2006 - 2007 CCW Newsletters - St. Raphael Catholic Church
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2006 - 2007 CCW Newsletters - St. Raphael Catholic Church
Our Lady of Good Counsel, Pray for Us St. Raphael's Council of Catholic Women September 2006 Card Party St. Raphael Catholic Church CCW Officers President: Louise Barrett 821-2561 1st Vice President: Marlene D’Abramo 2nd Vice President: Becky McBride Recording Secretary: Maggie Moren Corresponding Secretary: Roseanna Costa Treasurer: Adela Vidal Papal Intentions for September 2006 General: That those who use the means of social communication may always do so conscientiously and responsibly. Missionary: That in the mission territories the entire People of God may recognize that permanent formation is their own priority. Newsletter http://st-raphaels.com/ccw.htm Our annual Card Party is Saturday, Oct 28 from noon to 3 PM. Luncheon will be quiche and salad made by CCW Members. Our dessert bar will be delicious as always. Bring as many friends as you can for a fabulous afternoon. You can play cards or any other game. Send $10 reservation to Roseanna Costa 1410 51 Av NE St Pete 33703, 520-0286. Checks are payable to CCW. Any donations for door prizes or opportunities go to Dolores Smith. Become a Member of CCW If you would like to become a member of St. Raphael's Council of Catholic Women (formerly called Guild). Please send your $15 yearly membership in an envelope marked CCW to the church office. The Women of Grace Study will be starting Wed., Sept. 20th from 9:15 to 11:30, meeting weekly for 26 weeks. This study involves reading Johnnette Benkovic’s book Full of Grace, homework lessons in a workbook, small group discussion, and videotaped lectures. Study Sacred Scripture, Church documents, the example of our Blessed Mother, and be introduced to women saints who can serve as role models. You will be fed spiritually, mentally, and emotionally and affirmed in your dignity as a daughter of God and in your gift of authentic femininity. There will be child care. Call Addys Sasserath (522-8435) to register. NewYouth Minister We welcome Jessie Freeman to the position of Youth Minister. (Keith Aschbach has taken a teaching position at St. Pete Catholic High School). Women of Grace Study “ThankYou” Notes Received East African Mission Promoters of the Brothers of Holy Cross thanks us for our donation to a Dispensary in Kenya. Monsignor thanks us for our generous remembrance in his Aug 23 Birthday Card. Christ Renews His Parish Christ Renews His Parish (CRHP) women's weekend is scheduled for September 16th and 17th. THIS IS A FABULOUS PROGRAM AND YOU WILL BE VERY BLESSED IF YOU ATTEND. Women arrive at Church Saturday morning of the CRHP Weekend and spend the night Saturday, leaving Sunday afternoon before dinner. It is a wonderful way to feel a part of the Parish, meet women who will become your friends, and get closer to Jesus. It is a time to be pampered, pray, listen and have fun. Food is delicious and the weekend without charge. Call Kim Phillips (521-1856) if you are interested in attending, or know someone who would like an invitation sent to them. I made my Christ Renews His Parish weekend back in 1985 and it was an awesome experience where I met women who are still my friends today. CRHP is one of the reasons we have such a vibrant Parish. If your husband would like to attend a Men’s CRHP Weekend October 21-22nd , call Brian Talley (520-7390). S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N PAGE 2 CCW Calendar 2006-07 Saturday September 2 General Meeting and Breakfast after the 8 AM Mass Friday Sept 29 Feast of St. Raphael @ 7 PM Saturday October 7 General Meeting Monday October 9 Respect Life Night Saturday October 28 Card Party Wednesday November 1 All Saints Mass Saturday November 4 General Meeting Saturday December 2 Christmas Breakfast/Nursing Home Gifts Friday December 8 Feast of the Immaculate Conception- Creche Festival @ 7 PM Mass Saturday January 6 General Meeting Wednesday January 24 Pontifax Saturday February 3 General Meeting Sunday February 11 World Day of the Sick @ 11:30 AM Saturday February 18 Fashion Show Saturday March 3 Lenten Retreat Saturday March 10 Mother’s Tribute Brunch Saturday April 14 General Meeting Saturday April 21 Rummage Sale Saturday May 5 General Meeting/ Installation Breakfast Sun-Wed. May 6-9 DCCW Convention - Quorum Hotel Tampa Thursday May 24 Potluck @ Parish Center General Meeting Schedule: 7:35 AM Rosary, 8 AM Mass, 8:30 Continental Breakfast, Meeting Program and Brother John Bailanda Our CCW was blessed to meet Br .John Bailanda who is a missionary in Africa. CCW Member Karen Muhlstadt hosted Br. John’s June visit to FL. Br John was born in Uganda, and belongs to the Brothers of the Holy Cross. He runs a Dispensary in Kenya which treats the poorest of the poor and many aids victims. He also uses donations to help students in need of school fees, and families who need food. Our CCW hosted a small luncheon to welcome Br. John on Fathers Day, June 18th . Those present gave about $500. Meeting a Missionary puts a human face on problems faced by those outside of our country. We are grateful for Br. John’s visit and his ministry to God’s people. Birthdays August 1 1 3 4 6 6 7 8 8 11 11 13 15 18 Peggy Nolan Cecilia Ponath Nellie Bonitati Roseanne Halsmer Ethelyn Henderson Ruth Mattick Marcella Rankin Denise Androulakis Sarh Gallagher Dani Mcauliffe Virginia Thomas Claudia Soucy Mary Ann Smelter Valerie Massingil 20 21 21 23 24 26 27 29 29 30 30 31 Danna Klemmer Eileen Brady Lois Davy Monsignor Caverly Monique Barkett Carol Zimmerman Barbara Miller Bonnie Condon Teresa Meana Helen Durbin Fran Vaccaro Adela Vidal September 2 Linda Champion 3 5 8 8 9 10 13 15 16 18 18 18 18 19 20 22 Angela Soucy Jane Winstead Lucille Fisher Virginia Palladino Marilyn Ward Adele Buchta Antoinette Falk Jane Ellis Chris Pelletier Beverly Abentroth Linda Bragg Annie Hirt Becky McBride Phyllis Phillips Mary Palmer Mary Begley 22 23 23 23 27 29 Maggie Moren Suzanne Flatley Charlotte Overbey Lynn Covert Vicki Quintana Rosa Rodriquez S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N Our Holy Father Speaks This is an excerpt from Benedict XVI's address on the solemnity of the Assumption to the crowds gathered pray the midday Angelus. “Mary is an example and support for all believers: She encourages us not to lose confidence in the face of the difficulties and inevitable problems of every day. She assures us of her help and reminds us that what is essential is to seek and aspire for "things that are above, not for things on earth" (cf. Colossians 3:2). Immersed in daily occupations, we run the risk of believing that in this world, in which we are only passing by, is the objective of human existence. However, Paradise is the authentic goal of our earthly pilgrimage. How different From the Pastor’s Desk Monsignor Caverly’s trip to Ireland with his brother, Monsignor Patrick Caverly, VG, pastor of a Parish in Altamonte Springs, had an added grace this year. The Rector of the Irish Seminary in Rome invited them for a weeklong trip to Rome. The Caverly’s were “shown everything worth seeing”, including the Sistine Chapel, Church of the True Cross, Subiaco (St Benedict), one of St. Francis’s monasteries, St John Lateran (a magnificent Church), a Trappist Monastery, and a visit to the Little Sisters of Jesus Convent. They also met the Irish Ambassador to the Vatican. Monsignor said “he came away with a feeling of gratitude for all we Catholics have inherited. The Church has such a wonderful tradition and it was a great honor to see what has been handed down to us.” The Caverly’s and the Irish Rector were seated in a front row at Pope Benedict XVI’s weekly Wednesday Address. At the end of the Address, our Pope personally greeted the Bishops in attendance, blessed the sick and then walked over to where the Caverly’s were seated. Pope Benedict clasped Monsignor’s hands with his two hands in a warm, humble and holy manner, looking him straight in the eye. When Monsignor told him what an honor it was to greet him, the Pope asked if the two Caverly’s were brothers! How Divine Providence arranged this moment and what a true privilege for our Pastor to touch the Vicar of our Church and bring that blessing back to us. This is not Monsignor’s first encounter with a Pope. Monsignor also had the privilege of meeting Pope John Paul II on three occasions- once, in 1979, concelebrating Mass 10 yards away from the Pope in Philadelphia, again in Miami, and finally in Rome when Monsignor accompanied Cardinal Hickey as part of the Serra Club for Vocations. Marian Festival PAGE 3 our days would be if they were animated by this perspective! It is what happened to saints. Their human existence witnesses that when one lives with one's heart constantly directed to heaven, earthly realities are lived in their just value, as they are illuminated by the eternal truth of divine love. To the Queen of Peace, whom we contemplate in heavenly glory, I would like to entrust once again the concerns of humanity in every place of the world tormented by violence. ...May Mary inspire in all sentiments of understanding, a will to understand and desires for concord! [Translation from Italian original by ZENIT] ZE06081720 Thanks to our many CCW bakers, helpers, promoters, sacristans, musicians, rosary leaders, Knights of Columbus, and Fr. Anthony, the Third Annual Rosary Festival was a beautiful event with about 150 people attending Mass followed by candlelight procession, litany, blessing of Marian objects and reception. The St Raphael School children brought items to be blessed at the 8 AM Mass as well. We are grateful so many St Raphael parishioners honored our Blessed Mother and her son, Jesus, on the Feast of the Assumption. So many CCW members and others helped make this event possible! Helene Payne and the Parish Office Staff and volunteers, Celeste Brown, Angela Soucy, Mabel Sullivan, Mary Stoft, Donna Condon, Addys Sasserath and her son Trevor, Dave and Mary Poulin, Marlene and Sonny D'Abramo, Yolanda Gallagher, Glenda and Dick Haight (and all the Knights), Kathy Newton, Bernadine Quartetti, Kay Yennie, Emily Uber, Rosa Rodriguez, Maggie Moren, Carol Zimmerman, Winnie Young, Joanne Bird, Joan Malone, Robin Ahlquist, Linda, Richard and Chris Champion, Dan Bates, Greg and Barbara Creamer(beautiful bouquets), Gina Longino, Ruth and Don Mattick (who made the stand for the Blessed Mother), Marty Foreman, Mary Hanlon, Susan Ugan and all those of the Praise Band who provided the beautiful music, our altar servers- (Caroline Condon, Elisa Sasserath, and Chris Champion), Ofelia Hoeppner, Eileen Brady, Cheri Mainenti, and Roger Davey and Annie Barrett, to name a few....God bless you all. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N In Your Prayers. . . Sick by Lu Perrin Please pray for our sick: Ruth Mattick, Mary “Pat” Richman, Ester LaVangie, Bill Scanlan, Ginny Hansen. Shore Acres-Dottie Soots, Susan Neitz, Thomas Kunkler, Norman Vanest. Maria Manor- DJ Thompson, Juliette Schiavi, Mary Palmer, Rita Hall, Ernest Anderson. Other: Charlotte Edwards, Jenny Milo, Marion Lagan, Nancye Barrett, Helen Bishop, and Bette Hyslip. Deceased by Bernadette Bailey ♥ Please Pray for those who have died since May: Mary Haggerty, Inez Pedalino, Rose Shamas, Jenny Sigliano, Mary Louise Johnson, Lucy Donegan, Vivian Johnson, Jean Kavanaugh, May Costa, Rose Casesa, John Schatz, Mike Durbin, Rita Filitor, Jerry Allen, and Mary Passero. ♥ Our deepest sympathies to the families of those who have died since our May Newsletter. ♥ ♥ Charter CCW Member Rose Shamas died May 4. She came here in 1954 from her native Brooklyn, New York. She was a member of the St. Petersburg Yacht Club and Boley Manor. She was a former member of the St. Petersburg Woman’s Club, Museum of Fine Arts, St. Anthony’s Auxiliary, All Children’s Hospital Guild, Symphony Guild, St. Raphael’s Catholic Church and St. Raphael’s Woman’s Guild. Rose was a charter member of the Women’s Guild. She was an avid Bridge player and a great cook. Survivors include her two sons: Dr. Gilbert Shamas and Edward Shamas, two daughters: Anne Shamas and Betty Shamas, five grandchildren and two great-grandchildren. ♥ Our oldest Parishioner Jenny Sigliano,106, died May 15 at Bon Secours Maria Manor She was born in New York City and moved to St. Petersburg in 1979 from Connecticut. She enjoyed sewing and knitting and before retiring, she was an assistant designer in the retail clothing industry in New York City. She was a member of St. Raphael's Catholic Church. Survivors include a niece and a grandnephew. ♥ CCW Member Lucy Donegan died May 19. Born in Rahway, NJ she moved to St. Petersburg in 1967 and then to Sandy Springs, GA in 2004 to be near her son. Lucy was an active member of the CCW for many years. She is predeceased by her husband ♥ ♥ PAGE 4 of twenty six years, Joseph W. Donegan. Survivors include a son, John, a daughter, Carol Donegan and two grandchildren, Brian Donegan and Kate Donegan. CCW Member Vivian Johnson died May 10 at North Shore Rehab Center.Vivian was born in North Dakota. Her first husband was in the military which brought them to FL. Vivian worked as a secretary for the State of Florida. Vivian remarried after her husband’s death in the 60’s. Her second husband also predeceased her. Vivian enjoyed gardening, helping the SPCA, and was a member of a Business Women’s Sorority. Vivian was an active member of St Raphael’s Parish and the Council of Catholic Women for many years. Vivian is survived by Sherry Edgar, friend and caretaker. CCW member May Costa died May 25. She came here in 1979 from her native New York, NY. She worked for the Queens Board of election and was president for two years of Queens Democratic Club. She was a homemaker and loved oil painting, ceramics and playing Scrabble. She was a member of St. Raphael’s Women’s Council of Catholic Women and Roberts Adult Center. CCW member Rose Casesa passed away June 7. She came here in 1976 from Brooklyn, NY. She was a homemaker and a devout Catholic who walked to Mass each Sat. for the 5:30 Mass as long as she was physically able. She is survived by her son, James Casesa. Jean Kavanaugh, 62, member Julie Musselman’s mom, died June 12. Jean was was born in Dayton, Ohio, where she lived most of her life. She graduated from the University of Dayton. She moved to Florida, in 2000, and was active at St. Frances Xavier Cabrini Catholic Church in Faith Formation and as leader of the RCIA program. She was a devout Catholic and devoted to her family. Survivors include her husband, of 41 years, Thomas J. Kavanaugh III; three daughters and sons-in-law: Julie and Bob Musselman, Lisa and Mike Fields, and Colleen and Jon Duffy and 12 grandchildren. Mike Durbin, 49 year old son of CCW member Helen Durbin died June 12. Born in Fort Benning, GA, he came here in 1966 from Fort Jay, NY. He was a carpenter in the construction industry and a 1975 St. Petersburg High School Graduate and member of the St. Petersburg High School Alumni Club. He attended St. Raphael’s Catholic Church and was a member of the St. Petersburg Junior College Alumni Club. He was a professional musician and played lead guitar in several bands. He loved fishing, soccer and nature. Survivors include his mother, Helen (Continued on page 5) S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N M. Durbin; six brothers: Jim, Edward, Thomas, Donald, Robert, and Patrick; two sisters: Jeanine McMahon and Elaine Durbin. ♥ CCW member Jane Winstead’s father, John Schatz, died June 18. Born in Bellingham, MA, he came here in 1957 from Woonsocket, R.I. He was a U.S. Army Sgt. during WWII and a retired broker and realtor. At St. Raphael’s he was an usher, a member of Knights of Columbus, Cursillo Movement and the Men’s Prayer Group. He was also a member of the Realtor’s Association and the Moose Lodge. He was a volunteer at St. Vincent de Paul’s and at Pinellas County Schools. ♥ Mary Passero, mother of CCW 1st Vice President, Marlene D’Abramo and grandmother of Gina Longino, died Aug.23. Mary was born in Brooklyn, NY . She grew up in Thomaston Ct. After she married Joseph Passero they lived in Torrington, Ct and moved to Waterbury, Ct in 1947. She worked as a sales clerk for Grant department store and JC Penney, she retired in 1977. She had 2 daughters, Marlene D'Abramo and Sandra Ventresca (deceased 1997) 6 grandchildren, 12 Great- grandchildren, and 2 Great-Great Grandsons. She enjoyed dancing, talking and meeting people. She moved to St Petersburg in 2001 at the age of 90! She lived in the Burlington Towers independently until July 19th of this year, when she moved to an extended care facility. She enjoyed being a member of St. Raphaels Parish and attended the 5:30pm Mass each week up until her illness. She had just become an honorary member of our CCW after her placement in a nursing home. Please pray for our CCW, Mary. PAGE 5 including a $250 donation from our CCW. He is beginning a year long commitment to help teens grow in their Catholic Faith through retreats all over the country. “I am so eager to begin my journey to Minneapolis and NET Ministries. I have some mixed emotions because I will miss my parents, my brother, my sister and all my friends. However, I have been preparing spiritually for this walk with the Lord and I feel I am responding to His call. We will begin with five weeks of intensive training conducted by NET staff and clergy. Both Archbishop Harry Flynn and Bishop Richard Pates will be joining us to preside at special liturgies. The first two weeks we will be at a Bible Camp in Amery, Wisconsin so we can concentrate on deepening our faith and begin to develop strong relationships with our teammates. Toward that end, I will not be bringing my cell phone or computer with me while we are at camp so my ability to communicate with all of you will be limited. After our period of training, we will be assigned to one of 8 teams. I will let you know which team I am assigned and where we are going. Please know that you are in my heart and in my prayers. I humbly ask you to pray for me as I begin the time of discernment and service. Your kindness and support mean so much to me. I will be home for 2 weeks at Christmas and look forward to seeing you at that time. Andy Johnson” Loretta Czyzewski Memorial Page Thanks to the following CCW Members who donated to the DCCW for Loretta Czyzewski Memorial Page in the DCCW Convention Program- Dolores Smith, Teresa Hartley, Julie Musselman, Janie Winstead, Terry Hamm, Mary Poulin, Vivian Frank, Jeanne Weber, Helen Rudolf, Ruth McDonald, Elsa Tugman, Mary Donatelli, Suzanne Flatley, Bernadette Bailey, Charlotte Overbey,Louise Halsmer,Pat Bush,Margaret Peck,Kay Yennie,Stan and Mary Domal, ick and Glenda Haight, Ginny Hansen,Lynne Hensley, Marie Margle, Roseanna Costa, Louise Barrett, Marlene D’Abramo, Lou Perrin, Flo Santi, Judy Eggerling, Ruth Mattick, Ethelyn Henderson and Rita Sullivan. National Evangelization Team (NET) St Raphael Parishioner, Andy Johnson, was chosen to be part of the National Evangelization Team (NET). He raised over $2,000 to cover expenses and insurance, St. Raphael's CCW Online CCW Online See our very own CCW web pages and newsletters (new & archived editions) by going to: http://www.st-raphaels.com/ccw.html. Thanks again to Theresa McCormick, our webmaster. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N St. Raphael School The St Raphael Catholic School year began very successfully. Enrollment now includes a Pre-K 4 class of 18 children with teacher Darlene Hammer. Mrs. McDonald (1st), Miss Spoor (2nd), Mrs Orsi (4th), Mrs Hagaman(5th), Mrs Diaco (Middle), Mrs Gulliver (Middle), Mrs Dunn (Middle), Mrs Walsh (Art), the Auf dem Kampes (Music), Mrs Tawil (Sec), Mr Schaffer (PE), Mrs Venzke (Media), Bonnie Haire (After Care), Mrs Haggerty (aide), Kathryn Douglas (Guidance), and Mrs Bosco (Span). have all returned to bless our school for another year. There are several new staff- including our Principal, Valerie Wostbrock, Mrs Sills (3rd), Mrs Jacoby (Middle), Mrs Ewell (sec), Miss Antunes (K), Mrs DeCosmo (aide), Miss Deary (aide), Mrs Zylman (Computer), and Sharon Weber (Title 1). Our CCW bakers supplied a special surprise for the SRS Staff. Members Danna Klemmer, Kim Penman, Carol Zimmerman, Linda Champion (her husband Richard and son Chris helped, too), and Louise Barrett baked some (well, many) pound cakes and pumpkin nut loaves for gift bags for the staff. Deborah Scanlan helped behind the scenes. We pray for a Blessed Year for our Parish school. Member News ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ Margaret Peck and her husband flew to Budapest and took a cruise on a river boat on the Danube in Slovakia, then to Vienna and a side trip to Prague.Chris Pelletier and her family enjoyed Key West. Joanne Bird and her mom, Winnie Young, went to Colorado to see Winnie’s new great grandchild. Gina Longino and her family enjoyed a trip to Europe. -Susan Langston, her husband and two children went to Rome, the Greek Isles, and Ephesus. Terry and new CCW member Chris Winstead became Catholics on August 10th. They received several Sacraments with bountiful Blessings! They were Baptized, Confirmed, received their First Holy Communion at Mass said by Fr. Anthony and they had their marriage blessed. It was a beautiful ceremony witnessed by their family and friends who could attend. Angela Soucy went to Buffalo NY for the Baptism of yet another great-granddaughter and will be going to a grandson’s wedding in Sept. in CT. She’ll be home for 5 days and then travels to her sons’ homes in Mt/ Wyoming until mid Oct. While there, ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ PAGE 6 she will see another great granddaughter and many of her grandchildren that all live in that area. Dani McAulife, her husband, Jon, and her sons went to North Carolina. They stayed in a cabin on Lake Chatuge and spent a week admiring the beauty of God's creations! Michelle Cehula Fellows and her husband, David, went to her hometown of Warren, Ohio where Michelle spent her birthday and they attended David’s "The Class of 1964 Turns 60" Party. Lois Davy just turned 94. She is in a ALF near her daughter in Jefferson City MO recuperating from recent surgery. She sends everyone her love. Bernice McCune just turned 90. Congratulations, Bernice. Roseanna Costa and hubby Bob are enjoying visiting family & friends in their second home in NYC. From the internet: The only survivor of a shipwreck was washed up on a small, uninhabited island. He prayed feverishly for God to rescue him, and every day he scanned the horizon for help, but none seemed forthcoming. Exhausted, he eventually managed to build a little hut out of driftwood to protect him from the elements, and to store his few possessions. One day, after scavenging for food, he arrived home to find his little hut in flames, and soon there was nothing left. The worst had happened, and everything was lost. He was stunned with disbelief, grief, and anger. "God, how could you do this to me?" he cried. Early the next day he was awakened by the sound of a ship approaching the island. It had come to rescue him. "How did you know I was here?" asked the weary man of his rescuers. "We saw your smoke signal," they replied. It's easy to get discouraged when things are going bad, but we shouldn't lose heart, because God is at work in our lives, even in the midst of pain, and suffering. Remember this the next time your "hut" seems to be burning to the ground. It just may be a smoke signal that summons the grace of God. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N New Member List We welcome Sherry Abentroth, Robin Ahlquist, Mary Wyatt Allen, Cheryl Anderson, Mary Ann Baecher, Connie Balsamo, Sharon Beaber, Marie Bello, Joanne Bird, Linda Bragg, Mary Brophy, Jo Burkhart, Kathy Calcutt, Charmaine Carter, Mimi Casadonte, Traci Craig, Beatriz Crespo, Denise Debord, Barbara Dippelhofer, Theresa Duval, Jane Ellis, Jodi Ellis,Antoinette Falk, Michelle Cehula Fellows, Rosalie Ferrer, Jackie Finger, Yolanda Gallagher, Sarah Gallagher, Pam Gehrich, Stephanie Graham, Kathy Guckenberger, Gay Hagaman, Elane Haley, Rosanne Hall, Michelle Henriksson, Mary Kay Heraty, Annie Hirt, Ofelia Hoeppner, , Mary Holland, Marjorie Johnson, Lisa Kettlestrings, Sharon Kimball, Judith Kroll, Joyce Kubala, Kristin Leary, Joanne LaBuda, Cathy Littlejohn, Cymbre Lom, Gina Longino, Donna Lynch, Nancy Maggio, Cherie Mainenti, Joanie Martin, Daneil “Dani” Mcauliffe, Lillian McClelland, Theresa McCormick, Pat McGuire, Sandra Medellin, Lila Methot, Terri Meyer, Barbara Miller, Jennie Milo, Jill Monforte, Janet Murchison, Kathy Newton, Chung Soon O’Dwyer, Chris Pelletier, Kim Penman, Phyllis Phillips, Mary Lou Price, Joan Priest, Tina Quintana, Vicki Quintana, Kelly Rooth, Barbara Ruperto, Nancy Rutland, Marie Sakkis, Molly Sanger, Mary Beth Sebesta, Dottie Smay, Mary Ann Smelter, Claudia Soucy, Mary Stoft, Mabel Sullivan, Saunya Talley, Jovita Tuazon, Emily Uber, Susan Ugan, Mary Vallee, Jennifer Vesper, Marilyn Ward, Hilary Watson, Mary Wilson, and Chris Winstead. Meet Our New Members: ♥ Ofelia and her husband, Gerard, and their children, Jessee, Arianna and Catherine have been parishioners of St. Raphael’s Church for 18 years. Ofelia is active in the following ministries: Sacristan/Altar Care, St. Vincent de Paul Society, Weekday Reader, and Homebound Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion. If she's not at St. Raphael's you can find her working as a paralegal with a local law firm or working out at a local gym. ♥ Emily Uber and her husband, Chad, have two children, Owen 4 and Keira 2. Emily says, “I have just recently come back to my faith and after being married outside of the Church five years ago, we received our sacrament of Holy Matrimony from Father Anthony in June. ♥ Mary Vallee is the Chapter Leader of Depression Bipolar Support Group. She says, “There so many people who need this Meeting- mood disorders are a serious thing. We meet every Thurs. at Northeast Presbyterian Church and also do training and education.” Thank you Mary for helping our community help people with this mental illness. Anyone is welcome to her support group to learn to feel good about yourself. Contact Mary @520 -1856 PAGE 7 ♥ Cymbre Lom was born in St. Petersburg and graduated from USF with a Finance degree in 2004. She works at Certegy Check Services as an account manager. She was married almost 2 years ago at St. Jude's Cathedral. Her husband, Steve, is an accountant. She has one younger sister, Brittany, who is at USF now. ♥ Kelly Rooth was born in Los Angeles and grew up in Sydney, Australia and Bangkok, Thailand. She attended USF and Stetson Law School and practices commercial litigation and creditor's rights law at the law firm of Trenam Kemker in St. Petersburg. Her husband Ryan is also an attorney and has his own practice in Clearwater. They are newlyweds and will be married one year in September. ♥ Mary Christine Wilson and her husband Eric have been married 37 years. They have 3 grown children who live in FL. An Air Force family for over 21 years, they did a lot of moving and retired to beautiful St. Pete. What a blessing to be less than 2 miles from St. Raphael's and live on a canal! Mary enjoys boating and treasure seeking at garage sales. Mary recently started assisting the housekeeper at St. Raphael's rectory with cooking and cleaning. She loves this! Mary is looking forward to meeting all the CCW ladies. Kitchenette Update We have been busy all summer completing the kitchenette in meeting room B. A picture is worth a thousand words, so take a look and see what time, talent and treasure can produce. Costs were as follows- cabinets-$3041.12, refrigerator- $1011.92, electrical work- $853, plumbing in floor$3799.31, hardware- $70, microwaves- $398, pump for ice maker-$299, ice maker-$819, blinds-$1655, and misc materials-$370.26 for a total of $12,316.61. Don Mattick put in many hours, along with Ralph and Bernadine Quartetti who made the cornices, donated MANY items for the project, and worked on every aspect of the project. Thanks to Kay Yennie and Peggy Hawkins who painted and helped in many ways. We received special donations from Alan Horner/ Family- the countertop, installation and sink/ faucet. Carmen Marlowe’s business, Floor Color Center in Seminole, donated the tiles for the back splash wall. Thank you all the CCW members who helped with our money making projects last year, and especially Margaret Connelly who bequeathed us $10,000 without which this project would not have been possible. We are still looking for some large religious framed art for the walls. If you have something you would like to donate, call Louise Barrett 821-2561. