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Volume 34, Number 2 the October 2014 Volume 31, Number 7 Tishrei/Cheshvan 5775 March 2012 B E T H A B R A H A M Pu iR T E M P L E Adar / Nisan 5772 M DIRECTORY Services Schedule Services GENERAL INFORMATION: All phone numbers use (510) prefix unless otherwise noted. LocationTime Monday & Thursday Morning Minyan Chapel 8:00 a.m. Friday Evening (Kabbalat Shabbat) Chapel 6:15 p.m. Shabbat Morning Sanctuary 9:30 a.m. Exception: we will begin 9:00 a.m. the Thursdays of Sukkot, and Shemini Atzeret. Candle Lighting (Friday) October 3 October 10 October 17 October 24 October 31 6:48 p.m. 6:37 p.m. 6:27 p.m. 6:18 p.m. 6:10 p.m. Torah Portions (Saturday) October 4 Yom Kippur October 11 Sukkot October 18 Bereshit October 25No’ach TEMPLE BETH ABRAHAM is proud to support the Conservative Movement by affiliating with The United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism. Advertising Policy: Anyone may sponsor an issue of The Omer and receive a dedication for their business or loved one. Contact us for details. We do not accept outside or paid advertising. The Omer is published on paper that is 30% post-consumer fibers. The Omer (USPS 020299) is published monthly except July and August by Congregation Beth Abraham, 336 Euclid Avenue, Oakland, CA 94610. Periodicals Postage Paid at Oakland, CA. POSTMASTER: Send address changes to The Omer, c/o Temple Beth Abraham, 336 Euclid Avenue, Oakland, CA 94610-3232. © 2014. Temple Beth Abraham. The Omer is published by Temple Beth Abraham, a nonprofit, located at 336 Euclid Avenue, Oakland, CA 94610; telephone (510) 832-0936. It is published monthly except for the months of July and August for a total of ten issues per annum. It is sent as a requester publication and there is no paid distribution. To view The Omer in color, visit www.tbaoakland.org. i Mailing Address 336 Euclid Ave. Oakland, CA 94610 Hours M-Th: 9:00 a.m.-4:00 p.m., Fr: 9:00 a.m.-3:00 p.m. Office Phone 832-0936 Office Fax 832-4930 E-Mail admin@tbaoakland.org Gan Avraham 763-7528 Bet Sefer 663-1683 STAFF Rabbi (x 213) Cantor Gabbi Executive Director (x 214) Office Coordinator (x 210) Bet Sefer Director Gan Avraham Director Bookkeeper (x 215) Custodian (x 211) Kindergym/Toddler Program Volunteers (x 229) Mark Bloom Richard Kaplan, kaplanmusic@hotmail.com Marshall Langfeld Rayna Arnold Virginia Tiger Susan Simon 663-1683 Barbara Kanter 763-7528 Kevin Blattel Joe Lewis Dawn Margolin 547-7726 Herman & Agnes Pencovic OFFICERS OF THE BOARD President Vice President Vice President Vice President Vice President Secretary Treasurer Mark Fickes 652-8545 Eric Friedman 984-2575 Alice Hale 336-3044 Flo Raskin 653-7947 Laura Wildmann 601-9571 JB Leibovitch 653-7133 Susan Shub 852-2500 COMMITTEES & ORGANIZATIONS: If you would like to contact the committee chairs, please contact the synagogue office for phone numbers and e-mail addresses. Adult Education Chesed Development Dues Evaluation Endowment Fund Finance Gan Avraham Parents Gan Avraham School Committee House Israel Affairs Membership Men’s Club Omer Personnel Public Relations Ritual Schools Social Action Torah Fund Women of TBA Youth Aaron Paul Warren Gould Leon Bloomfield & Flo Raskin Susan Shub Herman Pencovic Susan Shub Toni Mason Gary Bernstein Stephen Shub JB Leibovitch Ulli Rotzscher Jeff Ilfeld Rachel Dornhelm Laura Wildmann Lisa Fernandez Eric Friedman Alice Hale Marc Bruner Anne Levine Molli Rothman & Jessica Sterling Phil Hankin WHAT’S HAPPENING WTBA invites all women of the TBA community to join us for sweets and a learning session with the knowledgeable and engaging Professor Deena Aranoff of Kevah! What is a Sukkah and Who Dwells Within It? How the Sukkah serves as a symbol of our individual and communal identities October 12, 2014 9:30 a.m. - noon in the Sukkah at Temple Beth Abraham Join us as we explore classical Jewish texts regarding the nature of the Sukkah and who dwells within it. We will learn more about the holiday and how it connects to our everyday lives. Professor Deena Aranoff is an assistant professor of Medieval Jewish Studies at the Graduate Theological Union in Berkeley. She teaches courses on Jewish society and culture in the medieval and early-modern European context. Her interests include rabbinic literature, medieval patterns of Jewish thought and the broader question of continuity and change in Jewish history. Professor Aranoff is a Kevah educator and also a certified yoga teacher. No charge for this event. Your RSVP is appreciated by October 5. email: debfaith@gmail.com PEOPLE OF THE BOOK CLUB October 20, 2014, 7-9 p.m. TBA Baum Youth Center Jodie Picoult’s The Storyteller RSVP: Fifi Goodfellow at fgoodfellow@att.net. THE TEEN SCENE The Friendship Circle Friendship Circle programs present families of individuals with special needs and teen volunteers the opportunity to form real friendships within a non-judgmental and supportive community. Teen Scene: Teen Scene is a semi-monthly, one and a half hour program on Sunday evenings for teens with special needs to join with loving teen volunteers for a fun, educational group experience. PJ Library Events for Families (Children ages 2-7) Come enjoy these wonderful free family events! October 19, 3:30-5 p.m. Bay Area Children’s Theater A fun workshop! November 2, 3-4:30 p.m. In Concert with Isaac Zones & Melita Silberstein December 7, 3-4:30 p.m. Puppeteer Diana Schmiana All events will be held at the Contra Costa Jewish Day School 955 Risa Road, Lafayette Kindergym Sunday Play Days with Dawn The program begins with a light dinner and is followed by an hour of activities and Jewish discussion. Teens enjoy various activities, which include dancing, basketball, yoga, drum circle and more. Oct 19, Nov 9 & 16, Dec 7 For more information, including Teen Scene dates, please contact Devorah Romano, dl@fcberkeley.org. See additional WTBA sponsored Adult Education activities on page 6. Details on page 14 1 FROM THE RABBI Top Ten Books - Tanach Tops the Charts by Rabbi Bloom There’s a chain post spreading through Facebook “challenging” people to name the top 10 books that have stayed with them throughout their lives. With that in mind, I’d like to name the Top Ten Jewish books that have stayed with me throughout my life and rabbinical career. 1. Tanach (Of course!) 2. Jewish Wisdom by Joseph Telushkin 3. God Was In This Place and i, I Did Not Know It by Lawrence Kushner 4. The Nine Questions People Ask About Judaism by Joseph Telushkin and Dennis Prager 5. Exodus by Leon Uris 6. Night by Eli Wiesel 7. Bee Season by Myla Goldberg 8. When Bad Things Happen to Good People by Harold Kushner 9. Say Yes to Life by Sidney Greenberg 10. My Promised Land by Ari Shavit (time will tell, but it’s on my mind right now) And now, as it says on Facebook, I challenge you, the members of Temple Beth Abraham, to think about the ten Jewish books that have been important to you. L’shalom, Rabbi Mark Bloom FROM THE EDITOR: If you email your list of 10 Jewish books that have influenced you to omer@tbaoakland.org we will print them in next month’s Omer. Thanks for sharing your ideas. Changing of the Leyning Guards By Lisa Fernandez After more years that she can remember, Outi Gould is retiring her position as leyning coordinator, passing the torch to Joan Korin. Outi has done a remarkable job, gathering TBA’s Torah readers and organizing their chanting portions for more years than she can count. She’s loved the honor. leynings – scheduled. (In Yiddish, leynen means to read.) And if there are still holes, or people cancel at the last minute, Outi said that means for her personally – “learning lots of Torah portions.” Once, she got a call at 7 a.m. on Shabbat. Someone couldn’t make it. She had to learn the portion herself. Other times, when someone didn’t arrive on time, Outi, Susan Simon or Rabbi Bloom had to read from the Tikkun, while another set of eyes followed the Torah portion with the pointer. To limit the number of mishaps, Outi has this advice for Joan: Send out a call for readers five to six weeks before the date, then a second call a week or so later. Keep a separate list of people who can learn a portion on short notice, and appeal to those if the first “(I know that what I do is a) very essential, if somewhat invisible, job,” she said. “Teaching people how to read from the Torah and providing all kinds of support, both technical and emotional.” It hasn’t all been easy. It can be a monumental task to get all readings – or 2 Outi Gould Joan Korin continued on page 23 PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE Relational Judaism – A Book Worth Reading by Mark Fickes When I stepped into the role of TBA President last year, the Union of Conservative Judaism gave me a lot of books, many of which focused on how to stem a perceived decline in the Conservative Movement or how to increase membership in synagogues. One book that I found particularly thought provoking was Relational Judaism by Dr. Ron Wolfson. At the time, Dr. Wolfson’s book was the subject of a lot of discussion. There