Fauja fever breaks out for 100
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Fauja fever breaks out for 100
Northern Edition Replacing Full House Issue 01 December 2011 lifestyle s k a e r b r e v e f a Fauj r a e y 0 0 1 r o f t ou n a m n o h t a r a old M Ladies ... 5 Jill Shaw-Ruddock’s book will change your lives. Find out how. 4 Win! 11 A weekend break at a luxury London hotel. Sounding off! Introducing new columns: •Grumpy Old Men •The Great Debate – would you really want to live with your family? 13 Regional comings and goings: local news and views 7 Also inside: Housing 21 news 2 Going places: travel news and competition 11 Housing 21’s new structure – how it benefits you. 6 Bonding with grandchildren: have you managed it? 12 Ask the expert: Stave off winter flu! Money and finance 14 16 2 NEWS Kickstarting Older People’s Day Residents and staff at Attley Court in Wellingborough celebrated this year’s Older People’s Day by holding a whole week of different activities. Older People’s Day is a national celebration of the achievements and contributions that older people make to our society and the economy, quashing negative attitudes and outdated stereotypes. The theme for Older People’s Day this year was ‘getting and staying active in later life’, encouraging people to be active and to raise awareness of the benefits that physical, social and mental activity brings. Editor’s note I am very excited to introduce you to the first edition of My Time, the new magazine for Housing 21 customers (replacing Full House). My Time is the result of extensive research. During the summer we spoke to people at the resident forums and distributed surveys to find out what you want to read about. A big thank you to those who completed the survey. Congratulations to prize draw winner Mrs Pamela Devlin of Carroll Gardens, Nottingham, who wins a £50 M&S voucher. You will see big changes in the new magazine. My Time has gone regional to fit in with our new locality structure. Having three versions, north, central and south has allowed us to make more of your news and views. Not only do we have a new style for My Time, but some new columns such as The Great Debate and Grumpy Old Men, plus features such as an interview with Jill Shaw Ruddock, author of The Second Half of Your Life. Visit our travel page to win a free weekend in London and have a go at our puzzle page. We welcome your views on My Time, love it or hate it! Best wishes Sandie Gordon, Editor Contributions to Sandie Gordon, Editor, Housing 21, Baring Road, Beaconsfield, Bucks HP9 2NA sandie.gordon@housing21.co.uk Changes to the Board The celebrations kicked off on Saturday with Whacky Races. Electric scooters and zimmer frames were used rather than legs, and a potato-in-the-pot instead of an egg and spoon. Residents also held a special ‘hanging out the washing’ race. Attley Court is one of many Housing 21 schemes up and down the country embracing Older People’s Day and supporting the launch of Housing 21’s own ‘Sports Day’ in association with our Live Active initiative. Martin Sawers, Court Manager at Attley Court said: “This is a very active court anyway but Older People’s Day gives residents the opportunity to really show what an important contribution older people can make to society.” Attley Court’s impressive weeklong programme of activity won them £100. Housing 21 is delighted to welcome Lord Ben Stoneham as our new Chair. David Grayson retired officially from the Board on 28th October, handing over to Lord Stoneham (see page 3). Lord Ben Stoneham is currently the Liberal Democrats’ spokesperson on pensions and specialist on regeneration, housing and the economy. He has spent much of his business career in the newspaper industry, Simon Fanshawe Simon is a broadcaster, writer and consultant in equality and diversity. A co-founder of Stonewall, Simon regularly commentates on social policy, politics, the arts and equality. He has a broad range of expertise in governance and organisational change, having worked in the public and private sectors. Jenny Owen CBE Jenny, who is the Deputy Chief Executive and Commissioner of Adult Social Care at Essex County Council, has 30 years’ experience in the social care sector. working on both regional and national newspapers. Lord Stoneham brings a broad range of experience to Housing 21 having been Chair of Portsmouth Housing Association, and having worked on the Portsmouth Harbour Renaissance project. Lord Stoneham’s aspirations for Housing 21 include: • achieving top performance across all our customer services • developing our care support further. Simon is currently Chair of the Brighton and Hove Economic Partnership and Chair and Pro Chancellor of the University of Sussex. Jenny believes good housing and support are both critical in promoting a good later life for older people. Jenny, who is also a non-executive director at the Royal Free Hospital, has a particular interest in dementia and is looking forward to seeing some of our ground-breaking work in this area. NEWS Kitchener Cup winners for 2011 On a warm sunny day in August residents, staff and dignitaries from the Royal British Legion attended an event at Prail Court in the beautiful Essex village of Coggeshall, in celebration of the court winning the Housing 21 Kitchener Cup competition for the very first time. To win the cup, Prail Court raised over £4,307.04 for the Poppy Appeal after the court adopted the appeal as their charity of the year. The court has strong ties with the Legion, with meetings being held regularly on the recently refurbished court. The money was raised through various social events ranging from lunches, raffles and community quiz afternoons, as well as the usual collecting tins. The youngest collector Sam, age 12, took his into school with him! Mr Reg Welham, Chair of the Prail Goodbye to David Grayson! David Grayson retired from the Board on 28th October, handing over to Lord Ben Stoneham. David’s five years with Housing 21 were celebrated at an event hosted by one of our liveliest courts, Ebbage Court in Woking. Lynda Crosby, Court Manager and her team of enthusiastic residents put on a fantastic buffet, with home made biscuits and a good luck cake. Residents, Housing 21 staff, executive team and board members mingled over lunch. Chief Executive Pushpa Raguvaran 3 Age takes the Stage Housing 21 teamed up with LinkAge recently at a special Age takes the Stage event in Bristol. The fun-filled event was part of Bristol’s Celebrating Age Festival, included live entertainment and taster sessions of activities such as yoga, Tai Chi, Zumba and line dancing as well as art and gentle exercise. Court Residents’ Association, was presented with a replica cup and cheque for £50 towards court funds by guest of honour, Lord Henry Kitchener. Lord Kitchener was heard to comment on what a delightful time he had had staying at the court and how welcoming everyone was. Dan Sansom, President of the Royal British Legion Coggeshall branch, thanked Court Manager Jenny Mole and the residents for a