R ABBI`S REFLE C TIONS - Pine Brook Jewish Center

Serving the needs of
our diverse Jewish
community for more
than 118 years.
RABBI’S
REFLECTIONS
October 2014 | Tishrei—Cheshvan 5775
So Maybe You Can’t Dance At Two Weddings, But…
Many people in whose homes Yiddish was spoken have vivid memories of the colorful
expressions that our parents, grandparents, and great grandparents used to use. If we were
fortunate enough to understand at least some of the Yiddish, we laughed along at many of
those expressions; however, if we did not understand the Yiddish, we still may have laughed
along because it sounded so funny to our ears.
I was reminded recently of the Yiddish expression, "You can’t dance at two weddings at the
same time: Me ken nit tantsen oif tsvai chassenes oif ain mol,” sort of the Yiddish equivalent
of "You can't have your cake and eat it too." Some of you who have taken the advanced
course in Yiddish know that some Yiddish speakers add something at the end of that
expression, making it even funnier." Quite true; but some readers might accuse me of getting
fresh. Perhaps if I reach the age of my grandparents, I can get away with saying anything I
want, but not today.
I mention this expression because October may be a month for dancing. The most obvious
opportunities for dancing are tied to Simhat Torah. On Thursday evening, October 16 and on
the following day is Simhat Torah. The first opportunity for dancing will be at 6:30 PM when
we will have a half-hour Simhat Torah celebration for nursery through 2nd graders and their
families: some singing, some dancing with “toy Torahs,” flags, a story (maybe two), and
Rabbi Mark Finkel
refreshments for everyone afterwards. At 7 PM we will hold our family Simhat Torah
celebration for elementary school students and older. In addition to all the components at the earlier celebration, we will
have our annual total wrap (or un-wrap as the case may be) and refreshments. All are welcome; but the holiday does not
end there. On Friday morning October 17 at 9:30 AM Simhat Torah continues. Everything that goes on on Thursday
evening continues on Friday morning plus every member of the congregation in attendance will receive an honor to the
Torah … and Kiddush follows.
The fourth opportunity for dancing? This is a more select group, but I still want everyone in our PBJC community to
know about it, pass the word along and encourage attending, should you meet or speak to any of this special group, and
that is this year’s opening dance of the northern New Jersey USY, Saturday evening, October 18 at Congregation B’nai
Israel in Millburn, an opportunity for our young people to dance all night (or talk or text) in a safe and fun Jewish
environment. Our USY’ers, 9-12 graders, sometimes do not get word of opportunities for them to join with their peers to
make new friends and to have a great time, so I am partially relying on readers to spread the word. (Don’t worry; it is on
Facebook too.) There will be round-trip transportation from PBJC. USY’ers and their parents should call the synagogue
office to get on the bus list.
I hope that all of you will have at least one opportunity to dance during October at one of these venues.
On behalf of myself, Abby, our family, and the professional and lay staff of PBJC, I wish you a joyous, meaningful and
fulfilling conclusion to our holy day season, and may you be sealed in the book of life for good, sweet, and healthy year.
The Candlestick is published 9 times a year
reaching more than 400 families. Ads may be
purchased on a monthly, quarterly or annual
basis, pro-rated for advertisers who begin midyear. Payment is due with contract. Ads are
placed on a 9-month cycle from the first issue in
September through the final edition in May.
3.5” x 2.125”
by Sponsoring
a Friday Night
Oneg Shabbat
1/8
Ad Specs
eighth
quarter
half (h)
half (v)
full
3.5” x 2.125”
3.5” x 4.5”
7.5” x 4.5”
3.5” x 10”
7.5” x 10”
$170 per year
$255 per year
$425 per year
$425 per year
$620 per year
3.5” x 4.5”
Design Services
Design services are available if needed and will
be charged at $100 per ad. Ads received that
deviate from required formats will be assessed
$100 fee to rebuild to the appropriate
specifications. Advertisers may change copy
within their ads to reflect seasonal promotions at
no charge.
File Formats & Delivery
As our publication is offered as an online pdf,
ads may be furnished in color, however, they will
be printed in black and white.
Ads must be submitted in one of the following
formats: press-quality pdf, tiff, jpg or eps at a
minimum 300 dpi resolution. Please be sure to
embed all artwork and fonts before conversion.
For inclusion in an upcoming pubication, all ads
and copy must be received by the 10th of each
month. All articles must be submitted as .doc
files with no formatting. Submit to:
gina.logrande1966@gmail.com
1/4
3.5” x
10”
1/2 (v)
7.5” x 4.5”
1/2 (h)
Editorial
LAYOUT & DESIGN
Gina Logrande
CONTRIBUTING WRITERS AND
PHOTOGRAPHERS
Rabbi Mark Finkel • Mitchell Goldstein
Mary Sheydwasser • Rosanne Mendelowitz
Michelle Zuckerman • Steven Gothelf
Honor
Someone
Special
7.5” x 10”
Full Page
At PBJC, we want to build
relationships among
congregants and strengthen
the bonds between members
beyond the confines of
formal worship services. One
way to turn our synagogue
house into a home is at the
Oneg Shabbat.
Consider a donation of $18
or more to celebrate your
next birthday, anniversary,
engagement, child’s birth,
grandchild’s birth or other
simchas by sponsoring an
oneg at one of our Friday
night Shabbat services.
Sponsor an oneg for a
friend’s event that you want
to acknowledge. Sponsor
one on your own, or with
family or a group!
Make checks payable to
PBJC Sisterhood and submit
it at least two weeks in
advance. Include a note
stating what the occasion is
and who you are honoring or
commemorating, to Elaine
Nachshen, 74 Midvale
Avenue, Lake Hiawatha, NJ
07034.
Betty Crane • Elaine Nachshen
2
The Candlestick
In the coming year, m a y y o u r h e a r t b e
light with laughter,
your mind be
Frederic L. and Janice Aibel
Jordan and Sheila Basem
Jay and Wendy Birnbaum
Cindy and Norman Chase and Family
Mr. and Mrs. Howard Chesler and Family
Betty and Fred Crane
Irene and Jerry Davis
The Drillings Family
Art, Judy and Michael Eisen
Abe and Sima Feder
Paul and Jacqueline Fenton
Sharon and Bob Fields
The Fuchs Family
Steve and Gay Gershberg and Family
Andrea and Mitchell Goldsmith and Family
Alice Gordon
Mort and Marcia Grossman and Family
Staci and Adam Handler and Family
Paula and Ed Kadushin and Family
Roberta and Bob Kanarick
Marvin and Barbara Kaufman
Rosalee and Doug Keech
Elaine Korn and Family
Stephanie Kutlow and Family
Susan and Howard Lefkowitz
Lillian and Sid Lerman
Ellen and Jonathan Lewis and Family
Marian and Robert Lowenfish
Gil and Sue Mandel and Family
Ann and Ray Mariash
Monique and Jedd Mendelson and Family
Elaine Nachsen and Famly
Craig and Michelle Nadel and Family
free from worry,
your days be
bright with sunshine
and your life be
filled with love.
