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November 2015 Cheshvan–Kislev 5776 TEMPLE BETH EL Contents Rabbi’s Message .......................................1 Ritual ......................................................2 MEKOR CHAYIM Sisterhood ...............................................2 Religious School .......................................3 Rabbi’s Message Youth .......................................................4 Rabbi Ben Goldstein Classes .....................................................4 Dear Friends, This past High Holiday season was a great one. As your rabbi, the view from my seat is a unique and beautiful one. It was so nice to see how many people came to celebrate the holidays with us here at TBEMC. It was also so nice to look out and see all of the people. We have a strong community and, from the looks of the High Holy Days, we have the ability to be even stronger. I would like to thank everyone who made these High Holy Days so special. To our office staff, Susan and Chris, thank you for making sure that everything was in place and that everyone had everything they needed. I want to also single out Susan Lemerman and to thank her for all her years of service. Our community is so very grateful for all that you have done for us. Personally, I want to thank you for showing me the ropes, for helping a new rabbi feel at home in this community and for empowering me, and our entire community to succeed. You will be missed. To our baal Koreh, Art Wershultz, thank you for your tireless dedication. Now, please stop pushing yourself and let us take care of you for a little bit. To Patty Werschulz, Phil Stein, Laura Cohen, Becky Leibowitz, Mark Kaplan and the rest of the high holiday and ritual committees, thank you so much for organizing tickets, services, our annual campaign and for making sure everything ran smoothly. To all of the ushers, thank you for your hard work and for helping to create such a warm, welcoming atmosphere. A special thank you to my partner on the bima, Cantor Kintisch. Your talent, warmth and presence helped create an atmosphere of welcome and joy throughout the High Holy Days. Since Yom Kippur has ended I’ve been getting such good feedback from people about how much they enjoyed the services. That was only possible because of our great partnership. I’m very excited to continue working with you and growing from strength to strength. I’ve been overwhelmed by the positive feedback and I’m so grateful that everyone found these High Holy Days enjoyable and meaningful. It’s an honor and privilege to be the rabbi for such a beautiful and warm community. Thank you for allowing me to be your rabbi and for sharing these High Holidays. Now that the holidays are over and we no longer find ourselves in services for hours and days on end, I want to tell you about a few things that will be going on in our community. You’ll find the dates later in the bulletin. First off, we are excited to welcome back Java ‘N Jeans for its second year. For those who might not know, Java ‘N Jeans is our Shabbat morning conversation about prayer, religion and community. It’s held from 9:30 until 11:30 am once a month during the year. (continued on next page) Legacy .....................................................2 Presidents’ Message ..................................5 Annual Campaign .....................................6 Membership .............................................7 Rummage Sale ..........................................8 Men’s Club ...............................................8 Library ....................................................9 Communications .......................................9 Community...............................................9 Garden .....................................................9 Mobile Phone Help ....................................9 Fundraising........................................... 10 Minyan ...................................................11 Donations ...............................................12 Yahrzeit .................................................13 Temple Beth-El Mekor Chayim 338 Walnut Avenue Cranford, NJ 07016 (908) 276-9231 www.tbemc.org Rabbi Benjamin Goldstein Cantor Benjamin Kintisch Director of Education: Cantor Benjamin Kintisch Temple Administrator: Connie Moore Presidents: Jaclyn Baranoff and Elliot Ballen First Vice President: Mark Kaplan Second Vice-President: Devorah Wolf Third VP: Joanie Finklestein Treasurer: Jerry Baranoff Financial Secretary: Rachel Schwartz Corresponding Secretary: Heidi Farber Editors: Debbie Abrams Kaplan and Devorah Wolf Thanks to: Connie Moore, Art Werschulz To Submit Articles or Letters to the Editor: bulletin@tbemc.org 1 SUKKOT DINNER There are so many people to thank for helping make the Sukkot dinner a success. More than 100 people attended! Thanks to Nadine Rosenbaum-Lehrer and Brian Lehrer, Anat Krispin, Rebecca Bagatelle Reissman, Debbie Abrams Kaplan, Jessica Brief Handsman, Amy Thaler, Mindi Metz, Joan Finkelstein, Howard Epstein, Julie Steinberg. If I missed someone, I am so sorry! Rafael was awesome during set-up and clean-up time as always. If you have never cooked in the kitchen, find out how you can. Some of the greatest relationships I have with people at TBEMC were made there! —Adrienne Fitzer, Sukkot Dinner Organizer (continued from previous page) Secondly, we had our first Shabbat yoga service last week, and we got some rave reviews. We are very excited that our own Tammy Kaplan Spiewak will be leading this service of yoga, meditation and Judaism. This service will be on select Shabbat mornings at 10:15. As Tammy herself said, “join us on your mat to create community through breath, movement, and meditation.” Also, I started teaching a theology class once a month on Sunday mornings, on Sunday October 25th. Join us at 9:30 as we explore the history of theology starting from the biblical period, and going all the way up through today. Keep your eyes open for more information about an eight week class that will be held on Thursday evenings. The class will be about the history of Israel as told through some of the most important court cases in her 67 year history. Enjoy the fall season, and may this