2B Magazine 1 - Guide Gai du Québec
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2B Magazine 1 - Guide Gai du Québec
> 2B Magazine 1 > 2B Magazine > 2 < < < Index ...8 News ...9 Teen Bullying ...14 Carlos Motta ...16 Special Insert ...19 Culture ...26 Charte OK ...52 Mike Ruiz ...58 2B Magazine > 4 Matthew © Drasko Bogdanovic > Politics Credits Publisher Editor Contributors Art Director & Photography Graphic Design Sales André Gagnon andregagnon@2bmag.com Jordan Arseneault jordan@2bmag.com Matthew Harris, Tim Webber, Sarah CarrollMcNaughton, Ryan Conrad, Laura MacDonald, Jeromie Williams, Troy Ordami, Matthieu Lévesque, Dannny Légaré, Michael Hawrysh César Ochoa 514.439.4636 publicite@communicationsetre.com Carolina Ramírez 514.439.4636 carolina@communicationsetre.com Cover photo from Pretty Masculine by Mike Ruiz Pierre Druelle pierre@communicationsetre.com 514.903.9463 Luc Barrette 514.439.4737 / 1.866.521.3873 luc@communicationsetre.com Joanne Ansell joanne@communicationsetre.com 514.903.1782 2B Magazine A division of HMX Group Vol.9 No.4 Arturo Abreu 514.521.3873 arturo@communicationsetre.com Unauthorized reproduction, in whole or in part, without the written consent of the publisher is prohibited. All rights reserved. ISSN 1917-2761 2B Magazine > 6 Montréal Postal Address P.O. Box 222, Station C Montréal, QC H2L-4K1 Montréal: 514.521.3873 Ottawa: 1.866.521.3873 2B Magazine > Admin 7 < < < < < < Political cartoon Anti-homophobia Bureau = $$$ Trans Bodies, Trans Selves Forum When Québec’s Minister of Justice Marc Fournier finally announced his government’s anti-homophobia action plan in May, it was praised for including a $7.1 million injection of cash over five years. Of this overall total, an amount of $400,000 has been set aside for the first year, with individuals and community groups invited to apply for up to $50,000 in funding for projects that help fight homophobia or support the LGBT community’s social, legal and cultural well-being. The projects that get funded have to conform to the mission of Québec’s anti-homophobia action plan, which are to demystify the realities of diverse identities and sexual orientations; to reinforce the “full recognition of rights” for LGBT people, and to encourage the study and/or implementation of prevention or action strategies that improve the well-being of LGBT people. Groups have until Dec. 1st, 2011 to submit their requests to the newly created Bureau de lutte contre l’homophobie, which will chair the selection committee, along with reps from the Ministry of Justice. If there is one thing transgender people agree on it’s that the medical establishment and general society are unfamiliar with trans issues, and that services providers tend to have trouble knowing how to help them. To find out how to apply for “Fight against Homophobia Program” funding, go to justice.gouv.qc.ca/homophobie 2B Magazine > 8 All trans-identified people, as well as their close friends, family members and allies, are invited to attend the forum, whose organizers specify is “inclusive of all trans identities and ways of being.” Montréal’s Trans Bodies, Trans Selves Forum takes place Monday, November 21 from 7PM to 10PM at Centre St-Pierre, 1212 Panet Street. FREE, with snacks, childcare and sign language (with 48 hour notice), as well as whisper translation. RSVP to tbtsmontreal@gmail.com More info: tbtsmontreal.wordpress.com www.transbodies.com > The Bureau de lutte, with their new office is at 410, rue de Bellechasse Est, in Montréal, is headed by Roger Noël, a respected scholar with over 20 years of commitment to LGBT history and research. Noël has been praised for his “profound knowledge of LGBT communities,” and was one the Québec anti-homophobia policy’s key authors. He has been involved in the plan since 2004, when extensive community consultation on the policy began. Québec is the only jurisdiction in the Americas to adopt such a policy on the governmental level, which was generally praised by activists and NGOs including the CGQL, the Fondation Émergence, and the Fédération des femmes du Québec. Enter, Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, a US-based project whose goal is to publish a resource guide on all things trans, from health and wellbeing, to legal, cultural, family, and social issues. The forum will involve opening presentations from out trans blogger and Montréal educator Jacky Vallée, Gabrielle Bouchard from Concordia’s 2110 Centre, and a member from ASTT(e)Q. “I looked at the diversity of the people involved and brought it up to people in Montréal because of the people behind the project,” says co-organizer Jacky Vallée. The collective of writers behind the Trans Bodies, Trans Selves resource project is headed by American researcher Laura Erickson-Smith and includes San Francisco author and kinkster Patrick Califia and a host of other activist luminaries. The opinions and narratives gathered at the forum will be sent to the editors via the project’s Canadian liaison, FTM writer Jamison Green. < < < It Almost got Better Efforts to decriminalize homosexuality in the Commonwealth unsuccessful, but hold promise for the future. Kamalesh Sharma Commonwealth Nations comprise more than half the countries in the world that treat samesex relations as a serious criminal offence. Commonwealth countries, which include Canada as well as other former British colonies like Uganda, have 30% of the world’s population but more than 60% of the world’s people living with HIV. With same-sex relations illegal in 41 of the 54 countries that comprise the international group, the pressure was on to address the decriminalization of homosexuality formally at the Heads of Government Meeting (CHOGM) held Oct 28-30 in Perth, Australia. Most of that pressure came fittingly from the United Kingdom, the home of Commonwealth, whose colonial sodomy laws have lingered on in some 41 nations long after independence movements swept the globe. In September, the UK’s Conservative Prime Minister David Cameron released a statement that his government intends to suspend aid to countries in the Commonwealth that uphold homophobic laws. With their famous pragmatism, the Brits will from now on be allocating funds based on an “errant country’s performance” on human rights, and explicitly named LGBT rights as part of that. It remains to be seen how the threat of defunding will affect law-makers and NGOs in countries like Malawi and Uganda, > 10 2B Magazine but Cameron’s strategy at least represented a much tougher stance than any government had previously taken on global LGBT rights. Meanwhile, long-time decriminalization activists in the UK and abroad were working to bring the issue to the forefront. The UK’s Peter Tatchell Foundation (along with Egale Canada) issued letters to the Australian and Canadian foreign ministers asking for decriminalization to be put on the agenda. By early October, Australia’s Foreign Affairs Minister Kevin Rudd was calling on all nations in the Commonwealth to stand up for non-discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation. He issued the strongest statement from any minister up to that point, saying that the leaders must “encourage all countries to decriminalise homosexuality by removing all laws imposing criminal penalties for homosexual conduct.” Here in Canada, the statements were less supportive, less sweeping, and altogether less promising. During question periods in the House of Commons on Oct 19 and 21, NDP MP Randall Garrison asked Foreign Affairs Minister John Baird to make the “same clear commitment” on the decriminalization of homosexuality that the UK and Australia had made in recent weeks. In the first instance, Baird replied that “Canada would take a very active role” in human rights but skirted the issue entirely. But by Oct 21, the day the Minister released his “It Gets Better” video, John Baird had finally changed his tune. In addition to maintaining the standard position that Canada would defend human rights at the international level, and that those rights extend to LGBT people, Baird finally agreed to make the decriminalization demand explicit. “The rights of gays and lesbians is [sic] tremendously important. It is unacceptable that homosexuality continues to be criminalized in the majority of Commonwealth nations, and we will certainly take this issue to the Summit.” Whether it was the tacit pressure from the UK and Australia, or the dogged questions from Mr. Garrison that caused him to change his stance, we’ll never know. (And the reason we’ll never know is that his media representatives do not return our phone calls or e-mails). But one thing is certain: with the UK, Australia, and potentially Canada on board, the build-up to the CHOGM felt like a sea change in how same-sex people are treated in countries where they are most vulnerable to death, imprisonment and HIV infection. “We are glad that Conservatives have finally changed their position regarding LGBT rights. Now we expect actions,” said Québec NDP LGBT deputy critic Dany Morin. While Baird’s own voting record in the House of Commons has shown he supports same-sex marriage, the Minister had been slow to join with global voices calling for the Commonwealth countries to decriminalize homosexuality. Even Commonwealth Secretary General Kamalesh Sharma, who is from Pakistan, voiced his support for gay rights in his keynote address at the opening ceremony of the Commonwealth People’s Forum (CPF) in Perth, Australia, on Oct 25. It was the first official statement against the criminalization of homosexuality by the Secretary General of the Commonwealth. But when the Summit finally came, there were more long-standing issues on the agenda, such as the 400 year-old law on male primogeniture for the Royal Family. Rather than address the decriminalization of homosexuality, which could improve the well-being and save the lives of millions of people across the planet, Commonwealth leaders instead discussed the ancient rules on the inheritance of the British Crown. The agreement reached at the CHOGM will allow for Will and Kate’s first-born child to inherit the crown even if she is a girl (!). In another historic decision, the leaders also voted to no longer disinherit a member of the royal family who marries a Roman Catholic, which may be the first time in history that a decision has benefited both women and Catholics simultaneously. After all that, the CHOGM meeting resulted in very little real advancement for the cause of decriminalization. Leaders agreed that the Secretary-General will speak out publicly to express “collective disapproval of serious or persistent human rights violations by member states,” along with a promising inclusion of LGBT rights as human rights in their Values and Principles. “The core changes in Commonwealth Ministerial Action Group’s mandate, now accepted by Commonwealth leaders will include addressing serious or persistent violations of Commonwealth values, such as the systematic violation of human rights of the population or the rights of particular communities or social groups, by a member state government,” Peter Tatchell wrote after the summit. In the closing press conference, Kamalesh Sharma again made comments on laws criminalizing homosexuality in over %80 of Commonwealth countries. Also promisingly, there will be a Task Force of Ministers to advise on the “repeal of discriminatory laws that impede effective responses to the HIV/AIDS pandemic and pursue education programmes that would help the process of repealing such laws,” Tatchell said. It is possible that the argument on the link between HIV infection and criminalization is what tipped the scales of international opinion. Besides the fact of basic human rights, NGOs have argued that making homosexuality illegal is an impediment to HIV prevention efforts. “HIV remains a serious public health crisis for the Commonwealth, which comprises 30% of the world’s population but over 60% of all people living with HIV. In many Commonwealth countries an effective public health response is hindered by laws which criminalise groups that are particularly vulnerable to HIV,” the International HIV Alliance wrote in its brief. The Tatchell Foundation, along with Commonwealth HIV/AIDS Action Group (CHAAG), the International HIV/AIDS Alliance and the Australian Federation of Aids Organisations (AFAO), urged the international community to support their “What’s Preventing Prevention” petition, which was sent to the CHOGM in advance of the meeting. It remains to be