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N Christian Ways to Reduce Stress Pray, go to bed on time, get up on time so you can start the day unrushed, say No to projects that won't fit into your time schedule, or that will compromise your mental health. Delegate tasks to capable others, simplify and unclutter your life, less is more, get organized so everything has its place. Allow extra time to do things and to get to places, pace yourself- spread out big changes and difficult projects. Take one day at a time. Separate worries from concerns. If a situation is a concern, find out what God would have you do and let go of the anxiety. If you can't do anything about a situation, forget it. Live within your budget; don't use credit cards for ordinary purchases. Have backups; an extra car key in your wallet, an extra house key buried in the garden, extra stamps, etc. √ √ √ Grandkids √ √ √ √ √ My young grandson called the other day to wish me Happy Birthday. He asked me how old I was, and I told him, "62." He was quiet for a moment, and then he asked, "Did you start at 1?" After putting her grandchildren to bed, a grandmother changed into old slacks and a droopy blouse and proceeded to wash her hair. As she heard the children getting more and more rambunctious, her patience grew thin. At last she threw a towel around her head and stormed into their room, putting them back to bed with stern warnings. As she left the room, she heard the three-year-old say with a trembling voice, "Who was THAT?" A grandmother was telling her little granddaughter what her own childhood was like: "We used to skate outside on a pond. I had a swing made from a tire; it hung from a tree in our front yard. We rode our pony. We picked wild raspberries in the woods." The little girl was wide-eyed, taking this in. At last she said, "I sure wish I'd gotten to know you sooner!" My grandson was visiting one day when he asked, "Grandma, do you know how you and God are alike?" I mentally polished my halo while I asked, "No, how are we alike?" "You're both old," he replied. A little girl was diligently pounding away on her grandfather's word processor. She told him she was √ PAGE 8 writing a story. "What's it about?" he asked. "I don't know," she replied. "I can't read." I didn't know if my granddaughter had learned her colors yet, so I decided to test her. I would point out something and ask what color it was. She would tell me, and always she was correct. But it was fun for me, so I continued. At last she headed for the door, saying sagely, "Grandma, I think you should try to figure out some of these yourself!" Our five-year-old grandson couldn't wait to tell his grandfather about the movie we had watched on television, "20,000 Leagues Under the Sea." The scenes with the submarine and the giant octopus had kept him wide-eyed. In the middle of the telling, my husband interrupted Mark, "What caused the submarine to sink?" With a look of incredulity Mark replied, "Grandpa, it was the 20,000 leaks!!" When my grandson Billy and I entered our vacation cabin, we kept the lights off until we were inside to keep from attracting pesky insects. Still, a few fireflies followed us in. Noticing them before I did, Billy whispered, "It's no use, Grandpa. The mosquitoes are coming after us with flashlights." A second grader came home from school and said to her grandmother, "Grandma, guess what? We learned how to make babies today." The grandmother, more than a little surprised, tried to keep her cool. "That's interesting," she said, "How do you make babies?" "It's simple," replied the girl. "You just change 'y' to 'i' and add 'es'" A Child’s Logic A nursery school teacher was delivering a station wagon full of kids home one day when a fire truck zoomed past. Sitting in the front seat of the fire truck was a Dalmatian dog. The children started discussing the dog's duties. They use him to keep crowds back," said one youngster. "No, said another, "he's just for good luck." A third child brought the argument to a close. "They use the dogs", she said firmly, "to find the fire hydrant." Our Lady of Good Counsel, Pray for Us St. Raphael's Council of Catholic Women October 2006 - Respect Life Month Card Party St. Raphael Catholic Church CCW Officers President: Louise Barrett 821-2561 1st Vice President: Marlene D’Abramo 2nd Vice President: Becky McBride Recording Secretary: Maggie Moren Corresponding Secretary: Roseanna Costa Treasurer: Adela Vidal Papal Intentions for October 2006 General: That all those who are baptized may mature in their faith and manifest it through clear, coherent and courageous choices in life. Missionary: That the celebration of World Missionary Day may everywhere increase the spirit of missionary animation and cooperation. Newsletter http://st-raphaels.com/ccw.htm Card Party Our annual Card Party is Saturday, October 28 from noon to 3PM. Luncheon will be quiche and salad made by CCW Members. Our dessert bar will be delicious as always. Bring as many friends as you can for a fabulous afternoon. You can play cards or any other game. Send $10 reservation to Roseanna Costa, 1410 51 Av NE, St. Petersburg, FL 33703, phone 5200286. Checks are payable to CCW. Any donations for door prizes or opportunities go to Dolores Smith. Ladies Day Out Come meet with other ladies from the Lower Pinellas Deanery Parishes. This free "Ladies Day Out” will combine great information, mini workshops, getting to know one another in a relaxed setting and FUN. We are Catholic women growing together in our faith, helping one another and working for our Parishes. If you get this, you are part of the Lower Pinellas Deanery!! Sunday, October 15 from 1:30 to 4:30 PM, Holy Family Church- 200 78th Av NE. Diffley Hall RSVP: Louise Barrett 821-2561 If you would like to become a member of St. Raphael's Council of Catholic Women (formerly called Guild). Please send your $15 yearly membership in an envelope marked CCW to the church office. Respect Life Seminar by Maggie Moren On October 9th at 7:00 p.m., in Meeting Room A, the parish is invited to listen to four speakers who have been invited to speak on different Respect Life issues. Each will give a ten or fifteen minute talk on the following topics; Rose Petito, R.N., from Pregnancy Plus Medical will speak on Project Rachael, a post abortion ministry for the healing of those who have had an abortion; Diane Hale, R.N. a certified Fertility Care Practitioner will speak on the education of the female reproduction system and how awesome it is; Jacqueline Bromley a prevention specialist, who heads POWER (Peer Offer Witness and Encourage Respect) Team, which is a youth and parent abstinence education program, sponsored by Catholic Charities; and Dr. Michael Reilly, M.D., who is a parishioner, will speak on stem cell research. There will be a Q&A session after each speaker. Refreshments will be served after the seminar. Become a Member of CCW “ThankYou” Notes Thanks to our breakfast angels: September’s crew were Mary Carlomagno, Maggie Moren and Ethelyn Henderson. Our October breakfast angels are Lucy Paz, Yolanda Gallagher and Tina Quintana. We couldn’t put on our meetings without you!!! Theresa McCormick did a great job showing us our website at the September Meeting. We are so proud of our new St. Raphael Principal, Valerie Wostbrock who spoke at our October Meeting. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N PAGE 2 CCW Calendar 2006-07 Monday October 9 Respect Life Night, 7 PM Saturday October 28 Card Party Wednesday November 1 All Saints Mass Saturday November 4 General Meeting - Water for Life Saturday November 4 FALL FESTIVAL, 11 AM - 8 PM. School Sponsored. Saturday December 2 Christmas Breakfast/Nursing Home Gifts Friday December 8 Feast of the Immaculate Conception - Creche Festival @ 7 PM Mass Saturday January 6 General Meeting - Angels in Art Saturday February 3 General Meeting Saturday February 18 Fashion Show Saturday March 3 Lenten Retreat Saturday March 10 Mother’s Tribute Brunch Saturday April 14 General Meeting Saturday April 21 Rummage Sale Saturday May 5 General Meeting/ Installation Breakfast Sun-Wed. May 6-9 DCCW Convention - Quorum Hotel Tampa Thursday May 24 Potluck @ Parish Center General Meeting Schedule: 7:35 AM Rosary, 8 AM Mass, 8:30 Continental Breakfast, Meeting & Program All Saints Day Mass/ Art Show Come to the Masses for All Saints Day, November 1st. More info to follow in the bulletin. Bring a picture of a Saint for our Saint Art Show. Wednesday Morning Bible Study – by Gina Longino. This year we are studying Exodus. The study is led by Father Anthony and meets Wednesday mornings from 9:15-11:00 in meeting room "A". There is a $60.00 fee to cover materials. Contact Gina Longino 526-2191 for more information or to register. Christ Renews His Parish If your husband or son would like to attend a Men’s CRHP Weekend Oct 21-22, call Brian Talley (520-7390). Women of Grace by Addis Sasserath This study involves reading Johnnette Benkovic’s book Full of Grace, homework lessons in a workbook, small group discussion, and videotaped lectures. Study Sacred Scripture, Church documents, the example of our Blessed Mother, and be introduced to women saints who can serve as role models. We meet Wed. Sept. 20th from 9:15 to 11:30 in Meeting Room “B”. Call Addys Sasserath 522-8435 for more information or to register.News from the Gift Shop by Don Mattick The Gift Shop is preparing for Advent and Christmas. Advent wreaths are starting to come in as are Christmas ornaments, mangers, Nativities, and tree skirts. The Gift Shop is hosted by CCW members. Our prices are unbeatable, so come in and support your Gift Shop. Anyone interested in becoming a Gift Shop worker for Saturday or Sunday night Mass please contact Ruth Mattick. 526-1258. Rosary Makers Report by Don Mattick During the summer 2,000 rosaries were made by our “Rosary Makers” bringing the total to 22,973 rosaries covering a period of six years when this project began. Thanks to all of the workers who make this possible. Want to learn how to make Rosaries? See Ruth Mattick for lessons on making corded and/or wire rosaries. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N Our Holy Father Speaks Encyclical Letter “Deus Caritas Est” by Pope Benedict XVI to All the Lay Faithful The Introduction: 1. “God is love, and he who abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him” (1 Jn 4:16). These words from the First Letter of John express with remarkable clarity the heart of the Christian faith: the Christian image of God and the resulting image of mankind and its destiny. In the same verse, Saint John also offers a kind of summary of the Christian life: “We have come to know and to believe in the love God has for us”. We have come to believe in God's love: in these words the Christian can express the fundamental decision of his life. Being Christian is not the result of an ethical choice or a lofty idea, but the encounter with an event, a person, which gives life a new horizon and a decisive direction. Saint John's Gospel describes that event in these words: “God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should ... have eternal life” (3:16). In acknowledging the centrality of love, Christian faith has retained the core of Israel's faith, while at the same time giving it new depth and breadth. The pious Jew prayed daily the words of the Book of Deuteronomy which expressed the heart of his existence: “Hear, O Israel: the Lord our God is one Lord, and you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul and with all your might” (6:4-5). Jesus united into a single precept this commandment of love for God and the commandment of love for neighbour found in the Book of Leviticus: “You shall love From the Lips of a Child These have to be original and genuine - no adult is this creative!! JACK (age 3) was watching his Mom breastfeeding his new baby sister. After a while he asked: "Mom why have you got two? Is one for hot and one for cold milk?" STEVEN (age 3) hugged and kissed his Mom goodnight. "I love you so much, that when you die I'm going to bury you outside my bedroom window." BRITTANY (age 4) had an earache and wanted a painkiller. She tried in vain to take the lid off the bottle. Seeing her frustration, her Mom explained it was a childproof cap and she'd have to open it for her. Eyes wide with wonder, the little girl asked: "How does it know it's me? SUSAN (age 4) was drinking juice when she got the hiccups. "Please don't give me this juice again," she said, "It makes my teeth cough." D I (age 4) stepped onto the bathroom scale and asked: "How much do I cost?" JAMES (age 4) was listening to a Bible story. His dad read: "The man named Lot was warned to take PAGE 3 your neighbour as yourself” (19:18; cf. Mk 12:29-31). Since God has first loved us (cf. 1 Jn 4:10), love is now no longer a mere “command”; it is the response to the gift of love with which God draws near to us. In a world where the name of God is sometimes associated with vengeance or even a duty of hatred and violence, this message is both timely and significant. For this reason, I wish in my first Encyclical to speak of the love which God lavishes upon us and which we in turn must share with others. That, in essence, is what the two main parts of this Letter are about, and they are profoundly interconnected. The first part is more speculative, since I wanted here—at the beginning of my Pontificate—to clarify some essential facts concerning the love which God mysteriously and gratuitously offers to man, together with the intrinsic link between that Love and the reality of human love. The second part is more concrete, since it treats the ecclesial exercise of the commandment of love of neighbour. The argument has vast implications, but a lengthy treatment would go beyond the scope of the present Encyclical. I wish to emphasize some basic elements, so as to call forth in the world renewed energy and commitment in the human response to God's love. Read the whole letter online, or get it from our Gift Shop. (http://www.vatican.va/ holy_father/benedict_xvi/encyclicals/documents/ hf_ben-xvi_enc_20051225_deus-caritas-est_en.html) his wife and flee out of the city but his wife looked back and was turned to salt." Concerned, James asked: "What happened to the flea?" TAMMY (age 4) was with her mother when they met an elderly, rather wrinkled woman her Mom knew. Tammy looked at her for awhile and then asked, "Why doesn't your skin fit your face?" A little boy opened the big family bible. He was fascinated as he fingered through the old pages. Suddenly, something fell out of the Bible. He picked up the object and looked at it . What he saw was an old leaf that had been pressed in between the pages. "Mama, look what I found", the boy called out." What have you got there, dear?" With astonishment in the young boy's voice, he answered, "I think it's Adam's underwear!" S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N In Your Prayers. . . Sick by Lu Perrin Please pray for our sick: Joan Harrison, Joan Hartigan, Corlyss Winters, Avalon Baretta, Eugenia Gallagher, John Flora, Jeanne Weber, Mary “Pat” Richman-Nichols, Ester LaVangie, Bill Scanlan, Ginny Hansen. Shore Acres - Dottie Soots, Susan Neitz, Thomas Kunkler, Norman Vanest. Maria Manor - DJ Thompson, Juliette Schiavi, Mary Palmer, Rita Hall, Ernest Anderson. Other Charlotte Edwards, Jenny Milo, Marion Lagan, Nancye Barrett, Helen Bishop, and Bette Hyslip. Deceased by Bernadette Bailey Please pray for those who have died this past monthHelen Rudolf, Andrew Malusa, Ruby Ryckeley, Paul Angarano, and Nick Sayles. May the souls of all the faithful departed rest in peace. Our deepest sympathies to the families of those who have died since our May Newsletter. PLEASE Pray the Rosary CCW Member Death Helen E Rudolf died Sept 20. Helen graduated from Mt. Mary College in Milwaukee, WI. and she was a dedicated educator for 25 years, teaching at an elementary suburban school near the Wisconsin Governor’s Mansion in Madison, WI. She taught children of various Wisconsin, and several notable U.S. Senators and Congressmen. She was also active in civic and art organizations in Madison. Helen retired to St. Pete when she inherited the home of her Aunt Helen Roberts, a Florida philanthropist who was very generous to our community and St Raphael’s Church. Helen served on the boards of St. Anthony’s Hospital Auxiliary; All Children’s Hospital Guild; Civic Opera Society; Florida Orchestra Guild and the Cross of Lorraine Society. She was a long time volunteer for the Museum of Fine Arts and the Stuart Society and a member of both St. Raphael’s Catholic Church and St. Raphael’s Guild. Helen was a U.S. Navy WAVE in WWII, stationed in Washington, DC serving as a Code Breaker. She is survived by her sister, Jeanne R. Weber of St. Petersburg and her nephew, G. Nathaniel Weber of Madison, WI. Our sincerest sympathies to Jeanne on her tremendous loss. Member’s Mother Dies Our sympathy to member Gail Ryckeley Brazzell on the loss of her mother Ruby Ryckeley. Ruby was born in 1911 and was a beloved mother, grandmoth- PAGE 4 er, and great-grandmother who loved life and brought joy to those around her. She lived to celebrate her 95th birthday with family and friends and two days later, August 23, died peacefully. The Truth & Only the Truth These excerpts are from a book called Disorder in the American Courts, and are things people actually said in court… √ What is your date of birth? July 18th. What year? Every year. √ What gear were you in at the moment of the impact? Gucci sweats and Reeboks. √ This myasthenia gravis, does it affect your memory at all? Yes. And in what ways does it affect your memory? I forget. You forget? Can you give us an example of something you forgot? √ How old is your son, the one living with you? Thirtyeight or thirty-five, I can't remember which. How long has he lived with you? Forty-five years. √ What was the first thing your husband said to you that morning? He said, "Where am I, Cathy?" And why did that upset you? My name is Susan √ Where you present when your picture was taken? Would you repeat the question? √ She had three children, right? Yes. How many were boys? None. Were there any girls? √ How was your first marriage terminated? By death. And by whose death was it terminated? √ Can you describe the individual?: He was about medium height and had a beard. Was this a male or a female? √ All your responses MUST be oral, OK? What school did you go to? Oral. Fishing Trip Truths Two avid fishermen go on a fishing trip. They rent all the equipment: the reels, the rods, the wading suits, the rowboat, the car, and even a cabin in the woods. They spend a fortune. The first day they go fishing, but they don't catch anything. The same thing happens on the second day, and on the third day. It goes on like this until finally, on the last day of their vacation, one of the men catches a fish. As they're driving home they're really depressed. One guy turns to the other and says, "Do you realize that this one lousy fish we caught cost us fifteen hundred dollars? "The other guy says, "Wow! It's a good thing we didn't catch any more!" From the Desk of Monsignor Caverly Louise Barrett did a great job at the Sept. 30th Magnificat Prayer Breakfast where she was the guest speaker. Many members of St Raphael CCW were present and Louise’s talk was well received. We will S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N be starting stewardship in a few weeks and I ask you to pray for the campaign’s success. October is the month of the Rosary. It is very important to pray the Rosary. Donna Condon organized a special St. Raphael School event on Oct. 6th when the school children gathered to participate in a worldwide Children’s Eucharistic and Marian Holy Hour to pray for world peace and the sanctification of families throughout the world. Fr. Anthony and I gathered with all the Priests of the Diocese and Bishop Lynch for our yearly Convocation October 2- October 5. Fr. Anthony Dear Ladies! All of you are a wonderful gift to me. It would be difficult for me to be a priest without the love and support of the 'Church Ladies'. You are my greatest allies in the quest to bring about the Kingdom of God. I want you to know how much I truly appreciate all of you. You defend me, encourage me and inspire me with your lives. I am blessed to have such good witnesses of Christ before me. The month of October is dedicated to the Queen of the Most Holy Ro- sary. The Virgin always brings us to her Son. One day when Jesus was speaking to a crowd of people a woman cried out: "Blessed is the womb that bore you and the breasts that you sucked". Jesus responded, "blessed rather are those who hear the word of God and keep it!" The response is very similar to the response made by St. Elizabeth during the Visitation, "blessed is she who believed that there would be fulfillment of what was spoken to her from the Lord." Mary is a woman who believed in the Word of God. She knew that God was faithful and what he promised would come to be fulfilled. God does keep his promises. Mary can teach us how to remain faithful to the Word so that we fulfill our side of the Eternal Covenant. The litany of praise begun by the Angel Gabriel, celebrated by St. Elizabeth and con- PAGE 5 tinued by the Unknown Woman lives on today in all of you and in me. Pray the Rosary ladies. Pray for peace. God will send this peace if we pray. Mary Queen of the Most Holy Rosary, keep us in the Word. Sunday School ⇒ Attending a wedding for the first time, a little girl whispered to her mother, "Why is the bride dressed in white?" "Because white is the color of happiness, and today is the happiest day of her life." The child thought about this for a moment, then said, "So why is the groom wearing black?" ⇒ A Sunday School teacher asked her class why Joseph and Mary took Jesus with them to Jerusalem. A small child replied: "They couldn't get a baby sitter. ⇒ A Sunday school teacher was discussing the Ten Commandments with her five and six year olds. After explaining the commandment to "honor thy father and thy mother," she asked "Is there a commandment that teaches us how to treat our brothers and sisters?" Without missing beat one little boy answered, "Thou shall not kill." ⇒ Two boys were walking home from Sunday school after hearing a strong preaching on the devil. One said to the other, "What do you think about all this Satan stuff?" The other boy replied, "Well, you know how Santa Claus turned out. It's probably just your Dad". Birthdays October 1 1 3 8 9 10 11 14 Dorothy Charleton Judith Kroll Anna Lewis Mary Driscoll 9 Melissa LeClair Bernadine Quartetti Fr Anthony Coppola Madeline Ferrara 14 14 15 17 18 20 20 20 23 Barbara Ruperto Valerie Walker Chris Winstead Cheryl Murphy Irene Lewis Mary Butson Elane Haley Madelon Healy Rosalie Ferrer 23 26 27 27 30 31 Janet Murchison Susan Ugan Sheila Barry Pat Oakley Rose York Mary Donatelli S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N St. Raphael School √ √ √ √ √ √ Mark your calendars-Saturday, November 4th FALL FESTIVAL, 11:00am-8:00pm. This is sure to be a Fun Filled Family Day!! You may go on line and place orders throughout the school year to help raise money for St. Raphael’s. The website is: http:// www.qsp.com/ to shop from QSP’s Internet gift catalog. Click Register Now, Follow the registration process and enter Account # 710328886. Shop away!! Chick-fil-A will donate 15% of our purchases every 3rd Thursday of the month from 5-8pm at the 4th Street N. location. Call the school re: coupons. International Day of Peace- On September 21, our students, teachers and staff planted nearly 250 pinwheels in celebration of International Day of Peace. Royal Spirit Day- Once a month on school spirit day, students may wear a Christian tee-shirt or a Catholic Schools Week T-shirt with the regular uniform skirt, shorts, or pants. St. Raphael Feast Day Mass- Sept. 29th @ 8am. The CCW group provided refreshments for all students in celebration of St. Raphael Feast Day following mass. Member News ♥ Julie and Bob Musselman celebrated their 20th wedding anniversary June 7, 2006. They celebrated by going to mass at St Isabel Catholic Church on Sanibel Island, FL with their children. They were married June 7, 1986 at St. Albert the Great Catholic Church in Dayton Ohio ♥ New Member, Michelle Cehula Fellows, and her husband, David Lee Fellows, just donated for the use for Wednesday Morning Bible Study, held in Room A, a brand-new Color T.V., with built-in DVD Player. Fr. Anthony is leading this group, and was in need on one, especially for the Table Leader's Meeting, where the team previews the DVD for next week's lesson. Michelle is a coTable Leader this year. Thanks Michelle and David!!! ♥ On Oct. 7th, member Molly Sanger’s dad is coming to visit her with four of her sisters, In August, all of his six children came from five different states were in Cleveland OH to help him celebrate his 97th birthday. Molly’s dad had 7 children, 26 grandchildren, 44 great grandchildren, and 3 great great grandchildren. He is in great healththe secret to his longevity may be his loving family. Molly is very proud of her family PAGE 6 ♥ Michael and member Traci Craig will be celebrating their 1 year anniversary on October 15!! Congratulations!!!! ♥ In June, Bernadette and Mac traveled to Kansas City to visit son Bryan's family, to Clarinda, IA for the Glenn Miller Festival, and to Neligh, NE for a visit with Judy & Bob Eggerling. In August, Bernadette went to Milan, MI for her 50th high school reunion. Never having been to a reunion, they didn't know her and vice versa, but all got reacquainted & had a great time. ♥ Roseanna Costa and husband Bob will be traveling to Disney World on Oct. 7th to see their granddaughter, Tara, who is 10 years old dance with her fellow dancers on stage. Tara and her family are flying down from St, James, NY for this event. ♥ Needed: Cheryl Murphy needs a helper for Coffee and Donuts after the 11:30 Mass, starting the first Sunday in November. This is a once a month commitment. You do not need to attend the 11:30 Mass to help. Angel Festival Thank you everyone who helped make St Raphael’s Feast Day on September 29th a fabulous Day. We had two special Masses followed by receptions for all who attended Mass. The morning crew- Mary Carlomagno, Jo Burkhart, Mary Wilson, and Mary Stoft started at 7 AM by cutting bagels and preparing platters of breakfast pastries and donuts for all those who attended the 8 AM Mass. Michelle Cehula Fellows, Gina Longino, Valerie Walker and Jeanne Larrison arrived shortly after and helped better than Santa’s elves!! Each class in St Raphael’s School participated in the morning reception and the highest praise came from one student who was so happy, she said, “we should do this EVERY week!!” Our Angel Festival Mass at 7 PM had about 75 people present to honor St Raphael. Thanks to Bernadette Bowles, Allen Barrett and Eileen Brady for the wonderful music. Joan Malone was sacristan and reader. Marja Beaufait was an altar server and also brought many items for the reception. I know I’ll leave someone out and I am sorry in advance, but there were so many helpers and bakers, it was hard to keep track!! Thanks to Celeste Brown, Kim Penman, Bernadette Bailey, Mary Poulin, Michelle Cehula Fellows, Winnie Young, Marty Foreman, Mary Lu Price, Molly Sanger, Cherie Mainenti, Marlene D’Abramo, Maggie Moren, Lu Perrin and Ethelynn Henderson for your help and yummy baked goods. We had lots of leftovers, but our handy new freezer in Meeting Room B meant we already have items for Respect Life Nights Reception. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N New Member List Joanne LaBuda: Joanne is blessed with three awesome kids, Kailtin age 18 who just started at UF, Nathan, age 15, who attends St.Pete HS, and Taylor, age 14, who attends Southside Fundamental in the 8th grade. She works as an investigator and manager for Federex and have worked there for 23 years. Last year she moved her office to her home and loves working from home! She enjoys reading, cooking, gardening and being involved in Bible Study and prayer groups. Joanne loves CRHP and has served in many capacities, including most recently, CoSpiritual Director. She is proud to be a member of the CCW and tells us we can count on her prayer support. Janet O'Grady Murchison was born 10/23/62. She was told she was the first baby baptized on11/11/62 at the then "new" St. Raphael's Church. She attended school at both St. Raphael's and St. Pete Catholic. Janet is now a mother of two teenage boys- Dennis, 16 and Clinton 14. She makes rosaries for St. Margaret's in Nigeria and teaches 5th grade CCD. Beatriz Crespo was born in Cuba, she had three sisters and two brothers. .She was married in 1960 and within a year came to the USA with her husband Artagnan, who was already an orthopedic surgeon in Cuba and had to start here again .The Crespo’s moved to Jacksonville. Beatriz has 4 children: Ana, Artagnan, Lisette and Agustin. They moved to St. Pete in 1968. Beatriz’s children went to Holy Name, St. Raphael, St. Petersburg Catholic and St .Leo’s, FSU, and Auburn. Beatriz’s husband passed away in 1986. Three of Beatriz’s children married at St. Raphael’s and their children were baptized there. Her four grandchildren are going to school at St. Raphael’s. Mary Brophy was born in Pleasantville, N.Y. She has been selling real estate since 1973. Mary has 2 daughters, 1 son, and 8 grandchildren. She feels like “one very blessed person.” Thank you God! Antoinette Falk-Klotz has been with St. Raphael's since 1992. She has one son Ben, who is at St. Raphael's School, and two daughters. Annie is in law school at Georgetown, and Sarah is doing premed and classics at UF, having just finished the International Baccalaureate program at St. Pete High with honors. Antoinette sails competitively with her husband, Chris. She will resume golfing, too, once her fingers are healed from recent surgery. Antoinette is in private practice in psychiatry. PAGE 7 Nancy Rutland is the proud mother of Jason (20) and Liz (16). She has been blessed to be attending St.Raphael’s for the past 11 years. Both of Nancy’s children attended St. Raphael’s School. Nancy is an attorney, community volunteer, and loves to play tennis and jog. Saunya Talley is married to Brian. They have 3 sons: Curt, Joey and Ricky. They have been members of St. Raphael's since 1993 and involved in a variety of ministries including CRHP, Religious Education and theater. 2nd Generation Members We have had several daughters/daughter-in laws of longtime CCW members join in 2006. Gina Longino and mom Marlene D’Abramo, Joanne Bird and mom Winnie Young, Sherry Abentroth and mom in law Beverly Abentroth, Kathy Calcutt and mom Rose York, Traci Craig and mom in law Debby Craig, Theresa Duval and Aunt Mary Driscoll, Rosalie Ferrer and mom Jenny Milo, Rosanne Hall and mom Jean Feldhaus, Roseanne Halsmer and mom Louise Halsmer, Lisa Kettlestrings and mom Carol Kettlestrings, Terri Meyer and mom Jo Boyles, Chris Pelletier and mom Angela Soucy, Vicki Quintana and mom in law Tina Quintana. We are grateful to God for our new members from the next generation! (And we sure love the members from the generation that gave us EVERYTHING!!! Thank you, mothers.) Sister Members: We are blessed with the following members who are blessed enough to have a sister who is also a CCW member- Dottie Santacaterina and Fran Avenosa, Marie Bello and Phyllis Phillips, Janie Winstead and sister in law Chris Winstead. St. Raphael's CCW Online CCW Online See our very own CCW web pages and newsletters (new & archived editions) by going to: http://www.st-raphaels.com/ccw.html. Thanks again to Theresa McCormick, our webmaster. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N My Work Resume My first job was working in an orange juice factory, but I got canned: couldn't concentrate. Then I worked in the woods as a lumberjack, but I just couldn't hack it, so they gave me the axe. After that I tried to be a tailor, but I just wasn't suited for it, mainly, because it was a so-so job. Next I tried working in a muffler factory but that was exhausting. I worked as a pilot but eventually got grounded for taking off too much. Then I tried teaching, but I couldn't make the grade. I spent a few years as a Psychiatrist but everyone's problems drove me crazy. I wanted to be a barber, but I just couldn't cut it. Then I tried to be a chef--figured it would add a little spice to my life but I just didn't have the thyme. I attempted to be a deli worker, but any way I sliced it, I couldn't cut the mustard. My best job was being a musician, but eventually I found I wasn't noteworthy. I was a pretty good eye doctor, but I could not stay focused on the job. I worked a long time as a doctor. I gave it my best shot, but I didn't have enough patients. Next was a job in a shoe factory; but it never touched my sole. The Energizer Battery Company hired me but then expected me to keep going, and going, and going. I became a professional fisherman, but discovered that I couldn't live on my net income. I managed to get a good job working for a pool maintenance company, but the work was just too draining. I got a job at a zoo feeding giraffes but I was fired because I wasn't up to it. So then I got a job in a gymnasium (work-out-center), but they said I wasn't fit for the job. Of course, I tried being a secretary, but it turned out not to be my type of work. My years as an exterminator were pretty good, but I got tired of the rat race. Next, I found being an electrician interesting, but the work was shocking even thought it kind of turned me on. I was a gardener for a while, but I didn't grow with the job even though I was racking in the money. My career as a comedian was a stand-up success, but the critics thought I was a big joke. After many years of trying to find steady work I finally got a job as a historian until I realized there was no future in it. My last job was working at Starbucks, but I had to quit because it was always the same old grind. Internet Advice From Kids ♥ How do you decide who to marry? You got to find somebody who likes the same stuff. Like, if you like sports, she should like it that you like sports, and she should keep the chips and dip coming.” “No person really decides before they grow up who they're going to marry. God decides it all way ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ PAGE 8 before, and you get to find out later who you're stuck with.” What’s the right age to get married? “Twentythree is the best age because you know the person FOREVER by then.” “No age is good to get married at. You got to be a fool to get married.” (6 year old boy). How can a stranger tell if two people are married? “You might have to guess, based on whether they seem to be yelling at the same kids.” What do most people do on dates? “Dates are for having fun, and people should use them to get to know each other. Even boys have something to say if you listen long enough.” ”On the first date, they just tell each other lies and that usually gets them interested enough to go for a second date.” What would you do on a first date that was turning sour? “I'd run home and play dead. The next day I would call all the newspapers and make sure they wrote about me in all the dead columns.” Getting Old ♥ Just before the funeral services, the undertaker came up to the very elderly widow and asked, "How old was your husband?" "98," she replied. "Two years older than me." "So you're 96," the undertaker commented. She responded, "Hardly worth going home, is it?" ♥ Reporters interviewing a 104-year-old woman: "And what do you think is the best thing about being 104?" the reporter asked. She simply replied, "No peer pressure." ♥ The nice thing about being senile is you can hide your own Easter eggs. ♥ I've sure gotten old! I've had two bypass surgeries, a hip replacement, new knees Fought prostate cancer and diabetes. I'm half blind, can't hear anything quieter than a jet engine, take 40 different medications that make me dizzy, winded, and subject to blackouts. Have bouts with dementia. Have poor circulation; hardly feel my hands and feet anymore. Can't remember if I'm 85 or 92. Have lost all my friends. But, thankfully, I still have my driver's license. Our Lady of Good Counsel, Pray for Us St. Raphael's Council of Catholic Women November 2006 Christmas Breakfast St. Raphael Catholic Church CCW Officers President: Louise Barrett 821-2561 1st Vice President: Marlene D’Abramo 2nd Vice President: Becky McBride Recording Secretary: Maggie Moren Corresponding Secretary: Roseanna Costa Treasurer: Adela Vidal Papal Intentions for October 2006 General: That, everywhere in the world, an end be put to all forms of terrorism. Missionary: That through the effort of believers, together with living forces of society, the new and old chains which prevent the development of the African Continent may be broken. Newsletter http://st-raphaels.com/ccw.htm Our annual Christmas breakfast will be December 2. Cost is $6.00 and will be catered by Celeste Brown. Please bring a gift for a Shore Acres resident with a tag telling what it is and the size. Send your reservation to Louise Barrett at 820 24th Ave N, St. Petersburg FL 33704. We will be having a CCW member gift exchange. If you want to receive a gift - bring a wrapped gift with a 5$ value. Participation is voluntary. Our Parish Adoration on Wednesdays begins after the 8 AM Mass, continues to the 7PM Mass when the Blessed Sacrament is reposed and begins again at 7:30 PM to 10 PM. We need two people signed up for each hour to meet the Adoration regulations so that the Blessed Sacrament is never left unattended while in the Monstrance on the altar. There are tremendous spiritual benefits to the practice of Adoration blessing the individual as well as our Parish. Thank you to all those who sign up week after week. Become a Member of CCW Bible Study If you would like to become a member of St. Raphael's Council of Catholic Women (formerly called Guild). Please send your $15 yearly membership in an envelope marked CCW to the church office. Special DCCW Award by Ann Marie Kovach "Mary Woltman is the recipient of the "Respect Life Person of the Year Award for The Diocese of St. Petersburg". The award was given at the Respect Life conference in Palm Beach, October 14 - 15. Mary is President of East Hillsborough Deanery. Suzanne Kelley will be leading an evening Bible Study beginning November 7th. The group will be studying Exodus. The Bible Study will meet every Tuesday from 7:30 PM - 9:00 PM. All are welcome. Call Suzanne Kelley to register at 641-6575 or email: suzkelley101@yahoo.com Voting Voting is a privilege. Please vote on November 7th. Adoration “ThankYou” Notes Breakfast Angels: Thanks to our breakfast angels: Celeste Brown, Carol Zimmerman and Mary Carlomagno. Our annual Christmas Breakfast catered by Celeste Brown will be December 2nd. See you there!!! All Saints Art Show: Thanks to the St Raphael School and CCD children for the beautiful pictures of Saints which were displayed at the All Saints Day Art Show in the narthex of the Church on November 1st. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N PAGE 2 CCW Calendar 2006-07 Saturday November 4 FALL FESTIVAL, 11 AM - 8 PM. School Sponsored. Sunday November 5 Mass of Remembrance- 11:30 AM Tuesday November 7 VOTING Saturday November 11 Flea Market, 8 Am to 2 PM Saturday December 2 Christmas Breakfast/Nursing Home Gifts Friday December 8 Feast of the Immaculate Conception - Creche Festival @ 7 PM Mass Saturday January 6 General Meeting - Angels in Art Wednesday January 24 Pontifax Saturday February 3 General Meeting—Theology of the Body Sunday February 11 World Day of the Sick 11:30 AM Mass, New Church Saturday February 18 Fashion Show Saturday March 3 Lenten Retreat Saturday March 10 Mother’s Tribute Brunch Saturday April 14 General Meeting—Jessica Freeman, Youth Minister Saturday April 21 Rummage Sale Saturday May 5 General Meeting/ Installation Breakfast Sun-Wed. May 6-9 DCCW Convention - Quorum Hotel Tampa Thursday May 24 Potluck @ Parish Center General Meeting Schedule: 7:35 AM Rosary, 8 AM Mass, 8:30 Continental Breakfast, Meeting & Program Lower Pinellas Deanery Ladies Day Out was a huge success. We had women from Blessed Trinity, St Jude, Holy Family, Most Holy Name, St. Paul, St. Mary, and St. Raphael Parishes. The 50 women in attendance had refreshments, fun and workshops highlighting the work of the commissions - Church, International, Legislative, Family, Organizational and Community. Thank you to all who attended and helped from St. Raphael’s - Fran Avenoso, Bernadette Bailey, Louise Barrett, Roseanna Costa, Ruth Mattick, Becky McBride, Ruth McDonald, Rosa Rodriquez, Dottie Santacaterina, Dolores Smith, Mabel Sullivan, Rita Sullivan and Ethelyn Henderson. From the Pastor’s Desk Monsignor Caverly reminds us that November is the month of the Holy Souls. Our Church has always encouraged us to pray for the souls in Purgatory and they in turn pray for us. Monsignor thanks our CCW for the generous gift of $3,500. “Because of the kindness of our parishioners, such as you, we are able to carry on the Lord’s work that has been commissioned to us. Please be assured of a special remembrance in my daily Masses and prayers, and may the good Lord continue to bless you in a special way.” St Raphael’s Card Party was a great success and Monsignor enjoyed seeing all those present. Monsignor wishes all the members of St Raphael’s CCW a very blessed and happy Thanksgiving. We all have so much to be thankful for and let us remember the men and women in our armed forces. May God bless them and watch over them. Meals on Wheels Award by Winnie Young Meals on Wheels celebrated its 40th Anniversary on Oct. 26 with an award banquet at the Carillon Hilton Hotel. Table #1 was reserved for the five Meals on Wheels Award recipients, which included our own Winnie Young. The award recipients were seated with Honorable Gus Bilarakis, Jan, the director of Meals on Wheels, and Mr. Lipscomb from Elder Affairs. The guest speaker was Debbie Reynolds. Vern Rood, age 93, was an award recipient who had delivered meals for 5 different routes for years. He also made sure people had a meal on the holidays at his own expense. The sign on his car says, “These wheels deliver meals”. As for Winnie, she has delivered meals for 31 years on several different routes. She says, “God does the work and we get the credit.” Her daughter, Joann Bird, attended the banquet and snapped lots of pictures of this momentous occasion. We are so proud of Winnie Young, charter member of our CCW. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N DCCW by Ann Kovach Hello My Friends of St. Raphael CCW. It was my privilege and honor to represent you as St. Petersburg Diocesan Council of Catholic Women president at the FCCW (Florida Council of Catholic Women) Conference in West Palm Beach, Oct. 26-29th. It was a very successful and well-organized conference. The presidents from all the dioceses of the state of Florida attended. The theme was: “Instruments of Justice and Peace”. The host diocese was Palm Beach Diocesan Council of Catholic Women. The FCCW President /Province Director, Jeannette Schaal, reminded us that we are called to be peacemakers and that working together we can make a difference in the world. A special treat was to meet and hear Karen Hurley, President General of WUCWO which is World Union of Catholic Women’s Organizations. She served for five years as Vice President and in leadership roles promoting the interests of Catholic women in the U.S. and world-wide for more than 20 years. She is the first American to hold this position. She reminded us that WUCWO’s collaboration and dialogue with the Vatican is a gift to women and to the Church which we must nurture and care for. Myrna Wong spoke to us about Human Trafficking and Diane Tugander gave information on Farm Worker Justice/Migrant Workers. There was a delightful skit on “Grandmothers of the Bible”. It emphasized that “God does not call the equipped, he equips the called”. This skit showed how simple women served the Lord. Ellen Bachman, NCCW president, gave the keynote address “Living in a Peaceful World”. Sheila Hopkins, Associate for Social Concerns Florida Catholic Conference brought us up to date on the latest legislative issues. She is a graduate of Florida State University and represents the Bishops of Florida in public policy matters before the legislative and executive branches of government in such diverse areas as adoption, immigration, criminal Card Party What a wonderful afternoon we all had on Oct.28. About 60 men and women attended the Fall Card Party. Maggie Moren, Louise Barrett, Molly Sanger, Margaret Peck, Winnie Young and Cheryl Murphy prepared the luncheon -a salad bar, quiche and homemade soups. Desserts makers were Bernadette Bailey, Dolores Smith, Ruth Mattick, Charlotte Overbey, Fran Avenoso, Winnie Young, Angela Soucy, Barb Dippelhofer, Marlene D’Abramo, and Cherie Mainenti. Card Party Chairman Roseanna Costa was everywhere at once- welcoming, cooking, cleaning and picking up. Thanks to her committee: Dottie Santacaterina, Ethelynn Henderson, Peggy Hawkins, PAGE 3 justice, and many more. All of the speakers were well qualified. The liturgies are always inspiring. Most Reverend Gerald M. Barbarito, Bishop of Palm Beach, greeted each of us warmly and thanked us most sincerely for all the work the woman do for the church throughout the state of Florida. He told us we were essential to the spreading of the gospel message. I am always uplifted by our Bishops who so sincerely tell us of their appreciation for all we do. It should encourage us to keep on with all our outreach projects. The sessions began at 9:00 a.m. and ended around 4:00 p.m. We had ten to fifteen minute breaks. Rev. Clem Hammerschmitt, Moderator of Palm Beach DCCW, prepared an authentic German dinner for us. The parish ladies helped serve, but he did all the cooking! We are very blessed to have so many clergy who support our councils and encourage us. Nine of our past diocesan presidents were memorialized in the program booklet. Our own Loretta Czyzewski and Louise Haire were among them. I hope you will continue to be proud of your membership in St. Raphael Council of Catholic Women and will know that your membership is important to the church. We are so fortunate, in this modern day, to belong to a group of faith-filled, dedicated women who reach out to care for those in our community and for each other. Thanks for all you do! Mary Carlomagno, Rita Sullivan, Peggy Nolan, Marlene D’Abramo, Dolores Smith did a great job on the Opportunities (15) and Door Prizes (19): Thanks to Winnie Young, Mary Montecki, Mona Lund, Ruth McDonald, Ethelyn Henderson, Louise Barrett, Robin Ahlquist, Roseanna Costa, Mary Driscoll, and several “unknown” or “wish to remain anonymous” donors. Thank you to everyone who pitched in to make the day a great success. None of this would be possible without the fine ladies of our CCW and our wonderful Monsignor Caverly who was out sweeping before the card party to tidy up after the storm for our guests!! We made $870. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N In Your Prayers. . . Sick by Lu Perrin Please pray for our sick: Jean Feldhaus, Mary Peters, Margaret Racila, Margot Morcillo, Louis Lettourneau, Ester LaVangie, Eleanor Alderson and Bill Scanlan. Shore AcresDottie Soots, Susan Neitz, Thomas Kunkler, Norman Vanest. Maria Manor- DJ Thompson, Juliette Schiavi, Mary Palmer, Rita Hall, Ernest Anderson. Other: Charlotte Edwards, Jenny Milo, Marion Lagan, Nancye Barrett, Helen Bishop, and Bette Hyslip. Deceased by Bernadette Bailey Please pray for Jan Haley, Jacqueline Wantland, Ethel O’Connell, Donald Stephen Fellows, and Avalon Barretta who died in October. May their souls and the souls of all the faithfully departed rest in peace. All Souls - Nov. 2005 to Nov. 2006 Mass of Remembrance A special Mass of Remembrance will be held November 5th at 11:30AM. Names of the deceased will be read and a candle lit for each person remembered as we pray for those who have died in our Parish in the past year. Jerry Allen, Frances Bello, Marie Petrucci Best, Kenneth Bishop, Art Blair, Rose Casesa, Ethna Caverly, Michael John Cehula, Catherine Coyle, May Costa, Loretta & Edward Czyzewski, Lucy Donegan, David Davis, Marina Diaz, Michael Durbin, Virginia Edmonds, Dorothy Endres, Donald Stephen Fellows, Rita Filitor, Buddy Freeman, Dolores Fury, Mary Elizabeth Haggerty, Janet Haley, Carlton Hudson, Mary Louise Johnson, Vivian Johnson, Charles Jones, Jean Kavanaugh, Elizabeth Lovering, Lynn, Richard, Edward Mackey, Andrew Malusa, Robert Mann, Samantha Millard, Charlotte Montgomery, James Nagelsen, Ethel O'Connell, Mary Passero, Rose Pimental, Antonia Quevedo, Jorge Ramirez, George Rankin, Connor Ratcliffe, Myles Reilly, Helen Rudolf, Ruby Ryckeley, John Schatz, Rose Shamas, and John Soshea, and Jackie Wantland. Youth Group CCW Member Death Ethel O’Connell died October 28 at Manatee Care Springs & Rehab in Bradenton, where she had moved recently to be close to her son. She was born in Newark, NJ and moved here in 1987. She owned beauty shops in NJ. She was a member of the St. Petersburg Woman’s Club, St. Raphael’s Catholic Church and a member of St Raphael’s CCW since 1987. She was an avid bridge player. She is survived by her son: Jeffrey O’Connell, Bradenton and her daughter Mimi O’Connell from NJ. Ethel was predeceased by two other children. She has 6 grandchildren and 3 great-grandchildren. CCW Member’s Sister Dies Avalon Barretto, sister of CCW member Louise Halsmer and Aunt to CCW member Roseanne Halsmer, died Oct 27. Avalon had moved to St Pete to be with Louise and Roseanne after the death of Avalon's husband a year ago. She bought a home in the same park as Louise. Avalon became critically ill in February and fought back through a long hospitalization and stay at Bon Secours. Avalon was able to go back to her new home in St Pete before heading north to sell her old home where she was found to have the cancer that caused her death. Avalon will be missed by all who knew her. Our prayers go out to her family at this sad time. PAGE 4 by Kim Phillips These are the current fundraisers sponsored by St Raphael’s Youth Group: • Flea Market - Saturday November 11th - 8:00 a.m. to about 3:00 p.m. Any donations can be brought to the Parish Center and put on the stage If help is needed and pick up of the items is needed • Frozen Cookie Dough (Perfect for holiday call Kim Phillips at 481-6829 cookies) $12.00 per 3 pound tub and many varieties to choose from. Call Kim Phillips at 481-6829 Dough will be delivered the first week of December to your home. • St. Raphael's Church Christmas Ornaments (dated) $10.00 each will be sold after the masses starting the weekend after Thanksgiving or pre-order @ 481-6829 • We are also working on a service project to have the Thanksgiving dinner on the Eve of Thanksgiving. Details aren't worked out yet but the cost will cover the dinner and if there is any remaining funds it will be donated to St. Vincent de Paul . We will also help with rides home after the dinner if there is a need • Funds go to help the youth group program and the youth group trips. The first trip is the March for Life and there are lots of great kids signed up to attend! “Teams of Our Lady” by Carol Ann Bates S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N Consider regular monthly marriage enrichment and support through “Teams of Our Lady”. There will be a couples information meeting in St Raphael’s Meeting Room B on Sunday, November 12th, 2006 from 3:00 to 4:30 p.m. “Teams” meeting format, organization and support materials will be discussed and veteran “teams” couples will be on hand to witness and discuss how “Teams” has worked to support their marriages. Couples incur no obligation or commitment by attending this “information only” meeting. No RSVP necessary. Living out the sacrament of marriage day to day can be challenging for any couple; whether newly wed or “seasoned” veterans. Since 1947 “Teams of Our Lady” has been an internationally established lay movement solely dedicated and designed to strengthen and support married couples under the patronage of the Blessed Mother. “Teams” is officially recognized by the Holy See as a lay institute under the Pontifical Council for the Laity. Local couples meet in their “Teams” one evening per month in each other’s homes in turn. They share a simple meal in friendship, share their monthly experiences and then reflect on scripture and share prayers and intentions. Couples also share their individual efforts to pray and to improve marital spirituality and they close the evening by discussing study material on the subject of married life and shared faith. Need more information? Call: Dan / Carol Ann Bates @ 727.525-3897 or Wendell / Jane Winstead @ 727-526-0494. Stem Cell Research - Good or Bad? by Maggie Moren Is the Church against stem cell research? The answer is “No”. Within the last couple of years we have been bombarded with the marvels in medical science of stem cells and the general public still remains confused regarding this issue. There are two very distinct types of stem cell research- adult stem cells (which includes umbilical cord stem cells) and embryonic stem cells. The Church is a big proponent for adult and umbilical cord stem cells research but not embryonic stem cell research. Scientists have made remarkable progress in treating diseases using adult and the umbilical-cord stem cells. Now we hear from the media that embryonic PAGE 5 stem cells will cure everything. To date, there have been no cures with embryonic stem cells which reproduce often into tumors and every time an embryo is used, a living child is killed as life begins at conception. WE must not become confused by the new terminology. “Embryo” is now referred to as “blastocyst” or “zygote”. Instead of using the term cloning, you may now see SCNT--somatic cell nuclear transfer which means; the nucleus of a body cell is placed into an egg that has had its nucleus removed. Another term to be aware of is ANT-OAR--”altered nuclear transfer,” or its variant “oocyte (egg) assisted reprogramming which we will be hearing more of in the near future. Missouri, which is a pro-life state has an amendment on their ballot (and will be a part of their state constitution if it passes) which purports to ban human cloning, but the amendment has been cleverly worded so that the voters think they are voting against legalizing cloning, instead under the definition of cloning , (page 5 of the amendment) cloning embryos is actually permitted, if they are to be killed and