year be a happy, healthy and sweet one for us all. RITUAL Even when it’s not a holiday, come to minyan and be counted! Evening minyan is at 7:30, Sunday mornings at 9. In November, morning minyan is in Clark, on Mondays and Thursdays at 6:50 am, Tuesday, Wednesday and Friday at 7:00. You can find the daily minyan list at: http://tbemc.org/religious-life/ minyan-list/ SISTERHOOD Thank you to Samuel Kimmelman for his donation to Sisterhood. Oneg/Kiddush Shopping All men and women are invited to help shop or platter for Shabbat. Shoppers must have food in refrigerator by 10 am Friday morning. Shop at your leisure and buy what you like to eat. Plattering takes place Friday morning at 10 am unless those signed up for a particular date discuss and change to suit their schedules. Please email Carol Blank or call her at mail2duck@aol.com or (908) 272-7254 to volunteer. The more people who sign up, the easier it is on everyone! TBEMC HONORS DONORS TBEMC recently honored some of its CJL participants by asking them to carry Torahs in the Kol Nidre procession. We acknowledge that the 39 people who have made a commitment to TBEMC’s future are the key to both the future of our shul and Judaism in general. Because of gifts such as these, the shul will be able to fund future programming and projects which dues alone could never cover. As we move forward into year 99 of our storied history, people such as these join a long line of others who supported the efforts of TBEMC over time and cared that it survive into the next generation. On November 12th, donors are invited to a community-wide Shorashim (Roots) celebration which will bring people together and share stories of why giving was important to them. The opportunity to “give back” and “pay forward” is something each of us can do now. By making a legacy (post-life) gift now, you are not taking current dollars away from your personal use. You can live your life knowing that you have left a future gift to this organization, which will make the difference in the future. It will provide funding to enable TBEMC to address major projects like making accessibility changes in our sanctuary configuration and ingress and egress into our building, as well as special programming needs. Every legacy gift matters, no matter what size! You too can make a difference to TBEMC’s future by creating legacy gifts in many sizes and forms, which we are more than happy to discuss with you. We have posted the most current list of donors in the Temple lobby, and will include that list in next month’s bulletin article. Our sincere thanks to them. You too can join the Legacy Circle! Reach out to Laura Cohen at (908) 389-1744 or David Springer at (908) 370-1890 now! Make that call to us before we call you! In spite of the bad weather during Sukkot, Religious School kids and Cantor Kintisch still enjoyed the traditional pizza in the hut – just indoors. 2 Religious School News Off to a Great Start Cantor Benjamin Kintisch, Education Director Enrollment is Strong School began for our students on September 20 this year, and the wonderful energy in the building was palpable. We are delighted to welcome so many new families and children to our school program, with enrollment now at 71 children. We have many children returning from last year and 20 children who are new to our program this year. Gan Katan Early Childhood Program Our surging school population includes eight children in our new Gan Katan early childhood program. This new class for children three and four years old, meets twice monthly, and is taught by the talented Jewish educator Debbie Goldsmith. Debbie led the Tot Shabbat program here in the Temple last year for our youngest families, and has worked previously at the JCC in Scotch Plains. Gan Katan features many ageappropriate Jewish learning activities, including early literacy in Hebrew, Jewish holiday crafts, Jewish-themed read aloud stories, Jewish children’s music and dancing, as well as free play time. It is a great joy to see so many young children bringing their spirit and energy to our program. We hope that these young children continue to grow and learn with us for many years to come! Family Musical T’fillah on Sunday Mornings Many parents join our student body every Sunday morning for our Family Musical T’fillah. Some weeks we have nearly 100 people singing and praying together. Our seventh graders lead the music in a percussion band, along with Cantor Kintisch on guitar. We combine spirited singing of liturgical songs with elements of the traditional morning services, such as the Sh’ma and the Amidah. Children of all ages are participating with joy and kavanah (intention) along with a dozen or more of their parents. All congregants are welcome to come and join us on any Sunday morning for this special and meaningful community prayer service. Wonderful Faculty A school cannot run without teachers, and we are proud of the talented and motivated teaching team here at TBEMC Religious School for the 2015-2016 school year. We were glad to welcome back Michal Strauss (3rd grade) and Nita Polay-Levin (4th grade). We are so lucky to welcome several great new teachers to our team. The K/1 class is taught by Yehudit Becker. The 2nd grade class is led by Paola Baharav. The 5th grade is being taught on Sunday mornings by Cantor Kintisch and by Paola Baharav on Tuesdays. The 6th grade is being taught by Laurence Epstein. The 7th graders are learning with Mimi Gold. Welcome aboard to our excellent new teachers! Growing Volunteer Corps of Teens and Adult Members TBEMC Religious School benefits so much from the growing corps of volunteers who give so generously of their time and energies to enhance learning for all of our students. All four of the recent graduates of our school program (8th graders Seth Levine, Lauren White, Gabby Aubrey and Zachary Spergel) are working with our children as volunteer school assistants. We have two other young teens helping in Kindergarten/1st grade and 2nd grade. Adult volunteers continue to provide invaluable academic support to our children through in-class service and remedial Hebrew support and tutoring. Thank you to Liela Bernstein for helping with Hebrew, Abbie Halperin for helping in the