5/2015 - Eastside Intergroup
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Pass It On Eastside Intergroup Newsletter May 2015 Page 1 Carry the Message by Chuck C. Page 2 Carry the Message by Chuck C. Page 3 Upcoming Sober Events and Meeting Updates Page 4 April Office Report by Nancy O. Page 5 Birthday Club Faithful Fivers Pink Can Contributions Page 6 Notes from the Archives by David C.. Page 7 Tradition 5 by Bill W. Page 8 Office Information Newsletter Volunteers Hotline Volunteers Contributions Page 9 Thank you Representatives Carry the Message I got sober January 10, 1989, which makes today over 26 years of continuous sobriety. This morning, I was in a meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous listening to a young man who admitted drinking yesterday, although he has been coming to that meeting regularly. He said he wanted to stay sober, but couldn't during the week, because his work caused anxiety, and that he didn't believe he had hit bottom yet. When he finished, I shared that I was still sober, despite daily bouts with anxiety, frustration, resentment and self-centered expectations. I admitted that I have no idea why I am still sober, and that I didn't believe anyone hits bottom until they either stop digging or die. I recalled when I first came to AA in 1981, I stayed sober about 90 days, but went back to drinking. When I returned to the program in 1989, I had no faith that it would work for me and I didn't particularly want it to. My boss made me get sober. I figured that, if l lost my job, I couldn't afford my scotch so I agreed to try sobriety. I still wanted to drink. I got a sponsor because my treatment center gave me an ultimatum. My sponsor got drunk and died when I was about three years sober. He had been a very spiritual man, but had gone back to drinking when both of his sons were killed the same weekend in separate drug deals. He told me he had to drink or commit murder. He died in his trailer, choking on his own vomit. Alcoholic death is rarely pretty. I stayed sober, despite not believing in God. My sponsor had told me I had to have a personal relationship with a Higher Power if I wanted to stay sober. I had been raised in the church -my stepfather was a preacher -and I had studied comparative religion in college. I figured I knew all about "God" and that there wasn't one. Still, I tried to build a relationship with a Higher Power. I started with "The Force" from Star Wars and went from there. (continue on page 2) 1 Carry the Message by Chuck C. It took me five years, reading all the literature I could find on the subject. Finally, I gave up. That's when I had my "spiritual awakening." I believe in God, today. Looking back, I can see how God had been keeping me sober all along. When I was in early sobriety, they had this thing they called "the railroad." Basically, it referred to the way newcomers were forced into service work. I remember when the GSR of my home group moved out of town. The Alternate GSR became GSR and the Treasurer became Alternate GSR. The Treasurer came up to me, handed me a ledger and announced, "You are the new Treasurer." I had about 30 days at the time. Later, I became Alternate and GSR. Then I was District Secretary and chaired a variety of District committees. Did service keep me sober? It helped. A friend of mine who had gotten sober about the same time as I did got drunk at about five years. He had been in service with me, the whole time. Why did he get drunk while I stayed sober? I don't know. I remember that, at nearly seventeen years, that Treasurer who railroaded me into service got drunk. I didn't. I don't know why, except that I did, eventually, develop a personal relationship with my Higher Power. I kept doing the things I was doing in service, meeting attendance and carrying the message, and I was keeping sobriety my number one priority. Maybe, that last part has something to do with it.... I can't guarantee I'll be sober tomorrow, but I don't have to drink today by the Grace of God and the Fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous. Anyway, I'm here to tell you that if l can stay sober, anyone can stay sober. Just don't drink between meetings, and keep up the good work. Oh, and it would probably help if your meetings aren't too far apart. I go every day, pretty much. By the way, I was told early on that an "old timer'' was someone with thirty years or more. So, I still have some growing to do. Meanwhile, I'll keep carrying the message. You can't keep it unless you give it away. That young man I mentioned has asked me to be his new sponsor. I told him I'd be honored to serve. 