tbe tekiah january 2015
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tbe tekiah january 2015
INSIDE THIS ISSUE PAGE 2 Rethinking a Favorite by Ellen Ratner PAGE 6 New Melton Graduate Class PAGE 8 Craig Kazin Honored PAGE 8 Meet the Tenenbaums PAGE 10 Mishloah Manot PAGE 15 Hanukkah at TBE! JAN U ARY / FEBRU ARY 201 5/TE VE T-SHE VAT-ADAR 5775 Cantabile performs music by the eminent, late Renaissance Jewish composer Salamone Rossi. Shabbat Shirah to feature Musical Join us for Chinese Kabbalat Shabbat service, dinner & Food and a Movie! concert On Friday, January 30, we will celebrate Shabbat Shirah (Shabbat of Song) with a Kabbalat Shabbat service, followed by a delicious Shabbat dinner, and a concert by the vocal group Cantabile performing the beautiful and ethereal music of Salamone Rossi, beginning at 8:15 pm. The evening begins at 6:00 pm with a wonderful Kabbalat Shabbat service featuring musicians accompanying Cantor Barber. Dinner will follow at 7:10 pm, prepared by Catering by Meital. The menu includes challah, sweet corn salad with onions and mushrooms, assorted pickle and olive plate, mixed greens with fresh apples, tangerines, pecans, and orange vinaigrette, sautéed chicken breast with figs, celery and a date glaze, basmati rice with sweet potatoes, sautéed with onions, French-style green beans with fresh garlic and mushrooms and homemade apple crisp with raisins and Tofutti. CONTINUED ON PAGE 3 Beit Café Saturday, February 7 Temple Beth El is planning an evening of music on Saturday, February 7 at 7:00 pm, featuring the talents of our members. Please join us to schmooze, sing, play, and nosh at the home of Stuart & Michelle Anfang, 120 Pinewood Hills, Longmeadow. If you sing or play an instrument and would like to be one of the performers, we’d love for you to share your talents. Contact Cantor Barber at cantorbarber@tbespringfield.org or 733-4149 for more information or to sign up. CONTINUED ON PAGE 2 It’s back! Chinese food and a movie at TBE! Join us on Saturday evening, January 10 at 6:30 pm to see Keeping Up with the Steins and enjoy a sumptuous Chinese buffet. Keeping Up with the Steins is a 2006 comedy film directed by Scott Marshall, and starring Garry Marshall, Jeremy Piven, Jami Gertz and Daryl Hannah. The film is also a commentary on how too many Jewish families see a bar mitzvah or bat mitzvah not as a coming of age for their son or daughter, but rather as an excuse to throw outrageously lavish parties. The Program Committee will prepare homemade egg rolls, chicken and broccoli, vegetable stir fry, noodles, rice, and desserts. Hire a sitter and make your reservations early for this adults-only event! The cost is $20 per person, and reservations must be made by Monday, January 5. R.S.V.P. by sending in your check or visiting our website, www. tbespringfield.org, to pay by credit card. MMTemple Beth El Founded 1913. In 2008 merged with Congregation B’nai Jacob (founded 1891). Devoted to seeking God, doing Mitzvot, studying Torah, and creating Community. 1 Sisterhood Shabbat Saturday, January 24 Rethinking a Favorite Ellen Ratner A few weeks ago, I attended a Board Meeting where an important agenda item was discussed at length, that of the sanctuary and the proposed changes. The details of the architect’s drawings and ELLEN RATNER plans were not in discussion, but really that of the general philosophy of change itself. As you can all imagine, some of us are in favor of these changes and others not at all. We wouldn’t be such a diverse group with strong opinions if we all agreed, at least right now. At one point during the discussion, my husband, David, raised his hand and asked a simple question, one that we had discussed often at home and I had thought was a possible solution to some of the concerns regarding the sanctuary. He proposed the possibility of simply enlarging the chapel and leaving the sanctuary as is. For some reason, a light went off in my head and, where once I thought it might work, I realized this did not address the very important concerns about our existing space in the sanctuary. This seemed like a practical solution to David, but I knew it was coming from someone who is not a frequent user of either space. I say this lovingly, but truthfully. To appreciate and feel fully what it is like to pray in both places is to understand the need to make changes in the sanctuary. I say this with fondness for both places. But I LOVE the sanctuary! I love the immediate feelings of beauty and serenity I get as soon as I enter. I love the colors, the light and all of its glory that was intended when Percival Goodman designed it. The associations I have with davening in the sanctuary are very important to me. So when presented with changes, I thought, wait a minute, seems good to me the way it is. But then something occurred to me. Just as my most favorite shul suit wasn’t working for me anymore due to reasons we won’t discuss, maybe there was a way to fix it. I stepped out of my slightly rigid idea of fashion, and that of always matching skirt to jacket, and tried the jacket with a different skirt, and it worked. This may seem ridiculous to many of you, but think of the changes in the sanctuary as just that. Rethinking a favorite, comfortable piece of clothing that made you feel wonderful, warm and secure and allowing for the possibility to make changes so it could work for you now and in the future. Let’s all be open to it. Weekday Mornings New Year’s Day (office closed) Monday through Friday........ 7:00 am Thursday, January 1 Sunday................................... 8:30 am Asara B’Tevet - Fast Day Morning Service...........................8:30 am Weekday Evenings Friday, January 2 (office closed) Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday & Thursday........5:45 pm Morning Service...........................8:30 am Shabbat Worship Erev Shabbat.........................6:00 pm Shabbat morning.................. 9:30 am Shabbat afternoon................5:00 pm 2 Rosh Hodesh Shevat Wednesday, January 21 ..........6:45 pm Presidents Day (office closed) Monday, February 16 Morning Service...........................8:30 am Rosh Hodesh Adar Thursday, February 19 ............6:45 am Martin Luther King, Jr. Day Friday, February 20 ..................6:45 am (office closed) Monday, January 19 Morning Service...........................8:30 am Please join us as the women of our congregation participate in the Shabbat morning service. All are invited to a festive Kiddush lunch following services, sponsored by Temple Beth El’s Sisterhood. Membership Survey Please return the survey that you received in the mail, if you haven’t already done so, whether there are corrections or not. Although the deadline to enter the drawing for prizes has passed, we still need everyone’s surveys returned so that we can ensure that the information in our database is correct, and to help enhance our sense of community. For example, we’d like to be able to wish our members happy birthday or anniversary. If you have misplaced the survey, we’d be happy to send you another copy. Please contact Lisa in the temple office at 733-4149. We’re happy to announce the winners of our raffles prizes: Sue & Stan Polansky won a gift certificate for a cake from Sweet Sensations, Mitzi & Larry Mackler won a Barnes & Noble gift card, Suzanne & Max Chorowski won a Starbucks gift card, and Vickie Donovan won a Big Y gift card. NEWS & NOTES: Steve Stotsky from CAMERA discusses media bias against Israel at a packed house last month at Temple Beth El. CONTINUED FROM PAGE 1WBEIT CAFÉ There is no cost to attend, and all are welcome to participate as a musician, sing, or just to enjoy the evening. Space is limited, so please contact the office (733-4149 or office@ tbespringfield.org) to let us know if you plan to be there. Rabbi Amy Wallk Katz These past few months I have been doing a lot of reminiscing. I have shared with all of you just how difficult it has been to say goodbye to my mother. Besides the physical work of going through my Mom’s apartment, I have also begun to ask myself what were the big lessons my Mom and Dad tried to teach me. There are the obvious ones: say please and thank you, family first, and always tell the truth. These topics were discussed at dinner, or in a car ride to school — usually it was my father lecturing us about his expectations for my siblings and me. Often, these lessons were explicitly stated in reaction to mistakes we made. Another more subtle message that my parents taught us was about obligation to those outside our family. I have no memory of my mother or father lecturing us to be communally minded. I don’t even remember CONTINUED FROM PAGE 1WSHABBAT SHIRAH TO FEATURE MUSICAL KABBALAT SHABBAT SERVICE, DINNER & CONCERT The cost of the meal is $18 per person. Guests are encouraged to bring a bottle of kosher wine to share with their table. There will be open