Flo and Tom Peck and Family
Gail and Jeff Rempell and Family
The Resnikoff Family
Gail and Jay Richman and Family
Ina and Mark Roffman
Nan and Alan Rothberg
Anita and Mel Sanders
Trudy and Martin Sarver
Marlene Scheinthal
Elaine and Herman Schkolnick
Estelle and Jory Schlenger
Mary and Frank Sheydwasser and Family
Estelle Stein
Natalie and Leonard Wallach and Family
Shelley and Ralph Zemel
Michelle, Evan, Lindsay and Hailey Zuckerman
Esta and Phil Zwick
Alan, Sandy, Hayley and Emma Zwickel
From our family to yours, PBJC wishes all of you a
joyful and happy Rosh Hashanah.
NURSERY
SCHOOL
Festive Fall Fun!!!!
The beginning of a new school year brings with it so many exciting and new
feelings, for both parent and child! In September, we welcomed back returning
friends and met special new ones at the same time. PBJC Nursery is off to a
great start. In addition to adjusting to school, our pre-schoolers spent
September learning about the very special holidays of Rosh Hashana, Yom
Kippur, Sukkot and Simchat Torah. We munched on apples and honey and sang
festive new songs. All of the children participated in a wonderful Shofar program
conducted by our friends at the Living Legacy. September may have been a
short month, but it was certainly filled with many fun and exciting programs and
projects as we kicked off our school year.
The nursery children have jumped right into all of their classroom activities with
such enthusiasm! From circle time to art projects to learning new songs or
playing on the playground, there is always something fun happening! The
children are also enjoying their weekly music class with Miss Babette and our
new weekly movement class with Miss Lisa! We have expanded our enrichment
programming to now include science for our 3’s and 4’s and art enrichment for
our 4’s. We also look forward to kicking off our after-school enrichment classes
for the 3’s and 4’s! Being offered this fall are drama, cooking and a new
“potluck” class to include everything from
yoga to science to nature!
As always, my door is always open to anyone
who would like more information about any of
our nursery programs.
All the best,
Rosanne Mendelowitz
Nursery School Director
4
The Candlestick
RELIGIOUS
SCHOOL
Mary Sheydwasser
Religious School Director
The students of Pine Brook Jewish Center’s Religious School ushered in the 20142015 academic year with much enthusiasm and excitement. In anticipation of what I
trust will be an outstanding year, each child received a piece of chocolate to
symbolize a good and sweet year of learning!
As you already know, Tefillah, prayer, is a core
element of our curriculum. Every Sunday we
daven together and reinforce what the students
learn in the classroom. Furthermore, our students
lead us in Havdalah, a beautiful service that
separates the Sabbath from the hustle and bustle of our routine weekday
OCTOBER 5
activities. The students and teaching professionals have the opportunity to
Kitah
Hey
visit with seniors at
wish each other a “Shavuah Tov”, a greeting for a new and good week
The Chelsea Madrichim Program begins
ahead. By doing this on a regular basis, we hope to provide the students
with the Jewish traditions that will last a lifetime. In addition, students are
OCTOBER 11
Junior Congregation 10 – 12 Noon
encouraged to attend as many Junior Congregation services as possible.
This is another way to educate them and provide an opportunity to lead
OCTOBER 12
their peers in prayer.
Gan, Zeraim & Shorashim (K-2) trip to
Judaism is clear: Religion is about shaping our attitude and actions toward
ourselves, toward each other and toward God. Religion should help us
believe that we do matter, that our actions matter, and that we are never
alone. Please make this the year to join our students in family functions and
class services and to listen to your child read a tefillah and appreciate the
joy of learning. We are encouraging our students to find their own spiritual
journey while we integrate their knowledge into building lifetime skills. I urge
you to attend an education committee meeting, get involved, and take an
active role in your child’s Jewish education.
I would like to take this opportunity to formally welcome and introduce Mrs.
Susan Golloub to our faculty. She brings a wealth of experience and
knowledge, and will be a valuable addition to our excellent staff of
educational professionals. We also welcome Mr. Evan Zuckerman as our
Vice President of Education. Bruchim Habaim!
I look forward to seeing you at our many events scheduled for this year. As
always, my door is always open to hear your suggestions, comments, and
goals for our school.
Mary Sheydwasser
Religious School Director
October 2014 | Tishrei—Cheshvan 5775
Brook Hollow Barnyard
OCTOBER 14
B’Yachad- Hebrew High - Opening/
Pizza in the Hut (8th to 10th) 6-8PM
Education Committee Meeting
OCTOBER 16
Simchat Torah Celebration at PBJC
(Junior Congregation credit)
OCTOBER 21
B’Yachad 8th Grade begins (6-8PM)
OCTOBER 23
B’Yachad 10th Grade begins (6-8 PM)
OCTOBER 25
Junior Congregation 10 – 12 Noon
OCTOBER 26
Kitah Hey Bar/Bat Mitzvah Workshop
with Parents & Students
OCTOBER 28
B’Yachad 9th Grade begins (6-8PM)
5
B’YACHAD
HEBREW
HIGH
B’YACHAD: An Inclusive Community of Learners
Hershey Jaffe
B’Yachad Coordinator
REGISTRATION IS STILL
BEING ACCEPTED FOR
THE B'YACHAD
PROGRAM!
The success of our Hebrew High School, B’yachad, is dependent on the ability to not
only learn about ‘the ethics of our people,’ but more importantly to build a community.
When students trust and care about each other they feel safe to share their views and
ideas in a classroom setting and a dialogue begins. The fear of being judged by one’s
peers dissipates and discussions become lively and interactive. From the time of
Hillel and Shammai, our tradition teaches that there was always room to examine,
dissect and re-evaluate our laws. In fact, many believe that different perspectives are
exactly the reason Judaism has survived for almost 6000 years. However, all of our
ancestors agreed on the importance of community.
Because I worry about the next generation and because enrollment in B’yachad is
voluntary, I along with Mrs. Sheydwasser have worked countless hours to develop a
program that would entice participation and also build that community that we believe
is vital to Judaism. With that in mind, we have taken several steps to foster a ‘kehilah
kedusha,’ or a holy community, where everyone is respected and every opinion is
valued. Each class begins by sharing a meal together. That short period of time
provides the students with an opportunity to get to know each other better and
verbalize any problems they might recently encountered. Since our students come
from different schools, it also gives them the ability to ‘catch up’ with each other. In an
effort to change the tone of the class, we usually change venues and simultaneously
establish boundaries to denote that the ‘act of study’ is about to begin.
