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Publication of the name, photograph or likeness of any person, organization or business in this publication is not to be constructed as an indication of the sexual orientation or preference of that person, organization or business. The opinions expressed by writers and other contributors are their own and are not necessarily those of this magazine, publishers or its staff. GRAB Magazine is owned and operated by Grabbys, LLC. 4 GRAB Magazine April 5, 2016 MUSIC GRAB GWEN Gwen Stefani Speaks Her (Gay) ‘Truth’ Pop star talks sharing a queer posse with boyfriend Blake Shelton, The Danish Girl and her gay support system By Chris Azzopardi Don’t speak? Gwen Stefani can’t help it as she opens up about her latest release – the “record that saved my life.” Featuring a multitude of diarylike outpourings related to Gavin Rossdale, whom the No Doubt frontwoman divorced in 2015 after 13 years of marriage, This Is What the Truth Feels Like is Stefani’s third solo album and first since 2006’s The Sweet Escape. “It’s so therapeutic to talk about it,” she says the day before the album’s release. “And I hope it saves some other lives. I really, really truly do hope that. That’s the message I wanna give.” During our candid tell-all, Stefani also talked about her gay besties who “made me look pretty when I didn’t feel pretty,” being a (mostly) respected woman in a man’s world and how she and boyfriend Blake Shelton hang with the same “big posse” of gays. Chris Azzopardi: In the last year, when the going got tough, which gay friends of yours could you count on to have the wine cupboard fully stocked? Gwen Stefani: Most of my gay friends are talented, close people who work with me: my hairdresser, my makeup artist. Those are probably my two closest gay friends, and what I love about them is how unique they are and how spirited they are and how talented they are. I think “passionate” would be a really 6 GRAB Magazine good way to describe them. They’re not representing all gay men, but they represent the ones in my life who’ve had a huge impact on me. I turned to them this whole time period, during my whole tragedy, and they have been really, really super supportive and loyal and made me look pretty when I didn’t feel pretty. CA: How did collaborating with Justin Tranter of Semi-Precious Weapons, who’s gay, affect your recording sessions for This Is What the Truth Feels Like? GS: I didn’t know who he was or anything, but the thing that was so great about working with Justin was that he had followed my career for the longest time. He knew everything about every song I’d ever done, whatever I’d worn, every piece of jewelry. It was like, whoa. And he’d wanted to work with me for a long time and I didn’t know that, but it was like God put us in the same room at the perfect time because I needed his understanding and compassion. He was so April 5, 2016 supportive of me and so confident in me, and I had lost a lot of my confidence, so he really brought that out of me. I felt so comfortable around him from the moment that I met him. So, he was a huge support in making this record and a good friend – an instant friend, weirdly, because I didn’t know him at all. But now I feel like he’s one of my closest friends. CA: I don’t think it’s too far of a stretch to say that any gay man would instantly connect with you. GS: Awww! That makes me happy. CA: Did Blake have to get your gay friends’ approval? GS: Well, I mean, Blake’s definitely like – how would I describe it? All the same people all the time are always in the room together and we do everything together, so it’s like we’re all a big posse. It’s funny, too, because Blake’s mom was a hairdresser growing up, so he was definitely introduced to that world a looong time ago. prove that I wasn’t gonna stand for that. I don’t know where the confidence came from, but I would get up there and I just knew I was gonna win them over and do whatever it took _to_ win them over. I was not gonna leave the stage until I had a pit going. That’s it. No question. It was a fire that was inside of me. I wasn’t CA: As the frontwoman of No Doubt, there have been many times you’ve been the only female rocker on a festival bill. For you, what’s that experience been like? Did the boys take you seriously from the beginning? GS: No, it’s crazy. I’ve been so unbelievably blessed. I grew up in a man’s world and it really doesn’t make any sense either. In the past, as a girl – a baby girl – I was a girly girl and I wasn’t guyish at all, but when I did discover music, I really got into this niche music, which was ska. I really related to it. All of the people who were my mentors as far as music, they were all guys, and to be in a band with my brother (Eric Stefani) and then my boyfriend (Tony Kanal), I was in this little family and very protected. I always felt like my opinion was counted, and not even counted but even counted rebellious; I had this really normal, with double stars. My creativity easy, beautiful, loving family. But I was respected. feel like I’ve always been There was a moment back in respected and never had to really the day when I was doing festivals worry about, “Oh, I don’t get and we were just getting known respect because I’m a woman.” and I do remember being And that’s a really good thing, disrespected here and there – because that means if I can have they’d want me to take my top off that, other women and other or whatever – but it really didn’t people can have that and we are take long for me to be able to 8 GRAB Magazine April 5, 2016 making some progress. CA: You’re known for your sonic soul-barings, but lately, you also seem especially candid in interviews. Why did you decide to be so open about your life in the last year? GS: Because I’m the kind of girl that’s just not good with secrets. I tell everybody everything. If ate too many Oreos, I’mma tell you about it! I grew up Catholic, so I just need to confess everything. I feel like I’ve always been really open, but there was a point in my marriage and in my relationship (with Gavin Rossdale) – because maybe we born out of the ’90s – it felt cooler and more protected to not talk about the relationship, or it felt awkward because maybe we were both doing the same thing and I didn’t wanna say something and he’d be like, “Why’d you say that?!” There were probably some limits during that relationship. And then with my children, obviously I can’t talk about them because they’re gonna be 15 and like, “Mom, why did you say that? You’re embarrassing me!” I have to think a little bit about that now. But I just think… I don’t know how else to be. Everybody knows what happened to me. I got a divorce. It’s the worst thing that can happen to me besides death. My whole life all I wanted to do was be a mother and a wife, and I had the dream of having this family because that’s what I had. I have parents who’ve been married since high school, who are in love, and they’re still in love and having their big wedding anniversary. I had a perfect example, so it’s super tragic for me. My dreams are shattered and I feel so embarrassed about what happened. I don’t feel embarrassed to talk about it though, with respect to my kids. I just think what happened was: In February (2015), my family fell apart. It was devastating. I didn’t know what to do. It was a real big secret, but as I just explained, I’m not good with that. I tried everything to fix it. By June (2015), I went into the studio and started writing. I was praying. I had already started on a spiritual journey when I got pregnant with Apollo (in 2013) that was sort of like, “Wow, really? I’m gonna be blessed with a baby... now?” That was a miracle. It just started me on this spiritual journey and thank God it started then because I was prepared when I had the tragedy. I had that nest of spirituality in me. CA: They say everything happens for a reason. GS: And you kind of can’t see it until you go through it and look back at it and see all the signs. I had the baby. Then I got The Voice, which was so needed. I needed to do something like that. I needed to play that role, and I also got in the room with Pharrell again who’s been like a guardian angel to me. all that matters to me and all that’s important. So, it doesn’t really bother me. As long as my boys are protected and happy and I’m spending quality time with them, whether it’s doing sports or doing nails, it really doesn’t matter. I’m gonna be. I always ask my gay friends, “OK, so what was it like when you were a little boy?” Because I do know that it’s gotta be difficult to be the alternative, to not be the mainstream, or to be different, if you want to call it that. I feel like it’s less and less (like CA: What would you say to one of that) these days, and it’s hard for your boys if they came out to you me to understand because it one day? doesn’t seem different or weird or GS: I would be blessed with a gay anything anymore because it just CA: You mentioned Apollo, and son. You know that I would feel seems so normal to me. I just saw you also have two other sons: blessed about that. I just want my that movie… what was it… The Kingston and Zuma. There are boys to be happy and healthy, Dutch Girl? people who don’t appreciate the and I just ask God to guide me fact that you allow them to explore every day to be a good mother CA: The Danish Girl…? their feminine sides by painting because it is not an easy job. GS: Yeah, The Danish Girl. I think their nails. How would you I’ve been lucky enough to have what was so incredible about that respond to those critics? such a blessed life. I’ve been able movie was just – that was so long GS: Obviously I’ve lived my life to travel the world and meet so ago. I mean, can you imagine with criticism for a very long time many different kinds of people. back then? Whoa. Now it feels like and my personality is, I live in And it doesn’t really matter if nothing anymore. truth and reality, and if somebody you’re gay, straight, whatever. says something about me and I There are good and bad people, CA: As a pop star over 40, what’s don’t know them and they’re not and I would be happy. I just want it like navigating the pop world my friend or part of my life, it kids to be happy, and with so much pressure on youth, really doesn’t affect me. Of course my whatever journey God gives them age and beauty? everyone’s gonna have their is their journey. I just need to be GS: There was a moment right perspective and their opinion, and there to be the most supportive before I did The Voice, in between I know what’s real and what’s mom that I can be and that’s what (2012’s No Doubt release) Push honest and true, and that’s really 10 GRAB Magazine April 5, 2016 and Shove and The Voice, where I was concerned about it and desperate to have new music and it took a little earthquake to be like, “OK, let’s get some perspective here. You’ve already had the longest career. You’re so blessed to have any of this and any of this that happens after this is literally icing on the cake.” I’m not delusional about where I’m at in my career. I know that this opportunity to have new music is magical, and there’s not one second that I don’t appreciate it and I think it is what it is. I feel proud of the career that I’ve had and I feel so grateful for it and I mean, we all have to go through life. This is life. Life is… “born to blossom and bloom to perish.” That’s it. That is what it is. And the way to do it is to be grateful and to be spiritual and try to do the best you can every single day – to be in the moment. I’m not thinking about the future. I’m really trying to focus on right now, today. I wanna be in the moment right now because it’s so much better if you’re not thinking about the past or the future. CA: Gwen, you have such a healthy perspective on life. GS: Oh, I have to work on it! I work on it every single day. Some days I’m a mental case. Chris Azzopardi is the editor of Q Syndicate, the international LGBT wire service. He once made Jane Fonda cry. Reach him via his website at www.chrisazzopardi.com and on Twitter (@chrisazzopardi). April 5, 2016 GRAB Magazine 11 CUBS 2016 Schedule SPORTS APRIL - Mon, 4/4 at Angels 9:05p. Tue, 4/5 at Angels 9:05p. Thu, 4/7 at D-backs 8:40p. Fri, 4/8 at D-backs 8:40p Sat, 4/9 at D-backs 7:10p. Sun, 4/10 at D-backs 3:10p. Mon, 4/11 Reds 7:05p. Wed, 4/13 Reds 7:05p. Thu, 4/14 Reds 7:05p. Fri, 4/15 Rockies 1:20p. Sat, 4/16 Rockies 1:20p. Sun, 4/17 Rockies 1:20p. Mon, 4/18 at Cardinals 7:15p. Tue, 4/19 at Cardinals 7:15p. Wed, 4/20 at Cardinals 12:45p. Thu, 4/21 at Reds 6:10p. Fri, 4/22 at Reds 6:10p. Sat, 4/23 at Reds 6:10p. Sun, 4/24 at Reds 12:10p. Tue, 4/26 Brewers 7:05p. Wed, 4/27 Brewers 7:05p. Thu, 4/28 Brewers 1:20p. Fri, 4/29 Braves 1:20p. Sat, 4/30 Braves 1:20p. MAY - Sun, 5/1 Braves 1:20p. Mon, 5/2 at Pirates 6:05p. Tue, 5/3 at Pirates 6:05p. Wed, 5/4 at Pirates 11:35a. Thu, 5/5 Nationals 7:05p. Fri, 5/6 Nationals 1:20p. Sat, 5/7 Nationals 3:05p. Sun, 5/8 Nationals 1:20p. Mon, 5/9 Padres 7:05p. Tue, 5/10 Padres 7:05p. Wed, 5/11 Padres 7:05p. Fri, 5/13 Pirates 1:20p. Sat, 5/14 Pirates 1:20p. Sun, 5/15 Pirates 1:20p. Tue, 5/17 at Brewers 7:10p. Wed, 5/18 at Brewers 7:10p. Thu, 5/19 at Brewers 12:40p. Fri, 5/20 at Giants 9:15p. Sat, 5/21 at Giants 6:15p. Sun, 5/22 at Giants 7:05p. Mon, 5/23 at Cardinals 7:15p. Tue, 5/24 at Cardinals 6:10p. Wed, 5/25 at Cardinals 12:45p. Fri, 5/27 Phillies 1:20p. Sat, 5/28 Phillies 1:20p. Sun, 5/29 Phillies 1:20p. Mon, 5/30 Dodgers 4:05p. Tue, 5/31 Dodgers 7:05p. JUNE - Wed, 6/1 Dodgers 7:05p. Thu, 6/2 Dodgers 1:20p. Fri, 6/3 D-backs 1:20p. Sat, 6/4 D-backs 1:20p. Sun, 6/5 Dbacks TBD. Mon, 6/6 at Phillies 6:05p. Tue, 6/7 at Phillies 6:05p. Wed, 6/8 at Phillies 12:05p. Fri, 6/10 at Braves 6:35p. Sat, 6/11 at Braves 3:10p. Sun, 6/12 at Braves 12:35p. Mon, 6/13 at Nationals 6:05p. Tue, 6/14 at Nationals 6:05p. Wed, 6/15 at Nationals 3:05p. Fri, 6/17 Pirates 1:20p. Sat, 6/18 Pirates 7:15p. Sun, 6/19 Pirates TBD. Mon, 6/20 Cardinals 7:05p. Tue, 6/21 Cardinals 7:05p. Wed, 6/22 Cardinals 1:20p. Thu, 6/23 at Marlins 6:10p. Fri, 6/24 at Marlins 6:10p. Sat, 6/25 at Marlins 3:10p. Sun, 6/26 at Marlins 12:10p. Mon, 6/27 at Reds 6:10p. Tue, 6/28 at Reds 6:10p. Wed, 6/29 at Reds 11:35a. Thu, 6/30 at Mets 6:10p. JULY - Fri, 7/1 at Mets 6:10p. Sat, 7/2 at Mets 6:15p. Sun, 7/3 at Mets 12:10p. Mon, 7/4 Reds 1:20p. Tue, 7/5 Reds 1:20p. Wed, 7/6 Reds 1:20p. Fri, 7/8 at Pirates 6:05p. Sat, 7/9 at Pirates 6:15p. Sun, 7/10 at Pirates 12:35p Fri, 7/15 Rangers 1:20p. Sat, 7/16 Rangers 1:20p. Sun, 7/17 Rangers 1:20p. Mon, 7/18 Mets 7:05p. Tue, 7/19 Mets 7:05p. Wed, 7/20 Mets 1:20p. Fri, 7/22 at Brewers 7:10p. Sat, 7/23 at Brewers 6:10p. Sun, 7/24 at Brewers 1:10p. Mon, 7/25 at White Sox 7:10p. Tue, 7/26 at White Sox 7:10p. Wed, 7/27 White Sox 7:05p. Thu, 7/28 White Sox 7:05p. Fri, 7/29 Mariners 1:20p. Sat, 7/30 Mariners 1:20p. Sun, 7/31 Mariners TBD. AUGUST - Mon, 8/1 Marlins 7:05p. Tue, 8/2 Marlins 7:05p. Wed, 8/3 Marlins 1:20p. Fri, 8/5 at Athletics 9:05p. Sat, 8/6 at Athletics 3:05p. Sun, 8/7 at Athletics 3:05p. Tue, 8/9 Angels 7:05p. Wed, 8/10 Angels 7:05p. Thu, 8/11 Cardinals 7:05p. Fri, 8/12 Cardinals 1:20p. Sat, 8/13 Cardinals 1:20p. Sun, 8/14 Cardinals TBD. Tue, 8/16 Brewers 7:05p. Wed, 8/17 Brewers 7:05p. Thu, 8/18 Brewers 1:20p. Fri, 8/19 at Rockies 7:40p. Sat, 8/20 at Rockies 7:10p. Sun, 8/21 at Rockies 3:10p. Mon, 8/22 at Padres 9:10p. Tue, 8/23 at Padres 9:10p. Wed, 8/24 at Padres 2:40p. Fri, 8/26 at Dodgers 9:10p. Sat, 8/27 at Dodgers 3:05p. Sun, 8/28 at Dodgers 3:10p. Mon, 8/29 Pirates 7:05p. Tue, 8/30 Pirates 7:05p. Wed, 8/31 Pirates 7:05p. SEPTEMBER - Thu, 9/1 Giants 7:05p. Fri, 9/2 Giants 1:20p. Sat, 9/3 Giants 1:20p. Sun, 9/4 Giants 1:20p. Mon, 9/5 at Brewers 12:10p. Tue, 9/6 at Brewers 7:10p. Wed, 9/7 at Brewers 7:10p. Fri, 9/9 at Astros 7:10p. Sat, 9/10 at Astros 12:05p. Sun, 9/11 at Astros 1:10p. Mon, 9/12 at Cardinals 7:15p. Tue, 9/13 at Cardinals 7:15p. Wed, 9/14 at Cardinals 12:45p. Thu, 9/15 Brewers 7:05p. Fri, 9/16 Brewers 1:20p. Sat, 9/17 Brewers 3:05p. Sun, 9/18 Brewers 1:20p. Mon, 9/19 Reds 7:05p. Tue, 9/20 Reds 7:05p. Wed, 9/21 Reds 7:05p. Fri, 9/23 Cardinals 1:20p. Sat, 9/24 Cardinals TBD. Sun, 9/25 Cardinals TBD. Mon, 9/26 at Pirates 6:05p. Tue, 9/27 at Pirates 6:05p. Wed, 9/28 at Pirates 6:05p. Thu, 9/29 at Pirates 6:05p. Fri, 9/30 at Reds 6:10p. Sat, 10/1 at Reds 3:10p. Sun, 10/2 2:10p. Please note: All times are CST and Subject to Change. Please refer to Cubs.com for the most up-to-date Schedule information. Out at Wrigley will be held on Sunday, September 4th at 1:20pm vs the San Francisco Giants. There will be VIP tickets in the Left Field Porch Deck for $75, which include a gift bag, all you can drink beer, wine, soda and water. There will also be general admission bleacher tickets $45 tickets. Starting in April and running through late August, we will be holding a contest to pick the National Anthem singer and the person to throw out the Ceremonial First Pitch. Both contests will be held on the same days throughout the year. Tickets for this event go on sale April 10th. Visit www.OutAtWrigley.com for more information. 14 GRAB Magazine April 5, 2016 CHICAGO WHITE SOX 2016 Schedule APRIL - Tue, 4/5 at Athletics 9:05p. Wed, 4/6 at Athletics 9:05p. Thu, 4/7 at Athletics 2:35p. Fri, 4/8 Indians 3:10p. Sat, 4/9 Indians 1:10p. Sun, 4/10 Indians 1:10p. Mon, 4/11 at Twins 3:10p. Wed, 4/13 at Twins 7:10p. Thu, 4/14 at Twins 12:10p. Fri, 4/15 at Rays 6:10p. Sat, 4/16 at Rays 5:10p. Sun, 4/17 at Rays 12:10p. Mon, 4/18 Angels 7:10p. Tue, 4/19 Angels 7:10p. Wed, 4/20 Angels 1:10p. Thu, 4/21 Angels 1:10p. Fri, 4/22 Rangers 7:10p. Sat, 4/23 Rangers 1:10p. Sun, 4/24 Rangers 1:10p. Mon, 4/25 at Blue Jays 6:07p. Tue, 4/26 at Blue Jays 6:07p. Wed, 4/27 at Blue Jays 6:07p. Thu, 4/28 at Orioles 6:05p. Fri, 4/29 at Orioles 6:05p. Sat, 4/30 at Orioles 6:05p. MAY - Sun, 5/1 at Orioles 12:35p. Tue, 5/3 Red Sox 7:10p. Wed, 5/4 Red Sox 7:10p. Thu, 5/5 Red Sox 7:10p. Fri, 5/6 Twins 7:10p. Sat, 5/7 Twins 6:10p. Sun, 5/8 Twins 1:10p. Mon, 5/9 at Rangers 7:05p. Tue, 5/10 at Rangers 7:05p. Wed, 5/11 at Rangers 1:05p. Fri, 5/13 at Yankees 6:05p. Sat, 5/14 at Yankees 12:05p. Sun, 5/15 at Yankees 12:05p. Tue, 5/17 Astros 7:10p. Wed, 5/18 Astros 7:10p. Thu, 5/19 Astros 7:10p. Fri, 5/20 Royals 7:10p. Sat, 5/21 Royals 1:10p. Sun, 5/22 Royals 1:10p. Mon, 5/23 Indians 7:10p. Tue, 5/24 Indians 7:10p. Wed, 5/25 Indians 1:10p. Thu, 5/26 at Royals 7:15p. Fri, 5/27 at Royals 7:15p. Sat, 5/28 at Royals 1:15p. Sun, 5/29 at Royals 1:15p. Mon, 5/30 at Mets 12:10p. Tue, 5/31 at Mets 6:10p. JUNE - Wed, 6/1 at Mets 12:10p. Fri, 6/3 at Tigers 6:10p. Sat, 6/4 at Tigers 3:10p. Sun, 6/5 at Tigers 12:10p. Tue, 6/7 Nationals 7:10p. Wed, 6/8 Nationals 7:10p. Thu, 6/9 Nationals 7:10p. Fri, 6/10 Royals 7:10p. Sat, 6/11 Royals 1:10p. Sun, 6/12 Royals 1:10p. Mon, 6/13 Tigers 7:10p. Tue, 6/14 Tigers 7:10p. Wed, 