A Chicago synagogue is shocked when its longtime rabbi quits after
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A Chicago synagogue is shocked when its longtime rabbi quits after
JEWISH NEWS THE CHICAGO September 12 - 18, 2014/17 Elul 5774 www.chicagojewishnews.com THE LAST STRAW A Chicago synagogue is shocked when its longtime rabbi quits after increasing tensions about his views on Israel and the Palestinians The Jewish year that was Looking back at the losses of 5774 One Dollar 2 fronet.co.il Chicago Jewish News - September 12 - 18, 2014 Buying a home in Yerushalayim has never been easier Come Meet Us To Find Out How Mr. Yossi Waldman ((347)424-5431) and other representatives of Merom Yerushalayim will be in Chicago for private appointments September 11th-15th Merom Yerushalayim is being built on the Schneller compound, an estate that for one hundred and fifty years has been lending a majestic air and a dash of European panache to the streets of Yerushalayim. Vast expanses of flourishing greenery and rare architectural beauties lie behind its stately stone walls. 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The [NBA] players and I sort of live parallel lives because we both found something that we love very much, and only faith can push you through such a non-traditional journey.” How does Ravin connect with high-profile NBA stars? “There are several levels,” he says. “Obviously, when I walk into a room with them they are sophisticated guys and they are incredibly bright even though some people don’t think they are. If I don’t believe in my gospel, small two-bedroom apartment in the Hadar neighborhood of Haifa. “Fast-forward 20 years. I returned to Israel dribbling a ball, this time with New York Knicks’ All-Star forward Amar’e Stoudemire,” Ravin writes. “Amar’e felt spiritually connected to Israel and Judaism, inspired by his mother’s affinity for the religion. To prepare for his [2010] trip, Amar’e studied Hebrew with my mom. 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Give the pessimist the best toys you can afford, and give the optimist a bale of hay.” The parents followed the instructions and carefully observed the results. When they peeked in on the pessimist, they heard him complaining: “I don’t like the color of this computer. I’ll bet this calculator will break. I don’t like this game. I know someone who has a bigger toy car than this.” Across the corridor, the parents looked in the other room and saw the little optimist gleefully playing with the manure. He was giggling. “You can’t fool me. Where there’s this much hay, there has got to be a pony.” Our Torah portion this Shabbat is filled with blessings and curses. The Torah describes for us the scene that is to take place when the Children of Israel cross the Jordan River. The people are to be divided into two groups: six tribes will stand on Mount Gerizim and six on Mount Ebal. The first group will proclaim the blessings that will come from faithfulness and following G-d’s word. The second, the curses that will follow disobedience. Immediately thereafter, the Levites will proclaim them in a loud voice and the people will answer “Amen” to each of them. While it looks like there may be stark differences between the blessings and curses in our text, there are times when the contrasts may not be as differentiated as they initially seem. Oscar Wilde was correct when he wrote that there are two tragedies in life: One is not getting what one wants and the other is getting it. Too often we spend our time bemoaning what we don’t have, rather than seeing Rabbi Vernon Kurtz the blessings that have come our way. We have in our society more wealth than we could ever imagine. And I am not just talking about what we have in the bank or our 401Ks. At our command is instant communication, scientific and medical endeavors beyond anything our grandparents could have imagined, and the conveniences of transportation, cooking, cleaning and entertainment that were impossible but a few decades ago. Just think how far we have progressed technologically in but the last decade. Yet how satisfied are we? If our computer takes too long to boot up, we complain. If our cell phone loses reception, we become dissatisfied. We are always in search of upgrades. We are never satisfied with those things that we have and don’t appreciate the blessings that are ours. We may be familiar with the statement in Pirke Avot in which Ben Zoma states, “Who is rich? One who is happy with his portion,” but sometimes we don’t really understand the impact of that statement. In Jewish pietistic literature, Mussar, there is a concept of Histapkut, contentedness. A Chasid once asked Rabbi Abraham Yaakov of Sadagora about social ethics: “Since our sages say there’s no thing that does not have a place, then each person must have his own place. Then why do people sometimes feel so crowded?” The master replied, “Because each wants to occupy the place of the other.” The grass is always greener somewhere else. When we accumulate toys, wealth, almost anything of material value, we always want more. We need to internalize the lesson from the 11th century Spanish poet-philosopher Solomon Ibn Gabirol, who wrote, “Who seeks more than he needs, hinders himself from enjoying what he has. Seek what you need and give up what you need not. For in giving up what you don’t need, you learn what you really do need.” This week we commemorated 9/11 and recalled those who were murdered on that day. There have been many reflections on 9/11. I found one of them most touching. Rabbi Ron Yitzchok Eisenman of Passaic Park, N. J. wrote that a few months after 9/11 a woman who was visiting his congregation overheard the rabbi and his friends discussing the terror attack. She decided to tell them the following story: “I have just returned from a shiva home of a family that lost a father in the 9/11 attack. The man left a family of young children and one of the girls, not more than 12 or 13, was sitting silently with her sisters and mother as everyone else was gathered around them crying. Suddenly, the girl looked up and said, ‘Imma, I am happy for one thing. Remember the night before Abba went to work for the last time? You came home from a bar mitzvah and Abba said he was very thirsty. He asked whether anyone could bring him a cold glass of water with ice in it. I was the one who jumped up and brought him the water and he said to me, ‘Thank you so much Malkie; that is exactly what I needed right now.’ Imma, that was the last time I was able to do the mitzvah of Kibbud Av, respect for my father. I remember so clearly Abba’s face as he drank the water and how happy I felt that I was able to make him happy. That is the last memory I will ever have of Abba.” Rabbi Eisenman in his reflection then writes: “I will never forget that story and think about it often, especially when I have to decide if I should spend more time with my children, my wife or someone else whose company I cherish.” It is unfortunate that we only appreciate what we have when we hear these types of stories or lose the blessings that were once ours. Which twin are we, the pessimist who was never pleased with what he possessed, or the optimist who found a blessing in everything? We are two weeks away from Rosh Hashanah. We will ask for many blessings from G-d for ourselves, our families, our community, and our world. When we offer these petitions to G-d we should first appreciate what we have already been given. May it be a year of blessing for us all. 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Mon. - Sat. 9-5:30 Closed Sun. www. chicagojewishnews .com The Jewish News place in cyberspace 6 Chicago Jewish News - September 12 - 18, 2014 THE LAST STRAW A Chicago synagogue is shock ed when its longtime rabbi quits after incr easing tensions about his views on Israel and the Palestinians By Pauline Dubkin Yearwood Managing Editor Little more than a week after Rabbi Brant Rosen shocked congregants and much of the Chicago Jewish community by announcing his resignation from the Jewish Reconstructionist Congregation in Evanston, the synagogue, by all accounts, remains mired in divisiveness. The conventional wisdom, expressed on many blogs and in social media, is that Rosen’s outspoken criticism of Israel and pro-Palestinian activism made the resignation inevitable. Countering that argument is the fact that the synagogue board offered him a 10-year contract just three years ago – a time when his activism on behalf of Palestinians was already well known – and never asked him to step down. Rosen says the decision was solely his own and was born out of much anguish. One thing is clear: Few congregants, on whatever “side,” are happy, and Rosen leaves a congregation divided and badly in need of healing. A quick recap: Rosen, who has been at JRC for the last 17 years and has consistently appeared on such lists as Newsweek’s “top 25 pulpit rabbis,” began drawing attention as a public and outspoken critic of Israel around 2008 with the advent of Israel’s Gaza campaign, Operation Cast Lead. His criticism of the Jewish state and advocacy for Palestinians was sometimes strident, but was mostly confined to his personal blog, Shalom Rav. While congregants knew how he felt, he seldom spoke of such matters from the pulpit, members say, and he put a disclaimer on his writing that his views were his own and not those of the synagogue. Rosen subsequently founded and became co-chair of the rabbinical council of Jewish Voice for Peace, an organization that has harshly criticized Israel and that promotes the BDS (boycotts, divestments and sanctions) movement, which Rosen also embraces. In June he and other JVP members traveled to Detroit to encourage the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) to pass a resolution divesting from some companies that do business with Israeli companies in the West Bank. He has also marched in proPalestinian demonstrations in Chicago and was involved with a JVP group that disrupted speakers, including Mayor Rahm Emanuel, at a Jewish United Fund dinner in Chicago last month, although he did not participate in the disruptions. Of course, a rabbi espousing such views would not have lasted a month – a week – at most synagogues. But JRC is different in many ways – from its distinction as the first LEED-certified, entirely energy-efficient synagogue in the country to its reputation for supporting points of view far to the left and to the right and everywhere in between. As Joshua Karsh, president of the congregation from 2009 to 2011, put it in a Facebook post, “At JRC, Brant (Rosen) had a home in a congregation committed to the proposition that rabbis should have freedom to speak their minds – when they’re right and when they’re wrong … JRC did not limit Brant’s activism or silence him.” In fact, in 2010 the congregation put in place a formalized process for facilitating discussion on sensitive topics among members. Called Sicha – Hebrew for conversation – and based on a model devised by a Philadelphia organization whose mission is to foster dialogue on Israeli-Palestinian issues with the Jewish community, Sicha seemed to be working in bringing together congregants with disparate views for discussions, often led by trained facilitators. What happened? Rosen said he isn’t sure why the Sicha process broke down, but that he is “regretful that we did not keep this effort going. I think we weren’t as scrupulous about keeping it going as we should have been. I was very proud of the process and I think it’s a model of what congregations can and should be doing, creating real conversation on the most difficult and divisive issues,” he said in a phone conversation days after his resignation. But Marty Rosenheck, JRC’s former head of Social Action, and his wife, Kirsten D’Aurelio, who headed the Sicha Task Force from 2009 to 2012, have a different view. They say a small group of congregants, representing about 25 