Another element in the Community Building process is the performing of a mitzvah
together. This year, all of our high school classes will join with our younger youth groups
in preparing sandwiches for the homeless and then B’yachad will distribute the meals,
along with winter items that we will collect, to New York City’s Homeless. This program
is sponsored by the Midnight Run Organization, which is a “…volunteer organization
dedicated to finding common ground between the housed and the homeless.”
Lastly, our efforts turn to the social aspect of our school. Several activities have been
scheduled, and many of them have been driven by our students, to promote the
‘family atmosphere’ that our scholars respond so well to.
In early September, we held our 2nd Annual Bowling Event. Attended by 18 joyous
students and a success by every standard, they filled the alleys with laughter and the
sounds that we, the educators, thrive on hearing. Our Sukkah Party, open to all
B’yachad students is scheduled for October 14th. In addition to dinner, we will be
making s’mores and after eating and saying the prayers for Sukkot, we will hopefully
be sitting around a campfire and singing songs together.
Together we have become “The habonim, the builders of the next generation of Jews.
If your idea of Religious School has changed, then call me or the school office and we will send you a Registration
Form to share this exciting journey with us. If you haven’t changed your perception, then give us a try! Let us show
you how learning can be fun, substantive and engaging all at the same time. As always, I am available for any
questions and can be reached on my cell at 201.615.8419 or by email at nijewguy@aol.com. I look forward to
learning with you.
L’hitraot, Hershey
6
The Candlestick
B’nai Mitzvot
Our son, Lorrin, was welcomed by family and friends on April
29, 2001. His less usual name honors the memory of his
October 12, 2014
grandparents, Linn and Irwin. Lorrin has distinguished
himself as a compassionate young man, independent thinker, honor student at Lazar
M.S., soccer player, skier, musician who plays saxophone in the school and Jazz bands,
and has enjoyed participating in the Percussion Ensemble. He’s found an interest in
electronics and computer programming and loves computer gaming. For the past year
Lorrin has been entertaining seniors as a Mitzvah Clown. The project had special
meaning since he has never had living grandparents. We, and Lorrin’s little sister,
Ariana, are incredibly proud of him, as he becomes a bar mitzvah!
Lorrin Stone
Jared Thomas Birnbaum was born on July 21, 2001, to loving
parents Jane and Steven. He has always had a passion for
October 18, 2014
building and aspires to become an architect. Jared is an avid
reader and loves playing with his dog, Friday, and lots of technology. He is in 8th grade at
Lazar Middle School and looks forward to spending his summers at Camp Louemma.
Jared Birnbaum
For his Mitzvah project Jared volunteered his time at the Interfaith Food Pantry helping
clients with their shopping and making home deliveries. Jared learned about the issues
of hunger right here in our community. We are very proud of Jared and look forward to
celebrating this joyous occasion.
Ian Nazmiyal was born on September 1, 2001. He will become
a Bar Mitzvah on October 25, 2014. Ian is the youngest of his
October 25, 2014
siblings Noah and Ara. Padi and Jason are proud parents of
Ian and are looking forward to his special day. Ian is a 7th grade student at Lazar Middle
School. He plays on the Montville Travel Soccer team. He’s also on the Montville Travel
basketball team and has been on the team since the team formed. Ian enjoys playing
tennis and skiing. He likes travelling and experiencing different cultures. His most recent
trip with his family was to Spain where he visited different cities and had an opportunity
to visit a synagogue. Ian is looking forward to sharing his Bar-Mitzvah with his family
and friends.
Ian Nazmiyal
Many Thanks...I want to thank the entire PBJC Community for the way you responded to my
recent illness. Your cards, emails and thoughtful giſts have helped speed my recovery and I, along with
my family are ever grateful for your love and concern.
May you never know from illness or sorrow, but should you have to experience it, be grateful, as I am to
be a part of such a loving community.
Hershey
CLUB
NEWS
Sisterhood
Michelle Zuckerman
President, PBJC Sisterhood
Join the fun! PBJC Sisterhood offers opportunities for social activities, educational
experiences, fundraising, and personal growth. We are dedicated to the perpetuation of
Conservative Judaism by promoting Jewish education and encouraging cultural and
social activities for our membership, the congregation and the community. Dues are $45
per year ($36 for our senior members).
It’s hard to believe that it’s already October and fall is upon us! On behalf of my
family and the PBJC Sisterhood I’d like to wish everyone a happy, healthy and very
sweet New Year! Sisterhood is always happy to be a part of the High Holidays at
PBJC…it is our pleasure to provide the beautiful flower arrangements for the
bemahs in both the main service and family service every year. We also are happy to
provide the delicious break fast meal on Yom Kippur.
Sisterhood was happy to once again provide the desserts for the Welcome Back
Family BBQ/Shabbat Alive event that took place on September 5th. We were proud
to take part in this very special event!
Sisterhood began our year with a welcome breakfast for Nursery School parents on
September 9th. Thanks to Z’Havah Chair Shari Schwartz for organizing a lovely
morning! We also resumed our monthly Game Nights (“Maj Jongg Mondays”) on
September 8th and hope you will join us on the first Monday of every month for a nice night out with the girls!
Thanks to Programming Chairs Betsy Steckelman and Ilene Thailer for coordinating our game nights. Betsy and
Ilene are also working on a special morning and program for our annual Kick-Off Brunch, which will be held this
year on Sunday, October 19th.
We will have out first Sisterhood meeting of the year on Wednesday,
October 22nd at 7:30 p.m. All Sisterhood members are invited to attend!
Finally, don’t forget that you can purchase scrip & gift certificates
throughout the year from Sisterhood. We carry all of the major
supermarkets, including Shop Rite, and many other stores. They are
available in the main office during regular office hours or by
contacting Kim Stiller at 646-483-7411 or kim615@optonline.net. We
also sell both Tribute Cards and Torah Fund Cards which can be
sent to commemorate mitzvahs, birthdays and other joyous events
as well as to those in mourning. To send a Tribute Card contact
Betty Crane (if your last name begins with A – Go) at 973-227-6344
or bettycrane@optonline.net; Marlene Rosen (if your last name
begins with Gr – M) at 973-887-0551 or chosin@juno.com; or Estelle
Stein (if your last name begins with N – Z) at 973-588-7332 or
estein9@hotmail.com. Your tribute will also be listed in the next
edition of the Candlestick. If you wish to send or purchase Torah
Fund cards, please contact Rosalie Kesselman at 973-386-1813 or
savtarose@verizon.net.
As always, thank you for your support of the PBJC Sisterhood. If you
are not already a member, please join us at any of our wonderful
events and come see what you’ve been missing!
