good rule of thumb (no pun intended) is to sing a short song twice in your head, such as “Happy Birthday.” This may work well for young children, but personally I prefer the Shakespearean method, washing vigorously while quoting Lady Macbeth, “Out damn’d spot, out I say!” Food storage is also important. The “Danger Zone” is the temperature range which allows germs to grow. Perishable food should always be refrigerated within 2 hours or 1 hour if the ambient temperature is above 90 degrees F. Always keep food below 40 degrees F or above 140 degrees F. Note that your refrigerator should be kept at or below 40 degrees F and your freezer should be at or below O degrees F. Carnivores should be aware of the following: poultry, fish, ground meats, and other meats should be cooked or frozen within 2 days. Whole cuts of beef, veal, lamb, or pork should be cooked or frozen within 3 to 5 days. Meat and poultry should be wrapped prior to freezing. In addition, meat should be wrapped in the original package with plastic wrap or foil. For all you survivalists, low-acid canned foods, such as meat, poultry, fish, by Carolyn and most vegetables, can be stored for H’Doubler, 2-5 years. High-acid canned foods, such as M.D. tomatoes or citrus fruits, can be stored for only 12-18 months. So, now you are ready to cook but your meat is still frozen. What is the best method for thawing? Quick thawing methods, such as using the microwave or submerging the food in cold tap water, are effective for cooks with busy lives; however, the meat must be cooked immediately after thawing. Otherwise, thawing foods in the refrigerator is recommended. Be certain that the thawing food is covered and keep any juices from dripping on other food. Investing in a good meat thermometer is worthwhile since oven temperatures vary. Placing the thermometer in the thickest part of the food, avoiding the bone or gristle, is considered the proper technique. Checking the temperature in several locations helps verify that the food is evenly heated. Finally, allow the meat to rest for several minutes prior to carving. Leftovers should be eaten within 4 days and reheated to at least 165 degrees F. Finally, here’s the scoop on restaurants and take-out food. When you are tired of cooking and eating leftovers, you may decide to go out for seafood or order Chinese. Eating at a restaurant you trust is a good way to avoid stomach bugs. It may be boring, but consumption of raw or undercooked finfish or shellfish is more likely to expose the consumer to parasites or bacteria. If sushi is your style, stick to midocean fish like yellow-fin tuna. When bringing leftovers home, you should refrigerate them immediately. Warm delivery food should always be eaten within 2 hours after it arrives. Another option is to keep it in the oven at 200 degrees F or above. The goal is to keep the food temperature out of the Danger Zone. Many blessings to all of you for a safe and happy holiday season! Carolyn H’Doubler is board certified in Internal Medicine. She is a staff physician at the VA Medical Center in Salem. She lives in South Roanoke with her husband and three children. Hippocrates’ Corner We Dedicate our Fourth Annual MANGER OFFERING To help fight Homelessness in the Roanoke Valley Second Presbyterian Church invites you to join us for any, or all, of our three Christmas Eve services on Monday, December 24, 2012. All offerings collected at these services will be donated to benefit the programs of Family Promise of Greater Roanoke (formerly Roanoke Valley Interfaith Hospitality Network). This nonprofit group helps families who are struggling to overcome homelessness by providing temporary housing and skills development. Come join us in worship and in service to those who face the adversity of homelessness. Communion Service (Chapel), 12:00 noon Family Service with Christmas Story (Sanctuary), 5:00 p.m. A Service of Lessons and Carols (Sanctuary) with Communion, 10:00 p.m. 214 Mountain Avenue, SW • Roanoke, VA 24016 • 540/343-3659 Dr. George C. Anderson, Senior Pastor 7 • www.spres.org Support your Crystal Spring Businesses this Holiday Season! Walk to Where you Shop! NV Studio Kara Joyce, Hair Stylist 540-580-0012 for Christmas karawjoyce@gmail.com 2223 Crystal Spring Ave Roanoke, VA 24014 Technology & Tradition Goldsmith Jewelers 2209 Crystal Spring Avenue Roanoke, Virginia 24014 (540) 339-9975 on Crystal Spring Ave. 985-3700 Don’t forget to stop by The River and Rail [VI\``V\Y/VSPKH`NPM[JLY[PÄJH[LZ 6HUYLQJWKHÀQHVWJURFHULHVPHDWDQGSURGXFHVLQFH 4UPQCZ5JOOFMMTBOEBTLBCPVUPVSSBQJEMZHSPXJOH Wine of the Month Club! For that matter ask your neighbor - they are probably already a member! 5RDQRNH9$ 8 Not Yer Mama’s Page “Now Dasher! Now Prancer and Vixen!” Cried Santa, “On Donder and Blitzen!” “All the cookies I ate left me stuck in the grate! (EAVE³(O³/R³THIS³TRIP³WILL³BE³²CTION® Art by Olivia Snyder / Limerick by Mary Anne Marx Art by Emily Tenzer Bradley t o the sp ! on In the giving spirit this month? So is The South Roanoke Circle’s roving teenage reporter, Bradley Smith. She asked several neighbors the following question: If you had $1,000 to give to charity this month, who would you give it to and why? “Children’s hospitals because the kids need it.” (Cara, age 17) “I would give it to people who can’t afford a meal so they could have a good Christmas meal.” (Elana, age 16) “I would give it to the Rescue Mission because people need help.” (Elizabeth, age 16) “I would buy bibles for young people so they would know God’s word.” (James, age 48) “Angels of Assisi because I want to help all of the cute puppies.” (Amanda, age 12) “The Salvation Army because I think they need