seen whether the international pressure will continue to build, or will be stalled in diplomacy, but nonetheless, 2011 has seen a massive step in the right direction. Check out the petition, which is ongoing, here: www.whatspreventingprevention.org 2B Magazine > By Jordan Arseneault 11 < < < Gay Sex Mostly Kissing and Handjobs? By Michael Hawrysh The findings of the study show that men who have sex with men have an immensely diverse sexual repertoire – of the nearly 25 000 sexual encounters analysed, there were 1308 unique combinations of sexual behaviours. Perhaps most surprisingly, those who reported having anal sex were in the minority (37.2%), though it was more common for men aged 18-24 (42.7%). Kissing (if one considers that a “sex act”) was the most popular reported behaviour at 74.5%. Interestingly, this would mean that nearly a quarter of gay and bisexual men are having sex without kissing (perhaps as in the film Pretty Woman, kissing is just “too personal”). Oral sex was the second most common act reported at 72.7%, followed by mutual masturbation at 68.4%. Lead author Joshua G. Rosenberger, professor in the Department of Global and Community Health in the College of Health and Human Services at Mason, stated “There is certainly a misguided belief that ‘gay sex equals anal sex,’ which is simply untrue much of the time.” > 12 2B Magazine These findings could have real implications on how public health officials approach gay and bisexual male sexuality. Michael Reece, coauthor of the study and director of IU’s Center for Sexual Health Promotion, said “Due to the disproportionate impact of HIV among MSM, the majority of research on gay and bisexual men’s sexual behaviour is situated within the context of disease. This emphasis has resulted in a body of literature about gay and bisexual men that is risk-focused, with limited understanding of the diversity and complexity of these men’s sexual lives. In order to provide clinicians and public health professionals with the necessary tools to promote sexuality in a positive and healthy manner, a more nuanced understanding of an individual sexual experience was needed.” Other interesting findings were that more than 40% of the sexual encounters reported were with someone that the respondent was dating (compared with just over half for heterosexuals). Around 82 percent of men reported having an orgasm at their last sexual event and they were significantly more likely to have an orgasm if the encounter was with a relationship partner. Evaluations of their last sexual event were positive. Interestingly, ratings of both pleasure and arousal were highest among older men (apparently, it really does get better!). The study will be published in the November edition of the Journal of Sexual Medicine. 2B Magazine > A new study conducted by George Mason University, Indian University, and Online Buddies Inc. (the parent company of Manhunt) reveals some very interesting new information about men who have sex with men (MSM). The online study questioned just under 25 000 gay and bisexual men aged 18-87 on their last sexual encounter. This is the first study to focus on male to male sex at the event level. 13 < < < “Jamie felt it would never stop” Bullying is the target of massive outcry in the wake of new teen suicide Sarah Carroll-McNaughton What makes his story remarkable, however, is how common it is. Jamie killed himself, in part, because he was bullied; Jamie was bullied because he was gay. In the wake of his death, Councillor Hubley brought the focus of the debate squarely back on the school environment as a reflection of social mores: “We had meetings with officials at the school and were working with them to bring an end to it,” he wrote just four days after his son killed himself, “but Jamie felt it would never stop.” As to be expected, there have been no criminal charges laid following Jamie’s death. Bullying, particularly bullying of LGBTQ youth, is still difficult to discuss and even more difficult to punish, especially when there is such a divide between how people view bullying in society. In Bullafo, NY, the recent suicide of gay teen Jamey Rodemeyer has prompted support for “Jamey’s Law,” which would make bullying a crime in the US. Other high-profile Americans, most notably current Republican candidate Michele Bachmann, have spoken out in a very different way. “I just don’t know how we can realistically expect a zero tolerance of bullying behaviour.” Bachmann is quoted as saying. She is far from alone in this view. Conservative politicians are speaking out across the U.S., clamouring to justify and even condone the homophobia that contributes to so much of the teen suicide we read about each day. > 14 2B Magazine Homophobia is still a major problem in Canada and abroad, and it isn’t simply blatant aggression that is the cause for most concern. Dr. Ilan H. Meyer, Williams Sr. Scholar at UCLA School of Law’s Williams Institute, recently completed a study on the “effects of exposure to everyday stigma” on gay, lesbian, and bisexual participants. “The study’s results show policymakers need to think more broadly than simply reducing extreme forms of abuse through measures like anti-bullying policies.” said Dr. Meyer. There has been a flood of similar research supporting this idea. Egale Canada, an LGBT human rights organization, released findings in May from a countrywide climate survey on homophobia, biphobia, and transphobia in schools. According to the study, 70 per cent of participants, both LGBTQ and non-LGBTQ students, heard homophobic expressions like “that’s so gay” on a daily basis. The same report also indicated that 64 per cent of LGBTQ students reported feeling unsafe in their school environments. “There are often safe and unsafe areas of the school... it can be a struggle to find these out and to get there,” said Amy Johnson, principal at Opeongo High School near Renfrew, Ontario. “Also, because gay adults can often face the same struggles (or, at least don’t feel comfortable to share) gay youth often lack visible role models who have lived through the teenage years.” Johnson spoke out about homophobic bullying following the death of Jamie Hubley, and she is one of very few people in the education administration willing to openly address the issue of LGBTQ youth suicide. She spoke to her entire student body at Opeongo, encouraging her students to stop using words like “fag” and “homo.” She also spoke to the media about similarities between her school and A.Y. Jackson, the school Jamie Hubley attended. Jamie Hubley (youtube) LGBTQ youth are five times more likely to commit suicide, but it can be difficult to find safe spaces and kindred spirits. At his own school, Jamie was bullied for trying to start a “Rainbow Club,” and currently Ottawa’s Catholic District School Board does not allow gay-straight alliances (GSA’s) in its schools. Both the principal at A.Y. Jackson (which is a public school) and the Ottawa Catholic School Board declined to comment on the situation surrounding teen bullying and homophobia. In stark contrast to the official wall of silence, a chorus of famous voices have been calling for action and support, from CNN’s Anderson Cooper to Lady Gaga, and even This Hour Has 22 Minutes alumni Rick Mercer. Mercer’s recent message to gay youth and heartfelt call to action were sharply contrasted by the attempt at an “It Gets Better” video created by Conservative MPs including Foreign Affairs Minister John Baird. Among those involved in delivering the plea was MP David Sweet, a man who once called homosexuality “a sin.” Homosexuality is also barely mentioned in the video. Long before the politicians and celebrities ever got involved, community groups have been lobbying for programmes and campaigns to promote real social change to help LGBTQ youth. While the Trevor Project in the U.S. currently provides support south of the border, the Kids Help Phone and Jer’s Vision are two of the only countrywide organizations available to LGBT youth in Canada, with Gai-Écoute taking up the challenge in Québec. Ironically, Kids Help Phone was the only resource given in the opportunistic Conservative “It Gets Better” video, even though the hotline receives less than 2% of their funding from federal sources. As if by some kind of cruel coincidence, Hubley’s suicide took place just days before Spirit Day (Oct. 20), when millions of people across the continent wear purple to commemorate victims of bullying and raise awareness. For the occasion, Jer’s Vision participant Cameron Aitken blogged about the need for more training and awareness in schools in order to prevent homophobic bullying. His heartfelt letter was also a plug to donate to the charity, which operates in schools and communities in Ottawa and elsewhere around a variety of youth diversity initiatives, with a strong focus on LGBTTQ anti-discrimination. “There’s an institutional problem in Ontario,” contends founder Jer Dias. “Catholic schools will actively not talk about homophobia as a way of attracting prospective students whose parents are conservative.” As a result, you have endemic homophobic attitudes, such as the Catholic School Board’s refusal to allow GSA’s or related services to take place in those schools. Jer’s Vision continues to speak in Catholic schools to raise awareness—and asserts that community members have the power to lobby for those changes, particularly alumni and parents. “People have been calling politicians, and demanding that things be made better,” and it starts with ending the silence. For more info on Jer’s Vision’s anti-bullying initiatives, check out www. jersvision.org , and for info on starting a Gay Straight Alliance at your school, check out Egale Canada’s www.mygsa.ca 2B Magazine > «One day, I hope I will actually want to live.» Just two weeks before he killed himself, Jamie Hubley, 15, made that post to his Tumblr account. Jamie, the son of Kanata South Councillor Allan Hubley, had long dealt with depression; his public struggle was documented almost daily on his blog which has since been removed. On it, he showed that he was much like other young men his age. He made friends, struggled with his emotions, and developed natural talents which were only just beginning to show hints of their true potential. 15 < < < Thinking Differently Carlos Motta on public sex, queer collective memory, and global activism, in conversation with Ryan Conrad Ryan Conrad: Carlos, can you tell me a little about you and your art practice to introduce you to our readers? Carlos Motta: I was born in Colombia and have been in New York City for the last fifteen years. As an artist I am interested in the ways that LGBT people have to construct their own histories and narratives because society has systematically failed to accurately represent us. RC: I know that your last two projects, We Who Feel Differently (WWFD) and Petite Mort: Recollections of a Queer Public, culminated in publications. I was lucky enough to contribute to WWFD as did Canadian academic Nick Mulé. What were these projects about? CM: WWFD is a four-part project that includes an internet archive (wewhofeeldifferently. info), book, online journal, and a series of discursive events in different cities. This interview-based project documents the work that LGBTIQQ activists, academicians, artists, etc. in Colombia, Norway, South Korea, and the USA have been doing to advance legal rights > 16 2B Magazine and make cultural change in their communities. WWFD is driven by two desires: One, to create a resource for folks so they can access in-depth conversations about gay politics and culture. Two, and perhaps more importantly, to insert a queer perspective into mainstreamed LGBT politics. A perspective that resists and rejects the conservative turn of gay politics, which is less and less about liberation and more about assimilation. It is as if the LGBT movement had been devoured by the liberal ideal of tolerance and neglected the richness of difference. RC: The WWFD book can be viewed as a contemporary global overview of queer and trans activism created by LGBTIQQ people themselves. Were there any key things you learned through the process of editing the book? CM: The text is based on more than fortyfive interviews I conducted and after a careful reading five major themes emerged that reoccurred throughout. These themes include equality and the limits of tolerance, anti-assimilationist politics and social justice, the history and place of HIV/AIDS activism in today’s political