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September 2010 ST. LOUIS Positive news Personal growth Community awareness positive and uplifting … always in good taste! Winery Finery Norton comes home! Book Review Ask And It Is Given— Manifesting Your Desires Love Comes Full Circle : Extraordinary Kindness Michael Beckwith Says, “Change Your Diet” Café Olé —Soup’s On! Fall Photography Competition Maintaining Happy, Healthy Dogs on a Budget www. javajournalSTL.com C ONTENTS Your Java Journal Fortune Cookies September 2010 | Page 3 9 Courtesy of BellaSpark Productions CONTRIBUTING SCRIBES Sonia Ahuja Richard Hoyle Sherman Lee Marian Rein Peggy Sullivan Rosenthal, MEd Lacy Scarmana Phylis Clay Sparks 13 ADVERTISING Jack Arnold Marian Rein 12 Courtesy of the APA of Missouri EDITOR & CHIEF BARISTA Marian Rein COPY EDITORS Carl Hasse Doug Rensch Maggie Ryan File photo Java Journal® 11116 South Towne Square, Ste. 102 St. Louis, MO 63123 17 Select a fortune cookie by choosing a number from 1 and 10. Then turn to page 22 to read your Java Journal fortune. Our mission at Java Journal is to share all that (314) 894-3655 info@javajournalonline.com www. javajournalSTL.com 5 Love Comes Full Circle Extraordinary Kindness 12 Café Olé Soups On! by Marian Rein by Sonia Ahuja 6 Java Journal® LLC is a monthly publication providing news and information throughout the St. Louis metropolitan area. Articles and information submitted for publication may be edited for length or content. Java Journal is not responsible for any claims made by advertisers. The opinions expressed by contributing writers are not necessarily those of Java Journal®. 7 8 13 The Norton Grape advertisers in a fundamen- 14 Ask And It Is Given by Esther and Jerry Hicks Disabled Athlete Sports Association Never Say Can’t tal, yet positive way, reviewed by Peggy Sullivan Rosenthal by Lacy Scarmana Human Nurture Tired of Being Tired? Consider the Adrenal Glands 16 Dogs On A Budget Michael Beckwith Says, “Change Your Diet” Photography Competition 17 APA Canine Carnival compassion and 18 T’ai Chi Ch’uan by Paul MacFarlane and Bill Grivna 19 The Power of Children by Jessica Hentoff For Grandparents’ Day community through communication, by Donna Visocky 9 strengthening the by Richard Hoyle by Eric Nepute, D.C. 10 DISTRIBUTION: If you would like Java Journal® distributed to your place of business for pick up by patrons, please call (314) 894-3655 or send an email to info@javajournalonline.com. connecting readers with by Phylis Clay Sparks 9 ADVERTISING: To place an advertisement in Java Journal®, contact the advertising department at (314) 894-3655 or sales@javajournalonline.com. St. Louis has to offer — 20 The Purse common purpose. (And we intend to put the fun back in fundamental. Join us as we highlight all A story from a reader A story from a reader 11 Grandparents’ Perspectives 21 Pro Page 23 In Your Community by Sherman Lee Cover photo by George Denniston, Jr. that makes St. Louis feel like home.) Page 4 | September 2010 javajournalSTL.com Coffee Break with the Chief Barista Correspondence Corner Photo by Michelle Fielden We’d like to hear from YOU Java Journal welcomes your thoughts and comments. Is there someone you know who has done something extraordinary? If there’s someone, something or somewhere that brings you joy, sheds a little light—or you would like to just share a positive thought, now is the time and this is the place. Send us a letter or an email so we can spread the word. After all, we’re all in this together, and sharing brings us closer together. The deadline for publishing is the tenth of the month prior to the published issue. If you have any questions, please feel free to call us at (314) 894-3655. F or as long as I can remember, I’ve thought of my self as lacking creativity. Interestingly, most of the things I have done in my life involve creativity. With a few creative successes under my belt, I gained a little confidence in that arena. However, I remain apprehensive about drawing and painting. Pamela Wickard and Joan Marie, two friends of mine who are artists, provided me with encouragement to give it a try. So I did. You might be thinking that I started with a sheet of paper and some colored pencils and Crayola watercolors — not even close. I went to the hardware store and, for seven dollars, bought a sheet of something sort of like wood, had it cut into smaller pieces, and Java Journal Correspondence Corner 11116 South Towne Square, Ste. 102 St. Louis, MO 63123 E-mail: info@javajournalonline.com began a painting that is 36" wide by 42" tall. I found a painting on the internet that I like and traced it onto my board. That was two months ago, and I’m nearly finished. And it’s pretty good for my first crack at it! Fear is such a waste of time, and it almost always involves something that we do not thoroughly understand. I made the decision a long time ago that if I can identify the fear within myself, I can get rid of it. For whatever reason my fears developed, they no longer serve me, now. On another note, August is a memorable month for me. I’ve never received as many kind emails from readers as I did in August. Thank you for your comments and well wishes. I also received several articles, submitted by our readers, that we’ve featured this month — a story in honor of Grandparents’ Day and a humorous story about internet purse shopping. I am delighted to share these stories with you, our readers. And for those of you who have been inquiring about our next photography competition, turn to page 9. The deadline for photo submissions is November 1. I’m looking forward to all the great photos. 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Find Ralphie’s six hiding places, list the page numbers on a sheet of paper or postcard and mail it to Java Journal, postmarked by September 20. Please include your name, address, email address, telephone number and where you picked up Java Journal. Correct entries will be put into a drawing for a $20 gift certificate for Dvin Restaurant in Webster Groves. The winner’s name will be printed in the September issue. Send your entry to: Java Journal Tracking Ralphie 11116 South Towne Square, Ste. 102 St. Louis, MO 63123 Tracking Lilly Drawing Congratulations to Tonya Joern, winner of the “Tracking Lilly” drawing in the August issue of Java Journal. Tonya received two tickets to Shrek The Musical at the Fox Theatre. She picked up Java Journal at VAC Bal-Coeur Animal Hospital. Courtesy of the APA Tracking Ralphie javajournalSTL.com September 2010 | Page 5 Love Comes Full Circle Extraordinary Acts of Kindness by Sonia Ahuja quickly. Earlier this year, a woman had answered his advertisement for home repair work because water was leaking from her roof into her bathtub. Since the woman, Debbie Powers, didn’t have the money to pay for it, she called Forister and asked if she could set up a payment plan with him. Forister told her if she could get the materials to patch up the roof, he would do the work for hardly anything, which he did. “How often do you meet a great Samaritan like Paul?” Powers asked. “He really helped me when I needed it.” Helping someone in need is not something that Forister, a middle-aged father and grandfather raised in St. Louis, just thinks about. It is a deliberate act. “You can’t take money with you when you die,” Forister explained. “But you can end up with a lot of great memories in the end. It’s not important for me to have a lot of things. A person needs to survive and pay their bills and taxes.” Forister says he gets something worth much more than “a few extra bucks” when he helps someone like Powers—or someone stranded by the side of a road. He says those kinds of opportunities are chances to continue what he refers to as the “circle of love.” “I am a person that doesn’t need a lot of the modern comforts. I am most happy while I am working,” he added. Forister became convinced of this belief years ago when he was married and his three daughters were very young. His wife had told him to stop spending so much time helping others. She was very upset with him, Forister recalls, and for a short while he stopped helping others. But that changed one day, when he saw a woman stranded on the side of the road standing next to her car. Her tire had blown out. Forister came to her aid. He decided afterward that he would not be able to continue to comply with his wife’s request. When he returned home that evening, he had a surprising conversation with his wife. She told him earlier that day she was driving through an unsafe part of town with their three young daughters when a tire on the car blew out. An elderly man helped her, she recalled. She then apologized to Forister for telling him to stop spending time helping others and said she would like him to continue to do what he had been doing before. Then Forister told his wife that he had helped a woman that day after a tire had blown out on her car. They determined that he had been helping the woman at the same time that his wife was receiving help with her car situation. “I told my wife this was synchronicity,” Forister said. “I really believe it to this day.” Forister finally got to experience love coming full circle. Last month, when he needed a new place to live, Powers, who had since become friends with him, phoned her good friend, Claire. Claire owns a building near Richmond Heights and had a one-bedroom unit but no tenant. Problem solved! She not only gave Forister the keys to the apartment, but a spare bed she had in her home. Powers found a set of used furniture for Forister, and, in a matter of days, he was living in a furnished apartment. “I really credit Debbie and her friend Claire, who didn’t even know me, with helping me out in my time of need. Debbie is really an inspiration,” Forister said. Forister said, he sees that the circle of love came to him. “This was really unexpected,” he said, “because I never had someone help me so much.” The fact that this would not have transpired had Forister not helped Powers when she needed it, is not lost on him. “If I had made my first meeting with Debbie about charging her money, I would never have been able to patch her roof and become friends with her. Debbie, with her big heart, proved that what goes around comes around. I can take money, but creating a circle of love is worth so much more.” Forister has spent the remaining days of summer happy in his new home, doing home repair jobs and helping others. Oh! And experiencing love coming full circle to him. I -Mary O’Conner Ten percent of all fees are donated to Honeybee Research INTE N RESTED IN SK KATING ON A SY YNCHR N HRON O IZED SK KATING TEAM? Come to the Webster Groves Ice Skatting Rink to skate with the St. Louis Synerg y Synchronized Ice Skaters and lear n some fun routines on the ice. Alll levels of skating welcome. It is recomm mended that the skaters be at least 4 years old. Date:: 09/15/2010 (WED) ARRIV VE BY 5:45 PM TO T REGIS STER AND GET READY TO SKA KATE. SKA ATING TIM T E IS 6:00 pm²6:30 pm Websteer Groves Ice Arena *S S es Skat e will be available Skate with sy s nchr ro Paul Forister made the decision very 10880 Baur Blvd, Ste. 121 St. Louis, MO 63132 (314) 801-1326 mary@mk-accounting.com In the August issue of Java Journal, we invited our readers to joinusaswespendaweekextendingrandomactsofkindness. This touching story exemplifies just that. It’s not so much how busy you are, but why you are busy. The bee is praised, the mosquito is swatted. Mary Kraemer Sponsored by the Metro Edge Figure Skating Club and the St. Louis Synerg y Syn y chronized Ice Skaters &RQWDFW &KDOHJQH 2·%ULHQ ZLWK questions: 314-516-2615 or timchalegne@yahoo.com Page 6 | September 2010 javajournalSTL.com It’s Human Nature to Nurture File photo by Phylis Clay Sparks T here’s been a debate among scientists that dates back to thirteenth century France about human nature versus human nurture. Some scientists think that people behave as they do according to genetic predispositions or “animal instincts.” This is referred to as the “nature” theory of human behavior. Others believe that people think and