May 10 2015 Bulletin
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May 10 2015 Bulletin
Page Two Holy Family Church Nutley ~ Belleville Rectory: 973-667-0026/Fax: 973-661-1714 Convent: 973-667-2050 28 Brookline Avenue 60 Harrison Street www.holyfamilynutley.org SERVED BY: Pastor Rev. Joseph Ferraro, K.H.S. Parochial Vicars Rev. John Gordon, V.F. Rev. Mauro Primavera In Residence Rev. Matthew Kunnath Director of Religious Education Sr. Diana Yodris, MPF Convent Superior Sr. Gloria Doria, MPF Good Shepherd Academy Sr. Jane Feltz, MPF, Principal Pastoral Associate Sr. Eileen Hubbert, SSJ Director of Music Ministry Ms. Susan Loricchio Ministers of Hospitality John Caruso, Captain Youth Ministry Team Mrs. Amy DiCristo & Mr. John O’Reilly Parish Secretary Ms. Lynn S. Falduto (hfclynn28@aol.com) Nursery School Supervisor Sr. Jycinth Valenciana, FSSE Development Committee Chairperson Mr. Paul Grillo Parish Trustees Mrs. Gina Tamburri Mr. Robert Collmier Stewardship Committee Chairperson Mr. Philip Hui May 10, 2015 Rel. Education Office: 973-667-6018 Nursery: 973-235-1170 Good Shepherd Academy: 973-667-2049 174 Franklin Avenue 24 Brookline Avenue; www.gsanutley.org MASSES Saturday evening: 5:30 PM (English), 7:00 PM (Italian) Neo-Catechumenate Liturgy: 8:30 PM Sunday: 8:00 AM, 10:00 AM, 12:00 Noon & 7:00 PM Filipino Mass: 2nd Sunday of month, 5:00 PM Daily: 7:00, 8:45 AM; Saturday 8:45 AM OFFICE HOURS: Daily: 8:30 AM - 12:00 Noon 1:00 - 4:00 PM 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM The Rectory is closed 12:00 - 1:00 PM and 4:00 - 6:00 PM Saturday: 10:00 AM - 3:00 PM The office is closed on Sunday. RECONCILIATION: Saturday, 1:00 PM BAPTISM: Baptisms are scheduled once a month on Sunday afternoons except during Lent. Expectant parents are asked to contact the rectory to schedule an appointment at least three months before the desired date of Baptism. Parents must attend a special catechetical session prior to the Baptism. MARRIAGE: Couples should contact the rectory one year in advance of the proposed wedding date in order to allow for the proper pre-marital preparation. At least one person must be a registered parishioner of Holy Family. ANOINTING OF THE SICK: This is a sacrament not only for those who are at the point of death. As soon as anyone begins to be in danger of death from sickness or old age, we encourage you to call for a priest in the rectory. MINISTRY OF THE SICK: The Eucharist will be brought to the homebound. Please contact the Rectory with the names and addresses of parishioners who are ill or homebound. VOCATION: Women and men who feel called to the religious life, and men called to Holy Orders, should contact the Vocations Office at 973-497-4365. EMERGENCY CALLS: In case of an accident or sudden illness, call the rectory at any hour or reach us on the emergency phone, 973-715-3108. The priest on duty will return your call. SOCIAL SERVICE HOTLINE: The Catholic Community Services is an office that serves all people in need. Please call 1-800-CCS-7413. PARISH PAY: Have your weekly donation sent directly to the Church! Visit www.parishpay.com or call 1-866-PARISH1 MISSION STATEMENT Holy Family Catholic Church is a spiritually and socially active parish. Rooted in the Word of God and nourished by the Eucharist, we celebrate the life of our Lord Jesus Christ by proclaiming the Good News and providing spiritual growth, support and service with love. Founded by Italian immigrants a century ago, today our parish continues the tradition of extending a loving, caring and affirming welcome to all who join us as we Continue Our Journey of Faith. La Chiesa Cattolica Santa Famiglia e’ una parrocchia socialmente e spiritualmente attiva. Radicata nella Parola di Dio e nutrite dall’eucarestia, celebriamo la vita del nostro Signore Gesu’Cristo proclamando la buona