families out of 500, sabotaged the process. “I felt that JRC has been one of the few places within the Jewish community where all viewpoints on Israel could be heard and discussed. Look, I don’t personally agree with Brant on Israel, but he should be able to be to speak out on his beliefs, as should those who strongly support the policies of the current Israeli government, with whom I also disagree. We put the sicha process in place to enable that, to have civil discussions about difficult issues in a safe environment, so that everybody could have their voices heard whether to the left or the right,” Rosenheck wrote in an email to Chicago Jewish News. He continued, “What happened was a small group on the right was not satisfied with just having their voices heard. It became clear that what they really wanted was to shut down voices they didn’t agree with, including our rabbi’s. The sad thing is that this small group was able to make enough noise to make it untenable for the rabbi to stay on in his role. “I want to make clear that there is a misconception that our rabbi resigned because he was espousing views that most of our congregation disagreed with. The truth is that the vast majority in our congregation wanted him to stay and loved having him, which is why the Board unanimously approved a renewal of his contract only two years ago and there has been an outpouring of support for him and pleas that he reconsider his resignation,” he wrote. D’Aurelio wrote in an email to Chicago Jewish News that “(the) vocal minority is JRC’s Tea Party, acting in divisive and closed-minded ways in an otherwise progressive, inclusive com- Jewish Reconstructionist Congregation president David Tabak. munity. JRC is not an ‘Israelright-or-wrong’ congregation, and it is very misguided for these longtime congregants to expect that, as much as they may yearn for it. “The simple truth here is that the sicha process asked congregants to value community and free speech over Israel stances, and this tiny group was not willing to accept those priorities. There were several particularly vehement and obstructionist congregants who went beyond just attacking Brant; they also blocked Israel programming they disagreed with at the committee level, or tanked community-led initiatives such as a proposed moderated discussion board on Israel news events, by exploiting technicalities from the JRC bylaws,” she wrote. On one point, at least, there is agreement. The board consistently backed Rosen, synagogue president David Tabak said in a phone conversation this week. “Ultimately he really did resign for his own purposes. The way he expressed it to me was it was a matter of self-preservation for himself and his family,” he said. “JRC is a very broad-spectrum congregation,” he said. “There are people who occupy every conceivable position. Yes, there was anger and frustration, over everything from a matter of (what his) priorities were to feeling hurt by positions he took that were antithetical to (people’s) own.” But he said that while some people did leave the congregation over Rosen’s views, others joined because of those views. (Final numbers, he said, won’t be available until after the High Holidays, a time when people traditionally renew their synagogue memberships.) 7 Chicago Jewish News - September 12 - 18, 2014 Tabak said that in May a group that was dissatisfied with Rosen’s activism sent a letter to the board expressing their frustration, and an open meeting shortly afterwards took up the issues. The main one, Tabak said, was whether Rosen represented himself as the rabbi of JRC or as a private citizen in his activism, speaking and writing. Another question centered on his pastoral duties to synagogue members, which some congregants felt he was neglecting due to his increasing involvement in activism. Tabak said he felt the board laid both issues to rest. Rosen generally put a disclaimer on his writing, he said, and “the board asked that he codify that. He had to say” that he was not representing the entire congregation. “The board brought more seriousness to it. We really wanted him to say, I’m speaking as myself, and I felt he made a good effort,” he said. On the issue of pastoral care, one he said the board took very seriously, “there was confusion,” Tabak said. “We are a 500-family congregation, and the rabbi and cantor form a pastoral team. If someone received a call from the cantor and not from the rabbi some people felt the rabbi didn’t care. They didn’t know they were a team.” The congregation purchased tracking software to determine how quickly those who called received follow-up. “With so many congregants, people did sometimes slip through the cracks” but not because Rosen was neglecting his duties, he said. A former congregant, who did not want his name used, took a different view of the May meeting.. “People who supported (Rosen) came, people who complained came, and nothing really got settled,” he said. The man said he and his family were members since 1989 and became more and more disenchanted with Rosen, whom he considered a friend, as his views on the Israeli-Palestinian conflict progressed. “We really tried to deal with it. We talked about it and for a while (Rosen) and I agreed to disagree,” he said. “But over the years Brant got more and more strident. He became the rabbinical representative of Jewish Voice for Peace, and they are supporters of BDS. At that point, a lot of people said, oh boy, that’s a problem, I really don’t want to support someone who wants to boycott Israel. He got into partnership with a lot of organizations that Jews should not really be partners with – anti-Semitic organizations.” The board did ask Rosen to put a disclaimer on all his writings, the former members said, but “he is Brant Rosen, rabbi of what? Some people thought he didn’t try hard enough” to keep JRC’s name out of his writing, he said. From that point on, he said, “the congregation got increasingly alienated. There were people who agreed with him, and over the years the people who agreed with him got on the board and the people who didn’t separated themselves out.” He left the congregation, he said, “because everybody kept saying, nobody is quitting because of Brant’s behavior. I said, I’m quitting, so you can’t say that anymore.” Many others also quit eventually, he said. (Board president David Tabak said the number of families that quit is “in the 10s” but that the final figures are not yet known since many members renew just before the High Holidays.) The former member said, “This year something changed. When the Gaza war started, a lot of longtime members decided they couldn’t take it anymore. Look at his tweets – he would tweet anything that was anti-Israel, nothing in favor of Israel.” When he went to services, he said, “I felt it wasn’t about the services, it was, are you for or against him?” The former member, who has joined another synagogue, said he felt “betrayed” because Rosen’s stance was “if you support the Israelis then you don’t have ethics, you’re immoral, you’re unethical, without saying why. They’re killing babies so you’re a murderer. That’s the camp he is in, and there is no talking about it.” He said he was surprised that Rosen resigned but “thought it was the best thing he had done in years.” He said he would go back to JRC if “the congregation got itself together” but he doesn’t believe that will happen quickly. “People are throwing accusations around, people are upset,” he said. “All the people who were nice and quiet when things were going their way, now they’re starting to get mad, saying people cyberbullied him, that this small group forced him out. No, he resigned. People were looking for a change in his behavior but he decided to resign rather than change his behavior. G-d bless him, may he be unsuccessful in everything he does from this point on. (He should) go work for JVP.” His anger is not shared by most board members, Tabak, the board president, said, and Rosen’s resignation came as a surprise to board members, employees and congregants. JRC Executive Director Sharon Diaz said Rosen “is much loved by many members of the congregation” and “there was a lot of surprise” at his resignation. “This is not unique to our congregation. These conversations are going on in every congregation across the country,” she said. “The whole subject of Israel has become divisive for the whole community, and our community prides itself on having an open and honest dialogue. The rabbi’s resignation won’t really stop the dialogue.” O ne of the quieter voices in all the tumult has been Rosen’s. The letter he sent to congregants “says it all,” he said in the recent phone conversation. In that letter he expressed his sadness, reiterated that the decision to resign was his alone, and stated that “recently it has become clear that my activism has been a lightning rod for division at JRC.” There was no one event that precipitated the crisis that led to his resignation, he said. “I’ve been doing this activism for many years, and many of the things I did upset some members of the congregation. It was a cumulative effect,” he said. He described himself as “enormously sad” and said the resignation will also greatly impact his wife, Hallie, and their two sons, both now in college, who grew up at the congregation. His family supports his decision, he said. Rosen will stay on at the synagogue for another six months. He said he knows that will be uncomfortable at times, “but I want to say a proper goodbye to the members. It’s always tragic when rabbis leave abruptly, it’s traumatic for congregants. I don’t want my legacy to be characterized that way. I want to have a process over the next few months,” he said. He said he will seek another position, but not another pulpit. Rather, he plans to move professionally into activism. “I think this is one of those areas where my pastoral duties and my prophetic duties come into tension, and it’s very hard to work through it,” he said. “I love this congregation,” he added. “I will always love it regardless of what has happened. It will always occupy a special place in my heart. The last 17 years have been some of the most important of my life.” S o what’s ahead for JRC? Tabak said a search committee has been formed, but may not be looking for a rabbi right away. “The first charge of the committee is to find out what the needs of the community are, what the community wants. I don’t have any preconceived notions. I can’t think of things that would disqualify somebody (as a rabbi) right off the bat,” he said. “We will really delve into what it means to be a spiritual community that has very different views Marty Rosenheck, JRC’s former head of Social Action, and his wife, Kirsten D’Aurelio. on certain topics and how we discuss this respectfully and vigorously. That won’t change with Brant leaving.” Perhaps even more urgently, the congregation is attempting to reenergize the Sicha process with a series of programs, town hall meetings and other events. Robin Trilling, vice president for tikkun olam and chairperson of the Israel Programming Committee, is in charge of many of these efforts, including an Israel Task Force, created in October 2013 and designed to ensure balanced programming. “At our initial meeting, we began to share our thoughts about Israel/Palestine and JRC as we introduced ourselves. We had a facilitator from Jewish Dialogue (the Philadelphia-based grassroots group) at our second meeting lead and begin to teach us how to have the difficult discussions/how to stay in the room when you get uncomfortable. The goal was for the task force to model the behavior we would ultimately replicate with our JRC community. It was a very powerful experience and we decided to adopt the principles in a section on values, in what would become our programming policy,” Trilling wrote in an email. An Israel programming policy, a mission statement and the formation of an Israel Programming