behave in certain ways because they enter this world as a blank slate and everything they think and do is learned. This is known as the “nurture” theory of human behavior. My perspective is that both human nature and human nurture are at play in our lives, but as we wake up and become more conscious beings we gain more and more mastery over how we direct our human nature, or our basic instincts, through the conscious use of human nurture. Two philosophy buffs were having a deep theoretical argument. One of them said, very sarcastically, “Since you’re so wise, answer this question: Why is it that when a slice of buttered bread falls to the ground it’s bound to fall on the buttered side?” The other person decided to disprove this theory by a simple, practical experiment. He got a piece of bread, buttered it on one side, and then dropped it. “There you are,” he said triumphantly, “The bread, as you can see, hasn’t fallen on its buttered side at all. So where’s your theory now?” The first person came back with, “You think you’re so smart. You buttered the bread on the wrong side!” Doesn’t it seem to be human nature to want to justify our beliefs, defend our position or opinion, and prove ourselves right— sometimes to the point of the ridiculous? Human nature seem to have certain built-in tendencies. We’ve all said things like, “It’s human nature to want to be loved. It’s End the Clutter & Experience the Peace that Clear Spaces Can Bring! Confidential, Non-judgmental, Experienced We help you get organized so you can live the life you want to live (314) 956-2282 www.clearspaces.org Member of the National Association of Professional Organizers human nature to desire success. It’s human nature to be curious. It’s human nature to want to feel important.” Many theologians would say, “It’s human nature to be sinful.” It seems obvious that human nature arrives at its true potential through human nurture. One of the human nurturing approaches of modern psychology is to talk about one’s “issues.” This is all about overcoming hurtful past events by getting our feelings out, baring our soul and discussing our issues. Here’s a riddle for you: If you have ten issues, what’s the next thing you need? Well, if you have ten issues, the next thing you need is a pair of tennis shoes. Maybe it’s human nature to talk about one’s issues, and there may be some merit in angry at your neighbor, walk a mile in his shoes.” (Then you will be a mile away from him—and you’ll have his shoes. Just kidding.) 2. Go the extra mile. You get out of anything what you’re willing to put into it. 3. Give back to life. To get from life, we must give to life. 4. Treat others the way you would like to be treated. This is simply the Golden Rule. 5. Think before you speak. Unbridled words can wreak havoc with the concept of human nurture. 6. Let every action be taken with love. Love is understood by everything that breathes. 7. Rejoice in gratitude always. Human nature can seem to be about bemoaning the tri- ‘It may be human nature to use our imagination, but it’s human nurture to use our imagination wisely.’ doing this. But doesn’t it make sense that the more we think about and talk about our issues, the more issues we will find to talk about? Talking about our issues can become addictive and pretty soon life is just made up mostly of issues. And then one finds oneself telling one’s stories over and over and reinforcing the issues. Is that really human nurture? Perhaps sometimes it is, and sometimes it isn’t. At what point do we step beyond the issues to discover the truth that’s been there all along, buried beneath a growing mound of stories that often have more to do with our imagination than with human nurture? Here’s a brain teaser: Imagine you’re in sinking rowboat surrounded by sharks. How would you ensure survival? Stop imagining! Step out of that dream. Our mind is a powerful mechanism and it can imagine anything to the point of making it seem real in our human experience. It may be human nature to use our imagination, but it’s human nurture to use our imagination wisely. Our imagination is our ability to form mental images. It helps us give meaning to experience, and understanding to knowledge or awareness. It’s the basic way in which we make sense of the world. It plays a key role in our learning process. Imagination is fundamental to human nature, but it can also be fundamental to the conjuring of stories filled with assumption and erroneous logic and misperception. Likewise, our power of imagination is fundamental to our creativity and fundamental to human nurture. So let’s use the creative imagination of our human nature, and come up with the Ten Commandments of human nurture: 1. See things from the other person’s point of view. Confucius say, “When you are als and tribulations of life. But human nurture is about cultivating a deep sense of joy and gratitude. 8. “Fear not, only believe.” It’s human nature to worry. It’s human nurture to believe in something greater than fear. 9. Seek understanding and do the wise thing. Never approach any situation as though you’re the expert without first checking up on your understanding of what’s happening. Then take action. 10. Stretch forth your hand. Never wait for the other person to be the first to stretch out a hand. You be the first. There is no law, no rule, no restriction, no reason to withhold one’s hand in good will. All things considered, understanding, extra effort, thoughtful action and the outstretched hands of men and women all over the world—of all groups, religions, races, ages, nations and cultures—can restore and heal all of the withered values and intentions of human nature through a simple act of human nurture. I Phylis Clay Sparks is the Spiritual Director of The Soul-Esteem Center, a professional speaker and author of SOUL-ESTEEM: The Power of Spiritual Confidence. (314) Ask-Soul, or www.soul-esteem.com. javajournalSTL.com September 2010 | Page 7 BOOK REVIEW Ask And It Is Given Learning to Manifest Your Desires reviewed by Peggy Sullivan Rosenthal R ecently, a friend encouraged me to read Ask and It is Given, Learning to Manifest Your Desires by Esther and Jerry Hicks (The Teachings of Abraham). In 2004, when Ask and It is Given was published, it was on the New York Times’ bestseller list. This book is somewhat out of the mainstream when it comes to the way in which it was written, as well as the words and wisdom that are offered. Keep in mind that Abraham is a group of non-physical entities conveying thought through Esther. The message is that we have the ability to be, do or have anything we desire and to bring ourselves to the feeling of joy from wherever we currently stand. Before I started reading, my friend suggested that I watch a few of the AbrahamHicks videos found on the internet. As I watched, I found myself listening closely. It all made so much sense. So, I started reading with the hope of learning more about the teachings of Abraham. Ask and It is Given focuses on the following: Abraham’s purpose: The entities are responding to our desire for leading-edge information about why we are here and how to live our lives feeling good. Abraham explains that one of the things that keeps us from feeling good is how we express our desires. For example, when we make a statement of what we do not want, we are focused on the having of something unwanted. In other words, the universe always provides that which we desire and does not recognize “no.” Focusing on “no debt” is recognized by the universe as “debt." Abraham instructs the reader that after we state what we desire, the universe answers immediately, and our desires begin to manifest when we trust that our desires are being answered. When we relax and go with the flow, whatever we desire will arrive. His message is that we must be a vibrational match to the thing we are wanting. In other words, you cannot be prosperous and feel poor at the same time. Abraham states that we are here to experience joy through creating. The steps for the creative process include: Step 1: You ask the universe for what you want (your task). Step 2: The answer is given (not your task). Step 3: The answer, which is given, has to be allowed and received (by you). Abraham says that the reason people do not receive what they desire is that they are out of alignment with that which they desire. And that is the only reason—ever. The example given in the book is that of wanting a new car. You launch a desire by noticing something that you want and feeling it with emotion. But instead of maintaining a good feeling about it, attention may be turned to the unwanted thing—an old car and what’s wrong with it. The justifications and need for a new car reinforce the current situation, preventing the new car from coming to you. But by focusing and thinking about having a new car and feeling good, as if you already own the car, a new car is on its way. According to Abraham, “As long as you are more aware of what you do not want regarding this situation, what you do want cannot come to you.” Abraham’s reminder: The law of attraction is always working—it’s how we attract and create. Abraham explains the law of attraction in these words: “It is the basis of your world, our universe, and all that is. Things of like vibration are drawn to each other.” We are all vibrational beings. We have the ability to tune ourselves to certain vibrations — much like tuning a radio to different frequencies to pick up stations. Our thought is vibration. In order to attract what we want, we have to become a vibrational match to what we want. What we focus on emotionally is what we experience, whether it is something wanted or unwanted. Since the law of attraction is always at work, everything is based on it—everything! Abraham and the Emotional Guidance System (EGS) Abraham stresses the importance of paying attention to our feelings. Abraham says we are not aware of how we are vibrating. Our feelings are indicative of what we are thinking and therefore vibrating. High vibrations are like bright beacons to the universe. These high vibrations are easily recognized and responded to by the universe. In the EGS there is a scale of 22 levels of emotions. The lowest level of emotion is fear/grief/depression/despair/powerlessness. A few levels up is anger. Anger is at a higher vibrational level than depression. Moving up the scale to higher vibration are, to name a few, doubt, then pessimism, hopefulness and finally joy. If we are feeling doubt and then move up to hopefulness we’re moving up the scale of the EGS. However, if we’re feeling doubt and then move down to anger, we’re headed back down the scale. The higher we move on the scale of emotions the closer we are to connecting with source energy. Source energy is the vi- brational stream of well-being from which everything flows. Going lower on the scale causes us to move out of alignment with source energy. Abraham emphasizes that what matters most is that we always reach for an improved feeling and that we learn to pay attention to our feelings. Abraham says, “Pay attention to the way you feel and deliberately choose thoughts about everything that feel good to you when you think them.” If we feel bad, that is an indication that our thoughts are not in alignment with that which we want and who we are—joyful, powerful creators. There are two sections to this book. The first section is the instructional manual on how to align our own vibration. It is filled with interesting and thought-provoking information. There is a bit of repetition in each chapter. This put me off at first, but as I continued reading I began to appreciate the reinforcement. I was struck by the importance of the guidance that was being provided. The second section of the book is comprised of 22 exercises or processes to help readers align with their vibration and make feeling good a reality. The processes are enjoyable and worth taking the time to practice. Each is slightly different, but each process attempts to lead one to the ultimate alignment vibration of feeling good. As a self-proclaimed skeptic, I came away from this book with the understanding that being aware of my feelings and thoughts, and practicing being in control of those feelings and thoughts brings me closer to manifesting what I want in my life. Whether this information is coming from Abraham, a group of non-physical entities or Esther Hicks doesn’t really matter. The message is full of positive ideas that are easy to comprehend and incorporate in our daily lives. I Peggy Sullivan Rosenthal, the “Connections Coach,” specializes in collaborating with women who seek a better way forward. She challenges her clients to begin the coaching process by answering “15 Power Questions” which can be found at www.peggyrosenthal.com, or contact Peggy at (314) 803-4482. 