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friends InternatIonal MagazIne noveMBer 2008
friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 1 friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 editor’s note Dear FIM readers, Published by Smart Way International Ltd Success Brighter Co. Ltd 5D Sun King Building 580 Queen’s Road West Hong Kong Tel: 2541 2510 / 9010 9183 Email: editorial@friends-intl-mag.com INTERNET www.friends-intl-mag.com PUBLISHER / EDITOR Capt. Rosendo C. Herrera MANAGING EDITOR Arnold P. Grospe ART DIRECTOR Willy Castañar COLUMNS Bro. Eddie Villanueva Bro. Rolly Estrella Barrister Ody Lai Noel Asinas Cora Carsola Dra. Gertrude P. Chan, FPDS Ruel Y. Quezon PHOTOGRAPHY Bobby Campus Jo Mabalot Nery/Leo Jimena Rodel Concha Letty Romero CONTRIBUTORS Adelaida Mogol Bernadette Benitez April Joy Remely Valdez Violy Pascual Noemi Paniza Terry Buen Lucida Maingpis My dela Roca Fellie Feniza PRINTING Smart Way International Ltd No part of this publication may be reproduced in whole or in part without the prior writtent consent of the publisher. Opinions and comments of writers, columnists and contributors do not necessarily reflect those of the management’s or any staff of Friends International Magazine. The month of November is one of the very important months for us, because this is the month wherein we remember our dearly departed love ones. Halloween celebration is a big deal to every Filipino. Most of them look forward to this occasion. Those who are working far away and even from abroad would go back to their hometown to be with their family. This is the time to commemorate their loved ones who passed away. The memorial parks and other public cemeteries all over the country are fully packed with people visiting the graves of their deceased loved ones. I could just imagine the queue of vehicles on the road going to memorial parks. I remember doing a volunteer work monitoring the commuters with our radio group in Nueva Ecija during this holiday celebration. In cooperation with the highway patrol, people would have 24 hours duty to make the road clear and convenient for people to pass by. Along the roadside going to the public cemetery and memorial parks are full of busy people walking, selling flowers, candles, food and drinks. I also paid my respects to my late father last All Souls’ Day and spent a whole day in the cemetery with family and friends. Family members really take the time to prepare and spend their holidays together. Even those who are working abroad go back just to be with their family, making it look like a big reunion. There is a great feast in the cemetery. People bring food, drinks, music, others have their board games and more to have fun while staying there that long. In this month’s issue, we also feature some activities of associations and some relevant issues concerning the Overseas Filipino Workers and the Filipino community in Hong Kong. We also have additional columns regarding business matters and how to start your own business. We have articles of a good place to visit and a fine restaurant to dine in while you are on holiday in the Philippines. To extend more services to our readers and client we have just opened our new branch in City Garden Shopping Center, North Point. We are also proud to announce and congratulate our fellow Filipinos in the United States. Senior Sen. Stephen C. Austria was elected to the US Congress in last November 4 elections, becoming one of two Filipino-Americans to win in the elections across the United States. The other member of the US Congress to claim Filipino parentage is AfricanAmerican congressman Robert “Bobby” C. Scott (Democrat, Virginia), whose mother is a daughter of Filipino Valentin Cortez Hamlin. Together with President elect Barack Obama, the first black American President, our fellow Filipinos in the United States are also creating history around the globe. Thank you very much and Happy Halloween to all. Mabuhay po ang Lahing Pilipino !!! Happy reading. Arnold P. Grospe Managing Editor We welcome editorial articles, photographs and illustrations for publication. Please send all communications and materials to: Friends International Magazine, 5D Sun King Building, 580 Queen’s Road West, Hong Kong. 2 friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 3 friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 friends Co mm uni t y B oa r d Got an announcement to make ? Let everyone know. Have your upcoming association activities published here for FREE ! Call us on 254I –25I0 during office hours or email details to editorial@friends-intl-mag.com or sms 9010 9183 To all Association Leaders in Hong Kong. You are all invited to join the newly formed Council of Filipino Leaders (CFL) for more info pls call Gen Secretary Medy Borlaza at 6773 1021. All Association leaders of Luzon in Hong Kong to join the newly formed Luzon Federation (LUZFED). For more info, please contact Medi Borlaza – Tel 6773-1021. Search for Mutya ng Luzon, August 31, 2008 at Bayanihan Kennedy Town Centre. 1 - 6 PM. FREE CANTONESE CLASS every 2nd & 4th SATURDAY of the month Island Evangelical Community Church New address: 8/F 633 King’s Road Quarry Bay, Hong Kong (Quarry Bay MTR Exit C) Contact Person: Riza Guevarra, 2864 9337 Candonians Hong Kong Association 12th year Anniversary. Coronation and Search for Ms Candonians HK 2008. Everyone is invited. Newly arrived OFWs from Candon City are invited to attend and be a part of the association. For more details, please contact Candonians President Rechilda at 61516502 or Johanna at 25487838. Love, Peace and Unity Pinoy HK Group 1st Anniversary and Induction ceremony on 16th November 2008. There will be a Karaoke King or Queen Singing contest. For OFWs who are gifted with a powerful voice and are interested to join, please contact Juliet at 92479220, Czarina at 91356300 or Maribeth at 98534275. FLOR-HK 2nd Anniversary. Livelihood Graduation ceremony and the Search for 3 Shining Stars of the Orient. This event is designed for gays, lesbians and ladies. To be held on Feb. 08, 2009 at Chater Road, Central. For more details, please contact Bunso at 60995932. Balikatan sa Kaunlaran - Hong Kong (BSK-HK) 13th Annual Convention & 14th Anniversary on Nov. 16, 2008, 1:00 - 6:00 pm at Bayanihan Kennedy Town Centre Auditorium. “ON THE SPOT - BEADS MAKING CONTEST”. Contact: Raquel 9145 7719, Aida 6227 7285, Ching 9855 9878. NOPT’s 8th Anniversary Nov 16, 11:30- 5:30 PM Grappas Cellar Restaurant Organizer: National Organization of Professional Teachers For more info email nopthk@yahoo.com 3rd Anniversary and Search for Mr. Suave 2008 Nov 30, 2008 from 1:00 - 6:00 PM Bayanihan Center Organizer: Dole Owwa Microsoft Organization HK (DOMOHK) Contact Medie 6773 1021 Rose 92033539, Josie 96065140. Adivay 2008 (Benguet Day in HK). Nov 30, 2008 9:00 am - 6:00 pm Belcher’s Park, Kennedy Town. Organizer: Benguet Federation.Contact: Donnie Allan at 6147 7358. Kalilang and Search for Mutya ng Mindanao Nov 23 1-7pm Caritas Hall, Caine Road Organizer: Mindanao (HK) Migrant Alliance Contact Lito: 9687 5201 or lanie 68555811 PAHK Annual General Meeting and Election of new board for 2009. November 27, 2008. 6:00 - 9:00 pm. Grappa’s Cellar, Jardine House, Central. For more info contact Chairman Scylla 9436 2424. PAHK Open Bowling Tournament 2008. Olympian City Bowl. November 22, 2008 from 3 - 6 pm. For details contact Arnold Grospe 9010 9183. The Management and staff of Friends International Magazine wish to thank the following volunteer contributors and distributors for sharing their talent and support to the Magazine. Gina Montero Gie Ignacio Mayvie Acosta Olive Lasat Juvy Aldea Fely Bunso S. Naoe Mario de los Reyes Distribution Team IMAP-HK LOFM BOWA 4 CFCB DOMOHK Black Eagle Calabarzon Novo Ecijano Association OFWIE GOAL LOFWA MIGA WOMED FILCOMSIN FILREFLEX PMS FNA Mindanao Alliance KUSOG LEBAK BENGFED ANIBA-HK Oriental Mindoro Society Damayan LUZFED BSK-HK MMWA ... 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The name Halloween is a Scottish contraction, derived from the proper name “All Hallow’s Eve.” It was named such because it falls on the night before the Catholic “All Hallows” day, or, “All Hallowed Souls” day. Halloween is also known as the Day of the Dead. Throughout the world, many countries celebrate Halloween, each in their own unique ways. History of Halloween, like any other festival’s history is inspired through traditions that have transpired through ages from one generation to another. We follow them mostly as did our dads and grandpas. And as this process goes on, much of their originality get distorted with newer additions and alterations. It happens so gradually, spanning over so many ages, that we hardly come to know about these distortions. At one point of time it leaves us puzzled, with its multicolored faces. Digging into its history helps sieve out the facts from the fantasies which caught us unaware. Yet, doubts still lurk deep in our soul, especially when the reality differs from what has taken a deep seated root into our beliefs. In Hong Kong, Halloween celebration is also very colorful and scary. The history of Halloween Day, as culled from the net, is being depicted here in this light. This is to help out those who are interested in washing off the superficial hues to reach the core and know things as they truly are. ‘Trick or treat’ may be an innocent fun to relish on the Halloween Day. But just think about a bunch of frightening fantasies and the scary stories featuring ghosts, witches, monsters, evil elves and animal sacrifices associated with it. Halloween celebration is a great deal to most of the Filipinos, we normally call it as All Saints’ Day on November 1 and All Souls’ Day on November 2. There are great preparations they will do for that occasion. A special holiday for all to pay respect to departed loved ones and friends. In preparation for the 2-day halloween celebration, people usually start to travel to visit their loved ones on October 31st. Most schools will declare no class and no work for other establishments. People will visit the cemetery on the 31st of October to clean the grave of their loved ones, clearing the area for they will stay there in the next couple days. On the same day, they would be busy buying food, grocery items, candles, flowers, etc. 6 for the celebration. On the 1st day of November, they would be busy cooking food, preparing flowers and candles to be brought to the cemetery on the night of November 1. While others are preparing food, some members of the family would start to pitch their tents in the cemetery near the grave of their loved ones. Most of them spend the night in there to show that they really care for them believing that the souls of their dead are with them. In the afternoon of Nov. 1, the cemetery will be full of people bringing their food, candles and flowers to be offered to the grave. Police and other authorities are there to maintain peace and order. Most of them would stay there 24 hours. There are also lots of volunteer groups, young and old to assist in the peaceful and orderly celebration. People bringing food, drinks, music, others have their board games, card games, karaoke and others to enjoy themselves while staying there till next day. Tinig Ng Masa ni Adelaida C. Mogol M akatarungan ba o karapatdapat na tanggalin sa merkado (pamilihang bayan) ang NFA rice at ang papayagan lang na makabili ay ang makakakuha nang ID? Oo o Hindi at bakit? Isang nakawiwindang at nakalulungkot isipin ang balitang ang bigas mula sa NFA ay aalisiin sa pamilihang pang publiko at ang papayagan lamang makabi ay yong may mga ID mula sa NFA. Ang ating katanungan po ay malaking bakit bakit at bakit, maraming bakit nagkaganoon? Hindi po ba kaya naiisip nila na lubhang napakarami ang apektato nang sistema nilang ito. Alam naman natin na napakarami ang pangkaraniwang pamilya at yong mga naghihikahos na mamamayan. Ito lamang ang kayang bilihin upang may maisaing, katunayan nga nito kahit na pinapalitan nang mga ganid na negosyante nang mababang klase nang bigas ay pinag tatayaan nila itong isaing makaraos lang araw araw. Ang magandang klaseng NFA rice ay ginagawang commercial para malaki ang tubo nila. Ang tanong din po natin ay bakit kailangan pa nang ID para lamang makabili nang bigas. Para ano? Para ba ma track ang bilang ng mga kaalyado? Para sa aking pananaw hindi tayo kukulangin kung hindi tinatago ang bigas natin at hindi minamanipula ng mga humahawak nito at negosyante. Sila lang ba ang may karapatan sa magandang klaseng bigas? Ano ba naman yan. Hayaan naman sana nila na matikman naman nang pangkaraniwang mamamayan ang magandang klase nang bigas. Ang Friends nangalap ng damdamin at pananaw sa ating katanungan at ito ang kanilang tugon. Alicia Sucayan tubong Iloilo Happy Valley Hindi dapat alisin sa market, unfair yon sa mga mamamayan, lalo pa kung ang makabibili lang ay ang merong id. Papaano yong wala? Isa pa apektado ang mga mahihirap niyan. Ang makabibili lang nang commercial rice ay ang mga mayayaman. Ano ba yan? Ching Baltazar BSK Trustee Hindi dapat alisin sa market yan kasi yan lang ang inaasahan ng mga mahihirap,papaano na sila kung makabibili lang ay ang mga id. Hindi ba dapat palawakin pa ng NFA ang distributioon ng bigas upang marami ang makinabang na pangkaraniwang mamamayan at lalo na ang mga mahihirap. Hindi ba nila naisip na mayayaman lamang ang kayang bumili ng commercial rice, huwag naman silang ganyan ah. Yong maraming pera di problema yan eh yoong isang kahig isang tuka papaano na sila kawawa naman. Merlita Teopaco tubong Pampanga Midlevels Hindi dapat dahil apektado ang mga pangkaraniwang mamamayan at bakit kailangan pa ang id para makabili ng bigas. Bakit di na lang ang gawin ay makabibili ang bawat pamilya ng 5 kilo arawaraw para makabili lahat. Grace Torres tubong Dipolog City Shatin Hindi, kawawanama yong mga walang id at hwag alisin sa public market mahihirapan ang mga tao. Baka naman iyan ay para sa kanilang sarilleng interest lamang di ba. Bakit di nila ilagay ang kanilang mga sarile sa kalagayan ng ibang tao. Isuot nila ang tsinelasd ng mahihirap upang maramdaman nila ang kalagayn ng mga ito. Huwag namn silang ganyan ah. Vendors also are all around the place selling candles, flowers and food etc. Halloween is a great celebration to most Filipinos and a day to make money also for the vendors. Finally they will go home and relax the next day and some of them would not report to work and some kids would not go to school because they are tired, exhausted of the activity. They will be lucky if long holiday will be declared for those days if it will fall on a week end. friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 7 friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 LAWA Anniversary and Dance Contest, a Success Leyte Association Celebrates Anniversary with New Officers by Julia Buen Terry by Julia Buen Terry during the program to LOFWA members for their invaluable support and contribution to the association. Birthday celebrants were also recognized and greeted, as birthday party is one of the association’s regular way of socialization. True to its goal of discovering new talents among migrant workers in Hong Kong, the Laguna Achievers Workers Association triumphantly held its Search For Champions 