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Boca Raton Synagogue WEEKLY PARSHAT DEVARIM SHABBAT CHAZON Stone Chumash Page 938 August 12 • August 19, 2016 • 8 Av • 15 Av 5776 RABBI EFREM GOLDBERG Marah D’asrah reg@BRSonline.org RABBI PHILIP MOSKOWITZ Associate Rabbi FRIDAY NIGHT rpm@BRSonline.org DAVID KAY, MD President president@BRSonline.org RABBI DAVID SHABTAI, MD Rabbi, Sephardic Minyan rds@BRSonline.org RABBI RAEL BLUMENTHAL Rabbi, BRS West rrb@BRSonline.org RABBI JOSH BROIDE Outreach Rabbi rjb@BRSonline.org RABBI SIMMY SHABTAI Rosh Beis Medrash rss@BRSonline.org RABBI KENNETH BRANDER, PHD Rabbi Emeritus Plag Mincha/Kabbalat Shabbat Earliest Candle Lighting Early Mincha/Kabbalat Shabbat Candle Lighting Mincha/Kabbalat Shabbat SHABBAT DAY Early Shabbat Mincha Shabbat Mincha Fast Begins Shabbat Ends Ma’ariv/Eichah 6:20 pm 6:36 pm 7:00 pm 7:40 pm 7:45 pm 6:00 pm 7:35 pm 7:58 pm 8:35 pm 9:00 pm rkb@BRSonline.org MATTHEW HOCHERMAN Executive Director mjh@BRSonline.org RABBI GERSHON EISENBERGER Youth Director rge@BRSonline.org RABBI ELI ZIANS Teen Director rez@BRSonline.org ALIZA BLUMENTHAL, LCSW BRS/JFS Social Worker alizab@BRSonline.org KERRY PURCELL Editor-in-Chief of the Weekly LIKE Like us on Facebook Boca Raton Synagogue FOLLOW Follow us on Twitter @RabbiGoldberg @RabbiPhilip @Broide @MatthewJHoch SHARE Check out Jewish Pride Films for our latest videos kerry@BRSonline.org Page 1 HAHN JUDAIC CAMPUS • 7900 MONTOYA CIRCLE N. BOCA RATON, FLORIDA 33433-4912 (561) 394-0394 • FAX (561) 394-0180 • WWW.BRSONLINE.ORG •Unity OFFICE@BRSONLINE.ORG Boca Raton Synagogue • Valuing Diversity • Celebrating FROM THE RABBI’S DESK nor·mal adjective: conforming to a standard; usual, typical, or expected. The people in Camp HASC are not “normal” in that they are anything but typical or usual. SPECIAL NEEDS HASC campers & SPECIAL include those in OPPORTUNITIES: their 50’s and 60’s, wheelchair-bound, LESSONS I LEARNED individuals with feeding tubes, FROM CAMP HASC and with every imaginable special need including intellectual and physical disabilities. The needs are so great that it takes over 500 staff members to care for 350 campers. In HASC, “normal” is redefined. It is “normal” during meals for campers to start screaming spontaneously or pacing frantically. It is “normal” during davening for campers to be laying on the floor, hitting themselves or thinking they are the Chazzan. It is “normal” in Camp HASC for adults to require being changed, showered, and diapered. My family and I had the great privilege of spending this past Shabbos at camp and after seeing firsthand this magical place, I can report that they are not just special needs children, they are just truly special children. They may have disabilities, but in their purity, innocence, and sweetness they are more functional than many fully-abled people. The holy neshamos of the campers of HASC lack inhibition and hang-ups, and they don’t sit in judgment of those around them. Many can’t communicate traditionally, but with a smile, a nod, a brush of the cheek or just a meaningful look, their inner goodness shines through. HASC officially stands for The Hebrew Academy for Special Children, but unofficially, the acronym clearly stands for something else as well. HASC is The Hebrew Academy for Special Counselors. The campers are not the only ones at HASC that are not “normal” and that are “special.” One cannot witness the love, attention and affection of the extraordinary staff and not be moved to tears by their selflessness. Page 2 In his book, The Road to Character, David Brooks describes ours as “The Age of the Selfie.” He writes: People have become less empathetic – or at least they display less empathy in how they describe themselves. A University of Michigan study found that today’s college students score 40 percent lower than their predecessors in the 1970s in their ability to understand what another person is feeling. The biggest drop came in the years after 2000. Public language has also become demoralized. Google algorithms measure word usage across media. Google scans the contents of books and publications going back decades. You can type in a word and see, over the years, which words have been used more frequently and which less frequently. Over the past few decades there has been a sharp rise in the usage of individualist words and phrases like “self ” and “personalized,” “I come first” and “I can do it myself,” and a sharp decline in community words like “community,” “share,” “united,” and “common good.” The use of words having to do with economics and business has increased, while the language of morality and character building is in decline. Usage of words like “character,” “conscience,” and “virtue” all declined over the course of the twentieth century. Usage of the word “bravery” has declined by 66 percent over the course of the twentieth century. “Gratitude” is down 49 percent. “Humbleness” is down 52 percent and “kindness” is down 56 percent. Numerous articles discuss the narcissism and self-centeredness of the millennial generation (commonly referring to adults born between 1980 and 1994). How will leaders capable of mesirus nefesh, selfsacrifice, emerge from a mostly privileged generation of individuals consumed with posting selfies and personal status updates? Observing what is happening around us and reading the results of studies and analysis, it is easy to be judgmental about the next generation and pessimistic about our collective future. But that would be a