Committee were put in place at the June board meeting, she wrote, in a continuation of the Sicha process begun in 2010. That committee is now working on a “Conversations About Israel” series for the coming year. “We were working on this before Brant resigned and we are moving forward as planned. Our goal is to foster an environment of openness, curiosity and above all respect for all parties and points of view. Our goal is to respectfully discuss our differences as we strive to achieve mahloket l’shem shamayim – sacred disagreement,” Trilling wrote. Tabak said he thinks such entities as the Israel Programming Committee and a revitalized Sicha “can create vehicles for divergent political views on any issue to really have a respectful debate. The Sicha, we kind of dropped the ball on that. It devolved into factions. Part of this (new effort) is to codify that more at JRC, to take a more balanced, broad view of Israel and make sure there was balance throughout the year. Brant was very much in favor of that.” He pointed out, too, that there are a large number of congregants at JRC who take little interest in the politics of the Middle East but pursue many other interests at the synagogue and may have had no part in the upheaval that resulted in Rosen’s resignation. Kirsten D’Aurelio agrees. “For congregants who don’t follow the politics of Israel, this recent upheaval has robbed them of the rabbi they love for reasons that don’t play any part in their personal Jewish identity. That is very painful,” she wrote. Former president Josh Karsh noted on his Facebook post that “JRC lost a popular, inspirational, and charismatic rabbi once before. (Rabbi Arnie Rachlis, JRC rabbi from 1975 to 1992, did not return to the congregation after a year’s sabbatical.) Then, as now, the rabbi resigned, the resignation was not planned, and many members did not see it coming. They were shocked, hurt and angry.” When Rachlis resigned, congregants “despaired, believing that the rabbi was JRC. But JRC survived and, as it turned out, prospered. … We’ll survive again now and prosper too. Every great congregation is bigger than its rabbi, and conflating the two is a mistake,” he wrote. How much JRC congregants take the message to heart remains to be seen. 8 Chicago Jewish News - September 12 - 18, 2014 CHARITABLE GIVING Ameinu (847) 910-2990 Our name Ameinu, “Our People” in Hebrew reflects our organization’s progressive Zionist membership organization, dedicated to promoting a negotiated peace and to social and eco- nomic justice for all in Israel and America. As Ameinu’s Midwest affiliate, Chicago-area Ameinu, together with like-minded organizations, co-sponsors a variety of informative programs, many focusing on Israel, and others on local concerns. Chicago-area Ameinu is a long-time participant in Chicago’s Jewish Community Relations Committee (JCRC). American Friends of The Hebrew University (312) 329-0332 www.afhu.org The Hebrew University of Jerusalem was founded by Albert Einstein, Chaim Weizmann and other visionaries. Since opening its doors in 1925, The Hebrew University has contributed to Israel’s strength and educated the nation’s leaders in every field. Each year, approximately 23,000 “A Voice for Women and Children Working for peace, social justice and pluralism in Israel and America. Leon Goldwater & Lee Silverglade Co-Presidents A Voice for Israel” 10024 Skokie Blvd #224 Skokie, IL 60077 847-675-7275 office@naamatchicago.org 1001 Green Bay Road, Suite 132, Winnetka, IL 60093-1721 (847) 910-2990 Please contact us for more information or to join the thousands of women who are a part of NA’AMAT USA. MAOT CHITIM OF GREATER CHICAGO purchases the food that volunteers deliver. This kosher holiday food will feed more than 12,000 people for Rosh Hashanah 2014. To accomplish this, we need your help! We rely on the entire Jewish community to make this happen! BE A VOLUNTEER! Help us continue the tradtion that was started in 1908. Give of your time so that we can continue to help those in need celebrate the holidays in a traditional and dignified manner. Delivery Day is Sunday, September 21st Join us to pack perishables beginning at 6:00 a.m. Food package delivery will start at 9:00 a.m. Warehouse Location 3411 Woodhead Drive, Northbrook, IL Visit our website for directions. Must wear closed shoes. No one under the age of 12 permitted in the warehouse. To volunteer to pack, email our group coordinator at volunteer@maotchitim.org. For more information, call our office at 847-674-3224 or visit our website at www.maotchitim.org. MAOT CHITIM OF GREATER CHICAGO 7366 N. Lincoln Avenue • Suite 301, Dept. RHJN Lincolnwood, IL 60712 Joel H. Schneider, President Joellyn Oliff, Executive Director L’Shana Tovah students from throughout Israel and more than 70 countries choose Hebrew University for its seven academic Faculties, which include: The Humanities, Law, Science, Social Sciences, The Robert H. Smith Faculty of Agriculture, Food and Environment, Medicine, and Dental Medicine. A top-ranked institution worldwide, The Hebrew University one-third of Israel’s civilian research and has placed 12th globally in biotechnology research and patents. The university’s faculty and alumni have received seven Nobel Prizes in just one decade, and have been awarded Wolf Prizes, Israel Prizes, the Fields Medal in Mathematics, among other international honors. An incubator for talent, The Hebrew University ranks third in the number of European Research Council (ERC) grants received in support of outstanding research. Much of this research is commercialized by Yissum, Hebrew University’s technology transfer company. American Friends of The Hebrew University (AFHU) is a national, not-for-profit organization dedicated to raising awareness of, and support for, The Hebrew University of Jerusalem. Founded by the American philanthropist and business leader, Felix M. Warburg in 1925, AFHU has been a central force in Hebrew University’s rise to international prominence as an academic and research powerhouse. The largest member of an international network of Friends organizations, AFHU helps to ensure Israel’s well-being by nurturing the nation’s greatest natural resource: the intellectual strength of its people. The ARK (773) 973-1008 www.arkchicago.org Two years ago, as a single, self-employed IT consultant, Marcia* had no health insurance, but at age 31, she didn’t think she really needed it. Then she found out she had breast cancer. When she’d used up her savings on doctors’ bills, The ARK helped Marcia with her rent and utility bills, and provided medications from The ARK’s free Pharmacy. When the chemotherapy caused the typical nausea and loss of appetite, Marcia became weak and dangerously thin. A volunteer nutritionist at The ARK helped Marcia devise a special diet, and for her to receive these foods and high-protein supplements from The ARK’s Food Pantry. Now the cancer is in remission. Marcia’s doctor notes that good nutrition played a vital role in her CONTINUED O N N E X T PAG E 9 Chicago Jewish News - September 12 - 18, 2014 CHARITABLE GIVING CONTINUED F RO M P R E V I O U S PAG E treatment. “Even during the worst part, I felt like I had the stamina to get me through the treatments, because the food I was eating was helping me stay strong,” Marcia said. “And not having to constantly worry about being able to afford the food I needed to get well – that was a real blessing.” Each year, thousands of Chicagoland Jewish families find themselves in crisis because they lost a job, have no health insurance, or because of illness, divorce, or other circumstances beyond their control. The ARK provides life-saving assistance to get them back on their feet. The ARK is the Chicagoland Jewish community’s main address for caring, supportive, personalized help for whatever is needed. No matter the nature or size of the need, The ARK steps in to cover the gaps by helping with the electric or gas bill; providing medical and dental care, eyeglasses, and prescription medications; food, clothing, diapers and baby formula; mental health counseling; shelter and transitional housing for people who lose their homes; holiday meals; and a caring community. All services are provided free of charge. The ARK’s High Holiday Food Drive is now underway. More than 30 local synagogues are participating in this annual community effort to replenish the dwindling stock of the Rhea Segal Food Pantry. If yours isn’t, please urge them to join in helping fill the empty shelves. Or, donate food on your own! Thousands of your Chicagoland Jewish neighbors depend on The ARK to keep food on their tables–and The ARK depends on you to keep food on the Pantry’s shelves. Contact Diane Krugel at dkrugel@arkchicago.org or 773681-8979 for drop-off locations or more information. The ARK offers services at two locations in Chicago and Northbrook. For more information about services for yourself or someone you know, please contact Dr. Vicki Hass, Clinical Director, at 773-681-8962 or vhass@arkchicago.org. All inquiries are strictly confidential. In keeping with its mission to build bridges between volunteers and those in need, The ARK relies upon hundreds of volunteers – from physicians, dentists and lawyers to retirees SEE GIVING ON HADASSAH IS ISRAEL ISRAEL IS HADASSAH Hadassah Chicago-North Shore Chapter Joseph & Mae Gray Hadassah House 60 Revere Drive, Suite 800, Northbrook, IL 60062 Ph: 847-205-1900 Fax: 847-205-1909 Email: chicago-northshore @hadassah.org PAG E 1 0 YOUR LEGACY matters. Y ou have poured your heart and soul into this Jewish community and made a difference. Whether your greatest passion is your congregation, an organization or a day school, that commitment stands as a testament to your values. Now is the time to take the next step in making it an enduring part of your Jewish legacy. As you plan for the future, think about what your Jewish legacy means to you. And please consider the institution closest to your heart in your will or estate plan. To learn more about how to create your Jewish legacy, please contact Naomi Shapiro at 312.357.4853 or legacy@juf.org. 10 Chicago Jewish News - September 12 - 18, 2014 CHARITABLE GIVING Giving CONTINUED F RO M PAG E and schoolchildren – to provide all kinds of help. For more information about volunteering, please contact Caroline 9 Berkowitz, Director of Volunteers and Outreach, at 773-6818982 or cberkowitz@ark chicago.org Hadassah ChicagoNorth Shore Chapter (847) 205-1900 chicago-northshore@ hadassah.org Fast, free pickup—IRS tax deductible As rockets flew from Gaza and Israel commenced Operation Protective Edge, Hadassah was there. Whether in times of crisis or peace, Hadassah, The CONTINUED O N N E X T PAG E Donate Your Vehicle CAR tMOTORCYCLE tRV tTRUCK tBOAT to The ARK Help The ARK help the thousands of needy families who depend on us. Call 773-681-8978 www.arkchicago.org Scan the QR code to visit us online. Illinois Non-Profit Organization. Community Funded. JUF Grant Recipient. Join us in support of the children of Keshet Keshet Benefit Concert Ted Sperling Kelli O’Hara Nathan Gunn Julie Gunn An Afternoon Featuring Ted Sperling, Kelli O’Hara, Nathan Gunn & Julie Gunn Proceeds P roceed d s ffrom ro m tthe h e Celebration Cel ebr b ation ti 25th 25t h A Anniversary nniversary i benefit concert will improve the quality of life for those with physical disabilities. See www.otrassn.org for more information. 35.