was an article in the j. which prompted a fair amount of debate among some members of the TBA Board. While the book was interesting, I could not help but think that the concept of “Relational Judaism” promoted by Dr. Wolfson posited a false dialectic. On the one side are synagogues that are transactional institutions meaning that they provide goods for services, e.g., in exchange for membership dues, shuls provide their members with Hebrew school, b’nai mitzvah and other life cycle events. Dr. Wolfson believes this model is doomed to failure. The solution that Dr. Wolfson proposes are synagogues that embrace a “relational model” in which the primary emphasis is to foster one-on-one Jewish relationships among members which will purportedly lead to radically re-envisioned communities that will thrive. Apparently, if we don’t become more relational, we’ll never attract those who are distracted by Facebook, Twitter and the like. Further, if we become truly relational, we won’t need to charge dues at all because people will be so enamored with us that they’ll just give us money because of the sense of community that a relational shul will engender. In response to these worries, many synagogues are falling over themselves to offer more and more programs. Let’s try Torah for Tots! Or, how about Talmud for Teens! Yet, despite more and more programming, many shuls are not able to stem the tide of a declining membership. If you think about it, this really makes sense. It is too easy to fall into the trap of fixating on providing more things so people feel the membership dues are well spent. But, far too often, we don’t ask whether giving you more things and giving them to you faster really enhances the quality of your Jewish experience at shul. Frankly, what good is yet another Talmud class if you don’t meet someone new, make a new friend, or find a new way to interact with the world Jewishly as a result of attending that class? Over the past year, I’ve seen the countless ways that TBA has fostered opportunities to participate in a traditional synagogue while at the same time providing opportunities to interact Jewishly with each other. From our participation in AIDS Walk to restoring the wetlands, from the joy of all the b’nai mitvah services to all our adult education offerings, we are a strong community that embraces both the transactional and relational models of Judaism. As I look back over the past year, it seems odd that a book about the problems with synagogues cast a new light on what a wonderful community we have. And, while we are not without our share of challenges, I am so proud that we address them with a commitment to community and fostering Jewish values. L’shanah tovah. I wish you all a good and sweet New Year! Please Join Us for Morning Minyan on Mondays and Thursdays Join the regulars at our Minyan service, each Monday and Thursday usually starting at 8:00 a.m. The service lasts about an hour, and is really a great way to start the day. As an added bonus, breakfast is served immediately afterwards. To use the old expression – try it, you’ll like it. If not as a regular, just stop in once or twice and see what it’s all about. 3 EDITOR’S MESSAGE Jewish Stories from Around the World by Rachel Dornhelm It’s a well-worn idea that books can transport you to other realities. But I was reminded of how a book can transport you through time... back to your own childhood… the other day. My mom pulled out a volume from when I was growing up: “Elijah’s Violin and Other Jewish Fairy Tales.” In many ways it’s not a very remarkable book. It never won big awards or had big printing runs. Despite the simple title description as Jewish Fairy Tales, when my mom recently handed me the blue hardback book missing its dustcover, I remembered instinctively the kinds of stories that were in it. Stories in which there was definitive good and bad. Kind, well-intentioned souls battling to restore order and justice. There is magic and royalty and spirits. Most importantly, the stories come from many parts of the world: Morrocco, Greece, Babylon, Eastern Europe, India. I grew up in a place with a very small Jewish presence, without the amazing supports and infrastructure that we are so lucky to have here at TBA. In this setting the books I read for pleasure had a huge impact on my concept of what it meant to be a part of a Jewish community. I treasure the way the fairy tale book Elijah’s Violin gave me a broad sense of Jewish history around the world; the way K’tonton brought magic to the observances I knew from my own family; and, in adolescence, the way The Chosen made me better understand the complex dynamics of assimilation. Yes, in Judaism when we say “the People of the Book” it refers to the Torah. And there are so many other texts that have reinforced the culture and religion through diaspora - from the Haggadah to the Talmud. But I would also argue for the importance of including Jewish literary fiction as a key part of rounding out our religious lives and those of our families. Recently, I saw a study that proved reading literary fiction greatly boosts peoples’ empathy - the ability to detect and understand others’ emotions. “Empathy is something that is key to being a part of a community. And to so many of the tenets of Jewish living like chessed and mitzvot. Consider pulling out one of the books of Jewish literary fiction suggested by the Rabbi in his column or reviewed by Fran Teisch on page 10. Enjoy the fact that it may not only enrich our ideas about others’ Jewish lives, but it could also create greater understanding of each other here in our own community. Happy reading. Shanah Tova. November Omer Theme: East Coast/West Coast Jews December Omer Theme: Hanukkah photos from past years THE OMER We cheerfully accept member submissions. Deadline for articles and letters is the seventh of the month preceding publication. Editor in Chief Rachel Dornhelm Managing Editor Lisa Fernandez Layout & Design Jessica Sterling Calendars Jon Golding B’nai Mitzvah Editor Susan Simon Cover Gabriella Gordon Help From People like you! 4 Jessica Dell’Era, Nadine Joseph, Richard Kauffman, Jan Silverman, Debbie Spangler June Brott, Jessica Dell’Era, Charles Feltman, Jeanne Korn, Anne Levine, Proofreaders Stephen Shub, Susan Simon, Debbie Spangler Copy Editors Distribution Hennie Hecht, Herman and Agnes Pencovic Mailing Address 336 Euclid Ave. Oakland, CA 94610 E-Mail omer@tbaoakland.org COMMUNITY East Bay Tikkun Olam Chessed Day Sunday, October 19, 2014 Inspirational Kickoff Rally at Temple Sinai at 9 a.m. Then join one of 15 projects: • Express your inner Picasso paint a mural at the Oakland Lafayette Elementary School, paint walls at the American Indian Resource Center, or work on a mosaic at Malcolm X Elementary School • Wrap and Spiff-Up Holiday Toys for low-income families. • Beautify the regional parks, shores, and streets with clean-up and gardening projects at Redwood Regional Park, Berkeley Shoreline, Lake Merritt, 40th Street, and Urban Adamah • Love animals? Help prepare the exhibits at the Oakland Zoo • Bing-OOOOOO!!!! Join seniors at Reutlinger Center for Jewish Living for an exciting game! • Creative with Crayons? Good at tying knots? Come to Stern Hall at Temple Sinai to decorate food delivery bags, write card to Israeli soldiers, and both knit and knot blankets to benefit those who receive services from JFCS, A Package from Home, and Highland Hospital. Sponsored by Beth Jacob Congregation, Congregation Beth El, Congregation Beth Israel, Congregation Netivot Shalom, Temple Beth Abraham, Temple Sinai, Bend the Arc, East Bay JCRC, Oakland Hebrew Day School, Midrasha of Berkeley, and Tehiyah Day School. Pastries courtesy of Semifreddi’s Bakery & painting supplies courtesy of Home Depot. Event info and sign-up at http://tinyurl.com/ebtocd2014 5 WTBA, OUR SISTERHOOD The People of the Book Club by Molli Rothman “Make books your companions; let your bookshelves be your gardens: bask in their beauty, gather their fruit, pluck their roses, take their spices and myrrh. And when your soul be weary, change from garden to garden, and from prospect to prospect.” ~ Ibn Tibbon, c. 1120-1190 Spanish Jewish scholar Remember when you were a kid and bored and complained to your mother that you had nothing to do, and your mom would say “Read a book”? Well now you can, but not be bored! The People of the Book Club has been meeting for about 15 years. We meet monthly at private homes from 7:00 to 9:00 p.m., members take turns hosting. Each month we alternate between a fiction book and a non-fiction book. Each book chosen must have some Jewish content or be written by a Jewish author. If you like to read a variety of topics, you would probably enjoy attending a meeting of The People of the Book Club. We are a warm group of people with lively discus- Join us next* month for WTBA’s Girls Night Out Israeli Wine & Chocolate Pairing Thursday, November 6 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. Baum Youth Center, 341 MacArthur Girls Night Out is a casual, monthly event to gather TBA women together for relaxed and unstructured social time. Drop in on the first Thursday of each month to chat, laugh, debate, have a glass of wine and some light goodies, and get to know each other better. No need to bring a thing! Meet old friends, and make new friends. There’s a different mix, vibe, and conversation every month. Come check it out! Questions: jessica.sterling@ymail.com or molli.rothman@gmail.com *We will be skipping October’s GNO due to conflicts with tthe high holy day calendar. 