library, and Joan Finkelstein for support in the 2nd grade classroom. School Committee Providing Feedback and Support Thank you to the committed TBEMC members who are serving on our school committee. We meet monthly to discuss and review new programming, curriculum, school policies and issues of governances. Our co-chairs are Stephanie Rubenstein and Phyllis Kandl. Other returning committee members include secretary Robin Berkman, treasurer Craig Schwartz, and board liaison Nancy Lubarski. Welcome to our three newest members: Sarra Herzog, Jessica Handsman and Susan Lesser. With the leadership of our school committee and their helpful support, we are able to continue building and improving our school program together. SAVE THE DATE Sunday December 6 at noon Zimriyah (song festival) and Hannukah Party! Seeking Donations We are looking for donations of the following items (in good working order, new or lightly used) to support our school’s creative and dynamic Jewish education program. • Digital video cameras (flip camera or camcorder style) • Digital point and shoot camera • Tablet or laptop computers • CD players/boom boxes • Headphones for listening centers 3 TBEMC Youth USY EVENTS: November 5 Pumpkin Carve-nival TBEMC Social Hall, 7:15–about 8:45 Just as the weather is turning colder, USY will take some carving implements to seasonal gourds and create masterpiece porch ornaments that will probably feed a few squirrels for the winter! Tools will be provided as well as seasonal refreshments (cider, hot chocolate, and perhaps pumpkin desserts!). See the flyer later in the bulletin. November 8 Laser Tag Bridgewater Sports Arena, 1-3pm Our opening inter-chapter event for Kadima and USY. AND we'll be ordering some Chinese takeout afterwards. We've already got a lot of interest from Kadima, and since this is a multi-chapter event, you can bring your friends from nearby! $25 (includes transportation). November 14 HAVDALAH IN PAJAMAS!!! TBEMC, 7pm Join us Saturday night! Shabbat is starting to end early, we'll begin with Havdalah and continue until 9:15. Bagels, muffins, OJ and other breakfast food will be provided. Let me know if you have special requests. Suggested attire is pajamas. November 20-22 Fall Convention Marlboro. Application coming soon. KADIMA EVENTS: Please see the November 8th event in the USY announcements. This is for Kadima as well. December 4-6 SAVE THE DATE Regional Kadima Shabbaton, including a dance on Saturday night (and a Lock-In for the 8th graders)! Kadima Regional Calendar: December 18-19 Shabbaton and Dance/8th Grade Lock-In Wayne December 20 Basketball Tournament January 30 Kadima Saturday Night Live East Brunswick January 31 Basketball Tournament Rumson February 28 Basketball Tournament March 6 Kadima Day March 18-20 8th Grade Shabbaton N/S Brunswick April 17 Roller Rama Woodbridge May 20-22 Spring Weekend (Somerset) August 23-30 Encampment WEEKLY TORAH STUDY This class, led by Rabbi Goldstein, meets on Thursdays at 11:30 am. JAVA AND JEANS A different kind of prayer service combined with learning, led by Rabbi Goldstein from 9:30-11:30 am on: November 14, December 26, January 9, February 13, March 12, April 9, May 14 YOGA SHABBAT Yoga Shabbat combines yoga, meditation and Judaism, led by TBEMC member Tammy Spiewak at 10:15 am on: December 19, January 23, March 19, April 23, June 25 THEOLOGY THROUGH THE AGES: From Ancient Times to Present Day This class, led by Rabbi Goldstein, meets once a month on Sundays at 9:30 am. Check the synagogue calendar for the November and upcoming dates (http://tbemc.org/tbemc-calendar/). MELTON SCHOOL The 10 session course, the Foundations of Jewish Living, Values for Jewish Parents to Share with Their Children, is co-sponsored by TBEMC and JCC MetroWest and taught by Rabbi Goldstein. The next class is November 15 and will be held one Sunday a month at 9:30 a.m. This course provides you with the learning, language and confidence to be a teacher to your own children and support Jewish learning at home. For more information contact Rabbi Goldstein or Rhonda (rillianthal@jccmetrowest.org or call her at (973) 530-3519). Please check the synagogue calendar for November and other upcoming dates (http://tbemc.org/tbemc-calendar/). HEBREW READING Do you know how to read Hebrew? Would you like to learn? This class is for mothers, fathers, grandmothers, grandfathers, relatives, friends and neighbors. You do not have to be a member of the synagogue! The course in Hebrew reading will meet at TBEMC every Sunday morning from 11:00 a.m. to noon. The course is for BEGINNERS. Anyone can join if they don’t yet read Hebrew and would like to: • Learn as your children learn • Feel more comfortable at services • Prepare to have your own Bar/Bat Mitzvah • Have an Aliyah at your child or grandchild’s Bar/Bat Mitzvah. The class is taught by Liela Bernstein every Sunday morning. The cost is about $20 (the price of the text book). If interested, call Liela at (908) 233-0058 or e-mail her at lielaberns@comcast.net to sign up. TORAH WITH LAURA Do you sing along when we recite Ve’ahavta and Tzitzit during the Sh’ma? Then you know about 80% of the trope notes for chanting the Torah! The new session is starting soon for those who want to learn a new skill or refresh your knowledge of Torah chanting. The goal will be to chant a 3-4 verse Torah Aliya. Message me on Facebook (Laura Abrahams Cohen), email me at laura.cohen@hpe.com, or text me at (848) 702-9106. Please check our calendar (http://tbemc.org/tbemc-calendar/) for dates of all classes. 