Spring 2014/5774 - Sharei Chesed Congregation
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Spring 2014/5774 - Sharei Chesed Congregation
Spring 2014 BOARD MEMBERS Rabbi Avraham Ettedgui Co-Presidents Bernie Miller Terry Schwartz Treasurer Gregory Gittsovich Secretary Dmitry Gringauz Immediate Past President Sol Awend Board Members Berek Awend Sol Awend Madalyn Braufman Jerry Berkowitz Bruce Cohen Dr. Martha Cohen Roz Ettedgui Dr. David Feldshon Nina Furman Aaron Geller Boris Gerber Judith Ingber Gail Kenton Leo Kudishevich Francelyne Lurie Jacob Mars Jack Moskowitz Cindy Neff Gail Nord Dr. Sheldon Pinsky Naomi Salloway Irving Smith Anya Solodkina Corrine Toretsky Richard Woldorsky Shelly Zien Dear Members and Friends of Sharei Chesed, Did you know that the Torah provides a “make-up-day” if one was Tameh, unclean or was in a distant land and unable to return on time to Jerusalem to partake in the Pascal Lamb and the Seder? That person could observe the Seder night one month later. This provision is not available for any other holidays. Today, Pesah continues to be the favorite and most observed holiday. We observe dutifully, the commandment of Vehigadta Lebincha, “Tell your Child” to recall that magnificent narrative, the story of the Exodus. It was an exodus not only from slavery to freedom, but also a liberation from the cultural and religious beliefs of the Egyptian masters. It was a tremendous empowerment for the former slaves to start living as free and responsible human beings. Unlike that first Seder in Egypt, when they ate hastily with their shoes on and bags packed and ready to leave, we take our time to fulfill the Mitzvah of “hagaddah,” telling the story of our people and what it means for us today. I would like to remind you that besides the joyful family celebration, Pesah is also observed in the synagogue, with prayers and songs of gratitude and thanksgivings for our liberation. This year, because the first and last days fall on weekdays, we need everyone’s help to guarantee our Minyan. Please make every effort to come and celebrate with us this Festival of Freedom. As you can see from the Schedule of Services, there are many opportunities for you to participate. We also urge you to participate in the Mitzvah of Maot Hittim, Matzah Fund, to help those in need with a Pesah basket containing Kosher Passover food. Do not forget also to fulfill the Mitzvah of Mechirat Hametz, Selling of Hametz. Forms have been sent and should be returned to the office no later than Friday April 11, or brought to the office by 9:00 a.m on April 14. We wish you and your dear ones a Happy, Joyous and Kosher Pesah! Rabbi Avram Ettedgui Spring 2014 Page 2 MESSAGE FROM THE CO-PRESIDENTS Shalom Aleichem, everyone!! With thanks to G-d, plus the energy and enthusiasm of our members, we are in the midst of what is turning out to be a very busy spring here at Sharei Chesed, including: Weekly classes on ‘Being SHALOM’, taught by Rabbi Gail Nord. Our first ever cooking classes (with thanks to Lori Krelitz and Danny Levey). Our annual Purim services and party (with thanks to Dr. Neil Covin for being our featured entertainer). A Kabbalat Shabbat in March with guest speaker and historian Laura Weber. Medical student Roni Rahav of Poriyah Hospital in the Galilee, describing her experiences with treating refugees of the Syrian civil war. There is more to come, including our Yom HaAtzmaut celebration on Saturday May 3 rd, and a return visit by Klezmer violinist Judith Eisner and narrator Lev Mailer performing “Peter and the Wolf” and “Curious George” – both in Yiddish – on Sunday afternoon May 18th. We hope you and your families will join us – especially the youngsters. Our annual Maot Hittim fund drive is also underway. Sharei Chesed has always shown tremendous generosity in helping those in our community who are less fortunate and run the risk of not being able to celebrate Passover with a proper Seder. We thank you for helping us to continue a very giving tradition. While the celebrations of other religions tend to have as their focal point their houses of worship – their temples, their