2004 in celebration of the Associations 2nd Year Anniversary. “LAWA will continue to foster the spirit of camaraderie not only among our members but also to our Kababayans in Hong Kong. It will continue its mission for the enlistment and development of our talents. Our group also aims to raise funds for LAWA Foundation for the benefit of its members and others in need.” Said Menardo A. Reyes, LAWA President, and Founder. The contest participated by different Filipino migrants organization and two Indonesian groups in the territory was held at the Harcourt Garden, Admiralty on October 9, 2006. There were four categories during the competition namely the; Modern Dance, Ballroom Dance, Cultural Dance and the Show Dance. Each category has the Champion and Best in Costume Award. In the Modern Dance competition, the Edil’s Migrant Dancers from Edil’s Migrant Dance Club championed over other four contestants. They also bagged the Best In Costume award on the same category. Garnering the First runner- up is the Iloilo Dancers from Migrant Iloilo Association, and 2nd runner- up is Filguys Girls Dancers from the Filguys Association Hong Kong. Winning in the Championship Award in Ballroom Category were Leonides Ma.Ubaldo and Alily Imeson from the Best Int’l Overseas Workers Association Hong Kong. They also won the Best in Costume award in the same category. Next in place was the pair of Nora Tabada and Elvie Geminano from the Journey Dance Club Hong Kong. Then followed by Lee De Robles and Loida Ebrada from Edil’s Migrant Dance Club for the 2nd Runner- up. Meanwhile Babes Villanueva from Barkadahan Simcard User’s Club bested four contestants in the Show Dance Category with 8 her Shakira like dance. She also got the Best in Costume Award with her Belly Dancing inspired costume. Josephine Arellano from Freelancer Fil- Indo Group was 1st runner- up with her winning punky dance. And 2nd runner- up on the same category, was Marie Velarde from PCDAE (Tinikling Chapter). On the Cultural Category, the Federation of Eastern Samar Overseas Workers Dancers from FESOW was announced the winner but later the B’ Laan Dancers from South Cotabato Overseas Workers Association was also then announced as winners. Thus making both dance groups as Champions on the Cultural Category. Moreover, the B’ Laan Dancers also won the Best in Costume award on the said category. The first runner- up on the dance competition was the Kalinga Dance Troupe from Kalinga Province Hong Kong Workers and Second runner- up is the MSP Dance Troupe of Naguillan Isabela- Sub Chapter. The event was graced by Luzon Federation Chairperson Remedios Borlaza, Bohol Association President Flor Vertudazo, League of Overseas Visayan Association VicePresident Marites Elbena also from Stanley Filipino Community, Balikatan sa Kaunlaran Treasurer Aida Jayme, Regional Overseas Filipino Workers Society Riza, Miss Beng Woolf of Afreight, and Mr. Val Miquiabas from Metro Bank. Gearing as one of the Filipino migrant group in Hong Kong, the Leyte Overseas Filipino Workers Association celebrates its 2nd Year Anniversary with the induction of its new set of officers held at Deep Water Bay Beach on October 19, 2008. OWWA Officer Miss Isa Olgado inducted LOFWA new officers headed by its President Edmund C. Somosot. The ceremony was witnessed by OWWA Land Based Representative Miss Corazon Carsola, LOFWA members, and invited guest from different Filipino migrant organizations in Hong Kong. The highlight of the event was the canvassing and coronation of Miss LOFWA 2008. Loreta Orag from Bontoc-P. Burgos won the title garnering the highest cash amount to win the Search for Miss LOFWA 2008 besting six other candidates. The contest is part of the organizations fund raising drive for its forthcoming projects. LOFWA new set of officers were as follows; President Edmund C. Somosot, VicePresident Tresany L. Recopelacion, Secretary Evelyn L. Lastra, Asst. Secretary Rosita A. Obida, Treasurer Estrella J. Carbonilla, Asst. Treasurer Ma. Isabel C. Orito, Auditor Rosita L. Awayan, Asst. Auditor Visitacion C. Ramos, P. R. Os. Yolanda D. Cerro, Ma. Slome L. Granada, Imelda B. Becerro, Loreta Orag, Herminia E. Paraon, Natividad P. Penas, and Alma C. Dator. Certificates of Appreciation were given “LAWA has gone through a lot of disappointments, failures and pains. But with the strong desire and strength of its faithful members and some officers, who through thick and thin stood together and defended our association, LAWA persevere to continue its mission.” Reyes added. The Laguna Achievers Workers Association was established in 2006. To date it has 170 registered members and 110 of them are actively participating on its activities. The association was behind the success of the Beauty Fat Dancers that all started on its last year’s Miss Beauty Fat 2007 contest commemorating the association’s first anniversary. It was acknowledged there was an error on the announcement. However, LAWA President Menardo Reyes was quick to address the matter and apologized for the mistake. friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 9 At Your Service By: Rolando E. Estrella friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 MAGTANONG PO KAYO The author has been in the public service of the Filipino Overseas Workers in Hong Kong for the past 20 years. He gives free advice and counsel, as well as practical solutions on employment-related problems, family matters, etc. Mr. Estrella or Brother Rolly, as most people call him, is currently the Vice President of INSURANCE OF THE PHILIPPINE ISLANDS CO., INC. For free counseling, please send your letters/inquiries to: AT YOUR SERVICE COLUMN, c/o Friends International Magazine, Rm 1102, 11/F Sunny House, 12-16 Li Yuen Street West, Central, Hong Kong. (Attention to Bro. Rolly) A Case of Envy Dear Bro. Rolly, A Chinese couple hired me four years ago and my contract with them was renewed for another two years which started 1st of March this year. My relationship with them has always been smooth and almost perfect until my lady employer gave birth to their first child, a baby boy, last April 11, 2008. On May 2, 2008 they hired Linda, an exnurse from the Philippines, specifically to look after the baby as nanny. They feel that I will not be able to do household chores as efficiently as I could if I were also to take care of the baby. What I am angry about is that Linda does not help me at all in doing household chores. All she does is just to feed the baby and take care of his needs while our lady employer is not at home. This is totally unfair because my domestic job of cleaning, cooking, washing, ironing and other chores are more difficult than babysitting and yet we receive the same amount of salary. I want to impress upon my employer that without me, they will not be able to eat anything, they will have nothing to wear and their flat will be dirty. I honestly feel that I should be paid more. Please advise me as to what I should do to get what I want. Api, Apleichau Dear Ms. Api, In the first place you should not compare yourself with another person because you become judgmental and then feel either superior or inferior and on this particular case, you feel you have been treated unfairly. Every one has his own strength and weakness. Consider this – while Linda the nanny is expert in child-care as she is a nurse, she is not expert in cooking like you are. And while you may be good in cooking and other chores, you are not an expert in baby sitting and nursing. That makes it even. What happens is that 10 each one of you is complimentary to one another. In other words what you cannot do well, she does well; and what she cannot do well, you do well. In fact you should count your blessing, my friend. In these hard times of onomic turmoil you are lucky that your employer is able to hire another worker to look after her baby – or else you could be doing both babysitting and household chores all together at the same time for the same amount of salary, and I am pretty sure you will not like that. Will you still complain? Bro. Rolly VISUALLY MOLESTED Dear Bro. Rolly, About four months ago, I finished my two year contract with a European family and while I would have preferred to renew my contract as they are an excellent employer, they decided to return to Europe at the end of my contract. While I was with them, I have been accustomed to their habits at home including eating only bread, salad and oven-cooked meals. Everyone in their flat wore shorts without inhibition and so did I. My problem started when I transferred to a new employer, a childless Chinese couple. Both of them are working but most of the time my lady employer spends more time outside as she works as a flight attendant. As a result I spend most evenings in the flat with my male employer. He would return to the flat from work at around seven in the evening and would go to bed before midnight and so I am exposed to his teasing and bad jokes for that long period of time almost every night. While I can tolerate his bad jokes and ridicules, I just cannot stand his staring at my chest as if he has x-ray eyes that he could see my breasts. There was even a time when he touched my behind but told me it was just an accident. He frequently jokes and tells me that he finds me seductive especially with my shorts and sleeveless shirt and that if his wife dies in an airplane crash, he would marry me. One time he told me that he wants to have sex with me only if I consented because he said once I tasted his love, I will be craving for it for the rest of my life. This is really an insult especially I love my husband and my family. Charius Voltaire Medina Managing Director, Bpi “Believe and have faith in yourself.” An adage which has inspired Voltaire Medina to attain and achieve his dreams no matter how many obstacles hindered his way to reach the pedestal of success. His dreams came to reality because he believes and has faith in himself. Everything in this world is imminent, based on knowledge and abilities, nothing is impossible. Tenacity, extreme determination, patience, perseverance were qualities he had in him to achieve his goals in life. Some OFWs may not know him because he just arrived in Hong Kong about a year ago. However, he is well-known to some associations due to his affable manner and willingness to accept invitations from various Filipino organizations. He always possesses a gesture of friendliness and a vibrant smile, giving handshakes and embracing anybody who approaches him. I came to know this amiable person, a year ago when one of the bankers introduced him to me as the new managing director of BPI. by Remely Valdez children, Gabriel Alfonso who is 9 years old and is studying in Ateneo and Kristin Nicole who is 7 years old and studying in St. Paul Pasig. In his 17 years in the banking industry, it is a challenge for him to strive and contribute his very best in his chosen field. As he said, nothing is impossible in this world as long as you have the ability, faith, knowledge and the goals you want to achieve in life. If you have a goal, no matter what happens, do your best to reach that goal. Don’t be afraid to commit mistakes. Committing mistakes is a challenge to improve one’s self. Every person needs courage to defeat every trial in life. That kind of courage takes persistence to keep believing in yourself and resilience to keep picking yourself up after every loss, every stumble and every fall. Follow through with your plans, your commitments, your dreams even when everyone else is saying we can’t do it. As I interviewed Voltaire, I asked him a few questions and here are some of his answers. “Ano ang pinakamasayang moment mo dito sa Hong Kong?” My happiest moment ay nung nadala ko ang pamilya ko dito. Madalas silang nandito unlike sa Dubai mahirap dalhin ang pamilya doon. “How do you encourage our kababayans to save money for their future? By example. Yun experience ko kase OFW din ako. Hindi ko alam kung kailan din ako pauuwiin, so kailangang mag-save for your own and not send all to your family. Kailangan maging handa tayo sa lahat ng sandali. Dahil pansamantala lamang ang pagtira natin dito, babalik din tayo sa ating bansa. Before it’s too late save for your future. In reality, who then is Voltaire Medina? I will appreciate your counsel. Visually Molested, Kowloon Dear Ms. Visually Molested, I have always advised OFWs in this column against wearing shorts and seductive clothes in the house of their employers especially in situations where the female helper is left alone in the flat in the presence of the male employer. Sexual molestations are not far from happening in a situation where the male employer is alone in the flat constantly for a long period of time in the presence of a careless female employee who wears shorts and seductive t-shirts without wearing a bra. Your employer teasing you is just the start of more insinuations that he wants to have sex with you. The next time, he will offer you money and promises of a better life if you consented to his desire. And while you continue to practice your habit of wearing shorts and sporting light shirt without bra where the outline of your breasts is clear to his naked eyes, you will continue to arouse his lust and sexual desire and your problem will continue to persist. The solution is clear – decency is required even at home. Wear simple but decent skirt and blouse or shirt and put on your bra as well and see his desire for you naturally dies. Respetuhin mo naman ang sarili mo, magsuot ka ng marangal para hindi sabihin ng employer mo nilalako mo ang sarili mo. Bro. Rolly His full name is Charius Voltaire Medina. He was born and raised in Quezon City on June 10, 1969. He is the sixth among the 9 children of the late Conrado Medina and Alejandra Medina. Sometimes, unexpected circumstances deterred his vision to reality. But that didn’t stop him from reaching his dreams. In order to finish his studies, he worked as crew at McDonald’s Cubao branch. In 1990, he graduated from the Central Colleges of the Philippines with a degree in BS Computer Science. In that same year, he was also promoted as Branch Manager of McDonald’s Katipunan branch. In 1991, with his determination, he applied at BPI Family Bank Cubao. With luck on his side, he was instantly hired as new accounts clerk. From 1991 to 1993, he was promoted as distributing clerk. And in 1994, was promoted as Accounting Clerk and due to his virtuosity, was recommended for the OTP or Officership Training Program for 6 months in the Head Office. After the OTP graduation, he was promoted as Asst. Manager and was assigned to different BPI-FB branches. From 1995 to 1997, he was at BPI Family Bank Cordillera. From 1997 to 2000 at BPI Family Bank Diliman, Isadora. In 2000, he was promoted as the Manager of BPI Family Bank Proj.8 Shorthorn. After a year, he was transferred to BPI Family Bank Edsa Kamuning as the Branch Head from 2001 to 2002. And from 2002 to 2004, he was transferred again to BPI Family Bank P. Tuazon. At that time, BPI Head Management instructed Human Resources Division to select 10 officers to be deployed for other countries. Based on his excellent performance, he was interviewed and was chosen to be deployed to another country. On Nov. 2004, he was deployed to Dubai. It was the first time he