L’Shanah Tovah
8
2014-2015 SISTERHOOD MEETING DATES
Wednesdays at 7:30pm
10/22, 12/10, 2/11 & 4/15
SISTERHOOD KICK-OFF BRUNCH:
Sunday, 10/19
PAID-UP DINNER: Tuesday, 11/11
MARKETPLACE: Tuesday, 12/2
GAME NIGHTS: 10/6, 11/3, 12/1, 1/5, 2/3,
3/2, 4/13, 5/4
WELLNESS PROGRAMS: 10/28, 2/18, 5/12
The Candlestick
Friendship Club of PBJC
Betty Crane
Friendship Club Coordinator
The Friendship Club began in 2000 with a grant from MetroWest. Currently, we have about
250 members from Morris and Essex counties. We meet at various times of the year
depending on the synagogue schedule. We take trips to museums, attend concerts and
shows, have a mid-winter brunch in February, a Shabbat dinner in November, and evening
programs. We have about eight events a year, several with bus transportation. Dues are
$25 annually.
In July, we began our fifteenth year and The Friendship Club remains a vibrant and dynamic group. Your support
and active participation in our many programs have kept us alive and well.
On Wednesday, August 20, we sponsored the “AARP Driver Safety Course” at the synagogue and it was well
attended. Marty Karasick. a certified AARP volunteer and a member of The Friendship Club, conducted this sixhour session. In the last three years, 57 people have taken this course and, as always, the feedback has been very
positive. We thank Marty for his time and commitment.
As of this writing, we are looking forward to our September meeting on Tuesday evening, September 16. Jessica
Davy, a clarinetist, composer and educator, will present “The World of Classical Music” where she will discuss the
baroque, romantic and contemporary periods. In addition, there will be a “Name That Tune” segment as well as
audience participation. We must have many classical music aficionados because the response to this program has
been excellent.
As a reminder, we will be holding our annual Shabbat Dinner on Friday evening, November 21 so please mark this date
on your calendar. In December, we are planning another movie night and you will be notified once details are finalized.
Finally, if any of our congregants have reached the magic age of fifty-five and wish to be placed on our mailing list,
please let me know. We always welcome new members.
Wishing you a beautiful autumn.
B’Shalom
Chaverim of PBJC
Chaverim of PBJC are a vibrant group of adults 60+ who meet at 11:30 a.m. on the 2nd
and 4th Thursdays of each month at the Center. We have informative and entertaining
programs. We enjoy speakers, current event discussions, entertainment, movies, in house
luncheons, trips and dining at nearby restaurants. Bring a cold dairy lunch, (if you’d like),
and socialize before each program. Call Shelly at 973.627.5370 for more information.
October 9
No meeting Sukkot
October 23
11:30 Lunch • 12:00 Meeting • 12:30 Program: Barbara Wind UJCNJ will talk about
“1938 Again.. Anti Semitism Then and Now”
October 2014 | Tishrei—Cheshvan 5775
9
Men’s Club
Steve Gothelf
Men’s Club President
The PBJC Men’s Club fosters cultural, social, and religious activities and programs for the
members of the Men's Club, Synagogue youth, the congregation and the community. In
addition, we seek to promote understanding and awareness of Jewish heritage among our
members and their children. Membership is open to any adult Jewish male of the
congregation. Dues are $75 annually and cover all events.
You may have already received your annual invoice for the Men’s Club dues. Once again we have been able to
keep costs down and have not raised the dues. If you have already sent in your payment, we thank you for your
support.
We urge you to support and be part of your Men’s Club. Join us at any of the many events and activities that we
sponsor during the year. Because of the high holidays and other scheduling conflicts we are a bit late, but that
just mean that you haven’t missed our “Kick-off” breakfast scheduled for October 26th at 10:00AM. We have an
exciting morning planned with yet another “special guest speaker.” Mark your Calendar now and watch for further
details. If it will be your first breakfast, just let us know and we will make sure you feel at home!
You can still sponsor one of our breakfasts! It’s the perfect way to promote and advertise your company and your
company’s products and services to the men of the PBJC and at the same time support your Men’s Club. Just
ask us how it works and what it’s all about.
The Men’s Club was responsible for all the cooking at the Family BBQ last month. We cooked enough
hamburgers, hotdogs, turkey burgers and veggie burgers for over 200 attendees. Our thanks go to: Jeffrey Weiss,
Ray Feldman, Barry Grummer, Alan Guilder, Marv Kaufman, Paul Fenton, Glenn Fox, Evan Zuckerman, Bill Markel,
Joe Huber and Steve Berman for their efforts and support.
The Men’s Club is responsible for erecting the sukkah each year, and this year is no exception. We are scheduled
to begin “construction” on Sunday morning October 5th. Of course what goes up must come down, so on
Sunday morning October 19th we will be taking the sukkah down. We will be sending out email reminders asking
for volunteers to help us out with this task.
Our annual Man-of-the-Year dinner is scheduled for Wednesday evening November 12th. This is always a very
well attended and special night because we honor one of our own. Stay tuned for the big announcement as to
who we will be honoring as our 2014-2015 Man-of-the-Year. This year’s event will be held at Temple Beth Ahm
Yisrael in Springfield NJ. You will be receiving further details on this special event.
The New Year is just getting started and it’s the perfect time to give us a try and find out what we’re all about. We
think you will be pleasantly surprised, but why not find out for yourself. We are looking for men of all ages, sizes
and levels of experience.
If you have any questions, suggestions, comments, concerns or inquiries, we urge you to contact us. We want to
hear from you!
Steve Gothelf, Men’s Club President
973-335-7486
10
The Candlestick
CLUB
NEWS
Socially Active Single Seniors
SASS ended our summer activities with a wonderful day at the Gardens for
Sculpture in Hamilton, NJ on August 24th. The weather was beautiful, the statues
were magnificent and everyone who attended had a fabulous day. This is a place
everyone should see; it is well worth the trip.
Our September 9th meeting was informative. Rosalie Kesselman, RN and member
of PBJC led a discussion on: ”How to find and select the right doctor for your
particular needs” and also the current trend towards “concierge” doctors. It was an
informative as well as enjoyable evening.
Our October meeting is a trip to the Bickford theatre (at the Morris Museum). On
Sunday October 26th, we will be attending a matinee performance of the Carolyn
Dorfman Dance Company. They are a contemporary dance troupe. Senior tickets
are $20 and we are planning to go out to dinner after the show. Please call Barbara
Fried or Elaine Nachshen if anyone would like to attend, who has not already signed
up. Hopefully there will still be tickets available. There will be no meeting at the
temple on 10/7, as was previously scheduled.
We welcome all single seniors 55+ at PBJC. We request for you to give us a try. Come to a meeting or join us for a
trip or out to dinner. We would love to have you join us and possibly increase our membership if you like what you
see. If anyone has any questions or suggestions about SASS (Socially Active Single Seniors), please call.
Elaine Nachshen 973-263-0407 or Barbara Fried 973-335-1099
Torah Fund
I wish each and everyone of you A Healthy and Happy New Year as we start a
new Torah Fund Campaign Year. This is the 72nd year of Torah Fund and the
theme of "Mishpachah" FAMILY continues. The Jewish Family, in all its
configurations, is the solid system of roots that supports our tree of life. The
community lend its strength to each family and, in turn, draws renewed energy,
wisdom ands direction from its cherished members. These Jewish family bonds
have an immeasurable impact when cultivated in each new generation.