landscape, and censorship of queer sexuality in art history. [There is also a section that] focuses on the work of trans and intersex activists that face numerous social, economic and political obstacles to regulate their own bodies. This section is perhaps the book’s strongest as it reveals the deep-rooted trans and intersex-phobia that makes legal and cultural advancement extremely difficult. RC: Getting back to your other recent project and publication, Petite Mort... CM: Petite Mort also departs from a similar drive. This project was created collaboratively with Joshua Lubin-Levy and presents drawings from memory submitted by an intergenerational group of gay men depicting sites where they had public sex in New York City. The book was conceived as a very subjective atlas of the city from a perspective and history that has been actively cleaned up and erased by city government and gay bureaucrats alike. We were not interested in depictions of sex scenes specifically, but the way that space is remembered, spaces of homo-sociability and desire for gays. RC: The impact of gentrification in the gay village and the sanitization/commercialization of public spaces in Montréal more generally has been a contentious issue here lately. But yeah, I’ve always joked about how my right to fuck in a park is as equally important as mainstream gays’ right to marry. Can you draw some lines between the two projects? CM: Both projects address the need for a more plural discussion around queer issues; that is to think beyond marriage or military inclusion, and to reject the systematic mainstreaming of our lives and identities by both heteronormative and homonormative forces of society. RC: Any plans to come cruise Montréal’s few remaining public sex environments soon? CM: I would like to publicly invite someone in Montréal that is reading this interview to take on the idea and make a Petite Mort Montréal! But, yes I will have to come and explore these sites before it’s too late… www.wewhofeeldifferently.info Petite Mort: Recollections of a Queer Public (Forever & Today, Inc.), 2011 We Who Feel Differently (Ctrl+Z Publishing, Norway), 2011 © Ryan Conrad > Carlos Motta is a multi-disciplinary artist whose work draws upon political history in an attempt to “create counter narratives that recognize the inclusion of suppressed histories.” Motta’s work has been presented internationally in venues such as The Guggenheim Museum, the MoMA/PS1 Contemporary Art Center in New York, and Berlin’s Hebbel am Ufer. He is part of the faculty at Parsons’ New School of Design and at the International Center of Photography at the Vermont College of Fine Arts, amongst others. He spoke with new contributor, portraitist (and sometimes lover) Ryan Conrad about his two new books, We Who Feel Differently and Petite Mort: Recollections of a Queer Public. < < < On Butches & Femmes By Laura MacDonald earned staking of space on the complex road map of all things queer. Either way, the book overflows with authors that bravely expose their own anxieties and desires in order to rejuvenate a conversation that some folks forgot was still happening. Persistence bravely engages in complex discourses that expose butch and femme realities and relationships as being far more interesting (and queer) than traditionally assumed. Edited by the famed butch/femme couple Zena Sharman and Ivan E. Coyote, this book takes a topic often seen as two-dimensional and explodes it out into an exponential number of directions. Over the course of 41 chapters, authors from all gradients of the butch/femme spectrum (including the likes of Zoe Whittall, Amber Dawn, Michael V. Smith, S. Bear Bergman and Montreal’s own folk-pop star Rae Spoon) explore their personal experiences of their gender presentation and its relationship to the rest of their lives: to their work, love, families, health, bodies and language. Though written and edited with the same care and quality of most other academic texts, these essays don’t take on the same snooze-factor. This is probably because this isn’t a queer theory textbook, rather this is an approachable book that reads easily, building itself on the lived experience of the authors. Often funny and sometimes angry, most of the book reads as either a heartbreakingly earnest love letter (to a specific lover or to just the idea of a certain kind of lover) or a hard > 18 2B Magazine Butch/femme is not a new theme in gay culture. The true victory of Persistence is that this book succeeds in keeping this theme current by conveying stories of struggle, tension and DESIRE. After all, it is the desire to be, and be with, our butch/femme selves and partners that truly makes participating in this culture so much damn fun. For me, it’s that tension, the hotness of being in a butch/femme relationship that negates the annoyance of having to explain to people how choosing to call my lover my “boyfriend” doesn’t make me heteronormative or a straight girl. Lucky for me, I’ll just hand out copies of Persistence to those people from now on. Persistence: All Ways Butch and Femme Edited by Ivan E. Coyote and Zena Sharman Arsenal Pulp Press, 312 pages > Despite being declared either dead or counter-revolutionary numerous times in the last 40 years, the queer phenomenon known as Butch/Femme is, according to the new anthology Persistence: All Ways Butch and Femme, still thriving and evolving. < < < AIDS Action Now ©»Your Stigma Not Mine» Cecilia Berkovic A Day with/out AIDS By 2B Staff Locally, HIV/AIDS advocacy groups are rallying around this event as an occasion to do some on-the-ground outreach and to raise some much needed funds. TOMS, the Table des organismes Montréalais communautaires de lutte contre le Sida has organized a day of tabling at the Berri-UQÀM and Beaudry métro stations. Member organizations REZO and ACCM will spend the day distributing condoms > 20 2B Magazine and raising general awareness about HIV/AIDS. In the evening, there will be a commemorative gathering and concert at the St. James Cathedral featuring performances by the Ensemble Vocal les Nanas and the Gay Men’s Chorus. At Cabaret Mado, drag queen extraordinaire Dream will be headlining a “staff show” to raise funds for la Fondation d’Aide Directe SIDA Montréal. Also, Mr. Leather 2011 will spend the evening making the rounds of village bars as an ambassador of the “Mr. Friendly” campaign, a smiley-faced P.R. strategy that encourages people to be a stigma-free ally to HIV positive people, and thereby remove barriers to those who fear being tested. Perhaps the most important event on Montreal’s World AIDS Day calendar, and the most iconic, will be the annual Candlelight Vigil in Parc de l’Espoir. Featuring speeches by local activists and a lighting of a red-ribbon-glad Christmas tree, the event will culminate in a minute of silence. It is always a public moment for the community to commemorate those who have died of AIDS related illnesses and think about the future of the fight against HIV and AIDS. This month, as a lead-up to World AIDS Day, US Secretary of State Hillary Clinton held a press conference to announce the appointment of Ellen Degeneres as the new “AIDS Envoy” to the United Nations, and to pledge $60 million dollars of additional government funds for a global health initiative that has the eventual goal of “creating an AIDS-free generation”. This is a new spin on World AIDS Day’s official slogan for the next 3 years, “Getting to Zero: Zero New HIV Infections, Zero Discrimination and Zero AIDS Related Deaths”. Clinton’s “AIDS free generation” is essentially the same campaign merely re-branded into a more dynamic and succinct slogan, one that captures the AIDS Action Now © «Prick» John Greyson imagination of a generation that has never lived through a time when AIDS did not exist. As AIDS becomes more about living and less about survival, it is proving particularly hard to engage people who have little or no firsthand memories of the traumatic first 15 years of epidemic mortality rates. There is a hope that these new campaign strategies will reenergize a movement that has, according to some critics, fallen victim to a desensitization that has come to be known as “AIDS fatigue”. We can think of the recent ineffectual scare campaign “One Life” by Brystol Meyers Squibb, and Radio-Canada’s recent smear campaign against the Fondation québécois du sida (FQS) as symptoms of the tenuous position that AIDS has, for the general public in the post-HAART era. The “One Life” public Robert Rousseau + Hector Gomez @ 2011 Vigil disservice announcement aired to horrified audience members at this year’s Image + Nation festival for its comparing HIV infection to battery, drowning, drug abuse, car accident death, In the case of Radio-Canada’s spurious accusations of financial mismanagement at the FQS in November, it was the hard-earned legitimacy of AIDS charity fundraising that was under attack. When relatively so few people in Québec nowadays are dying of AIDS, what does it mean to commemorate this day in 2011, 13 years after the World Health Organization declared the first World AIDS Day in the darkest time of the pandemic? As we take one last moment to contemplate the 30th anniversary of HIV and AIDS on this December 1st, we have to ask ourselves, “If this movement began with mourning and later evolved into hope, well then WHAT COMES AFTER HOPE?” After spending a long time wondering, the truest answer we found was this: persistence. As a community of people still immensely affected by HIV, we must persist until the work is done or else everything that came before will have been without purpose. The generations of queers that are 30 and under have inherited a brighter future because of the work that came before us. Will we squander our inheritance without thought of what it took to build to this point? Will we succumb to an apathy that is so often said to be characteristic of our generation? Or will we be the generation that ushers in a world without HIV? Vigil for World AIDS Day Thursday, Dec. 1, 6pm Parc de l’Espoir, Ste. Catherine Est corner Plessis 2B Magazine > As any gay person who reads or watches GLBT media knows by now, this year has marked the 30th anniversary of the first reported cases of HIV and AIDS. As we begin to close out 2011, there is one final event to mark the significance of this anniversary. December 1st is World AIDS Day. Since 1988, World AIDS Day has been an opportunity for people to unite globally in the fight against HIV, show their support for people living with HIV and to commemorate people who have died. 21 < < < < < < Born in Crisis: Unlike the generation that lived through the early part of the AIDS crisis, and distinct from the younger generation who have no recollection of it whatsoever, these 30 year-old writers have lived parallel to the epidemic and have a particularly liminal experience. Born in 1980, I was barely a year old when the US Centre for Disease Control (the CDC) first issued a report on the highly unusual occurrence of Kaposi Sarcoma amongst gay men, in the summer of 1981. While the term Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome was not coined until a year later, and the Human Immunodeficiency Virus that causes it was probably circulating for decades before, it has generally been acknowledged that 1981 was the year that marked the beginning of the AIDS era. As millions continue to die of AIDS in sub-Saharan Africa and elsewhere in the world where anti-retroviral drugs are not available widely or cheaply, the “AIDS crisis”, as it is now known, is thought to have ended in 1995, with the advent of HAART, High Active Anti-Retroviral Therapy. By that time, these children of the 80s were teenagers: our understanding of sex, politics, and “health” have been all but defined by HIV/AIDS and its global and local effects. At 10 years of age (in 1990), I saw an episode of the Golden Girls that was the first time I had heard the word “gay” on TV. When I asked my mother what “gay” was, she replied that it was when men were attracted to younger boys, and that they wound up getting AIDS. From then, I remember a blurry decade of red ribbons at award ceremonies, Jonathan Demme’s Philadelphia, art trio General Idea, and constant news stories on death and devastation in subSaharan Africa. Only recently have I connected to its profound social and personal impact, by living in a community where HIV positive people are healthy and politically engaged. In many ways, the story of the 30 years of AIDS is for me one of myth to