Food for Thought - Maidstone Day Centre
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Food for Thought - Maidstone Day Centre
Threshold 2011 Maidstone Day Centre supporting Homeless & Vulnerable People Food for Thought Amidst lavish events like the Queen’s Jubilee and the Olympics and with regular news of yet another bonus for bankers, food banks to provide for those in need have been springing up in towns across the UK. But the concept of community food share projects is far from new. Food for Thought, Maidstone Christian Care Maidstone Day Centre’s own Food For Thought scheme, has been running Community Food Share Scheme successfully since 2005 and predictably, demand for the service is still high. Eight years ago we became aware that there were children in our community who were not getting enough to eat, who were going to bed hungry and arriving at school the next day having had no breakfast. We also came across elderly people who were finding it difficult to make ends meet but were too proud to ask for help; for some time we had been providing emergency food parcels for families in crisis, using donations of produce received at the Day Centre from local Harvest Festivals and Christmas appeals. The problem was growing and something had to be done. Following advice from food share schemes in the UK, a sound framework of documentation and rules was set up and Maidstone Day Centre’s Food for Thought was born! The rapid growth of the scheme was due not only to the rising numbers of those struggling to cope back in 2005, but also to the generosity of local traders who agreed to donate their surplus food items to help those who would otherwise go hungry. Maidstone Christian Care Maidstone Day Centre Newsletter issue 10 The service is based at our day centre for homeless and vulnerable people and as well as supplying our own kitchens, Food For Thought currently provides for 12 school breakfast clubs in the area as well as hostels, care homes and day centres for elderly and disabled people. In a perfect example of what Big Society really means Food for Thought is relied on by social workers and organisations working with some of the most disadvantaged people in our society. The success of FFT is largely due to the fact that we are a small, independent charity with no red tape so help is immediate and each food parcel is carefully made up to suit the needs of the individuals. I am reminded of the family that arrived in Maidstone a couple of days before last Christmas, fleeing domestic violence and although they had temporary accommodation, arrived with nothing, no food or money to go shopping and not even toothbrushes or nappies for the baby. Within a couple of hours, parcels had been provided to the family with plenty of basic foods including tea, coffee, cereals, bread, tinned meat and fish as well as fresh fruit and toiletries for everyone. Thanks to some very generous donations that week we were able to send some special Christmas food as well as crackers and presents. Benefits take a long time to set up, particularly at holiday time but we continued providing help until the family received their first benefit payments some weeks later. That’s what Food for Thought delivers, individual help when it is needed. You may see the MDC Food for Thought van buzzing around Maidstone with its’ brand new livery, kindly provided by P and P Signs. See inside for more news about Maidstone Day Centre “They said I wasn’t blind enough to get Disability living allowance.” Shaun Oswald is completely blind in his left eye and has glaucoma in the right one. When he became homeless, following his divorce, he was reduced to living in a tent by the river. Living in a one man tent is marginally better than sleeping rough but it is always damp and cold and if you don’t want to carry it around all day you risk it being stolen. For Shaun it was also dangerous. “Because of my failing sight, the only time I was mobile was when it was daylight. I had to be settled in the tent early in the evening before it was dark until it was light again the next morning because it is so hazardous along the river path.,” he told Threshold. “I am a townie boy, used to street lights and traffic fumes. The first night in the tent I heard these noises and I was really scared, I thought it was a six foot bloke but it turned out to be a hare!” One of the problems that might not occur to people who live in houses is that rough sleepers have nowhere to leave their possessions, as Shaun explained. “Carrying all my stuff on my back and wearing a thick coat in summer, I might as well have had a notice round my neck saying ‘homeless. When I met people I used to know and told them I was now homeless, they always assumed that I had become an alchi or a druggie. You are all tarred with the same brush.” The fact that anyone can become homeless is brought home when you hear that Shaun had a traditional upbringing, achieving A Level in English and in History and looking forward to a career in catering. Until a couple of years ago he was a chef at the 36 Engineer Regiment Barracks, having worked in the officers’ mess for three years before being promoted to head chef of the Sergeants’ mess. Standards were very high and on ceremonial occasions I cooked for the Queen, Duke of Kent and all the other dignitaries. Following cutbacks, Shaun left “Shaun first came to the Day Centre in March and, staff helped him to apply for Local Authority accommodation and Disability living Allowance but both were turned down. “They said I wasn’t disabled enough for the benefit,” he said. “I was angry.” Staff at Maidstone Day Centre were very worried about Shaun’s health and his safety because they could see how very vulnerable he was and It was only due to the determination and persistence of our Manager and our volunteer GP that someone eventually listened and he was given a room at the hostel next door. “I am grateful to be given a roof over my head,” Shaun acknowledged, “ but here there are loads of youngsters there who aren’t working and they get up at 2 or 3 in the afternoon and stay up all night with loud music. They should be trained to live next door to people for when they get a flat. They seem to be part of the something for nothing culture. I was brought up to have to work for what you get. Every morning you went out of the door to work you held your head up high. When I was young it was a stigma to be on the dole or to be an unmarried mother, but all that has gone. Since my sight has gone I notice how some people don’t care. Even if I have my white cane people get annoyed if I bump into them and I have had mums with buggies and toddlers who bang into me and the mums are annoyed at me! One said, ‘you want to look where you are going.’ But I can’t.” Friendships are often formed between clients at the Day Centre and Shaun and Peter share many experiences. “I talk with Pete and we were both happily married, we had homes, families and holidays but it all went wrong and like a domino effect we have ended up where we are. It does get to you and I have moments when I think ‘this is hopeless; is it worth it?’” I know it is going to be a long haul. There is a guy who busks in Maidstone. I feel sorry for him because he has been blind for birth but he says he feels sorry for me because I have seen red and yellow and now I can’t. I always loved books, real life stories, war history and Shakespeare but I haven’t yet investigated talking books, I am waiting for my consultant to register me as blind and after that the floodgates will open! I am getting long cane training at the moment with Kent Association for the Blind and I will learn Braille. If I had my sight back I would carry on cheffing but as I am now it’s going to have to be a totally different way of living, like learning to walk all over again, a step at a time. You can now find us on Facebook (go and ‘like’ us please) and Twitter. We also have an additional new website www.maidstone- “My family is of French origin, they escaped to England during the Revolution. The name Treays is mentioned in Burke’s Peerage.” Peter had worked as dustman and as a doorman at a cinema but lost his licence because of drink driving. “The ban is almost up and I really have learned my lesson. I hardly drink at all now but I wish I could give up smoking.” Every day for the past six months, Peter has been walking the 7 miles from his tent to the Day Centre. “Coming here was wonderful, and the staff made it so easy. If it hadn’t been here, I don’t know what I would have done,” he said. This place is a Godsend.“ “I worked for various agencies but they don’t seem to need people anymore. Until now if someone had said, here’s a broom, sweep the road, there’s a wage packet at the end of it I would have snatched their arms off. I have been out of work for too long. Peter has just received some very good news. “The Job Centre put me on a course to job search and I have got a job in a bakery, making croissants; I start the training next week. After that I will be on shifts, some 12 hour nights. I would like to work my way up to a supervisor’s role as I have experience with staff and their rotas and it should mean more money.” This is just the opportunity that will help Peter to turn his life around. “I will be looking for a one bed roomed flat.” he said. “I don’t have any debts, no credit cards. So many people are thousands of pounds in debt but I don’t spend money I haven’t got.” Life is looking up for Peter and he can look forward to enjoying some fishing and also reading which he loves. “I will carry on coming here to the Day Centre for a while.” Noble ancestry didn’t help Peter Treays when he found himself homeless and forced to sleep rough in Maidstone car parks. Peter will be welcome for as long as it takes and we wish him luck. My wife was having an affair, so I left,” said 47 year old Peter, I went back some time later but the house was empty; they had moved away. I managed to get in touch with my daughter, but she wouldn’t tell me where they had gone.” That was 18 months ago and since then life has been hard. Peter has been sleeping in a tent in the back garden of his mum’s one bedroomed flat and although that is a step up from the sleeping bag in a car park, the nights can still be bitterly cold. “If the weather is really bad she will tell me to come in and sleep on the floor,” said Peter, “but hopefully once I am working again, I will be able to find a flat to rent.” maidstonedaycentre.org.uk You can give online through the website or text You can also Gift Aid support - see back page. IF YOU HAVE MADE OR ARE CONSIDERING MAKING A DONATION GIFT AID DECLARATION To: The Hon Treasurer Maidstone Christian Care, 6 Denton Close, Willington Street, Maidstone, Kent ME15 8ER Maidstone Day Centre is there to help homeless and vulnerable people turn their lives around. The initial need is usually for hot showers, a good home cooked meal, clean clothes and a warm sleeping bag for cold nights. After that work starts on obtaining Benefits, medical attention and addressing any drug/alcohol or mental health needs. The search for accommodation will be next on the list, way before job seeking, because you are unlikely to find work if you do not have an address. I wish Maidstone Christian Care to treat all donations I have made since 6 April 2000 and all donations I make from the date of this declaration until I notify you otherwise as Gift Aid donations WE ARE VERY GRATEFUL We rely on donations and grants to run this service and we are always grateful to receive financial support whether by regular giving, wills or a one off gift. This is just an example of what your money could buy:£10 would buy a decent sleeping bag to keep a homeless man or woman warm at night. £20 would buy 3 good thermos flasks for hot drinks or 12 tins of corned beef or a supply of ready meals in tins £30 would pay for B & B for one night. People are often discharged from hospital back onto the streets because they are not considered vulnerable. THIS IS HOW YOU CAN INCREASE THE VALUE OF YOUR GIFT TO MAIDSTONE CHRISTIAN CARE Signature ______________________.........____________ Date ___________________.............................................___ Full Name (in capitals) ____________________________ ________________________......................................._____ Address _______________________________________ ____ __________________________________________ ______________________________________________ __......................................_ Postcode __________________ Telephone number ________________........................____ E mail ____________________...............______________ Please note that to make Gift Aid donations you must pay an amount of income tax or capital gains tax at least equal to that redeemed on your donation. Should you, at any time, wish your donations no longer to be made under the Gift Aid scheme please notify the Hon. Treasurer. Registered charity number 1048081 HOW TO GIVE Using Gift Aid means that for every pound you give, we get an extra 28 pence from the Inland Revenue, helping your donation to go further. By cheque payable to: Maidstone Christian Care and send to: Maidstone Day Centre, 15 Knightrider Street, Maidstone, Kent ME15 6LP This means that £10 can be turned into £12.80 just so long as donations are made through Gift Aid. Imagine what a difference that could make to our work and it won’t cost you a penny more. Log on to our website: www.maidstonedaycentre.org.uk and click on the’donate’ button on one of the pages. So if you would like your donation to go further, please Gift Aid it by completing this form and returning it to Maidstone Christian Care. To find out more about giving through regular donations, wills or with cash, please ring us The Hon. Treasurer on 01622 202239 For a free copy of our newsletter Threshold: please e-mail your name & address to mdc@homelessinmaidstone.org.uk or write to the Day Centre or see it on line from the Maidstone Day Centre website. You can now find us on Facebook (go and ‘like’ us please) and Twitter. We also have an additional new website www.maidstonedaycentre.org.uk You can give online through the website or text You can also Gift Aid support - see this page.