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While we love to see you, the best recommendation we can hope for is a satisfied client who only needs to come in for annual checkups. To that end, Dr. Eric is constantly teaching and reading to stay up on what works and what doesn’t. A Healthier Life for Everyone and a Better Life for Anyone™ Basic-H—Shaklee’s biodegradable cleaner. Naturally derived, supersafe and superconcentrated formula with a thousand uses. Vikki Farmer Independent Shaklee Distributor mvfarmer.myshaklee.com (636) 942-5955 (314) 369-8757 erhaps the most commonly heard complaint in a doctor’s office is, “I’m tired. I don’t know what is wrong, I’m just sick and tired of being tired.” Many people assume their thyroid (hypothyroidism) is the culprit. However, a problem commonly mistaken for hypothyroidism is Adrenal Fatigue Syndrome, also known as Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. Here’s how that syndrome evolves. The adrenal glands consist of two organs, the adrenal medulla and the adrenal cortex. The cortex is configured like an envelope wrapped around the medulla. The two adrenal glands are commonly referred to as the stress glands. If we understand the biochemistry and physiology that take place behind the scenes, we may be able to recognize stressed adrenal glands before they become exhausted. Stress, regardless of its source—chemical, physical or emotional—always elicits the following reactions: alarm; resistance or compensation to meet the stress; and exhaustion if the stress was too strong or was maintained too long. The purpose of the adrenal glands is to trigger the alarm response. This reaction is accomplished, in part, by the release of norepinephrine and epinephrine from the adrenal medulla. The effects of norepinephrine are: increased activity of the heart; inhibition of the gastrointestinal tract; and the dilation of the pupils. The effects of epinephrine are similar to norepinephrine, except that epinephrine increases the metabolic rate of the entire body. This includes increasing the rate at HEALTH at HAND INTERNATIONAL HOLISTIC THERAPIES 20% OFF First Visit Massage Aqua Detox Auricular Therapy SCOTT CAUSEY, MMP, HHP Board cert. Holistic Health Practitioner www.scausey.vpweb.com (314) 910-0930 which glycogen is stored in the liver, is converted to glucose and released into the blood. Once epinephrine (adrenaline) and norepinephrine (noradrenaline) are released, the alarm reaction leads to a more generalized response by the entire body. However, if these alarm reactions are too long or happen too frequently, the body's ability to respond quickly will diminish. Then, the adrenal medulla will hypertrophy in an attempt to meet the increased demand for these hormones. It is at this point that symptoms of fatigue and inability to cope with stress appear. If the stress continues and the increased nutritional needs of the adrenal organs are not addressed, the gland begins a long, slow decline into atrophy. To help prevent the problem, the autonomic nervous system requires calcium and potassium to allow cellular response for the alarm reactions, as well as protein and carbohydrate metabolism. Additionally, the adrenal glands require vitamins B and C—more than what is normally contained in an overthe-counter stress formula. Symptoms of Adrenal Stress Syndrome, also known as Chronic Fatigue Syndrome Common symptoms of adrenal involvement are: • fatigue • irritability • insomnia • depression • sore, stiff joints, such as arthritis • hormone imbalance • digestive issues: gas, bloating, irritable bowel syndrome These and other symptoms can easily be recognized by a qualified doctor of chiropractic. In children and young adults, Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) and Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) can also be associated with adrenal stress syndrome. Finding an internal health specialist — a specialization within chiropractic—is an important step in diagnosing and treating Adrenal Stress Syndrome. If you would like to find out more, Eric Nepute, D.C., will be giving an informational lecture on Wednesday, September 15, 6 p.m. at Nepute Chiropractic, located at 4225 Bayless Avenue. Call (314) 544-5600 to reserve your space at the lecture. I javajournalSTL.com September 2010 | Page 9 Michael Beckwith Says, “Change Your Diet” AU T U M N S P L E N D O R M ichael Bernard Beckwith invites you to change your diet. What does this man, a slim, trim guru of health and vitality, recommend? It’s called “The Worry Free Diet,” Beckwith’s own weight-loss program designed to help us shed excess pounds of negativity. Breakfast begins with “Cheery Os.” It’s a great way to zero out negative gossip and lessthan-cheerful comments made by friends and family. One simply responds with an “O?” (With a smile, of course.) For lunch, a big bowl of “Not So Ball Soup.” Ever feel like the world has been overrun by chickens? Chicken Little, that is. When you’re confronted by a Chicken Little running around shouting, “The sky is falling, the sky is falling!” be bold with your answer. “Not so.” Follow up with a large portion of “Grateful Fruit.” Ask yourself, “What can I be thankful for today?” Several helpings of this and you will definitely shed a few negative pounds. Finish the day with a man-size portion of the “No TV Dinner.” Television to negativity is like ice cream and chocolate to a dieter — it packs on the pounds! Try substituting it with some “Tell-a-vision.” Beckwith suggests asking the question: “What is trying to emerge in my life? What amazing vision can I bring forth?” As you visualize it, share it! You’ve let go of all that negative weight you’ve been hanging onto. Now is your chance to pass on something positive. Michael Beckwith, with wife and musician Rickie Byars Beckwith, bring their “Worry Free Diet” plan to St. Louis as part of their new PBS special, The Answer Is You. According to Beckwith, The Answer Is You is not a concert, not a lecture, but a powerful evening of music and inspiration that can change people’s lives. In The Answer Is You, Beckwith encourages attendees to ask themselves three questions: “How can I give? How can I grow? What can I celebrate?” Beckwith addresses profound questions often raised during times of challenge and change. The answers delve deeply into methods for manifesting prosperity and health, such as adopting mindsets and heart-sets that empower individuals to live rich, fulfilling, positive lives, understanding universal laws and identifying a larger purpose in life. The Answer Is You will be held Friday, October 1, 7:30 p.m. at the 560 Music Center located at 560 Trinity Ave. in University City. The event is sponsored by BellaSpark Productions and tickets are $30 for general admission. Special VIP packages, which include a private reception with Michael and Rickie and VIP seating, are $75. A bonus half-day workshop on Saturday, Oct. 2 is also scheduled at Unity Christ Church. That costs $65. Tickets are available at BellaSpark.com or through BellaSpark Productions, (970) 443-0732. I St . Louis Java Journal by Donna Visocky Send us your best AUTUMN photo for Java Journal’s Photography Competition. AUTUMN SPLENDOR PHOTOGRAPHY COMPETITION Send us your most outstanding Autumn photograph. The deadline for submission is November 1, 2010. One photo entry per person. Please submit by email in JPEG format, pixel width 2250 or 5 x 7 (vertical or horizontal) at 300 dpi. Photos must not contain provocative images or be controversial in nature. Please include your name, address and telephone number within the email and send it to production@javajournalonline.com. All entries must include photographer’s name and permission to print the photograph. Page 10 | September 2010 javajournalSTL.com In Honor of Grandparents’ Day September 12, 2010 In honor of Grandparents’ Day, Java Journal asked readers to tell us about how their grandparents touched their lives. A big thanks to those who shared their stories. We were extremely touched by this story from Michele Wessley. We hope you enjoy it, too. My Grandmother When I was growing up, my grandmother took care of me most of the time. My parents were divorced and I lived with my grandparents. That might sound sad to you, but it was by far the best thing that could ever have happened to me. I went to live with them when I was seven years old. I still saw my parents, but most of my time was spent with my grandmother. They lived on a farm in Southern Missouri and raised cattle and chickens and grew vegetables. They also had a dog named Benny and several cats. My grandmother was the type of person who made everyone feel good. No matter what I did, she always loved and accepted me. I always felt important, no matter what. There were times when I misbehaved, but she was still kind about how she disciplined me. She was so nice, but firm, that I never wanted to repeat my bad behavior. She made me WANT to behave better. She loved me and I never doubted it. Even though she worked all the time canning vegetables, taking care of the animals, doing laundry (she hung the clothes on a line to dry, even in the winter) and so many other things around the farm, she patiently gave time to me. I helped her with many of the chores, and we did them together. She taught me how to can fruits and vegetables for the winter, milk cows, grow vegetables in her garden, bake pies and bread and clean fish. She even got my friends involved in canning and baking. My friends always had fun at my house because of my grandmother. And she drove me and my friends everywhere we wanted to go when the chores were finished. My grandfather died when I was a teenager. He was a very nice but quiet man, so I wasn’t as close to him as I was with my grandmother, but we loved each other. I knew that my grandmother missed him, but her love never changed for me. Even though he was gone, her sweet and loving attitude never changed. Teenagers can sometimes be quite challenging, and I was no exception, but my grandmother hung in there with me and loved me no matter what I did. Those teenage years passed, and we managed to stay close. When I left home for college, my grandmother stayed on the farm, never wanting to leave. It was her home, her memories, her friends, her animals, her life. She was always healthy and joyful, so thankfully she was able to stay on the farm with the help of friends and neighbors. After college, I got married, moved to St. Louis and had a baby boy. I visited my grandmother as often as I could. I loved her so much. My grandmother died nine years ago. But a part of her lives on in me. You see, she made me who I am today. I am who I am because of my grandmother. She gave me love, acceptance, hope, peace, security. She gave me confidence. She gave me joy. She is the only person I can ever say who has truly given me unconditional love. She was my friend. Grandparents’ Day is very special to me. Without the love of my grandmother, I can’t imagine how my life would have turned out. When I celebrate Grandparents’ Day, I take some time to be alone with my thoughts about my grandmother, and I talk with her as if she’s with me. As crazy as it sounds, I think she sets that day aside for me, too. Michele M. Wessley St. Louis javajournalSTL.com September 2010 | Page 11 Grandparents’ Perspectives by Sherman Lee W hat does it mean to be a grandparent in today’s society? Quite