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Help for Children of Abuse –
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Fall Parade of Homes
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The Feeling Friends: Feelings
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75 Years of Helping Babies
Brad Bullard: New West Forsyth
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Scare Up Some Fun For
Everyone at Sciworks This
Halloween!
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Costumes, Props, and the
Imagination of a Child
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Brenner FIT Teams up with the
YMCA to Tackle Obesity
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October 2013
Fall y’all! It’s that wonderful time of year with perfect
temps and beautiful fall flowers. The Dixie Classic Fair is
in town and fall festivals abound! I don’t enjoy the fair in the same way I
used to, but it’s still a must event for me. Hope to see you there Wednesday
night, October 9th. It’s Lowe’s Foods night and you can get in free with a
donation of five Lowe’s Foods brand items (see calendar on pg. 57)—not to
mention the amazing FREE Mandisa
concert brought to us by WBFJ!
Happy
This October, I’ll be celebrating
another wonderful milestone.
25 years of marriage to the love
of my life! I must say I feel
incredibly fortunate and proud at
the same time to be able to make
this claim! Even in the best of
relationships, marriage is not always
easy. It takes work…hard work and
dedication. It takes two people working
together with common goals. There’s no room
for being selfish, and especially if kids are involved.
Our family recently lost a couple that I credit with setting a wonderful
example for us early on in our marriage. Uncle Melvin and Aunt Betty
McPeak of Wytheville, Virginia were two of the sweetest people you’d ever
meet. Their 60+ years of love for each other and for their children set the
bar high. We are both far from perfect, but I like to think we are perfect
together! So Tim, I thank you for being the perfect guy for me and can only
pray that we will be blessed with as many years together as they had!
Our October cover celebrates another very significant anniversary:
congratulations to the YMCA of Northwest NC as they celebrate their 125th
anniversary. Their presence in this town speaks for itself. If you are not
already involved with the Y, I say do yourself a favor and check it out, they
truly have something for everyone!!
Blessings!
Robin Bralley
Kids in the Kitchen
Calendar of Family Events
By Heather Spivey
important to remember fire safety prevention every day and have a plan of
action in place for your family or co-workers in case of an emergency.
Schools and businesses conduct fire drills, and you should consider doing these
things at home.
It’s
October 6–October 12 is Fire Prevention Week and is dedicated to reminding
folks how critical it is to plan and prepare, so you don’t fall victim to a fire and
devastation.
There are reminders that help keep you and your family fire-safe:
• Smoke alarms—change batteries every time you change the clock
(2x a year).
• Create an escape plan from your home, and practice it.
• Know the location of fire exits at your office or school.
• If you are in an office building or live in an apartmentand smell smoke or see
fire and don’t hear the building’s fire alarm, pull the nearest alarm.
• If there is a fire, always keep your body low.
• Remember to turn off space heaters and keep them at least 3 feet away
from anything.
• Make sure you have convenient access to your fire extinguisher and that
nothing will prevent you from getting to it in an emergency.
• Place tot-finder stickers on your bedroom windows to indicate children
are there.
Common sense can help prevent accidents from occurring. Monte Cockerham
and Kevin Shore at the Winston-Salem Fire Department’s Arbor Road Fire Station
shared some helpful reminders that are important for home and business.
“During this period leading up to the holidays, it’s important to check extension
cords to make sure they are in good condition, and to make sure that they’re able
to handle the load of lights, decorations and other devices. Many times the
combination of all of these things on a single cord or outlet may result in an
overload and a fire hazard. Also, fire extinguishers should be serviced annually,
and check those smoke detector batteries—it might just save your life.”
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Help for Children of Abuse
By Susan Woodall
child abuse have on children, their
families and society through
immediate, coordinated, childfocused services, education and
advocacy.”
should be
a time of
innocence, protected from the evils found
in society. Unfortunately, too many
children have their innocence and trust
taken from them through mental, physical
and/or sexual abuse. Though in many
cases the scars left are not physically visible, they are deep, and the healing
process takes time, compassion and therapy with trained professionals. The
lengthy process of a criminal investigation may add even more trauma to an
already fragile child and other family members. The Dragonfly House was
established to be an advocate for child victims of these heinous crimes.
Childhood
“In Japanese culture, the Dragonfly is a symbol of hope, strength and
courage—things that The Dragonfly House offers to each child of abuse,” states
The Dragonfly House website. “The Dragonfly House Children’s Advocacy
Center’s mission is to reduce the devastating long-term effects that all forms of
The concept of The Dragonfly House
began in the fall of 2009, bringing
together people from different
agencies and disciplines. The goal
was “...to make the process of
investigating child abuse in Davie
County less traumatic for the child
victim,” said Brandi Reagan, executive
director of The Dragonfly House.
A plan for a child advocacy center
soon came to fruition and grew to include Davidson County. After a few more
changes during the years, The Dragonfly House split from the domestic violence
agency, moved to a larger facility, added additional staff, increased services
offered, included Yadkin County to the service area, and became a fully
functioning non-profit organization in July of 2012.
“This work is not easy, and there are struggles and times of heartache among
each of us as we see the pain and suffering of our most innocent beings,” said
Reagan. “In order for us to be successful, we need a strong and dedicated team
of professionals who have the best interests of children at heart and who are
committed to work together in support of each other and in support of the
system that has been put in place to protect our children. As we face increasing
numbers of abuse allegations, we strive to continue improving ourselves and our
services, to always be the best for the families we serve."
The Dragonfly House offers a broad spectrum of services and works with boys
and girls from birth to age 17 who have disclosed abuse or where physical,
sexual or mental abuse or neglect are suspected. Aid has also been provided to
children who have witnessed a violent crime. Some of the services provided by
The Dragonfly House include: forensic interviews; medical examinations
(certified child abuse examinations); family and child advocacy; mental health
treatment; coordinated care and case services; community outreach; and multidisciplinary team development and case review. The Dragonfly House is
committed to being involved for the life of the case and sometimes beyond, as
warranted by therapy treatment. All services are offered free of charge as long
as the child needs help.
As a non-profit and with government funding through grants always subject to
cutbacks, the need for donations and community support for this extremely vital
agency is needed. Not only monetary gifts, but other items are always
appreciated. “Every child that receives a medical exam gets a blanket and T-shirt
to wear during the exam that they get to keep (thus eliminating the need for paper
gowns and disposable sheets),” said Reagan. “We also offer snacks and juice to
all of the children that come into our office for services or for therapy. There are
various household supplies we need just in daily operation, [such as] blankets,
individually wrapped snacks and Capri suns, Lysol/Clorox wipes, toilet paper,
Swiffer cloths (dry and wet), hand sanitizer, etc. We try to update our website as
we know we are in need of items. [Also], we are in need of nurses as volunteers
to assist our physician during medical exams two days per week, [and] we need
volunteers who are interested in helping us execute our fundraising events.”
The Dragonfly House will hold three fundraising events this year along with its
annual letter/pledge campaign. The “Bake a Difference” 1st Annual Baking
Competition to benefit The Dragonfly House will be held November 16th at
Twelve West Main in Thomasville from 1–3 p.m. and is open to bakers and the
general public.
The need is great, and the statistics are frightening—one in four girls and one in
six boys is sexually abused by his or her 18th birthday. The median age for
reported sexual abuse is nine years old. As many as 60% are abused by people
the family trusts. Most child
For more information on
victims never report their abuse.
The Dragonfly House’s services,
As The Dragonfly House says,
to make a donation, or to
“It shouldn’t hurt
volunteer, please visit the website
to be a child.”
ENJOY FALL FOLIAGE AND PUMPKIN PICKING!
Departing at scheduled times from the
stables parking lot, tractor-driven rides to
the pumpkin patch and back last around
45 to 60 minutes and accommodate
about 25 to 30 guests. For groups
of 6 to 10 guests, ask about our
horse-drawn wagon rides.
person, or $175 to schedule
$8 per
a private hay ride for your group.
at www.thedragonflyhouse.com,
or call 336.753.6155.
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Fall
is
upon us, and just like
the explosion of color
bursting into nature, the same
is happening in hair color trends
for the new fall season.
In September 2013, salon owner
Jennifer Hutchins of Irvin Roberts
Salon & Day Spa attended the Behind the
Chair Color 2013 show with some of her
staff members. The convention, held in
Nashville TN, hosted 2000 participants for an
exclusive three-day hair color conference.
Attendees arriving from all over the globe were
there to watch and learn about the newest trends
in hair color placement from the top 10 elite
educators in their field. Kim Vo, Ian Michael
Black (Aveda), Christopher & Sonya Dove,
Dimitrois Tsioumas (Goldwell) were just a few
of the educators sharing the color and color
placement trends you will see making headlines
in salons all over the world.
Goldwell Hair Color took the stage first to kick
off the conference, introducing nine new looks
that clients will be sure to love. The Goldwell
artistic team unveiled cool, neutral and warm
reds, blondes and brunettes—something for
everyone.
“The brilliant shine and rich tones for fall
are amazing,” Jennifer Hutchins said.
“During the fall and winter months you
want color to be rich and saturated,
giving life back to your hair from the
pale, faded color that summer
tends to leave behind.” Color
placement is definitely
changing as we approach a
new year. Gone are the
days of stripy
highlights and
that look of “Wow, she needs her
color done!”
The trend with all the artistic teams participating
at the conference was centered on layering
multiple colors to give clients a seamless look
that creates depth and dimension.
The crowd oohed and ahhed as the hottest
applications allowed hair color to be applied
with an airbrush. Airbrush has been used for
years in the beauty industry, initially with nails,
followed by airbrush tanning and makeup. In
the new hair placement, only Goldwell Hair
Color Elumen has the correct consistency
needed to utilize the airbrush technique, giving
Goldwell elite status in this application.
Goldwell Hair Color has set the bar very high in
the hair color world.
As an Aveda Concept salon, Jennifer and her
team were thrilled to see Ian Michael Black, the
Global Artistic Director of Aveda Hair Color,
present an amazing showcase of styles and
trending looks.
THE “in” look for fall 2013 is seamless color
transition, and boy, did Aveda deliver! Vertical
highlighting will become a thing of the past. The
Aveda team took hair color to a whole new level
with the new horizontal dimension, or the
“shine-line.” Color is simply what you see,
WHEN and HOW light is reflected. The artistic
color team at Irvin Roberts Salon & Day Spa can
deliver such looks as pictured here.
After an exciting conference in Nashville with
the most elite hair color artists in the world,
Jennifer and her team are ready to transform
your hair into the kind of hair that will be sure
to turn heads—and even make a few people
jealous. Call Irvin Roberts Salon now to
schedule your reservation for November for
the newest airbrush hair color.
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Costumes, Props and the
Imagination of a Child By Lisa S.T. Doss
is the imaginative holiday where children have
the opportunity to choose who they want to be
for one night. Princesses, pirates, ladybugs, superheroes and gypsies will
flood our neighborhoods with great excitement. The children are able to
transform themselves into a thrilling role and portray that character. Who
lies behind the mask is a secret, which makes dressing up so much fun.
For parents and even grandparents, November 1st presents an opportunity
to expand the educational development of a child. The post-Halloween
sale will offer the remaining discounted costumes to either establish or
enhance your child’s dress-up closet. Costumes and props can offer an
understanding of the real world, solve problems and foster socialization
situations.
Halloween
A costume transports a child to another place where he or she can create
an environment, behave and communicate as the character would.
Portraying a pirate, a child will create a tone of voice and include specific
terms in his or her play. On the other hand, a superhero would speak with
authority, move with coordination, and treat those he or she rescues with
kindness. Self-confidence will be noted as your child actively shows
strength in climbing the mast, or leaping over tall buildings with a single
bound. Role-play uses improvisation, which requires children to have an
awareness of how various characters act and relate to others. “Both of my
boys absolutely love costumes,” shares Patricia Martin. “When they were
young, I had a costume bin in the toy room. Now, the bin has expanded
to four. Two are filled with helmets, swords and shields, which are played
with a lot. I didn’t pay much for the costumes. The best deals were found
a few days after Halloween or at yard sales. I found a Jedi cloak on
Pinterest. The boys helped me cut, pin and sew. It was a great family
project.”
Non-defined objects such as cardboard boxes or tubes, blankets, pots and
pans, and oven mitts often times serve as the most wonderful props for a
child’s imagination. A block could become an ice cream cone, a ship, or
a sandwich. This form of symbolic play helps expand a child’s abstract
thinking and problem-solving abilities. “My two-year old daughter likes
to take the laundry basket and walk around with it over her head. She
giggles when I ask, ‘Where are you?’ In her mind, she is invisible.
My four-yearold son enjoys his capes and swords, and often plays a
soldier on a mission. I love that he isn’t sitting down in front of the
television; instead, he is solving problems and communicating ideas,
especially when our neighbors come over to play,” says Charlotte Daniels.
Who are your child’s role models? Television and the interests of peers
play an important part, but so do the professions of parents and
community members. Teachers, soldiers, nurses, police officers and
grandparents are viewed as idols. Children want to take charge and be
responsible; therefore, he or she will take on many adult roles, which will
encourage a real-world understanding. It is fascinating for most parents
to watch their children engage in “playing house.” Viewpoints of job,
people within the workplace and home responsibilities are portrayed
honestly. If you have the opportunity to participate in one of your child’s
make-believe games, allow him or her to direct the action. By assisting to
expand on the story, parents are improving a child’s ability to extend his or
her viewpoints. Asking open-ended questions will allow children to
remain in control and in character. Parents can also help children act out
their fears, dreams and stories.
Whether you have a “treasure chest” or “dress-up closet,” children would
love to have a key place to find unique items such as capes and
costumes, hats and other accessories. Most likely, grandparents would
enjoy establishing their own chest of make-believe, or assist in creating or
improving her grandchild’s collection.
As adults, we remember one of the most exciting aspects of a long-ago
childhood as having the ability to dream and pretend. With little and
young people, adults find themselves sitting on the floor, rolling, crawling
and stretching. Play is hard work. Together, they can separate themselves
from technology and focus on spending an unstructured time together,
communicating and playing. The physical play will burn energy and
require either a nap or food; so, grab a few stuffed animals to join in the
celebration of an afternoon snack and juice. It’s tea party time! A beaded
necklace and hat will be wonderful props for such an important occasion.
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Brenner FIT
Teams up with
the YMCA
to Tackle
Obesity
Children’s Hospital and
the William G. White Jr.
Family YMCA are excited to announce the
opening of Brenner FIT at the YMCA. This
healthy-living education center includes a
teaching kitchen and classroom to provide
community-based programming, health
education, research and outreach to assist
families in their effort to live healthier lives.
Community members are invited to join us for
hands-on cooking classes, parenting seminars,
health and nutrition programs and much more.
Brenner
You want to be healthy… we want to help. The Brenner FIT
team is excited to meet you and help with your efforts
toward establishing healthier habits. To get involved in our
regular programming, please
visit http://www.brennerchildrens.org/Pediatric-Obesity/.
aren’t living a healthy
lifestyle.”
Together with the YMCA, Dr.
Skelton seeks to help
families become healthy and
fit. Healthy lifestyles,
For more information about Brenner FIT at the YMCA,
including fitness, nutrition
free Brenner FIT Kohl’s Family Collaborative classes, and
and balanced living, can keep
registration, please call Sara Ebbers at
diabetes, high blood
saebbers@wakehealth.edu.