4 Presidents’ Message The heart of a volunteer is not measured by its size, but by the depth of their commitment to make an improvement in the lives of others. In its 99 years of existence, TBEMC has been blessed with many deep-hearted people. A synagogue such as ours cannot exist without its volunteers. Aside from clergy, those who choose to donate their work, wisdom and wealth are the heartbeat of our shul. Things just don’t happen here; we have a cavalry of people, many behind the scenes, that come to our rescue and who perform magic for us every day. We must start with some very special people who like the postman always deliver through rain, snow, sleet, dark of night, broken bones and gout. We also applaud our professional staff. Thanks to Rabbi Goldstein for his leadership and inspiring sermons. Thanks to Cantor Kintisch for the family service and for davening. Thanks to Spencer Brooks our choir director, and thanks to his songbirds. Thanks to Ellie Barkin for leading Junior Congregation and Jon Cohen for organizing the USYers for Mincha. As we begin our 99th year in November, we will proudly march towards our centennial and BEYOND, to paraphrase Buzz Lightyear. To kickoff this milestone, a special event will be The steadfast dedication and deterheld on April 5, 2016 at the Crystal mination of Phil Stein and Art Plaza in Livingston. The 99 Years of Werschulz to our community, both Volunteers event will recognize the during holy days and regular days, efforts of the following volunteers: YEARS cannot be measured. Similarly, OF VOLUNTEERS Art and Patty Werschulz, Craig and Marty Metzger’s devotion as house Rachel Schwartz, Max Kopla and chair is unparalleled; no one takes Zack Roy. More information on this care of this building as well as exciting event will be forthcoming, as Marty. well as the opportunity to congratulate SAVE THE DATE TO CELEBRATE the honorees by contributing to our Also, special thanks to our High commemoratory ad journal. TUESDAY, APRIL 5, 2016 Holiday chairs, Mark Kaplan Volunteering is quite fulfilling–take and Becky Leibowitz. You did an CRYSTAL PL A Z A , LIVINGSTON it from Elliot and me we get to spend awesome job. 6:3 0 –10 P M most nights with each other here at Thanks to Patty Werschulz for the synagogue. Who could ask for handling Aliyot. And to Laura Cohen anything more? So far, it has been an for recruiting Torah readers in the blink of an eye. adventure with ups and downs, and twists and turns, BUT we Special thanks to all who read Torah or have some great people with us along for the ride. Come join Haftarah during these High Holidays. the journey with us; find a Committee that suits your interest and climb aboard. You will see how rewarding it can be. Thanks to Mark Kaplan and Allen Barkin, Next time you run into Debbie Kaplan or Devorah Wolf, Annual Campaign chairs. thank them for providing us with our monthly bulletin so we Thanks to Tammy Merman for assisting in all can be aware of what is happening at TBEMC. Then you the purchasing of our new comfy chairs. can stop by on a Sunday morning and hear the children, the future of our synagogue, singing and davening at the beginThank you to Roz Rosenfeld for the lovely bima flowers. ning of Religious School led by Cantor Kintisch. Attend a These people are just some of our volunteers. So many people Friday evening musical Shabbat, experience Java & Jeans, give of their time, energy and heart to keep TBEMC beating join us for Shabbat morning services, book club with Marilyn not just on the High Holidays but all year long. We have read Kaback, support Sisterhood and its new presidents Gail Sathat, “research has shown that people who volunteer live lomon, Sidney Solomon and Sandy Springer, Men’s Club led longer.” We think that’s true - for instance, Joe Bloomfield and by Lance Kandl and Craig Schwartz, visit Abbie Halperin and Sheila Levine seem to be getting younger each year as they her crew in the Library, assist Carol Blank in preparing onegs volunteer in the office. & kiddushes, or take a class with the Rabbi. But most of all, GIVE of yourself. Only by giving are you able to receive more Speaking of the office, we must thank Chris, our bookthan you already have. To quote Winston Churchill “we make keeper; this is one busy time of year for her and she has a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give." been great. Many thanks and the best of luck to Susan Lemerman, our administrator for the last seven years, who From the Ballen and Baranoff families, recently retired. may we all be sealed for a year of good health & prosperity 99 5 Annual Campaign The High Holidays may be over, but the 5776 Annual Campaign is essential for sustaining our congregation year round. If you haven't yet made your pledge, it is not too late to join the 154 families- listed below - who have already done so, at the time this Bulletin went to press. Thank you for supporting your synagogue. Mark Kaplan and Allen Barkin, Co-Chairs 5776 Annual Campaign Ira & Oznat Alexander Russell & Robin Aubrey Elliot & Janet Ballen Jerald & Jaclyn Baranoff Allen & Julie Barkin Sharlene Barr Bernice Bedrick Judith Beinstein Dov Ben-Shimon & Leslie Klieger Jay Berger & Alison Kessler Liela Bernstein Arthur & Teri Bilenker Carol Blank Niles & Carol Blecher Joseph Bloomfield Geoffrey Bob Stewart & Hana Cofsky Aaron & Laura Cohen Harold & Helaine Cohen Larry Cohen Scott Cohen Gary & Judy Daniel Rhoda Dorfman Marsha Drechsler Davita Dulberger Leo Dulberger Ramona Ehrich Marcu & Ghitta Eibschutz Harry & Roberta Einhorn Kenneth & Susan Eisenberg Leonard Farber Seth & Heidi Farber Paula Figman Bertram Fine Joan Finkelstein Leo Finston & Joanne Levy John & Caren Fiore Eleanor Fishman Max & Linda Flaxman George Forest William & Carol Forlander Milton & Ernestine Fox Martin & Joanne Friedman Irving & Linda Gantz Steven & Sandy Gerber Barbara Ginsberg Louis & Terri Gittlin Alice Goldfarb Jason & Shira Goldberg Abraham & Barbara Goodgold Gary & Andrea Goodman Bruce & Debra Greenberg Marvin Greenberg Lloyd & Linda Grossman Harriet Gross Howard & Abbie Halperin John & Susan Harris Carole Harsch Blossom Hatoff Lewis Heicklen Donald & Renee Herz Mark & Sarra Herzog John & Nina Heyman Jerrold Jacobson Lisa Jacobson Marilyn Kaback Lance & Phyllis Kandl Sue Kandl Barry & Jane Kanig Fred & Clarisse Kant Mark & Deborah Kaplan Michael & Laura Kashtan Gary & Linda Kendler Frederic & Roberta Kessler Sam Kimmelman Stanley & Mindy Kipness Lenore Klein Robert Klein Rafael & Shari Kopla Jean Kroner David & Judith Kupferberg David & Deborah Leber Martin & Renee Leffler David Lefkovic Fred & Ruth Lefkovic Marc & Becky Leibowitz Jonas & Linda Leifer David Levenberg & Linda Ershow-Levenberg Esther Levine Sheila Levine Mildred Lewis Milton & Lorraine Loshin Ira & Libby Lulinski Burton Mandell Marvin Margulies Neil Mayer Harriet Mazur Steve & Tammy Merman Lawrence & Mindi Metz Martin & Rosie