By supporting Torah Fund for any amount we can support the schools and
programs of the Jewish Theological Seminary. These include, The Jewish
Theological Seminary, which trains our Rabbis. The Ziegler School of Rabbinic Studies in Los Angeles, The
Schechter Institutes of Judaic Studies, Seminario Latinoamericano in Buenos Aires, The Davidson Graduate
School of Jewish Education and List College. There are many levels of available giving. No amount is too small.
Patron - $1200
Associate Patron - $600
Guardian - $300
Benefactor - $180
To make a donation or to become a Benefactor please contact me at savtarose@verizon.netor at 973-386-1813, 03
Carol Jane Kotch @ cjknj@optonline.net
To send a Torah Fund card for any occasion please contact Sheila Basem @ sbasem@optonline.net
October 2014 | Tishrei—Cheshvan 5775
11
The Pine Brook Jewish Center is pleased to announce«.
MOMMY & ME with Miss Lisa
This class is designed for children ages 12 ± 24 months!!
(please inquire if your child is younger than 12 months and you are interested in a class)
When: Mondays
Fall 2014 Session begins September 15th and runs through November 24th
(11 weeks)
Where: Pine Brook Jewish Center
Time: 9:30 ± 10:30 a.m.
Cost: $220.00
Highlights of the class include: Circle Time, Music & Songs, Art Projects, Story
Time, Puppets, Age-Appropriate Games«and so much MORE!
******************************************************************************
Mommy & Me Registration
ŚŝůĚ͛ƐEĂŵĞͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺĂƚĞŽĨŝƌƚŚͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺ
PĂƌĞŶƚ͛ƐEĂŵĞ;ƐͿͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺͺ_____________________________________
Address__________________________________________________________________________________
Phone #___________________________________________Email___________________________________
Please return registration portion of this form, along with a check made out to: ͞PBJC Nursery School͟ and return it to:
PBJC Nursery School
174 Changebridge Road
Montville, NJ 07045
Questions? Contact Rosanne Mendelowitz, Nursery School Director, at (973) 244-1611, ext. 6
**
NEW JERSEY’S #1 PARTY SHOWCASE
PLANNING A BAR/BAT MITZVAH, WEDDING, SWEET 16 OR PARTY?
DJ’s • Photographers • Videographers • Party & Photo Favors • Entertainers
Balloon Specialists • Invitations • Bands • Gifts • Variety Entertainment • Kosher Caterers
SUN. DEC. 7
12:00-3:00 pm
Pine Brook Jewish Center
174
174 Changebridge
Changebridge Rd.
Rd. || Montville,
Montville, NJ
NJ
ster
Regi ne
onli
partyshowcases.com Roengliinsteer
908-665-4165
By: Lois Daniels
In appreciation of receiving an
honor
By: Randee & Glenn Fox
In honor of Betty & Fred Crane’s
50th wedding anniversary
To make a donation, please
download forms at pbjc.org.
RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY
FUND
CANTOR’S
DISCRETIONARY FUND
By: Bob & Roberta Kanarick
In honor of their 50th wedding
anniversary
By: Diane & Alan Krause
In honor of the marriage of Amy &
Yoni
By: Susan & Gary Messinger
In honor of the baby naming of
Rose Jaclyn Messinger
By: Monique & Jedd Mendelson
In memory of Avi
By: Eric & Susan Bershad
In honor of their grandson Eli Drew
Bershad
In honor of the Haley Bernstein
becoming a bat mitzvah
CARING COMMITTEE FUND
By: Judy Listfield & Joe Butkus
In honor of Jordan & Sheila
Basem’s 50th wedding anniversary
anniversary
By: Barbara & Ben Gerson
In memory of Gwen Rosen
By: Sima & Abe Feder
In memory of Jaime Feder, Yudal
Rapoport & Marty Herman
YARHZEIT
By: Maxine Friedman
In memory of Sally Robin
By: Bernard Rubin
In memory of Helen Rubin
By: Fred Decter
In memory of Helen Decter
By: Betty & Fred Crane
In memory of Gwen Rosen
By: Michelle & Evan Zuckerman
In honor of Betty & Fred Crane’s
50th wedding anniversary
GENERAL
By: Anita & Mel Sanders
In honor of Betty & Fred Crane’s
50th wedding anniversary
By: Judith & Stanley Messinger
In honor of Betty & Fred Crane’s
50th wedding anniversary
By: Ellen Levy
In appreciation of Cantor Toren
14
If you want to send a tribute
card, please contact a member
of the tribute team according
to your last name.
To: Michelle & David Hay
Mazel Tov on Shayna’s Bat
Mitzvah
From: Sisterhood
Tribute cards may be sent to
synagogue members and nonmembers, but only members
will be listed in the
Candlestick.
To: Diane & Alan Krause
Mazel Tov on Amy's wedding
From: Sheila & Barry Weinreb
A-GO
Betty Crane
973-227-6344
bettycrane@optonline.net
Marlene Rosen
973-887-0551
chosin@juno.com
By: Ann Monka
In memory of Raizel Monka
N-Z
CONDOLENCES
Estelle Stein
973-588-7332
estein9@hotmail.com
ADDITIONS
William & Raina Leflein
17 Lalique Drive
Montville, New Jersey 07045
973-331-0489
Jay & Alison Glickson
164 Konner Avenue
Pine Brook, New Jersey 07058
973-396-6901
To: Betty & Fred Crane
Mazel Tov on your 50th wedding
anniversary
From: Ina & Mark Roffman, Esta
& Phil Zwick, Dale & Rob
Greenfield & Family
To: Meryle Handler
Mazel Tov on the birth of your
granddaughter
From: Estelle Stein
GR-M
Eli Brickman on the loss of his
father, Ed Brickman
To: Eli Brickman
In memory of your father Ed
Brickman
From: Nancy & Jonathan Cohen,
Dale & Rob Greenfield & Family
To: The Dawer Family
Mazel Tov on Janice's
engagement
From: Randy & Jack Wenarsky &
Family
By: Erika & Don Rosenthal
In appreciation of Rabbi Finkel’s
kindness
By: Robert Greenfield
In memory of Esther Wnuk
ETZ CHAIM
SISTERHOOD
TRIBUTES
DONATIONS
By: Alyson Daniels
In honor of her daughters Rachel,
Ariella & Shayna
No calls on Shabbat, Jewish
holidays, or after 9:00 PM please.