experienced working in a foreign land. It was difficult for him to be apart from his family. The occidental culture and beliefs were so unquestionably unique because Dubai has its hierarchy of acceptance, reluctance, interest and amour. He felt the usual loneliness and homesickness that people feel when working overseas. He experienced celebrating Christmas without the presence of his family. Nonetheless, the decision of going to another country morphed his existence but finally outlined the path of his life. In 2006, while still in Dubai, he was promoted as Senior Manager and on April 2007, he went back to Philippines in preparation for his next destination. In June 2007, he was assigned to Hong Kong as the Managing Director of BPI-Hong Kong. Voltaire Medina is married to Alfa Justia, also an officer of BPI and were blessed with 2 adorable friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 11 friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 ANG ENTREPRENEUR, ANG PAGNENEGOSYO AT PAGPAPAYAMAN Sinulat Ni Ruel Y. Quezon Iisa lang ang dahilan ng karamihan sa atin kaya tayo nangingibang bayan at nagsisilbi sa mga dayuhan…Kahirapan. Lahat tayo ay naghahangad na maiahon sa kahirapan ang mga mahal natin sa buhay at mabigyan sila ng mabuti, disente at magandang kinabukasan.. Mga anak at pamilya natin na umaasa sa ating lakas paggawa. Kaya naman di tayo tumitigil upang matupad natin ang mga adhikaing ito. Mga adhikain na nagiging dahilan din ng walang kapagurang pagsusumikap at pagsuporta na kadalasan ay nagiging dahilan upang tayo ay masadlak sa walang katapusang pagbabayad ng utang, pagpirma sa mga kolateral ng ahensiya ng sanlaan at pag aalala na kung sa mga susunod na buwan ay may ipapadala pa. Ngunit teka lang, hanggang kailan tayo magtatrabaho at magsisipag? Hanggang kailan kakayanin ng ating mga katawan ang pagod at kailan titiisin ng ating mga puso ang pangungulila sa mga mahal nating iniwan natin sa pi’nas na kay tagal bago natin makapiling? Nakakasiguro ba tayo na sa pag uwi natin sa Pilipinas ay masagana na ang buhay natin o nangangamba na baka bumalik ulit tayo sa pagsisilbi sa mga employers hanggang kaya pa? Sabi nga ng kanta ng ASIN… “ Kaysarap ng umaga kung ika’y gising, sa tanghali’y masaya lalo na’t may makakain… Sa gabi ay mapayapa kung mahal sa buhay ay kapiling…Kaysarap ng buhay lalo na’t alam mo kung saan papunta….. Sa talaan ng mga OFW’s na Naghanap buhay dito sa Hongkong, 95 % ay may bayarin sa bangko, sanlaan at iba’t ibang credit institutions, bukod pa sa mga agency sa Pilipinas na naging dahilan kung bakit tayo nakarating dito. Kung susuriing mabuti, humigit kumulang anim na buwan ang kailangang bunuin upang makabayad sa mga ito bago tayo makahinga ng maluwag. Kung di pa natin hihigpitan ang sinturon, malamang sa alamang, kukulangin pa ang ating ipapadala sa Pilipinas na pantustos sa kanilang mga gastusin at bayarin upang makapag aral, at kahit papaano ay makapamuhay ng disente. Marami sa atin ang nagsasabi…”Kailan kaya ako yayaman? Kailan kaya kami makakaahon sa kahirapan? Kailan kaya ako titigil sa pagiging Kunyang?” At kung anu ano pa…Ngunit ang lahat ng ito ay magiging pangarap na lang at nakatala sa tubig kung hindi tayo kikilos. May malaking oportunidad na naghihintay sa atin sa pagiging matalino at mapagmasid. Kilalanin natin ang ating mga sarili. Gisingin natin ang tulog nating kagalingan! Gamitin natin ang ating kaalaman upang mapahusay ang mga sarili at ang mga mahal natin sa buhay. Mag isip ng mga paraan upang madagdagan ang pagkakakitaan at turuan ang mga kamag- anak natin na huwag maging palaasa sa atin. Ano ang tinutukoy ko? Turuan silang magnegosyo! Maging entrepreneur! Maging mga produktibong indibidwal upang sa gayon ay di masayang ang ating mga pinagpaguran! Ang mga sumusunod ay ilan lamang mga mungkahi upang tayo ay magsimulang maging entrepreneur, magnegosyo at magpayaman!; ANG PAGIGING ISANG ENTREPRENEUR Sino ba ang mga dapat maging Entrepreneur? • May tiwala ka ba sa sarili mo? • Masaya ka ba pag nakakaisip ka ng isang ideya at nae-excite ka na gawin ito upang Makita mo agad ang resulta? • Masigasig ka ba at nakahandang humarap sa problema at hindi umuurong sa anumang laban sa buhay at di ganoon kadaling madismaya? • Mahusay ka bang makiharap sa lahat ng klase 12 ng tao? Nakahandang tumulong upang maibigay ang pangangailangan ng iba? • Nakahanda ka bang magtrabaho ng mahabang oras para sa isang negosyo at inienjoy mo ang gawaing ito? • Naniniwala ka bang ang pagnenegosyo ang pinakamadaling paraan upang guminhawa ang buhay? • Nasubukan mo na bang magtinda nag pandesal o ng palamig o ice candy kaya noong bata ka pa? o naalala mo pa ba kung papaano kang nag isip na madagdagan ang baon mo noong nasa primaryang grado ka pa lang? Kung karamihan sa mga tanong sa itaas ay “oo” ang sagot mo, nasa unang hakbang ka na sa pagiging matagumpay na entrepreneur. Pero di ko naman sinasabi na kung di mo masagot ang mga ito ay di ka na pwede…Halimbawa, maraming bilang ng mga naging matagumpay na entrepreneur ay di nag isip na magiging isa silang entrepreneur. Ito ay yung mga taong natanggal sa trabaho, o di kaya ay nagsawa na sa pagiging empleyado lamang. Sila yung mga sumubok na paghusayin ang kanilang mga kaalaman at naging matapang na sumugod sa mundo ng pagnenegosyo. business plan ). 4. Financing your Business… ( o ng kapamilya mo sa pilipinas ) Ilan sa mga pinagkukunan ng capital o puhunan sa negosyo ay sa pamamagitan ng panghihiram o pagloloan. Siguruhin lamang na ang hihiramin ay sa negosyo mapupunta at hindi sa mga hindi kumikitang gastusin.( halimbawa, pambili ng damit o panggastos sa bahay.) pero mas maganda kung ang capital para sa negosyo ay manggagaling sa isang kooperatiba kung saan ay kasapi ka. Upang sa panahon na ma-charge ka ng interes ay kahati ka rin sa kita. Maari rin na maghiram ng puhunan sa bangko o anu mang pang pinansiyal na institution ngunit piliin ang may mababang interes. Pero pinakamainam pa rin ang galing sa inimpok na pera ( savings ) Kaya matutong mag impok! 5. Let’s Make it Work! Mag create ng isang mindset na ikaw ay yayaman. Kung sissimulan mong sabihin sa sarili mo na ikaw ay isa nang entrepreneur! Tandaan na kung ano ang iniisip mo, siyang mangyayari sa iyo. Magsimula ka at humakbang. Tandaan na walang yumayaman sa panay plano lang. Kumilos! Sino ang mga hindi pwedeng maging entrepreneur? Hindi lamang ang kagustuhang kumita ng maraming salapi at magpayaman ang magiging dahilan upang magsimula ng isang negosyo,. There is a lot more to being successful than that - long hours, pagtitiyaga commitment, etc. Sa pagnenegosyo, kailangang tukuyin kung ano ang gustong gawin. Dapat ay gusto mo ang ginagawa mo. Ang batayan ng pagiging matagumpay ay di lamang sa dami ng kikitain kundi sa kaligayahang madarama na napapatunayan mo sa sarili na mahusay ka. Money is a minor part. Tips, cautions, and information • Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. Don’t invest all your assets in one deal. No matter how good it sounds, there are enough unexpected and uncontrollable events to make it unwise. • Get a good adviser on business ventures. Mag aral ng mga simpleng kurso katulad ng simple book keeping, entrepreneurship, etc. • Whether you realize it or not if you go into business you are operating under a legal structure. If you own the business yourself, it is an Individual Proprietorship. If you are operating with a couple of other people, it is an Ordinary Partnership. Give a great deal of consideration about going into partnership with other people. Kilalaning mabuti ang magiging kasosyo mo. Dapat ay nakatakta ang mga Gawain ng bawat isa sa negosyo. The failure rate of partnerships is very high. Sometimes it is because of poor planning, or lack of capital, but most often it is because the partners can not get along. When there is a clear division of duties with skills to match assignments, magkakasundo kayo. But when partners, even very good friends, of similar interests and talents try to make decision on the same matters, problems frequently arise, especially in times of trouble when emotions enter the picture. “Oh, we won’t have problems. We’ve been friends all our lives.” This is not necessarily so. • Laging magtala ng mga paninda. Maglibro. Kailangang may magandang rekorder ng mga datos ng pangyayari sa negosyo. Itala ang pinansyal na mga dokumento. Balance Sheet, Cash Flow, Inventory Reports, at Income Statements. Make a monthly profit and loss statement. Again, the entrepreneur is so busy promoting he doesn’t take time for the proper bookkeeping and he may wake up and find he is in real trouble which might have been headed off! • Higit sa lahat, tumutok sa susunod pang mga issues ng Friends International Magazine upang maipagpatuloy natin ang pagpapalago ng kaalaman tungkol sa pangkabuhayan at pagpapayaman! Paano paghuhusayin ang sarili upang maging matagumpay na Entrepreneur? 1. Attend lectures. Read books. Plow through magazines. Magmasid sa ginagawa ng ibang negosyante. Matutong tukuyin ang mga oportunidad at baguhin ang mindset. Laging tumutok sa solusyon at di sa problema.Makipag usap sa mga negosyante at makipagkwentuhan kung papaano sila nagsimula. 2. Do your Research. Mag aral mabuti sa papasuking negosyo. Alamin kung saan ka mag e- enjoy na venture. Mahusay ka bang magluto? O gusto mo bang magluto? Gusto mo bang magtinda o gusto mong magsilbi? Tingnan mo rin kung ano ang patok o naayon sa panlasa ng mga tao.Visit your competitors’ stores, talk to people in similar businesses, get books from the library. Kung may mga nakahandang magbigay ng pag aaral o assistance na grupo o institusyon sa pagsisimula at pagpapalago ng negosyo, ummattend, at magtanong ng tungkol sa negosyong papasukin, look for ways in which you might get information. Do everything possible to be knowledgeable before you plunge in. Hindi mo kailangang maging mahiyain o maging tamad when you have so much at stake. 3. Write a business plan.- Kailangang nakaplano lahat ng gagawin mo o ng pamilya mo tungkol sa negosyo. Simple lang naman. What is the business? What is the plan of operation? What is the competition? Who are the principals? Who will operate the business? What is the budget for capital equipment ? What is the budget for operations? At marami pang iba…( maari ka rin magtanong sa akin o tumawag sa OFW Center for Entrepreneurial Development sa numerong 62995179 sa hongkong o +639183925987 sa pilipinas upang maidetalye ang laman ng isang “I’m sick and tired!” “What’s eating you up my dear?” usisa ng gulat na asawa. Nobela ni Cora P. Carsola Ang Nakaraan: Salamin ng pagmamapuring ama ang nabanaag sa katauhan ni Victor sa mga sandaling nakita niya sa kaununahang pagkakataon ang kanilang baby ni Monaliza. Nag-usap ang dalawa nang masinsinan… ang pagtupad ni Victor na siya’y pakakasalan pero sa civil muna sa Livorno upang sa ganun, maging legitimate ang status niya, ganun din ang bata. Habang nagpapalakpakan ang kanilang mga panauhin, binuhat ni Victor ang basket na kung saan naroon ang tulog na munting anghel, na walang kamalay-malay sa mga nagaganap noong mga sandaling yaon. Tumuloy ang tropa sa Ciesa di Santa Maria Novela para naman sa binyag ng sanggol. Masayang masaya ang lahat, lalo na ang bagong ama na si Victor. Hiniling din niyang mabinyagan muna si Vimo upang isa na siyang Kristiyano sa araw ng kanilang pag-uwi sa ‘pinas. Ngunit kay Monaliza, mas dama niya ang kalumbayan sapagkat ilang araw na lang, maiiwan na siya ng kanyang mag-ama. IKA-SAMPUNG KABANATA: Kinagabihan… “Ora siete marito e moglie, Congratulatione!” (I now pronounce you as husband and wife, Congratulations) bati ng judge na nag-officiate sa kasal nina Victor at Monaliza, sa Sindaco di Livorno(Mayor’s Office) “Mas masaya sana kung tayong tatlo na ang uuwi Mona”, samo ni Victor. Biglang tumaas ang presyon ng dugo ni Monaliza ng marinig ang pasaring ng asawa at napasigaw. Nilapitan niya ang humahagulgol , at sa mahinahong boses… “Mona come on. Let the genie out of the bottle.” “I’m sorry Vic. But I think I’m not living my life the way I like it to be. Iba ang nararamdaman ko. I was dragged a long long way from where I was. Sa napakaikling panahon, nagbuntis ako, nanganak, ikinasal at ang masaklap , walang pagkakataon na nadamayan ako ng mga magulang ko dahil naglihim ako sa kanila. Hindi ko sila kayang saktan lalo na ang mama Martina ko. Oras na malaman niya ang sinapit ko, baka katapusan na ng kanyang buhay. At si Vesta.. God forgive me, sabay sa pagpatong ng kanang kamay sa kanyang noo. Hindi ko sila kayang harapin!” “Ako ang haharap sa kanila Mona, don’t worry, tungkulin ko yon,” paconsuelo ng asawa. And please don’t feel guilty friend, dahil hindi dapat. Huwag mong takbuhan ang katotohanan, bagkus harapin mo!” sabat ng kaibigan si Pacita. “Hindi ko magagawa yan Pacita!” “So, ibig mong sabihin magtatago kang parang pagong?” “Unawain niyo naman ako” pakiusap ni Monaliza “Okey, the ball is in your court, Mona. Anong antas ng pang-unawa ang nais mong gawin ko? “ tanong no Victor “Ewan ko!” “Please listen ‘pangga’ and bear this in mind. Hanggang hindi mo natatanggap ang kabanatang ito ng iyong buhay, na lagi mo na lang isinisiksik sa isip mo ang pag-alala kay mama Martina at awa mo kay Vesta, natitiyak kong uuwi tayo sa walang saysay na relasyon. I am very sorry kung nakaladkad man kita, pero marahil ay guhit yon ng tadhana. Mahal kita Monaliza!” “Mahal din kita Vic, pero parang hindi pa ako handang iwanan ang trabaho ko. Nais kong makaipon upang makaganti sa mga magulang ko. Kailangan din ni Edwin ang suporta ko sa kanyang pag-aaral at ang pang chemo ni mama Martina. Maaari bang hayaan natin na panahon ang magdesisyon para sa atin?” “Anong klaseng desisyon ang nais mong ihusga sa ‘yo ng panahon habang nagtatago ka’t nagkukunwari?” mula muli sa kaibigang si Pacita “Ano man ang sabihin niyo sa akin ngayon, tatangaapin ko. Nangangamba talaga ako sa mangyayari kay mama Martina,. once na malaman niya ito. Ipinagtapat ko sa ‘yo noon Vic na gusto niyang kami ni Edwin ang magpakasal. Pero hindi namin itong tinatanggap na dalawa dahil turing namin ang magkapatid. Kaya please, unawain mo ako. Darating ang panahon na magsasama rin (Sa ilanpang mga katanungan sa pagnenegosyo o pag attend sa mga seminars tungkol sa negosyo, kooperatiba atbp, mangyari po lamang na makipag ugnayan sa Friends International Magazine o tumawag telepono bilang 2541-2510 or 2512-0677. friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 13 friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 “Come To Me Those Who Are Weary and Burdened And I Will Give You Rest” by Apostle Renato D. Carillo “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke and learn from me for I am gentle and humble and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30 When you come to the Lord Jesus, He will never cast you away because He loves you and He cares for you. He welcomes everyone. He wants to help you, to do pleasant things for you, and arrange all things in your behalf because He wants you to enjoy life. It is the reason why He is inviting all those who are sick, weary, and troubled to come to Him. So, believe that the Lord can do it for you. The Lord is always willing to listen to you no matter how many times you call unto Him. He is always available to help you when you are in need, to forgive you when you ask for forgiveness, to