$!9/#4/"%2s0Pick Staiger Concert Hall, Northwestern University Tickets on sale at the Pick Staiger box office: www.pickstaiger.org/event/rainbow or 847-467-4000 After my diagnosis of chronic myelogenous leukemia (CML) a leukemia specialist said, “let’s try you on Gleevec®”. Saturday night Motzei Shabbos November 15 at 8:00pm Just 56 days later, following my next biopsy, I was handed a piece of paper that read: “no evidence…of the Philadelphia Chromosome*.” Thank you ICRF - Your brilliant Israeli scientists helped save my life. Rabbi Andrew R. Sklarz, Greenwich, CT Israel Cancer Research Fund is the largest organization in North America solely devoted to supporting cancer research in Israel. ICRF has provided more than 2,000 grants and approximately $50 million to outstanding cancer researchers in all of the leading research institutions, universities, and hospitals across Israel leading to the development of major cancer breakthroughs including the drugs Doxil®, Gleevec®, and Velcade®. Visit Keshet.org or call Dave Gendel, 847-205-1234 Hosted by Keshet’s Professional Leadership Board Keshet is a partner in serving our our community, supported by the Jewish United Fund/Jewish Federation. For the benefit of all mankind. For information on Israel Cancer Research Fund contact, chicago@icrfonline.org or 847.914.9120 | 790 Frontage Road, #322 | Northfield, Illinois 60093 11 Chicago Jewish News - September 12 - 18, 2014 CHARITABLE GIVING CONTINUED F RO M P R E V I O U S PAG E Women’s Zionist Organization of America, stands with Israel. Wounded soldiers receive care at our hospitals; children and families in the line of fire take refuge at our Youth Villages; members and donors rush to send much needed funds to support the well-being of our homeland. Hadassah IS Israel and Israel IS Hadassah. From our humble start in 1912, the goals, the needs and the future of Israel is what Hadassah is all about. At 330,000 members strong nationally, with 11,000 members in the Chicago area, the women and men of Hadassah embody a passion for and commitment to its partnership with the land and people of Israel. Bring your passion and join Hadassah. For Israel. For Life. Israel Cancer Research Fund (847) 914-9120 Chicago@icrfonline.org ICRF was founded in 1975 by a group of American and Canadian physicians, scientists and lay people who sought to prevent the permanent loss of Israel’s most promising cancer researchers to foreign universities due to the lack of funding (a phenomenon known to many as Israel’s “brain drain”). ICRF annually sponsors a rigorous grant review process conducted by an expert panel of U.S. and Canadian scientists and oncologists, and modeled on the NIH grant-making process. Members of this Scientific Review Panel (SRP) are respected leaders from across North America from renowned institutions such as Northwestern University’s Robert H. Lurie Cancer Center and Dana-Farber Cancer Institute. ICRF awards are granted directly to the most promising and capable Israeli cancer researchers at all of the leading (more than 20) academic and biomedical research centers throughout Israel. ICRF has funded more than $52 million in awards to Israeli cancer researchers resulting in over 2,100 fellowships, project grants, career development awards and professorships. This year 94 scientists are receiving over $3.4 million in grants from ICRF. Through the hard work of ICRF-funded scientists, cancer drugs such as Gleevec, Doxil, and Velcade were developed and have been used to treat hundreds of thousands of cancer patients worldwide. We support individuals at all of the major research institutions in Israel. ICRF-funded researchers have been making significant progress and have been able to develop improved chemotherapies, advanced techniques in bone marrow transplantation, and an enhanced understanding of tumor suppressor genes. Jewish Legacy/Chicago (312) 357-4853 legacy@juf.org Create a Jewish Legacy/ Chicago guides local Jewish schools, synagogues and other communal agencies through the challenges of building and growing endowment funds that will sustain their futures. Through seminars, marketing materials and individualized coaching, each organization gains the skills it needs to effectively secure bequests to support its fund. Part of an expanding national program operating in 15 cities, Create a Jewish Legacy/Chicago is supported by the Harold Grinspoon Foundation and an anonymous donor, and is managed by the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Chicago. Participating in the 2014 program are Am Yisrael Conservative Congregation; The ARK; Chicago Jewish Day School; Chicago Sinai Congregation; CJE SeniorLife; Hebrew Theological College; Hillel Torah North Suburban Day School; Illinois Holocaust Museum & Education Center; Jewish Child & Family Services; Keshet; North Shore Congregation Israel; North Suburban Synagogue Beth El; Oak Park Temple B’nai Abraham Zion; Solomon Schechter Day School of Metropolitan Chicago; and Temple Jeremiah. To learn more, contact Naomi Shapiro at 312.357.4853 or legacy@juf.org. Keshet (847) 205-1234 www.keshet.org Keshet is the premier provider of educational, recreational, vocational and social programs for individuals with intellectual disabilities operating according to traditional Jewish values. Keshet was founded in 1982 by a small group of Jewish parents concerned about the futures of their children with special needs, and looking for ways to provide them with a Jewish education and identity. Keshet’s goal is to enable children with disabilities to participate as fully as possible in the mainstream of community life while providing an excellent education. Woven into the fabric of everyday life, Keshet programs enrich the lives of these young people as well as those in the greater community. The following are testimonials from Keshet parents and friends that illustrate the powerful impact Keshet has had on our community: “As parents, Scott and I were more nervous about Zoe going away to overnight camp than she was. She had the time off her life! Thank you Keshet!” “Michelle can’t wait for Sundays and Keshet Buddy baseball. She loves being part of the team and has a look of pure joy on her face throughout the game. SEE GIVING ON PAG E 1 5 Lifetime Income for Retirement. And an even greater outcome for Israel, science and education. Learn why Ruth chose her plan. See a video profile: afhu.org/cga3 Sample AFHU Hebrew University Gift Annuity Single-Life Rates Age 67 70 75 80 85 90 Rate 6.2% 6.5% 7.1% 8.0% 9.5% 11.3% Rates are calculated based on a single life. Cash contributions produce partially tax-free annuity income. CALL OR EMAIL NOW. THE RETURNS ARE GENEROUS. THE CAUSE IS PRICELESS. For information on AFHU Hebrew University Gift Annuities, please call AFHU Executive Director, Midwest Region, Judith Shenkman at (312) 329-0332 or email: jshenkman@afhu.org 500 N. Michigan Avenue, Suite 1530 Chicago, IL 60611 s 877-642-AFHU (2348) afhu.org/CGA3 The Hebrew University of Jerusalem Research engine for the world. Engine of growth for a nation. 12 Chicago Jewish News - September 12 - 18, 2014 A year of loss May their memories be for blessing By Joseph Aaron Editor The Jewish year 5774, now coming to a close, was a year, more than anything, of loss. 5774 was a year in which the world became less funny. We lost Joan Rivers, whose caustic wit brought so much laughter to so many, for more than 50 years. We lost David Brenner, one of the first comedians to poke fun at life’s everyday occurrences. We lost Harold Ramis, the writer and director who brought us such classics as “Groundhog Day” and “Ghostbusters.” We lost Sid Caesar, who invented sketch comedy on TV. We lost Al Feldstein, the editor of Mad magazine whose humor delighted teenage boys for decades. And we lost Robin Williams, who called himself an “honorary Jew,” because in so many ways that is exactly what he was. 5774 was a year in which the world became less musical. We lost iconic folk singer Pete Seeger, whose songs were so full of wisdom, heart and soul. We lost Arik Einstein, the best known and most loved of all Israeli singers, whose songs captured the essence of Israeli life, expressed better than anyone or anything the nature of life in the only Jewish country on earth. 5774 was a year in which the world became less glamorous, with the passing of Lauren Bacall, born Betty Joan Perske. A year in which the world became less spiritual, with the loss of Rabbi Ovadia Yosef, the brilliant Torah scholar who by memory knew every word of literally thousands of Jewish texts. We lost Rabbi Zalman Schachter-Shalomi, the father of the Jewish Renewal movement, which sought to introduce more music, dance and meditation into prayer and Jewish life. 5774 was a year in which we lost inspiring individuals who lived very long lives. Alice Herz-Sommer, the world’s oldest Holocaust survivor, who spent the years after the war bringing the joy of music to many as a concert pianist, died at age 110. A week after her death, a documentary about her life won an Oscar. And we lost Gisela Kohn Dollinger who after Kristallnacht persuaded the Gestapo to release her husband rather than send him to a concentration camp. They fled Austria to Shanghai and while she had no children of her own, Gisela spent her life bringing joy to her many nieces, nephews and their offspring around the world. She was 111. 5774 was a year in which we lost inspiring individuals who lived much too short lives. We lost Sam SEE JOSEPH AARON ON PA G E 2 1 A true mensch, Chicagoan Philip Esformes, the father of renowned philanthropist Rabbi Morris Esformes. Actress Lauren Bacall, born Betty Joan Perske An heir to the Seagram’s beverage fortune, Edgar Bronfman was an advocate on behalf of Jewish causes. Former Israeli Prime Minister Ariel Sharon Folk singer Pete Seeger Comedian Joan Rivers Rabbi Daniel Moscowitz, director of Lubavitch Chabad of Illinois. Eight year old Chicago boy Samuel Sommers’ struggle with leukemia was documented on a popular blog by his parents, two Chicago rabbis, called “Superman Sam” Talmudic sage and former Chief Rabbi of Israel Rabbi Ovadia Yosef Kidnapped on their way home from yeshiva, Naftali Fraenkel, Gilad Shaar and Eyal Yifrach were brutally murdered.. 13 Chicago Jewish News - September 12 - 18, 2014 Rosh Hashanah Food A honey of a holiday meal “Apples and …” is just the start of its versatility By Eileen Goltz Food Editor namon, butter or margarine and vanilla and mix until the butter is melted. Whisk in the eggs, then fold in the nuts. Pour the nut mixture into pie shell and sprinkle pecan and cashew halves on top. Bake 30 to 40 minutes or until the center is set. Best served warm or at room temperature. Serves 8. Honey Maple Pecan Chicken Is September National (Meat) Honey Month because the High Holidays always seem to fall somewhere in September or is it just a happy coincidence? No matter what the answer this, is the perfect time to explore that wonderful liquid nectar that our ancestors prized so highly as the perfect food to ensure a sweet new year. The logistics of honey is astounding. Of the typical 50,000 or so bees in a hive they can log in visits to over a million flowers to gather enough nectar to make a pound of honey. The honey of every hive is special and dependant on the types of flora they visit. I’ve been told that there are more than 300 types of honey and the lighter honeys are milder and darker honeys tend to have a stronger flavor. One thing you should know is that all honey will crystallize in time, but when you’re shopping for it you should know that there are lots of ways you can get your honey fix and serve it with apples. Comb honey is honey in its original form, and yes the comb is edible. A cut comb is honey with chunks of the comb in the jar. Liquid honey is strained from the comb. Crystallized honey is exactly what it sounds like. One of my favorite and hardest to find treats is whipped (creamed) honey. This is a spreadable honey that is soooooo delicious that when I find it I don’t share. What I do share are these special recipes that will enhance any holiday meal. Bee My Honey Mixed Nut Pie (Dairy or Parve) 1 cup honey 3 eggs, beaten 3 tablespoons butter or margarine 1 teaspoon vanilla 1 cup pecans, chopped 1/2 cup slivered almonds 1/2 cup cashews, chopped 1 pinch cinnamon 1/2 cup pecan and cashew halves for topping 1 ready-made deep dish pie crust Preheat oven to 350°. Pour the honey into a sauce pan and bring it to a