terrible mistake. Our future is very bright and if you doubt it, spend five minutes at Camp HASC or one of the numerous other programs and camps that serve our children and adults with special needs. The amazing staff who work there are by all measures “normal.” They also take selfies and update their statuses. But in between they are engaged in truly “abnormal” acts of selflessness and giving. From feeding, administering medications, and pushing people in wheelchairs to changing adult diapers, showering, and shadowing, the staff shows incredible attention and care for each and every camper. One would think this exhausted group of young people would look tired, depleted, or even sad and depressed by their work. Instead, their selflessness yields the greatest satisfaction, deepest fulfillment, and most genuine happiness. Not only does the staff care physically for the campers, but all of their giving and nurturing results in a true love for them. Visit camp HASC and you see young men and women spontaneously displaying hugs, kisses and affection to campers they only met a short time ago but have come to love as their children. For seven weeks, because of the generosity and kindness of these staffers, parents of 350 extremely challenging children get a reprieve and relief and can only do so knowing that in their place are 500 special, not “normal” people who will love and care for their children as if they were their own. As much as the staff gives, they get more in return. One young man described to me that he was concerned about his ability to work with this population and their needs. In the first few days of camp he hesitated and was repulsed by some things he needed to do. But it didn’t take long for him to develop a love and concern for another person and the same tasks that once made him gag are second nature because they are for someone he cares deeply about. Another amazing counselor told me that before working at HASC he was very impatient. He would always walk briskly wherever he was going. His camper is someone who shuffles along incredibly slowly. It takes him fifteen minutes to walk to a destination that should take two. At first, the counselor would get antsy and anxious each time they had to go somewhere, but after a few weeks, he learned to be patient and forbearing. He has Boca Raton Synagogue • Valuing Diversity • Celebrating Unity become a more easygoing person and for that and so much more, he is so grateful to his camper. the standard it sets and the environment it tolerates when it comes to being sensitive to those who aren’t typical. Not everyone is cut out for working in a place like HASC. Those fortunate enough to spend a summer there are blessed to come close with some holy neshamos and develop relationships with some truly special people. HASC alumni are among the most selfless community leaders everywhere and undoubtedly, the experiences they gain there contribute to learning the skills necessary to be a devoted and giving spouse, parent and friend. Rav Yaakov Zvi Mecklenburg, author of the Ksav V’Kabbalah, points out that the Torah doesn’t limit this mitzvah to the orphan and/or widow. The almanah and yasom are simply symbolic of those that are missing something, those that don’t quite fit the mold and therefore may feel isolated, alone or unnoticed. He explains that the world almanah comes from al manah, lacking a portion. In every community there are people that don’t fit the mold; they are al-mana, missing something. As a community, we are judged and measured by our sensitivity, kindness, awareness and inclusiveness of such people and their families. While we can’t all work there, like many of their staff, we can and should leave our comfort zones and dig deep. We will find a capacity for kindness and love beyond what we ever imagined. There are families with special needs in all of our communities who need support, relief, and love. We can provide it ourselves, and we should teach our children to do what they can. In our community, I know of several teenagers who go each Shabbos morning to watch children with special needs so their parents can go to Shul or get some rest. In Parshas Mishpatim the Torah says: “Kol almanah v’yasom lo s’anun, you shall not cause pain to any widow or orphan.” The Chizkuni points out that all of the other mitzvos in that parsha are written in the singular. The obligation to show kindness and sensitivity to the widow and orphan are an exception. Explains the Chizkuni, this mitzvah is written in the plural, for the rabim. The community is measured by Last year, Lincoln Square Synagogue, led by my friend Rabbi Shaul Robinson, introduced a fabulous new component to their Purim Carnival. It featured an early start time for children with sensory needs and other disabilities that may prevent full participation in the stimulating carnival atmosphere. A quiet sensory room was made available throughout the carnival for those children who could be overstimulated and needed some quiet regrouping time. accessible and inclusive. For example, this Simchas Torah we will host a special Kol HaNe’arim for the children who cannot participate in the regular one. If you have other ideas and suggestions, please don’t hesitate to share them with us. In HASC normal and not normal are relative terms. Our communities cannot provide year-round what HASC does for seven weeks. But, we can be more special in the way we relate to and provide for our special children. Doing so won’t just help those with