reality. ‘‘Life, Love, Hope’’ 2011 © Keith Race > 22 2B Magazine – Jordan Arseneault, Editor, 2Bmag Recently, a friend visiting from India drunkenly slurred, “We always focus on the negative aspect of the virus, but so many good things have also come out of it.” After a confusing, uncomfortable silence, that only politically correct North Americans can produce, she said that she meant in the context in developing nations, where AIDS NGOs were the first to inaugurate explicit, detailed, conversations about sex in the public sphere. In that sense, world over, the existence of the virus has forced the conversation of sex onto table. Movements for queer liberation and sex workers’ rights were able use this as a launching point. Globally, the last 30 years, have taken different meanings in different places. – Indu Vashist, (Montréal, 30), 2Bmag contributor, and blogger: globalqueerdesi.wordpress.com Growing up through the rise of the HIV/ AIDS crisis as a gay man was by no means pleasant. On top of the fact that society did not accept you, now gay sex could actually kill you. I longed to have grown up in the 1970s when gay sex was considered subversive, but not necessarily suicidal. Even years after tritherapy turned a death sentence into a chronic illness for those who have access to medication, it still took years for my fear of HIV/AIDS to subside. What saddens me now is that with all of the knowledge and all of the medical advances, the social stigma surrounding the disease has barely changed at all… especially within our own community. – Michael Hawrysh, (Montréal, 30) 2Bmag contributor 2B Magazine > To mark the occasion of the 30th year of the AIDS era, we asked our contributing writers, a prominent photographer, and a heterosexual ally to tell us what AIDS has meant to them, given that they have never known a world without it. From Marc-André Goulet’s magnificent Blanc de mémoire exhibit at the Écomusée du fier monde this summer, to the exciting new scientific work The Origins of AIDS (Cambridge U.P. 2011), by Université de Sherbrooke researcher Jacques Pepin, to David Weissman’s stunning documentary We Were Here (2010), which screened to a teary audience at the Image + Nation festival this year, deliberate and incidental commemorations of this anniversary have been manifold. Recalling lives parallel to AIDS 23 < < < 30 years of AIDS: Recalling lives in parallel As a 30-year old queer man, I have no recollection of a time before AIDS. Nonetheless, I recognize that I did not physically experience some of the most dire and brutal moments of gay history in the early days of the epidemic’s years of terror and mass mourning. I’m aware that I was spared the threat of quarantine, forced-testing, and sero-status tattoos. I know that even though the faces in power may have changed throughout three decades, I belong to a population that was, and largely still is, viewed as disposable. Through texts and memories, I try to honour the ghosts of history, and celebrate all warriors who continue to live, fuck, fight, and scream. Photo: Dallas Kurow In no way can we overstate the significance of collective learning, collaboration and perpetual knowledge-sharing that have emerged from the common experience we have lived over the last 30 years. It is vital that we transmit [and pass on] the knowledge we have gained. [The photo exhibit and community project] Blanc de mémoire allows us to come together and bear witness, which is fine in itself, but how can we impart this understand to new generations who did not live through the early years of the epidemic? Born at the same time as AIDS 30 years ago this year, how could I imagine a world without it? – Mark Ambrose Harris, (Montréal, 30) 2Bmag contributing writer markambroseharris.blogspot.com – Marc-André Goulet, performer photographer, Blanc de mémoire www.marcandregoulet.com 2B Magazine and – Peter Josselyn, (Toronto, 30) www.typed.ca 2B Magazine > > 24 AIDS, in its devastation, shows the resilience and strength of communities who have provided support and care. Faced with the unknown, many have shown true strength. Attitudes about discrimination, education, tolerance, and acceptance have changed because of how people responded. Health issues are now cultural, whether it’s November moustaches for prostates or runs for breast cancer research. That started with AIDS ribbons and people who had the courage to be open about their experiences and people who reminded us that each death was too many. Being the same age as a disease is an odd marker of time. I’m no baby and GRID (Gay Related Immune Deficiency) is thankfully obsolete. 25 < < < < < < of their red shirt donor advertising campaign (pictured). The actual letter sent to them by representatives of Héma Québec can be seen on their Facebook page. Hemaphobia is a small volunteer organisation that resulted from a combined effort with students of Dawson College. Tomas Dalbec, a representative for Hemaphobia, spoke openly about his surprise at the timing of the legal response to the campaign, which had already been running for well over a year with no reaction from Héma Quebec until late October. “It just seems odd, why now? Maybe in the beginning but not now,” expressed Dalbec. Hemaphobia and the struggle for gay men to give blood in Québec By Tom McGraw Sometimes in this life we must acknowledge that there are some facts we are forced to accept, some facts we can choose to accept, and other facts that seem to be known only to a select few. Recently, I came face to face with the third scenario while getting a routine physical. A jovial Jamaican nurse was taking my blood sample while asking me a series of standard questions when the “Have you donated blood in the last year?” bomb was dropped; I chuckled (which confused her) and responded with a direct “I can’t give blood, I’m gay!” To my surprise her response was not the checking of a box or a solemn nod, but rather a full body what you talking about? expression. We then chatted about the realities of giving blood and the lifetime ban for men who have sex with men. She sat for a moment, contemplated and then inquired “Isn’t that discrimination? This is Canada, right?” At that moment a fact I had been forced to accept came once again into question. This is the secret truth that Canadians are faced with. If even an educated professional who takes blood samples for a living does not know about lifetime bans on donation, what must the rest of the population think? In the past month, both local and international media have been bombarded by a variety of stories around this issue. Not least of which is the recent decision in the United Kingdom to replace the lifetime ban with a twelve month deferral period. A year seems reasonable when compared with a permanent ban, but it is still longer than the 3-6 month period which is > 26 2B Magazine standard for heterosexual donors who have had multiple sexual partners in the previous year. It is with deep shame that Canada must accept that the UK is more progressive on an issue such as this. If a nation such as the UK—which has one of highest underage mother rates in the western world due to their utter distain for sex education in the school system— can rise above the HIV stigma surrounding gay blood, then anything is possible. Other nations such as Australia, Japan, and Sweden have all adopted deferral periods in lieu of life time bans. We are behind the times and thankfully, some people are not gonna take it anymore. Adrian Lomaga, a former McGill graduate and at present a lawyer based in Toronto, had a long standing legal case against Héma Québec for discrimination due to sexual orientation. Recently he has decided to drop the case as a result of press releases from Héma Québec implying that they are reassessing the life time ban for MSM (Men who have Sex with Men) blood donors. In a statement to the CBC Lomaga expressed “Given the research I’ve seen to date, I think a 12-month deferral period is reasonable… in Canada.” While many believed Héma Québec were poised to change their policy and practice, it turned out to be false hope. On the October 17th of this year, Hemaphobia, a Montréal-based grassroots organization which lobbied against the lifetime ban, received a cease and desist order from Héma Québec for the parody Since the cease and desist order, Hemaphobia has had to shut down their web site and will have to decide if they can continue their mission with another campaign or disband entirely. It seems futile for a service like Héma Québec to take down their underdog critic for making light of the discrimination, while ostensibly bowing to pressure tactics at the same time. Tomas Dalbec also expressed serious concern with the validity of Héma Québec’s claim to be reassessing the lifetime ban, since they have made similar empty insinuations in the past. “Though we would be satisfied with a 12 month deferral period, that would be amazing,” Dalbec said. The fact is that there is still a lifetime ban in place, the only major legal battle against Héma Québec has been dropped and coincidently, the single organization openly contesting the MSM blood ban has been ordered to cease and desist its awareness campaign. We can keep our hopes high for a 12- month deferral period someday, but the most important thing now for concerned citizens and the GLBT community is not to let this slip under the rug. Hemaphobia started the ball rolling, but the purpose of their struggle remains unachieved, unless we choose collectively that we have the right to give this precious resource. In 2012, should the presumed risk of our sexual behaviour still be the deciding factor? Hemaphobia poster image from before the censorship order > Banned Blood 2B Magazine 2B Magazine > > 28 29 < < < Signs of a Village in Ottawa No one’s complaining that Ottawa now has a GLBT Village, but why the surprise signs? By Samantha Everts Instead the queer community, while individually praising this triumph had to just continue on with their day. Perhaps it was because most Ottawans have noticed the large number of gay and queer-friendly shops along Bank Street and already knew it as the unofficially designated gay village? Or, it was it something else? On November 8, 2011, the designated gay village of Ottawa finally became a reality, but no one was informed in advance of the date, including the Village Committee who have been advocating for the renaming of the street for the last six years. The rainbow-adorned signs are hung from Bank and Gilmour to Bank and Nepean Street. Just as the Sens Mile (named after the Ottawa Senator’s hockey team) brings tourists to the area, so too are the intentions of the Village signs to promote business, along with community spirit. “It is what it is,” said Crawford without directly calling the request an act of discrimination. In time for playoffs in April 2010, the Sens Mile signs were installed over an 800 meter stretch of Elgin Street to let intoxicated sports-fans take over the street, one of which is marked beside the Flamingo bar. “There was no debate or discussion when they went up on Elgin Street supporting the Senators,” said Crawford. “The city footed the bill big-time, so why is that a no brainer with no controversy or debate?” Before then a sign was installed in early September 2010, though was “technically not the right size,” according to Village Committee chair Glenn Crawford. That sign looks almost identical to the current signs. The final version of the sign was proudly toted by Somerset West Ward Councilor Diane Holmes in the Ottawa Pride Parade in August. Logistically then, the unionized city workers would have known at least a week in advance of the installation date, but still The Village Committee was never given a heads up. When questioned Holmes was curt, “It was general knowledge that they’d be going up in November. It shouldn’t have come as a surprise.” An exact date was never given. Considering the support given to the LGBT community issues by Mayor Jim Watson, it was unlike him to skip out on holding a ribboncutting ceremony to celebrate. Getting defensive in our interview, Watson asked, “We notified Xtra for a photo opportunity. I’m not sure how we notify the entire LGBT community other than that?” Shockingly then, the City of Ottawa asked the Village Committee to contribute towards the cost of the 6 signs, a total of less than $1,000. “With our fundraising efforts it’s not the thing that will break our backs,” said Crawford. But there was no press release from the City of