novella e provvedendo crescita spirituale, supporto e servizio con amore. Fondata un secolo fa’ da immigranti italiani, oggi, la nostra parrocchia continua la tradizione di estendere un amorevole, caro e reconoscente benvenuto a tutti coloro che con noi continuano e condividono il nostro cammino di fede. Ang simbahang katoliko ng banal na pamilya ay isang masiglang parokya sa espirituwal at ugnayang panlipunan. Nakaugat sa salita ng diyos at pinalusog ng eukaristiya, ipanagdiriwant namin ang buhay ng ating panginoong hesukristo sa pagpapahayag ng mabuting balita at paguudulot ng paglago sa kabanalan, paggabay, at mapagmahal na paglilingkod. Itinatag ng mga dayuhang italiano may isang-daan taon na ang nakakalipas, ngayon ang aming parokya ay patuloy sa pag-ugit ng tradisyon ng mapag-aruga, mapagkalinga, at mapagkilang pagtanggap sa mga sumapi saamin habang patuloy sa paglalakbay sa panaampalataya. Holy Family Spring Classic Golf Outing Page Three RAISE THE ROOF Proceeds will benefit the repairs of the roof at Holy Family Church. Taking Care of God’s Things PRIZES Date: June 15, 2015 • Longest Drive Time: 8:00 Shotgun Start • Closest to the Pin • Pink Ball 50/50 Register by: May 31, 2015 • Best Score for Straight Golf Players. Entry fees: •$100 per golfer •$400 per foursome First Golfer •$20 optional entry per qualified golfers for Straight Golf Best Score Challenge(50/50 Prize) •$5 optional entry for longest drive challenge •$5 optional entry for closest to the pin challenge •$20 optional entry per foursome for Pink Ball challenge for 50/50 drawing. (Foursome gets one sleeve of 4 pink balls.) Name: Address: Email/Phone: Second Golfer Name: Address: Email/Phone: Hybrid Option of Straight Golf for Experienced players or Best Ball for new and amateurs. Name: Address: Email/Phone: Location: Hendricks Field Golf Course 220 Franklin Avenue For more information or to register call: Contact Philip Hui at: 646-431-8487 Mail form and entry fee to: Holy Family Church 28 Brookline Avenue Nutley, NJ 07110 Phone: 646-431-8487 E-mail: psh.hfc@gmail.com Third Golfer Fourth Golfer Name: Address: Email/Phone: Pick one for each golfer for Lunch Box: PLEASE MAKE CHECKS PAYABLE TO HOLY FAMILY CHURCH 2 Hot Dogs x _____ per golfer Tuna Sandwich x _____ per golfer Turkey Sandwich x _____ per golfer Signature Date Signature of parent or guardian if under 18 years of age. Date Page Four 6th Sunday in Easter B-2015 My brothers and sisters in the Lord, In the first reading today, we hear one of the most important teachings we will ever learn and one that St. Peter needed to learn. Putting it plainly, God does not have any favorites. Everyone who does what is right is acceptable to God. There are no barriers, no dividing lines that separate us from one another. No race, no color, no creed. In Jesus’ teaching in the Sermon on the Mount, the Lord tells us that not even enemies are to be treated differently. He tells us, “Love your enemies and do good to those who treat you badly.” This teaching can be seen in practice on every page of the Gospels, where Jesus is confronted regularly by His opponents. He treats them all with fairness, openness and honestly. This fair dealing with difficult people is love in action. It comes to its high point on Calvary, when the dying Jesus asks the Father to forgive those who crucified Him with the words: They know not what they do.” At the Last Supper Jesus gives us the commandment to, “love one another, as I have loved you.” Love is not just a feeling. It is a response to God’s loving us first, and a grace of Christ to love others. The love of God inspires us to love others and to make no exceptions. The simple words we must always remember, “Those who honor me I will honor.” We honor the Lord by the simple and faithful observance of His commandment, “Love one another.” Today we