may 2015

Services Now for Adult Persons, Inc.
80-45 WINCHESTER BLVD.
BLDG. #4, CBU #29
QUEENS VILLAGE, N.Y. 11427
718-454-2100
www.snapqueens.org
CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER/PRESIDENT
PAOLA MICELI, MPA
CHIEF OPERATING OFFICER
MARIAN LEWEK, LMSW
EXECUTIVE BOARD CHAIR
CHRIS PANELLINO
SNAP OF EASTERN QUEENS
INNOVATIVE SENIOR CENTER
NEWSLETTER
MAY 2015
SPEAKING FROM THE HEART
May arrives with a flourish of warm days, fragrant flowers blooming in a colorful
symphony that speaks of variety, vibrancy and joy, and a songfest of light and hearty
melodies orchestrated amongst the birds. With each advancing day the sounds, colors
and sweet smells of new life surround us. There is an awareness about the beauty,
delicacy and ever changing world that surrounds us bringing peace and clarity to our
days. How absolutely beautiful is this newly born day with the opportunity to mold it into our unique
vision of fulfillment, purpose and satisfaction.
What are the lessons of spring? What can we learn from this new season of delicately fashioned
days? Perhaps it is that after the bleakest of winter days we can realize the warmth, brightness and
hope that springs forth from the darkness and despair. There is always a reason to believe in tomorrow for new opportunities to craft our individualized picture of meaning, purpose and direction. Let us go
forth with a stated goal, always cognizant that the initial plan is subject to change in the beat of our heart.
Plans offer structure and focus. Changes in health, finances, living situations and family dynamics may
necessitate that we re-negotiate or alter our preliminary course of action and embark on a more prudent
version that fits into the re-configured framework. There is the tremendous challenge of repositioning and
refocusing the updated picture of tomorrow to fit into who we each are and how we define our lives.
As this month evolves into full bloom spring weather, take advantage of every opportunity to enjoy the
mild gentle breezes, warm sunshine and display of hopefulness that the singing birds and nature's
bounty of foliage and small wildlife offer. Embrace those people whom you love with tender hugs and
soft kisses while carving out quiet moments of honest heartfelt conversation. Share your thoughts, insights
and views with the knowledge and confidence that your words will be heard and respected. May each
moment of every advancing day deliver a healthy dose of peacefulness and lovingkindness and may you
know that you are valued.
With Love, Marian
A NOT FOR PROFIT AGENCY FUNDED UNDER CONTRACT WITH THE NEW YORK CITY DEPARTMENT FOR THE AGING AS PART OF THE OLDER AMERICANS ACT PROGRAM,
ADMINISTERED BY THE NEW YORK STATE OFFICE FOR THE AGING
SENIOR CENTER LUNCHEON MENU – MAY 2015
MONDAY
TUESDAY
WEDNESDAY
THURSDAY
FRIDAY
1 Hawaiian
Chicken
Split Pea Soup
& Meatloaf
Sandwich
4 Vegetarian
Chili
5 Chicken
Fajitas
6 Baked Breaded
Pork Chops
7 Beef Pot
Roast
< --- Chicken
Noodle Soup
and Egg Salad
Sandwich ----
11 Stuffed
Shells with
Meat Sauce
12 Sweet &
Sour Chicken
13 Tuna Fish
Salad
14 Stuffed
Peppers with
Turkey
< --- Mushroom
18 Chicken
Parmigiana
< --- Lentil
25
Barley
Soup
and Turkey
Breast
Sandwich
8 Salisbury
Steak w/
Mushroom
Gravy
----------- >
15 Parmesan
Baked Fish
------------ >
19 Beef &
Turkey
Meatloaf
20 Lemon Pepper
Fish
21 Beef Stew
22 Chicken
Marsala
Veggie Burger
on a Whole
Wheat Bun -- >
26 Salmon
Cakes with
Dill Sauce
27 Italian
Meatballs with
Beef & Turkey
28 Baked
Mushroom
Chicken
<--Minestrone
Soup and Middle
Soup and
Eastern Pita
29 Pot Roast
Sandwich ---- >
Lunch is served from
12:00 – 1:00 Mon., Tues., and Wed. and
from 12:30 – 1:30 Thurs., & Fri.
The Suggested Donation is $2.50. Your support helps sustain our program! Menus are
subject to change without notice. Thank you.