give you peace when you are in trouble, to give you joy when you are depress and lonely, to heal you when you are sick, and to do all kinds of miracle for you. And He even promised to be with us forever… When our Lord Jesus Christ was nailed at the cross of Calvary, there were two other men who were also nailed on his left and right side. Both were criminals. The other one asked the Jesus to remember him when the Lord would be in Paradise, immediately the Lord responded a word of hope and forgiveness. He did not say a single word of accusation. The message is that the Lord is always willing to accept everyone who comes to Him. And those who come to the Lord Jesus will never be put to shame because He will not cast anyone away from Him. He is always ready to help. He is not only available for a certain date or time but He is always available all the time to those who are in need and to those who will come unto him. Anyone who comes to him will never be rejected nor be disappointed. Politicians, wealthy and famous people, relatives and friends maybe willing to help when you are in need but they might not always be available for you. You may ask assistance to anyone but you will never find anyone like the Lord Jesus because He is not just willing but He is always able and available. So, when you come to Him, always expect that He is able to help you and He will never turn you down. He is able to fulfill what He has spoken. He always tells the truth. This is the reason why Jesus is so much confident when He said, “Come to me all those who are weary …” simply because He has all the power to make all impossible things possible for all of us who believe in Him. Jesus never rejects anyone who comes to Him. Isn’t it amazing to know that countless of people who come to Him with faith will 14 never go disappointed no matter how many times you come to Him. It doesn’t matter how miserable your situations in your life is as long as you come to Jesus, He will give you rest. Remember a criminal who came to Jesus was not rejected, but He responded with an open heart saying, “Today, you will be with me in Paradise”. • • • • • A leper also came to Jesus and asked Him for healing, Jesus touched him and healed him. A centurion also came to Jesus and asked healing for his servant who was sick, his servant was healed. A prostitute whose name is Mary Magdalene who came to Jesus was delivered and became a changed person. A blind man, Bartimeus came shouting to catch the attention of Jesus was able to see. Mary and Martha pleaded Jesus about Lazarus, and Jesus was able to raise him from the dead. In fact, Jesus doesn’t only want to help us but He is eager to be with us. He is only waiting for us to invite Him. So, let us not only come to Jesus when we are in need, when we are in trouble, lonely, depressed or when sick. Beloved, we need to understand that when we come to Him, we must be eager to stay where He is and decide not to be apart from Him anymore because He is not only the solution of all problem, the healer of all kinds of sicknesses and diseases, the provider to all needs but HE IS THE SOURCE OF ALL THINGS. It’s about time to live a worry free life. We don’t have to worry anymore when we came to Jesus. Are you tried of your life now? Are you troubled? Are you lonely? Are you sick? Are you hopeless? Are disappointed after many failures and frustrations in life? Then, come to Jesus today. He wants to put an end to all your miseries for He said it, “Come unto me all of you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest.” Believe His word. And you will never go disappointed. Why not come unto Him now? Jesus is only waiting for us to come to Him and ask Him for help. He wants us all to be with Him forever. He wants you to leave your miserable life, your loneliness, your sicknesses and diseases, and He wants you to begin to enjoy the life that He has designed for you. Open your mouth and say this prayer, “Father God, I come to You today through your Son, our precious Lord Jesus Christ who died at the cross for me and paid the price. I admit that I am a sinner. , I believe in You and in Your word. I believe that You are so powerful and you can do all things for me. I admit that I am a sinner. Please forgive me for all my sins such as pride, hatred, immorality, adultery, fornication, homosexuality and all the sins I have committed. I should be the one who must die at the Cross of Calvary but you took my place and paid the price for me. Lord, Jesus, please come into my life and enter into my heart. I now accept You as the Lord and Savior of my life. I trust in You and I believe in You. Thank you for saving my soul. In the name of your Son Jesus Christ. Amen. For prayer and counseling, log on to: www. miraclehour.com / e-mail:apostle_carillo@ hotmail.com. Call us at: +85267984041 or write to: Apostle Renato D. Carillo, P.O. Box 40, Araneta Center, 1135 Cubao, Quezon City , Philippines Legal Matters Got questions regarding legal matters? Write us and we’ll get your queries answered by our knowledgable columnist. Send all correspondence to Friends International Magazine by post or email. Theft conviction, Prospect of Immigration to America I picked up a mobile phone on the street sometime 1994. I brought it for repair. The police arrested me when the shop owner informed them that the phone was found on the street. I pleaded guilty to theft by finding and was fined, ordered to pay restitution to owner of the phone; and pay court costs. I am now immigrating to America. Please advice. Mr. Wong of Jordan Theft Ordinance, Section 9, Cap 210: There are various types of theft with different sentences attached. It could be general theft, robbery, burglary, etc and sentenced to maximum of 10 years. General Theft: Terms of imprisonment are generally imposed for general theft, although the length of sentence varies enormously from case to case, depending on the aggravating factors such as the amount or value stolen, previous criminal convictions, breach of trust, prevalence of the theft and need for deterrence, restitutions to the victim, and other mitigating factors. Theft by Pick Pocketing: Theft by pick pocketing is normally within the range of 12 to 15 months imprisonment after trial even for a first time offender. In Hong Kong, early plea of will get a normal 1/3 discount of the sentence and if full restitution is paid, 1/2 discount of the sentence. There could be aggravation if there is use of weapon, the public is at risk, involvement of organized and professional gang of thieves, repeat offenders and prevalence of pick pocketing is proved. Is so, the court will impose harsher sentence for deterrence purposes. Theft by Shop Lifting: Shop Theft is usually dealt with by fine. This crime is of comparative simplicity but needs to be deterred. It is only when organized criminals are involved that imprisonment may be unavoidable and for repeat offenders who were previously dealt with by other noncustodial sentences were not deterred. The Leyte Achivers Club International headed by Lonie Bagaipo in celebration of their 5th year anniversary held the Ms. Petite and Ms. Popularity pageant. Janelle K. Draug was declared winner. Anna Carla Prata was 1st runner-up and Jenny Villanueva was 2nd runnerup. Also shown in photo are the other candidates. by Barrister Ody A. Lai Theft by Finding: Theft by Finding is a crime in Hong Kong. Anything thrown away could be subject to a theft charge. Theft by Finding, albeit a crime in Hong Kong, belongs to the lowest category of culpability and criminality. It is normally dealt with by fine. The criminality is neither the finding nor the safekeeping of the property but the failure to re-unite the property to its rightful owner. Treating the property as the finder’s own is tantamount to appropriating the property that belongs to another by permanently depriving the owner of it. If the intention is to return it at the next available opportunity, then there is no dishonesty in keeping it in the meantime. Honest finders will normally make a report to a police and the police will facilitate the return of the property to the true owner. If the item found has identifications of the rightful owner, then the Finder can notify the owner through phone, mail, email, SMS or even directly post the item to the address of the owner be it his home or office. The Finder can also put a public notice through advertisements. These will strongly suggest that the Finder had no intention to keep the property and treat it as his own. There is no legal obligation to hand the actual property to the police or to others save the real owner. Nobody has the right to demand it from the Finder except the real owner. In the interim, the Finder can keep it until the owner comes forward to claim. But after a reasonable period of time, the real owner does not come forward, in law; the Finder is the next in line to claim it. Many years later, someone could come forward to legally claim it. But once the statute of limitations has run, the Finder could validly establish his claim over the property, thus Finder’s Keeper. Some people will run the risk of keeping quiet about their find for a considerable period of time. This is dishonest and a permanent appropriation of the property from its rightful owner. Still others may realize, sell or pawn the items and if the items were in fact reported lost, the Finder could be charged with more serious charges. Mr. Wong’s Plea of Guilty: Mr. Wong should have notified the police about his find. But without negating his guilty plea, Mr. Wong probably thought that since the mobile phone is not working properly, that he brought the mobile phone to the repair shop. For legal intent and purposes, Mr. Wong treated the mobile phone as his own and thus did not appreciate that he committed an offence. Mr. Wong pleaded guilty. This very much shows his remorse and admittance of guilt. His clear record is now tarnished due to his friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 foolishness and accidental greed. Rehabilitation of Offenders Ordinance, S2, Cap 297: If Mr. Wong never re-offended then Section 2 provides legal protection to an individual who was previously convicted of a crime and is considered rehabilitated after the lapse of a certain period. Section 2 states that:(1) Where - (a) an individual has been convicted in Hong Kong (before or after the commencement of this Ordinance) of an offence in respect of which he was not sentenced to imprisonment exceeding 3 months or to a fine exceeding $10000;(b) he has not been convicted in Hong Kong on any earlier day of an offence; and (c) a period of 3 years has elapsed without that individual being again convicted in Hong Kong of an offence, then - (i) subject to section (3) and (4), no evidence shall be admissible in any proceedings which tends to show that that individual was so convicted in Hong Kong; (ii) any question asked of that individual or any other person relating to, or any obligation imposed on that individual or any other person to disclose, that individual’s previous convictions, offences, conduct or circumstances shall be treated as not referring to that conviction; and (iii) that conviction, or any failure to disclose it shall not be a lawful or proper ground for dismissing or excluding that individual from any office, profession, occupation or employment or for prejudicing him in any way in that office,profession, occupation or employment. Mr. Wong was charged and convicted of a crime and was sentenced to a fine of HK$ 2,500. He has not re-offended since 1994, almost 15 years ago. By virtue of this ordinance, Mr. Wong is now completely rehabilitated and accorded the protection as set forth above. Conclusion: Mr. Wong pleaded guilty to an offence of Theft by Finding; an offence that belongs to the lowest end of criminality and is not a serious offence. He committed the offence out of his foolishness and greed by chance. He was of clear record before this incident. He was fined HK$ 2,500, paid restitution of HK$ 1,500 and contributed to court cost of HK$ 2,000. He has not reoffended since 1994. By virtue of section 2 of Rehabilitation of Offenders Ordinance, Mr. Wong is now rehabilitated. Mr. Wong pose no threat, be it security, legal, social, and economic, should he immigrate to United States of America. 15 friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 tayo. Meanwhile, please be patient,” hiling ng asawa. “Nauunawaan kita. Pero bakit ka magpapaalipin sa pangamba?” “Please Victor, tama na” sabay sa pagyakap sa asawa. Pagtapik ang katugon ng pakiusap na yon. Na-realize din niya na kung baga sa bulaklak na namumukadkad pa, kinitil niya si Monaliza. “Sige, hindi kita mapipilit. Pagbibigyan kita sa kahilingan mo. Go on, follow your feelings. Makakapaghintay naman kami ng anak natin.” “Victor, Anak!’ masayang bati ng kanyang ina paglabas nilang mag-ama sa paliparan ng Dumaguete. Buong sayang itinaas ni Victor ang baby basket na kinaroonan ng kanyang apo. Nasilayan niya ang isang anino sa di kalayuan ng kinaroroonan nig ina. pangangalaga ni nanay Ester. Apat na taon na siya, wala pa ring nakakapiling na ina. Lagi siyang pinadadalhan ni Monaliza ng mga material na pangailangan pero ang kay Victor, kalinga ng isang ina ang kailangan ng kanilang anak. Dumating ang puntong nasasaktan na si Victor. Tila ba hindi na niya nararamdaman ang sinasabi ng asawa na mahal silang mag-ama. Ganun pa man, sinikap niyang makapagpatayo ng bahay sa Quezon City bilang paghahanda sakaling dumating pa si Monaliza. Kinumbinsi rin niya si nanay Ester na sa maynila na sila manirahan. Sa ganitong paraan, maiwasan na rin ang pagpapangita nila ni Vesta kada nagbabakasyon siya. Minsan, itinaon ni Victor na pasukan sa eskuwela ang kanyang pagbabakasyon. Excited si Vimo lalo na ang ama at lola. “Vimo, huwag mong kakalimutan ang mga itinuro ko sa ‘yo na pagpapkilala ha?” “Opo, papa.” Habang yakap siya ng kanyang ina, nagbulong ito… “Lagi rin po akong makikinig sa teacher at huwag na huwag akong makipag-away sa classmates ko, di ba papa?” “Inay, bakit naririto si Vesta?” “Very good, anak. Aasahan ko ‘yan.” “Relax ka lang anak, kaya mong harapin ang sitwasyon, alam ko. Pinasukan mo ang probkema, puwes, lusutan mo.” “Good morning teacher, good morning classmates. I am Vimo Asuncion. I’m 4 years old. My father is Victor Asuncion and my mother is Monaliza Acosta.” Hindi lumapit si Vesta sa kanilang kinaroroonan. Pinagmamasdan lamang silang mag-ina at natutok ang kanyang mga mata sa baby basket na tangan-tangan ni Victor. “Teacher,teacher,” sabat ng isang kaklase. “Yes Rene?” Lukso ng pinagsamahang matagal ang nagtulak kay Victor upang lapitan ang dating katipan. “Kapitbahay po namin si Vimo. Wala naman pong mama yan sa kanilang bahay. Papa lang po niya at lola.” “Hi Ves! I am very sorry sa mga pangyayari”, mula sa kakaba-kabang boses. “Belat, ‘wawang bata,” tukso ng ibang kaklase. “It’s alright Victor. Hindi ka pa nagkakasala sa relasyon natin, napatawad na kita. Welcome back with your baby.” Para sa isang musmos na katulad ni Vimo, maaring isang iyak o pagtatanggol ang katugon ng panunuksong yon. Subalit nakatanim sa kanyang isipan ang mga pangaral ng kanyang ama. Sa kanyang sarili, sinabi niyang”may mama yata ako!”