6/15 Tigers 7:10p. Fri, 6/17 at Indians 6:10p. Sat, 6/18 at Indians 5:10p. Sun, 6/19 at Indians 12:10p. Mon, 6/20 at Red Sox 6:10p. Tue, 6/21 at Red Sox 6:10p. Wed, 6/22 at Red Sox 6:10p. Thu, 6/23 at Red Sox 12:35p. Fri, 6/24 Blue Jays 7:10p. Sat, 6/25 Blue Jays 1:10p. Sun, 6/26 Blue Jays 1:10p. Tue, 6/28 Twins 7:10p. Wed, 6/29 Twins 7:10p. Thu, 6/30 Twins 1:10p. JULY - Fri, 7/1 at Astros 7:10p. Sat, 7/2 at Astros 3:10p. Sun, 7/3 at Astros 1:10p. Mon, 7/4 Yankees 1:10p. Tue, 7/5 Yankees 7:10p. Wed, 7/6 Yankees 7:10p. Fri, 7/8 Braves 7:10p. Sat, 7/9 Braves 1:10p. Sun, 7/10 Braves 1:10p Fri, 7/15 at Angels 9:05p. Sat, 7/16 at Angels 8:05p. Sun, 7/17 at Angels 2:35p. Mon, 7/18 at Mariners 9:10p. Tue, 7/19 at Mariners 9:10p. Wed, 7/20 at Mariners 2:40p. Thu, 7/21 Tigers 7:10p. Fri, 7/22 Tigers 7:10p. Sat, 7/23 Tigers 6:10p. Sun, 7/24 Tigers 1:10p. Mon, 7/25 Cubs 7:10p. Tue, 7/26 Cubs 7:10p. Wed, 7/27 at Cubs 7:05p. Thu, 7/28 at Cubs 7:05p. Fri, 7/29 at Twins 7:10p. Sat, 7/30 at Twins 6:10p. Sun, 7/31 at Twins 1:10p. AUGUST - Tue, 8/2 at Tigers 6:10p. Wed, 8/3 at Tigers 6:10p. Thu, 8/4 at Tigers 12:10p. Fri, 8/5 Orioles 7:10p. Sat, 8/6 Orioles 6:10p. Sun, 8/7 Orioles 1:10p. Tue, 8/9 at Royals 7:15p. Wed, 8/10 at Royals 7:15p. Thu, 8/11 at Royals 7:15p. Fri, 8/12 at Marlins 6:10p. Sat, 8/13 at Marlins 6:10p. Sun, 8/14 at Marlins 12:10p. Tue, 8/16 at Indians 6:10p. Wed, 8/17 at Indians 6:10p. Thu, 8/18 at Indians 6:10p. Fri, 8/19 Athletics 7:10p. Sat, 8/20 Athletics 6:10p. Sun, 8/21 Athletics 1:10p. Tue, 8/23 Phillies 7:10p. Wed, 8/24 Phillies 7:10p. Thu, 8/25 Mariners 7:10p. Fri, 8/26 Mariners 7:10p. Sat, 8/27 Mariners 6:10p. Sun, 8/28 Mariners 1:10p. Mon, 8/29 at Tigers 6:10p. Tue, 8/30 at Tigers 6:10p. Wed, 8/31 at Tigers 12:10p. SEPTEMBER - Thu, 9/1 at Twins 7:10p. Fri, 9/2 at Twins 7:10p. Sat, 9/3 at Twins 6:10p. Sun, 9/4 at Twins 1:10p. Mon, 9/5 Tigers 3:10p. Tue, 9/6 Tigers 7:10p. Wed, 9/7 Tigers 1:10p Fri, 9/9 Royals 7:10p. Sat, 9/10 Royals 6:10p. Sun, 9/11 Royals 1:10p. Mon, 9/12 Indians 7:10p. Tue, 9/13 Indians 7:10p. Wed, 9/14 Indians 7:10p. Thu, 9/15 Indians 1:10p. Fri, 9/16 at Royals 7:15p. Sat, 9/17 at Royals 6:15p. Sun, 9/18 at Royals 1:15p. Tue, 9/20 at Phillies 6:05p. Wed, 9/21 at Phillies 6:05p. Fri, 9/23 at Indians 6:10p. Sat, 9/24 at Indians 6:10p. Sun, 9/25 at Indians 12:10p Mon, 9/26 Rays 7:10p. Tue, 9/27 Rays 7:10p. Wed, 9/28 Rays 7:10p. Thu, 9/29 Rays 7:10p. Fri, 9/30 Twins 7:10p Sat, 10/1 Twins 6:10p. Sun, 10/2 Twins 2:10p. Please note: All times CST. Dates and opponents subject to change. SAT/SUN Game Times subject to change due to FOX/ESPN Schedules CSN: Comcast SportsNet | CSN+: Comcast SportsNet Plus | WGN: WGN-TV | WPWR-TV: Ch. 50 All games broadcast on WLS Radio 890 AM and select games in Spanish on WRTO 1200 AM. Check out ChicagoWhiteSox.com for the most up-to-date information. April 5, 2016 GRAB Magazine 15 16 GRAB Magazine April 5, 2016 BOOK GRAB A DISH Make Passover Delicious and Easy with Innovative Recipes By Paula Shoyer The New Passover Menu is a modern recipe book with dishes you might see at the hip restaurant down the street, but with others that traditional cooks would embrace. There are enough familiar recipes to remind people of their childhoods, but here they are updated, lighter and more flavorful, without being overly complicated. This Passover try these healthy, delicious and innovative recipes from The New Passover Menu: SHREDDED BRUSSELS SPROUTS SALAD Serves: 6–8 Prep Time: 20 minutes Advance Prep: May be made 1 day in advance Equipment: Cutting board • Knives • Cookie sheet • Measuring cups and spoons • Small bowl • Whisk At every family meal, I make sure to serve some raw vegetables in addition to the cooked ones. You will be surprised by how much you like this crunchy salad of raw Brussels sprouts. • 1 pound (450g) Brussels sprouts (preferably larger-size ones), ends trimmed, 2 outer layers of leaves removed • 3/4 cup (115g) whole almonds, toasted • 1/2 small red onion, chopped into small pieces (about 1/4 cup/40g) • 3 tablespoons (45ml) fresh lemon juice (from 1 lemon) • 1/4 cup (60ml) extra virgin olive oil • 1 tablespoon honey • 1/8 teaspoon salt • 1/8 teaspoon black pepper CUT the Brussels sprouts in half 18 GRAB Magazine the long way, from the stem end to the top, and thinly slice. Place the sliced sprouts in a bowl. Roughly chop the toasted almonds and add to the bowl, along with the chopped onion. In a small bowl, whisk together the lemon juice, oil, honey, salt, and black pepper. Pour the dressing over the salad and toss. SEARED TUNA WITH OLIVE AND CAPERS Serves: 4–6 Prep Time: 10 minutes Cook Time: 6–8 minutes Advance Prep: May be made 1 day in advance Equipment: Measuring cups and spoons • Cutting board • Knives • Large frying pan • Silicone spatula My family consumes a lot of sushi, so everyone is thrilled when I have seared tuna on the menu at our house. It is the quickest main dish to prepare if you, like my children, enjoy fresh tuna pretty raw; it cooks in minutes. The olive and caper relish has strong flavors, so I often serve it on the side. Several companies certify capers for Passover, but if you cannot find them, substitute green olives. • 4 tuna steaks (6 ounces/170g each) April 5, 2016 • 1/2 teaspoon dried basil • 1/2 teaspoon dried thyme • Black pepper • 3 tablespoons (45ml) extra virgin olive oil • 3 tablespoons chopped red onion, cut into • 1/4-inch (6-mm) pieces • 4 cloves garlic, chopped into 1/4inch (6-mm) pieces • 3 tablespoons capers, drained, or green olives, cut into 1/4-inch (6mm) pieces • 1/3 cup (45g) green or black olives (or a combination), cut into long slivers • 1/2 teaspoon sugar SPRINKLE both sides of the tuna steaks with the basil, thyme, and pepper to taste. Heat a large frying pan over high heat (do not add any oil). When the pan is hot, add the tuna steaks and cook for 1 to 1 1/2 minutes on each side, just long enough to sear the outside. Leave the center raw, unless you prefer tuna cooked all the way through. REMOVE the tuna steaks to a plate. Reduce the heat to medium and add the oil. Add the red onion and garlic and cook for 2 minutes, stirring often. Add the capers, olives, sugar, and pepper to taste and cook for 1 minute. Remove the pan from the heat. PLACE the tuna steaks on a cutting board and slice into 1/3- to 1/2-inch-thick (8- to 12-mm) slices.Place the slices on a platter and sprinkle the caper and olive mixture on top, or serve it alongside in a small bowl. Recipes from The New Passover Menu by Paula Shoyer Sterling / January 2014 www.TheKosherBaker.com PRIDE GRAB JEFF Northalsted Business Alliance Pride Person Jeff Durbin -The Twisted Vine Q: How long have you owned The Twisted Vine? Jeff Durbin: We are coming up on our third anniversary in May. Before we became The Twisted Vine, we were a retail store called The Gourmet Grape in the same location for ten years. In total, we have been in business for 13 years. Q: What made you want to switch from a retail shop to a bar? JD: It was customer driven. A lot of customers were asking me to sell wine by the glass, so after ten years doing retail, I decided it was time for a change! We didn’t have a wine bar in the neighborhood, especially one with a piano and live music. I thought it would be a great addition to the neighborhood. Q: How long have you been in the wine industry? JD: I started drinking wine in my early twenties, and loved it ever since. Going to Napa Valley and experiencing the wine country, I just fell in love with it. When I decided to open my store, I knew I was going to sell wine. Now as a bar owner, wine is still the foundation of my business. Q: What is something The Twisted Vine does that is unique? JD: I think we have one of the best whisky selections in the City; we carry over 135 different types of whisky. Also, we are a service style bar, and strive to have the best customer service we possibly can. Q: What is your favorite kind of wine to drink? JD: I love a hardy Cabernet Sauvignon! Q: How long have you been part of the Northalsted Business Alliance? JD: I have been part of The Alliance for all 13 years. I think neighborhood organizations are always great to be a part of. I sat on the Board for a number of years as well, and I think they do great things for the neighborhood. The Next Issue of GRAB hits the streets Tuesday April 19th...Have you reserved your space yet? Call today 773-857-2262! 