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DOING GOOD ISSUE! Amber Melby: Fund-raising Woman of the Year Looking a lot like Christmas! Hilltop Florist & Guggisberg Tree Farm Singing for a Cause Mankato Opry Jamboree RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 1 Stock# F20010 2014 Ford Focus Free Remote Start Promotion Starting as low as $15,900* *all rebates to dealer, must finance threw FMCC, and Competitive Owner Conquest Cash. Plus tax, title, lic and fees. OAC. HigHway 22 Moved into our Brand New Showroom! 2 Madison avenue Mankato Ford RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 When You’re Happy, We’re Happy www.mankatoford.com 507.387.3454 010790 18 28 Publisher New Century Press Chief Operating Officer Jim Hensley General Manager Lisa Miller Please direct all editorial inquiries and suggestions to: Managing Editor Eileen Madsen emadsen@ncppub.com Sales Manager Natasha Weis 507-227-2545 weisnatasha@gmail.com Sales Team Judy Beetch Erin Fritz Dawnn Hannover Ruth Klossner Tami Leuthold Janelle Magelee Deb Moldaschel Designer Amy Leuthold Cover Photographer Alika Faythe Hartmann Despres Photography River Valley Woman New Ulm & Mankato, MN 507.354.6158 For advertising and editorial contact information and a list of newsstand locations visit rivervalleywoman.com River Valley Woman is published monthly and distributed free in the Minnesota River Valley area. 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In the event of any error, River Valley Woman will rerun the incorrect part of the ad or cancel charges on the incorrect portion. 38 20 contents {{ december 6 • 2014 } Go Seasonal Decor with a Twist at Hilltop Florist . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20 Fun, Festivals & Frolics . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 48 Treasures . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 50 Suitcase Savvy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 66 Be Joys of the Holidays . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22 Holiday Style Tips . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 40 Strut Your Stuff . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 40 Be Well: Preparing for Surgery . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 60 Tis Not The Season for a Emergency Trip to the Vet . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 64 Do Finding the Right Instrument . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17 Family Fun - Cutting Your Own Tree at Guggisberg Tree Farm . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 Readers Rave . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24 A Beginner’s Guide to Winter Containers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 26 Spaces . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28 Taste of the River Valley . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 32 Good Taste . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 38 Tidy Tightwads: Enough Stuff is Enough . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 46 Good Reads . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 54 Money Talks: Making a List and Checking it Twice . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 56 Money Talks: Shop Smart for the Holidays . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 57 Money Talks: 12 Tips for a Season of Giving . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 58 Money Talks: Life Events Drive Need for Financial Guidance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 59 Tires 101: A Class You Want to Pass . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 62 8 Ways to Protect the Value of Your Car this Winter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 64 connect Lather, Rinse, Repeat - Editor’s Column . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 Amber Melby - Woman of the Year . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6 Rewards In Retirement . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10 Make Someone’s Monday . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12 Carrol Meyers-Dobler - Helping Those in Need . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14 Howard Mock Gives Back Through Music . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16 Connections Business Cards . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 68 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 3 Lather, Rinse, Repeat How are you doing? Good? I mean as in doing good for others. I know we all have doing-good intentions but sometimes life gets in the way. Then again, maybe not so much, judging by the extraordinary women (and men!) in this issue. First on the I-am-impressed-O-meter is cover feature Amber Melby. Doing good is an understatement! It isn’t every woman who gets to reign over her own year. Read about this Woman of the Year’s fund-raising efforts along with her new business venture. Speaking of impressed, we neglected to credit Alika Faythe Hartmann of Depres Photography last month for taking her usual stellar photographs of our November cover feature. Alika’s talent shines through the pages of most of our issues, including this one. Whilst I am gushing, I want to shout out to each and every advertiser in this our best issue yet! River Valley Woman grows each month and that would not be possible without the advertising support that keeps this magazine free. And free it will remain! Like the best things in life, right? Thanks as well, to all of you readers for the Facebook likes, kind e-mails, and enthusiasm for RVW. Group hug! (Did I just say that?) I had the pleasure of chatting on the phone recently with Howard Mock of Rhapsody Music and Mankato Opry Jamboree fame. It was such fun talking about the tunes and bands of our youth, 4 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 by Eileen Madsen, Editor and reminding him of the musical group that named themselves after him back in the 1980s. For those of you who remember “Howard’s Hair,” yup, that was about him. While he isn’t our typically featured female, the money he and his fellow musicians raise with their Opry event goes to many worthy causes that benefit women and families, including CADA House and area food shelves. He, along with others who share their stories in this issue prove there is still good in the world. As we all know it’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas, and everywhere you go there are decorations galore to buy, along with slightly disturbing nativity sets featuring animals and food where people should be. The holy family carved out of Spam, marshmallow Mary and Joseph (did I just say that?), and even chipmunk angels. I didn’t even know chipmunks could play trumpets, much less had wings. While it’s fun to see the new dazzling doohickies in the stores, consider putting up someone else’s decor. No, don’t go steal your neighbor’s inflatable Rudolf. Hit the charitable thrift shops! Therein lies everything one would ever need, and then some, to decorate your home. The cool part about buying your bells, candles and mini lights that have seen Christmases past, is that your dollars (or in some cases, cents) go to help others. And you can score some really nifty vintage decor on the cheap. Buy some for your neighbors while you’re at it. With the holiday season comes the inevitable cleaning to get ready for company. My new best friend who now has an open door invitation to our home is none other than the ultimate do-gooder in the dirt department–Mr. Clean. If you believe in miracles then Mr. C’s Magic Eraser is one sexy thing. (Did I just say that?). You can’t use it on your skin, unfortunately, to magically erase crow’s feet, but it gets rid of dirt and grime and grease in just a minute, just like the old ad song promised. Maybe Howard Mock could book him at the next Opry Jamboree. He does rock a bald head and earring. His Magic Eraser would make a great stocking stuffer for your best gal pal. (Did I just say that?) If you can sneak in some time for yourself during the holiday hoopla, check out our Good Reads page for some ideas. I was thrilled beyond reason to meet the author of Kevin Kling’s Holiday Inn last year right here in New Ulm. I have a signed copy of his book and highly recommend it for some laugh until you cry and cry until you laugh essays of family life. Sometimes you can’t “do gooder” than to read a story to a child, share a best seller with a friend, or relax with a great book when you should be magic erasing. No matter what you do this holiday season...pay it forward, give it back, or create a mac ‘n’ cheese nativity with your kids, it’s all (doing) good. Yes, I just said that. ORTHO EDGE Advanced Joint Replacement Program By The Orthopaedic & Fracture Clinic and River’s Edge Hospital The OrthoEdge Joint Replacement Program is a specialized program offered exclusively through The Orthopaedic & Fracture Clinic in conjunction with River’s Edge Hospital and includes the involvement of your entire care team: surgeon, physician assistant, hospitalist, physical/occupational therapists, nurses, surgical technologists, and many other team members. The program is designed to expedite you safely and comfortably through the joint replacement process and return you to an active lifestyle as quickly as possible. Here are just a few features of our innovative OrthoEdge program: • Placement in a private room at River’s Edge Hospital after surgery with a dedicated hospitalist to coordinate care during your stay • Expanded quality menu selections • Prehabilitation evaluation with our physical therapy specialists to help prepare you for surgery. Post-operatively you will receive same-day physical therapy followed by oneon-one occupational and physical therapy sessions twice daily in our therapy area • Educational material for you and your coach that thoroughly explains the process and what to expect • Customized postoperative list of equipment that is specific to your need (844) 412-7949 | OrthoEdgeMN.com • A program coordinator overseeing your progress from your initial appointment with the surgeon all the way through to rehabilitation RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 5 011334 Woman of the Year Amber Melby goes all out for a cause ALL OUT Story By Ruth Klossner Photos by Alika Faythe Hartmann, Despres Photography 6 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 When Amber Melby gets behind a cause, she gives it full effort—and mobilizes her family, friends, and community to help. Such was the case when a friend approached her to participate in the “Man and Woman of the Year campaign” for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society (LLS). The request came soon after Amber’s best friend’s son was diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia. It was a request she couldn’t refuse. She accepted the challenge in honor of the little boy close to her heart, Cole “Coley Bear” McDonough. Amber and Coley’s mom, Julie, were lifelong friends—having met when they started kindergarten together in Emmetsburg, Iowa in 1980. Melby led “Team Coley Bear” in a fundraising effort that raised more money than had ever been raised by a female. It won her the title of LLS Woman of the Year and contributed $66,906 to the fight against blood cancers. Six men and seven women took part in the Minnesota Man & Woman of the Year fundraising campaign. Melby led the only team from outside the metro area, a fact that she felt was to her advantage. “That shows what great things can come from small communities like ours,” Melby said. “It reinforced why Jason and I moved to New Ulm. We always knew this was a special place. But, to only have lived here seven years, and to have that support, was wonderful.” The manager of home care and hospice for Allina Home Health Services in New Ulm, Melby rallied her coworkers at the hospital, those from Allina, family, friends, and the people of Emmetsburg and New Ulm to help with the daunting 10-week challenge. The 2013 female winner had raised $19,000 and the most ever Amber and Boy of the Year Cole McDonough pose with their photo sticks from the Blood Drop Ball. The sticks were sold as part of the fund-raising campaign. all evening, with the final result being Team Coley’s amazing win, naming Melby Woman of the Year for Minnesota LLS. Collectively, all the candidates raised a grand total of $726,000, up from $190,000 the previous year. There’s more good news on the LLS front, too. Thanks to research, the cure rate for childhood leukemia is now 90 percent, up an amazing 87 percent from 1965 when it was just three percent. “That shows the advances that have been made,” Amber said. “But, Julie says ‘There’s still that other 10 percent.” Melby continued, “The leukemia and lymphoma blood research has funneled down into other cancers. What they’ve learned has helped with the research into other cancers.” Cole, now four-and-a-half, is doing great. He still has 18 months of treatment, then another year-and-a-half of being cancer-free before he will be considered cured. “He’s taught us all so much about being brave, just watching him go through it all. He’s got an amazing support system, with his parents and his brother Chase, who’s a year older. Julie has also done a lot of speaking for advocacy for the cure,” Melby said. Though her life is full with work and family, Melby has now shifted her passion to another cause. “Our youngest son, Rhett was diagnosed on the autism spectrum. He’s a student at River Bend Education District. My passion has shifted—there’s a lot of education that needs to be done on what River Bend offers,” Melby said. Working with other parents, Amber is helping to develop a Parent Advisory Council to give parent feedback to the staff and will do community education on resources for parents. One parent is being sought to represent each of the 10 towns that are part of River Bend. Melby is also a volunteer on the hospital fundraising gala committee. s raised by a female was $38,000. With those figures in mind, Melby thought, “Let’s try for $25,000.” She and her team not only doubled that, but raised the most money ever by a woman. “The great news is that our team only won by a very narrow margin, which I think was the difference in small, community support,” she said. Any candidate who raises over $50,000 gets to name a research grant in honor of a person. Not surprisingly, Melby named her grant in honor of Cole McDonough. “We can put money toward a specific research project. We picked Targeted Therapies because Cole’s parents, Matt and Julie, felt that there was a need for research in that area,” Amber explained. Melby and her 12-member team—including Sarah Jensen Weidman and Amanda Groebner of New Ulm— did a combination of things to win the competition. They sold “Coley Bear” bracelets, held a donation garage sale and a family friendly fundraiser, sold a getaway to New Ulm at the gala ball in Minneapolis that wrapped up the state campaign, and raised donations from family, friends, and coworkers. “People stepped up, both in our home town where both of our parents still live, and in New Ulm. We had great support here in the hospital and also from co-workers at Allina Home Health in the metro,” Melby said. “It solidifies what we thought about rallying people around a cause.” The campaign came to a grand ending when the final results were tallied at the fundraising Blood Drop Ball in Minneapolis May 16. Results were tallied RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 7 “We took a leap of faith. Jason applied for and got a job. We say it was the best decision we’ve ever made.” It was just seven years ago that Amber and Jason handpicked New Ulm as the place they wanted to call home. They came here from Omaha, wanting to be closer to family. Born and raised in small Iowa communities, the Melbys wanted a city that was big enough to have amenities, but small enough to be a good place to raise their three small children. “We took a leap of faith. Jason applied for and got a job. We say it was the best decision we’ve ever made. We love the community. We found it to be very welcoming, friendly, and encouraging,” Amber said. “Even though we weren’t ‘from New Ulm,’ I say, ‘We are now.’” Both Amber and Jason quickly got involved in the community. Jason—who works shifts as a correctional officer in the jail for the Brown County Sheriff’s Department—coaches the kids’ basketball teams. Son Reece is now 13, daughter Riley is 11, and son Rhett is seven. And, for Amber, “The hospital has been such an awesome network of people. There’s so much to do in the community to stay involved.” Amber has been in nursing for 16 years, mostly in critical care while in Omaha. She’s been in hospice and home care for the last five years and has been the manager of the 8 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 department for the last year-and-a-half. “I realized my passion for home care and hospice, working out in the community, with people in their own homes and in area facilities. ” Amber said. It’s a changing field in that hospice and home care has grown so much in recent years. From a staff of five nurses and 12 staff total just five years ago, Melby now manages 10 nurses and 21 total staff. “That comes from health care changes. Insurance now wants people to stay in their homes as long as possible. And, with short hospital stays, people still need care when they’re discharged. That’s been a big boom in home care,” Melby explained. New Ulm’s hospice load hit a high of 43 patients last year. “That stems from a push from physicians to discuss end-of-life care. They ask patients and their families about their goals. We can keep them comfortable and let nature take its course, rather than moving people back and forth to the hospital frequently.” Hospice no longer means just the last few days of life. Its definition now is for anyone that a