MESSAGE FROM THE PRESIDENT

The Rising Tide
January/February 2012
MESSAGE
INSIDE THIS ISSUE:
January & February
Featured Speakers
2
Executive Board &
Committee Reports
3
New Member Spotlight
4
Members in the News
5
Gala Photo Gallery
6
Event Calendar
7
Meeting Agenda
8
Meeting Information
9
“If you look at what you
have in life,
You'll always have more.
If you look at what you don't
have in life,
You'll never have enough.
~ Oprah Winfrey ~
F RO M T H E
Barbara Cheney, President
The Executive Board extends
New Year wishes to all in this
beginning of the 2012 calendar
year! Hope your 2011 holidays
were very special!
2011 went out with a bang at
our third annual Holiday Gala on
December 13 at the Eau Gallie
Yacht Club. This was indeed our
best Gala ever! Thank you to our
members and friends who attended this fabulous evening of great
entertainment, food, and networking. There was an impressive photo feature of the Gala on
the social page in Florida Today
on December 22. A special thank
you to guitarist, Mike Fred, in
leading the holiday music. A very
special thank you to the ABWA
Space Coast Women Express
Network for the organizational
support and numerous event
execution duties that made this
such a special success. None of
this would be possible without all
our sponsors, Anita and Dave
Carbone; Connie Adams, Juice
Plus+; Lola Mitchell, Career Transitions Consulting; Laura Chiesman, CPA Wealth Management
Services; Arlene Norris, LMT; and
Tuckaway Shores Resort.
PRESIDENT
In addition, our generous raffle
donors included these parties
and companies: Anita and Dave
Carbone; Barbara Cheney; Theresa Crooks, Teri’s Gater Bite Spice;
Joan DiBenedetto, Red Rose Concierge Service; Kelli Fisher; Joyce
Hathaway; Ideal Image; Nora
Marek, Melbourne Home Staging;
Lola Mitchell; 98.5FM The Beach;
Arlene Norris, LMT; Sue Parker;
Nancy Peltonen; Tarolyn Robinson, Rodan & Fields Dermatologists; Toni Rummo, Set the Stage;
Sorelli Hair Studio; Jenny Wall;
Martha Young; and Kim Zipper,
M.D., The Fountain of You.
All this culminated in an ABWA
foundational achievement in the
educational funds that were
raised. This event raised $1,200,
which is double the amount of
last year’s event. Oceanside will
split these proceeds with the
Express Network. All of our sponsors and raffle donors are prominent ly disp l ayed on t he
Oceanside web home page. I
want to make next year even
better, so if you have a suggestion to share please send me an
email.
As normal custom, the
Oceanside Executive Board also
takes a moment at this event to
recognize a special member for
her outstanding professional accomplishments and on-going
contributions to Oceanside. This
year the Board chose to recognize
and thank our current Oceanside
Treasurer, Jenny Wall for her long
standing excellence, professional
business acumen, and support to
our chapter. Thank you Jenny!!!
Gala proceeds will directly go
to Oceanside Charter Chapter
funding another Stephen Bufton
Memorial Educational Fund
Scholarship of $1,000 this year!
Please see page three of the
newsletter for scholarship details.
Special thanks to Lola Mitchell
and Anita Carbone for their generous individual donations that will
benefit a deserving business student. Now, if that wasn’t enough
good cheer for you, in addition to
this initial scholarship, we received a challenge from two very
special ABWA members to award
a SECOND SBMEF Scholarship!!
These two members started this
challenge with their individual
contributions of $600 from Marty
Young, and $100 from our newest Oceanside member, Lyn Regas!!! This means that we only
require another $300 to achieve
awarding two $1,000 scholarship
awards this ABWA year. So I challenge all of our members and
friends to help us reach the milestone of just a few additional
dollars to get this second scholarship funded!!
As for upcoming events,
please don’t miss the ABWA program on January 24, 2012 featuring the inspiring Mr. Michael Everett. Michael will speak to
Oceanside on how to transcend
our struggles and turn 2012 into
opportunities of reinvention,
emerging better, smarter, and
happier than ever! Be sure to
make your reservations now!
Looking ahead to what has
become a widely renowned spring
event, we will again hold an
Oceanside Member Mixer. The
date will be finalized soon so
please watch your email for the
announcement.
The Executive Board looks
forward to seeing you at our upcoming meetings and events. We
sincerely appreciate all that you
do individually, and collectively
bring to our organization to
achieve our goals and mission.