“Obesity has become a national epidemic,”
pressure, high cholesterol
Dr. Skelton said. “Nearly a third of children in the
and other high-risk medical conditions at bay. Brenner FIT staff members
United States are either overweight or obese, and in some areas, nearly
specially design programs to encourage family involvement in all stages
50% of children have fallen victim to this epidemic,” he said. “Despite
of obesity prevention.
decades of research into the genetics of weight control, there isn’t one
clear answer as to why this is happening. Many changes have occurred in
This teaching facility is the result of a strong partnership between Brenner
our environment: restaurants, neighborhoods and even within our families. FIT, Wake Forest Baptist Health and Brenner Children’s Hospital, The
Simply put, we have more food around us, and most of this food is not
YMCA of Northwest North Carolina and the North West Area Health
healthy. It is easy and often quicker to pick up take-out, and we eat these
Education Center. “We dreamed of bringing research-proven obesity
foods in greater quantities. Second, we aren’t as active as we used to be.
interventions to the community,” Skelton said. “It is vital for families to
Combining more calories coming in (and those calories are not very
establish a foundation of healthy living, and for research-proven
healthy to begin with) with less calories going out, we have a perfect
information to reach families where they live, not just confined to the
storm for childhood obesity.”
doctor’s office. When I shared the Brenner FIT vision of building
relationships with our patients and families outside the walls of the
However, combating childhood obesity is not easy or simple to fix, he
hospital, our partners rallied.” Within a year, this shared vision was made
added. “This is a complex problem—there isn’t just one cause, so there
a reality. With generous private donations for the construction of the
isn’t just one solution,” Skelton said. “Much work needs to be done in
physical space, and ongoing support from “Kohl’s Cares For Kids” for
prevention, public policy, neighborhood planning, marketing of foods,
programming, Brenner FIT at the YMCA will open this October.
farm subsidies, research and education. We need healthy foods to be
cheaper. We also need schools, work places and neighborhoods to
Our programs emphasize basic principles, such as eating together as a
incorporate physical activity into everyday living.”
family, including five fruits and vegetables into meal planning, and living
active lifestyles. These basic principles are the foundation of healthy
So what can parents do? The most effective place to start is with your
living, and if learned early, increase the likelihood that children will stay fit
family, according to Dr. Skelton.
and active into adulthood, according to Dr. Skelton. To increase access to
“Most research has shown that if families decide to make changes, and
better nutrition and physical activity, the new teaching kitchen is located
make them together, they can improve their weight and health,” he said.
within the William G. White Jr. Family YMCA. This state-of-the-art
“Even if others in the family do not have a weight problem, even if no one
wellness and fitness center provides the perfect location for a communitydoes, these changes will help. Millions of people with high blood
based effort to address pediatric obesity, and the YMCA is an excellent
pressure, diabetes and heart disease are at a ‘healthy’ weight, but they
partner in this endeavor, says Dr. Skelton.
Brenner FIT is directed by Joseph A. Skelton,
M.D. M.S., a nationally recognized obesity
expert. All programming in the new education
center will be designed and taught by
Dr. Skelton’s team.
Free Brenner FIT Classes
Join the experts from Brenner Children’s Hospital for these FREE Brenner FIT Kohl’s Family
Collaborative classes. Registration is required. Unless otherwise noted, classes are held at
Brenner FIT in the William G. White Family YMCA, 775 West End Blvd., Winston-Salem.
Community Open House
Learn to Cook a Balanced Meal
Thursday, October 17, 5:30 – 7:30 pm
Tuesdays, October 22, November 5, 12,
and 19, 5:30 – 6:30 pm
We invite you to celebrate the opening of our new
teaching kitchen. Brenner FIT staff will be on hand
to answer your questions about our community
programming, and a variety of our favorite fall
recipes will be available for you to sample.
Picky Eaters
Recipe: Tomato and Shrimp Pasta
During this hands-on cooking class, your family will
prepare a balanced meal and learn how it meets
Brenner FIT recommendations for a balanced
plate. Mature children are welcome with parental
supervision.
Wednesday, October 9, 5:30 – 7 pm
Are issues such as picky eating, food variety, refusal
to eat, overeating, and portion size affecting your
relationship with your toddler or young child? Join
our dietitian and counselor for helpful tips.
My Kids Are Driving Me Crazy!
Tuesday, October 15, 6 – 7:15 pm
Topic: Encouragement vs. Praise
Tuesday, November 19, 6 – 7:15 pm
Topic: Arguing
Discover how to replace punishment with
respectful and effective tools to help bring
more joy into parenting. Each month, a different
parenting topic is discussed. Classes are taught by
certified Positive Discipline parent educators from
the Brenner FIT program.
TO REGISTER
Call 336-713-2348
or send an email to
saebbers@wakehealth.edu
FIT Meals
Wednesdays, October 23 to November 20,
5:30 – 7 pm
If you have enjoyed our basic cooking classes and
want to learn more about nutrition, sign up for FIT
Meals, an in-depth series of nutrition and cooking
classes. Each week a different topic is highlighted.
Following a discussion, you’ll prepare an easy, lowcost recipe. FIT Meals is a 5-week series; please
register only if you plan to attend all sessions.
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The View from My Section...
By A. Keith Tilley
I enjoyed soaking in the
moment as well, as it
reminded me of my much
here’s a new term I’ve heard coined recently called “Older Parent
younger days. In between my
Families.” Technically, they reference those parents that have children
reminders for him to hang on
while in their 40s or 50s. I had my first child at 37 and my second child at
tightly, I thought about how
40 years old. So I figure if I’m not in this group, I’m very close to being
nice this was. Soon he would
inducted. Interestingly enough I’ve been so busy these last fifteen years
be starting middle school
raising my boys with my wife that I never really thought that much about
and entering the notorious
being older than the typical moms and dads. Even though at school
pre-teen and teen years. If he
functions and recreational league events I do tend to be the “older” parent
was anything like his older
there, no one has ever made me feel old or out of place. I’d like to think this brother, I knew these
is because I look so young for my age; but, unfortunately, since my hair
moments would be fewer
started turning prematurely gray in my late twenties, I’ve always looked
and farther between. As
older than my real age.
children naturally progress
through these stages of
Even though my societal influences are minimal, other factors are surely
their lives, they become
more prevalent when it comes to having children later in life. The most
obvious being sheer energy. There’s no question, after you pass age 30 this more and more independent,
and subsequently have less
aspect of your life begins to diminish slowly with each passing year. This
makes it more difficult to wrestle or piggy-back your child around the house time for mom and dad. It’s unfortunate, but necessary in order for them to
grow and mature. For them it’s a time of continuous
for any considerable length of time.
“At the top of the list, I think, is that
change, both physically and in their micro world. It’s
However, despite this disadvantage, there you should have a better understanding also a time of change for mom and dad as well, when
are also advantages to being older. At the by this time of what’s most important
those precious moments of the past turn into tumultuous
top of the list, I think, is that you should in life. You know how quickly time
moments of teenage rebellion, as they struggle with
have a better understanding by this time passes, so you take every opportunity to raging hormones and the trials of learning to become
of what’s most important in life. You know appreciate each moment and milestone adults. Those days were on the horizon, I was sure, but
how quickly time passes, so you take
with your children along the way.”
for now it was a simpler time and one where he
every opportunity to appreciate each
genuinely appreciated me being there with him. And I
moment and milestone with your children along the way. One such example could truly appreciate the value of the moment as well.
took place this past summer when I took my youngest son to the park to
In conclusion, I can’t say as I mind being an “older parent,” even though
walk around and enjoy the swings. We just happened to have the park all to
I haven’t really experienced it any other way to make a reasonable
ourselves that day, and so he asked if I would swing alongside him. I
comparison. But if the current trend continues, it seems apparent there will
thought, why not, I haven’t done this in years. So we started out slowly and
be more and more of us out there. This will put an interesting spin on the
began to pick up momentum with each pendulum swing. He, of course,
term “typical family” in the years to come. I have no problem with that,
was advancing much faster than I was and began taunting me that I wasn’t
because in the end I wouldn’t change a thing.
keeping up. So the competitive nature in me became sucked into the
challenge as I began to put more energy into it. It wasn’t long before I was
swinging in tandem right alongside him. He was having a great time feeling
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each downward pass.
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October 19 pigs & pippins! harvest day at old salem, fall foods, hands-on activities for all ages
October 25 and 29 legends and lanterns tours, haunting, ghostly Halloween Twilight Tours of Old Salem
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to get them to move in the desired direction. But
Invisalign treatment allows you to eat any foods
during treatment (traditional braces have many
food restrictions), make it easier to brush and
floss without additional equipment and you also
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Introduces New Invisalign iTero Scanner
morning sickness, and she thought it was a breeze
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By Meghan E.W. Corbett
of the best ways to judge the quality of
any business is to pay attention to how
that business evolves with the changing needs
and/or wants of its customers. Some businesses
ignore the changing demand and eventually go
out of business, while others work
hard to remain in front of the newest
trends, techniques and technology.
One local business that is successfully
providing the newest in dental
technology is Salem Smiles
Orthodontics.
One
Salem Smiles recently introduced a
new Invisalign iTero scanner for those
patients interested in this less-invasive
form of teeth straightening. “Invisalign
treatment has improved drastically in
the last five years, adding the use of
digital models and scans to make
more accurate aligners,” said Owner
Dr. Sarah Shoaf. “By using the iTero
scanner, we can send all the
information to start an Invisalign case
digitally via the web, so we don’t have
to worry about models being lost in
the mail, or the transit time to get the
models to the Invisalign office to begin
work on the case. Instead of 30–35
days from the time of the records
until the start of the case, we
can now have cases begin
in two weeks. The
accuracy of the scan is
also much better than
an impression, so the
resulting aligners fit
better and allow the teeth
to move more quickly.
Besides the fast turn-around
time for Invisalign, the scanner is also a lifesaver
for those patients who have a tendency to gag with
impressions. The wand is used just over the
teeth, so it is much easier for patients to have
more accurate models made without the prospect
of gagging. The patients we’ve used it on so far
have raved about the ease of the scan compared to
regular impressions. We even used it on a woman
who is newly pregnant and having problems with
To understand how Invisalign works, it is best to
first understand the process required to straighten
teeth. “To make teeth move, you need a gentle,
constant force to stimulate the bone and move the
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everyone to be
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teeth,” said Dr. Shoaf. “In traditional braces,
the wires provide the force against the
brackets bonded to the teeth to move them.
With Invisalign, a clear aligner covers the teeth
in plastic. By using computer-aided design, the
Invisalign people follow the prescription written by
the orthodontist to move the teeth in particular
ways. The best way to describe Invisalign is that
you go through a series of aligners, each moving
the teeth one step closer to the desired position,
much like ‘Claymation’ moves the characters one
step at a time. The flexible plastic provides the
force to push the teeth into the correct alignment,
so both Invisalign and traditional braces
accomplish the same goal of pressure on the teeth
Many people, especially adults, decide against
teeth straightening due to the look and hindrance
of braces. Invisalign offers a solution to this
problem to many patients. “When Invisalign
began, it recommended that only ‘simple’ cases
be attempted with the treatment—the ideal being
someone who had braces in the past, but didn’t
wear their retainers and now experienced some
mild relapse. With the changes and
improvements in Invisalign throughout the years,
almost all cases can be done with Invisalign,
except those with impacted teeth. Now, after
examining a patient, I may recommended
traditional braces for certain cases, because
I know the traditional braces will allow that
particular case to move faster than Invisalign
treatment of the same case; but most cases are
treated faster with Invisalign than traditional
braces. That is why the initial consultation to
determine your malocclusion and goals for
treatment is so crucial in every orthodontic case.
Our initial consultation is free, so it is just the cost
of your time to learn what you need and the
cost/payment plan for treatment.”
Another remarkable feature of Salem Smiles is the
great lengths taken to help patients financially.
“We take all kinds of insurance and will work out
easy payment plans for our patients,” said Dr.
Shoaf. “We want everyone to be able to afford a
great smile! In these days of high unemployment,
making a great impression at interviews is crucial,
so having a great smile that you’re proud to show
off will only increase your confidence! We also
have a staff that is mostly bilingual Spanish/
English, so we can easily work with our Hispanic
patients in either language. I also worked for
almost 20 years as part of the North Carolina
Center for Cleft and Craniofacial Deformities
Clinic at Wake Forest Baptist Hospital, so I am
very comfortable working with special needs
children and those with craniofacial problems
such as cleft lip and palate.”
If you are considering Invisalign for yourself or
someone in your family, let Salem Smiles show
you how easy it is to beautify your smile with their
new Invisalign iTero scanner.
Salem Smiles Orthodontics is located at
1063 West Northwest Boulevard in
Winston-Salem. For more information,
visit the website at
www.salemsmilesortho.com, or
call 336.725.5757.
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Calculating Costs
Novant Health Financial Navigators Help Patients Better
Understand Costs Before Treatment Occurs
, gasoline, groceries – we’re all used to
knowing the cost of everyday items before
making a purchase. So why should medical care be any different?
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That’s the opinion of Novant Health, which launched its free financial
navigator program in December 2011 to help patients learn in advance
what their out-of-pocket charges will be for a surgery or imaging
procedure based on their specific insurance information. This service is
available for procedures performed at any Novant Health facility, including
Novant Health Forsyth Medical Center, Novant Health Medical Park
Hospital and Novant Health Breast Center.
“Today’s insurance plans are confusing,” says Brian Pearce, director of
centralized patient services for Novant Health outpatient imaging centers
in the northern coastal region, which includes Forsyth County. “With
multiple levels and tiers of coverage, it can be difficult for patients to
know what’s covered and what’s not. And that’s where we can help.”
Here’s how the process works. Patients call the toll-free hotline at
1-888-277-3901, Monday through Friday, 8 a.m. to 6 p.m., and provide
the navigator with their five-digit procedure code, which they get from
their doctor, as well as their insurance information and the name of the
facility at which the procedure will be performed. Voicemail is also
available for after-hours calls.
Then, the navigator contacts the insurance company to determine the
patient’s specific coverage allowances, deductible terms and co-pay
amount. Results are relayed to the patient within 24 hours, although most
calls can be completed while the patient is on the phone with the
navigator.
“But instead of giving you an estimate or a cost range, we’re able to
tell you exactly what your out-of-pocket costs will be,” says Whit Hall,
area marketing manager for Novant Health Imaging in the greater
Winston-Salem market. “It takes a lot of the guesswork and anxiety out
of the healthcare process.”
It can also help reassure
patients who may otherwise
put off needed tests or
surgeries for fear they’re
too expensive. One woman
who called the hotline after
her son’s doctor told her
he needed an
electrocardiogram (EKG)
and X-ray was concerned
she couldn’t afford the
procedures. But within
minutes, the navigator was
able to determine that
insurance covered both
procedures at 100 percent,
with no out-of-pocket costs
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Even if a procedure isn’t
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insurance, options are still
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you get the medical care
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financial assistance.
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because they think they can’t afford it.”
To access the free Novant Health financial navigator program,
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Good
Mornings!!
By Cecilia Miller Marshall, Ph.D.
the school year gets underway,
conversations in my office often turn to
mornings. The most frequently mentioned topic
when I ask about the challenges of the coming
school year is “getting up in the morning”! Even
children (and adults) who are “morning people”
often have difficulty with getting going at 5:00
or 5:30 a.m. in order to meet an early school
bus. Imagine the dilemma of those (including
the writer of this article) who are not natural
early risers! The truth is, whether we are “larks”
or “owls,” we all have to get up in the morning.
How we manage it is the real choice we have.
As
Any teacher will tell you that a child s morning
sets the tone for the whole day. Mornings are
definitely both the most challenging and the
most important part of the day. So how do we
have “good mornings”?
Unfortunately, there is no “magic formula” for
good mornings—wouldn’t that be too easy!
Each family must determine what makes a good
morning for each member and for the group as a
whole. Fortunately, there are some specific
things that families can do to develop the
morning routine that works best.
• Be realistic. If your child or children are not
natural early risers, recognize that just the act of
getting out of bed can be quite a challenge. In
many families, some arise easily and others
with more difficulty. Mornings can’t be a “one
size fits all” affair, even though that would be a
lot more convenient! Some children get up well;
others need a very loud alarm clock; and some
need an individualized reward program to get
going in the mornings.
• Talk about it. Good mornings don’t just
happen. They require planning and
intentionality. Make good mornings an
important family agenda; talk about how to make
it happen; celebrate successes; and revisit the
issue often to make adjustments. One problem
I often see is a lot of talking about how bad
mornings are with little conversation about how
to make them better.
• Take time. Good mornings take time. It is
often better for parents to plan to get up a few
minutes early (no matter how painful this may
be!) than to grab those extra minutes of sleep.
Rushing tends to have negative consequences
for everyone, and the tension it generates is
very contagious.
• Have fun. Do what? Although it may seem to
be a contradiction in terms to have fun making
“good mornings,” creativity is a good antidote
for tension and anxiety. Add something “off the
wall” to your morning routine—sing a tune,
dance a jig, have pizza for breakfast! Enthusiasm
and positive attitude can be just as contagious
as tension and anxiety.
• If at first . . .you don t succeed . . . keep
trying! Important things often require sustained
effort. Your mornings are important, so don’t
give up! If you and your family find you need
help with making your mornings (or any other
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The FCDS Advantage:
When a Good School Isn’t
Good Enough
“We are on the path to something
truly remarkable.” - Vincent M. Stumpo, Ph.D.
months into his tenure as Headmaster
of Forsyth Country Day School,
Vincent M. Stumpo, Ph.D., has laid out a bold
new vision for the 43-year old independent
school.
Two
“I was drawn to Forsyth Country Day because I
saw a very good school that has the potential to
be truly great,” Dr. Stumpo said. “It has the best
academic metrics of any school in the area, a
great faculty, and a sense of community
positivity unlike anything I’ve ever experienced.”