seating, but tables of 8 can be reserved (please provide names of all 8 people with your reservation). To register, mail your check to the temple office or to pay by credit card, you can call the office or visit our website www.tbespringfield.org. R.S.V.P. by January 23. There is no charge to attend the concert, which will begin at 8:15 pm. Cantabile performs music by the eminent, late Renaissance Jewish composer Salamone Rossi (ca. 1570-1628). Unusual in being a Jew employed by an Italian duke to write and perform music for court entertainment, Rossi was unique for composing Jewish sacred polyphony (a style of musical composition with two or more simultaneous but independent melodic lines) – in Hebrew. In 1587, he began his long association with the Gonzagan Court of Mantua, initially as a singer and a dinner conversation about volunteerism or the importance of community. There was never a reason for my parents to explicitly explain why devote hours to the PTO, or the sisterhood or the committee celebrating the centennial of our synagogue. I think they just assumed this is how you live your life. My parents committed themselves to the community. In particular, the Jewish community was the focus of my parents’ lives. They understood that they had a responsibility to the Jewish people. I remember my mother always going to meetings at night. Or my father on the phone discussing some communal issue that seemed very important. My mom was a professional volunteer at our day school, synagogue, and JCC. She was involved in Hadassah, ORT and NCJW. My father supported my mother’s volunteer efforts and he raised funds for Federation and Israel Bonds. violist. He soon became the leader of Duke Vicenzo I’s court musicians and directed an instrumental ensemble. In 1623, he published Songs of Solomon, a collection of 33 psalms, hymns, and other liturgical poems set for combinations of 3-8 voices and intended for use on festive occasions in the synagogue. This was the first collection ever of originally composed music for Hebrew psalms and prayers, and the only music of its kind to be found until the 19th century. His most important contribution to the history of music, however, is the establishment of the trio sonata texture, which would come to dominate in the baroque era. During the concert, vocal works for three, four, and five voices, both sacred and secular, will be performed. The vocal group Cantabile is a selfdirected ensemble based in the Pioneer Valley that specializes in a cappella performances of vocal chamber music from the European Renaissance of the 15th through 17th centuries. Cantabile members include Diana Brewer, Kayla Werlin, Dorie Goldman, Jim Mead, and Peter Shea. My mom and dad found the balance. They took nice vacations, and enjoyed time together. They never neglected their family, but they also had time for the organized Jewish community. My parents generation is dying and I am afraid that my generation has not learned this important lesson from our parents. In our era of the “sovereign- self,” American Jews have increasingly pulled away from centralized communally-minded efforts. Federations, communal agencies and synagogues across America are suffering because many of us do not feel obligated to the very organizations that are positioned to care for the Jewish community’s concerns and aspirations. Although the reasons are varied, and Jewish organizational life is, in many cases, in desperate need of a revolution, I am worried that it will be under our watch that American Jews will lose the ability to focus on the needs of the community. I can think of no greater value to communicate to our children and grandchildren than our obligation to always hold the needs of the “whole” above the needs of the “parts.” UPCOMING MUSICAL KABBALAT SHABBAT FRIDAY NIGHT SERVICES Our popular series of Friday night services, featuring Cantor Elise Barber and guest musicians, continues in 2015. Each service begins at 6:00 pm and, except when dinner is served as noted below, is followed by an appetizer buffet. Please be sure to put these dates on your calendar and join us when you can. It’s a lovely way to let your cares from the week melt away and to begin the weekend. The dates are as follows: • Friday, January 9 • Friday, January 30, followed by dinner • Friday, February 27 • Friday, March 27, followed by dinner • Friday, April 10 • Friday, May 8 Silence is a fence for wisdom. – RABBI AKIVA 3 FROM THE EDUCATION DIRECTOR Passover Candy Sale Our Chesed projects Caryn Resnick To help prepare the curricula for our school-wide theme of chesed (acts of loving kindness) concentrating on food insecurity, I relied on various resources. The book that I enjoyed reading the most was Judaism and Justice: The Jewish Passion to Repair the World, written by Rabbi CARYN RESNICK Sidney Schwartz. The book addressed the relationship between Judaism, social justice, and Jewish identity. The book traced how the idea of justice, as developed in our sacred texts, conditions Jewish attitudes and behaviors. Now that I feel better informed, I am faced with the task of guiding our teachers to effectively help our students understand these concepts. In the limited time that we have with our students at religious school, we will try to help our children understand the true meaning of chesed and to grasp that Jews believe the world stands on three things: Torah, service to God, and acts of loving kindness. To that end, our chesed projects at the religious school will be focused on food insecurity. Students in all grades (K-12) will be learning about and participating in projects for local organizations in our community. Our B’Yahad students learned about our local food pantry from a representative of the Western Massachusetts Food Bank, and our students in grades 3-7 listened to a presentation by Debbie Rubenstein from Rachel’s Table. The statistics we have heard are staggering. We learned that one out of five children in the United States suffer from hunger. The Massachusetts Department of Elementary and Secondary Education (ESE) estimates that there are over 37,000 students of all ages experiencing homelessness who are enrolled in Massachusetts public schools. In the 20122013 academic year, public schools across Massachusetts were able to identify and serve 15,812 students who were experiencing homelessness. 4 THE HAROLD SAWL ANNUAL STUDENT RETREAT Kadima members wrap holiday gifts on Family Mitzvah Day. Michael and Emily Anfang (2nd from left & standing), along with other regional USY members, welcome convention participants to Temple Beth El. USY News & Updates Nora Gorenstein Advisor Debbie Rubenstein, Director of Rachel’s Table, discusses the impact of food insecurity on children with students from SKLC. In the religious school, students in grades 3-7 were involved in the Backpack Project in collaboration with Rachel’s Table, providing local school children with food to supplement their diet during the weekend. Currently, over 550 children in Holyoke go without food over the weekend and school vacations. This project continues in January with our B’Yahad students. If you would like to partner with us to fulfill our Jewish responsibility to repair the world, there will be a nonperishable and canned food collection in the gift shop hallway. We welcome the congregation’s involvement in our religious school chesed project! Our Shalom Learning Family Havurah. Kadima Youth Group Rachel Borke Soumakis Advisor We had a great time on our November trip to Newport, Rhode Island! We visited the Touro Synagogue and the Jewish cemetery. The weather was extremely cold RACHEL BORKE SOUMAKIS and rainy so we were unable to enjoy the seaport area, but we had a great time, despite the weather. Thank you to the members who came to help at the tag sale. We raised some money to support future programs. The January event will be the retreat at the Holiday Inn in Enfield. You won’t want to miss this exciting Shabbaton! On February 8, we will go ice skating. Watch your mail for the details. JANUARY 24 SISTERHOOD SHABBAT KIDDUSH LUNCH FOLLOWING SERVICES As the year continues, Temple Beth El’s teens in USY are expanding their efforts to work on the SKLC’s initiative to help alleviate food insecurity in our community. NORA GORENSTEIN Through fundraising, campaigning, outside involvement, and direct volunteer work, our teens are deeply involved in tikkun olam, repairing the world. In January, February, and March, teens will be working together with other groups, including other local children and teens, parents, and community members. USY will play a role in the SKLC Retreat on January 9-10, and will continue to host Lounge Nights with projects and “down time” for our local Jewish teens. In addition, a Teen Family Shabbat is planned for March– stay tuned for more details! If you are interested in membership or event information, contact Nora