To: Jeff Axelrad
In memory of your grandfather
From: Stacey & Cliff Berliner
To: Anita Sanders
Wishing you a speedy recovery
From: Betty & Fred Crane
To: Ashli & Sean Sherman
Mazel Tov on Rebecca’s Bat
Mitzvah
From: Sisterhood
To: Libby & Charlie Stei
Mazel Tov on the marriage of
your daughter Megan to Jon
Newman
From: Natalie & Len Wallach,
Sheila & Barry Weinreb, Ina &
Mark Roffman, Randy & Jack
Wenarsky & Family, Marcy & Alan
Guilder
To: Pam & Mike Weinstein
Mazel Tov on Sam’s Bar Mitzvah
From: Sisterhood
To: Ellie & Alan Bernstein
Mazel Tov on your
granddaughter's Bat Mitzvah
From: Ina & Mark Roffman
The Candlestick
YAHRZEITS
Paul B. Finby
Archie Gellman
Sarah Kritzer
Bertha Marine
Stephen Richter
Fannie Rotter
Barney Rubin
21 Tishrei - October15
Isadore Gerver
Rita Gottlieb
Louis Kahn
Blossom Zivin
22 Tishrei – October 16
Grace Monka
Marcus Scherl
FRI/SAT, 10/17 & 10/18
23 Tishrei – October 17
Habibolah Adel
Lena Goldstein
Elsie Monk
Harry Schrager
The names of your loved ones
will be read on the Friday
evening of the designated
week. We would be honored to
read a particular name on
Shabbat morning when
requested by the family.
24 Tishrei - October 18
Max Arnofsky
Mollie Disler
Josephine Dubovy
Shaoul Laniado
William Schkolnick
FRI/SAT, 10/10 & 10/11
25 Tishrei – October 19
Eleanor Alper
Henry Sirot
Brian Weinberg
16 Tishrei - October 10
Sara Arnofsky
Shirley Bloom
Harry Gottlieb
Isidore Lescht
Ruth Markowitz
David Miller
26 Tishrei - October 20
Sally Baker
Minnie Kriss
Jeanette Lerner
Nathan Meistrich
Harry Thorner
17 Tishrei - October 11
Sidney Greenfield
Juda Mittman
SaturdayGoldy Schneider
Bernard Wallach
18 Tishrei - October 12
Gilbert Kempner
Carl Miller
19 Tishrei - October 13
Beatrice Bernstein
David Myers
Louis Rogers
Ida Teich
20 Tishrei - October 14
Barnet Bader
Elaine Brown
Bertha Fagan
27 Tishrei - October 21
Doris Bernstein
Harold Reisman
Sol Sumka
28 Tishrei - October 22
Vivian Dawer
Etta Krampf
29 Tishrei – October 23
Chicky Rutenberg
Samuel Stieber
FRI/SAT, 10/24 & 10/25
30 Tishrei – October 24
Robert F. Kramer
1 Cheshvan – October 25
Laura Salkowitz Bermowitz
Ronald Hecker
October 2014 | Tishrei—Cheshvan 5775
Bernice Kleinman
Jacob Liebeskind
Saul K. Rose
2 Cheshvan – Octobr 26
Irving Deutschman
Emanuel Louis Dorfman
Abraham Lifschen
Rudy Nazar
Doris Schaechter
Richard Scher
3 Cheshvan - October 27
Samuel Blackman
Sarah Ershowsky
Morris Gralla
Pauline Lerman
Philip Richman
Isadore Thorner
4 Cheshvan – October 28
1st Lt. Abraham J. Apelhot
Lester Eisenstodt
Lewis Isador Fox
Ruth Gold
Samuel Korn
Abraham Rabiner
5 Cheshvan – October 29
Alfred Lerner
Jerry Polesuk
William Taitel
Jeno Kaufmann
Samuel J. Kostin
Gerald Leventhal
Gertrude Krinsky Newman
Benjamin Rabenbauer
Rhoda Rosenblum
10 Cheshvan – November 03
Saundra Lesh
Yechiel Meistrich
MondayHarry Schneider
Hanna Steppel
Frances J. Terner
11 Cheshvan – November 04
Louis Julius Kanoff
Norman Sol Neuhaus
Millie Paster
Rebecca Mary Rifkin
Barry Alan Scheinman
Ruth Unger
12 Cheshvan - November 05
Abe Akronowitz
Isaac Edwards
Mildred Friedland
Edwin Wolfman
13 Cheshvan - November 06
Harry Goodman
Steven Hay
Meyer Roesch
Morris Rosenthal
6 Cheshvan – October 30
Moe I. Ostrow
Harry Rosen
Carol Zeitlin
FRI/SAT, 10/31 & 11/1
7 Cheshvan - October 31
Gertrude Goodman
Benjamin Gordon
Stephen Greenberg
Myer Lenner
Pearl Levy
Hyman Liebskind
Arthur Modne
Ala Storozum
Sydell Weiss
8 Cheshvan - November 01
Esther Adelman
Linda Colfin
Fannie Fox
Sidney Gold
Florence Kaufman
Ruth Segall
Jack Weiss
Jules Weiss
9 Cheshvan - November 02
Harry Bernstein
Max Chusid
Morris Hirsch
15
!!
!
JON GURKOFF
National Chairman
ALAN L. AUFZIEN
WILLIAM F. COHEN
MELVIN S. TAUB
JOEL D. TAUBER
September 10, 2014
Chairmen Emeriti
GAIL REISS
Mitchell Goldstein, President
Rabbi Mark Finkel
Pine Brook Jewish Center
174 Changebridge Rd
Montville, NJ 07045
President & CEO
Dear Rabbi Finkel and Mr. Goldstein,
On behalf of American Friends of Tel Aviv University, please accept our deep appreciation for
the fundraising efforts of the Pine Brook Jewish Center on behalf of the Tel Aviv University
Scholarship Fund for Reserve Combat Soldiers. These funds will be used to support Tel Aviv
University’s Returning IDF Soldiers from Operation Protective Edge.
While the hostilities appear to be over, the news from Israel continues to be tenuous with regard
to achieving a lasting peace. Some 86,000 IDF reservists had been called up to serve. The
students from TAU had to leave their summer studies and/or the jobs they had, and needed so
desperately, in order to save enough money for this coming year’s tuition.
Thanks to your congregants’ wonderful gifts, as well as those of others, our IDF combat
students will not have to worry about tuition next year. And those who need it will have access
to special tutors and psychological counseling services on campus.
We join with you in hoping our combat soldier students will return to their studies very soon.
They join many other people in Tel Aviv, and throughout Israel, who are grateful for your
support and for your expression of concern for our brave young men and women.
With sincere thanks,
!
Joseph Huber
Vice President, Northeast Region
Jon Gurkoff
National Chairman
!
!
E X P A N D I N G
T H E
F U T U R E
39 Broadway s Suite 1510 s New York, NY 10006 s Tel 212.742.9070 s Tel 800.989.1198 s info@aftau.org s Fax 212.742.9071 s www.aftau.org
Choosing the right realtor does make a difference!