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The SNAP Transportation Program is available to meet your changing needs to travel
safely around eastern Queens. We are expanding our services to be accessible
between 8:00AM and 4:00PM for travel to:
Medical Appointments ~ Food Shopping
SNAP of Eastern Queens Innovative Senior Center
Community Services ~ Cultural Trips
Please call Sherry to discuss and schedule your requests today.
Luncheon Options
During May you may choose from the suggested luncheon menu or the optional
Soup and Sandwich menu. Each soup and sandwich lunch will consist of:
Vitamin C enriched Juice
Soup of the Day with Crackers
Sandwich of the Day
Potato Chips
Three Bean Salad, Cole Slaw or Potato Salad
Fruit Dessert
1% Milk
The soup and sandwich options for this month are:
May 4 – 8
Chicken Noodle Soup & Egg Salad Sandwich
May 11- 15
Mushroom Barley Soup & Turkey Breast Sandwich
May 18 – 22
Lentil Soup & Veggie Burger on a Whole Wheat Bun
May 26– 29
Minestrone Soup & Middle Eastern Pita Sandwich (Pita filled with
hummus, spinach leaves, tomato, red onion, cucumber)
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STRAWBERRY FESTIVAL – May is National Strawberry
Month
Enjoy a different strawberry dessert at SNAP on the following
days:
Friday, May 1………………………………Strawberry Fruit Bar
Thursday, May 7……………….Strawberry Jello
Wednesday, May 13………………….Strawberry Shortcake
Monday, May 18………………….Strawberry Cream Pie
Tuesday, May 26……………….Strawberry Ice Cream Cup
A Strawberry Luncheon Option during May
During the month of May you may choose to have a Strawberry Yogurt
Parfait (yogurt, granola and fresh strawberries) and a tasty berry muffin
as a lunch alternative.
SPECIAL EVENTS TO CELEBRATE TOGETHER IN MAY 2015
Tuesday, May 5– Let’s celebrate Cinco de Mayo
Bring your maracas and sombreros and let’s celebrate Cinco de Mayo together. Let
us all enjoy a full day of delight!
8:30 – Breakfast
Orange Juice
Corn Muffin or Kaiser Roll with
Margarine and Jelly
Strawberry/Banana Yogurt
Coffee or Tea
12:00 – Lunch
1:30 – Dessert
Apple Juice
Corn Chowder with Crackers
Chicken Fajitas
Spanish Rice Medley
Broccoli Florets
Rice Pudding
Vanilla Ice Cream with warm Apple Cobbler
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Friday, May 8 – Mother’s Day Celebration
Let’s honor all mothers at a Mother’s Day celebration at SNAP. A $5.00
contribution entitles you to a full day of pleasure!
8:30 Breakfast
Orange Juice
Croissants, Danish, Muffins, Bagels
Margarine, Cream Cheese, Peanut Butter, Jelly
Banana
Coffee, Tea, Hot Chocolate
11:00 Entertainment
12:30 Lunch
1:30 Dessert
Musical performance by harpist, Erin Hill
Salisbury Steak with Mushroom Gravy
Brownie and Ice Cream
News Around SNAP
Congratulations to Joyce Mensoff for being honored by the Queens Interagency
Council on Aging (QICA) as a volunteer who has demonstrated a strong
commitment to SNAP. On April 22nd, Joyce was recognized as an exemplary
volunteer at QICA’s Salute to Senior Service Volunteers.
Joyce volunteers at SNAP most days every week, ensuring that the Coffee Club is
set up and operated in a manner that speaks of caring and a desire to be of
service. She also facilitates the daily lunch service ensuring that all SNAP
participants receive their meals in an organized and timely fashion.
Additionally, Joyce teaches the Wednesday Line Dancing class demonstrating a diversity of
skills and talents.
Thank you, Joyce. SNAP is so very proud of you and appreciative of your devotion to The
SNAP of Eastern Queens Innovative Senior Center!!!
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Older Americans Month 2015
Get Into the Act
Each May, the nation celebrates Older Americans Month to recognize older
Americans for their contributions and provide them with information to help them
stay healthy and active. This year, in honor of the 50th anniversary of the Older
Americans Act, the focus is on how older adults are taking charge of their health,
getting engaged in their communities, and making a positive impact in the lives of
others.