Ottawa, the Councillor’s office, or any sort of official statement. “They could have sent the release afterwards,” said Holmes. Watson reiterates Holmes’ perspective, “We wanted to get them up ASAP,” he said. > 30 2B Magazine © The Village Committee “If that is the case,” said queer Ottawa musician Glenn Nuotio, “I’m sure we can get some rich queer to pay for the signs.” But why, we wonder, would a city that has a multi-million dollar budget for street signage would even ask a non-profit to pay up? (*Information requests to The City of Ottawa for exact figures as to how much construction and installation of street sign cost were not returned at the time of publishing.) Ottawa will join the ranks of Montréal and Toronto as having an official gay street bringing international attention to the gay-friendly capital, so why not party? The We Demand wall was a down-tempo affair but both Watson and Holmes had attended the unveiling. “It’s six small signs, that’s all,” Holmes said diminutively. In the recent election campaign, Holmes had pledged to see the street name project forward to win voter advantage. Many in the community felt like there should have been some sort of recognition besides just a photo op. “They’re certainly welcome to have a ceremony,” said Holmes, “They might want to do that in time.” Another possibility for lack of advance notice, suggests West-end regional activist Eric Darwin, is that the Village signs were seen as future competition by the surrounding Bank Street and Chinatown Business Associations. “It could be the threat of the Village forming their own business association,” he said. At least 25% of the businesses along the street are categorized as queer or queer-friendly according to the Village Vanguard directory making up a substantial economic impact on the area. It is to be noted, however that the Committee is a grass-roots initiative. Diane Holmes has since retracted the demand, saying “If they don’t want to pay for them that is fine.” At time of printing there were no plans to have a celebratory ceremony. 2B Magazine > < < < What they hadn’t realized is that the action of putting up the signs was representative of overcoming the struggles of the community to be recognized as equal citizens and the street as safe haven for queers across the city. This action was important to bear witness to, and surely a few in the crowd would have gotten teary-eyed. The emotional nature would have been obvious, instead people passed under without looking up on their way to work, thereby ignoring them. The signs simply went up overnight. A collective and wellprepared for event would have been appreciated. 31 < < < The Art of Giving Mathieu Laca (gives) back at Patrick John Mills By Jordan Arseneault This December 1-17, the Patrick John Mills Gallery will show over two dozen artists, with works by social realist Karen Bailey and the late, great James Boyd curated amidst a slew of photographers, painters, sculptors and even a jeweller (Joe Pacheco). At the end of the exhibit, Mills asks each artist to donate an art work to beauty the working and living environment of a local charity. As he has done in the past for the Salvation Army’s Grace House, and the Elizabeth Fry Society, this year Ottawa AIDS service org Bruce House will be the recipient of the artists’ largesse. “December is retail month of the year. So it is not easy to absorb this vision. But it is something I believe in. We need art in our lives,” Patrick John emoted by e-mail when explaining the novel concept for the show. “The artists really benefit. In the past more that 60 art works have sold. So there were some really excited artists. And that makes me happy.” Unlike Laca, who’s become somewhat of a darling of the visual art scene in Ottawa (and at the office of 2Bmag), many visual artists in the capital are unable to make a living from their work, so the show acts kind of like a Christmas bonus for them. > 32 2B Magazine “Getting media attention for doing something good... well it tends to get lost at this season on the year. All the food banks, local charities, Canadian Tire, Tim Hortons... all the big guys hit hard and have had all the attention. It is a real economy for these establishments. I am not trying to raise money,” Mills insists. “For me, the Art of Giving has been a way to get art out into the community and help artists. I love art. And I simply wish to share it. When I exit my home... and I walk around... I only wish to see more art. Artists create such amazing things.” Dream, never sleep, only live dreams is the motto of the gallery, and the message is an imperative one for our time: dreaming and giving, two acts this world could use a lot more of, I’d say. With special thanks to Mathieu Laca for the use of his dreamy watercolours Nude with Bird, and Voyeur, both of which will be in the show (with a lower than usual price tag, btw). Art of Giving with Mathieu Laca Vernissage: December 1st. 6 - 9 pm. Patrick John Mills Gallery 286 Hinchey Avenue, Ottawa (613) 729.0406 Elemental Art Party: Dec 17th. 7 pm - 1 am. patrickjohnmills.ca Nude with Bird, watercolur, Mathieu Laca, 2007 2B Magazine > For the past three years, now moving into year four, Ottawa gallerist Patrick John Mills has done an exhibit entitled the Art of Giving. For the month of December the gallery will show over 20 artists, including Être coverboy Mathieu Laca, with Mills taking zero commission on sales, and a trove of art going to AIDS service org Bruce House at the end. 33 < < < Bright Colours for a Dark Time If you’re in the village on Dec. 1st and looking for a cozy place to have a glass of wine and be surrounded by exciting colours and shapes, you’ll want to check out Galerie Zéphyr (on your way to the World AIDS Day Vigil, perhaps?). André Demers started painting seriously at the age of 22, after having completed his studies in interior design, an influence that comes out in his works’ more decorative aspects. For two of the darkest weeks of the year, Daniel Roberge will treat us to fanciful works by Demers alongside the wacky architectural musings of painter Étienne Martin. Demers’ influences vary “from surrealism to constructivism,” with a definite nod to Russian futurism. However, it’s with the Optical Art and the Pop Art movements that he most closely associates himself. That’s why he calls his style Pop-Op Art. With an almost obsessive amount of detail, and an irreverent sense of colour, he creates rich and vibrant paintings filled with the kind of joy we all need on a sombre day. André Demers,”COULEURS PRIMAIRES POUR PRIMATES” ZÉPHYR.lieu d’art 2112 rue Amherst , 514-529-9199 Montréal > 34 2B Magazine 2B Magazine > Shown here: 20” x 20” no. 25 (2009) by André Demers www.galeriezephyr2112.com 35 < < < No Barriers Yunus Chkirate celebrates early success by giving back to the community By Danny Légaré Over the last eight months, Chkirate has become a rising star with Montréal’s artistic community through his involvement with various community organizations, each giving him an opportunity to combine altruistic initiatives with his work, affording him a level of exposure that only a few artists in this city can attest to, at least at his tender age. “My solo exhibition was really a defining point in my career, a reality check,” Chkirate says. “The show opened the doors to several commissioned portraits and soon after I was involved with ARTSIDA, Café des Arts, and the BBCM’s President’s Cocktail. Each gave me the opportunity to take part in causes I believe in; HIV awareness/research and Montréal’s La Fierté.” For those who have not followed Chkirate’s ascension, we are talking about an overnight, yet very well- deserved success. Even with all the praises pouring in, the young man’s modesty remains intact. “I think the > 36 2B Magazine key coping skill is staying real and humble,” he says. “I don’t ever want success to change who I am as a person and I live the way I always have, keeping friends and family close.” “I think artists have to seize the opportunities in front of them and really work hard to achieve them,” he continues. “As short term as it’s been that I’ve been publicly present, I always knew deep down that I would live the life that I have.” But what did come as a surprise was the next step of his recent success, with Yunus securing permanent representation in a gallery where, on November 16th, Chkirate’s newest collection was unveiled at Delano Design. It helps to have friends like promoter/philanthropist Kat Coric, but there’s clearly something more to this delicious painter than who he knows… A yin for his yang According to Chkirate, Delano Design is the yin for his artistic yang, a perfect vehicle to display his work. “I felt an immediate connection with Delano Design as they do not just believe in art and fashion, but at showing the two in a conceptual way,” he explains. “There’s a feeling of warmth as soon as you enter; they have captured the essence of the ‘coup de coeur’ in what they offer. Working with them has been beyond rewarding and I am looking forward to developing more joint projects for the future.” Yunus Chkirate © César Ochoa 2B Magazine > It was less than a year ago when a young visual artist by the name of Yunus Chkirate (sh-kee-ra-té) took Montréal by storm and delivered his first solo show unveiling his latest paintings. When all 28 pieces exhibited at the Old Port home of art patron Michael Banks sold, those in attendance took it as a sign of things to come. The show launched an artistic career that shows immense promise, with no sign of slowing down any time soon for the disarmingly handsome gay painter. 37 Chkirate’s work has garnered accolades from some big names in the arts milieu south of the border as well. Steve Abrams, director of the Harris Theater for Music and Dance in Chicago, has seen a bevy of talented artists in his day, which was proof that work could speak for itself, even when you’re not basking in Chkirate’s charm. “The colors, the techniques, the composition all were completely captivating and when I finally saw his work in person, it was a totally different experience,” Abrams says. “The intensity and emotion behind the work were so apparent; it felt very intimate to even look at them.” Barriers through Love While intimacy is a major motif in Chkirate’s graphic, post-postexpressionist work, it was a trip to Paris and Barcelona which inspired his latest collection, Barriers through Love. In it, he channels the experiences and emotions of his immediate circle of friends, along with his own. Digging deep into his own consciousness, Chkirate’s modus operandi for the series is an exploration of emotional barriers and baring it all for the world to see, something he has no problem doing. “Barriers through Love is the most emotionally charged series I have ever done and I really challenged myself in every sense from technique to subject matter,” he says. “I took some time to get together with close friends and this is where I found myself completely intrigued and motivated by the stories they were sharing with me and naturally, I found myself painting portraits based on their experiences. This was where I began to truly analyze my own experiences and explore those of others.” Art that heals Along with the support of Delano Design, Chkirate will donate a portion of the proceeds from the sales obtained on the opening night of the show > 38 2B Magazine Yunus Chkirate, Portrait of Perfect Love, 2011, 48 x 48, acrylic on canvas to Montréal’s Maison Plein Coeur. As Maison Plein Coeur’s objectives are to promote health and support for people living with HIV/AIDS, his reasoning behind donating the proceeds goes beyond the obvious and poses as a benchmark for his future philanthropic endeavors. “I made a decision after working with ARTSIDA and BBCM that going forward, all my shows would have a charitable agenda,” Yunus says. “It’s something that I don’t believe was a choice, but more of a need, and Delano Design understood this when starting to work with me, which I am really grateful for.” “In the span of one month, I had four friends from different age groups diagnosed as HIV-positive,” he continues. “I knew that I could just sit back and watch this happen, or take what I do and actually make a difference. When someone becomes a collector of mine, they can know that they are also supporting me in raising awareness and funds for causes that are dear to us.” Chkirate’s goals for the near future include securing representation for his work on a national scale alongside his mentor/publicist Kat Coric. He also plans on embarking on a few projects tackling such issues as suicide, teen bullying, and continuing with HIV awarenessraising. “I’m a young guy with a loud voice. And now, I’m really going to use it.” Yunus Chkirate’s Barriers through Love is on display at Delano Design – Boutique Concept 70, Saint-Paul West, in Old Montréal. www.yunuschkirate.com 2B Magazine > Yunus Chkirate, Portrait of a Closed Love, 2011, 30 x 30, acrylic on canvas 39 < < < It Takes a Village Priape’s Bernard Rousseau in Conversation By Jordan Arseneault 2B: How did the store get started? Bernard Rousseau: Priape was founded on November 11, 1974 by Robert Duchaine, who was my lover at the time (my first!) He wanted to open up a jeans store but since there was a shortage of denim at the time, I suggested that he open a sex shop! It was another friend of ours, Claude Leblanc, who thought of the name. The first store was at 1111 de Maisonneuve East. When the store moved to Sainte-Catherine Street, Claude became Robert’s business partner. As for me, I was the first sales clerk hired by Priape and I didn’t become a partner in the business until 1979. 