a few people don’t even know there’s a special day set aside for grandparents. Of those who do, many will co-celebrate Mother’s or Father’s Day. A cruise is a perfect opportunity to ponder the role of grandparents, especially because many cruise passengers are retired, and many of them plan extended family gatherings on a cruise ship. On a recent summer cruise to Alaska, several passengers shared their reflections about this special time in their lives. The most common “best aspect” of being a grandparent is the unconditional love shared with the grandchildren. Gene Keng of Laguna Hills, Calif., loves his young grandchildren’s innocence. “They’re fun to play with. I’m more cheerful and they make me feel young again.” Charlene Gridley of Reston, Va., echoed other common sentiments: “You can play with them when you want, or tell them to go away when you don’t feel like it.” For her, it’s fascinating to see her adult son interact with his children. But it also comes with the challenge each grandparent in this set of interviews struggles with: refraining from advising their kids about how to parent. The books and advice are so different now from her time, and simple things like child car seats didn’t even exist back then. Gridley wryly observed, “It’s a wonder that the younger generation even survived into adulthood.” When asked to compare her grandparenting style with that of her own parents, Gridley stated that one major difference is that she likes to get down on the floor and play with them. Her Chinese immigrant parents followed the “respected elders” model. This behavior called upon parents to be looked up to—even worshipped —as teachers. They would never have gotten their hands dirty with the young children; that’s what maids and nannies were for. As a grandparent, Gridley sees in herself a very different blend of authority versus intimacy. Nowhere to be seen in the mix is her parents’ authoritativeness. Gridley’s husband, Peter, also feels the challenge of not trumping their son’s parenting. It’s hard not knowing what the parents want and it’s not something they’ve discussed with their son and daughter-in-law. Peter says, “It’s especially hard when the parents are there” because it would be telling the parents how to do their jobs. When the parents are away it’s much easier because Peter then simply asks the grandchildren, “What would your Mommy and Daddy say?” Peter Gridley was asked what he would have done differently as a parent, knowing what he knows now as a grandparent. “I would have spent more time with my son. Charlene raised him. Back then my job—I was actually pursuing two careers—was to ensure the family’s finances.” When asked what was the most surprising thing about becoming a grandparent, Charlene Gridley's sister, Meili Pinto of Warner Springs, Calif., remarked how different her grandchildren are from her. It’s a common phenomenon for most immigrants, but exacerbated by being so geographically far from her grandchildren. In fact, grandparents’ reflections on seeing their families fell into two categories: close or far. Being part of the ‘far’ grandchildren’s lives is similar to long-distance relationship dating. Instead of a steady, constant presence, inperson interactions must be planned in advance, for short, intense bursts of activity. For Pinto, the only bad thing about being a grandparent is the geographical distance, which is so bad that sometimes her grandchildren feel like strangers to her. One of the obvious antidotes to that is more frequent visits with each other, such as making this cruise possible for the extended family. One of the grandparents on the cruise, Sharon Wilhelmi of Grand Forks, N.D., straddles the line between close and far grandchildren relationships.Even with her grandchildren who live a few states away, no more than two months pass between visits. Most of her grandchildren are in town or a just a few hours away and she positively beamed when asked to reflect upon her grandparenthood. According to Wilhelmi, the best aspect of grandparenthood is that she “can have the lousiest day, but those kids are the best medicine.” She loves being a part of their everyday lives and can’t wait to share thoughts with them. She found that the most surprising thing about being a grandparent was wondering if she could love the second one as much as the first. She could, and did so for each of the grandchildren as they came along. When asked what she could do as a grandparent that she could not do as a parent, Wilhelmi mostly echoed the others: take classes and pursue hobbies and other interests, such as the cruise. Peter Gridley put it a slightly different way. “My life, work and hobbies are all pretty much the same, just with grandchildren added to the mix.” There’s more time and flexibility than before, but more intention is needed due to geographical distance. Finally, what about the role of the grandparent? Meili’s husband, Michael Pinto, summarized best what turned out to be a universal theme in these interviews. “It’s the expression of wisdom and knowledge and the passing on of the cultural legacy.” He added that the grandparent gives the grandchild a place to turn. The parent has to wear many hats— teacher, disciplinarian, provider and so on, and helps move the child forward into the world. The grandparent can be the gentle one whom the child can turn to. The child gives the grandparent a way to interpret the changing world. For the child, the grandparent gives a sense of the world and where he or she came from. In short, grandparents provide a “glue to the generations.” I Creating Positive Change Be Prepared! by Fran Taylor When I observe people who get what they want, I see they all have one thing in common—they are physically and emotionally prepared. If it’s a new job you seek, being prepared is a must — appropriate clothing for interviewing, up-todate resume and a list of contacts. If you intend to move, be prepared by getting rid of unused items, making repairs and getting your finances in order. Whether it’s a job you seek or a new place to live— or you simply want to feel better and be in charge of your life— basic preparedness is necessary. If you’re always late, your house is disorganized, unopened mail is piling up, your bedroom has piles of clothes, and you’re always buying fast food because you didn’t pack a sack lunch, it’s time to get your act together. As long as you’re unprepared and disorganized, it is not likely that you will have time to create and experience positive change. Here are some ideas to help you be fully prepared for opportunities that will inevitably come your way —they WILL come your way when you are prepared. Fran’s List • • • • • Wake up an hour earlier than usual. Eat a healthy breakfast—fruit, nuts, whole grains. Pack a lunch—protein, fruits and vegetables. Plan your evening meal. Make your bed and straighten the house—you’ll appreciate coming home to organization. • Spend 15 minutes meditating—just clear your mind and count your breaths. It’s important. • Leave the house 15 minutes earlier than usual. • Drink HUGE amounts of water. Your body will adjust to it (fewer trips to the restroom). • When you return home, do something physical— take a walk, ride a bike, hit the gym. • Do something fun, but don’t watch TV. • Prepare your clothes for the following day. • Get a good night’s sleep. These are the basics of being prepared. Stay on top of your life and be prepared for opportunity! The opportunities will come, and you’ll feel great in the process. A Healthier Life for Everyone and a Better Life for Anyone™ Vikki Farmer, Independent Shaklee Distributor mvfarmer.myshaklee.com (636) 942-5955 (314) 369-8757 Page 12 | September 2010 javajournalSTL.com Café Olé! September Simmers! by Marian Rein File photo Imagine—it’s 70 degrees, the windows are open with a gentle breeze blowing through and the kitchen floor feels cool under your bare feet. A steaming-hot pot of soup is simmering on the stove. That’s a scene that brings me very good feelings. I’m a soup lover, and for those of you who are like me, September is my favorite time to keep a pot of it simmering on the stove. When it comes to feeding your family something easy and nutritious, you just can’t beat homemade soup! When my son, Sam, was very young, he loved soup and would often say, in his toddler voice, “Mamma, go cook soup.” He loved it. Here are three recipes that I’ve developed over the years. I hope you’ll try them and let me know what you think. If you have a delicious soup recipe that you’re willing to share, write to me at info@javajournalonline.com. Lentil Soup 1 turkey carcass and bones 2 onions, roughly chopped 4 chicken bullion cubes 2 carrots, roughly chopped 2 stalks of celery, roughly chopped 1 apple, roughly chopped pepper to taste Soup’s On! turkey meat from carcass 2 carrots, chopped small 1 stalk of celery, chopped small 3 Tbsp. parsley flakes 1 Tbsp. cumin dash of ground red pepper salt and pepper to taste Optional: 1⁄3 cup rice or broken spaghetti In a large stock pot, add turkey carcass and bones. Add water to cover threefourths of it. Add the next six ingredients. Cook for at least two hours on medium-low heat. Remove the carcass and bones. Strain broth into a smaller pot. Add remaining ingredients and simmer until carrots are tender. In a medium stock pot, simmer onion and garlic in butter or olive oil until tender. Add remaining ingredients, except Sherry. Cook over medium-low heat for one and a half to two hours. Add additional water if it becomes too thick. Add Sherry before serving. Beans and Sausage Soup DVIN Russian and Eastern European Cuisine 8143 Big Bend Boulevard Webster Groves, MO 63119 (314) 968-4000 Open Monday thru Saturday, 5:30pm to 9:30pm 1 large onion, chopped small 1 Tbsp. butter or olive oil 2 cloves garlic, chopped 1 lb. smoked sausage (cut in half lengthwise, then cut into 1-inch diagonal slices) 7 1/2 cups of water 1/2 cup split peas 1/2 cup lentils 3/4 cup barley 1/4 cup dried black beans 1/4 cup dried red beans 2 chicken bullion cubes 1 tsp. onion powder 1/2 tsp. basil 1 1/2 tsp. rosemary dash of red pepper 1 16-oz can chicken broth In a stock pot, sauté onions and garlic in butter or olive oil until soft. Add sausage and brown. Add remaining ingredients and simmer for one to one and a half hours or until soup is thick and beans are soft. File photo Turkey Soup 1 large onion, chopped small 4 cloves of garlic, chopped 1 Tbsp. butter or olive oil 1 16-oz can peeled tomatoes, smashed or pureed 1 Tbsp. tomato paste 4 cups water 1 cup (1/2 bag) lentils 2 carrots, chopped small 1 stalk celery, chopped small 3 Tbsp. parsley flakes 1 tsp. oregano 1 bay leaf salt and pepper to taste 1 ⁄4 cup Sherry The Norton Grape javajournalSTL.com September 2010 | Page 13 I heard it through the grapevine… The next time you take a sip of your favorite Because Norton wines remain very popular, Missouri wine and savor a strong dry grape flavor, producing enough of the fruit to keep up with the it is likely you are drinking a wine produced from demand is challenging. More acres of land have been set aside to produce the Norton grape, includthe Norton grape. ing a plot in Texas a decade ago. The oldest cultivated grape in the United States, Many medical studies suggest compounds the Norton Grape was first grown in Richmond, Va., by Dr. Daniel N. Norton in 1820. It became found in grapes have health benefits. Some antioxhighly prized, and demand for Norton wines grew idant and anti-inflammatory properties are found in purple grapes and red wine. both in Europe and America. Though first produced in Virginia, the Norton grape is Missouri’s “official grape,” and is the main squeeze of wineries concentrated here in the midwestern state—Adam Puchta Winery, Stone Hill Winery, Hermannhof Winery, Les Bourgeois Vineyards and St. James Winery. Missouri is where most of these grape are grown, though one vineyard in Middleburg, Va., produces large quantities of the Norton grape as well. Missouri has several famous wineries, and they’re a short drive from St. Louis. They are some of the nation’s oldest, and their wines have won