celebrate and honor the special gift of our mothers, both living and deceased. It is a day to give thanks to God for this precious gift. Each one of our mothers has given us the gift of life. Each one of our mothers has given us their own special legacy of love. Each mother created by our heavenly Father so unique, so different, each with her own special talents. Let us pray for them that the Lord gives them good health and that we may always respect and honor them. And for those who have gone home to the Lord, may they be at peace and rewarded for the life and love they have given us. A reminder to keep in your prayers the men who will be Ordained as Deacons next Sunday, May 17, at 12:00 noon in the Cathedral Basilica of the Sacred Heart. Among those being ordained is one of our own parishioners, Vincent D’Agostino. Please pray for Vincent and his classmates as they make this step toward the priesthood. The following Saturday, May 23, is Priesthood Ordination. We pray for the men being ordained to the Priesthood of our Lord Jesus. Among those being ordained is Deacon Antonio who has been with us his year. He will have his Mass of Thanksgiving, Saturday 30, at 5:30 PM. Please return the response form found in this bulletin for the reception following mass. Please continue to pray for all vocations and especially for an increase to the priesthood as well as the Religious Life. A Blessed and happy day to all the women of our parish, may our Blessed Mother, Mother of all, intercede for us and bring our prayers to the throne of our heavenly Father. Happy Mother’s Day! Peace and prayers always, Fr. Joe A Child’s Angel Once upon a time there was a child ready to be born. One day he asked God: “They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow, but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?” “Among the many Angels, I chose one for you; she will be waiting for you and will take care of you.” “But tell me, here in Heaven, I don’t do anything else but sing and smile, that’s enough for me to be happy.” “Your Angel will sing for you and will also smile for you every day. And you will feel your Angel’s love and be very happy.” “And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me if I don’t know the language that men talk?” “Your Angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear and with much patience and care, your Angel will teach you how to speak.” “And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?” “Your Angel will place your hands together and teach you how to pray.” “I’ve heard that on earth there are bad men. Who will protect me?” “Your Angel will defend you, even if it means risking her life!” “But I will always be sad because I won’t see you anymore.” “Your Angel will always talk to you about me and will teach you the way for you to come back to me, even though I will always be next to you.” At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from earth could already be heard and the child in a hurry asked softly, “Oh God, if I am about to leave now, please tell me my Angel’s name.” “Your Angel’s name is of no importance - - you will call your Angel ‘Mommy’.” (Author Unknown) Page Five Saturday, May 9 & Sunday, May 10 Saturday: 5:30 & 7:00 PM Sunday: 8:00 & 10:00 AM; 12:00 Noon Masses in Honor of All Mothers Living & Deceased Monday, May 11 7:00 AM Margaret Carannante...The Grullon Family 8:45 AM Mario Tamburri...Gennaro & Maria Cifelli Tuesday, May 12 7:00 AM Anthony F. Hill...Melissa Benenati 8:45 AM Frances Corso 1st Anniversary...Lynn Agrifolio Wednesday, May 13 7:00 AM Robert Switendale...Judith LoConte 8:45 AM Bevilacqua & Zaino Families...Millie Zaino 7:00 PM (Vigil for the Ascension of the Lord) Patricia M. Nyegaard...Anne McManus Ascension Thursday, May 14 7:00 AM Margaret M. Hubbert...Sr. Eileen 8:45 AM Thomas Genna...Wife, Theresa 