2B: When you opened the store, did you have any idea of the kind of success that Priape would have? BR: Not at all! The first few years were very difficult… because just after we moved the store to Sainte-Catherine, the building burnt down! Robert and Claude had to borrow money from their families and Household Finance to be able to reopen a few months later, at 1661 Saint-Catherine East. 2B: During the height of the AIDS epidemic, from 1984-1995, was Priape criticized by the LGBT community for promoting sex? Was the store always supported by Montréal’s gay community? BR: Priape was hit hard by AIDS. Not only did we lose many, many clients but we also lost many of our employees to this terrible epidemic. I remember the store’s twentieth anniversary when we made a small exhibit with photos and comments on the beginning of Priape and there was, among other things, a space for all of the employees who died of AIDS… and there have been at least 20 to date. I personally lost two of my best friends and colleagues including Nelson Carry (1989) who > 40 2B Magazine was the photographer and manager of Priape for nearly 8 years, and of course, Robert Duchaine (2002), the founder. From the beginning of the AIDS crisis, Priape was involved with several community groups in the fight to promote safe sex and to obtain the government aid that was needed to deal with this crisis. Priape has never sold bareback films (during my time). Priape has always been more than a store for us. We were dedicated to a cause and this nourished us and helped us grow. And I sincerely believe that the community has supported us in return. 2B: What is your favourite leather item in Priape? BR: I’m not much into leather, but I recently lost my old ball separator cock-ring that I had had for over twenty years! (And yes, I did pass by the store to get a new one!) 2B: Who are some of your LGBT heroes in Montréal? BR: My God! There are so many… and I don’t want to forget Alain Bouchard (the former editor of RG), Laurent McCutcheon (Fondation Émergence-Gai Écoute) Suzanne Girard (DiversCité) Charlene Boudreau (Image+Nation) Ross Higgins (Archives Gaies du Québec), Gregg McDonald (Gregg Homme), Michel Tremblay, Réal Ménard, Daniel Pinard, and Mado of course! And those we have lost like Robert Duchaine, the founder of Priape, who will always be my first hero! As they often do, Priape will be sponsoring TORTURE GARDEN MONTRÉAL NOVEMBER 25-26-27, 2011 www.TortureGardenMontreal.com www.priape.com 2B Magazine > On the occasion of the flagship gay erotic emporium’s 37th anniversary, Priape cofounder reflects on the store’s success, the origins of the Village, the AIDS era, his gay heroes, and his favourite sexessory. 41 < < < Brandon Jones: Go Big and Stay Home By Boísin Murphy When Michael Lucas came to town in May of this year, he had already scouted who he would be putting his made-in-Montréal All Star Studs and Backdoor, and Brandon Jones was one of them. Along with his real-life boyfriend Adrian Long, and local pornstar Pierre Fitch, Brandon Jones has been catapulted into the gay adult video bigleagues with more than just his sculpted frame and beautiful butt to show off. He’s been anointed as a scout and producer for Lucas Entertainment in the 514. 2B: Agreed. You’re often described online as a “power bottom.” What does this term mean for you? BJ: Not everyone is very good at it and is comfortable doing it. I’m not just gonna do the starfish. I’m going to be as submissive and aggressive and more top-like. It’s a life passion, it’s an art. My forthcoming book will be entitled The Art Bottoming by Brandon Jones. While he hasn’t quit his day job yet, Brandon will start producing more Montréalmade scenes, using local actors and crew, with Lucas Entertainment Canada. The project will represent a major shift for porn production in Montréal, since there are currently no major houses shooting here, and certainly none with the publicity, production values, and strict no-bareback policy that have earned Michael Lucas his reputation and commercial success. 2B: How do you stay healthy as a porn actor, both sexually and physically? BJ: Safety first! I will never shoot a scene without a condom. Lucas Entertainment will never shoot a scene without a condom. If all they ever see in porn is protected porn, it will come a little bit more naturally for them. We always film the actor putting the condom on. It’s not magical that the condom goes on! Porn should be a fantasy but should be a portrayal of real life as well. Allstar Studs was filmed in a loft that the company rented in St-Henri. We had to do a little scenario where we walked around and kissed on the street; passers-by screamed “fags” and we just laughed, the crew did too. We told ourselves that those people aren’t really from Montréal. > 42 2B Magazine 2B: And what about that BODY? BJ: I have a very active job, I walk everywhere. I love dancing and taking classes at the gym. I have a good metabolism and keep myself busy. I don’t like junk food. I was a figure skater before (hence the ass), from 6-15. When I was 15 I had a big ass, and big legs and a skinny torso. At 15, I broke both my feet in a rough landing on the ice. I decided my health was more important than the medals. I didn’t have many friends because I was living in arenas. I’m too much of a people person I realized. > 2B: What was it like filming All Star Studs and Backdoor on your home turf? BJ: Backdoor was shot with Adrian at JP’s strip club (formerly Adonis). I was playing a stripper who wants to work there, and Adrian plays the manager of a club. I was basically getting paid to fuck with my boyfriend! < < < 2B: And by people person, you mean you liked cock. BJ: I discovered I was gay at 16, I had been dating girls before, and there were no gays around us at all. When my body discovered I was gay and I tried it, it was like a calling. I was having sex with my girlfriend and I was thinking about my best friend naked! So I told her that I thought I was gay. There was a chat-room in Sherbrooke, and I tried it right away because I thought I was missing something. And it all came naturally afterwards. That’s why I did figure skating, and played with Barbies, and that’s why I love girl clothes [laughs]. 2B: Many Montréalers will remember you as the sweet smiling shirtless boy who served sangria on the rooftop at Sky. You transitioned pretty quickly from the country boy to city-gay… BJ: After I recovered from the skating accident, I moved to Montréal at 17. I went a bit crazy when I got here... I come from an extremely open-minded family and everyone in my family was supportive of every boyfriend I ever had. My family is even supportive of the porn project. 2B: What will you be doing to promote the auditions and films you’ll be doing with Adrian? BJ: We’ll be posting some ads, and will be using some talent from his local stable, as well as some European actors. I got to meet a lot of actors and connections we made while Michael Lucas was in town, as well as on recent trips to New York and LA. For the upcoming film, we’ll be using a script that Adrian and I wrote together. 2B: I just have to ask, how did you come up with the name “Brandon Jones”? BJ: I’ve always loved the name Brandon, so I chose that. And the “Jones” is in honour of my idol, Samantha Jones, Kim Cattrall’s character in Sex and the City 2B: She’s my idol too! She also does a lot of advocacy around sex, is that something you’re interested in doing with your newfound fame? BJ: I’ve always been someone who is open about who I am. I don’t see sexuality as something bad. Talking to teens to let them know that it’s OK to want to experience sex, and that sexuality is something good as long as you’re smart with it will be my contribution. The importance is to stay who are no matter what. > 44 2B Magazine © Adam Webster 2B Magazine > www.lucascasting.com 45 < < < HOTS POTS 2B Nov-Dec 2011 Always the hottest place to check out new dance talent, choreographer/teacher Lynsey Billing from SCREAM Dance Academy will host STAGE, an evening of performances by “Ill Abilities” Crew, Entre-Deux, Sonia Balajovech, Véronique D’Abaté, and many more. It’s like the SCREAM team’s answer to the end-of-semester variety show, but way, way, way fiercer! Stage, UQAM’s Salle Marie-Gérin-Lajoie, 405 SteCatherine West, Montréal, 7:30pm, $15 www.lynseybillingproductions.com > 46 2B Magazine Dec. 10 Glam Gam Productions Dec. 3 Zïlon @ Galerie Dentaire @ Café Cleopatra In collaboration with artists Louis Guillemette and Danielle Habard, Amherst’s Galerie Dentaire will host Vulnerable, a night of live pen-and-ink drawing by iconic gay visual artist Zïlon. The proceeds of the entirely original works’ sale will go to one of the last assisted living homes for people with AIDS, the Maison du Parc. 5pm, 1239, rue Amherst, Montréal. www.galeriedentaire.com www.maisonduparc.org Taking their cue from certain team-building exercises and short-film competitions, burlesque tricksters Glam Gam Productions will be taking over Café Cléopatre for their 24 Hour XXXmas Mystery Cabaret. The nasty, irreverent crew will announce the script to their collaborators on Dec 9th, and performers have only one day to put together an act, a costume, and a soundtrack, only to take it all off again. 1230 boul. St-Laurent, 9pm, $10-15 at the door. www.glamgam.com © Dan Ziemkiewicz Dec. 17 Overkill Bar (Ottawa) Dec. 17 St. Vincent @ the Corona The opening of the newest mega-club in the historic Station C will feature DJ Shawn Riker on decks. Acrobats, live show, and door prizes, with a mere $8 cover. Be there! 1450 SteCatherine Est Tongue-in-cheek party-mongers Sara Ainslie and Guy Bérubé have a social conscience, but they hide it well. With SAtAN’s LITTLE Helpers Christmas Blow-out and canned food drive, they’re inviting you to “leave a can of food + Get a can of Pabst Blue Ribbon”. DJ DUSTY spinning scratchy house music, 10pm-2am. (56 Byward Market Square). Two years ago, Annie Clark’s recorded debut as St. Vincent, Marry Me, brought the female vocalist from the flatlands of Texas to the heights of critical attention at the centre of the hipster universe: Brooklyn, NY. Actor, her new album from Beggar’s Banquet boasts songs that are “as cinematic as pop songs can be, but the movie is a private one.” 9pm @ Théatre Corona, (2409 Notre-Dame Ouest), $22-$29. www.apollonmtl.com www.overkillbar.com www.evenko.ca Dec. 10: Apollon Nightclub grand opening! 