special needs, it will help us and the next generation have a bright future ahead. Rabbi Efrem Goldberg Subscribe to receive the Rabbi's blog via email at rabbisblog.brsonline.org We all need to look at our programming, events, and membership services with an eye on how we can be the most inclusive and sensitive to the populations that often feel the most neglected and left out. Inspired by Lincoln Square, this year we hope to introduce youth programming especially designed for those with special needs and to make our regular programming more BOCA RATON SYNAGOGUE DERECH ERETZ STATEMENT In the spirit of our mission “Valuing Diversity and Celebrating Unity,” we believe that a community is built on the collective engagement of individuals representing differing perspectives, whether religious, political, or social. As Boca Raton Synagogue is an environment where all of its members and visitors need to feel valued and welcomed, members are required to comport themselves in a manner which reflects mutual respect and a sense of inclusiveness. “Derech Eretz,” good and proper conduct, and mutually respectful dialogue are core values of the Synagogue community. These create a “safe place” for inspiration and spiritual growth, the central purpose of the Synagogue. It is a violation of Jewish law and ethics to use harsh language (vitriol) to demonize or to marginalize people with whom one may disagree. Uncivil expression reflects negatively on our Synagogue as well as on the individuals who engage in such behavior. In our Synagogue, we value debate about pressing issues. This is consistent with the American democratic tradition. Our sages saw the value of arguments conducted L”Shem Shamayim,“ for the sake of heaven, believing that great minds who engage in respectful debate will arrive at better solutions. They valued and welcomed alternate views, as do we. Boca Raton Synagogue expects its members to act and to speak with kindness and sensitivity to others. It is only in this fashion that a strong, vibrant, and harmonious community can be created and maintained. Adherence to this policy is a requirement for membership in good standing at the Boca Raton Synagogue. In line with our recently published Derech Eretz Statement, we mention some examples of how we can be more sensitive toward others and create an even better community. • Fellow congregants of deep commitment may have different opinions and conclusions than other members including, but not limited to, political or religious perspectives. Under no circumstances is it appropriate to personally attack another directly or indirectly just because they do not agree with you. • Please help reshelve Chumashim and Siddurim at the conclusion of all Minyanim. All of these Mensch Messages have been submitted to the office. If you have a Mensch Message you would like us to promote, please email us at office@BRSonline.org” Page 3 Boca Raton Synagogue • Valuing Diversity • Celebrating Unity SHABBAT SCHEDULE FRIDAY NIGHT Friday Night Live: Please invite someone to this Outreach Program Early Sephardic Mincha (Sephardic Beit Midrash) Plag Mincha/Kabbalat Shabbat (Social Hall) Earliest Candle Lighting Early Mincha/Kabbalat Shabbat (Rand Sanctuary) Sephardic Mincha (Sephardic Beit Midrash) Candle Lighting Mincha/Kabbalat Shabbat (Social Hall) HALACHOT SPECIFIC TO THIS SHABBAT 6:00 pm 6:10 pm 6:20 pm 6:36 pm 7:00 pm 7:40 pm 7:40 pm 7:45 pm SHABBAT DAY Neitz Minyan (Sephardic Beit Midrash) 5:41 am Hashkama Minyan (Social Hall) 7:30 am Sephardic Minyan (Sephardic Beit Midrash) 9:00 am Ashkenazi Minyan (Rand Sanctuary) 9:00 am Lecture after davening: Rabbi Steven Weil Shtiebel Minyan (Shtiebel Beit Midrash) 9:30 am Teen Minyan (Berdugo Beit Midrash) summer break Youth Tefillah Groups (Jacobs and Rubin Youth & Senior Center) 10:00 am Sof Zman Kriat Shema 10:08 am Early Mincha (Rand Sanctuary) 3:00 pm Daf Yomi 5:00 pm Early Mincha (Rand Sanctuary) 6:00 pm Sephardic Mincha (Social Hall) 7:35 pm Fast Begins (Shabbat) 7:58 pm Shabbat Ends 8:35 pm Ma’ariv/Eichah (Rand Sanctuary) 9:00 pm SHABBAT LEARNING Tefillah Insights with Rabbi Josh Broide 8:30 am Advanced Gemara Chabura 15 minutes after Hashkama Minyan Youth Groups (Drop-off begins at 10:00 am) 10:30 am AUGUST 19 & 20 PARSHAT VA’ETCHANAN Friday Night Live: Please invite someone to this Outreach Program Early Sephardic Mincha (Sephardic Beit Midrash) Plag Mincha/Kabbalat Shabbat (Social Hall) Earliest Candle Lighting Early Mincha/Kabbalat Shabbat (Rand Sanctuary) Sephardic Mincha (Sephardic Beit Midrash) Candle Lighting Mincha/Kabbalat Shabbat (Social Hall) Ma’ariv/Havdalah Shabbat (Rand Sanctuary) DAILY MINYAN TIMES Sephardic Shacharit Ashkenazi Shacharit SUNDAY TISHA B’AV Ashkenazi Shacharit Ashkenazi Shacharit 6:00 pm 6:10 pm 6:15 pm 6:31 pm 7:00 pm 7:30 pm 7:34 pm 7:35 pm 8:28 pm MONDAY TUESDAY WEDNESDAY THURSDAY FRIDAY TU B’AV 6:10 am Sephardic Beit Midrash 6:25 am Rand Sanctuary 7:00 am Rand Sanctuary 6:10 am Sephardic Beit Midrash 6:25 am Social Hall 7:00 am Social Hall 6:10 am Sephardic Beit Midrash 6:15 am Social Hall 7:00 am Social Hall 6:10 am Sephardic Beit Midrash 6:25 am Social Hall 7:00 am Social Hall 8:45 am Sephardic Beit Midrash 8:30 am Rand Sanctuary 8:00 am Sephardic Beit Midrash 7:45 am Social Hall 8:30 am Social Hall 8:00 am Sephardic Beit Midrash 7:45 am Rand Sanctuary 8:30 am Rand Sanctuary 8:00 am Sephardic Beit Midrash 7:45 am Social Hall 8:30 am Social Hall 8:00 am Sephardic Beit Midrash 7:45 am Social Hall 8:30 am Social Hall 8:00 am Sephardic Beit Midrash 7:45 am Social Hall 8:30 am Social Hall 7:35 pm Sephardic Beit Midrash 7:40 pm Rand Sanctuary 7:35 pm Sephardic Beit Midrash 7:40 pm Social Hall Sephardic Beit Midrash Ashkenazi Mincha/Ma’ariv 7:25 pm Social Hall Page 4 We strongly encourage all those who are able to walk to shul on Saturday night to do so. The BRS parking lot generally gets very full and might not be able to accommodate everyone driving to shul for Maariv & Eichah. 