Metzger Sima Murphy Sol & Malca Novick Benjamin Opatowski & Elizabeth Baroh Harold & Marlene Oslick Howard & Sofia Parish Robert & Karen Platt Lawrence Posner Elise Quintana Irwin & Thelma Rappaport Erwin & Grace Rausch Jeffrey & Kymm Regan Roberta Rich Karen Rose Roslyn Rosenfeld Murray Rose Richard & Judith Rosenberg Harold & Amy Roy Jaron & Stephanie Rubenstein Alan & Donna Rubin Laura Rubin Rebecca Ruck David & Gail Salomon Martin & Linda Samolsky Dorothy Schalef Max & Sadie Schoss Peter & Jill Schulz Alan & Carol Schwartz Craig & Rachel Schwartz David & Rochelle Schwartz Donald Shapiro & Nancy Lubarsky Robert & Burnice Siegel Stephen & Sidney Solomon Girsh & Feiga Sorkin Lev Sorkin & Rita Berlin Dorothy Sourifman Henry & Mollie Sperling Theodore & Madeline Spitz Charles Sporn David & Sandra Springer Scott & Tara Stavin Kurt Steiner Carol Steuer & Herbert Marton Sandra Sussman Theodore & Eugenie Taub David Thaler & Amy Plotkin Aaron & Stacy Turnof Joy Veron Leonard & Lois Waldman Sidney & Doris Weingus Arthur & Patricia Werschulz Garrett & Deborah White Howard & Doreen Wise Matt & Carrie Wofsy Bernard & Shona Young 6 MEMBERSHIP As we mentioned last month, we welcomed so many new member families this fall. We want you to know something about them, so you can greet them when you see them. For the other families who joined this fall or summer, you should have gotten an email from the bulletin requesting a photo and bio. We would love to run yours next month, so please send it to bulletin@tbemc.org. Reissman Family Becca and Adam Reissman have been Westfield residents for 10 years. They’re very happy to belong to TBEMC, and you may have seen them around the past few years at various events and services. They’re excited to be involved as well! Their son Max is 8 and daughter Natalie is 3.5. The Reissmans enjoy traveling and family excursions, and are big football fans, watching professional games and cheering on Rutgers. Becca works in Manhattan for a broadcast PR firm, and Adam works for an insurance brokerage in Somerset. Look for them hanging out in downtown Westfield with their kids in tow. Canter/Piatkowski Family Melanie Canter and her sons Jacob (age 10) and David (age 4) Piatkowski live in Roselle Park. They moved from Passaic in October, 2014. Jacob loves to draw and write, while David loves collecting and dressing up in superhero costumes. Melanie works part time as the Enterprise Clerk for the Roselle Park High School and Summer Camp. The family loves movies and TV and the kids have a knack for performing. This makes Melanie proud, since she comes from a theatrical background and has a degree in theatre. Brugger Family The Brugger family has called Scotch Plains home for six years. Their son Danny is 9, and Noah is 7, and they have two dogs an elderly retriever/shepherd and a Plott hound puppy. Seth is an attorney and Abby is a medical editor. For fun, Seth plays tennis and Abby likes to cook. They are thrilled to be a part of TBEMC. Natt Family Shoshana, Brett and their sons Jaden (age 9) and Alex (age 4) moved from Hoboken to Westfield at the end of the summer, along with their 11 year old wheaten terrier Beavis. Shoshana works in advertising sales for HGTV and DIY Network, while Brett is in pharmaceutical sales with Allergan. Sclar Family The Sclars moved to Westfield this past summer from Rockland County, New York. They previously lived in Brooklyn and Great Neck, Long Island. Ari, originally from Minneapolis, attended the University of Wisconsin as an undergrad before getting his masters degree in North Carolina, and a PhD in American History from Stony Brook University. He teaches history at the Ramaz Upper School in New York City and works as an adjunct professor at Hunter College. Rachael, originally from Westchester County, attended Ithaca College before moving to Chicago for graduate school. She’s a clinical psychologist working in private practice. Their two daughters, Avi who is 9 and Hanna who is 7, attend Jefferson Elementary in Westfield. Spiewak Family Jason and Tammy have lived in Westfield since 2007. Their kids Jacob (age 9) and Maya (age 6) attend McKinley Elementary. Tammy is a yoga instructor and spiritual guide (check out her Yoga Shabbat service at TBEMC) and is a student of Gabby Bernstein. Jason is an artist manager and indie record label president, studio musician and producer (www.jlsmgmt.com). 7 RUMMAGE SALE A big THANK YOU to all the volunteers who made rummage the success that it was! Thank you Karen Platt (who priced out all household items!), Gail Salomon, Millie Lewis, Malca Novick, Cantor Kintisch, and Sidney Solomon for sitting at rummage while people dropped off, giving instructions to all. Amy Thaler, Shari Kopla, Jessica Handsman, Robin Berkman, Deb Kaplan for being cashiers. Sharlene Barr and Daniel Gottschalk for straightening up and going through 100's of cd's to send off to Declutter for $$. And, lastly, Daniel Gottschalk, Bill Gottschalk, Roberta Kessler, Cantor Kintisch, Dalia Kintisch, Art Belinker, Alison Kessler, Margo Berger, Haley Berger, and of course, Dan and Rafael for clean up! Thank you to all of you who dropped off your items and unpacked them too! Sisterhood couldn't have a rummage sale without your generosity! Please forgive me if I forgot anyone who helped out. I appreciated everyone who lent a hand. :) — Jessica Hoff, Rummage Chair SAVE THE DATE We Shall Not Stand By: Jews on the March for Civil Rights with Dr. King Sunday, January 17, 7:30, TBEMC SAVE THE DATE SAVE T C EM ts B T sen pre Saturday November 21 8:00 PM at TBEMC Saturday 8:00 PM $36 includes snacks, wine, beer, soft drinks, and lots of laughs! 