SNAP of Eastern Queens Innovative Senior Center and SNAP Brookville Neighborhood
Senior Center join together for the first annual Raffle Walk/Walkathon in celebration of
Older Americans Month. Sign up with your senior center director before May 19th
Join us on Tuesday, May 26th
1:30
Raffle Walk / Walkathon
Cunningham Park
Transportation provided
Prizes & Refreshments!!
Mother’s Day Events - May 2015
Special Activities in Honor of Mom
Mothers and Daughters Invited
Suggested contribution: $2.00 per activity
Monday, May 4
8:30 – 10:00
“Breakfast-in-Bed”
Bagels or Kaiser Rolls with Cream Cheese & Jelly
Assorted Fruits
Assorted Pastries
Coffee & Tea
Tuesday, May 12
11:15 – 11:45
Cocktail Happy Hour
Assorted Hors d’ouevers
Juice
Wednesday, May 20
12:00 – 1:00
“Picnic In the Park”
Tuna Salad Platter w/ Pasta Salad & Cole Slaw
Potato Chips
Watermelon
Soda
Brownies
Thursday, May 28
10:00 – 11:00
Donuts and Coffee Hour
Assorted Donuts (from Dunkin Donuts)
Coffee & Tea
Join our SNAP Phone Subscription Service
Want to stay current on SNAP’s upcoming events, class cancelations or center closings due to inclement
weather? For just $3 per year you can register for our SNAP “phone blasts” which will provide you with the
most up to date information on our senior centers’ activities.
Please see Suzanne Windland for more information, or to register.
Make a Note of these Slight Class Changes for May & June!
Music with Zach will not be held on May 8th, 15th & 29th
Tai Chi in the MPR will be scheduled from 9:00-10:00 on May 21st.
Tai Chi will not be held on May 22nd, June 11th & 12th ,18th & 19th
Sandhya will be back in June to resume her yoga classes (date TBA).
As always, please call ahead to confirm whether a particular class is available, as there are
sometimes last minute schedule changes.
June
June 4th World Music/Dream Journeys in the Library
June 9th AARP Defensive Driving Class
June 19th Father’s Day Celebration with Tina Lama and the HeartBreakers
July
July 4th Independence Day Party
July 10th SNAP’s Annual Talent Show
August
Birthday Luau August 25th
SNAP OF EASTERN QUEENS INNOVATIVE SENIOR CENTER
UPCOMING EVENTS IN MAY 2015
Fri., May 1
10:00 Fall Prevention – Strengthening and Balancing
Mon., May 4
10:00 Nutrition in Classroom 5
Tues., May 5
9:00 – 3:30 AARP Defensive Driving Course in the Multipurpose Room
10:00 – 11:00 Cinco de Mayo Celebration in the Dining Room with Mariachi
Entertainment!
Wed., May 6
10:30 Nutrition Education Courtesy of Community Business Partnership member
Extended Home Care in the Dining Room
Trip to Empire City, Yonkers
Fri., May 8
10:00 Fall Prevention – Strengthening and Balancing
Mon., May 11
11:00 Mother’s Day Performances with harpist Erin Hill! Join us in the Dining
Room as we celebrate mothers at SNAP and everywhere in the world! Erin will
perform an unusual and tantalizing blend of both Celtic and Rock and Roll music
with a wonderful dash of humor.
Wed., May 13
10:30 “Communication is Key” – Speaking with your doctor and pharmacist in
Classroom 5
Thurs., May 14
9:15 Ben’s Deli Trip
10:00 Haircuts by Marilyn in the Library
Fri., May 15
10:00 Fall Prevention – Strengthening and Balancing
2:00 Bayside Glee Club performance in the Multipurpose Room. This incredible
Men’s Choir is back again for another stellar performance. We cordially invite you
to this formidable feast for the ears!
Mon., May 18
9:45 SNAP Advisory Board Open Meeting in the Dining Room
10:00 Mindy’s Moody Mondays – Temporarily Cancelled
Tues., May 19
10:30 National Council on Aging Music Performance in the Dining Room. Come
listen, dance and enjoy!
Wed., May 20
10:00 Haircuts by Marilyn in the Library
10:30 “Communication is Key” – Speaking with your doctor and pharmacist in
Classroom 5
Fri., May 22
10:00 Fall Prevention – Strengthening and Balancing
Mon., May 25
SNAP Closed for Memorial Day
Tues., May 26
SNAP Celebrates May Birthdays!