. “Salamat, sabay sa pag-abot sa kamay na pinapawisan. Parehong nanibago ang dalawa. Dati-rati, halik at yakap ang nagmumula sa bawat isa tuwing dumarating si Victor. Ngayon’y tila hinahanap ni Vesta ang kakulangang yon. Napuna ng dalaga na hindi na suot ni Victor ang kanilang engagement ring, bagkus, ang suot ay isang wedding ring. Halos hindi siya makapagsalita. Tanggap man niya ang pangyayari, may luha pa rin ang kanyang puso. Bigla siyang kinabig ni Victor sa balikat. “Halika Ves, tignan mo ang baby.” Tila hindi niya maihakbang ang mga paa “Napaka-cute na baby. Congratulations. Nasaan ang kanyang…(di naituloy) “A.. e.. naiwan pa siya sa Italy. Lumaki nang lumaki si Vimo sa 16 Nakaguhit sa isipan ni Vimo ang mukha ng kanyang mahal na ina. Sa pamamagitan ng larawang naka-display sa kanyang kuwarto. Pag-uwi sa bahay mula sa paaralan, tuloytuloy siya sa kanyang silid…Niyakap ang larawan ng kanyang ina. “Mama…mama ko..” “Vimo” tawag ng ama. Handa na ang merienda anak.’ “Coming Papa! Malakas niyang sagot. “Paglabas ko, pwede ba, close your eyes papa?” “At bakit naman po?” birong tanong ng ama. “Basta , sige na, pikit na!” Dahan-dahan siyang lumabas at binulaga ang ama, sabay sa pagpahalik ng larawan ng ina sa kanyang ama. Napahalakhak si Victor. “Ikaw talaga. At anong nakain mo?” “Kasi po kanina, tinukso ako ng classmate kong si Rene. Ang sabi po niya, wala naman daw akong mama kundi lolo at pap lang. “Ano naman ang isinagot mo?’ LBC opens new Branch in Worldwide of League of Visayan Association, Mindanao group and others. LBC Mabuhay Hong Kong Ltd. opened an additional branch in World Wide House. LBC now has 7 branches operating in Hong Kong. Citi Express Remittance opens in Worldwide House The said opening ceremony and blessing was officiated by Father Emil Lim while the traditional ribbon cutting was led by Hon. Joy Banagodos, Vice Consul of the Philippine Consulate office in Hong Kong. “Wala po. Di ba you told me, na huwag ako makikipag-away?” Citi express remittance will open its new office in Central at Shop 312, 3/F Worldwide House # 19 Des Vouex Road Central Hong Kong on Nov 15, 2008. FriendShoppe offers services such as distributor of Fern C and other health products, Philippine products, gift items, internet service, MP3 sales and downloads, retail and wholesale of phone cards, scans, printing and typing jobs. Napangiti ang ama. “Good boy! Bukas, tell them na dadating si mama sa pasko ha?” “Opo Papa. Totoo pong dadating na ang mama ko? Yehey! Sabay pagyakap sa ama. association event costumes, made -to-order trophies, medals, certificates and T-Shirt printing. FriendShoppe is owned and managed by Ms. Ruth Grospe. For more info please contact 2512 0677. They also offer dance tutorials, gown rentals, Grand opening surprises and promo will be given away on that day. Kindly bring this magazine or cut this page to avail of free bag on its opening day. Citi Express will operate on its service tagline “Mababang presyo, Angat ang serbisyo.” Narinig ni aling Ester ang pag-uusap ng magama. Habag na habag ito sa apo. “ Bakit mo pinaasa si biik.Sigurado ka ba sa sinabi mo sa mga sinabi mo sa anak mo?” “May awa ang Diyos inay. Hindi ako nawawalan ng pag-asa na magkikita muli ang mag-ina ko. Hindi ako nawawalan ng pag-asa. Alam kong mahal ni Monaliza ang kanyang anak.” “Naroon na tayo pero ikaw kaya mahal naman ni Monaliza? Tumatanda ka na.. umaasa na walang inaasahan.” Also present in the said event were: Mr. Ruel Cruz, Country Manager of LBC Hong Kong, Dave Salazar, operations supervisor for LBC Asia, Mr. & Mrs Bob Waterfield of FilGlobe, Ms. Arlene Rico, Leony Bailey, guests, customers and the LBC HK Staff. PNB relocates TST branch PNB Remittance Center HK Ltd. relocated its Star House branch in Tsim Sha Tsui to its new home in Hung Hom at # 90 Baker St. “Meron po ‘nay.” “Sino si Mona pa rin? Kung talagang mahal kayo, hindi niya matitis na di kayo mskitang mag-ama. Sapat na ba ang telepono at pagpapadala kay Vimo ng mga material na bagay? Kung talagang mahal kayo, hindi niya matitiis na di kayo nakikita ng matagal. Sapat na ba na mag-usap lang kayo at mag-usap sila ni Vimo sa telepono? Sapat na ba ang mga padala niyang mga materyal na bagay sa anak niya? Nasaan siya pag may nararamdaman ang bata aber? Kailangan ng isang bata ang yakap at kalinga ng ina lalo na ‘pag musmos pa! Kausapin mo siya ng masinsinan. Bigyan mo ng ultimatum. Kung nag-aalala siya sa taong pinagkautangan niya ng loob, dapat alalahanin din naman kayo!” sermon ng mahal na ina. Tumagos sa puso ni Victor ang mga binitiwan ng kanyang ina. Hindi siya nakasagot sapagkat tama si nanay Ester. Bagkus tinawag ang kanyang ‘angel’ “Anak, tapos ka na sa assignment mo?” “Malapit na po papa. Nasa letter ‘M’ na po as in ‘ma-ma’.” “Very good. Kiss ka muna sa lolo anak.” “Kita mo na, ma-ma na naman ang binigkas?’ As usual, alam ni Victor na ang mga halik at yapos ni Vimo ang nakakapagdulot ng gang at ligaya sa kanyang ina. ITUTULOY The office blessing was officiated by Father Midas. Ms. Rita Bautista, Country Head of PNB Hong Kong led the blessing and opening ceremony assisted by GM Rolando Cruz, Willie Domingo and other PNB Hong Kong Staff. Also present in the said blessing were PNB tie up and partners, media group, friends, customers and PNB Hong Kong staff. The said branch will be managed by Ms. Fely Ip. FriendShoppe opens in North Point Friends International Magazine opened its new branch office in North Point at 78 B City Garden Road, City Garden Shopping Center on Oct 25, 2008. Father Emil Lim officiated the opening and blessing ceremony for FriendShoppe which was attended by different association leaders in Hong Kong, namely the Luzon Federation headed by Ms. Medy Borlaza, Marites Elvinia friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 17 friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 Do you want your photos on this page? Group pictures, special gatherings, association activities are most welcome. Send them to us by post or email and you just might find yourself in our next issue. 18 . . . friends snapshots friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 19 friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 Mabuhay Ka Kabayan! by: Julia Buen Terry Mabuhay Ka Kabayan is a column on OFWs who has exemplary works, outstanding service to their fellows, has given pride to our country, serves as a role model and an inspiration to Filipinos in Hong Kong. Spending almost half of her life in Hong Kong, petite and popular Remedios P. Borlaza finds a new chance in life after being operated. She joggles between organizations every Sunday as she talks to Julia Buen Terry about the real him in her, as a community leader, and having a close family ties. I just celebrated my fifty fourth birthday last September 28. I am from Liliw, Laguna, a province south of Metro Manila. I have been working here for 24 years now, but still struggling to earn a living as I am sending my nephews and nieces to school. As of now, I am supporting three in elementary, three in high school and a third year nursing student. I am now reborn. Four years ago, I had an operation. Both my ovaries were removed due to Myoma. I am already active helping organizations as early as 1986 but I never stick to one organization. Beauty Pageants were held in hotels that time that we wore tuxedos during the contest. It is only when my Girlfriend for nine years went with her employer to London for work that I started joining the organizations. I do not want to be idle and wanted to pass my time. Then I decided to study computer programming offered by the Dole- OWWA Microsoft Tuloy Aral Program. I belong to the first batch of graduates. After two months from graduation, we formed the DOLEOWWA Microsoft Organization- Hong Kong. Since October 2005, my life was not the same again. I became very busy since then until now. I manage my time well as a leader of three organizations. Concurrently, I am the Chairman of DOMO- HK. I was also elected as the President of Luzon Federation and Secretary of Council Of Leaders with almost sixty members all officers coming from different Filipino migrant organization in Hong Kong. Our father always reiterated to us that education is very important. Although we are poor, our parents were able to send us all ten siblings in the university to have a degree. I helped sending three engineers, two nurses, and a priest in San Pablo, Laguna in school. I am happy I was able to help them on their education. It felt so good helping my family and love ones. We have a very religious family and we go to church regularly. We were too close that we live in one compound in Laguna. Life is like a wheel, sometimes you are up, and sometimes you are down. However, no matter what downfall you have, spend your life for the good. I believe that if you sow well, you will reap well. I am fond of charity works ever since. I always want to help the needy. My dream is to help those charitable institutions, especially orphanages in Philippines. For me, do what is good and the Lord will take care of you. I studied Bachelor of Science Major in Psychology and had worked at the National Mental Hospital for apprenticeship then as a Personal Assistant in Escolta, Manila in the 1970’s. After working for four years as a cashier, I came to Hong Kong in 1984. My sister wanted me to join her in USA but I enjoyed working here. There is freedom for me in Hong Kong. I have been working with my British employer for 22 years. I love them and very proud of my wards, a fine young man of 22 years old who just graduated from the university, and a twin who are now both lady bankers. Communication plays a lot in our work. Honesty and dedication too is needed on our job. Sometimes I found it difficult, but I still persevere to do my best. With God’s grace, I was able to survive all the family problems I encountered. Only with my love life, I got troubles. I was a happy go lucky person, having piles of girlfriends around me. I am single in a different way. Those who knew me call me “ Tito Meds”. 20 I treat everyone in the organization as my brothers and sisters. We are like a big happy family. Sometimes, I even forgot to call my family because I am spending more time with them. To my fellow leaders, we should not use our position take advantage of our members. We have to be a good example to them to be followed. Good service is working hard and doing things in your own free will without expecting something in return. You are not rendering service for a name or popularity but for the welfare of the organization and the members. We are here to work and earn. We should not lose the opportunity to save for the future of our love ones. I wish OFWs will help, cooperate, and give support to each other. We must not to forget to do well as Christians. I have plans of going home for good but not now. I wanted to leave a legacy here. I will do voluntary works when I retire. If I have the money and resources, I want to put up a Day Care Center for kids because I love children even though I do not have one of my own. I have a modest and well- furnished house together with my partner, a Van, savings, and insurances. I hope when I retire, I will just sit down and wait for my pension every end of the month. I want to travel and enjoy life because I work hard for it. friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 21 friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 God is in Control The world is in a spin right now due to the current financial crisis that continues to assail, even the known biggest and staunchest global economies. Giant financial institutions fold up. Established business firms shut down. And as employers close shop, employees close their eyes in despair and desolation as they fear for their lives, their families, and their future. The International Labor Organization reported that the global financial crisis may result in 20 million people losing their jobs between now and the end of next year, raising the total number of people unemployed globally to 210 million. Consequentially, economists in the Philippines fear that one of the sectors that might be directly hit by this global financial crunch is the Filipino migrant sector. Currently, the Philippines is regarded as one of the world’s top exporters of labor (together with Mexico, India, Indonesia, Sri Lanka, and Pakistan) with more than eight million Filipino workers overseas. United Nations Secretary General’s Special Representative on Migration, Peter Sutherland, however said there is no evidence yet that the global financial crisis has threatened the jobs of the millions of migrant workers, but that is a very real prospect. In the face of this disquietingly “very real prospect,” the Global Forum on Migration and Development, a UN-funded conference recently held in Manila, somehow provides glimmer of hope to our Overseas Filipino Workers and their families as the forum aimed to come up with coherent policies for the protection of migrant workers. by Bishop. Eddie Villanueva divine enablement. Among the countless positive things that we may do when calamity strikes us, I will propose three basic counsels from the Bible: First, pray. “This is God’s Message, the God who made earth, made it livable and lasting, known everywhere as God: ‘Call to me and I will answer you. I’ll tell you marvelous and wondrous things that you could never figure out on your own’” (Jeremiah 33:2-3, The Message Bible). “For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. In those days when you pray, I will listen. If you look for me wholeheartedly, you will find me’” (Jeremiah 2:11-13, The New Living Translation). Second, trust God. “Trust God from the bottom of your heart; don’t try to figure out everything on your own. Listen to God’s voice in everything you do, everywhere you go; He’s the one who will keep you on track” (Proverbs 3:5-6, The Message Bible). “‘As the Scriptures tell us, “Anyone who trusts in Him will never be disgraced’” (Romans 10:11, English Standard Version). Third, fully obey Him. In Deuteronomy 28:1-14, the Lord lists the blessings found in obeying His commands: “If you fully obey the LORD your God and carefully follow all His commands I give you today, the LORD your God will set you high above all the nations on earth. All these blessings will come upon you and accompany you if you obey the LORD your God: You will be blessed in the city and blessed in the country. The fruit of your womb will be blessed, and the crops of your land and the young of your livestock—the calves of your herds and the lambs of your flocks. Your basket and your kneading trough will be blessed. You will be blessed when you come in and blessed when you go out. The LORD will grant that the enemies who rise up against you will be defeated before you. They will come at you from one direction but flee from you in seven. The LORD will send a blessing on your barns and on everything you put your hand to. The LORD your God will bless you in the land He is giving you. The LORD will establish you as His holy people, as He promised you on oath, if you keep the commands of the LORD your God and walk in his ways. Then all the peoples on earth will see that you are called by the name of the LORD, and they will fear you. The LORD will grant you abundant prosperity—in the fruit of your womb, the young of your livestock and the crops of your ground—in the land He swore to your forefathers to give you. The LORD will open the heavens, the storehouse of His bounty, to send rain on your land in season and to bless all the work of your hands. You will lend to many nations but will borrow from none. The LORD will make you the head, not the tail. If you pay attention to the commands of the LORD your God that I give you this day and carefully follow them, you will always be at the top, never at the bottom. Do not turn aside from any of the commands I give you today, to the right or to the left, following other gods and serving them.” If we will only follow the Lord and His commands, we will realize that nothing that happens on earth is beyond His power. Indeed, at a time when the world economy is whirling in a spin, God sits sovereign on His throne, working in behalf of those who diligently seek Him. Looking for Gowns to wear? Party dress? 