6 sion. Each meeting starts with a little schmoozing and a quick check around the room where each person gives a short assessment of their impression of the book. We call this the “thumbs up” or “thumbs down” check-in. The floor is then opened for more in depth discussion. I have greatly enjoyed participating in Book Club on and off over the years for many reasons. The most important is that each month a member presents a few options for books to read at our next meeting. After a brief summary, the group chooses a new title. By participating in this group I have read a far greater breadth of topics than I would normally choose for myself. The discussions are always lively and stimulating. By attending Book Club I have broadened by TBA circle of friends. The group attracts a wide age range of people, which enhances the discussions and the fun. We are a very welcoming group and look forward to seeing you for our next meeting: The next Book Club meeting will be on Monday, October 20, at 7:00 p.m. in the TBA Baum Center. The book is Jodie Picoult’s The Storyteller. For information about The People of the Book Club please see the TBA website or email Fifi Goodfellow at fgoodfellow@att.net. Sponsered by WTBA & Ruach Hadassah An Introduction to the Talmud & Midrash Monday, October 20, 2014 On behalf of The Women of TBA (WTBA) and Oakland Ruach Hadassah, we would like to invite all East Bay Women to join our Rosh Chodesh group. The group meets monthly on the Monday closest to Rosh Chodesh, from 9:30-11:30 a.m. at rotating members’ homes. The meetings are facilitated by members of the group. This month, we will continue our study of the book Taste of Text by Ronald H. Isaacs. This book is an introduction to the study of talmudic and midrashic materials. Rabbi Isaacs addresses sixteen topics of religious and personal importance. The subject for October is Ecology. The meeting will opens with a short discussion about the significance of the month of Cheshvan. Questions? Contact Amy Tessler at abtessler@comcast. net or (510) 482-1218 to obtain the reading materials and get on the distribution list for the upcoming meeting locations. JEWISH DAY SCHOOL OPEN HOUSES Contra Costa Jewish Day School Invites You Have you considered CCJDS for your child’s Kindergarten – 8th grade education? Come learn why other TBA families have chosen CCJDS! We invite you to our upcoming Open Houses on: Sunday, November 2, 4:30-6:00pm Sunday, December 7, 4:30-6:00pm We also welcome you to see our classrooms in action and enjoy a hot kosher lunch on a special school tour on October 23, November 20, December 18 and January 15. Private tours are also available by appointment. Kindly RSVP. Please call Amy Wittenberg, Admissions Director 925-284-8288 or amyw@ccjds.org for further information! www.ccjds.org. SCIENCE ALIVE! Preschool Event October 21 Tuesday @ 2:30PM PRESCHOOL ART WORKSHOP December 16 Tuesday @ 3:00pm RSVP to the admissions office at admissions@ohds.org or call 510-531-8600 Tehiyah Day School invites you to attend one of our upcoming Open House events. Tour our beautiful campus nestled in the El Cerrito Hills, meet members of our exceptional faculty, learn more about our award-winning, values-based curriculum, and discover our joyful, diverse community. All-School Open House Bridge-K through Eighth Grade Sunday, November 2 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m. Bridge-K and Kindergarten Open House Sunday, January 11, 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m. www.tehiyah.org K-8 Co-ed Hebrew Immersion Nationally Recognized Art Program High School Prep Program Diverse Bay Area Community 7 COMMUNITY High Holy Days Services Schedule 5775 YOM KIPPUR Kol Nidre Friday, October 3 at 6:30 p.m. Morning Service Saturday, October 4 at 9:00 a.m. Family Service (Children 2 yrs.-1st grade) 9:30 am in the Social Hall Youth Service (Children grades 2-6) 9:30 a.m. in the Chapel Yizkor Service, 10:45 a.m. Study Session, 2:00 p.m. Martyrology Service and Mincha, 4:30 p.m. Neilah, 6:30 pm. SUKKOT First Day Service Thursday, October 9 at 9:00 a.m. Do you have a simcha to celebrate or a person to remember? Share this occasion with your TBA family. Call or send an email and Rayna, who can help arrange this for you. Rayna Arnold, Executive Director rayna@tbaoakland.org (510) 832-0936 8 SHEMINI ATZERET Shemini Atzeret/Yizkor Thursday, October 16 at 9:00 a.m. SIMCHAT TORAH Erev Simchat Torah Family Service Thursday, October 16 at 6:15 p.m. Service to be followed by music and dancing Simchat Torah Friday, October 17 at 9:00 a.m. High Holy Day Parking again available through the generosity of the Oakland Unified School District. The location is the Old Lakeview School at 746 Grand Avenue, look for the TBA welcome sign. EARN FREE MONEY FOR TBA! If you shop at Safeway or Piedmont Grocery or use a credit card such as Visa, MasterCard, or American Express you can earn free money for TBA with every purchase you make. It’s easy to do through eScrip, which contributes a percentage of your purchase to the temple. If you’ve never used eScrip before, you can create an account and register your cards at https://secure.escrip.com/supporter/registration/ index.jsp. If you’ve already registered your Safeway (or other) card and want to register a new one, visit https://secure.escrip.com/jsp/supporter/authentication/password.jsp. You can shop through the eScrip Online Mall (Target, Nordstrom, Macys, Toys R Us, etc.) at www.escrip.com (go to eScrip Online Mall). And, don’t forget the Amazon shopping link on the TBA homepage! That earns money for TBA too. Please contact Jessica Teisch with any questions or help: j.teisch@sbcglobal.net, (510) 655-1927. COMMUNITY JOIN A NEW TBA CHAVURAH! Do you want to be a part of a smaller, more intimate group within Temple Beth Abraham? Forming or joining a chavurah could be what you’re looking for! What is a chavurah? From the Hebrew word for friend, a chavurah is a group of people (singles, couples, families, or a mix of these) who meet regularly (usually monthly in each others homes) to experience Jewish life together. Joining a Chavurah is one way to meet other TBA members in a smaller, more personal setting. What does a chavurah do? Each chavurah is created to reflect the interests of its members. There could be groups with any of the following interests: socializing, Jewish study, Shabbat gatherings, social action, holiday celebrations, camping, hiking, music, sports, etc. The group could meet with or without children. Each chavurah is completely autonomous and can decide as a group when, where, and how often to meet. It is important for all members to be committed to working together toward building the community. How large is a chavurah? A chavurah is generally made up of between 5 and 10 families or individuals. It could include members who already know each other, or a mix of some old and new friends or acquaintances. How do I join a chavurah? The process of joining a chavurah is very simple. Just fill out the questionnaire by October 15. Sometimes it takes awhile to put together the right group, but it’s worthwhile to wait for a group that’s a good fit. Hard copies are also available in the office at TBA. https:// ccjds.wufoo.com/forms/temple-beth-abraham-chavurah-questionnaire/ How do I find out more? If you have questions, contact Amy Wittenberg, our chavurah coordinator, at: amyw@earthlink.net YOUNG PARENT CHAVURAH Calling all parents of babies and toddlers! Want to connect with other parents of young children at TBA for some low key schmoozing, fun baby-friendly activities, and Shabbat luncheons? Then join our Chavurah for some casual fun! Our first meet-up will be on Sunday, October 5, from 10:30 a.m -12:30 p.m. We will meet at Montclair Park (near Medau Place and Moraga Ave. in Oakland) for some snacks, schmoozing, and playtime. Look for the blue and white balloons when you get there. On Saturday, November 8, we will have our first Shabbat event. Join us at 2:30 p.m. for a post-nap, dairy Shabbat luncheon hosted by Chavurah parents Lauren and Matt Smith at their home in Montclair. To sign up for an event or to get updated about our future Chavurah happenings, please reach out to Jessica Klein at jkdk28@gmail.com or Lauren Smith at lmanasse@gmail.com. 9 A FAMILY OF JEWISH BOOK LOVERS Favorites from Jewish Book Groups submitted by Jessica Teisch My mom started four book groups and was at one time in five! (She claims she can now barely keep up with one). All have been on the Peninsula (she lives in Burlingame) and all have been