boil. (Honey boils quickly so watch it closely.) Remove from heat and add the cin- 8 skinless, boneless chicken breasts 1/4 cup maple syrup (use the real stuff, not the fake stuff) 2 cups chopped pecans 1/4 cup plus 2 tablespoons flour 2 teaspoons salt 1/4 cup butter or margarine 2 tablespoons oil In a bowl combine the pecans, flour and salt. Brush the chicken breasts on both sides with maple syrup and then roll (coat) the chicken breasts with the flour/nut mixture. In a large skillet melt the butter and oil. Cook until the chicken is browned on both sides, 7 to 8 minutes each side. Serves 8. Submitted by Carin Ogilvie, Baltimore Honey Salmon With Corn Salsa (Fish) For the salsa: 1 1/2 cups corn 2 tomatoes, peeled, seeded and chopped 1 Spanish onion, minced 2 tablespoons olive oil 1 tablespoon red wine vinegar 1/2 teaspoon salt 1/4 teaspoon ground pepper 1/4 teaspoon hot sauce 2 tablespoons chopped parsley For the salmon: 2/3 cup honey 2 teaspoons + 1 tablespoon balsamic vinegar 1 tablespoon plus 2 teaspoons oil 8 salmon fillets with skin intact, each 6 to 8 ounces Salt and pepper to taste In a large bowl, combine the corn kernels, tomatoes, onion, olive oil, red wine vinegar, salt, pepper and hot sauce. Mix to combine. Cover and refrigerate for at least 1 hour but no more than 12 hours before you want to serve it. Stir in the parsley just before serving. In a small saucepan combine the honey, balsamic vinegar and 1 tablespoon oil and bring to a boil, then reduce the mixture to a simmer. Cook, stirring to prevent burning, for about 3 minutes. In a skillet heat the remain- ing oil. Season the salmon with salt and pepper and place, skin side down, in the pan. Brush the We cater for all occasions tops generously with the honey mixture and cook for 5 minutes. Turn the salmon over and brush again with the honey mixture. 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Hedy specializes in dementia care, and has extensive experience working with families and elderly patients. Recently, Hedy interviewed Rabbi Raphael Jaworowski, Chaplain and Senior Center Coordinator of the Chicago Mitzvah Campaign on the topic of upcoming holidays and their meaning, message and inspiration as it relates to seniors. Q Rosh Hashanah can be an especially meaningful time for older adults. Why does this holiday hold so much meaning for people? A Rosh Hashanah means “Head of the Year.” Aside from the translation of “year”, the word “shanah” is closely related to two other words – one is “repetition” and the other is “change.” This shows that when we reach important milestones in our lives – whether it be a significant birthday, anniversary, or New Year – we always have two opposing drives that we need to juggle and bring into harmony. 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So Rosh Hashanah brings together the idea of continuity while at the same time being innovative and dynamic. Seniors have long memories and they want to keep their traditions alive, while at the same time bringing new energy to the holiday and to their lives. After all, if we don’t keep cultivating aspirations to learn new things or take on new resolutions, things may become stale and we may experience a sense of stagnation. Q Why is it important for older people in particular to keep the holiday traditions alive? A The truth is that the holiday traditions, like every part of Judaism, are just as important, necessary and enriching for older individuals as they are for the younger generations. And in some respects it may be even more important for older people to keep their holiday traditions alive, as this helps them keep up their connection with the community, which may be of tremendous benefit. It is true that “no man is an island” and we take that to heart especially during the holidays. In general, this community aspect is one of the most important benefits of the tradition, as it helps us all to remain connected to our families, to our local communities, and to our people as a whole. And seniors should know that as individuals, they are just as an important part of the community as are younger adults and children! We value their experience and cherish their participation and input in celebrating the traditions together. Q What can seniors do to retain their traditions if they are not close to family and/or may not have the opportunity or ability to travel to see them during the holidays? A I think that wherever we are in life, we have to make it a priority to carry our own traditions with us and try to make them part of our lives. Generally, when we are young we receive our traditions from the older generation, but as we become adults, we are the ones who have the responsibility to carry the traditions forward on our own, and the younger generation learns that from us. Now fortunately, for older adults who live in a senior living community, it can be much easier for people to keep their traditions alive. Even though they may not be with their own family, the seniors are still living within a community of fellow Jewish people and staff members who provide structured programs and celebrations. In contrast, for seniors who are home alone, it can certainly be very challenging during the holidays. Thankfully though, many local synagogues do try to reach out to homebound seniors. For every Jewish holiday the Chicago Mitzvah Campaign sends out dozens of volunteers to visit hospital patients, nursing home residents and homebound seniors, bringing them traditional food and the opportunity to celebrate the holiday in a joyous and meaningful way. People can always contact us and our Rabbis and Mitzvah volunteers will be more than happy to come out and celebrate with them. Q Forgiveness and reflection are a part of the holidays – these can be difficult to think about for seniors – do you have any suggestions on how to make this more positive or meaningful for them? A As we age we reflect on our lives and look for the greater meaning to life, and forgiveness is an important part of that. It is important to be able to let go of the little things, the day-to-day offenses and annoyances. I would add that most things are “little things.” Still, forgiveness may be the most difficult and the most important thing to ask for and to give. But there is great power in forgiveness. We all need to be willing to grant forgiveness to others, because it brings us healing and because the way we treat other people is the way in which G-d will treat us. If we forgive others, then G-d will forgive us. It may be difficult, but it is a guarantee that He has given us. 15 Chicago Jewish News - September 12 - 18, 2014 Giving CONTINUED F RO M PAG E 11 Thank you Keshet!” “This was the first Special Olympics Yosef attended. We were so proud of him and so grateful for the encouragement he has been given by Keshet.” “Having a friend within Keshet has allowed me to open my eyes and recognize different talents and strengths within different individuals.” “One of the aspects we love about Keshet is its seamless integration between special and typical kids. The Keshet summer camps are the only time during the year where our special son gets on the same bus as his typical sibling and they go to the same place. Keshet programs give them this wonderful opportunity to have fun together, as siblings.” “GADOL took my sister in, and gave her a place to work, to play, to grow, to learn and to thrive. My sister has enjoyed making new friends, learning new work skills, art and drama activities, and has even participated in a book club and exercise activities. None of this would have happened outside of GADOL’s nurturing environment, with the support of excellent directors and staff.” Maot Chitim of Greater Chicago (847) 674-3224 www.maotchitim.org For more than 100 years, Maot Chitim of Greater Chicago has been serving our community. We purchase kosher holiday food (no food is donated) for Passover and Rosh Hashanah. Volunteers pack and distribute this food which enables 24,000 needy Jews including elderly, children, homebound, those with special needs, and others who are perhaps the most vulnerable in our community to celebrate the holidays in a traditional and dignified manner. Maot Chitim provides a unique opportunity for the entire Jewish community to come together to perform a great mitzvah. Families come together, along with individuals from all segments of the community; they gather and unite to work in the spirit of Judaism, realizing how necessary we all are to one another. It is more important than ever that Maot Chitim is able to help all those that need our help, especially during these challenging economic times. Maot Chitim’s ability to make it possible for the community to perform this great mitzvah is dependent upon the generosity of those who support us both financially and by vol- unteering to help pack and deliver the holiday food. Voice for Israel.” Your voice needs to be heard. NA’AMAT USA (847) 675-7275 office@naamatchicago.org Over the Rainbow (847) 328-6633 www.otrassn.org For more than 90 years, NA’AMAT USA has had one mission: to support the women and children of Israel. To accomplish this mission, NA’AMAT – through its sister organization in Israel - provides a broad range of social services, from day care centers to domestic violence shelters; from legal aid to technological high schools for at-risk teens. NA’AMAT has services and facilities in communities throughout the country, from Kiryat Shemona in the north, to Eilat in the south. Join the thousands of women who are a part of NA’AMAT USA. Be a part of “A Voice for Women and Children, A Over The Rainbow Association is dedicated to increasing the quality of life for people with physical disabilities through the creation of affordable, barrier-free housing solutions that encourage independence. Our residents cope with a wide variety of physical disabilities arising from either birth or circumstance. Some have cerebral palsy, muscular dystrophy, spina bifida or multiple sclerosis, while others are wounded veterans, have had strokes or have had diving or car accidents, leaving them paralyzed or without limbs. In all of these cases, our residents have one thing in common – they are extremely low income, have no independent source of funds, and have difficulty fully engaging in the work force because of their disability. Consequently, they cannot afford market-rate housing, let alone find accessible housing to accommodate their wheelchairs. While some of our residents were homeless at one point, a significant number have come from state-funded nursing homes or institutions, although none of them wanted or needed to be there any longer. Further, the cost for you as a taxpayer to support these institutions is astounding. The annual cost to house one person in a state-funded nursing home is about $143,000 while our housing costs just $33,000. Today, we own and/or manage seven apartment communi- ties in Chicago and the metropolitan area. With respect to our Future Housing Program, we are proud to share that we are opening an eighth apartment community this month, a ninth in early 2015, and a tenth in early 2016. These additional communities will create another 97 units, which means we are doubling the number we serve. We also offer a Resident Services Program for all our properties. Our objective is to help residents navigate and utilize existing community resources that affect quality of life and encourage independence, and in some cases, help meet basic needs to maintain housing. In 2014, we are continuing several initiatives designed to broaden the reach of this program, including wheelchair clinics, community gardening, a volunteer program, and isolation prevention. 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Weinberg Community for Senior Living 1551 Lake Cook Road Deerfield, IL 60015 | www.cje.net CJE SeniorLife™ is a partner in serving our community, supported by the Jewish United Fund/Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Chicago. 