~Barbara Cheney
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J A N UA RY F E A T U R E D S P E A K E R
Michael Everett
Mike Everett had always lived a charmed
life. Born in Vancouver, Canada and raised in
California, Everett left U.C. Santa Barbara five
quarters shy of earning a Bachelor's degree
in communications to pursue an interesting
invitation, the opportunity to try his luck as a
fashion model in Milan, Italy. Within weeks of
his arrival, he was chosen for worldwide campaigns with Gianni Versace and Enrico Coveri.
He later married, had two kids and moved to
Paris to live happily ever after, except that life
didn't go happily ever after.
Mike's career stalled in Paris. After depleting their funds and eventually selling all possessions, Mike and his family returned to
Miami on November 20, 2000. The entire net
worth of this family of four was whatever
would fit in the two suitcases they carried
with them. Broke, overweight, scared and
depressed, this is where Michael Everett's
story really begins.
On the advice of a friend, Mike took a job
in the mortgage industry as a loan officer. By
reinventing himself as a husband, father and
now sales professional, he was able to lift
himself out of a hole, and for the first time,
faced down true adversity and learned to
become a giver. Three years later, by November 20, 2003, he and his family owned two
homes, two cars, and two cats. As for those
same two suitcases, the family now takes
them out each year to raise a toast on November 20.
Michael Everett's message is both simple
and universal: It is through our times of struggle and adversity that we really learn who we
are, and what our true value is. As the economy has deteriorated both domestically and
globally, his desire to share the lessons of
reinvention have grown with the need for
them to be heard. He also asserts, however,
that within every crisis, there is opportunity.
For those who are willing to ask themselves
the tough questions and commit to doing the
right work, this "down" time could actually be
the best time of all to reinvent and emerge
better, smarter and happier!
Please join us for an inspirational evening
with Mike on Tuesday, January 24 at the Eau
Gallie Yacht Club! Networking begins at 6:00
p.m. followed by dinner at 6:30 p.m.
F E B RUA RY F E A T U R E D S P E A K E R
Achieving a Healthy
Work/Life Balance
Ever since her sixteenth birthday, Ellen
worked. She spent most of her time in retail,
learning the ropes and figuring out how to
use her personality, talents and abilities to
perform and exceed expectations. She believes she was put on this earth to serve people.
In 2005 the idea crossed her mind that
she could create a business that would help
people create new businesses. She wasn’t
looking to become a tycoon CEO of many
companies, but desired to see others succeed. Her greatest satisfaction has been
watching these companies continue to grow
and succeed.
Ellen spent many years in the Leadership
and Development division of a large corporation, assisting store managers and human
resource managers perfect their skills and
grow their businesses further than they ever
expected. Many of her colleagues are now in
powerful positions because of the insight that
she shared, and the action plans that they
developed together.
In these times of ambiguous economy,
wide spread doubt and depression, and consistent doom and gloom news stories, people
need to hear that "It’s going to be okay".
When you create your independence and an
action plan that propels you into the next
adventure of your life, the rewards that await
you are priceless!
Ellen Little, President of Business Resolutions, is a re-invention expert. She will share
with you tips and techniques, the fuel to
change any part of your life. As a Business
Coach for many organizations, she will share
common practices that take an individual's
performance from satisfactory to sublime!
Your focus controls your life: Change your
focus, change your life. Are you moving toward something or trying to get away from
something?
Please mark your calendars for Ellen’s
presentation on Tuesday, February 28, 2012!
Ellen Little
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CHAPTER COMMITTEE REPORTS
Newsletter
The Oceanside Charter Chapter Newsletter is published on the Chapter web site at
www.abwaoceanside.org and on the
Oceanside Charter Chapter ABWA WIN Team
Board at www.abwa.org.
Please send newsletter submissions to
acarbone@cfl.rr.com by the second Wednesday of the month. Let us know about you!
Professional Development
Oceanside Charter Chapter is again offering a $1000 scholarship to be awarded to a
deserving woman in May 2012. Please help
us spread the word to family members,
friends and business associates. In order to
be eligible for consideration, candidates
must be women who:
1. are citizens of the United States and
Brevard County, Florida;
2. will be college First or Second Year level
in August 2012;
3. are attending or have been accepted at
a licensed, accredited vocational-technical
school or community college authorized to
confer associate degrees;
4. have selected Business as her major;
5. have achieved a cumulative grade point
average (GPA) of 2.5 or better on a 4.0
scale.