lovely buffet and for their help in fundraising. Jenny was then presented with a certificate as a mark of appreciation for her outstanding support to the Royal British Legion in Coggeshall by Dan Sansom. Well done from Housing 21 to all involved! thanked David for everything he’s done for Housing 21, mentioning what an inspirational chairman he’s been and his passion and commitment to enabling older people to live a good later life. She talked about his involvement with many projects, such as Live Active, our corporate values, the Green Johannas project and supporting our work on end of life care and dementia. Bill Moore, Housing Services Committee member thanked David on behalf of residents and Sarah Vallelly, Intelligence Manager, presented him with a photobook as a reminder of his time with Housing 21. David commented, “I could not have asked for a nicer send off from Housing 21 – celebrating with residents, staff and board colleagues that I’ve worked with this last five years. I look forward to watching the organisation grow and prosper.” A range of local charities and agencies manned information and advice stalls, on housing, health, finance, recreation, education, employment, volunteering and assistive technology. Mike Higgs, Court Manager of Jennings Court, Bristol said: “Housing 21 is delighted to have worked with LinkAge in staging this event. It has been a very exciting day and a wonderful opportunity for local older people. Ask Ken In the summer edition of Full House we launched a new feature, ‘Ask Ken’. It’s great to know that so many of you have used this opportunity to contact Ken Jeffries, our Resident Board Member, directly with your questions and issues. It’s been working really well with lots of feedback and Ken is happy to be contacted about any matter, but remember that specific complaints should be fielded through the formal channels. Here’s a reminder: In the first instance, contact your Court Manager. Or call us on: 0303 123 1622 or by post: Freepost suggestions, comments and complaints or email: scc@housing21.co.uk We look forward to having some interesting and challenging wider issues and questions to report on next time in 'Ask Ken'. Contact: ken.jeffries@housing21. co.uk or the Editor. 4 FEATURES Try something new! pHave you heard about the new kee fit fad that is sweeping the UK? It’s come straight from America and is called ‘Mall walking’ or ‘ Mallercise’. (That’s walking round a large shopping complex to you and me!) This fascinating new trend blends shopping with a gentle workout and is attracting people right across the age spectrum. Mall walkers meet s, up in their local shopping centre the take a 45-minute walk around . concourse and then go shopping Advantages? No rain and a nice cuppa and cake at the end! Ask at the information booth in your local shopping centre to see if they have a mall-walking programme. ’ r e v e F a j u ‘Fa r o f t u o s k brea n a M n o h t a r Ma Fauja has also become something of a celebrity, appearing in a high profile advertising campaign for PETA (People for the Ethical Treatment of Animals) and the inspirational ‘Nothing Is Impossible’ adverts for sportswear firm Adidas. The sprightly centenarian – who runs 10 miles every day and is said to have the bones of a 35-year-old – took up running when he was a farmer in the Punjab. But he really began taking the sport seriously 11 years ago, after the death of his wife and son. Fauja says running gives him peace and a sense of purpose. H ow’s this for inspiration? 100-year-old Fauja Singh ran the Scotiabank Toronto Waterfront Marathon in October – making him the oldest person ever to run a marathon. He even finished ahead of five other runners. Fauja, who lives in Ilford, East London, shocked the world in October by completing the gruelling 26-mile run in 8 hours, 25 minutes and 16 seconds – putting him in 3,850th place. As he made his way along the route, event organisers dismantled barricades and took down sponsors’ banners, but people around the globe were gripped with ‘Fauja Fever’ as they followed every step of his progress on the Internet and Twitter. The next day, the world’s media was full of headlines about his astonishing feat. But that’s not his only sporting achievement. Days before the marathon, Fauja chalked up eight world records for 100-year-old men during a 5,000 run at the Sikhs in the City event in Scarborough. He has also run in eight marathons since the age of 89 – including the 2003 Toronto marathon, which he finished in 5 hours, 40 minutes and 1 second – and was a torchbearer at the 2004 Olympics in Athens. So what is the secret of his sporting success? Apparently, it is a vegetarian diet – especially ginger curry – lots of cups of tea, avoiding smoking and drinking, being happy and leading a stress-free life. Fauja is reported as saying: “Be grateful for everything you have, stay away from people who are negative, stay smiling and keep running.” So what’s next for Fauja? Not one to sit on his laurels, he plans to run next year’s Edinburgh Marathon and is hoping to take part in the 2012 London Games torch relay. Fauja’s in good company 100-year-old Ruth Frith – a great grandmother from Brisbane – broke a shot put record at the 2009 World Masters Games in Australia and won a gold medal. 100-year-old canadian Jaring Tim merman broke a world record in the 100-metre bac kstroke at the Canadian Masters Swimming Ch ampionship in 2009. Do you know anyone conn ected to Housing 21 who has done anything like this? FEATURES The second half 5 Buy Jill’s book at amazon. co.uk of your life ‘‘Y ou know, menopause doesn’t signal the end. On the contrary, with a few small changes, it means you can finally be the person you always wanted to be,” says Jill Shaw-Ruddock. Jill is the author of a ground-breaking new book, The Second Half of Your Life, and it’s changing the lives of 50+ women across the globe. High-profile ladies such as Sheila Hancock, Greta Scaachi and Ruby Wax are publicly bubbling with enthusiasm for the revolutionary self-help book and online bookstore, Amazon, was deluged with 47 five-star reader reviews within an hour. My Time catches up with 55-year-old American-born Jill to find out more… Did you feel it was high time post-menopausal woman were viewed in a positive light? Yes, and that it was high time a positive book was written for them. When I went through the menopause at 48, I realised the change wasn’t just physical but cerebral as well. All you have to do is see women over 50, 60, 70 years old who are creating new purpose in their lives and taking on new challenges, so I wondered if there could be a physiological reason for this new zest. I began studying the brain and talking to psychiatrists and doctors and there’s a ton of research about why oestrogen makes us act the way we do. So what did you find out? That without the fuel of oestrogen, our goals change and we rediscover ourselves. And it basically changes the way our brains work and how we see the world – you may even want to change profession for example. It