6:10 am Sephardic Beit Midrash 6:15 am Social Hall 7:00 am Social Hall 2:00 pm Early Ashkenazi Rand Sanctuary Mincha Sephardic Mincha/Ma’ariv 7:20 pm Late Ashkenazi Ma’ariv BRS PARKING LOT ON SATURDAY NIGHT 6:33 am Sephardic Beit Midrash 6:30 am Social Hall Ashkenazi Shacharit Sephardic Shacharit A. For those attending the late Mincha on Shabbat afternoon (7:35pm), non leather shoes should be brought to Shul before Shabbat. B. Shabbat is celebrated fully in its normal fashion including wearing Shabbat clothing, eating meat and drinking wine with the exception of married couples abstaining from intimacy (unless is is Leil Tevilah). C. There is no Seudah Mafseket. Seudah Shlishiet, which can include meat and wine, must be completed before Shkiah (sundown) at 7:57pm. D. No preparations for after Shabbat including changing shoes or bringing Kinnot should take place until after Shabbat. At the conclusion of Shabbat (8:35 pm), “Baruch hamavdil bein kodesh l’chol,” should be recited. Non leather shoes should be worn and it is permissible to drive to Shul for Ma’ariv and Eicha at 9:00 pm. E. Partaking of meat and wine is prohibited on Sunday night after the Fast. However, because Tisha B’av actually falls on Shabbat and its observance is delayed until Sunday, many things are permitted immediately on Sunday night. These include: listening to music, doing laundry, getting a haircut, shaving and reciting shehecheyanu. Will Resume at the end of August 7:35 pm Sephardic Beit Midrash 7:40 pm Social Hall Will Resume at the end of August Boca Raton Synagogue • Valuing Diversity • Celebrating Unity 7:35 pm Sephardic Beit Midrash 7:40 pm Social Hall SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENTS MAZAL TOV Bernie & Melanie Kaminetsky on the birth of their granddaughter. Her proud parents are Sarah and Isaac Jonas. AND to her aunts and uncles, Jordana & Simon and Josh & Alana Dr. Israel Drazin on the publication of his 31st & 32nd books. “Amos and Jonah” and “Ruth, Esther, and Judith”. KIDDUSH Hashkama Minyan Kiddush co-sponsored by The Cooperman family in commemoration of the Yahrzeit of Lillian Cooperman and the forthcoming Yahrzeit of Philip Cooperman and in memory of Gerald Mark Cooperman. AND The Tripp Family on the forthcoming yahrzeit of Aryeh Leib Tripp. All forever in our hearts, minds and souls. Sephardic Minyan Kiddush sponsored by the Sol & Shirley Cohen in memory of her beloved father, Rubin Feldman z’l and in memory of his beloved mother, Tamar bat Isha z’l. RABBI STEVEN WEIL AT BRS BRS once again has the privilege of hosting Rabbi Steven Weil, Senior Managing Director of the Orthodox Union Lecture after davening this Shabbat “The Crucifix On The Charles Bridge over The Vltava River” Kinot Sunday Morning In addition, on Sunday morning, Rabbi Weil will be giving a fascinating and inspirational analysis of the Kinot which will navigate the watershed events that have irrevocably shaped Jewish History. Rabbi Steven Weil is the Senior Managing Director of the OU. In that capacity, he has the responsibility of engaging Orthodox Jewry as well as representing Orthodox Jewry to the greater society. He has created a network of lay and professional leaders who have transformed the Jewish world and greater society. Previously, Rabbi Weil served as the Rabbi of Young Israel of Oak Park, Michigan for six years and for ten years as the senior Rabbi of Beth Jacob of Beverly Hills, California. He has an MBA from New York University in Finance and Rabbinical Semicha from Yeshiva University. He and his wife, Yael, and their seven children, reside in Teaneck, NJ ALL ARTISTS AGES 5-15 YEARS OLD The BRS Sisterhood is asking all children ages 5-15 to design a unique, special cover for our Rosh Hashanah card. If your picture is chosen, it will be printed as this year’s BRS Rosh Hashanah card and will be mailed to approximately 800 homes in the Boca Raton area. Your name will appear on the back of each card. A prize will be awarded to the winner. Please submit your artwork to the synagogue office, no later than August 25. TOMCHEI SHABBAT SUMMER FUNDS UPDATE We are so grateful to all of you who have responded to our request for Tomchei Shabbat. Thus far, we have collected enough to cover almost two months, but we still need your help! Please know that donations of any size are greatly appreciated. The community working together will enable us to continue to provide food for our families that are struggling financially at this time with dignity. MAIMONIDES SOCIETY ALERT Endemic Zika virus has been identified in South Florida. Public health authorities have recommended the following measures to reduce the chance of transmission: avoid all standing water collections on your property. Use mosquito repellent (Deet-containing) and long sleeves. While the infection is usually associated with mild symptoms, pregnant women are at high risk for Zika-associated fetal malformations and should be particularly scrupulous to avoid mosquito bites. If you have any questions or concerns, you may contact the Palm