Registration begins for Platzl Brauhaus, Pomona, NY on 7/23/15
Wed., May 27
SNAP OF EASTERN QUEENS INNOVATIVE SENIOR CENTER
UPCOMING EVENTS IN MAY 2015
10:00 SNAP’s 4th Annual Health Expo – Please see health and Wellness to sign up
for screening offered the day of the Health Expo.
Thurs., May 28
10:00 Haircuts by Marilyn in the Library
Trip to Pines Dinner Theatre, Allentown, PA to see the “The Andrews Brothers”
Fri., May 29
10:00 Fall Prevention – Strengthening and Balancing
SUPPORT GROUPS AT SNAP
SNAP is pleased to offer several
support groups for the senior
community. Recognizing the
importance of having a safe,
comfortable and confidential
space to share your thoughts and
feelings, SNAP offers the
following groups:
• Men’s Discussion Group
Mondays, 11:00 – 12:00
• Women’s Discussion Group
Fridays, 10:00 – 11:00
• Caregiver Spouses Support
Group
1st Wednesday of Month 10:30
– 12:00
• Mindy’s Moody Mondays
3rd Monday of Month, 10:00
• Beyond the Barriers – Tuesdays,
10:00
SNAP SAYS THANK YOU
Our warmest and most sincere thanks to the
following people for their thoughtful and most
generous cash donations to help maintain and
enhance our senior center:
 Herb Yasgur - Happy 92nd Birthday to Irving (the
dentist in Current Events). Wishing you many
more healthy & happy birthdays.
PLEASE REMEMBER SNAP
IN YOUR WILL OR TRUST
There are many ways to give to charity and good
causes. Bequests can serve as a memorial to honor the
memory of a loved one, or establish a fund for a
particular aspect of SNAP. Bequests are often a final
communication one has with descendants, a way of
demonstrating your values and setting an example for
your heirs.
A planned gift or bequest to SNAP helps you to
determine your legacy in a truly meaningful way and
have a profound impact on the future of the
organization. Please remember SNAP so that we can
continue to provide important services to others in our
community.
If you have any questions, you may call
Ronald J. Schwartz, Elder Law Attorney at
718-347-6100.
MESSAGE FROM THE CENTER DIRECTOR
How Do You Say Goodbye …by Jen Bailey
… When we’re laughing so hard in the dining hall from the joke you’ve told me 100 times?
…When we’re dancing and singing together even if there’s no music playing?
…When you’ve taught me hilarious swear words in other languages I probably can’t repeat?
…When you’re weeping because your hands don’t work as well as they used to?
…Or when your eyes aren’t as clear as they used to be?
…When your mind is still sharp as ever, despite what your body tells you?
..When you’re spitting nails because now you have to use a cane, or a walker, and @#$% it, you never had
to before?
…When you let loose your gifts through your quilts, paintings, photography, jewelry, dancing and writing?
…When you get me every time with those card tricks you learned here?
…When despite all loss, despite all sorrow, despite Life’s churning waters, you show me again and again
your courage and resilience?
..When we share the best (I mean THE Best!) hugs?
..When there’s so much fierce light and joy blazing from your faces?
I really don’t know how to.
So I don’t think I will say goodbye this time.
Instead, I’ll take all of you with me into my heart and say: “Thank you, thank you, thank you.”
You have been extraordinary teachers to me. All my love, dear ones. All my love.
MESSAGE FROM THE ADVISORY BOARD
At the meeting held on April 20th, we had a discussion about the lack of enthusiasm exhibited by
both staff and members. It is finally spring and our moods should brighten with the sun. Most
classes will be held on a regular basis now that there is no snow and ice to keep us away. We
welcome back our snowbirds and ask that everyone make an effort to also welcome new members to
the center.
Paola Miceli was scheduled to attend and bring some news regarding the work going on at the new
center but unfortunately business kept her away. We are still expecting to move by the late fall so
keep your fingers crossed. Mindy and Jennifer were in attendance and helped to clear up some items
we had on past agendas.
Jennifer Bailey left for a new job as of April 30th . She will be working to make the day brighter for a
group of people who will welcome her talents and personality. We will miss her terribly and send
her a barrel of good wishes for her future.
The annual dinner dance is coming soon. Anyone who has not made arrangements to go as of yet,
please see Linda Nadel.