lets us get back in touch with earlier dreams. With less oestrogen, a woman naturally looks outside the home to define who she is, so the post-menopausal woman can become the woman she always thought she could be. We transition from our reproductive years to our self-productive years and we can now become a loving parent to ourselves. So oestrogen gives us a nurturing instinct for the first half of our lives and we all know that script, but nobody tells us what to expect from the second half of our lives. So it’s not a book about menopause, but life after it… Absolutely. In my book, the menopause is the marker and not the subject, so it’s a book about successful ageing. Women are not the same only older, women become more than the sum of their parts. What does your book advocate? The first half of the book is based on my ‘five a day’ prescription for living well: diet (the verb not the noun), exercise, ‘staying connected’ with family, friends and your community, passion and purpose. The second part is about negotiating obstacles that will inevitably strike us in later life. The proc Jill’s booeeds from into her k go back charity centre Do you think that society tends to write off older women? I think western society doesn’t value age full stop. But that’s going to change because the population is living longer. 34% of all people are over the age of 50, and that number is going to get closer to 40% over the years. We’re not invisible and we’re not going anywhere. Your Second Half of Your Life Foundation puts ‘five a day’ into practice. Tell us more. I wanted to bring the book to life so I have created the first prototype drop-in centre in north Kensington, which is due to open early next year. 100% of the royalties of my book have gone into the foundation and I’m doing some serious fundraising too. It will be a place for women and men to find passion and process and offer everything I believe will slow down the ageing purpose. If this centre works, I want to open similar centres throughout the UK and Ireland. The centres will be for people of all socioeconomic backgrounds and are designed to combat isolation – the biggest catalyst in the ageing process. What will happen at the centres? There will be three programmes: rediscover a passion, whether that’s bridge, theatre, Italian – exercise such as dance lessons or Tai Chi – and a lecture series teaching everything from getting back to work to weight loss. These are just examples. There’s really something for everyone and I hope to see Housing 21 residents there at some point. Win! away. We have five copies of Jill’s book to give stion: To win, simply answer the following que called: The primary female hormone is A) Esther B) Testosterone C) Oestrogen rdon, Send your answers to Sandie Go Housing 21, The Triangle, Baring A Road, Beaconsfield, Bucks HP9 2N .uk .co or sandie.gordon@housing21 6 HOUSING 21 NEWS Delivering a local service: A s you may be aware, Housing 21 has been going through a time of huge change as we review the structure and focus of the organisation to allow us to grow and respond locally. Why change? Improving our customer service With over 35,000 customers and 18,000 properties, we are one of the biggest housing organisations around. However, because we operate on a national basis, we have had challenges in responding to the specific needs of local communities because we cover so many areas. Without a local focus, we are facing increasing competition from small, local providers, as well as national providers who are competitive on price. So, we decided that we need to be organised around our customers’ needs, in the 28 different areas we operate in rather than around the services we provide. This makes it easier for you. For example, previously, if someone wanted to access our housing and care services, they had to contact two different departments. With our new localities model, care and housing services will join up, so that customers have just one person to contact for all their needs. We have been busy appointing people into the roles of regional directors and locality managers. In this first edition we would like to introduce you to one of regional directors for your region (see page 7). A changing marketplace The marketplace in which we operate is changing quickly. Many local authorities and NHS commissioners are changing the way they commission services, with increasing pressure on budgets. More and more older people are now in a position to buy in care and other services themselves – either because they have a personal budget (i.e council funds that they can spend on their care) or because they want to use their own money to buy the services that they want. Customer engagement and What is the new structure? From 1 October 2011, all our services were organised under 28 localities, in six regions, North West, North East, Central West, Central East, South West and South East. area forums We are currently consulting with residents and the Housing Services Committee on plans to work with customers to help improve our services in future. This includes looking at how we can best use the area forums. We will keep you updated on how you can give us your views on Housing 21 services and other issues in future editions of My Time. New publications coming soon… On Target Last year we published our service offers for the very first time and outlined our commitment to the standards of service we want to provide. These standards put our customers at the centre of our business and guide our work to improve how we do things. This year’s On Target focuses on how we have performed in meeting these service offers. This report is published annually in line with the guidelines set by our regulator, the Tenant Services Authority and in full partnership with our residents. Live Active Guide Launched for Older People’s Day, our Live Active Guide to a Good Later Life promotes activities on our courts and provides hints and tips on how to get started. It provides a useful tool for anyone wishing to organise events and comes full of useful ideas, case studies and a guide to securing funding. Making it personal This leaflet is for anyone who already receives, is thinking about, or wants to find out more about personal budgets, individual budgets or direct payments. It contains an easy reference guide to help make things a bit clearer and explains some of the choices you can make. Poster on Keeping you safe You should see posters going up around our courts and office called Keeping you safe. This is our commitment to you that Housing 21 takes cases of abuse very seriously. Everyone has the right to live their lives free from fear, abuse and neglect. This poster advises what to do if either yourself or someone you know is being abused. all You can also find ur these leaflets on o e: Housing 21 websit o.uk. www.housing21.c NORTHERN ROUND-UP Introducing thing for me is to ensure people have a good quality of life. I want to support people in achieving their ambitions, whatever age they are and whatever their