used for stem cell lines. Under the Missouri initiative, the crime is implanting that embryo in a woman’s womb, but it would allow for any other kind of experiment. Not only is this morally wrong but the tax payers are the ones who will be paying for this. New Jersey already has a law that allows a cloned embryo to be implanted into a woman’s womb to obtain fetal tissues and it makes a crime to allow the cloned fetus to be born. We Catholics along with other Christians and those who believe in the right-to-life, must be opposed to human cloning and human genetic engineering. We can not let our federal or state government fund this type of research. These ANT-OAR proponents can end up redefining the human embryo, accepting human cloning and redesigning the human species by altering the human genome. The danger is real and we must be aware. November Birthdays 02 03 03 07 10 11 Ann Vickstrom Truus Stuimer Mary Thomas Jenny Milo Ofelia Hoeppner Emily Uber 19 20 21 22 23 23 Celeste Brown Mary Domal Alma Henz Rita Sullivan Sharon Beaber Margaret Racila 24 27 27 27 Joanne Bird Sandra Mendellin Karen Muhlstadt Gerry Sweet S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N St. Jude Award The 2006 recipient of the St Jude award will be Lu Perrin, a very modest woman who wants to remain behind the scenes. She has been a member of Christ Renews his Parish team. She has been Treasurer, Corresponding Secretary, Recording Secretary, Vice President and President of the CCW, both in her old Church on the East Coast and at St. Raphael's. She is always willing to lend a hand with CCW and has been on many committees over the years. This year she is a commission chairman. Lu is a tireless volunteer at St Anthony's Hospital and is currently on the Pastoral Care Staff. She has logged in more than 5,000 hours over her years of dedicated service. She is an Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion both at the hospital and to the homebound. She has a deep faith and is filled with zeal to serve the sick. Lu will receive the award from the Bishop on Nov. 26th. Past recipients are: Jeanette Bolich (99), Ginny Hansen (00), Truus Stuimer (01), Celeste Brown (02), Bernadette Bailey (03), Terry Hamm (04) and Ofelia Hoeppner (05). Congratulations, Lu. Member News ♥ Here’s an encouragement to make a Christ Renews His Parish weekend! The Women’s CRHP team from Fall 2005 organized a trip to Cozumel and Grand Caymen from Oct 28th to Nov.2. Jane and Wendall Winstead, Chris and Terry Winstead, Joanne LaBuda, Celeste Brown, Linda Champion and Fr Anthony are testing the waters for a possible trip next year for all the CRHP teams or perhaps the Parish if there seems to be a lot of interest. ♥ Mary Vallee will be teaching a course, “Living with a Mood Disorder” on Nov 11th and18 at NE Presbyterian Church. Her support group has a website: http://freewebs.com/mary33764/ where there is more info about meetings. Depression and other mood disorder are very serious problems and help is available. ♥ Congratulations Dani Mcauliffe. She was named the President Elect of the American Association of Nurse Attorneys at their Annual Conference held recently held in San Francisco. ♥ Angela Soucy and daughter Jeannette want to thank everyone who has been praying and sending messages of encouragement to Angela’s grandson John during his long illness following a heart attack. After two and half months, John, a diabetic since age 6, is still in the hospital learning to walk, talk and recover from the many com- PAGE 6 plications that have occurred from this recent illness. Thank you all so much and God Bless. ♥ Good news from Kelly Rooth- She and her husband, Ryan are expecting their first Baby Rooth May 17, 2006. ♥ Marlene D’Abramo’s daughter Elisa, who lives in Ct. and is also the sister of Gina Longino, got married on August 4, 2006 in CT to Patrick Kelly. Marlene and family all went to CT. for the celebration on Oct. 7, 2006. ♥ Mary Poulin and her husband Dave went on the St Vincent de Paul cruise in the Western Caribbean at the end of October. ♥ New CCW member Pamela Gehrich was born in Cincinnati, OH and moved to Saint Petersburg in 1976. She attended Northeast High and graduated in 1992. Pam received her BSN from Florida Atlantic University and is a pediatric nurse at All Children's hospital. She became a member of the Catholic Church in 2004. Pam was married at St. Raphael in April 2005. She enjoys traveling, boating, fishing, and hanging out with family and friends. Drivers License Emergency Info This is from member Cherie Mainenti who works as a dispatcher for a police dept. Here is a really good program: You can add emergency contact info to your driver's license in case something happens, the police can contact your family right away. For more information see: https://www6.hsmv.state.fl.us/dlcheck/ findcustomer S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N From the Internet The 98-year-old Mother Superior from Ireland was dying. The nuns gathered around her bed trying to make her last journey comfortable. They gave her some warm milk to drink but she refused. Then one of the nuns took the glass back to the kitchen. Remembering a bottle of Irish whiskey received as a gift the previous Christmas, she opened and poured a generous amount into the warm milk. Back at Mother Superior's bed, she held the glass to her lips. Mother drank a little, then a little more and before they knew it, she had drunk the whole glass down to the last drop. "Mother," the nuns asked with humility, "please give us some wisdom before you die." She raised herself up in bed and with a pious look on her face said, "Don't sell that cow." WHITE LIE CAKE Internet find by Claudia Soucy Alice was to bake a cake for the CCW, but she remembered it the morning of the bake sale and after rummaging through cabinets, found an angel food cake mix. When Alice took the cake from the oven, the center had dropped flat and the cake was horribly disfigured. There was no time to bake another cake. Being inventive, she looked around the house for something to build up the center of the cake. Alice found it- a roll of toilet paper. She plunked it in and then covered it with icing. Not only did the finished product look beautiful, it looked perfect. Before she left the house to drop the cake by the church, Alice woke her daughter and gave her some money and specific instructions to be at the bake sale the moment it opened at 9:30 AM to buy the cake and bring it home. When the daughter arrived at the sale, she found the cake had already been sold. The next day, Alice promised herself she would try not to think about the cake and would attend the fancy luncheon/ bridal shower at a prominent Church member’s home. The meal was elegant, and to Alice's horror, the cake in question was presented for dessert! Alice felt the blood drain from her body when she saw the cake! She started out of her chair to tell the hostess all about it, but before she could get to her feet, the mayor's wife said, "what a beautiful cake!" Alice still stunned, sat back in her chair when she heard the hostess say, "Thank you, I baked it myself." Alice smiled and thought to herself, "God is good." Creation Internet Find by Bernadette Bailey PAGE 7 When God created the dog, He said: "Sit all day by the door of your house and bark at anyone who comes in or walks past. For this, I will give you a life span of twenty years." The dog said: "That's a long time to be barking. How about only ten years, and I'll give you back the other ten?" So God agreed. Next, God created the monkey and said: "Entertain people, do tricks, and make them laugh. For this, I'll give you a twenty-year life span. "The monkey said: "Monkey tricks for twenty years? That's a pretty long time to perform. How about I give you back ten like the Dog did?" And God agreed. God then created the cow and said: "You must go into the field with the farmer all day long and suffer under the sun, have calves and give milk to support the farmer's family. For this, I will give you a life span of sixty years. "The cow said: "That's kind of a tough life you want me to live for sixty years. How about twenty, and I'll give back the other forty?" And God agreed. Finally, God created man and said: "Eat, sleep, play, marry and enjoy your life. For this, I'll give you twenty years." But man said: "Only twenty years? Could you possibly give me my twenty, the forty the cow gave back, the ten the monkey gave back, and the ten the dog gave back; that makes eighty, okay? "Okay," said God, "You asked for it." So, that's why the first twenty years we eat, sleep, play and enjoy ourselves. For the next forty years, we slave in the sun to support our family. For the next ten years, we do monkey tricks to entertain the grandchildren. And for the last ten years, we sit on the front porch and bark at everyone. St. Raphael's CCW Online CCW Online See our very own CCW web pages and newsletters (new & archived editions) by going to: http://www.st-raphaels.com/ccw.html. Thanks again to Theresa McCormick, our webmaster. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N The Buzzard, the Bat & the Bumblebee If you put a buzzard in a pen that is 6 feet by 8 feet and is entirely open at the top, the bird, in spite of its ability to fly, will be an absolute prisoner. The reason is that a buzzard always begins a flight from the ground with a run of 10 to 12 feet. Without space to run, as is its habit, it will not even attempt to fly, but will remain a prisoner for life in a small jail with no top. The ordinary bat that flies around at night, a remarkably nimble creature in the air, cannot take off from a level place. If it is placed on the floor or flat ground, all it can do is shuffle about helplessly and, no doubt, painfully, until it reaches some slight elevation from which it can throw itself into the air. Then, at once, it takes off like a flash. A bumblebee, if dropped into an open tumbler, will be there until it dies, unless it is taken out. It never sees the means of escape at the top, but persists in trying to find some way out through the sides near the bottom. It will seek a way where none exists, until it completely destroys itself. In many ways, we are like the buzzard, the bat, and the bumblebee. We struggle about with all our problems and frustrations, never realizing that all we have to do is look up. Sorrow looks back, worry looks around, but faith looks up. Subject:Water or Coke WATER: We all know that water is important, but I've never seen it written down like this before. a. a. 75% of Americans are chronically dehydrated. (Likely applies to half world pop.) b. In 37% of Americans, the thirst mechanism is so weak that it is often mistaken for hunger. c. Even MILD dehydration will slow down one's metabolism as much as 3%. d. One glass of water shuts down midnight hunger pangs for almost 100% of the dieters studied in a U-Washington study. e. Lack of water, the #1 trigger of daytime fatigue. f. Preliminary research indicates that 8-10 glasses of water a day could significantly ease back and joint pain for up to 80% of sufferers. g. A mere 2% drop in body water can trigger fuzzy short-term memory, trouble with basic math, and difficulty focusing on the computer screen or on a printed page. h. Drinking 5 glasses of water daily decreases the risk of colon cancer by 45%, plus it can slash the risk of breast cancer by 79%, and one is 50% less likely to develop bladder cancer. PAGE 8 Are you drinking the amount of water you should every day? COKE No wonder coke tastes soooo good: 1. In many states (in the USA) the highway patrol carries two gallons of Coke in the trunk to remove blood from the highway after a car accident. 2. You can put a T-bone steak in a bowl of coke and it will be gone in two days. 3. To clean a toilet: Pour a can of Coca-Cola into the toilet bowl and .......Let the "real thing" sit for one hour, then flush clean. The citric acid in Coke removes stains from vitreous china. 4. To remove rust spots from chrome car bumpers: Rub the bumper with a crumpled-up piece of Reynolds Wrap aluminum foil dipped in Coca-Cola. 5. To clean corrosion from car battery terminals: Pour a can of Coca-Cola over the terminals to bubble away the corrosion. 6. To loosen a rusted bolt: Applying a cloth soaked in Coca-Cola to the rusted bolt for several minutes. 7. To bake a moist ham: Empty a can of Coca-Cola into the baking pan, wrap the ham in aluminum foil, and bake. Thirty minutes before the ham is finished, remove the foil, allowing the drippings to mix with the Coke for sumptuous brown gravy. 8. To remove grease from clothes: Empty a can of coke into a load of greasy clothes, add detergent, and run through a regular cycle. The Coca-Cola will help loosen grease stains. It will also clean road haze from your windshield. FYI: (for your information) 1. The active ingredient in Coke is phosphoric acid. Its Ph is 2.8. It will dissolve a nail in about 4 days. 2. To carry Coca-Cola syrup (the concentrate), the commercial truck must use the Hazardous material placards reserved for highly corrosive materials. 3. The distributors of coke have been using it to clean the engines of their trucks for about 20 years! Still Want To Drink Up? Our Lady of Good Counsel, Pray for Us St. Raphael's Council of Catholic Women December 2006 Christmas Trees by Becky McBride St. Raphael Catholic Church CCW Officers President: Louise Barrett 821-2561 1st Vice President: Marlene D’Abramo 2nd Vice President: Becky McBride Recording Secretary: Maggie Moren Corresponding Secretary: Roseanna Costa Treasurer: Adela Vidal Papal Intentions for December 2006 General: That Christ, meek and humble of heart, may inspire those responsible for nations to use power wisely and responsibly . Missionary: That in every part of the world missionaries may live out their vocation with joy and enthusiasm, faithfully following in Christ's footsteps . CCW web pages & newsletters http://st-raphaels.com/ccw.html Newsletter http://st-raphaels.com/ccw.html Consider purchasing a live Christmas tree for your home/business to support our Boy Scout Troop 219. Their annual fund raising tree sale began Nov 26 and continues until all trees are sold. It is great to have a fresh Frazier Fur tree, the Boy Scouts keep them well watered and they are freshly cut and shipped from North Carolina. The profits go to maintain the troop’s operation and help our Scouts pay for Summer Camps. St. Jude the Apostle Award Congratulations to Lu Perrin who received the St Jude the Apostle Award at a prayer service and award ceremony on November 26th. Bishop Lynch instituted this yearly award in 1999 to thank a person or couple from each Parish for outstanding service. Lu’s daughter, Dr. Patricia Perrin, a psychologist from Houston TX flew in for the award ceremony. Her other daughter, Ellie Jennings and Ellie’s daughters, (Lu’s granddaughters) Kelly Hawkins and Casey Jennings who live in town were also there to share this glorious moment. The medal is 4 inches in diameter and handcrafted using heavy metal. Lou was thrilled with the “aura of holiness in the Cathedral” and proud to stand beside Monsignor Caverly as she received her award. to the 7PM Mass when the Blessed Sacrament is reposed and begins again at 7:30 PM to 10 PM. We need two people signed up for each hour to meet the Adoration regulations so that the Blessed Sacrament is never left unattended while in the Monstrance on the altar. There are tremendous spiritual benefits to the practice of Adoration blessing the individual as well as our Parish. Thank you to all those who sign up week after week. Fashion Show Mark your calendars for February 18 at noon. We will have a delicious luncheon followed by a Fashion Show put on by Target using CCW members as models. Please give any Door Prizes to Dolores Smith. We will be asking members to bake their tastiest cake for dessert. Become a Member of CCW If you would like to become a member of St. Raphael's Council of Catholic Women (formerly called Guild). Please send your $15 yearly membership in an envelope marked CCW to the church office. Adoration Our Parish Adoration on Wednesdays begins after the 8 AM Mass, continues “ThankYou” Notes Breakfast Angels: Our thanks to the CCW Board Members for setting up for our Christmas Breakfast. Thanks to our breakfast angels: Celeste Brown, our caterer, for another delicious meal and thanks to our organist, Eileen Brady, for leading the caroling. Next month our program will feature a speaker from the Museum of Fine Arts and the topic will be Angels in Art. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N PAGE 2 CCW Calendar 2006-07 Friday December 8 Saturday January 6 Wednesday January 24 Saturday February 3 Sunday February 11 Saturday February 18 Saturday March 3 Saturday March 10 Saturday April 14 Saturday April 21 Saturday May 5 Sun-Wed. May 6-9 Thursday May 24 General Meeting Schedule: Feast of the Immaculate Conception - Creche Festival @ 7 PM Mass General Meeting - Angels in Art Pontifax General Meeting—Theology of the Body World Day of the Sick 11:30 AM Mass, New Church Fashion Show Lenten Retreat Mother’s Tribute Brunch General Meeting—Jessica Freeman, Youth Minister Rummage Sale General Meeting/ Installation Breakfast DCCW Convention - Quorum Hotel Tampa Potluck @ Parish Center 7:35 AM Rosary, 8 AM Mass, 8:30 Continental Breakfast, Meeting & Program St. Raphael Catholic School….ThankYou! On behalf of the St. Raphael Catholic School community, I would like to thank you for your generous donation of $250.00 to the Catholic Foundation Match Grant Program. Your generosity will be used to help pay tuition for those students whose families value a Catholic education, but cannot afford the full tuition. “In generous spirit pay homage to the Lord: be not sparing of freewill gifts. With each contribution, show a cheerful countenance and pay your tithe in the spirit of joy. Give to the Most High as he has given to you, generously, according to your means. For the Lord always repays, and he will give back to you sevenfold.” (Sirach 35:7-10) It is people like you who make St. Raphael the wonderful community it is. We are all very blessed to be a part of this wonderful school and church. We truly appreciate your kindness. May God continue to bless you and your families. Peace be with you. Your partner in faith education, Miss Valerie Wostbrock, Principal, St Raphael’s School. From the Pastor’s Desk Monsignor Caverly was deeply saddened by the loss of Bishop Thomas Larkin. Monsignor had known him for over 40 years. They first met in Jacksonville where “Monsignor” Larkin was Pastor at Christ the King Parish and “Fr.” Caverly was an Associate Pastor at San Jose Parish. Monsignor Larkin invited Fr. Caverly on occasion to say Mass at his Parish. During this period, our Monsignor Caverly got to know Bishop Larkin’s mother and sister, Clarice. Later, when both Bishop Larkin and Monsignor Caverly were stationed in the Diocese of St Petersburg, they continued their friendship. Whenever Monsignor Caverly’s mother and sister visited from Ireland, Bishop Larkin would have them over for dinner. Bishop Larkin flew to Ireland for Monsignor Caverly’s mother’s funeral. Bishop Lynch invited Monsignor Caverly to concelebrate within the sanctuary at Bishop Larkin’s funeral Mass along with the Bishop and other Priests who were close friends of Bishop Larkin. On a happier note, Monsignor also concelebrated the blessing of the new altar and baptismal font at St Paul’s Church on Nov 25th. Monsignor Caverly was stationed at St Paul’s in 1968 as an Associate Pastor. St Paul’s Church spent about $600,000 to redecorate the interior. They refinished the original pews and refurbished the Stations of the Cross. The pews were rearranged, and there is a new crucifix carved by the artist who carved our St Raphael Crucifix. Lesson on Worms- from the Internet Father decided that a visual demonstration would add emphasis to his Sunday homily. Four worms were placed into four separate jars. One worm was put into a container of alcohol, another into a container of cigarette smoke, into a container of chocolate syrup and the fourth worm was put into a container of good clean soil. At the conclusion of the sermon, the Priest reported the following results: The worm in alcohol - dead! The worm in cigarette smoke dead! The worm in chocolate syrup - dead! The worm in good clean soil - alive! So the Priest asked the congregation, “What can you learn from this demonstration?” someone in the back row quickly raised her hand and said, "As long as you drink, smoke and eat chocolate, you won't have worms!" S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N Youth Group by Kim Phillips Thanksgiving Dinner was well attended with about 50 meals served. Many youth group members participated by serving meals, recognizing the need to serve our community on this day of thanks. All proceeds from the dinner (about $100) will be donated directly to our parish St. Vincent de Paul ministry in order to help those who are most in need. As always, Celeste Brown cooked the fabulous meal, which was delicious. The garage sale was a great event and youth group is very appreciative of all the items donated. The sale was a great way for those who are attending either summer camps, or March for Life, to work and earn money for their trips. Cookie Dough was a wonderful fundraiser, especially for a first time event. Youth offered freshly baked cookies after all of the masses for two consecutive PAGE 3 weekends. Thank you to all who purchased! Funds gained will go toward supporting the youth group program, as well as for those attending any of the upcoming trips. Cookies will be delivered the first or second week of December. A spaghetti dinner will be held on Sun, December 3rd, after the 5:30 PM. Mass. Tickets are only $5.00 or $20.00 maximum per family. This is a wonderful opportunity to start off this special Advent Season with our parish community. All proceeds will benefit those who will be attending the March for Life trip in January. In addition, the Youth Group will begin selling beautiful Christmas tree ornaments, inscribed St. Raphael's Catholic Church - 2006, beginning next weekend. Cost is only $10! Christmas Traditions From Marty Foreman - She’ll be making ornament cookies with whole wheat flour that her the grandkids will help bake and 'frost' with crunchy peanut butter and sprinkle with birdseed. Then they’ll tie the cookies onto the trees with strings for the wildlife. From Theresa McCormick, who is our webmaster- “My fondest memories as a child are singing around the Christmas tree... When I moved to St. Pete with husband and 4 children, my parents, Janet & Bill Swengros, lived a few blocks from us and we continued our traditions of singing, only Florida style. My parents were members of the St. Pete Power Squadron and they did Christmas caroling on decorated boats through the canals of Venetian Isles. We would have 3-4 good songs and then a bunch of songs we that would end up with 'la - la - la' and humming because we forgot the words! So I started assembling Christmas song lyrics for our caroling which I have posted on the web- http://florida-family.net/ christmas.html. You can print out copies so your family can have fun by singing around the Christmas tree! From Rosa Rodriguez- “In my country, Costa Rica, on Dec. 24 children go to bed early so that the Child Jesus can bring toys and place them under their beds. (We don’t have St. .Nicholas or Santa Claus.) On the 25th the children wake up looking under their beds to find the presents. Most homes have a room assigned for the Nativity because the statues of St. Joseph, Mary and Baby Jesus are life size including the donkey, cow and camels. People go from house to house singing carols. Christmas dessert is "drunken cake”- a solid pound cake smothered in rum.” From Michelle Cehula Fellows- “My Maternal Grandmother was 100% French. In honor of my French Grandmother, I learned a beautiful Christmas song. “Il est Ne, Le Divin Enfant” (translated, He is Born, The Divine Infant.) I leaned this song, in my French I Class, in Warren, Ohio. Years later; my son, Michael David, brought home a song book, with this song in it. I sang this song for my French Grandmother on Christmas Eve, all in French, with a French accent. When I first sang it to my mom, via long-distance phone, she wept. My French was perfect, and my Nany loved the song. Her name was Madame Paule Balme Mastini. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N In Your Prayers. . . Sick by Lu Perrin Please pray for our sick: Adele Buchta, Margaret Racila, Margot Morcillo, Esther LaVangie, Joe Colb, Ginny Hansen, and Bill Scanlan. Nursing Homes: Shore A cres: Dottie Soots, Susan Neitz, Lynn Shepard, Fran Davis, Thomas Kunkler, Norman Vanest. Maria Manor: DJ Thompson, Juliette Schiavi, Mary Palmer, Rita Hall, Ernest Anderson. Other: Charlotte Edwards, Jenny Milo, Marion Lagan, Nancye Barrett, Helen Bishop, and Bette Hyslip. Deceased by Bernadette Bailey Please pray for the who have died this past month- Mary Maroney, Bishop Thomas Larkin, Mark McClendon. May the souls of all the faithful departed rest in peace. Mary Maroney Dies Mary Maroney, past President of St Paul’s CCW, died Nov 7th. She is now home with the Lord and in His arms and Our Blessed Lady whom she loved so much. All have been privileged to have had an inspiration such as Mary to minister to us about redemptive suffering. Mary fought breast cancer for six years. She will be dearly missed. Bishop Larkin Dies Bishop Thomas Larkin died Nov. 4 after a long ill- ness. Bishop Larkin was the second Bishop of our diocese. He was born 3/ 31/23 and was ordained a priest in 1947 in Syracuse, NY. He responded to a need for priests in FL and was Assistant Pastor at Holy Family Parish, North Miami from1950-54, Pastor at Christ the King, Jacksonville from 1954-67, and Pastor at St. Cecelia Parish, Clearwater, from1967-79. He was ordained a bishop for the Diocese of St. Petersburg by former classmate and personal friend, Pope John Paul II, in Rome, May 27, 1979. Bishop Larkin retired November 28, 1988. Bishop Lynch writes, “For close to 10 years, Bishop Larkin led the diocese through an unprecedented expansion of parishes and facilities. He was always witty in his homilies, usually beginning with a story of his own ministry here in Florida. Deeply devoted to his brother priests, from whose ranks he had risen, he was a co-author of the first book on priestly ministry in the PAGE 4 post-Vatican II period, “As One Who Serves”, published by the National Conference of Catholic Bishops.” His body was received into the Cathedral of St Jude’s in a beautiful ceremony on Nov. 8 at 2 PM. 18 members of the DCCW Board were present, as well as many priests, diocesan personnel and lay people. After the service, Bishop Lynch stood by the open casket to greet all those who had come to pay their respects until the Night Prayer Service at 7PM. Mass on the 9th was broadcast on Spirit FM. The eulogies and homilies were delivered by those who had known Bishop Larkin for many years and revealed how Bishop Larkin loved God’s people and was a pioneer in the Catholic Church in FL. In his childhood, Bishop Larkin and his family visited the St. Joseph's Oratory in Canada, and Blessed Andre Bessette predicted the little child would one day be a Bishop. Bishop Larkin will be buried with his parents in NY State. He is survived by his sister, Clarice. The Buzzard,The Bat and The Bumblebee – Internet find If you put a buzzard in a pen that is 6 feet by 8 feet and is entirely open at the top, the bird, in spite of its ability to fly, will be an absolute prisoner. The reason is that a buzzard always begins a flight from the ground with a run of 10 to 12 feet. Without space to run, as is its habit, it will not even attempt to fly, but will remain a prisoner for life in a small jail with no top. The ordinary bat that flies around at night, a remarkably nimble creature in the air, cannot take off from a level place. If it is placed on the floor or flat ground, all it can do is shuffle about helplessly and, no doubt, painfully, until it reaches some slight elevation from which it can throw itself into the air. Then, at once, it takes off like a flash. A bumblebee, if dropped into an open tumbler, will be there until it dies, unless it is taken out. It never sees the means of escape at the top, but persists in trying to find some way out through the sides near the bottom. It will seek a way where none exists, until it completely destroys itself. In many ways, we are like the buzzard, the bat, and the bumblebee. We struggle about with all our problems and frustrations, never realizing that all we have to do is look up. Sorrow looks back, worry looks around, but faith looks up. Member News New Member Gay Hagaman is married to Frank. She is a 5th Grade teacher at St Raphael School. Gay has two children and two grandchildren- Michael and Layla. She has two standard poodles, Dolly Belle and Eli Duke. She loves her family, her work and her S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N PAGE 5 Church. She tries to give as much time and talent as she possibly can to all she loves. but Gina is glad to be back to our temperate climate!! New Member Sharon Kimball is the Vice President of Patient Care Services/Chief Nursing Officer at All Children's Hospital. She has been a nurse for almost thirty years-primarily in pediatrics. Sharon grew up in Quincy (just outside of Boston) MA. She has three brothers and two sisters. She is married to Brad. They have no children, unless we count the two furry canines they have! Sharon enjoys traveling, reading, gardening, cooking and being with friends and family. She loves being in the sunshine so she returned to Florida after a three year hiatus in Cleveland and she doesn’t plan on leaving again. Member Marcy Rankin is trying out life at Westminster Palms. She joins other CCW members living there- Lily Riconda, Dorothy Panko, Vivian Frank, Marian Lagan, Irene Lewis, and Anastasia Rossi. Miriam Ludes sends us this news; “Our 48 year old daughter Elizabeth Ludes, mother of four, ran the Marine Corps Marathon, her first, on Oct. 29th and came in 31st in her division out of 779 female’s age 45 to 49. We saw her at four sites during the race and she seemed so relaxed and happy, running with the neighbor she trained with. We thank God that she had no injuries other than a mild Achilles tendonitis.” Member Kelly Rooth and hubby Ryan went to Europe over the Thanksgiving Holidays. She sent us an email from Rome, “We visited the Vatican today! We are having a wonderful time. We are out of town Nov 17-29 and are visiting London, Paris, and Rome. It is our first trip to Europe and our last big hurrah before baby Rooth arrives in May. We look forward to seeing you all when we get back.” Congratulations to member Kim Phillip’s son, Chase, who received his Eagle Scout Award at a ceremony on Wed. November 15th Member Becky McBride is involved with the Boy Scouts as one of their Troop Committee Members. Nov 17-19, she joined them “on a campout in Fort Myers where we visited Thomas Edison's Estate and learned about many inventions Edison created. There were 6 Scouts and several adults including my two sons and my husband, Michael. We did Dutch-oven cooking, making beef stew and pear cobbler for dessert which was so good and warm that night because the temp was down to around 42 degrees when we went to sleep in our tents.” Mary Vallee runs a support group for Depression and Mood Disorders. The website is http:// freewebs.com/mary33764/ where there is more info about meetings. Depression and other mood disorders are very serious problems and help is available. Member Gina Longino and her family spent Thanksgiving in CT with her sister and brother-in-law & brother after attending the wedding of her husband's brother on Nov. 18th. The whole family was in the wedding party of 32! It was a Portuguese wedding with a reception that lasted for 8 hours! A lot of fun December Birthdays 1 6 9 10 10 11 12 13 13 Debi Reidy Connie Balsama Jo Burkhart Joanne La Buda Celia Vena Mary Margaret Winning Vivian Frank Thelma Neely Nancy Wingate 16 17 18 21 21 21 25 27 27 Susan Keller Rosanne Hall Jean Fineberg Louise Halsmer Terri Meyer Kathy Newton Mary Wilson Mary Ann Baecher Anastasia Rossi 30 30 31 31 Nancy Maggio Teresa Hartley Lynne Hensley Hilary Watson S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N PAGE 6 United States Consecrated On November 11, Archbishop Pietro Sambi, Holy See Nuncio to the US, renewed our country’s consecration to our patroness, the Immaculate Conception with this prayer: “Most Holy Trinity: Our Father in heaven, who chose Mary as the fairest of your daughters; Holy Spirit, who chose Mary as your spouse; God the son, who chose Mary as your mother; in union with Mary, we adore your majesty and acknowledge Your supreme, eternal dominion and authority. “Most Holy Trinity, we put the United States of America into the hands of Mary Immaculate in order that she may present the country to you. Through her we wish to thank you for the great resources of this land and for the freedom, which has been its heritage. Through the intercession of Mary, have mercy on the Catholic Church in America. Grant us peace. Have mercy on our President and on all the officers of our government. Grant us a fruitful economy born of justice and charity. Have mercy on capital and industry and labor. Protect the family life of the nation. Guard the precious gift of many religious vocations. Through the intercession of our mother, have mercy on the sick, the poor, the tempted, sinners – on all who are in need. “Mary, immaculate virgin, our mother, patroness of our land, we praise you and honor you and give our country and ourselves to your sorrowful and Immaculate Heart. O’ Sorrowful and Immaculate Heart of Mary pierced by the sword of sorrow prophesized by Simeon save us from degeneration, disaster and war. Protect us from all harm. O’ Sorrowful and Immaculate Heart of Mary, you who bore the sufferings of your son in the depths of your heart be our advocate. Pray for us, that acting always according to your will and the will of your divine son, we may live and die pleasing to God. Amen.” WHITE LIE CAKE Internet find by Claudia Soucy Alice was to bake a cake for the CCW, but she remembered it the morning of the bake sale and after rummaging through cabinets, found an angel food cake mix. When Alice took the cake from the oven, the center had dropped flat and the cake was horribly disfigured. There was no time to bake another cake. Being inventive, she looked around the house for something to build up the center of the cake. Alice found it- a roll of toilet paper. She plunked it in and then covered it with icing. Not only did the finished product look beautiful, it looked perfect. Before she left the house to drop the cake by the church, Alice woke her daughter and gave her some money and specific instructions to be at the bake sale the moment it opened at 9:30 AM to buy the cake and bring it home. When the daughter arrived at the sale, she found the cake had already been sold. The next day, Alice promised herself she would try not to think about the cake and would attend the fancy luncheon/bridal shower at a prominent Church member’s home. The meal was elegant, and to Alice's horror, the cake in question was presented for dessert! Alice felt the blood drain from her body when she saw the cake! She started out of her chair to tell the hostess all about it, but before she could get to her feet, the mayor's wife said, "what a beautiful cake!" Alice still stunned, sat back in her chair when she heard the hostess say, "Thank you, I baked it myself." Alice smiled and thought to herself, "God is good." Wisdom The 98-year-old Mother Superior from Ireland was dying. The nuns gathered around her bed trylast journey comfortable. They gave her some warm milk to drink but she refused. Then one of the nuns took the glass back to the kitchen. Remembering a bottle of Irish whiskey received as a gift the previous Christmas, she opened and poured a generous amount into the warm milk. Back at Mother Superior's bed, she held the glass to her lips. Mother drank a little, then a little more and before they knew it, she had drunk the whole glass down to the last drop. "Mother," the nuns asked with humility, "please give us some wisdom before you die." She raised herself up in bed and with a pious look on her face said, "Don't sell that cow." ing to make her S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N When God Created… by Bernadette Bailey When God created the dog, He said: "Sit all day by the door of your house and bark at anyone who comes in or walks past. For this, I will give you a life span of twenty years." The dog said: "That's a long time to be barking. How about only ten years, and I'll give you back the other ten?" So God agreed. Next, God created the monkey and said: "Entertain people, do tricks, and make them laugh. For this, I'll give you a twentyyear life span. "The monkey said: "Monkey tricks for twenty years? That's a pretty long time to perform. How about I give you back ten like the Dog did?" And God agreed. God then created the cow and said: "You must go into the field with the farmer all day long and suffer under the sun, have calves and give milk to support the farmer's family. For this, I will give you a life span of sixty years. "The cow said: "That's kind of a tough life you want me to live for sixty years. How about twenty, and I'll give back the other forty?" And God agreed. Finally, God created man and said: "Eat, sleep, play, marry and enjoy your life. For this, I'll give you twenty years." But man said: "Only twenty years? Could you possibly give me my twenty, the forty the cow gave back, the ten the monkey gave back, and the ten the dog gave back; that makes eighty, okay? "Okay," said God, "You asked for it." So, that's why the first twenty years we eat, sleep, play and enjoy ourselves. For the next forty years, we slave in the sun to support our family. For the next ten years, we do monkey tricks to entertain the grandchildren. And for the last ten years, we sit on the front porch and bark at everyone. From the Internet- Author unknown .."Teach the children! Teach them the old meaning of Christmas. The meaning that now-a-days Christmas has forgotten." -Santa reached in his bag and pulled out a FIR TREE and placed it before the mantle. "Teach the children that the pure green color of the stately fir tree remains green all year round, depicting the everlasting hope of mankind, all the needles point heavenward, making it a symbol of man's thoughts turning toward heaven.” -Out of his bag he pulled a brilliant STAR. "Teach the children that the star was the heavenly sign of promises long ago. God promised a Savior for the world, and the star was the sign of fulfillment of His promise." - Out of his bag he pulled a CANDLE. "Teach the children that the candle symbolizes that Christ is the light of PAGE 7 the world, and when we see this great light, we are reminded of He who displaces the darkness." -Out of his bag he removed a WREATH and placed it on the tree. "Teach the children that the wreath symbolizes the real nature of love. Real love never ceases. Love is one continuous round of affection." -He then pulled from his bag an ornament of HIMSELF. "Teach the children that I, Santa Claus symbolize the generosity and good will we feel during the month of December." ----He brought out a HOLLY LEAF. "Teach the children that the holly plant represents immortality. It represents the crown of thorns worn by our Savior. The red holly represents the blood shed by Him. -"Next he pulled from his bag a GIFT and said, "Teach the children that God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son. Thanks be to God for his unspeakable gift. Teach the children that the wise men bowed before the Holy Babe and presented him with gold, frankincense and myrrh. We should always give gifts in the same spirit of the wise men." -Santa pulled out a CANDY CANE and hung it on the tree. "Teach the children that the candy cane represents the shepherds' crook. The crook on the staff helps to bring back strayed sheep to the flock. The candy cane is the symbol that we are our brother's keeper." -He reached in again and pulled out an ANGEL. "Teach the children that it was the angels that heralded in the glorious news of the Savior’s birth. The angels sang 'Glory to God in the highest on earth peace and good will toward men." - I heard a soft twinkling sound, and from his bag he pulled out a BELL. "Teach the children that as the lost sheep are found by the sound of the bell, it should ring mankind to the fold. The bell symbolizes guidance and return." -Santa looked back and was pleased. He looked back at me and I saw that the twinkle was back in his eyes. He said, "Remember, teach the children the true meaning of Christmas and do not put me in the centre, for I am but a humble servant of the One that is, and I bow down to worship Him, Jesus Christ our Lord, our God." Good Housekeeping Tip Always keep several get well cards on the mantle..... so if unexpected guests arrive, they will think you've been sick and unable to clean S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N PAGE 8 Our Lady of Good Counsel, Pray for Us St. Raphael's Council of Catholic Women January 2007 Fashion Show St. Raphael Catholic Church CCW Officers President: Louise Barrett 821-2561 1st Vice President: Marlene D’Abramo 2nd Vice President: Becky McBride Recording Secretary: Maggie Moren Corresponding Secretary: Roseanna Costa Treasurer: Adela Vidal January Papal Intentions General: That in our time, unfortunately marked by many episodes of violence, the Church’s bishops and priests may continue to indicate the way of peace and understanding among peoples. Missionary: That the Church in Africa may become a constantly more authentic witness of the Good News of Christ and be committed, in every Nation, to the promotion of reconciliation and peace. Newsletter http://st-raphaels.com/ccw.html Mark your calendars for Saturday, February 17 at noon. We will have a delicious luncheon and strawberry shortcake followed by a Fashion Show put on by Target using CCW members as models. Marlene D’Abramo has agreed to chair this event. Please give any Door Prizes to Dolores Smith 526 -9985. Send your $15 check payable to St. Raphael CCW to Marlene D’Abramo, 3800 Huntington St NE, St. Petersburg, FL 33703 or drop an envelope marked CCW Fashion in the collection basket. Mother’s Breakfast New this year, Mary Holland is planning a breakfast for women with music and an inspirational speaker. Please join us Saturday, March 10. Details to follow next month. Lenten Mini Retreat Fr Bob Evancho from St. Therese Byzantine Church will lead our Lenten retreat on Sat March 3. It is a beautiful time to prepare for Easter and is open to men and women. We will begin with Rosary at 7:30 AM, Mass at 8 AM, continental breakfast, morning talks to prepare us to make a good Lent, and lunch at noon. Send your $10 check payable to St. Raphael CCW to Louise Barrett, 820 24 Ave N St. Petersburg, FL 33704 or drop an envelope marked CCW Retreat in the collection basket. Women (formerly called Guild). Please send your $15 yearly membership in an envelope marked CCW to the church office. We need YOU!!! We are 244 paid members of whom 13 are life members, 5 honorary and 9 nursing home members. We range in age from our 20’s to our 90’s. We are retirees, homemakers, doctors, lawyers, two are expectant mothers, some newlyweds, and some recently widowed. Some are home bound and ill; some never leave the car pool line. All together we are Catholic Women working together to grow in faith, help our Parish and serve God’s Church in the world. Fr. Groeschel Fr. Groeschel will present the “Spiritual Teaching of Pope Benedict XVI” on Saturday, February 10th from 9AM to 3PM at Our Lady of Divine Providence House of Prayer 711 South Bayview Ave, Clearwater. Call 724-9505 to register. Cost is $25. Breakfast Angels: Thank you, Cheryl Murphy, Winnie Young, Rosa Rodriguez and Mary Carlomagno for our continental breakfast. Thank you, Fran Parsons, our speaker from the Museum of Fine Arts on the topic “Angels in Art.” Become a Member of CCW If you would like to become a member of St. Raphael's Council of Catholic St. Raphael's CCW Online CCW Online See our very own CCW web pages and newsletters (new & archived editions) by going to http://www.st-raphaels.com/ccw.html. Thanks again to Theresa McCormick, our webmaster. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N PAGE 2 CCW Calendar 2006-07 Monday January 22 Wednesday January 24 Saturday February 3 Sunday February 11 Saturday February 18 Saturday March 3 Saturday March 10 Saturday April 14 Saturday April ??? Saturday May 5 Sun-Wed. May 6-9 Thursday May 24 General Meeting Schedule: Program Respect Life Night - ”Spiritual March for Life” Pontifax - Our Lady Queen of Peace Church New Port Richey General Meeting—Theology of the Body World Day of the Sick 11:30 AM Mass Fashion Show at Noon Lenten Retreat Mother’s Tribute Brunch General Meeting—Jessica Freeman, Youth Minister Rummage Sale General Meeting/ Installation Breakfast DCCW Convention - Quorum Hotel Tampa Potluck @ Parish Center 7:35 AM Rosary, 8 AM Mass, 8:30 Continental Breakfast, Meeting & From the Pastor’s Desk Monsignor Caverly wishes each and every one of you a Happy New Year. The crowds at the Christmas Masses were really outstanding, especially at the 4 and 6 PM Christmas Eve Masses attended by many young families. In fact all the Masses were well attended except the 11:30 AM Mass which was in the middle of a rain storm. The Masses on New Year’s Day were also well attended. This is very edifying for a Pastor to see so many of his parishioners attending Mass! Our St Raphael School is open after the holidays and doing well. We hope for increased attendance in the coming year. Plans for the old Church are moving ahead as a team of several parishioners are working with the architect who is planning a chapel, classrooms and a Youth Room. We will be having a stewardship drive beginning in late January or February. From Father Anthony After the Christmas Masses were complete at St. Raphael’s, I drove over to Pinellas Jail and celebrated Christmas Mass for the men who were incarcerated. It was a joyful penance I offered to the Lord. The time spent with them was like time spent with the Lord. As Roman Catholic Christians we are against the death penalty unless it is the only effective way of defending human lives against the unjust aggressor. (CCC 2267). But due to the sufficient and non-lethal means which are available to defend and protect people’s safety, most often the death penalty is unnecessary. The Church stands by this doctrine reminding us that while the state renders the unjust aggressor incapable of doing further harm while they are incarcerated, the state has not taken away from them the possibility of redemption. Many times men do take the time to discover for themselves Jesus Christ. Not all criminals are in jail and not all criminals are unholy. Personally, I find this an important asset to my faith. Jesus Christ came to give life, not to destroy life. But so often as a Church, we find it easy to dictate as to how society should be run while we do nothing to bring it about. Do we walk the talk or simply talk – blah blah blah! There are only three priests in this county who are willing to give up an hour or so a month to celebrate Mass for the men in prison. If the Church is so concerned about keeping criminals alive so that they can be redeemed, then where is the Church in this redemption process? How can we expect these men to be redeemed without the Church? These men need to be catechized and forgiven. They will determine how much of a reward we receive in case we have forgotten, “When I was in prison, you visited me.” Matthew 25.36. There is no greater gift that can be given then love. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N St. Raphael Catholic School News PAGE 3 • Dr. Dennis Ryczek and parent volunteers conducted a • St. Raphael Catholic School students, teachers, parents, vision screening for our students on December 5th. Twenty percent of our students were identified as Miss Wostbrock, and Fr. Anthony Coppola marched in needing further vision screenings. This was obviously a the St. Petersburg Lion’s Club Santa Parade on Decemvery valuable service provide to our school. ber 2nd with a walking nativity, school angels, and four cars with riders representing academics, sports, arts, and • On December 11th there was a school wide reconciliation service for our 3rd-8th grade students and faculty faith. It was quite an inspirational experience watching members. Fr. Anthony blessing and praying for everyone throughout the streets of St. Petersburg! • The Christmas Concert on December 12th was a huge • Miss Wostbrock and 31 students who achieved the Prin- success! Mr. and Mrs.auf dem Kampe did a wonderful job orchestrating this performance. It was standing room cipal’s List or Honor Roll during the first trimester went only. The singing and instrumental performances of our bowling at Sunrise Lanes. Hopefully, even more students students was truly an inspiration for all. will be inspired to achieve these goals next trimester. International Gala Mike and Gina Longino are hosting an “Evening through Europe” featuring the sights, sounds, and flavors of Ireland with Irish Folk Music by Jack McGuire, Spain with Flamenco Music by Victor Moreno, Italy with Mandolin Music by Dan Bates and France/ Monte Carlo with Gaming Tables. There will be an International Dessert Room and a Silent Auction table. This Gala will be Saturday, February 24 from 7:30 PM to Midnight at 2003 Carolina Circle NE. Tickets are $125 per person and 100% of ticket sales will go to reducing the building debt for the Church and converting the old Church into classrooms, a chapel and a youth group room. Catering is by Delectables Fine Catering. Wines will be available for purchase with a portion of sales returned to the Church! Migrant Report by Rosa Rodriguez On behalf of the migrants from Ruskin, thank-you to all who donated clothes, toys, and books for Christmas. Since we had over 30 big bags, it took the social worker two trips to transport all the items. Thanks, too, for all the Thanksgiving donations you gave at our November meeting and to me privately. I went Thanksgiving shopping for the migrants with their social worker. We spent $300+ on groceries including 7 turkeys. The migrants had a dinner and each family received a bag of groceries to take home. The turkeys were given away by a free raffle and everyone went home happy! We asked our students what they love about St. Raphael Catholic School: “We like SRS because we learn a lot, we have great teachers, we go to Mass, we have fish fries, we have a fun playground, St. Raphael is the patron saint of medicine and it makes me feel safe, we have 30 minute lunch time. It is fun, I like the classroom jobs, we receive a blessing from the priests, we learn about saints. It is special because everyone is nice and kind. I like recess and the balls we get to use! Because my teacher is always so happy, she even makes math fun. You get to see and play with your friends, especially kickball. I like my Principal. The beautiful carpet, the sturdy fences and playground are great. The faculty represents the love we have for God. I know what will happen next, where I feel safe and secure. It’s where 51% of my friends reside, where I grow with and through faith and love, and where I learn to come closer to Jesus. St. Raphael means to me FUN, period! It’s so great to learn math, reading and so on in the most exciting way possible. We are a family and children of God. We are a holy and peaceful school, and our staff is the best! There is something for everyone! Student council, Jr. and Sr. Band , Choir, Sports. The Choir sings so well! We all love to be in the choir. It does not matter if you have an average voice; it matters that we are praising Him and singing for joy. God loves to hear our voices. Remember another way of praying is singing! I love St. Raphael so much because of all the stuff we do here. Like the sports and even church. I love singing in church. Our church is the BEST. Ok, back to the sports, our coach is the BEST of all. He might be in a wheelchair, but he works us hard. Everyone is really nice and no one makes fun of others. The teachers really take time to make sure you understand what they are teaching. I have only been going here for three days. I love going to SRS because I’ve been going here since 1st grade and I get to see my best friends everyday. The teachers here are so great and they are always so poised. I really love the music program here. Also the after school sports are fun and it motivates kids to get good grades. The best thing about SRS is getting to know our God better. It is true we are #1. I love how each teacher knows my name and knows a little something about me, and I love having friends whom I can count on. I also love having a good school that I feel protected in.” S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N In Your Prayers. . . Sick by Lu Perrin Please pray for our sick: Dennis Zawodski, Jeannette Abramo, Ellie Jennings, Mac Bailey, Adele Buchta, Joe Kolb, Margaret Racila, Margot Morcillo, Esther LaVangie, Ginny Hansen, Deborah and Bill Scanlan, John Birins, Eleanor Alderson, Gerry and Ann Walsh Nursing Homes: Shore A cres: Dottie Soots, Susan Neitz, Lynn Shepard, Fran Davis, Thomas Kunkler, Norman Vanest. Maria Manor: DJ Thompson, Juliette Schiavi, Mary Palmer, Rita Hall, Ernest Anderson. Other: Charlotte Edwards, Jenny Milo, Marion Lagan, Nancye Barrett, Helen Bishop, and Bette Hyslip. Deceased by Bernadette Bailey Please pray for the who have died this past monthMark Clendenin, Jennie Milo, Frank Mainenti, Mildred Caldwell, Betty Schmidt, and Bernadette Lussier. May the souls of all the faithful departed rest in peace. World Day of the Sick We will have a special Mass for all those who are sick and the health care workers who care for them on Sun. Feb 11th at the 11:30 AM Mass. Health Care workers and caretakers of the sick will be blessed at all the Masses. Anointing of the Sick will be available only after the 11:30 Mass. A lunch reception will follow for the sick and their families. To pre register for the Sacrament of the Sick and the luncheon call Louise Barrett at 821-2561. Community Concerns by Rosa Rodriguez On Compassion - some people say that compassion is a quality, others say that it is something you are born with, but I think that compassion is something all of us have just there, in us. Sometimes we are so busy, that we do not see who needs our compassion. Jesus, when He walked with the Apostles preaching, had compassion for everyone including the people with leprosy. We are so blessed that we have enough and more, so it is fulfilling to share and give those who appreciate our handouts. Internet Humor A little boy, about 10-years-old, was standing before a shoe store on the roadway, barefooted, peering PAGE 4 through the window, and shivering with cold. A lady approached the young boy and said, "My, but you're in such deep thought staring in that window!" "I was asking God to give me a pair of shoes," was the boy's reply. The lady took him by the hand, went into the store, and asked the clerk to get half a dozen pairs of socks for the boy. She then asked if he could give her a basin of water and a towel. He quickly brought them