759.8.2014 16 Chicago Jewish News - September 12 - 18, 2014 H I G H H O L I D AY High Holiday Services SYNAGOGUE FOCUS at NORTHWESTERN Understanding Shmita, Israel’s agricultural Shabbat Join friends, family, and a warm and welcoming community as we celebrate the start of 5775 with engaging and uplifting Reform, Conservative, and Orthodox services for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. By Ben Sales JTA ✡ Any college student: FREE (with ID) ✡ Young Adult: $100 ✡ General Adult: $225 ✡ NU Faculty/ staff: $180 ✡ Child: $18 Buy your tickets today! www.nuhillel.org 847-467-4455 When Rosh Hashanah comes later this month, Israel’s Jewish farmers won’t just be celebrating the start of a new year. They’ll be marking a year in which they are prohibited from doing their jobs. Called Shmita, the Torahmandated, yearlong farming hiatus is felt across Israel, affecting its fields, supermarkets and, of course, its politics. The genesis of Shmita is Exodus, which commands the Israelites, “Plant your land and gather its produce for six years. A Thai worker picking decorative flower leaves on the Kibbutz Sde Nitzan flower farm, near Israel's border with the Gaza Strip. (JTA) A vibrant, diverse, of A vibrant, diverse,caring caringcommunity community of Reform ReformJews Jewscommitted committed to lifelong lifelong Jewish worship. Jewishliving, living, learning learning, and and worship. Rabbi RabbiMichael Michael A. A. Weinberg Weinberg RJE, Director Director of of Lori B. B. Sagarin, Sagarin, RJE, Congregational Congregational Learning Learning Temple Beth Israel Marla MarlaAviva Aviva Bentley, Bentley Music Director Music Director A warm, welcoming, and diverse Reform congregation. We invite you to join our Temple Beth Israel family. 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Dempster Street, Skokie • 847-675-0951 • www.tbiskokie.org Ezra-Habonim, the Niles Township Jewish Congregation L’Shana Tova 5775 High Holidays start September 24th. vcuy vba Tickets are available. Join Rabbi Jeffrey Weill and Cantor Benjamin Warschawski as we celebrate the High Holidays. The public is welcome to attend our Selichot service on Saturday, Sept. 20th at 9:30 p.m. HIG H HO WE’L BON LIDAY L CR US FEE EDIT YO : S* TO U 2015 R TICKET DUES *Non-member ticket fee For schedule and information visit our website at www.ehnt.org or call 847-675-4141. Ezra-Habonim, the Niles Township Jewish Congregation 4500 Dempster Street, Skokie, IL 60076 • 847-675-4141 • www.ehnt.org But on the seventh let it lie fallow and it will rest …” Other biblical mandates prohibit planting, trimming or harvesting crops during Shmita, amounting to a total prohibition on farming. In advance of Shmita, which takes place every seventh year, here are seven things you should know about Israel’s sabbatical year. What is Shmita? According to the Torah mandates, the Shmita year is something like an agricultural Shabbat. Just like everyone is commanded to rest for a day at the end of every week, Shmita is a chance to let the land rest for a year after six years of work. It’s easy to calculate when Shmita comes around: Start from year zero in the Jewish calendar – that would be 5,775 years ago – and count off every seven years; this is Israel’s 466th Shmita. The concept of the sabbatical year has spread to academics and clergy, many of whom receive sabbaticals to travel and study. And the root of the word “shmita” has found contemporary usage in Hebrew. Israelis use the word “mishtamet” to refer to someone who dodged mandatory military conscription. How was Shmita observed in the past? Because the commandment applies only in the biblical land of Israel, it became largely theoretical once the Jews were exiled by the Roman Empire after the Bar Kochba revolt in 136 C.E. Generations of Jewish farmers in Europe, the Middle East and elsewhere had no religious imperative to let the land rest. But once Jews started returning to Palestine in the 1880s and founding kibbutzim, Shmita again became relevant – and problematic. At a time when Jewish farmers were struggling just to keep their farms viable, a year of no production would have been a deathblow. To skirt that problem, rabbis in Israel created something called the “heter mechirah,” or sale permit – similar to the before Passover. The permit allowed Jewish farmers to “sell” their land to local non-Jews for a token amount, then hire nonJews to do the forbidden labor. That way, because it wasn’t “their” land, Jews could keep their farms going without sin. How is Shmita observed in contemporary Israel? As Israel’s population and agricultural sector expanded, so too has the hand-wringing over Shmita. Here are some of the Jewish legal acrobatics they use to get around it. The sale permit: Israel’s Chief Rabbinate allows every farm to register for a sale permit like those allowed in the 1880s, and the Rabbinate “sells” all the land to a non-Jew for about $5,000 total, according to Rabbi Haggai Bar Giora, who oversaw Shmita for Israel’s Chief Rabbinate seven years ago. At the end of the year, the Rabbinate buys back the land on the farmers’ behalf for a similar amount. Bar Giora chose a non-Jewish buyer who observes the seven Noahide laws – the Torah’s commandments for non-Jews. Greenhouses: Shmita only applies if the crops are grown in the land itself. Therefore, growing vegetables on tables disconnected from the land steers clear of violating the commandment. Religious courts: Farmers aren’t allowed to sell their crops, but if crops began growing before Shmita started, people are allowed to take them for free. So CONTINUED O N N E X T PAG E 17 Chicago Jewish News - September 12 - 18, 2014 H I G H H O L I D AY SYNAGOGUE FOCUS CONTINUED F RO M P R E V I O U S PAG E through another legal mechanism, a Jewish religious court will hire farmers to harvest the produce and the religious court will sell it. But you won’t be paying for the produce itself; you’re only paying for the farmer’s labor. You get the produce for “free.” Wink. Nudge. Not observing Shmita: Most large-scale Israeli farmers use a sale permit in order to obtain rabbinic certification for their crops, Bar Giora says. But some small, nonreligious farmers who sell their produce independently ignore the sabbatical year completely and do not receive kosher certification. What happens to fruits, vegetables and other plants that grow on their own during Shmita? Just like Jewish environmentalists can connect to the idea of letting the land rest, social justice-minded Jews can appreciate that whatever grows on the land during Shmita is, in theory, supposed to be free for anyone, especially the poor. When Shmita is first mentioned in Exodus, the Torah says the crops should be for “the poor of your nation, and the rest for wild animals.” But given that almost all farmers in Israel get around Shmita in one way or another, walking onto a farm looking for a free lunch is ill advised. How does Shmita affect you if you’re not a farmer? Because all kosher-certified produce cannot violate Shmita, Israelis shopping in major grocery stores and outdoor markets don’t have to worry about Shmita. But religious Jews – and businesses – that don’t trust the legal loopholes just buy their produce from non-Jewish farmers in Israel. An organization called Otzar Haaretz, or Fruit of the Land, seeks to support Jewish farmers specifically and is organizing farmers who use religious courts and the greenhouse method to sell to supermarkets in Israel. Customers who wish to buy from Otzar Haaretz can pay a monthly fee to get a discount on its produce. Shmita has an impact beyond the produce stands, too. Mickey Gitzin, founder of the religious pluralism organization Be Free Israel, says that while the “the idea that the land should rest” is a positive one, Shmita can have a negative effect on public parks. As public property, the parks cannot be sold to a non-Jew. And because they remain under Jewish ownership, some public community gardens don’t receive care during Shmita. What does this mean for Jews outside of Israel? Although they’re not obligated to observe Shmita, Jews outside of Israel have found ways Wishes for A Peaceful NewYear 5775 from Congregation Kol Emeth Join us for High Holiday & Year-Round Services, Programs and Classes Congregation Kol Emeth 5130 W. Touhy Ave., Skokie IL 60077 (2 blocks west of Edens Expressway) 847/673-3370 office@kolemethskokie.org www.kolemethskokie.org of commemorating the year. At Hazon, a Jewish sustainability organization, the Shmita Project aims to engage in a study of the textual sources of Shmita and develop programs to mark the year without letting the land lie completely fallow. Another group, the Shmitta Association, has purchased a grid of 4-square-foot plots of land in Israel that Jews abroad can purchase for $180 and then let lie idle, enabling them to observe Shmita without being an Israeli or a farmer. What does this have to do with the Israeli-Palestinian conflict? Because they don’t want to buy from Jewish farmers during Shmita, some haredi Orthodox Jews buy from Palestinian West Bank farms. But during the past couple of Shmita cycles, there has been backlash against buying Palestinian-grown produce. Jerusalem Post columnist David Weinberg urged Israelis to avoid supporting Palestinian farms. “Primary reliance on Arab produce is neither realistic nor acceptable for health, nationalistic and religious reasons,” he wrote. During the Shmita year that began in 2007, Israel’s health and agriculture ministries said there was no elevated risk to eating produce grown in the Palestinian territories. Beth Shalom B’nai Zaken E.H.C. 6601 S. Kedzie Ave. Chicago, IL 60629 Rabbi Capers C. Funnye Our best wishes for a uc,f, vcuy vbak Happy and Prosperous New Year A Temple in the liberal Reform tradition invites Chicago Sinai Congregation you to join us for HIGH HOLY DAYS SERVICES our 2014 High Holy Rosh Hashanah Eve Wednesday, September 24, 8 pm Days community worship services at Fourth Presbyterian Church located at Delaware Place & Michigan Avenue. Rosh Hashanah Day Thursday, September 25, 11 am Kol Nidre Service Friday, October 3, 8 pm Yom Kippur Service Saturday, October 4, 11 am Memorial/Yizkor Service, 1 pm Cards will be available during regular business hours at the Temple through Wednesday, September 24. The Temple office will be open on September 8, 9, 10, 11, 15, 16, 17, 18, 22 and 23 until 7:00 pm. On Sunday, September 14 and 21, and Wednesday, September 24 the office will be open from 9 am to 1 pm. 15 W. Delaware Place • Chicago • 60610 • 312.867.7000 Worship for Families with Special Needs This multisensory Rosh HaShanah worship service will include music, prayers, healthy snacks, and a story geared for individuals with special needs and their family and friends. Learn more Scan this QR code to watch a video about our Worship for Families with Special Needs (or you can check it out at www.templejeremiah.org/ highholydays). Rosh HaShanah (Day 1) Thursday, Sept. 25, 2014, 3 p.m. at Temple Jeremiah 937 Happ Road, Northfield Free and open to the public If possible, please RSVP to Caren at ceb994@gmail.com. Rabbi Barry Schechter Part of Chicagoland’s Jewish Community for almost 50 years For more information on Temple Jeremiah, including our other High Holy Day worship opportunities, please visit our website at www.templejeremiah.org. 18 Chicago Jewish News - September 12 - 18, 2014 Rosh Hashanah Food WELCOME TO THE SKOKIE CLUB! MAIN STREET • SKOKIE SKOKIE CLUB OPEN TO4741 THE PUBLIC DAILY from 4:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. DINE-IN We thank you, our guests, for your continued support! ~ Nick & George Join us for ROSH HASHANAH DINNER 2 DAY FEATURED MENU Tender beef brisket Oven roasted chicken Lake Superior whitefish ALL ENTREES INCLUDE matzo ball soup, salad, potatoes, veggies, and dessert. FOR EACH TABLE complimentary gefilte fish, chopped liver, and one