aspirations.” Jane Hinde J ane Hinde, Regional Services Director for the North West Region, is a true people person, who loves nothing better than seeing people achieve their ambitions. And her career more than bears that out. She worked as an educational welfare officer in Manchester – helping children from disadvantaged backgrounds get education and support – was housing services manager at care home provider Anchor, and joined Housing 21 more than 13 years ago. Jane said: “The most important 7 Jane Hind e Services D Regional irector Her vision for Housing 21 is to help customers “achieve as much as they possibly can, as much as they want to achieve and enable them to be as independent as possible.” She’s also looking forward to motivating her team, building relationships with customers and commissioners, and continually improving the service Housing 21 provides. “I get a real buzz out of achieving things and making improvements – whether it’s sorting out a major issue or getting a working relationship onto a more co-operative footing. I just enjoy getting over each hurdle.” There’s something else Jane enjoys outside of work and that’s going to pop concerts. She said: “I absolutely love them. I love the music, the noise and the atmosphere. I feel like I’m 20 again. My two daughters, who are both in their twenties, also love coming to the concerts. The only thing is, I think I’ve got more stamina than them!” Who’s who in the new structure? T he list below sets out the regional directors, locality managers and property support managers for your area. Please note the locality managers have now replaced your housing services managers and, of course, your first point of contact is still via your court manager. NORTH WEST REGION Oldham and Rochdale (North West 5) Kath Miller, Locality Manager Durham and North Yorks (North East 2) Ron Bainbridge, Locality Manager West Lancs and East Lancs (North West 2 and 3)* Vivien Ziwocha, Locality Manager, Lindsey Leach, Assistant Locality Manager for East Lancs. Cheshire, Merseyside, Flintshire (North West 6) Keith Barnett, Locality Manager West Yorkshire (North East 3) Craig McCall, Locality Manager Gtr Manchester (North West 4) Catherine Rycroft, Locality Manager NORTH EAST REGION Victoria Barclay, Regional Services Director *There is no North West 1 Tyne and Wear (North East 1) Claire Charlton, Locality Manager Jane Hinde, Regional Services Director Property Support: Deborah Evans Yorkshire and Humberside (North East 4) Donna Holmes, Locality Manager South Yorkshire (North East 5) Vacant, Craig McCall, interim Locality Manager Property Support: Talvinder Singh 8 NORTHERN ROUND-UP Residents’ revolt sees bus service reinstalled R esidents at Gill Court, Blackpool have led the way in getting a bus service, due to be axed, reinstalled. Blackpool Transport was looking to close the route – which stops just outside Gill Court – as part of a raft of changes designed to make up a £1.3 million budget shortfall. But residents and other members of the community said the loss of the service would leave them feeling isolated and cut off. After learning that the service would be reinstated, Anthony Stridgeon, a Gill Court resident, told the local newspaper The Gazette that without the service “Many elderly people had to walk three quarters of a mile up a hill to get to the next stop and many of them really struggled. Bramble Hollow celebrates its first year for them which really affects their sense of independence.” Fellow resident Florence De-Nagy added: “We’ll have a party when the buses come back! “It’s been so hard for people and has made some feel like prisoners because they couldn’t even get out to the shop.” To get their message across the campaigning residents bombarded Blackpool Transport with letters and phone calls and attracted a lot of publicity, gaining headlines including ‘Bus victory proves pensioner power’. An American-themed evening complete with burgers, hot dogs, nachos, popcorn and ‘texas teadrops’ was held to celebrate Bramble Hollow, County Durham’s first birthday. Plans to have a quiet celebration for the residents leaked out, and more than 70 people turned up to the event. Court Manager Lorraine Morrissey said: “We’ve had many good nights in our first year and quickly grew out of our lounge because there wasn’t enough room to conga! “When the weather was bad, many didn’t bother going out at all and had to rely on other people to get things “We now open the doors between the restaurant and the next door multi-room, to make the space even bigger!” es Open day bak in sunshine The court is very much at the heart of its community. “We have one lady who visits us who lives a few streets away. She told me she hadn’t been out in the evening for years, but she knows she can a get a taxi here and back. She’s made a lot of new friends and now looks forward to her monthly do with us. “We work very closely with Sunderland Council, which provides the on-site care, and everyone works together as a team. The atmosphere is fantastic,” she said. Resident Ada Drewery, 92, officially opened this year’s Henry Vernone Court annual garden party – and acted as queen for the day, sitting on a throne to cast a watchful eye over the day’s events. Stalls featured designer clothing, bric-a-brac, homemade jam, cakes, books, sweets – and a raffle. Bite Size: Entertainment came via the Hull Samba Band, whose drummer Colin Veitch acted as the party’s burger king, firing up the gas rings! Trips out to a summer fayre, a show called ‘That’s Amore’ – based on the songs of Rat Pack stars including Dean Martin and Frank Sinatra – and a forthcoming visit from Elvis himself… are all events residents from Minden Court in Doncaster have taken part in since the launch of their Residents’ Association earlier this year. NORTHERN ROUND-UP Community comes first 9 Lunch by the sea Oh we do like to be beside the seaside… So sang the residents of Brown Court, Wigan, after a day at the Lyndene Hotel in Blackpool. A three-course lunch was followed by a number of games including Play Your Cards Right, Mr and Mrs and a game of bingo. R esidents at John Kay Court in Lancaster are set to be at the heart of their local community after securing a Lancashire Small Sparks Grant. The aim of the grant is to help citizens make a positive contribution to the local community and improve the quality of life for people living in the county. Court Manager Sharon Peston explains: “I heard about the grant after visiting a Royal British Legion event. We applied for it and were awarded £275 which we’ve used to buy some games from Galloways Society for the Blind as we have two registered blind residents, as well as other games from Argos.” The aim is to invite local school children and other neighbours in to play games – cementing John Kay Court’s place at the heart of the local community. But, says Sharon, “The most successful item the residents have bought so far are some wooden planks!” The hotel’s organist rounded off the visit with a medley of tunes – with some of the residents