Jewish in nature, through Federation and Chabad; we also had a mother-daughter book group of all Jewish members, though we read more widely. Growing up, we always had books in our house. I remember as a child reading way into the night, bringing the book down to breakfast with me the next morning, and then surreptitiously reading it under my desk at school. I’m now managing editor of Bookmarks magazine, a publication about… what else, books. So books seem to be in our blood. Some Worthy Israeli Fiction and Nonfiction Titles by Fran Teisch, mother of TBA member Jessica Teisch Originally published in longer form in Bookmarks magazine. Suddenly, a Knock on the Door Stories By Etgar Keret Keret, a native Israeli, grew up in a home with no books. Instead, his parents told stories. Keret, in turn, became a master storyteller whose themes are often quite Kafkaesque. In these very short stories, many humorous and irreverent, Keret has his finger on the pulse of everyday life in modern-day Israel as he explores its inhabitants’ attempts to escape reality. To the End of the Land By David Grossman Grossman’s son tragically died in the 2006 Lebanon War while he was writing this novel, which, ironically, deals with an Israeli woman’s fear 10 of death. With a son in the army, she and an estranged lover attempt to flee any news of him. The novel, heartbreaking and powerful in its intense exploration of fear and loss, reflects the mental state of Israel. ers, of course, know the outcome. This novel is one of Appelfeld’s most accessible. A Tale of Love and Darkness By Amos Oz Netanyahu led the 1976 raid in Entebbe, Uganda, where terrorists hijacked an Air France flight and took Israeli and Jewish hostages. Sadly, Netanyahu was the only person to die in this rescue. His nonfiction writings, which span many years, demonstrate his metaphysical connection to and love of the land and people of Israel. In this autobiography, the internationally acclaimed Israeli novelist and arbiter for peace addresses his own, and Israel’s, history. From his childhood in British-ruled Jerusalem to the formation of Israel, Oz takes readers on an emotional ride as he portrays the challenges faced by his intellectual pioneer parents, immigrants from Eastern Europe; his boyhood; war; and life on a kibbutz. Open Closed Open Poems By Yehuda Amichai If Israel had a poet laureate, Amichai would certainly be it. In his poetry, he transforms Jewish verse and history and adds vivid images of everyday life. An eloquent, masterful collection. Sotah By Naomi Ragen Ragen’s books are relatively lighter reads compared to other books I mention, but they nonetheless explore hefty topics, including Israel’s Orthodox community, women’s struggles with family, and the conflict between religion and tradition. Sotah, one of my favorite novels, features a young woman in Jerusalem’s ultra-Orthodox community who is accused of adultery. Badenheim 1939 By Aharon Appelfeld In 1938 in a Viennese resort town, the first steps of the Holocaust are in place. But the Jewish middle-class vacationers are involved in their own lives and oblivious to the ominous signs around them. The read- The Letters of Jonathan Netanyahu By Jonathan Netanyahu A Strange Death A Story Originating in Espionage, Betrayal, and Vengeance in a Village in Old Palestine By Hillel Halkin Halkin based this nonfiction book, a murder mystery, on the history of Zichron Ya’akov, a Jewish town founded in 1882. Set during the days of Jewish settlement in Ottoman Palestine, the plot involves a World War I spy ring and the relationships between Jews and Arabs under Turkish rule. A Pigeon and a Boy By Meir Shalev Shalev is one of Israel’s most celebrated novelists, for good reason. Through two intertwined stories, he explores love during Israel’s prestatehood days, its 1948 war for independence, and the present day. He depicts the power of love in beautiful language and paints an enchanting tapestry of Israel and its struggles. THE NEXT BIG THING UPDATE “Next Big Thing Project” to Break Ground Before High Holydays by Leon Bloomfield After months of planning, and almost as many months of working our way through the city of Oakland’s permitting labyrinth, the “Next Big Thing” is preparing to break ground before the congregation ushers in the new Jewish New Year. As you may already know, the centerpiece of this project includes the creation of a beautiful new courtyard dedicated to the memory of beloved congregant Murray Davis (z”l) who passed away unexpectedly in December 2012. The courtyard will be built between the current social hall and the Baum Youth Center and will provide the congregation with a fabulous new space where we can gather to pray, play, celebrate and relax. In addition, the current plans for the project include a renovated kitchen for our many fabulous kosher caterers, enhancements to the social hall which will, among other things, open it up directly to the new courtyard, a water feature dedicated to the congregation’s cherished Holocaust survivors, a deck overlooking the courtyard, and new stairways and ramps to improve access throughout the entire TBA campus. We anticipate that the construction will take at least a year to complete and cost approximately $3 million to build. To date, we have raised over half of that amount with the “seed” grant provided by the Applebaum, Epstein and Ilfeld families, the generous $500,000 matching grant provided by the Schwab family in Murray’s memory and contributions from numerous congregation families through a silent campaign that started earlier this summer. In addition, congregants and community members continue to make unsolicited donations earmarked for the project. Don’t worry if you have not had a chance to contribute yet; everyone will get a chance to play a part in making this a reality. Indeed, in the coming months, representatives of the Next Big Thing Committee will be reaching out directly to every family in our congregation to discuss the project and how you can best help. In the meantime, watch for updates on the project and enjoy watching the transformation of the TBA campus. 11 COOKING CORNER B’tayavon: Kugel 101 by Faith Kramer What’s the story behind kugel? Well, it all starts with the cholent in medieval Germany. Jewish housewives would mix up a batter and plop it in their cholent pots. The covered pots would go to the bakers and return for Shabbat lunch with the cooked dumplings within. (The cooked dough was known as the “Shabbos thief” since it would “steal” flavor from the surrounding stew.) Eventually, instead of directly in the stew, the batter began to be cooked in a rounded earthenware jar known as a kugeltopf – Middle High German for round or ball (kugel) and pot or jar (topf) – placed within the cholent. Eventually the dish became known as kugel and it morphed into an array of other savory and later sweet dishes, eventually becoming the kugel we know today. According to Gil Marks, rabbi, caterer, Jewish food historian and cookbook author, to be a kugel rather than a casserole, the dish must have a starch base (noodles, potatoes, matzo, bread cubes, etc.), eggs (or egg substitute) and fat (schmaltz, melted butter, oil, etc.) and not have additional liquids. Since the Middle Ages, Jews have bent those rules more than a bit and added an amazing variety of ingredients to their kugels and have found many ways to pronounce it. Poles and Lithuanians tend to pronounce the dish as “kugel,” the Germans as “koogle” and those from what was known as Galicia (southern Poland, eastern Hungry and western Ukraine) as “keegal,” according to Marks. By the mid-19th century in America, kugels began to be baked in separate, shallow casserole pans in home ovens rather than stewed in kugeltopfs . The 20th century saw the rise of the ultra-decadent dairy kugel that could be brunch or dessert and not just a Shabbat luncheon accompaniment. The word “kugel” also became a last name. Genealogists say the name could have evolved for some out of a nickname for rotund when last names became widely adopted in Germany in the 1500s. South African Jews used the word “kugel” as slang for a more secular young Jewish woman. Eventually the term became a supposedly affectionate or fond South African equivalent of Jewish-American princess. The official Temple Beth Abraham cookbook (published in 2007) had seven noodle kugel recipes in it with ingre- dients as varied as Velveeta, cherry pie filling, and apricot nectar. There was also a potato kugel recipe. The potato kugel recipe in this article is adapted from Ann Rapson’s Mr. Binky’s Potato Kugel. Her husband David created the dish for Yom Kippur break fast. Karen Bloom is often the go-to expert in the congregation. Her kugels are light and fluffy, tasty and varied. Her cousin, Nina Yellin, has written several kugel cookbooks. Bloom recommends whipping the egg whites separately and folding them in last to keep kugel lighter. I took her advice and made a fragrant and sweet Cinnamon Bun Kugel. It was adapted from Yellin’s Kugel, Knishes, and Other Tasty