churches and cathedrals – Judaism has always maintained that the focus of our religion needs to be on the home and on the family. Nowhere is this more evident than at this time of year. Passover is the one holiday which tends to bring Jews home more than any other – regardless of how far away people may live from each other, regardless of how far apart they may have grown over the years. We read from the Haggadah, not as ‘spectators’ in a synagogue led by a rabbi or cantor, but rather as family members sitting around a dinner table, retelling a beloved story and sharing a good meal. It is the time, not only for giving thanks to G-d for delivering us from slavery to freedom, but also for giving thanks for allowing us to celebrate that freedom with our parents and grandparents, our children and grandchildren – and, in some cases, even with our great-grandchildren – so that the traditions, the knowledge, the gratitude and the love may be passed on from one generation to the next. We wish all of you a very happy and Kosher Pesah, surrounded by the love of family and friends. Bernie Miller and Terry Schwartz Page 3 Spring 2014 OUR TRIP TO AIPAC | BY SHARON BERKOWITZ On March 2, 3, and 4th we attended the AIPAC (American Israel Public Affairs Committee) conference in Washington DC. There were 14,000 delegates, including 100 from Minnesota, and numerous government officials from both parties. The conference is the largest gathering of congressional members other than the State of the Union address. The entire event was non-partisan, culturally diverse, informative, interesting, and fun. The conference consisted of general sessions for all delegates and smaller elective break out sessions, consisting of panel discussions, town hall style meetings, films, and even a cooking class (for those wanting a break from more serious issues of the day). We heard speakers from American and Israeli branches of government, American and Israeli journalists, business leaders, scientists, writers, film-makers, educators, clergy, and various other individuals. There were a number of interesting and inspiring talks. Two talks which touched both of us were: an Arab Israeli physician describing treating over 100 Syrian wounded in Israeli field hospitals, and a South African woman who had lived under Apartheid and felt the need to fight against what she perceived as Apartheid against Palestinians until taking an AIPAC educational trip to Israel where she observed and experienced an open society with opportunity for all people. She expressed outrage at the use of the term Apartheid, and now she is a strong pro Israel college activist. On the last day we chose to lobby and met with Senator Franken, Senator Klobuchar, and Congressman Erik Paulsen, our representative from the Plymouth district. The AIPAC agenda lobby items were the Iran sanctions bill, the signing of a bipartisan letter outlining conditions necessary for a final Iran nuclear deal, the foreign aid bill, and the strategic alliance bill. It was an amazing feeling to be told by these senators and congressman, as well as other numerous politicians that AIPAC policies and information was important to them in making decisions concerning Israel. Frankly, it was astonishing to us, as individuals, to see how important we were in helping to express these views. Lastly, we woke up at 5:00 AM on the last day and managed to find front row seats to both hear and see Benjamin Netanyahu address the conference. It was an inspiring moment which we both always remember. Attending the conference was an amazing experience. It reinforced our commitment to Israel and made us feel that as part of AIPAC we could make a difference in strengthening government support for Israel. We are enrolled for next year’s conference, look forward to attending, and would loved to be joined by other members of Sharei Chesed congregation. Spring 2014 Page 4 ALL ABOUT PESAH The Festival of Freedom is by far the most popular Jewish holiday and is probably observed more scrupulously than the Holy Days. One of the reasons for Passover's universal interest is it’s home character. Members