22 GRAB Magazine April 5, 2016 Q: What would you like to see in the future for Boystown? JD: Physically, I would like to keep seeing the beautification of our neighborhood. I would love to see hanging planters along the entire street, to create beautiful and welcoming spaces to our customers. I think we are in a good place right now, but there is always room for improvement. As a community, I would like us to continue working with other communities throughout Chicago to create strong partnerships to promote change. Q: What does Pride mean to you? JD: I think being proud is just being who you are, it comes from the inside. To me, it means being a respectful citizen, taking care of others, and helping out your community. There is a great sense of pride that can be accomplished by working together with everyone toward common goal. Q: What is something people would never guess about you? JD: A lot of things! Before The Twisted Vine, I had many different careers. I was a licensed barber for a while, and I was also a flight attendant. The Twisted Vine is located at 3530 N. Halsted and is open Sundays 1:00pm - 11:00pm Mon & Tues 5:00pm - 12:00am Wed & Thur 4:00pm - 12:00am Fri & Sat 4:00pm - 1:00am www.twistedvinechicago.com April 5, 2016 GRAB Magazine 23 Photos by Bear Lens Photography 24 GRAB Magazine April 5, 2016 April 5, 2016 GRAB Magazine 25 TRANSGENDER GRAB HOLLY Breaking News!! Caitlyn Has Been Found!! By Holly Maholm This Just In!! (Actually, one year from now …) Caitlyn Jenner has been found! The most notorious kidnapping case in California history (since Patty Hearst) has come to an end! Earlier today, I made contact with Caitlyn, and in a moment, I will tell you the story of her yearlong ordeal. But first, you remember how it all started. One year ago, Caitlyn and her “posse” of transgender women friends started off filming Season 3 of “I Am Cait” by getting into a luxury bus and driving away. Then a few hours later, the bus was found by the side of the road, all the members of the posse seemingly drugged into unconsciousness, and Caitlyn was missing! After that, authorities conducted an intensive search of every country club, spa, high-end nail salon and Gucci store in southern California without success – Caitlyn could not be found. Then, a few days ago, acting on a hunch, I confronted Jenny Boylan and – after threatening to read to her from Donald Trump’s “Art of the Deal” – she broke down and spilled her guts. Here’s what she told me: “The trip started out okay, but it didn’t take long for Caitlyn to start in with her privileged, entitled whining about how ordinary transgender women just don’t understand how Republicans are actually their friends. So, right away, we started arguing and Caitlyn said, ‘Don’t go there!’ one too many times. Well, all of us just lost it. We turned the bus around and headed for south LA. After arriving, we picked a random street corner – there was a “Donut Time” shop there – and kicked her off the bus. And you know, all of us immediately felt better.” As a reporter, I had to follow up this lead, so I drove to south LA and parked next to Donut Time. I 26 GRAB Magazine went in, ordered coffee and a donut with pink icing and sprinkles, and looked around. The only person there was a young, black transgender woman, apparently waiting for someone. So I nervously went up to her and asked if I could sit down and ask her some questions. In response, she helpfully pointed out that I was a “skanky bitch with no more fashion sense than a mother fuckin’ fish.” (All true enough, I must admit.) Wishing to get on her good side, I offered to buy her some donuts, which I did. Here is what she told me (her name, by the way, was Sin-Dee): “So yeah, I know that honky bitch, lazy piece of crap. When she got here, she couldn’t even do her own hair or nails or any of that shit! She was useless! So my friend Alexandra, she been lettin’ her sleep in her room, but she had to get a job, which was the usual sort of shit job us girls have to get, ’cause no one will give us any kind of decent job.” “So this skank started out washing dishes and waiting tables at Burrito Heaven over on Sepulveda ’cause she can’t stay with Alexandra unless she pays some rent, and when she shops for clothes, that clueless honky always pays retail.” So there I was listening to SinDee when the door to Donut Time opened and a young guy – real chill with lots of tattoos and a hoodie – came in. And with him was another young, black transgender prostitute. Turns out his name was Chester, and with him was SinDee’s friend Alexandra. So I bought donuts and coffee all round. Chester told me that after a few weeks of observing – from a distance – that extremely tall transgender woman I described, April 5, 2016 and seeing how his customers looked at her, he decided to add her to his stable of girls, which he did. He told me, “She would not shut up with her endless, annoying drama about how she didn’t know ‘whether she was into guys or not,’ so I borrowed a car and took her for a ride through the car wash a couple of times.” “So finally,” he went on, “the realization hit her what it is that men want more than anything. She’s such an airhead, I had to pound it into her head. (And ‘pounding’ is sort of my business.) After that, I started finding dates for her, and she learned what a girl has to do to survive on the streets.” “She stopped expecting other people to do everything for her, and she started doing things for herself. So now, we call her “Snow White” ’cause girls don’t come any ‘whiter’ than her, and one day I saw her out front of Donut Time surrounded by several of her admirers from Mexico and Guatemala, and she just reminded me of her.” Just then, we noticed a large, black, tricked-out Escalade pull up in front, and the passenger door opened … (To Be Continued.) Holly Maholm is a transgender woman living in Cleveland, Ohio. She is the author of a recentlypublished book Brave in Ribbons (November, 2015) which features a transgender woman who faces hardship in her life. Other articles by Holly can be found at www.HollyMaholm.com. April 5, 2016 GRAB Magazine 27 The Office 25th Anniversary Congratulations Dan and Mike!!! April 5, 2016 GRAB Magazine 29 Daily Specials GRAB YOUR FRIENDS Monday Tuesday Wednesday Charlies: Free Two-Step Line Dancing Lessons @ 7:30pm, Country Dancing until 11pm, Bingo with Darla Dae 11pm-1am, Dance Music with Lightning LuLu Until 4am. $2 Wells & Draft Pints, $13 Absolut Pitchers. Crew: Pub Quiz 8pm $5 chicken strips $4 Hopothesis beers $5 Absolut Cocktails. Hydrate: $2 Drinks, $5 Cover after Midnight, DJ Laura B. Kit Kat: Half-priced drink menu & 33 percent off entire food menu. Lucky Horseshoe: Open at 3pm, Dancers 7pm. North End: Open at 11am, Free pool, $10.75 Miller Lite Pitchers. Phoenix Bar: Karaoke Night 2.50 Mystery Shot special, $3 Miller Lite Bottles. Progress Bar: Rupaul's Drag Race viewing party 8PM, 9PM EVERY MONDAY Gia's Gunns and Roses Drag Show, $5 ABSOLUT vodka cocktails, $5 Jameson, $3 Blue Moon Drafts Scarlet: $3 PBR Tall Boys, $5 Select Martinis. Shakers: $13 Mix & Match Buckets, $4 Jager Shots. Sidetrack: Open at 3pm, RuPaul's Drag Race Viewing Party: Untucked 7:30, New Episode 8pm, Show Tunes after Ru till 2am. SoFo Tap: $5 Jameson Shots, $3 Well and Select Call Cocktails, $3 All Draft Beers, $2 SIN (Service Industry) Feature, 8PM – Close, SIN – Service Industry Night. Steamworks: $5 off w/Student ID, Quick Trix 9a-1p $7 lockers. The Office: $5 Martinis (you-call-it). Touche: Big Game Night Come Out & Play. @mosphere: Gayme Night XBox Kinnect, cards, Jenga, etc. Charlie’s: Rockstar Karaoke with Robb 9pm-1am. Top 40's Dance Beats with Lightning LuLu 1am-4am. $2 Draft Pints, $3 Fireball, $13 You-Call-It Pitchers. Crew: $1 Tacos, $5 Beergarita Pints, $5 Michelada, $20 mexican beer buckets. Kit Kat Lounge: Half priced martinis & 33 percent off small plates; Tarot Card Readings by Therese Murphy. "Burger, Beer, Bitch!" $14.95 Burger & Sam Adams. Lucky Horseshoe: Open Auditions for male dancers 7pm. Open at 3pm, Dancers 7pm. North End: Open at 11am, $5.75 22 oz Lites. Phoenix Bar: Dollar Drink Night (Well liquor only), $5 Manager Shot Special. Progress Bar: Industry night 50% off everything for industry people with a valid pay stub $4 Fat Tire drafts, $5 Jack Daniels products. Replay Beer & Bourbon: Tat-Tuesdays with Keith, Ryan and HO-sted by Debbie Fox, Richard on Door, FREE Tattoo weekly! Sidetrack: Open at 3pm, TRL Tuesday: Totally Rad Line-up of 90's and early 00's Music Videos 8pm-2am. SoFo Tap: $5 Absolut cocktails, $6.50 Big Beers (all drafts), 9PM Tringo (Trivia Bingo) with host Sister Margaret Cootersnatch. Scarlet: $4 You-Call-Its, $4 Jager, Jameson, Rumpleminze Shots. Steamworks: Come Back Tuesdays Use your weekend receipt to get $4 off anytime Tuesday or Wednesday, 4p-7p-Howard Brown Open Testing To the Public. $5 off w/ Student ID. The Call: Vodka Night & Music Videos. $5 Skyy Vodka Cocktails. Touche: Hardcore Cruisin Club Room Open. Baton Show Lounge: Shows at 8:30pm, 10:30pm & 12:30am. Charlie’s: Shower Contest Hosted by Carlos $100 Cash Prize for first place! Sign up by 11pm. $2 Wells $1 Draft Pints, DJ Alex Cabot spins till 4am. Crew: $5 off all pitchers of beer (Beer buddy Wednesdays) $5 stoli cocktails. Kit Kat Lounge: Half-price Cocktails & Martinis, Buy one entree get one free. Lucky Horseshoe: Open at 3pm, Dancers 7pm. North End: Open at 11am, $5.75 22 oz Lites. Phoenix Bar: Hump Day! $5 Absolut Vodka, $5 Manager Shot Special Progress Bar: $4 Svedka Flavors and $3 Coronas. Scarlet: $3 Miller Lite, $4 Svedka, $4 Old School Shots. Shakers: $1 Off Craft Beers, $1 Off Long Island Iced Teas and Flavored Teas. Sidetrack: Open at 3pm, Woof Wednesday 1st Wed of Month, monthly All Things Beyonce and Sync It Parties other Wed.'s 9pm-2am SoFo Tap: $4 Fat Tire Drafts, $6.50 Fat Tire Big Beers, $4 Fireball Shots, 9PM Live Game Show with host Dick Guhzinya. Steamworks: Come Back Wednesdays Use your weekend receipt to get $4 off anytime Tuesday or Wednesday, $5 off w/Student ID. The Call: Showtunes Absolut & Skyy Martini Specials. The Office: $3 Wells & $2.50 16oz Draft Beers. Karaoke at 9pm Touche: Jockstrap Night Free Pants Check. Thursday @mosphere: Male Dancers 10pm. Baton Show Lounge: Shows at 8:30pm, 10:30pm & 12:30am. Charlie’s: Industry Night! Dancers, $3 You-Call-It Drinks, Shots, and Beer All Day! (Excludes LongIsland) Dart League 8pm. Dart Tournament 10pm. Afterhours Dance Music with Ron G from 11pm-4am.. Crew: Karaoke 10pm, $3.50 Draft