Gorenstein at ngorenstein@tbespringfield.org. Students in grades 6-12 will enjoy themselves for a full Shabbat in prayer, learning, music, games, camaraderie, community-building and great food and fun. The retreat will be held at the Holiday Inn in Enfield, Connecticut, from Friday afternoon, January 9, until Havdalah on Saturday, January 10. Our Israeli Emissaries will accompany us to add to the fun. Don’t miss out on this special opportunity! If you have any questions, please contact Caryn Resnick at 737-0170. PARENT/TEACHER CONFERENCES JANUARY 12 Parent/teacher conferences for the SKLC Religious School will be held on Monday evening, January 12. This is an ideal time for our parents and teachers to learn from one another! JOINT HAVDALAH PROGRAM WITH SINAI TEMPLE RELIGIOUS SCHOOL STUDENTS Students in grades 5-8 will meet at Sinai Temple for some food, fun, and Havdalah Saturday, January 31, from 5:00 - 6:30 p.m. Watch your mail for details. For more information, please contact Caryn Resnick. FIRST GRADE CONSECRATION Volunteers preparing food for the hungry on Family Mitzvah Day. We will honor our first grade students at a Consecration ceremony on Shabbat morning, February 7. It’s a time in which we recognize our children beginning to study about their Judaism and Torah. The children being honored are: Jenna Barr Etai Dragon Mackenzie Hartnell Chloe Raker Jordy Ratner Alana Zak Mathew Zippin We will be selling Barton’s Kosher for Passover candy from February 2-25. There is a wide variety of chocolates, macaroons, and other gift items available, which are perfect for your own holiday table or as gifts. Please stop by the SKLC office or call 737-0170 for an order form. Proceeds will benefit the SKLC, which provides Jewish education and programming for children and adults. Thank you in advance for your support! 2017 B’nei Mitzvah to be Scheduled Attention all families with children who will be turning 13 in 2017. Cantor Elise Barber will be sending you a letter in January about selecting a date for your child’s Bar/Bat Mitzvah. The children whose names we have are: Briannah Axler, Marissa Burstein, Sarah Cranna, Zachary Elfman, Hayden Steinberg, and Caleb Zive. If your child’s name does not appear on this list, please call Cantor Barber at 733-4149 so that we can be sure to include him or her in our planning. Camp Scholarships As we do every year, Temple Beth El is proud to be able to provide scholarships to our member children to attend Jewish summer camps (day or overnight) as well as summer programs in Israel. Some of the scholarships are need-based and others are open to everyone. Last year, we were able to give applicants scholarships ranging from $100-$250 each. We are grateful to donors to the following funds for making these scholarships possible: the Bernard and Sarah Altman Memorial Israel Scholarship Fund, the Nechamen/Chernick Fund, the Aaron and Esther B. Posnick Scholarship Fund, the Rabbi Price Memorial Fund, and the Fannie & Myron Zimmerman Camp Ramah Scholarship Fund. The deadline for applications is Friday, January 30. Please call the temple office at 733-4149 or e-mail us at office@tbespringfield.org to request an application form. 5 Melton Trip to Israel Planned for the Fall Book Discussion Group News Sundays at 9:00 am In Cuppa Joe we are reading the wonderful essays at the back of the Etz Hayim Humash. These scholarly essays allow for thoughtful conversation about Biblical life, Jewish law, prayer, and much more. You do not need a strong background to participate in the class, just a desire to learn. Just Show Up whenever it is convenient. Minyan is at 8:30 am, and breakfast and class begins around 9:00 am. Coming in February: Talmud Tales Resuming in February, Wednesdays at noon We will be taking a break in January. In February, our topic will be Talmud tales. In this series we will examine stories from the Talmud and midrash. Rabbinic literature contains hundreds of stories about rabbinic sages and other historical figures who lived during the late Second Temple and rabbinic periods. The stories were recorded long after the events they recount, and thus they are literary rather than historical accounts. In our discussions, we will look to see how these stories can make a difference in our lives. Lunch and Learn meets Wednesday at noon. Pack a dairy lunch and join us when you can. The deadline for the February-March issue is Friday, January 16. Please email all articles or photos to communications@tbespringfield.org. 6 Liz Marinelli Librarian The book group will take a break from reading in January. On Wednesday, February 11, we will meet to discuss Walking Israel by LIZ MARINELLI Martin Fletcher. Eminent foreign correspondent Fletcher traces the history reflected by the 100-mile coastline of Israel between Lebanon and Gaza, revealing how its various points expose aspects of the region not covered by typical news reports. Historical insights are melded with humor, true-life tales and great storytelling and the result is a memorable read. Joining the book group is a great way to start the new year-everyone is welcome! We meet at 10:30 am in the library. You will find much more than books at the library! Here are some new music CD acquisitions: ◾ Yearning For Shabbat: Traditional Breslov Songs For Shabbat Night – Yosef Karduner ◾ Moishe Oysher Sings – Moishe Oysher ◾ Road Marks/The Whole World – Yosef Karduner ◾ Yiddishe Renaissance – Klezmer Conservatory Band ◾ In the Fiddler’s House – Itzhak Perlman ◾ Jews With Horns – The Klezmatics Stay tuned for news about another meeting with architect Scott Cohen about the proposed sanctuary renovations. Date to be announced. Travel to Israel on a Melton seminar this fall, with some of the finest Jewish educators in the world, who will help make historic sites and texts come alive. The dates are October 26 – November 5, 2015. A Melton seminar is the ideal trip for those who want a deeper understanding of the history and texts of our people and their connection to Israel. It’s perfect for both first-timers as well as repeat visitors. This seminar, “Wrestling with the Angels,” provides an overview of the place of Israel in the history of the Jewish people and critical turning points in the land over a 4,000 year period. Travel from the time of Abraham to contemporary Israeli society. A variety of texts will provide an opportunity to explore pivotal moments in Jewish history and in the land of Israel. A few summers ago, TBE had a large group of participants on this seminar, and Rabbi Katz hopes to have a group join her on this trip. For more information, contact her at rabbikatz@tbespringfield.org or 733-4149 New Melton Graduate Class to be Offered “Journeys of Redemption: The Books of Jonah and Ruth” The texts of Jonah and Ruth both depict powerful journeys of redemption. While Ruth coincides with the Book of Judges and Jonah, the Book of Kings II, they add more to our understanding of those time periods through a personal lens and an in-depth story. Join us for text-based Torah study that will include many different perspectives on how to understand the verses, lively discussions, and perhaps even a redemptive journey of our own! This 8-week class will be taught by Dalia Davis, and will begin on Tuesday, January 13 from 9:30 - 11:00 am at Heritage Academy. The tuition is $175 plus a $25 materials fee. Please contact Lisa in the temple office at 733-4149 or llaudato@ tbespringfield.org to register. From the President Paul Farkas In her welcome letter for new congregants, Rabbi Katz writes that she prefers the term “partner” to “member,” that “we are your partners on an important Jewish journey.” DR. PAUL FARKAS Ralph, a new member-partner, was inspired by that letter to respond that he wants only to be a “good partner.” And that inspires us in turn: how can we be the best possible partners for him? As I ask this question, the leaves outside are turning their magnificent colors and starting to fall. I imagine how, by the time you are reading this, we will be in the midst of winter. Each season at our temple is unique. Just as looking at the yard when covered with a nice layer of snow gives one a false impression of winter, we realize that although January and February seem unusually quiet at temple, that can be misleading. January is our budget month. We carefully examine our income and expenses and try to plan for the year ahead... a truly challenging event each year, one requiring much thought and input. Right after so many gave so generously to the High Holyday Appeal, I wish I could tell you that we were balancing our books! (I know... it is not right to lie, especially at temple). Instead, we are discussing dues, and the impossibility of those dues ever covering expenses. Please, please, if you have the good fortune to be able to, consider paying your dues at a higher level, and becoming a Pillar of our temple. Thank you