physician feels has six months or less to live. “The goal is to get patients in hospice sooner so that they and their families can benefit from our support,” Melby said. “We focus on pain and symptom management. The longer they’re with us, the more benefits they get from our services. Care is provided by a whole team of people, not just nurses. We focus on patient comfort.” The New Ulm hospice team consists of nurses, home health aides, a social worker, a chaplain, volunteers, a volunteer coordinator, a new music therapist, a new massage therapist, and two team assistants who “keep the wheels on the bus” by doing all the administrative work and referrals. Dr. Matt Lieser is the hospice physician and Karen Hoffmann-Distad the nurse practitioner who sees patients in nursing homes. Melby outlined the goal of the hospice program. “We don’t know the quantity of life a person has left, but we can help with the quality of life, both for patients and their families. We want to reach anyone who could benefit from our services. Realizing the need for facilities that can provide care for elderly people who can no longer stay in their own homes, Amber and Jason have reached out into the From Left: Cole’s mother Julie and Amber the night of the Blood Drop Ball. Amber and husband Jason recently purchased South View Living Center in Gibbon. Amber visits with a resident at South View. community. They recently purchased South View Living Center in Gibbon, a 12-bed assisted living facility. They expect the purchase to be final by the end of the year. “That translates from my job with Allina—knowing the needs of the community,” Amber said. “South View Hospice is a very rewarding field—to be able to help people at a time of life when they’re so vulnerable. We can help keep them comfortable and provide emotional and spiritual support.” Melby also noted that—although many people aren’t aware of it—hospice is a Medicare benefit paid 100 percent if patients meet the criteria of being physician referred, with a life expectancy of less than six months, and with goals that are consistent with the hospice philosophy. RVW was built 10 years ago and is a great resource for the area. It’s a fully functioning facility that runs pretty independently. The current owners were able to have careers outside of South View and still successfully manage the facility and that will be our plan as well. I will be the RN on call 24/7. We are looking forward to a new challenge and helping meet the needs for good, quality senior housing in the area. The lot east of South View is included in the purchase and our goal is to add beds in the next few years to accommodate the growing needs of the community.” RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 9 R ewards in etirement Linda Hacket leads a Bone Builders cla ss . donation from Thrivent for the hand weights, she and Linda set out to make the exercise program in St. James a reality. Linda, a retired military sergeant, also knew this program would do wonders for the St. James area. An advocate for staying busy in retirement, Linda found herself volunteering for many meaningful projects including the Opera House restoration committee. When Audrey asked Linda for help with Bone Builders, she immediately stepped up. Audrey knew Linda fit the bill as a dedicated and disciplined exercise leader, with her military background and humorous, personable nature. “I knew she would be good at it” Audrey said of Linda’s ability to keep people engaged and motivated. Twice a week, Audrey and Linda lead a group of local women through a series of select, research-proven exercise moves to help prevent or reverse the effects of osteoporosis and s By Lora Brady Common Good RSVP Program Coordinator Audrey Swanson is a woman with a mission - always! Known for getting things done, Audrey had her mission in mind after reading an article in the Mankato newspaper describing an osteoporosis prevention exercise program that kicked off in 2011. Bone Builders, a program sponsored by Common Good RSVP of Catholic Charities, is designed to help seniors slow or prevent the devastating effects of osteoporosis. “We need that,” she thought. Audrey knew that a Bone Builders program would provide a great benefit to seniors living in and around St. James. In 2013 she enlisted the help of friend Linda Hackett to start a Bone Builders class in their hometown of St. James. “I’ve always been into healthier living,” she said. So with dedication and resolve, the retired radiology and x-ray technician got to work. Audrey contacted the local RSVP coordinator and, with the help of the n so n a St. James Community Center staff and a Sw Audrey { continued on page 52 } Meals on Wheels delivers great rewards Going north to St. Peter, another RSVP retired volunteer, Kathy Witty, above right, finds great reward in bringing meals to people’s homes. “I had no clue how much I would get out of it,” said Kathy. She and close friend and co-worker, Sue Frey, started making a plan for getting involved in their community while still working at the St. Peter Regional Treatment Center. “We knew we wanted to find some volunteer opportunities once we retired,” she explained. They made a list, and, when the time came, started checking into them. Meal delivery through Meals on Wheels at Lutheran Social Services of Minnesota (LSS) 10 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 was one such opportunity. “I started filling in,” Kathy said, and when Sue retired two years later, they took it on as a team, visiting about 15 homes on average for one route. “You’re a bit nervous at first,” Kathy admits about bringing food to someone’s doorstep, but feels that it is not a huge commitment, considering the important need being met. In the St. Peter and Mankato area alone, over 200 elderly people rely on these LSS meals for daily nutrition, and often, the reassurance drivers provide. “They may not see anyone else that day,” Kathy says. She mentioned that, for her and Sue, who worked so long in human services, they missed helping people. Meal delivery, she says, is a way to fill that void. She states that almost every time they bring meals around, they comment on how amazed they are at the rewards they get. She also admits that her two years of meal delivery at LSS have been eye-opening. They often see conditions at homes that need attention. One man’s steps badly needed repair, so they reported it to the main office. Sometimes they make note of specific needs, like lawn mowing. While they don’t spend a lot of time at each residence, Kathy maintains, there is plenty of time to get to know these folks, even through a brief conversation. “They watch for you,” she smiled. “One older lady most definitely wants you to have a miniature candy bar.” Following that, Kathy emphasized again the rewards gleaned from this volunteer program. And, while Kathy has a peace of mind knowing she is helping so many, she also stresses the importance of others in her generation stepping up. She wants this mission to continue as other drivers who have delivered - some for over 20 years retire from meal delivery. Like many other RSVP volunteers who have found such gratification in retirement, Kathy summed it up perfectly: ‘”You just become part of it.” WHEN YOUR CHILD IS SICK Come see us first. Parents have told us they prefer to have their child seen by a pediatric provider when they are not feeling well. That’s why we are making it easier to get the care they need—at a place just for kids. When your child is sick call the Pediatrics Department at Children’s Health Center after 7:00 am to make a same-day appointment for your child before going to Urgent Care. Call 507-389-8529 for a Same-Day Appointment. Ask about our evening appointments. Same-Day Appointments available Monday – Friday until 5:00 pm. ➜ mankatoclinic.com 011559 Make Someone’s Monday KYSM Radio made dozens of wishes of come true By Amanda Dyslin Every Monday at 7:35 a.m. this year, somebody in southern Minnesota received an unexpected call that would make their day. On the other end of the line were the co-hosts of “George and Jess in the Morning” on 103.5 KYSM-FM with some pretty great news to share: The person’s wish was about to come true. “It was a phenomenal opportunity to reach out and touch some people who deserved it,” said Jess Wenk, program director and co-host. The station started a “Make Someone’s Monday” program at the beginning of the year. The idea was to take nominations from the public Time for a New Sleigh? Even Santa would agree that a new Toyota SUV or all-wheel drive vehicle is the way to ho-ho-go in the snow! Give yourself the gift of getting around this winter. It’s one you won’t return! Stop in today and let me show you a Toyota built for Minnesota winter! LauRie DanbeRRy 1234 Raintree Rd. Mankato 507-387-0443 lauriedanberry@heintztoyota.com www.heintztoyota.com 009278 12 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 for deserving people in the station’s listening area who had a need, big or small. Wenk said the program came from a brainstorming session at the station to answer the question, “How can we use this massive radio signal to make a difference in everyday people’s lives?” The call to the public was simple: “We all have the person in our lives who, for whatever reason, touched us ... influenced us ... and changed us. Maybe that someone is going through a tough time in their life, and you want to lift their spirits and encourage them. … George and Jess want to help you make someone’s Monday!” Hundreds of e-mails poured in, and each week for nine months, the co-hosts chose a lucky recipient and worked with the person who made the nomination to orchestrate the surprise. The station also worked with area businesses to garner donations to make the wishes come true. The dozens of wishes were diverse: groceries, household repairs, a spa day, even just a night out for dinner. Wenk remembers a couple of recipients, in particular, whose stories were particularly moving. A couple in St. Peter, Richard and Mary, were nominated by their daughter because Richard was having difficulty getting in and out of the shower. They were facing having to leave their home for assisted living. The only thing standing in the way of staying in the house was making the bathtub handicap accessible. Thanks to ProBuild and E&R Maintenance, the construction on the bathroom was donated. George delivered the news on the air to the couple on June 9. “Richard, nobody is moving you out of your home,” George said. “We’re not going to let that happen.” Another instance involved a friend who nominated a giving and selfless co-worker, Leanne of Lake Crystal, who was embarrassed to have her son’s graduation party at her home because of furniture that was in disrepair. Thanks to a $1,000 gift certificate donated by Rooms and Rest, she could shop for new furniture. “I have some good people in my life. Very good people,” Leanne said through tears on the air. “You’ve been a good person in a lot of people’s lives as well,” Wenk said to her. Throughout the program, there were were definitely mornings when Wenk was moved to tears. She wanted to emphasize how grateful she and the others at the station are to all the local businesses that donated. “It was pretty life-changing,” Wenk said. Around the holidays, KYSM focuses a great deal of attention to other charity efforts, including Toys for Tots and ECHO Food Shelf. But she said the program may return in the future if the fantastic support of local businesses continues. For more information, and to listen to previous “Make Someone’s Monday” surprise phone calls, visit country103.com. 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Partners for Affordable Housing is the parent agency for the Theresa House and the Welcome Inn, Mankato’s two homeless shelters open to families and single adult females. 14 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 s Hometown: St. Cloud, Minnesota Number of Years Living In Area: Coming up on three years! Tell us what brought you to Mankato: My husband and I had always talked that we would retire in Mankato because this is where my two sisters and their families live. His health was not that good and I knew that the day would come when I would be alone. I wanted the safety and security of knowing that I could lean on my sisters, if need be. As it turns out, he did pass nearly six years ago and two years after his death our beautiful home on the banks of the Missouri River in Bismarck, ND was greatly impacted by a 500 year flood. The three month summer flood that was never supposed to happen served as the trigger for my relocation. I could no longer be without my sisters! I quit one of the best jobs I have ever had, packed up the moving van and came here on a hope and a dream! I have never, ever regretted that decision. My eyes cannot get enough of the beautiful foliage Minnesota has to offer! You work with people in need every day. Tell us why you got into that line of work. I love, love, love our mission here at Partners! This kind of work is the reason I get up at 5 every morning! I come by my passion easily. My father and step-father were both career employees of the criminal justice system. They were employed at the Reformatory in St. Cloud. My mother is a nurse, now long retired, of course, but she spent her career working in a variety of positions including school nurse and county nurse. My parents definitely shaped who I am today and I am grateful that I can be here in Mankato during their elderly years. Since you arrived in Mankato, what have been the biggest issues facing the homeless and hungry in the Mankato area? My impressions of Mankato revolve around the simple reality that this is an oil and water community. What do I mean when I say that? I simply mean that statistics show a high prevalence of poverty which continues to exist despite a strong, vibrant business community. Blue Earth County has the fourth highest poverty rate of any county in Minnesota following the three counties on which there are Indian Reservations. I have also learned that our community has more millionaires per capita than any other community within the state. People are always surprised by that. I am surprised by that. Couple those facts with the reality that our community needs, desperately needs, more affordable housing for low income families and single adults, and you see my concern. I know that the Cities of Mankato All of us and North Mankato share my concerns. I have hope. have had tough In general, how giving has experiences at one time the Mankato community or another. All of us been for Partners for Affordable Housing? understand the importance Partners for Affordable of support every once Housing, better known as the Theresa House and the Welcome in a while. Inn, has quietly and efficiently stretched to serve the needs of those in our community who find themselves in a temporary housing crisis. There are many reasons why a family might lose their housing. One must understand that every single one of our families is struggling to live at or below the federal poverty level. That means, every single one of our families is paying more than 30% of their income for housing. That fact alone puts them at high risk. If the car suddenly requires massive repairs, there is no money for rent. If a child is diagnosed with cancer and requires months of specialized care, there is no money for rent. If a working-parent’s hours get cut, there is no money for rent. The Mankato community is very, very philanthropic! Our agency learned that when we launched Pedal Past Poverty two years ago. This crazy, zany stationary bike race held in February/March of each year attracted hundreds of participants---and resulted in net profits of $74,000 in 2013 and $82,000 in 2014. This year’s race, slated for February 28, 2015, will raise (we hope!) $100,000! Experience has taught me that people will respond if we do a good job of telling the story. All of us have had tough experiences at one time or another. All of us understand the importance of support every once in a while. I’ve been the lucky one! I have my sisters! Does it ever get hard to work every day with people who are under such stress? This would be a great question for my social workers, shelter manager and support staff. Yes. It does. But, our staff is incredible! People are drawn to the non-profit arena because they want to make a difference in the lives of others. We are a different breed, to be sure! We don’t do it for the money. We don’t do it for the posh offices. We don’t do it because we can work an 8-hour shift and go home, stress free. We do it because each one of us believes, from the very bottom of our hearts, that people can and do change. Our work does make a difference and we have hundreds of stories that lend credence to our work! My day is brightened when one of our former guests drops in to say, “Hi---and thank you for everything you have done for me!” Where do you see Partners for Affordable Housing going in the next 10 years? Our concern, as a Board of Directors and as a staff, is the great numbers of families and single adult females we cannot provide shelter to. The Theresa House and the Welcome Inn are very small { continued on page 70 } 2015 Highlander Every journey. Every moment. 20/25 MPG STD.* Let’s Go Places 2015 Highlander The 2015 Highlander was redesigned with excitement in mind. 