22 I n Germany, Gasthof means a guest house or a special place to relax, eat drink and have fun. It is a place where one can feel the warm, comfortable feeling from the pleasant surroundings and friendly atmosphere. Inspired by these experience with her 20 years of stay in Germany that owner Marina Manuel-Gersbach thought of bringing an authentic German cuisine here in her native land - the Philippines. Married to a German Chef Wolfgang, they first established Gasthof in Mimosa 1n 1996. When politics struck the business atmosphere in Clark, Bot, as the owner is fondly called by her peers, transferred the business in Boracay. Thereon, it established a niche of its own as “The Home of Boracay’s Famous Back Ribs”. The Seafood Island What is the best way to treat your friends? “Enjoy seafood and Go drinking” can well be an illustration to the wonderful moment while they are in The Global City Paradise - Philippines 2512 0677 or 9018 0120 or email ruthalcoseba@yahoo.com Philippines Products, Internet, MP3 downloads, Phone cards also available * * * ** visit us at Friendshoppe Shop 78B, Ground Floor, City Garden, 233 Electric Road, North Point of its branches. Of course, don’t forget to grab a bite of its famous back ribs. munch on these . . . For Tailor-made costumes or for gown/dress rentals... call Rutchie. Let us just pray that the supposed “coherent policies” be turned into comprehensive plans and concrete programs for the constant protection of the Filipino migrants worldwide and the conscientious promotion of their plight wherever they may be. While efforts are being exerted by nations and organizations of the world to overall mitigate the brunt of the current global financial crisis, we must never leave God out of the picture. For even the best of human efforts mean nothing without the Lord’s Food Trip Seafoods Island ( Seafood Grill and Barbeque House) Restaurant is definitely the best choice to host your dinner event. Located at Market Market Global City Taguig, Philippines, a famous shopping arcade, Seafood Island is one of the restaurants that offer delicious and fresh Seafoods in Market Market!, Taguig City. With a seating capacity of up to 200, we serve a wide variety of seafoods and pinoy Now the business flourished and branches out in the cities of Legazpi & Naga in Bicol and Makati in Metro Manila. In all three (3) branches located in the cities, Gasthof have a typical German inspired rustic ambiance. Food are all crafted by Wolfgang who had himself gained more than 40 years of culinary experience from various 5 star hotels in Europe. Gasthof also has a deli shop where one can find wide-range items imported groceries, wines, beers & other items from Europe. It also has various processed meats like homemade German ham, sausages, lyoners, salami, etc. Enjoy a cup of freshly brewed coffee with its gourmet cakes & sandwiches. So next time you visit the Philippines, come visit the place – Gasthof. A truly different dining experience. For beverages, try Gasthof ’s concoctions of 7 flaming drinks. Thus, everyone can savour authentic German cuisines like different kinds of schnitzels, goulasch, spaetzle, pig knuckles, and of course – authentic sausages! Hmmm…imagine huge chunky Hungarian of Bavarian or Frankurter sausages grilled or broiled the way you want it served with freshly cooked mashed potato with mustard Dijon or curry tomato dressing! It’s really something that you can look forward to when you visit any specialties at moderate prices. For those who enjoy fine wines and beers, there are lots of selections to choose from. Indulge yourself to the unforgettable experience of eating with the pirates thru our Boodle feast sets which is really a mouth watering thrill!Visit and discover the Filipino foods especialties which will definitely fit your platelets. It is an unforgettable experience whether you are with friends, officemates, and families. A sure treat to everybody after an exiting day of malling at the Market Market!,after a long day at the office or simply bar and restaurant hopping! Crab Groups, the restaurant has more than delicious, fresh seafoods and Filipino delicacies to offer, we want to be known as a house of brands- a house of world class concepts. Seafood Island Restaurant’s top selling branch is in Market Market managed by no other than Moises Sj. Pascual, (sir King to his colleagues) a well dedicated and fine man, developed to his craft and an experienced manager. Owned by Raymund Magdaluyo of Red friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 Reservation and caterings welcomed! For inquiry and Reservations, please call 8897321, 8867692 and bring this magazine to avail of discounts and freebies. Look for Moises (King) Pascual. 23 friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 Balitang Showbiz ni Noel Asinas Nadia Montenegro: ‘Hindi ko na kailangang manglalaki pa, walo na ang anak ko’ NAKAHUNTAHAN namin si Nadia Montenegro sa set ng Family Feud t recently kung saan nag-iintay siya ng oras kung saan isasalang na sila bilang showbiz family. Ang katunggaling pamilya ni Nadia ay ang kay Tirso Cruz III. Once a week ay nagpi-feature ng showbiz family ang game show na ito na hosted ni Richard Gomez. Sa pakikipag-usap namin kay Nadia, nakuwento niya sa amin na tuloy ang pagdedemanda niya laban sa entertainment columnist na si Cristy Fermin. Kinakalap muna raw niya ang lahat ng columns ni Cristy na nasulat na laban sa kanya. Dito raw ibabase lahat ng kanyang lawyer ang kasong isasampa niya. Malapit na raw ito dahil makukumpleto na niya lahat ang write ups na laban sa kanya. Ani Nadia: “ Ako ba na may walong anak na ngayon ay magkaka-interest pa sa mga lalaki? Gaya ng mga nasulat na inili-ink ako kina Baron Geisler at Wendell Ramos.” Family Feud sa Pilipinas, no.1 early evening game show TUWANG-TUWA ang program manager ng Family Feud na si Ms. Ali Nokom Dedicatoria sa lakas ng hatak ng show niya sa masa. Buhat nang nagbigay ang show ng more than P300,000 cash sa isang pamilya, aba, lalong dumami ang pumila sa audition ng programa. Bukod pa rito’y tumaas na nang husto ang ratings ng show. Aba, ang highest na naabot ng show ay 25% rating. Super taas na nito sa pinakamalapit ng kalabang programa. Nasabi pa ni Nadia na nagtataka lang siya kung bakit na-iintriga siya ngayon, eh, wala naman siyang soap or regular show. Kaya naman siya sumasagot sa interview at talk show program ay dahil naiintriga siya at dapag ipagtanggol niya ang kanyang sarili. NAGKAROON kami ng pagkakataon na makausap ang Playboy November issue cover girl na si Cassandra Ponti, ang Pinoy Big Brother candidate noon, ngayo’y member na ng Kool Chx at lumalabas na regular sa Wowawee at ASAP, Bago pala naging modelo at sexy siren si Cassandra, nagtapos muna siya sa kolehiyo sa St. Mary’s College ng Davao City. Tapos siya ng kursong Bachelor of Arts in Economics. Hilig lang nya talaga ang showbiz, kaya naunawaan siya ng kanyang mother at nagiisang brother. Ipinagmamalaki pa nga siya ng kanyang kapatid dahil nasa showbiz siya. Nang muling dumalaw siya sa Davao City, nagkataon na ang tutuluya nila’y ang bahay ng mga madre sa St. Mary’s College. Kasama siya noon ni Vina Morales para tumulong sa isang politician sa Davao City para pangangampanya last elections.Di naman siya tinanong o unirirat ng madre na kilala siyang nag-aral sa school na pinamamahalaan nila. Maipagmamalaki naman ni Cassandra na kahit sexy image siya, wala namang private parts niya ang na-expose. Conservative pa rin ang pagpapaseksi niya. Tulad na lang nang ginawa niya sa latest edisiton ng Playboy magazine. Walang nipples at pubic hair na lumitaw sa pictorial. Chris Tiu, faithful sa Kapuso network, di lilipat sa Kapamilya station; mas pinili ang basketball, kaysa maging top executive agad ng kanilang family business Dalawang anak na babae ni Nadia ay pareho nang nasa kolehiyo. Sila’y sina Yssa, 18, at si Ynna , 17. Parehong nag-aaral ang dalawa sa Centro Escular University. Si Yssa ay kumukuha ng Dentistry, samanalang si Ynna ay Mass Communications. Ang ibang anak ni Nadia ay sina Yanna, 14, Samantha, 5, Ynaykka,13, Xander, 11, (only boy), Ysha, 3 ½, at Sophia, 2. Ang anak niyang nag-aaral sa high scholl at elementary ay lahat pumapasok sa Quezon City Montessory School. Samantalang, ang mga nasa nursery at kindergarten ay nasa Blueridge Creative Center. Cassandra Ponti, ayaw pang magpasilip ng kanyang nipples at pubic hair sa Playboy Philippiine Edition magazine Anyway, abangan sa show kung kayang magwagi ng Macapagal family ng more than P900,000 sa susunod na episode ng show. Ganyan, kabilis ang mananalo sa show. Di ka naman luhaan pagnaglaro ka sa final game. Matalo ka man, mag-uuwi ka ng P50,000 cash. Rufa Mae Quinto, ayaw nang makipagbalikan sa boyfriend na taga-Hong Kong NANG pumasyal naman kami sa set ng Bubble Gang, nasabi sa amin ni Rufa Mae Quinto na muli namang nanunuyo sa kanya ang dating boyfriend na si Bobby Lopez, na recently ay nakipagkalas sa kanya via email. Nasabi ni Rufa Mae, muli namang nag-email sa kanya si Bobby, nagsasabing nabigla lang siya sa kanyang mga isinulat sa email. NASABI na ni Chris Tiu sa isang staff ng Pinoy Records na hindinghindi niya iiwan ang Kapuso Network na nagbigay sa kanya ng big break sa paghu-host ng show sa national television. Mahal niya ang mga taong nagmamalasakit sa career niya sa GMA 7 bilang TV host. May lumabas kasing issue sa kanya na gusto raw kunin din ang serbisyon niya ng isang network para gawan din siya ng show at siya ng kanilang host. Hindi matatawaran ang naging link ng network na kumukumbinsi kay Chris, spiritual adviser pa raw ito ng basketball star turned TV host din ng Ripley’s Believe it Or Not. Anyway, nagmamabilis naman si Chris sa taping ng dalawa niyang show. May schedule trip na naman ang family niya sa Japan ngayong buwan ng November. PUMIRMA na ng kontrata si Chris Tiu sa koponan ng Happee ng Philippine Basketball League (PBL). Ibig bang sabihin noon ay hindi muna siya papasok bilang executive ng kanilang family business?. Mas pinili ni Chris ang basketball. Dapat naman dahil hit siya sa larong ito at lalo pa siyang nagiging popular. Ani Rufa Mae: “ Pag-iisipan ko munang mabuti. Gusto ko naman ngayong maging malaya. Walang commitment. Trabaho muna at pamilya ko. In fact, nga, eh, kalilipat ko lang sa bahay ng lola ko at mga kapatid. Kasi, naibenta ko na ang bahay ko kay Iza (Calzado). Ang bahay kong nabenta ay sa Acropolis. Takot naman akong mag-isa ngayon. “ Kailangan din si Chris ng Philippine Team ng basketball. Malay natin na makuha siya .Asset si Chris ng Pilipinas sa larong basketball. Remember, captain ball siya ng Ateneo Blue Eagle nang nag-champion sa UAAP ngayong taon. Aasikasuhin muna niya ang kanyang sobrang daming trabaho ngayon. May dalawang pelikula siyang tatapusin, ang Desperadas 2 at ang Civil Status: Single. Bukod pa sa may tatlong shows pa siya sa GMA 7, ang SOP, Bubble Gang at Showbiz Central. Wala muna raw soap para sa kanya. Napili ni Chris at mga kasamahan niya sa Blue Eagle Team ang Happee dahil nag-support din ang company sa kanilang team noong nakaraang UAAP basketball championship. 24 friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 Sabi ng source, maglalaro si Chris sa December pa this year sa PBL. Sadyang iniintay ang paglalaro ni Chris sa koponan dahil balita nang crowd drawer ang binata na siya ring host ng Pinoy Records at Ripley’s Believe It Or Not ng GMA 7. Dahil sa popularity ni Chris, dumami ang mga bagong commercial ng basketbolista turned TV host. Sa pagkakaalam naming ay apat na commercials ito na ipalalabas ngayong Christmas season. Aalis this week si Chris papuntang Japan. Kasama niya ang buong pamilya niya para sa isang advance Christmas vacation. Sa Monday Nov.10, may taping si Chris ng Pinoy Records, Tuesday naman ay sa Ripley’s. Nag-a-advance taping ang binatang host dahil ang balik ng buong pamilya nya sa Manila ay last week of November. Tapos, sa December ay pupunta siya sa America para magtaping ng Pinoy Records at makapanood din ang laban ni Manny Pacquiao kay Oscar dela Joya sa Dec. 7 sa Las Vegas. 25 friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 SOP, gagamitin na ang Studio 7 ng GMA 7, ang state-of-the-art studio sa Pilipinas na worth P1 Billion Polo Ravales, gustong balikan si Jean Garcia PINABULAANAN ni Polo Ravales na isa sa pinag-awayan nila ni Jean Garcia ay ang pagpayag niya sa role bilang gay lover sa movie na Walang Kawala. Nakausap nami si Polo recently ay nagsabi na hindi ang paglabas bilang gay ang pinagtalunan nila ni Jean. Bagkus, may malalim na dahilan pa ang kanilang hindi pagkakaunawaan sa ngayon at dahilan ng kanilang cool off daw. Nang nakita namin si Polo sa premiere night ng Walang Kawala sa UP Film Center ay mukha siyang di masaya Di pa rin nakakarecover sa cool off or break-up nila ni Jean. . Inamin sa press ni Polo na so far sa mga nakarelasyon niya, tanging si Jean lang kanyang ibig balikan. Di tulad noong kapag nagkahiwalay, hiwalay na talaga. Naniniwala si Polo na hindi lang sila nagkaunawaan nang husto ni Jean. Kaya naputol ang kanilang “matamis” na relasyon. Mali ang balitang nagkagalit sila ni Jean dahil sa paglabas niya ng gay role sa Walang Kawala. Ayon kay Polo, very supportive si Jean sa anumang career move na kanyang ginagawa. May romantic scenes sila rito ni Joseph Bitangcol. Hindi lang isa, kundi may limang batt ezposure si Polo sa movie. Bukod pa rito’y, may tatlong love scenes sila ni Joseph na talagang may mainip na halikan. SIMULA ngayong Sunday, Nov. 9, ay mapapanood na ang SOP mula sa state- of- the- art Studio 7 ng GMA Network Center sa Edsa.Super laking studio ang mapapanood ninyo sa TV screen. Bukod pa sa high tech lahat ang gamit na puro digital lahat. Suerte rin si Polo sa movie, may love scenes din silang dalawa ng baguhang si Althea Vega na lumabas na asawa niya sa movie. Sizzling bedscenes talaga ang kanilang romansa ditto. Ang Studio 7 ng GMA ay pinakamalaking TV studio sa Pilipinas ngayon. Iyan ang handog ng GMA sa kanilang mga tagasubaybay para mas maganda ng kanilang manood sa kanilang mga programa. Ang limang palapag na building ay matatagpuan sa tabi mismo ng main building ng GMA 7 sa EDSA. Nagkakahalaga ang building at equipments ng studios na over P1 billion. Pasado raw ang mga love scenes ang pelikula sa censors, naka-rated R. Kaya tiyak maraming bading at matrona ang pupunta sa sinehan Pati na rin ang mga kalalakihan dahil sa seksing katawan ni Athea. Ipalalabas sa Nov. 12 sa Galleria, Robinsons Ermita, Gateway, Cinerama Isettan at New Cinema Cebu. Ipinagmamalaki ni Chairman/CEO na si Atty. Felipe Gozon na ang ipinagpagawa ng building ay galing sa kita ng network. Hindi nag-loan ng GMA sa anumang bangko para mapatapos ang proyekto. Mismo si Pres. Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo ang nag-inaugurate ng building noong October 17. Kasama ni Pres. Arroyo na pumutol ng ribbon si Vice President Noli de Castro. Lani Mercado, mas piniling maging actress, kaysa maging executive ng government agency AYON kay Lani Mercado nang na-meet namin sa taping ng Saan Darating ang Umaga?, gusto ng husbang niyang si Sen. Bong Revilla na tanggapin ang offer bilang maging top officer ng isang government agency na may kinalaman sa product exhibition. Pero, mas nanaig kay Lani ang pagiging alagad ng sining. Ayaw niyang ma jeorpadize ang time niya sa taping ng Moms ng QTV 11 at excited siya sa bagong project niya sa GMA, ang soap na directed by Maryo J. delos Reyes. Ani Lani: “Di ko talaga matatanggihan si direk Maryo. Matagal ko nang hinihintay ang ganitong role. Bakti ko pa ipagpapalita sa iba. Naunawaan naman ako ni Bong. Supportive din naman siya sa akin.” Anyway, si Bong ay may isan TV show, ang Kap’s Amazing Stories na mapapanood tuwing Sunday pagkatapos ng Showbiz Central. Abangan ang mga nakakakilabot na experience ng tao na maliligtasan si kamatayan. Sasagutin ni Bong sa Kap’s ang mga katanungang sumusunod sa kanyang programa: 26 Jennylyn Mercado, bukas ang pintuan kay Mark Herras kung liligawan siyang muli ng binata BUKAS ang pintuan ni Jennylyn Mercado kung gusto muling mangligaw si Mark Herras sa kanya. Tutal naman ay magkaibigan silang dalawa ngayon. Walang hadlang dahil burado na sa isip niya si Patrick Garcia. Pero, sa parte ni Jen, mas gusto niyang atupagin ngayon ang pagbabalik-aktibo niya sa showbiz. Marami siyang na-miss. Tulad na lang nang nagtaping sila ni Mark ng episode ng Dear Friend na huling linggo ngayong Sunday mapapanood, ay nagkakahiyaan pa sila ni Mark sa kanilang love scenes. Polo Ravales, huling gay movie ang pelikuang Walang Kawala TUWIRANG ipinahayag ni Polo Ravales pagkatapos ng premiere night ng Walang Kawala sa UP Film Center na huling gay role na niya itong gagawin. Kasi, bago niya tinanggap ang project ay kinausap muna niya ang kanyang mga kapatid at parents. Ani Polo: “Ginawa ko ang movie dahil sa nagandahan ako sa script, bukod pa na si Joel Lamangan ang director ng movie. Alam ko namang mapapabuti ang acting ko sa movie kapag si direk Joel ang humawak. Parang hamon na rin sa akin ang role. Ngayon ko lang kasi gagawin ito.” Medyo, nanibago rin si Jen sa pag-arte. Kaya naman super alalay nang husto si Mark sa kanya. May limang butt exposure si Polo sa movie, bukod pa sa may kissing scenes siya kina Joseph Bitangcol at Emilio Garcia. Malinis ang pagkakagawa ng pelikula. Talagang may mensahe ito na mauunawaan ng lahat. Kahit indie film ito, pang-award ang pagkakagawa ni direk Joel. Maganda ang love story ng Puntod episode ng Dear Friend. Parehong namatayan silang dalawa na nagkita sa sementeryo. This week episode ay lalabas si Ryza Cenon. Ang makakarelason ni Mark sa istorya habang cool off sila ni Jen. Kasama rin sa movie sina Jean Garcia at baguhang si Althea Vega. Mapapanood ang movie sa simula sa November 12 sa Robinson’s Galleria at Ermita, Gateway at Isettan Recto Cinemas. friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 27 friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 Hong Kong Overseas Filipino Tennis Association (HOFTA) 1st Anniversary by Violy C. Pascual spread unity, true essence of sportsmanship in and out of the court and the association. For the last 5 months, HOFTA was able to organize 6 tournaments. All players Surviving a year of trials, HOFTA family with friends cheerfully had a blast during their 1st anniversary celebration on October 26, at Wong Nai Chung Gap Tennis Court. are winners as the game itself already is a healthy exercise. It’s aim is to foster friendly competition, binding among the members is to strengthen their teamwork as a group. The Anniversary Cup Tournament was held earlier at Bowen Tennis Court wherein Choy Elvinia and Gina Aviles were named champions, while Rey Flores and Janine Salonga were runners-up for the mixed doubles. The group acknowledged and were very thankful to SIKAP group, headed by Rey Vital, for the full support given to them. The next target of HOFTA is to share tennis to other OFWs in Hong Kong. The idea that tennis is only for the rich and famous makes Bong smile, as he believes it’s for everyone. This notion is accepted as a challenge which pushes the group to move on, stronger and firm, Melanie Casas mentioned. Bong Arzadon, HOFTA President is being more aggressive to promote their objectives; to For anyone interested to join, please contact: Bong 60550319, Melanie 92258504, Gigi Alejandro, Maribel Octa, Orlando Abalos. notes from Vancouver, Canada Labatt Bernie Julve Bacolod kampeon sa paliga ng Bayanihan ni April Joy Sa halos tatlong buwang paglalalaro na inorganisa ng Bayanihan ay tinanghal na kampeon ang Bacolod team sa larong basketball sa ginanap na awarding ceremony noong Oktubre 19 dahil sa nakuha nilang 12 panalo at walang talo, laban sa anim pang mga grupong lumahok sa nasabing palaro. Pumangalawa naman ang New York Life na nagtala ng 7 panalo at 5 talo na sinundan ng Corpsun CPL. Ang mythical 5 ay binubuo nila: Nadz Lozada (Bacolod), Grace Aguillon (MG Dribblres), Erwin Rasonabe (New York life), Shane Atluna (Corpsun) at ni Shalyn Abay (Bacolod).Ang mga mahuhusay na manlalaro naman ay nag uwi rin ng kanilang medalya at sila ay sina:Vic Igamen (Astig), Pilar Rara (Bacolod), Beskie Lacapen (7-Pares), Miles Luga (Corpsun) Andy Cadiente (MG Dribblers) at Malicia Mok (New York Life). Ang iba pang mga awards na ibinahagi ay ang mga sumusunod: Malicia Mok - best in assist, Miles Luga - best in 3 points, Gemma Elumba - top scorer, Grace Aguillon - best blocker, Lett Jandug - defensive player, Gemma Mabalod sports woman of the year, at si Jynnz Sabando ang tinanghal na best player sa ginanap na friendship game noong Setyembre 28 na kung saan ang mga “bench warmers” ay nabigyan ng pagkakataong ipakita ang kanilang galing sa paglalaro ng basketball. Ang pambato ng Bacolod na si Nadz lozada ang nag uwi ng medalya para sa MVP. World Wide Basketball Tournament / HK Cageballers Liga ng mga (pa) Star Results: Meeeting with the Filipino community in Winnipeg, Manitoba With Consul Shirley Banquicio during our meeting in Ottawa. Shirley used to be consul in Hong Kong Green 99 - 88 Gray Green 95 - 87 Red - BB Bros Yellow 95 - 94 Black - Warriors Blue - Western 111 - 88 White - PCG HK Gray 101 - 100 Red - BB Bros Yellow 81 - 78 Green (Game stopped) White - PCG-HK 96 vs. 86 Black Warriors Blue - Western Boys 67 vs. 63 Red - BB Bros Official Team Standings as of Nov 5, 2008 Meeting with Filipino nurses in Montreal 28 Opening of POLO-Vancouver with Fr. Mario doing the blessings Team Blue - Western Green Yellow White - PCG HK Gray Black Red - BB Bros W 3 2 1 1 1 0 0 L 0 0 0 1 2 2 3 PCT 1.000 1.000 0.500 0.500 0.000 0.000 0.000 featured Poems Ink by Ruel Y. Quezon My heart is a purple eggplant It sits deep and dark Pulsating like a dream you can hold in your hand Smooth, warm, and whispering Look deep enough and you can see My blood is streaked with ribbons of lime and patchouli And the purest black ink And if you look even deeper When the sun hits me in just the right way . . . I am completely transparent And devoid of all that is tangible and able to be contained For that moment Even if you can’t hold me I can hold you A heartbeat later I am whole and solid My thoughts now opaque Already the memory is only wisps of song Kissing my ears and encircling my head Parang Kailan Lang... ni Marleth from TITA Jean kung tawagin ka sa paaralan Jing-Jing naman kung tawagin ka ng karamihan Taba tsing-tsing ka nuon kung ika’y turingan Dahil sa mg taba mong naglalawitan, Sadyang nakatutuwa kang pagmasdan. Nuon ngipin mo’y bungi-bungi Ilong mo’y laging madumi Kilay mo’y ubod ng lago Pisngi mo’y tila lobo Leeg mong doble-doble,nag-aalugan Sa tuwing ika’y tumatakbo. Subali’t ngayo’y marami ng nagbago Sa anyo mo’t pagkatao Mukha mo ngayo’y ubod ng ganda Naglaho rin lahat ng mga taba nya Mga kilay mo ngayo’y hinaharvest mo na At ngipin mo ngayo’y may bakal pa Pati labi mo’y laging mapupula. Naglaho man ngayon ang dati mong itsura Maganda mong ugali di naman nabura Malambing, mapagmahal,masunurin Mabait at sa kapwa’y matulungin Lalo na sa sariling pamilya Kaya buong angkan “mahal ka”. Nakakatuwang isipin na ang Batang musmos nuon na aking inalagaan Na palaging nauuntog sa kalikutan Kaya ako madalas napapagalitan Ay lalaki ng ganyan-ganyan na lamang Hay..buhay nga naman..parang kailan lang. Maligayang kaarawan Borge!!! PINOY, TAO KA BA? ni Analiza D.Cagampang Saan ka man mapalingon? Mapakanan o mapakaliwa, Mapaharap o sa likuran Makikita mo Pino’y paro’ot parito. kahit saan sulok ng Hongkong. Ngunit nakapagtataka, pinoy ka ba/ Di mo alintana na kapwa Pilipino Ay di magkaturingan, walang galak na makikita May iba nagsusuplada, minsan nakataas pa ang kilay. PInoy, tao ka ba? Kapag baguhan ka, maraming babala! mag-ingat sa kapwa Pinoy. Huwag magpagamit, huwag magpaloko. Ganito na ba kapangit ang ugaling Pinoy? Kanino ka pa magtiwala? Pinoy! makinig ka sa kapwa mo, Bahay at lupa isinanla,utang doon, utang dito,, Pangulila sa ama’t ina,,sa asawat’ anak.. Gutom at pagod inaabot... Paghihirap ay di alintana.. Hangad lamang mabigyan katuparan ang pangrap. Pero mas nakapangit pakinggan kamag-anak mo na narito, di mo mahagilap. Nagtatago, do mo matawagan. Natatakot madamay sa oras ng kagitpitan. Hiling mo lang ay makita at magkamustahan. Residence Filipino daw kung tawagin dito sa Hongkong. Pag kumikilos daig pa ang dugong bughaw. Kamag-anak ay turing alipin, Inaapi, nilalait, pinagdadamutan, Sapat na sahod ay di pa maibigay. Pinoy, tao ka ba? Mababang lipad pangoverseas na! Mabini sa Pinas, sa Wancahi matatagpuan. Amerikano, British, Chinese at iba pa, Tinging sa Pinoy ay putik, mababang uri, Masisisi mo ba sila? Kabayan, kapatid, kapuso, kapamilya! Huwag ipawalang bahala pangaral ni Ina, Sikaping mabuhay ng tama sa mata ng tao at higit sa lahat sa mata ng Diyos. Lagi mong isipin may nakamasid. Sabi nga sa kanta, God is watching us from a distance. A Poem for Myrine... by Sheryl I wonder where it started all I wonder when I could hardly recall Ang recepi ng friendship nating dalawa Parang kailan lang, kaytagal na pala We started with a pinch of smile A slice of hello then we chat for a while Isang drop ng kindness we’ve added it then The we cooked our friendship, there we become friends We don’t care if sometimes life would taste bitter Or if good chances will passed and melt like a butter Sa recepi ng friendship di man always good ang timpla Just blend it whole heartedly, sumasarap ang lasa Add it with spice, wag lang sobrang anghang Or even it would be, milk of love idagdag lang Kung mapaalat man, or too sweet it will taste Don’t throw our friendship, nothing we should waste Medium rare, overdone Orserve it raw Masarap pa rin yan, Kahit anong ihain mo It’s the thought of Friendship that really matters, You shake it, you beat it, it will not shatter Cause we know that our friendship is cook for real Tastes may differ, but we’ll treasure it, that’s a deal! The Forex Broker by Ruel Y. Quezon it sings it laughs it cries when stocks not on rise it blows it shows when graph is not nice it drinks it eats but do not sleep it absorbs it creates when forex has good rates some should call it him or her respect should be thrown into them but never treated good when bad things happen always treated as a thing when loosing begin Want to get your poems published? Share it with us. You just might see your literary creation on this page. Send all your poems by email to editorial@friends-intl-mag.com friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 29 friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 Laugh Lines . . . KALABAW SA PUNO (na siege ang malacanang ng mga sundalo na nag kudeta, kaya kailangan tumakas ni GMA,FVR at siyempre ni ERAP) GMA:tara takbo na bilis bago nila tayo makita. FVR:ayun! doon tayu sa rooftop.bilis! ERAP:tara! (nang makarating na sa roof top) GMA:eto ang gagawin natin, tatalon tayu doon sa puno at dahan2x bababa at tatakas. FVR:cge wala na tayong choice. ERAP:cge isa isa lang. (tumalon si GMA sa puno at gumalaw ang mga dahon) MGA SUNDALO: ano yun!? GMA: meoooow, meoooow.. MGA SUNDALO: ah..pusa lang pala.. (sumunod si FVR at gumalaw ang mga dahon) MGA SUNDALO: ano yun!? FVR: tweet, tweet, tweet ,tweet.. MGA SUNDALO: ah ibon, ibon lang pala.. (sumesenyas na sila GMA at FVR kay ERAP na tumalon na) (tumalon si ERAP nang mabilis sabay galaw ng mga dahon) MGA SUNDALO: ano yun?! ERAP:MOOO, MOOO, MOOOO MGA SUNDALO: kalabaw?sa taas nang puno? paputukan!!! ASENSADO NA LOLA: Palimos po. GIRL: uhm.. lola bkit po dalawa lata nyo.? LOLA: Ineng, umaasenso din nman tayo.... awa ng Dyos, eto nakapagbukas na ako ng isa pang branch. WHITE PAPER Nagpasa si Sonny ng blangkong papel sa Art teacher niya… Titser: Bakit blangko ang ipinasa mo? Sonny: Nag-drawing po ako ng baka at damo. Titser: (tiningnan ang papel) Nasaan ang damo? Sonny: Naubos na po. Kinain ng baka. Titser: (napakamot sa ulo) Eh, nasaan 30 ang baka? Sonny: Ano pa po ang gagawin ng baka d’yan eh wala nang damo? Siyempre, umalis na po. Common sense po, Ma’am! USE IN A SENTENCE TITSER: Use ANYHOW and ANYONE in a sentence. PACMAN: Huy, Pidru! Bakit mo kinain ang ANYHOW na manuk na ANYONE ko d’yan sa misa para kay Jengkeh?! 5 YEARS NA ANG NAKALIPAS Misis: Walanghiya ka! Nabalitaan ko na meron kang kulasisi na 18 anyos! Mister: Ah, ‘yun ba? Sobrang luma na ang balita mo. Misis: Bakit?! Mister: 23 na siya ngayon! DOKTOR AT PASYENTE Pasyente visit a doctor for a check up. Doctor: anong problema? Pasyente:paki-check lang po itong “ari” ko. Doctor: Ok,hubo’ para makita.. Nang makita “ito” ng doctor,napatawa ng malakas ang doctor,dahil singlaki lang ito ng AAA size na battery. Pasyente:nasaan po yong code of ethics nyo.di dapat pagtawan ang isang pasyente. Doctor(try to recover):Sori,di na maulit. Anong problema? Pasyente: Ito nga po,”namamaga” STRANDED May isang lalaking na-stranded sa isla. Isang araw, may nakita siyang barko na palapit sa isla. Maya-maya, may umahon na seksing babaeng naka suot ng Scuba/ Wet Suit. Lapit agad ang lalaki kaya nagtanong ang bebot. Babae: Ilang taon na ba na walang kang sigarilyo dito sa isla? Lalaki: “Mahigit na 10 taon.” Binuksan ng babae ang kaliwang pocket ng Suit, kinuha ang 1 kahang yosi at binigay ito sa lalaki. Ang bilis magsindi at ang sabi: “Naku ang sarap talaga!” Biro mo, mahigit na 10 taon na rin ako na walang sigarilyo!” Babae: Ilang taon na di ka uminom ng alak?” Lalaki: Mga 10 taon na rin. Ilang saglit lang, binuksan ng Babae ang kanang bulsa ng Suit. Inalis ang isang mamahaling alak at inabot sa lalaki. Ang bilis uminom ng lalaki at halos maubos ang laman ng botelya. Lalaki: “Ang sarap, lalung-lalo na pag di ka nakatikim ng isang bagay ng matagal!” Lumipas ang ilang minuto, nakita niyang binukbuksan ng babae ang mahabang zipper sa harapan ng wet suit at sabay na pabulong sa teynga ng lalaki, “Ilang taon na bang di ka nagkaroon ng kaligayahan?” Lalaki: “Naku po, huwag mong sabihin na may dala kang Golf Club diyan sa wet suit!” CHOCOLATE Isang pasaherong matandang babae ang tumapik sa likod ng driver at saka inaabot ang limang pirasong almond, na kinuha ng driver at malugod niyang kinain. Makalipas ang 15 minuto, muli ay tinapik ang driver ng matandang babae at iniabot ang 10 piraso ng almond. Muli, tinanggap ang mga iyon ng driver at malugod niyang kinain. Hindi nakatiis ang driver na magtanong sa matandang babae, “Bakit ninyo ibinibigay sa akin ang mga almond? Bakit hindi ninyo kainin?” “Wala kasi akong ngipin,” sagot ng matandang babae. “Eh bakit pa kayo bumili niyan?” nagtatakang tanong muli ng driver. 