'RQ·WPLVVLW MEN’S CLUB SAVE THE DATE The TBEMC Men's Club is proud to announce our honoree for 5776. Our Man of the Year is Harold Oslick. Harold has been a member of our club since joining the shul in the early 1970’s. He’s held many positions including president, 1st vice president and treasurer. We will be honoring Harold at the Northern NJ Regional Man and Youth of the Year Dinner, November 11 at Congregation B'nai Tikvah, North Brunswick Saturday 21 email NJ. If you wish to November join us, please PM at TBEMC Craig at8:00 rcsacs@aol.com or Lance at lbkandl@gmail.com for more information. We can also give you information should you wish to place a congratulatory message in the Man and Youth of the Year ad journal. Join me in wishing Harold Oslick a Mazel Tov. —Craig Schwartz, Men's Club Co-President 'RQ· SAVE T Saturday 8:00 PM 'RQ·WPLVVLW 'RQ· Thank you to the crew of Fred Kessler, Larry Posner, Harry Einhorn and myself for laboring in the rain for 1.5 hours to remove sukkah walls, lighting, and roof in anticipation of possible storm damage and danger. —Marty Metzger Featuring the documentary film I Shall Not be Silent about Rabbi Joachim Prinz, a keynote speaker at the 1963 March on Washington. Friends, it has taken some time to find an appropriate pager system for our lift. We installed a good system in October. If you need assistance, push the round button on the yellow pad. There’s one located in the classroom, parking lot level and social hall. Custodians have a beeper that will tell them which level you are on. Thanks to Men's Club who funded this system and to Howard Epstein for the technical assistance he gave to me installing this unit. —Marty Metzger 8 LIBRARY Visit our library! We’re adding new books every two weeks. Consider honoring or memorializing someone by placing a bookplate in a new book for $25. To have a library tribute card made in honor or memory of someone, donate anything over $5, which is greatly appreciated. All donations are welcome! Kindly return any library books you’re no longer reading. Many are missing, including youth, religious school, kids’ and adult books. Use the drop box outside or drop books inside the library. –Abbie Halperin (908)337-5256 COMMUNICATIONS New Family Newsletter! We began a new family events newsletter, emailed once a month to families with kids in 7th grade and younger. If you are not on the list and would like to be (no matter your age or your kids’ age), please email Debbie at: dakaplan@hotmail.com COMMUNITY I would like to send my gratitude for all of the support I have received since my father’s passing. I appreciate all the cards, calls and visits. We are very fortunate to be part of such a great community. Thank you. —Rachel Schwartz Thanks to all the liquor Kiddush donors. —Joe Bloomfield, the Kiddush Committee SAVE THE DATE Super Sunday, November 22 JVS JVS Offers a Broad Range of Job Counseling Services If you or someone you know is unemployed and looking for work, changing careers, re-entering the workforce, or a recent college graduate and seeking a job for the first time, we can help. JVS Career Counseling & Placement offers high-quality career services—at no or low-cost to you. Services include: oneon-one career counseling, job placement, resume writing, interview training, mentoring, support groups, workshops, vocational testing, and more. For info, contact Dr. Meryl Kanner at JVS: mkanner@jvsnj.org;973-674-6330 x271 Garden TBMEC Take some time to peek into the buckets outside the Religious School doors (by the parking lot). Get excited. There is real food growing in there and a lesson in all is not as it seems. From afar, it is true, there are a lot of orange buckets and some stuff growing in them. Close up there is growth, life, and love. Get excited about growing food. Get excited that TBEMC is open to the creation of gardens for our spiritual, emotional, and physical health. It is time to start talking about the next steps, so please let me know if you are interested in helping me build a beautiful space. —Adrienne Fitzer MOBILE PHONE HELP FOR SENIORS Hosted by the Zayin Class Sunday, November 1 10 am to noon The Zayin (7th grade) class will be hosting a cell phone tutorial. All seniors who want to learn to operate their phone more proficiently, RSVP for a slot for this November 1 session. There are four time slots, with five people in each, so sign up quickly to get a spot! If the event is successful, we will consider having another one. There is a $1.80 charge. Please sign up on the bulletin board inside TBEMC’s lobby front doors or just stop by. 9 3 GIFT CARDS Support TBEMC Through Shopping Do you shop online with Amazon or Barnes & Noble? Go to Target or Walmart, Macy's, Old Navy, Gap or Nordstrom? Fly Jet Blue, Southwest or American Airlines? Stay at a Holiday Inn or Sheraton Hotel? Cruise with Carnival, Royal Caribbean, Celebrity, Princess?* To patronize these and many other merchants, go to the “Support by Shopping” page on the TBEMC website where we have direct links to Amazon and Barnes & Noble, and TBEMC gets cash back on your purchases. Plant a tree in Israel with the Jewish National Fund and get TBEMC some cash back. Obtain discounts on JDeal, which is a Jewish oriented discount program similar to Groupon. Get the Temple credit with a very wide variety of merchants using E-Scrip. You can even donate a car and get TBEMC a large percentage of the fair market value through the Charitable Auto Resources link (5 Temple members have already done so!) In some cases, you can use your TBEMC Sisterhood gift cards at the links from the “Support by Shopping” page so that TBEMC receives double credit! This is an easy, cost-free way to support the Temple and we hope that you will remember to take advantage of it. If you experience any difficulties, please send me an e-mail. David Thaler, mediatorthaler@hotmail.com *For Pathmark and American Airlines, use the E-Scrip link and go to the "Family of Merchants" tab and select "Northeast" and the corresponding categories from the drop down menus. For all of the other merchants mentioned above (and many more), you must first sign up with E-Scrip at this link: https://secure.escrip.com/jsp/supporter/registration/step1.jsp and, once you have a supporter ID, go to E-Scrip's Online Mall, where you will find many, many popular merchants. Amazon and Barnes & Noble have direct links from our web page. Cars for Cash You recently filed your taxes, and maybe you’re looking for a tax break for next year. One great way to support TBEMC is by donating your used car. You get the full tax deduction and TBEMC gets the majority of the donation. To donate, go to the “Support the Temple” part of TBEMC’s website, click “Support by Shopping” and then click “CARS.” For questions or more information on this easy