Dishes, Smylan Reed Books. Yellin’s selfpublished books are out of print and only available used. Other TBA members have weighed in on kugel making. Bonnie Burt likes hers sweet. Shira Levine requires a gluten free kugel (try using gluten free noodles, or make a vegetable or rice-based kugel). Roz Aronson and Elizabeth Simms like a potato or other vegetable kugel, but both also like the sweetened noodle ones as well. “With noodles, for me, the creamier the better . . . cream cheese, sour cream, a little cinnamon sugar, raisins or apples ...for dessert, crushed pineapple. It’s all good,” commented Aronson. One traditional noodle kugel without dairy products is the Yersushalmi Kugel or Jerusalem Kugel, a combination of sweet, salty and peppery. It’s a Shabbat tradition in certain Jerusalem neighborhoods. My version features a caramelized onion topping and Moroccan seasonings. My Spiced Jerusalem Kugel with Caramelized Onions is a slightly spicier adaptation of a classic and makes a great side dish. In addition to writing for the Omer, Faith Kramer is a cooking columnist for the j. weekly. She blogs her food at www.clickblogappetit.com. Send questions, suggestions or comments to fjkramer@msn.com 12 COOKING CORNER CINNAMON BUN KUGEL Dairy Serves 8-10 This recipe is based on one by Nina Yellin. Use low-fat (not fat-free) dairy products if desired. The kugel’s spicy warm scent entices as the oozing cinnamon, brown sugar and butter topping melts into the creamy noodles. 8 oz. medium wide egg noodles 3 eggs, separated ½ pint sour cream ½ pound cottage cheese ½ cup milk ½ cup sugar 1 cup chunky apple sauce 1 ¼ tsp. ground cinnamon, divided 4 Tbs. butter ½ cup brown sugar Heaping 1/3 cup roughly chopped pecans 1/3 cup raisins Cook and drain noodles. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Beat yolks and mix with sour cream, cottage cheese, milk and sugar. Combine apple sauce with ¼ tsp. of cinnamon, add to egg yolk mixture. Mix in noodles and combine. Beat egg whites until stiff and fold into noodles. Melt butter and pour into 8” x 8” baking pan, being sure to fully coat inside bottom and sides. Scatter remaining cinnamon, brown sugar, pecans and raisins on bottom of pan. Stir. Pour noodle mixture into pan. Bake for 50 minutes or until kugel is firm to the touch. Invert on serving platter to serve immediately, serve directly out of the pan, or store in pan and warm before inverting and serving. MR. BINKY’S POTATO KUGEL Dairy Ann Rapson from Everyday to Holidays: Favorite Recipes from Temple Beth Abraham. Serves 24-30 This is a big kugel for a big crowd and unlike some potato kugels it is dairy not parve. 2 Tbs. butter plus extra for greasing pans 10 russet potatoes (almost 5 lbs.), scrubbed and unpeeled 3 onions, peeled 5 eggs, beaten 3 ½ cups sour cream ½ tsp. salt Freshly ground black pepper Paprika Preheat oven to 400 degrees. Butter two 9” x 13” broiler-safe baking pans. Slice potatoes and onion and put through the grating attachment of the food processor in batches. Press mixture and drain excess liquid. Turn into large bowl, mix in eggs, sour cream, salt and pepper to taste. Place in baking pans. Dot with butter and sprinkle generously with paprika. Bake, uncovered for 30 minutes. Reduce heat to 375 degrees and bake another 45 minutes until nicely browned. Place under broiler for a minute or two for a crispy topping. SPICED JERUSALEM KUGEL WITH CARAMELIZED ONIONS Parve Serves 8 This kugel is based on one by Gloria Kaufer Greene in The Jewish Holiday Cookbook. To make it a classic Jerusalem Kugel, omit the onions, Moroccan seasonings and the ground red pepper. I specify a Moroccan spice mix that is available in some specialty and spice stores, but see the note following the recipe for a substitute. I haven’t tried it, but I think this would work nicely by replacing the vegetable oil (I used grape seed) with melted chicken fat (schmaltz) or duck fat (which would make this a fleishig or meat dish instead of parve). 2 Tbs. plus ½ cup vegetable oil, plus extra for greasing the baking pan 1 large onion (12-14 oz.), very thinly and evenly sliced ¼ tsp. plus 1 tsp. salt 1 lb. very fine egg noodles or pasta such as angel hair or capellini, broken into 2” lengths ¼ cup sugar 1 Tbs. ground black pepper (freshly ground is best) ½ tsp. ras el hanout spice mix (see note below for info and substitution) 1/8 tsp. ground red pepper (cayenne) Heat 2 Tbs. oil in a large, heavy skillet. Separate onion rings and add to pan when hot. Sprinkle with ¼ tsp. salt. Stirring occasionally, cook until onions have reduced down, are a deep brown and very soft. It can take 40-60 minutes for onions to caramelize. Adjust temperature as needed. Be careful not to burn the onions. Set aside. Cook pasta according to package directions. Do not overcook. Drain. Rinse continued on page 23 13 GAN AVRAHAM KINDERGYM The Gan Reads, Thanks to Diverse Library by Barbara Kanter If you visit the Gan, you will almost always see teachers sitting with a small group of children reading a book. This is in addition to a daily scheduled story time in each class. Reading aloud to children is one of the most important activities that lead to building knowledge and success in reading. It creates a warm environment that leads to a lifetime of reading and learning. The PJ Library (created by the Harold Grinspoon Foundation) in association with the Jim Joseph Foundation and the Jewish Federation of the East Bay is a wonderful source of Jewish themed children’s books to enrich your family at home. Parents can create a special time with their children at home. Every month a book arrives at your home for your child age six months to seven years. Register online at www.jfed.org/pjlibrary. The Gan even receives a book every month to add to our library. We are very lucky to have a rich and diverse library at the Gan. Families often honor birthdays or other special events by donating a book to grow our library. Donated books receive a special commemorative stamp indicating the event honored and the child’s name. KINDERGYM SUNDAY PLAY DAYS with Dawn for Under 3s Temple Beth Abraham Social Hall 10:30 a.m.-12 p.m. $12 per family October 19 November 9 November 16 December 7 Come join our community of diverse families for our 32nd year for climbing, sliding, ball pit, fire engines, water play, playdough, rocking horses, parachute, songs, bubbles, and all of you will make new friends! Priced per family; siblings under 3 welcome! Please share this info with your entire parenting community. Contact Dawn with any questions at (510) 547-7726 Kindergym with Dawn for ALL families No Youth Services in the month of October because of Sukkot. Join us in the Sanctuary and the Sukkah for our wonderful celebrations. Youth Services resume in November with Shabbat Mishpacha and T'fillat Y'ladim. Mark your calendars! 14 BET SEFER We Are Partners by Susan Simon V’shinantam L’vanecha – we recite these words every time we chant the Shema and V’ahavta. “You shall teach them diligently to your children.” What is it we should teach? The V’ahavta tells us that we should teach “these words.” Which words are referred to? The words commanding us to love Adoshem with all of our heart, with all our soul, and with all our might. The V’ahavta places an obligation upon everyone who is a parent to teach the love of God to our children. Like many obligations, this one is complex. Is the idea of love of Adoshem a narrow concept? Can we simply tell our children to love Adoshem every day and we have fulfilled our obligation? I think not. It seems to me to be a much broader obligation which includes the ideas of a wide ranging education in Jewish law, thinking, history, language, culture and thought. Are we each knowledgeable enough to succeed at that role of teacher? Like with other obligations, there is wisdom in the actual practice. We are obligated to circumcise our sons, yet we typically hire a mohel to do the task for us. We are obligated to do deeds of loving kindness, and many of us do, but we also often donate money to organizations that are better able to provide the kind of services that are required. And we are obligated to teach our children about our heritage and the rich and diverse wisdom that has developed over the centuries. But as with many obligations, we need help in fulfilling it. Religious schools save the day. Or is it really saving the day? I would argue that without a true partnership between the family at home and the synagogue school, you are unlikely to be successful in v’shinantam l’vanecha. If a child’s only exposure to Jewish ritual, values, history, midrash, and language occurs during the two to four hours of religious school per week that the impact is likely to be small. If Shabbat candles are never lit, no amount of teaching a child the Shabbat blessings is likely to remain in his or her heart for very long. If apples are never dipped in honey for Rosh Hashana, no amount of enjoying them at religious school is going to mean much more than a sweet snack. If Kaddish isn’t recited at synagogue for a deceased