taking to the dance floor! And as they took the coach back home, the residents were heard thanking the Court Manager Heather and her husband Lloyd for arranging the trip – and said: “Come on – let’s do it again!” “One of the residents made us some vegetable boxes, and another bought some seeds. This year we’ve grown onions, carrots, brussels, cabbage, peas, runner beans, garlic, tomatoes, salad leaves and herbs! We even had enough money for some compost,” says Sharon. And the moral of the story? If you hear about a grant you’re eligible for, apply. You never know, you too may have tonnes of fresh food to eat next spring! Bric-a-brac Better late than never…Tommy Greenwood from Barker Court, Bacup, is presented with a medal to recognise his services to his country when he was stationed on Christmas Island in the 1960s. Residents at Maurice Jones Court, Wirrall, Merseyside, are gearing up for this year’s visit by their local Beaver group. The group visit the community- Residents at Barnes Court in Burnley have raised more than £450 for the Pendleside Hospice. Events included cream teas, a bric-a-brac stall, a raffle and competitions to guess the weight of a cake as well as ‘find the key that opens the box’. spirited residents each December to perform a seasonal concert for them. The court runs regular bingo nights and undertakes fundraising for local charities. 10 NORTHERN ROUND-UP Putting pen to paper Everyone loves getting a letter and Trudi Blackburn from Ward Court in Brighouse, Yorkshire, wrote to us to say… his 92nd year but I am blessed with three caring children, four grandchildren and three great grandchildren. “I have lived at Ward Court for 28 years. I came with my husband Wilfred, joining a youthful group of newly retired residents. We found a happy hiking group, the Tuesday Brighouse Walkers, and kind neighbours. “Sadly my get up and go is going fast, but on 1st November I was 95 years young – and count my blessings everyday in this warm, safe environment. Thanks to Housing 21 and our caring manager, Dawn.” “We celebrated our golden and diamond wedding anniversaries here. Sadly, my husband died in Trudi Blackburn Residents’ shop posts first year profits Nearly £4,000 has been raised by the joint venture Good As New Shop, run by Oldham’s Trinity House Social Club, and their partners, the Deaf and Hard of Hearing Club. Launched a year ago, the shop took £3,841.68, which has been split equally between the two groups. Hailed as a great success, the volunteers from Trinity House and the Deaf and Hard of Hearing Club who run the shop, were presented with flowers and cards as a thank you for all their hard work. Thanks to Pa Brooke fro mela m Court in W Mowat est Yorksh ire who has w ritten in w ith the followin g poem: In a close community Friends and neighbours all There’s always someone handy there, If we need to call. Coffee mornings, games nights, trips to local places Pleases us, we enjoy, You can tell it by our faces. No more worries with hard work Flats are easy run Grass is cut, windows cleaned. Whilst we’re out having fun. A home for life is what it says, A great relief for many Maintenance is in the rent It won’t cost us a penny. All in all a good place To spend retirement years, Peace of mind, we’re not alone, Eliminates all fears. Marjorie hits 100! Marjorie Ricketts, from the Charles Court extra care scheme in Doncaster has celebrated her 100th birthday. And to acknowledge the landmark, the court held a party for her family, friends, residents and staff. It was also attended by the Mayor of Doncaster and his wife. Along with her telegram from the Queen, Marjorie also received a card from her MP, Rosie Winterton. Gaynor Dickinson, Court Manager, said: “We planted a tree for Marjorie which she can see from her window and which has a plaque with her name and age on it.” Hats off to Linda Metcalfe, a resident at Avery Tulip Court, who braved the elements to complete a sponsored walk across Morecambe Bay. Linda, Residents raise £350 for court funds pictured in the red jacket, raised £220 with £100 going to St John’s Hospice and £120 to the Royal National Lifeboat Institute. Residents, their friends and family members, joined forces at Robert Allan Court, Newcastle, in August, to hold a summer fayre. And the evening after the party? A tired Marjorie went through it all over again with her friends who turned up for a spot of bingo! and sandwiches were served to guests, with money raised going towards the court’s funds. Residents from nearby Lawrence Hill Tombola, guess the number of Court also took part – and donated sweets in a jar, a cake stall, barbecue items to the bric-a-brac sale. GOING PLACES 11 Win a one night festive city break next to The River Thames with Guoman Hotels!!! M y Time has teamed up with luxury hotel group, Guoman Hotels, to offer you the chance to win a fabulously festive one night bed and breakfast break for two at The Tower Hotel in central London! Ideally situated on the bank of The River Thames, The four-star Tower Hotel boasts breath-taking views of iconic Tower Bridge and St Katherine’s Dock from almost every room and is within easy reach of the city’s many restaurants, bars and visitor attractions. If you are not the one lucky enough to win this fantastic prize, weekend stays at Guoman Hotels’ The Tower Hotel start from just £109 bed and breakfast per room per night (excluding VAT). For further information or to book, please visit www.guoman.com. To win, just answer the following question: Head to the centre of London and indulge in some Christmas shopping, see a show in Theatreland or take in the famous Oxford Street Christmas lights. If that all sounds a bit much, you can also enjoy some of the most famous sights in London from the comfort of The Tower Hotel’s stylish restaurants and bars without even leaving your chair! orld’s What is the name of the w oldest marathon runner? Singh a) Rauja Singe b) Fauja c) Roger Singh n, Editor, Housing 21, Contributions to Sandie Gordo HP9 2NA Baring Road, Beaconsfield, Bucks k sandie.gordon@housing21.co.u Terms and conditions Closing date for entries, is Friday, 20th January 2012. Prize is valid until 28 April 2012 and only on Friday, Saturday and Sunday nights. Prize is subject to availability and cannot be exchanged or refunded. Prize is valid for two people sharing a standard double or twin bedroom and includes breakfast. No other meals, drinks or travel activities are included in the prize. Any extras taken should be settled with the hotel on departure. This competition is not open to Housing 21 staff. Throwing caution to the wind A survey by Gnu Insurance discovered that 13 per cent of over50s now take part in dangerous sports while holidaying abroad. The most popular activities are waterskiing, parasailing and scuba diving, but windsurfing and surfing also top the mature traveller’s list of ‘things to do’ on holiday. An impressive 8 per cent also go rock climbing, 6 per cent bungee jump and a brave 5 per cent have a go at caving. The survey also discovered that 13 