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He would pick them up, take them shopping, and buy them clothing and gifts. “That was fun to do, and I got a real great feeling of doing something good for someone else,” Mock said. The giving increased over the years, by including more families in his Christmastime efforts and doing other charitable giving, including to ChildFund International, formerly Christian Children’s Fund. Among his other efforts, he helped a local boy with cerebral palsy play guitar. The boy couldn’t hold a guitar pick, so Mock helped make a glove with an attached pick that allowed the boy to strum. “And then I got to thinking about it. There’s got to be a way to (give) on a bigger scale,” Mock said. “There’s just a lot of need, and I’m in a position now where I can help people.” Inspiration struck in February of 2012. Mock’s old band, Sandra Lee & The Velvets, were inducted in the Mid-America Music Hall of Fame. After 30 years apart, they performed at the Kato Ballroom. They had prepared a few country songs they used to play in the ’70s. “And everybody went kind of crazy for it,” said Mock, who realized then that a true resurgence “I got a in interest in old country had taken place. That’s when Mock realized that a concert real great in the vein of the Grand Ole Opry might be feeling of doing an incredible vehicle for that “bigger scale” something good charitable effort he had been searching for. Mock’s longtime friend, Gary Pfeifer of for someone Janesville, came aboard as Mock’s partner else” to help ease the pain if it flopped, Mock said with a laugh. “We didn’t know what was going to happen,” Pfeifer said. “We thought, ‘We’ll just go down together.’” And so, the first Mankato Opry Jamboree was held in April at the Kato Ballroom. Just like at the Grand Ole Opry in Nashville, one band performed throughout each of two shows, accompanying all of the singers. Called the Opry All Stars Band, the group included Mock on bass; 16 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 Photo courtesy of Mankato Opry Jamboree From left are Sheldon Lee (white cowboy hat), Howard Mock, Gary Pfeifer, and Jim Kozan. Pfeifer on banjo/mandolin; Crista Bohlman on fiddle/guitar; Sheldon Brandt on pedalsteel/guitar; Jason Olson on drums; and Jim Kozan on piano/harmonica. A big barn backdrop on the stage was reminiscent of the hallowed Opry stage, as was the traditional country music filling the ballroom. Another element reminiscent of the Grand Ole Opry? The sold-out crowd both nights. It turned out Mock’s fear of flopping was unwarranted, and his belief that classic country had made a comeback was affirmed. “We hoped a couple hundred people would be at each show,” Mock said. “We were just flabbergasted when we walked in the ballroom on the first night and the ballroom was full.” The success of the event resulted in $13,000 being donated to area charities, including Habitat for Humanity, school music programs, Committee Against Domestic Abuse (CADA), and area food shelves. IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII It also resulted in the first Mankato Opry Christmas Show Nov. 28-30, held again at the ballroom. The same band accompanied 17 performers, and in addition to traditional country tunes, Christmas music was performed to get the crowds in the holiday spirit. The goal of the event, which this time included three shows, was to raise more funds for area charities than the spring jamboree. Recipients this time include Habitat for Humanity, CADA, and BackPack Food Program. Mock said he plans to do another Christmas show in 2015 as well. Organizing such a large-scale event takes a great deal of effort. When asked what motivates Mock to work so hard at the task of giving, he said the spirit simply moves him to do so. “You have to pay back,” he said. “There’s a saying in the Bible that if you give, you’ll receive 10 fold. It just feels really good to give.” Pfeifer – who has been friends with Mock for 20 years or so, but joked that it seems more like 85 years – said he shares his friend’s philosophy: “You kind of have to give back. If you do good, it’s because other people have helped you.” He also said that he’s known Mock to be a charitable person from the day they met. “He’s a really good-hearted person,” Pfeifer said. “He’s been like that ever since I’ve known him.” RVW Tom Furth, Tracey Hillesheim, Mary Windschitl, Pam Fullerton, Ashton Sabatino, Paul Furth. finding the right instrument Many parents go through it: Your kid comes home and says, “I want to learn to play an instrument!” So many “what ifs” start to swirl in your brain. What if they don’t stick with it? What if it’s too expensive? Howard Mock, owner of Rhapsody Music, has a few tips to help guide parents through the process. Finding the right instrument Some parents or children simply want to discover if there’s musical talent to uncover, but they aren’t quite sure what instrument would be best. Mock said he would usually start such a child on the piano. According to the Hoffman Academy of Music in Oregon, the piano is the best first instrument to learn because it’s easy to use (simply press a key); the layout of the keys helps students learn to read music; and a well-tuned piano helps students learn correct pitch. Find the right fit If a child does have an instrument in mind, it’s important that parents find the right size instrument. Guitars, for example, come in ½ size, ¾ size, folk size and full size. “You don’t want one that’s so big, the kid can’t event fit it in his lap,” Mock said. “You want the right size guitar for the age of the child.” Mock said the same is true for other instruments, including drums, which come in junior size for kids. Quality matters Another common concern from parents is that they will invest a lot of money into an instrument that their child will only use a couple of times. This leads some parents buy a cheap instrument from a big-box store. Often, cheap instruments are more difficult to learn on. Mock has seen cheap guitars with strings that sit ½ inch off the neck, and children won’t be able to press them down. “What happens is they get discouraged right away, and they think they just can’t play guitar,” he said. “Make sure it’s a good quality guitar.” Mock said parents should go to a music store, such as Rhapsody, where all the employees are musicians and can share their expertise. Plus, he said, most parents might be surprised to learn that prices on many instruments are comparable to big-box prices, anyway. Proudly representing For all your insurance needs, we are here to help with experience, stability and outstanding customer service. CommerCial | Bonds Home | auto | umBrella life | HealtH 010752 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 17 Cutting your own tree is By Deb Moldaschel Family Fun The idea of cutting my own Christmas tree has always appealed to me, however my husband has never felt that particular yearning so I’ve never even been to a cut-your-own tree farm. That changed on a very cold but sunny day in midNovember when I visited with Tony Guggisberg at his farm in rural New Ulm. Tony said he started planting trees in 1994. The trees need to grow for 8-10 years before they are ready to serve as Christmas trees. He sold some at his business place first – River Creek Nursery in New Ulm - and then took the plunge and opened up the farm to cut-your-own customers 8 years ago. Guggisberg Christmas Tree Farm is a family business that keeps Tony and his six children busy all year round. They all help with annual planting, watering young trees, and assisting customers during the selling season. Of course Tony is involved in all the work including trimming the trees for shape as they grow. His wife, Marie, is chief bookkeeper. The Guggisbergs’ 10 acres of trees translates to 8,000-10,000 trees in various stages of growth. Trees available at Guggisbergs include: Black Hills Spruce which is noted for dark green foliage and conical form. They are very dense and have a deep dark green color. 18 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 Blue Spruce, which is an attractive tree often used for Christmas trees or as ornamentals, particularly in the eastern United States and Europe. Canaan Fir is a relative newcomer to the Christmas tree market. It has many similarities to both Fraser and balsam firs in growth and appearance. The Scotch Pine is a lovely pine widely used throughout North America as a landscape pine and as a commercially grown Christmas tree. It is notable for its beautiful bluish-green or yellowish-green foliage. White Pine is a hardy, valuable tree with clustered soft bluegreen needles. Ideal as screen or windbreak and commonly grown as Christmas trees. Balsam Fir is a superb Christmas tree. Its lovely green color and its fragrant aroma make it one of the most desirable trees on the market. The Fraser Fir is the Cadillac of all Christmas trees. It has dark green colored needles with a silvery underside. The soft needles are pleasant to touch and are retained on the tree throughout the Holiday Season. Tony explains the cut-your-own experience: What happens when I come to a cut-your-own Christmas tree farm? At our farm you are usually greeted by one of the Guggisberg family members. They will provide you with some information on what type of trees we have, their prices and where you may go to find the prized tree. Do I have to bring my own saw? No, we will be glad to provide you with a saw for cutting down your tree. Remember, for safety reasons, we cannot allow customers to use chain saws. Will I have to cut and haul my tree myself? Most people enjoy cutting their own tree, but we will gladly assist them in hauling their tree back to the office where we will shake out any old needles and help load their tree on to their vehicle. How do I keep a real tree fresh? There are several ways to keep your tree fresh. 1: start by keeping your tree away from any heat source such as fireplaces or furnace vents. If the tree needs to be close to a vent, close the vent while your tree is there. 2: make sure the tree does not run out of water in the tree stand. You need to check your tree daily for water because the tree may take up to a gallon of water daily. 3: try to keep the room in which your tree is placed slightly cooler as this will prolong the freshness of your tree. Is there a difference between a tree I cut and one I buy from a lot? The ones you buy in a lot have usually been cut anywhere from 2-4 weeks before they arrive at the retail lots. Cutting your own tree ensures that you get a freshly cut tree. What if I am not going to put the tree up the same day I buy it - how should I take care of it? You should place your tree in a cool, shady location outside. When you are ready to bring the tree in, you will need to give it a fresh cut by cutting at least 1 inch off the trunk. Which kind of tree has the best fragrance? The Balsam Fir is generally the most aromatic. Which kind of tree holds its needles the longest? The Fraser Fir is known to hold its needles for a very long time. Some customers enjoy keeping their Fraser Fir up for several months. What kind of family traditions do you see in your customers? We have many customers who make cutting their Christmas tree at our tree farm a family tradition. This gives them a good opportunity for wonderful photos and many holiday memories. After they have successfully chosen their tree and enjoyed a cup of cider and cookies, some families will do some shopping and enjoy a bite to eat in nearby New Ulm. RVW RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 19 defdefdefdefdefdefdefdefdefdefdefdefde Seasonal decor with a twist By Deb Moldaschel Christmas is red and green, right? Well that might be what men think, but women know better. Lots of ladies could change all of their Christmas décor each year and never run out of ideas thanks to the many shops that specialize in showing the way! Kathy Van Tol, COO of Hilltop Florist and Greenhouse in Mankato, is brimming with ideas – all on display in their store. Kathy said that springtime and Mother’s Day make up the busiest time of the year in her store and garden center, and – no surprise – Valentine’s Day is the single busiest day. But from the look of the store this fall it seemed that the Christmas season might be the most fun. “We start planning for next Christmas as soon as the current season is complete” explained Kathy. “We are able to stay ahead of trends through the markets we attend.” Which, according to Kathy is a process that begins in January. So, what are the trends for Christmas decorating this year? Traditional red is always popular, especially here in the Midwest. Chalkboards and 20 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 Kathy & Sarah’s condensed tips for this year? Repurposing, dimension, chalkboards and words! items with words or letters fit right in with that look. Kathy said they are also featuring new sage type greens this year, and that white and silver are popular in their “Falling Snow” group. The store shows their chateaux look with amber, brown, and copper tones and burlap touches. Kathy and manager/designer Sarah Gilberto described some of the interesting ways that people are decorating their homes. Sarah advised including items with dimension in the tree and Kathy agreed that adding bigger and/or unique pieces to the tree rather than just hanging ornaments creates a fun effect. Sarah mentioned that repurposing of unexpected items in Christmas décor is also trending. Hanging a decorative wreath on the door is always popular but Kathy said they are also seeing special baskets used the same way. Love the look of spruce tops and other greens in your outdoor pots? You can buy them made up and make your own. Kathy keeps the instructions simple, saying, “Stick them into the dirt in your pot and water it in good so it freezes solid. This will keep your arrangement in place during the windy days of winter.” RVW Top left: traditional – This Timeless Tradition tree is filled with dimensional items – see the “repurposed” ladder and old ice skates? Top right: Browns, copper, amber and gold tones warm up this year’s Chateaux theme. At right: door baskets and outdoor pots are always popular accessories to the holiday season. At left: Kathy Van Tol, COO, Hilltop Florist and Greenhouse by the store’s “welcome in” display. Chalkboards and Words are a part of this look. e Buying? Selling? Talk to us! 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Consider weddings, one of the happiest events in two people’s lives and usually a happy event for lots of family and friends too. But weddings are one of the most stressful events in a person’s life. Holidays are similar, even the best ones come with some stress. The good news is that stress can be managed and holidays can be joyful! One of the first steps in reducing holiday stress is to prioritize. Think about what is really important to experiencing a happy holiday. Take a few minutes and make a list of what you need to get done and what you want to get done and prioritize. Be ok with the idea that you won’t be able to get everything done. It’s important to prioritize ahead of time when you are feeling calm, and in a cool state of mind. Decide ahead of time to set limitations and stick with those limitations. Overspending on gifts or buying too many gifts is something many of us are guilty of at holiday time. There always seems to be one more gift to buy. Stop and ask yourself do you really need to buy more gifts? Don’t overcommit yourself at holiday time. Don’t agree to make something for every holiday event or attend every event. Holidays are busy times and people tend to overextend themselves. Decide how you want to spend your holiday time and with whom. And don’t feel guilty if you have to say no to someone. Or you might consider offering to do something or attend an event in January or February when your life isn’t so hectic. Don’t try to please everyone. Do you really need to make everyone’s favorite pie for Christmas dinner? Perhaps you can make several pies that everyone will enjoy and cut down on the amount of baking time before your family arrives. Decide on your menu ahead of time and make a list of all the ingredients that you need and try Be willing to take the time for fun, enjoy the season. Get inspired by our beautiful showroom! Nordaas Design Consultants will assist you in selecting furnishings for your home. 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If you can’t include someone in your celebration, make a donation to a cause or charity that brings holiday joy to others. Some good examples of these are Toys for Tots and giving trees. You can also make donations to local food shelves and other organizations that provide food baskets to families at holiday time. Knowing that a family had a nice meal and the kids have toys will enrich your own holiday. But my best advice to everyone at holiday time is to be willing to take the time for fun, enjoy the season. It goes fast and only comes once a year. Go for a drive with the family and look at Christmas lights and decorations. Is there a character like Chevy Chase’s Clark Griswold in your neighborhood with a thousand twinkle lights on their home? Don’t miss those! Go see your grandkids dressed as elves in their play or go to a holiday musical. Decorate your tree together as a family. We all have holiday traditions. One of my favorite holiday traditions is simple and inexpensive. 