March 2015 ~ Facing the `Dark Side,`
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March 2015 ~ Facing the `Dark Side,`
Spring 2015 Facing the ‘Dark Side’ — Together In the original Star Wars trilogy, Luke Skywalker travels to a strange jungle planet to train in The Force with the Jedi master Yoda. In the climax of his training, he enters a dark cave and meets a shadow of the sinister Lord Vader. Yet after the ensuing lightsaber battle, Luke finds behind the menacing mask only his own face. The recent suicide of Dustin Klopp in the Lancaster County Prison is a reminder of just how difficult it is to confront our own evil. Even a vague account of his wife’s murder, to which he had reportedly confessed, can cause any of us to shudder with telltale signs of secondary trauma. Cont’d page 2 “I have to admit, I wasn't buying this at first, but now I really see how it can be helpful for me as a parent.” parent participant of Making Peace class Making Peace Class Wants More It culminated with one shy young man looking his mother in the eye and speaking directly. Then smiles broke through. You could see a shift in how they related. Six youth and their parents (below with facilitators) began their Making Peace class in February with reticence but ended with palpable ease. In separate classes at first, they learned and practiced responsibility-based communication. Then youth joined parents to practice together. By the end, everyone agreed it had been helpful. Several parents and youth even asked for more class time together. We expect great things from these young leaders and their families. KNOW YOUR COMMUNITY Take the Survey! Your Insights Key to the Future of Peacemaking in Lancaster County “What do people in Lancaster know about restorative justice?” It began as an innocent conversation with Emily Barnshaw, an Elizabethtown College student interning with the Center for Community Peacemaking this semester. community needs beyond our own referrals or the perceptions of our work to address peacemaking locally. In 2014, the Center for Community Peacemaking handled 165 juvenile incidents, facilitating 74 agreements between young people and those they harmed in VictimOffender Conferencing. 89% of all agreements were completed, and the It became apparent that we had little solid information about the Facing the ‘Dark Side’ (cont’d) restitution was paid. Juvenile crime is reportedly in decline. But we still perceive a vast need for restorative justice work locally. Crimes and conflicts with adults or in schools, for example, too often remain an open wound without a restorative component. What needs do you see in the community? Share your insight and a chance to win free Annual Dinner tickets in our online survey: www.ccp.org What is an offender? It is someone who shows little regard for right relationships. Navajos say of such a person, ‘He acts as if he has no relatives.’ So what do you do when someone acts as if they have no relatives? You bring in the relatives! were met by surrounding those involved with sustained concern and accompaniment? These two stories, one current and one as ancient as history itself, miss a key component of potential redemption: community. enables offenders to be returned to their society in a new way. What must it be like to wake up each morning with the indelible memory and incomprehensible shame of such heinous violence, known to your children, family and neighbors? Like Luke Skywalker, most of us would probably opt to run off and fight an external threat than to face the ‘dark side’ within. Indeed, such truths may be impossible for some to face alone. Nearly twenty years ago, Lancaster has such a Mary Achilles (below) resource. Alongside sevfounded Pennsylvania’s eral victim and court Victim-Offender Diaservices, the Center for logue Program which ~ Chief Justice Robert Yazzie Community Peacemakfacilitates the meeting of ing has handled thouthose involved in violent sands of cases over the crime. There is clearly a last 20 years. And it has the experience to great need for the prohandle more kinds of violations than ever. gram; it is currently backBut it needs your partnership beyond the logged from the demand court system. by survivors. Community is an essential component of restorative justice. The edited volume, Justice As Healing details indigenous methods of restorative justice in the US, Canada and beyond. Elders, religious leaders