so much to all of you who have already stepped up, have become Pillars, and who donate generously throughout the year. You are making our Jewish journeys possible. You are allowing all of us to be good partners. When last I wrote, my Rosh HaShanah speech was tucked away in my jacket pocket. Much has happened since then. We have celebrated good times and shared sadness. Our celebrations for Sukkot and the dancing and singing at Simhat Torah were truly good times. Steve Stotsky came from CAMERA to discuss media coverage of Israel. Our Shabbat mornings have been so memorable, with USYers, Bar/Bat Mitzvahs, and many who chant and speak. It seems as if Musical Shabbats, with the instruments, the beautiful tunes, and the singing-along, just get better and better. And there were other special moments: David Kalicka and Steve Weiner became, once again, Bar Mitzvah boys. (Steve even threw candy back at us!) And Heidi Thibodeau led her first evening service in her clear, sure voice. Sadly, we did share sorrow. We joined with Rabbi Katz and her family as she mourned the passing of her beloved mother, and later we mourned the passing of Charlie Nirenberg, a true pillar of our community. Sharing difficult times, helping each other through, is perhaps one of the most important aspects of our partnership… By the time you read this, we will have had our Shabbaton, our Hanukkah party/Cabaret night, and our SKLC Hanukkah show. Perhaps there will still be time to make your reservation for our Chinese Food and a Movie night. These highlights overlay the daily vibrations of life at shul. Except for the most extreme circumstances (which usually do come in the winter), we are here for each other every day, for morning services, for evening services, for Wednesday Lunchand-Learn, for Sunday morning Cuppa Joe, weekly for Shabbat. Whether study groups or services or Kiddush lunches, we are learning and we are stepping away from the too-fast rush of daily life. I am hoping that our times together, both happy and sometimes less so, our continuing education and growth, our development as a community, our being there for each other, all help make us good partners for Ralph (and for each other). Cemetery Update Paul Farkas When I first became president, I was aware that Temple Beth El had a cemetery. Like so many of us, I had been to any number of funerals there. We have reserved plots for our family. It was early in my presidency that I began to become more acquainted with the myriad details involved in managing a large cemetery. Our cemetery is 100 years old. It has been managed by so many people who put their “hearts and souls” into their responsibilities. For the most part, they did their work as dedicated volunteers. Recently, Allen Mackler and his committee have been working with an architect to re-assess the cemetery. They have discovered that there are some situations where a potential grave will just not fit. In some cases, it was a matter of a row of graves being one or two inches off. In some cases, it was a matter that, years ago, walkways or driveways were planned, and these made use of certain graves impossible. While we are hoping the numbers will be very small, we have become aware that some of us may need to “re-reserve” our plot locations. I, personally, am glad that Allen is working on this now. It is just so much easier to deal with this before the plots are needed, when folks can carefully make a decision. I am, of course, also sad that we have to do this. We will be in touch with affected families as soon as all areas of concern are located. In the meantime, I’m sharing this with you and asking for your understanding and patience with this process. 7 Nechamen/ Chernick Breakfast to Honor Craig Kazin SUNDAY, MARCH 8 The 7th annual Nechamen/Chernick Breakfast will be held on Sunday, March 8, sponsored by the Program Committee. The breakfast will begin CRAIG KAZIN at 9:15 am, following minyan at 8:30 am. This event raises funds for the Nechamen/ Chernick Scholarship Fund, which provides scholarships for member children to attend Jewish educational and summer programs. Named in memory of two dedicated members of Congregation B’nai Jacob, David Nechamen and Chet Chernick (z”l), the breakfast honors members of our merged congregation for their exceptional dedication to TBE. This year, we are honoring Craig Kazin. Craig’s association with Temple Beth El stretches back to his grandmother Rose (z’’l), who served on its Board of Trustees as the decision to build a new sanctuary on its present site was made in the early 1950s. Cantor Morton Shames officiated at the marriage of Craig’s parents, and indeed at Craig’s brit milah on a snowy day in 1960. Craig attended the Beth El Religious School and United Hebrew School, and became Bar Mitzvah at TBE. Craig and his wife, Norah, were married in our shul in 1984, and both daughters were named and became Bat Mitzvah here. Craig began his tenure of service to the congregation in the mid- to late-1990s, first serving as President of its Men’s Club. He then became a member of the Ritual Life Committee, a vice president of the shul, and eventually served as its President from 2002-2004. He has led several lay committees, including those that steered and informed the B’nei Mitzvah process, and, most recently, chaired Temple Beth El’s successful Centennial Celebration during 2013. Craig’s smiling face can most often be 8 How you can help the TBE bottom line found greeting people in the sanctuary and ensuring smooth-running services during the High Holy Days and B’nei Mitzvah, and other special Shabbatot. Craig and Norah have two daughters, Lindsay and Molly, and have resided in Wilbraham since 1990. The Program Committee will prepare a delicious hot breakfast for the nominal cost of $8 per person in advance ($10 if paid at the door). Please make your reservations by calling the temple office at 733-4149 or emailing us at office@tbespringfield. org. Contributions in Craig’s honor will be accepted to the Nechamen/Chernick Fund for camp scholarships. Attendees are encouraged to stay for the Annual Meeting which begins at 10:30 am (see next article). Annual Meeting SUNDAY, MARCH 8 Temple Beth El’s annual meeting will be held on Sunday, March 8 at 10:30 am. Members will have the opportunity to vote on the slate of Officers and new Trustees. Our Board is elected to make decisions on the future direction of our synagogue—this is your opportunity to have a say in who is elected to represent our membership. There will also be reports on the temple’s activities over the past 12 months, as well as plans for the upcoming year. The slate of Officers and Trustees will be disseminated before the meeting. Please plan to be there. Volunteers Needed for Social Action Events Loaves and Fishes, Christ Church Cathedral, 35 Chestnut Street, Springfield – We serve lunch on the third Wednesday of the month. Join us on Wednesday, January 21, and Wednesday, February 18 at 11:45 am. Please bring a gallon of whole milk with you. Shiloh Seventh Day Adventist Church, 797 State Street, Springfield – We prepare and serve dinner to approximately 50 hungry adults on the fourth Sunday of the month. Please meet us on Sunday, January 25, and Sunday, February 22 at 4:45 pm. Food can be cooked at home or purchased. Meet the Tenenbaums Debbie Peskin Mary and Seth Tenenbaum are new faces at Temple Beth El. Although they recently moved to Longmeadow, Seth has a connection to the area as a cousin to former members Beth and Bob Kirstein. In fact, he attended the B’nei Mitzvah of his second cousins, Michael and Paige at TBE! Mary is a radiologist at the Radiology and Imaging group. Seth works from home for a Midwest-based financial company, and is planning on starting his own firm in the near future as he has a strong entrepreneurial spirit. Mary and Seth have been married for three years. For their wedding, they built their own chuppah. Last January, they traveled to Israel and had an incredible experience sightseeing and learning many new things about the Jewish state. Mary and Seth enjoy the outdoors. They love spending a day hiking or bicycling in the summer and enjoy cross-country skiing in the winter. They also love classical music. In fact, they met in a tour of the symphony hall when they were both living in Rochester, New York. Mary also enjoys playing the viola. Seth and Mary live in Longmeadow with their three cats. By now, you should have received your dues bill for 2015. We appreciate those who have already paid their dues and look forward to receiving payments from the rest of our members when they are able to send them. You will notice that we have held the line on dues, which were last raised in 2011. As much as we rely on dues, they barely cover half of our annual operating budget. Therefore, we count on the generosity of our members to make additional donations to help defray the cost of some