To apply, interested parties should send
name and email address to Anita Carbone at
acarbone@cfl.rr.com.
For more information, please visit our website at www.abwaoceanside.com.
Membership
Let’s extend a warm welcome to new
members, Lyn Regas, Rosemarie Kesselring
and Terri Friedlander!
Oceanside chapter dues must be renewed by the end of January. Our $25.00
membership fee is still a great value for the
opportunity to meet other women promoting
their business interests. Please be sure to
renew on time by bringing your check to the
January 24 dinner meeting . We look forward
to seeing you then!
Congratulations to Jenny Wall on the birth
of her grandson! Isaac River Maynard was
born on November 23, 2011 to proud parents, Cyndi Wall and Jeremy Maynard of
Portland, Oregon.
2011 - 2012
EXECUTIVE BOARD
President
Barbara Cheney
beejaycheney@yahoo.com
321 987-5106
Vice President
Anita Carbone
acarbone@cfl.rr.com
321 684-0790
Secretary
Laura Chiesman
lchiesman@cpawms.com
321 506-8274
Treasurer
Jenny Wall
jwall@cfl.rr.com
321 459-1661
Fundraising Committee
Our third annual Holiday Gala was well
attended and a huge financial success!
Thank you to our sponsors, and the many
individuals and businesses for donating so
many lovely raffle gifts!
Publicity
Chapter monthly meeting information is
published in the Business Agenda column of
Florida Today as well as the online Community Calendar of the Cocoa Beach Regional
Chamber of Commerce website. Please
email Laura Chiesman at lchiesman@cpawms.com, if you have photos or
information for our Facebook page.
We’re on the web!
www.abwaoceanside.com
2011 – 2012
COMMITTEE CHAIRS
Professional Development/Scholarship
Anita Carbone: acarbone@cfl.rr.com
Fundraising/Advertising
Susan Averill: averill441@yahoo.com
Membership
Barbara Cheney (Acting): beejaycheney@yahoo.com
Newsletter
Anita Carbone: acarbone@cfl.rr.com
Program
Sue Parker: suejtyson@aol.com
Publicity
Anita Carbone (Acting): acarbone@cfl.rr.com
Website
Jessica Brace: jbrace@affordablenet.com
Reservations
Barbara Cheney: beejaycheney@yahoo.com
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N EW M E M B E R S P OT L I G H T
Terri Friedlander
Born on Long Island, Terri has always
been surrounded by the water and loves the
beach, lighthouses and all things nautical.
She enjoyed many relaxing days on the Great
South Bay and even more frantic days in the
business world of the other nearby island,
Manhattan.
Terri has dabbled with a notable list of job
titles in her career. Yet, with all business
cards proudly dispersed, she has a passion
for inscribing words on the screen, and is a
published author. Her most recent writing
endeavor, Chasing Her Destiny, is currently
available at amazon.com and barnesand
noble.com, and will soon be in bookstores.
Whether writing manuals, novels, corporate
newsletters, human interest stories or creative lesson plans, Terri lives to write. But her
true happiness comes from being the mom
of her amazing daughter, who provides her
with love and inspiration every single day.
Terri is an avid reader of everything, including fiction and the daily newspaper. When
she finally shuts down her computer, she can
be found loving life in Melbourne with her
husband, Dan. Together, they enjoy a slice of
paradise by being out on the water boating,
but still find time to help out in the community. As Director of the Academy of International Business at Cocoa Beach High School,
Terri is fiercely proud of her students, and
offers them guidance and direction as Future
Business Leaders of America.
Terri has been lucky enough to see and
discover much of the United States and the
world. Traveling multiple times to Europe,
South America, Australia and Hong Kong, has
given her wonderful, life-changing experiences to share and to feed her imagination.
Chasing Her Destiny is Terri’s third contemporary novel which is loosely based on
her own desires to leave the fast lane of New
York City and start a family. It is dedicated to
all the brave birth mothers in the world and
to the innocent victims of the September 11th
terrorist attacks.
Chasing Her Destiny is about hope, love
S AV E
TH E
and adoption, and follows the adventures of
a determined career woman who wants to
"do it all, have it all, and all on her own
schedule". While managing her staff and the
egotistical partners of the world's largest law
firm, she suddenly falls in love and finds herself ready for motherhood. The novel focuses on the complex relationship issues between husbands and wives, mothers and
daughters, extended families and friends,
and even strangers hoping to help each other
in the most profound ways. The book is a
must read for all women dealing with the
heartbreaking reality of infertility, and for
everyone yearning to become parents
through the miracle of adoption. It is about
making choices, enjoying life’s surprises and
triumphs, and following your dreams.