The school already trumps national, state, and
even the best local public schools on objective
academic achievement measures, such as SAT,
ACT and Advanced Placement (AP) scores. In
addition, it features a low teacher/student ratio of
8:1 and an average school-wide class size of 12.
“We are starting at an enviable place,” Dr.
Stumpo said. “But when it comes to educating
our children, we only get one chance. We have
to do it right, and being good isn’t enough in
today’s world.”
With the relentless growth of new technology
and an increased global willingness to relocate
for opportunity, the world has gotten much
smaller, more globally diverse, and far more
competitive than it was when today’s parents
were going to school and applying to college.
“The world is more interconnected than ever
before, and today’s students have a greater need
for high-level, essential and transferable
intellectual skills, if they are going to compete
in a global economy. They are no longer
competing with just the kids across town or in
another part of the state,” Dr. Stumpo said.
“They are competing with the finest students
from the best schools in the world.”
The daunting world of college admissions is
just one example of what today’s students face.
“Things have changed from the time when a
smart kid who got good grades could usually get
into the college of his or her choice,” he said.
“In the past five years, colleges have become
increasingly selective, and the trend isn’t likely
to reverse itself.”
Acceptance rates at every school in the
prestigious Ivy League but Dartmouth decreased
in 2013, with Harvard University accepting a
mere 5.8 percent of its applicants and Yale
University accepting just 6.8. Closer to home,
the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill
saw admission rates drop precipitously from
31.4 percent in 2011 to 25.7 percent in 2012,
the most recent year for which data is available.
“We have to prepare our kids to succeed in this
kind of challenging climate, against competition
from across the globe, where students in other
countries, quite candidly, are often better
prepared academically than American students,”
he said. “In order to do that, we have to take a
long, hard look at what we’re doing now, and ask
how we can improve. Frankly, our kids deserve
no less.”
In order to prepare Forsyth Country Day’s
students for success, Dr. Stumpo has one
simple goal: to provide one of the finest collegepreparatory educational experiences not merely
in the area, or in the state, but in the nation.
“It’s a lofty goal, but it is vitally important,”
Dr. Stumpo said. Recently, the FCDS Board of
Trustees approved a three-component plan, one
which fosters even greater academic excellence,
enriches the school’s global focus with
expanded foreign language, history and cultural
offerings, and emphasizes the development of
good character in a family-centered community
of learners.
“Given the exceptional nature of what we’re
proposing, and the unparalleled program we will
be creating, we want to do all we can to make
the Forsyth Country Day School experience
available to more people in the Winston-Salem
area who have what it takes to succeed and want
to compete on a world-class stage,” Dr. Stumpo
said.
To that end, FCDS will launch a merit-based
Community Scholarship program for the 2014–
2015 academic year.. Three main factors will
be taken into account when determining
scholarship awards, the most important of which
is high academic achievement. The second factor
is good character, and the third is: “What else
can that student bring to our community of
scholars?” Dr. Stumpo said. “Is she a great
leader? Is he a talented artist? Is he committed
to community service?” One factor that will not
be considered is the family’s ability to pay.
“These scholarships will be completely meritbased,” Dr. Stumpo said.
“We are on the path to something truly
remarkable,” Dr. Stumpo said. “It’s not going
to be an easy road to traverse, but we have
confidence in our abilities, belief in the
importance of our mission, and absolute faith
that we can achieve our goal. It’s a very exciting
time at FCDS.”
Doug Constable, Chairman of the FCDS Board
of Trustees, concurred. “Dr. Stumpo’s leadership
has already begun to shape an incredible future
for FCDS and for every student it serves.
We hope that our new Community Scholarship
program will make a world-class Forsyth
Country Day School education a reality for many
more talented students in the local area.”
Interested in learning
more about Forsyth Country Day’s
merit-based Community Scholarship
program? Please contact Cindy Kluttz,
FCDS’s Director of Admission and
Financial aid, at
cindykluttz@fcds.org, or call
336-945-3151, ext. 340, to reserve a
space for the November 16 merit
scholarship test date.
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Fiction: Good students will be prepared
well at most schools.
Fact: Only 6 percent of U.S. students were
found to be performing at the advanced
level in mathematics, a percentage lower
than those attained by 30 other countries.*
* Harvard’s Program on Education Policy and Governance (July 2012)
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Is good really good enough for your child?
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YMCA of Northwest North Carolina
The Y: More than a Gym By Carolyn S. Peterson
YMCA makes support and opportunities available that allow
people and communities to learn, grow and thrive. For 125
years, the YMCA of Northwest North Carolina (NWNC) and its 17
branches, along with YMCA Childcare Service and YMCA Camp Hanes,
has been a valuable member of our community, offering fitness, child
care, swim lessons, youth sports and numerous other programs, but the
YMCA is about much more than what you think is behind its doors. “At
the Y we have a saying, ‘When you’ve seen one Y, you’ve seen one Y,’
meaning that no Y is like another. Although all YMCAs share the common
mission of ‘Helping people reach their God-given potential in spirit, mind
and body,’ our services to members and the community are tailored to the
The
needs present [in,] and relevant to, a specific area. In our efforts, we
focus on providing an array of services and support to people of all ages,
abilities and interests. Most people associate the Y with the service that it
provides, or has provided, them. For some we are after-school care, for
many we are their fitness facility and to others we are summer camp for
their children, but our outreach into the community through our members
and others goes far beyond what you may think,” said Curt Hazelbaker,
President and CEO, YMCA of Northwest North Carolina.
Front Cover Photo by One Shot Photography. Pictured on cover: YMCA of Northwest North Carolina
President & CEO Curt Hazelbaker and Chief Volunteer Officer Linda Wood
The YMCA of Northwest North Carolina’s commitment to
our area has three main pillars to support its core
mission: youth development, healthy living and social
responsibility, each occurring by nurturing the potential
of every youth, teen and adult, improving the
community’s health and well-being, and providing
opportunities to give back to, and support, those in the
community.
Photo By Lillian Zabel
Photo By Brandy Rosenberger
Photo By Lillian Zabel
Proud of the Past, Looking Toward the Future
As the YMCA looks to their 125th anniversary and
beyond, they know the importance of evolving with the
times and knowing the needs of the members and their
communities. “At the Y, we focus on creating good,
quality experiences for all ages. Through our programs
we strengthen our community by developing the potential
of children, promoting healthy living and fostering a
sense of social responsibility, each [program] addressing
a community’s needs in a proactive way. With our long
history in the community, the Y is able to convene
community leadership and grow philanthropic support to
have a greater impact on issues in the community at the
present and those in the future,” Curt commented.
Youth Development: Never Too Young to Learn
At the Y, the belief is that no child is ever too young to be
given the opportunity and guidance to learn; values and
skills learned early are the building blocks to a healthy
life. “There’s no doubt that youth development begins
with motivating children and teens to recognize their full
potential through gaining self-confidence and an
understanding of core beliefs of honesty, respect and
responsibility for one’s actions and life. Youth and teens
learn values and positive behaviors and are encouraged to
explore their talents and interests in a supportive
environment. Each program helps kids to establish
relationships with their peers and build skills that can
lead to better health. From childcare to youth sports, our
staff and volunteers help kids to understand who they are,
where their talents lie and what they can achieve,” Curt
said. Some of the most valuable and formative time
during a child’s or teen’s life is the summer months,
when they are away from the classroom. “During
summer vacation, students lose an average of one month
of learning, with lower-income students losing even more
than that. By keeping our summer camps engaging, with
activities like a reading time and other education-based
learning, they grow their knowledge, and we can change
those odds significantly. Many times a child’s success in
school or even graduating is tied to things out of their
control, but through working with local schools, we can
help close the education achievement gap to keep kids
learning after the school day ends,” stated Curt. The Y is
committed to the belief that confident, healthy kids grow
up to be successful adults, so offering comprehensive
programs for children, birth to 18 years of age, helps
them to connect to those around them and their
community.
Healthy Living: Mind, Body and Spirit
“Being healthy is about more than just the physical
activity of working out. Having a truly healthy life means
striving for spiritual, mental and physical well-being and
balance. The YMCA is a place where youth and adults
can work toward achieving that balance by learning a new
skill and connecting with friends through the many
programs offered at the Y. We all want to be healthier,
through our daily choices that we make, but going it
alone is hard. Healthy lifestyles are difficult to maintain
without a supportive environment. At the Y, we offer the
support, motivation and knowledge needed to make those
important changes in one’s life. From nutrition classes to
helping those who are dealing with chronic illnesses, like
heart disease, cancer and diabetes, the Y’s prevention
and wellness programs make a difference in lives.
LIVESTRONG at the YMCA is a wellness program for
cancer survivors, and the YMCA Diabetes Prevention
Program is in place to help those who are pre-diabetic,
by combining exercise, dieting and individual counseling.
Having a support system in place when you are trying to
lose weight or deal with a health problem is important,
and programs atthe Y give you that support and
encouragement when you need it most. Within the
‘healthy living’ pillar of our view of the YMCA’s future, the
Y hopes to help reduce the youth and adult obesity
problem that we have today. Two in three adults and one
in three children are overweight or obese. By introducing
‘Healthy, Fit and Strong’ programs, we can increase the
physical activity and educate families about the
importance of nutrition and also help adults take control
of their health through obesity prevention and intervention
programs. At the Y, we believe it’s not necessarily about
the activity you choose, as much as it is about the
benefits of living healthier, inside and outside,” said Curt.
Social Responsibility: A Foundation of Giving Back
At the foundation of the YMCA of Northwest North
Carolina are staff members and volunteers who
understand and have a passion for giving back,
monetarily and of their time. Social responsibility is
about responding to issues and concerns that influence
our community, and the volunteers at the YMCA have
seen first-hand over the years the difference the YMCA
can make. Linda Wood, YMCA of NWNC Chief Volunteer
Officer, began her volunteering after her daughters had
had a great experience one summer at Camp Hanes. “My
daughters, who were 13 and 10 at the time, had had a
wonderful and positive time at Camp Hanes. After they
shared with me all that they did and what an impact it had
on them, I filled out a comment card giving my feedback,
and at the bottom was a place to check if I would be
interested in becoming a volunteer. I was at a time in my
life when I could give back, so I volunteered. I am now
the Chief Volunteer Officer and have served on several
boards within the YMCA. When we as a Board began
focusing on the Y’s future, we looked at what are the
needs of our members and our overall communities and
know that the Y is for everyone, and in an effort to make the Y accessible to all,
no one is ever turned away due to financial issues.
YMCA of Northwest North Carolina
President & CEO Curt Hazelbaker and
Chief Volunteer Officer Linda Wood
at the Champion Field under
construction at the Fulton Family
YMCA. The land was recently
donated to the Y by Hanesbrands Inc.
how can the Y and our services meet those needs. We identified youth
development, healthy living and social responsibility as areas where we could
have the most impact. In doing so, with each Y and the community it serves, it
is critical to understand what programs best help to strengthen the area. Our
goal is not to just make promises about what we can do, but to deliver on those
promises for personal and social change. As a volunteer-based organization,
our people get behind the YMCA and establish strategic goals and policies,
using our resources to carry out those goals, and monitor how decisions are
affecting our members and communities on a whole. The Y doesn’t exist within
the walls of a building, but out in the community, where we can have an impact
on those who can be helped by what we do and the causes we support,”
commented Linda. Those who work either on staff or as volunteers at the YMCA
“The generosity of others is at the core of the YMCA’s mere existence as a
nonprofit organization. Each year we have our Annual Giving Campaign, which
provides us funds to offer scholarships to those who need financial assistance.
It’s only through the support of our hundreds of volunteers, public and private
donors, that we are able to support and give back to those communities that we
are in place to serve. An important YMCA principle is that our programs and
services should be for everyone, bringing a community together. To that end,
those who come to the Y through financial scholarship or aid have the same
privileges as members who pay the full fee. The funds raised in a certain
community remain in that community to help those who would like to be a part
of the Y,” Curt stated.
To bring about meaningful change, individuals and families need ongoing
encouragement and tools. The YMCA of Northwest North Carolina is in place,
day-in and day-out, providing the resources the communities they serve need,
addressing social issues and helping find ways to improve lives. As Curt
Hazelbaker said, “We work to make sure every child, adult, family and
community has what they need to achieve their full potential.”
The future of the YMCA is bright. Not only is the Y expanding its work in the
community, the footprint is growing, as well. The YMCA of Northwest North
Carolina has signed a 10,000-square-foot lease agreement to open an express
branch in Wake Forest Innovation Quarter, the fast-emerging hub for innovation
in biomedical science and information technology.
For more information on the YMCA of Northwest North Carolina and the
locations, services and activities in your area, visit www.ymcanwnc.org.
By Justin Cord Hayes
need to find your aging parents or sick child a home care
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time filling out reams of paperwork, and no matter how conscientious and
caring they may be, they can’t possibly devote their full attention to caring
for your loved ones.
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Trustient, a provider of home care and medical staffing, is different. Those
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In other words, your acutely sick child or geriatric parents will get the
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schedule in real time through the company’s website and communicate
directly with Trustient management or the caregiver. “Our caregivers have
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Not only does the Trustient operating model allow its employees more
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doing his or her job properly. “That’s very important,” Watson says,
“because healthcare is unique, in that the person paying for the service is
not usually the one receiving the service.”
Trustient offers in-home aide, companion, sitter, respite and private-duty
nursing to clients throughout the Triad. Some clients are nearlyindependent geriatric patients who require assistance with dressing,
bathing, cooking and light housekeeping. Some are chronically ill children
who rely on ventilators to breathe and who require round-the-clock nurses.
Trustient works tirelessly to provide families with as much normalcy as
possible, regardless of how much care their loved ones require.
In addition to home care, Trustient also delivers top-quality medical
staffing. It provides doctor’s offices and hospitals with per diem, contract,
temporary-to-permanent and permanent-placement services. For both
aspects of its business, Trustient looks for the best employees and
ensures that they remain peak performers. “We look for employees with
experience, compassion, a sense of urgency and a servant’s heart, but the
most important things we seek are clinical skills,” Watson says. “We use
rigorous online assessments prior to hiring and ongoing, in-person
competency evaluations performed by our Director, Clinical Services.
Even though Trustient prides itself on its use of technology to monitor
care, to reduce caregivers’ paperwork, and to keep its employees striving
to do their best, the company never loses sight of the basics. “The basics
matter to us a lot,” Watson says. “We are available, possess a sense of
urgency and have an unsurpassed ability to staff clients.”
Trustient is a locally owned home care and medical staffing firm
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Determined not to put their own
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While writing the Life series, Penny was struck again by tragedy with
the loss of her beloved black lab, Watson, due to an information void.
“I was out of the country for two weeks for business and had hired a
pet sitter to care for Watson,” Penny says. “Upon returning home, I
found the pet sitter had become ill and hired someone else to care for
Watson, but didn’t communicate the need for his medications,” Penny
explains with great sadness. Two weeks later, Watson passed away.
Once again turning pain into a positive, Penny and Morgan wanted
to keep other pet owners from suffering such a tragedy. “After seeing
Penny’s heartbreak, and having my own passion for animals,
I suggested to Penny that we expand our organizational series to
include pets,” Morgan says. And the Wise Up! Pets Series came to
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Each workbook provides a guide for gathering vital information
needed to be prepared for anything, by using a fill-in-the-blank
format. Penny states, “We wanted the books to be easy to use and
result in all information being available in one convenient place.”
While researching the books, the sisters found other “how to” guides
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attacked Farmer Joe? It’s up to you
to find out as you and your little
ones straddle the line between lost and found in
the Kersey Valley Maize Adventure.
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Since 2001, the company best known for having
one of the state’s—in fact, the whole
country’s—best haunted attractions has offered a
tamer, but equally enjoyable, alternative for
families. You say your children would forget their
potty training if exposed to the realistic horrors of
Kersey Valley Spookywoods? Don’t worry. They
will thoroughly enjoy Kersey Valley’s corn maze.
which to solve the mystery. If you go to all
the punch stations, you’ll likely complete
the maze in about an hour. After you
complete the maze and solve the mystery,
your little ones will receive a sticker patch
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Like nearly every event or attraction at Kersey
Valley, the Maize Adventure is accessible to
everyone. “We have something for everyone,
from strollers to wheelchairs,” Wohlgemuth says,
“because everything we build we try to make
accessible for wheelchairs and strollers.” Even
Fido is welcome! Leashed dogs can walk with
you through the maze, and water will be available
for parched pooches.
“The Maize Adventure is all about families,
young families,” says Kersey Valley, Inc.,
President Tony Wohlgemuth. “We call them
starter families.” The theme of the Maize
Adventure is FSI, or Farm Scene Investigation.