of the events we offer. Food is always a big part of many events at TBE. Think about emulating Paul and Esta Farkas who have provided the popular refreshment tent on Rosh HaShanah, or Fred Brownstein who subsidizes the cost of our congregational Break Fast. Many have stepped forward to sponsor High Holy Day bimah flowers which enhance the beauty of our sanctuary. The cost of speakers and entertainment are other items which can be sponsored. Here are some specific suggestions as to how you can help for as little as $50 (the cost of a minyan breakfast). All donations will be included in the publicity for the event being sponsored or subsidized. • Join the Kiddush Club for $136 per year. This helps us cover the cost of the unsponsored lunches we serve each Shabbat. • Sponsor a Kiddush lunch or consider joining with others to sponsor a lunch. • Sponsor the appetizer buffet following our Musical Kabbalat Shabbat services. • Subsidize the cost of Shabbat and holiday dinners. In order to encourage attendance, we don’t charge the full cost of our dinners. There are many costs, in addition to food, which go into our dinners. These include waitstaff, napkins, tablecloths, centerpieces, etc. Consider making a donation to help us break even on these meals. • Sponsor a minyan breakfast in honor of a yahrzeit, birthday or other special occasion. • Sponsor or subsidize the Nechamen/ Chernick Breakfast, so that all money raised can go towards scholarships for our children. • Sponsor refreshments for our Beit Café. • Sponsor a speaker for one for our Adult Education programs or a Shabbat morning speaker. • Sponsor the cost of our Selihot film and/or refreshments. • Sponsor or subsidize our Purim celebration. • Sponsor refreshments following Sukkot or Shavuot services. • Sponsor refreshments for our Erev Shavuot program. • Sponsor our musicians on Selihot or Simhat Torah. • Subsidize one of our Program Committee’s social nights, such as dinner and a movie. Please contact Rhoda Peskin at 733-4149 or rpeskin@tbespringfield.org to discuss these or other ideas you may have to help us cover the cost of our events. Additional High Holy Day Appeal Supporters Responses to the High Holy Day Appeal continue to come in. Since October 7, the following generous members have added their names to our list of donors. We are grateful to them and to all who gave to the appeal. Thanks to all of you, we have over $65,000 in pledges, 25% of which will be matched by our anonymous donor. Ellen Alpert Peter Benjamin & Liz Bramson Sheila Blum Felix & Karina Bogdanis Isaac & Fayina Bograd Berry & Judy Brooks Ruth Burstein Mallory Caplan Irving & Doris Chase Michael & Dana Chiz Annette Diamond Mark & Phyllis Dindas Jan Draymore Eric & Melinda Elman Norma Feder Ina Fine Robert & Dorothy Fleischner Curt Freedman Harvey & Carol Gloth Jerome & Myra Gold Richard & Andrea Goldstein Dennis & Miriam Gordan Arnold Greenhut & Adele Miller Jeff & Margie Grodsky Richard & Susan Halpern George & Julia Hartnell Jerry & Sydney Hirsch Stuart & Joan Hurwitz Scott & Erica Kaplan Andrew Labb Rebecca Lepow Milton & Marcia Lieber Laura Posnik Caryn Resnick Suzanne Rosenberg Joan Rubin Ian & Shari Schein Kobi & Andrea Shemesh Robert & Risa Skerker Grace Sperling Norma Vinick Carol Halpern Wernick If we are not better tomorrow than we are today, why have a tomorrow? – RABBI NACHMAN OF BRESLOV Temple Beth El’s New Young Professionals Initiative Temple Beth El has recently initiated a new program to identify young Jewish people in our community in their 20s-30s, and promote their connection to and involvement in synagogue life. There is a place for everyone in the Temple Beth El community, and we look forward to further expanding to meet the needs of young singles, couples, and families, within the wider local area! We are interested in finding out what young professionals—whether in graduate school, seeking work, or working—are seeking, and how we can best meet these needs! If you know of any young professionals in our area who might be interested in Jewish life— socially, academically, or religiously—please pass along their names and contact information to Nora Gorenstein at ngorenstein@tbespringfield.org. 9 MISHLOAH MANOT FOR EVERYONE ON YOUR LIST! Join us again for the festive TBE Mishloah Manot project—last year over 500 baskets were exchanged! This year’s co-chairs are Michelle Anfang and Elina DeAngelis. You will receive a mailing in January with a list of the members of our synagogue. Please take a moment to select all the families to whom you would like to send Purim greetings and Mishloah Manot. There is a charge of $5 per recipient selected (or 12 for $50), and each member selected will receive a basket of goodies, which include candy, fruit, nuts, hamentaschen, a holiday card, and more. Multiple members may send to the same person. In this case, the recipient will receive one basket accompanied by a Purim greeting that will acknowledge each of the families that sent the basket. Children may also like to send baskets to their friends, or to Grandma and Grandpa, or a favorite Beth El teacher. If you would like to send Purim baskets, fill out the order form on the opposite page (we’ll also mail you one) and submit it with a check payable to Temple Beth El—Attn: Purim Baskets. Order forms are due by February 5. If you need additional forms, please call the temple office at 733-4149 or email office@tbespringfield.org. Recipients will be contacted by phone and invited to pick up their baskets at the Megillah reading on Wednesday evening, March 4, or March 2-6 between 9:00 am – 3:00 pm. Thank you for your support of this important fundraiser for Temple Beth El. MISHLOAH MANOT BASKET ORDER FORM PLEASE PLACE YOUR ORDERS NO LATER THAN FEBRUARY 5, 2015 Name of Recipient Phone Number Name of Recipient Phone Number ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ ____________________________ Total number of Synagogue Recipients Fee for Synagogue Recipients ($5 each, 12 baskets for $50) $ Total Number Out of Town/Other Synagogue Recipients Fee for Out of Town/Other Synagogue ($18 each) $ Total Amount of Check $ If you would like to send one of our Mishloah Manot to a friend at another synagogue or out of town, we would be happy to send them through the United States Postal Service. This would be an additional fee of $13.00 per basket (total charge is $18). Please attach names and addresses and include the additional fees in your check. Name of Sender_______________________________________________________ Phone Number _______________________________________________________ The baskets include candy, fruit & nuts, Hamentaschen and other goodies! 10 Email Address ________________________________________________________ Make check payable to Temple Beth El (please write “Purim Baskets” in lower left corner) and return your check with this order form to Temple Beth El, 979 Dickinson Street, Springfield, MA 01108. Purim! WEDNESDAY, MARCH 4 Don’t miss this spectacular annual event at Temple Beth El! This year’s theme is “Around the World.” Come dressed in a costume representing the culture of a country. Be prepared to taste the foods that represent different countries. The evening service will begin at 6:00 pm, and the party will begin following the Megillah reading. MISHLOAH MANOT FOR OUR COLLEGE STUDENTS For the last several years we have been sending Purim baskets to our member children who are away at college as our gift to them. We are told that they were thrilled to receive this reminder of home. If you would like your child to receive a basket, please send their snail mail address to office@ tbespringfield.org. Since students move from year to year, even if you sent us addresses last year, we ask that you submit them again, so that we can be sure that we have current information on file. Finally, a woman! Cantor Elise Barber Growing up Lutheran in East Tennessee, I studied for and became confirmed when I was 13 years old. That same year I attended two bat mitzvahs. One of those simhas was for my best friend, and she and I often joked that we were now officially women. The purpose of this article is not to talk about my conversion to Judaism, but perhaps I will do so another time. Briefly, I will say that I became interested in Judaism in my mid-twenties and officially converted when I was 30. Converts to Judaism do not need to have a bar or bat mitzvah, but I longed for one. I thought that having a bat mitzvah would be a great learning experience and a good way for me to feel more comfortable as a Jew. To prepare, I met with my cantor weekly to work on my chanting and service leading. She kept reminding me over and over that this was not a bat mitzvah, but rather an adult bat mitzvah. That distinction was very important to her. Every Jew is automatically COMMUNITY EVENT Bereavement Support Group Jewish Family Service, in collaboration with Jewish