of the family travel great distances to be together at the Seder table with their kin. The desire to participate in a Seder, no matter where a person may be, indicates that the childhood impressions of the holiday have a fast hold upon the Jewish heart. Pesah has several names, alluding to the various aspects of this holiday, so that each one of us can identify with and celebrate whole heartedly, the message that is closest to our hearts. Passover emphasizes the miracle of Jewish homes being spared from the last plague on that night of the Exodus and the annual celebration that followed. Festival of Matza stresses that when the time of deliverance arrived nothing could stop it - people chose freedom over staying behind to prepare provisions for the trip. Festival of Spring is the time of rebirth and renewal and also the Season of our Freedom. The Seder is a family experience that provides unique and wonderful opportunities to tell our children the national history of the Jewish people and the story of our individual family. The stories, the songs, the bitter, salty and sweet food items and the many symbols on the Seder plate are all there to provide a virtual reality and powerful illustration of the lessons we want to pass on to our children. Pesah is a demanding holiday - the cleaning, the special diet for a whole week and the extra expense, but it is worth it. Think of where we are today 3500 years after the Exodus. We talk about it as if it just happened and we try our best to re-live the experience of the Exodus. It is a powerful tool by which we pass our heritage to our children. Shep nachas from your children as they ask “Mah Nishatana” and enjoy your family. Counting of the Omer Starting with the second night of Pesah, we begin the Counting the Omer until Shavuot. We count the days and the weeks for a total of seven weeks. The fiftieth day is Shavuot, when we observe the Revelation at Mount Sinai, Matan Torah. We wish you and your family a Happy and Kosher Pesah ! Page 5 Spring 2014 PESAH SERVICES CALENDAR Saturday, April 12 Shabbat Hagadol 9:30 am Sunday, April 13 Shaharit (morning service) 8:30 am Monday, April 14 Fast of First Born – Come to services and participate in Seudat Mitzvah 7:30 am Monday, April 14 First Seder Tuesday, April 15 1st Day of Yom Tov Shaharit 9:30 am Wednesday, April 16 2nd Day Yom Tov Shaharit 9:30 am Thursday, April 17 Hol Hamoed Minha-Maariv Shaahrit 7:30 am 5:45 pm Friday, April 18 Hold Hamoed Shaharit 7:30 am Saturday, April 19 Shabbat Hol Hamoed Shaharit 9:30 am Sunday, April 20 Hol Hamoed Shaharit 8:30 am Monday, April 21 Yom Tov – 7th Day Shaharit 9:30 am Tuesday, April 22 Yom Tov – YIZKOR Shaharit 9:30 am SPECIAL OBSERVANCES AT SHAREI CHESED Saturday, April 5 Sunday, April 27 Saturday, May 3 Sunday, May 4 Monday. May 5 Shaharit Services & Speaker from Israel Medical Student Roni Rahav and Eilat Harel Yom Hashoah & Shaharit Services Yom Hashoah Community Observance Temple of Aaron, St. Paul Israel Independence Day Celebration Israeli food, dancing and speaker Israel Memorial Day Adath Jeshurun Congregation Yom Hahatzmaut –Community Sabes JCC Minneapolis 9:30 am 8:30 am 7:00 pm 9:30 am 7:00 pm 5::00 pm Spring 2014 Page 6 PURIM AT SHAREI CHESED Our sanctuary was filled to capacity as members and friends of Sharei Chesed Congregation and their youngsters participated in the annual Purim Dinner. Many children and adults came dressed in costumes and enjoyed the food and festivities. Sharei Chesed was pleased to host members of Caring Connections, accompanied by their family members, staff, and care-givers. They made the entire celebration most meaningful in the true sense of Mishloah Manot and Matanot La-evyonim. These are two important Mitzvot of Purim, helping and bringing joy to others. Our thanks and appreciation to Dr. Neil Covin who kept the audience mesmerized by the magic show he presented. His final act, the Wallet on Fire, drew oohs and aahs from the entire group. We also commend the youngsters who participated in the talent show as well as the beautiful musical pieces by Daphna, Rebecca, Leah, Rachel, Norimi, Lev, Eli and