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Design and Materials Once you have a blank soft-but-firm surface in your containers, you’ll be ready to think about the fun part – the design! When you plant containers in the spring, the instant-gratification factor is always lacking. Even if you pack them in at maximum density, the plants need time and heat and water before they reach their full potential and your containers look their best. With winter pots, the final product doesn’t need to “grow in,” so they’re immediately gorgeous! Every year, there seem to be more and more winter greening materials available. The most basic elements include spruce tops, birch logs, dogwood branches (red and yellow), willow branches (curly and straight), pine cones, boxwood branches (green and variegated), magnolia leaves, pine branches, eucalyptus leaves, and winterberries (red, orange, and yellow). There are countless other options, too. Many people incorporate n Gal • Garde n It’s happened sooner than many of us may have liked, but winter seems to be here already. And while we’ve mostly tucked our gardens in for the year, there’s still outside decorating to keep us busy. When I started doing garden maintenance work, I had no idea that “winter containers” were a possibility. Spruce tops, red-twigged dogwood, and sugar cones weren’t familiar materials, and I certainly didn’t know how to place them artistically in flower pots. But I’ve had the good fortune of working with some very talented container designers, and I’m finally feeling confident in my own winter design abilities. I’d love to share my education with you – because winter containers are so rewarding to build! Preparation It’s a little too late for one of my most important pieces of advice: get started early. As soon as the soil in your containers freezes, you’ll find it very difficult to place the materials. So, in an ideal world, you would have already done this task, back when the weather was still autumnal and friendly. You would have cut off the tops of your summer plants, leaving the root balls intact to help hold up the winter materials that you’ll be pushing into them. Since it’s cold now, you’ll have to deal with the frozen soil before •G 010338 26 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 defdefdefdefdefdefdefdefdefdefdefdefd f wider presence. Fill in the dried plant parts or even some fake ones. It’s nice to save money by reusing parts of your old summer planters, such as ornamental grass leaves and allium or sedum flowers. When you choose your materials, it’s important to keep it simple. While it’s tempting to use one of everything, designs usually work better when they don’t have multiple competing elements. If you’re a beginner, try to stick with three to five colors and textures. It will also help to use large quantities of each element, grouping them so that they are more visible. Construction Let’s say you have five different materials: spruce tops, pine branches, curly willow branches, pine cones, and variegated boxwood branches. Start by placing the taller greens as a backdrop. Push the spruce tops into the soil as hard as you can (without breaking them!) so they stay in place all winter. I like to make a mini forest with the tallest top towards the back center of the planter. Then, take the pine branches and build a horizontal skirt around the spruce tops. It often helps to scoot the branches to the very edge of the pot so they hide the bare soil and create a remaining background spaces with the variegated boxwood, cutting the stems to varying heights and densities as you go. Next, use the curly willow branches to provide height, placing them toward the front of the container so their colored stems are highly visible throughout. The branches should mostly be in a cluster, though you can also use a few stray twigs toward the back or sides as an accent. Add the cones for a finishing touch, wiring them to the front of the spruce tops in an upright position. Place them with their tips pointing outwards at different angles, perhaps echoing the angles of the container itself. This is just one example, but I think you’ll like experimenting with the unlimited options! Be creative and festive – it’s hard not to have a heart filled with Christmas cheer when you’re decorating your gardens! RVW Laura Schwarz, a New Ulm native, is a horticulturist with Tangletown Gardens in Minneapolis. Building Trust new home construc tion 217 east walnut street #2 | remodeling mankato, mn 56001 | commercial 507.469.3152 009109 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 27 SPACES Renovation Photos by Jordan Powers, Mankato Home Tours & Ins Northern Energy Homes office manager Melissa Orthun, owner Mark Stenzel, and president, Michael Stenzel tell about their move to a new location in Mankato and a renovation project of their very own. Tell us a bit about what Northern Energy Homes is all about Northern Energy Homes is a custom home builder. We will help people through the complete home building process from finding a lot, to designing their dreams into a nice floor plan, to coordinating their home building project from start to finish. What made you decide to move to the new location? Our goal has been to do majority of our work in the Mankato area. We are a charter member of the Minnesota River Builders Association (MRBA); our President Michael and office manager Melissa have been very active with the MRBA, being on the board and past president and we have a home on the MRBA tour of homes almost every year. We decided the next step for Northern Energy Homes to be more active in the Mankato area, would be to move our office here and that is what we did. Did the task of renovating a former mechanics garage seem daunting? Renovating any project is always interesting. We have designed and remodeled many homes over the 28 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 past 42 years and like anything you do, the more you do it, putting your best effort forward, the easier the task becomes and the more professional you become at what you are doing, in this case- designing an office- show room. How did you figure out what to do? Renovating is like any other creative project, you have to have some ideas of what you want, a vision of the final project, an idea of what steps to take and in what order to do these steps to accomplish the above. The key to remodeling a project is to draw a floor plan of what you have and then decide what you want to end up with. Sketch out the layout you would like and then fine tune it until you have what you want. Did you have a look in mind? When you are working with an existing structure you need to decide how much you want to disturb the existing shell. Our goal was to redesign the front of the building without changing the roof line and to maintain the footprint of the building. We also wanted to have a very nice show room, letting our potential clients, who stop by our office, see the quality and options we have to offer and hopefully earning the opportunity to work with them on their home building project. This is how we ended up with the look we have. How did you choose who to work with? Remodeling is actually more difficult than building new. There are many unknowns that can and probably will come up. You need to work with people who have done this type of work and have a vision of the process, the finished product, and how best to get there. The people we worked with have worked spiration AFTER s with us on many other projects. They knew going into the project that we are very quality-minded and wanted things done the best way possible, which sometimes involves a lot of head scratching and flexibility. What can customers expect when working with Northern Energy Homes? When working with Northern Energy Homes, customers can expect a quality product with a lot of TLC put into the designing and coordinating of their home. Many customers have a hard time envisioning a floor plan and our goal is to help them with this process. The best way to help people understand their plan is to take them to a similar style and size house and go through each room and tell them how their room sizes, closet space, kitchen cabinet space, windows sizes, etc. compare to the house you are showing them. What would you say make NEH memorable to clients? Building a home is a big project for most homeowners. Our goal is to save our clients from a lot of the headaches that can come about in their building process. We spend a lot of time coordinating their project which makes the project progress in a smooth fashion, we do call them back when they call and we try and keep them up to speed so there aren’t a lot of surprises. Do you have a personal favorite project? My favorite project is a project where the owners have ideas, but need and trust your designing skills and tell you their thoughts, likes and dislikes as you go through the fine tuning process. BEFORE RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 29 How about styles and trends? What do you see trending these days? We feel that home sizes are getting smaller and floor plans are getting more open with fewer walls and more natural light. Fancier kitchens, larger garages, nicer foyers and custom closets are becoming more of the norm. How do you keep up with that? Keeping up with styles and trends is hard to do. With all the tours of homes, builders magazines, and the internet, most people have an idea of the style of home they want. Our goal is to help them design the style and plan that coordinates their ideas with their building site and their neighborhood. Tell us about how you approach energy efficiency? And why is it important to the homeowner? Many aspects of energy efficiency are controlled by the building codes. Our standard rafter has a 12” energy heel. Under our siding we use a wind barrier wrap that is taped at the seams and around the windows; we use an energy efficient window. We insulate the area where our floor joists meet the exterior sheathing with foam. We recommend a high energy efficient furnace, limited recessed ceiling lights and an airlock entry which can be accomplished by coming in through the garage or having a double entry by the front door. What would you say are the top important things to consider in home design and layout? In your home design and layout the most important thing to do is to balance your room sizes with your house size. Also streamline your traffic flow, design closets where they are needed and of adequate size. If possible, design your front entry where you can come into your home so you can go several ways without going through your living area, and make your back entry spacious. What advice do you have to someone thinking about a renovation or new home? If you are considering renovating a house you should decide everything you want to do before doing anything. When you think you know what you want, work with a designer who is experienced in their field. Have him/her draw your existing floor plan and then revise it to the plan you want. Get a contract bid on the work you want done before you do anything and budget for the unforeseen in your project. I would recommend talking to people you know that have remodeled and learn from their experiences. If you really want to do your homework, talk to a realtor and see what your home is worth as is and add the entire remodeling estimate to this figure. Then get a price on a new home that you would build if you relocated. Now compare the two and decide what makes the most sense for your situation. Whatever you decide to do keep in mind in almost all cases you will be happier going the extra mile to start with, as opposed to cutting corners and having to redo things later. Do you have a favorite look or era of interior design or architecture? My favorite architecture is the Victorian homes style with the large porches, bay windows and fancy exterior and interior trim. – Mark Stenzel, Owner My favorite homes are Craftsman style homes with exposed rafters, hand crafted stone work and using mixed materials throughout the home. - Melissa Orthun, Office Manager. My favorite architecture style is traditional style homes with custom cabinetry and lots of windows. –Michael Stenzel, President RVW 30 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 Custom Walnut Entertainment Center Birch Kitchen with Granite countertops and center island Knotty Alder Galley kitchen with Granite countertops Prange’s Heating & Air Conditioning SAleS And ServiCe Residential and CommeRCial Furnaces, Boilers, in Floor Heat, a/C, Ventilation & Geothermal systems FRee estimates 507-243-4190 302 Main St., Madison lake www.prangesheatingandac.biz 011437 Decorative concrete • FounDations Come select your slab interior concrete • exterior concrete Block • Brick • stone • WaterprooFing in our new & exciting 11,000 sq. ft. 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Many of these illnesses can be life-threatening and result in hospitalization. Anyone can get pneumococcal disease, but some people are at greater risk for disease than others. Being a certain age or having some medical conditions can put you at increased risk for pneumococcal disease. Children at higher risk for pneumococcal disease include those: • Younger than 2 years of age • In group child care • Who have certain illnesses (sickle cell disease, HIV infection, and chronic heart or lung conditions) • With cochlear implants or cerebrospinal fluid (CSF) leaks (escape of the fluid that surrounds the brain and spinal cord) Adults at higher risk for pneumococcal disease include those: • With chronic illnesses (lung, heart, liver or kidney disease; asthma; diabetes; or alcoholism) • With conditions that weaken the immune system (HIV/AIDS, cancer or damaged/absent spleen) • Living in nursing homes or other long-term-care facilities • With cochlear implants or cerebrospinal fluid (CSF) leaks (escape of the fluid that surrounds the brain and spinal cord) • Who smoke cigarettes • 65 years of age and older The best way to prevent pneumococcal disease is by getting vaccinated. The pneumococcal vaccine is a shot that helps protect against some of the more than 90 types of pneumococcal bacteria. The vaccine for children and adults, called pneumococcal conjugate vaccine (PCV13 or Prevnar 13®), protects against the 13 types of pneumococcal bacteria that cause most of the severe illness in children and adults. The vaccine can also help prevent Brian Cornelius, Pharm. d. Mankato Hilltop Hy-vee 2010 Adams St., Mankato, Mn 56001 507.625.9070 some ear infections. PCV13 protects children and adults by preparing their bodies to fight the bacteria. PCV13 is also recommended to help prevent pneumococcal disease in adults 19 years or older with certain medical conditions and in all adults 65 years or older. The pneumococcal polysaccharide vaccine (PPSV23 or Pneumovax 23®) protects against 23 types of pneumococcal bacteria. It is recommended for all adults 65 years and older and for anyone who is two years and older at high risk of disease. PPSV23 is also recommended for adults 19 through 64 years of age who smoke cigarettes or who have asthma. Ask your doctor or stop in and see your friendly Hy-Vee pharmacists to see if you would benefit from getting vaccinated. Where there is a helpful smile in your wellness aisle Antioxidants By Holly Ellison, RD, LD Antioxidants are substances or nutrients in our foods which can prevent or slow the oxidative damage to our body. Antioxidants may also enhance immune defense and therefore lower the risk of cancer and infection. It is best to obtain these antioxidants from foods instead of supplements. . You can find antioxidants abundantly in beans, grain products, fruits and vegetables - so enjoy eating a variety of these products. In addition, minimize the exposure of oxidative stress such as smoking and sunburn. Most Commonly Known Antioxidants: n Vitamin A and Carotenoids: Carrots, squash, broccoli, sweet potatoes, tomatoes, kale, collards, cantaloupe, peaches and apricots (bright-colored fruits and vegetables!) n Vitamin C: Citrus fruits like oranges and lime etc., green peppers, broccoli, green leafy vegetables, strawberries and tomatoes n Vitamin E: Nuts & seeds, whole grains, green leafy vegetables, vegetable oil and liver oil n Selenium: Fish & shellfish, red meat, grains, eggs, chicken and garlic Antioxidant-Rich Recipe: Citrus-Soy Salmon Meal Makes: 4 servings All you nEEd: 4 (3 to 4 oz each) fresh or frozen salmon fillets, 1-inch thick 1/2 tsp lemon-pepper seasoning or fresh ground pepper 1 tsp reduced-sodium soy sauce 2 small oranges, thinly sliced All you do: 1. Preheat oven to 450 degrees. Line baking sheet with foil. 2. Sprinkle fish with seasoning and place on foil-lined baking sheet. Drizzle fish with soy sauce. Arrange orange slices on top of the fish. 3. Bake for 8 to 12 minutes or until fish flakes easily with a fork. 4. Serve with Couscous Broccoli Dish for a budget-friendly meal. Nutrition information per serving: Calories: 230; Protein: 23g; Carbohydrate: 6g; Saturated Fat: 2.5g; Cholesterol: 65mg; Sodium: 150mg; Dietary Fiber: 1g; Sugar: 4g; Fat: 12g; Trans fats: 0g RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014236993 37 good TASTE Easy Holiday Meal Wine Pairings Gathering friends and family over a delicious meal is often a highlight of the holiday season. As you start to plan your menu for the big day, remember to consider which wines you’ll offer as perfect pairings for your favorite dishes. Whether you’re preparing a traditional feast or planning to experiment with something new, food writers and wine connoisseurs agree – chardonnay and pinot noir are the ultimate holiday meal wines. Versatile chardonnay One of the primary reasons chardonnay is at the top of a holiday meal wine list is the flexibility inherent in America’s most popular white wine grape. Chardonnay flavor profiles can range from fruit-forward with bright acidity to big, rich and opulent. In either case, it’s the right white for the job. If you prefer white meat and lighter fare, choose a lively chardonnay with notes of citrus, aromas of lemon drop, yellow apple and subtle toasted oak. This pairs beautifully with breast meat and balances dishes like creamy potatoes or roasted carrots. lf darker meat is your preference, consider a richer style with a lush texture and spicy notes that can hold up to the more intense flavors of the wing and leg meat. Pleasing pinot Pinot noir is the perfect addition to any party because it pleases a lot of palates and doesn’t overwhelm a classic holiday dinner. Pinot’s inherent earthiness and notes of plums, cherries and spice notes like vanilla and nutmeg are a natural pairing with cranberries, dark meat turkey, stuffing and root vegetables. Like chardonnay, there’s a pinot noir that complements almost any menu. A darker, concentrated pinot noir will hold up to deeper flavors, while a more vibrant, juicy wine such as the La Crema Sonoma Coast Pinot Noir is a great option for pairing with the variety of flavors of delicious side dishes that a Thanksgiving feast delivers. 