Beach County Health Department Epidemiology Division at (561) 671-4184. DUES ADJUSTMENT Please remember that, every Summer, invoices for the full membership amount get mailed to all members, regardless of whether you were on dues adjustment the previous year. Those seeking dues adjustment must resubmit their dues adjustment application each year. If you need a dues adjustment, please email Amy in the Shul office at amy@brsonline.org and submit the completed form to Amy in the BRS office to reset your account to reflect the dues adjustment. WE ALL BENEFIT FROM THE ERUV LET’S MAKE SURE TO SUPPORT IT The Boca Raton Community Eruv is in desperate need of funds. Yearly membership remains at $100 per family. It is now possible to sponsor the Eruv for a particular Shabbat for $360. Donations can now also be made through our website www.bocaeruv.org or by contacting Chani Salamon at (561) 392-1026 for more information. Please help, as we ALL benefit from the Eruv. The Eruv is something we all rely on and often take for granted. If you have not yet contributed, please consider doing so in order to ensure that the Eruv can be checked and maintained. SISTERHOOD NEWS We are gearing up for a new 2016-17 season. We have many dates on the calendar and many jobs to fill. If you are interested in helping with the Rosh Hashanh card, Simchat Torah Candy bags, Baby and Bar/Bat Mitzvah gifts, or being on the committee for Health and Halacha Day, to name just a few, please contact one of the Sisterhood presidents. Hindabramnick@gmail.com (561) 756-3704 Arielle@akstylehouse.com (561) 289-1119 BRS WANTS TO WELCOME YOU! Have you recently moved into our community? Do you know someone moving into our community? Our Welcome Committee wants to welcome you! Please contact Orlie Cohen at orlielevy@hotmail. com or Elana Belizon at elana.belizon@gmail.com to find out more about our community and to be set up with a buddy family. BIRTHDAY AND ANNIVERSARIES LISTED ON THE BRS CALENDAR In order for your birthday and anniversary to appear on the BRS Calendar, and the BRS Weekly, please check off the Calendar Box on the Payment Form in your High Holiday Packet. There is a $25 fee which includes your entire family. If you would like to be included, but did not check off the Calendar Box, please call the office. DO YOU HAVE A NEW ADDRESS? Have you moved recently? Have you not yet received your High Holiday Packet? It is possible that this mailing went to your old address. If you have not yet received your High Holiday Packet, please contact Cherelle in the Shul office at office@brsonline.org to update your address and receive your packet. TALLIS BRS members are requested to bring their personal tallis on Shabbat and holidays. The Shul's Talleisim on the rack in the lobby are primarily meant for our guests and visitors. We often do not have enough for everyone who needs as each logo embroidered Tallis costs about $100. If you have a BRS Tallis at home kindly return it to the Shul or if you would like to donate a new Tallis, please contact Matthew at mjh@ brsonline.org. Thank you For those completing your adjustment forms, we make the following EMUNAH WHAT’S APP request: please reconsider how much assistance you need, whether you Rabbi Goldberg continues to post to his Emunah What’s APP group and can become a full-paying member, or if not, whether you can increase the his Facebook page while he is away. To receive the inspiring Emunah amount of dues you are paying by 25% over last year. As an example, message, please email Linda@brsonline.org with your What’s APP phone if last year, you paid $800, please consider increasing the amount of number. To see his Facebook posts, request his friendship on Facebook. membership dues to $1,000. For those who cannot make the increase, the Shul will make whatever accommodation is needed. Boca Raton Synagogue • Valuing Diversity • Celebrating Unity Page 5 WEEK AT A GLANCE DAILY • DAF YOMI (Monday - Thursday) with Rabbi Ben Sugerman at 7:00 am in Rooms 211/212 Sponsored by the Albert & Yetta Lupin Memorial Foundation in loving memory of Lois Lupin Salzman • MISHNA BERURA YOMI (Monday – Thursday) 15 minutes before Mincha • NIGHT BEIT MIDRASH (Monday – Thursday) community learning in the Senders Library at 8:00 pm • NIGHT TIME DAF YOMI (Monday – Thursday) with BRS Rabbinate at 8:40 pm in Rooms 104/105 TUESDAY • PARSHA CLASS with Rabbi Philip Moskowitz at 9:30 am in the Social Hall WEDNESDAY • • • CUP OF JOE & KNOW with Rabbi Philip Moskowitz will not take place this week. IN-DEPTH STUDY OF BOOK OF SAMUEL I with Malka Morris at 9:30 am in the Board Room MUSSAR/JEWISH SPIRITUALITY CLASS with Anne Shoshana Deakter at 7:30 pm at her home, 7666 Cypress Crescent in Montoya Estates. BRS AUXILIARIES, ETC. BRS VOLUNTEER SECURITY TEAM Last week eighteen of your neighbors gave up their Sunday to learn how to defend you in a worst case scenario. Three weeks before that, another twenty of your neighbors – ranging in ages from 18 to 68, spent 6 hours learning fundamental security and self-defense techniques. Why are these women and men giving of themselves? Out of concern for you and your family. Over the last few weeks, the security team has fortunately gained another ten members. Mothers and fathers, grandparents and teenagers have sacrificed their time to stand outside in the sweltering Florida summer to be the eyes of our community. Your neighbors continue to train in security techniques, self-defense, situational awareness and first aid in case you