prestigious medals in national and international competitions. A day trip to a local winery means not only sipping great wine and munching on cheese and crackers, but also taking in some of the most stunning views in the state. Some have serene atmospheres, near valleys, hilltops or rivers. Other wineries are lively, with live music and even sports pubs. Described as having an intense grape flavor, the Norton grape is sometimes considered to be similar to the Concord grape, but a bit less sweet, accordThere’s no better time to visit a Missouri wining to Slow Food USA. The Norton grape, which ery than September. Imagine sitting on the patio of has a profound bluish-purple color, is highly adapta winery—visiting with friends, nibbling on cheese able to Missouri weather conditions. and sausage and partaking of a delicious Missouri wine. Give it a try! Growing Grapes Grapes need a location that drains well and contains rocky soil. Often, grapevines are planted on sloping or rocky land. Adequate drainage is key. Root systems of grapevines can reach as long as 30 feet. Certain varieties of grape thrive in certain climates and soil conditions. Sunlight, soil quality and climate are important, as great wines start with the actual vineyard, not winemaking technology. Climate is a crucial factor when it comes to producing quality wine grapes and grapevine longevity. It is important to select grape varieties that ripen during your growing season. Growing grape varieties that produce mature wine grapes during very hot months should be avoided. Four to six weeks after they are planted, grapevines require plenty of water. The entire root should be soaked and kept moist. At least eight feet around the base of the plants is good because the roots of a single vine can spread to three to six feet from the base of the plant. Compost may be necessary if vines are not getting enough nutrients. Leaves should be dark green and healthy. If the vine looks as if it is not thriving, use several feet of compost around the base of the plants. Trees nearby may create too much shade for the vine and rob moisture from the soil. Small animals such as rabbits, raccoons and birds can be a problems for your crop. Perched dramatically on a hill overlooking picturesque Hermann, Mo., Stone Hill Winery is one of the most popular tourist attractions in Missouri Wine Country. Listed on the National Register of Historic Places, Stone Hill produces world-class wines in an OldWorld setting reminiscent of Germany. Guests enjoy guided tours of historic cellars, samples of award-winning wines and juices and a lovely gift shop. A relaxing lunch or dinner awaits at the adjacent Vintage Restaurant where German cuisine is the specialty of the house. A nationally awarded winery, Stone Hill has won more than 3,500 medals since 1993, including the 2009 and 2010 Missouri Governor's Cup awards. Stone Hill Winery Hermann, Missouri (800) 909-9463 stonehillwinery.com In 1998, David and Tammy Campbell purchased the restaurant and have grown the establishment to include not only the restaurant and working winery, utilizing local caverns where much of the bottling is done, but also a gift shop just a few blocks south on historic Main Street. Their vineyard is in Eiola, Mo., where they grow the Norton and Vignole grapes. With more than 20 years producing award-winning wines, Little Hills Winery now ranks among the largest wineries in Missouri. Stop by and relax in the main dining area or upstairs in the loft, and savor the moment by tasting award-winning Little Hills Wines, produced from French hybrid and native wine grapes, all grown in Missouri. Little Hills Winery St. Charles, Missouri (636) 946-9339 littlehillswinery.com Page 14 | September 2010 pianolessons javajournalSTL.com Disabled Athlete Sports Association Never Say Can’t by Lacy Scarmana T Put a little MUSIC in your LIFE! Half-hour classes for children ages 6 to 15. Experienced teacher in Benton Park. (314) 772-8848 hough it is time to calm down and get ready for bed, Casey Adams challenges his younger brother, Danny, to a competition: Who can brush his teeth the fastest? Casey was four when he was approached by Bob Szyeman, who ran the St. Louis Wheelchair Athletic Association (SLWAA). “[Szyeman] saw Casey out and about and talked Casey into [wheelchair] racing,” Pat Adams, Casey’s mom, said. “Casey was always a competitive kid and [racing] gave him an outlet to compete.” Casey, now 22 years old, continues to channel his competitive nature while playing wheelchair basketball for the University of Missouri–Columbia. It was through SLWAA that Casey was introduced to Kelly Behlmann, the head track coach at the time. “Kelly is very manipulating in a good way,” Casey said. “She’s extremely tough on you if she believes in you.” Behlmann’s passion for bringing out the best in people is what led her to pursue her dream of founding the Disabled Athlete Sports Association (DASA) in 1997. Prior to that, Behlmann, a physical therapist, focused on children with disabilities. She wanted to switch that focus to the abilities each child has. Behlmann’s foundation involves visually impaired kids as well. From June 20 through June 25, I had the opportunity to volunteer at Camp Wecandu, the first DASA overnight camp at Babler State Park. The children of DASA participated in kayaking, archery, dancing, swimming, scuba diving, martial arts and horseback riding. It was a chance to live independently for a week. It was an ordinary summer camp filled with extraordinary kids. There was one very important rule: never say the word “can’t.” “She never wants to hear the word can’t. Can’t is never spoken,” Pat Adams said. Based on that one week, I saw Kelly’s ability to push people to their limits, to keep going when they feel they should give up. I was inspired by her determination to see everybody succeed. She taught me the Fall Family Getaways at .ÀÒÍÊ^zg importance of working hard despite the obstacles that may be in my way. In addition to helping kids with disabilities participate in sports, Behlmann makes presentations at schools and teaches other children to realize that, even if you have a disability, you have many more abilities to show off. Today, Casey Adams also makes presentations at schools in his free time to share his personal experience. “There are a lot of opportunities for people in wheelchairs. Ever since I was little, Kelly’s been able to bring out my athletic abilities and instilled a lot of selfconfidence,” Casey Adams said. “Because of her, I’m able to talk to kids and explain a little bit about myself.” Behlmann’s positive influence on children encourages whole families to do the best they can and help others. “She has a way of challenging everyone around her to get involved,” Pat said. “A lot of people benefit from her and her dream.” I :Ê.ggÄ SEPTEMBER 3-6 CXYfi;Xp9`ik_[Xp 9cfnflk SEPTEMBER 10-12 =lij#=`ej=\Xk_\ij SEPTEMBER 17-19 N\jknXi[<ogXej`fe SEPTEMBER 24-26 ;@PN\\b\e[ M_j^el[h*&WYj_l_j_[ihWd]_d]\hecj^[ WZl[djkhekijej^[i[h[d["JhekjBeZ][e\\[hi oekh\Wc_boWdkd\eh][jjWXb[][jWmWoWjWd W\\ehZWXb["Wbb#_dYbki_l[hWj[$ Wbf_d[jem[hWhY^[hoWhjiYhW\jiWijhedecoX_a_d]YWcfÒh[iYb_cX_d]mWbbÒi^_d]^Woh_Z[i^_a_d] c_d_#]eb\fedjeedjekhifedoh_Z[ih_Ó[hWd][ia[[ji^eej_d]j[dd_ijhW_bh_Z[ip_fb_d[iWdZceh[ OCTOBER 1-3 KflZ_;fne KiflkCf[^\ OCTOBER 8-10 :iX]kp:i\Xk`fej OCTOBER 15-17 IX`e]fi\jk8[m\ekli\ www.troutlodge.org www .troutlodge.org 1-888-FUN-YMCA 1-888-FUN-Y MCA javajournalSTL.com September 2010 | Page 15 COCA Introduces New Executive Director tion from University of Missouri in St. Louis. She is also a graduate of the CORO Women in Leadership Program. COCA is the nation’s fifth largest multidisciplinary community arts center. The organization has received significant national recognition for its achievements, including: a Bridge Builders Award from Partners for Livable Communities, recognizing COCA’s strong partnerships in community improvement; participation in the Partners in Education Program of the Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts; three Ford Foundation grants for Interchange, COCA’s collaborative arts integration program in the St. Louis Public Schools; and a Coming Up Taller Award from the White House. In 2009, COCA was featured as one of 19 case study sites for Qualities of Quality: Understanding Excellence in Arts Education. It was a research study conducted by Harvard University’s Graduate School of Education aimed at identifying and defining the key components of high-quality arts learning and teaching, both in and out of school. Barbara Archer, president of COCA’s board of directors, had this to say of her new hire. “After an extensive national search, we are fortunate and delighted that the best candidate to lead COCA into the next phase of its development comes from within. Kelly’s combination of demonstrated leadership, commitment to quality arts education and community building, make her most qualified to build on the outstanding success we’ve achieved in our first 23 years.” Pollock began her new job in July. Her predecessor and founding executive director, Stephanie Riven, left to join David Bury Associates in New York. Founded in 1986, COCA’s mission is to enrich lives and build community through the arts. COCA’s noteworthy programming includes an extensive arts education program in dance, music, theatre, voice and visual arts. It offers: 500 classes, camps and workshops annually at its University City headquarters and at 50 schools and community centers; The COCA Family Theatre Series; The Millstone Gallery at COCA; and its award-winning Urban Arts and Interchange programs, providing free arts education and arts integrated programming to St. Louis Public School students. It serves 50,000 people annually. For more information, visit COCAstl.org. I Benefiting 40 Acts Performing on 4 Stages Camping • Hiking • Swimming Mini Golf • Kids’ Play Party Zone Game Room • Food & Art Vendors DISCOUNTED TICKETS TO SIX FLAGS General Admission Day Passes $25 General Admission Weekend Passes $45 FREE Primitive Camp Spots While They Last Lots of Camping Upgrades! Tent, Car & RV Sites to Deluxe Cottages! FOR TICKETS: www.tocofestival.com or visit the TOCO Shop, 825 West Main in Belleville Eight Extraordinary Weekends! Michael Moschen Sponsored by Edward Jones October 15-17, 2010 Tomie dePaola’s Strega Nona The Musical November 12-14, 2010 The Little Dancer Sponsored by Mary Strauss December 10-12, 2010 In the Loop COCAdance, Redd Williams & Crew 2010-2011 C enter of Creative Arts (COCA) stay in-house for a new executive director, hiring current general manager Kelly Lamb Pollock to fill the post. She was selected after an extensive national search. Pollock is only the organization’s second executive director in 23 years. Pollock, COCA’s general manager since 2006, started at COCA in 1997 as its director of development. In her eight years in that position, the organization’s budget grew from $1.7 million to its current $5 million. She successfully managed COCA’s $10 million Access to Excellence capital and endowment campaign. She also secured millions of dollars in grants over the years from several sources, including National Endowment for the Arts, Wallace Foundation, Kresge Foundation and MetLife Foundation. As COCA’s general manager, Pollock secured one of four national Innovation Lab grant awards from the Doris Duke Foundation and EmcArts to develop COCAbiz, a program designed to integrate arts practice and concepts into talent and leadership development in business. Pollock received a bachelor of arts degree from Washington University and a master’s degree in public policy administra- January 7-9, 2011 COCA Family Theatre Series The Kennedy Center’s Knuffle Bunny January 21-23, 2011 Subscriptions/Tickets www.cocastl.org/fts Theater of Physical Comedy 314.725.6555 AGA-BOOM February 11-13, 2011 524 Trinity Ave. St. Louis, MO 63130 Thé^atre de l’Oeil Holy Cow! February 25-27, 2011 dan zanes and friends March 11-13, 2011 PRESENTED BY SCHOOLTIME PERFORMANCE PRESENTER SEASON SPONSOR Lodging Hospitality Management Page 16 | September 2010 javajournalSTL.com Adorable