38 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 Not only will it pair well with both dark and light meat, but its sweet spice and classic earthy notes resonate well with the savory herbs often seen in holiday dishes. Serving wines To best showcase the wines you select, it’s important to serve them at the right temperature. With just a few adjustments, you can bring out the best in your favorite wine’s unique flavor profile, character and bouquet. White wine is best when served between 45 and 50°F. Served too cold, the flavors and aromas will be masked, and served too warm they become flat. Conversely, in general, red wines should be served a bit warmer, between 55 and 65°F. A colder serving temperature will make a red wine seem excessively acidic, and warmer will bring out an overly alcoholic flavor. Chill room-temperature pinot noir for 10-15 minutes in the refrigerator before serving. Photo courtesy of Getty Images Deglaze pan with wine for fabulous sauce for steak After sauteing or roasting meat, make a simple gravy or pan sauce by incorporating the browned bits that stick to the bottom of the pan. Deglazing provides a yummy sauce to serve with your meat, and makes cleanup easier as well. Follow this recipe for guidelines on how to deglaze your pan. A delicious pan sauce adds the finishing touch to this steak dinner for two. 1. Trim fat from two beef steaks, such as top loin, ribeye, or tenderloin, cut about 3/4 inch thick. Heat a large skillet over medium-high heat. If possible, do not use a nonstick skillet. Add 1 tablespoon cold unsalted butter; reduce heat to medium. Cook steaks about 3 minutes per side or until medium rare (145 degrees F). Cover steaks with foil; let stand for 5 minutes while preparing the sauce. 2. Drain fat from skillet. Add 1/3 cup dry red wine, 1/4 cup reduced-sodium beef broth, and 2 tablespoons finely chopped shallots or 1 clove minced garlic to the hot skillet. Cook and stir over medium heat. Deglaze the pan by scraping up the browned bits in the bottom of the skillet. Cook over medium heat for 3 to 4 minutes or until liquid is reduced to about 2 tablespoons. Reduce heat to medium-low. 3. Stir in 1 tablespoon whipping cream (no substitutions). Add 4 tablespoons cold unsalted butter, 1 tablespoon at a time, whisking until butter melts and sauce thickens slightly. Season to taste with salt and white pepper. Serve sauce over steak. Hot Spiced Apple Champagne Punch Perfect for a large New Year’s Eve or New Year’s Day party 3 Tbsp pumpkin pie spice 1 Tbsp grated orange zest 12 oz frozen apple juice concentrate, thawed 4 bottles white wine 1 bottle Champagne, chilled For Ice Ring: 8oz pineapple chunks 1 orange, sliced into rounds 4oz maraschino cherries, drained most wonderful It’s the time of the year! Nothing says CHEERS more than toasting friends and family at holiday time. Liquor Mart is your family-owned and operated celebration headquarters, with one of the largest varieties of wines from around the world. Choose a chardonnay from California (superb with turkey!),a malbec from Argentina (great with lean roast beef), or a riesling from Germany (delicious with fish!) and many more. And don’t forget the champagne. We have bubbles to fit every budget and palette. Friendly atmosphere, knowledgeable staff... Cheers from our family to yours! Put the pumpkin pie spice, orange zest and apple juice into a pan. Bring to a boil. Simmer for 10 minutes, then remove from heat. In a large container, mix juice and white wine, and chill overnight. At this same time, make an ice ring out of the fruits, and freeze overnight. Strain the liquid, and put into a punch bowl. Add in the Champagne. Top with fruit ice ring. 1527 N Broadway Street New Ulm, MN 56073 507-354-8778 011388 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 39 3 easy style tips that instantly glam up your holiday look As a renowned fashion stylist, Micaela Erlanger of New York, NY makes her clients look, and perhaps even more importantly, feel their best for all of life’s special occasions. Now just in time for the holidays, Erlanger is sharing her insider style and beauty tips so you can shine this season. n Start your holiday beauty routine in the shower For Erlanger, great holiday style starts with beautiful skin and feeling confident in it. “This holiday season, we’ll be seeing a lot of skin-baring trends, from cut-outs to daring necklines,” she says. “When your skin is looking and feeling great, you can wear these trends during the holidays with confidence. I recommend a body wash, which gives softer, smoother skin after only one shower, making it the easiest step in holiday beauty prep.” n Invest in timeless essentials In addition to taking the best care of your skin, Erlanger suggests investing in timeless accessories, such as a great bag, piece of jewelry or pair of shoes. While it is exciting to test out the latest trends, they are constantly evolving, so having some classic pieces will help to carry your closet from season to season. Regardless of the special occasion, you’ll always have those go-to items to count on to enhance your wardrobe. n Find a festive focal point To incorporate a little more glam into your holiday look, Micaela also recommends adding a bold element to make a statement. “Pick a focal point, whether it’s a red lip, a colorful nail, or a fun necklace to elevate your style,” she says. These eye-catching additions to your ensemble will help to highlight your favorite features and will take your holiday look to the next level. RVW Unique women’s apparel, fashion accessories & home decor right inside Southern Minnesota’s largest furniture showroom! 40 a division of A&W Furniture in Redwood Falls, MN www.laneylus.com 240873 Strut Your Stuff 011258 Stop out at the farm for your holiday shopping. We carry clothing, accessories and many wonderful gifts. Warm wishes from our family to yours. 41132 180th St W Springfield, MN 507-276-1270 240884 41 010652 Put On yOur Party dress. 42 & receive special coupons! 237 Belgrade Ave. | North Mankato | 507-345-6554 208 Downtown Plaza | Fairmont | 507-749-1001011112 Hours: Mon., Tues., Wed. & Fri. 10 - 6; Thursday 10 - 7; Saturday 10 - 5. 010762 Encore Consignment & Bridal Boutique 311 N. RiveRfRoNt DR., MaNkato, MN 507.386.0861 www.eNcoReMaNkato.coM HouRs: M-f 10-6isH; sat. 10-4isH; suN. 12-4isH 011324 Strut Your Stuff RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 43 010654 Strut Your Stuff 44 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 010814 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 45 010811 Enough stuff is enough! If you’ve heard it once, you’ve heard it a thousand times. Kids have too much stuff! I know better than anyone how much this is true. Doing professional cleaning, organizing and decluttering for years has allowed me to take mental note of the consistent accumulation of “stuff” in almost every home I’ve visited. Why do kids seem to have so much more stuff? Kids celebrate birthdays with gifts more than adults. There are gift bags at parties and freebies at fairs. Close friends and family love to bring back gifts for kids after having been gone. Parents buy souvenirs for kids on family vacations. The Easter Bunny brings gift baskets. Santa brings gift baskets and the list goes on and on. Kids are also sentimental with items, reluctant to give up what’s “theirs.” Knowing this, parents avoid the hassle and tears of going from a through toy boxes and play rooms. Yet, more items continue to come into the home. I’d venture to say many kids lose track of what they have or can’t find what they want in the piles of “stuff.” by Cindy Haugland If this sounds familiar, I’d like to tidytightwads.com challenge you to make a conscious Tidy Tightwad Tips Professional Organizer effort to reduce the stuff your kids have. Here are some tips on ways to do this. Talk to grandparents and other gift givers in your child’s life. Let them know what you are trying to do. Ask Grandma to reduce her 10 gifts to five this year. Give practical ideas of what your kids really need; sheets, mittens, pajamas, etc. Consider non-clutter gifts like tickets to the movie, swim passes, pedicures. Give the gift of time: game night, tea parties, date night with dad, weekend at grandma’s, etc. Team up and give one larger gift or family gift. Not only do a bunch of small gifts build up clutter, the cost can really add up. Donate to someone in need or a cause your family believes in. Teaching children the gift of compassion is something that will last a life time. Encourage your kids to spend time making their Christmas lists and really think carefully about what they want and need. Do this early (months early) and then have them review again closer to Christmas. Often times “fads” are over quickly, and kids will remove items from their own lists. While it may take some coaxing, it’s important to go through toys and books, prior to Christmas. Donate to make room for new gifts coming in. If children refuse to part with something, put it in storage. Ask again later after plenty of time has passed. After Christmas go through clothes, shoes, and outerwear. Donate old items that your child received new at Christmas and simply doesn’t need any longer. Kids don’t need stuff to be happy. What you’re teaching your kids will be healthy habits later in life. Spend time making memories with your kids, not accumulating “stuff.” RVW We create home for older adults, wherever they choose to live. The Ecumen St. Peter team is proud to provide independent living, assisted living, memory and respite care at Ecumen Prairie Hill, and assisted living at Ecumen Sand Prairie. We’d love to meet you. Please call Lisa at 507-484-2203 for a tour or more information. Front row: Nicki Rehnelt, Housing Director; Darcy Beranek, RN, Clinical Director; Melanie Marti, RN, Sand Prairie. Second row: Becky Tapper, Sand Prairie Life Enrichment Coordinator; Janet Geisler, Life Enrichment Director; Rachel Hauschild, Human Resources Representative. Third row: Joyce Wilcox, Sand Prairie Food & Beverage Manager; George Willis, Prairie Hill Food & Beverage Manager; Lisa Hofferbert, Sales & Marketing Manager. Fourth row: Doug Mehlhaff, Environmental Service Director; Tami Brandt, Business Office Manager 46 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 009141 Rooted in our heritage, focused on your future 3 locations to serve you! 1600 Madison Ave, Suite 112, Mankato 306 Main St. NE, Mapleton 16 N Main, Winnebago Tara Garbes, REALTOR 507-327-6370 011326 009168 Judy Ness, Broker 507-525-2009 www.homestead4sale.com 011351 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 47 & Fun, Festivals Frolics To have your event listed, please e-mail Ruth Klossner at cowlady@centurylink.net. Listings are generally for events that are free to the public, or are fund-raisers. Listings will be published as space allows and at the discretion of the editor. Though Thurs., Dec. 18 • 6th Annual ArtScape Juried Art Show, The Grand Center for Arts and Culture, 210 N. Minnesota St., New Ulm. Info: thegrandnewulm. com, grand@thegrandnewulm. com, or 507-359-9222. Through Wed., Dec. 31 • Kiwanis Holiday Lights, Sibley Park, 900 Mound Ave., Mankato. Walk or drive through a winter wonderland. More than one million LED lights. Warming houses and concessions available. No charge but non-perishable food items and cash donations appreciated. Info: 507-385-9129. Wed.-Sun., Dec. 3-7 • ‘Christmas at Bethany’ concerts, Trinity Chapel, Bethany College, Mankato. 4 pm daily. Concert Band, Concert Choir, Chamber Choir, Mary Martha Singers & Handbell Choir will perform. Free will offering, advance reservations encouraged. Info & reservations: 507-344-7365 or https://blc.tixato. com/buy. Fri., Dec. 5 • Christmas Bazaar, Redeemer Lutheran Church, 700 S. Broadway, New Ulm, 10:30 am-1 pm. Fri.-Sat., Dec. 5-6 • Readers Theater - Campfire Stories, MLC Auditorium, Martin Luther College, New Ulm, 7:30 pm Fri., 2 pm Sat. Info & tickets: mlcinfo@mlc-wels.edu. Shop from local artists, live music, wine tasting, chocolates to nibble. • 42nd Annual Christmas in Christ Chapel, ‘Tender Rose, Starry Night,’ Gustavus Adolphus College, 800 W. College Ave., St. Peter. 350 students, conductors & other members of college community celebrate the season’s calling. 7:30 pm Fri., 3:30 & 7:30 pm Sat. & Sun. Info & tickets: gustavustickets.com or 507-933-7520. • Hilltop Christmas Festival, Hilltop United Methodist Church, 108 South Manitou Drive, Mankato, 9 am-12 pm. Baked goods, crafts, gift baskets, breakfast, more. Half of proceeds will support the BackPack food program. Info: mankatohilltop.com/. • ‘A Christmas Story’ Holiday Radio Play, State Street Theatre Auditorium, Center & State St., New Ulm. 7:30 pm. Fri. & Sat., 2:30 pm Sun. Info & tickets: newulmact. com. • Nutcracker Exhibit, Wanda Gag House, 226 N. Washington St., New Ulm, 10 am-4 pm. View over 100 nutcrackers, pictures with the Mighty Nutcracker, kids’ program at 1 pm. Exhibit also open Dec. 7, 13 & 14. Info: 507-359-2632 or wandagaghouse.org. Fri.-Sun., Dec. 5-7 & Dec. 12-14 • ‘The Best Christmas Pageant Ever’ by the Merely Players, Lincoln Community Center, 110 Fulton St., Mankato. 7:30 pm Dec. 5, 6, 12 & 13; 2 pm Dec. 6, 7, 13 & 14. Info & tickets: 507-388-5483 or player@ merelyplayers.com. Sat., Dec. 6 • Santa Spectacular Craft & Home Based Business Show, GFW Elementary School, Gibbon, 9 am-1 pm. Food concessions & bake sale available. Info: 507-4301493 or sharonfossum@gmail.com. • Taste of Hy-Vee, Riverfront Hy-Vee, Mankato. 3-7 pm Fri. & 11 am-4 pm Sat. Enjoy seasonal samples and learn how to make holidays easier, healthier and happier. Info: 507-625-1107 or hellison@hy-vee.com. • Arli-Dazzle Lighted Parade, Arlington, 5:30 pm. Over 100 lighted holiday units including Santa and his Reindeer—likely the largest lighted Christmas parade in Minnesota. Visits with Santa, horse-drawn sleigh rides, snowball baseball game, food vendors before parade. Info: 507-964-2809 or 320-420-6243 or afterburnerautobody@frontiernet. net. Fri.-Sun., Dec. 5-7 • GSR Fine Art Festival, Verizon Wireless Center, Mankato; 11 am-7 pm Fri., 10 am-6 pm Sat., 12-5 pm Sun. Free admission & parking. • Jingle Bell Jam 5K Walk/Run, New Ulm Recreation Center, 122 So. Garden St., New Ulm, 10 am. Proceeds to Yellow Ribbon Suicide prevention. Info: 507-766-0278, 48 browncomnyellowribbon.com. Registration: jinglebelljam. zapevent.com. RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 • A Night for Courage featuring the Little Prairie Pickers, The Pantry, 209 N. Minnesota St., New Ulm, 7 pm. Appetizers and entertainment. Sponsored by New Ulm Medical Center Foundation with all proceeds benefiting Courage Kenny Rehabilitation Institute. Info: 507-217-5180, sara.schauer@allina.com, or allinahealth.org/newulm. Sat.-Sun., Dec. 6-7 • Christmas at the Hubbard House, 606 South Broad Street, Mankato. 3-7 pm Sat., 1-4 pm Sun. Various holiday traditions with costumed interpreters. Refreshments at Carriage House. Info & costs: 507-345-5566. • Holiday Open House & Sleigh Rides, Morgan Creek Vineyards, 11 am-5 pm. Country brunch, shopping, wine tasting, sleigh-rides. Info: 507-9473547, martimcv@aol.com, or morgancreekvineyards.com. • Martin Luther College Christmas Concert, MLC Chapel of the Christ, New Ulm. 7:30 pm Sat., 4 pm Sun. Info: Info: mlcinfo@mlc-wels.edu. Sun., Dec. 7 • Cow Collector’s Mooseum Holiday Open House, 34085 515 Ave., Lafayette (Bernadotte), 2-4 pm. View largest collection of cow items. Info: cowlady@centurylink. net or 507-240-0048. • Advent Bazaar & Stone Soup Lunch, Oakwood Methodist Church, 1630 Oakwood Ave., New Ulm, 10:45 am-12:45 pm. Free will donation; proceeds benefit outreach to needy kids in community. Individually priced crafts & baked goods. Info: 507-766-3194, oakwoodchurch@newulmtel.net or oakwoodumcnewulm.org. Tues., Dec. 9 • Kids in the Kitchen Cooking Class, Riverfront Hy-Vee, Mankato, 4:30-6 pm. Free 30 minute classes at 4:30, 5, 5:30 & 6 pm with Hy-Vee dietician; limited to 5 kids per class. Info & registration: 507-6251107 or hellison@hy-vee.com. • Alice Lind Play Reading Society reading of ‘Luther,’ Lind House, 622 Center St., New Ulm, 7:30 pm. Info & cost: 507-359-9990 or newulmact.com/play-readings/. Thurs., Dec. 11 & 18 • Healthy Holiday Sampling, Riverfront Hy-Vee, Mankato, 3-6:30 p.m. Sample stylish & savory foods for the holidays with Riverfront Hy-Vee dietitian. Fri.-Sat., Dec. 12-13 • Nativity Pageant, Riverside Park, Springfield, 7 pm. Live pageant under the stars. 80+ volunteers tell the Christmas story, 30-voice choir, dancing angels, children’s choir and a live manger scene including camels. Free. Info: 507-723-3508. Sat., Dec. 13 • Holiday Vendor Fair, Immanuel Lutheran School, Gaylord, 9 am-1 pm. Local home-based businesses and crafters. • Minnesota New Country School Fundraiser, Henderson, 10 am-3 pm. Bake sale & concessions, craft & direct sale vendors, prize drawings. Washington Ave., St. Peter. 1-4 pm each day. Victorian Christmas with decorations, displays, music & refreshments. Info & cost: 507-934-2160. • Christmas Bird Identification, Ney Nature Center, 28238 Nature Center Lane, Henderson, 1 pm. A refresher for winter bird ID, in preparation for the Christmas Bird Count (Dec. 20). Basics of using a birding field guide, common birds to observe & feeding techniques for winter birds. Info & costs: 507-248-3474 or neycenter.org. • ‘The Nutcracker’ by the Mankato Ballet Company, Ted Paul Theatre, Minnesota State University, Mankato, 1 & 5 pm each day. Accompanied by Mankato Symphony Orchestra. Info & tickets: 507-389-6661 or MSUTHEATRE.com. • ‘Christmas with Musicorum’ holiday choral concert, Chapel of Our Lady of Good Counsel, Mankato, 7:30 p.m. The Mankatobased chamber choral ensemble will present uplifting choral music, across the centuries and from various composers & traditions. Info & cost: 507-3861380 or pitchpyp@hotmail.com. Sat.