2B Magazine > Dec. 3 Stage 2011 47 < < < What You Want to Hear Out queer musician Matt Stern launches an album from the heart By Jordan Arseneault “I wanted to say about your song ‘First World Problems’ that you inspired me to write a song with the same title,” Matt said with the winking charm that makes you feel kind of special just to be around him. The hidden compliment was for a joke of a song I had written for Pervers/cité in 2010, but jocular is exactly what Matt’s work is not: he is making a name for himself with unpretentious music that strikes a chord of what one might call timeless boyish sincerity with tracks like “Grateful” and “I Wanna See You”. His slightly falsetto, naturalistic voice expresses the feelings he “couldn’t say directly to anyone,” especially before he came out last year. Up to now, Stern’s inspirations have often come from channelling his pent-up love for straight boys he was falling for, making love to them > 48 2B Magazine by melodic proxy, so to speak. “I’m Not the Only One” is a delectable exception to the super-sweet folk style that Matt has made his own; the dancey beat and sexy texture of the piece are reminiscent of a Bon Iver remix (without the sadness), but you can actually understand his vocals. “I’m Not the Only One” is an example of how native Montréaler has been breaking out of his preferred folk boundaries and expanding into remixes and ballads that are known to tug heartstrings and make your panties (or undies) a little wet. The song was the title track of his first album, the release of which coincided with his coming out last year. From last year’s album release show, where Stern tried to “keep a low profile” and wound up almost losing his adoring boyfriend as a result, Stern is now poised to become more fully and proudly himself in What You Wanted to Hear, a self-produced album he’ll be launching at Café Artère on Friday, Dec. 9th. We have a feeling that Matt Stern will have a lot more of what we want to hear (and see), in the coming months. Release of What You Wanted to Hear @ Café l’Artère 7000, av. du Parc Friday, December 9th, 8 pm Entry is $10 and includes “dinner” www.mattstern.com 2B Magazine > When I sat down to chat with the handsome and soulful Matt Stern one late summer afternoon, he served me tea and oranges on his back balcony in the Village. The Leonard Cohen “Suzanne” reference aside, Stern’s folk music roots were already apparent to me from numerous sets I’d seen him do around town. Whether in the red-walled intimacy of Cabaret Faux Pas, or barefoot on the stage at the Royal Phoenix, where he did a tongue-in-cheek version of Jessie J’s “Do It Like a Dude”, Matt has always stood out for doing something not many queer boys in his generation do, which is sing alone with an acoustic guitar. Poised to release Songs for the Wandering Spirit this fall, Stern followed up with a fast-forwarded release of What You Wanted to Hear, staying in the heartfelt melodic vein of Billy Joel and Tracy Chapman. 49 < < < Mr. Technokink Isaac Wesley wins Mr. Leather Ottawa 2012. 2B Staff Mr. Leather Ottawa announced the winner of Mr. Leather Ottawa 2012: the very handsome Isaac Wesley. Steve Stewart was 1st Runner-Up and Jordan Thomas 2nd Runner-Up. Together, the sexy Winners took home over $10,000 in prizes. Record crowds attended the event, with 600 people at the Saturday, Nov. 12th competition. Seminars and workshops were well-attended, with many sold out, with an awesome influx of out-of-towners to boot. Following individual interviews with a panel of judges, the five contestants entertained the audience with performances in three stage segments: Full Fetish Image & Speech, Minimal Wear & Pop Questions, and “Fantasy Scenarios.” The fantasy portion is a long-standing tradition in the Ottawa Leather Community, “setting the contest apart from most other leather contests in North America,” the group said in their wrap-up release. In this segment, contestants are required to display their BDSM interests and play skills in a fantasy scene that follows an assigned theme. This year’s theme was Technokink won Isaac Wesley the prize for his rendition of “Love in an Elevator” with MLO 1999 Dean Ross in a supporting role. Steve Stewart’s Birthday “Love Triangle” was hilariously sexy, while Jordan Thomas’s “Road Runner and Coyote-inspired” ACME “Instant Pup Kit” also wowed the crowd of well-over 600 who packed into the deconsecrated Irish Catholic stone venue. Members of the judging panel were: Mr. Leather Ottawa 2012 Mike Tattersall who served as head judge; “Mama” Sandy Reinhardt from Dublin, California; Ms. International Olympus Leather 2007 Angela Albert; Canadian Leatherman 2005 Paul Ciantar of Toronto; and, Sir Ryan Auld of Montréal. As MLO 2012, Isaac says he will reinforce on “respectability” to the community as “far too often he has seen members of the community leave respect at the door when entering a gay establishment. It comes down to the principle of respecting personal space, conversations and attitude. Everyone is an equal no matter who they are and should be treated with respect,” the Ottawa Knights website said. Wesley says he’ll use his title to help fellow Leathermen and Sirs with events they are attending for various benefits, and help increase the visibility of locally owned gay establishments to the best of his abilities by promoting the services they offer. > 50 2B Magazine © Bert Schopf 2B Magazine > Sexy with a conscience! Congratulations to Isaac from your new fans @2Bmag www.technokink.com 51 < < < Sauna Charter gets OK Sauna charter is off to a good start, according to RÉZO Matthieu Lévesque The charter, which was created by the prevention organisation RÉZO, Santé publique, the CSSS Jeanne-Mance and different sauna owners, has its limitations. “You have to understand that it’s a charter of engagement, and is not binding,” explains Alain Arsenault, community organizer at the CSSS JeanneMance. In other words, “in adhering to the charter, the saunas are taking a sort of voluntary commitment, which they can stop or restart at any time.” Robert Rousseau affirms that the idea of making the charter mandatory, as has been done in some European countries, was brought up, but was rapidly shot down. “In terms of ideology, when we oblige someone to respect the rules, it is very difficult to implement, and > 52 2B Magazine to ensure that the rules are respected. Rather than alienate the saunas, we had everything to gain in implementing a voluntary charter.” The charter also serves as a reminder, a way of recognising that saunas have been participating in prevention actions for a long time. “We work in collaboration with owners since the 2000s, and they have always been very receptive,” insists Robert Rousseau. “We found it unfortunate that the population does not see the prevention efforts made by saunas.” Changing the image of saunas More concretely, the initiative asks that saunas provide access to information on STIs, testing and free vaccinations (2 to 4 times a month) and ensure the presence of community workers on site. But the primary challenge proposed by the charter is for owner’s to provide unlimited access to free condoms. “In the large majority of saunas, condoms are only distributed at the entrance,” explains Mr. Rousseau. “Some saunas have three or four Danny Lapierre © César Ochoa 2B Magazine > A new initiative was implemented this summer to help prevent the transmission of STIs in some of Montréal’s saunas. The Chartre OK, a voluntary set of guidelines that sauna owners were invited to adhere to, had to undergo a few adjustments after its first few months of operation, but its organisers remain very optimistic about the project. 53 < < < Lubricant, however, must still be purchased – a contradiction since condoms and lube go hand in hand. RÉZO confirms that the topic did come up. “In all of the establishments, lubricants are sold for a nominal fee,” explains Robert Rousseau. “The sauna owners are willing to make efforts, just as long as they don’t have too much of an impact on their bottom line. Providing unlimited condoms without extra charge already demands a considerable increase in their expenses...” Ronald Champagne, owner of the now defunct Sauna Centre-Ville since its opening in 1990, confirms this added expense: “We make no profit with the condoms,” he insists. “We pay for them and we give them away, so it’s a significant expense.” These efforts will hopefully help saunas improve their reputation, which can often still be negative, as much in the eyes of the gay people as straight people. “Certain people consider saunas to be a very dirty, trashy place. If it > 54 2B Magazine weren’t for saunas, men would continue to go to the parks and alleys,” says Robert Rousseau. In terms of STI transmission however, there has been a rather negative evolution as of late. At the beginning of the 90s, “a norm was established in terms of safe sex, [but] over the last few years, this has deteriorated. There is much more sex without protection, notably with the arrival of barebacking. But the sauna remains a safer space than public places, because it is a better controlled and secure environment.” A real financial cost Currently, only four saunas have signed the charter – Oasis, G.I. Joe, Sauna Centre-Ville and the 5018. “Their owners are concerned about their clientele. Looking out for the health of their clients is important to them,” says Alain Arsenault. Among the establishments that did not sign the charter is the Bain Colonial, a family business open since 1914. Joy Adler, one of its owners, claims that she was never approached on the subject. “I didn’t even know that this charter existed. It has to be said that we are not in the Village. Maybe they forgot us.” For his part, Robert Rousseau indicated that the documents were sent to the Bain Colonial and that he is still awaiting a response. The second step comes in December when the participating saunas will receive a followup visit. “We will meet with sauna owners and go over all the points. If they are no longer respecting the charter, we will simply remove the logo from the window. But they will be welcome to adhere again in the future whenever they wish.” In the course of the first three months of the project, some small adjustments had to be made. “For certain saunas, the condom dispensers had to be moved. They were emptying too quickly. We put them in view of personnel so that we could keep an eye on clients that take advantage of the situation.” More difficult for Peep Shows Peep Shows and other places where some sexual relations take place on site were also approached, but it did not turn out how organizers would have liked. Though owners were aware that there sexual relations happen in their establishment, they claim they did not want to encourage it. To acknowledge the charter, in their minds, would be a step in that direction. For more info, check out www.charteok.com 2B Magazine > floors. When you are on the third floor and you need a condom that you can only get on the first floor, chances are, in the heat of the moment, you will decide to go without.” For the most part, condom dispensers have been installed on each floor of the participating saunas. 55 < < < Putting people back in fashion By Thibaut Temmerman The online fashion store’s clever name is also a reflection of the philosophy behind the business: to put clothing on the backs of those who design, make, and of course, wear the company’s garments. Against Nudity takes deep pride in being a responsible business and ensures that both those who design and manufacture the garments are fairly paid and have employee benefits. The goal is to offer a fair price for their clothing, which depends much more on the quality of the garment rather than the notoriety of the brand. The clothing is both designed and made in North America and will soon have a tag to present its individual designer, in order to create a more personal connection with the client (à la Lush Cosmetics), and to give due credit to the creativity and talent of the designer. It’s all in the name of transparency, like on their website, > 56 2B Magazine which reads, “the face is the first connection and yes, we have a face.” Not in the business of ruining… The name Against Nudity is also a sort of commentary on the traditional fashion industry and its superficial values. The models for Against Nudity are more than just skin and bones and do not propagate a digitally retouched, unrealistic standard of beauty. Unlike other clothing companies, Against Nudity donates their unsold stock to community organisations rather than destroying it – yet another faux pas in the world of prêt-à-porter. Also available is several boutiques in Montréal and Québec City, these elegant and comfortable creations have eclectic names including Ninja turtle kakis, the “Jealous Ralph” shirt, the Mont-Royal jacket and the Plateau Fluo. Louis and Thierry have also promised a “Village” garment for the next collection. A fun, ethical alternative to that other anti-sweat-shop manufacturer, don’t you think? Against Nudity againstnudity.com Make-up and hair Ana-Maria Cimpoia On Patrick: ‘‘Falcon punch’’ Cardigan: $41 ‘‘Skinny Skeleton’’ Pants in grey: $48 On Alexandre: ‘‘The Hot Cake’’ Shirt: $46 ‘‘Master Key’’ Pants: $65 www.againstnudity.com © César Ochoa 2B Magazine > After only six months in business, the orders keep piling in for the Québec online fashion store Against Nudity. Created by entrepreneurs Louis Moreau and Thierry Charlebois, Against Nudity aims to “re-evolutionize” fashion by running a responsible, transparent business, which is not exactly the norm in the garment industry. 