As president of the board it is my honor to work with such dedicated board members. We have a
small say in bringing your suggestions to management and will continue to work hard for
resolutions. Please have your questions ready for the open board meeting on May 18th at 10 AM so
we can address them.
Carole Vahey, President
We Help Preserve, Transfer & Manage
Your Assets, No Matter What Your Age
Comprehensive Services for the Elderly and Their Families
New York
Florida Bar
Member of Nat’l Academy of Elder Law Attorneys
Past Vice Chairman of Queens County Bar Assn. Elder Law Committee
Author of Law & Aging: Essentials of Elder Law
Former Special Adjunct Professor Brooklyn Law School
& St. John’s University
Former N.Y.C. Assistant Corporation Counsel
Former N.Y.C. Administrative Law Judge
 Medicare/Medicaid Matters

 Asset Preservation & Transfers
 Assisted Living & Nursing Home Placement
 Geriatric Care Management
 Supplemental Needs Trusts
 Health Care Proxies * Living Wills
 Powers of Attorney
 Wills, Trusts, Estate Planning & Probate
 Financial Planning
 Home Visits
RONALD J. SCHWARTZ, J.D., L.L.M., P.C.
Dedicated To The Needs Of The Elderly For
Almost 50 Years
718-347-6100
www.sageonage.com
246-16 Union Turnpike, Bellerose
(Off The Cross Island Parkway)
“It’s Never Too Soon to Start Planning.” “Save Time and Money.”
SNAP OF EASTERN QUEENS INNOVATIVE SENIOR CENTER TRIPS
Wed., May. 6
Thurs., May 28
Thurs., Jun. 11
Wed., Jun. 24
Thurs., July 23
Wed., Aug. 12
Wed., Aug. 26
FOR ALL TRIPS LISTED BELOW, PLEASE SEE SHERRY
Empire City, Yonkers – Cost $30.00 p.p.
Pines Dinner Theatre, Allentown, PA – “The Andrews Brothers” – Cost $75.00 p.p.
Atlantic City – Cost $35.00 p.p.
Doolans Shore Club, Springlake, N.J. – “The Heavenly Concert” Elvis and Patsy
Cline – Cost $75.00 p.p. - Includes luncheon and show.
Platzl Brauhaus, Pomona, NY – Cost $65.00 p.p. – Registration begins 5/26/15
Hunterdon Hills Playhouse, Hampton, NJ – “Twist & Shout” – Cost $80.00 p.p.
Registration begins 6/9/15
Empire City Casino, Yonkers, NY – Cost $30.00 p.p. Registration begins 6/30/15
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SNAP OF EASTERN QUEENS
INNOVATIVE SENIOR CENTER CULTURAL EXCURSIONS
Thurs., May 14
FOR ALL TRIPS LISTED BELOW, PLEASE SEE
ROCHELLE WALSH
9:15 Ben’s Deli - $7.00 p.p. – Come shop at the local stores that you can’t normally
get to and then enjoy a delicious meal at Ben’s. Purchasing of food is not included.
Enjoy a bagel and lox breakfast at SNAP and transportation is included.
July
SNAP will be going to the movies! Watch for information on show and times.
Price will include ticket, transportation and box meal from SNAP. The purchase of
snacks is not included.
Tues., Aug. 4
9:15 Big Apple Circus $14.00 p.p. – Do you love clowns? Do you enjoy the circus
but can’t get there? It’s the funniest show on earth! Seats are limited.
IN MEMORY OF JACK FRIEDMAN
SNAP EXECUTIVE BOARD MEMBER
We sadly announce the passing of one of SNAP’s devoted Board members. Jack
Friedman, the Executive Director of the Queens Chamber of Commerce has been an
active member of the community all his life, working with civic and religious groups
to affect positive change. Under Jack’s leadership, the Chamber of Commerce has
taken on a dedicated advocacy role on business issues, not just within the Borough,
but throughout the city. Before coming to the Chamber of Commerce, Jack was
Chief of Staff to City Councilman David Weprin.
Jack had a very strong sense of civic duty. He was active in all aspects of life in Queens. Having lived in
Queens his entire life, Jack had an intimate knowledge and history, combined with his experience as a small
business owner, which allowed him to help countless entrepreneurs.
Jack Friedman was instrumental in getting the city funding which helped us to purchase the former Bellerose
Jewish Center.
We extend our heartfelt sympathies to Jack’s family and many friends who will miss him very much.