-Sun., Dec. 13-14 • Christmas at the Cox House, E. St. Julien Cox House, 500 N. Thurs., Dec. 18 • Fresh Table Arrangement Workshop, A to Zinnia Floral & Gifts, 15 S. Broadway, New 5:30 pm. Create a winter table piece to last through the holidays. Info & cost: 507-359-9900, heather@ a2zinnia.com or facebook.com/ AtoZinniaFloralandGifts. Tues., Dec. 23 • MVL Christmas Concert, Minnesota Valley Lutheran High School, 45638 561st Ave., New Ulm, 7 pm. Christmas songs performed by the MVL choirs and musicians. Info: mvl.org or valh@ mvlhs.org. Sat., Dec. 27-Tues., Dec. 30 • Holiday Family Clay Days, Arts Center of Saint Peter, 15 South Minnesota Avenue, Saint Peter. Each person will produce several pieces of pottery. Sessions start Sat., 10 am-12 pm; continue Sun., Mon. & Tues., 2- 4pm. Open to ages 5 and up, ages 5-15 must be accompanied by adult. Info: 507-931-3630 or artscenterofsaintpeter@gmail. com. Sun., Dec. 28 • Hilltop Happenings, Hilltop Hall, 206 First St. N., Montgomery, 4 pm. Final musical variety show at the hall. No admission—donation accepted to defray costs; pizza sold at intermission. Info: bighonza.com/hilltop-hall/. Thurs., Jan. 1 • First Day Hike, Minneopa State Park, 5 mi. west of Mankato on Hwys. 68 & 169. 10 am-noon. Area naturalist will lead guided hike from Ground Campground down Seppmann Mill Road, about 3 miles, to talk about reintroduction of bison. Info: 507384-8890, Scott.Kudelka@state. mn.us or americasstateparks.org/ first-day-hikes. Thurs., Jan. 8 • Henderson Sew & Share Quilters, Henderson Library, Lower level. 6:30 pm. Beginning projects or bring your own stitching, knitting, etc.—sew, share, and learn. No cost. Info: 507-248-3880. Fri., Jan. 9-Sun., Feb. 8 • PLRAC/McKnight Emerging Artists Show, Arts Center of Saint Peter, 15 South Minnesota Avenue, Saint Peter. 11 am-6 pm Tues.-Fri., 1-5 pm Sat. & Sun. Sun., Jan. 11 • Parade of Bands Fundraiser for Minnesota Music Hall of Fame, Park Ballroom, New Prague. 010754 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 49 Treasures. . . Discover your holiday dazzle at the fun and unique shops in our Minnesota river valley communities. One-of-a-kind treasures make perfect stocking stuffers or simply a special gift for the one and only you! Schmidt’s Meat Market Gift Boxes A unique way to express your appreciation to your family, friends, clients, and business associates. The gift boxes appeal to everyone on your gift list. Boxes priced to fit your budget, starting at $19.00. Schmidt’s Meat Market 319 Pine Street, Nicollet 507-232-3438 Award-‐Winning Classic Gold Medal Winner of the 2014 World Beer Cup for Vienna-Style Lager, this reddish amber, smooth tasting beer is always a crowd pleaser. It’s mild maltiness, subtle sweetness and light hoppy finish make it a perfect pairing for parties, great compliment to holiday meals, and much appreciated gift! Find Schell’s Firebrick at area restaurants, bars and liquor stores. 100% Pure No Synthetic chemicals, chemical preservatives, detergents, artificial fragrance or any other unhealthy toxins. We carry a full line of products including: fruit dyed make up, skin care, bath & body, hair and kids products. Broadway Chiropractic Wellness Center 1510 N. Broadway, New Ulm www.broadwaychiropractic.com 507-359-4374 50 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 “Thompsons Candle Company” wax crumble melts, available in scrumptious long lasting scents for every season. Pink Swan Creations 41132 180th St. W, Springfield, MN 56087 507.276.1270 FAVOR JEWELRY Favor is a thoughtfully designed and eco friendly brand. Each piece of jewelry is created start-to-finish in Portland, Oregon by A team of talented makers. Part of the profit goes towards Women for Women International to provide the means for more women-owned businesses in the world. SEMBLANCE 204 N Minnesota St . New Ulm www.shopsemblance.com 507.304.0377 Away in a Manger... Kids will love the unique gifts and toys available at Lambrechts including this Melissa & Doug wooden nativity set. Makes a thoughtful gift for your child. LAMBRECHTS 119 North Minnesota Street New Ulm, MN 56073 www.lambrechtsgifts.net 507.233.4350 Decorate outside the box with funky patterned pieces - from bedding to wall clocks. Visit today at: The Design Element 1351 Madison Avenue, Mankato (507) 345-8708 www.thedesignelement.net “We do...” ...have dates still available for 2015! Love, honor and celebrate your wedding with a reception at the new renovated hotel and conference center. Mention this ad treasure for a half price room rental! Holiday Inn & New Ulm Conference Center 2101 South Broadway New Ulm, MN 56073 507.359.3540 When the weather outside is frightful, these hand-crafted truffles made with fresh butter, cream and the finest Fair Trade European chocolate are delightful. Get that warm fuzzy feeling sipping a variety of hot chocolates including Raspberry, Carmel, Mint, Peanut Butter and more. Let it snow! A to Zinnia Floral & Gifts 15 S. Broadway St., New Ulm, MN 507.359.9900 Fine unique pieces at southern Minnesota’s largest furniture showroom! A & W Furniture, Find and Design 1501 E. Bridge St. Redwood Falls, MN www.awfurniture.com 507-644-2020 Not Just Fireplaces! Discover our collection of art and decor, like this large stunning 3-piece wall art set. Glowing Hearth & Home 241 St. Andrews Drive, Mankato, MN 507.345.8084 Hello Gorgeous! Have a holly Zum Jolly Christmas with festive scents-of-the-season soy candles, soaps and more! Let us show you what we’re made of! Vegetarian, vegan and gluten free products, loaded with olive oils, organic beeswax, soy and more. Mmmmm...BeYOUtiful! Hy-Vee Hilltop 2010 Adams St., Mankato 507.625.9070 Hy-Vee Riverfront 410 S. Riverfront Dr. Mankato, 507.625.1107 Unique and Warm and one of a kind! Handmade recycled wool sweater mittens, lined with soft fleece batting. Unique colors, and patterns in various sizes. Sure to please that special someone on your list to buy for. Stop in today! The Stationery and Gift Store by Carlson Craft 1750 Tower Blvd. ● North Mankato, MN Ph: 507-625-0547 ● email: stationeryandgiftstore@ carlsoncraft.com Reflect on the mood of the holidays with a new vanity mirror. Add sparkle to your space and visit: Lights On Madison 1351 Madison Avenue, Mankato (507) 345-8771 www.lightsonmadison.com Salud! Can’t decide between a beer or a margarita? Have both with a Beerita! Toast to a dia feliz (happy day) with a unique combination of flavors and a fun presentation. It’s summer in a glass! Plaza Garibaldi 1707 N. Broadway, New Ulm 507.359.7073 plazagaribaldinewulm.com La Terraza 1404 Madison Ave., Mankato 507.344.0607 laterrazamankato.com RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 51 Rewards in Retirement from page 10 osteo-arthritis. The curriculum, licensed by RSVP programs around the country, and developed by Tuft University in Boston, provides a comprehensive, hour-long session resulting in what participants say are amazing results in bone strength, balance and energy. The difference of this program, Audrey says, is that RSVP works alongside you and the community to provide classes through volunteers, and at a no-cost location. “It’s a free program,” Audrey said. “How can you beat that?” Two other women, Marlene Walters and Diane Tetzloff, signed on to assist with the class. RSVP offers them training, support, updates, and ongoing communication. In fact, anyone who assists the leaders in set up, paperwork, or driving others to class receives special perks from RSVP. “Its fun,” says Audrey, who sees the success of the growing group. “It’s important as we age that we stay independent to stay in our homes.” She explained, referring to staying healthy later in life. Since the St. James kickoff a year ago, participation swelled to 30, with seasonal fluctuations from weather and “snowbirds.” “We could have five (participants) and we could get 20,” said Linda. “I know if it was just for me, I might not go…you know, it’s too cold, the roads are bad….” It’s the social aspect that makes everyone stay accountable, she explained. Accountability or not, neither Linda nor Audrey intends to quit any time soon. They both admit, when they do miss a class, they just don’t feel right, like they’ve missed out on time with family. 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She warms him up in more ways than one until she finds out that he may not be who he appears. There was a bus accident just down the road carrying officers and prisoners. Is he really a sheriff or is he a convict on the loose? Kevin Kling’s Holiday Inn by Kevin Kling Celebrate all the holidays–and then some–with renowned Minnesota storyteller Kevin Kling, whose sense of the ridiculous never gets in the way of his appreciation for human nature. Laugh out-loud (and cry a little) stories cover a year’s worth of holidays and events. We can all relate to this honest-to goodness story-telling. The Stupidest Angel: A Heartwarming Tale of Christmas Terror by Christopher Moore The tiny community of Pine Cove, California, people are busy buying, wrapping, packing, and generally getting into the holiday spirit. But not everybody is feeling the joy. Little Joshua Barker is in desperate need of a holiday miracle. He is sure that he saw Santa take a shovel to the head, and now the seven-year-old has only one prayer: Please, Santa, come back from the dead. But hold on! There’s an angel waiting in the wings. It’s none other than the Archangel Raziel come to Earth seeking a small child with a wish that needs granting. Unfortunately, our angel’s not sporting the brightest halo in the bunch, and sends the residents of Pine Cove headlong into Christmas chaos, culminating in the most hilarious and horrifying holiday party the town has ever seen. Christmas in Minnesota by Marilyn Ziebarth and Brian Horrigan Like the warmth of a cabin fireplace and lights of fish houses on a frozen lake, Christmas in Minnesota can evokes strong memories of bygone years. Familiar traditions echo across the years in funny, poignant, and surprising ways in this group of stories. A family welcomes a Swedish traveler to their cozy sod house on the prairie in the 1970s. The annual holiday pageant is at the heart of a moving story by Faith Sullivan about a schoolgirl frightened by her role in the spotlight. The spirit of giving is the theme as Evelyn Fairbanks remembers the stranger who made Christmas possible after her father’s untimely death in the 1930s. A dad struggles to reconnect with his son in a touching story by novelist Jon Hassler. A Civil War drummer boy prepares for a makeshift holiday while on duty with the First Minnesota. Essayist Bill Holm reflects on the joyous and burdensome ritual of composing the annual Christmas letter. These stories and many more, accompanied by vintage recipes, advertisements, photos, and decorations, recreate the excitement and spirit of Minnesota’s own Yuletide cheer. Source: amazon.com, goodreads.com 54 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 Swipe and Earn Holiday Shopping that Rewards You... with Points, Cash or Interest for using your debit card for purchases! 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You hand the children the newest toy catalog so they can start making wish lists for Santa and Grandma Betty; you have a grocery list two pages long as you prepare for an afternoon of baking peanut butter blossoms, homemade toffee, and corn flake Of course, the best part wreath treats; and the packing list is started of a new year is that it’s for your family’s 10-day, time to see your tax 400-mile road trip to accountant again. the in-laws so you can celebrate the holidays with family. You started all of those lists, checking them off as you went, but before you know it the holidays have come and gone and you are ringing in the New Year. Of course, the best part of a new year is that it’s time to see your tax accountant again. With your holiday lists completed, I challenge you to make one more list—except this time, I will help you generate it. The final list for the season is a list of items you should discuss If you watched Neil Armstrong land on the moon back in 1969, join the club. SHIRLEY EBERHART KAREN LLOYD On July 20, 1969, millions watched as Neil Armstrong set foot on the moon and uttered the phrase, “That’s one small step for man; one giant leap for mankind.” Good memories for those 50 and older. But now that you’ve reached the prime of your life, it’s time to make new memories. And enjoy the good life, including great benefits and fun social events that come with opening a Primetimers Club checking account at any Community Bank. MONEY MATTERS. WORK SMART. LET COMMUNITY BANK HELP YOU BRING THE TWO TOGETHER. MELANIE MILLER ALLIE WILSON 56 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 011323 www.cbfg.net MANKATO - St. Andrews Drive 507.385.4444 MANKATO - Madison Ave 507.625.1551 VERNON CENTER 507.549.3679 AMBOY 507.674.3300 with your accountant during your tax appointment. • Are there any new deductions or credits we may qualify for? • Discuss any known life events (marriage, divorce, birth, adoption, address change, etc.) and how they may impact your taxes. • Do we have any carry-forwards from last year (i.e. losses, credits, etc.)? Brainstorm ideas on how to utilize carry-forwards. • Be prepared to discuss any foreign income received or foreign taxes paid during the year. • Bring documentation related to debts cancelled, forgiven or refinanced. • Were you involved in or are considering a transaction involving a new or existing business, partnership, LLC or S Corporation, real estate, or other property? Let’s discuss. • How can we start saving for our children’s college? Let’ look at custodial accounts vs. 529 savings plans vs. Coverdell’s vs. Roth IRAs vs. savings bonds. • I have a business; can I hire my children to generate a tax advantage? • I have a home-office; can I deduct any related expenses? • Can we make any additional retirement contributions? • Should we switch to a Roth 401(k)? • How does the Affordable Care Act affect us? • Is there a tax-free way to acquire a new rental property? • If you are nearing retirement age, discuss your options regarding when to start collecting Social Security. • Based on our projected income for 2015, what are our forecasted taxes? • Do we need to adjust our withholdings? Or pay estimated taxes? • Consider prepaying state taxes. • Do we need to have a will? Health care directive? • Discuss general planning opportunities to reduce your taxable estate. As you prepare for your year-end tax appointment with your accountant, do yourself a favor and make one more list, then check it twice. The Internal Revenue Service has provided us a tax code full of deductions, credits, and other opportunities. Give yourself peace of mind and help your accountant make sure you benefit from everything you can. RVW By Brooke C. Forstner CPA/Tax Manager Eide Bailly It Pays to Shop Smart for the Holidays...Literally! credit card companies offer points rewards associated with dollars spent. Don’t count out your bank. Some banks offer points and benefits based on swiping your debit card. This option offers the comfort of not potentially paying interest on your purchases since the payments come directly from your checking account. Another holiday-time bonus that has been popping up in the past few years have been the buy-one, get-one gift card deals. Many retailers, and even more restaurants, have been offering free gift cards for purchasers based on dollar threshold purchases of their store gift cards. For example, if you purchase $100 worth of gift cards, they will give you a free $25 gift card. The only decision to make at that point is, do I keep it for me or give it as a gift? Tough choice! It’s upon us once again...the holiday shopping season! The air gets brisk and the dollars briskly exit our wallets as we hit the stores to shop for those treasures for our loved ones. A little bit of planning can save you a whole lot of money this holiday season. It’s easy, especially using the technology that we all have in our homes, offices, and palm of our hands! Take Advantage of Technology Smartphone apps are the way to go for instant gratification when it comes to finding a deal on the spot. There are apps available to get a quick price comparison to make sure you’re getting the best deal. These are great for those high-dollar wish list items, but don’t forget that the little stuff adds up too. Many retailers offer their own apps that provide discounts and rewards that are customized based on your shopping history in their stores. There are also many apps dedicated to bringing coupons, rewards, and deals for a wide variety of products or retailers. If you’re leaning more towards creating your shopping “plan of attack” before heading out on the town, you can save big time by hopping online to seek out specific coupons for your purchases. Manufacturer and retailer-specific coupons are plentiful online. You just have to be willing to weed through the search engine results to find the best and truly legit deals. Good old-fashioned weekly ads are still a good way to go to find the deals. Most retailers offer their weekly ads online for quick and easy viewing. No one likes to see that item they just purchased last week now listed at 25% off in the following week’s ad, so plan ahead and watch those ads. Gift for You, Gift for Me So many retailers offer rewards programs for their shoppers that it’s almost unusual to not be offered a reward card when checking out. Many of these rewards programs can be very beneficial for shoppers, especially for loyal ones. When you’re out there hitting the racks, you can also be racking up rewards for your own use after the holiday season settles with these programs. The rewards can come in the form of points to be redeemed in gift cards, points to be redeemed for merchandise, and even freebies. Don’t forget your plastic when it comes to rewards! Double up on your rewards when you are shopping by using a debit card or credit card with a rewards program as well. Since many of the retailers’ reward programs are not based on using a store credit card, you can truly double up by gaining your store rewards AND swiping your plastic to earn points with your payment card. Many Think Local Remember to keep your local shops and retailers in mind when you start your shopping. You’ll avoid the additional expense of shipping and expensive gas fill-ups when you drive out of town. Your dollars spent locally help the economy. More sales tax-revenue means more jobs, more money for schools, more dollars towards infrastructure improvements and the list goes on. Besides the benefits of local sales tax dollars staying local, you can also find really cool and unique items from local shops. Be creative too. Gifts don’t always have to be something from a retail store. Food, services, entertainment and other local treasures can make for memorable and popular gifts. The moral of the story when the holiday spirit takes over and leads you out into the wild world of retail is to think ahead and have a plan. Planning ahead can help you find the best deals, help you earn the most benefits from your shopping choices and, in the end, help you save the most money. You may even save enough money to set aside to start saving for next year’s holiday shopping season! RVW By Leslie Vermillion Marketing Manager of United Prairie Bank unitedprairiebank.com RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 57 Money Talks 12 tips for a Season of Giving For many, the holiday season inspires feelings of generosity. So if you’re thinking of making a contribution to a charitable organization, be sure to keep the following tips in mind. 1 Be sure you are giving to a qualified organization. Examples of qualified organizations include churches, nonprofit charitable or educational organizations (United Way or Girl Scouts), nonprofit hospitals and research organizations, and nonprofit firefighter organizations. 