to her. She took the little fellow to the back part of the store and, removing her gloves, knelt down, washed his little feet, and dried them with the towel. By this time, the clerk had returned with the socks. Placing a pair upon the boy's feet, she purchased him a pair of shoes. She tied up the remaining pairs of socks and gave them to him. She patted him on the head and said, "No doubt, you will be more comfortable now." As she turned to go, the astonished kid caught her by the hand, and looking up into her face, with tears in his eyes, asked her . .. "Are you God's wife?" A Special Promise It was the day AFTER Christmas at a church in San Francisco. The pastor of the church was looking at the manger scene, when he noticed that the baby Jesus figure was missing from the cradle. He immediately turned and went outside and saw a little boy with a red wagon walking down the street. And in the wagon, was the figure of the infant Jesus. So he walked up to the boy and said, "Son, where did you get that little baby Jesus that's in your wagon?" The little boy replied, "I got him from the church." And why did you take him?" asked the pastor. The little boy replied, "Well, about a week before Christmas, I prayed and I told Jesus if he would bring me a red wagon for Christmas, I would give him a ride in it!” Youth Group News by Kim Phillips Thank you from the Youth Group for all the support on the sales of the cookie dough, ornaments and the dinner. The teens raised quite a bit for their accounts as well as for the Youth Group program. If interested, we still have a few ornaments left that can be delivered. Papal Message for World Day of the Sick Here is an excerpt from Benedict XVI's message for the World Day of the Sick, to be observed on Feb. 11, the principal venue being Seoul, South Korea. Dear Brothers and Sisters, ...Once again the Church S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N turns her eyes to those who suffer and calls attention to the incurably ill, many of whom are dying from terminal diseases. They are found on every continent, particularly in places where poverty and hardship cause immense misery and grief. Conscious of these sufferings, I will be spiritually present at the World Day of the Sick, united with those meeting to discuss the plight of the incurably ill in our world and encouraging the efforts of Christian communities in their witness to the Lord's tenderness and mercy....The Church wishes to support the incurably and terminally ill by calling for just social policies which can help to eliminate the causes of many diseases and by urging improved care for the dying and those for whom no medical remedy is available...Here I would like to encourage the efforts of those who work daily to ensure that the incurably and terminally ill, together with their families, receive adequate and loving care... Many such individuals -- health care professionals, pastoral agents and volunteers -- and institutions throughout the world are tirelessly serving the sick, in hospitals and in palliative care units, on city streets, in housing projects and parishes. ...I now turn to you, my dear brothers and sisters suffering from incurable and terminal diseases. I encourage you to contemplate the sufferings of Christ crucified, and, in union with him, to turn to the Father with complete trust that all life, and your lives in particular, are in his hands. Trust that your sufferings, united to those of Christ, will prove fruitful for the needs of the Church and the world. I ask the Lord to strengthen your faith in his love, especially during these trials that you are experiencing. It is my hope that, wherever you are, you will always find the spiritual encouragement and strength needed to nourish your faith and bring you closer to the Father of Life. Through her priests and pastoral workers, the Church wishes to assist you and stand at your side, helping you in your hour of need, and thus making present Christ's own loving mercy towards those who suffer. ...From the Vatican, 8 December 2006. PAGE 5 Church, refreshments start at 9:30 and the service is at 10:00. We will stop for lunch on the way home. Pray that one day soon we may be one again. Respect Life by Maggie Moren and Winnie Young Please join together as a praying community on Mon. Jan. 22, at 7:30 p.m. for a special Spiritual Walk. We will all be joining “spiritually” with those who are up in Washington D.C. walking for the end of Roe vs. Wade. Although we are unable to be in Washington DC physically, we can be there as a strong prayerful community in spirit. Fr. Anthony will hold this special prayer service. 34 candles, each representing one of the 34 years since Roe vs. Wade has been legalized, will be placed in front of the altar. There will be readings from the Gospel, a brief homily, silent prayer in front of each candle, and a red rose laid in front of each candle. We ask you, your families, and friends to please come and participate in this prayerful event. Our prayers joined together are powerful and together we can help stop this abomination. God bless you all. Focus 11 Each February for the past 6 years, the Diocese of St. Petersburg has sponsored the FOCUS 11 Vocation Project. This high energy initiative focuses on High School Juniors (11th grade) the first day and then 6th graders (11 year olds) the next two days. It has proven itself to be a great success. When we began this program, we initially targeted only those students in Catholic schools. The last several years we have expanded these days to include students outside of Catholic schools. We expect over 1100 sixth graders to participate in this year’s 6th grade days and over 500 junior to be present on the 11th grade day. We need help baking cookies for those 1600+ kids. Call Louise Barrett at 821-2561 for details. Pontifax Day of Prayer Pontifax is a Latin word which means “bridge builders”. The Diocesan Council of Catholic Woman, the Episcopal Church Women of the Diocese of Southwest FL and the Lutheran Women’s Synod of the ELCA sponsor a day of shared prayer on Wed. Jan 24th. We will car pool to Our Lady Queen of Peace Church at 2002 Allamanda Drive in New Port Richey. Call Louise Barrett 821-2561 to arrange a ride. We will leave about 8:30 AM from St Raphael’s January Birthdays 3 3 3 5 5 6 Ann Dinapoli Glenda Haight Lila Methot Carol Kettlestrings Nan Terrill Lynette McSorley 7 8 9 9 15 17 Jeanne Larrison Terry Hamm Yolanda Gallagher Sonya Talley Gay Hagaman Rosemary Early 25 Mary Frances Wright 27 Marie Sakkis 28 Judy Birins S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N PAGE 6 Natural Family Planning There will be a free lecture to address issues relevant to women in all phases of their reproductive lives. Dr. Hilgers, renowned OB/GYN Physician and Expert in Reproductive Medicine, will discuss his innovative diagnosis and treatment approach to common gynecological and reproductive health problems, such as dysfunctional uterine bleeding, premenstrual syndrome, polycystic ovarian syndrome, recurrent ovarian cysts, endometriosis, infertility, recurrent miscarriage and premature birth. His treatment approach, “NaProTechnology” was developed from 30 years of research with couples using the Creighton Model System. “NaProTechnology” is completely natural and helps couples monitor fertility according to the beautiful teachings of our Catholic Church. The date is Saturday, February 3rd, 2-4 PM at St. Lawrence Catholic Church, Higgins Hall – St. Thomas Room, 5225 N. Himes Avenue, Tampa. Member News • • • • • New CCW Member Yolanda Gallagher is a native of Colombia, South America. She taught Spanish there to high school students. Yolanda is married to Richard Gallagher from Cleveland, OH. They have one daughter, Vivian Wilsey, who is a Speech Pathologist in Canterbury School where her two children attend. The oldest, 7, is in our Parish Sunday Religion classes. Yolanda taught Spanish as a volunteer for the Diocese Office in 1978, when they moved to St. Pete from CA. Later, she worked for the J.W.B. License Board in the Department of nutrition for young children. They belonged to Holy Family Parish for 28 years. They moved two years ago into the Northeast area in order to be near their daughter. Since then, they belong to St. Raphael's Parish which they enjoy very much. Hello and Happy New Year to all! My name is Mary A. Baecher. I've been a member of St. Raphael's since 1973. My late husband, Joseph Baecher, died in 1992. We were married for 27 years. We have 4 lovely daughters: Resa, Heidi, Tami & Jenna; and 7 grandchildren. So, like so many of you - I am truly blessed!! I am a therapist for teenage boys, who are incarcerated in DJJ programs - I currently work in Bradenton. Please pray for all young people - indeed all people who are incarcerated: That they will find ways to rebuild their lives, and that they will be offered opportunities to begin again. Mary Vallee runs a support group for Depression and Mood Disorders. The website is http://freewebs.com/ mary33764/ where there is more info about meetings. Depression and other mood disorders are very serious problems and help is available. Mary’s family lease is running out and they are looking for a three bedroom house to rent. Roseanna Costa went to NY over the holidays and had a lovely time with her husband visiting their family. New member, Michelle Cehula Fellows, and her husband, David Lee, recently traveled to their hometown of Warren, OH. While there, they attended Mass at St. Mary Catholic Church where they were married 35 years ago on Feb. 12. • • • • • On Dec. 13, Gina Longino hosted a Christmas Brunch for the Wednesday Morning Bible Study and Women of Grace study groups. Over 60 women attended along with Monsignor Caverly and Father Anthony. All enjoyed a potluck meal and fellowship despite a rainy morning! The Kansas City Baileys spent a week at Christmas with Grandmom Bernie (Bernadette Bailey) and Grandpa Mac. Our activities included cookie baking, Scrabble, hors d'oeuvre parties on the lanai, Midnight Mass with Lisa, Dana Dorian, and 9:30 Mass with Bryan and Liam. Dinner for 12 on Christmas included our families and Lily Riconda who is part of our family celebrations. Christmas was holy, happy, and hectic. Now the house is quiet and we've settled down for a long winter's nap! Former parishioner Frances Graham (mother-in-law of member Stephanie Graham) turned 90 on Jan. 6th. She has survived a bullet lodged next to her heart, being run over by a car, colon cancer, several heart attacks, 2 hip surgeries and is still smiling, going to church and playing bridge every week! Friends who would like to drop her a card can send it to Frances Graham, Richmond Place, 3051 Rio Dosa Drive, Apt. # 328B, Lexington, KY 40509. Rosa Rodriguez writes that her daughter Carmen and family went to GA and NC mountains for snowboarding and skiing, then coming back and spending 2 days anchored in Shell Island near Tierra Verde. Ann Kovach visited her daughter Michele who lives in Singapore but was in AZ . Michele looks well and is really excited about her new job and its challenges. She will represent her Thunderbird Universtiy (MBA degree-global) in SE Asia: Singapore, Thailand, Viet Nam etc. She will be responsible for organizing alums and fund raising. Our Lady of Good Counsel, Pray for Us St. Raphael's Council of Catholic Women February 2007 Fashion Show St. Raphael Catholic Church CCW Officers President: Louise Barrett 821-2561 1st Vice President: Marlene D’Abramo 2nd Vice President: Becky McBride Recording Secretary: Maggie Moren Corresponding Secretary: Roseanna Costa Treasurer: Adela Vidal January Papal Intentions General: That the goods of the earth, given by God for all men, may be used wisely and according to criteria of justice and solidarity. Missionary: That the fight against diseases and great epidemics in the Third World may find, in the spirit of solidarity, ever more generous collaboration on the part of the governments of all nations. CCW Newsletter http://st-raphaels.com/ccw.html “Cupid, Couture and Cuisine” is the theme for our Valentine’s Day extravaganza. Mark your calendars for Sat. Feb 17 and get your reservations in ASAP as seating is limited. The doors open at 11 AM, luncheon is at noon and Fashion Show begins at 1PM. We are having a salad bar, chicken divan, roll and strawberry shortcake. Our models are Kay Yennie, her daughter Mary Jo Cillian, and granddaughter Kate Cillian modeling 3 generations. Ethelynn Henderson is from the Fun Club, Marty Foreman from the Praise Band, and Donna and daughter Courtney Condon from Women of Grace/6th Grade SRS (St. Raphael’s School). We also have Gay Hagaman, the SRS 5th Grade teacher, and her 3 year old grandson. Bernadette Bailey, past CCW President and DCCW Board member and Gina and her daughter Sarah Longino from Bible Study and Middle School have also agreed to model. And best of all- our wonderful Fr. Anthony comes back onstage for the second year. Marlene D’Abramo has agreed to chair this event. Mary Kay Heraty is in charge of decorating. Maggie Moren is the model co-ordinator. Dolores Smith has collected 20 nice prizes for our “Opportunities”. Send your $15 check payable to St Raphael CCW to Marlene D’Abramo 3800 Huntington St NE St Pete FL 33703 or drop an envelope marked CCW Fashion in the collection basket. 10th from 9:30- Noon. She feels the women of the Parish work so hard and would enjoy a special morning out together to be pampered. Annetta Wallace will be the guest speaker on mothers and the Blessed Mother. Bernadette Bowles will be sing. Cost is 20$. More details will be in the bulletin. Field trip to Ruskin Migrants Community Concerns Chairman Rosa Rodriguez has organized a field trip to visit a group who helps migrants in Manatee County- RCMA. We will meet in the St. Raphael parking lot at 9 AM on Friday Feb 23 to car pool. We will visit a pre-school for Migrant’s children and eat lunch at the Agency. Come learn more about the conditions and problems of our local migrant workers. Call Rosa to register or for more details at 528-7428. Fish Fries During Lent The school sponsored fish fry dinners will be every Friday starting on February 23rd through April 6th. Details will be in the bulletin. Breakfast Angels Thank you to Ruth Mattick, Dolores Smith, and Ethelyn Henderson for our continental breakfast. Thank you, Sharon Iler, our speaker on the topic “Theology of the Body”. Mother’s Tribute Brunch Mary Holland is organizing a Mother’s Tribute Brunch on March These are real answers given by children Q: Name the four seasons. A: Salt, pepper, mustard and vinegar. Q: Name a major disease associated with cigarettes. A: Premature death. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N PAGE 2 CCW Calendar 2006-07 Sunday February 11 Saturday February 18 Wednesday February 21 Friday February 23 Saturday March 3 Saturday March 10 Saturday April 14 Saturday May 5 Sun-Wed. May 6-9 Saturday May 12 Thursday May 24 General Meeting Schedule: World Day of the Sick 11:30 AM Mass Fashion Show at Noon Ash Wednesday Field trip to Ruskin Migrants Lenten Retreat Mother’s Tribute Brunch General Meeting - Elections General Meeting/ Installation Breakfast DCCW Convention - Quorum Hotel Tampa Rummage Sale Potluck @ Parish Center 7:35 AM Rosary, 8 AM Mass, 8:30 Continental Breakfast, Meeting & Program CCW Elections The nominating committee (Lu Perrin, Dottie Santacaterina, and Claudia Soucy) presented the following slate for the term of office beginning in May 2007 to May 2009. For President- Marlene D’Abramo, for 1st Vice President-Mary Simoneau, for 2nd Vice President- Gina Longino, for treasurer-Barbara Dippelhofer, for Recording Secretary- Kathy Guckenberger, for Corresponding Secretary-Roseanna Costa. Nominations from the floor are permitted, but the nominee must have prior approval from the Pastor according to our by-laws. Elections will be at our April General Meeting. Thank you to the ladies who have agreed to serve our CCW as officers. Become a Member of CCW If you would like to become a member of St. Raphael's Council of Catholic Women (formerly called Guild). Please send your $15 yearly membership in an envelope marked CCW to the church office. We need YOU!!! We are 244 paid members of whom 13 are life members, 5 honorary and 9 nursing home members. We range in age from our 20’s to our 90’s. We are retirees, homemakers, doctors, lawyers, two are expectant mothers, some newlyweds, and some recently widowed. Some are home bound and ill; some never leave the car pool line. All together we are Catholic Women working together to grow in faith, help our Parish and serve God’s Church in the world. New Members We welcome Mary Simoneau, Ava Abner and sister in law Ursula Abner, Fran Clendenin, Arelis Diaz, Judy Birins and Jeannette D’Abramo who have become members of our CCW in the past month. They are wonderful women and are already pitching in to help with hospitality and the fashion show. If you would like to become a member of St. Raphael's Council of Catholic Women (formerly called Guild). Please send your $15 yearly membership in an envelope marked CCW to the church office. You may drop the envelope in the Sunday collection. This is a fabulous group of women, young and old, supporting each other and our Parish. Member News Frances Lema will be in Ecuador for one month visiting family. These are real answers given by children Q: Explain one of the processes by which water can be made safe to drink. A: Flirtation makes water safe to drink because it removes large pollutants like grit, sand, dead sheep and canoeists. Q: How is dew formed? A: The sun shines down on the leaves and makes them perspire. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N An Evening through Europe There are still a few tickets left for “An Evening through Europe”. The night promises to be full of fun with an Irish Folk Singer, Jack McGuire; Flamenco Guitarist and Mandolin player. Also Casino games will be available. Foods from Italy, Ireland, France and Spain including drinks and desserts with be catered by Delectables and there are many silent auction prizes waiting for the highest bidder, including a week in Colorado, a weekend with a new Jaguar, artwork, golf etc. Don't be too late! Only 100 people can be accommodated and we are more than half full! Tickets are $125 per person. Contact Gina Longino at 526-2191. Lenten Mini Retreat Fr Bob Evancho from St Therese Byzantine Church will lead our Lenten retreat on Sat March 3. It is a beautiful time to prepare for Easter and is open to men and women. We will begin with Rosary at 7:30 AM, Mass at 8 AM, continental breakfast, morning talks to prepare us to make a good Lent, and lunch at noon. Send your $10 check payable to St Raphael CCW to Louise Barrett 820 24 Av N St Pete FL 33704 or drop an envelope marked CCW Retreat in the collection basket. Respect Life by Maggie Moren and Winnie Young PAGE 3 age gracefully. Try to accept that you are getting older. The goal is to adapt to the changes that time brings and to arrive at old age with minimal deficits and discomforts. Aging brings wisdom and depth of character. Rosary Makers by Janet O'Grady I have been asked by father Leo Flynn (missionary in Nigeria) to send pictures of the children making rosaries so he can acknowledge them in his World missionaries magazine. Father Flynn is in charge of the Rosary crusade in Nigeria and he has ten centers which are homes where young children gather each morning at 7 am and are taught how to say the Rosary along with other basic prayers and catechism. As they grow older they join Baptism and First Communion classes. Father Flynn also has a morning Mass for all unborn and aborted children. Thank you Janet and your CCD Class for making rosaries for the Missions. Ruth Mattick reports that this year, 2,560 Rosaries have been by members at our Church . What a wonderful way to reach out to others and share such a powerful sacramental. Seventy-five people joined together on Jan. 22 to commemorate the Roe vs. Wade decision legalizing abortion 34 years ago. Although we were unable to be in Wash, DC physically, we were at the March for Life in spirit. Fr. Anthony led this special prayer service. Participants lit 34 candles before the Blessed Sacrament and put a red rose in a vase for each year since Roe vs. Wade. We remembered all the 48,589,993 children who have died by abortion since 1973 and their loved ones. Our prayers joined together to beg God to have mercy on us and help us Choose Life as a gift from God. Thank you’s Focus 11 These are real answers given by children Q: What does the word "benign" mean?' A: Benign is what you will be after you be eight.. Each February for the past 6 years, the Diocese of St. Petersburg has sponsored the FOCUS 11 Vocation Project. This high energy initiative focuses on High School Juniors (11th grade) the first day and then 6th graders (11 year olds) the next two days. It has proven itself to be a great success. We expect over 1100 sixth graders to participate in this year’s 6th grade days and over 500 junior to be present on the 11th grade day. We need help baking cookies for those 1600+ kids. Call Louise Barrett-821-2561 for details. Community Concerns by Rosa Rodriguez Aging is a continuous and necessary process. It is important to learn how to live in appropriate ways in order to maximize health and happiness. Try to Pregnancy Plus thanks us for our $100 donation. The Jr Legionary children in Uganda sent us a letter to thank us for the money we sent last June. They used the money to help pay for school. ASAP- the Homeless Services thanks us for the $100 we donated. St Vincent de Paul thanks us for the $100 we sent. The NCCW thanks us for the $100 we sent. Morning Star thanks us for the $50 donation. Museum of Fine Arts thanks us for the $50 donation. We can do all of this because of YOU!!! Q: What is the fibula? A: A small lie. Q: What does "varicose" mean? A: Nearby. Q: How can you delay milk turning sour? A: Keep it in the cow. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N In Your Prayers. . . Sick by Lu Perrin Thomas Tatasciore, Ginny Hansen, Ester LaVangie, Bill and Deborah Scanlon, Mac Bailey, Rose Grado, Casey Burzynski, Joe Kolb, Bill Covert, Rod Moren, Dennis Zawodski, Ellie Jennings, Margaret Racila, John Birins, Eleanor Alderson, Gerry and Ann Walsh, Bud and Ardith Rutland, Margo Marcillo, and Dennis Zawadski. Nursing Homes: Shore A cres: Dottie Soots, Susan Neitz, Lynn Shepard, Fran Davis, Thomas Kunkler, Norman Vanest. Maria Manor: DJ Thompson, Juliette Schiavi, Mary Palmer, Rita Hall, Ernest Anderson. Other: Marion Lagan, Nancye Barrett, Helen Bishop, and Bette Hyslip. Deceased by Bernadette Bailey Please pray for the who have died this past month- Robert Rodriguez, Charlotte Edwards, Mildred Caldwell, Fran Beller, and Mary May. May the souls of all the faithful departed rest in peace. Our sincerest sympathy to member Cherie Maineti at the death of her father Frank Mainenti after a long illness. PAGE 4 CCW Member Charlotte Edwards died Jan. 4. Charlotte was a resident at the Masonic Home with her husband Jim. Her funeral services were at Nativity Church in Brandon. We will miss our sweet CCW sisters who have gone on. Our prayers are with their souls and their families in their grief. CCW Member’s Father Dies Our sincerest sympathy to member Cherie Maineti at the death of her father Frank Mainenti after a long illness. Frank died Dec. 22. He was born in East Paterson, N J and moved to St. Pete in 1975. He was a Navy veteran who served during the Korean War. He was owner & operator of a service station for over 30 years. He was a member of St. Raphael’s, the D.A.V. and the American Legion. He was a “one man band” entertainer who sang and played the trumpet, guitar and keyboard at many local spots Our sympathy to his wife of 50 years: Priscilla “Pat”, and his children: Frank, Priscilla Pavluk, and Cherie, his three grandchildren, five stepgrandchildren and a step-great grandchild. World Day of the Sick We will have a special Mass for all those who are sick and the health care workers who care for them on Sun. Feb 11th at the 11:30 AM Mass. Health Care workers and caretakers of the sick will be blessed at all the Masses. Anointing of the Sick will be available only after the 11:30 Mass. A CCW Members Die lunch reception will follow for the sick and their families. CCW member Jennie Milo died December 20. Jennie To pre register for the Sacrament of the Sick and the lunchwas born in Brooklyn and she moved to St. Pete in 1987 eon call Louise Barrett at 821-2561. from Lake Wales. She is survived by 2 daughters locally, From the Pastor’s Desk Annette Brito and Rosalie Ferrer, a CCW member as well. The school is celebrating Catholic Schools Week. There Her son Michael Milo lives in Dallas. Jennie has 5 grand- will be an open house for all those with children. We hope children and 5 great-grandchildren. our enrollment will continue to increase. Our new principal is doing a very nice job and the children and families are happy. Pre-K has done very well and there are many advance inquiries about enrollment for next year. We are organizing a Capital Campaign to convert the Old Church into a chapel, classrooms and a room for the youth. We feel this will really help the Parish in many ways. The Youth have needed a place to call their own. Pontifax went off well with Lutheran Bishop Benoway as the speaker. Six ladies and I attended from St Raphael's. It is a very good thing for the women of different Churches to pray for Christian unity. We have about 76 children preparing for First Communion and about 60 teens who will make their Confirmation on April 12th. On Sunday Jan 28th, we had five baptisms- this is a wonderful sign of our growth as a Parish. Thank you for all you do for our Parish. Marian Room/ St. Joseph Room Monsignor Caverly announced at our November CCW Meeting that Meeting Room A will be called the Marian Room and Meeting Room B will be called the St. Joseph Room. Iconographer Bernadine Quartetti has painted a large icon of St Joseph which will be hung on the wall in the St. Joseph room. Bernadine also painted a picture of Our Lady of Guadalupe for the Marian Room. Stop in the rooms to see the new artwork. Blinds are now up in the Marian Room and Linda Champion is making decorative curtains. Fr. Anthony, Gina Longino, Mary Simoneau, and Richard and Linda Champion painted the room blue. Cabinets will cost $1700 and Alan Horner will again donate the countertop. Christ Renews His Parish Christ Renews His Parish (CRHP) women's weekend is scheduled for March 17-18th. THIS IS A FABULOUS PROGRAM AND YOU WILL BE VERY BLESSED IF YOU ATTEND. Women arrive at Church Saturday morning of the CRHP Weekend and spend the night Saturday, leaving S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N Sunday afternoon before dinner. It is a wonderful way to feel a part of the Parish, meet women who will become your friends, and get closer to Jesus. It is a time to be pampered, pray, listen and have fun. Food is delicious and the weekend without charge. Call Terri Meyer (327-7977) if you are interested in attending, or know someone who would like an invitation sent to them. I made my Christ Renews His Parish weekend back in 1985 and it was an awesome experience where I met women who are still my friends today. CRHP is one of the reasons we have such a vibrant Parish. If your husband would like to attend a Men’s CRHP Weekend April 28-29th, call Brian Talley (520-7390). Youth Group News by Kim Phillips March for Life was once again an amazing opportunity to truly live our faith by standing up for our beliefs. Those who were able to attend returned with the knowledge that we are united in our convictions by people across the country. The trip was headed by our awesome Youth Minister - Jessie Freeman and a core