Your mission, if you and your young investigators
choose to accept it, is to meander through the
cow corn (corn more likely to be used for animal
forage or ethanol than for human consumption)
and solve the mystery of what happened to
Farmer Joe.
A neophyte might look at an aerial photo of the
maze and wonder how long it would take to
create something so complex. The answer is,
“Not long at all.” A tractor equipped with a GPS
cuts the maze in about five hours. “We cut the
maze at night when it’s cool,” Wohlgemuth says.
“We don’t need to see where we’re going since
we’re using the computer to guide us.”
At the start of the maze, you’ll receive a punch
card. Along the twists, turns and doublebacks,
you’ll find six punch stations at which you’ll
encounter both card punches and clues with
Visitors to the Maize Adventure also can
experience other, child-friendly activities, such as
a ride on the cow train or a snack of kettle corn. In
fact, Kersey Valley offers activities for children
throughout the year: summer camps, field trips,
and an educational program called Bee Educated,
which features a massive (and safe) walk-through
beehive.
Wohlgemuth has come a long way from when he
started Kersey Valley Spookywoods in 1985, at
the age of 15. Yes, 15! His father arrived in North
Carolina from Switzerland before Tony was born.
The elder Wohlgemuth intended to grow a
Christmas tree farm. Then, as the trees began to
grow, he moved back to Switzerland and tasked
teenage Tony with taking care of the burgeoning
forest.
Tony Wohlgemuth and some of his friends
started a haunted attraction in an old farmhouse
on the family’s property. It became very popular.
While musing over how to expand his attraction,
Wohlgemuth walked by the grove of towering
Christmas trees. Aha! Spookywoods was born.
“In the end, the trees paid off the farm,”
Wohlgemuth says, “but as a haunted attraction.”
Kersey Valley Maize Adventure is open
Saturdays from 12 p.m. to 6 p.m. and
Sundays from 1 p.m. to 6 p.m., through
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attractions and events. The entertainment
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year, the Home Builders Association of WinstonSalem (HBAWS) organizes a multi-day event to
showcase the newest and greatest in home construction available,
and this year is certainly no different! The 2013 Fall Parade of Homes kicks off on
October 12th and promises to offer inspiration for every area of home design.
Every
“The Fall Parade of Homes is a free event that provides the public a preview of the
best of the best in new home construction,” said Jerry Herman, Executive Vice
President for the HBAWS. “The Fall Parade offers local builders a venue to showcase
high-tech, quality products and exceptional services to local consumers. It features
the latest trends, innovative products and neighborhoods in the new construction
market. [For those not necessarily in the home building market, the parade offers]
creative solutions and innovative features for current home remodeling projects.”
This year, the Parade features new and classic neighborhoods. “There are some new
neighborhoods and also some neighborhoods that haven’t been in the Parade in
recent years,” said Herman. “The Fall Parade of Homes offers a good mix of custom
homes and spec homes, with options for new homebuyers, as well as those looking
for additional space for a growing family.”
One of the most valuable features on the parade is the presence of the
homebuilders. “Consumers will be able to meet face-to-face with
professional builders and trade representatives to ask questions and
gain valuable information,” said Herman. “This level of personal
interaction can help homeowners understand the value of building and
the ease of remodeling when working with professionals in the home
building industry.”
In many cases, new innovations can cost less, as they use more
durable products that last longer and may cut energy bills for the
home. “Technology is always improving, changing the way to build
better homes and the products used in those homes,” said Herman.
“The parade is a great time to see houses in different stages of the
building process and learn about new state-of-the-art features.”
871 Osprey Ridge Road - Brookberry Farm
2013 Fall Parade Association Home
Year after year, the professional builders involved in the Parade work
around the clock to show all they have to offer potential clients. The
Parade encourages this friendly competition with a judging component
during the event. “The public will benefit from the competition, as
builders go over and beyond to show their best for possible award
recognition,” said Herman. The winner will be announced Tuesday, October 15th, at
the Golden Home Awards.
This year’s sponsor is also a great resource for anyone looking to build or remodel a
home. “BB&T has been a long-time member and is sponsoring the Fall Parade of
Homes for the second year,” said Herman. “They work very closely with both
general contractors and the public to supply individualized financing solutions.”
The annual magazine that accompanies the Fall Parade will be available at each
home on the tour for tour-goers to pick up and keep for future reference. “The
magazine provides information about builders, homes and includes a list of trade
vendors for each entry,” said Herman. “Ask for your free magazine at the first home
you visit!”
The 2013 Fall Parade of Homes takes place Saturdays and Sundays from 1–5pm from October 12th–20th.
To see a map of the homes on the Parade, visit www.paradeofhomesws.com. For more information about the Home
Builders Association of Winston-Salem and its members, visit www.hbaws.net.
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2 Isenhour Homes, LLC - 877 Osprey Ridge Road - Brookberry Farm
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BRAD BULLARD:
New West Forsyth Varsity Baseball Coach
Bullard was named varsity baseball coach for West
Forsyth High School’s storied program in June, but he
has been a Titan since his teens. He wore West Forsyth’s green and
gold when he himself was a center-field-playing student who helped
take his team to the State Championship in 2002, his senior year.
Unfortunately, the Titans lost that battle to Fuquay-Varina.
Nonetheless, that Titan team could boast of a 27-4 record, the best in
the school’s history.
Brad
After graduating from West Forsyth and earning a degree in business
management from UNC-Charlotte in 2006, Bullard tried sales. But in
his heart, he was still a Titan. At loose ends, he called his coach,
Randy Pope. “I realized how much I missed baseball and working with
kids,” Bullard says, “so I called Coach Pope and we talked about me
returning to West Forsyth to teach and coach.”
By 2007, Bullard officially was again a green-and-gold Titan. He was
a right-hand man for his former coach until Pope announced his
retirement. Some forty coaching hopefuls went after Pope’s position.
After all, West Forsyth nearly always competes in the conference
championship and often stretches its post-season even farther. It’s a
storied team.
The 2013 Titan team amassed a 23-7 season, and the Titans were one
victory away from playing in the Class 4-A Western Regional semifinal
series. Thus, Bullard will take over next year for a team that still has
many of its best players from 2012. All eyes—green, gold, and
otherwise—will be on him. And added to that pressure is the fact
thatBullard is taking over for his former coach, a man who led the
Titans for fifteen years.
“He has left big shoes for me to
fill,” Bullard admits. “But I plan to
continue to maintain everything
that he has done and also keep
upgrading our facilities.”
Bullard intends to make weight training a priority for his team. “Weight
training helps with hitting power, arm strength, and speed. Stretching,
lifting and agility also help keep the players healthy throughout the
whole season.”
He also knows that being a coach is about more than just making sure
his young players can do impressive bench presses. “I want my
players to focus on ‘ABC,’” Bullard says. “‘ABC’ stands for
academics, baseball and character. My staff and I will emphasize how
important it is to maintain high academic standards, doing the right
things on and off the field, and also preparing for a successful
baseball season.”
That’s a lot of responsibility, but Bullard’s past as a center fielder
surely will help him. Baseball fans know that center field is one of the
most challenging positions on a team. A mix of speed and missilelobbing accuracy is necessary, and the center fielder is his team’s
commander in the outfield. Dozens of disparate decisions must be
made in a flash. A mistake can mean outfielders get hurt running into
each other in pursuit of a fly ball. Or, it can mean a mistimed throw to
the infield that allows the other team to score a run.
The one-time center fielder is up to the challenge of continuing to
bleed green and gold as a once-and-future Titan. One part of his
legacy will be a scholarship to honor his former teammate and friend,
Erik Walker, who died in a drowning accident in 2006. The scholarship
will go to a deserving senior baseball player each year. “I hope to
leave a legacy of someone who always did things the right way and
had good relationships with his players,” Bullard says. “We are all in
this business because we love
the game of baseball and love
working with kids.”
Photo by NC Prep Photo
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Helping Babies
By Maureen Elrod
Our
third child, Byron Daniel Elrod, was born on July 12, 2012, and
since that day nothing has been the same in our lives. My
pregnancy was wonderfully uneventful and even easier than the previous two
pregnancies. All of the prenatal screenings came back perfect, the 20-week
ultrasound showed a healthy and very active baby boy and the pregnancy
smoothly moved towards the July due date. And right on schedule, a few
days before our due date, we went to the hospital to give birth to our newest
little man. It wasn’t until seeing him for the first time in the operating room
that we realized something was not right. And then, that hint of hesitation and
concern in the voice of the doctor when he asked my husband a simple yet
unforgettable question, “Has anyone talked to you about the size of
his head?”
To which my husband replied, “No, is something wrong?” From that point
on, our journey with Byron was nothing short of life-changing. It was an
emotional rollercoaster of shock, hope, devastation, faith and peace.
While I was in the delivery room, it was first thought that Byron suffered from
hydrocephalus—fluid in the brain, a serious but treatable condition.
However, as the hour progressed, and by the time we left the recovery room,
we knew, and felt, that something was very, very wrong with our precious
newborn. Immediately, Byron was transported to Brenner Children’s Hospital
for more testing and to be cared for in their NICU (Neonatal Intensive Care
Unit). By 10 p.m. that night, we were told that Byron had a brain tumor on his
brain stem, causing the hydrocephalus, as it grew in his brain during the latter
part of the pregnancy.
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an infant is unimaginable
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That was the last true medical
procedure Byron had, and the
remainder of his eight-day life
was spent in the loving, caring
and amazing hands of the NICU
nurses, our family and friends and
us. Byron’s tumor was known as PNET
tumor, an aggressive tumor that in
conjunction with his age provided us no viable medical option. He couldn’t
survive with it and there was no way to remove it safely. It had been a miracle
that he had even survived this long. So, we decided to spend our time,
whatever we had of it, enjoying our family of five, showering our little boy with
love and being together as much as possible. We changed his diapers, the
kids bathed him, we sang to him, we kissed him constantly, we changed his
outfits—we were a family. Byron died in our arms on July 20th.
With all of that being said, we look back on our week with our son with utter
joy and complete love. His entire life was spent inside the NICU, and we
shared his whole life with the nurses and the palliative care team. They
became our family and loved Byron as much as we did. For the eight days
we had Byron in our world, we simply loved him, held him, kissed him and
brought him into the life of our other two children as much as possible.
He may have been only here for eight days, but it was a magical eight days.
Medically, Byron was dealt an unfortunate fate. There was nothing that could
have been done to save his life, nor do we believe early detection would have
changed his fate. But since his death, we have met many people who have
lost newborns, from a grandmother approaching us about her baby dying
hours after birth to a young couple who had recently lost an infant. And for
many of these families, there is the hope that early detection or medical
advancements could save future babies from a similar death.
The grief that comes with losing an infant is unimaginable and unrelenting,
but it is one that can be avoided for other families, and that is the hope we
carry in our hearts and the hope that is supported by the March of Dimes.
With a mission of preventing birth defects, premature birth and infant
mortality, the March of Dimes carries out this mission through programs of
research, community services, education and advocacy. For 75 years, the
Foundation has thought of the wellbeing of babies everywhere. Established in
1938 by President Franklin Delano Roosevelt, in its early days, March of
Dimes funded the development of the first safe and effective polio vaccines,
before turning its mission to improving the health of babies. Today, the March
of Dimes is still hard at work to prevent the epidemic of premature birth, birth
defects and infant mortality which affects nearly a half million babies every
year. For the latest resources and information, visit marchofdimes.com or
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Scare Up Some Fun for EVERYONE at
SciWorks This Halloween!
By Ally McCauley
in Winston-Salem will offer a variety of Halloween activities on Saturday, October 26, promising plenty of fun (and maybe
even a few chills) for people of ALL ages! The museum opens at 10 a.m., and visitors will have the opportunity to explore
all of the indoor and outdoor exhibits, including the exciting new Take Flight traveling exhibition which is devoted to the creative exploration of
flight through paper airplane launchers, a Hoverport, rocket launchers and much more.
SciWorks
The Halloween fun begins at 3 p.m. with a trick-or-treat event. Last year’s Trick-or-Treat with the Dinos was so popular that the staff
is bringing it back—even though the dinosaur exhibit has since gone “extinct.” Children can trick-or-treat throughout the
museum and collect candy and novelty items from 3 to 5 p.m. Costumes are encouraged (but not required), and the event is
recommended for ages 3 and above. Trick-or-treating is included with museum admission (and free for SciWorks members).
The evening’s activities begin at 6 p.m. with a family-friendly Halloween Rock Laser Show in the planetarium. Halloween
Rock features fun laser images set to classic chart-toppers like “Monster Mash,” “Ghostbusters,” “Bad Moon Rising,” and
more. Following the family-friendly show is one for older audiences—the Nine Inch Nails Rock Laser Show at 7:30 p.m.
The show includes many of the band’s most popular songs,
such as “Head like a Hole,” “Closer” and “Wish.” Tickets for
laser shows are $6/person per show, or visitors can enjoy
both shows in the same night for $10/person. Doors open 30
minutes before the first show, and seating is on a first-come, firstserved basis. (Exhibit galleries and outdoor parks will be closed.)
At 8:30 p.m, SciWorks invites teens and adults to join them for a
fascinating 90-minute presentation entitled “Science of Paranormal
Investigating.” Members of the Carolina Paranormal Society will
explain the technology and techniques they use to study paranormal
phenomena. Those who desire a more in-depth experience can
also take part in a hands-on, late-night workshop which will
involve four separate one-hour investigations at different
locations on the SciWorks campus. CPS leaders and
workshop participants will collect data with a variety of
instruments, including infrared video cameras, digital
cameras and camcorders, electromagnetic field detectors (EMFs), digital
thermometers and voice recorders. The late-night workshop is limited to 40 people
and is not suitable for children ages 10 and under. Teen participants (ages 11–17)
must be accompanied by a parent or guardian. Tickets for the presentation are $25.
Tickets for the “full package” (presentation and late-night workshop) are $60. To
purchase tickets, visit www.ncparaventures.com.
SciWorks, located at 400 W. Hanes Mill Road in Winston-Salem, is open Tuesday–Friday from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m.;
Saturday from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m.; and Sunday from Noon to 5 p.m. For more information about all of SciWorks’ events and exhibits,
visit www.sciworks.org.
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Opening October 1
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Monday, October 7th • 9:30am-11:30am
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Join us…
FREE Event! Come see all Salem Gymnastics
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stations. Each adult also receives 4 tickets for the
fabulous prize board drawings.
Drawings for lots of door prizes!
KMO Prize listing from September event at the Children’s Museum of Winston-Salem
Two tickets to Spookywoods – Ina Jonbert
$20 Frogurt Gift Card – Jessica VanDusen
$25 Irvin Roberts Gift Card – Raquel Kelly
2 rounds of golf at Pine Brook Country Club –
Beth Johnson
Buckhead Betties Tote – Brianne Daub
Mattress Cleaning $95 value – Kim Hall
4 tickets to WFU Football game – Allie
$25 Omega House Gift Card – DeAnn Osborne
$25 Simply Southern Cuisine Gift Card – Hope Scofield
4 tickets to Children’s Museum of WS – Sarah Care
Webkinz – Ashley Toner
Two riding lesson at Cash Lovell – Marla Barbot
Next KMO:
November 8th from 6-8pm
Birthday Extravaganza to benefit
Piedmont Diaper Bank…
see page pg49 for details
These monthly events are hosted by
Kids’ Morning Out
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September Issue 2013 • 51
Ages & Stages
Social Media Guidelines
for Our Schools By Elisa D. Wallace
gone are the days of waiting for the
morning newspaper to arrive to
deliver a daily dose of news. Second by second,
minute by minute, social media websites around
the world are rapidly delivering information to
everyone and anyone. From current political
news to celebrity fanfare to what someone’s best
friend wore to school that day, today every child
is now susceptible to limitless information.
And, considering that this information
often is unfiltered, the effects can be
incredibly damaging. From websites
such as the mega-successful social
media giant known as Facebook,
young adults now find themselves the
target of a new bully on the block.
The cyber bully.
Long
With children at recordbreaking rates committing
suicide thanks to this new “bully,” it’s vital that
parents and educators take a stand against this
misuse of social media. Curious to find out
where our area school systems stand in regard
to the use of social media? Forsyth Family
decided to do their own research into what
social media policies are in place. We may not
be able to rid the entire web of this type of
bullying, but, at the very least, we can begin to
safeguard our children from this bully in our
educational environments.
Forsyth County Schools
According to the Forsyth County School System
website, it is the “mission of Forsyth County
Schools (FCS) to prepare and inspire all
students to contribute and excel.” With this
said, FCS has strict guidelines for students and
teachers regarding social media use.