2 To deduct a charitable contribution, you must file Form 1040 and itemize deductions on Schedule A. Minnesota also allows a deduction on the state return for those who do not itemize and contribute more than $500. 3 If you receive a benefit because of your contribution, such as merchandise, tickets to a sporting event, or other goods and services, you may deduct only the amount that exceeds the fair market value of the benefit received. 4 5 6 7 8 58 Donations of stock or other non-cash property are usually valued at fair market value. Fair market value is typically the price at which property would change hands between a willing buyer and a willing seller, neither having to buy or sell, and both having reasonable knowledge of all relevant facts. 9 We are hoping Congress reinstates legislation that allows you to contribute $100,000 or less directly from your IRA to a qualified organization as a 2014 contribution. Please check with your tax professional to find out if this has been extended. 10 To claim a deduction for contributions of cash, check or other monetary gift of any amount, you must maintain a bank record, payroll deduction records, or written communication (such as a receipt) from the organization containing the organization’s name and the date and amount of the contribution. For donations made via text message, a telephone bill will meet the record-keeping requirement — as long as it shows the name of the receiving organization, the date of the contribution, and the amount given. 11 To claim a deduction for contributions of cash or property equaling $250 or more, you must follow the requirements listed in tip #10 and obtain an acknowledgment from the organization. The acknowledgement must show the amount of cash and a description of any property contributed, as well as whether or not the organization provided any goods or services in exchange for the gift. If your total deduction for all noncash contributions for the year is over $500, you must complete and attach IRS Form 8283, Noncash Charitable Contributions, to your return. 12 If you donate an item or a group of similar items valued at more than $5,000, you must attach an appraisal to your return. Donated clothing and household items must generally be in good used condition or better to be deductible. Special rules apply to vehicle donations. Don’t forget about qualified travel (mileage) for the organization’s activities. Out-of-pocket expenses you incur while rendering services for an organization can create a tax deduction, too. You can also donate land, works of art, grain, and life insurance policy ownerships. RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 And don’t forget — make your contribution by December 31 to receive a tax deduction for your 2014 taxes. RVW Source: IRS.gov Christine Powers, CPA, Partner Abdo Eick & Meyers LLP Life events drive need for financial guidance Financial professionals see it every day. A person who has never felt the need for financial guidance walks in their door right after a significant life event – maybe the birth of a child, marriage, or an unexpected inheritance. Life events like these and others may turn professional financial assistance from a nice-to-have into a need-to-have situation. What life events often drive this need? Financial professionals say that retirement issues are among the main reasons people visit them – and this need is becoming more palpable as the 76 million baby boomers enter retirement. This transition to retirement can be a trying one. Retirement often means leaving behind the identity one formed through work and a routine that developed over years on the job. It may also mean added opportunity – and possibly challenges – in filling one’s time. Beyond the personal lifestyle issues, outliving assets in retirement is increasingly becoming one of the concerns among boomers – and a key driver to get financial guidance now rather than later. But retirement questions affect boomers and non-boomers alike – for some it’s managing a nest egg; for others it’s learning strategies to help build enough wealth to be ready for retirement. Other life events Retirement, however, is not the only life event that drives a need for guidance. Many other life events require attention when it comes to finances. Thrivent Financial recommends meeting with your financial representative around these life events: An inheritance. Many people devote time and attention to devising strategies in the event of their own death but often forget that they might also find themselves as beneficiaries during the course of their lives. Financial services professionals provide valuable input in helping during these life events, too. Education. During the past 20 years, tuition costs have increased dramatically, and financial aid for secondary education has not kept pace. Thus, paying for a child’s college education is an even larger life-changing event for parents than ever before. Change in marital status. Getting married introduces new challenges. Finances are increasingly an issue in marriages and a common cause for unhappiness and strain. A good way to lessen the stress is to make financial decisions together and re-assess those decisions over time with the help of a financial professional. A birth or adoption of a child. This life event is significant, to say the least, and usually requires some additional financial guidance. Making room for the new addition into one’s budget is critical. It’s also a time to evaluate the need for additional disability income and life insurance coverage. Life events are inevitable and so are financial needs as they evolve and change over time. Seeking guidance as they arise can help create a renewed sense of financial balance. This article was prepared by Thrivent Financial for use by St. Peter representative Chanelle Braekkan. She has offices at 300 S. Minnesota Ave in St. Peter and can also be reached at 507-3514580. About Thrivent Financial Thrivent Financial is a financial services organization that helps Christians be wise with money and live generously. The organization offers a broad range of products and services along with guidance from financial representatives nationwide. For more than a century it has helped its nearly 2.4 million member-owners make wise money choices that reflect their values. Thrivent also provides opportunities for members to be even more generous where they live, work and worship. For more information, visit www.thrivent. com/why. You can also find us on Facebook and Twitter. Thrivent Financial is the marketing name for Thrivent Financial for Lutherans, Appleton, Wis. Insurance products issued or offered by Thrivent Financial for Lutherans, Appleton, WI. Not all products are available in all states. Securities and investment advisory services are offered through Thrivent Investment Management Inc., 625 Fourth Ave. S., Minneapolis, MN 55415, 800-847-4836, a FINRA and SIPC member and a wholly owned subsidiary of Thrivent Financial for Lutherans. Thrivent Financial representatives are registered representatives of Thrivent Investment Management Inc. They are also licensed insurance agents/producers of Thrivent Financial for Lutherans RVW RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 59 Be Well Preparing for surgery? What you need to know So, it’s official. You need surgery. A lot of thoughts are likely running through your head. You may be feeling anxious, confused or scared. While these emotions are normal, there are ways to feel more comfortable with your upcoming operation. But it’s more than calming your nerves — there are things you can do to prepare yourself for surgery. Q. How can I make sure I am healthy and ready for surgery? A. You and your surgeon will agree together on a surgical plan. Before surgery, your surgeon will require you to have a comprehensive physical examination within 30 days of your scheduled surgery date. Should you not have a primary care physician, or if your primary care physician is unable to see you within the 30-day timeframe, the pre-anesthesia medical evaluation (PAME) clinic is an option to complete this process. Some things you can do before surgery to ensure you are prepared include: • Attend all appointments and educational seminars as directed by your surgeon • Take your medications as directed by your physician • Reduce or quit smoking • Eat healthy foods like fruits, vegetables, lean meats and whole grains • Get plenty of rest • Make arrangements with your friends and family for transportation to and from the hospital, as well as someone to stay with you at home after surgery. • Reviewing your medical, surgical and family history • Physical exam • Completing additional preoperative testing following your exam if deemed necessary. This may include, blood or urine tests, X-rays or an electrocardiogram. An electrocardiogram is a test of heart function with an instrument that prints out the results as a graph. All of these pre-operative exam components help make sure you are optimized for surgery. Q. Why is it important to be “optimized” for surgery? A. First of all, being “optimized” for surgery means you are in proper physical shape before your operation and you are receiving the right care. Your pre-operative evaluation will allow your surgeon and anesthesiologist to be prepared and individualize your surgical care to your specific medical needs. Preoperative optimization has the potential to identify problems or conditions for which we can provide treatment or management strategies throughout your surgery and recovery time. Occasionally a problem is identified at this time that takes precedence over an elective surgery. The problem can be addressed before proceeding with surgery in order to ensure you have the safest possible operation. Q. What are some of the benefits of PAME? A. A PAME appointment is very similar to the exam you would receive with your primary care doctor. PAME has a specific focus on how anesthesia and surgery affect your medical history and current conditions. PAME providers specialize in pre-operative exams. This allows us to see patients within the 30-day timeframe and provide a detailed evaluation of each patient. If you have questions or concerns about preparing for an upcoming surgery, talk with your health care team. RVW Q. What happens during a pre-operative exam? A. Your preoperative evaluation in the PAME clinic will include these components: • Measuring your height, weight and vital signs • Reviewing your medication list with recommendations for how to take your medications prior to surgery Elizabeth Cumberland, nurse practitioner, is a Mayo Clinic Health System pre-anesthesia medical examination provider. For more information, visit www. mayoclinichealthsystem.org. 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Proper tire inflation is equally as important. If you have too much air in your tires the center will wear faster than the edges. Too little air, and the edges will wear faster than the center. Also keeping your alignment in specs and your tires balanced is a must when prolonging the life of your tires, and it ensures that your vehicle will handle properly. If you notice your vehicle pulling to the left or right or your steering wheel shakes; that is a good indication your alignment is off or the tires need to be rebalanced. How do you know when new tires are needed? Tires need to be in good condition to insure your safety, which is why maintaining them is so important. Once a month, or before you embark upon long road trips, check your tires for wear and damage. You will want to check the pressure as well. Refer to your owner’s manual for proper pressure but a general rule of thumb is 35 psi. Uneven wear can signal a multitude of issues too so if you notice flat or bald spots, bulges, cracking or chunks missing you will want to have your mechanic thoroughly inspect your tires before heading out. Your mechanic should know whether your tires will need to be rotated or balanced or if you have any suspension or alignment issues. An easy way of checking the tread depth is to do the penny test. Simply take a penny and hold Abe’s body between your thumb and forefinger, then select a point on your tire where the tread appears the lowest and place Lincoln’s head into one of the grooves. If any part of Abe’s head is covered by the tread, you’re driving with the legal amount of tread. If the tread gets below his head (approximately 2/32 of an inch), your car’s ability to grip the road in adverse conditions is greatly reduced and you may be issued a citation if pulled over. Living in Minnesota is a true test to this. Realistically 2/32nd is not going to provide the traction needed to safely navigate our snow and ice covered roads. We recommend having tires replaced at 4/32 of an inch or when the top of Lincoln’s hair is level with the tread. How do I know what kind of tire I need? As stated above, there are more options than ever before, and let’s face it, tires are EXPENSIVE! Some of the most important things to consider is the size and weather conditions where you live. The size is located on the sidewall of your tires. You should always put on the correct size for your vehicle. Not doing so will result in turning issues, excessive tire wear and your speedometer will not read accurately. If you have troubles locating the size on the sidewall, most vehicles will have a vehicle information sticker located on the driver’s door as well. With Minnesota weather conditions, an all season tire is recommended. These tires will provide great traction on wet roads as well as on snow and ice. The next item to consider is your driving style. Do you prefer a soft, cushioned ride, or would you rather have a stiffer tire with crisp handling for sportier driving? Touring tires provide a softer ride compared to performance tires which are for drivers who demand a little more when it comes to vehicle performance. How do I prolong the life of my tires? We recommend having your tires rotated every 6,000 miles or every other oil change. Rotating your tires often will ensure the What is the best brand? As with most anything else, often you get what you pay for when it comes to tires. Depending on the size and type you need, tires that fit your vehicle will be available RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 with quite large price differences. This is where it’s important to compare tread wear warranties, since you can be fairly certain a tire with a 40,000-mile warranty won’t last as long as one with an 80,000-mile warranty. When considering price points, keep in mind the age of your car, how much longer you’re planning on keeping it, how many miles you typically drive and how often you want to go through the process of replacing tires. Also, remember that premium, top-tier brands tend to be pricey, but that doesn’t mean that a mid-tier, lower priced brand doesn’t offer a quality tire. There are many factors that go into replacing tires, but stressing out over what’s the best option shouldn’t be one of them. Keep in mind the points mentioned above and you will have no problems being confident in whatever brand and style you choose. Amber Schnurrer Marketing & Customer Service Rep Mike’s Collision & Repair Center, New Ulm 40 years of satisfied customers make Mike’s Collision & Repair Center an easy choice when you need to get back on the road. 