57 < < < MIKE RUIZ IS PRETTY MASCULINE By Troy Ordami too. Proceeds benefit GMHC, a sexual health charity in New York City. Savvy reality fans know Mike’s career on the tube started long before A List: New York. In fact, he has appeared on several shows including America’s Next Top Model, RuPaul’s Drag Race, and Kathy Griffin’s My Life on the D-List. But A List was different. It was the first time cameras documented Mike’s every move and even more significant, it was the first time he gave up creative control. That’s a big deal for a man who is used to calling all the shots behind the lens. It was a professional risk, too, but one Mike doesn’t regret as the show introduced him and his work to a whole new set of adoring fans. Isn’t masculinity the opposite of “beauty”? In his latest production, Mike Ruiz turns his attention to his first photo book, Pretty Masculine, featuring a hunky gang of male models in various forms of undress. It’s pages and pages of eye candy and all for a good cause, > 58 2B Magazine How do you define beauty? Beauty is very individual and personal. However, I consider beauty to be represented in everything that denotes balance in our world and is in harmony with our environment. True beauty gratifies the senses, which in my case, inspires me to delve deeper into my creative psyche. The opposite of beauty is ugliness. So, to define masculinity as ugly is nothing but a limitation and inherent misunderstanding of what masculinity represents. Masculinity, irrespective of how it is portrayed, is yet another facet of beauty. Traditionally, men have been taught that beauty is a girl thing and that they shouldn’t concern themselves with how they look. Yes, western culture certainly has imposed its belief that the idea of beauty is relegated predominantly to the female gender. However, this preconception is very limited and I hope that, along with continued changes in our cultural behaviors and values, so too will we notice a shift in accepting that beauty is not “a girl thing”. I, for one, extrapolate what I find to be beautiful and interpret it accordingly. In my mind, there are no limitations to what is to be deemed as beautiful. What is the main message of Pretty Masculine? Beauty is whatever we want it to be. Just be open to new ideas and to the possibility of breaking down inflexible ideological barriers. How do the men in your book represent male beauty? Pretty Masculine depicts just one of many facets of beauty. In this case, the subjects in my book are simply a study of male muscularity— captured through hyper-stylized imagery. The juxtaposition of accessories and materials commonly depicted in our society as being inherently feminine is meant to demonstrate that beauty is all-inclusive and not meant to be segregated. Are they the male equivalent to a Barbie doll? Are they placing the beauty bar for men at an impossibly high mark? > Few do cool as hot as high-octane celebrity-fashion photographer and star of A List: New York, Mike Ruiz. With a unique approach to the exploration of visceral brilliance, his finely crafted celebrity images have appeared in Vanity Fair, Italian Elle, and Spanish Vogue. He has shot some of the hottest in Hollywood from Kim Kardashian to Adam Lambert (and the girls of Jersey Shore!). However, even he’ll say that none shined as brightly as beloved Golden Girl turned rapper, Betty White – she actually raps on the new club track, “I’m Still Hot”. < < < There isn’t or at least there shouldn’t be any bar to define male beauty. Moreover, it is important to remember that the models in my book are real people. They come from many different walks of life and have many different interests and are of many different persuasions. They are all beautiful individuals with equally beautiful souls. To objectify, plasticize or minimize them by comparing them to Barbie dolls would be nothing more than a perpetuation of short-sighted stereotypical limitations. Isn’t true beauty really on the inside? If you look closely enough, you’ll realize that beauty is all around us—inside, outside and everywhere in between. What are some things you do to be the most beautiful person you can be? I live in my truth, openly and with joy. Of course we have to ask about recent news that you will not be part of next season’s A List: New York. Is that true? Yes, it is true. I won’t be returning for a third season. I am most grateful to the producers of the show for having given me the opportunity to be a part of the cast. I have met many people and made many friends in the course of the last two seasons. The show gave me an awesome platform to discuss my general philosophy on life and share what’s important to me. That said, I feel that my participation on the show has run its course and that I need to tend to other projects that are pending and continue focusing on my career as a photographer. What is your parting advice to the guys of A List? Love yourselves and remember that you are the masters of your own destiny. To order Pretty Masculine, visit > 60 2B Magazine 2B Magazine > www.mikeruiz.com 61 < < < Travel Gay Canada comes to town Gay travel in Canada represents a market that TGC estimates at approximately $7 billion annually. While we don’t have a lot of the beach resorts commonly associated with gay tourism in Europe, Latin America, and Asia, the True North strong and free makes up for it by being “one of the most progressive and inviting countries in the world,” where businesses fly the rainbow flag, and people even come here from less progressive places to get gay married. Major urban centres and country escapes alike boast gay or gay-friendly staff, ownership, or attractions, as our Guide Gai du Québec attests. Confirmed speakers at the Nov 17-18 Travel Gay Canada Conference include such experts as Toni Newman, the Innovation Advantage, and Joel Peters, Chief Marketing Officer of Tourism Toronto, which famously made a very gay video to promote LGBT tourism in the metropolis amidst their city’s pride funding debacle earlier this year. > 62 2B Magazine The fact of Pride’s positive economic impact, which stemmed mostly from tourism, became a political factor that conservative elements in the Queen’s City Hall had to reckon with. “This Conference will be valuable to any organization looking to build opportunities in the LGBT travel market,” said Darrell Schuurman, President of Travel Gay Canada. “Delegates will have the opportunity to learn from leading experts in the industry and will also benefit from networking with like-minded colleagues. We expect TGC’s second annual LGBT Tourism Conference to be a great success and look forward to welcoming delegates to Montreal!” Just a few of the presentations we like the sound of include “Straight to Gay: Making the Transition” presented by B&B owner Brian Kendrick (from PEI!), and “Social Media: Are you Market Ready?” with Tourisme Montréal’s ubiquitous Tanya Churchmuch. The opening keynote by Professional Catalyst Toni Newman is poised to teach us how to “continually create, provide and demonstrate our value to the LGBT consumer base,” something that I think any LGBT business owner needs to know, whether they’re in the travel business or not. The delegates, the kiosks, the name tags, and the learning all come together at the glimmering Fairmount Reine Elizabeth, Nov 17 + 18, in Montréal. For more info: www.tgcconference.com Old Montréal © Ville de Montréal, bureau du patrimoine, de la toponymie et de l’expertise 2B Magazine > Montréal is already known as one of the biggest conference attractions in North America, second only to Washington, DC. So, what better place to unite all of the tourism and hospitality colours of the rainbow for a two-day industry conference? Canada’s LGBT Tourism Industry Association, cleverly shorted to Travel Gay Canada (TGC) has also chosen the perfect hotel, the Fairmount Queen Elizabeth, to show you how to market your business to the precious pink dollar. 63 comme moi : pisse, odeurs naturelles (cul, aiselles, couilles, sueur), tendre et versatile. Black+ Têl XXX bien venus ! G-6072 Ghana M, 28, 5’8’’, 85 kg, dark skin, short hair, hot, warm and passionate guy, athletic built and TOP. I’m open minded, intelligent, great sence of humor. Looking for warm and loving long term relationship. 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Bienvenus aux haltérophiles. 6075 Ghana Sexy, handsome black, guy 30, looking for serious man to meet soon. 6076 A good-looking, honest, intelligent, manly Ukrainian boy, 24 y.o., H. 177 cm, 74 kg, dark-blond hair, green eyes, with university education, good health, nice body and good character. I do not smoke and do not drink alcohol. Seeks my special man, real best friend for correspondence, good meetings, holidays together, friendship, romance, love and for happy long relationship. 6077 46 ans, 5’6’’, 142 Lbs, 8’’ Non-circoncis, séro+, cherche mec 40-55 ans, pas bedonnant, enjoué, cochon, > 64 2B Magazine 6078 40 y/o, 1.80cm, 82 kg, mulato. Cantante profesional, deseo contactar amigos en Canada y el mundo para correspondencia en mi club del amor y la amistad. 6080 Cuba 44 años, bisexual con preferencia por hombres, trigueno, ojos cafés, 1.70m, 65 kg, sagitario. Me gusta la playa, el cine, las discotecas. Busco amistad o relación estable con hombre bisexual o gay completo (activo/pasivo) entre 19 y 50 años. 6081 Cuba 26 y/o, White hair, Black eyes, clear skin. Gay looking for a friend. I need love and peace. I like music, cycling and chocolate. I’m simple and complete. 6082 Rétraité soixantaine, barbu, poilu, chevveux grisonnants, Allure véome et intello. Doux, respecteux, discret, passionné. Cherche homme mur, libre le jour en semaine, pour donner libre tours à un échange de fantasmes…caresser tes rondeurs et lécher tes pieds me conduiront au 7e ciel. 6083 Saguenay 2H, 48 & 52, 165 & 145 lb, 6’ & 5’8 cherchent amis et couples semblables pour profiter des plaisirs à la campagne. Aimons nature, musique, art, livres, voyages. 6084 Cuba Mulato, 29 y/o, tall, elegant, serious, honest. Masseur. Looking for a serious and stable relationship with a gay man, 30-60 y/o. Friends write me back. 6085 Montréal Renouveau au Qc. après 25 ans d’absence, cherche ami(s); 45 ans, 5’9, 170 lbs.,instruit, cultivé, artiste arts visuels, bilingue, pas d,acl, cigarette, drogue. Bel apparence. 6086 Montréal 62 ans, 5’7”, 165 lb., italien, look Jeune, gym 3 fois/ semaine, cheveux chatains, deux ambrés, aime Tous les plaisirs de la vie. Cherche Idem pour rélation sérieuse. Fumeur s’abstenir. 6087 Montréal Couple masculin dans la soixantaine [un bottom (passif) et un versatile] cherche TOP (actif), poilu, âgé entre 55 et 70 ans, qui pratique le safe sex, pour relations sexuelles occasionnelles. Doit être propre et entreprenant. Nous sommes grassouillets, honnêtes et discrets. Prière d’inclure informations pertinentes et une photo (visage) dans votre réponse. 6088 Cuba 58 años, 1.54m, 64kg, pelo canoso, ojos pardos, romantico, cariñoso y agradable. Busco pareja de mi edad o mayor hasta 70 años. Soy sastre y me gusta la música, pasear por la playa y los animales. Espero su respuesta. 6089 Suisse Beau mec de 28 ans, tendre et coquin, cherche contact au Québec pour correspondance et amitié. Je serai en vacances à Montréal en 2012. 6090 Cuba Mido 1.75 cm, peso 64kg, piel blanca, ojos pardos, pelo negro. Mis gustos preferidos: la música, la televisión, el deporte y los celulares. Estoy interesado en buscar pareja. Me puedes enviar SMS. 6091 Cuba Mulato, 31 años, licenciado en enfermería, busco pareja y amigos de 30 años en adelante. Me gusta el cine, leer y bailar. Soy muy divertido y prometo ser fiel a mi pareja. 6091 Belgique Jeune homme blanc, sportif en short, 27 ans, passif cherche hommes actifs de plus de 18 ans. Même agés, pour correspondance, rencontres. J’aime voyager. Hommes noirs bienvenus. Envoyer lettre avec photo. 2B Magazine > Q- 6071 Montréal H, 47, 5’12’’, 125 lb, 6.5’’ circoncis, look jeune, non poilu. Rocker non sadomaso tendre, affectueux, pas efféminé, instruit, fumeur, pas de drogue, ni d’alcool. Cherche H. 35-65 sérieux pour relation durable, simple, affectueux, franc, sens l’humour. Toutes ethnies bienvenues. Obèse, violent, buveur, drogué s’abstenir. 65 2B Magazine 2B Magazine > > 66 67 > 68 2B Magazine