and relatives of both victims and offenders address harm through a variety of processes. This engaged community presence creates multi-faceted accountability and empowerment. It also Page 2 Nonetheless, as a community, as family and friends of those impacted by violence, we also have a role to play. Founder of the state’s VictimOffender Dialogue program, Mary Achilles is the featured speaker at our Annual Dinner. Seeing how indigenous groups have achieved broad community participation in restorative justice helps us imagine the possibilities. How many lives and relationships could be restored if every such incident in Lancaster In addition to Victim-Offender Conferencing, the Center’s Peacemaking Circles work to restore relationships—neighbors, schools, churches and others—and repair the harm done by violence. Based partly on traditional indigenous “talking circles,” it does not require referral through the legal system. But it does require your participation. At one time or another, most of us are impacted by violence. Can we learn how to face it without fear, isolation or revenge? If like Luke Skywalker, we all have a “dark side,” we could probably all benefit from such a journey—together. Making Things Right TAKE ACTION April 30th Annual Dinner to Inspire & Raise Funds Melanie Snyder (right), executive director of the Lancaster Reentry Management Organization will be recognized by the Center’s Restorative Justice Achievement Award. WHO? Supporters and Curious Guests like You WHAT? Silent Auction, Dinner and an Inspiring Program about Restorative Justice in Our Community WHERE? Shady Maple Conference Center: East Earl, PA WHEN? Thursday, April 30, 2015 5:00 pm - Hors d'oeuvres, Silent Auction 6:30 pm - Dinner & Program YOU? Register, sponsor or just support the Center with the enclosed card. Or register online for this and our other events: www.ccp.org/events.html More Opportunities for Restorative Justice this Spring! Train and Volunteer in Victim-Offender Conferencing Learn Skills in Peaceful Communication Watch Film & Discuss Concrete Steel & Paint Begins Tuesday, March 31, 2015 April 10-12 & 18 Saturday, May 16, 2015 Tuesday, June 9, 2015 Zoetropolis Art House of Lancaster The Center’s experienced trainers will conduct this intensive training geared to equip volunteers to facilitate transformative restorative justice dialogue. $95 for volunteers, $295 others. Register by March 16! Thank You Contributors! Who gave Dec. 1, 2014-Feb.28, 2015. Please notify us of any errors or omissions. Individuals Diane Adamczyk Bill & Susan Adams Gerald & Rose Ann Baer Rob Bomberger John & Eleonora Brenneman Frank Byrne in honor of Jon Singer Jim & Denise Cassel Maria Cattell Clayton & Dorothy Charles Kathryn Weaver Eby Roy & Margaret Eby Paul & Saveria Freisher Trula Gingrich Stanley & Susan Godshall Donald & Ginnie Good Leon & Elaine Good Spring 2015 Charito Calvachi Mateyko, JD, MA, leads this one-day training in communication skills for resilience and wholeness in your personal, professional or community life. Originally from Ecuador, she incorporates influences from South American indigenous traditions. $75. Sherri & Blaine Gorman Lavonne I. Grubb Tom Hassler Nathan & Arlene Hege John & Theresa Herr Evanna & Daniel Hess Ron Hipple Gene & Judy Homan John & Dorothy Hooning Miriam Housman Lynette Huber J. Elvin & Esther Kraybill Ruth A. Kulp in memory of Amina Smith John & Gladys Landis Earl & Joyce Livengood Elvin & Laverne Martin Elwood & Nancy Martin Ryan Martin Rhoda & Ora Mast Gerald & Lynette Meck Robert Neuhauser in honor of Barbara Speigelberg What happens when victims of violent crimes meet inmates who committed such offenses in a mural arts project? See it unfold in this documentary, followed by interactive discussion. Ken & Elizabeth Nissley Frank & Betty Pack William & Betty Parson Kimberly Ressler Geneva Rufenacht Roger & Pam Rutt Nina Shapiro in honor of Jon Singer Allen & Rosanne Shenk John & Myrtle Shenk Harold & Alma Mae Shultz Jon & Terry Singer in honor of Christopher Fitz Marcus & Dorothy Smucker Leon & Nancy Stauffer John & Joan Stipe Walter & Alice Trumbauer Sylvia Trupe Linda Van Til Marvin & Miriam Weaver Patricia Haverstick & Kreg Weaver Robert Weinstock Eugene Wile Holly Williams David Worth Miles & Dawnell Yoder Businesses Gap Power Rental Jack Treier, Inc. Lehman Insurance Agency, Inc. 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