Specifically, all members working within the
FCS school system must adhere to the
following guidelines. They must:
• Use digital devices, networks and
software in school for educational
purposes and activities.
• Keep personal information
(including
home/mobile
phone
number, mailing address, and user password)
and that of others private.
• Show respect for themselves and others
when using technology, including social media.
• Give acknowledgement to others for their
ideas and work.
• Report inappropriate use of technology
immediately.
Guilford County Schools
Similarly, the Guilford County School System
has a policy with strict rules for use of social
media websites. However, this school system
does now allow students to use Youtube and
other social media websites which were earlier
banned from use. “We need to teach people
how to use these tools wisely and teach them
how to use them well and not just shut
everything down,” Guilford County Schools
Chief of Staff Nora Carr said.
In the end, it is vital that we all pay close
attention to what is going on regarding social
media within our own school system. Through
holding up strict guidelines, we could
potentially stop
cyber-bullying
from ending in
tragedy.
Screen
Media’s
Impact on Your
Child’s Health: When Media exposure has also been shown to impact our youth’s view of
alcohol and tobacco use. Exposure to smoking and alcohol use in the
Less is More!
media is linked to a three-fold increase in experimental behavior. Movies
you ever noticed how a 15-month old can easily operate her
parent’s phone (often better than the parent herself)? Or, how
your teenager disappears after school to play video games, promising to
get to his homework “later”?
Have
have also been shown to have the largest effect on influencing children to
start smoking (more than friends, family and school!).
These are signs that more interactive, outdoor and free play activities may
be in order!
There are also multiple studies that show an association between
increased fear and anxiety in children with exposure to violence in media.
Kids often will have nightmares, or have difficulty sleeping after watching
violent content.
The American Academy of Pediatrics discourages the use of television and
other media devices for children under 2 years of age. Research shows
that until 30 months of age, children obtain no real value from any screen
media. Children this age benefit much more from social interactions with
other children and adults than from screen time. Caregivers should
provide interactive and free play with creative problem-solving for this
age group.
For older children and adolescents, it is recommended that they spend no
more than 1–2 hours per day on screen media. Essentially 100% of
homes have a television and 43% of those homes have the television on
all, or almost all, of the time. It is important to set limits for media use in
the home. Discuss the specific amount of time they can have and then let
them decide how to use that time each day.
Several studies have demonstrated that media screen time can have a
negative impact on your child’s overall health. For instance, some parents
believe that televisions in the bedroom help their children go to sleep.
However, this is actually associated with less and poorer-quality sleep.
Also, television has been found to have a dose-dependent relationship
between its use and obesity. This means the more time spent on sedentary
and passive activities (like watching TV), the less time is available for
more active ones. Some children often snack while watching television,
leading to an increase in mindless eating and in calorie consumption.
They also view many commercials for foods that are unhealthy and then
try to persuade parents into buying them. Interestingly, some research
even suggests that children aren’t allowed to be “bored” enough
throughout the day, consequently limiting their creativity. The amount of
constant stimulation from various media sources doesn’t give kids’ brains
time to relax, which interferes with their ability to turn on and organize
more creative processes.
Children and adolescents who are regularly exposed to violence through
media have been shown to be more desensitized to it and react less
negatively toward witnessed violent behavior.
How can you help your children develop positive media habits?
• Set limits for time spent on media/screen time.
• Be selective about what you allow your children to watch.
• Watch television or play computer games with your children. Don’t
miss the teachable moments that some shows will offer.
• Keep television sets out of bedrooms, turn the TV off during meals and
limit the amount of time it is on in the background.
• Set a good example by limiting the amount of TV you watch and limit
mindless viewing.
• Allow your children to be “bored” some of the time, so they can come
up with their own creative play.
These small steps can make a big difference in how the media affect your
child and your family. You’ll be amazed at what children discover when
screen time is exchanged for creative play!
Margaret Silkstone, MD
Penmanship – A Lost Art
By Lisa S.T. Doss
the technological advancements of e-mail and text
messaging, few expect to find a hand-written letter, especially
in cursive, in the mailbox. How many people do you know who can write
in cursive? Personally, the elders in my family have the most beautiful
penmanship. Women whose education did not surpass the eighth grade
continued to maintain the art throughout their lives. There’s something
personal about applying ink to stationary and sending it forth through the
US Postal service. I often sit privately and hold the hand-written pages
devouring each word. The sentiment is personalized and valued.
Educational curriculums have replaced penmanship classes with
keyboarding, and soon paper and pencils will be replaced with computers.
While technology continues to make our lives easier, is the art of cursive
writing and penmanship worth eliminating? No.
With
Through the decades, teachers influenced the value of particular subjects
and skills. Once, it was considered important to have pride in one’s
penmanship and signature. Now, less than two-thirds of our citizens are
able to read and write in cursive; a statistic that will dramatically increase
in the next half-century. If education devalued the practice of penmanship
as early as second grade, students who were then in their developmental
stages now possess a rudimentary style of writing that could be confused
with that of a second grader. Furthermore, America is limiting our nation
to be educated in one style of writing, print. Consider all of the situations
where cursive writing exists. Will our young adults be confused in the
work place, unable to read a memo or have difficulty writing essay-based
standardized tests? Museum documents and historical texts will have to
be translated into print. Through the technology of e-readers and i-pads,
schools will soon retire the book and the pencil, and make a mandatory
transition to computers. Schools are now in the process of using the
monies earmarked for textbooks to supply a computer for each student.
What is the answer? Many parents are in tune with the demise of our
children’s written, spelling and penmanship education. In the 1990s,
sweeping changes occurred with the implementation of phonics to Whole
Language and spelling to Inventive Spelling, or “words their way.” In
recent years, the Common Core of Standards was adopted by 46 states as
an educational guideline, which has made keyboarding and computer
classes a priority.
With the blessings of dexterity, all young children can learn to write.
Developmentally, third grade is a wonderful age to begin teaching a child
cursive. When education presents gaps, it is the parents who need to take
the initiative and supplement instruction. By starting with small shapes,
controlled within wide lines of a piece of paper, students can grasp the
uniformity of keeping the letters the same size. Color pencils will help to
make the endeavor fun. Repetition of tracing letters and practicing words
is an effective way to teach cursive. It is a tradition worth fighting to
preserve.
For those artistically inclined, older students may appreciate learning the
art of calligraphy. Artists tend to be more patient about the details in
their work and have a great appreciation of other artistic forms. Not all
educational activities need to be completed with the help of a computer.
Brainstorming and note-taking are practical activities that can help
improve penmanship. Practicing is the answer. Even adults have noticed
a deterioration of their own handwriting since technology has become a
replacement for old-fashioned applications of pen to paper. Returning to
old habits will help children of all ages and adults become writers again,
in addition to developing the beauty of a non-rushed written hand.
The National Postal Museum in Washington DC has an extraordinary
gallery that offers visitors the importance of hand-written letters in our
history. The documents are well preserved, and express the emotions of
people living in difficult moments such as war, families separated by
continents, and the correspondence of celebrated people and presidents.
We all have our own museum of saved items. I have a hatbox full of
pictures and letters, cards and notes of a fondly remembered past. Many
of the letters come from dearly loved family members who have died.
By having their distinct words hand-written on paper, it has given me a
sentimental keepsake. I cannot see the same value in an email or text
message. The preservation of handwriting is a reminder that many of our
own childhood objects will soon be labeled as “old-fashioned.”
Teaching our children is the only way to preserve the past.
Dr. David S. Chermak • Dr. John C. Hanson
Orthodontics for Children & Adults
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Faith &Family
Love Talk
for
Families
One of the signs of a healthy family is open and
meaningful communication. Good questions are the
beginning.
Question #78
If our house were on fire and everyone (including
pets) was safe outside and you could safely
retrieve one personal item, what would it be?
Talk with your family about the above question and
statement during dinner at home, quiet moments in the
evening, just before bedtime, in the car or on vacation
and jumpstart your family communication!
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Faith &Family
CALENDAR – OCTOBER 2013
By Tami Rumfelt
Ebenezer WHO?
old hymn Come Thou Fount contains a
line which has always confused me.
It goes, “Here I raise my Ebenezer...”
The
What’s an Ebenezer? Are we talking about the old
tightwad from A Christmas Carol?
So, I did a little digging and it turns out that the
word Ebenezer is found in the Bible in 1st Samuel,
Chapter 7. Samuel was a prophet and leader of the
Israelites during a time of great tribulation for the
Jews, much of it brought on by their own
disobedience. He gathered his people and told
them to give up their false gods and sincerely repent
for straying from the Lord. The people prayed and
fasted and Samuel asked the Lord to restore and
protect them.
The Philistines, who were the Israelites arch
enemies, found out that all of Israel was gathered in
one place in prayer and figured that was a good time
to launch an attack. However, God protected the
Israelites and divinely intervened on their behalf,
keeping His people safe.
So no one would forget God’s miraculous
intervention, Samuel erected a large stone at the
place where all of this happened. He named the
stone Ebenezer which means “Stone of Help” as a
reminder that Lord always helps his people.
How has the Lord helped you? Was there a financial
blessing that came along at just the right time?
Maybe it was the way He protected you from harm or
healed an illness. Or, perhaps it was His peace and
presence you clearly felt in a time of trouble. I’d
encourage you to learn from Samuel and think of
ways you might “raise an Ebenezer” of your own to
mark the occasion. It could be as simple as
keeping a prayer journal, writing a poem, planting a
tree or painting a picture. By doing so, the next time
life gets tough, you’ll have a reminder of God’s
never-ending faithfulness.
For more devotions from Tami, visit her website:
www.tamiwithani.com
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SEPT 30, 6:30PM
Vintage Bible College (Winston-Salem) is an interdenominational college offering Associate through
Doctorate Degree Programs in Biblical Studies,
Theology, Minsitry & Christian Education.
Fall Quarter begins Sept 30 and classes are held on
Monday, Tuesday, Thursday & Saturday.
336.759.0591
WBFJ @ the Dixie Classic Fair!!
OCT 4-13
Location: Dixie Classic Fairgrounds
(Winston-Salem) WBFJ will once again be
broadcasting at the fair! Stop by the gazebo and play
Plinko with a purpose, check out the Swifty Swine
Swimming & Racing Pigs and grab some food from
the Munchie Wagon!! 336.777-1893
Evangelical Seminary & Ravi Zacharias International
Ministries. 800.778.7884
Women Of Faith Conference
OCT 11-12
Location: Bojangles Coliseum (Charlotte)
Theme: “Believe God Can Do Anything”
Guest Speakers: Liz Curtis Higgs, Max Lucado, Lisa
Harper, Ken Davis, Shelia Walsh & Angie Smith.
Musical Guests: Third Day & CeCe Winans.
888.493.2484
Jeff VanVonderen
OCT 12, 9:00AM-5:00PM
Location: WSFirst (Winston-Salem)
Jeff VanVonderen of A&E’s “Intervention” is a highly
sought after speaker and consultant for his skills and
understanding in the areas of addiction, family
systems and recovery. 336.759.7517
Fall Fair @ Alpha Acres
OCT 5 - NOV 2, 10AM-6PM
Blood Drive
OCT 12, 8:30AM - 1:00PM
Location: Alpha Acres (Yadkinville)
Activities include: Hay Rides, Corn Maze, Pumpkin
Patch & much more! Fall Fair @ Alpha Acres is
open every Friday & Saturday Alpha Acres is a
ministry of the Winston-Salem Rescue Mission.
336.463.5155
Location: Hope Community Church
(Winston-Salem) Sponsored by the Northwest North
Carolina American Red Cross.
336.971.8331
LifeChain 2013
OCT 6, 2:00PM
Location: First Christian Church (Kernersville)
Barbecue Dinner', Silent Auction, Live Music &
more! Proceeds: Next Step Ministries is a safe
house for women, providing services to domestic
violence victims and survivors. 336.413.7054
Location: Hanes Mall Blvd. (near Kohl's Winston-Salem) LifeChain is an annual nationwide
peaceful pro-life demonstration for the unborn.
336.655.9479
Mandisa / Brandon Heath
OCT 9, 7:30PM
Location: Dixie Classic Fair (Winston-Salem)
Everyone is encouraged to bring 5 cans or 5 boxes
of non-perishable Lowes Food brands and receive
free admission into the fairgrounds and the concert!!
(WEDNESDAY ONLY) 336.777.1893
Jim Cole
OCT 11, 3:00, 5:00, 7:00 & 9:00PM
Location: Dixie Classic Fair (Winston-Salem)
336.777.1893
National Christian Apologetics Conference
OCT 11-12, 9:00AM-5:00PM
Location: First Baptist Church (Indian Trail, NC)
Theme: “Reason For Hope”
Guest Speakers: Josh McDowell, Norm Geisler,
Richard Howe, William Dembski, Frank Turek &
many others!! Presented by the Southern
“Unmasked The Violence” Fundraiser
OCT 18, 5:30PM
CROP Hunger Walk
OCT 20, 2:30PM
Location: Lawrence Joel Veterans
Coliseum (Winston-Salem)
Proceeds to benefit Crisis Control Ministry,
Sunnyside Ministries & Church World Service.
336.724.7875 x1040
NeedToBreathe
OCT 20, 7:00PM
Location: Ziggy's (Winston-Salem)
A portion of the proceeds to benefit Palmetto
Medical Initiative. 336.722.5000
ST. JOHN’S LUTHERAN SCHOOL
CARNIVAL
OCT 25, 5-7:30PM
St. John's Lutheran School, 2415 Silas Creek
Parkway. Join us for a community carnival with food,
games and loads of activities for the kids. Entrance
is free; you may purchase tickets for games and
food at the door. www.stjohnsfalcons.org
June Issue 2013 • 57
Musing About…
By Tim Roberts - Pastor of
Sunrise United Methodist
Church in Lewisville
CHANGE
something you may not know
about me. I haven’t always been
a pastor. No, I’m not talking about the time I was
a child or teenager, I am referring to my life in
the “working world.” Ordained ministry isn’t my
second career, it is actually my third. I used to
be a paramedic in Cabarrus County, then I left
that to become a firefighter with the Charlotte
Fire Department. (Please don’t say that I am still
fighting fire, I have heard that way too many
times). Often people ask me if I miss being a
fireman. Only when I think about it, smell
smoke, see the flashing lights on the big red
trucks, or hear those sirens wailing (oh, how that
is still music to my ears!)...okay, enough
reminiscing.
Here’s
Having been a fireman, I, of course, have
seen the movie, Backdraft, to the point of ad
nauseam. Not that it is that great a movie or all
that realistic (Hint, Hint...it’s not.), but there
are certain things that still draw me back to it.
Believe it or not, one of the things that I look for
each and every time I watch it is just a piece of
the background. It was probably part of a real
fire station which they used to film the movie.
The item I am referring to is a large sign that
hangs in the kitchen of the story. If you blink
you’ll miss it, but on it read these words,
“Chicago Fire Department—150 Years of
Tradition Unimpeded by Progress.” The first
time I noticed that sign, I laughed out loud
(that’s LOL for the younger readers). Now, I still
snicker at it, although I am acutely aware that it
is a sad reality for so many areas of life.
Benjamin Franklin is credited with the old
adage that says something like, “The only things
that are certain in life are death and taxes.”
Well, I believe Mr. Franklin missed another
inevitable—change. Like it or not, change
happens—and there is nothing you can do to
stop it. We may be able to delay it for a period
of time, but change can only be kept at bay for a
short while. What needs to be at the forefront of
our minds when we encounter the inescapable
specter known as change is, how are we going
to respond to it?
In each of my professions, I have witnessed
change on almost a daily basis. I have
experienced the fragility of life succumbing to
death, the tragic transformation of exquisitely
designed buildings into heaps of embers and
ash, and the destructive division of a community
of faith over music styles. Yep—change
happens. But once again, how are going to
respond to it?
It seems that some feel it is their God-given
purpose in life to preserve the past without any
regard for the present, much less the future.
Evidently, “new” is somehow a four-letter word
for them. The mantra that rallies them to arms is
“If it was good enough for my grampy, it’s good
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enough for me (and you, too)!” I wonder, if their
house were to catch fire, would they want one of
those new and modern fire trucks to roll up, or
have a bunch of neighbors running to the scene
with buckets?
Then again, those who tout that new is best
obviously used Windows 8! (If you don’t know
to what I am referring, be thankful). New isn’t
always an improvement. The best changes
usually come about from learning from the past.
As I grow older, it seems that old menace of
change has gone into overdrive. I am reminded
of its presence in my life every morning when
I look in the mirror (either that, or I have
somehow acquired a defective mirror. Nah...just
wishful thinking there). While I could allow this
fact to plummet me into despair, I choose not
to, because while change may happen, God is
even Lord over it. So, Change, who’s going to
get the last laugh?