help.” (Daniel, age 13) 9 Marketplace Known by Rebekah Manley Rebekah Manley, former Minister to Youth at St. John’s Episcopal Church, helps usher in the Christmas season with a short story of faith. PC DOCTOR I dated Santa Claus in high school. All right, perhaps James was not THE Saint Nick. However, to the preschool kids visiting our child development class, he was real. It helped that James played D-line and carried himself with a sincerity uncommon in 11th grade boys. I think was in part due to the fact that James lost his father at a young age. I was neither as aware of nor as appreciative of his sweetness then as I am today. Exhibit A: For Valentine’s Day, my twin sister got a diamond necklace from her boyfriend. James excitedly gifted me with a roaring lion rug with a “3 years and up” sticker emblazoned on it. At the time, I felt my present was “small” but in retrospect I recognize the big heart behind it. Exhibit B: All I had to do was ask my kind courter to put on a Santa costume for our preschool visitors and he was all over it — ready to cut class and everything. Okay, we may have gotten him a pass; I don’t remember. But I do remember the reactions of the kids: sheer joy and cries of “Santa is here!!!!!” James’ six-foot-plus frame fielded their tackles. He passed out candy canes and hugs. With ten plus kids surrounding him, James zeroed in on the brown eyes of a little girl named Molly. “How are you, Molly?” James kneeled down. With familial comfort, Molly patted Santa’s thigh leaving a wet, cookie imprint. Seconds later, Katie squealed, spilling her apple juice, “Molly, Santa knows YOUR name.” In awe of this celebrity who tripled them in size, the kids didn’t notice James utilizing their yarn-strung nametags. Intrigued by anything exciting enough to waste juice, I paused and listened for Molly’s response. Molly stood up straight, hand on her hips and said, “Of course he does, he remembers ME from Wal-mart.” Molly is in college now. I wonder if she recalls her certainty, “Of course he remembers me!” As I prepare for the holidays, Molly’s story makes me smile and I remember the reason we celebrate Christmas. With Molly’s cookie-confidence and dirty hands — I reach out, knowing God kneeled down to humanly face us through his son. During this season with so much competing for time and money, I rest knowing there is no competition for God’s attention. He meets us individually — no name tag needed. With hands not on hips but in certain praise we can say, “Well of course he knows me. We meet everyday.” (540) 632-8948 On-Site Computer Repair & Upgrades Custom Built Computers www.monsterpconline.com .PM[*LY[PÄJH[LZ(]HPSHISL dy n i n l l C r ts o 0 a C be 66 Ro 4-1 31 NEIGHBORHOOD DOG SITTER SOUTH ROANOKE CINDY ROBERTSON 552 Dillard Rd. 24014 (540) 314-1660 WORLD TRAVEL AND AZAMARA CLUB CRUISE LINE 12-Night Baltic Cruise London to St. Petersburg June 10-22, 2013 Cruise rate from $3600 per person, which includes ~ All gratuities ~ Beverages ~ Standard brand spirits, beer and wine ~ A complimentary AzAmazing land event. Call Joe Abbatello at 989-6146 for information. 10 A Month of Giving Neighborhood Events for December December brings forth a season that reminds us it’s important to give of ourselves as well as to receive. Following are a variety of ideas for giving back this month. - Deliver a roll of paper towels, a cup of sugar, and a couple of eggs to the neighbor you always hit up when your pantry is bare. - Prepare a meal for the guests at The Ronald McDonald House. - Volunteer to help socialize cats or walk dogs at Angels of Assisi. - Help serve lunch or read good night stories at the Rescue Mission. - Make double dinner and drop one off to a friend in need…or in over her head! - Call up Crystal Spring Elementary and see how you can lend a hand. - Collect trash on your street or in an area park. - Write a letter to a teacher to let her know her impact on you. - Rake your neighbor’s leaves & bag them up in paper bags - Drop off a batch of soup or cookies to the Crystal Spring firefighters. - Offer to keep a friend’s kids. - Drop off your soda tabs to Ronald McDonald House and your boxtops to a local school. - Leave a mystery bouquet of flowers on someone wonderful’s doorstep. - Write a good, old-fashioned thank you note: to your mom, your dad, your spouse, your sister, your friend. - Leave a note of thanks to your mail carrier. - Give your school bus driver a muffin or hot cocoa one morning soon. - Clean out a closet and donate your treasures to the Discovery Shop. - Sign up for a walk or race that benefits a cause close to your heart. - Look someone in the eye, say thanks, and mean it. - Come up with your own Random Act of Kindness and do it! Now through December 29: The Market Gallery presents Naughty & Nice III with featured artists Rod Adams and Ann Glover December 5-16: The Best Christmas Pageant Ever (features several SoRo residents and will play at the Mill Mountain Theater’s Waldron Stage) December 7: Art by Night (downtown) December 7, 14, and 21: Dickens of a Christmas (downtown) December 10, 6:00PM-9:00PM: First Annual South Roanoke Holiday Open House (at the Crystal Spring Shops) December 18, 5:30PM: South Roanoke Neighborhood Christmas Caroling (meet at the Ronald McDonald House at 5:30 sharp!) December 21-January 6: Winter Break for Roanoke City Schools 11 GREAT LEGS THAT FEEL BETTER... are just a few steps away! Now is the time to get your legs ready for the return of warmer weather. Jefferson Surgical Clinic’s board-certified vascular surgeons offer a variety of non-surgical treatment options for varicose and spider veins. 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