7:00 PM Enrico Tamurri… Mom & Dad Friday, May 15 7:00 AM Patricia Urgo...Barone & White Families 8:45 AM Teodora & Julian Lolenz...Julia & Aster Lolenz Saturday, May 16 8:45 AM Special Remembrance Mass John & Eleanor Arthur Rosaria Faragasso Mary Ellen Howley Canon Lalata Edgar Alan Lalata Joseph Nguyen Luke Nguyen Marion Nitti Rosalyn Renda Elmer & Hattie Walsh 7th Sunday of Easter Saturday, May 16 5:30 PM Momma, Rosie & Min...Eleanor Strollo 7:00 PM Mercede Cifelli...Daughter Dora, & Family Sunday, May 17 8:00 AM Rosa Nguyen...Sandra & Mike Scricco 10:00 AM Anna & John B. Vitale..Husband John & Daughters 12:00 PM Josephine Condurso...Arlene & Janet Kaiser 7:000 PM People of the Parish STEWARDSHIP OF TREASURE “This is my commandment: love one another as I love you. No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends” - John 15:12-13 Do you love Jesus? Do you consider Him your friend? Jesus says that if we love Him we should be willing to offer whatever we have to Him, not because we want praise and glory, but simply because we love Him. For Sunday, May 3, 2015: The actual collection was $11,165.00; $1,656.00 of which came from Parish Pay. The 2nd Collection for the Archdiocesan Assessment was $2,959.00; $430.00 of which came from Parish Pay. Mass Attendance was: 2,024. God Bless You For Your Continued Generosity! For Sunday, May 4, 2014, The actual collection was $10,479.00; $1.283.00 of which came from Parish Pay. The 2nd Collection for the Archdiocesan Assessment was 3,037.00; $360.00 of which came from Parish Pay. Mass Attendance was 1,249. Memorials for the Week of May 10 Church Sanctuary Lamp Margaret Hubbert...Julia Sabadics Mother Cabrini Chapel Sanctuary Lamp Louise Struffolino...Daughter-in-Law, Rose Altar Candles Joan Miller...The Steck Family Altar Bread & Altar Wine Frances Corso...Lynn Agrifolio Please Pray for Those Who Are Sick... Raymond & Mary Bresko, Sr. Marie Ciamillo, MPF, Anthony D’Agostino, Jennifer Caramucci DeJesus, Daniel DePaul, Janet Ferrugia, Fr. Peter Funesti, Toni Logiudice, Josephine Loricchio, Kenneth Matthews, Philip Napoli, Laurie Palumbo, Kayla San Filippo, Richard Tyrpak - the entire sick list is posted on the bulletin board in the vestibule. Please Pray for Those Who Have Died… John Donotono, Ronald William Beck Anna Gingerelli, Michael Blasi Please note the following correction - Seminarian Vincent D’Agostino will be ordained a Deacon on Sunday, May 17 , at the 12:00 PM Mass, at the Cathedral Basilica in Newark. It was erroneously published in the May calendar as the 10:00 AM Mass. Page Six STEWARDSHIP OF TIME Saturday May 9 8:30 PM Neo-Catechumenate #1 - MCC 8:30 PM Neo-Catechumenate #2/3 - SJC All Weekend Masses: 2nd Collection - Communicating God’s Word; Collection of Baby Bottles & Baby Shower Gifts; Youth Group Rose Sale; K of C selling Bingo Tickets Sunday, May 10 10:00 AM Children's Liturgy of the Word - Church 2:45 PM Fatima Prayer Group - MCC 5:00 PM Filipino Mass - Church; Fellowship following SJC 6:00 PM Youth Group - SA Monday, May 11 7:00 PM Novena - MCC 7:00 PM K of C - SA 7:00 PM Choir Rehearsal - Church Tuesday, May 12 12:30 PM Adult Education - SJC Final CCD Class 7:00 PM Holy Name Meeting - MDL 7:30 PM Social Concerns - SJC Wednesday, May 13 7:30 PM Bereavement SA 7:00 PM Vigil Mass for the Ascension 8:30 PM Neo-Catechumenate #1 - MSA 8:30 PM Neo-Catechumenate #2 - SJC 8:30 PM Neo-Catechumenate #3 - SLR Thursday, May 14 - The Ascension of the Lord 10:00 AM Adult Italian Class - SA Last CCD Class 4:30 PM Children’s Italian Class - SA 7:00 PM Additional Mass for the holyday of obligation 7:00 PM Padre Pio - MCC 7:30 PM Bible Study - SJC Friday, May 15 6:00 AM Men's Prayer Group - SJC 11:00 AM Blood Bank - SJC Saturday, May 16 1:00 PM Confession - Church 8:30 PM Neo-Catechumenate #1 - MCC 8:30 PM Neo-Catechumenate #2/3 - SJC All Weekend Masses: 2nd Collection - Shared School Expenses; K of C selling Bingo Tickets Sunday, May 17 10:00 AM Children's Liturgy of the Word - Church 12:00 PM Vincent D’Agostino is Ordained a Deacon Cathedral Basilica, Newark 12:00 PM SJC in use till 5:00 PM 2:45 PM Fatima Prayer Group - MCC 6:00 PM Youth Group - SJC KEY LR Liturgy Room - Rectory Basement MCC Mother Cabrini Chapel MDL Msgr. DiLuca Conf. Room (Behind the Bell Tower) MSA Maria SS. Addolorata Room - Parish Center PP Padre Pio Room - Parish Center PR Pantry Room - Rectory Basement SA St. Anthony Room - Parish Center SJC St. Joseph Center READINGS FOR THE WEEK Monday: Acts 16:11-15; Ps 149:1b-6a, 9b;Jn 15:26 -16:4a Tuesday: Acts 16:22-34; Ps 138:1-3, 7c-8; Jn 16:5-11 Wednesday: Acts 17:15, 22 — 18:1; Ps 148:1-2, 11-14; Jn 16:12-15 Thursday: Acts 1:1-11; Ps 47:2-3, 6-9; Eph 1:17-23 or Eph 4:1-13 [1-7, 11-13]; Mk 16:15-20 (for Ascension); otherwise Acts 1:15-27, 20-26; Ps 113:1-8; Jn 15:9-17 Friday: Acts 18:9-18; Ps 47:2-7; Jn 16:20-23 Saturday: Acts 18:23-28; Ps 47:2-3, 8-10; Jn 16:23b-28 Sunday: Acts 1:15-17, 20a, 20c-26; Ps 103:1-2, 11-12, 19-20; 1 Jn 4:11-16; Jn 17:11b-19; or, for Ascension, Acts 1:1-11; Ps 47:2-3, 6-9; Eph 1:17- 23 or Eph 4:1-13 [1-7, 11-13]; Mk 16:15-20 The Great Mission Dear Parishioners, Our Holy Father, Pope Francis, has encouraged Christians to announce the love of Christ to everyone and the good news that death has been vanquished and the gates of Heaven are now open! Catholics throughout the world responded this Easter Season by embarking on a Great Mission to announce the Gospel to the world in the streets and public spaces. In Nutley, join us as we proclaim, “Christ Risen!” this Sunday afternoon and next week, May 17th, at 4:00, near the Clock Tower Courtyard on Franklin Avenue between Centre and William Streets. Brothers and sisters, there is no greater privilege than to announce the love of God, Jesus Christ’s victory over death, and eternal life being offered freely to all. Everyone is invited to attend and I encourage you to pray that this mission produces much spiritual fruit. - Father Joe CEMETERY MASS LOCATIONS Serving God & Country: A Memorial Day Salute to Our Heroes MEMORIAL DAY, MONDAY, MAY 25, 11:00 A.M. Holy Cross, North Arlington, Most Rev. John J. Myers Gate of Heaven, East Hanover, Most Rev. Bernard A. Hebda St. Gertrude, Colonia, Most Rev. Manuel A. Cruz Holy Name, Jersey City, Most Rev. Thomas A. Donato Christ the King, Franklin Lakes, Most Rev. John W. Flesey Maryrest, Mahwah, Most Rev. Thomas P. Nydegger Holy Sepulchre, East Orange, Rev. Philip Waters Page Seven GOOD SHEPHERD ACADEMY NEWS! Calendar Raffle Winners For the week of April 27th: 4/27/15 Pamela Joyner Ticket #1544 4/28/15 Cristian Villanueva Ticket #291 4/29/15 Mario Laino Ticket #341 4/30/15 Omar Diaz Ticket #1036 5/1/15 Joseph Paolillo Ticket #75 For the week of May 4th: 5/4/15 Jenkins Kennedy Ticket #3436 5/5/15 Esther Palacios & Diane Bonnaci Ticket #3621 5/6/15 Antony Pollail Ticket #4160 5/7/15 Simone Talarico Ticket #1448 5/8/15 Paul DeBarros Ticket #3418 Shop Rite For My School: Shop for participating products at ShopRite during advertised promotions using your Price Plus Club Card and earnings are automatically credited to Good Shepherd Academy. Register your Price Plus card at shopriteformyschool.com and select “Good Shepherd Academy” Box Tops for Education - The school is able to receive money when they turn in the General Mills box tops! Please save them and drop them off in the special box which is located in the vestibule of Church. Used Cell Phones & Toners - The school collects used cell phones so if you upgrade yours, please do not discard the old one. The school also accepts toners from computers to be recycled. All can be dropped off in the GSA box located in the vestibule of the