grandparent, what is the meaning behind learning the Kaddish Yatom (Mourner’s Kaddish) in religious school? I’m very proud of our religious school. Our wonderful teachers and madrichim work very hard to impart as much knowledge as is possible in our two to four hours per week. But even eight years of religious school can’t take the place of seeing and feeling that their parents are also involved, that what they are learning is also being lived, that their learning is for a higher purpose, not just an ordeal to be survived. Every time you participate in a Jewish ritual or read a Jewish story to your child, you are partnering with us and you are fulfilling the obligation of v’shinantam l’vanecha. Every time you bring your child to youth services and either sit with him or her or go to the main service, you are fulfilling this obligation. Every time you put some coins in your tzedakah box before Shabbat and then involve the child in a decision of where to donate the money, you are partnering with your entire Jewish community. Ben Zoma said “Who is wise? The one who learns from all people, as it is written, ‘From all my teachers I gained understanding.’” Parents are the very first and most important teachers of their children. While it doesn’t always feel like it, parents have the most influence over their children, far more than any single school teacher usually has. Do you remember your parents saying: “do as I say, not as I do?” If you are like me you probably rolled your eyes when you heard that – it just rang so false! The same is true for educating our children Jewishly. Your children will know if Jewish learning isn’t important to you. I am so proud of the great number of families here at TBA who show with their bodies the commitment that is in their hearts. I see families who bring their children to services. I see families who somehow in their hectic lives find time to show their children that doing acts of loving kindness for others is a priority – families who bring meals to people who are sick, families who might give money to someone begging outside of a store, families who go out of their way to visit a shiva house. continued on page 16 15 ADULT EDUCATION ADULT EDUCATION Sundays, starting October 19 It's time to learn! Join us for Sunday morning classes with Nitzhia Shaked starting on October 19. Cost for the series is $75 or $15 per session. Sessions start at 10:00 a.m. in the Chapel. Email susan@tbaoakland.org to sign up. We'll be delving more into Maimonides and his teachings. Sunday, November 16, 12:30 p.m.-5 p.m. We are fortunate to be able to present a different type of learning activity to those of you who enjoy hands-on learning. Our very own and very talented Harlan Simon will be teaching a one day class on the history of glass making and the role of Jews in this process. In addition to learning about the history, each participant will learn to make a glass bead under Harlan's tutelage. This is a wonderful opportunity, not to be missed. The learning and crafting will take place at the Studio One Art Center in Oakland. We are limited to 16 participants, age 16 or older. The cost is $30 per person. Snacks will be provided. We already have five spots filled so email Susan@tbaoakland.org for information or to register. Bet Sefer, continued from page 15 Every heart is swelling with joy and hope when we see the children on the bima at the end of our Saturday Shabbat service and each child rushing off to get candy knows that their parents care about that this. As we begin this new school year, as we begin this new Jewish year, it is a good time to ask ourselves how we can fulfill our end of the v’shinantam l’vanecha obligation. Can we do a little more? Can we keep the words of the Shema and V’ahavta in our hearts and in the hearts of our children and grandchildren? Nothing about raising children is particularly easy, but maybe we can try to find a bit of time and sense of need to make sure our children learn from all of the wise people in their lives. 16 YOUTH EVENTS Keflanu Shabbat Fun and Games We would like to invite 3rd – 6th graders to join their friends in the Baum Youth Center following Shabbat services Dates coincide with Junior Congregation: September 20, November 11, December 20, January 17, February 21, March 21, April 18, May 16 After the service, join together for Kiddush in the social hall. Enjoy Lunch and then have your parent walk you over to the Youth Center and check in with the Chaperone! Have fun with Shabbat appropriate games and activities… basketball, board games, jump rope, foosball, ping pong, or even just shmooze PARENTS: ➢Drop off: When children arrive they should check in with the chaperone at the Youth Center. ➢Parents can enjoy the Kiddush, please stay on campus while your child is at Keflanu. ➢Pick up: parents should pick up their child at the Youth Center. Just let the chaperone know your child is leaving. Please pick up by 1:15 p.m. La’atid If you are a 4th-7th grade parent this year, your child is automatically a member of La’atid “To the Future”. We have monthly events which tend to be both social and socially conscious. To RSVP or questions, contact your trusty advisors, Dina & Phil Hankin at dinahankin@aol.com. Next event: October 19 LA’ATID First Event of the Season for TBA Youth Phil and Dina Hankin lead the first La’atid youth group of the year to the San Ramon Olympic Pool and Aquatic Park. Photos by: Joni Tanis and Milah Gammon 17 B’nai Mitzvah LIFE CYCLES Eli Kleinmann, October 18, 2014 My name is Eli Kleinmann and I am a seventh grader at Willard Middle School in Berkeley. My favorite subjects are math and science because I really enjoy thinking about and using numbers. In my free time, I like to play sports (baseball and soccer), watch college and professional sports (especially the SF Giants), and travel with my family. I like spending time with my family and I’m lucky to have so many of them living nearby. I’ve been at Bet Sefer since kindergarten and I’ve made a lot of friends. My Torah portion is Bereshit which comes from the book of Genesis. It is about Adam and Eve eating from the tree of good and evil and getting banned from the garden of Eden. In my drash I will be talking about whether or not G-d lied to Adam and Eve. I hope to see you there. Mayer Goldberg, October 25, 2014 My name is Mayer Goldberg, and I am in the eighth grade class at the Contra Costa Jewish Day School. When I’m not in school, I do martial arts. The particular art that I do is called Poekoelan Tjimindie Tulen. Poekoelan, (pronounced Pookalaan) means “a series of returning strikes from the hands and feet.” Tjimindie means “beautiful flowing waters,” and Tulen means “complete.” I also enjoy carpentry, computers, and boy scouts (especially camping). I really like Star Trek, Doctor Who, and Battlestar Galactica. For my Bar Mitzvah, the Torah portion is Noah. Since this is the second triennial portion, it takes place after Noah’s big story about the ark. Lanie Goldberg, August 23, 2014 My name is Lanie Goldberg and I am a seventh grader at Black Pine Circle. My favorite subjects are math and English. In my free time I enjoy playing sports, particularly baseball and basketball. I also like playing the saxophone and hanging out with friends. My Torah portion is Re’eh and comes from the book of Deuteronomy, Chapters 11-12. Re’eh is about rules and laws. For my drash I am talking about Chukim and Mishpatim which are types of rules – some of which can be quite surprising. Editor’s note: due to my error Lanie’s write up about her Bat Mitzvah was left out of the September Omer. Mazel Tov, Lanie and my apologies for the omission. - RD Mazel Tov 18 Mazel tov to Loren and Elise Perelman on the birth of their son August Jakob, born on Saturday, September 13. Mazel tov to Rebecca Lesser and Joshua Kayman on the birth of a daughter, born on Thursday, September 18. LIFE CYCLES OCTOBER BIRTHDAYS 1 8 17 23 Jacob Lorber Edward Marcus Len Nathan Janet Lai Charles Levine Leah Liron Edie Mills Micah Ross Ricardo Collaco Fredric Hoffman Lon Moore Juanita Villa 3 9 Judy Berkowitz Ayla Bukofzer Nicole Joseph-Goteiner Jan Kessler Sophie Marinoff Andrea Sarber Jenna Tessler 2 Yarden Feiger Lauren Quittman Sheldon Schreiberg 4 Lena Sloan Freid Isaac Frierman Sandra Rappaport 5 Zachary Seth Binder Yael Gordon Julie Kotovsky Marshall Langfeld Josh Rego Andrew Rose Arianna Leya Zatkin 6 Mia Lynn Bricker Charles Feltman Ruby Klein Benny Krantz Barbara Oseroff Michael Oseroff Miriam Reichenberg Benjamin Skiles 7 Jennifer Eisenbud-Sawle Rachel Firestone Eli Kleinmann Rachel Bernstein Rachael Rothman 10 Noah Adams Rinat Fried Janna Lipman Weiss 11 Kate Flick Garcia Maya McLean Ana Schwartzman 12 Shirley Margolin Mikhail Partsuf 13 Dan Engel Cole Matsuzaki 14 Eden Bruner Andy Campbell Stephen Pollack 15 Jason Binder Beth Glick 16 Anita Hannah Engel Eliana Polon Gary Smith 18 Jennifer Berg Aaron Goldberg Dan Halperin Sophie Hodess David Morris Misia Nudler Mary Odenheimer Michael Rose Anna Schacker Sheli Schacker Lurio Siegel 19 Alicia Cernitz-Schwartz Danielle Glick-Scroggins Michael Zapruder 20 Gabriella Gordon Stuart Liroff Will Sparks Treya Weintraub 21 Talia Rotman Gilles Tarquin 22 Benjamin Ring 24 Sophie Hankin Martin Kharrazi 25 Eli Mailman Devorah Margolin David Weiner 26 Jordan Carey David Coltoff Michael Kubalik Cara Plumhoff 27 Emanuel Novak Hartsock Richard Odenheimer 28 Arielle Albert 29 Julia Hamilton 30 Keith Dines Nathan Kruger Freya Turchen 31 Julia Bersin Eden Goldstone Amy Tessler Matthew Waitkus Debra Weinsteinº Is your birthday information wrong or missing from this list? Please contact the TBA office to make corrections. 