Adoptables Maintaining a Happy, Healthy Dog on a Budget RALPHIE by Richard Hoyle Ralphie is a real sweetheart, though a bit territorial. His owner passed away and there was no family member to care for him. He would love have a home with someone who will adore him. Courtesy of the APA A Courtesy of the APA MARY Mary is a one-year-old gray tabby. She loves to be around people and is playful. Her favorite activities include chasing string toys and batting balls around her house. Ralphie and Mary are available for adoption at the Animal Protective Association, 1705 S. Hanley Road, (314) 645-4610. www.apamo.org. s a trainer, I’m often asked how to maintain a healthy dog in an economy like the one we have today. With trips to the veterinarian, food bills and training costs on the rise, things can become overwhelming. Many petfriendly families are losing their homes to foreclosure and feeling like they are being forced to give up their beloved dogs. It can be like giving away a family member that has been with them for years. There are solutions, however, that will enable them to keep their dogs and maintain their health while on a tight budget. • Food—Americans spend more than $50 billion a year on pet care products that aren’t always necessary. Instead of buying gourmet or premium holistic food, read the ingredient labels on medium-grade food to see what it has to offer your dog. You might be surprised at how closely related they are to the more expensive premium brands. • Veterinarian—Vetting can run into the hundreds or thousands of dollars, depending on the needs of your pet. Call a vet with minor questions before making the trip. You could check into the services provided by the Humane Society and the Animal Protective Association. Their services are low-cost and in some cases, they may provide financial aid to pet owners in need. • Medication – You can buy medication on the internet that will cost you half or less than half of the amount being charged by your veterinarian. Find out what your pet needs and order it from a reputable website. • Training—The cost of basic and advanced training has risen in the past two years. Search for a trainer with reasonable rates, who will teach you how to train while her or she is training your dog. These cost-effective trainers are out there. • Housing —Pet-friendly houses and apartments are available all over the St. Louis area. It can be difficult to find at first, but with a little extra leg work you can get it done. • Toys and more Toys—Toys and gadgets are great to have around for you and your dog’s enjoyment. However, a ton of toys can be too much. Pets are easily entertained by a few toys rather than a box of gadgets. In fact, many pet owners are finding inexpensive ways to create their own dog toys at home. Some are inventing their own dog treats with very little money invested. Following these tips can save pet owners hundreds of dollars a year, giving their dogs everything they need to be a well-balanced part of the family. Your dogs will live out their years healthy and happy, knowing that they can stay with the family that has always provided the love they are accustomed to. I St. Louis Teams Up with The Biggest Loser’s Bob Harper Get this EXCLUSIVE OFFER 6 99 ¢ BOOKS FOR Plus a FREE GIFT with membership Enter code AHF147 joinDoubledayBookClub.com Walk for Farm Animals Saturday, October 2, 2010 A ny reader who is concerned about the welfare of farm animals may be interested in knowing that Tower Grove Park will be the St. Louis site for the national Walk for Farm Animals. The fundraiser, for Farm Sanctuary, will be held Saturday, Oct. 2, with registration at 9 a.m. at the Chinese Pavilion. St. Louis is one of 70 cities in the United States and Canada hosting a walk to promote compassion for farm animals and raise vital funds to support the lifesaving rescue, education and advocacy work of Farm Sanctuary, the nation’s leading farm animal protection organization. This year’s national Walk spokesperson is celebrity trainer and television personality Bob Harper from NBC’s hit show The Biggest Loser. “Getting and staying physically fit,” Harper says, “is a lot easier when you have a powerful motivation, and I can’t think of a better reason to get moving this fall than to raise vital funds and awareness for farm animals.” He says he feels more clear-headed and stronger since adopting a plant-based diet, and his cholesterol dropped more than 100 points. Farm Sanctuary, incorporated in 1986, exposes and stops cruelty to farm animals. There are two shelters, located in Watkins Glen, N.Y., and Orland, California. Participants will receive an event t-shirt and other prizes—and there will be music and food. The walk starts at 10 a.m. To register or learn more, visit walkforfarmanimals.org or contact St. Louis Walk coordinator Lisa Rimmert at (910) 728-0253 or stlouis@walkforfarmanimals.org. “For nearly 25 years, Walk for Farm Animals has provided a forum for people from all walks of life to spread a powerful message of compassion for farm animals in their own cities and hometowns,” said Gene Baur, president and co-founder of Farm Sanctuary. The 2010 Walk for Farm Animals is sponsored nationally by Boston Baked Bonz, Great Sage Organic Green Cuisine and Karmavore Vegan Store. Local sponsors include Carol House Furniture, The Healthy Planet, Whole Foods and St. Louis Java Journal. Additional information, can be found at farmsanctuary.org or by calling (607) 5832225. I javajournalSTL.com September 2010 | Page 17 -RLQXVIRUWKH6W/RXLV :DONIRU)DUP$QLPDOV No Bones About It! 20th Annual APA of Missouri Canine Carnival 6DWXUGD\2FW 7RZHU*URYH3DUN 6W/RXLV0LVVRXUL Sunday, October 3, 2010 T About the APA of Missouri The Animal Protective Association of Missouri is a not-for-profit organization dedicated to bringing people and pets together, advancing humane education and creating programs beneficial to the human/animal bond. I the APA 5HJLVWUDWLRQLVSHUSHUVRQ 5HJLVWHUE\6HSWWRUHFHLYH \RXURI¿FLDO:DONWVKLUW Courtesy of he Animal Protective Association of Missouri will host its Twentieth Annual Canine Carnival Sunday, October 3 at Tilles Park in Ladue from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. This is St. Louis’ event “where the dogs play the games and win the prizes.” Bring the entire family — human AND canine — to the Canine Carnival, which is sponsored by Purina ONE.® The Canine Carnival is the APA’s largest fundraiser. It features games and contests for dogs, children’s activities, vendor booths and a Pooch Parade led by KSDK’s Jennifer Blome. Other highlights include Purina Incredible Dog Team performances; an opportunity to purchase a commemorative Twentieth Anniversary gift package; pets available for adoption; and delicious carnival food. Come see why thousands of dogs and their people have been enjoying this event for 20 years! Any good dog would. Proceeds benefit the homeless animals at the Animal Protective Association of Missouri. Admission is free and tickets can be purchased at the event to play games and activities. For more information and to download a pre-registration form, go to apamo.org or call (314) 645-4610. Sponsor a Rider at Jamestown New Horizons C.H.A.M.P. helps children and adults with disabilities through the placement of highly skilled service dogs. Placements are made free of charge. Jamestown New Horizons’ mission is to promote the health and quality of life for people with disabilities through therapeutic riding. Lead, collar & harness - $25 Month of food & treats - $50 Month of care & training - $500 the APA 9LVLWZZZZDONIRUIDUPDQLPDOVRUJRUFRQWDFW/LVD5LPPHUW DWRUVWORXLV#ZDONIRUIDUPDQLPDOVRUJ Jamestown New Horizons Please help us! Courtesy of 7KLVHYHQWZLOOKHOSWRVSUHDGWKHZRUGDERXWWKHWUHDWPHQWRI DQLPDOVRQIDFWRU\IDUPVDQGUDLVHYLWDOIXQGVIRU)DUP6DQFWXDU\ WKHQDWLRQ¶VOHDGLQJIDUPDQLPDOSURWHFWLRQRUJDQL]DWLRQ Send tax-deductible donations to: C.H.A.M.P., Inc. 4910 Parker Road Florissant, MO 63033 www.champdogs.org (314) 653-9466 Jamestown New Horizons (JNH), a nonprofit organization founded in 1985, provides therapeutic horseback riding experiences for people with disabilities. Located in North County, JNH is partially funded by the Productive Living Board of St. Louis County and the Missouri Foundation for Health. Sponsor a Rider 12-Week Session: $336 36 Lessons: $1,000 Support A Horse: $120 Please send you tax-deductible donation to: Jamestown New Horizons 15350 Old Jamestown Rd Florissant, MO 63034 For more information, call (314) 741-5816, or email jnhgoneriding@charter.net www.jnh-goneriding.org Page 18 | September 2010 javajournalSTL.com T’ai Chi Ch’uan for Health & Fitness by Paul MacFarlane and Bill Grivna Y LIVE ON STAGE! 2 WEEKS ONLY - SEPTEMBER 11-26 Fox Theatre • metrotix.com Want to be part of a WINNING TEAM? St. Louis Java Journal is looking for smart, energetic and positive people to join our advertising team. Must have advertising sales experience. Please send your resume with cover letter to: ou may have heard something about T’ai Chi, seen people practicing it in a park, or watched it on a television special about China. You may know that it’s a slow-moving, graceful exercise that is intended to benefit your health. At advanced levels, it is a formidable martial art based upon relaxation, yielding and using the opponent’s energy against him. T’ai Chi, when practiced regularly, is said to help with relaxation, concentration, coordination, flexibility, posture (spinal alignment) and both physical and mental balance or centering. If this sounds intriguing to you, then you may be interested in the St. Louis T’ai Chi Ch’uan Association, a not-for-profit organization that has been offering classes in the art for more than 30 years. “The five principles of T’ai Chi are: relax and sink; separate the weight; waist as commander; body upright; and beautiful lady’s wrist,” Michael David, president of the association, said. David practices the Yang Style Short Form, which the association has taught for nearly 20 years. And like most of its students, T’ai Chi Ch’uan practiced there has changed David’s life in numerous ways. He tells of his more relaxed manner at work, improved health and vitality, in addition to increased balance and strength. “These benefits come subtly, like laying a sheet of paper on top of a sheet of paper,” David said. “Over time, you find that the way you sit, stand and move tend to change. You gain strength, balance, suppleness, stamina and most of all, a more meditative approach to daily living.” For centuries, T’ai Chi Ch’uan was a closely guarded family secret in China. But today, anyone with a sincere interest can learn the basics of the form. With earnest practice, some, if not all of the above benefits can be realized, which would be valuable for the remainder of any student’s life. The Association’s Yang Style Short Form was condensed from the Long Form— mostly by eliminating repetitions — by professor Cheng Man-Ch’ing, a supremely gifted master of T’ai Chi Ch’uan. Benjamin Lo, one of his senior students, has taught all of the organization’s current instructors. Now in his 80s, Lo has strength, sensitivity and suppleness that must be seen to be believed. Yang Style T’ai Chi is characterized by slow, rhythmic movements of the body. The Form can be practiced at any age and requires no special equipment—just comfortable, loose-fitting clothing and flat, thin-soled shoes. The Form takes about eight minutes to practice, once learned. To find out more about this discipline, call the St. Louis T’ai Chi Ch’uan Association at (314) 961-1355 or visit them on the web at taichistlouis.org. Beginner classes start Sunday, September 5 and 12 at the Monday Club in Webster Groves. I FA L L C L A S S E S B E G I N S U N D AY S E P T E M B E R 5 & 1 2 T’aiChich’uan S T. L O U I S T ’A I C H I C H’U A N A SS O C I AT I O N since 1979 St. Louis Java Journal 11116 South Towne Square, Ste 102 St. Louis, Mo. 63123 info@javajournalonline.com Mention this ad to receive 1 FREE MONTH of classes ($40 value) for class locations and inform a t i o n call 314.961.1355 or visit www. t a i c h i s t l o