other youngsters. Everyone was impressed by Mark from Caring Connections who played a piece on a tiny harmonica. He also followed Swede's comedy act with some jokes of his own. Caring Connection is a program for special adults in collaboration with JFCS of Minneapolis, JFS of St Paul and the JCC's of Minneapolis and St. Paul. We thank Stacey Spencer, the Caring Connections Event Coordinator and Anette Sandler for bringing the group to Sharei Chesed. Baking and Cooking on our Premises Now that a commercial stove has been installed in our kitchen, we were able to put it to good use. More than a dozen children and their parents attended Danny Levey's class in making Hamentashen and a similar number attended Lori Krelitz class in Challah baking. It was good to see young and old, proud of their finished products which they were pleased to take home. We also used our kitchen to prepare the festive meal for the Purim dinner which was attended by more than 100 people. Our thanks and appreciation to all the volunteers who helped prepare, cook and serve the participants. Our special thanks to Adam Schwartz, a cook par excellence, and his father Cantor Neil Schwartz. To Shelley and Steve Zien, Dede Bolter, Cindy Neff, Jerry and Sharon Berkowitz, Ron Scholder, Lee Reinharz, Bernie Miller, Cindy and Momy Benzquen, Miriam Clark, Rosie and Swede Larson, Jacob Mars, Dr. Martha Cohen, the entire Truskinovsky Family, Dr. Sasha, Takako, Leah, Rachel and Norimi, Sandy Miller and all those who helped that evening. Our apologies if we left out anyone. Spring 2014 Page 7 T TFROM B AS LETTER CARING CONNECTIONS | STACEY SPENCER UNDAY ALLIT AND EFFILIN REAKFAST Dear Rabbi Ettedgui, Please convey our thanks and appreciation to Bernie Miller and Terry Schwartz, co-presidents, and the entire Sharei Chesed Family for hosting our group at the Annual Purim Dinner held on March 16. We were so happy and excited to be there. In fact 38 of us attended and we were all welcomed like “Purim Royalty.” We really enjoyed everything at the Purim party—the delicious food, the wonderful magician, and the creative and very talented musicians and singers. In fact, one of our Caring Connections program participant named Mark actually went up to the microphone, played his tiny harmonica and performed a very funny joke that was enjoyed by all—what a wonderful self-esteem builder for him! Dr. Covin performing magic at Purim Party You all went our of your way to show this special group of people so much hospitality—from the time they arrived, until the time they left. Caring Connections provides opportunities for Jewish adults with developmental disabilities to connect with their faith community and take part in Jewish life and learn about holidays and traditions. Monthly programs may feature a storyteller, an art project, or link to larger community events to create a sense of celebration and enjoyment. Caring Connections is funded by the Toodie and Frank Trestman Special Needs and Collaborative Education Endowment Fund at Jewish Family and Children’s Service of Minneapolis. Spring 2014 Page 10 TRAVEL TO ISRAEL WITH RABBI ETTEDGUI! NOVEMBER 9-21, 2014 Enjoy a wonderful, exciting, and beautiful adventure through Israel with Rabbi Ettedgui, fellow congregants, and others from around the country. Whether this will be your first time in Israel or you’ve been before, it will be a trip to remember. With questions, please contact Rabbi Ettedgui or Michelle at Affinity Excursions. Tour Highlights Include: The Haganah Underground Bullet Factory in Rehovot Strolling Israel’s largest handicraft market at Nahalat Binyamin Walking tour of the revitalized area of Jaffa Visiting Sderot and hearing from residents what life is like under the constant threat of Qassam rockets Tour of Yad Mordechai to hear about its role in the War of Independence Jerusalem's Old City's Jewish Quarter Participating in David Ben Gurion's Declaration of Independence Visiting the new Rabin Center and learning about the history and development of Israel through his life Welcome Shabbat at the Kotel Walk along the ramparts of the Old City Walls Visit Yad Vashem — Israel's Holocaust Memorial Hike in Ein Gedi, ascend Masada, float in the Dead Sea Enjoy a day in the Upper Galilee, including mystical Safed Enjoy wine tasting at a Golan Heights winery Explore the ancient city of Akko Tour the security fence with an IDF colonel Spring 2014 Page 11 Tour Price Includes: Round-trip airfare on Delta Airlines (direct service from Minneapolis to Tel Aviv) 10 nights' accommodations in luxury hotels (Tel Aviv, Jerusalem and the Galilee) 17 meals Touring and sightseeing in a deluxe, private motor coach with English-speaking guide Group transfers Porterage in hotels (1 bag per person) Gratuities for guides, drivers and waiters REGISTER NOW! Dates: November 9-21, 2014 Cost: $4,730.00 (Land & Air) $3,075.00 (Land only) RSVP: Rabbi Avraham Ettedgui 763-545-8800 | avrame@aol.com 612-250-5009 Michelle Cheslow (Affinity Excursions) 732-325-1124 michelle@affinityexcursions.com Spring 2014 Page 12 THANK YOU FOR YOUR CONTRIBUTIONS JANUARY 1, 2014 TO MARCH 14. 2014 GENERAL DONATIONS Sybille Aaron Lisa Albright Elka Arshanskaya Sue & Sol Awend Sharon & Jerry Berkowitz Carmella & Alan Chazin Kathy & David Cooper Rabbi Avraham & Linda Ettedgui Sima& Mark Feldman Irina Kigelman Deanie Lerner Sally & Mort Leder MCM Properties Donna Morales & Matthew Schwartz Jack Moskowitz Mr. & Mrs. Max Rutman Sofia & Aleksandr Starinets Lola Szneler Leo Wolk Rakhil & Moisey Zilberman IN HONOR & APPRECIATION In Honor Of Donor Gail Kenton on her son’s wedding Sharon Specktor For Help with a Difficult Time Anna & Irina Kigelman Birth of Sophie Danielle Gittsovich Rabbi Avraham & Linda Ettedgui CAPITAL FUND Marcy & Bruce Barrick Raisa & Lazar Gringauz Cynthia & Terry Schwartz Fran & Bill Skolnick Aileen & Miles Snyder END OF YEAR APPEAL Leone & Jerry Altman Marina & Boris Bershadsky Linda & Martin Kleinbaum MCM Properties Maureen & Eddie Rubintstein DONATIONS FOR BIRTHDAY AND OTHER SPECIAL WISHES IN HONOR OF LEO WOLK’S 97TH BIRTHDAY Barbara & Earl Hoffman Marilynn & Duane Paulson Corrine & Morris Toretsky IN HONOR OF MOREY MILLER’S BIRTHDAY Diane Baumwald IN HONOR OF RABBI ETTEDGUI’S BIRTHDAY Diane Aronson & Richard Woldorsky Carolyn & Uri Koppel Cindy Neff Corrine & Morris Toretsky Sue & Mark Wasserman DONATIONS FOR A SPEEDY RECOVERY In Honor Of Donor Michael Perkins Aaron Geller Francelyne Lurie Diane Aronson & Richard Woldorsky Martha Cohen Rabbi Avraham & Linda Ettedgui Carolyn & Uri Koppel Sonja Hauter & Bernie Miller Corrine & Morris Toretsky Vlad Yelena Yantsev KIDDUSH SPONSOR Asya Akerman Sharon & Jerry Berkowitz Rabbi Ettedgui Jane & Dmitry Gringauz Gail & Greg Kenton Cindy Neff Esther Rubinstein Barbara Schochet & Family Sue & Mark Wasserman Shelly & Steve Zien DONATIONS IN MEMORY OF In Memory Of Donor Bertha & Aaron Bearmon Barbara & Lee Bearmon Lisa Feldman Larisa Palant Spring 2014 Page 13 THANK YOU FOR YOUR CONTRIBUTIONS JANUARY 1, 2014 TO MARCH 14. 2014 Edward Fishbein Phyllis & Berle Richman Harvey Fishman Corrine & Morris Toretsky Michael Geller Lucille Abramovitz Marilyn Chiat & Family Rabbi Avraham & Linda Ettedgui Nathan Fursetzer Freda Paper Ruth & Abe Wolf Anonymous Generous Contribution Herb Hillman Rabbi Avraham & Linda Ettedgui Diane Aronson & Richard Woldorsky Walter Jonas Freda Paper Norbert Rauscher Corrine, Morris & Mark Toretsky YAHRZEIT DONATIONS Renee Aaron Sybille Aaron Barbara & Lee Bearmon Jeanne Bearmon Marina & Boris Bershadsky Olene & Larry Bigelow Zola Blicker Maddy Braufman Bronya & Nick Bryants Shura & Yefim Budilovskiy Vera Burstein Marion Cass Mary & Dr. Shep Cohen Nina Dain Irma Davydova Tatyana Estrina Bonnie & Dr. Harry Farb Mariya Feldman Sima & Mark Feldman Cheryl Fields Lyubiv & Sol Fridland Maida & James Fruen Galina & Shulim Gitelman Mina & Chezar Grinberg Rita & Azriel Grinberg Eva Gross Mina Hudson Liza & Abram Ilyevskiy Sandra & Jerry Johnson AJ Josefowitz Angelika & Leonard Kats Marina & Sasha Kerbel Boris Khodursky Era Kirzon & Rafail Rubakh Elaine Lerner Kim & Barry Libson Ryva & Tony Lipnik Maya & Alex Malamudman Morris Miller Larisa Palant Freda Paper Maya & Yefim Peskin Margarita & Mikhail Pevsner Fred Phillips Marcia & Aron Pinkus Fran & Sheldon Rhodes Phyllis & Berle Richman Esther Rubinstein Fanny Rubinstein Maureen & Eddy Rubinstein Darlene & Nathan Schwartz Emma & Liya Shapiro Alexander Shifrin Adrienne & Paul Tanick Sondra Tenner Ita & Shmil Teyvel Corrine & Morris Toretsky Nesya & Aron Tsukerman Sofiya Tsukerman Alla Vaynberg Sahra & Abram Vaynberg Barbara Weil Renee & Loren Weinberg Carolyn & Marvin Wilensky Lev Zadov Luba Zevelev Yelizaveta Zeveleva Sofia & Moisey Zhuravel Shelly & Steve Zien OUR CONDOLENCES TO THE FAMILIES OF... Michael Geller Yetta Goldenberg Aleksandr Grinberg Herbert Hillman Walter Jonas Norbert Rauscher Bertha Rockler Dora Rutman Debbie Hillman Spring 2014 Page 14 MAZAL TOV… In honor of the birth of Sophie Danielle Gittsovich, granddaughter of Lyudmila & Gregory, by Rabbi Avram & Linda Ettedgui Happy Birthday to Keith Kaye from Carolyn & Uri Koppel Happy Birthday to Maddie Banwell by Corrine & Morris Toretsky Happy Birthday to Naomi Salloway by Sybille Aaron & by Corrine & Morris Toretsky Sharon Specktor in honor of the marriage of Benji & Katie, son of Gail Kenton WELCOME NEW MEMBERS Gabi & Michael Grinberg Cantor Mitch & Susan Kowitz Julie Miller & Ron Scholder HILLEL FUNDRAISER WITH ANITA DIAMANT | HILLEL UMN Join the University of Minnesota Hillel Chapter on Sunday, May 4th with New York Times best-selling author Anita Diamant and Moderator Star Tribune columnist Gail Rosenblum. An intimate lunch with Anita will be held prior to the event, open to all and will honor couples who met their spouses at Hillel, the Foundation for Jewish Campus Life. Proceeds for this event will go to Hillel at the University of Minnesota. The event will be held at Beth El Synagogue, 5225 Barry St. in St. Louis Park. Lunch will be served at 12:00pm and the main program will follow at 1:30pm. Visit Hillelumn.org for registration. For more information please contact Andrea Golden at 612-3794026 or Andrea@Hillelumn.org. Spring 2014 Page 15 CHILDHOOD MEMORIES OF PASSOVER | BY SOL AWEND Pesah is, and continues to be one of my favorite holidays. Growing up in St. Louis, I attended public school and Religious School. Things were tough growing up in a school with many bullies, so I can relate to the plight of the Israelites, suffering and achieving freedom. Wandering in the desert. Moses. The Ten Commandments. It grabbed my fascination, because it had all the elements of grand adventure and excitement. We learned all about the Seder, the Four Questions, Maror, Charoset; the four sons. I was determined to be the good son that year in spite of all the trouble I'd gotten into in the past. I was about eight when I learned the commandment about searching for Hametz the night before the Seder. I learned that the right way to do it, is to walk around with a candle and feather, picking up the bread crumbs that were placed throughout the house. We placed the Hametz in a paper bag, and saved it for the next morning so it can be burned. The next morning was bright and sunny. I went out in the backyard with the Hametz, and the matches. The grass hadn't been cut since fall, and it was really dry; just waiting for a reason to catch fire. I provided that reason. With a stroke of a match, it caught and started burning. I hadn't really planned on that to happen, and saw the blaze had the potential of growing to biblical proportions. I saw a faucet on the side of the house, with a hose connected to it and ran to see if it worked. With the vision of Smoky the Bear shaking his finger at me, I prayed for that water to work. It did. Whew! I doused the flames, and stood there amidst the smoking and blackened grass which had burned the Hametz and half the backyard. I meekly went inside. My mom got wide-eyed when she saw my soot covered face and nearly fainted went I told her what happened. She looked outside and said the words that strike deep into the heart of a young kid who has done wrong. "Wait until your father comes home...". He came home and I got what I deserved. Sometimes you get religion by doing, but be careful, you just might get burned in the process. 1712 Hopkins Crossroads Minnetonka, MN 55305