19 LIFE CYCLES OCTOBER YAHRZEITS May God comfort you among all the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem TISHREI 7-9 October 1-3 Arthur Adler Emma Bolton Samuel Shapiro Minnie Teverov Joseph Catarevas Bernard Lutz Nathaniel Ranzer Simma Leson Frances Piser Mary Plotkin Harvey Steinberg TISHREI 10-16 October 4-10 Allen (Al) Davis Sam Grant Mathilda Kahane Bertha Rosenstein Mary Weinstein Lena Zubkoff Isedore Isenberg Rose Kastel Gary Rosenfeld May Landowitz Elizabeth Rosenberg Rabbi Morris Schussheim Anna Hammerman Harry Horwitz Abraham Maltzman Florence Dines Leah Goldberg Ellen Goldstein Jack Lorber Faye Selinger Solon Weiner Evelyn Gluck Bandel Samuel Burge Maurice Goldberg Arthur Kaplan Rose Wasserman TISHREI 17-23 October 11-17 Fradel Darling Sam Epstein Minnie Gershenson Iris Leve Harold Nudler Sam Sarver Melvin L. Simon Bernice Katz Zywotow Benjamin Davidson Leah Dorfman Sylvia Elber Dorothy Maccabee Minnie Markovits Jack Tessler Eleanor Davis Benjamin David Gaynor Toba Goldenhar Max Goldstein Emma Rothenberg Reba Schechtman Celia Bierman Edith Kaplan Beke Schechtman Fannie Arenbart Sieff Rebecca Diamond Max Fass Albert Kravitz Rose Semendoff David Belzer Seymour (Cy) Cernitz Hy Goteiner Nathan Levine Miriam Kestenblatt Renner TISHREI 24-30 October 18-24 Joseph Cohen Emanuel Diamant Udel Kontrovich Howard Krachman Daniela Rath Abraham Wishnoff Bernard Stuart Horodas Joseph Novack Abraham Rabinowitz Donald Rapson Errin Berkowitz Annette Biatch Sarah De Vorin Sadie Goodman Elsa Kraus Labe Shikevich Abraham J. Weisbrod Sidney Samuel Hertz Isaac Kessler Fannie Sussman Sadie Weiser Brinner Hyman Cohen Louis Huberman Fannie Landy Bety Paul-Katz Ben Rust Edwin Ames Morris Kuff Harry Winchell Maurice Klevens Dorothy Lutz Mike Marshak Nachman Schleifer Jeanette Baim Stern CHESHVAN 1-7 October 25-31 Alice Klein William Joseph Craig Emil Goodman Lewis Herskovitz Samuel Platoff Simon Sanders Jeanette Somers Ann Usef continued on page 21 Recent Deaths in Our Community Peter Finnegan, stepfather of Joanna Berg (Dan Finkelstein) and Jenny Berg (Ray Plumhoff) June Matthews, mother of Joan (Steve) Jacobs Norman Kagan, father of Susan Kagan Waitkus (Matthew Waitkus) Irving Louis Berg, father of Joanna and Jenny Berg 20 Samuel Langberg, father of Mark (Judy) Langberg LIFE CYCLES New Members: Julie and David Berman compiled by Sharon Alva Julie and David Berman came from New York to Oakland four years ago. Their neighbors introduced them to TBA and this summer they joined the congregation with two year old Oliver and seven month old Max. Oliver is squarely in his train stage and loves the swings. He is attending Gan Avraham. Max is a super easy-going baby who is just happy to get a moment of attention when Oliver and the dog aren’t causing some kind of ruckus. David is an enforcement lawyer at the securities and exchange commission in San Francisco, and Julie is a former New York City public school teacher (grades 3-5) and currently does private tutoring in the east bay. They all like the New York football Giants, Oakland As, Indian food, swimming and hiking. Oliver also likes drawing on furniture and throwing food on the floor. Welcome New Members continued from page 20 Sam Garfinkle Siegfried Sanders Dave Siver Morris Triebwasser Ben W. Wisott Sam Fox Maurice Freimark Joshua Kayman & Rebecca Lesser. Daughter Alden Cohen & Sabrina Berdux. Daughter Naomi Whittle Cherryne Kravitz. Daugter Avivah Jonathan Carey & Amy Schoenblum. Daughters Jordan and Sasha Josh Weiss & Janna Lipman Weiss. Daughters Maya and Simone Sheldon Kahn & Sarah Liron Craig Palmer Mae Rosen Hanna Tsifrin Harry Diamond Lisbeth Gross Su Huang Samuel Kaplan Robert Schechter Cover artist: Gabriella Gordon Gabriella studied her Masters of Fine Art at Konstfack, or University College of Arts, Crafts and Design in Stockholm after three years of of art studies in Paris, France. Her work is usually mixed media depending on what she feels she want to express. Gabriella usually worka with abstract pieces. She has worked in glass, ceramics asphalt, cement, silicone, video nylon stockings, and fabric and acrylic. MEMORIAL PLAQUE Anyone wishing to purchase a memorial plaque, please contact Pinky at the synagogue office at extension 229. If you do not know the location of a Memorial Plaque for your loved one, simply find the Memorial Plaque binder located on the back table in the Sanctuary. This book lists all Plaques in alphabetical order by the last name of the deceased and will be updated as new Plaques are hung. Please do not remove the binder from the Sanctuary. 21 DONATIONS Charity is equal in importance to all the other commandments combined. Davis Courtyard Match Fund Steven Grossman & Jill Rosenthal, in memory of Eileen Grossman Jerrold & Anne Levine, in memory of Charles Levine Klaus Ullrich Rotzscher & Jessica Siegel, in memory of Leonard Leibel, founder of Mazon George & Lorri Zimmer Jeanette Jeger Kitchen Fund Norman & Jo Budman, in loving memory of Arthur Roth Richard Leavitt & Mary Kelly, in memory of Morris & Mary Leavitt Gertrude Veiss, in memory of Sid Shaffer Steven & Victoria Zatkin, in memory of Gertrude Bleiberg Minyan Fund Marjorie Brenton, in memory of uncle Sid Shaffer Martin & Evelyn Hertz Yom Ha Shoa Fund Helen Fixler, in memory of Alan Fixler Bet Sefer Discretionary Fund Tonda Case, in memory of Louis Vaughn Edvardo Tate Camper/Scholarship Fund High Holy Day Appeal – General Elinor DeKoven, in honor of Shirley Silver’s 91st birthday Elinor DeKoven, wishes for a speedy recovery for Deena Aerenson Andy & Marcia Wasserman Rabbi Discretionary Fund High Holy Day Appeal – Endowment Martin & Evelyn Hertz Angelina Levy Andy & Marcia Wasserman General Fund Stephen H. Abel, in memory of Bernice Glick Jack & Diane Fass, in memory of Michael Fass Jay Goldman & Mona Goldfine Martin & Evelyn Hertz Randall & Jan Kessler, in memory of Fannie Kessler Herbert & Harriet Bloom, in memory of Ina Nathan Doris Weiner Gluckman, in memory of E. Kushner & Joseph Weiner Douglas Moss, in memory of Edith Moss Larry & Deborah Reback, in memory of Leah Levine Cantor Discretionary Fund Joshua Wittenberg & Jennifer Kopp, in memory of Jerry Kopp Endowment Fund Sophie Casson, in memory of Arthur Casson A Legacy Gift Lasts Forever Include TBA in your Estate Planning so that your message to your family is loud and clear: “The existence of Temple Beth Abraham is important to me and for the future of Jews in Oakland.” Contact TBA’s Executive Director Rayna Arnold for further details (510) 832-0936 or rayna@tbaoakland.org. You are never too young to plan for the future! 22 CONTINUATIONS Change, continued from page 2 or second call does not provide coverage. Some people can’t commit several weeks ahead but will read if it turns out that they are in town. Any bit of advice is welcome, Joan said, who has agreed to take over because she simply “loves reading Torah and Change, continued from page 13 thoroughly with cold water. Drain well. Thoroughly dry out pasta pot. Put on medium-low heat. Add ½ cup oil and stir in sugar. Keep stirring until sugar melts and is browned (about 5-10 minutes). Be careful not to let it burn. (The sugar will stay separate from the oil). Leave on stove and quickly stir in well drained pasta until covered with the sugar and oil. Stir until any crystalized bits of sugar melt into the pasta. Remove from heat. Stir in 1 tsp. salt and the black pepper, ras el hanout (or substitute) and red pepper. Let sit until lukewarm (about 20-30 minutes). Preheat oven to 325 degrees. Grease an approximately 8” x 11” baking pan with oil. Mix the eggs into the noodles until well combined. Pour into the prepared pan. Top with caramelized onions. Bake for 75-90 minutes or until top is golden and very crisp. Let cool a few minutes before slicing. Note: Ras el hanout is considered a mix of the “best” of what a North African spice shop might offer. There are many variations of it. It offers a complex range of tastes and may contain as many as 30 ingredients. To make a substitute for this recipe, use 1/8 tsp. each ground cardamom, ground dried ginger, ground cinnamon and ground allspice. You may also want to use a dash more black and red pepper. find it very meaningful to help the synagogue with anything related to Torah.” Joan hopes others find the mitzvah meaningful, too. She doesn’t really want to have to “nag people to get congregants to sign up to read.” Joan sees Torah reading as a “communal responsibility.” VEGAN STRAWBERRY KUGEL Parve Serves 6-8 A good dessert kugel after a meat meal or a vegan brunch entrée. To keep this vegan, be sure your bow ties do not have egg as an ingredient. Medium to wide noodles can replace the bow ties. 8 oz. uncooked butterfly or bow-tie noodles or pasta Oil or oil spray 1-14 oz. container of soft tofu (fresh, not vacuum packed), drained 2 cups soy vanilla-flavored yogurt 1/4 tsp. plus 1/4 tsp. ground cinnamon 2 Tbs. sugar 1/8 tsp. salt 2 and 1/2 cups quartered fresh strawberries 1 Tbs. non-dairy margarine Cook and drain noodles as per package instructions. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Use oil or oil spray to grease an approximately 8” x 11” baking pan. Press on tofu to squeeze out moisture and then let drain. Crumble tofu into a large bowl so it resembles small curds. Mix with yogurt, 1/4 tsp. cinnamon, sugar and salt. Combine with drained noodles. Mix with strawberries and pour into prepared pan. Sprinkle top with remaining cinnamon. Cut margarine into small bits and scatter on top. Place in oven and bake until browned and bubbly, about 40 minutes. 23 24 5 19 20 27 26 Tishrei 3 Cheshvan 7 14 21 28 27 Tishrei 4 '' 6:43p Cheshvan 4p-6p Bet Sefer sukkot VI 20 Tishrei 4p-6p Bet Sefer 4p-5:50p Bet Sefer field trip to Grocery Outlet - 5th grade Lulav and Etrog available for pick up 9a-6:15p 13 Tishrei 26 8a-9a Minyan (Chapel) 4p-6p Bet Sefer 1 8 15 22 29 9a Weekly Text Study (Woodminster Cafe) 10-11a & 11:15a-12p Kindergym 7p BBYO-AZA and BBG 5 Cheshvan 9a Weekly Text Study (Woodminster Cafe) 10-11a & 11:15a-12p Kindergym 7p BBYO-AZA and BBG 28 Tishrei 9a Weekly Text Study (Woodminster Cafe) No Kindergym this week 7p BBYO-AZA and BBG sukkot VII (hoshana Raba) 21 '' 6:30p Tishrei No Kindergym this week No Weekly Text Study No BBYO-AZA and BBG 5:30p Gan Supper in the Sukkah eReV sukkot 14 '' 6:40p Tishrei 7p BBYO-AZA and BBG No Kindergym this week 9a Weekly Text Study (Woodminster Cafe) 7 Tishrei 2 9 sukkot II 16 '' 6:37p Tishrei 3 10 6:30p Kol Nidre Service No Kindergym this week Office closes at 1p eReV yom kIppuR 9 '' 6:48p Tishrei sImChat toRah 23 '' 6:27p Tishrei 17 23 30 4p-6p Bet Sefer 8a-9a Minyan (Chapel) 10-11a & 11:15a-12p Kindergym 6 Cheshvan 4p-6p Bet Sefer 8a-9a Minyan (Chapel) 10-11a & 11:15a-12p Kindergym 29 Tishrei 24 31 9:30-10:30a & 10:45-11:45a Kindergym 6:15p-7:15p Kabbalat Shabbat halloween 7 '' 6:10p Cheshvan 9:30-10:30a & 10:45-11:45a Kindergym 6:15p-7:15p Kabbalat Shabbat Rosh Chodesh 30 '' 6:18p Tishrei 9a Simchat Torah Services 9a Shmini Atzeret Services Office & GAN Closed • No Kindergym Office & Gan Closed • No Kindergym • No Bet Sefer 6:15p-7:15p Kabbalat Shabbat 6:15p Erev Simchat Torah Family Service 16 shmInI atzeRet (yIzkoR) eReV sImChat toRah 22 Tishrei Office & Gan Closed • No Kindergym 9a Sukkot 1st Day Services Office & Gan Closed • No Kindergym 6:15p Kabbalat Shabbat with 6:15p Dedication of the New Gate GleeBA! No Bet Sefer sukkot I 15 Tishrei 4p-6p Bet Sefer 4p-5:50p Bet Sefer field trip to Grocery Outlet - 6th grade No Kindergym this week 8a-9a Minyan (Chapel) 8 Tishrei Always check the Congregational E-mail or the Weekly Shabbat Bulletin for more up-to-date information. Please note any corrections care of Rayna Arnold at the TBA office. 4 Sukkot 11 18 25 9:30a-12p Shabbat Services Bar Mitzvah of Mayer Goldberg 1-2:30p Mah Jongg for Experienced players 6:59p Havdalah (42 min) No•ach 1 Cheshvan 7:08p Havdalah (42 min) 9:30a-12p Shabbat Services Bar Mitzvah of Eli Kleinman Bereshit 24 Tishrei 9:30a-12p Shabbat Service 1-2:30p Mah Jongg for Beginners 5-9p Parents Night OutChild Care by BBYO 7:18p Havdalah (42 min) sukkot III 17 Tishrei 9a Yom Kippur Service 9:30a Family Service (Social Hall) 9:30a Youth Service (Chapel) 10:45 Yizkor • 2p Study Session 4:30p Martyrology/Mincha • 6:30 Neilah 7:28p Havdalah (42 min) yom kIppuR 10 Yom Kippur Tishrei October 2014 Calendars in The Omer are produced 30-60 days in advance using the best data available from the TBA Administration Staff. This calendar is also available at our website www.tbaoakland.org 5-7p TBA serving at CityTeam 10a Adult Education with Nitzhia Shaked 2 Cheshvan 4p-6p Bet Sefer East Bay Tikkun Olam Chessed Day 4p-6p 3rd graders to Lake Merritt La’atid event 8a-9a Minyan (Chapel) for kite flying 9:30a Rosh Chodesh-Cheshvan 10a Adult Education (Contact Amy Tessler for location) 4p-5:50p Bet Sefer field trip to with Nitzhia Shaked Grocery Outlet - 4th grade 10:30a-12p Sunday Kindergym 7p Book Club Meeting— 4:30-7p WTBA Taco Tues at Lake Chalet 6-7:30p Teen Scene-Kick Off! THE STORYTELLER by Jodie Picoult 25 '' 6:57p Tishrei 8a-9a Minyan (Chapel) 13 9:30a-12pWTBA Sukkot program 19 Tishrei sukkot V Columbus day 12 6 Lulav and Etrog available for pick up 9a-4p 8a-9a Minyan (Chapel) 12 Tishrei sukkot IV 18 Tishrei 10:30a-12:30p Young Parent Havurah (Montclair Park) 11 '' 6:25p Tishrei Tishrei / Cheshvan 5775 25 2 16 9 23 30 10 17 24 8a-9a Minyan (Chapel) 9:30a Rosh Chodesh-Kislev (Contact Amy Tessler for location) 2 Kislev 8a-9a Minyan (Chapel) 24 Cheshvan 8a-9a Minyan (Chapel) 17 Cheshvan 18 25 No Bet Sefer this week 3 '' 6:43p Kislev 4 11 4p-6p Bet Sefer 7:30p Board Meeting 25 Cheshvan No Bet Sefer Veterans Day 18 Cheshvan Kitah Zayin in l.a. Kitah Zayin in l.a. eleCtion Day TBA is a voting location for local prescient 4p-6p Bet Sefer 3 11 Cheshvan 8a-9a Minyan (Chapel) 10 Cheshvan 5 12 19 26 7p BBYO-AZA and BBG No Kindergym this week 9a Weekly Text Study (Woodminster Cafe) 4 Kislev 9a Weekly Text Study (Woodminster Cafe) 10-11a & 11:15a-12p Kindergym 7p BBYO-AZA and BBG 26 Cheshvan 9a Weekly Text Study (Woodminster Cafe) 10-11a & 11:15a-12p Kindergym 7p BBYO-AZA and BBG 19 '' 6:30p Cheshvan 9a Weekly Text Study (Woodminster Cafe) 10-11a & 11:15a-12p Kindergym 7p BBYO-AZA and BBG 12 '' 6:40p Cheshvan 6 13 14 27 9a Minyan (Chapel) followed by EGGS-Mit-ONIONS Thanksgiving Day breakfast Office and Gan closed No Kindergym/Bet Sefer this week thanKsgiVing 5 Kislev 28 Office and Gan closed No Kindergym this week 6:15p-7:15p Kabbalat Shabbat UNPLUGGED 6 '' 4:32p Kislev 6:15p-7:15p Kabbalat Shabbat 21 4p-6p Bet Sefer 6:15p Bet Sefer Zayin Class Dinner 28 '' 4:35p Cheshvan 6:15p-7:15p Kabbalat ShabbatRock n’Roll Shabbat 9:30-10:30a & 10:45-11:45a Kindergym 21 '' 4:39p Cheshvan 9:30-10:30a & 10:45-11:45a Kindergym 20 7 9:30-10:30a & 10:45-11:45a Kindergym 5:45p Bet Sefer Mechina Share A Shabbat 6:15p-7:15p Kabbalat Shabbat 14 '' 4:45p Cheshvan 8a-9a Minyan (Chapel) 10-11a & 11:15a-12p Kindergym 27 Cheshvan 4p-6p Bet Sefer 8a-9a Minyan (Chapel) 10-11a & 11:15a-12p Kindergym 20 Cheshvan 4p-6p Bet Sefer 8a-9a Minyan (Chapel) 10-11a & 11:15a-12p Kindergym 13 Cheshvan Always check the Congregational E-mail or the Weekly Shabbat Bulletin for more up-to-date information. Please note any corrections care of Rayna Arnold at the TBA office. 1 8 22 29 5:34p Havdalah (42 min) 9:30a-12p Shabbat Services Vayetzei 7 Kislev 9:30a-12p Shabbat Services Bat Mitzvah of Yael Berrol 1-2:30p Mah Jongg for Experienced players 5:35p Havdalah (42 min) Toldot 29 Cheshvan 15 9:30a-12p Shabbat Services 10:15 Junior Congregation 12:30p Keflanu-play together grades 3-6 5-9p BBYO-Parents Night Out 6p Gan Share a Havdallah 5:39p Havdalah (42 min) 22 Chayei Sara Cheshvan 5:44p Havdalah (42 min) 9:30a-12p Shabbat Service Wasserman Speaker Father Michael Barber 1-2:30p Mah Jongg for Beginners Vayera 15 Cheshvan 6:51p Havdalah (42 min) 9:30a-12p Shabbat Services 10:15a Shabbat Mishpacha 10:15a T’fillat Y’ladim Lech-Lecha 8 Cheshvan November 2014 Calendars in The Omer are produced 30-60 days in advance using the best data available from the TBA Administration Staff. This calendar is also available at our website www.tbaoakland.org 10a Adult Education w/Nitzhia Shaked 8 Kislev No Adult Ed. • 5-7p CityTeam rosh ChoDesh 1 Kislev Adult Education - Glassmaking with Harlan Simon - TBD La’atid event - Q-zar - off site 10:30a Sunday Kindergym 6p Teen Scene 23 '' 6:57p Cheshvan 10a Adult Education with Nitzhia Shaked 16 Cheshvan Kitah Zayin in l.a. 10a Adult Education with Nitzhia Shaked 6-7:30p Teen Scene Daylight saVing time enDs Fall BaCK one hour 9 Cheshvan Cheshvan / Kislev 5775 Temple Beth Abraham 327 MacArthur Boulevard Oakland, CA 94610 PERIODICALS POSTAGE PAID Oakland, CA Permit No. 020299 WHAT’S INSIDE TBA Directory...................... i What’s Happening.............. 1 From the Rabbi................... 2 President’s Message............ 3 Editor’s Message................ 4 Community......................... 5 Women of TBA................... 6 Jewish Day School Open Houses...................... 7 Bet Sefer News................. 15 Community......................... 8 Youth Events..................... 17 Books............................... 10 Next Big Thing Update...... 11 Cooking Corner................ 12 Gan Avraham News......... 14 Adult Education................ 16 Life Cycles........................ 18 Donations......................... 22 Calendar.................... ......24
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