There is no substitute for knowledge and experience. I always show
uncommon concern for my clients by putting their interests first.
• #1 Top Sales Producer: ’89, ’91-’97, ’99, ’01-’12
• 1983-2012 NJAR Circle of Excellence
2005-2012 Gold Level
2004 Platinum Level
Coldwell Banker President’s Elite
• Voted NJ Magazine’s 2011 Five Star Realtor
• Montville Township Chamber of Commerce
Business Person of the Year 2010/2011
Mountain Lakes Office
Route 46 and Crane Road
MountainLakes, NJ 07046
NATALIE WALLACH
Broker/Sales Associate
Direct: 973.394.7656
Evenings: 973.335.4248
Cell: 973.214.3187
Email: nat77777@aol.com
Judy Milstein
Sales Representative
1072 Route 46 West
Parsippany, NJ 07054
Cell: 201.826.2593
Office: 973.316.5600
Fax: 973.316.1155
jmilstein@weichert.com
Mister Marco
You’ve been to the east coast of Florida...
Now come see the REAL Florida!
Welcome to Beautiful, Friendly
Marco Island!
Marco Island
Jerry Oppenberg
Realtor®
jerryO@kw.com
#1 Island—US
#4 Island—World
830 Bald Eagle Drive • Marco Island, FL 34145 • Cell 973.271.8358 • www.marcomaven.com
MONTVILLE DENTAL ASSOCIATES
170 CHANGEBRIDGE ROAD SUITE B3-3
MONTVILLE, NEW JERSEY 07045
973.575.5555
MATTHEW SPATZNER, D.D.S., GENERAL DENTISTRY
ALISA H. WAIN, D.D.S., PERIODONTAL SPEC. #3879
www.montvilledentalassociates.com
Ted M. GerszberG, Md
board CerTIfIed
Formerly known as Changebridge Medical Associates, P.A.
Family healthcare specialists providing a
tradition of patient-focused healthcare for
children, adults and seniors using innovative
technologies with a human touch.
Arnold Pallay, M.D.
Sandra Hoenig, M.D.
Anna Chung, M.S., PA-C
Jessica Oliveira, M.S., PA-C
Frank Iannetta, M.D.
Andrew Gilmartin, M.D.
Genevieve Castaneda, M.S., PA-C
Lisa Cohen, M.S. PA-C
Lori Beth Elliot, Psychiatric NP
170 Changebridge Road, Suite C3
Montville, New Jersey 07045
Tel: 973-575-5540 • Fax: 973-575-4885
vanguardmedgroup.com
Privileges at Morristown Medical Center, Saint Clare’s Hospital
and Chilton Memorial Hospitals
GENERaL OphthaLMOLOGy
& EyE SuRGERy
Complete Eye Examinations • Contact Lenses
Small Incision Cataract/Implant Surgery
Glaucoma Management • Laser Surgery
pediatric Ophthalmology
Emergencies Welcome • Medicare Accepted
150 River Road, Suite C-2
Montville, NJ 07045
973-402-9200
Established 1986
KRAUSE COMPREHENSIVE
DENTAL CARE, L.L.C.
Alan S. Krause, DMD
ƔE
Evan S. Krause, DDS
General, Cosmetic, Restorative , & Implant Dentistry
Denville Associates of Internal Medicine, P.A.
16 Pocono Road, Suite 317 Denville, NJ 07834
Board Certified
GILBERT B. MANDEL, M.D., F.A.C.P.
MICHAEL NICOLAI, M.D.
DANA R. BANU, M.D.
ROBERT G. COLLUM, M.D., Ph.D.
SETH E. LEVY, M.D.
PETER HEIT, M.D.
JOANNE ARDUIN, APN. C.
MARY R. YAP, APN.
By Appt. 973 / 627-2650
Fax: 973 / 627-8383
Short-Term Rehabilitation Center
Skilled Long-Term Nursing Care ! Memory Care
150 River Road
Bldg. J Suite 2
Montville, New Jersey 07045
Telephone: (973) 334²5556
www.kcdcmontville.com
Hours by Appointment
Hospice & Palliative Care ! Respite Stays
Senior Housing with Assistance
Medical Transportation Services
1155 Pleasant Valley Way, West Orange, NJ 07052
Call for a Tour Today: 973-400-3307
www.DaughtersofIsrael.org
James M. Hirschfeld, MD
Board Certified Ophthalmologist
n
Laser Vision Correction
n
n
Cataract Surgery
Comprehensive Family Eye Care
Hilltop Plaza
3799 Route 46 East, Suite 300
Parsippany, NJ 07054
Right next to TGI Friday’s
Tel 973-331-0300 • Fax 973-331-9777
JH@EyeDocNJ.com
www.EyeDocNJ.com
Spring Lake Day Camp is a state-of-the-art facility with the look
and feel of an overnight camp. We provide a well rounded camp
experience for boys and girls ages 3-15 including swimming, sports, art,
performing arts and special events. We have a mature
staff offering spirit, tradition and fun since 1989.
Tuition includes:
• Door to Door Transportation
• Catered Hot Lunch & 2 Daily Snacks
• 2 Camp Shirts & 1 Camp Back Pack
• Lots of Friends
Choose from a flexible 4, 5. 6, 7 or 8 week program
Full Day 9am-4pm, or Mini-day 9am-1:20pm
234 Conklintown Road
Ringwood, New Jersey
973-831-9000
springlakedaycamp.com
Mitchell & Michelle Kessler
Owners/Directors
Partridge Run Apartments Inc.
130 New Road
Parsippany, NJ 07054
973-227-3466 • 973-227-1516
Fax 973-227-0150
+VTU.JOVUFT"XBZ'SPN)PNF
+VTU.JOVUFT"XBZ'SPN)PNF
Q
Q
Q
Q
Q
Q
Shar
Shared
ed Office
Office En
Environment
vironment
Furnished
Furnished or Unfurnished
Offices
Offices and Suites
Suites
er vices
V
Virtual
ir tual Office
Office SServices
er vices
C
Concierge
oncierge SServices
remises
Da
Dayy C
Care
are on P
Premises
Conference
Conf
e Room Rentals
Rentals
Owned
O
wned & Op
O
Operated
perated b
byy the Soussa
Soussa Family
Family
$IBOHFCSJEHF3PBEt1JOF#SPPL/+
$IBOHFCSJEHF3PBEt1JOF#SPPL/+
tXXXNPOUWJMMFPöDFDPN
tXXXNPOUWJMMFPöDFDPN
An Open Invitation
Baby Announcements • Bar/Bat Mitzvah Invitations
Wedding Invitations • Fine Stationery
Holiday Cards, and more!
Always a discount and shop-at-home service!
phone/Fax: 973-402-2160
Cell: 973-809-7780
Email: eeeprice@optonline.net
Ellen Price
Owner
SERVING A COMMUNITY of FRIENDS SINCE 1979
Chain Store Pricing • Medicare Certified
Most prescription insurance plans accepted
A Fun Place to Shop!