u i s . o rg September 2010 | Page 19 The Power of Children The Arches Meet the Galilee Circus by Jessica Hentoff All photos courtesy of Jessica Hentoff T here is a lot of talk on the news about immigration. Instead of allowing children who are born here to be legal citizens, regardless of their parents’ immigration status, some people feel that children shouldn’t be granted this right if their parents are illegal immigrants. Israel is struggling with the same issue, so Circus Harmony sought to raise the children’s morale. On July 28, Circus Harmony’s St. Louis Arches youth circus troupe, which performs at City Museum and with Circus Flora, performed in Israel for the children of Israeli immigrants. It was the last show on a tour in partnership with the Jewish/Arab Galilee Circus. Combined, they became the Galilee Arches. The Arches and the Galilee Circus have been collaborating since 2007. When the circus tour bus got to the site at Levinsky Park in Tel Aviv, one of the kids surveyed the park and its bedraggled, prone residents and asked, “Who are we performing for here?” The park is in a run-down neighborhood where many of the city’s legal and illegal immigrants live. They come from around the world. The troupe was also a mix of people: Americans, Israelis, Jews, Christians and Muslims. As the Galilee Arches prepared for the show, children started to come to the park. They wandered over to watch the young performer get ready and then ran away, coming back with friends. Some offered to help set up. They were from all countries and spoke many languages. Their youth and innocence was in stark contrast to the broken glass and needles that were on the ground near where they were setting up. By the time the show started, there was a fair-sized crowd. Just a few acts into the show, the area became packed with a variety of people who cheered and shouted after every trick. The question of “Who will watch us here?” had been answered loudly. The energy and appreciation of the audience was inspiring. It was a truly great last show. After the show, everyone in the audience came up to say thanks and to have their pictures taken with the performers. The Galilee Arches appreciated it all. This last audience for the 2010 tour illustrates the power of the circus to inspire people. As the Galilee Arches soared through the air, kept multiple objects spinning overhead and supported each other in pyramids, the audience saw and felt the amazing potential of the performers, who personify determination, focus and teamwork. To watch the troupe perform is to feel like anything is possible— and that the world really can live in peace. Fittingly, the tour was to promote “Peace Through Pyramids.” You can learn more about this inspirational Galilee Arches relationship on the web at circusharmony.org. You can also see a documentary about the first time the Arches went to Israel in 2007, at the upcoming St. Louis International Film Festival (circuskids.tv) in November. Sadly, just a week after the St. Louis Arches returned to the United States, the troupe got this email from the Galilee Circus program manager: “We performed a week ago in Tel-Aviv to the children of immigrants. Today, the Israeli government decided to expel some of these children—and I can not stop thinking about which of them will be expelled: the boy SATURDAY, OCTOBER 9, 8PM javajournalSTL.com KALAPRIYA COMING TO ST. LOUIS “Chakras…Mantra,Tantra,Yantra – the lovely dancers of Kalapriya dazzle with enchanting beauty…If you get a chance to see one of their performances, you won’t be disappointed.” -Yoga Chicago Saturday, October 9, 8:00pm West Hills Community Church 13250 South Outer 40 Road Town and Country, MO 63017 Call 314-721-6556 or email gitana@stlouis.missouri.org for ticket reservations ($15) www.gitana-inc.org INVITES YOU TO ENTER FOR YOUR CHANCE TO WIN who helped arrange the mattresses before the show; the girl who asked to be photographed with us at the end; the kids standing on the rooftops. Who? Look at the pictures of the show—only a week ago, they were smiling. You have created positive change for them for a while. It’s much, much more than great leaders did.” Too often, the children suffer from the decisions of adults. Perhaps it will also be the children who show how we can change things when we work together and focus on what unites us instead of what divides us. The circus may not be an answer to the difficult immigration questions the United States and Israel face. The circus does remind us that these are only children, but what they do and what adults do to them can have a great impact on the world. I Send an email to conteststlouis @alliedim.com with "LEGEND OF THE GUARDIANS" in the subject line and include your name, email address, and a description in under 10 words of your own fun unique talent. *Passes available on a first-come firstserved basis, while supplies last. No purchase necessary. Limit two admitone passes per person. Void where prohibited. Employees of participating sponsors are ineligible. The film is rated PG. NO PHONE CALLS PLEASE! www.legendoftheguardians.com IN THEATERS FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 24! Page 20 | September 2010 javajournalSTL.com In Pursuit of… The Perfect Purse by Leona Klayman, a Java Journal reader T his is my first attempt at writing or writting for the general public. Does one double the consonant before adding the ending? Miss Lotta Rules, my English teacher at good ol’ Clayton High would have been a great help. Too bad it is seventy-odd years too late. On many occasions I have wondered about my spelling and grammar. Also, I realized others could have used Miss Lotta Rules’ help. I shall always remember her. But enough of reminiscing—now to my story. It all started innocently enough when I was visiting family in Austin, Texas. I wanted to order a purse online. I don’t go shopping in stores very often because I don’t get around very well with my walker. My experienced daughters wanted to be helpful, so they engaged in some serious “playing around” on the computer to find the perfect handbag for “dear old Mom.” With handbags, or purses as we call them here in St. Louis, the choices can be overwhelming. There are so many decisions to make. The categories I describe below are all of equal importance. Design A few of the choices available: solids, plaids, stripes, polka dots, fish, seashells, cuddly animals, pastoral scenes, flowers, sexy lace and sequins. We discussed pros and cons, the first of our heated debates, and then all hell broke loose—BIG TIME! There was shouting, hysterical laughter, finger-pointing, stomping feet, red faces, slaps on the back, vying for attention, strange looks, angry looks, trying to stifle laughter, trying to stay calm— the entire gamut of all emotions, each of us giving her own convincing opinion. I, being out of control, was the loudest and most animated. Had I been able to get to the floor to roll around with frivolity, I would have. I don’t think I would have been able to get back up, though. My son-in-law, the prestigious professor who had been watching us for a bit, managed to slip away from the room. It was too much for him, and he’s a funny guy under normal circumstances. This was the first of several joyful, delirious shopping experiences with my daughters, Get this EXCLUSIVE OFFER 6 99 ¢ BOOKS FOR Plus a FREE GIFT with membership Enter code AHF147 joinDoubledayBookClub.com with visible love and affection weaving in and out and increasing with every session. The debates on the ensuing features of each purse were getting progressively more boisterous and hysterical in every detail. We were gaining more in this business of laughter. For the next few days, whenever there was a lull in activities—we’d been kayaking and hiking at Whole Foods (it’s a big store)—our eyes were glued to the web. It was lucky for me that we located one of those 15-minute massage guys at Whole Foods. After a relaxing treatment, I was rejuvenated and ready to hit the computer screen again, and later that evening we continued the search for the perfect bag. Interior Lining We directed our next search to answer the question: How much influence could the lining have on the choice of a purse? Plenty. If it was too dark, it would be difficult digging around trying to find keys, money, chewing gum, expired coupons, positive affirmations, pens, combs, lipstick and those little cards for various new services or new addresses that you didn’t want in the first place. If the business cards were a little larger they could say, “Clean up” (cleaning services included). Ha ha... On the other hand, a dark lining makes it difficult to see M&Ms and cookie crumbs at the bottom of the purse, though it gives the illusion of cleanliness. With a lighter colored lining, everything would be visible. Strap Now we come to the really complicated part—the length of the strap. After gathering a tape measure, yard stick, ruler and other measuring devices, we almost came to an agreement on length. We then noticed a purse that had an adjustable strap—a gift from Heaven! No more neck strangle. The strap is a very important feature, as I use a walker and a cane as a result of hip surgery. To keep my hand free for my walker or cane, I generally go out carrying my purse around my neck. In an attempt to retrieve something, I could get strangled! My favorite solo outing is swimming at the Clayton Recreation Center. I swim, exercise, float on the Lazy river, use the hot-tub and even go down the water slide. When I leave the pool area I get dressed and head out to the car with my walker and my purse around my neck. Because it is so great at the pool and the rec center, I don’t mind wrestling with the strap of my purse. I just hope to come out victorious. Style/Shape When considering a purse, the style and the shape are also tough decisions. Sporty, dressy, modern, conservative, rectangular, square, rounded, banana-shaped. Fat on top, skinny on the bottom, or vice versa. Because one of my hips is higher than the other, I would like something to hide the defect. Does the style and shape of the purse make a statement? What does it say? Price Thankfully, I’m a bargain shopper and a conservative dresser and don’t shop at Needless Mark-ups (Neiman Marcus). Something reasonable and in good taste that suits my requirements are all I ask. Is that too much? Color Really, what could be more important than knowing the color of my bag? But just in case you’re waiting with baited breath to know, I need to mention that we selected the navy blue. Reflection I shall never forget this incident and how freeing it was, and how light I felt. What I remember the best is the humor, frivolity (bordering on hysteria) and uncontrollable emotion in every search session. So aside from humor and laughs, I hope my readers— if there are any left at this time—might try to incorporate laughter whenever possible into their lives. More and more there is scientific evidence that proves how valuable this free activity is. Being familiar with psychological happenings, I feel that uncontrollable laughter is very therapeutic. Speaking of fun, you gotta try Laughter Yoga just for the “health” of it. All joking aside, this ain’t (forgive me, Miss Lotta Rules) all fun and games. Word has it that, in order to keep brain cells alive, one should do something new and different. In my case, it’s writing. I hope it works. It could be a real bonus in the process of getting older while having a ball. I did have fun doing this piece. It was my first, and probably my last, but it was an experience. I hope you got a chuckle or two from this. I laughed at myself many times and described it as a delicious happening. Read it with peace and joy in all your “purse-uits.” I must add, in seriousness, my appreciation for everything and everyone. So now this little tale has ended The experience for me was splendid Now I take myself less serious What the hell! Let’s be joyfully delirious! I javajournalSTL.com September 2010 | Page 21 pianolessons HEALTH at HAND INTERNATIONAL HOLISTIC THERAPIES 20% OFF First Visit Mary Kraemer 10880 Baur Blvd, Ste. 121 St. Louis, MO 63132 Put a little music in your life! Half-hour classes, ages 6 to 15 Experienced teacher in Benton Park (314) 772-8848 C.H.A.M.P. helps children and adults with disabilities through the placement of highly skilled service dogs. These placements are made free of charge. Please help us by donating to C.H.A.M.P.! (314) 653-9466 www.champdogs.org Handyman Service Is your to-do list getting long? 