donation process, please contact Mark Kaplan (908) 232-5498 or email at markikaplan@hotmail.com. Thank you to Ernestine and Mickey Fox for donating your car to benefit TBEMC. Sisterhood sells gift cards all year long. Use them instead of your credit card when grocery shopping as well. When you buy your gift card through Sisterhood, TBEMC gets a percentage of every card, and it costs you nothing extra. Did you know that 5% of every ShopRite card you buy goes directly to TBEMC? While you may forgo your credit card rewards in using them, you’ll be making a valuable donation to the shul. How to get gift cards: • Linda Flaxman is the queen of gift cards. Contact her linda.flaxman@ rutgers.edu to order specific cards, or for your daily use. She’s often at the Sunday morning minyan with her box of cards, as well as other synagogue events. • Connie Moore in the temple office has several types of grocery store gift cards. Come in during office hours (including at the start of Tuesday Hebrew school) and purchase from her. Gift cards bring in thousands of needed dollars to TBEMC every year. While it may take a little adjustment in how you do your grocery shopping, or ordering a little earlier from Linda and not picking them up at the neighborhood store, you’re doing an extra mitzvah in buying them from Sisterhood. Gift cards include: ShopRite, Stop & Shop, Home Depot, Dunkin Donuts, iTunes, and just about any other store card you want. S’MACHOT Got Simcha? Want to celebrate with your TBEMC community? Special occasions, birthdays, anniversaries, graduations, new children and grandchildren all are special. Thanks to Joanie Finkelstein and Marc Herzog for providing new menu options for you to choose from when you enjoy a Simcha here at the Temple. See the flyer in this bulletin about food options (or check with Connie in the temple office). When you decide to sponsor a Friday night or Saturday morning Oneg or Kiddush, please check with the office first about date availability. Next, contact Joanie or Marc to discuss your menu options and prices. Please email simcha@tbemc.org to submit requests for orders. They need a minimum of two weeks notice from you in order to place the order in a timely manner; but more time would be greatly appreciated. 10 NOVEMBER 2015 MINYAN LIST Sun: 9:00 a.m.; Mon. & Thurs. 6:50 a.m. / Tues., Wed., Fri., 7 a.m.; Evenings 7:30 p.m. @Rosh Hodesh Kislev: Friday, Nov. 13@ @Morning Minyan at Temple Beth 'Or Beth Torah in Clark for November@ SUNDAY MONDAY Rosman Roy Rubenstein Salomon Samolsky Schalef Scheiner, H & M Scheiner, S & S Scher Schoss 2 Wofsy Young Zudiker Alexander Applebaum Aubrey Ballen Baranoff Barkin Barr 9 15 Fox Friedman Gantz Gerber Ginsberg Gittlin Goldberg Goldfarb Goodgold Goodman 16 22 Lupin Mamlet Mandell Margulies Mayer Mazur Mazura Merman Metz Metzger 23 1 8 29 Sorkin/Berlin Sourifman Spergel Sperling Spitz Sporn Springer Stark Baharav Stavin Stein Schulz Schwartz, C & A Schwartz, R & C Schwartz, D & S Schwartz, H Schwartzbach Sclar Semel TUESDAY WEDNESDAY THURSDAY 5 Veron Waldman Weingus Weinstock Werschulz White, D & G Whte, R & J Wiecek Wise Wolf 3 Siegel Solomon Sorkin, F & G Sorkin/Berlin Sourifman Spergel Sperling Spitz Sporn Springer 4 Stark Baharav Stavin Stein Steinbach, D Steinbach, L & S Steiner Sussman Taub Thaler/Plotkin Turnof 10 Brugger Cagan Carno Sarwin Cofsky Cohen, A & L Cohen, H & H Cohen, J. Daniel DiChiaro Dorf 11 Dorfman Drechsler Dulberger, L. Dulberger, D. Ehrich Eibschutz Einhorn Eisenberg Epstein, C & H Farber, L 12 Farber, H & S Ferdinand Figman Fine Finklestein Finston/Levy Fiore Fitzer Flaxman Forlander Gottschalk Hoff Greenberg Grunberg Haiser Haleva Halperin Harris Harsch Hatoff Heicklin 17 Hertzoff Herz Herzog Jacobson Kaback Kandl Kanig Kant Kaplan Kendler 18 Kessler Kimmelman Kipness Klein, R Klein, L. Kopla Kroner Kupferberg Leber Lefkovic, D. 19 Lefkovic, R. & F Leibowitz Leifer Lesser Levenberg Levine, S & M Levine, S. Littman Loshin Lulinski Novick 24 Reitman Rich Ritter Rosenberg Rosenblum Rosenfeld Rosenthal Rosman Roy Rubenstein 25 26 Salomon Samolsky Schalef Scheiner, H & M Scheiner, S & S Scher Schoss Schulz Schwartz, C & A Schwartz, R & C Schwartz, D & S Schwartz, H Schwartzbach Sclar Semel Sexton Steinberg Shapiro Lubarsky Beinstein Ben Shimon Klieger Berger Kessler Berkman Bernstein Bilenker Blank Blecher Bleemer Bloomfield Opatowski/Baroh Oslick Parish Platt Posner Potashkin Quintana Rappaport Regan Sexton Steinberg Shapiro Lubarsky Siegel Solomon Sorkin, F & G 30 Steinbach, D Steinbach, L & S Steiner Sussman Taub Thaler/Plotkin Turnof Veron Waldman Weingus 11 Donations Please consider donations to these other charitable funds at TBEMC NEW CANTOR’S DISCRETIONARY FUND BERNICE WEINSTOCK FUND RELIGIOUS SCHOOL FUND TORAH RESTORATION FUND ETZ CHAYIM FUND PHYLLIS AND IRVING METZGER MEMORIAL FUND SIMCHA FUND DR. STUART M. KABACK MEMORIAL FUND RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND YAHRTZEIT FUND Miriam Jarney— In memory of my beloved father, Sigmund Grunwald Bert Fine—In loving memory of my aunt, Anna Weiss Florette Applebaum—In loving memory of my mother, Shirley Rosenblatt Arlene and Herbert Hertzoff—in loving memory of my father, Harry Hertzoff Helaine and Harold Cohen—In loving memory of Betty Cohen Linda and Jonas Leifer— In loving memory of my father, Jack Franzman Mark and Florence Lurinsky—In loving memory of Celia Teitelbaum Judy Beinstein—In memory of my father, Morris Shor and my mother-in-law, Sonia Beinstein Alison and Stanley Rems in memory of Michael Weisfeld Rae Kane in memory of Shirley Riesenberg Harriet Gross in memory of Morris Elgarten Richard and Judith Rosenberg in memory of Harry Rosenberg Len and Lois Waldman in memory of Alex Waldman Shirley Picker in memory of Abraham Picker Joanne and Martin Friedman in memory of Arthur Rosen Paul and Helene Graboff in memory of Ester Graboff Bert Fine and Heidi Farber in loving memory of Florence Fine Howard Epstein in memory of Carol Epstein Estelle Model in memory of Gertrude Sandler SHIVA MEAL FUND Joy Veron—In loving memory of Michael Veron and Sylvia Rabinowitsch BONNIE WEINER MEMORIAL LIBRARY FUND In honor of the Bar Mitzvah of Noah Kopla, from Marilyn Kaback PHYLLIS AND IRVING METZGER