Church. Reflections on Poverty “Being a believer means that one lives a certain way: walking with the Lord, doing justice, loving kindness, and living peaceably among all people. Christian discipleship means practicing what Jesus preached.” - US Bishops, Everyday Christianity RECEPTION FOR “FATHER” ANTONIO SARENTO Deacon Anton will be ordained a priest Saturday, May 23, 2015. To thank him for his service as our Deacon for the past year, we wish to honor him with a light reception following his first Mass here at Holy Family. Join us on Saturday evening, May 30th. The 5:30 & 7:00 Masses will be combined at 5:30 and “Father” Sarento will say Mass. We need to approximate the number of guests who will attend. Please fill in this form and drop it in the basket at Mass. Yes - I WILL attend Fr. Antonio Sarento’s First Mass and Light Reception which will follow, here at Holy Family. Name: __________________________________________ No. of People Attending: ____________________________ I can bring a dessert! ________________________________ Stewardship Corner Bible Blitz! A collection of new and gently used Bibles is underway. Help us to spread the Word of The Lord to those who cannot afford a Bible. You may leave the bibles in the Church vestibule on the ledge below the TV screen or drop them off at the rectory. MIRACULOUS MEDAL NOVENA The Miraculous Medal Novena is every Monday at 7:00 PM, in the Mother Cabrini Chapel. Novena consists of devotional prayers to the Miraculous Medal and St. Jude, and the Benediction of the Blessed Sacrament. On national holidays, Novena prayers are offered at 8:45 AM, just prior to the 9:00 AM Mass. TEACHING THE GOOD NEWS RELIGIOUS EDUCATION PROGRAM (CCD) FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL: 973-667-6018 Sunday: Grades K-5, 8:30 AM-9:45 AM Tuesday: Grades 1-6, 3:30-4:45 PM ~ Classes for Spring Garden, Lincoln and Yanticaw Schools Wednesday Evening: (all schools) Grades 7 & 8 7:00-8:30 PM Thursday: Grades 1-6; 3:30-4:45 PM ~ Classes for Belleville #5, Washington & Radcliff Schools It is registration time again for the Religious Education Program. (2015-2016 ) This also includes Confirmation students as well. Please contact Sr. Diana to make an appointment at 973-667-6018. In the readings we are commanded to love one another. Jesus tells us in the Gospel that through living in love we will have complete joy! Attend a Marriage Encounter to gain the tools to truly love your spouse more and receive the joy that it can bring. Strengthen, renew, and rekindle your marriage sacrament by attending a Worldwide Marriage Encounter Weekend. ! For more information contact Mike and Janet Turco at 973 427 -7016 or 609 335- 6880 or email njwwme@peoplepc.com Immaculate Conception Seminary’s 35th Annual Cornerstone Golf Outing and Dinner will be held on Thursday, June 18, 2015, at Essex Fells Country Club. Golfer registration at 11:00 AM. Honorees are Monsignor Robert F. Coleman, J.C.D., and Monsignor Thomas P. Nydegger, V.G., Ed. D. Single golfers are $450; foursomes are $1,800. Following the round of golf, there will be a reception, dinner, a prize raffle and a cash raffle. Non-golfers are invited to cocktails & dinner at 5:30 PM for $200. Proceeds support the men preparing for priesthood in the Newark Archdiocese. For more details visit us online at www.shu.edu/go/breslin or contact Michael Burt at 973-275-2479, email michael.burt@shu.edu. Page Eight MEN’S PRAYER GROUP MPG would like to pray for your intentions. The prayers will be offered on Friday of that week at our gathering. Kindly place this intention request in the Sunday Collection or return it to the rectory. Please list your intentions: __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ If you would like a prayer card sent as an acknowledgment of your prayer intentions, please include your name