Fashion... Fashion... Fashion...
• Vera Bradley
• Yankee Candle
• Godiva Chocolatier
• Sugar Lips
• Platters & Servers
• A Great Toy Store
Fun, Imaginative Gifts for the Entire Family
and of course, Free Gift Wrapping
Barry’s Pharmacy
185 Changebridge Rd.
Montville, NJ 07045
(973) 335-6688
Hours:
Mon-Fri 9am - 8pm
Sat 9am - 5pm
Sun 9am - 1pm
You are the heart of Federation.
931 homebound seniors received home healthcare and social services. 4,500 seniors participated
in adult programs in Greater MetroWest's JCCs and Y. 28,616 transportation rides to medical
appointments and social activities were provided to GMW seniors.
Put your
into it. Give. Volunteer. Change Lives. Feel Great.
CALL: (973) 929-3198 EMAIL: drc@jfedgmw.org ONLINE: www.jfedgmw.org/donate
A joyous Sukkot to you and your family
from the members of the Jewish Memorial Chapel
Ahavas Achim • Bloomfield
Amelia Lodge • Clifton
Beth Am • Verona
Beth El • Rutherford
Beth Israel • Fair Lawn
Beth Shalom • Pompton Lakes
Chevra Thilim • Passaic
Daughters of Miriam • Clifton
Adas Israel • Passaic
Hungarian Hebrew Men • Pinebrook
B’nai Shalom • West Orange
Clifton Jewish Center • Clifton
Agudath Israel • Caldwell
Ahavas Israel • Passaic
Jewish War Veterans Post 47 • Clifton
Knights of Pythias Memorial
Association • Clifton
Shomrei Emunah • Montclair
Pine Brook Jewish Center • Montville
Farband • Passaic
Temple Ner Tamid • Bloomfield
Jewish Federation • Clifton
Passaic Hebrew Verein • Passaic
Temple Emanuel • Clifton
Tifereth Israel • Passaic
Young Israel • Passaic
841 Allwood Road • Clifton, NJ 07012
973-779-3048 • Fax 973-779-3191
www.JewishMemorialChapel.org
Vincent Marazo, Manager
NJ License No. 3424
COMMUNITY OWNED AND OPERATED SINCE 1921 • NON#PROFIT
ShopRite of Parsippany
808 Route 46, Parsippany NJ
973-335-2625
Is pleased to provide a
Glatt Kosher
Service Meat Department
under the supervision of the MetroWest
Vaad
The same high quality and low prices
you expect from ShopRite and Kosher too!
ITALY
973-335-4120
185 Changebridge Road • Montville, NJ 07045
973-263-0421
An individualized college search process
mickeygilbertscollegechoice.com
“Thank You” to the following whose donations of time, food
and/or money touched the lives of 86 grateful people at the
Community Soup Kitchen and Outreach Center of Morristown
on August 31:
Sheila & Jordan Basem, Joe Coll, Betty & Fred Crane, Irene &
Jerry Davis, Jackie & Paul Fenton, Mimi Gold, Rhoda Gold, Dale
& Rob Greenfield, Don Kanoff, Susan & Howard Lefkowitz, Monique & Jedd Mendelson, Judy & Barry Milstein,
Shirley Moskowitz, Robin Reingold, Jill & Ed Russnow, Marlene Scheinthal, Tom Wolf.
Our next scheduled date is Sunday, November 30. As we celebrate the spirit and meaning of the Thanksgiving
holiday, please consider being a particpant in this congregational community service commitment.
October 2014
SUNDAY
MONDAY
Event
TUESDAY
WEDNESDAY
Event
THURSDAY
FRIDAY
11:30am Chaverim
Erev Yom Kippur
1
Kitah Hey Chelsea
Erev Sukkot
2
Sukkot
6:18pm
SATURDAY
Yom Kippur
3
Sukkot
4
Sukkot
Junior Congregation
5
6
Sukkot
Sukkot
13
Sisterhood Kickoff
Brunch
20
Kitah Hey BM
Workshop
21
6:07pm
10
Simchat Torah
BM Jared Birnbaum
15
Game Night
16
5:56pm
17
27
28
18
11am Chaverim
BM Ian Nazmiyal
6-8pm B’Yachad 10th
Grade
Junior Congregation
22
23
5:46pm
24
29
30
5:37pm
31
6-8pm B’Yachad 9th
Grade
26
11
Simchat Torah
Celebration
14
6-8pm B’Yachad 8th
Grade
9
Shemini Atzeret
6-8pm B’Yachad HH
Opening (pizza in the
Hut)
RS K-2 Brook Hollow
Barnyard
19
8
Hoshana Rabah
Sukkot
BM Lorrin Stone
12
7
25
NON-PROFIT
ORGANIZATION
US POSTAGE
PAID
PERMIT NO. 827
CALDWELL NJ
174 Changebridge Road
Montville, NJ 07045
ADDRESS SERVICE REQUESTED
At Your Fingertips
Religious Service Times
First Friday Service (an interactive service for families)......................6:30 p.m.
Regular Friday Service................................................................8:00 p.m.
2nd, 3rd and 4th Fridays of each month
Saturday Morning & Holiday Services ........................................9:30 a.m.
Junior Congregation...............................................10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m.
Sunday Minyan ...........................................................................9:00 a.m.
Emergency Contact Information
Please use the following protocol in the event of an emergency or if you
lose a loved one:
Call the synagogue office at 973.244.9800. If the office is closed, call
Rabbi Finkel at 973.287.7047 (home) or 973.407.0065 (cell). If unable to
reach the Rabbi, contact Mitchell Goldstein at 973.224.3716.
Sisterhood Scrip & Gift Certificates
Available in the office Mon-Thu from 9:00 a.m.to 4:00 p.m. and Fridays
from 9:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. Contact Kim Stiller for special arrangements
at 646.483.7411 or kim615@optonline.net.
Clergy & Staff
Mark David Finkel, Rabbi
Menachem Toren, Cantor
Dr. Asher Krief, Rabbi Emeritus
Arlene Lopez, Office Administraor
Mary Sheydwasser, Religious School Director
Rosanne Mendelowitz, Nursery School Director
Robin Mangino, Religious School Administrator
Esterina Herman, Bookkeeper
Gina Logrande, Candlestick Publication
Synagogue Officers
Mitchell Goldstein, President
Jonathan Cohen, 1st Vice President
Judy Gothelf, 2nd Vice President
Mike Weinstein, 3rd Vice President
Evan Zuckerman, Treasurer
Seth Friedman, Financial Secretary
Jeffrey Weiss, Corresponding Secretary
Eve Fields, Recording Secretary
Michelle Zuckerman, Sisterhood President
Steve Gothelf, Men’s Club President