per cent of over-50s would also go on holiday without travel insurance, with a third saying they would be prepared to take a risk. Gnu General Manager Paul Thilo said: “Our research shows that an increasing amount of older travellers are throwing caution to the wind while on holiday and taking part in activities that they’d never even think of at home.” Have YOU ever done ? anything risky on holiday Write in and let us know Speaking of risky business Gertie Painter of Randall Scofield Court in Crawley is shown here abseiling down an 80 ft cliff! This was when she was 93! Now 96, Gertie is planning another abseil in December to raise money for Clic Sargent, a cancer charity for children. In the next edition of My Time we will be catching up with her to see how she got on. 12 LIFE STYLE Erm, do you sometimes dislike your grandchildren? B eing a grandparent can be even more rewarding than being a parent. You get to enjoy your grandchildren without being responsible for their upbringing. You’re older and wiser, so know how to handle their demands better. You even become something of a VIP. It can also be more challenging. Offering advice can make you seem interfering, buying your grandchildren gifts is spoiling them, and telling them off when they’re naughty is almost a crime. You may also be expected to put your own life on hold to provide childcare during the working day or holidays. But what if you haven’t even bonded with or… and we’ll say this very quietly… don’t like your grandchildren? It may seem terrible to admit you don’t get on with your grandchildren, but the bond between grandparents and grandchildren is not always instantaneous – especially if you don’t see them very often. 1. Establish some ground rules The parents set the rules for your grandchildren so make sure you know those rules and try to maintain them when you are alone with your grandchildren. This will prevent any tensions between you and the parents affecting your relationship with your grandchildren. Don’t be afraid to set some rules of your own, too. Do you really want to baby-sit? If so, for how long? And is it OK for your grandchildren to call round unexpectedly? 2. Listen to your grandchildren Try to listen to your grandchildren and encourage them to open up to you. If they have questions, try answering them as honestly as possible. After talking to your grandchildren make a note of their interests, books they’ve been reading, friends at school – and mention them in your next conversation. It shows you’ve been listening and are interested in what they do. Having a good relationship with your grandchildren can take hard work and just a little bit of ingenuity. With all that in mind and Christmas approaching, which usually means spending more time with your grandchildren, here are five top tips to help you have a better relationship with your little angels. 3. Turn off the television Children spend so much time in front of the television, especially if their parents are busy, that it’s good to do something completely different when you’re alone with them. Play card games or board games, read to them, or take them for a walk in the local park. All these activities will be stimulating for your grandchildren and help you develop a stronger bond with them. 4. Share your interests and hobbies Spending a whole day with your grandchildren can be – dare we say it? – a little bit boring, especially if you don’t have a great relationship with them. So don’t be afraid to involve them in the sort of activities you enjoy, like gardening, cooking or knitting. You might be surprised by how much they enjoy it, too. 5. Create memories Many of us have very fond memories of our grandparents – whether it’s stories they told us, cakes they baked us, or the way they could wiggle their earlobes! Create some memories for your own grandchildren by telling them tales of family life, taking them to places that you, or their parents, visited as a child, or teaching them funny rhymes and songs you learned at school. Finding love on the Internet Silver surfers are winning the online dating game, new statistics reveal. would make a good parent, they’re looking for a mate who shares the same interests. The number of over-55s finding romance on the Internet has jumped a massive 39 per cent in three years, and one company, Spark Networks, has seen a 93 per cent increase in just eight months. The increase in the divorce rate in over-50s is also boosting the number of older people dating online. This success is being put down to older people being more laidback about finding a partner. Marriage and children are not so important, so instead of looking for someone who the Have YOU found love on to? Internet? Would you like and Write in and let us know, me you could feature in My Ti next issue rdon, Housing 21, Send your thoughts to Sandie Go sfield, Bucks HP9 The Triangle, Baring Road, Beacon .co.uk 2NA or sandie.gordon@housing21 SOUNDING OFF I THE ? 13 n many places, such as Italy, the older person is the social nucleus of the household – and everyone answers to them! But this isn’t really the case in the UK. So we ask – ? GREAT Would you really DEBATE ? Here’s what some of you had to say: My daughter lives away so I don't have any close family nearby. I'm completely on my own, which I'm perfectly used to. I don't think I'd like to live with my family because I wouldn't want to put upon my daughter and she isn't well enough for that at the moment anyway. I like independent living and, when the time comes, I'd be quite happy to be looked after in my home here, rather want to live with your family? ? I like my independence; I prefer being on my own, you get used to it and it means you can do what you want, when you want and how you want. I’ve got seven greatgrandchildren, and 14 grandchildren so I’m not short of company – most live around me here, so I get lots of visits and I go to see them too. I’d than moving into a nursing home. But it's a question of what we all have to deal with as we get older – it's an unknown factor. Of course, some lucky people get to move in with their family and live in a granny flat... that's the ideal solution! Shirley Sutcliffe, Inglis Court, Cumbria say around four times a week one of the family comes to visit me. My daughter is a mobile hairdresser, and she comes to the court every Thursday to do hairdressing for a lot of residents, so she always pops in to see me. She does my hair every fortnight and I have a number 1! Norman Church, Everard Court, Grantham I love my family to bits but I wouldn’t want to live with them. I like to look after myself and do my own thing. I think people of my age are more independent and don’t like to be a burden to their family. Myrna Byron, Broughton Court, Nottingham Next issue: Is the youth of today misunderstood? Send your thoughts to Sandie Gordon, Housing 21, The Triangle, Baring Road, Beaconsfield, Bucks HP9 2NA or sandie.gordon@housing21.co.uk Verdict? No! Thoughts on the motorist Has it always been like this or am I just getting old? Every