may need it. While we have made amazing progress, we are still far short of providing the necessary security that our community needs. This will only come with additional members who want the training to protect themselves, their families and their community. Please join us in protecting what is most precious to you. WEEKLY SECURITY TIPS • Please do not leave highly flammable articles inside of your vehicles over the course of Shabbat/Chaggim. Butane tanks when hot can explode when exposed to extreme summer heat. • Please be sure to familiarize yourself with the fire exit plans and diagrams posted around the Shul. BIKUR CHOLIM Visiting a Choleh for whom one feels hatred: If the Choleh permits the one who hates him to visit, it is permissible--indeed, highly desirous-because, hopefully, this will lead to peace between them. Source: Chelek 5, Ramat Rachel, Perek 9. For more information, please contact Stanley Smith at (561) 362-7345. BEIT OLAM - CEMETERY PLOTS The prices of the Boca Raton Synagogue section of the cemetery at Beth David Memorial Gardens in Hollywood, Florida have increased. If you are interested in purchasing plots, the price is now $8,500 per plot for members and $12,000 for non-members. Additionally, the cost per plot for a relative of a member is $10,000. For more information or to purchase cemetery plots, please contact Matthew Hocherman at (561) 394-0394. Page 6 BIRTHDAYS LIFE CYCLE Anna Freedman Gershon Schwadron Eytan Frist Joan Noven Dr. Issy Bruk Talia Shapiro Avigayil Applebaum Eliyah Ehrlich ANNIVERSARY Phil & Jennifer Landau Rick & Dr. Penina Dorfman Dr. Chanoch & Rachel Harow APPRECIATION Mrs. Hassia Yehuda would like to express her appreciation to BRS community for the many kindnesses to her during her recent hospitalization and recovery. WELCOME NEW MEMBERS Dr. Dean Brenner Howard & Beverly Niad REFUAH SHLAYMAH For members of BRS Community. For all other Refuah Shlaymah needs, please call Linda at (561) 394-0394 Moshe Applebaum Moshe Zvi ben Rochel Leah Yosef Chaim ben Faiga Merv Jacobs Meir ben Sarah Stuart Silverman Yeshaya Moshe ben Nacha Sarah Marcus Witztum Mordechai ben Malka Chayim ben Rashi Chaim ben Rachel Rabbi Barak Bar-Chaim Nachman ben Esther Zelda Josef Yitzchak ben Baila Rochel Bob Strauss Chaim HaLevi ben Ziporah ___________________________ Helen Ijac Alta Haita bat Devorah Joan Noven Rochel Tova bat Malka Ariella Berman Ariella Sarah bat Elisheva Malka Chana Guta bat Rochel Noa Maya Carmel Noa Maya bat Devora Rachel Jacquie Padow Ya’akova Chava Rus bat Beyla Or Ester bat Dina Rivka Wendy Wasserstrom Zehava bat Chaya Lily Lerman Libi Chana bat Golda Chava Hensha Hadassah bat Sarah Rochel Eden Malka bat Ravit Sara Leah bat Maya Elanit Jean Cohen Eta Chaya bat Rachel YAHRZEITS Susan Siedler in memory of her father Joseph Black, 8 Av Jeffrey Silkin in memory of his mother Jean Silkin, 8 Av Gary Krasna in memory of his grandmother Esther Krasna, 9 Av Dorothy Perkins in memory of her mother Rose Schneider, 9 Av Avis Stein in memory of her father Heinie Goldbaum, 9 Av Enid Gil in memory of her father-in-law Shimon Gugel Reicher, 9 Av Dr. Avram Cooperman in memory of his mother Lillian Cooperman, 9 Av Warren Shimoff in memory of his mother Lynn Shimoff, 9 Av Dr. Jeffrey Siegel in memory of his father Sidney Siegel, 10 Av Floyd Bernstein in memory of his father Abraham Bernstein, 10 Av Marvin Hirschhorn in memory of his father Max Hirschhorn, 11 Av Colin Stein in memory of his mother Anne Stein, 11 Av Dorothy Perkins in memory of her aunt Syd Paris Edelman, 11 Av Toby Albert in memory of her father Eugene Rutman, 11 Av Stanley Smith in memory of his son Brian David Smith, 11 Av Joy Smith in memory of her son Brian David Smith, 11 Av Hayley Ostrofsky in memory of her grandmother Ann Stein, 11 Av Gary Krasna in memory of his mother Elaine Krasna, 11 Av Diane Aiken in memory of her mother Ida Hutmacher, 12 Av Dr. Tzvi Doron in memory of his mother Noami Doron, 12 Av Lois Schwartz in memory of her mother Evelyn Domroe, 12 Av Rabbi Jerome Epstein in memory of his mother Ann Epstein Broudy, 12 Av Kenneth Zimmerman in memory of his mother Myrle Zimmerman, 13 Av Kenneth Bender in memory of his mother Florence Bender, 13 Av Chava Weisstuch in memory of her father Henry Kamioner, 13 Av Patti Lieber in memory of her father Harry Shein, 13 Av Melissa Keehn in memory of her father Eli Gabel, 13 Av Marcus Witztum in memory of his father Nathan Witztum, 13 Av Josh Herschberg in memory of his mother Judith Herschberg, 13 Av Hyla Levine in memory of her father Arthur Miller, 14 Av Beverly Kellman in memory of her sister Evelyn Goldstein, 14 Av Sal Abady in memory of his uncle Abraham Abady, 14 Av Dorinne Gerstin in memory of her grandmother Dora Levin, 14 Av Ann Arbeitman in memory of her father Menachem Lipshitz,14 Av Ron Berman in memory of his grandmother Sylvia Wallberg, 14 Av Andrea Tait in memory of her father Charles Tait, 15 Av Janet Berg in memory of her father Michael Marks, 15 Av Evelyn Sauer in memory of her father Morris Horn, 15 Av Samuel Rubin in memory of his mother Fanny Rubin, 15 Av Boca Raton Synagogue • Valuing Diversity • Celebrating Unity ISRAEL UPDATE SOCIAL ACTION On the heels of last week’s arrest of Mohammed Halabi, the Gaza director of World Vision, who is accused of funneling millions in aid money to Hamas, news broke this week that individuals in two other charitable organizations have also been accused of diverting money to the terrorist group. The internationally-backed United