beers (not including high ABV). Hydrate: $5 Effen Cocktails & Bombs. Kit Kat Lounge: Half-priced martinis and $5 mojitos; Tarot Card Readings by Therese Murphy. Lucky Horseshoe: Open at 3pm, Dancers 4pm. North End: Open at 11am, $10.75 Miller Lite Pitchers. Phoenix Bar: Dancers and Go-go Boys! $5 Bacardi, $5 Vegas Bombs. Progress Bar: 1st Thurs Illuminaughty Party, Every Thurs $4 Fireball and $3 Miller LIte drafts. Scarlet: $5 40 oz. Miller Lite, $5 24 oz. Corona, $5 Long Island Mini-Pitchers, $5 Old School Shots. Shakers: $4 Fireball Shots, $2 Miller Lite Bottles, $4 Well Drinks. Sidetrack: Open at 3pm, Comedy Videos 8pm-12am, Music Videos 12am-2am. SoFo Tap: $6 Miller Lite Draft and a Shot of Jameson, $3 Blueberry or Raspberry Vodka Lemonades, $1 Jello Shots Steamworks: $5 off w/Student ID. The Call: BINGO 7:30pm, 2nd #TBT w/ DJ Riley York 4th Music Video Mix. $6 Absolut Cocktails. Touche: Handballer Night Red/White Hanky Specials Club Room Open. 32 GRAB Magazine April 5, 2016 Friday @mosphere: Male Dancers 10:30pm. Baton Show Lounge: Shows at 8:30pm, 10:30pm & 12:30am. Charlie’s: Free Two-Step Line Dancing Lessons @10pm Country Dancing until 1:30am,Top 40 Dance/House Mixes with Lightning LuLu till 4am. $5 Draft Pitchers & $13 Long Island Pitchers. Crew: $4.25 Lagunitas IPA pints, $2 PBR cans, $4.50 Skinny Lemonade F.O’Mahony’s: $15 All-U-Can Eat Fish & Chips. Hydrate: $4 Jameson Shots. Kit Kat Lounge: $32 three course prix-fixe menuincludes a martini, salad and entree. Lucky Horseshoe: Open at 3pm, Dancers 4pm. North End: Open at 11am, $5.75 22 oz Lites. Phoenix Bar: Dance Night with Go-go boys! $5 Three-Olives Vodka, $5 Fireball. Progress Bar: 9PM to 10PM POWER HOUR $2 All Svedka Cocktails, No Cover EVER DJ starts at 10PM. Scarlet: $4 Well Drinks, $4 Domestic Beers, $4 Wine. Shakers: $3 Molson Golden Bottles, $5 Cosmos. Sidetrack: Open at 3pm, T.G.I.F. Show Tunes 5-9 pm, High Energy 9pm-2am. SoFo Tap: $6 Big Miller Lites, $4 Red Stag Shots or Cocktails, $4 Fireball Shots, $2 PBR Cans, 3PM – 7PM, Customer Appreciation – Free Food (while supplies last), Free Darts, first 10 people in get a scratch off Lotto Ticket 9PM – Close, GRR… It’s Friday – Bear Party. Steamworks: Quick Trix 9a-1p $7 lockers, 9p-12a TPAN HIV Rapid Test. The Call: LesPop 1st, Rih-Once 2nd, It’sBirtneyBitch last. DJ Riley York. $5 Skyy Vodka Cocktails. The Office: DJ’s @ 10pm. Touche: 4/8 Chicago Hellfire Club Club Night, 4/15 Celebrating Boyer’s 40 Years behind the Bar. Saturday Daily Specials GRAB YOUR FRIENDS @mosphere: Male Dancers 11pm. Baton Show Lounge: Shows at 8:30pm, 10:30pm & 12:30am. Charlie’s: Smoke & Mirrors hosted by Khloe @ Midnight, Lightning Lulu spins Top 40 mixes till 4am. $3 ApplePie Moonshine Shots, $5 Draft Pitchers, $13 Long Island Pitchers. Crew: $4.25 Coors Lite tall boys, $7-9 Crew Bloodies, $15 bottomless mimosas (with entree purchase). Hydrate: $5 Effen Bombs. Lucky Horseshoe: Dancers all day! 2pm. Manhole: 11/21 DJ Dan Darlington/NYC, 11/28 DJ Ralphi Rosario. North End: Open at 11am, Welcoming CMSA and AAC teams. Phoenix Bar: Dance Night with Go-go boys! $5 Svedka Vodka, $5 Fireball. Progress Bar: No Cover Ever. DJ starts at 10:30 p.m. Scarlet: $5 Well Drinks, $5 Imported Beers, $95 Classic Stoli Bottle Service. Shakers: $5 Jager Shots, $4 Fireball Shots, $1 Off all Imports. Sidetrack: Open at 1pm, Sidetrack Video Mix 1-9 pm, High Energy 9pm- 3am. SoFo Tap: $4 Stella Drafts, $4 Fireball Shots, $4 Skinny Lemonades, Noon – 3pm Doggy Days – Afternoon Dog Party, First Saturday of the Month - 9PM – Close, DILF, Last Saturday of the Month – 9PM – Close, GEAR. The Call: Music Videos. Ashley Morgan Presents…Drag Show 3rd 9:30pm. BEAR Party 4th 10pm $6 Absolut Cocktails. The Office: DJ’s @ 10pm. Touche: 4/9 Dungeon Master Night CWB 5pm, 4/16 GEAR Night with Bluf/Chicago, Barber & Bootblack Dress Code in Clubroom BNC 6pm. Sunday Funday @mosphere: Best Music of the 70‘s, 80‘s & 90‘s every week with Monthly Special events & Drink Specials. Baton Show Lounge: Shows at 7pm, 9pm & 11pm. Charlie’s: Euchre Club 5pm-8pm. Rockstar Karaoke with Robb 9pm-1am. Top 40's Dance Beats with Lightning LuLu 1am-4am. $5 Draft Pitchers, $13 You-Call-It Pitchers. Crew: $5 Beergarita pints, $12 Miller Lite pitchers, $7-9 Crew Bloodies, $15 bottomless mimosas (with entree purchase). F.O’Mahony’s: $20 Mimosa Brunch. Hydrate: $4 U-Calls Its Kit Kat Lounge: Half priced martinis, 33 percent off small plates; Divalicious Brunch staring Madam X, 11am-4pm; $29.95 prix-fixe; $14.95 “Build your own” cocktail package. Lucky Horseshoe: Dancers 2pm. North End: Open at 11, Playing all the Sunday Funday games! Phoenix Bar: Latin Night / Variety Latino Show! $4 Corona Bottles, $7 Long Island, $5 Patron Silver Shots. Progress Bar: Sunday Funday! $10 Bottles of Bubbly/Mimosas $10 Pitchers of Miller Lite or Coors Light $3 Miller Lite or Coors Light drafts, DJ Chip every Sunday playing all of your favorite music videos and always taking requests. Scarlet: $12 Champagne Bottles, $4 Bloody Mary, $3 Miller Lite. Shakers: $6 Bloody Mary Bar, $4 Mimosas, $13 Mix & Match Buckets, $5 Chocolate Martinis. Sidetrack: Open at 1pm, Show Tunes 4-9pm, Flashback Videos 9pm-2am Retro with a beat. SoFo Tap: $5 PBR and a Shot of Jameson, $3 Miller Lite Drafts, $5 SoFo Marys, $4 Skinny Lemonades, 7PM – 10PM, UnTapped – Acoustic Concert Series with host Stephen Leonard. The Call: Hard Candy Drag Show 3rd 8:30. Bloody Mary 4th 4pm. Country 1st & 3rd 4pm. $5 Margaritas. The Office: $2.50 Bloody Marys, $2.50 Champagnes, & $2.50 16oz Draft Beers. Karaoke at 9pm. Touche: 4/10 Trident Windy City’s Cupcake Wars, Beer Bust $1 Bud & Bud Light Drafts, Sodas, Club Room opens 6pm, Movie Night 7pm. 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More and more, LGBT couples are using revocable living trusts as a way to efficiently pass on their assets to their partners and spouses and to insure that they will handle their personal affairs if they ever become incapacitated. A revocable living trust is a legal arrangement where a person executes a written trust document naming themselves as the trustee of their own trust and, while alive, they transfer their property to their trust so that the trust holds legal title to all their assets. The document creating the trust allows the person making the trust (maker) to at any time dissolve the trust, change the trust or take assets from the trust, always retaining complete control of their property. The trust document can provide for the appointment of a successor trustee (surviving LGBT lover/spouse) who would only act upon the death or disability of the maker of the trust. A living trust offers the following advantages: • Keeping control. While the maker is alive, he or she has the 36 GRAB Magazine April 5, 2016 right to the income generated by the trust and use of the trust property such as the house and furniture. Upon his or her death, the assets of the trust could be distributed to a surviving spouse, lover, family, charities or remain in the trust for the lifetime of the surviving lover and then pass upon his or her death. • Providing for disability. Should the maker of the trust become physically or mentally incompetent, the living trust can serve as the framework for the management of the maker’s assets and property. • Reducing delay and cost. The living trust can act like a will and dispose of the maker’s property upon death. The property of the trust is not subject to probate proceedings, thus avoiding court supervision, public examination of the property distribution and will challenges by family members. • Preserving privacy. Trusts can also serve individuals who don’t want an inheritance to be made public. It avoids problems of friends and family from going into the Probate Clerk’s office to look at the files on their estate and see who got what. • Avoiding ancillary probate. Someone who owned a vacation house in Lakeside, Michigan and a condominium in Chicago could not have probate in both those states unless they used a living trust. • Avoidance of family disputes. There is less chance of a lawsuit by family members to contest a living trust than there would be with a will. Probate proceedings for a will require notice to family members, along with the publicity which may encourage such suits. • Funding the living trust. Many times people will create a living trust but then put nothing in it. The advantage of funding your trust is the avoidance of probate in the event of death or disability and the accompanying probate administration complexities and costs. A partially funded trust will not avoid the necessity of probate because assets not in the trust still need to be probated. The transfer of property to the trust is like a sale or gift of the asset to another individual. When conveying real property from the settlor to the trustee, or transferring saving accounts from the settlor to the trustee, the transfer is accomplished just as if the property or account were being transferred to a purchaser. With a trust, the purpose is to transfer property owned by the settlor so that it is legally owned by the trust. Ideally, there should be no property owned outright in the name of the settlor. Only property owned outright by an individual (and that does not have a beneficiary designation) is subject to probate administration. Roger McCaffrey-Boss is a gradute of Hamline University School of Law, St. Paul, Minnesota, and is a member of the Chicago Bar