2 Upcoming Sober Events Meeting Updates May 9th: Live at Pine Lake Speakers Meeting at 7 pm at Pine Lake Covenant Church 1715-228th Ave SE, Sammamish. Doors open at 6:30pm. Speaker is Kerry A. (childcare available) NEW MEETINGS! May 9th: Wit’s End Warriors Summer Outdoor Potluck and BBQ at 5 pm at Haller Park in Arlington, WA. The outdoor meeting takes place in the covered area. Plenty of parking. May 10th: Gene Coulon Beach Bonfire Meeting in Renton from 2 pm to 5pm. The outdoor meeting takes place under the North Shelter around a huge fire pit. Rain or Shine! May 25th: Bellevue Group 60th Anniversary Celebration at St. Thomas Episcopal Church in Medina, WA. Potluck begins at 6:30 p.m. and speaker at 8 p.m. June 27th: District 35 Workshop “Unpacking Steps 6 & 7”, Our Savior Lutheran Church 745 Front St. S. Issaquah 1pm-4pm August 2nd: 4th Annual Redmond Contingency Potluck/ Picnic at Grasslawn Park in Redmond 11am to 5pm. August 15th: Eastside Intergroup Annual Picnic at Beaver Lake Park in Sammamish 11am—3pm. Watch for flyers! Conferences May 14-17th: 31st Annual Tri-State Roundup. www.tristateroundup.com. June 5th-7th: 35th Annual Woman to Woman Conference at Pilgram Firs. June 18th—21st: 12 X 12 Annual Campout June 18th to 21st: PSYPC 21st Annual Alta Lake Campout on Father’s Weekend. Check out www.psypc.org for more information. July 2nd to 5th: The 2015 International Convention Alcoholics Anonymous in Atlanta, Georgia. Eighty years—Happy, Joyous and Free. August 7th to 9th: Step Ashore 2nd annual at Ocean Shores Convention Center in Ocean Shores. Full package preregistration is $79. Check it out at www.nwwoodstockofaa.org August 2015: Rock Sober 9th Annual. Contact Ray H. at rvbutcher@yahoo.com for more information Valley Girls Big Book Meeting Friday mornings 10 am Snoqualmie Valley Alliance Church ‘Green Room” (White building in church parking lot ) 36017 SE Fish Hatchery Rd Fall City, WA 98024 Wednesday Willingness Wednesday evening at 7 pm Lake Washington Christian Church 343 15th Ave. Kirkland SUPPORT NEEEDED Kirkland Study Group Open Step Study Meeting Saturday night 8 to 9 p.m. Rose Hill Presbyterian Church Kirkland Kirkland Thursday Niters 7:30 pm— 1 Hour Kirkland Congregational Church 106 5th Ave, Kirkland MEETING UPDATES Recov ‘R We Saturday & Sunday Mornings time change from 8:30am to 10am VFW Hall 4330 148th Ave NE Redmond Soul Shiners Sunday time change from 9:30pm to 9pm at the 12 X 12 Fellowship Hall CANCELLED MEETINGS Open Minded Recovery Wednesday 7pm in Redmond Sunrise Saturday 7am 12 X 12 Fellowship Hall in Bothell 3 February Office Report Welcome Spring! April showers bring May flowers and we already have roses blooming at the Intergroup Office! My office report is shorter this month because I was on vacation for a couple of weeks on Maui with my husband Terry. We had a fantastic time and I found it easy to relax because of the coverage at the office and knowing everything was being taken care of. Leah W. filled in and managed the office during my absence and I’m sure a lot of you are as grateful as I am for her service. Thank you Leah! April Volunteers in the office were: Leah, Leslie, Ted, Marita, and Margo. Thanks everyone! Keep in mind that we have all kinds of service work available from answering phones to various other general office duties. I have a schedule for people to sign up if interested in answering phones. It’s a wonderful way to see the miracles that happen in Alcoholics Anonymous when you get that first time caller or even a caller having a difficult time. It’s even fun to talk to those people just looking for a meeting. You’re really on the front lines of AA when answering the phones at Intergroup. We’re the ones that get that first call from an alcoholic that is suffering and we get to help them to their first meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous. If interested give me a call 425-454-9192 during office hours 10 to 6 Monday through Friday. I am excited to be working with several new Board members over this next term which runs May through April every year. You all elected three new Board members at the April meeting, Shelly N. was re-elected, Wade S., and David B. were also elected. We had a 4th Board position open up and Mike S. was elected to fill the remainder of the term. In February we elected Pat A. as our Treasurer and Pat also holds a position on the Board. Welcome all of you and thank you for your service! Our outgoing Board members are Pauline S., Sharon