Nations Development Program and global nonprofit Save the Children are the latest organizations to have staffers implicated in ties to Hamas. Wahid Abdullah Burash, an employee of the United Nations Development Program, allegedly helped build a naval marina for use by Hamas’s military in northern Gaza and according to Shin Bet, the interrogation of Burash uncovered additional Hamas operatives embedded in other aid organizations. “The fact that the donating world, which is recruited to help refugees and the needy, doesn’t understand that its cash is being pumped for terror uses… it is a naive world to the point of being hideous,” said Avi Dichter, chairman of the Knesset’s Foreign Affairs and Defense Committee and former chief of Israel’s Shin Bet intelligence agency. In a radio interview, Dichter estimated that nearly all United Nations workers in Gaza are members of Hamas. The next meeting of the Social Action Committee will be 7:30 pm, Wednesday, August 17 in the Board Room. PLEASE KEEP IN YOUR PRAYERS ROBERT ALAN “BOB” LEVINSON Is an American private investigator and retired DEA and CIA agent. He was taken hostage on March 9, 2007 when visiting Iran’s Kish Island and is currently the longest held hostage in American history. AVRAHAM BEN AGERNISH Avera (Avraham) Mengitsu is an Israeli civilian with a history of severe depression and mental illness. He crossed into Gaza in September 2014. Hamas has recently admitted that they are holding him captive but there is no additional information on his condition. ISRAEL DEFENSE FORCES (IDF) PARENTS AND GRANDPARENTS OF IDF SOLDIERS Please have in mind children and grandchildren of members of our community currently serving in the IDF: Amiel Abir, Asher Kaplan, Adam Barel, Shayna Bender, Raz Ben-Zikry, Rotem Bronfman, Stav Gare, Gavriella Wolff, Aviad Halfon, Menachem Kaplan, Shabtai Kaplan, Mikki Kowal, Ami Lieder, Daniel Louis, Albert Lupin, Charlie Pollack, Rafael Nissim ben Moshe Israel, Akiva Strauss, Elad Shachar, Liel Reinfeld, Ron Hirschhorn, Yehoshua Strauss, Leo Loeffler, Kevin Schechter, Chanan Wolfson, Eitan Yitzchak ben Etel Rochel, Noam Bar Yakov, Judah Makover, Amir Tsarfati, Reuben Gladstone, Zoe Gladstone, Dean Tansman, Joshua Weiss, Dani Matilsky, Seth Weiss and Hannah Katz. If you have children or grandchildren currently serving in the IDF, please let us know their names so we can include them. Please have in mind our missing-in-action Israeli Soldiers. COMMUNITY CONNECTIONS LEARN TO BE A MASHGIACH! Mashgiach Training Course on August 24 – September 7. Jointly sponsored and taught by ORB and Kosher Miami. For additional info, contact Rabbi Moshe Berger orbkosherberger@gmail.com or text (518) 339-4626. Certain age and other restrictions apply. Application deadline is Monday, August 15, 2016. Page 7 Boca Raton Synagogue • Valuing Diversity • Celebrating Unity The Sephardic Minyan of Boca Raton Synagogue המנין הספרדי של ק"ק בוקה רטון SUNDAY MONDAY TUESDAY WEDNESDAY THURSDAY פרשת דברים \ שבת חזון Parshat Devarim / Hazon AUGUST 14 תשעה באב 6:33AM S HAHARIT 9:00AM S HAHARIT 1:26PM H ATZOT 7:15PM H ANAHAT T EFILLIN 7:20PM M INHAH 8:05PM A RVIT 8:17PM E ND OF F AST AUGUST 15 6:34AM S HAHARIT 8:00AM S HAHARIT 7:40PM M INHAH AUGUST 16 6:34AM S HAHARIT 8:00AM S HAHARIT 7:40PM M INHAH AUGUST 17 6:35AM S HAHARIT 8:00AM S HAHARIT 7:40PM M INHAH AUGUST 18 6:35AM S HAHARIT 8:00AM S HAHARIT 7:40PM M INHAH Rabbi David Shabtai, MD is on vacation from August 4—August 19 FRIDAY שבת AUGUST 12 AUGUST 13 DEVARIM / HAZON 6:32AM S HAHARIT 8:00AM S HAHARIT 6:10PM M INHAH ( FIRST ) 6:38PM EARLIEST CANDLES 7:40PM MINHAH (SECOND) 7:41PM LATEST C ANDLES 8:13PM EARLIEST SHEMA AUGUST 19 6:36AM S HAHARIT 8:00AM S HAHARIT 6:10PM M INHAH ( FIRST ) 6:32PM EARLIEST CANDLES 7:35PM MINHAH (SECOND) 7:34PM LATEST C ANDLES 8:06PM EARLIEST SHEMA 6:08AM S HAHARIT 9:00AM S HAHARIT 4:30PM R ABBI’ S C LASS 5:30PM M INHAH 7:58PM F AST B EGINS 8:35PM HAVDALAH 8:55PM A RVIT 9:12PM R ABBENU T AM AUGUST 20 VA-ETHANAN 6:12AM S HAHARIT 8:40AM S HIUR 9:00AM S HAHARIT 5:20PM R ABBI’ S C LASS 6:20PM R ABBI’ S C LASS 7:15PM M INHAH 8:28PM HAVDALAH 9:04PM R ABBENU T AM BRS YOUTH PROGRAMS RABBI EISENBERGER’S MISHNA CLASS - Masechet Kilayim Join us Shabbat morning as we continue our journey through Mishna. This week we will continue Masechet Kilayim. This is a perfect time to join us! 9:30-10:00 am in room 102 every Shabbat morning. Kids snack following class.Hope to see you there! SHABBAT MORNING GROUPS Join us every Shabbat for youth groups. Tefillah, Parsha, and lots of fun. Groups start at 10:00 am in the high school and conclude at the end of the main Minyan. We hope to see you there! Annual Labor Day Fun Day Join the BRS youth department Monday, September 5 at Glacier Ice and Snow Arena for our annual Labor Day outing. Pizza lunch available for purchase beginning at 1:00 pm. Ice Skating session from 1:40-3:50pm. Prices: $7.50 Special group rate for skating and rental. $5.00 for lunch (2 slices) with drink. Please R.S.V.P.. by Thursday, September 1. The BRS Youth Department would like to welcome all new families to the community. Please stop by and check out our incredible youth program and meet our youth director, Rabbi Gershon Eisenberger. Our programs run throughout the year, from early childhood into middle school. For details and upcoming events, check the youth page in the BRS Weekly. Page 8 Boca Raton Synagogue • Valuing Diversity • Celebrating Unity במערבא NEWS FROM THE WEST PART TWO th e NEW ama zing inspiring BRS WEST