January 8, 2006
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January 8, 2006
Father Ed McGovern, M.M., is happiest when he is celebrating Mass at one of the Maryknoll parishes in Cambodia. He is shown at the Consecration in St. Anthony of Padua, Koh Tieu. MISSIONARY LIFE IN CAMBODIA A day in the life of a missionary priest! Ever wonder what it is like? Granted we discover some of the joys---and to the missionaries that is just what they are---and sorrows---and there are plenty of those---when the Society of the Propagation of the Faith conducts its annual appeal in St. Rosalie’s Parish. A priest or nun usually speaks on behalf of the appeal. What better way to learn first hand, however, Cambodian than straight from, as they say, ‘the horse’s mouth.’ children gather Father Ed McGovern, who just completed his around second Christmas in Cambodia, wrote about his Father Ed as he activities in an open letter to members of Court St. instructs them Rosalie of the Catholic Daughters of America. about the The CDA has adopted the Maryknoll priest, a Eucharist at brother of Margaret Byrnes who is a very active St. Peter’s member of our parish. Parish, The missionary, a former assistant district SamPong attorney in both his native Bronx and Queens, Thom. greeted members of the court with humility: “I hope and pray that you and your families are all well. You simply may not realize how humbly and deeply grateful I am for all your ongoing support. I have been able to make a difference in so many different lives only because of your generosity and prayerful support. I couldn’t do it on my own. “As an example, one of the gifts that you sent was a coloring book entitled, ‘Learn About the Zoo.’ Well, Maryknoll Sr. Regina Pellicore had one of the teachers in her program type out the names of all the animals in the coloring book in the Khmer font. “Khmer is the official language of Cambodia. So with a little cutting and pasting, the children are able to see the names of the animals in both English and Khmer. I’m able to report the successful production and delivery of over 950 photocopies of each page in the book. We have them for the children in five of our projects. “Our Christmas plan was to do likewise with the ‘Bible Jumbo Coloring and Activity Book.’” Changing topics for the moment, Father Ed focused on another area---HIV/AIDS patients who require constant care. He continued, “My work with Father Jim Noonan and over 2,150 indigent clients with HIV/AIDS and their families keeps me busy seven days a week. It’s not just that I am Jim’s assistant project director to supervise our staff, etc., but we also visit our patients in our hospice everyday of the week (sometimes two or three times a day). “These pastoral visits offer a huge challenge to me. As many people here who know me say, ‘Father Ed is always happy when he’s making his rounds, visiting with the patients and sitting by their bedside.’ The toughest part of my job, and my life, is when the patient in the next bed, or a family member, tells me that they’re desperately poor and sick as well, and then literally beg me to take them on as clients as well. “The same happens numerous times every day at our office. Unfortunately, we can’t help everyone. However, I keep trying.” Reflecting on his life prior to ordination, he added, “In my more humorous moments, I wonder if they had ever seen an episode of the old show, Queen for a Day, with the person telling the hardest luck story winning a washing machine or whatever. It’s easy for me if someone has a cell phone and looks Caterina is all smiles in the arms of her mother after well-dressed, etc. being blessed by Father Ed in St. Martin de Porres “But in all seriousness, I pray for God to guide me to choose whom to Parish, Kampong Chamlong. The infant had been help and to have mercy on my soul for having to turn down so many others. baptized last May. “One of the saddest stories for me is about Kaou Srey, a 37-year old Epiphany of the Lord January 8, 2006 widow. I had first met her when she was being discharged from the Russian Hospital with no place to go. Her 12-year old son, Chhuun Meng Huhr (who looked like he was 8), had been taking care of her, as there are no such things as a nurse’s aide here. I had approved the addition of this small family into one of our group homes. “We actually were able to get Chhuun into first grade, as he had never attended school before. They were too poor to afford it. However, Kaou Srey’s resistant tuberculosis flared up and she passed away in our hospice. One of our fieldworkers, Mrs. Ngourn Phall, had to bring Chhuun to meet me so that Chhuun could see his mother’s body before cremation. He ran to me and kept sobbing quietly, not hysterically. “It’s very important in Khmer custom to see the body of their deceased loved one so that one knows that the person has truly died. Chhunn is now in one of our foster homes faithfully attending school. I believe that God and Kaou Srey had the same plan the day that I agreed to receive that family into ours.” How does he manage to achieve so much in a day? There has to be time to sleep, but Father Ed’s day usually begins at 4:30 A.M. “My day is still the same, arising early as I usually have a morning Mass at one of the convents here. I must admit that the highlight of my week is presiding at Mass in the Khmer language every Sunday in one of 15 different villages in the province of Kandal stretching to the Vietnamese border. “At times, getting to the parish to say Mass can be quite a challenge. As an example, I was going to say Mass for the first time at the parish of St. Peter’s in Ronchak. I was told that it was five kilometers off of National Road No. 1 on the Mekong. Well, it was no longer on the Mekong, it was in the Mekong! The road was completely submerged, so we had to take a canoe from the main road. “Traveling to St. Francis Xavier Parish in Champa was worse. The water wasn’t deep enough for a canoe, so I had to schlep through murky water that was up to my knee length. Going to St. Anthony of Padua Parish in Koh Tieu really took the cake! Our trek or schlep was just through mud and more mud, slipping and sliding along, as the annual flooding waters had finally started to recede.” To the Maryknoller, such obstacles are no big deal. “In most of the parishes during October,” related the soft-spoken priest, “the parishioners advised me that my Mass was the only one being offered there during the month. They’re just so grateful to have a priest preside. I’m already booked on Christmas Eve for a 4 P.M. Mass at Our Lady Queen of Peach Parish in Areyksath and a 7 P.M. Mass at Sacred Heart of Jesus Parish in Koh Nores. They have already made arrangements to ferry me across the Mekong that evening. I’ll be in at least two other parishes on Christmas morning. This is a good vocation. “Recently we had a three-day event called the Water Festival to mark the end of the rainy season. It’s well over 90 degrees again, but it will probably rain at least a few times more this month. Then it may not rain again until late May/early June. “December through mid-January is bearable. It is called the cool season. It may actually go down to 70 at night. But by the end of February, we enter the hot season. March, April and May are simply brutal with temperatures over 100 degrees with 100 percent humidity and no rain.” Sounds like some of the weather in the Hamptons last summer. And weather is not the only similarity. “One of the biggest problems is the same you face with the rising cost of gas, heating oil and electricity,” concluded Father McGovern. “The prices have gone up at least 25 percent since October. What’s the most frustrating is the constant brown-outs and black-outs that still occur three, four and sometimes five times a day for unknown durations. “When we had the power black-outs in February, March and April, we were told it’s only because there is no water. Now, there’s plenty of water to run the hydroelectric plants, but the price of oil is too high, so they’ll continue the rotating blackouts everyday.” All in the life of a missionary! Cambodian children, some of them wearing new outfits donated by members of Court St. Rosalie of the Catholic Daughters of America, gather around Father McGovern. January 8, 2006 Maria and Hung are shown with Father Ed after he married them at St. Martin de Porres Parish. Sr. Lina Kim Leang , S. P., of the Sisters of Providence, is on the left. Coloring books donated by Court St. Rosalie were Christmas presents for the children. Epiphany of the Lord