community leaders, is planning a Bereavement Support Group entitled Living with Loss. This group will be designed for relatives who have suffered the loss of a loved one and will be open only to members of the Jewish faith. The goal of the group is to provide support around feelings of loneliness, loss and isolation, coping with anger and other unexpected emotions, learning how to live with the grief process, and how to move forward. The group will meet for 1 ½ hours each week. Time, date and location to be determined based on community need. For more information, please call Donna Gordon, Clinical Director, Jewish Family Service, 455-1936 ext. 103. a bar or bat mitzvah upon reaching the age of mitzvoth – 12 for girls or 13 for boys. One does not need to have a bar or bat mitzvah ceremony, and in fact, I’m sure many of you are aware that bat mitzvah ceremonies for girls are a relatively new practice. In addition to meeting with the cantor, I attended Melton and post-Melton classes outside our synagogue. I also attended services regularly, and my rabbi worked with me on my D’var Torah. My Jewish step-mother and stepgrandmother wanted to throw me a big party, but I discouraged that. Having good friends and family at the service (my father even flew in from TN), and then having a small dinner with a few family members later was all I needed. What was powerful for me was the learning leading up to the service, the actual experience of being on the bimah (the rabbi and cantor constantly had to point to me where to go!), and a greater feeling of ownership, comfort, and pride in my Judaism. Since that day, I have met many people who have had adult bar and bat mitzvahs— sometimes on their own, but usually as part of a class. Many of these people were women who grew up in communities where only boys had bar mitzvahs. Some of these adults were Jews who grew up secular or unaffiliated, but were now involved in synagogue. Others chose Judaism as adults. Here at Temple Beth El, our last adult bar and bat mitzvah class was in 2008, and a few people have asked if another class is in the works. Those I know who studied for adult bar and bat mitzvahs in a class setting CONTINUED ON PAGE 14 LEARN THE SHABBAT MUSAF SERVICE Come learn the modes, melodies, and words that make up the Shabbat Musaf service with Cantor Elise Barber. It’s a great opportunity to strengthen our lay leadership and become more connected to our liturgy. The class will be held on Sunday, March 1, 8, 15, and 22, from 4:30 - 5:30 pm. The only requirements are an ability to learn a melody and read Hebrew. Email Cantor Barber at cantorbarber@tbespringfield.org or call her at the temple at 733-4149 if you’re interested. 11 This list includes all donations of at least $10 received through November 14, 2014. TEMPLE FUND IN OCTOBER & NOVEMBER Phyllis Levenson on the birth of a grandson, Benjamin Hayden. He was born on October 2, and is the son of Robin Levenson and Elliot Bernstein of Cambridge, MA. She joins her older sister, Sophie, in the household. Madison Goodman FEBRUARY 28 (MINHA) PARASHAT KI TISSA Madison Tyler Goodman is the daughter of Tracy and Adam Goodman and younger sister to Sydney. She is the granddaughter of Kathy and Daniel Goodman of East Longmeadow, Massachusetts and Rochelle and Kenneth Kolberg of Edison, New Jersey. “Theatrical” has been the best word to describe Maddie over the years. Her passion for performing began to shine over the years playing such roles as Annie from “Annie,” Maisy in “Seussical the Musical,” Flounder in “The Little Mermaid” and the Tea Cup in “Beauty in the Beast.” She works weekly with a voice coach, takes piano and loves her summers at Camp Watitoh in Becket, MA. When she is not holding a microphone, she can be found dancing, hanging with friends and learning as much as she can about puppies. For her Bat Mitzvah project, Madison has decided to begin a “spare change” drive to collect spare change in order to make a donation to the D’Amour Cancer Center in Springfield, and purchase items from the wish list for the Springfield Children’s Hospital. If you are interested in donating spare change, there is a bucket located on Monday and Wednesday afternoons at the SKLC office. 12 Abby Pava Austern on the engagement of her granddaughter, Cara Austern Sullo to Jaren Rabin of Florida. Cara is a speech therapist in the Framingham school system, and Jared works with computers. Bev and Allen Nadler on the marriage of their son, Russell to Christina Nickas. They were married on November 8 in Sonoma, CA. Max Chorowski and Suzanne Halberstadt, whose daughter, Amanda Katz, has been accepted to graduate school at Gratz College. She currently works as the Assistant Executive Director of Congregation B’nai Tzedek in Potomac, MD. Sue and Stan Polansky on the marriage of their daughter, Dr. Marni Elizabeth Polansky, to Adam Michael Fried. The couple were married by Rabbi Amy Wallk Katz in New York City on November 16. They live in NYC where Marni is a clinical psychologist who works with children and families, and Adam is a “computer geek” who works for a new start-up. Eydie Zive on the birth of her newest granddaughter, Bridget Patricia. She is the daughter of Keith and Elaine Zive of Walpole, MA. Allen and Wendy Mackler on the marriage of their daughter, Jill, to Eric Spunberg. Jill is also the granddaughter of Eleanor Freedman. To our Torah Readers: William Hurwitz, Michael Anfang, Emily Anfang, Gabriel Katz, Tova Enson-Tilsen, Noa ShapiroFranklin, Zachary Wahrman, Gillian Weissman, Nina Katz, Glenn Baevsky, Gabby Zeller, Dr. Mark Sherman To our Haftarah Readers: Carol Resnick, David Kalicka, Adele Miller, William Hurwitz, Steve Weiner, Gillian Weissman, Dr. Fred Brownstein, Dr. Larry Metz, Dr. Dennis Gordan, Carol Resnick, Dr. Max Chorowski, Adele Miller, Dr. Mark Jackowitz To our Service Leaders: Harlan Wahrman, Dr. Dennis Gordan, Dr. Max Chorowski BREAKFAST SPONSORS: In memory of his mother, Freda Dr. Fred Brownstein In memory of his wife, Judith Dr. Ed Gerstein In memory of his wife, Judy Eugene Baker In honor of the morning minyanaires Dr. Herb Cohen In honor of his 91st birthday Joe Lieberman In memory of his parents Arthur Nichols If you would like to sponsor a breakfast, please contact Reverend Aminia at the temple office at 733-4149. KIDDUSH SPONSORS: In honor of the aufruf of their daughter, Jill Mackler, and Eric Spunberg Allen & Wendy Mackler In honor of their mother, Carol Resnick, reading Haftarah Susan Proctor & Cliff Resnick In honor of the 50th anniversary of David’s Bar Mitzvah David & Jan Kalicka In honor of William’s Bar Mitzvah Roberta & Michael Hurwitz In honor of the USY Regional Fall Convention held at TBE Regional USY In honor of the USY Regional Fall Convention held at TBE Drs. Stuart & Michelle Anfang In honor of Gillian’s Bat Mitzvah Jocelyn Tobin & Stuart Weissman We mourn the loss of the following from October 1 through November 30. Linda Katz Hammerman Daughter of Morton Katz Eileen Grinspoon Mother of Alissa Korn Jean Gordon Ronald Meltzer Husband of Lynn Meltzer Charlotte Wallk Mother of Rabbi Amy Wallk Katz Tova Jacob Mother of Bluma Bier George Nager Father of Andrea Chasen Charlie Nirenberg Husband of Jan Nirenberg Larry Malitz Father of Leslie Kaim Milton Kaplan Father of Joan Levi A warm welcome to our new members: Ralph & Debra Ritchie If you are interested in sponsoring a Kiddush lunch to commemorate a special event, please contact Rhoda Peskin at the temple office at 733-4149. In memory of Charlotte Wallk Ira & Judy Smolowitz Stan & Sue Polansky Judy Kupchan Ellen Shankman Bill & Lynn Foggle Stan Chiz & Vickie Phillips Chiz Ruth Weiss Martha Finkel Ceppetelli & Michael Ceppetelli Bea Hano Ann Koenig Henri Goettel Rhoda & Judd Peskin Joan Goodman Joe & Cynthia Gensheimer John Freedman Eric Barker & Sharon Cohen Susan & David Porter & family Carl & Amy Wistreich Ed & Sue Kline Sheila Blum Jan & David Kalicka Sharon & Peter Loftspring Donna Oberstein & Ace Allen Michael & Beth Paysnick Betsy & Joel Bertuzzi Ellen & Jonathan Chilton Irene Beron Bette & Dick Gerstein Harold & Sally Ann Resnic Anne & Elliot Bloom Meryl & Hyman Darling David & Andrea Brinnel Linda & George Spitz Miriam Hirschhaut Ruth Auerbach Rochelle E. Pleet Rhoda Mandell Susan & Jonathan Goldsmith Andrea & Jonathan Chasen Anita & Ed Finkel Adena Falk Melvin Lavin Grace Sperling Oksana Beauty Salon & Day Spa Sylvia S. Rosen Marcy Eisenberg Shirley & Alan Levitz Phyllis Levenson Mark & Lori Barowsky Samra Gotlib Joyce Weinbaum Myra & Jerry Gold Barbara Binsky Peggy & Arthur Grodd Robert Dambrov Norma Vinick David & Debbie Peskin Roberta & Bobby Axler Iris Linson Susan Kuzon Steven Lepow & Shelley Hodes Barbara Albert Ellen Alpert Heidi Thibodeau Sylvia & George Falk Rabbi Mark & Marsha Shapiro Ellen & Mark Gold Shirley Nichols Janice & Eugene Cantor Elizabeth & Philip Irving Harrisia Lee Rappaport Christine & Howard Hausman Bill & Jean Licht Anne Robinson Ina & Richard Werman Seymour Frankel & Joan Rosenbaum Martin Baicker & Kelly Larkin Dorothy Wernick Joan Rubin Beth & Gary Danforth June & Walter Gordenstein The Hartnell Family Rabbi Jerome Gurland Cathy & Jeff Alpert Janet Draymore Meyer Ezrin & Elaine Becker Ezrin David Fine Ina Fine Susan & Ron Grodsky Nancy & Joseph Sklar Robert Friedlander & Orville Dale Hannah Harris & Jerry Enslein Judy & Steve Shelasky Marcy Eisenberg Beverly & Allen Nadler Barbara Ginsberg Ascher-Zimmerman Funeral Home, Inc. Lori, Randy, Audrey & Sabrina Weiner In memory of Eileen Grinspoon Sheila Blum Stan & Sue Polansky Debbie & David Peskin Gloria Ray Alan & Bette Gerstein Carl & Amy Wistreich Deborah Waldman Elizabeth & Andrew Paleologopoulos Mark & Sharon Levy Paul & Esta Farkas Jan & David Kalicka Susan & Jonathan Goldsmith Michelle & Stuart Anfang Meyers Brothers Kalicka, P.C. Anne & Elliot Bloom Miriam Hirschhaut Barbara Ginsberg In memory of Bernard Vinick Paul & Esta Farkas Adele Barden Thomas & Joan Gallini Madeline Midghall Sidney & Evelyn Baron Charlotte Bergman In memory of Sy Levander Iris & Marc Linson Joy & Michael Leavitt In memory of Scott Dalitzky Larry & Myrna Metz Tema Smeyne & Ed Gerstein Muriel Dane In memory of Herbert Smithline Dorita & Michael Henderson In memory of Helen Ball Dorita & Michael Henderson In memory of Lawrence Zimmerman Muriel Dane In memory of Jean Gordon Gloria Ray In memory of Charlie Nirenberg Stan & Sue Polansky In memory of Ronald Meltzer Phyllis Levenson In memory of Tova Jacob Heidi Thibodeau In honor of David Kalicka’s 50th anniversary of his Bar Mitzvah Allen & Beverly Nadler Karen & Stan Winer Abbie & Meyer Weiss In honor of the marriage of Allen & Wendy Mackler’s daughter, Jill, to Eric Spunberg Susan & Jonathan Goldsmith In honor of Rachel Aminia’s marriage to Sanjay Solomon Alan & Bette Gerstein In honor of marriage of Elaine Geha & Dr. Fred Brownstein Alan & Bette Gerstein In honor of Carol Resnick’s first Haftarah on Shabbat Chol Hamoed Sukkot Stanley Light In honor of Rev. David Aminia for all his hard work this summer Dorita & Michael Henderson In appreciation to Rev. Aminia for all his support in Benjamin Posnik’s Bar Mitzvah Laura Posnik Wishing Barry Rosen good luck and health in his retirement Carole Magidson In honor of Zachary Steinberg’s Bar Mitzvah Esta & Paul Farkas Yahrzeit of Min Diamond, beloved mother Bette & Alan Gerstein In memory of Leona Fieldman Harrisia Lee Rappaport Mazel tov to Kobi & Andy Shemesh on the engagement of Amos to Becca Chris & Howard Hausman KIDDUSH FUND In honor of Ruth Poppel’s first great-grandchild Rabbi Jerome Gurland In honor of the marriage of Charri & Joshua Goldman’s daughter, Merrisa, to Matt Spector Florence Gurwitz In honor of Helen Cohen’s 94th birthday Miriam Hirschhaut In memory of Eileen Grinspoon Carol Resnick Mazel tov to Joan Rubin on being a “great” grandmother Miriam Hirschhaut In honor of Carol Resnick reading the Haftarah Mitzi & Larry Mackler Happy and Healthy New Year to Susan & Bill Firestone Miriam Lieff & Albert Goldberg In honor of Max Chorowski’s special birthday Marcel & Lucille Halberstadt MINYAN FUND Mazel tov to Kobi & Andy Shemesh on the engagement of Amos to Becca Debbie & Josh Lieberman Bill Caplin & Mary Jenewin-Caplin In honor of Carol Resnick’s Haftarah on her 83rd birthday Bill Caplin & Mary Jenewin-Caplin Mazel tov on the marriage of Tara & Steve Wolman’s daughter, Laini Karen & Stan Winer In memory of Charlotte Wallk Carol Resnick Bill Caplin & Mary Jenewin-Caplin Susan Burk SANDI KUPPERMAN LEARNING CENTER FUND In appreciation of Rev. Aminia for helping us prepare for Zachary’s Bar Mitzvah Allison & Adam Steinberg In honor of the marriage of Anne & Elliot Bloom’s son Matthew Roberta & Ellis Goldberg Mazel tov on the birth of Caryn Resnick’s new grandson Rhoda & Judd Peskin Ellen Shankman Mazel tov to Ben Posnik on becoming a Bar Mitzvah Caryn Resnick In honor of Craig Kazin Allison & Adam Steinberg In memory of Eileen Grinspoon Caryn Resnick In memory of Charlotte Wallk Charlotte Meyer Mazel tov to Will Hurwitz on becoming a Bar Mitzvah Caryn Resnick Mazel tov to Zachary Steinberg on becoming a Bar Mitzvah Caryn Resnick In honor of Morah Helene Shapiro George, Julia & Mackenzie Hartnell In memory of Charlie Nirenberg Lisa Goldberg Bill & Lynn Foggle Dorothy Wernick Suzanne & Max Chorowski Carlin & Howard Trietsch Rhoda Mandell Ruth Weiss Charlotte Meyer YAHRZEIT FUND Morris Leitzen, beloved father Dolores Leitzen Hutner Rakhil Chernobrova, beloved mother Marina Pen Lucille Mackler Gonet, beloved sister Larry Mackler Jeannette P. Skvirsky, beloved mother & grandmother Paul Skvirsky & family David Gurwitz, beloved father-in-law Florence Gurwitz Dora Goldberg, beloved mother Shirley Levitz Ida Caplan, beloved aunt Barbara Schultz Paul Levenson, beloved father-in-law Phyllis Levenson Herman Kinsler, beloved father Claire Kinsler Rubin Hy Gloth, beloved father, grandfather & great-grandfather Children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren Adolph Katten, beloved father Myra Gold Merrill Robbins, beloved husband Myrna Robbins Rebecca Milstein Goldstein, beloved mother Bernie & Selma Milstein Rosalyn Plotkin, beloved sister Selma & Bernie Milstein Solomon Bean, beloved father Selma & Bernie Milstein Nathan Solomon, beloved father Mickey & David Shrair Judge Lawrence B. Wernick, beloved husband Carol Halpern Wernick Helen Robinson, beloved mother Jan Draymore Harry Jackowitz, beloved father Herbert Jackowitz Morris Chain, beloved father Shirley Shepro Dorothy B. Katz, beloved wife Morton Katz Joseph S. Lavin, beloved husband Florence Lavin Esther Silverman, beloved mother Laurie Seigel Philip Weiner, beloved father Nancy Sklar Phyllis Slone, beloved sister June Gordenstein Milton Rosenberg, beloved father Glenn Rosenberg Bernard (Buddy) Blum, beloved husband Sheila Blum Jacob Steinberg, beloved grandfather Steven Lepow Etta Bacon, beloved mother Shirley Uman Sarah Nathanson Gotlib, beloved mother Estelle Shammash David Irving Katz, beloved brother Morton Katz Robert B. Resnick, beloved husband Carol Resnick Harold Fine, beloved father David Fine Harold Fine, beloved husband Ina Fine Felsie Jessop, beloved mother Karen Jessop Winer Mendel Hurwitz, beloved grandfather Joan & Stu Hurwitz Fannie Cohen, beloved mother Shirley Shapiro Freda Brownstein, beloved mother Fredric Brownstein Sidney Throne, beloved father & husband Janice Throne, Sara Throne, Anne Margolis & Bruce Throne 13 Norman Gurwitz, beloved husband Florence Gurwitz Seymour William Mally, beloved father Jane Rome Anne S. Vinick, beloved mother James E. Vinick Leonard Vinick, beloved father James E. Vinick Ruth Hirsch, beloved mother Sydney & Jerry Hirsch Jack B. Cohen, beloved father Paul Cohen Alexander Goldberg, beloved father Samuel M. Goldberg Dora Goldberg, beloved mother Samuel M. Goldberg Beatrice Henderson, beloved mother Michael Henderson Dr. Edward Levitz, beloved father Alan Levitz Rebecca Lavin, beloved mother-in-law Florence Lavin Joseph G. Allen, beloved father Carole & Harvey Gloth Grace Fingeroth, beloved mother Rick & Harriet Fingeroth Rhoda Rosenberg, beloved mother Glenn Rosenberg Joel Greenfeld, beloved brother Suzanne Rosenberg Abraham Firestone, beloved father Maxine Goldberg Carole Katz Sirkin, beloved sister Alan N. Katz Eli Rubin, beloved father Roberta Goldberg Goldie Haase, beloved mother-in-law Carol Haase Tessie Goldberg, beloved mother Jack Goldberg William Silverman, beloved father Laurie Seigel Henry Sadow, beloved husband Gladys Sadow Harry Levine, beloved father Phyllis Levenson Max Leiter, beloved husband Roslyn Leiter Sam Pincus, beloved father Susan Burk Joseph Ginsberg, beloved father Ruth Auerbach Helen Ginsberg, beloved mother Ruth Auerbach Morris Lewis, beloved brother Florence Barowsky Rose Metter, beloved mother Freda Posnick Dorothy Shelasky, beloved mother Stephen Shelasky Evelyn Siegel, beloved mother Aileen Kramer Dr. Oscar Resnick, beloved brother-in-law Carol Resnick Florence Salvage, beloved mother Paul Salvage Max Epstein, beloved father-in-law Milton F. Schwartz 14 Leonard & Jeanette Skvirsky, beloved parents Gail Skvirsky Bohn William L. Levine, beloved father I. Murray Levine Irving Sher, beloved father Arthur Sher Leala Okun, beloved wife Harold Okun Jonas Beck Heit, beloved father Betsy Heit Gaberman Nathan & Bessie Winer, beloved parents Earl Winer Joseph Ezrin, beloved father Myer Ezrin Jacob Frager, beloved father-in-law Myer Ezrin Harry Jackowitz, beloved grandfather Mark Jackowitz Herman (Hy) Polansky, beloved father Stan Polansky Anna Binsky, beloved mother Barbara Binsky Besse Posnick, beloved mother-in-law Freda Posnick Herbert M. Halpern, beloved father Carol Halpern Wernick Richard M. Halpern Ida Ezrin, beloved mother Myer Ezrin Herman Bacon, beloved father & grandfather Shirley, Larry & Howard Uman John Lloyd Ramsey, beloved father Heidi Thibodeau Mildred Cantor, beloved mother Gene Cantor Eleanor Cowen, beloved mother Janice Cantor David Cowen, beloved father Janice Cantor Manya Ruvinskaya, beloved daughter Sofya Beylin Avron Elfman, beloved uncle Joseph Lieberman Sheri Mandra, beloved sister Alan Seigel Michael Grodsky, beloved brother Ronald & Susan Grodsky Michael Feinstein, beloved father Toby & Abe Feinstein Ethel Freed, beloved mother Sheila Blum Reva Broder, beloved mother Martin Broder Yizkor for Iris & Edmund Macaris Frances Ginsberg PHILIP & MIRIAM ZELLER CHILDREN’S EDUCATIONAL FUND In memory of Charlotte Wallk Alan & Charlotte Zeller In memory of Ronald Meltzer Alan & Charlotte Zeller ALAN GOLDBERG YOUTH FUND In memory of Ronald Meltzer Sora Torff & Jack Goldberg In memory of Jean Gordon Marge & Sid Chase In memory of Pearl Nuger Rochelle Hodes In memory of Leona Fieldman Archie & Sally Shapiro In memory of Charlotte Wallk Archie & Sally Shapiro Sora Torff & Jack Goldberg Congratulations to Kobi & Andy Shemesh on Amos’s engagement Sora Torff & Jack Goldberg Mazel tov to Zachary Steinberg on becoming a Bar Mitzvah Sora Torff & Jack Goldberg Mazel tov on Matthew Bloom’s marriage Carol Haase & Mace Shapiro A special thank you to Rev. David Aminia Rochelle Hodes In gratitude for the recovery of Chris Hausman Sora Torff & Jack Goldberg MAHZOR LEV SHALEM FUND In memory of Eileen Grinspoon Phyllis & Irving Feldman & family BERNARD S. ALTMAN & SARAH ALTMAN MEMORIAL ISRAEL SCHOLARSHIP FUND In memory of Helen Bass Elliot & Phyllis Altman SHIRLEY & GUSTAVE NUGER REMEMBRANCE FUND In memory of Shirley Nuger Bernice Kalicka In honor of David Kalicka’s 50th anniversary of his Bar Mitzvah Judy & Ted Ingis Bernice Kalicka ESTHER & MORRIS OKUN MUSIC FUND In memory of Scott David Dalitzky Phyllis & Irving Feldman HESED FUND In honor of Suzanne Chorowski David Porter Mazel tov to Cissie and Gabe Kitchener on the birth of their new great-grandson, Jaxon Gabriel Weiss Phyllis & Irving Feldman In memory of Charlotte Wallk The Munic Family - Jerry, Ari, Nathaniel and Sara Levenberg Munic CANTOR MORTON SHAMES CULTURAL ARTS FUND Mazel tov to Cantor Shames on his honor Bea Hano In memory of Scott Dalitzky Rhoda Mandell In honor of Cantor Morton Shames Susan Kanowith-Klein THE KATZ FAMILY LIBRARY FUND Wishing Connie Golber a speedy recovery Gayle Bronstein In memory of Bernard Vinick Mimi, Flora, & Mel Weinberg RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND In appreciation to Rabbi Katz Dieter Lutz Albie Goldberg & Miriam Lieff In appreciation to Rabbi Katz for the meaningful naming ceremony for Max Susan & David Porter In appreciation to Rabbi Katz for Zachary’s Bar Mitzvah Allison & Adam Steinberg In memory of Charlotte Wallk Gerry Berg & Leslie Zide Fred Brownstein & Elaine Geha Suzanne & Max Chorowski Rae & Howie Davis Dr. Malcolm & Betsey Freedman Ed Gerstein Dorita & Michael Henderson Amanda & Isadore Jermyn Susie & Steven Kessler & Family Judith & Allen Kronick Zelma Lavin Joe Lieberman Carole Magidson Selma & Bernie Milstein Susanne & Robert Osofsky Freda Posnick Judi Rome In memory of Eileen Grinspoon The Falk Family In honor of Cantor Morton Shames Suzanne & Max Chorowski CANTOR’S DISCRETIONARY FUND In appreciation of Cantor Barber helping to prepare Zachary for his Bar Mitzvah Allison & Adam Steinberg In appreciation of Cantor Barber Heidi Thibodeau In honor of Cantor Elise Barber for her help with Sandy Krasner’s unveiling The Krasner, Zelazny, & Levin Families NETTIE & MORRIS GOLDSTEIN FUND In memory of Charlotte Wallk Phyllis & Elliot Altman Jason Altman & Danielle Grillo SKLC Calendar Correction In the 2014-2015 SKLC calendar, there are a couple of typos in the ad for Counseling & Gynecology Group. The practice specializes in Bio-identical & Traditional HRT, and the correct phone number is (413) 567-9355. Our sincere apologies for the errors! TREE OF LIFE Leaves purchased for the Tree of Life may be purchased for $250 to honor a friend or family member. Please contact Rhoda Peskin at 733-4149 if you would like to order a leaf. Adult Hanukkah Party YAHRZEIT PLAQUES Yahrzeit plaques were recently purchased In memory of: Fay Weiner Frank David Weiner Shirley Sweet Seymour S. Levander Yahrzeit plaques are a fitting way to remember a loved one’s yahrzeit in perpetuity. They are displayed in the temple lobby each year during the week of the yahrzeit. The cost is $375. If you would like to purchase a plaque, please contact Reverend David Aminia at 733-4149. CONTINUED FROM PAGE 10 FINALLY, A WOMAN! have had an incredible experience bonding with others. A bar or bat mitzvah at any age is supposed to lead to a greater commitment to community and in a class setting, this is definitely the case as you get to know others and create support networks which can endure years after the ceremony is over. So I officially became a woman at 32. You can too! OK. Not really. That is not the point of an adult bar or bat mitzvah. But if you did not have a bar or bat mitzvah when you were younger and you are interested in learning new skills, becoming aware of new possibilities in yourself, taking greater ownership of your Judaism, and getting to know others, an adult bar or bat mitzvah might be for you. Email me if you are interested in the class, cantorbarber@ tbespringfield.org. (Dates to be determined.) SKLC Hanukkah Program 15 Temple Beth El 979 Dickinson Street Springfield, MA 01108 Office Hours Monday - Thursday: 9:00 am - 5:00 pm, Friday: 9:00 am - 3:00 pm OFFICERS STAFF Dr. Paul Farkas, President Maxine Bernstein, Vice President Susan Firestone, Vice President Dan Plotkin, Vice President David Ratner, Vice President Rick Ratner, Treasurer Jeremy Powers, Financial Secretary Rhonda Goldberg, Recording Secretary Stuart Anfang, Immediate Past President Rhoda Peskin, Executive Director rpeskin@tbespringfield.org Caryn Resnick, Educational Director cresnick@tbespringfield.org Lisa Laudato, Administrative Assistant llaudato@tbespringfield.org Alexandra Espinal, Comptroller comptroller@tbespringfield.org Marie Sampson, Administrative Assistant sklc@tbespringfield.org Debbie Peskin, Communications Coordinator communications@tbespringfield.org Nora Gorenstein, USY Advisor ngorenstein@tbespringfield.org Liz Marinelli, Librarian katzlibrary@tbespringfield.org CLERGY Amy Wallk Katz, PhD, Rabbi rabbikatz@tbespringfield.org Elise Barber, Cantor cantorbarber@tbespringfield.org Reverend David Aminia, Ritual Director daminia@tbespringfield.org Herbert Schwartz, Rabbi Emeritus Morton Shames, Cantor Emeritus Piano40@aol.com MAJOR EVENT – BLUE BAR/BAT MITZVAH –GREEN JANUARY 2015 1 New Year’s Day - Office Closed 2 Office Closed Kabbalat Shabbat 6:00 pm Candle Lighting 4:12 pm 3 Shabbat Va-y’hi Family Shabbat Havdalah 5:12 pm 4 Cuppa Joe 9:00 am 5 SKLC Classes 3:00 pm 7 SKLC Classes 3:00 pm 8B’Yahad 6:30 pm 9 Musical Kabbalat Shabbat 6:00 pm Candle Lighting 4:19 pm 6th – 12th Grade SKLC Shabbat Retreat (1/9 & 10) 10 Shabbat Sh’mot Family Shabbat Havdalah 5:19 pm Chinese Food and a Movie 6:30 pm 11 Cuppa Joe 9:00 am 12 SKLC Classes 3:00 pm Parent/Teacher Conferences 6:00 pm 14 SKLC Classes 3:00 pm 16 NON-PROFIT ORGANIZATION US POSTAGE PAID SPRINGFIELD, MA PERMIT NO. 327 (413) 733-4149 • (413) 739-3415 Fax • office@tbespringfield.org • TBESpringfield.org 15B’Yahad 6:30 pm 16 Kabbalat Shabbat 6:00 pm Candle Lighting 4:27 pm 17 Shabbat Va-era Havdalah 5:27 pm 18 Cuppa Joe 9:00 am 19 Martin Luther King, Jr. Day - Office Closed 21 SKLC Classes 3:00 pm Board of Trustees Meeting 7:00 pm 22B’Yahad 6:30 pm 23 Kabbalat Shabbat 6:00 pm Candle Lighting 4:35 pm 24 Shabbat Bo Sisterhood Shabbat 9:30 am Havdalah Program with Sinai Temple Havdalah 5:36 pm 25 Cuppa Joe 9:00 am 26 SKLC Classes 3:00 pm 28 SKLC Classes 3:00 pm 29B’Yahad 6:30 pm 30 Musical Kabbalat Shabbat 6:00 pm Candle Lighting 4:44 pm Shabbat Dinner 7:00 pm Shabbat Shirah Concert 8:15 pm 31 Shabbat B’Shallah Havdalah 5:44 pm Volunteers preparing food for the hungry on Family Mitzvah Day. FEBRUARY 2015 1 Cuppa Joe 9:00 am 2 SKLC Classes 3:00 pm 4 Lunch & Learn 12:00 pm SKLC Classes 3:00 pm 5B’Yahad 6:30 pm 6 Kabbalat Shabbat 6:00 pm Candle Lighting 4:53 pm 7 Shabbat Yitro 1st Grade Consecration 9:30 am Family Shabbat Beit Café Havdalah 5:53 pm 8 Cuppa Joe 9:00 am 9 SKLC Classes 3:00 pm 11 Lunch & Learn 12:00 pm SKLC Classes 3:00 pm 12B’Yahad 6:30 pm 13 Kabbalat Shabbat 6:00 pm Candle Lighting 5:02 pm 14 15 16 20 21 22 23 25 Shabbat Mishpatim Havdalah 6:02 pm Cuppa Joe 9:00 am President’s Day - Office Closed Kabbalat Shabbat 6:00 pm Candle Lighting 5:11 pm Shabbat T’rumah Havdalah 6:11 pm Cuppa Joe 9:00 am SKLC Classes 3:00 pm Lunch & Learn 12:00 pm SKLC Classes 3:00 pm Board of Trustees Meeting 7:00 pm 26B’Yahad 6:30 pm 27 Musical Kabbalat Shabbat 6:00 pm Candle Lighting 5:20 pm 28 Shabbat T’tzavveh Bat Mitzvah Madison Goodman 6:00 pm Havdalah 6:20 pm