Pre Shabbos Chassidus Ascending Chabura Temple Mount Introducing Rashi #St artS hab bosRight YOUTH PARSHA IN THE PARK There are many Midrashim… But I have only come to explain the simple meaning of the text. - Rashi, Genesis 3:8 Shab Mo rn ba 8:3 ingst 0a Ra withm @ bbi Blum enRa el thal NT DEPARTME SHABBAT NOTES • Please ensure that you lock the gates behind you on the way in and out of the campus. • High Holiday Seating is available for reservation at brswest.net • Our new kiddush sponsorship offerings are live at brswest.net. Rabbi Rael Blumenthal Thank you to the kiddush committee for their tireless effort to ensure that kiddush runs so smoothly! • Rabbi and Rebbetzin Blumenthal will be away for the next two shabbatot. PARSHAT D’VARIM שבת חזון- פרשת דברים @KATZ HILLEL DAY SCHOOL | 21001 95TH AVE | BRSWEST.NET | (561) 909-0234 FRIDAY SHABBAT 12 AUGUST 13 AUGUST - EREV TISHA B’AV 7:00PM CHASSIDUS CHABURA 7:30PM MINCHA / KABBALAT SHABBAT 6:36PM EARLIEST CANDLE LIGHTING 7:40PM CANDLE LIGHTING 8:30AM RASHI SHIUR 9:00AM SHACHARIT / KIDDUSH 5:30PM HALACHA SHIUR 6:30PM MINCHA SEUDA SH”LISHIT AT HOME 7:57PM SH’KIA - FAST BEGINS 8:34PM BARUCH HAMAVDIL 9:00PM MA’ARIV / EICHA KIDDUSH IS SPONSORED ANONYMOUSLY IN HONOR OF THE BRS WEST COMMUNITY Page 9 Boca Raton Synagogue • Valuing Diversity • Celebrating Unity Explanatory Service at BRS West at the Katz Hillel Day School with Rabbi Josh Broide To register or for more information, please visit www.BRSonline.org & click on Engagement Tab SAVE THE DATE: COMMUNITY TRIPS TO ISRAEL JWRP - JeWish Women’s Renaissance PRoJect CommuniTy mission To israel FRee trip to israel for moms with children under 18 who are not connected Join the Jewish Federation of south Palm Beach county along with Rabbi efrem Goldberg & Rabbi Josh Broide & amazing people from all over our community - noV 2017 with the Jewihish community. Trip #1: December 2016 - soLD oUt Trip #2: may 2017 ~ Trip #3: nov/Dec 2017 March of the Living April 19 – May 3, 2017 for Rising HS Juniors & Seniors and Adults This spring, thousands of Jewish teens from all corners of the earth will gather together in Poland and Israel for an educational experience that will change their lives. Week One – Poland: “The March of the Living” on Yom Hashoah, tour sites of pre & post-WWII Polish Jewry, synagogues, ghettos and concentration camps. Week Two – Israel: Celebrate Yom Ha’atzmaut in Israel, tour historical and religious sites around Israel, visit Jerusalem and Tel Aviv and connect with the incredible history of the birth of the Jewish state. Cost for Students - $5,995. Not including RT airfare to JFK airport in NYC. Generous Financial Aid available for students who require. ADULT 5-Star-Bus EARLY-BIRD PRICES (before 09/01/16): Call this number for more details: 561-852-3318. For applications go www.molsouth.org Join us for Information Meetings RSVP is a must! … mol@bocafed.org or call 561-852-6035 to reserve your spot. MONDAY, AUGUST 15 at 7:00pm in the Donna Klein HS Building; Room 130 TUESDAY, AUGUST 30 at 7:00 pm in the Donna Klein HS Building; Room 130 For applications go www.molsouth.org Rabbi Josh Broide Outreach Rabbi rjb@brsonline.org. Page 10 Boca Raton Synagogue • Valuing Diversity • Celebrating Unity PAID ADVERTISEMENTS • IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO PLACE AN AD, PLEASE GO TO WWW.BRSONLINE.ORG/ADS AVIVA REICH, 561-702-1018 YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD REALTOR: PRESENTS: FOR SALE: CAPTIVA: $679K What a view! Finally a true 4 bedroom 2.5 bath over 2600 feet under air with an oversized enclosed patio and massive 2nd floor Balcony overlooking what feels like your very own private serene lake. Second bathroom completely remodeled. Parquet wood, porcelain and laminate flooring thru out. 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Page 11 CONTACT 561-542-4451 PAID ADVERTISEMENTS • IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO PLACE AN AD, PLEASE GO TO WWW.BRSONLINE.ORG/ADS Boca Raton Synagogue • Valuing Diversity • Celebrating Unity TISHA B’AV SCHEDULE SATURDAY, AUGUST 13 Sephardic Minhah (Sephardic Beit Midrash) 5:30 pm Early Ashkenzai Mincha (Rand Sanctuary) 6:00 pm Mincha (Rand Sanctuary)7:35 pm Regular Seudah Shlisheit (at home)to be completed by 7:57 pm Fast Begins7:58 pm Shabbat Ends8:35 pm Sephardic Maariv & Eichah(Sephardic Beit Midrash) 8:55 pm Ashkenzai Maariv & Eichah (Rand Sanctuary) 9:00 pm Please remember to wear non leather shoes SUNDAY, AUGUST 14 Ashkenzai Shacharit and Kinot (Social Hall) 6:30 am Sephardic Shacharit and Kinot (Sephardic Beit Midrash) 6:33 am Ashkenzai Shacharit and Kinot (Rand Sanctuary) 8:30 am - 2:00 pm This Minyan will be accompanied with commentary on Kinot by Rabbi Steve Weil, Senior Managing Director of the OU. His comments will be broadcast on the OU website Sephardic Shacharit and Kinot (Sephardic Beit Midrash) 8:45 am Chatzot (Midday)1:25 pm Early Ashkenzai Mincha (Rand Sanctuary) 2:00 pm AFTERNOON FILMS (Social Hall) PROJECT INSPIRE’S FILM FOR TISHA B’AV AT 2:45 PM “INTO THE ARMS OF STRANGERS: STORIES OF THE KINDERTRANSPORT” AT 4:00 PM “OPENING THE DOOR THE POWER OF AHAVAS YISRAEL TO UNLOCK THE GEULA” THE CHOFETZ CHAIM HERITAGE FOUNDATION VIDEO AT 6:15 PM Sephardic Minhah (Sephardic Beit Midrash) 7:20 pm Ashkenzai Mincha (Rand Sanctuary) 7:25 pm Ashkenzai Maariv (Rand Sanctuary) 8:00 pm Sephardic Arvit (Sephardic Beit Midrash) 8:05 pm Ashkenzai Fast Ends 8:34 pm Page 12 Boca Raton Synagogue • Valuing Diversity • Celebrating Unity