Sorry, but I have one more thing on the subject
of change (and about another sign, too!). These
words, taken from 1 Corinthians 15:51, were
displayed as a needlepoint wall-hanging in a
church nursery: “We may not all sleep, but we
will all be changed.”
Godspeed,
Tim
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Dr. Rob Peters:
Senior Pastor,
Calvary Baptist
Church
United in Faith to
Reach a Growing &
Changing Community
By Carolyn S. Peterson
a rich history dating back to 1919, Calvary
Baptist Church in Winston-Salem, NC, has been
a fellowship with a heart for reaching a growing and
changing community, both locally and globally; and now,
under the leadership of Dr. Rob Peters, the church looks
forward to continuing the simple message of God’s love.
“God’s world is a wonderful creation, and people are people,
no matter where they are. We all have the questions of
‘what’s my purpose in life,’ ‘how do I make my life work with
family and relationships,’ and ‘how do I find things that fulfill me
in the way God created me’? God’s word has answers to all of
those questions, and to many more that people
worldwide and around the corner face which are
found in a relationship with Jesus Christ,” said
Pastor Rob.
With
A Good Foundation to Grow On
Pastor Rob’s
journey to the
pulpit of Calvary
Baptist Church
began in a close-knit family
grounded in a deep faith. “I was born
in Augusta County, VA, and raised in Cleveland,
TN, as a middle child with two sisters and Godly
parents. While studying accounting at Tennessee
Tech, I had an overwhelming sense of God’s
calling on my life to enter the ministry. Two
weeks after completing my accounting degree,
I entered Southwestern Baptist Theological
Seminary in Fort Worth, TX. While in seminary,
I worked for the accounting firm of Ernst & Young
and served in a variety of leadership positions at
Sagamore Hills Baptist Church in Fort Worth,
then served as an Associate Pastor at First Baptist
Church in Dallas, TX.,” Pastor Rob recalled.
Following the planting of a church in North Atlanta and during completion of his
doctoral degree, the Peters family moved to Weston, FL, where Pastor Rob served for
over 13 years as the Senior Pastor of First Baptist Church, growing the church from
300 attendees to more than 3000 members. But Pastor Rob and Wendy, his wife of
17 years, began feeling the guidance of God to make a change in direction and
ministry to their lives, leading them to consider a move to Zurich, Switzerland, with
their three children, Anna Grace, 12, John, 7 and Liam, 2. That was when Calvary
Baptist Church began their 18-month pastor search, involving 146 candidates.
“My experience of managing a large church with many cultures and my accounting
background prepared me for the complexity of addressing the needs of a
congregation of Calvary’s size, as well as the many ministries that Calvary is
involved in locally and across the world. The staff at Calvary and I are excited about
initiating programs and instilling renewed vision into the various ministries. There is
a partnership at Calvary amongst the staff with a belief that we all are laborers in the
field, as the Scriptures say, no matter whether we come in at the first hour or the
last. The Lord owns the field, and we are all servants for His kingdom,” stated
Dr. Rob. It’s the role as servant and teacher that Pastor Rob believes is at the root of
his calling.
“I help people learn how to confidently read Scripture and apply it to their lives.
Sharing the Word at Calvary means that I preach 4 times each Sunday in three
different locations, including videotaped messages. The focus of the ministry at
Calvary is living in the Truths of the Scriptures, which have spanned across
generations. To reach the people on our street or a world away, you have to realize
that there isn’t just one way to worship; God’s Word can be shared in a skyscraper to
a tent in Africa. People are people, and the eternal Truths of the Scriptures, and how
they can apply to daily life, have always been, and will always be, the focus of
Biblical teaching,” Dr. Rob commented.
For more information on Calvary Baptist Church and service times and locations, visit www.calvarynow.com.
Imago Dei Ministries
Presents
An Evening of Divine Dining
Join women from
around the Triad
for an evening of
celebration of
the Lord.
Speaker:
Dr. Tina Merhoff
Topic:
Beauty in the Broken
Sunday, October 6, 2013
6:00 pm
The Barn at Brookberry Farms
5567 Brookberry Farm Rd.
Winston-Salem, NC
Always in Bloom!
Come celebrate the spirit, soul and body of
women and help grow Imago Dei Ministries. Led
by Katelyn Marks, the workshop will include a
message delivered by Dr. Tina Merhoff, Pediatric
Dentist.
The event begins at six o’clock and entry
requires the purchase of a $25 ticket. Dinner will
be served during the workshop. Please visit
www.imagodei-nc.org for more information.
Unique Arrangements/Local Deliveries Tues. - Sat.
Book now for Weddings and Events….
New seasonal and gift items arriving daily
“Give the gift that keeps on giving!”
Flower subscriptions available; weekly, monthly, etc.
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1100 Reynolda Rd, Winston-Salem
Tue-Fri, 10 am - 6 pm • Sat, 10 am - 4 pm
to deliver a quality product, one must first use
quality tools and understand every aspect of the
process. “The best editing in the world is
meaningless if you don’t first have good camera
shots to work with,” said Hall. “I love capturing the
emotion and spirit of my client—be it a bride or a
business owner, sharing their passion for their
company. I believe video tells a story in a way that
no other medium can. It can relive a precious
moment for years to come. I have never heard
someone say they were sorry they captured their
event on video.”
C e l e b r a t e s
4th Anniversary
years ago, nearly a decade of dreaming
became reality for Matt Hall when 201
Media Productions officially opened for business.
During the past four years, Hall has made it his
mission to continue dreaming up ways to keep his
business at the forefront of media production.
Four
“When the company began, we offered mostly
wedding videography, with a few corporate shoots
here and there,” said Hall. “We have dramatically
increased our work with small businesses by
Once Hall mastered the videography element of his
business, he knew he wanted to offer more to his
customers. “201 Media has been successful
because we’ve always looked for ways to better
serve our clients,” said Hall. “We have never
forgotten that our clients drive our business, not
the other way around. We take time to
develop partnerships with businesses
and look at the long-term
relationship, instead of just
focusing on the project at
hand. We look for ways
to help our clients grow,
because we know that as
they grow, they will need
vividly. Those memories will be lost as VHS and
tapes are phased out.”
Memories can fade as time goes by, but
photography and video can last forever. It is
important to capture those memories as extensively
as possible, so they can be shared for generations
to come. “If someone is unsure of whether they
need a videographer for their event, I would tell
them that the day will be a blur,” said Hall. “The
execution of the day is often so overwhelming that,
without video, they miss all the little details that
they'd planned. They forget to notice the detail of
the table centerpieces or the warm glow of the
candles. There are aspects of the day that they
physically miss, like the expression of the groom
when the bride enters or the dancing steps of the
“Memories can fade as time goes by, but
photography and video can last forever.”
creating web videos and commercials for both
television and social media use. We have expanded
our event services to include photography, DJ and
photo booth—offering a complete media package
for any social event. We have also added media
conversion services. There are many more places
that I want to see it go, but I’m proud of how far we
have come. I have been most surprised by the
number of people that don’t know anyone else that
does video production. I’m glad to be able to bring
these services to the Triad.”
Like all successful businesses, 201 Media
Productions never cuts corners. Hall believes that
our services even more. By
expanding our event service
offerings, we make utilizing media more
convenient for event planners. Incorporating DJ,
photo booth and photography simplifies the process
and allows them to focus on other things and leave
these details to us. [We also added] media transfer
to bring another service to our business clients, but
that has evolved to include a great number of clients
wanting to transfer personal media as well.
Technology is changing very rapidly and older
media will be unusable if not converted to a digital
format. The popularity of the camcorder in the 80s
and 90s allowed families to capture life events more
flower girl walking down the aisle. The ability to
relive the moments of your special day is priceless
and will be a treasure for anniversaries to come.”
For more information about
201 Media Productions, please call
336.253.7335, or visit our website at
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Literate Girls
By Susan Ott, Member, The Women’s Fund of Winston-Salem
am I so stupid?” Seven-yearold Sandra cries and says she
doesn’t want to go to school. She struggles
over her homework and doesn’t want to pick
up a book to read. Her classmates call her a
“dummy” when she makes mistakes trying to
read aloud in class. Sandra is too shy to tell
her teacher that she doesn’t
understand what’s on the
blackboard or in her books. Her
parents can see that she’s
struggling, but they think she
just needs to work harder.
Sandra is quietly failing.
“Why
school. Parents shouldn’t hesitate to approach
teachers with their concerns about their
child’s reading and writing.
The Augustine Project for Literacy, an
outreach ministry of St. Paul’s Episcopal
Church, is an intensive reading program for
low-income children. To meet the specific
Parents are not always aware
that girls with reading problems
are often overlooked in the
classroom. Even though
learning disabilities affect both
sexes equally, boys are referred
for reading help two to four
times more often than girls.
Boys often act out in the
classroom and are easier to
spot. Girls keep their difficulties
to themselves.
Children do not outgrow reading
problems; 57% of children with
learning disabilities leave
school without a diploma. If
they are not reading well by
third grade, they are more likely
to drop out of school or fail to
graduate on time. Academic
failure and teen pregnancy are
strongly linked.
“Parents should educate
themselves to know earlywarning signs of a potential
reading problem in its earliest stages. They
should know who is at greatest risk. The
sooner help comes, the better. You don’t want
to let a difficulty become a disability,” said
Mrs. Henri Brown, director of the Augustine
Project. “In simpler terms: Catch it early.
Catch her up. Don’t wait,” she advised. A few
signs might be the inability to sound out
words, reading haltingly, taking too much time
with homework, and reluctance to go to
needs of girls, the Project started the Literate
Girls program with the help of grants totaling
$38,000 from The Women’s Fund of WinstonSalem. Literate Girls includes: free one-toone in-school tutoring for economically
disadvantaged girls ages 7–18; intensive,
60-hour training for volunteer tutors; and
publication of an informational brochure,
Quietly Failing. At the end of the 2012–2013
school year, the Augustine Literacy Project
had 85 tutors serving 92 students. The Project
is about to release a brochure specifically
designed to help parents identify potential
reading problems. The next Augustine Project
volunteer training session is
October 14–18.
For more information on
resources for dyslexic children,
or on becoming a tutor, contact
Mrs. Henrietta Brown at
723-4391, email her at
augproj@gmail.com, or visit
the website,
www.augustineproject-ws.org.
This year, The Women’s Fund
will celebrate $1,000,000 in
grants they have awarded to
innovative projects like Literate
Girls. Since 2007, the Fund has
awarded grants to Forsyth
County projects benefitting
women and girls, in areas such
as health, financial planning,
teen pregnancy and self-esteem.
The 8th Annual Women’s Fund
Luncheon, themed “One Million
in Change,” will be held on
Wednesday, November 13, from
12:00 to 1:30 at the Benton
Convention Center. The
Women’s Fund will announce
the 2013 grant recipients as
voted on by the membership.
Wanda Stark of WXII will be the
emcee. The keynote speaker will
be Gail Perry, national expert in
nonprofit fundraising and creator
of the Fired-Up Fundraising™ system. Tickets
for the “One Million in Change” luncheon are
$25 and may be purchased on the Women’s
Fund website, https://womensfundws.org,
starting in early October.
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Should We Choose Our Child’s Friends?
By Katie Moosbrugger of Triad Moms on Main
mom always said you “lose” your child once they start
school. You’re not always there to steer your child through
life decisions after you kiss them goodbye and send them off. You
hope they play with the kids you know who are nice, but we also
know that’s not always the case.
My
This often makes me wonder if it’s a good idea to help choose your
child’s friends. As adults, we pick our own friends all the time. And
our kids do, too. But as parents, is it possible to pick and choose
your kids’ friends? By doing so, could we help them navigate around
the ones we think might cause hardship? Should we even try? And if
so, are we just asking for trouble?
In the first five or six years of our child’s life, we’re usually the
“friend picker” for our child, whether we realize it or not. As new
moms, we hang out with our “new mom friends” who have babies
the same ages as ours. Our kids tend to grow up with our friends’
kids—sometimes taking vacations and trips together—so by the
time they’re walking and talking with each other, they’re already fast
friends.
Then we choose a preschool. Lots of times that choice is dependent
on where our friends send their children. But if that’s not the case,
we often organize playdates with the children of other preschool
moms we’ve befriended, and not necessarily the same “Johnny” or
“Susie” our child happens to play with every day in class.
Or we coordinate summer camps, sleep-overs, weekends, pool
memberships, after-school activities, Girl and Boy Scout troops,
etc., with our friends and their kids. Again, all with people we
choose to be with, and not necessarily whom our kids choose to
be with.
Of course, a lot of this happens naturally, especially when our kids
are really young. But it’s not always so easy to have this control once
our children reach elementary school.
In my children’s short time at school, I have already seen the
emergence of cliques, “mean kids,” and at times have heard about
hurtful incidents. I’m guilty as charged when it comes to disagreeing
to playdates if my motherly instinct tells me the outcome may not be
good. And I sometimes find myself continuing to steer my children
in what I think is the “right direction” regarding friends, even though
I know I can’t continue to do this.
Of course, we all want our children to be kind and respectful to
everyone, and to have as many friends as possible. But can we go so
far as choosing their friends? Does that even work? And if so, is that
a good thing?
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By Sara Stanley
was no carving needed!
the cool weather creeps in, we are reminded
that Halloween is just around the corner.
October 31st brings one of the few holidays that
children and adults seem to enjoy equally. Dressing
up in costume, face painting and wigs… all in the
name of “trick or treating,” in hopes your costume
will warrant an overfilled bag of candy at the end of
the night. Enjoying this marvelous holiday doesn’t
end, once you are past the age of door-to-door trick
or treating. With our decorating tips and Halloweenthemed treats, you’ll be sure to please the little
ghosts and goblins as well as your adult partygoers. After all, you’re never too old to enjoy this
spooktacular holiday!
As
Halloween decorations can get pricey and timeconsuming to put up. Try these ideas which will be
easy on your budget, and the kids will love helping
you put these together!
Spider Ice Cubes: All you need are spider rings,
(which can be found at the dollar store). Put these
in ice cube trays, add water and freeze. Your end
result will be a great addition to any punch or
witches’ brew!
Witch Toothpicks: Dress up your ordinary
toothpicks with cutout paper in the shape of
witches’ hats and witches’ feet. A simple and easy
way to add a touch of Halloween to any finger food.
Glow in the Dark Slime: A perfect goo for all your
goblins to play with! It’s easy to make by mixing
together:
1 4-oz bottle of
clear or blue gel
Elmer’s glue mixed
with 1 cup of warm water, and
stir in 2–3 tablespoons of glowin-the-dark paint and green neon
food coloring,
In a separate bowl, mix together
2 teaspoons of Borax and 1/3
cup of warm water.
Slowly add the Borax mixture to
the glue mixture. You will not need all of the Borax.
Keep adding until you have reached your desired
stiffness.
DIY Halloween Lanterns: Super easy and very
cute, these lanterns are created by using bright
green, orange, and white plastic cups. Turning the
cups upside-down, use a blank permanent marker
to draw ghoulish faces on each cup: Frankenstein
on the green cups, Jack-O-Lantern faces on the
orange, and ghost faces on the white. To add light
to your lanterns, you can purchase the electric
votive “candles” from the dollar store. This cheap
little trick adds the light you need without melting
the cup!
Candy Corn Pumpkins: Not good at pumpkin
carving!? No fear, we have the perfect solution for
you! Draw a line to mark 3 equally divided sections
on your pumpkin and use colored spray paint to
cover each section. The bottom will be yellow, the
middle orange (or you can leave the natural color of
the pumpkin) and the top section will be white.
Once they are dried, you will have a candy-corninspired pumpkin to display. The best part is there
To go with your fabulous new
décor, you will need some
Halloween finger foods perfect
for your “fright night” party. These recipes will have
all of your vampires licking their fangs for more!
Bandaged Fingers: Use cut hotdogs and crescent
roll dough to make the traditional “pigs in a
blanket.” When wrapping the hot dogs, use smaller
strips of dough layered to look like a bandage. Add
a card next to the plate to alert your guests that
these famous old treats have a new name:
“Bandaged Fingers”! You can even add blood
dipping sauce (ketchup) on the side.
Skeleton Cookies: Think gingerbread men are just
for Christmas? Think again! Break out those old
cookie cutters and make a batch of gingerbread
men. To give them that Halloween flair, use white
icing to draw a skeleton design on the baked
cookies. This even looks great with cat-shaped
cookies, too!
Boo-rific S’mores: For a Halloween twist on this
popular dessert, dress up your s‘mores by using
ghost- or pumpkin-shaped peeps instead of regular
marshmallows. If using an open flame isn’t an
option at your party, you can always prepare these
in the microwave, or package the single-serve
ingredients in individual bags for your guests to take
home as a party favor!