MEMORIAL FUND Sharlene Barr in memory of my parents, Samuel and Sylvia Barr 12 Yahrzeit Announcements NOVEMBER 1–6 Cheshvan 19–24 Ellen Meth, mother of Robert Meth Regina Kaback, mother-in-law of Marilyn Kaback Frieda Lipkind, sister of Leonard Farber Minnie Schwartz, mother of David Schwartz Emil Bleemer, father of Melvin Bleeme Maurice David Roffe, father of Julie Barkin Benjamin Kleinert, father of Terri Gittlin Joseph Greenberg, father of Marvin Greenberg Robert Littman, brother of Lawrence Littman Benjamin Kleinert, father of Carol Blank Harold Baranoff, father of Jerald Baranoff Florence Jacobson, mother of Roberta Einhorn Abraham Grodjesk, father of Bernice Bedrick Leonard Sattler, brother of Lorraine Loshin Irene Gromfin, sister of Thelma Rappaport Edward Warren, father of Sadie Schoss Nathan Tanenbaum, father of Eleanor Fishman NOVEMBER 7–13 Cheshvan 24–Kislev 1 Faye Rubin, mother-in-law of Laura Rubin Morton Fairberg, father of Ruth Sperber Max Grund, father of Roberta Phillips Samuel Fishman, father-in-law of Eleanor Fishman Anna Zinker, grandmother of Sima Dorf-Murphy Emanuel Bedrick, husband of Bernice Bedrick Tillie Saperstein, mother-in-law of Joseph Bloomfield Theodore Farber, father of Leonard Farber Lillian Goldblatt, sister of Rae Kane Lillian Rosenberg, mother of Richard Rosenberg Emanuel Feder, father of Lenore Klein NOVEMBER 14–20 Kislev 2–8 Lillian Rubenstein, mother of Muriel Blum Rose Mandell, mother of Burton Mandell David Rappaport, father of Irwin Rappaport Gladys Lubarsky, mother of Nancy Lubarsky Bess Fairberg, mother of Ruth Sperber Sylvia Wachtel, mother of Ramona Ehrich Arthur Ferdinand, husband of Carrie Ferdinand Herb Levenberg, husband of Roberta Phillips and father of David Levenberg Helen Likover, mother of Laura Rubin Mr. Leon Sperling, brother of Henry Sperling Louis Galen, grandfather of Robert Galen Jack Schwartz, husband of Henny Schwartz Sol Mandell, father of Burton Mandell Fred Koenig, father of Susan Harris Julius Gross, father-in-law of Harriet Gross NOVEMBER 21–27 Kislev 9–15 Samuel Gershman, grandfather of Annette Sarrazine Max Salomon, father of David Salomon Herman Schultz, father of Madeline Spitz Lewis Kater, father of Barbara Potashkin Elsie Siegfried, grandmother of Jane Kanig Alan Hatoff, husband of Blossom Hatoff and father of Kory Hatoff Ruth Barde, mother of Susan Eisenberg Harry Levine, father-in-law of Sheila Levine William Eckel, son of Joan Eckel Jack Stein, father of Philip Stein Bryna Lulinski, sister of Ira Lulinski Eva Oslick, mother of Harold Oslick Samuel Milberger, husband of Bernice Bedrick Haddassah Levitan, mother of Sidney Solomon Marion Grund, mother of Roberta Phillips Sandra Hecht Heller, niece of Judith Hecht Phillip Sperber, brother of Martin Sperbe Helen Shine Pollins, mother of Roberta Rich NOVEMBER 28–31 Kislev 16–18 Pauline Feldman, mother of Marilyn Kaback Ben Phillips, father-in-law of Roberta Phillips Samuel Lutsky, father of Estelle Meltzer Max Lesser, father of Jonathan Lesser Beverly Applebaum Mc Donald, daughter of Florette Applebaum Klara Scheiber, mother of Esther Colodner Alex Mazur, father-in-law of Harriet Mazur Abraham Bedrick, father-in-law of Bernice Bedrick 13 USY Carnival WHEN: 11//5/2015 WHAT: We will be carving pumpkins, enjoying, apple cider, an nd more!!!! TIME: 7:15 pm to 8:45 pm WHERE: TBEMC RSSVVP: 10 0 /3 1 Email cranfordusy@gmail.com iff you have any questions SAVE THE DATE S C M E T B sents e r p Saturday November 21 8:00 PM at TBEMC $36 includes snacks, wine, beer, soft drinks, and lots of laughs! 'RQ·WPLVVLW SAVE THE DATE S Sunday, Nov. 22, 2015 12:15 - 2:15 p.m. The 0HQ¶V Club of Temple Beth-El Mekor &KD\LP¶V Annual Thanksgiving .LGV¶ Part ry Kids, Parents, Grandparents ±All Invited! Good Food ± Bingo ± Lots of Prizes ± Giffts foor all You could winn a KINDDLE FIREE HD! Please bri b ing a canned food ite t m for the needy.. For more infformation, contact Craig Schwartz at 908-709-3776 or rcsa acs@aol.com Temple Beth-El Mekor Chayim 338 Walnut Avenue, Cranford 908-276-9231 www.tbemc.org Rabbi Ben Goldstein Run TBEMC members Harold Roy, Donna Rubin, Mark Kaplan, Carrie Wofsy and David Kovacs ran the Hershey Half Marathon in October. If interested in joining the temple’s running group, which often runs on Sundays after religious school drop-off, email Harold at hroy1@comcast.net. Birthdays Anniversaries Bar/Bat Mitzvot Graduations Birth of a Child Birth of a Grandchild Commemorating a Yahrzeit Host a celebration with your TBEMC family just for fun! DAIRY OPTIONS MEAT OPTIONS from Jerusalem Pizza from Deli King Option 1: Bagel & Shmear $270 with Lox $360 • Tuna Salad • Egg Salad • Bagels • Cream Cheese • Sliced Tomatoes & Onions • Cucumber Platter Option 1: Deli-cious Platters $915 • Assorted Meats • Salads • Pickles • Bread and Rolls Option 2: A Taste of Israel $405 • Chummus • Babaganush • Turkish Salad • Israeli Salad • Falafel Balls • Tehina • Pita • Greek Salad Option 3: Hot Separdic $405 • Eggplant Parmesan • Ziti • Caesar Salad • Garlic Knots Option 2: Sloppy Jonah $810 • Sloppy Joes • Pickles • Potato Salad * Pricing includes cost of paper goods, sodas, coffee/tea and are based on 60 servings. May be scaled up in intervals of 10 servings Just pick an option and we do the rest... it’s easy and reasonable! Email us: simcha@tbemc.org FINK ROS N E R ERSHOW- LEVENBERG, LLC AT T O R N E Y S A T L AW A CE LEBRA TIN G 50 Y EA RS R O F SERV ICE PL ANNI A NG N PRE SERVING PRO T E CT IN NG ... Your LifeȂs Mostt Y Valu uable Assets RSHOW-LEV E ENBERG LINDA ERSHOW EUGENE ROSNER C ertified El lderLaw A ttorneys* 1093Rart rian itan Roa oad d,C lak a rk,NJ 0706 732-382-6070 www.finkrosnerershow-levenberg.com یW ی ILL S & T RU STS ME DIC AID D & E L DE R LA W ی V ETER A N S PL ANNI N NG ی SPEC IA AL NEED S * Certified by The National Elder Law Foundation AnABA approved organization approved by the NJSupremeCourt TBEMC families enjoyed a perfect weather day and great company for the annual apple picking event. (732) 574-2040 DELI KING CLARK Restaurant/Catering/Delicatessen 30 Clarkton Drive Clark, New Jersey 07006 (Located in the Clarkton Shopping Center) Residential and Commercial Service Scotch Plains, NJ • 908-222-1566 grandsanitation.com