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Before cold weather strikes, make sure to follow these tips to keep your vehicle running in perfect condition. The better the condition of your vehicle, the longer it will last and the higher the resale or trade-in value. n A clean car is your first line of defense against winter. While the winter season typically takes a toll on your car, proper maintenance can go a long way to preserving your investment. For example, according to the International Carwash Association, getting a new wash and a fresh coat of wax before the temperature starts to fluctuate can be your first line of defense against winter elements like ice, salt, sand and slush. Vehicular corrosion also occurs most quickly when temperatures rise and then fall below freezing. That’s why most auto manufacturers recommend getting your car washed and waxed at a professional car wash twice a month, especially during the winter. Using a WaterSavers car wash can is a strong first step to ensuring that your car will be ready to withstand the winter elements - inside and out. It’s also a great way to protect the environment. For example, these car washes typically use only 40 gallons (151.5 liters) or less of fresh water per car wash. Learn more and find a WaterSavers wash at Washwithwatersavers.com. n Rotate your tires. Most people know they should get their oil changed every 3,000 miles, but many forget their tires need maintenance as well. Tires should be rotated before winter and then again every 6,000 miles. n Add some winter weight to your oil. Changing your oil and filter is especially important during the winter. Drivers who live in a colder climate should consider changing to heavier, winter-weight oil during the winter months. n Take care of your wiper blades. Your windshield wiper blades are your first line of defense when the snow starts to fly. Make sure your wiper blades are in good, working order and replace them if you have doubts. It’s better to make this change now instead of finding out your blades aren’t working when you really need them. n Take your car in for a tune-up. Any noises, pings or sluggish starts you currently notice will only intensify as the temperature drops. It’s best to get your vehicle in for a tune-up as soon as possible to get any issues addressed. n Give your steering some power. Check your powering steering fluid each month, and make sure the car is warmed up before you do so. If you find the level is low, look for leaks in the hoses or pump. Low power steering fluid will make your car more difficult to steer, which is something you’ll want to avoid as the roads get slick. n Protect yourself from carbon monoxide. Carbon monoxide leaks are dangerous at any time, but they are especially deadly during the winter when you will be driving your vehicle with the windows closed. Have your exhaust system checked to make sure no leak exists. n Apply the brakes. Besides the seatbelt, your car’s brakes are its most important safety feature. This is especially true in the winter when slippery conditions can make stopping difficult. Before the first snow fall, bring your car to an experienced mechanic to verify that your brakes are ready for the season. Cold winter temperatures mean vehicle maintenance is even more important. By following these simple tips listed above, you’ll be able to ward off winter’s harshest advances, protect your investment and what rides inside of it. 64 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 Ladies Treated to Special Night Out at Kohl’s Weelborg Cassie Donlea, marketing strategist and event coordinator for Kohl’s Wheelborg in New Ulm, says their first Ladies Night Out Winter Survival Clinic was a success beyond their expectations. Women attendees had the opportunity to talk directly to the service people about vehicle maintenance, safety and winter driving. Cupcakes, hors d’oeuvres and punch were served. “It was neat to see who responded to the event,” said Cassie, noting that women of all ages attended. “Our idea behind the event was to build relationships,” said Cassie. “We wanted women to be able to visit first hand with the people who may be servicing their vehicles in the future. We also wanted to simply have a fun, social night out for women and give them valuable information at the same time. “We wanted to do this one as a test run and see the interest and also to see how we handled things as well. The service department enjoyed themselves immensely, talking to and helping the women with their questions.” Questions from the women ranged from how to operate the electronics in their vehicles to what the “check engine” light means. According to Cassie, women these days want to embrace their own futures. It’s becoming more and more common where women handle the finances in a family, or the husband and wife have their own checkbooks and keep things separate. “I have a lot of visions on how to make women feel special with future events,” said Cassie, explaining that they hope to have themed events quarterly in the future. Photo: High-heeled cupcakes created by B&H Bakery, were some of the treats on hand for attendees at the Ladies Night Out. ‘Tis Not the Season for an Emergency Trip to the Veterinarian Christmas dinner at my house is a hazardous event. There are a lot of ways to get burned, or cut, and usually too many people in the kitchen, and too few adults supervising children, and I’m sure ours is not the only dangerous kitchen in America. Holiday gatherings are also a pretty unsafe place for pets. In addition to the hazards we humans face, glass ornaments, poisonous poinsettias, and rich leftovers face our four legged family members. Of course the best thing to do is keep your pets away from all the commotion, but when that’s not feasible or practical, it’s important to be extra vigilant about keeping them safe. Whether it’s your first Christmas with pets, or your fiftieth, the best way to enjoy the season is at home, not in your vet clinic office. Food Safety While it is certainly important that your turkey reaches an internal temperature of 165 degrees, there are many more culinary hazards to your pets than to your grandma this time of year. Most pet owners know not to feed any cooked turkey bones, but it’s important to remind guests of this as well. The abnormally high volume of sugary treats, especially chocolaty ones, can also be a concern, especially for dogs. Keeping pets safe from food poisons is about managing hazards more than anything. Tactfully warn guests about sharing food with pets, and keep appetizer and desert platters out of reach. In general, leaving dogs and cats out of the kitchen will keep chefs and pets safer while food is prepared. Take ConTrol of your home Security • Lighting • HVAC • Music Universal Remote Control 510 Sibley St., Mankato, Mn 008742 www.ecsmankato.com For a free estimate call 388-3271 Deck the Halls A well decorated Christmas tree is beautiful, but for many pet owners, can also be a big safety concern. Cats are prone to climbing or jumping onto Christmas trees, and many dogs will pull ornaments off to chew on or play with. Many pet owners opt for plastic ornaments, to at least keep broken glass out of the picture. Most dogs will still go after plastic ornaments, so sometimes keeping the decorations out of reach of your pets is the safest route. Other decorations can be dangerous to pets as well. Poinsettias, a common holiday decorative plant, are highly toxic to pets, and even typically well behaved pets might try to sample the leaves when stressed by guests. Lit candles are another concern for many pet owners, as dogs and cats both can knock them off surfaces and burn themselves or the carpeting. Plug in or battery operated candles are a safer option and will keep your mind at ease. Holiday Anxiety All the commotion of guests can cause some pets to become fearful and anxious. Sometimes this means your pet’s normal good manners will be forgotten, and this can pose an extra threat to your pets. With additional people in and out of the house, there are extra opportunities for a dog or cat to slip through the front door and become lost. Guests are not always aware of how easily a pet can sneak out, especially if the pet is nervous about the hubbub. In addition to a loss of front door manners, the extra stress of visitors can cause some dogs to become more active, loud, and sometimes even snappy, especially around children who do not always know how to behave towards dogs. Making sure your dog has a safe, quiet place to rest, away from guests, is the first step to keeping Fido’s Christmas low-stress. Children should always be supervised around dogs, and sometimes adults need a reminder to be respectful as well. Keeping your pets in a safe place, either crated, or locked in a quiet room is usually the kindest thing for both pets, and guests. If that is not practical, it’s still important to ensure your pets’ safety during the holiday season. Managing hazards, such as food poisons and front doors, is as important as communication to guests about how best to keep everybody safe. The last thing anybody needs during the holidays is a trip to the emergency vet, or local impound to save their dog. Taking a few extra safety steps before your guests arrive will keep everybody more safe, and hopefully, the only thing that will burn is the turkey. RVW By Antonia Langr Sales Associate , Pet Expo, Mankato RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 65 When Travel Gives You Lemons where it was. And get another blank look. By the time my husband Terry and I planned our trip to Thailand, For the better part of a day we covered an entire web of roads in we’d already used rental cars in Costa Rica, Guatemala, Australia, all that part of central Thailand. Then finally a dried apple-faced old man over Mexico, all over England and Europe. We thought we were pretty pointed down a dirt road that turned out to be the right one. Finally. driver-savvy when it came to driving on the right or left, navigating It was late afternoon by that time. We hadn’t eaten since unknown regions with out-of-date maps (this is before GPS devices), breakfast, but our information said cabins were available along the and understanding that the only real global rule-of-the-road is that if lake shore and surely there’d be food there as well. So off we headed it’s bigger than you, it has the right-of-way. Or, as my husband likes to down the dirt road, happily relieved to have finally found the lake say, Bus takes Truck, Truck takes Van, Van takes Car, etc. which we were beginning to discern in the distance (hmm...just like So when the guy on the plane between Tokyo and Bangkok said, Brigadoon...) “You’re going to do what?” to our expressed plan of driving from Only to come to a canyon-like wash-out that cut right across the Bangkok in the south to Chiang Mai in the north, we didn’t really pay road, a car-length wide and just as deep. Terry and much heed to his tone or expression. I got out to inspect it and discovered someone had There were some initial challenges, to be put two logs across the abyss at wheel-base width. sure. Finding the rental car place was our first Well, wheel-base width for their vehicle. And the challenge. That should have been our initial clue logs were very roughly sawn, bumpily semi-flat on that this country wasn’t really set up for self-driving their topsides. tourists. But we found it, and found our way out To me, it wasn’t an option. But Terry cheerily of the city, entertained by the scene every time declared, ‘We can do this!’ a stoplight was encountered. Thailand has the I have to come clean. I came unglued. Maybe it longest stoplights ever, and as we sat there waiting, was the lack of food. surrounded by lanes filled with cars and buses and While I was doing that, walking away from the trucks, the spaces between would gradually fill up Thai Grand Canyon and mentally curling into a fetal with motorcycles, scooters, and bicyclists. Road position, my husband drove our rental car across shoulders and even the grass margins were utilized those two logs. as well. By the time the light changed to green, a So onward. We came to a gate with a little motorized mass of wildly varying vehicles would guard house and a young man guard. He stepped surge forward like the Great Oklahoma Land Grab. out and we said brightly, “Bungalow?” Which is a Another challenge was navigating. Thai road word, we had learned, used widely in Thailand. signs are in Thai. And they are in Thai script, which Blank look--our umpteenth that day. So we said it is truly beautiful but completely meaningless to us again, at which point he retreated back into his little Latin alphabet users. Since the signs didn’t help at house and pointedly turned his back to us. We sat all, our map became extra precious, which explains there a few minutes, staring at his unrelenting back, the look on my husband’s face when, at highway stunned at the thought that we might have to turn speeds, the map got sucked out of my hands around and go back over that log bridge (if one can and out the open car window. Luckily we quickly Notes from a even call it a bridge). But by now we could see the u-turned and retrieved it. lake and some buildings nearby and we knew there But we were making our way, figuring it all World Traveler was no place else to stay for miles and miles and it out. We drove to Khao Yai National Park, northeast Marci M. Fuller was getting late in the day. So Terry got out, lifted of Bangkok, and there had an interesting trail the railroad crossing-style gate by hand and muscle, encounter with an Asian Elephant. Luckily our trusty and I drove under it, glancing at the still unmoving rental car was nearby for refuge. guard’s back. Then north to Lake Bueng Boraphet, which was known among Why guard and gate were needed was bewildering, since birders for its special species (my husband’s passion). Well, at least we headed in that direction, but that lake was like the fabled disappearing the whole place seemed deserted. But a woman appeared from somewhere, understood our word Bungalow, and gestured for us village of Brigadoon. It just didn’t seem to be anywhere, and it was to wait. She hurried off and soon reappeared with another woman, supposedly a very large lake. We studied the map, tried this road buckets and mops. Like tornadoes they top to bottom scrubbed one and that road, and stopped to ask every person we came across. of the bungalows, which evidently had not been used for months and Well, ‘ask’ is a figurative word here. In reality, I would say, hopefully, was completely covered in a thick layer of dust, until it was amazingly ‘Boraphet?’ And get a blank look. Then I’d say it louder, changing the clean. pronunciation a bit in case that helped and coupling it with lots of We thanked them sincerely and asked about food. They shook their pointing in all cardinal directions because by then we had no idea Suitcase Savvy 66 RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2014 of floating leafy green. The boat cut through the plants, leaving a wake heads No. Distressed, we tried again. Nope, no food. We took stock that was temporarily open water, then slowly filled in again behind us. of the situation: Four mini bananas that we’d purchased at a roadside So much life. Vegetation and birds and clouds of little fish. Saruta fruit stand, two tiny bags of airplane peanuts, and one bottle of and Terry spotted special species of water birds. We passed a lone water. That was going to be lunch, dinner, and breakfast. The woman woman in a hollowed-out log canoe working nets in amongst the did come back after a bit with a battered electric teapot, which we plants. And then the sun rose above the horizon. thanked her profusely for but didn’t use. The cord was so frayed we Much of that vegetation was were certain of electrocution. lotus, the flowers closed and Then it got dark. Really dark. In that instant, all those things changed from unnoticed, until the light hit them. The light in our bungalow was cheerless trials to the necessary and treasured All around us and stretching off a bare bulb hanging by a cord into the distance in all directions, directly over the bed. And there experiences that had brought us to that place with the lake surface suddenly burst into were bugs. Lots of bugs. The kind those people at that time. bloom, floating flowers that made a of bugs like giant beetles and large giant fuschia-filled watery plain. winged moths that hurl themselves Saruta, in the boat’s bow, smiled at the screens desperate to get at wide and said, “The sun is very beautiful for the light. There must have been a missing screen, lotus.” because they succeeded. Bugs rained down Was it ever. With my superior command upon our bed. We’d brush them off and another of English, I couldn’t have said it better. We layer would take their place. soaked in her words and the spectacle. In that Frantically, we turned off the light, swept off instant, grumpiness, hunger, hardship, bugs, the latest layer, and lay down in the pitch black, log bridges, long driving miles, all dissolved trying to ignore our stomachs. After such a day, and drained away into the radiancy that was sleep found us. Lake Boraphet. In that instant, all those things Terry had read that boat rides on the changed from cheerless trials to the necessary lake could be arranged and had managed to and treasured experiences that had brought us communicate this upon arrival. Before sunrise, to that place with those people at that time. a boat man and a young woman who spoke rough English appeared. In that instant, all the world was a lake of flowers. We gathered that she was some sort of naturalist and her name was Epilogue: When travel gives you lemons, wait for the lotuses. Many something like Saruta. We settled into the middle seats of the open other anecdotes like this one exist from our journeys. 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