Association. You can email him at RVMLawyer@aol.com. He suggests that you consult your own lawyer for any specific questions regarding the issues raised in this column. Photos by Bear Lens Photography 38 GRAB Magazine April 5, 2016 TRAVEL GRAB A PLANE Photo by Chris Wimpey LGBT TRAVELERS CAN REVEL IN 2016 LINEUP OF FABULOUS LAS VEGAS EVENTS Travelers looking for an exciting and colorful array of LGBT events can look no further than the Entertainment Capital of the World. This year ushers in a blending of events that offer an incredible variety of opportunities for only-in-Vegas moments, including daylife, nightlife, entertainment, sporting events, festivals, conventions and more. With celebrated events returning for another fantastic year, and new events making their debut, this year will truly be extraordinary in Las Vegas. For the first time in National Gay Basketball Association (NGBA) history, the NGBA will host their National LGBT Basketball Championships April 22-24 in Las Vegas. The Coady Roundball Classic brings 36 LGBT and Ally teams from across the U.S. and Canada to Las Vegas and is the longest running LGBT basketball tournament in the world. Created for lesbians by lesbians, the fun-filled Dinah Vegas returns for its fifth year in Las Vegas. Guests 40 GRAB Magazine April 5, 2016 of the weekend-long event can revel cocktail parties, sunshine, poolside fun and more, April 28 – May 1. Caesars Entertainment welcomes the ladies in style with live entertainment from a top-tier line up of Lesbian DJs including Dawna Montell, Dirty Kurty, Whitney Day and DJ Du Jour. Event highlights include a headlining performance by former Pussycat Doll Kaya at the Infinity Pool Party inside Flamingo Las Vegas and the always anticipated Vegas White party at Chateau Nightclub at Paris Las Vegas. Poolside summer fun continues with Las Vegas’ longest running LGBT pool party, Temptation Sundays which makes its triumphant return for its seventh season at Luxor Hotel & Casino on May 15. This celebrated poolside party takes place every Sunday afternoon May – Sept and features the hottest DJs spinning top tracks, specialty beverages and celebrations. Las Vegas welcomes the Prime Timers Western Regional Gathering, May 1-5 at The Stratosphere Hotel & Casino. The gathering is arriving in Las Vegas for its seventh year and brings mature gay and bisexual men together for four days of tours, workshops, activities, friendship, support and personal growth. Las Vegas welcomes the largest gay dance festival of the summer, Matinee Las Vegas, May 27– 30. The festival is celebrating its sixth year and the festivities will take over Rumor Hotel for four exciting days of revelry. Plus, the Water Park event is back for a new all-day and night edition at Cowabunga Bay May 28. Matinee Las Vegas features sizzling parties, bumping DJs and welcomes thousands of LGBT partiers from coast to coast. Another first, Las Vegas welcome the Big Gay Men Organization’s Western Coast Conference taking place at Luxor Hotel & Casino July 7–11. This year’s event offers a vendor hall, hospitality suites, evening entertainment options and concludes with the Temptation Sundays pool party: The Las Vegas Showgirl Invitational bowling tournament is Sept. 2-4. The event takes place at Sam’s Town Hotel & Gambling Hall and includes team competition, as well as singles and doubles tournaments all weekend long. Join local bowlers and teams from across the U.S. in this fun LGBT bowling tournament. Las Vegas PRIDE takes place Oct. 22 and 23 with a lineup of events that celebrate the diversity and uniqueness within the Las Vegas LGBT community. Events include the annual PRIDE Night Parade on Oct. 22 in fabulous Downtown Las Vegas. The PRIDE Festival is in a new, larger location at Sunset Park Oct. 22-23, providing additional space for entertainment. The two-day long event encourages attendees to celebrate their pride with members of the Las Vegas LGBT community and straight allies and enjoy an exciting weekend of events, entertainment and nightlife. World Gay Rodeo Finals trots into Las Vegas Oct. 20-23, 42 GRAB Magazine April 5, 2016 Photo by Chris Wimpey celebrating their 30th anniversary. Spectators can enjoy a multitude of events from bull riding and roping to barrel racing and steer decorating as well as the crowning of the TGRA royal court. The annual three-day event will be held at South Point Hotel, Arena & Equestrian Center. New Horizons Nevada will host their annual May Fun Festival May 1-5 at the Tuscany Suites hotel. This festival brings together adult gay men for five days of social activities, banquets, pub crawls and more while benefiting the Senior Affordable LGBT Housing project. To learn more about how LGBT special events or how to book a fabulous vacation, visit www.LasVegas.com/GayTravel. MUSIC Gwen Stefani’s New Album “This is What The Truth Feels Like” Debuts at #1 on the Billboard Top 200 Album Chart This Is What the Truth Feels Like — the new album from threetime GRAMMY Award-winning superstar Gwen Stefani — has debuted at #1 on the Billboard Top 200 Album chart, bowing with 84,000 album equivalent units. The album’s first single, the synth-pop ballad “Used To Love You,” has been certified gold, while its video has racked up more than 14 million YouTube views. Working with collaborators Justin Tranter, Julia Michaels, Greg Kurstin, JR Rotem, and Stargate, among others, Stefani wrote or co-wrote all of the songs on This Is What The Truth Feels Like. The deeply personal album has been hailed by critics as Stefani’s strongest work to date. Always pushing boundaries, Stefani teamed up with retailer Target to produce the video for current single “Make Me Like You” — the first music video to be created on live television. Directed by GRAMMY-Award winner Sophie Muller, the action unfolded on CBS during a four-minute commercial break during this year’s Grammy Awards and featured multiple sets and costume changes in real time. For more information visit www.gwenstefani.com Nick Jonas Announces Highly-Anticipated New Album “Last Year Was Complicated” To Be Released June 10 Multi-platinum-selling recording artist Nick Jonas announced his 44 GRAB Magazine highly-anticipated new album “Last Year Was Complicated” will be released June 10th on Safehouse/ Island Records. The full length release will be a follow up to Jonas's critically-acclaimed, eponymous debut album which featured his 3X platinum hit "Jealous" and 2X platinum hit "Chains." “Last Year Was Complicated” is available for preorder now. Jonas marked the announcement with the release of his new single "Close" featuring Tove Lo as well as the premiere of the track's video. The single was written by Julia Michaels and Justin Tranter and produced by Mattman and Robin. The video was directed by Tim Erem. Watch the video at http://vevo.ly/a4YlAH. “Last Year Was Complicated” is Jonas's sophomore solo album release and will include collaborations with Grammy Awardwinning producer Max Martin (Taylor Swift, Ellie Goulding, The Weeknd), writer/producer Jason Evigan ("Chains"), and writers Nolan Lambroza and Simon Wilcox ("Jealous"), among others. For ticketing information and a full listing of concert dates visit: http://www.futurenowtour.com/ like "Long Hair" and "Luv, Hold Me Down" earning global praise for their instant power and pop smarts. "Drowners wear their influences with pride, but their charm is all their own," raved Q, noting, "The very idea of jangling fringe-shaking indie-pop succeeding amid the sultry electro-pop hordes seems unlikely, but there's an against-theodds charisma about Drowners...This is a joyful tumble of emotion, a place alive with the explosive surge of teenage desire." "Crisp, bright Anglo-Eighties guitar pop bristling with coy cockiness," declared Rolling Stone as NME hailed the album's "pure garagerock fury." For more, visit www.drownersband.com. Alunageorge Announce “I’m in Control” U.S. Tour Drowners Unveils Eagerly Awaited Second Album “On Desire” to be released Friday June 24 Frenchkiss recording group Drowners have unveiled details of their long awaited new album. "On Desire" arrives everywhere on Friday, June 24th. "On Desire” is available for pre-order now via all leading DSPs. All pre-orders will be accompanied by an instant grat download of the album's stirring lead track, "Cruel Ways," premiering today exclusively via Noisey. Additional "On Desire” tracks will be offered as instant grat downloads in the weeks leading up to the album's release. Drowners officially emerged in 2013 with the "Between Us Girls” EP, a short, sharp statement of intent that swiftly led to the band signing with NYC's influential Frenchkiss Records. "Drowners" arrived in January 2014, with songs April 5, 2016 Pop alchemists AlunaGeorge will hit the road for their "I'm In Control" Tour, which kicks off with a performance at Coachella on April 16th. The tour includes headlining shows across the U.S., as well as appearances at several major music festivals, including Shaky Beats, Neon Desert, Bulladora, Firefly, Electric Forest, Promowest, Forecastle, Wayhome, Panorama, Lollapalooza, and the Shambhala Music Festival. Kari Faux, Kiiara, Rejjie Snow, and Cleopold will provide support on select dates. The band is touring in support of their upcoming new album I Remember, which will be released this Spring by Interscope Records. The first single, "I'm In Control," featuring Popcaan, is out now. AlunaGeorge, which is singer/ lyricist Aluna Francis and producer George Reid, have barely stopped since they released their 2012 single "You Know You Like It" followed by their critically lauded debut album, Body Music in 2013. Last year, DJ Snake's remix of "You Know You Like It" became one of the most streamed songs of all time. AlunaGeorge's "I'm In Control" Tour will be in Chicago 07/28-29 for Lollapalooza. April 5, 2016 GRAB Magazine 45 INDY PRIDE ANNOUNCES THE 2016 JOHN ALEXANDER HOOSIER 250 TRICYCLE RACE NEWS MINIBAR UNDER NEW OWNERSHIP AND MANAGEMENT For more than ten years, MiniBar has served as a popular staple on Halsted. Starting April 1, a new era begins with new ownership and management of the legendary Boystown and Chicago nightspot. Rob Brumbaugh, owner of Progress Bar, has purchased MiniBar and retained Phil DaBeatz-Roush as the new General Manager and lead on this new and exciting endeavor. “We are excited to build on MiniBar’s fan base, and look forward to enhancing the experience for customers, staff, and the community,” according to Phil DaBeatz-Roush, MiniBar’s new General Manager. “We have a great staff and we are anxious and excited to hear from customers and the community about improvements we can make as we move forward. The future is bright! Our vision for the future of Minibar is to expand and build upon a brand with the goal of improving Minibar, and making a positive impact on Halsted Street, Boystown, and for all members of our community!” Phil Roush, well-known in Boystown and Chicago as Phil DaBeatz, has worked on Halsted Street for nearly a decade. His diverse background in Boystown includes previous work at Minibar, Hydrate Nightclub, and most recently at Progress Bar. Phil “DaBeatz” has been a fixture in Chicago’s hospitality industry, best known as International DJ Phil DaBeatz and one of Boystown’s iconic bartending personalities. His breadth of experience should be a huge asset as Minibar seeks to retool and improve the customer experience moving forward. “I am very excited for this next chapter and for the incredible opportunity to move forward with a great concept and talented Minibar team. Stay tuned and I look forward to sharing our excitement with all members of our great and diverse community!” For more information Visit www.minibarchicago.com 46 GRAB Magazine The John Alexander Hoosier 250 Tricycle Race is celebrating 21 years of fun and frivolity for a good cause. The event has grown from barely able to fill a downtown parking lot to one that closed down a portion of Mass Avenue for a day. Though held in mid-May, the Hoosier 250 Tricycle Race is considered by many to be the true kick-off event to Circle City IN Pride Week. This year's race, held on Sunday, May 22, 2016, will take place at a new location — on Park Avenue next to the Metro Nightclub & Restaurant. Returning this year will be live musical and comedic performances. This year's entertainment will have a continued focus on local talent pulled from Indy's LGBT community. Performers will be announced at a later date. Team registration starts at 12pm and the races will begin promptly at 1pm. Teams consist of two individuals and each team member must be at least 18 years of age to participate. Registration made on the day of the event, May 22, will be $40 per team; however, early online registration can be made for $30. As is tradition, the newly crowned Mr and Ms Circle City IN Pride will be on-site to wave the checkered flag for each race. The pageant formerly known as Miss Hoosier 250 is now in its third year of fierce competition. With the theme, What Color Is Your Pride?, this year's pageant will be held on April 10th at Gregs Indy, 231 E 16th St. Because of the many changes for this year, everyone is encouraged to visit the John Alexander Hoosier 250 Tricycle Race web page and RSVP at the Indy Pride Facebook event feed to keep up on all the new details as they come available. For more information: www.indypride.org www.circlecityinpride.org April 5, 2016 MORE THAN 80 MAJOR CEOs AND BUSINESS LEADERS DEMAND NORTH CAROLINA REPEAL DISCRIMINATORY & RADICAL NEW ANTI-LGBT LAW The Human Rights Campaign (HRC), the nation's largest lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) civil rights organization, and Equality NC, the state organization working to secure equal rights and justice for LGBT North Carolinians, released a letter from more than 80 leading CEOs and business leaders calling on Governor Pat McCrory and the North Carolina General Assembly to repeal the radical provisions in the deeply discriminatory House Bill 2 that was rammed through the legislature last week. The letter -- signed by dozens of CEOs from across the nation -comes only a day after Georgia Governor Nathan Deal announced he would veto anti-LGBT legislation in Georgia after facing a sustained outcry from a broad chorus of advocates and companies. On Thursday morning, HRC President Chad Griffin and Equality NC Executive Director Chris Sgro will deliver the letter personally to Governor McCrory's office. Griffin and Sgro have also requested a meeting with the governor on Thursday in order to discuss the very real impact this new law will have on LGBT North Carolinians. "Discrimination is bad for North Carolina, bad for America, and bad for business," said HRC President Chad Griffin. "These business leaders are speaking out because they know this attack on lesbian, gay, bisexual and especially transgender North Carolinians isn't just morally wrong -- it also puts their employees, customers and North Carolina's economy at risk. For the sake of all North Carolinians, Governor McCrory and the General Assembly must act now to repeal this heinous attack on fairness and equality." "North Carolina's place as a business leader in the South is based on fairness, inclusion, and diversity," said Equality NC Executive Director Chris Sgro. "HB 2 does not represent North Carolina values, and it weakens our competitive edge. We are glad to see our business community in the Old North State standing up against discriminatory measures like this. Governor McCrory made a mess of our state last week, and our businesses are leading the charge to repair our state to a place of fairness." For more information, visit www.equalitync.org THEATER A SPLINTERED SOUL APRIL 20 – MAY 29 AT STAGE 773 Chicago will host the Midwest premiere of Alan Lester Brooks’ gripping post-World War II drama A Splintered Soul, directed by Keira Fromm and presented by ARLA Productions. A Splintered Soul will play April 20 – May 29, 2016 at Stage 773, 1225 W. Belmont Ave. in Chicago. Set in San Francisco in 1947, a group of Jewish Holocaust survivors arrive from Poland, aided by the American Jewish community. Haunted by the death of their loved ones, they are haunted more by what they did to survive. Rabbi Kroeller (Craig Spidle), a resistance fighter who lost his family, makes it his mission to protect the survivors at all costs. But he discovers determining right from wrong is more complicated in the new world. Comments Director Keira Fromm, “I think we've grown accustomed to one particular kind of Holocaust story. However, this production grabbed me because it's a play that deals with an often unseen aspect of the Holocaust experience – the collision of European Jews with American Jews in the wake of the war. I find that very compelling. It also taps into the current refugee crisis making it both a topical and vital piece theater.” A Splintered Soul features Curtis Edward Jackson, Dev Kennedy, Jessica Kingsdale, Nik Kourtis, Johanna McKenzie Miller, Matt Mueller, Craig Spidle and Eliza Stoughton. Tickets are currently available at www.stage773.com, in person at the Stage 773 Box Office or by calling 773-327-5252. 48 GRAB Magazine SHATTERED GLOBE THEATRE PRESENTS IN THE HEAT OF THE NIGHT April 21 – June 5 FIRST FLOOR THEATER ANNOUNCES WORLD BUILDERS JUNE 5 - JULY 2 Shattered Globe Theatre concludes its 25th anniversary season with the gripping, racially charged mystery In The Heat Of The Night, adapted by Matt Pelfrey, based on the novel by John Ball and directed by Louis Contey, playing April 21 – June 5, 2016 at Theater Wit, 1229 W. Belmont Ave. in Chicago. In The Heat Of The Night recounts the classic, highly charged story of an African American police officer asked to investigate a murder in a racially hostile southern town. It’s a torrid night in 1965 Argo, Alabama when a dead white man is found. The local police, desperately searching for a motive and a suspect, arrest a black man passing through town. They soon discover their suspect is an expert homicide detective from L.A. and they must confront their personal prejudices as they are forced to work side-by-side to solve the crime. The awardwinning film version starring Sidney Poitier remains emblematic of our country in the 1960s. Fifty years later, Pelfrey’s new adaptation of the novel leaves room for the evolution of these attitudes. But watching the nightly news – how far have we come? In The Heat Of The Night features Ensemble Members Christina Gorman, Steve Peebles, Drew Schad, Angie Shriner, Joseph Wiens and Brad Woodard with Glenn Fahlstrom, Tim Newell, Brian Scannell and Manny Buckley as Virgil Tibbs. Tickets are currently available at www.theaterwit.org, in person at the Theater Wit Box Office or by calling 773-975-8150. First Floor Theater (FFT) has announced the third show of their fourth season, the Chicago premiere of Johnna Adams' World Builders, a