day we see the female of the species out there tearing up the tarmac on our roads in their great big 4x4s and people carriers, phone in hand, nail polish on the dashboard and trying to put on their lipstick. Which school of motoring did they go to? Avon, Rimmel, L'Oreal? Wow they’re good. I bet if you take a look inside, the curling tongs will be plugged into the ciggie lighter. Grumpy Old Men Please note that these are personal views and do not reflect wider Housing 21 policies or views. How come they can do all this at 40 mph but cannot see the bollards in front of them in Tesco’s car park? "It wasn’t me dear honest …" Yeah yeah. It seems to me that they have a totally different idea about the finer points of driving and a total disregard of the Highway Code. And then they have the nerve to fire instructions from the passenger seat to their far more competent male chauffeurs ie ‘mind that cat’, ‘slow down’, ‘watch your speed’. They think they’re so good. Maybe there could one day be a female F1 driver? I don’t think so… Yours, Mr Grump Colin Veitch, Henry Vernone Court, Hull Ladies! Have you got something to say about this? Drop us your thoughts on Mr Grump’s rant! 14 BODY AND MIND r e t n i w t a b Com u fl d n a s d l o c W e’re all guilty of neglecting essential vitamins and minerals in our diets, but they become even more important as you age. Eating plenty of fresh fruits, vegetables and salads packed full of antioxidant vitamins and minerals, is a superb way to strengthen your immune system and ward off colds and flu. And let’s face it, nothing ruins the Eastenders Christmas special more than a hacking cough! So here’s my guide to immuneboosting goodies this winter. They’re cheap, they’re cheerful, and they’re readily available. Vitamins A and C Essential in the fight against flu! These include carrots, broccoli, mustard greens, red peppers, oranges and blueberries. Vitamin C has antiviral effects, whilst vitamin A supports the lining of your lungs and helps prevent germs from entering the body. The antioxidant vitamin E is plentiful in green leafy vegetables, olives, sunflower seeds and almonds and helps maintain the function of your white blood cells, which are major components of your immune systems. Protein Another secret weapon to send flu packing. Protein is essential for the rapid production of immune cells that help fight infection, and while excessive intake is not advised, many older people don’t eat enough of it. The secret is to have a little at every mealtime. So get tucking into fish, eggs, chicken, beans and nuts – all great sources of protein. Losing your appetite? If you find that your appetite isn’t what it used to be, then try brightening up your cereal with berries and sprucing up your plate with colourful carrots and greens it will help to stimulate your appetite and nutrient intake, as well as increasing resistance to infection. The minerals selenium and zinc, found in nuts, seeds, and mushrooms, are also crucial to fighting off winter colds and flu. Crush pumpkin seeds to sprinkle on salads or into sandwiches for a tasty immune boosting lunch. Terrible toxins Eliminating toxins from your bodies that could burden your immune systems helps you stay healthy and able to fight off infections effectively. Eating fibre-rich whole-grains, beans and vegetables, and drinking plenty of water (about 6 - 8 glasses every day) ensures toxins are eliminated. Cut back on sugary foods and caffeine. In excess, these foods cause your blood sugar levels to increase, which in turn depletes our body of Vitamin C. Fruit is a healthier alternative to cakes and biscuits. It contains sugar in a natural, balanced amount with other beneficial nutrients. Alcohol also increases susceptibility to infections, but there’s no need to miss a post-Christmas dinner sherry, just drink moderately. Immune system MOT Your immune systems’ response to infection can become ‘sluggish’ and less efficient after a high fat meal. Choosing lean cuts, trimming visible fats and switching to low-fat dairy will help keep your fat intake in check. Also avoid foods fried in oils and fats at a high temperature since this can produce chemicals that speed the ageing process and harm your immune system. Catching a cold or flu this winter is not inevitable! But even if you do, eating the immune-boosting foods listed above may lessen the duration and severity, producing fewer unpleasant symptoms. About the Author Maria Zaretti BSc Hons DipION runs Nutritional Therapy practices in Canterbury and Thanet, Kent. If you like to ask Maria a question, email: sandie.gordon@housing21.co.uk How to make the perfect cuppa The verdict’s finally in. The Royal Society of Chemistry has cooked up a conclusive formula for the perfect cup of tea. And it’s controversial. It involves microwaves and loose Assam as opposed to a good old builder’s bag. At least the age-old ‘milk in first’ issue has been resolved – according to Dr Andrew Stapley, a chemical engineer from Loughborough University, the milk should definitely go in first. All to do with denaturing milk proteins apparently. No doubt you have your own diehard method of making the perfect cuppa, but for what it’s worth, here’s what the chemists say… The Royal Society of Chemistry’s definitive recipe for the perfect cup of tea Ingredients: Loose leaf Assam tea, soft water, fresh chilled milk, white sugar. Implements: Kettle, ceramic teapot, large ceramic mug, fine mesh tea strainer, tea-spoon, microwave oven. Method: Boil fresh soft water. While waiting for the water to boil place a tea pot containing a quarter of a cup of water in a microwave oven on full power for one minute. Place one rounded teaspoon of tea per cup into pot. Take the pot to the kettle as it is boiling, pour on to the leaves and stir. Leave to brew for three minutes. Pour milk into the cup first followed by the tea, aiming to achieve a colour that is rich and attractive. BODY AND MIND 15 Leo the Lionheart O ne morning last year, 69-yearold Leo David started to plan a journey. He wanted to say goodbye to a treasured friend he met in March 1945, a GI who was stationed in his hometown of Cardiff and an acquaintance that formerpharmacist Leo had kept in touch with for years. The trip was ambitious. Leo’s friend was based in America and Leo wanted to throw all his savings at the trip to make it as special as he could. But how, as a Parkinson’s sufferer confined to a wheelchair with very limited sight, was he going to make it happen? He initially asked his immediate care team at Greenrod Place, Brentford, whether someone could accompany him to the States, and they passed his request on to Housing 21’s Live-In Support Services. They teamed him up with carer, Carol. As it so happened, Carol and Leo were soulmates. From their initial introduction, they got on extremely well, sharing a wry sense of humour and an established love of travel. Feeling more confident about the trip, Leo extended the scope to include a Mediterranean cruise and a variety of day trips along the way. The planning, Leo