H. and Jane L. Thank you all for your service with Eastside Intergroup. We have switched vendors on the medallions that we carry and have an even wider selection than before. In addition to new colors in the tri-plate coins, we now are carrying the “bling” coins in some years. Most anything can be added to our monthly order but I encourage you to stop in and take a look. Our prices are low too! We have some great ideas for a sponsor or sponsee if you want to present them with a special coin. Our website seems to be struggling a bit lately. It’s been difficult to use it on cell phones and it’s because of something that was changed within the platform that we’ve been using the past three years. Our web committee has been working to get our new website ready to launch and we’re hoping it will be very soon. Thank you all for your patience. It seems that we don’t have many people participate in our Birthday Club now-a-days and so I thought I would mention it this month. It’s a way for Eastside Intergroup to raise extra funds but it also gets your name in our newsletter along with your home group and sobriety date. I have always put in the names of sponsees when they celebrate their birthdays. The donation is generally anywhere from $1.00 to $5.00 per year of your sobriety. It helps us to continue to carry the message to the Alcoholic that still suffers and also celebrates you or a sponsee! You can find a form in the newsletter that can be completed and sent in. Mark your calendars for August 15th for Eastside Intergroup’s Annual Picnic at Beaver Lake Park in Sammamish. Our Picnic Committee Chair is Kristi G.— She’ll need volunteers so let us know if you’d like to be on the committee and we’ll put you in touch with Kristi. Aloha! Nancy O. Office Manager 4 How Can You Help Support Your Intergroup in Addition to the 7th Tradition at your Meetings? Become a Faithful Fiver! Or Join Our Birthday Club! What are Faithful Fivers? Faithful Fivers are AA members who graciously pledge to contribute $5.00 each month to support Eastside Intergroup in its efforts to carry the AA message of hope and recovery to those alcoholics who still suffer in the Eastside area. As a Faithful Fiver, your contribution can and will make our vital services possible. The Faithful Fiver idea came about when we remembered that we wasted much more than $5 each month during our drinking days. Contributions to Eastside Intergroup from AA members are limited to $3,000 per member per year and are tax deductible under Internal Revenue Code: 501(c)3. Thank You April 2015 Faithful Fivers! Pat A. Dave W. Colin R. Nancy O Terry O. Barbara M. Shelly N. Eastside Intergroup Birthday Club! Many of our members contribute to ESIG $1, $2 or $5 per year during their AA Anniversary month. We’ll print your name, sobriety date and home group in our Newsletter. Your Birthday Club contributions directly support your Eastside Intergroup Office which provides a 24 hour phone line, literature, coins Birthday Club! Name________________________________ Home Group__________________________ Sobriety Date_________________________ Contribution $_________________________ Get your name & home group in the newsletter! April 2015 BIRTHDAYS Yes! Please enroll me as a No Birthday Faithful Fiver! Donations in April Here is my contribution of Don’t $_______ for _________months forget to celebrate! Name___________________________________________ PINK CAN Contributions in April Address_________________________________________ City__________________ State/Zip___________________ Return this form to: Eastside Intergroup 1299 156th Ave NE Suite 160 Bellevue, WA 98007 Sober Seniors Fresh Start Seven & Sober Women of Worth 5 Notes from the Archives By David C., District 38 Archivist Hello from the vaults of the District 38 Archives. This month I want to talk about one of the pivotal moments in our history. I am talking about the Rockefeller Dinner. In the early days of AA, after the new program ideas were agreed to by Bill Wilson, Dr. Bob Smith and the majority of AA members, they envisioned paid AA missionaries and free or inexpensive treatment centers. But initial fundraising efforts failed. In 1938, Bill Wilson's brother-in-law Leonard Strong contacted Willard Richardson, who arranged for a meeting with A. Leroy Chapman, an assistant for John D. Rockefeller Jr. Willard convinced John D. Rockefeller, Jr. to help out. Rockefeller arranged for a dinner for all his friends to hear about this wonderful new movement. One Hundred and Eighty Seven engraved invitations were sent out to some of