DATE!
Eastern Regional
Conference
National Women’s
Leadership Conference
Districts I & IV
October 11-13, 2012
Memphis, Tennessee
March 22-24, 2012
Embassy Suites
Raleigh-Durham Research Triangle
Cary, North Carolina
At the Memphis Marriott Downtown and
Memphis Cook Convention Center
Make plans now to join us for the 2012 National Women’s Leadership Conference in Memphis, Tennessee. If you are in business—as
an employee, employer, business owner, service provider, consultant, or looking for your next opportunity—this conference is designed to challenge you!
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Thank you to our Holiday Gala Sponsors and Donors!
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Connie Adams
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Career Transitions Consulting
Lola Mitchell, MA Human Relations
321.723.1105
Arlene Norris, LMT
MEMBERS
IN TH E
Congratulations to Lola Mitchell! The
Zonta Club of Melbourne recently selected
Lola as a Zontian of the Year. Lola was noted for her active role in the club’s antihuman trafficking and Pridmore Center projects, as well as for her financial contributions as a Chocolate Festival sponsor and as
a general donor for scholarship and service
projects.
Lola is a human relations consultant and
trainer with 30 years experience in education
and training. She specializes in facilitating
small groups to explore self-esteem, selfconfidence, self-motivation, active listening,
assertive communication, conflict resolution
and goal setting for decision-making and
problem-solving.
Her expertise is guiding a learning process
for adults in life and career transitions to
develop a self-determined plan for personal
growth. Lola’s training philosophy is based
on “developing the whole person.” Besides
facilitating small groups in workshops and
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Anita & Dave Carbone
Barbara Cheney
Theresa Crooks, Teri's Gater Bite Spice
Joan DiBenedetto, Red Rose
Concierge Service
Kelli Fisher
Joyce Hathaway
Ideal Image Laser Hair Removal
Nora Marek, Melbourne Home Staging
Lola Mitchell, Career Transitions Consulting
98.5FM The Beach
Arlene Norris, LMT
Sue Parker
Nancy Peltonen
Tarolyn Robinson, Rodan & Fields
Dermatologists
Toni Rummo, Set the Stage
Sorelli Hair Studio
Jenny Wall, Shaklee
Martha Young
Kim Zipper, M.D., The Fountain of You
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classes, Lola is skilled at guiding individuals
who are in job or career transitions. Her
home-based business is Career Transitions
Consulting.
Lola holds a Master of Arts in Human Relations from the University of Oklahoma and
a B.S. from Auburn University. She has experience with the Brevard Community College
Career and Family Success Center, Women
in Transition for Displaced Homemakers, and
career guidance consulting with the Women’s Center case management and housing
programs. She came on board as Educational Consultant with Discovery Institute, Rockledge, Florida in the fall of 2008.
As a member of ABWA since 2005, Lola
supports the Stephen Bufton Memorial Educational Fund. She believes wholeheartedly
in the continuing education of women, and
supporting women who are reaching their
goals and their potential through education
and career.
Lola Mitchell
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Holiday Gala Photo Gallery
For more Holiday Gala photos, please visit our website at www.abwaoceanside.com.
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COMMUNITY EVENTS
A B WA E V E N T C A L E N DA R
January 24
Oceanside Charter Chapter Dinner Meeting
Networking at 6:00 p.m. & Dinner at 6:30 p.m.
Eau Gallie Yacht Club, 100 Datura Drive, Indian Harbour Beach
Guest Speaker: Michael Everett
February 14
Oceanside Charter Chapter Executive Board Meeting at 5:30 p.m.
Harris Corporation Headquarters, 1025 W. Nasa Blvd., Melbourne
February 14
Space Coast Women Express Network Meeting
Networking & Lunch from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m.
Eau Gallie Yacht Club, Indian Harbour Beach
February 28
Oceanside Charter Chapter Dinner Meeting
Networking at 6:00 p.m. & Dinner at 6:30 p.m.
Eau Gallie Yacht Club, 100 Datura Drive, Indian Harbour Beach
Guest Speaker: Ellen Little
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January 18
New Year, New Start
8:30 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. at the Melbourne Regional Chamber of
Commerce. Speaker: Bill Cunningham. The program is FREE. Reservations are required. Call the SBDC at 433-5572.