says, was military: “When you’re in a wheelchair, the trick is to plan as much as you can from Sudoku the UK. Carol informed the airports, planes, hotels, cruise ship and tourist attractions that we were coming so they could provide accessible routes.” Leo and Carol set sail on 4th September and visited Barcelona, and Carol all o e L Naples, Rome and dressed up aboard Santorini before flying to America. the cruise ship It was here that Carol showed exceptional strength and support for The Carer – Carol Leo, who had become very unwell in “The trip with Leo was very hard work New York. He says: and a tremendous responsibility – but the rewards were infinite. Leo is “Carol is a truly lovely person. I was a fantastic man and everywhere we very ill in New York and after taking me to the hospital, she stayed by my went, people wanted to chat to him. On a trip in America, it took Leo a very bedside all night in case I needed anything. I appreciated that so much. long time to board a boat and when he finally made it, the whole boat cheered She didn’t have to do that.” and clapped. It was magical. Made it to America! When the duo finally reached Virginia, they discovered that Leo’s friend had sadly died. But with typical fortitude, Leo was determined to make it to the graveside to lay some flowers, despite having to get out of his wheelchair. Fill in all the squares in the grid so that each row, each column, “After travelling all that and each 3x3 square contains all the digits from 1 to 9. way, I wasn’t going to let 25ft of grass stop me Fill in all the squares in the grid so that each row, from saying goodbye. each column, and each 3x3 square contains all With Carol’s help, I made the digits from 1 to 9. it to his grave. It was a deeply sad moment, but one that I will treasure. I miss my friend a lot. SUDOKU 4 6 3 8 2 7 2 9 3 5 3 6 1 8 7 5 2 8 9 7 4 7 3 3 9 5 6 1 “Poor health shouldn’t keep you from following your ambitions.” The best thing about the holiday for me was seeing Leo’s face when he entered the Sistine Chapel in Rome. It was a very special trip for him. The last time he was in Rome 40 years ago, the Chapel was closed. Even though he is partially sighted, I swear that for that moment, he seemed to see everything. If you’re thinking of accompanying someone on a trip, do prepare yourself to go that extra mile. Travel brings the unknown with it and if you’re not used to being a 24-hour carer, you may struggle. Make sure you’re organised and that you’ve prepared everything up-front. That said, enabling someone to follow their dreams is one of the greatest things you can do.” Do you need support to go on holiday? This is just one of the services offered by Housing 21’s 24-hour Live-in support care service. We offer: Respite – short term care for when a main carer needs a break Care 365 – permanent ongoing care 365 days a year Home from Hospital – short term care following a hospital stay Fast Response – a temporary emergency care service Help me Holiday – 24 hour care whilst on holiday Call Janet Shead: 01386 848849, www.live-insupport.co.uk 16 MONEY MATTERS Keeping you warm this winter Did you know, the Winter Fuel Payment (WFP) is a yearly tax-free payment to help older people pay for their heating? For the last three winters the WFP has been paid at a higher level but it is now due to revert to the amounts paid prior to 2008. This means that people born before 6th January 1951 are entitled to a WFP of £100, £150, £200 or £300 depending on their age and circumstances. The amount you get depends on your household situation. If you live alone you will receive either £200 or £300 depending on your age. Those who were 80 on or before 25th September this year will be entitled to the higher amount. If you live with another person who also qualifies the amount you get may be split between you depending on your personal situation. What if I’m on benefits? If, for instance, Pension Credit (or another low income benefit like Jobseekers or Employment and Support Allowances) is being paid, you and the other person will each get the full WFP. However, if you or the person you live with does not get one of these benefits, then the payment will be split between you, the amount you get will depend on your ages. The WFP will be paid between November and December this year and notification letters will be sent to everybody giving more individual information. If you qualify for a payment but none is paid by January 2012 you will need to contact the DWP on 0845 60 60 265. For more general information about Winter Fuel Payments and eligibility criteria visit www.direct.gov.uk. Direct Debits are on their way! Housing 21 is currently testing a new housing management system which will support the use of direct debits for all of its residents. This is a big step forward and something that has been requested for a long time. “It should speed up the process for everyone and provide much improved customer service” said Paul Richards, Director of Property Management. The system will be tested on new residents before Christmas, followed by a Crossword 1 2 3 5 4 7 6 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 17 19 22 24 16 18 20 21 23 Across 7 Christmas bird (6) 8 Decoration that goes on a door at Christmas (6) 10 Leaping reindeer? (7) 11 Christmas song (5) 12 Consumes a Christmas meal (4) 13 Figure that goes on top of the Christmas tree (5) 17 Foxy reindeer? (5) 18 The Christmas festival (4) 22 Miss the Christmas rush (5) 23 Rudolph’s distinguishing feature (3,4) 24 ‘Happy Xmas (War Is Over)’ singer (6) 25 One of the Three Wise Men (6) 25 Answers to Full House summer quiz trial for existing residents in areas of the North East. Whilst residents will still be able to use other payment methods, direct debit will become the preferred method during the spring of next year for everyone. 1) The pope, 2) 24 June, 3) Mexico, 4) Soft fruit such as raspberries/blackcurrants, 5) Queen of Hearts made some tarts, 6) Melvyn Hayes, 7) Helsinki, 8) John Travolta and Olivia Newton John, 9) Lazy Hazy Crazy Days of Summer, 10) Bleak House The four usual dates involving the number one are 1/1/11, 11/1/11, 1/11/11 and 11/11/11. Winner: Vivien Weston, Auchinleck Court, Crawley Down Runners up: Pat Warren, Patricia Gardens, Sutton, June Cornwell, Chapman Court, Worthing Answers in the next issue of My Time Down 1 2 3 4 5 6 9 14 15 16 19 20 21 Wenceslas looked out on his feast-day (7) Tender pieces of 7 Across (7) See 14 Down It’s pulled at Christmas dinner (7) Another Christmas tree-topper (5) ‘Mary’s Boy ____’, a Christmas hit for Boney M (5) Sauce served at Christmas dinner (9) And 3 Down. Seasonal No.1 single for Paul McCartney in 1983 (5,2,5) The top reindeer (7) Christmas celebrations (7) These jingle at Christmas (5) Stephen or Nicholas, for example (5) Thoughts for Christmas presents (5) My Time is also produced in audio cassette format. If you need any information in a different format, such as large print, Braille or another language, please ask your court manager or nearest office.