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Shop 350 3/F Mang Ambo Shop 358 3/F Elegant Collections Bayanihan Kennedy Town Centre 55 Victoria Road Kennedy Town Benzon Wine Shop 3 G/F Yee Fat Mansion Shim Woo Road, Happy Valley Filipino Trading Co. 5/F Fai Man Bldg. 9- 13 Li Yuen St. West Central Filmart 1 G 52 G/F, 7 Seas Shopping Center 121 King Road, Fortress Hill Filmart 2 Shop 69 A,B,& C G/F City Garden, Shopping Center Blk 13 , 231- 233 Electric Road, North Point Filipino Mart C1 G/F Garland House 14A 14C North Point H & I Philippine Product Store Shop 179-B Nan Fung Plaza Tseung Kwan O, N.T. JEM Employment Agency Room 802 8/F Yat Fat Bldg. 44-46 Des Vouex Road Central JEM Merchandise 15, 4/F Li Yuen St. West 2nd Alley-alley, Central LBC Hunghom Planet Square Hunghom Kowloon LBC Tsuen Wan Liksang Plaza Tseun Wan N.T LEE Trading Co. Shop 279, 2/F Liksang Plaza Tsuen Wan, N.T. 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T Sikatz Philippine Product Store 1 & 2 1/F Liksang Plaza, Tsuen Wan, N.T. and Mei Foo Sun Chuen Macau Asia Pac Cargo Macau 42 Rua Da Alfandega San Malou Macau S.A.R Tel. 932610, 930443 Tel True Ltd. 1/F Lap Fai Bldg Pottinger St. Central Uniwide Hang Hau Tseung Kwan O Tel. 3194 5366 Uniwide Hunghom Planet Square Novo Ecijano Macau Heidi – 6616 5191 Super Ace Cargo Macau 82 Rua Da Alfandega, Edificio Veng Leong Macau Tel 2893 9473 Uniwide Laguna Arcade Kowloon City Tel. 2772 1829 Uniwide Maon Shan Tel: 2631 5977 Uniwide Shatin Tel. 2362 7925 Uniwide Tai Po Tel. 2650- 1283 Nopt-Hk Elects New Set of Officers by April Joy The National Organization of Professional Teachers (NOPT) has elected it’s new set of offficers for 2008. The top three officers from each region were qualified to vote for the Executive positions on September 21, 2008 at the Bayanihan Kennedy Town Center. Those elected teachers will serve NOPT-HK for two years. The elected officers were: President Vice President Internal Secretary Tresurer Asst.Treasurer Auditor Sports Coordinator Asst.Sports Coordinators Secretariats Assistant Coordinator Assistant Lolit Brana Susie Calaycay Venus Orgil Litty Abuan Asteria Timoguing Maureen Tegui-in Celeste Ocampo Emma Reyes Gemma Berunio Gemma Lauraya Minerva Corpuz Josie Manjares Analisa Aquino Antonio Mendoza Loralyn Cea NOPT-HK will celebrate it’s 8th year anniversary on November16, 2008 at Grappas Cellar restaurant. For more inquiries about NOPT, please email nopthk@yahoo.com. friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 31 friends International Magazine novemBER 2008 Rayakan Lebaran, Pilar-Atki Menggelar Berbagai Perlombaan Untuk Bmi by Adepunk menggelar berbagai perlombaan. Setelah melewati penilaian yang sangat panjang dan melelahkan, akhirnya dewan juri memutuskan siapakah para pemenangnya. LOMBA MERIAS TENDA: Juara 1. ALEXA Dancer Juara 2. Majelis Muslim Meifoo (M3) Juara 3. Wanodya LOMBA BUSANA ADAT: Juara 1. TERALI Dancer Juara 2. BALINES Dancer Juara 3. DIF Dancer Bertempat dilapangan rumput Viktoria Causeway Bay, PILAR (Persatuan BMI Tolak Over Charging) yang tergabung dalam ATKI (Association Tenaga Kerja Indonesia) pada Minggu, (12/10/08) menggelar berbagai perlombaan. Diantaranya, lomba merias tenda, lomba peragaan busana muslim dan busana adat. Bahkan dari sponsor Western Union, juga mengadakan lomba gubahan lagu ala Western Union. Acara tersebut diadakan dengan tujuan PCADE “Tinikling Chapter” The Philippine Cultural Academy Dance Ensemble (PCADE) has existed for quite some few years now. It is spearheaded by Mr. Pieter Nootenboom. Sir Pieter, as they called him is not a Filipino by blood but truly a Filipino by heart, he’s the founder of the “PCADE and co founder Philippine Cultural Academy (PCA) in 2003.” The PCADE main objective is to “Uplift The Image Of The Filipino People Through The Community At Large.” Its purpose is to preserve the Originality of the traditional Philippine Folk Dances and Music. They are also allowed to perform some modern dances in dignify way. Different associations from all over the Philippines comprise the PCADE. “We may come from different regions, speak in different tongues, different practices and beliefs but we all have one in common; we are all Filipino by blood and by heart and we’re here in Hong Kong for different reasons, to earn and to make life worth living while we’re apart from our dear love ones.” In PCADE we only not discovered 32 memperingati Hari Raya Idul Fitri, 14219 H yang jatuh pada tgl 1 Oktober 2008. Dari berbagai grup BMI yang mengikuti acara perlombaan tersebut berjumlah 25 grup. Masing-masing grup juga mengirimkan anggotanya untuk mengikuti lomba busana muslim dan adat. Dan untuk Western Union sendiri mengambil 10 grup untuk mengikuti lomba gubahan lagu. Suasana lapangan rumput viktorya penuh sesak dengan para BMI yang juga memperingati hari raya Idul Fitri yang kebetulan jatuh pada hari libur para Buruh Migran Indonesia. Terlihat kebahagiaan terpancar jelas dari para BMI yang mengikuti lomba bahkan para penonton yang datang dan menyaksilkan para BMI unjuk kebolehan. Tenda-tenda ditengah lapangan rumput yang semula hanya berbentuk tenda biasa, ditangan para BMI kreatif disulap menjadi tenda yang indah dan penuh pernik-pernik. Nuansa lebaran sangat terasa jika berada ditengah-tengah para BMI yang sedang merayakan Idul Fitri dengan LOMBA BUSANA MUSLIM: Juara 1. Majelis Muslim Meifoo (M3) Juara 2. Zaqiya Juara 3. CK’Funky Dancer Pemenang Favorit: Majelis Muslim Meifoo (M3) LOMBA GUBAHAN LAGU: Juara 1. ATKI Juara 2. DIF Dancer Juara 3. CK’Funky Dancer the beauty of friendship but the real beauty of our Cultural Heritage presented by different ethnic minority from the Philippines, a country of warm and vivacious smile and the most caring and friendliest people in South East Asia. Well known as the “Pearl of the Orient.” Aside from Folk dances, the group can also do modern dances. Being cultural doesn’t mean they can’t do the rave. Modern Filipino and so are they are flexible, smart and strong-willed but with dignity, at the same time soft-spoken and refined. Fabulous! A truly Modern Day Maria Clara. The ”PCADE Tinikling Chapter” Headed by the ever-energetic Marie Velarde is one of the many sub-chapters under PCADE. The members despite their differences indulge their time to learn and perform different dances together during their Sunday’s off. “We are just like sisters here, we all mingle”, one of the members said. The group has graced many different programs and they actively participate in the Hong Kong Flower Show held every March. The PCADE Chapter will also perform on the “Knights of Rizal” Booth in the 2009 LCSD annual Hong Kong Flower Show in Causeway Bay. As the name ”PCADE Tinikling Chapter” implies, the group performs the famous bamboo dance “Tinikling” (Philippine’s national dance) where the dancers are in their baro’t-saya, would gleefully skip with profound grace and care preventing the feet not to be caught in between the bamboo poles being held at both ends and clapped together. Performing the Tinikling looks easy, but it never is. Especially for the first few tries but once you have mastered your skipping skills, you’ll be fine and you’ll be jumping your heart out. It is one dance that will always be alive and everyone must brave and try. The pains taking effort would be worthwhile. H ORO S C O P E Scorpio (Oct 24 – Nov 22) You may be moved to appreciate and discover the beauty in your life and in those around you. At the same time, everything could take on added value. Be careful that you do not overspend or indulge too much just now. Travel and other contacts with faraway people come to your attention and have possibilities this winter. Such things bring love and gain in one way or another. Higher education or philosophical/religious contacts could have a part in making good things happen. Family, home, relatives and real estate will all be a part of the positive changes in your life. You have a keen interest in what makes things tick and who, or what pulls the strings. With your knowledge and skills, you figure out ways to make your nest egg grow. Lucky Number: 11, 12, 36, 8 and 9; Lucky Color: Orange give you the resources and encouragement you need. Consider a long term volunteer opportunity: It might finally be time to take that step. Lucky Numbers: 40, 28, 32, 34, 17 & 6 ; Lucky Color: Blue not careful. Lucky Numbers : 34 , 18, 3, 22, 12 & 46. Lucky Color: Maroon Taurus: (Apr 19- May 20)Slowing down might not feel comfortable right now, but it is the right thing to do. The intense energy you put out today shouldn’t be directed at solving problems or putting out fires. Instead, direct it solely at reducing the level of commitment in your life! Lucky Numbers: 15, 2, 24, 34, 39 & 5 ; Lucky Color: Yellow Sagitarius (Nov 23 – Dec 21) The smallest details of this day will be like blinking neon signs for you -- that’s how powerful your observation skills will be. This means it’s a great day for negotiations! You’ll be able to read the other person’s body language like it’s an open book. And you’ll be able to sense how close their offer is to what they are really capable of giving you. Lucky Numbers : 1, 26, 28, 11, 24, 9. Lucky Color: Peach Virgo (Aug 23 – Sep 22) This is a good day to get things done. Good eye-hand coordination and a sustained effort make almost any task run well. Today you will be able to tackle tasks that require real discipline or organization. You find yourself in a very practical mood and working with, instead of against, yourself. You have a yearning to move toward the more challenging issues now. Lucky Numbers: 13, 8, 27, 18, 2 & 14; Lucky Color: Red Libra (Sep 23 – Oct 23) Today will have its fair share of drama going on, and you are probably going to be a featured player -- luckily, it’s likely that you will be the hero in the story, not the suffering and helpless victim! Someone will trust you with a very valuable secret, and while keeping it might not be easy, it will be a blast knowing that you know something no one else knows! Tonight, you’ll find a neutral person -share your secret in this one-on-one conversation only if you know it’s safe! Lucky Numbers : 3, 16, 23, 21, 35 & 8 Lucky Color: Pink Capricorn (Dec 21 – Jan 19) The new people you meet today hold a lot of opportunities for you, but keep in mind that there is more to them than meets the eye. People are very different on the inside than their appearances may lead you to believe, especially right now, when they are on their best behavior. If you make any assumptions about their beliefs, you should keep them to yourself, or risk offending someone. For safety’s sake, wait until you know them better before sharing your opinions. Lucky Numbers: 1, 31 , 23, 37, 24, & 44; Lucky Color: Peach Leo (Jul 23 – Aug 22) People will be projecting their own issues onto you, today -- so don’t listen to those people who are pointing out your faults. They’re either jealous of you or worried that they themselves are failing. It seems like everyone has issues right now, and their insecurities could start to get on your nerves. Before you lose your temper and tell them off, it’s best to go off by yourself and be alone. You can’t let yourself get caught up in feeding the egos of other people. Lucky Numbers: 8, 17, 19 1, 46, 20, & 32; Lucky Color: Green Aries: (Mar 21 – Apr 19) Try to be the person who takes on the more passive role in today’s activities. This is not the greatest time for heavy action for you -- in fact, it is quite the opposite! Let someone else call the shots for a while and see how it feels. You might find that you like it quite a bit! You shouldn’t let anyone boss you around, but there is no reason to feel threatened if someone else has better ideas than you do. Your ego can handle it, and your energy level will be invigorated by it. Lucky Numbers: 36, 45, 9 , 34 , 17 & 43. Lucky Color: Green Aquarius (Jan 20 – Feb 18) Changes in life are inevitable. How you deal with them determines your level of stress. When you are flexible with unexpected obstacles it’s easier to deal with what fate has in store. Take a deep breath and move forward with confidence. Lucky Numbers: 16, 21, 18, 9, 23, & 29.: Lucky Color: Brown Cancer (Jun 22 – Jul 22) Help yourself today by helping others! Not only will the gratitude you receive from the people you aid lift your spirits, but it will inspire you to do bigger and even better things for the world at large! Now is the right time to move forward with big plans. People who have power will be receptive to your ideas, and they will be willing to Gemini (May 21 – Jun 21) Music is likely to play a more important role for you this Sunday morning. Some of you have the music writing talent--why not give it a try? There is tremendous psychological growth--which can lead to great personal success this Monday; if you follow through with it. You might also find that you will put on the pounds if you are Mind Games Krosword by Kuya Willy Anagrams Rearrange the letters to reveal famous landmarks. The (clues) - where they are located - will help you guess the correct answers. 1 LACK PARTNER (New York) ________ ____ 2 SAGA RAINFALL (Canada) ______ _____ 3 MYSTIFY PAGE DROP (Egypt) ________ __ _____ Last Month’s Answers: 1. Shakespeare 2. Michelangelo 3. Bonaparte A B C D E F A G E H I F O J K L E M X N O P R Q T N D T A D L S R 2 L R R H N O T N I L C L L I B T P 3 E E O S E W H W D G I Y C R E H H B N U 1 For those who would like to join the PCADE Tinikling Chapter, please contact: Marie Velarde 9334-4721. Warlita Poecelain 6441-7201. ... alamin ang iyong kapalaran D 4 V T F N O R G L N R N G O E 5 E R D G A T J Y E D M W O A R N A 6 S A L L R L R S O D R R E B E E N 7 O C A L B R D N R L W A L I N J A 8 O Y R A C T J R G W E A S I T O L G W 9 R M E E O R G E H B U H H U 10 N M G U H G B N W A O I O Y L N N 11 I I N N N D W L B I G D R E R K S U H 12 L J S X A R L G M A F K 13 K O N W C E W H S R N I N H A N R 14 N O X I N D R A H C I R H E U N M 15 A H A R R Y T R U M A N Y I M E M 16 R E W O H N E S I E T H G I W D T 17 F L Y D D D E U N H L O E G H Y J 18 D S A N O U O A I N T R I C D I L (I4, S) George W Bush (O2, W) Bill Clinton (D9, E) George HW Bush (B2, SE) Ronald Reagan A S (B12, N) Jimmy Carter (C10, N) Gerald Ford (L14, W) Richard Nixon (M2, SW) Lyndon Johnson E E (P7, S) John Kennedy (P16, W) Dwight Eisenhower (B15, E) Harry Truman (A17, N) Franklin Roosevelt 1 2 3 Pisces (Feb 19 – Mar 20) The most powerful motivator for you right now isn’t your ambition -it’s your emotions. 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