Frightful Fruit: Looking for a healthier treat that will
still keep the kids smiling? Draw Jack-O-Lantern
faces on tangerines or clementines for a healthy
Halloween snack.
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The Power &Beauty of Friendship!
By Heather Spivey
I was a little girl, I loved looking at my mom’s high
school yearbook. She was very active in clubs at
school, Editor of the yearbook, cheerleader & Homecoming
Queen. I would often picture my mom with all of her friends,
doing the things high school girls do. She talked about them
often, and I knew the core group that made up these 12 young women.
The bond they had was solid and steadfast.
When
After graduating in 1962, many of them participated in each other’s
weddings and relished in the excitement at the birth of their children.
As their lives got busier and took them in various directions, a natural
distance began to occur in many of the friendships. But they could always
pick up where they left off with phone calls, and any gap in time was never
awkward.
I was a little envious of this bond, because I knew that what they had was
rare and unique. They proved the solidity of their friendships once again
8 years ago in 2005, when one of the 12 was diagnosed with Stage 4
ovarian cancer. This woman, who happens to be my aunt, was in for the
fight of her life. She not only got the grimmest of news, but her mother
(my grandmother) was in the final stage of an 18-month battle with
multiple myeloma, a blood cancer.
As my Aunt Carol prepared for an aggressive innovative surgery, her
friends were constructing their plan of action as well. The group met, and
they decided to plan monthly gatherings alternating at each other’s
homes. Their sole purpose initially was to support and impart strength to
Aunt Carol—who lost her mother the day of her major surgery. Sharing
stories and meals, they found comfort in each other’s words and homes.
Aunt Carol was soon able to participate in the fellowship that was
essentially designed for her. Her fight would continue, and some days
would be more challenging and painful than others, but she was not alone.
Her family, as well as these 11 women, would never let her feel like she
was fighting alone.
I have been fortunate to join in on occasion when these high school
women get together—Vickie probably likes it most, because she doesn’t
have to wash as many dishes when I’m there. I love hearing their stories—
it’s as if no time has passed. They talk about things from making pound
cake to grandchildren, to ex-husbands (I can say no more), to mutual
acquaintances, to traveling, to how my mom is the only one who still
works full-time, to Dot’s homemade cherry ice cream, to Gwen spending
time at the beach and Betty Sue canning and freezing vegetables.
Others have had struggles throughout this reconnection period as well.
Nancy lost her 4-year old granddaughter to a rare heart disease 2 years
ago. The friends, never wavering, were there to lift and support their friend,
who was crumbling inside from the devastating loss. They are also each
other’s cheerleaders, as they are all very proud of Penny, who has lost
20 lbs. and is still losing.
They plan their monthly gatherings a year out, everyone inking it in and
surely never wanting to miss one without an exceptional reason. They pull
out their I-Phones, as Linda the master coordinator sends out reminder
emails about who is to bring what and where they are meeting. Martha is
the photographer of the group, capturing memories of these forever
friends who reconnected for a friend in need.
These women have proven that, by forming friendships in elementary
school (where most of these began), through raising children and now
grandchildren, anything is possible.
Enjoy the journey, ladies—you all are a fabulous group of women and I am
proud to know and love each and every one of you as my mom’s sisters at
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Small Stories for a Big World
By Kim Underwood
a long time, I pictured Sparkle Girl growing up to be an
artist just like her mother. She clearly has a gift, and, ever
since I have known her, she has been drawing pictures that make
people smile.
For
Lately, though, I have taken to imagining her growing up to own her
own bakery. A while back, Sparkle Girl decided that she wanted to
take up baking. She went right to it in a serious way. She would
look through magazines and cookbooks and pick out the recipe that
looked as if it would be the most fun to make next. One day, she
might choose lemon cupcakes with lemon icing. Another day, it
might be French macaroons.
I was impressed by the fact that she was ambitious, and, if
something didn’t turn out, it didn’t derail her enthusiasm. She
might try the recipe again the next time she baked, or, if some other
recipe that she had discovered beckoned, she would move on to
that. This year, when she asked what kind of cake I wanted her to
bake for my birthday, the wonderful German apple cake with
streusel topping that she had made was still fresh in my taste buds’
memories, so I asked for that.
Sparkle Girl has also started fixing meals for the family from time to
time. All the baking and cooking got me thinking about the day,
years ago, that Sparkle Girl announced, as we headed to a diner for
supper one night, that she thought it would great to own her own
diner some day with pictures of her hanging on the walls. In
keeping with my tendency to take notions to the extreme, I was
soon talking about menus illustrated with her picture, and pictures
of her on vinyl chair backs, and pictures of her, in black and white,
on the sheets that you hand out with crayons for children to color
while they wait for their chicken nuggets to be served.
When Sparkle Girl learned that I planned to bring up that story in
print, she asked me promise to make sure that everyone knew that
she was really young when she imagined that and that now that she
is 14, she most would certainly not dream of suggesting such a
thing. It would be best, she said, if I made that point twice.
I bring up the story not to embarrass Sparkle Girl’s present-day
self, but because I wonder whether, one day, the “Sparkle Girl
Diner” or the “Sparkle Girl Bakery” will open and we will look back
and say, “Huh. Who knew when we were having fun that day when
you were 7 that this day would come?”
If I ever had a pile of extra money—no sign of that happening at the
moment—I would open a place down the street from the “Sparkle
Girl Bakery” called “Bob’s House of Pimiento Cheese,” even
though my name isn’t Bob, because I think a place that specializes
in pimiento cheese should exist, and that “Bob’s” is the best name
for it.
In recent days, Doobins has been thoroughly enjoying watching a
cable television show about the people in a bakery in Hoboken,
New Jersey, who make elaborate custom cakes that cost at least
$1,000 and may cost up to $8,000. Doobins gets quite involved in
the process and offers crisp observations. He hasn’t started baking
himself yet but—who knows?—maybe one day, they will go into
the bakery business together. After stopping off at “Bob’s House of
Pimiento Cheese” for a sandwich, you can walk down the street to
their bakery and pick up a flaky croissant or a cake that looks like
the Leaning Tower of Pisa.
Remember, though, don’t expect to find any pictures of Sparkle Girl
on the wall.
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and toddlers. In addition to high chairs and booster seats, a
changing table can be found in both the men’s and women’s
restrooms, which can make the difference for an enjoyable dining
experience with the entire family.
various North Carolina towns,
families are filling city streets to
engage in fall festivals; however, the children too often are unable
to participate in activities or games on their distinct level of
entertainment. On Saturday, October 19, the River Ridge Tap House
of Clemmons is excited to announce its first annual Oktoberfest
festival. Catering to families, an autumn-themed event will have
children dancing to the music and enjoying the many activities and
rides available. By mid-afternoon, beer aficionados will be appeased
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At 11:00, the block party kicks off with special activities and games
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demonstrating their artistic talent in painting a pumpkin or boarding a
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difficult, but boys and girls can mask their faces with interesting
designs, such as a tiger or cat, pumpkin or ghost, to name a few.
Siblings or friends may enjoy playing a fun, competitive game of
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While a popcorn machine will be present,
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well as a fireside chicken stew after 4:00
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Patrons of the River Ridge Tap House may recognize the men and
women attending to the children’s stations. While employees, Kenya
Barnes and Kelly Forrester are also independent business owners and
will have stands to share samples with the community. Mary Kay and
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Partygoers can find samples of apple cider, or go glamorous by
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What Does School Time Mean to Mothers?
By Suzy Fielders
that summer is officially over, and school is well underway, we pose the question—how do
moms feel about this? Suddenly houses that were filled with children and plenty of noise
become very quiet for moms. Many moms realize they now have significantly more free time on their hands.
Now
Mothers always are so busy that any free time is always a great thing to have. Many moms love how much easier it is to get
house work and errands done when the children are in school. Emily King has been a stay-at-home mom in the triad for 10 years
and takes full advantage of the school-day time. She knows, like many moms, “it’s easier to get the house cleaned and run
errands, such as grocery shopping, getting the oil changed in the car, and helping my husband with his business or yard work”
when children are busy at school. Another helpful attribute of back-to-school time for her and other expectant mothers is that it
allows them to get some rest. Emily says, “Lately I have been trying to catch up on rest and take a cat nap while I can before
this baby comes in the fall.” Any mom knows that once a baby is born, there is very little rest, so catching extra sleep is a
perfect idea!
Another great opportunity school time presents moms is the chance to do things for themselves. Every mom needs some time to
herself and to do what she loves, and this is the ideal time to do so. For instance, Katie Jones, a local stay-at-home mom, uses
her free time to “read a good book or visit with friends.” Katie also says, “I had to look into a hobby for just myself. I took up
sewing, which everyone loves. It is wonderful to be able to take on new
hobbies and learn new things while the children are at
school.”
Volunteering is an excellent way to fill the time and
help others in the process. Some mothers, like
Katie, volunteer at the schools. Today’s teachers
and office staff have so much to do and very
little time to do it. Parent volunteers are
invaluable to schools, as they can help fill in
the gaps when things need to be done. It
also gives moms the ability to be more
involved in their child’s school, which in
turn leads to more involvement in the
children’s lives. Another option is to
volunteer at local hospitals or organizations
within the community.
Something else moms can do is go back to school
themselves. Diane Blevins Smith did just that and
was able to get her Bachelor’s degree in psychology
while her kids were at school. Diane says about going back
to school, “I decided it was something I wanted to do for myself, once my children started
school.” In addition to going back to school, she also competed in two bodybuilding/
fitness/figure contests and in an MS150 bike ride. This was no easy feat. As she mentions, “That
took up quite a bit of my time, as it involved lifting weights four times a week and doing cardio six
times a week while adhering to a six-meals-a-day nutrition plan.”
“Back to school” can also take on a new meaning when children are going away to college. Parents
then find themselves as “empty nesters,” and this transition can bring about a completely different
set of emotions. Diane says, “When I did feel out sorts was when both the children completely
moved out of the house within two months of one another.” Lynda Hooks Culler describes this
transition by saying, “When I became an empty-nester I can only describe it by saying the
silence was deafening. I stayed busy to avoid the silence.”
There are so many things to do in Winston-Salem and in life that moms should make sure to
take advantage of their new free time, now that the kids are back in school. Whether the time is
used for cleaning, running errands, volunteering, earning a degree, exercising, or finding a
new hobby, it ultimately is an investment into building yourself as a person.
“Out and About”
in Winston-Salem
Dress for Success Winston-Salem at the
Winston-Salem Open
By Heather Spivey
Thursday, August 22nd, Dress for Success Winston-Salem was
excited to participate for the 2nd year in a row as the charity
partner for the Winston-Salem Open Ladies’ Luncheon. The event was
held on the 4th floor of the Deacon Tower, attracting ladies from near and
far—all with a shared passion for tennis and supporting the local
community.
On
A festive brunch with mimosas started the morning as the ladies mingled
and prepared to enjoy a spectacular fashion show. The clothes for the
show were provided by Mainstream Boutique, Gusto, Champion and
Nitsa’s. The Varsity Women’s Field Hockey Team from RJ Reynolds High
School were the models for the fashion show. Local vendors included
Amani Children’s Foundation, Mainstream Boutique, Women’s Fund of
Winston-Salem and several vendors from Wake Forest Baptist Health.
Two clients of Dress for Success Winston-Salem also participated in the
fashion show, with clothing that was generously donated from K. Leigh’s
Plus Size Boutique and CeCe’s Boutique, both in downtown W-S. One of
the clients shared her inspiring experience on how Dress for Success
Winston-Salem helped change her outlook on life and her journey towards
job security.
Local Fox 8 television
anchor Cindy Farmer was
the emcee for the program
and former tennis champion, Mali Vai Washington , from Ponte Vedra,
Florida, was the Co-MC. (Mal reached 11th-ranking World Player in 1992
and remains very active in charitable activities).
After a fun-filled morning of food & fashion, the ladies were ready to sit
back and watch an action-packed afternoon of tennis.
The event was sponsored by the three presenting sponsors of the WinstonSalem Open: BB&T, Champion and Flow Automotive, as well as Wake
Forest Baptist Health.
If you would like to have your event in an upcoming issue, please contact Heather Spivey at heather@forsythmags.com
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quote
for this issue
“Great art picks up where nature ends.” ~ Marc Chagall
Magdalis Pena, Hall-Woodward Elementary, 3rd Grade
Teacher: Joanna Smith
Relief Sculpture Group Project,
Meadowlark Middle School
Teacher: Heather Dutton
Elizabeth Anthony, Reynolds High School, 11th Grade
Teacher: Phil Benenati
Kinza Branch, East Forsyh High School, 11th Grade
Teacher: Molly Peterson
Spooky Halloween Cooking with Kids
By Kristi Johnson Marion
Goblin Grins
October, that time of year we break out the
spooky recipes for parties, play dates and
school lunches. Here are some cute recipes to make
with your kids that aren’t too gory or candy-covered!
It’s
Mummy Dogs & Web Dipping Sauce
10 hot dogs
1 8-oz. tube of refrigerated crescent roll dough
mustard
ketchup
Directions:
Roma or Red Delicious apples (or other very
red variety)
white mini-marshmallows
Tootsie Rolls (original brown, or green Fruit
Tootsie Rolls)
white frosting (or peanut butter, or honey)
Directions:
1) Slice the apples in half (stem to base),
then into ½-inch slices. These will be the
“lips.”
1) Preheat oven to 375 degrees.
2) Spread the frosting (peanut butter or
honey) onto one side of each apple slice.
2) Roll out crescent roll dough and press together the
perforations, forming one rectangle of dough. Slice the
dough into thin strips.
3) Slice Tootsie Rolls in half (brown or green
fruit). These will be your “rotten” teeth.
3) Wrap the hot dogs in the dough strips, crisscrossing
some and leaving some hot dog showing, particularly
one end, which will be the mummy “face.”
4) Place on baking sheet and lightly spray dough with
cooking spray.
5) Bake for 13–17 minutes or until dough is golden
brown.
6) Using mustard, draw features for the mummy face on
the bare hot dog end.
7) For spooky dipping sauce, fill a bowl with ketchup
and draw a bulls-eye of circles on top with mustard.
8) Using a butter knife, put the knife in the center of the
smallest circle and pull out toward the edge of the
bowl. Continue this step a couple of inches over and
repeat until mustard looks like a spider web.
4) Line mini-marshmallows along the
spread, placing two of the Tootsie Rolls in the
line.
5) Place another apple slice on top to act as
the “upper lip.”
6) Tip: To keep the apple slices from
oxidizing (turning brown) before serving,
soak them in water with lemon or lime juice
(1 Tbsp. juice per cup of water) for 3–5
minutes. Note that this will add a tartness to
the flavor, so don’t over-soak!
Witch Finger Cookies
By Emily Dodson
1 cup butter, softened
1 cup powdered sugar
1 egg
1 teaspoon almond extract
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
2 cups all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon baking powder
1 teaspoon salt
¾ cup almonds
1 tube red decorating gel
Directions:
1) In a mixing bowl combine butter, sugar, egg and
extracts.
2) Beat together with an electric mixer, gradually
adding flour, baking powder and salt. Continue to
beat as you add these.
3) Chill dough for 20–30 minutes in the refrigerator.
4) Preheat oven to 325 degrees and grease baking
sheets.
5) Remove dough from the refrigerator and have kids
use wax paper to shape small amounts into thin
finger-shaped cookies.
6) Instruct kids to squeeze along the finger dough at
tip and near center to look like knuckles, using a fork
to crisscross if a wrinkled-finger look is desired.
7) Press an almond into the end of each cookie to
look like fingernail.
8) Bake 20–25 minutes until cookies are golden in
color.
9) After cookies have cooled, remove almond and
squeeze red gel under fingernail indentation; replace
the almond and cause gel to squeeze out around
fingernail.
October Calendar
of Family Events
OCTOBER 1
“TAKE FLIGHT” EXHIBIT OPENS AT SCIWORKS
10am-4pm, SciWorks. The Take Flight Exhibit is devoted to
the creative exploration of flight. Visitors of all ages can try
their hands at the paper airplane launchers, the hoverport,
the rocket launcher and other flight experiences. 714.7109
Winston-Salem Walk to
Cure Diabetes
October 26, 2013
Wake Forest's
BB&T Field
499 Deacon Boulevard
Winston-Salem, NC
Register for Walk/Run
at:
walk.jdrf.org/WS
OCTOBER 1-29
LITTLE CREEK FALL SOCCER
8-10pm, Hanesbrands Theatre, 209 North Spruce Street.