glass of wine per adult. Two seatings 4:30 & 6:30 Adults $34.95 • Children $16.95 RESERVATIONS REQUESTED • CALL 847-673-9393 FOR COMPLETE MENU and MORE SPECIALS go to SKOKIECLUB.COM Honey CONTINUED F RO M PAG E 13 brushing with the honey mixture, until the salmon is glazed and opaque throughout, 5 to 7 minutes more. Serve with the salsa. Serves 8. Modified from WilliamsSonoma Outdoors Series, “Beach House Cooking” by Charles Pierce. In the bowl of a food processor or blender combine all ingredients. Process to combine. Great drizzled over a fruit salad or sliced melons. Makes 1 1/2 cups. Honey Lime Fruit Salad Dressing (Parve) Mexican Chopped Salad With Honey-Lime Dressing (Dairy) 1/2 cup fresh lime juice 1 cup honey 2 teaspoons grated lime peel Salad: 2 1/2 cups chopped romaine lettuce FRESH PRODUCE, DELI, MEATS and EUROPEAN IMPORTS We carry th largest se e lection of foods fo r your Rosh Hash anah Dinne rs! 4034 W. Dempster Skokie, IL 60076 Phone: (847) 933-0900 Fax: (847) 933-9147 1 15.5 ounce can black beans, rinsed and well drained 3/4 cup chopped seeded tomato 3/4 cup chopped peeled jicama 3/4 cup fresh corn kernels, uncooked (or frozen or canned) 3/4 cup thinly sliced radishes ½ ripe avocado, diced 1 red bell pepper, chopped 1/4 cup crumbled reduced-fat feta cheese Honey-Lime Dressing: 1/4 cup fresh lime juice 1/4 cup olive oil 2 tablespoons honey 2 tablespoons finely chopped fresh cilantro 1 garlic clove, peeled and minced 1 teaspoon chopped jalapeño pepper (use canned for less heat) Toss all salad ingredients in a large bowl. In separate bowl, mix dressing ingredients. Pour dressing over mixture and toss again. Season with salt and pepper to taste. Serves 4-6. Modified from SELF magazine, July 2003. Honey Sesame Salmon (Fish) 1 1/2 pounds salmon filet, cut into 4 pieces 5 tablespoons sesame oil 3 tablespoons rice wine vinegar 3 tablespoons soy sauce 4 1/2 teaspoons honey 4 teaspoons sesame seeds 1/2 teaspoon Chinese five-spice powder 2 teaspoons minced garlic 2 slices (1/4 inch thick) peeled fresh ginger 2 green onions, sliced thin Lime wedges, for serving Rinse the salmon under cold running water, then drain and blot dry with paper towels. Combine 3 tablespoons of the sesame oil, the rice wine, soy sauce, honey, sesame seeds and fivespice powder in a large bowl and whisk to blend. Stir in the garlic, ginger, salmon and green onions and toss to coat, then cover and let marinate in the refrigerator for 30 minutes to 1 hour. Using a slotted spoon, transfer the salmon from the marinade to a bowl and toss it with the remaining 2 tablespoons of sesame oil. Pour the marinade into a saucepan. Using the slotted spoon, remove and discard the garlic, ginger, and green onions. Bring the marinade to a boil over medium-high heat and cook, uncovered, until it is a thick, syrupy glaze, about 3 minutes. Remove from the heat and set aside. Grill the salmon on a hot, greased grill or grill pan for 4 to 5 minutes per side. Brush the salmon with the glaze as it cooks. Transfer to serving plates or a platter and serve with lime wedges. Serves 4. 19 Chicago Jewish News - September 12 - 18, 2014 Point of View Standing strong with Israel By Seth Jackier As the conflict between Israel and Hamas escalated, I found myself glued to my phone, following the news 24/7. I grew increasingly frustrated with the media coverage that portrayed Israel as the villainous aggressor and the terrorists as freedom fighters. I firmly supported Israel from afar – but I felt an overwhelming need to do more. So when the American Technion Society arranged a Solidarity Delegation to Israel, my only choice was to go. This intense trip included meetings with Technion professors, discussions with executives from defense industry stalwarts Rafael and Elbit Systems, and briefings with Israeli thought leaders such as Michael Oren, former ambassador of Israel to the U.S. We were also afforded opportunities to visit wounded soldiers at Tel Hashomer hospital, to see an Iron Dome installation, and to meet student reservists and ordinary Israelis living under the threat of terror tunnels and rocket fire. Our visit to a military cemetery where just two weeks earlier 20,000 Israelis came to mourn the loss of a single “lone soldier,” Sgt. Sean Carmeli from Texas, was incredibly moving. The student reservists we met shared their stories of being called up to service. One minute they are studying for final exams and, within 12 hours of being called up, they are reunited with their units and defending their country. During ceasefires, they would come right back to campus to continue their studies. This puts an incredible academic and psychological strain on these students, and I commend the Technion and other Israeli universities for the overwhelming support they provide to their reservists. During our visit to the Technion campus, the incredible world-improving technology being created in Israel was on full display. Those who pursue boycotts of Israeli products have no idea how much they benefit from Israeli research and technology. A true boycott would mean no longer using cell phones or many other modern technologies. Boycotters would also not have access to the most advanced therapies for cancer or to breakthrough medical technology such as ReWalk, which allows paraplegics to walk. The consistent message we heard from Israelis during our visit was this: “Please learn the facts. And once you do, please let the world know the truth about Israel and about this confrontation.” Technion President Peretz Lavie echoed the sentiments of many Israelis we met with his poignant comment, “It’s like black is white and night is day. The truth does not seem to matter any more to the outside world.” I would thus like to share just a few truths either misrepresented or disgracefully ignored by world governments and the world press. I encourage you to not take my word for it, but to research this information for yourself. 1) Hamas’ charter calls for death to all Jews, and the annihilation of Israel. It also forbids making a lasting peace with Israel. Like ISIS, Hamas’ charter calls for the establishment of an Islamic Caliphate the region. 2) When Israel unilaterally left Gaza in 2005, it left behind hundreds of working greenhouses and related infrastructure. Instead of utilizing these assets to provide food and jobs for Palestinians, they were summarily destroyed. Similarly, Hamas prohibits its citizens from utilizing an Israeli field hospital on the Gaza border, which was built during the current conflict solely to care for wounded Palestinians. 3) Hamas used international aid to build a multitude of terror tunnels to infiltrate Israeli towns and kibbutzim. According the IDF, the money spent on a single terror tunnel could have built 86 homes, 6 schools, or 19 badly needed medical clinics. Its militants hide in these tunnels, but civilians are not allowed in. Cynically, Hamas has not built a single bomb shelter to protect its citizens. Hamas’ political leaders live in comfort in Qatar, and are believed to have amassed multibillion dollar personal fortunes largely siphoned from international aid. 4) Israel established a field hospital on its Northern border to care for Syrian civilians wounded in that country’s civil war. Even though Israel is not involved in this fight, it is committed to healing its casualties. Israel regularly sends elite teams of doctors and trauma specialists to natural disaster crisis zones such as Haiti and the Philippines. 5) Israel is a pluralistic democracy providing equal protections for Arabs, women, and its vibrant LGBT community. In fact, the most recent valedictoSEE STRONG ON PAG E 2 0 WHOM DO WE THANK FOR IRON DOME? Thank the Technion. As recently seen, Israel’s Iron Dome can intercept and destroy missiles – and save lives. In terms of capabilities, speed and accuracy, there is no system like it anywhere in the world. It was developed at Rafael Advanced Defense Systems, whose CEO says, “We couldn’t have done it without Technion graduates…some 80 percent of our engineering force are Technion graduates.” Q And there are many more breakthroughs at the Technion-Israel Institute of Technology. As one of the world’s leading universities in science, technology and medicine, the Technion is a major source of innovation. The brainpower of its graduates helps drive the Israeli economy and contributes to the health and security of people in Israel and around the world. Q The American Technion Society consists of thousands of people in the United States who support the Technion. Please join us and help make the next generation of Technion breakthroughs possible. For more information, visit www.ats.org/IronDome or call 312.553.2222. American Technion Society | Chicago Chapter 111 W. Washington Street, Suite 1220, Chicago, IL 60602-3471 P: 312.553.2222 | E: joy@ats.org www.ats.org 20 Chicago Jewish News - September 12 - 18, 2014 Strong CONTINUED F RO M PAG E 19 rian of the Technion’s Medical School is an Israeli Arab woman. Such equal rights do not exist in Gaza or the West Bank. 6) Israel is a world leader in environmental stewardship and conservation. It recycles 75% of its wastewater, the highest percentage in the world. Israel has developed leading technologies in drip irrigation and water desalinization and has helped California address its sig- nificant issues with drought. The Israelis we met, who are putting their own lives and the lives of their children on the line, are overwhelmingly unified in their knowledge that they are fighting for their very existence and for a way of life against an ideological enemy that will never accept Jews living in Israel or anywhere on earth. Palestinian leaders proudly proclaim, “We love death more than you love life.” Well, they have one thing right: Israelis do love life. Despite enduring constant rocket fire from Gaza, the people of this tiny state of Israel are living their lives with amazing resilience as they continue to provide knowledge, technological advancement, and Tikun Olam to the world. As our war weary guide lamented, “With this too, we must go on.” Seth Jackier is a finance professional in the Chicago area. 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They don’t want to see cars on Shabbos, especially in a holy place like Yerushalayim.” Residents of the new development can expect the perks of a car-free Shabbat to continue throughout the whole week: “There’ll be no retail, no noise, and a tunnel from the main road to underneath. From the parking area you’ll go in an elevator straight into your apartment. There won’t be cars anywhere at all in the area. Out of the 5 acres, only 1.5 is buildings, the rest is greenery, and lots of stone and arches – just amazing.” Built on the site of the historic Schneller army base, and surrounded by nine historical buildings, the location was an instant grab for Waldman, who has purchased his own apartment in the development to use during his frequent stays. “It’s the best location in the whole world for an Orthodox Jew. Every Jew wants to be in Israel, and Yerushalayim is the best of the best. Merom Yerushalayim is right at the heart of the Orthodox neighborhoods. It’s a beautiful site.” The site also had a personal tie for Waldman’s business partner and “best friend,” Chicagoan Eric Rothner. “He actually studied at yeshiva about a block away, around 50 years ago when he came here from Chicago. So for him it symbolizes the closing of a circle.” Yossi Waldman and other representatives of Merom Yerushalyim will be in Chicago from Sept. 11 to 15. To arrange for a private appointment, call Waldman at (347) 424-5431. 4 NEVER USED GRAVES @ Shalom Shalom/ Hebron XI Best & Final Offer $3200.00 each Inclusive of deed & endowments 1 Grave @ Memorial Park, Gan M’Nucha $3900.00 Larry – 847-778-6736 openspacesltd@yahoo.com 4 Cemetery Plots Available Shalom Memorial Park Prime Location: Garden Of Eden Vl Listed For $6800 ea. Asking $4000 ea. Contact Dan Snyder 847-564-1220 Shalom Memorial Park Carmel Section 2 side by side plots $7500 or best offer for both Call Harold (847) 599-1944 Yossi Waldman, left, with Chicagoan Eric Rothner at one of their developments in Israel. 