team members Matt Cillian, Stan Bielicki, Joannie Calandra, and Nick Craig. The thirteen youth in attendance, John Wood, Chris McBride, John Riesselman, Lucas Matos, Chase Phillips, Tom Condon, Neal Mosley, Lauren Reidy, Kelley McFarlane, Courtney Kubala, Jackie Smith, and Jeanine Steinhauser. (several are children/grandchildren of our CCW members) were all high school students with one college freshman. This year's trip included the March, mass with thousands of other youth at the Basilica, opportunities to learn a bit m ore about our nation's capital, and a chance to see snow and Youth Group Members. PAGE 5 ing planned include a Spaghetti Dinner, a Pancake Breakfast, and a car wash. School News Catholic School week was a huge success. Student alumni from St. Raphael School spoke at the weekend Masses about how their experiences have guided their future. There were guided student tours on Sunday and the school made a giant “St Raphael’s Times” newspaper displayed at the church entrance. Monday was Community Appreciation Day. Students had a Vocabulary Parade (where words are transformed into costumes), a St. Pete Police Canine Unit presentation and a St. Pete Fire and Rescue presentation. Tuesday was Priest Appreciation Day. There was an All-School Rosary presented by our Student Council in the new Church following 8:00am Mass and Spiritual Bouquets were presented to each Priest from every class. On Wednesday, the school celebrated Parent Appreciation Day. There was a treat for all parents who come through the morning car line. The students made a “newspaper hat” to wear today to “spread the good news”. Thursday was Student Appreciation Day. Students wore this year’s new St. Raphael Catholic School t-shirt, designed by our own Chloe Sills and Sara Bermudez from Third Grade! There was a pancake breakfast for all students, cooked by the teachers! Discovery Cove visited with animals from its Outreach Program. Friday was Teacher Appreciation Day. We are thankful for the gift of Catholic education. Spread the “Good News”! UpcomingYouth Group Activities Weekly meetings are well attended however there is always a room for new faces! Encourage your children and grandchildren to give the meetings a try. They will find opportunities for fun, in a safe environment with other youth, that centers around our Lord. Three summer trips have been planned and the participants will begin holding various fundraisers in order to help with the costs. Activities currently be- February Birthdays 2 2 4 4 5 6 6 8 8 Mary Montecki Kay Yennie Gail Brazzell Marlene D’Abramo Ruth McDonald Frances Lema Winnie Young Joyce Kubala Deborah Scanlan 10 15 15 16 16 17 19 20 21 Florence Santi Sara Galiger Jovita Tuazon Jean Feldhaus Julie Grammatica Elsa Tugman Cheyl Anderson Marja Beaufait Dorothy Panko 24 24 24 25 26 26 28 Debbie Craig Virginia Kish Fran Clendenin Marie Margle Denise DeBord Rose Grado Mary Wyatt Allen S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N Fr. Mike Smith Installed as Pastor in Citrus County by Jane Winstead Fr. Mike Smith was installed as pastor January 27 at St. Scholastica Catholic Church in Lecanto by Bishop Lynch. This was truly a beautiful occasion to witness. There was excitement in the air by everyone who attended. There were several priests, deacons, Knights of Columbus honor guard and parishioners packed the large church. Fr. Mike’s mother and niece also attended. The beautiful music and songs from the choir filled the church. The ceremony touched all of our hearts. Wendell and Jane Winstead and Dan and Carol Ann Bates were honored to be there to see Fr Mike and to let him know that all his friends from St. Raphael’s are praying for him. After the ceremony all were welcomed to attend the reception in the Pope John Paul II School cafeteria. The reception hall was filled with good food, music and decorations. The young children made a special area for their special cards and homemade signs to congratulate Fr. Mike. One large sign read, “We’re So Glad You’re Here!” Fr. Mike greeted Wendell and Jane and Dan and Carol Ann. Jane presented Fr. Mike with a 92-page scrapbook photo album capturing the memories of his years at St. Raphael’s, 2000-2004. He was delighted to have received such a special gift. St. Scholastica Catholic Church parishioners will be blessed to have Fr. Mike Smith as their Pastor. If anyone would like to send Fr. Mike a card to congratulate him, the address is: 4301 W. Homosassa Trail, Lecanto, FL 34461.Or you may call him at: 352-746-9422 PAGE 6 More...real answers given by children. Q. What kind of man was Boaz before he married? A. Ruthless. Q. What do they call pastors in Germany? A. German Shepherds. Q. Who was the greatest financier in the Bible? A. Noah. He was floating his stock while everyone else was in liquidation. Q. Who was the greatest female financier in the Bible? A. Pharaoh's daughter. She went down to the bank of the Nile and drew out a little prophet. Q. What kind of motor vehicles are in the Bible? A. Jehovah drove Adam and Eve out of the Garden in a Fury. David's Triumph was heard throughout the land. Also, probably a Honda, because the apostles were all in one Accord. Q. Who was the greatest comedian in the Bible? A. Samson. He brought the house down. Q. What excuse did Adam give to his children as to why he no longer lived in Eden? A. Your mother ate us out of house and home. Q. Which servant of God was the most flagrant lawbreaker in the Bible? A. Moses. He broke all 10 commandments at one. Q. Which area of Palestine was especially wealthy? A. The area around Jordan. The banks were always overflowing Q. Who is the greatest baby sitter mentioned in the Bible? A. David. He rocked Goliath to a very deep sleep. Q. Which Bible character had no parents? A. Joshua, son of Nun. Q. Why didn't they play cards on the Ark? A. Because Noah was standing on the deck. Pope Benedict XVI, On Confession “I wish, therefore, to commend your promotion of the Sacrament of Penance. While this Sacrament is often considered with indifference, what it effects is precisely the fullness of healing for which we long. A newfound appreciation of this Sacrament will confirm that time spent in the confessional draws good from evil, restores life from death and reveals anew the merciful Face of the Father.” Address to the Bishops of Western Canada, October 9, 2006. CCW Online St. Raphael's CCW Online See our very own CCW web pages and newsletters (new & archived editions) by going to: http://www.st-raphaels.com/ccw.html --Thanks again to Theresa McCormick, our webmaster. Our Lady of Good Counsel, Pray for Us St. Raphael's Council of Catholic Women April 2007 http://st-raphaels.com/ccw.html From Bishop Lynch St. Raphael Catholic Church CCW Officers President: Louise Barrett 821-2561 1st Vice President: Marlene D’Abramo 2nd Vice President: Becky McBride Recording Secretary: Maggie Moren Corresponding Secretary: Roseanna Costa Treasurer: Adela Vidal April Papal Intentions General: That, allowing himself to be enlightened and guided by the Holy Spirit, every Christian may answer enthusiastically and faithfully to the universal call to sanctity. Mission: That the number of priestly and religious vocations may grow in North America and the countries of the Pacific Ocean, in order to given an adequate answer to the pastoral and missionary needs of those populations Here is an except from Bishop Lynch’s homily at the Chrism Mass. “Dear sisters and brothers, …I wish to invite you to a re lection on a very familiar Gospel, the journey to Emmaus…the signi icance of this passage… for our diocese as we prepare later this year to formally and of icially begin a signi icant effort to teach, understand and embrace once again the Eucharist as the “source and summit” of our lives. Place yourself for a moment, if you will, in the position of the two disciples. Assume for a moment that our journey begins at the doors of this Cathedral…envision accompanying me on a walk. What might we talk about? What might we share with each other? …. There would be a lot we could possibly talk about on our walk. But would any of us, walking seven miles today, likely speak of that special moment when Jesus, body and blood, soul and divinity took his dwelling place within us? Would any of us, priests, deacons or people CCW Newsletter of God rhapsodize about that moment when in our very midst bread and wine, by the action of the priest and the prayer of the Church, were transformed into Christ Himself? Would we say and talk about how we recognized him in the breaking of the bread? And would we discuss on our journey just how our lives have changed as a consequence of his brief stay within us. In the Eucharist Pope Benedict XVI reminds us that Jesus, “draws us into himself….and the substantial conversion of bread and wine into his body and blood introduces within creation the principle of a radical change, a sort of ‘nuclear ission’…which penetrates to the heart of all beings….” (Sacramentum Caritatis, page 17) Nuclear ission – an almost atomic power to become Christ, to speak like Christ, to bring Christ to the world. Aware of this, how could our conversation… focus on anything other than what we might do in the present and future to hear, worship and share the Lord, with one another and with the world.” 39th DCCW Convention Monday May 7 to Wednesday May 9 at the Quorum Hotel in Tampa, Catholic women from all over the Diocese will gather together. Our own Ann Kovach, DCCW President is looking forward to a wonderful Convention. If you cannot come for the whole thing, don’t miss the Bishop’s Dinner on Tuesday May 8. Cost is $39 and it is a fabulous event. Several members will form a car pool for that evening. Call Dolores Smith 526-9985 for more details. Schedule: Monday May 7: 9am Mass, 10:30am Meeting, 11:15 am Keynote Speaker Pat Livingston, 12:15 lunch, 1:15pm Church Commission workshop, 2:15pm Community/Family Workshop, 3:15pm International Workshop, 4:15pm Living Rosary, 7pm Fairy Tale theme dinner with entertainment. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N PAGE 2 CCW Calendar 2006-07 Sunday April 15 Saturday May 5 Sun-Wed. May 6-9 Saturday May 12 Thursday May 24 General Meeting Schedule: 3-4PM, Divine Mercy Holy Hour General Meeting/ Installation Breakfast DCCW Convention - Quorum Hotel Tampa Rummage Sale Potluck @ Parish Center Sept.-May; 7:35AM Rosary, 8AM Mass, 8:30 Continental Breakfast, Meeting 2007 Handmaiden of theYear Maggie Moren was awarded the 2007 Handmaiden of the Year at the LPD Installation Meeting. She is married to Rod and they have 4 grown children, and several grandchildren. She and her family moved to St Pete in 1987. She has spent the past 20 years serving her family, community, and Church. Maggie is our Parish Respect Life Co-Chairman. She has been to Washington, DC for the March for Life. She has organized baby showers, Respect Life Nights, voter registration, and other special events at our Parish and will help with the Fall 2007 State Respect Life Conference. She is an Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion at Mass, for the Homebound and the Nursing Home. She is a Bible Study Leader, RCIA Team member, Reader, and is working to catechize residents in our local nursing home. Our honoree volunteered with Catholic Charities to help the Katrina Hurricane victims. She was so valuable, Catholic Charities hired her for the duration of the Katrina Project. Maggie is the Recording Secretary of our CCW and Church Commission Chairman. She helps set up, serve and take down at almost every event she attends. She has given of her time and talent whenever needed. Maggie worked as a Parish administrator for 4 years before becoming a personnel manager at a large department store. She did charity work through her employer including providing layettes for all the City Fire Departments for the “Ask No Questions” campaign to ensure the safety of newborn infants who were at risk of being abandoned. She has helped build several houses for Habitat for Humanity. Our Handmaiden is also an artist and recently donated a painting to the Pregnancy Plus Fundraising Auction. We are proud and honored to name Maggie Moren as the 2007 recipient of St Raphael’s Handmaiden of the Lord Award. Lower Pinellas Deanery Installation The Installation of the Lower Pinellas Deanery Of icers and Commission Chairman was a great event thanks to Ann Kovach, DCCW President who did the Installation. Deacon Joe Grote is our spiritual moderator and was there of iciating. Bernadette Bailey, Ava Abner, Ursula Abner, Lillian McClelland, Mary Ann Smelter, Maggie Moren,Dolores Smith , Ruth Mattick, Janie Winstead, Rose Grado Roseanna Costa and RosaRodriguezwerethere.HerearethenewlyinstalledLPDof icers:PresidentGloriaNelson,1st VP Louise Barrett, 2nd VP Tamara Harte, Recording Sec Katherine North, Treasurer Marian Nadon, Corr. Sec. Bernadette Bailey, Co- Church Commission Maggie Moren and Jeannine Storer, Co-Community Concerns Mary Wissman and Roseanna Costa, Co-Family Concerns Carole Lancaster and Terry Keane, International Commission Dolores Smith, Co-Organization Commission Barbara Joustra and Rosa Rodriguez., Legislative Sr Carol Stovall. Elections At the April General Meeting, the nominating committee, Lu Perrin, Dottie Santacaterina, and Claudia Soucy,presentedthefollowingslateforthetermofof icebeginninginMay2007toMay2009.ForPresident, Marlene D’Abramo; for 1st Vice-President, Mary Simoneau, for 2nd Vice-President, Gina Longino; for Treasurer, Barbara Dippelhofer; for Recording Secretary, Kathy Guckenberger; and for Corresponding Secretary-RoseannaCosta.ThankyoutotheladieswhohaveagreedtoserveourCCWasof icers. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N PAGE 3 Lenten Mini Retreat New Members 58 CCW members had a beautiful Lenten Retreat on March 4th. Rosary was followed by Mass with Fr Gonzalez as presider, Marja Beaufait as cantor and Eileen Brady as organist. Monsignor Caverly gave us his blessing and off we went to St Therese in car pools. It was cloudy and cold, and there were a lot of us, so for space purposes, we met in the School of the Immaculata for a continental breakfast. St Therese was so hospitable- they were warm, generous and truly loving, welcoming us with open arms. Fr Alexis, a Byzantine Rite priest who is a chaplain at Georgetown law school, was our guest speaker. His topic was refurbishing the image of God.His irsttalkhelpedusseehowweourselves are made in the image of God, and to re lect on what we show that is in God's image and how we see God's image in others. The second re lection was about how we perceive God, and consequently, howwere lectGodtoothers.FrBobEvancho,the pastor, spoke to us about the Byzantine rite and surprised us with his humor. On a very happy note, we ate lunch together and then, sadly, we parted to go home once again. It had been a wonderful half day retreat and we felt as if we had been on a journey to heavenly places. St. Therese is a beautiful Church, built to remind us of heaven. We were with each other and the lovely ladies of St Therese's and we thought and re lected on our loving God who desires us completely to be His forever!!! Thanks to all who were able to participate and St Therese’s Church who was so hospitable. We welcome our new members- Ava Abner, Ursula Abner, Jeanette Abramo, Judy Birins, Andrea Bulger, Michelle Foerster, Fran Clendenin, Marie Leuchs, Pat Mackey, Toni Matthews, Linda Mims, and Mary Simoneau. We treasure your decision to join ranks with St Raphael’s Council of Catholic Women. We are Catholic Women praying, loving and serving together. Christ Renews His Parish Christ Renews His Parish (CRHP) men's weekend is scheduled for April 28-29th, call Brian Talley (520-7390) if your husband is interested. There aresomanygreatbene its- you will be very happy if he makes the weekend. Garage Sale Mark your calendars. We are having a BIG Garage Sale on Saturday May 12th. We need your old treasures to make other people happy and to help us make money. Call Dolores Smith 526-9985 for more details. Hold unto your items until May 11 if possible. Thanks! Youth Group by Kim Phillips The annual Bunny Breakfast was a fun event, complete with pony rides, bounce house, and the ever important egg hunt. Due to the varied spring break schedules of different schools, the event did not quite cover its own expenses, falling short by approximately $100. Our wonderful Youth DirectorJessieFreemanhopesto indawaytocover the shortage since all Youth Group events must cover their own costs. High schoolers from both St. Raphael's and St. Jude's had the opportunity to spend a Palm Sunday weekend together, praising God and deepening their faith. The two groups traveled to Good Counsel Camp for a wonderful retreat and returned home physically tired but spiritually renewed. Junior high students will soon attend their own mini retreat where they too can spend time having fun in a faith centered environment. These weekend trips, as well as the summer camps, that our Youth Group makes available to these young people are a huge blessing in a time when our youth are faced with so many negative choices. Kids and fun is pretty much expected but many of the youth have also been hard at work, rehearsing for the upcoming Passion Play. Students have set aside other actives in order to give their all to this important parish event. Fundraising has been put on hold during this holy season but youth hope to come up with additional methods of raising funds in order to pay for those expensive summer camp fees. If anyone would like to make a donation to the Youth Group, contact Jessie Freeman. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N In Your Prayers. . . Sick by Lu Perrin Ginny Hansen, Ester LaVangie, Bill and Deborah Scanlon, Mac Bailey, Joe Kolb, Bill Covert, Rod Moren, Joan Harrison, Ellie Jennings, Margaret Racila, John Birins, Eleanor Alderson, Marion Lagan, Gerry and Ann Walsh, Bud and Ardith Rutland, Margo Marcillo, Dennis Zawadski, Peggy Hawkins, Terry Hamm, Carmen Marlowe, Suzanne Flatley, Carl Irwin, Norman Letourneau, RoseTatasciore,LindaCruth ield,WilliamChristian, Richard Haight and Maria Ware. Nursing Homes: Shore Acres: Dottie Soots, Susan Neitz, Lynn Shepard, Fran Davis, Thomas Kunkler, Norman Vanest. Maria Manor: DJ Thompson, Juliette Schiavi, Mary Palmer, Ernest Anderson. Other: Marion Lagan, Nancye Barrett, and Bette Hyslip. Deceased by Bernadette Bailey Please pray for those who have died this past month- Helen Bishop, Dorothy Gemald, Norman LaPointe, Rita Hall, and infant Jake Sheridan, May the souls of all the faithful departed rest in peace. CCW Member Deaths Rita Hall died March 6⁰ at home. She resided for several years at Bon Secours. Rita was born in Washington, IN and she moved to St. Pete in 1966. She was a 1944 graduate of Indiana University, and married James Hall in 1956. She worked for Kodak as a market researcher and retired from retail sales at Maas Brothers department store. She was a member of St. Raphael’s Catholic Church and had been a CCW member since 1967. She enjoyed playing bridge, Church activities, and reading. She served coffee and donuts for many years after the 11:30 Mass, she was a great recruiter for the Guild, she worked on the Card Parties, and was “always there at Church doing everything”. Survivors include her son, David Hall, a niece, Linda Bozell, and a nephew, Mark Cosgrove. The funeral for Rita was very well attended and we had over 20 in our hon- PAGE 4 or guard. You can send a card to David and Elisa Hall 1391 Eden Isle Blvd NE St Pete FL 33704. Helen Bishop, ² ³ , died March 59 in an assisted living facility in Middletown CT where she moved last summer to be near her children. Helen’s husband Ken died one year ago this April. Helen was born in Beckley CT. Prior to her retirement, she was employed with the State of CT as a purchasing agent. Before that she worked for Pratt & Whitney – Canal division, and Middlesex Memorial Hospital. Helen gave joy to many with her voice. She sang at local shows, weddings, the Greater Hartford Chorale, Middletown Chorale, the choir of St. Francis, and with her church choir in every community she lived in over the years. She was a EMHC, and delivered food and companionship for Meals on Wheels. She was active in prayer groups at her parishes in Florida and California. She donated generously to her church and to many charities throughout her life. For the last few years of her marriage, Helen was a loyal and loving care-giver to her husband. She is survived by her seven children, James (Boulder, CO), Elaine Stowik (Wallingford CT), Christopher (Thousand Oaks, CA), Meg Haight (St. Pete), Gerard (East Haddam CT), Teresa Bishop-Brahen (St Johns, FL), and Dennis(Middletown CT), 12 grandchildren, and six great-grandchildren. You can send a card to Meg and Vaughn Haight 45 Oakland Dr Oakdale CT 06370. Dues News with Clues Dues are due THIS Month, APRIL. There is an envelope already made just for us in the April Church Envelopes. So far, we have received the following dues: Fanny Abad, Sheila Barry, Carol Ann Bates, Mary Carlomagno, Debbie Craig, Beatriz Crespo, Marlene D'Abramo, Mary Driscoll, Jackie Finger, Yolanda Gallagher, Ethelyn Henderson, Kay Hunt, Lillian McClelland, Judith Kroll, Barbara Miller, Chong O'Dwyer, Mary Poulin, Bernadine Quartetti, Tina Quintana, Deborah Scanlan, MaryBeth Sebesta, Mary Ann Smelter, Evelyn Smith, Angela Soucy, Mabel Sullivan, Rita Sullivan, Adela Vidal, and Corlys Winters, Thank you DUES PAYING angels!!! Wouldn't it be wonderful if all 244 of us paid by the end of April???? If anyone is having a inancial problem and cannot afford the $15please let Louise Barrett know. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N PAGE 5 From the Pastor’s Desk Art News Wewillhave57candidatesreceivingCon irmation on April 15th. 67 children will receive First Holy Communion May 6th. These large classes relect our growing Parish community. School enrollment is now up to 230. The Principal and staff are doing an excellent job and we are very proud of our School. The Chrism Mass on Holy Tuesday at the cathedral was beautiful. Bishop Lynch emphasized the importance of the Eucharist and will begin a three year program encouraging all Catholics in the Diocese to become more aware of the gift of the Eucharist and what the Sacrament means in transforming our lives. The Pope Recently issued “Sacramentum Caritatis”, a document on how vital the Eucharist is in the life of the Catholic Church. The Eucharist- the Real Presence of Jesus- is the great treasure of our Church. We hope more nonCatholics will appreciate the gift of the Eucharist and be received into full Communion. Our congratulations go to Maggie Moren who was awarded the 2007 Handmaiden of the Year by the Lower Pinellas Deanery for her service in our Parish. Maggie does so much for the spirituality of our Parish and she is most deserving of the award. The Lower Pinellas Deanery will be blessed to have Louise Barrett as First Vice President, Bernadette Bailey as Corresponding Secretary, Maggie Moren as Co-Church Commission, Roseanna Costa as Co Community Concerns, Dolores Smith as International Commission and Rosa Rodriguez as Co -Organization Commission. Pat Buckley Moss has graciously painted a stunning picture of St. Mary’s Church on 4th Street South. An offer has been made through Finn Galleries, 1001 4th St N, for St Mary’s Church to receive $10.00 for each painting sold to bene it the Building Renovation Fund. April Birthdays 4 6 6 7 7 10 13 13 16 16 17 20 Phyllis Tuttle Traci Craig Theresa McCormick Marie Bello Mimi Casadonte Louise Barrett Bernadette Bailey Barbara Smith Roseanna Costa Marjorie Johnson Evelyn Smith Mary Carlomagno CCW Member Easter Traditions ♥ From Member Rosa Rodriguez - In my country, Costa Rica, my mom prepared food for Holy Week the previous week because no one worked in or out of the house during Holy Week. We 10 children had no movies or music in the house. Mom told us about the passion and we prayed the Rosary. The whole week we were in mourning and went to Church for all the services. On Holy Friday, a big cruci ix was placed ontheAltar loor surroundedby lowersandcandles.There was a procession outside Church on the streets with Jesus dressed in a purple cloak carrying the cross. ♥ From Member Michelle Cehula Fellows: We have a tradition at our house for Easter. On Palm Sunday when we commemorate Jesus' Triumphant Entry into Jerusalem, we take home our Blessed Palms. At home; we go around our house, where eachroom,hasaCruci ix. We take off the old palms, and put up the new. As we process around our home; it reminds us all of Jesus' procession intoJerusalem.Thecruci ixesremindusofJesus death on the Cross. We await Holy Week, the Easter Triduum, and the Resurrection of Our Lord on Easter Morn!!! Happy Birthday Pope Benedict XVI 22 22 23 23 24 24 28 28 29 Donna Condon Estella Estevez Mary Brophy Miriam Ludes Jodi Ellis Susan Langston Pam Gehrich Ann Walsh Kim Penman Pope Benedict XVI will celebrate his 80th birthday with a Mass in St Peter’s Square. The Holy Father’s birthday is April 16th. The Mass will be celebrated on Divine Mercy Sunday, a liturgical solemnity introduced by Pope John Paul II. Please also pray for Benedict XVI on April 19, the second anniversary of his election as Supreme Pontiff. On April 2, Benedict XVI presided over a Mass for the eternal repose of John Paul II. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N CCW Member Easter Traditions: From Julie Musselman - Remember your godchildren or god-parents with a card at Easter. It is a nice way to let your god-children know you are praying for them, to give them spiritual insight or even a religious gift. It is also a great time to remember your god-parents and send them a card to thank them for their prayers for you and any religious training they have provided you over the years. Lent is a great time to remember our own baptism and our children's baptisms. If you still have the baptismal candles, get them out and have them at the dinner table and teach your children about the sacrament and how important it is to be a child of God. This is not just for young children- our teens, twenties and beyond can all be catechized. Member News ♥ Ruth Mattick had a miracle happen to her last month. Forty-three years ago, she was in a car accident and suffered a whiplash injury. Since then, she had constant headaches-sometimes, going into a migraine. This past Christmas, her daughter gave her a gift certi icate to a chiropractor. Reluctantly, she went, thinking this was just a waste of money. Upon her irst visit, the bone in her neck that was causing all of her pain was put back in place. No more pain! It’s amazing. Thank God. ♥ Congratulations to Roseanna Costa who will be President of the Boys & Girls Club Guild. ♥ Ginny Hansen is in Bon Secours recuperating from a leg fracture. Terry Hamm is recuperating from surgery and Peggy Hawkins won’t break her leg next time she goes skiing! ♥ New member, Mary Simoneau has 3 children and two grandchildren. She has lived in FL nine years. Mary loves to travel, read, and listen to music. She just inished the CRHP process and looks forward to becoming even more active in St Raphael's Parish. She has agreed to serve the CCW as First Vice President. CCW Online PAGE 6 ♥ Letter from Kay Hunt: I miss St R’s in many ways, but have found many Church friends here in GA, too. We belong to the Over 55 Group, Knights of Columbus, and Guardians of the Adoration Chapel. Paul just celebrated his 90th Birthday. They have 14 grandchildren and 6 great grandchildren. Become a CCW Member! If you would like to become a member of St. Raphael's Council of Catholic Women (formerly called Guild). Please send your $15 yearly membership in anenvelopemarkedCCWtothechurchof ice.You may drop the envelope in the Sunday collection. This is a fabulous group of women, young and old, supporting each other and our Parish. Forward in Faith Forward in Faith is a stewardship program that allows us to actively commit to a life of gratitude and responsibility, and to thank God for his endless gifts. We have begun work to raise $3.25 million over the next three years and to be better stewards. Our current debt is almost $3million, mostly the mortgage on our new church. The balance in our savings account to meet the monthly payments will be depleted later this year. Our offertory is insuf icient to pay both our annual operating expenses and our mortgage payment. We need money to eliminate or reduce this debt, make capital improvements, support current and new parish ministries. We need 100 volunteers to make calls to every household in our parish, about 15 calls each, three times. You will not be asking for money. The calls are to remind parishioners to pick up information packages or encourage participation at an event. If you can help or want more information, please call Linda Champion at (727) 5208662 or EnlistmentSRC@aol.com. Training sessions for callers are being held at 11 AM and 6 PM onMonday,April16.Pickwhichsession itsyour schedule and you will be fully trained in what to do and say. We are called to move Forward in Faith to makeasacri icialgiftofourtime,talentandtreasure. St. Raphael's CCW Online See our very own CCW web pages and newsletters (new & archived editions) by going to: http://www.st-raphaels.com/ccw.html--Thanks again to Theresa McCormick, our webmaster. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N From the Internet God wants spiritual fruit, not religious nuts. ♥ Dear God, I have a problem, it's Me. Growing old is inevitable- growing UP is optional. There is no key to happiness. The door is always open. Silence is often misinterpreted but never misquoted. Do the math and count your blessings. Faith is the ability to not panic. Laugh every day, it's like inner jogging. If you worry, you didn't pray. If you pray, don't worry. As a child of God, prayer is kind of like calling home everyday. Blessed are the lexible for they shall not be bent out of shape. The most important things in your house are the people. When we get tangled up in our problems, be still. God wants us to be still so He can untangle the knot. A grudge is a heavy thing to carry. He who dies with the most toys is still dead. Have a great day!!! The SON is shining and He can certainly use you! ♥ A passenger in a taxi leaned over to ask the driver a question and tapped him on the shoulder. The driver screamed, lost control of the cab, nearly hit a bus, drove up over the curb, and stopped just inches from a large plate glass window. The driver said, "I'm sorry but you scared the daylights out of me. Today is my irst day driving a cab. I've been driving a hearse for the last 25 years." ♥ A little boy was in a relative's wedding. As he was coming down the aisle, he would take two steps, stop, and turn to the crowd. While facing the crowd, he would put his hands up like claws and roar. So it went, step, step, ROAR, step, step, ROAR, all the way down the aisle. As you can imagine, the crowd was near tears from laughing so hard by the time he reached the pulpit. When asked what he was doing, the child sniffed and said, "I was being the Ring Bear." ♥ One Sunday, a young child was "acting up" in Church. The parents did their best to maintain some sense of order in the pew but were losing the battle. Finally, the father picked the little fellow up and walked sternly up the aisle on his way out. Just before reaching the safety of the foyer, the little one called loudly to the congregation, "Pray for me! Pray for me!" ♥ One particular four-year old prayed, "And forgive us our trash baskets as we forgive those who put trash in our baskets." ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ PAGE 7 A little boy was overheard praying: "Lord, if you can't make me a better boy, don't worry about it. I'm having a real good time like I am." My grandson was visiting one day when he asked, "Grandma, do you know how you and God are alike?" I mentally polished my halo while I asked, "No, how are we alike?" "You're both old," he replied. A woman was trying hard to get the ketchup out of the jar. During her struggle the phone rang so she asked her 4-year-old daughter to answer the phone. "Mommy can't come to the phone to talk to you right now. She's hitting the bottle." A little boy got lost at the YMCA and found himself in the women's locker room. When he was spotted, the room burst into shrieks, with ladies grabbing towels and running for cover. The little boy watched in amazement and then asked, "What's the matter, haven't you ever seen a little boy before?" While taking a routine vandalism report at an elementary school, I was interrupted by a little girl about 6 years old. Looking up and down at my uniform, she asked, "Are you a policeman?" "Yes," I answered and continued writing the report. "My mother said if I ever needed help I should ask the police. Well, then," she said as she extended her foot toward me, "would you please tie my shoe?" It was the end of the day when I parked my police van in front of the station. As I gathered my equipment, my K-9 partner, Jake, was barking, and I saw a little boy staring in at me. "Is that a dog you got back there?" he asked. "It sure is," I replied. Puzzled, the boy looked at me and then towards the back of the van. Finally he said, "What'd he do?" While working for an organization that delivers lunches to elderly shut-ins, I used to take my 4year-old daughter on my afternoon rounds. She was unfailingly intrigued by the various appliances of old age, particularly the canes, walkers and wheelchairs. One day I found her staring at a pair of false teeth soaking in a glass. As I braced myself for the inevitable barrage of questions, she merely turned and whispered, "The tooth fairy will never believe this!" Our Lady of Good Counsel, Pray for Us St. Raphael's Council of Catholic Women May 2007 http://st-raphaels.com/ccw.html Elections St. Raphael Catholic Church CCW Officers President: Louise Barrett 821-2561 1st Vice President: Marlene D’Abramo 2nd Vice President: Becky McBride Recording Secretary: Maggie Moren Corresponding Secretary: Roseanna Costa Treasurer: Adela Vidal If you would like to become a member of St. Raphael's Council of Catholic Women (formerly called Guild). Please send your $15 yearly membership in an envelope marked CCW to the church of ice.Youmaydropthe envelope in the Sunday collection. This is a fabulous group of women, young and old, supporting each other and our Parish. It’s of icial! Our new of icers are: President: Marlene D’Abramo; 1st Vice President: Mary Simoneau; 2nd Vice President: Gina Longino, Treasurer: Barbara Dippelhofer; Recording Secretary: Kathy Guckenberger; and Corresponding Secretary: Roseanna Costa. Marlene will assume her duties as President after the May meetings. Potluck Dinner Our last St. Raphael's Council of Catholic Women get together before our summer break will be Thursday, May 24th at 5:30 PM in the Parish Center. Bring a dish to share and come have a great time. New members welcome. We will have a used Jewelry Sale at this event and are accepting donated jewelry for the sale. Call Louise Barrett 8212561 for more info. Rummage Sale Let us turn your stuff into our treasure! Drop your items off for the rummage sale on Friday, May CCW Newsletter 11th in the Parish Center. The sale will be Saturday May 12 from 8AM2 PM. If you need to drop off items earlier, contact Dolores Smith 5269985 or Louise Barrett 215-2563. From the Pastor’s Desk Our Parish and School is a very busy place. 72 children will receive First Communion on May 6th. The CCD ended April 28th with over 240 students in the program. St Raphael School enrollment for next school year is doing very well. VBS registration for the second week of June has begun. The Youth Group is planning three trips this summertwo to Covecrest in GA and one to Steubenville OH. The organization for Forward in Faith Campaign is really coming together. We are grateful to all who are helping and we hope we will be successful in reaching our goal of 3.2 million. We are relying on your prayers for a successful campaign. I will leaving for Ireland in mid July. I pray we will all have a safe and happy summer. Thank you for all you do for our parish. Goodbye fromYour President It has been a wonderful four years and a great honor to have been the President of our St Raphael Council of Catholic Women. You, our members, are amazing. You are prayerful, generous, and true “saints in the making”. Last count, there were over 25,000 volunteer hours served among our ranks. I am looking forward to helping our new President Marlene D’Abramo as she assumesherduties.Youwillbeingoodhandswithallthenewof icers.IfI have hurt anyone over the past 4 years by my words, deeds, or thoughtlessness, please forgive me. Keep me in your prayers as I work with the Lower Pinellas Deanery as 1st Vice President. All my Love, Louise Barrett S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N PAGE 2 CCW Calendar 2006-07 Sun-Wed. May 6-9 Saturday May 12 Thursday May 24 Saturday September 1 General Meeting Schedule: DCCW Convention - Quorum Hotel Tampa Rummage Sale Potluck @ Parish Center General Meeting Sept.-May; 7:35AM Rosary, 8AM Mass, 8:30 Continental Breakfast, Meeting Member News ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ Bishop Robert Lynch will celebrate is birthday May 27th. Denise Debord and hubby Warren traveled to Korea to visit their son, Brady, and his wife who been stationed there for the past 14 months. He and his wife, Terry, will be returning to the States later this summer. They will be stationed in Leavenworth, KS where Brady will attend Command and General Staff College. Before being stationed in Korea, Brady served 16 months in Iraq. They will be visiting us upon their return to the states so I'm sure some of you may see them at church with us. Warren and Denise will be celebrating their 20th anniversary on May 23rd. Mary Vallee’s mom, Rose, is doing well after a hospitalization. The DBSA Depression Bipolar support group will have a Pot Luck at Fort DeSoto May 5th. Mary is very proud of her son, Mark who has passed his test for certiiedmanager.HeisthemanageratBostonMarket. Mary & David Poulin spent a weekend on Cape Canaveral attending a 50th Wedding Anniversary party for David’s sister. They enjoyed touring the Kennedy Space Center. Angela Soucy is proud to announce the birth of great grandson number ten, Isaac Jacob, who was born April 23 in Houston and is doing very well. Maggie and Rod Moren will be celebrating their 50th Wedding Anniversary May 18. Chris Pelletier's 17 year old son, David, has been accepted into the U.S. Naval Academy Summer Seminar! This extremely competitive program selects only 1800 high school Juniors, (going into their Senior year), to participate, out of about 50,000 applicants nationwide. David will spend a week at the USNA in June, "living the life of a cadet."Thisisconsideredthe irststepofaverylong application process for the USNA. New Member Becky Brooks announces that on May 20 the Catholic Singles group will meet for Mass at 4:30 p.m. @St. Mary Our Lady of Grace, 515 Fourth Street South, St. Petersburg, FL 33701. Meet behind the church at 4:15 p.m. Dinner will follow Mass at a local restaurant. This is the group that meets at Blessed Trinity on the 2nd and 4th Thursday of the month. From member Terry Hamm- I would like to thank all those who prayed for me after my recent surgery. I am doing very well. Now we are planning three trips. In May we are going to Williamsburg, Va. with my brother and his wife for a week. We will see our recently married grand-daughter who lives in Norfolk. In June we are ♥ ♥ taking a family cruise {16} to the southern Caribbean to celebrateour iftiethweddinganniversary.July 20th,our Anniversary we will be at the Elbow Beach Surf Club in Bermuda where we spent our honeymoon. We have made arrangements to renew our vows at Mass at a Catholic church near by. God is Good!!!!Louise and Allen Barrett will celebrate 25 Years on May 8th. Don and Ruth Mattick celebrated 55 years in April. Ursula and Stanley Abner will celebrate their 45th Anniversary on May 29. Welcome to our New Members Ava Abner, Ursula Abner, Jeanette Abramo, Judy Birins, Kathy Blackett, Becky Brooks, Andrea Bulger, Fran Clendenin, Patricia Condon, Barbara Creamer, Arelis Diaz, Michelle Foerster, Lisa Knapp, Judith Geier, Marie Leuchs, Kim Loxton, Pat Mackey, Toni Matthews, Linda Mims, Vicki Nelson, Mary Beth Saylor, Mary Simoneau, Christine Summer, Terry Taylor and Sandy Waterbury. √ Ava Abner is originally from IN. Her late husband, Don, and she wintered in Hernando, FL from 1997 to 2001, Finally, selling their home up north, they moved to FL. After Ava’s husband died in March of 2006, she moved to St. Pete to be near family. Ava and Don had no children. Ava retired from American Trans Air and had also owned and operated a beauty shop from 1969 to 1976. She is happy to be here in St. Pete and very happy to be part of the St. Raphael family. √ Ursula Abner is married to Stanley. She came from Germany in ‘52, married in ‘62, moved to FL in ‘72. She is secretary/ treasurer of Abner Painting Inc. and works part time. Ursula has two sons, Joe and Mike, two great daughter-in-laws, and four wonderful granddaughters. Before his strokes and heart attacks, Ursula and Stanley danced country three to four times a week, rode motorcycles, read, bowled, and enjoyed vacations. √ Christine Summer and her husband moved to Tierra Verde from NYC ive years ago. They have two boys namedMax,who'ssevenandahalfanda irstgraderat St. Raphael's and Harry, who is 3 and a half. Christine worked as a writer/editor for Child magazine and now does freelance writing/editing. √ Mary Beth Saylor’s husband converted to Catholicism recently. Mary Beth is an avid tennis player. She has two children, one in college and the other in high school. She is from Brooklyn and was on the CHRP formation team for the March retreat. S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N Lighthouse Catholic Media PAGE 3 that the program has brought life to the whole school. The school is public by Julie Musselman and runs on the free education government proWe are proud to present a new educational opportunity: Lighthouse Catholic Media. A practical gram. However, as is the case in most of Uganda, and effective program to help Catholics know their there is no incentive for children who are crowded in class, little parental care, and no scholastic mafaith and to keep their faith! We all live busy, busy lives. Finding the time to terials. That is what we need for the Junior Legionlearn about our faith is dif icult. But now, we are aries. We asked the parents to buy the uniforms able to meet you where you are! Wherever you for every sponsored kid, the parents meet once in have a CD player available to you, in the car or at a month to receive the progress of their kids but home, you can deepen your understanding and also to be given counseling on how to support their kids and keep them interested in school. love for the Catholic faith. On the way into church you will soon see a Many more kids have registered with the stand offering nine different CDs and three differ- group and joined this particular school because ent brochures. These feature some of the most in- the teachers are motivated. The school now talks spiring Catholic speakers --bishops, priests, dea- of lack of room and I call it a good problem. It is cons and eminent Catholic lay men and women. better to be overwhelmed with kids interested in The CDs and brochure will be available after every learning than keep empty classrooms need. I want Mass. We ask for a donation of $3.00 per CD and to thank all the good people of St. Petersburg, and $.50 per brochure so that we may continue this the St. Raphael Women's Church group. As for the program. When these are gone they will be re- other gifts we used them at the Holy Cross Parish stocked with a new set of different titles and Dandora. In particular I have been able to support speakers. We encourage you to take advantage of one girl, Angela Mueini, a Sunday School teacher this wonderful opportunity. Here is a list of all the to get back to form 2 of high school. She is very CDs- Anger and Forgiveness, The Holy Eucharist, grateful. I want to thank you for the support. You Why a Protestant Pastor Became Catholic, The Joy can’t believe what one would do with a few dollars here. She will need $150 per trimester to keep in of Stewardship, Former Drug Addict to Catholic Priest, When school and I will continue to appeal to friends. Life doesn't make sense, Rebuilding Christian Civi- Such kids of good heart need our support. lization, Keeping Your kids Catholic, Count your Blessings. Here are two quotes from people who Youth Group News by Kim Phillips have listened to these CDs and whose lives have Junior High Youth Group participants recently been deeply touched. “These CDs helped make the spent 2 days at Tomahawk Lodge on Rainbow RivMass come alive and left me with a hunger to learn er in Dunellon. Approx. 20 kids and chaperones more.” Russ-Dayton, OH “With these CDs, I hope had the opportunity to spend time on retreat while to bring my husband back to the faith and be able enjoying the outdoors. With the school year quickto guide our 2 sons.” Kathleen -Edwardsville, IL ly coming to an end, our youth are busy planning for summer trips to Covecrest, a Lifeteen camp in Georgia as well as a high school trip to SteubenMission in Uganda by Br. John Bailanda I want to share something about the miracles. You ville, OH. remember I shared about the Junior Legionary Group at my local church of Kamukumbi Village, Kasanga Parish, Kasese Diocese. With half the funds I received from the Women's Group at St Raphael and other donations from people there, I was able to pay subsidy sponsorship for 100 kids who are in grade school. My brother who is one of the coordinators of the group called me recently S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N InYour Prayers. . . Sick by Lu Perrin Ginny Hansen, Esther LaVangie, Bill and Deborah Scanlon, Mac Bailey, Rose Grado, Joe Kolb, Bill Covert, Rod Moren, Joan Harrison, Margaret Racila, John Birins, Eleanor Alderson, Gerry and Ann Walsh, Antoinette Bodziak, William Christian, Linda Crutch ield, Maria Ware, Carl Irwin, Suzanne Flatley, Michelle Foerster, Rose Tatasciore, Richard Haight and Leonard Carter. Nursing Homes: Shore Acres: Dottie Soots, Susan Neitz, Lynn Shepard, Fran Davis, Thomas Kunkler, Norman Vanest. Maria Manor: DJ Thompson, Juliette Schiavi, Mary Palmer, Ernest Anderson. Other: Marion Lagan, Nancye Barrett, and Bette Hyslip. Deceased by Bernadette Bailey Please pray for those who have died this past month- Bud Rutland, Loretta Carney, Patricia Murphy (Shawn Tawil’s mother) and Norm Letourneau. May the souls of all the faithful departed rest in peace. CCW Member Brother Dies Our Sympathy to member Nancy Rutland on the loss of her dear brother Bud Rutland, III who died April 17 from leukemia and meningitis at age 55. Born in Clearwater, Bud Rutland lived at the Rutland Ranch in Manatee County until 1953, when the family moved to St. Pete. Bud graduated from the Univ. of Tampa with a degree in economics. Over the years, Bud managed historic Rutland Dept Store, banks and a storage company. He was a world class athlete, Eagle Scout and a community volunteer. A Prayer for Those Who Live Alone I live alone, dear Lord, stay by my side. In all my daily needs be Thou my guide. Grant me good health, for that indeed I pray to carry on my work from day to day. Keep pure my mind, my thoughts,myeverydeed.Letmebekind,unsel - PAGE 4 ish in my neighbor’s need. Spare me from ire, from lood, malicious tongues, from thieves from fear, and evil ones. If sickness or accident befall, then humbly, Lord, I pray, hear Thou my call. And when I’m feeling low, or in despair, lift up my heart and help me in prayer. I live alone, dear Lord, yet have no fear, because I feel your presence ever near. Amen. (Assoc of Marian Helpers and Marian Fathers and Brothers) Summer Papal Intentions May Papal Intentions General: That, following the example of the Virgin Mary, all Christians should allow themselves to be guided by the word of God and always remain attentive to the signs of the Lord in his own life. Mission: That in Mission territories there may be no lack of good and enlightened teachers in the major Seminaries and in the Institutes of consecrated life. June Papal Intentions General: That the Lord may protect sailors and all those involved in maritime activities. Mission: That the Church in North Africa may bear witness, with its presence and its action, to God's love for every individual and all people. July Papal Intentions General: That all citizens, individually and in groups, may be enabled to participate actively in the life and management of the common good. Mission: That, aware of their own missionary duty, all Christians may actively help all those engaged in the evangelization of peoples. August Papal Intentions General: That all those who are going through moments of inner dif iculty and trial may ind in Christ the light and support which leads them to discover authentic happiness. Mission: That the Church in China may bear witness to ever greater inner cohesion and may manifest her effective and visible com- S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N "If I Had My Life to Live Over” PAGE 5 by Erma Bombeck I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day. I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage. I would have talked less and listened more. I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded. I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt whensomeonewantedtolighta ireinthe ireplace. I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth. I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband. I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed. I would have sat on the lawn with my grass stains. I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life. I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime. Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle. When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, "Later. Now go get washed up for dinner." There would have been more "I love you's" More "I'm sorry's." But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute...look at it and really see it . . live it and never give it back. CCW Member Summer Birthdays May Birthdays June Birthdays July Birthdays 1 2 2 2 3 6 9 9 10 10 11 12 14 15 16 18 19 22 23 25 26 27 27 27 31 31 31 3 Joan Malone 4 Josephine Boyles 4 Mary Stoft 6 Julie Musselman 7 Theresa Duval 7 Ginger Williams 8 Corlyss Winters 9 Ursula Abner 11 Ann Martin 12 Cathy Littlejohn 14 Mary Condon 15 Kay Hunt 16 Charmaine Carter 17 Dolores Smith 18 Tina Quintana 20 Amy Alagood 21 Michelle Henricksson 21 Lillian McClelland 22 Mary Richman 23 Barbara Dipelhoffer 24 Peggy Hawkins 27 Vicki Nelson 30 Carol Ann Bates 30 Gina Przyborowski 1 Peggy Bach 1 Lucille Perrin 3 Eileen Edwards 3 Stephanie Graham 3 Joan Priest 4 Lynne Douglas 5 Mary Hanlon 6 Ann Kovach 7 Mary Kay Heraty 7 Kelly Rooth 8 Bette Hyslip 10 Kim Phillips 11 Mabel Sullivan 11 Fanny Abad 22 Pat Condon 24 Bernice McCune 25 Mary Holland 26 Anita Petenzi 26 Lily Riconda 28 Michelle Fellows 30 Susan Neitz 30 Juliette Schiavi Kay Greenman Sherry Abentroth Leanore Cornyn Mary Lou Price Martha Farrell Beatriz Crespo Judith Geier Romona Lund Lisa Kettlestrings Dottie Santacaterina Jane Scarpino Dottie Smay Fran Avenoso Nancy Rutland Jeanette Abramo Barbara Creamer Mary Poulin Rita Hall Cherie Mainenti Ruth Kennelly Marion Lagan Mary Beth Saylor Carole Shallenburg Jennifer Vesper Margaret Peck Terry Taylor Mary Vallee S T . R A P HA E L' S C O U NC I L O F C A T HO LI C WO ME N PAGE 6 2006-2007 President’s Report: This is what our CCW accomplished in 2006- 2007. We were very busy. Nothing is possible without our wonderful members!! √ Family Concerns: Had Fashion Show as a family event, Marian Rosary Festival, St Raphael Feast Day Parties for the school and Parish, All Saints Day Art Show- worked with Church, CCD and School families to provide spiritual enrichment and a fun time, on line prayer ministry for sick family members and friends, add kitchenette to a room at Church to bene it all Parishioners, help sponsor a parish teen for NET (National Evangelization Team), baked goodies and make welcome packets for School and CCD teachers for the new school year, provided Cookies for Focus 11, Rosary Makers made 2,650 rosaries in the past twelve months for distribution locally and internationally. √ Community Concerns: Nursing Home-weekly Communion to 25+ Catholics at Shore Acres NH, assist with monthly Mass for Shore Acres NH, 75 gifts to the NH Residents for Christmas, worked with SR School to bring in holiday favors to NH had a baptism party for a nursing home convert to Catholicism. Hospital- visit the sick, volunteer with Pastoral Care. Home Bound- weekly communion to 12+ homebound, several members deliver Meals on Wheels. Rummage sale- served the community, sent extra items to Boley Mental Health, the migrants, and Salvation Army. Donated Meals to CASA’s Women’s Abuse Center, Ronald McDonald House and Thanksgiving food donated to migrants. Christmas gifts to Migrants- used toys, clothes and jackets. Donated money for an Eagle Project at Bon Secours NH. √ Spiritual Concerns: Special Festivals- Marian Rosary Festival, St Raphael Feast Day, All Saints Day . Attend Parish Funerals/Pray Rosary. Bereavement ministry sends cards and contacts families, attends funerals, Reception for teen death. Attend Pontifax, Two Bible Studies, Women of Grace Group, Sacristans are all CCW members, Yearly Lenten Retreat open to Parish, Have Papal writings and Papal monthly intentions in our newsletter, Remember our Priests with cards and gifts on special occasions. Mass of Remembrance- make banners with deceased’s names listed, assist with Mass and Reception. √ Legislative Concerns: Information about Cloning and Embryonic Stem Cell research distributed, Respect Life Night with speakers, Updates at general meetings about items of interest from new laws, Prayer Service to commemorate Roe V Wade. √ International Concerns: Monthly Collections for Water for Life, Special luncheon for visiting missionary from Uganda, and collection of money for his Clinic. √ Organization Concerns: Working to attract Hispanic members by sponsoring Festivals with use of Spanish Prayers, working to attract working women and young mothers through the newsletter and online e mail ministry, members attend the DCCW workshops.. √ Working to support the LPD, newsletter given to non members to attract members. √ Fundraisers: Card Party 600$, Fashion Show $2000, Garage Sale $2000 Internet advice if you are bored » Order a diet water whenever you go out to eat with a serious face. -Specify that your drive-through order is "to go." -Put mosquito netting around your work area and play tropical sounds all day. -When the money comes out the ATM, scream "I won! I won!" CCW Online » At lunch time, sit in your parked car with sunglasses on and point a hair dryer at passing cars to see if they slow down. -Page yourself over the intercom and don't disguise your voice. Put your garbage can on your desk andlabelit"in."Inthememo ieldofallyourchecks, write "for smuggling diamonds". often as possible, skip rather than walk. St. Raphael's CCW Online See our very own CCW web pages & newsletters (new & archived editions) by going to: http://www.st-raphaels.com/ccw.html! Thanks again to Theresa McCormick, our webmaster.