and address. Holy Cross Church, Harrison, NJ, is celebrating its 150th Anniversary. They are trying to locate all generations of former parishioners and grammar school attendees so we can keep them informed of upcoming celebratory events (i.e., a school reunion is planned for 6/14/15) Please send contact information to Holy Cross Church, 16 Church Street, Harrison, NJ 07209, Attn: Gina, Anniversary Committee or email them at holycrossanniversary@gmail.com BERGEN CATHOLIC HIGH SCHOOL, founded and staffed by the Edmund Rice Christian Brothers, invites all fifth, sixth, seventh and eighth grade boys and their parents to an OPEN HOUSE on Thursday, May 14, 2015. A welcome reception will begin at 6:30 PM and the main presentation follows at 67:00 PM. Bergen Catholic is located at 1040 Oradell Ave., Oradell, NJ. Call 201-634-4151 or check website: www.bergencatholic.org, for more info. MARIA SS. ADDOLORATA CHAPEL MEMORIAL CANDLES The Chapel of Our Lady of Sorrows is a beautiful way to memorialize a loved one. If you are interested in memorializing someone with a candle in the Maria SS Addolorata Chapel, please fill out this form and return it with a check, made payable to HOLY FAMILY, in the amount of $100 to the rectory. You may request a beautiful card featuring the statue of Our Lady of Sorrows taken in our Maria SS. Addolorata Chapel. Inscription on the candle: (Limit 20 characters per line; limit 2 lines) Name(s) on Memorial Candle: ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ □ This is a new candle □ Please renew this candle Your Name: ____________________________________________________________________________ Address: __________________________________________________Apt. # _______________________ Town: ___________________________________________Telephone: ___________________________ Email: __________________________________________________ TREASURES FROM OUR TRADITION With June not far off, attention in the parish turns to the celebration of weddings. Perhaps no other area of parish life is more shaped or challenged by the expectations of our culture. An old Irish proverb, “Marry in Lent and you’re soon to repent,” is amplified by another warning: “Marry in May and rue the day!” Memories of old pagan parties in May endured, and the Irish felt wedding receptions in May would be a stress on community morals. Queen Victoria did not approve of May weddings either, and her influence is still felt on family calendars, as is her daughter’s introduction of the white wedding gown. Sometimes we mistake customs and curiosities for tradition. Tradition with a capital “T” has to do with Christ’s miraculous rescue of the wedding feast at Cana, his affirmation of a man and woman pledging lifelong fidelity at the heart of a community’s feast. The Church cherished that memory over time, but it took a millennium for us to think of marriage as a sacrament. Much of the rest of what we associate with weddings has to do with culture, customs, and family practices. A wise rabbi once said that “tradition is not wearing your father’s hat; tradition is having a child.” Don’t let Queen Victoria reign over your wedding plans! —Rev. James Field, Copyright © J. S. Paluch Co. DEEP DEBT My mother was the most beautiful woman I ever saw. All I am I owe to my mother. I attribute all my success in life to the moral, intellectual, and physical education I received from her. —George Washington INFORMATION SHEET BULLETIN I.D. 286300 CHURCH NAME AND ADDRESS Holy Family 28 Brookline Avenue Nutley, NJ 07110 PHONE 973-667-0026 CONTACT PERSON Lynn Falduto SOFTWARE Microsoft Publisher® 2007 Adobe Acrobat 9.0® Standard Windows Vista Business SvcPack 1 PRINTER HP® Laserjet 1012 NUMBER OF PAGES SENT Cover + 7 text pages + this page = 8 SUNDAY DATE OF PUBLICATION TRANSMISSION TIME Wednesday afternoon SPECIAL INSTRUCTIONS