Told from the viewpoint of the vampire himself, the
audience comes to understand Dracula’s undying love for
Mina, spanning centuries and continents. Cost:
$23.50/person; $20/children, students and seniors;
$10/student rush. 747.1414
4:30-5:30pm, 610 Foxcroft Drive in W-S. Little Creek
Recreation Center is starting a free, five-week soccer
program for ages 4-12. Sign up is required to participate.
659.4303
OCTOBER 6
FAMILY FIRST WORKSHOP –
FELT BIRD WORKSHOP
OCTOBER 1-31
PUMPKIN PICK HAYRIDE (See ad pg9)
OCTOBER 2
GROWING BLUEBERRIES IN THE
HOME LANDSCAPE
11am-12pm, Arboretum Office at Tanglewood Park, behind
the Manor House. Bill Colvin, extension master gardener
volunteer, will discuss how to grow blueberries
successfully. Preparing the soil, needed amendments like
fertilizer, how many shrubs you need, pruning and
harvesting will be discussed. 703.2850
OCTOBER 4
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AWARENESS
MONTH DAY OF UNITY
12-1pm, 1200 South Broad Street. The Day of Unity is a
commemorative celebration honoring survivors and victims
of domestic violence homicide. Local survivors will join us
to share their experiences. 722.8173
100TH ANNIVERSARY OF THE CONSERVATORY
Join
Our
Love Liv
Team!
Registration 9am
Walk Start Time 10am
The JDRF Walk to Cure Diabetes is
a fun, happy, healthy, and
effective way to show your
support for all those living with
type 1 diabetes (T1D) and to raise
funds for JDRF—the
leading global organization
focused on T1D research.
OCTOBER 5-6
W-S FESTIVAL BALLET PRESENTS EXPANDED
BALLET “DRACULA”
3-6pm, Reynolda Gardens of Wake Forest University. Join
us for an open house to celebrate the anniversary of the
conservatory and greenhouse complex. Light refreshments
included. 758.3485
PILATES FOR PINK
5-7pm, Inner Strength Pilates, 4983 Martin View
Lane. Learn how Pilates can help benefit those
affected. 100% of any donations received will go directly
to our local Komen Foundation. 813-5320.
THEN SINGS MY SOUL
7-9pm, Triad Baptist Church, 1175 South Main Street in
Kernersville. Our community together in song! A
community choral conducted by Dr. Rick Hendricks and
special guest Mercy’s Well will perform to benefit The
Shepherd's Center of Kernersville. 996.6696
OCTOBER 4-5
HILLSDALE UMC CONSIGNMENT SALE
9am-12pm, Advance. Consign or shop for gently used
clothes, accessories, toys, books, games, baby equipment
and furniture. For more information, please visit
hillsdaleumc.com or email angelap@hillsdaleumc.com.
OCTOBER 5
HEAVENLY HARVEST
11:30am-3:30pm, New Vision Baptist Worship Center.
Free family/community carnival. Puppet and reptile shows,
bounce house, live music, door prizes including Wake
Forest tickets, clowns, free hot dogs, cotton candy, popcorn
and more!
2-4:30pm, Reynolda House Museum of American Art. Find
many feathered friends in the fine and decorative arts of
Reynolda House, then create your own fabulous bird
ornament out of colorful felt. Cost: $8/members; $10/nonmembers. Art materials are provided. Registration required
as class enrollment is limited; call 758.5599.
OCTOBER 7
KIDS’ MORNING OUT
9:30am-11:30am, Salem Gymnastics Sports Center, 4870
Country Club Road. Come see all Salem Gymnastics has
to offer with a variety of individual activity stations. As
always, each adult receives four tickets for our fabulous
prize board drawings! 765.4668
OCTOBER 8
GIRLS' NIGHT OUT
5 pm…until! Westbend Vineyards and Brewhouse, 5394
Williams Road in Lewisville. Grab a friend, neighbor, coworker, mother, sister, SOMEBODY and have a much need
Girls’ Night Out. Just $20/person includes heavy hors
d'oeuvres and two drink tickets for beer or wine; or skip
one and enjoy drinks or food for only $10/person. Also,
register for TONS of prizes and giveaways! Sponsored by
Westbend Vineyards and Brewhouse, Forsyth Woman and
Forsyth Woman Engaged! See you there! 866.901.5032
OCTOBER 9
FAIR FOOD DRIVE
11am-9pm, Dixie Classic Fairgrounds, 421 West 27th
Street. Bring five Lowes brand non-perishable food items
to the Dixie Classic Fair, and get free admission into the
fair for that day only. Donations go to Crisis Control
Ministry's food pantries. 724.7875 etc. 1040
OCTOBER 10
LEWISVILLE LASER ANNIVERSARY
CELEBRATION
5-8pm, Lewisville Laser and Aesthetics. Lewisville Laser
would like to invite you to our anniversary celebration!
We will be offering discounts and freebies. 945.2076
OCTOBER 11-12
WOMEN OF FAITH
Times vary, Bojangles Coliseum. You’ll hear stories that
strengthen, practical Bible teachings that can transform
your everyday living and experience authentic praise and
worship with music. Tickets start at $49. 888.493.2484
HOLY FAMILY CHURCH FALL BAZAAR
4820 Kinnamon Road in Clemmons. 31st annual bazaar
loaded with fall and Christmas items, hand knitted items,
garden and yard art, unique one-of-a-kind hand painted
children's and adult furniture and bake sale. Lunch served.
659.8731
OCTOBER 12 & 13, 19 & 20
FALL PARADE OF HOMES (see ad pg40-41)
1:30pm. Benefits Crisis Control Ministry, Sunnyside Ministry
and Church World Service. Free, but donations requested.
724.7875 etc. 1040
OCTOBER 17
COMMUNITY OPEN HOUSE BRENNERFIT
OCTOBER 22
BOOKMARKS PRESENTS LEMONY SNICKET
(see ad pg15) 5:30-7:30PM, William G White YMCA
HOME FREE
12-1:30pm, Bridger Field House at BB&T field.
Cost of Event: Tickets are $50 or Tables are $500 for 10
people Home Free is the annual benefit to end domestic
violence in Forsyth County. Cost: $50/person. Call
778.7053 for tickets. www.homefreenc.com
OCTOBER 18
THE CAROLINA SUMMER MUSIC FESTIVAL:
A BOUQUET OF MUSIC
3-8pm, Reynolda House Museum of American Art. The
Carolina Summer Music Festival returns with a bouquet of
chamber music both traditional and contemporary.
Celebrated songs about nature and flowers by Schumann
and Schubert will evoke particular blooms. Cost:
$8/members & students; $18/non-members. 758.5150
6:30-7:30pm, Wait Chapel, Wake Forest University.
BookMarks and WFU host Lemony Snicket, on tour for his
new book, “When Did You See Her Last?” Send questions
for Lemony in advance to info@bookmarksnc.org. Tickets
available at www.bookmarksnc.org. Book signing after the
event. Cost: $15/person or $25 with book/person.
747.1471
OCTOBER 23
CINEMA UNDER THE STARS PRESENTS “E.T.:
THE EXTRA-TERRESTRIAL” (1982)
9-11pm, Reynolda House Museum of American Art.
Summer heralds long, lazy evenings and large, ambitious
movies. Co-presented by the School of Filmmaking at
UNCSA. Cost: $5/person – cash only. 758.5150
OCTOBER 23-37
HALLOWEEN WEEKEND AT OLD SALEM
(see ad pg17)
ZUMBATHON FUNDRAISER
OCTOBER 24
BOOKMARKS PRESENTS LEE SMITH
7-10pm, Village Inn Event Center, 6205 Ramada Drive in
Clemmons. 100% of the proceeds will go to early
detection, treatment and finding a cure for breast cancer
through Susan G. Komen NW NC. This three-hour dancefitness party will feature over a dozen certified Zumba
Instructors, DJ with club lighting, refreshments, vendors,
raffle and door prizes! Cost: $15/advance; $20/door.
714.0172
7-8pm, Hanes Auditorium, Salem College Fine Arts Center.
BookMarks and the Salem College Center for Women
Writers host Lee Smith, award-winning author of the novel
Guests on Earth. Event is free, but premier reception with
book signing tickets available for $65. 747.1471
OCTOBER 19
FORSYTH COUNTRY DAY SCHOOL
ADMISSION OPEN HOUSE (see ad pg27)
ST. JOHN’S LUTHERAN SCHOOL CARNIVAL
10am
RESEACH FOR A CURE LUNCHEON
11am-2pm, Center United Methodist Church, 1400 Center
Road in Yadkinville. The Breast Cancer Research Foundation
of the Triad will sponsor a luncheon, silent auction, Yo Yo
Quilt Raffle and entertainment by The Enon Boys. All
proceeds benefit cancer research at WFUBMC. Cancer
Survivors honored. Cost: $12/person. 469.0131
OCTOBER 19 & 26
REYNOLDA SKETCH
10am-12:30pm, Reynolda House Museum of American Art.
Reynolda Sketch is a series of workshops for art students
in 7th-12th grades who are interested in improving their
artistic skills. Each 2.5-hour session focuses on a different
aspect of art-making. Cost: $25 members/
$35 non-members. All six classes $125 members/
$175 for non-members. 758.5150
OCTOBER 20
BRIDAL SHOW AT THE BB&T BALLPARK
BB&T Ballpark, 951 Ballpark Way. Meet great wedding
vendors who can help you plan your dream wedding.
Admission for two is $24 at the door. Register online and
save 50% with promo code FALLINLOVE
at TinyUrl.com/OctBridalShow. Send questions to
Denise@ForsythMags.com.
CROP HUNGER WALK
2:30-4:30pm, Corpening Plaza, 231 First Street. Join more
than 2,000 walkers to help raise awareness and money to
fight hunger locally and globally. Registration starts at
OCTOBER 25
SALEM ACADEMY FALL VISIT (see ad pg45)
5-7:30pm, St. John's Lutheran School, 2415 Silas Creek
Parkway. Join us for a community carnival with food, games
and loads of activities for the kids. Entrance is free; you may
purchase tickets for games and food at the door.
www.stjohnsfalcons.org
njoy delicious food from
our large menu selection
as our friendly staff offers
you a pleasurable dining experience.
Quality and unsurpassed service
await you at Mac & Nelli’s
Weekly Dining & Drink Specials:
Monday
Create your own pasta station
$9.95 Adults, $4.95 Children
Tuesday
Wings Wells & Wine Night!
25 Cent Wings/$3.00 Well Drinks
& $5.00 Wine
Wednesday
Ladies’ Night, $5 Martini's
Thursday
25 cent WINGS! $2 Bud Light Drafts
$3 Blue Moon & Red Oak Drafts
Friday & Saturday
OCTOBER 26
ANNUAL FLY-IN THE SPIRIT OF AVIATION:
THE NEXT GENERATION
8am-4pm, Sugar Valley Airport, 249 Gilbert Road
Mocksville. Explore opportunities for youth and adults in
aviation. Airplanes on display, presentations include WINGS
credit programs, Civil Air Patrol (CAP) programs, remote
control airshow, music, food, fun and young eagle flights.
998.3971
TRICK OR TREAT AT SCIWORKS
3-5pm, SciWorks, 400 West Hanes Mill Road. Dress up in
your Halloween best and trick-or-treat throughout the
museum! Included with museum admission (and free for
SciWorks members). 714.7109
ROCK LASER SHOWS IN SCIWORKS’ PLANETARIUM
6-8pm, SciWorks, 400 West Hanes Mill Road. Familyfriendly show featuring classic chart-toppers like "Monster
Mash,""Bad Moon Rising" and more! Cost: $6/person per
show, or enjoy both shows for $10/person. 714.7109
NOW THROUGH NOVEMBER 2
KERSEY VALLEY MAIZE ADVENTURE
12-6pm, 1615 Kersey Valley Road in High Point. Maize
Adventure is the most famous corn maze in NC that is the
perfect way for your family, school, home school or church
group to experience a day of camaraderie and fun!
Cost: $10.95+. 431.1700
Check out our website for a complete Calendar Listing!
www.forsythfamilymagazine.com
Prime Rib
Friday Night Music for October:
October 4 - Jamie Carroll
October 11 - Evan & Dana
October 18 - Mezza Voce
October 25 - The Mulligans
Live Music on Extra
Special Nights:
Thursday October 3
Evan & Dana - 6:30 - 9 pm
Wednesday October 9 Jerry Chapman - 6:30 - 9 pm
Thursday October 24 Katelyn Marks - 6:30 - 9 pm
Keep up with our events
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Advertiser Index
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R
Imprints.....................................................69
River Ridge Tap House...............................75
Irvin Roberts Salon & Spa ..........................11
Roger Marion Automotive ..........................63
Braincore Therapy......................................23
J
S
Brenner Fit.................................................15
JDRF Walk to Cure Diabetes.......................80
Salem Academy.........................................45
201 Media.................................................62
B
Bonefish Grill.............................................75
Bridal Show at the Ballpark ........................49
Salem Gymnastics.....................................33
Brookstown Technology Services, LLC .......73
K
Salem Smiles Orthodontics .......................18
Busy as a Bee Concierge ...........................71
Kersey Valley Maize Adventure...................37
SciWorks ...................................................48
Kersey Valley Spooky Woods .....................73
St. John’s Lutheran Church and School ......61
Kersey Valley Zip Line ........Inside Front Cover
Stitches .....................................................38
C
C3 Fitness .................................................33
Sunrise United Methodist Church...............58
CareNet Counseling ...................................24
L
Carrabba’s Italian Grill ...............................75
Last Resort, The .........................................75
Chamberlain Place Apartments ..................23
Susan Maier Colon - Prudential Carolinas ..43
Launch Media............................................71
T
Chermak & Hanson Orthodontics ...............55
Lewisville Laser & Aesthetics .....................49
Tanglewood Stables .....................................9
Chris’ Lawncare .........................................43
Locke Chiropractic .....................................19
Tart Sweets ..........................................11, 75
Christina’s Dessertery................................75
Lyndhurst Gynecologic Associates ...............9
Ten Little Monkeys .....................................23
Christmas Toy Drive.....................................7
Thruway Center..........................................37
Cornerstone Health Care ............................21
M
Tina S. Merhoff & Associates ...............25, 61
Couture Eyewear ........................................13
Mac & Nelli’s ............................................81
TJ’s Body Shop .........................................63
meg brown home furnishings.....................45
Triad Lawn & Landscaping..........................38
Minglewood ..............................................61
Triple Threat School of Dance,
Music, Acting ............................................33
D
Danielle Kattan - Cakes, Pastry Cuisine ......21
Moonlight Designs ....................................69
Dragonfly House ..........................................8
Moore Self Storage....................................63
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N
Fall Parade of Homes.................................41
New Pyramid Builders................................39
Financial Pathways.....................................47
Novant Health - Forsyth Medical
Imaging........................................Back Cover
Forsyth Country Day School.......................27
Trustient.....................................................32
V
V’s Barbershop ..........................................35
W
Walk for Wishes.........................................18
G
O
WBFJ 89.3 ................................................59
Goin’ Postal ...............................................73
Old Salem .................................................17
Which Wich? .............................................75
Old Vineyard Behavioral Center ..................13
Will Wilkins - State Farm Insurance............18
Omega House Family Restaurant................75
Winston-Salem Cleaning Service...............67
One Shot Photography ...............................28
WomanCare ...............................................21
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Women’s Fund of Winston-Salem, The.......65
Hidden K Stables .......................................71
Hillsdale Real Estate Group ........................39
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Hip Chics ..................................................35
Phoenix Grille ............................................75
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Home Instead ..............................................3
Piedmont Diaper Bank................................49
YMCA........................................................31
Honky Tonk Smokehouse ...........................75
Pine Brook Country Club.....Inside Back Cover
Portrait Gallery, The ...................................67
Postal Annex..............................................11
Quality Time…
where you might least expect to find it.
Pine Brook Country Club
offers many features
for the entire family to
enjoy, including…
Youth Activities
Junior Golf Clinics,
Swim Team, Golf Camps
Dining Facilities
Casual lunch,
evening dining,
Sunday brunch,
seafood buffet
& much more.
Meeting &
Banquet Facilities
MEMBERSHIPS starting at $180/month
Wedding Facilities
Includes unlimited golf and all other club amenities
Celebrating
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Call today for information about membership options
and start having FUN!
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Your medical expenses
shouldn’t be a mystery
If you need help estimating your insurance-covered and
out-of-pocket costs for a procedure (including imaging)
at any of our Novant Health facilities, one of our financial
navigators is ready to help – free of charge.
The financial navigator will ask you about your procedure
and insurance coverage. Then, you’ll receive an estimate
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