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L O U I S T ’A I C H I C H’U A N A SS O C I AT I O N since 1979 Mention this ad to receive 1 FREE MONTH of classes ($40 value) for class locations and inform a t i o n call 314.961.1355 or visit www. t a i c h i s t l o u i s . o rg To place an advertisement on PRO PAGE please call (314) 894-3655. -Mary O’Conner 8143 Big Bend Boulevard Webster Groves, MO 63119 (314) 968-4000 Open Monday thru Saturday, 5:30pm to 9:30pm (314) 808-3124 You Can Work From Home Too!! Free Website, Free Training! 100% Risk Free! www.lovingyourfamily.com Robin George 636-300-9259 robinmom@iglide.net Guitar Lessons by Joseph • Qualified Instruction • Affordable Rates 25 Years Experience (314) 991-3326 Page 22 | September 2010 javajournalSTL.com Come to the Webster Groves Ice Skating Rink to skate with the St. Louis Synerg y Synchronized Ice Skaters and lear n some fun routines on the ice. Al Alll levels of skating welcome. It is recommended that the skaters be at least 4 years old. Date: 09/15/2010 (WED) ARRIVE BY 5:45 PM TO REGISTER AND GET READY TO SKA KATE. TE. SKA KATING TING TIME IS 6:00 pm²6:30 pm Webster Groves Ice Arena *Skat Skates will be available Java Journal Sip ’n’ Solve Skate with synchro SKATING ON A INTERESTED IN SKA SKATING TEAM? SYNCHR SY NCHRONIZED SKA Crossword puzzle provided by BestCrosswords.com. Used with permission. 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Naturally derived, supersafe and superconcentrated formula with a thousand uses. Vikki Farmer Independent Shaklee Distributor mvfarmer.myshaklee.com (636) 942-5955 (314) 369-8757 Fortune Cookies ™ (continued from page 3) 1. Perform a random act of kindness today and tell no one about it. Someday, the favor will be returned. 2. The things you are giving attention to are important to you. Step back and take a look! If the scene doesn’t reflect who you are, make some changes. 3. 4. 5. It takes 21 days to start a make a new habit stick—exercise, healthy eating, etc. Give yourself some time to make the new behavior a part of your life. The possibilities are greater than you think. Keep your mind open. Pay attention to your thoughts. They may not be as positive as you think. Think in the affirmative! 6. Remember that hard times will soon be behind you. Every day brings new possibilities. 7. No matter what the circumstance, we can find something for which to be grateful. 8. Before you get upset, gather all the facts. It may be that you’re missing a critical piece of information. 9. When you come upon a fork in the road, take the lessor known route. You might be in for a magnificent experience. 10. “Realist” is just another word for “pessimist.” Pessimism is a bad habit. Adopt a positive attitude. September 2010 | Page 23 javajournalSTL.com In Your Community FAMILY CAREGIVER TRAINING SERIES: DRESSING & CONTINENCE Thursday, Sept. 2, 6:30-7:30pm Alzheimer’s Association 9370 Olive Blvd. FREE program that will teach techniques to manage dressing and continence issues for your loved ones. Not appropriate for people with dementia. Register at alzstl.org or call 800-272-3900. ST. LOUIS MEMORY WALK Sept. 11, 8:30am Busch Stadium With more than five million Americans living with Alzheimer’s disease and nearly 10 million more serving as caregivers, the time to act is now! One-Mile Walk Only. On Field Experience — sorry, no pets. For information, call or email Kevin McFarland at 314-801-0412 or kevin.mcfarland@alzstl.org. HORSESHOE LEAGUES NOW FORMING Quail Ridge Horseshoe Club I-70 & I-40/61, Wentzville Call the Quail Ridge as soon as possible. 636327-5270 or 636-447-3039 to join in fun. GLUTEN-FREE FESTIVAL AND INFORMATIONAL EVENT Saturday, Sept. 11, 11am-2pm Sappington Farmers’ Market 8400 Watson Road Sappington Farmer’s Market, in conjunction with Farm to Family Naturally, will hold a Gluten Free Festival & Informational Event WEDNESDAY WALKERS TRAIL WALKING Wednesdays, 10-11:30am Shaw Nature Reserve Hwy. 100 & I-44, Gray Summit, Mo. Sign in and pick up a trail walking assignment each week that average one and a half to two hours. Adults only. Meet at the Visitor Center. $4 adults, $3 seniors (65+). Included admission. ($3 adults; free children ages 12 and under.) www.shawnature.org; 636-451-3512. JUNGLE BOOGIE FRIDAY NIGHT CONCERT SERIES – KIM MASSIE September 3, 5-8pm Saint Louis Zoo Bring the whole family for a free concert in the center of the Zoo. Zoo is open 8 a.m. to 7pm. Free. For information: (314) 781-0900 or www.stlzoo.org. 2010 JAPANESE FESTIVAL Sat. & Sun., Sept. 4 & 5, 10am-8pm Monday, Sept. 6, 10am-5pm Missouri Botanical Garden 4344 Shaw Blvd. mobot.org/events/japanesefestival or call 314-577-5100. NORTH STAR SUMMER ZOO WEEKENDS Thru Sept. 6 Saint Louis Zoo On Fridays, Saturdays and Sundays, the Zoo extends its hours, 8am-7pm. 314-781-0900. www.stlzoo.org. 9TH ANNUAL TOCO FAMILY MUSIC FESTIVAL AT JELLYSTONE Friday, Sept. 10 & Saturday, Sept. 11 Jellystone Park Resort© at Six Flags 5300 Fox Creek Rd., Eureka 3pm on Friday to 3pm on Sunday. More than 35 local and regional musical acts will perform on multiple stages. Kid-friendly, including a Kid’s Play Party Zone offering kids of all ages hands-on creative activities. tocofestival.com. PETER MARTIN MUSIC FEATURING CHRISTIAN MCBRIDE Saturday, September 11, 8pm The Sheldon Concert Hall 3648 Washington Blvd. $50 VIP (includes preferred seating and free parking)/$30 orchestra/$25 balcony. Call MetroTix,314-534-1111 or TheSheldon.org. SKATE ON A SYNCHRONIZED SKATING TEAM Wednesday, Sept. 15, 5:45pm Webster Groves Ice Arena Skate with the St. Louis Synergy Synchronized Ice Skaters and learn some fun routines on the ice. All levels of skating welcome. Skates will be available. It is recommended that skaters be at least four years old. For more information, call 314-516-2615 or email tim@chalegue@yahoo.com. OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE DISORDER SUPPORT GROUP Saturday, Sept. 18, 10am-noon Missouri Baptist Medical Center Susan Englund, Ph.D., will speak on OCD in children and adolescents. She is a staff psychologist in the Anxiety Disorder Center. Free. Suitable for all ages. 314-291-7556. 3RD ANNUAL ST. CHARLES PLEIN AIR (OPEN AIR) COMPETITION Sept. 12 thru Oct. 1 Main Street & Frenchtown Historic Districts in St. Charles Artists’ reception and sale of works created during the competition will take place Friday, Oct. 1, 5-9pm, Foundry art Centre. 636-7248313. saintcharlesriverfrontarts.com. LIGHT THE NIGHTTM WALK CAMPAIGN Friday, Sept. 24, 5:30pm Walk begins at 7:30pm Upper Muny parking lot in Forest Park and St. Peters City Center Park in St. Charles County To register in St. Louis or St. Peters, call 314878-0780 or lightthenight.org/gat. 9TH ANNUAL GREEN HOMES FESTIVAL Saturday, Sept. 25, 10am–6pm 3600 block of Grandel Square in mid-town St. Louis Produced by Missouri Botanical Garden’s EarthWays Center and the Missouri Coalition for the Environment. More than 90 exhibits and demonstrations from the region’s experts on all thigs “Green.” Hourly workshops from 11am-5pm. Also Sept. 25, Dancing in the Street, from 1-9pm. Admission and parking are free. 314-577-0220. www.greenhomesSTL.org. PRAIRIE DAY AT THE SHAW NATURE RESERVE Saturday, Sept. 25, 10am-4pm Shaw Nature Reserve Gray Summit, Mo., off I-44, exit #253 $3 members; $5 non-members; $1 kids ages 12 and under. 636-451-3512. shawnature.org. STINGRAYS AT CARIBBEAN COVE Thru September 26 Saint Louis Zoo Touch and feed these gentle creatures. $3; $1.50 for Zoo Friends members; free for children under two. Free the first hour the Zoo is open. 314-781-0900 or www.stlzoo.org. MICHAEL BERNARD BECKWITH: “THE ANSWER IS YOU!” Friday, Oct. 1, 7:30pm 560 Music Center A powerful night of music and inspiration with Michael and Rickie Beckwith, live in St. Louis. 970-443-0732. bellasparks.com. ST. LOUIS STRASSENFEST Friday, Oct. 1, 4-11pm Saturday, Oct. 2, 10am-11pm Sunday, Oct. 3, 10am-6pm Held on Chesterfield Parkway Chesterfield Traditional German festival with a real family feel. Wide assortment of food and beverages, traditional German music on Two separate stages, carnival rides, game booths, arts & crafts, and an expanded children’s village. Free admission. strassenfest.org. PAINT THE PARKS AT OLD COURTHOUSE IN ST. LOUIS Oct.1–Dec. 1, 8am-4:30pm Old Courthouse Jefferson National Expansion Memorial 11 North Fourth Street Exhibit features 100 paintings of America’s national parks. 19TH ANNUAL BEST OF MISSOURI MARKET Oct. 2 & 3, 9am-5pm Missouri Botanical Garden 4344 Shaw Blvd. More than 130 Missouri food producers and crafters offer fresh produce, baked goods, flowers, herbs, baskets, toys, jewelry and more. Under tents, rain or shine. $12 adults (13-64), $10 seniors (65+), $5 children (312), $5 members. Buy tickets in advance at mobot.org. No trams. 314-577-5100. UNLOCK THE MAGIC OF LEARNING Saturday, Oct. 2, 7-10:30pm Grant’s Farm 10501 Gravois Road Spend an evening of fun to help unlock the magic learning for thousands of St. Louis children with learning disabilities. Entertainment, activities and fun. Jugglers, performances by the Villa Duchesne Show Choir, silent auction items. 314-966-3088. ldastl.org/OurEvents. RAIN BARREL WORKSHOP Oct. 2, 6:30-8pm Earthways Center 3617 Grandel Square, mid-town St. Louis Included with EarthWays Center admission, unless otherwise noted. ($3 adults; free children ages 12 and under.) 314-577-0220. earthwayscenter.org. OTTERTOBERFEST Saturdays and Sundays Oct 2-3, 9-10, 16-17, 10am-3pm Saint Louis Zoo Each weekend, families can enjoy special menus, music, drinks and activities to celebrate North American river otters. On Sunday, Oct. 3, the Zoo will feature American folk music. Free. 314-781-0900. stlzoo.org. KALAPRIYA Saturday, Oct. 0, 8pm West Hills Community Church 13250 South Outer 40 Road Town and Country The dancers of Kalapriya dazzle with enchanting beauty. 314-721-6556. gitana-inc.org. FEST-OF-ALE Friday, Oct. 15, 6-10pm Sophia M. Sachs Butterfly House 15193 Olive Blvd. at Faust Park $30; $15 Garden members. RSVP. 314-5779570. mobot.org/membership. 1-2-3 GREEN! A FAMILY ECO FESTIVAL Saturday, Oct. 16, 11am-3pm St. Louis Community College–Wildwood Explore how easy it is to live a greener life. The day will feature electronics recycling, document shredding, mini informational sessions and eco-friendly vendors of products and services, garden seminars and hands on activities. Free. 636-422-2241 or email dward106@stlcc.edu. FOLK-ROCK FAVORITES DENNY LAINE, TERRY SYLVESTER AND JOHN FORD COLEY Friday, Oct. 22, 8pm Sheldon Concert Hall 3648 Washington Blvd. Three of folk-rock’s enduring stars perform ‘60s, ‘70s and ‘80s favorites, plus stories and memories. Terry Sylvester, formerly of The Hollies; Denny Laine, formerly of The Moody Blues and Wings; and John Ford Coley, formerly of England Dan and John Ford Coley. $40 and $35. 314-534-1111. thesheldon.org. FALL ARTS & CRAFTS SHOW Saturday, Oct. 23, 9am-4pm Sunday, Oct. 24 10am-4pm Sperreng Middle School 12111 Tesson Ferry Rd. Hosted by the Lindbergh Lacrosse Club, this free event features more than 125 artist-exhibitors. For information, contact Mandy at 314-913-2489 or email sa9884@att.net. Custom Replacement Windows SAVE $325 * • Quality materials and installation± • Custom measuring to fit your home’s openings • Energy efficient design to help keep heating and cooling costs down*** • Solid vinyl frames and sashes, you may never need to paint or caulk your windows again** • Many styles that tilt-in for easy cleaning from inside your home • Flexible financing‡ and Satisfaction guaranteed+ SAVE UP TO $1,500 WITH QUALIFIED ENERGY TAX CREDIT.++ SAVINGS RANGE FROM $0 TO $1500. 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