February 7
Business Planning—Avoid Costly Mistakes
10:00 a.m. to noon at the Melbourne Regional Chamber of Commerce. A tradition necessary for small business management and
funding. Seize this opportunity to learn from a proven business leader. Business planning tools and materials will be distributed. The
program is FREE. Reservations are required. Call the SBDC at 4335572.
February 10
March 13
Oceanside Charter Chapter Executive Board Meeting at 5:30 p.m.
Harris Corporation Headquarters, 1025 W. Nasa Blvd., Melbourne
March 13
Space Coast Women Express Network Meeting
Networking & Lunch from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m.
Eau Gallie Yacht Club, Indian Harbour Beach
March 22-24
ABWA Eastern Regional Conference
Districts I & IV
Embassy Suites
Raleigh-Durham Research Triangle
Cary, NC
March 27
Oceanside Charter Chapter Dinner Meeting
Networking at 6:00 p.m. & Dinner at 6:30 p.m.
Eau Gallie Yacht Club, 100 Datura Drive, Indian Harbour Beach
Guest Speaker: Ellen Little
Serene Harbor will be hosting its 16th Annual Gala. The evening
begins at 6:00 p.m. at the Crowne Plaza for Cocktail Hour with hors
d'oeuvres, Silent & Live Auction Preview, and Cash Bar. Dinner begins at 7:30 p.m. with complimentary wine, followed by a Live Auction and Dancing. Tickets are $100 per person. For more information or to RSVP, contact Melody Keeth at 321 953-5389.
March 3
The Junior League of South
Brevard will have its 23rd
Rummage Roundup sale at
the Melbourne Auditorium
from 8 a.m. to 2 p. m. Proceeds fund the league’s community projects, and everything that remains unsold is
donated to other local charities.
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Oceanside Charter Chapter
January 24, 2012
Meeting Agenda
Networking
Call to Order & Welcome
Pledge of Allegiance
Invocation
Introductions
Establish Quorum
Approval of Minutes
Treasurer’s Report
Committee Reports
Website: Jessica Brace
Newsletter: Anita Carbone
Membership: Barbara Cheney—Member Mixer
Professional Development: Anita Carbone—$1000 SBMEF Scholarship
Program: Sue Parker
Fundraising: Susan Averill
Ambassadors: Connie Adams & Lola Mitchell
Facebook: Laura Chiesman
Old Business:
Third Annual Holiday Gala
New Business:
2012 Chapter Dues
2012 Woman of the Year and Top Ten Candidate
ABWA Board Amendment for Second Local League Affiliation
Guest Speaker: Michael Everett
Raffle
Announcements
Benediction
Adjournment
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American Business Women’s Association
Mission Statement
Oceanside Charter Chapter
The mission of the American Business Women’s Association is to bring together businesswomen of diverse
occupations and to provide opportunities for them to help themselves and others grow personally and professionally through leadership, education, networking support and national recognition.
P.O. Box 360151
Melbourne, FL 32936-0151
OCEANSIDE
CHARTER CHAPTER
MEETING INFORMATION
Member
Cocoa Beach Regional Chamber of Commerce
Melbourne Regional Chamber
Location:
Eau Gallie Yacht Club
100 Datura Drive
Indian Harbour Beach, FL
Newsletter Editor
Anita Carbone
acarbone@cfl.rr.com
321 684-0790
Date & Time:
Fourth Tuesday of the month
6:00 p.m. Networking
6:30 p.m. Dinner & Meeting
Cost:
$28.00 for members and guests
For reservations :
Barbara Cheney
321 987-5106
beejaycheney@ yahoo.com
or
Online at www.abwaoceanside.org
Vision Statement
ABWA Oceanside Charter Chapter is dedicated to enhancing the lives of local businesswomen. Our members create rewarding educational and networking experiences by promoting improved self-confidence,
personal and professional skills, and individual creativity.
ABWA’s Proud Code of Conduct
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All Members will serve as goodwill ambassadors for the American Business Women’s Association.
Members will not allow their personal beliefs and convictions to interfere with the representation of ABWA’s Mission.
Members will always treat their member colleagues, guests, vendors and sponsors with
honesty, respect, fairness, integrity, responsibility, kindness, and in good faith.
Members will maintain compliance with ABWA National, Chapter and Express Network Bylaws.
Members will not use their personal power to advance their personal interests.
Members will strive for excellence in their profession by maintaining and enhancing their own
business knowledge and skills, and by encouraging the professional development of other
members.