the richest and most powerful men in the United States. Of the 187 Invitations that were sent, 127 were sent back with regrets. Among those who responded in the affirmative were included several of the invited AA members. Among the 60 people who actually attended this dinner there was Bill, Dr. Bob, Clarence S., Fitz M., Bert T., and Bill R. on the AA side. Others included members of Rockefeller's staff, Frank Amos, Gordon Auchincloss, Dr. Russell E. Blaisdell, Horace Crystal, A. Leroy Chipman, Leonard V. Harrison, Dr. Foster Kennedy, Dr. William Duncan Silkworth, Dr. Leonard V. Strong, Jr. and Wendell L. Wilkie. Many of these men went on to be great friends of AA. Wilson envisioned receiving millions of dollars to fund AA works. Mr. Rockefeller ordered copies of the Big Book for all those who were invited and gave an additional $1,000 to the movement. Rockefeller still held on to the belief that a lot of money would spoil the movement. He sent out letters extolling the virtues of AA to those he sent books to and through that "hint," an additional $2,000 was donated. Bill wanted Rockefeller and those financiers present, to give the struggling Fellowship thousands of dollars but Rockefeller refused, saying money would spoil things. Instead, he agreed to contribute $5,000 in $30 weekly increments for Wilson and Smith to use for personal expenses. Thus AA began on its way to becoming the great organization it is today. Recent research has indicated that further funds from Rockefeller were sent to Bill over ten years totaling over $25,000.00! Bill never admitted to the Fellowship about these funds. He was afraid that in disclosing the facts about this funding would cause problems, so he remained silent. More will be revealed…. P.S. Come on in to the Intergroup Office and see my new exhibit “AA and the Clergy”. As space is available I will bring in other thought provoking displays. As always if you have ?? please let Nancy know and I will try to answer them. Till next time…… 6 Traditions Tradition Five “Each group has but one primary purpose — to carry its message to the alcoholic who still suffers.” Editorial by Bill W. A.A. Grapevine, April 1948 "Each Alcoholics Anonymous group ought to be a spiritual entity having but one primary purpose -- that of carrying its message to the alcoholic who still suffers." Says the old proverb, "Shoemaker, stick to thy last." Trite, yes. But very true for us of A.A. How well we need to heed the principle that it is better to do one thing supremely well than many things badly. Because it has now become plain enough that only a recovered alcoholic can do much for a sick alcoholic, a tremendous responsibility has descended upon us all, an obligation so great that it amounts to a sacred trust. For to our kind, those who suffer alcoholism, recovery is a matter of life or death. So the society of Alcoholics Anonymous cannot, it dare not ever be diverted from its primary purpose. Temptation to do otherwise will come aplenty. Seeing fine works afoot in the field of alcohol, we shall be sorely tempted to loan out the name and credit of Alcoholics Anonymous to them; as a movement we shall be beset to finance and endorse other causes. Should our present success continue, people will commence to assert that A.A. is a brand new way of life, maybe a new religion, capable of saving the world. We shall be told it is our bounden duty to show modern society how it ought to live. Oh, how very attractive these projects and ideas can be! How flattering to imagine that we might be chosen to demonstrate that olden mystic promise: "The first shall be last and the last shall be first." Fantastic, you say. Yet some of our well-wishers have begun to say such things. Fortunately most of us are convinced that these are perilous speculations, alluring ingredients of that new heady wine we are now being offered, each bottle marked "Success"! Of this subtle vintage may we never drink too deeply. May we never forget that we live by the Grace of God -- on borrowed time; that anonymity is better than acclaim; that for us as a movement poverty is better than wealth. And may we reflect with ever deepening conviction, that we shall never be at our best except when we hew only to the primary spiritual aim of A.A. -- "That of carrying its message to the alcoholic who still suffers alcoholism." Bill W. 7 Thank you April Hotline Volunteers! Office Information Bob B Alma O Carmen A Chelsea O Chuck M Eric B Mailing Address 1229 156th Ave NE Suite 160 Bellevue, WA 98007 Phone: 425-454-9192 Email: esig@eastsideintergroup.com Website: www.eastsideintergroup.com Office Hours: Mon.