21 Chicago Jewish News - September 12 - 18, 2014 By Joseph Aaron CONTINUED F RO M PAG E 12 Berns who died at 17 of “old age,” suffering from progeria, a rare disease that rapidly increases the aging process. He spent his life lecturing on the joys of life, always maintained a positive outlook. We lost Samuel Sommers, an eight year old Chicago boy whose struggle with leukemia was documented on a popular blog by his parents, two Chicago rabbis, called “Superman Sam.” And we lost Naftali Fraenkel, Gilad Shaar and Eyal Yifrach, three teens who were kidnapped on their way from yeshiva and brutally murdered. It was a year in which we lost Ariel Sharon, the amazing soldier who saved Israel from defeat during the Yom Kippur War, and the courageous prime minister who both built the security wall that put an end to terrorist acts from the West Bank, and who, despite being the godfather of the settlement movement, completely evacuated Gaza, believing it a step toward peace. And a year in which we lost Andrew Madoff, the younger son of jailed Ponzi schemer Bernie Madoff. He died of cancer at age 48. It was Andrew who tipped authorities off to what his father was doing. Both of Bernie Madoff’s sons have died since he was jailed in 2009. Mark Madoff committed suicide in 2010 at the age of 46. 5774 was a year in which we lost a shining example of courage and allegiance to Judaism. Steven Sotloff was a journalist who went to some of the world’s most dangerous places so he could tell the world about what was going on there. He was beheaded by the jihadist group ISIS. It was only after his death that he learned he was a dual American-Israeli citizen who had studied in Israel. Sotloff, a grandson of Holocaust survivors, made aliyah in 2005. A hostage who was held with Sotloff and later released told how Sotloff was able to fast last year on Yom Kippur without his captors knowing. “He told them he was sick and did not want to eat, even though that day we were served eggs.” He added that Sotloff also was able to pray in a hidden manner and in the proscribed way facing Jerusalem by looking which way the Muslims prayed in order to determine the proper direction. 5774 was a year in which Chicago became a less holy place. We lost Rabbi Moshe Kushner, longtime head of Camp Moshava and the Chicago Rabbinical Council. We lost Rabbi Daniel Moscowitz, who built the Lubavitch Chabad movement in Illinois into one encompassing more than 40 institutions. We lost Philip Esformes, who embodied the meaning of what a Jew is supposed to be, what a mensch is. And in 5774 we lost 66 Israeli soldiers, Israel’s best and brightest, courageous, beautiful young souls who gave their lives to defend the Jewish homeland in the war in Gaza. Now normally we’d leave it at that, but as I sit and look at their smiling faces, their so young faces, their so sweet faces, I feel the least we can do to honor their memories is to give their names. They gave their lives for us. First Sergeant Eitan Barak, 20. Major Amotz Greenberg, 45. Sergeant Adar Barsano, 20. Second Lieutenant Bar Rahav, 21. Staff Sergeant Bnaya Rubel, 20. Staff Sergeant Oren Simcha Noach, 22. Sergeant Ben Itzhak Oanounou, 19. Staff Sergeant Daniel Pomerantz, 20. Sergeant Shon Mondshine, 19. Staff Sergeant Shachar Tase, 20. Staff Sergeant Max Steinberg, 24. Major Tzafrir Baror, 32. Captain Tsvi Kaplan, 28. Staff Sergeant Gilad Rozenthal Yacoby, 21. Staff Sergeant Oz Mendelovich, 21. Staff Sergeant Nissim Sean Carmeli, 21. Staff Sergeant Moshe Malko, 20. Staff Sergeant Jordan Bensemhoun, 22. Staff Sergeant Yuval Dagan, 22. Staff Sergeant Tal Ifrach, 21. Sergeant Nadav Goldmacher, 23. Second Lieutenant Yuval Haiman, 21. Sergeant-Major Bayhesain Kshaun, 39. Lieutenant-Colonel Dolev Keidar, 38. Sergeant First Class Oded Ben Sira, 22. Non-Commissioned Officer Ohad Shemesh, 27. Staff Sergeant Avitar Moshe Torjamin, 20. Captain Dmitri Levitas, 26. First Lieutenant Natan Cohen, 23. Second Lt. Paz Elyahu, 22. Staff Sgt. Li Mat, 19. Staff Sgt. Shachar Dauber, 20. Master Sgt. Yair Ashkenazi, 36. Staff Sgt. Oron Shaul, 20. Staff Sgt. Guy Levy, 21. Staff Sgt. Guy Boyland, 21. First Sgt. Amit Yeori, 20. Second Lt. Roy Peles, 21. First Sgt. Gal Bason, 21. First Sgt. Avraham Grintzvaig, 21. Capt. Liad Lavi, 20. Chief Warrant Officer Rami Kahlon, 39. Sgt. First Class (res.) Barak Refael Degorker, 27. Staff Sgt. Moshe Davino, 20. Staff Sgt. Adi Briga, 23. Cpl. Niran Cohen, 20. Cpl. Meidan Maymon Biton, 20. Staff Sgt. Eliav Eliyahu Haim Kahlon, 22. Sgt. Dor Dery, 18. Sgt. Sagi Erez, 19. Sgt. Barkey Ishai Shor, 21. Sgt. Daniel Kedmi, 18. Sgt. Nadav Raimond, 19. Staff Sgt. Matan Gotlib, 21. Staff Sgt. Omer Hay, 21. Staff Sgt. Guy Algranati, 20. Staff Sgt. Shay Kushnir, 20. Capt. Omri Tal, 22. Sgt. First Class Daniel Marash, 22. Staff Sgt. Noam Rosenthal, 20. Capt. (res.) Liran Adir (Edry), 31. Staff Sgt. Liel Gidoni, 20. Mjr. Benya Sharel, 26. 2nd.-Lt. Hadar Goldin, 23. Netanel Maman, 22. Shachar Shalev, 20. As heartbreaking as their loss is, they were soldiers, fighting in a war. Another loss brought by the Gaza War was even more heartCONTINUED ON PAG E 2 2 YOU LOVE US FOR LUNCH. NOW TRY US FOR dinner. 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He colored interiors and almost every Marvel cover published throughout the 1950s and early 1960s, according to his family. He also was the color designer for the classic Marvel superheroes and villains of the 1960s, including Spider-Man, The Fantastic Four, The X-Men and The Hulk. Goldberg went on to illustrate romance comics, such as Patsy Walker, My Girl Patsy and Millie the Model. He also helped write plots for Millie the Model. In the late 1960s, Goldberg began illustrating for Archie Comics, where he worked for more than 40 years. Most recently, he worked on several graphic novels, including Nancy Drew and the Three Stooges. Leonard David Rood, age 85, passed away on Sept. 8. Born in Malden, Massachusetts on October 20, 1928, he graduated with his Bachelors and Masters degrees from Worcester Polytechnic Institute in Worcester, Massachusetts, where he was a member of Alpha Epsilon Pi fraternity. He served as a Civil Engineer in a M.A.S.H. unit in the Korean War, where he earned the rank of 1st Lieutenant. He lived with his wife of 57 years, the late Ruth Krantzow Rood, in Columbus, Ohio and Boynton Beach, FL. He held numerous patents in chemical engineering, and later opened a real estate firm with his wife in Columbus. He was most recently a resident of Cresthaven East in West Palm Beach, FL. He is survived by his sister Eleanor (Jerry) Mitchell, his three sons Richard (Shari), Mark (Robin) and Howard (Wendy), and his grandchildren, Emily (Brian) Fishman, Allison, David (Chelsea), Shaina, Michelle, Rachel, Sarah, Miriam and Elyse. Leonard was a lover of music and sang for many years with the choir at Shaarei Shalom in Boynton Beach, and was a long time volunteer with the Boy Scouts of America. Donations in his name can be made to the Alzheimer’s Association, P.O. 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His family was packing up to leave their hometown and head north when the attack occurred. “He died in our hands, in front of his little sister and best friend Yuval, 3.5 years old. He died in front of Uri, only four months old and right before our eyes, his mother and father,” a letter from his parents said. “We failed. We couldn’t protect our beautiful and talented baby.” Yes, loss, devastating loss was predominant in 5774. The Gaza war typified that in that it’s not clear if anyone won, but it is very clear that everyone lost. So much damage of so many kinds for so little purpose. Of course, not all the Jewish news in 5774 was sad. Some of it was quirky, some curious, some funny, some even good. The luckiest Jew in 5774 was David Blatt, who left as coach of Israel’s best basketball team to take over as coach of the Cleveland Cavaliers. Just a few days later, Lebron James announced he would be returning to the Cavs. Basketball also produced the most odious Jew of 5774 namely Donald Sterling whose racist comments during a phone conversation with his girlfriend were made all the worse when he went on TV to defend himself and both constantly referred to his Jewishness and said things that proved just what a racist he is. It was a year in which something that almost never happens happened. Thanksgiving and the first day of Chanukah came out on the same day. Thus it was dubbed Thankgivukkah. And there was Jewish kvelling to be done about the fact that Jewish actress Scarlett Johansson was named Esquire’s sexiest woman alive and Jewish singer Adam Levine was named People’s sexiest man alive. Israeli actress Gal Gadot was signed to star as Wonder Women in the upcoming movie “Batman vs. Superman.” Six of the 12 winners of the Nobel Prize were Jews. Two of the 10 sexiest rabbis named by a Jewish website were Chicagoans, Rabbi Lizzie Heydemann and Rabbi Benay Lappe. A Chicago woman, Stephanie Goldfarb, was named “America’s best cook” by the Food Network. Janet Yellen was the third Jew in a row to be named head of the Federal Reserve, and the first woman ever. What a country. Ritz bacon flavored crackers were given kosher certification. Mitt Romney’s old company Bain Capital, bought the iconic Jewish company Manischewitz. A new survey showed there are actually more American Jews than we thought. A Pew survey found there are about 6.8 million American Jews and that 94 percent of them are proud to be Jewish. Always there to be the pooper at the party, Abe Foxman, who announced he’d be retiring next year, said that a worldwide survey by his ADL found that more than a billion people in the world are antiSemites. Many questioned the survey’s methods. While Abe inflated the problem as always, anti-Semitism did rear its ugly head more than in previous years, especially in Europe especially during the Gaza war. Perhaps the worst cases of anti-Semitism in 5774 were a shooting at the Kansas City JCC that killed three, none of them Jews and a shooting at the Jewish Museum of Belgium which killed four, all Jews. The Chicago police department was found guilty of having harassed a Jewish cop for years with anti-Semitic slurs. The University of Illinois changed its mind and unhired a professor known for his vicious anti-Israel tweets. Eric Cantor, the highest ranking Jew in Congress, and the only Republican Jew in the House, was defeated in a primary and resigned as House majority leader. Reuven Rivlin, who once belittled Reform Judaism calling it “idol worship, not Judaism,” was elected president of Israel. It was revealed that the late archbishop of New York, John O’Conner was actually Jewish, being born of a Jewish mother. Pope Francis visited Israel. 5774 was the 20th yahrzeit of the Lubavitcher Rebbe, the greatest Jew of the last century, one who loved all Jews, cared about all Jews and very literally reached out to every Jew, with Chabad Houses in every major city in the world. The Rebbe’s yahrzeit reminded us of how much the Jewish world lost when we lost him. Adding yet another layer of loss to a year so very filled with it. Thankfully, the year is just about over and our prayer is that the new Jewish year 5775 will be one in which the Jewish people know no loss, know only joy. Chicago Jewish News - September 12 - 18, 2014 23 24 Chicago Jewish News - September 12 - 18, 2014 Comfort Receiving care from people you trust. There’s nothing like a familiar face when you are receiving medical treatment or coping with a difficult disease. The staff at Selfhelp is poised to assist you to regain your strength through rehabilitation or recover after a surgical procedure or extended illness. 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