funny, intimate portrayal of two individuals trying to balance mental illness and meaningful human connection, by the playwright of the Chicago hit, Gidion’s Knot. FFT Company Member Jesse Roth directs this powerful Chicago premiere, playing June 5 - July 2 at Collaboraction's Room 300 Theater in The Flat Iron Arts Building. A new drug has been developed to suppress the complex internal worlds of those with schizoid personality disorder, allowing them to focus on the reality in front of them. Max and Whitney are two participants in a clinical trial, and as the drug begins to take effect , they must choose which dream to pursue: their disparate fantasies or a future together. In this beautifully observed love story, we are forced to reckon with our own conceptions of mental illness and what it means to be “cured”. Company Member Jesse Roth, a regular collaborator with The New Colony and The House Theater, helms this intimate Chicago premiere, her first mainstage production with FFT. “We are proud to close out our mainstage season with this delicate and arresting play,” says Artistic Director, Hutch Pimentel “In a season that concerned itself with madness and how we escape from it, this play provides a beautiful counterpoint. What if connection is possible, not in spite of, but because of our insanities?” For more information or tickets visit http:// firstfloortheater.com/. April 5, 2016 EVENTS Strut Your Cut Announces 3rd Annual Fashion & Hair Show at the Center on Halsted Strut Your Cut Productions has announced that they will be Touché Hosts “1976” Celebrating David Boyer’s 40 Years Behind Bars in Chicago 1976 was the nation’s Bicentennial Year. Gerald Ford was President as Jimmy Carter won the Democratic Primary and Old Man Daly was still Da Mayor of Chicago. Chicago’s gay nightlife was centered around Clark Street from the river to Chicago Avenue with a sprinkling of gay bars up to what was then called “New Town”. CGMC Has A Big Package For You At This Year's Annual Auction Chicago Gay Men’s Chorus (CGMC) is preparing to deliver some hefty packages at our annual Big Package Auction held at SIDETRACK on Saturday, April 16, 2016. The event will feature the comedic talents of special guest host Judy Tenuta. Michael Anderson, CGMC’s Development Committee Chair and Board Vice President, said, “If you haven’t been to BPA in a while, this is a year you won’t want to miss.” 50 GRAB Magazine hosting a hair and runway showcase at Center On Halsted on Sunday, April 10, 2016 at 6PM. This marks the third year of the fundraiser. This is a partnership between SYC Productions and Center on Halsted. The showcase will bring the community together through music, fashion, entertainment and most of all hair. Strut Your Cut on the runway to raise awareness for the issues that affect the LGBTQ Community and friends. This is an evening to celebrate relationships that bridge philanthropic work and It was also the year that a 22 year old, wet behind the ears, young gay man from Ohio came to the big city to seek his future. Shortly after arriving in Chicago, David Boyer began serving drinks (and pizza) at Dion & Co restaurant on Clark at Diversey. 40 years later he is still working the nightlife, currently as manager of Touché. Over the years David has slung drinks at numerous bars from Old Town to Roger Park and hosted country dances at many others. Friday April 15th, Touché will celebrate David’s 40 years “behind bars” in Chicago by taking us back to the year 1976 and give you a taste of the world David discovered when he made Chicago his home. The Bistro, Cheeks, The Gold Coast, The Snake Pit are just a few of the legendary bars of 1976 that David stumbled onto that first year (and out of on more than one occasion) The bar will be decked out with tributes to these and many other gay haunts of the time. Guest DJ’s Freddie Bain & TL The Big Package Auction is a fun, frisky and all around fabulous benefit. It will feature a live auction of spectacular prizes presented by the scantily clad men of Boystown. Live packages include a Scotland excursion, a catered event for 75 people, and more! Guests will also have the opportunity to participate in a stellar silent auction and raffle drawing. A committee comprised of chorus members and supporters has been hard at work planning the event and securing magnificent prizes. “We have an enthused and engaged committee that is pulling together amazing auction packages and sexy models,” said Anderson. "This year the stakes are high, the need is great and the packages are bigger than ever!" All proceeds go toward supporting CGMC’s programming and operations. “The Big Package April 5, 2016 entertainment while drawing attention to the programs at Center on Halsted. Their mission is not only to promote fashion in hair and apparel, but also to provide opportunities for the youth in our LGBTQ community. SYC is happy to open modeling and volunteer positions in the Lakeview – Boystown area and neighborhoods throughout the city. Tickets are $10.00 suggested donation at the door or visit www.CenterOnHalsted.org Noble will take us all back to the “good old days” of disco and more and a few surprise tribute performances are in the works. It was a time before home videotapes and rentable porn. If you wanted to watch gay porn you needed an 8mm movie projector and had to order film loops. Bijou Video will provide these classic film loops for screening during the night as well. The night begins with complimentary pizza as that is how David’s career began back at Dion & Co. Any night out drinking in 1976 would include a stop at the infamous Jumbo Jerry’s for some late night sustenance before making the trip home. Complimentary hot dogs & fries will be served after 3am. The party begins at 10pm and a donation of $5 is requested to support Team Touché in the 2016 Ride For AIDS to benefit TPAN. For more information on the party contact Touché 773-465-7400. Auction is a crucial component of our fundraising efforts,” said Executive Director Jennifer Wright. “Its success ensures that CGMC can continue to fulfill our mission of creating musical experiences that entertain and enlighten, inspire change, and build community.” The Big Package Auction will be held at SIDETRACK, 3349 N. Halsted Street, Chicago, on Saturday, April 16, 2016 from 5:00pm - 8:00pm Tickets are $65 and include drink tickets and hors d’oeuvres. VIP tickets are available for $125, which include a fun VIP swag bag, early admission, and a silent auction preview from 4:00pm - 5:00pm. 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Then we flip to Bernal sucking on Durano dick and Durano munching on the juiciest ass in porn before Durano is fucking Bernal (shock...not). Next up we have Austin Wolf and Dorian Ferro, two of the beefiest men in porn and we know how this is going when in seconds Wolf has a finger in Ferro's butt. Now we have Alex Mecum and Josh Conner (this reviewer has never seen Conners before and trust me when you say you hope Conners is getting fucked because this is a great ass). It is so great even Conners likes to play with his own ass. You have to realize that Conners is a man and there's no twink in this guy, so when Mecum bends him over and starts eating ass it's just HOT and it only gets better when Mecum's dick is up Conners' ass. Last but not least, we have Sean Zevran and Chris Bines and for once we don't know what's going to happen because Zevran is one of the most versatile guys in porn and Bines has options. After some rubbing and sucking on each other it's Bines who takes one for the team and has Zevran dick up his butt. This movie has some of the juiciest asses in gay porn, it's just a shame more of them were not used. watching Kross eat Brant's ass, it's clear Kross REALLY likes to eat ass and wants a clean hole before he fucks it. Next up we have Johnny V and Austin Wolf, two men who know what the inside of a gym looks like and who are just manly! When Johnny V squats on Wolf's face it's just hot watching. Let's just say Wolf fucks Johnny V every which way but Sunday and he likes it! Now we have Logan Moore licking and sucking on Kyle Kash. Moore flips Kash up in the air and holds him there as they 69 each other (an amazing trick that you should not try at home). It's no surprise after Moore treats Kash like a rag doll when he fucks him hard... it is just hot! This movie is good, we just needed more flipping. PORN 2015. Hot House Entertainment Directed by Nick Foxx Starring: Dorian Ferro, Alex Mecum, Bruno Bernal, Austin Wolf, Chris Bines, Sean Zevran, Jimmy Durano and Josh Conners 3.75 Stars! 3.75 Stars! Surge 2015. Falcon Directed by Nick Foxx Starring: Sebastian Kross, Johnny V, Austin Wolf, Derek Atlas, Jacob Peterson, Micah Brant, Kyle Kash and Logan Moore In the words of Falcon, a 'Surge' of sexual adrenaline shoots through their bodies, a power 'Surge' that ends in a roaring climax and hefty loads... let the movie begin! So the movie starts with Sebastian Kross and the hunky Micah Brant making out, and all I could think was let Brant (Brant is all man) finally be the one to pop Kross' cherry! After April 5, 2016 GRAB Magazine 55 GRAB A DRINK GRAB A DRINK @MOSPHERE • 773-784-1100 38 SCARLET • 773-348-1053 16 5355 N. Clark 5 2ND STORY BAR • 312-923-9536 6 26 15 24 47 20 27 49 19 67 51 10 31 8 29 44 2 66 48 13 41 63 35 58 157 E. Ohio BATON SHOW LOUNGE 312-644-5269 • 436 N. 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