-Fri. 10:00 am-6:00 pm Intergroup Meeting First Thursday of each month 7:30-8:30 pm All members welcome! Bellevue Christian Reformed Church 1221 148th Ave NE, Bellevue 98007 Eric C Fred M Ginny K Guy P Joe Mc John R Personal Story…..….…Chuck C. Office Report…….…… Nancy O. Backups on hotline volunteers: Publisher……................Alma O. Editor……………..…….Sandy B. Heading north on 156th Ave NE, go past Crossroads Shopping center and make a Uturn at NE 15th St., then use the following directions. Archivist……………..…David C. Heading south on 156th Ave. NE, go past McDonalds and turn right (Piedmont Apartment sign) at NE 13th Pl.. Go over one speed bump and immediately turn left. We are half way down on the left in Suite 160 Mark J., Eric B., Pat A., and Bill R. Hotline Chairs: Eric C. & Bill J. Group Contributions District, GSO & Area Info Thanks to the following groups for sending contributions to the Eastside Intergroup office in the month of April 2015. Group contributions enable us to pay the rent and bills for your Intergroup Office, maintain our phone lines 24 hours a day 7 days a week, publish a monthly newsletter, provide a meeting directory, and carry AA information and literature. Women’s Saturday Share Nameless Bunch of Drunks Big Book Step Study Eastside Beginners The Nooners Bel-kirk Saturday Breakfast Wake Up Sober Women Living Sober Tuesday Night Solutions H.O.W. Grace Rules Women’s Saturday Steps Duvall Candlelight 12 & 12 Fellowship Hall Sober Cartooners Raging on the River Fresh Start Bills Story Sara K Ted W Tina B. Tom M Thank you to our Hotline Volunteers too! They ensure that when someone reaches out for help by calling Alcoholics Anonymous, the caller always talks to a real person! Newsletter Contributors Directions to ESIG Office Keith S Leslie G Mark J Matthew M Merrill G Mike S Eastside Intergroup: Eastside Intergroup 1299 156th Ave. NE, #160 Bellevue, WA 98007 Western WA Area 72 702 Kentucky St., #535 Kirkland Sobriety Headquarters Redmond Recovery District 25 Gay Men in Recovery Anchor Group 90 Minutes in Preston Joy of Living (Issquah) Bellingham, WA 98225 General Service Office (GSO) P.O. Box 459 Grand Central Station New York, NY 10163 District 34 Bellevue, Redmond, East Lake Sammamish, Mercer Island District 34 P.O. Box 50081 Bellevue, WA 98015 District 35 Issaquah District 35 P.O. Box 442 Issaquah, WA 98027 District 36 Snoqualmie Valley, Duvall, North Bend District 36 P.O. Box 1963 North Bend, WA 98045 District 38 Kirkland District 38 P.O. Box 322 Kirkland, WA 98083 District 39 Bothell, Kenmore, Woodinville 8 Thank you Intergroup Reps! The following Intergroup Reps were in attendance at our April 2nd meeting, Thank you! Alma O. - Newsletter Publisher Andy G. - Hope on Cougar Mountain, PI Chair Bob R. - Pockets of Enthusiasm Chris D. – Bellevue Group Ellen G. – Redmond Friday Night Study Group Eric C. – Joy of Living/Hotline Chair Erin A. – CPC Chair Finn S. – Wake Up Jane L. – Accessibility Chair Jen T. – Sobriety Lifeline/Joy of Living Jennifer P. – Seven & Sober Jim B. – Redmond Recovery John K. - Friday Nite Firehouse/Sammamish Big Book Step Study Jon W. – District 34 Jon S. – District 39 Betsy N. – WOW Kristi G. – Issaquah Tuesday Night/Picnic Committee Chair Mary B. – Eastside Beginners Michelle B. – Women’s Saturday Steps Mike S. – Web Committee Chair Norine N. – Any Lengths Group Pam Z. – Sharing the Legacy Phil K. – Area 72 Corrections Chair Rob P. – Lifeline Sandy B. – KSHQ/Newsletter Editor Tim M. – A Way Up/Newport Hills Study/H&I Chair Todd G. – Juanita Triangle Matthew M. – LAPL Coordinator Maria G. – Wake Up Leslie G. – 12 X 12 Kathy H. – Sober Seniors Bill J. – Hotline Coordinator Jeff B. – Issaquah Community Center Big Book Study Gerry Z. – Nameless Bunch of Drunks Eric M. – Moss Bay Group What does an Intergroup Rep do? An Intergroup Rep is elected at his/her Home Group and attends the Eastside Intergroup Meeting on the 1st Thursday of each month from 7:30pm to 8:30pm. You represent your home group at the monthly meeting and hold a vote for your group. Because Eastside Intergroup covers five Districts and is a central clearinghouse for local AA activities and information, you become a vital link between the Intergroup office, the Districts, and your home group. The Intergroup Rep keeps his or her home group informed about work being done, activities going on, etc. You become a part of the networking between Eastside Intergroup and the groups. 9
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